WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Getting Silly With Two Milly

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, update date. We've been doing these long enough

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<v Speaker 1>to know that people fib on their dating profiles. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and sooner or later they're probably gonna get caught. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter if that happens on your first date

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<v Speaker 1>or four months into the relationship when you say, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>so those noises upstairs aren't actually rodents. It's my other

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<v Speaker 1>secret family. So I just got to go back up

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<v Speaker 1>there for dessert in like five minutes, and then I'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back down. We can go out holding just like

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<v Speaker 1>I promised.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought they were going to be living with their

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<v Speaker 2>parents Jeffrey, not a whole other family eventually.

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<v Speaker 1>And today our listener Ray says he's worried his lie

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<v Speaker 1>may come back to Biden and he wants to nip

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<v Speaker 1>it in the bud today. We're gonna figure out what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on in a second. But first, Ray, welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the Showy.

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing, oh Man, Probably better than you, Ray,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if you're coming on, you admit that you

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<v Speaker 2>lied about something.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I just kind of have like all this guilt,

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<v Speaker 4>and I know this isn't really like the normal process.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you talking in hush tones? Because your secret family

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<v Speaker 1>is in the other room and they're going to hear this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, sorry, just a little nervous. I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this is a safe space. You can be honest

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<v Speaker 1>with us and we'll try not to judge you. But

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<v Speaker 1>before we get into the whole thing, what is this

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<v Speaker 1>girl's name that you went out with? Why do you

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<v Speaker 1>think she's not calling you back?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, well, she calling me back.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh she is.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she wants to definitely continue in.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what's her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I'm sorry, I heard her name is Zoe?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, So you're you're excited about that piece, right

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<v Speaker 2>that she wants to see you again?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, excited about that.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't do a lot of second date updates where

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<v Speaker 1>the other person wants to go out on another date

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<v Speaker 1>but they're calling us anyway. This is like a big, big,

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<v Speaker 1>crazy lie, like I'm a completely different identity, or just like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh I have a six toe I didn't talk about.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I guess you'll have to be the judge of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, maybe maybe we're asking too many questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I wanted you to be on record. He just

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<v Speaker 2>asked us to judge him. Okay, So whatever happened next,

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<v Speaker 2>you asked me.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's maybe start at the beginning with how you and

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<v Speaker 1>Zoe we met and what you did for your date.

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<v Speaker 4>So we met online? Yeah, I mean we started talking

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<v Speaker 4>and we went out to this like this real fancy

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<v Speaker 4>Italian restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you want to do impress or was that

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<v Speaker 3>your idea?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that was kind of the goal. But I think

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<v Speaker 4>I made a mistake. You know, I just on my

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<v Speaker 4>online profile, you know, I had this little section that

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<v Speaker 4>says that I won the lottery. Oh god, and I

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<v Speaker 4>actually did. I won the lottery a couple of years back.

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<v Speaker 2>How much?

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<v Speaker 5>How much?

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<v Speaker 4>Around two million dollars oralations?

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<v Speaker 1>Man, I was expecting like a technicality, like I won

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<v Speaker 1>the lottery, the genetic lottery.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was going to be like five bucks

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<v Speaker 2>scratch ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but two million dollars that's some serious cast.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>It was great while it lasted.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, already blown through two million dollars.

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<v Speaker 5>Buy a house.

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<v Speaker 4>Well I wish, I wish I bought a house.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're one of those lottery ruined my life, Candada.

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<v Speaker 1>You blew the money on something else?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I bought this really cool hovercraftcraft. It's a boat

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<v Speaker 4>that can like drive on like land and water.

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<v Speaker 5>Like one of those swamp boats things.

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<v Speaker 1>I would I would show up to work in a

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<v Speaker 1>hovercraft and feel pretty good about myself. Practical. I mean no,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't say it was practical. I would just feel cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, But you don't have a house to store the

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<v Speaker 2>hovercraft at.

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<v Speaker 3>So what else did you get?

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<v Speaker 4>So I would? I hit another boat? And then I

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<v Speaker 4>got sued.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you crashed your okay, okay, and I'm guessing you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have insurance on it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, No, I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Oh my gosh, it.

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<v Speaker 3>Was kind of a vehicle thing. Yeah, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you put this on your dating profile if

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have any money left?

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<v Speaker 3>But there's funny prompts like true in a lie and stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>I think this would be good for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't you think it's sending out the message that I

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<v Speaker 2>am rich?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, maybe I'm not financially responsible.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's funny to say you.

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<v Speaker 5>Crash something out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good question from Brooke there. Why did you

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<v Speaker 1>put it on your profile?

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<v Speaker 4>It's not a lie? I mean I did win it,

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<v Speaker 4>and I guess maybe if I want it once before,

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<v Speaker 4>I might be prone to winning it again.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a lucky guy and girls should should know that

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<v Speaker 1>about you. So how does all of this relate to

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<v Speaker 1>your date or whatever happened between you and Zoe?

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, that's the thing is because you went to this

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<v Speaker 4>bougie place and that she might, you know, have this expectation.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, did you guys talk about it on your date?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, we talked about it, but you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't say that I'm basically broke now, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a cool story, like, how did you

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<v Speaker 1>win in?

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<v Speaker 5>What was your reaction?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the first thing you buy?

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<v Speaker 5>It's a good conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's a huge red flag that he spent

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<v Speaker 2>all the money, that there's nothing left.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, just that you're not very fiscally responsible.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the cool start of a story, but with a

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<v Speaker 1>very very sad ending.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I could have done a lot more with that.

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<v Speaker 1>And so now clearly you're worried that she's going to

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<v Speaker 1>find this out about you, that you blew your two

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<v Speaker 1>million dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope he's worried that he has to tell her

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<v Speaker 3>the truth.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff, Well, yeah, I'm really not worried about any of that.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just worried about her expectations and more expensive dates

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<v Speaker 4>that I really can't afford.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so did you actually call it? Because you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we give a free gift card at the end of

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<v Speaker 3>is that what's going.

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<v Speaker 4>On the gift card wouldn't hurt right now, that's for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>What are we doing here though? Because she already wants

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<v Speaker 2>to go out with you? So what's our question for her?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm hoping that when you ask her about the date,

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<v Speaker 4>she likes me for me and not really my money,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's the case that we can continue. And that's

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<v Speaker 4>what I'm hoping for.

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<v Speaker 3>A questions get the vibe you're trying to read the room.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna call Zoe and try to get her

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<v Speaker 1>to vastly lower her expectations on you and still want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with you when we come back and

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<v Speaker 1>do your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, man, hold on second date update if you're

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<v Speaker 1>just joining us. We got a lottery winner on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with us right now who took home two million

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<v Speaker 1>bucks a few years ago. Unfortunately, he blew pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>all of it, quote a bunch of dumb crap, including

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<v Speaker 1>a hovercraft that he ended up crashing into a boat. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>with their insurance. So but look, he seems like a

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<v Speaker 1>really good hearted dude who met a nice woman recently

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<v Speaker 1>named Zoe. She already wants to see him again, but

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<v Speaker 1>he's a little bit worried that the expectations of dating

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<v Speaker 1>a millionaire because she doesn't know that he blew all

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<v Speaker 1>the money yet. Yeah, that could break them before they

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<v Speaker 1>even get started on this relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's the thing. It does kind of feel like

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<v Speaker 3>a lie.

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<v Speaker 2>Even though you did win the lottery, Like the way

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<v Speaker 2>you're portraying isn't fully honest.

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<v Speaker 1>But Brooke, he shouldn't be on his profile like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, I'm broke after winning the lottery. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean honest, you wanted to be funny but not romantic, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>no girl's gonna swipe on that.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, But don't you feel like, I mean, let's

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<v Speaker 3>be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, see if you have a net worth of

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<v Speaker 1>under five million dollars. She refuses to remember.

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<v Speaker 4>Who you are.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I remember either. No, it's h I

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<v Speaker 1>got this, it's Ray.

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<v Speaker 5>Look at his notes.

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<v Speaker 2>I wrote it down right, job, Ray, I heard lottery

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<v Speaker 2>winner and everything else went blank. Ray.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they have to see. Most people, that's all they

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<v Speaker 4>could think about.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Just for the record, I never lied.

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<v Speaker 3>I know. I'm just saying you kind of misrepresented the fight.

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<v Speaker 3>She thought he only won ten dollars.

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<v Speaker 4>We didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>We stop doubling down on Ray here and call Zoe.

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<v Speaker 1>And remember, we're trying to figure out if she really

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<v Speaker 1>likes Ray for Ray or if she was just mesmerized

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<v Speaker 1>by the lottery winner.

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<v Speaker 2>If she thought she won the dating lottery a lottery winner.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So here we are. I'm in the dillary

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<v Speaker 1>number right now. Hello, Hi, We're looking for Zoee. Hey, Zoe.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling from a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Zoe on the air with us.

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<v Speaker 1>You might see my face up on a billboard in

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<v Speaker 1>a city near you. We have been on billboard.

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<v Speaker 5>Upside down on a billboard one time.

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<v Speaker 2>It was an accident, but do you know what, I thought,

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<v Speaker 2>I got more intention than we were right side.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone remembers that one, but Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're good friends with a guy that you know

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<v Speaker 1>named Ray.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Hi, Yeah, hello, Hi, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Know Ray, cute Ray that you went on a date with.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, right, And we heard a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>the date. Ray said he had a blast with you

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<v Speaker 1>at dinner the other night and wants to see you again.

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<v Speaker 6>Well that's great, but he's not showing it because I've

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<v Speaker 6>been trying to hang out with him again and he's

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<v Speaker 6>not responding.

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<v Speaker 3>I see, Yeah, I know he actually had a really

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<v Speaker 3>good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and he knows that you've been wanting to see him.

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<v Speaker 1>Ray is just kind of like a reserved type of

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<v Speaker 1>guy though, and he needs like a third party to

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<v Speaker 1>come and help engage. Like what you really think about him?

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<v Speaker 6>So you guys are like his assistants, like for.

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<v Speaker 2>Him here than our own and this is free, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're paid.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing this out of the kindness of our hearts.

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<v Speaker 3>He just seems like a nice guy who's interested in you.

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<v Speaker 1>And so what do you think about Ray?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I had a good time. I've been wanting

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<v Speaker 6>to get together with him again.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Can I ask what did you like about him?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>He just like was nice and normal and he had

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<v Speaker 6>some really interesting things about himself, you know other people

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<v Speaker 6>don't have and so he was unique in that way. Well,

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<v Speaker 6>it was cool. He told me that he won the

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<v Speaker 6>lottery at some point, and you know, I played thrash

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<v Speaker 6>off like every week and I was just like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 6>that's so cool that someone actually won like you exist.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't find that part very interesting about him. I

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<v Speaker 1>was more focused on his personality, Like if him and

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<v Speaker 1>I were like best friends, that wouldn't be the first

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<v Speaker 1>thing that I would mention about Ray.

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<v Speaker 5>Really, I feel cold came up when'm drunk.

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<v Speaker 4>If I.

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<v Speaker 5>Make money.

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<v Speaker 1>That just speaks to the type of person. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, Zoe. Ray has had some bad experiences before

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<v Speaker 1>with women who maybe were in it for the wrong reasons.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean at this age in our lives, we've all

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<v Speaker 6>had bad experiences with people.

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<v Speaker 4>And sure, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say that Ray was the same exact guy that

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<v Speaker 1>you went out with to dinner the other night, but

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<v Speaker 1>he did not have the lottery attached. Would you still

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<v Speaker 1>like him?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, that's like part of who he is, and

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<v Speaker 6>that's like part of his story.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I true, that's a small part though if you

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<v Speaker 1>cut that part out, would you still love Ray?

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<v Speaker 4>For Ray?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, I don't love anyone yet. Let's just be clear.

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<v Speaker 6>I enjoyed getting to know him, and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 6>go on another date with him.

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<v Speaker 2>So, but if you took I think what Jeffrey's asking is,

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<v Speaker 2>if the lottery wasn't involved at all, would you still

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<v Speaker 2>want to go out another day with him?

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<v Speaker 4>So?

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<v Speaker 6>Are you telling me that he didn't win a lottery?

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<v Speaker 1>No? No, no, that's totally true.

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<v Speaker 5>He won the lottery a while ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Some of the expectations that come with winning aren't what.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, it's complicated. It's kind of hard for us

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you. It'd be easier to just let Ray

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<v Speaker 1>explain it himself because he's on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 6>What in the world is going on?

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<v Speaker 4>This is like super weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the second day calls do get kind of weird sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>but Ray really is there and he wants to speak

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<v Speaker 1>with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Ray, Zoe, how you doing super confused?

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<v Speaker 6>How are you doing right?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry for all this, you know, I just wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to really just try to, you know, understand how genuine

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<v Speaker 4>you are in liking me. Yeah, okay, you know, so

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<v Speaker 4>it's true I did win the lottery, but I also

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I don't have any any of the money

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<v Speaker 4>left over. Employ it not a.

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<v Speaker 5>Lot you we're just going to drop that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, No, I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't have any of it at all.

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<v Speaker 3>There's the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. We put it all out there for you, Zoe.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, which is admirable that.

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<v Speaker 1>He lost all his money, I guess fun money anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>And he's coming clean. So he's coming clean.

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<v Speaker 6>No, that's nice, Like I appreciate that he's coming clean,

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<v Speaker 6>but like, why did you lie to me? Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 6>like if I put a profile picture up of me

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<v Speaker 6>weighing fifty extra pounds than I do now, Like at

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<v Speaker 6>one point I was that skinny, you mean less.

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<v Speaker 1>Should he have sent you a picture of his wallet

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<v Speaker 1>before you guys met up, just to prove it.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she's saying he's sending himself wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean it's more of like a fun story

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<v Speaker 4>that I have. You know, I never once said that

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<v Speaker 4>I still had the money.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you took me out to a beautiful restaurant and

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<v Speaker 6>acted like you had a bunch of money. And I'm

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<v Speaker 6>not I'm not trying to say that I'm after your money,

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<v Speaker 6>but like when you sweep a woman off of her feet,

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<v Speaker 6>you're giving her an expectation.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you can't be after my money because I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, I think she said she wasn't after your money,

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<v Speaker 6>Like I'm being honest, I'm more concerned about your character.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why are you serious because he's a former millionaire

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<v Speaker 1>and not a current millionaire.

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<v Speaker 2>Because he's representing himself as a millionaire and he's not.

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<v Speaker 1>She's got a nice first date.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you want?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, Chipotle, how.

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<v Speaker 3>Much of the conversation was about the lottery?

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<v Speaker 6>It wasn't like the first thing that we talked about,

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<v Speaker 6>but you know, you talk about things that are on

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<v Speaker 6>the profile. So it was like, how did you win?

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<v Speaker 6>What game did you play?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 6>What were your numbers?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 6>I play. I want to know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a fun game to play.

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<v Speaker 1>Even when you don't win.

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<v Speaker 5>Guys like, if you want to know what it's about?

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<v Speaker 4>Though, Well, hey, you know, I'm just letting you know

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not. I'm not done playing the lottery. I mean

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<v Speaker 4>there's a chance that I still really could win again.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's your selling point again, bro, you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>mean a couple of hundred bucks a week or something much.

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<v Speaker 3>You told us you were broke.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, I'm broke after I buy the tickets, but

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<v Speaker 4>not before.

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<v Speaker 1>You're putting all of your financial future into the lotto.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like I said, before I got lucky. Once, it'll

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<v Speaker 4>happen again.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what they say.

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<v Speaker 1>Lightning always strikes in the same place two times every time.

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<v Speaker 2>Always, And I'm sure that's what any financial advisor would

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<v Speaker 2>would tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is just like your first date. It's going

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<v Speaker 1>to strike a second time as soon as we offer

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<v Speaker 1>to send you guys out on another date.

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<v Speaker 4>And they promised the gift cards too, so we don't

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<v Speaker 4>have to worry about that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, if I'm being honest like Ray, I would want

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<v Speaker 6>you to become an adult before we ever want on

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<v Speaker 6>a second date again.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, Ray, I'm sorry. Man, looks like she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with you after all.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I called the kind of figure should be

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<v Speaker 4>a gold digger.

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<v Speaker 6>You're an idiot, got it?

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<v Speaker 3>It's brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel really bad for and for all of the

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<v Speaker 1>listeners who have reached out for help lately, because this

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<v Speaker 1>is the fourth listener in a row Brooks called a liar.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's a liar. I never said that he told the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>He just misrepresented himself.

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<v Speaker 1>That is different to represent himself.

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<v Speaker 3>He pretended like he was rich.

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<v Speaker 1>No he didn't, Yes, he did.

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<v Speaker 3>He took her out to a nice restaurant.

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<v Speaker 5>He bragged that he won the lottery.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he didn't brag. He told the truth that

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<v Speaker 1>he won the lottery. Once. The app is meant to

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<v Speaker 1>tell funny, like a captivating story to catch somebody's interest,

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<v Speaker 1>to get the party started. That's how it works. But

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is, he just wanted a genuine call to

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<v Speaker 1>gauge like how this woman really felt about him as

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<v Speaker 1>a person, and she didn't really care about him as

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<v Speaker 1>a person. She just cared. No, she didn't. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>gut if we had called her and said that he

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<v Speaker 1>took his two million dollars and invested it wisely, so

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<v Speaker 1>he's not worth two million, he's worth ten million. That

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<v Speaker 1>would be a different type of live.

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<v Speaker 2>She was okay with it till he said he gambles

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<v Speaker 2>every day. I don't know why you're like sticking up

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<v Speaker 2>for him so much, because somebody needs.

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<v Speaker 1>To stand up for our listeners, whether or not they're

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<v Speaker 1>in the right. Nobody's perfect, and we understand that at

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<v Speaker 1>least three fourths of us do. So come on this

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<v Speaker 1>show if you need help with your dating life, or hey, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I won the lottery.

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<v Speaker 2>Once I got two bucks off a scratcher, so now

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<v Speaker 2>I could claim that as well, right, Jeffrey, under your

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<v Speaker 2>under yours.

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<v Speaker 1>And you are kind of but we promise will help you.

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<v Speaker 1>Email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back

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<v Speaker 3>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning