WEBVTT - Betrayal Weekly: EP 19 - Nancy 0:00:03.640 --> 0:00:07.280 This is a freaking lifetime movie. An next say he 0:00:07.440 --> 0:00:11.160 deserves an Oscar. He really deserves an Oscar. 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:15.319 I'm like, am I lose? In my mind? I could 0:00:15.400 --> 0:00:16.479 believe it was happening to me. 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:32.800 I'm Andrea Gunning and this is Betrayal, A show about 0:00:32.840 --> 0:00:36.040 the people we trust the most and the deceptions that 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:44.000 change everything. Nancy grew up in Boston in the seventies. 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:48.239 She was the youngest of three girls. From birth, she 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:50.199 was deemed a medical miracle. 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:53.720 When I was born, they told my mother that I'm 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:56.760 going to die in three days because i have a 0:00:56.840 --> 0:00:59.880 pin hole in my heart and it's twisted. Now She's like, 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:05.200 I don't think so she took me home. They toltally, well, 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:07.959 she's gonna have to have open hot surgery by the 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:11.800 time she's sighed. Didn't, well, she's gonna have to have 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:15.360 at least by eighteen, and she's gonna die. Didn't I'm 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:18.520 fifty five. I've never had open hot surgery. 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:21.480 Because of her heart condition, her mother kept a close 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:25.440 eye on her. Her activities were restricted. She wasn't even 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:28.760 allowed to go to gym class in school. Family and 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:32.600 teachers babied her, mostly because she was so small. 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:38.880 I'm only four eleven, and when I was five years well, 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:41.440 I think I actually have a picture. I looked like 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:45.560 him too, so everybody treated me like I was the 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:47.039 baby all the time. 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:51.880 As a kid, Nancy went to the cardiologist every week 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:55.840 for her heart condition. She wasn't scared about it, but 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:57.080 she knew her mom was. 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:02.320 I even remember being over her friend's house. We'd be 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:06.680 playing with their children, and they'd be in the kitchen talking, 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:11.480 drinking or whatever, and I would hear her crying and 0:02:11.520 --> 0:02:15.640 telling her friend, I'm so afraid that she's just gonna 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:20.320 die on me one day. I never told her I 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:21.000 heard that never. 0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:26.360 She surpassed medical expectations and grew up to be healthy, 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:29.160 but doctors told her she wouldn't be able to have 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:33.080 kids of her own. The entire experience made Nancy and 0:02:33.120 --> 0:02:34.840 her mom really close. 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:38.080 I didn't hang out with friends on Saturday night. I 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:41.000 hang out with my mother because she's just my best friend. 0:02:41.000 --> 0:02:43.880 Everybody who loved her because she was just down to earth. 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:47.680 Early on in her life, Nancy saw that her father 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:49.480 was treated differently than her mother. 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.200 Back in the day, my mother and my father used 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:55.080 to get pulled over a lot and the cost would 0:02:55.080 --> 0:03:00.079 ask my mother, is he hurting you? Because she's white? 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:03.120 Her father was black, and other kids tease Nancy about 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:04.480 having interracial parents. 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:08.519 It's like, what's wrong with your mother? There's nothing wrong 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:12.600 with my mother. What are you talking about? My mother 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:16.760 never paid attention to it. She said, if you pay attention, 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:20.880 that's given them more energy to do what they're doing. 0:03:23.720 --> 0:03:26.520 When Nancy was a teenager, she met a boy in 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:30.119 her neighborhood named Devon. He was always trying to catch 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:31.760 her eye, so. 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:36.600 I'm like, who is this person? And he was extremely handsome. 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:40.200 One day, Devon brought her a present. 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:43.920 So he heard that I love saft served and ELASTI 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:48.160 with colored Jimmys. From that day on, we were together. 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:51.520 She and Devon became high school sweethearts. 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:56.960 We were a class couple, of course we were. We 0:03:57.000 --> 0:04:02.360 were together all the time. It was like nothing could 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:03.240 come between us. 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:07.760 Their plan was to be together forever, and to this day, 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:12.120 Nancy still wishes they could have been, but tragedy derailed 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:12.720 their future. 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:17.920 I had heard that there was this extremely bad car accident, 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:20.320 and I was in a school that sat up on 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:23.440 a hill, so you could see, like the police cause 0:04:23.560 --> 0:04:27.320 and the ambulances all that. That looks like a really 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:32.640 bad accident up there. Everybody knew but me. Nobody wanted 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:34.880 to tell me because they were afraid to tell me. 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:37.040 He was in that car accident. 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:40.719 He was a passenger in the collision and they needed 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:43.559 the jaws of life to pull him out of the car. 0:04:44.200 --> 0:04:47.880 And I found out the person who told me said 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:51.560 he was in a car accident and he died. I 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:56.440 passed out, woke up in the Narses office and I'm like, 0:04:56.920 --> 0:05:01.000 I didn't just hear what she said. The nurse said 0:05:01.800 --> 0:05:08.080 he wasn't a carson, but he's not dead. He was 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:12.719 at a coma for three days. I went every day, 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:15.400 waited in the room. Every day, wait in the room, 0:05:16.000 --> 0:05:18.000 talked to him. 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:20.280 She was by his side when he woke up from 0:05:20.320 --> 0:05:20.840 the coma. 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:25.320 But when he woke up, it was a different person, 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:28.440 you know. They asked things like when's your birthday, what's 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:32.840 your name? Who's the president? Things like that. He said 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:35.200 his name was Robert something and he was born in 0:05:35.279 --> 0:05:36.120 nineteen twenty one. 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:39.440 DeVaughn was never the same. 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:45.120 After that. He started smoking cigarettes, never spoke, he was 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:49.599 like completely against it. He started drinking, swearing and he 0:05:49.720 --> 0:05:54.239 was like mean sometimes and I'm like, who is this person. 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:57.520 I'm just like, Okay, it's gonna get better. It's going 0:05:57.600 --> 0:06:00.520 to get better. That better. 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:06.320 After his traumatic brain injury, it wasn't the same relationship. 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:08.800 It was a lot for a seventeen year old to 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:09.800 manage emotionally. 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:12.560 I felt like he died in that. To me, he 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:13.560 died in that accident. 0:06:14.120 --> 0:06:17.200 Nancy made the tough decision to leave Devon and focus 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:21.880 on herself. She started her own life in Boston, working 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:25.960 in the office of a stock brokerage. By her early twenties, 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:29.440 she was living on her own and fully supporting herself. 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:33.080 And a beautiful condo in my house was fully furnished. 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:36.520 Every day, on her lunch break, Nancy chatted with a 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:38.560 guy who worked outside her building. 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:42.880 I worked in the financial district. It was always constructing 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:46.760 going on at the Liberty Mutual building, and you know, 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.320 the construction guys would do the cat calling when the 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:52.479 girls walked by. But there was this one guy. He 0:06:52.600 --> 0:06:54.560 was just when he's having lunch. I'm going to lunch, 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:55.280 he's at his lunch. 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:59.599 His name was Marvin, and Marvin became a fixture in 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:04.520 her day life, a friendly face that she felt comfortable with. 0:07:05.960 --> 0:07:09.400 And then he invited me to this club that he 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:12.040 belonged to. It was like a dance club. It was 0:07:12.080 --> 0:07:14.360 like the Caribbean Cultural Club. 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:18.800 He was Jamaican and Nancy's dad was from Cuba, so 0:07:19.080 --> 0:07:21.880 she was interested in Boston's Caribbean community. 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:24.680 And I was like, guy and my friends have come 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:27.600 part of this weekend. It's all right. 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:31.520 That weekend, as promised, she and her friends stop by. 0:07:32.320 --> 0:07:35.120 It was a lively scene with music and dancing. 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:38.440 So when I went into the club, I was expecting 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:40.440 to see Marvin. I'm going to let him know that 0:07:40.520 --> 0:07:44.640 I did come for his invitation. And I never saw 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:45.560 him that night at all. 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:50.160 But she hardly noticed because she got distracted by a 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:52.880 guy her age named Seth, and. 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:56.480 He asked me to dance. I've danced to me, it's 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:58.800 just the dance. I went to sit back down with 0:07:58.840 --> 0:08:02.640 my friends that continue were hanging out, and he asked 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:05.880 me to dance again. Dance again. 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:09.320 Seth wasn't exactly her type. 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:13.240 Well then four eleven it is, because everybody's gonna be 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:16.600 solid it. Yeah, he's six'. 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:20.600 Three nancy and her friends decided to leave the party 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:21.880 before it got too. 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:24.600 Late by that, time and the night was ending and 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:29.160 he comes running out the. Club i'm, like, Oh. 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:34.839 Seth what Did nancy's? Number it was the, nineties. 0:08:34.920 --> 0:08:36.840 So he had to go to his car to get 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:37.200 pen and. 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:41.800 Paper nancy found it. Endearing she thought she was meeting 0:08:41.880 --> 0:08:44.800 up with a friend from work and instead ended up 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:49.160 meeting this nice. Guy it felt like. Fate the next, 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:50.640 Day seth. 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:55.480 Called i'll not. Forget it was A. Sunday it was 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:58.200 two o'clock in the afternoon and he. Called he said 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:00.640 he was. Working he was a. Butcher, OH i want 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:04.120 to come seeing you AFTER i got? Work all, right 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:05.880 where you? LIVE i, SAID i live? On? 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:09.520 REALLY i work On. 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:15.080 Wow he worked just a few blocks down from her, 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:19.160 Apartment so they agreed to meet up for. Lunch seth 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:22.480 recently moved To boston From, jamaica so you. 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:24.840 Told me, about you, know living In, jamaica and that 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:25.959 he was here on a. 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:30.800 Visa she loved His jamaican, accent especially the way he 0:09:30.920 --> 0:09:35.560 said her. Name she also liked his easygoing, personality so 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:38.760 she said yes to a second. Date that's where he 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:39.760 really impressed. 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:43.360 Her he cooked for. Me he actually cooked it at 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:44.400 his house and brought it to my. 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:46.920 House that was, like. 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:54.559 So It's jamaican. Wood it was a red. Snapper, delicious absolutely. 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:56.200 Delicious he's an excellent. 0:09:56.240 --> 0:10:00.720 Cook she hadn't had a serious boyfriend Since DeVaughn in high, 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:03.880 school And seth reminded her a bit of. Him he 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:06.120 went out of his way to make her feel, special 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:07.400 just Like DeVaughn. 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:11.040 HAD i always tell people you sweetly off my. Feet i'll. 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:16.360 Say the biggest attraction was he was pleasant and calm and. 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:21.200 Respectful she cheeked me like a. Lady it was good to, 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.440 me and everything just seemed like it. 0:10:23.559 --> 0:10:28.679 Clicked after they'd been dating for a few, Months seth 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:31.640 Took nancy to meet his. Uncle he was one of 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:34.760 a few people In seth's family who also immigrated To. 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:39.520 Boston When nancy walked through the, door she was, shocked. 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:40.720 AND i was, LIKE i know. 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:47.040 You it Was, Marvin nancy's lunch break. Buddy AND i was, like. 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:51.520 You do the construction That liberty needs to him. Right he's, like, yeah, 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:55.079 YEAH i see you when you're going to lunch. That, Yeah, 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:56.960 WELL i, said, wow what a small. 0:10:57.000 --> 0:11:03.240 World years, Later nancy would find out it wasn't much 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:08.840 of a coincidence at. All that, summer she And seth 0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:10.040 took their first vacation. 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:14.200 Together we went To New, hampshire ham To. BEACH i 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:18.360 went every year with friends or, whatever AND i, stated 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:22.360 they view hotel every year right across from the, beach 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:26.520 AND i know that's WHERE i could see my. 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:28.400 CHILD i know that for a. 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:32.640 Fact nancy had lived her whole life believing she'd never have. 0:11:32.880 --> 0:11:37.320 Kids she Told seth she couldn't get. Pregnant when she 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:41.160 found out that she was, expecting it felt like another medical. 0:11:41.200 --> 0:11:44.200 Miracle her first call was to her. 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:47.120 Mom she was, like, yeah you'll have to get married. 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:50.120 NOW i, said right, now right. 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:54.600 Now it seemed old, fashioned but she trusted her mom 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:57.840 to guide her in the right. Direction we went. 0:11:57.679 --> 0:12:02.240 To City hall to register for the marriage. Certificate i'm 0:12:02.280 --> 0:12:06.040 four months pregnant and the lady gives you the. Paper 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:09.079 it's split in the middle and your information is here 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:12.800 and his information is. Here AND i was, like, oh 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:17.319 they have your birthdate. Wrong he's, like, no that's. RIGHT i, said, 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:21.800 no it's. Not he's, like it, Is, well you can't 0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:25.960 be twenty six with this day of. Birth he was. 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:31.280 Nineteen he lied about his. Age he was in twenty, 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:35.840 six like he said he was. Nineteen nancy was twenty 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:39.600 three at the. Time seth gave her a simple. 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:43.080 Explanation he had to make up that age for me 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:46.160 to be interested because he told me he was. NINETEEN 0:12:46.240 --> 0:12:49.040 i was definitely not dated, him he, SAID i, said you're, 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:53.160 right so he lied to be able to date. ME 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:58.679 i just stood there for a. Minute the place that 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:01.640 you get the marriage certific k was at the bottom. 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:03.400 Floor in the building where there is an. 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:06.680 Echo because there is a big square of, balconies AND 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:13.000 i screamed out what and it echoes all of the. 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:17.559 Place all you saw was people coming over and looking. 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:20.720 Down seth insisted that it wasn't a big. 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:25.240 Deal he didn't comprehend that it was, wrong like telling 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:27.520 a child that it's wrong to play in the. Dirt 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:30.360 and they looked at, you like why not like? That you, 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:34.000 know like what's the. Problem i'm, like you, know what 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:36.720 what DO i? Do at this, POINT i got an 0:13:36.720 --> 0:13:39.640 imagine to get in one hand and a baby in the. 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:44.440 Belly she decided she was gonna let it. Go she 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:47.360 couldn't change his, age so she signed the. 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:51.440 PAPERS i THINK i was more in love with my 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:56.679 baby than any. SITUATION i wanted her to have a 0:13:56.920 --> 0:14:00.719 married mom and, dad AND i want to everything for, 0:14:00.800 --> 0:14:03.920 Her so that was in my. 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:08.959 HEAD a few weeks, Later nancy And seth had a small. 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:12.720 Wedding the couple set their sights on. Parenthood they got 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:16.280 an adorable apartment on the top floor of a Converted boston, 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:18.600 mansion complete with a castle like. 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:24.120 Turret it was like a, cute little quaint hogmoon beginning 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:24.560 of life. 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:28.280 Apart nancy wanted the sex of the baby to be a. 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:32.680 Surprise when she came, out there was a. Girl he 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:36.080 actually had a frown on his. FACE i, SAID i 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:37.120 don't care if it was a. 0:14:37.200 --> 0:14:39.520 Frog all THAT i went, throre you better be. 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:45.560 Happy set's disappointment quickly. Faded they both fell in love 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:45.840 with their. 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:49.880 DAUGHTER i was just in the awe of her every. 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:52.920 Day she was a, wonderful wonderful little. 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:57.080 Girl those first few years of their daughter's life were. 0:14:57.200 --> 0:15:03.480 Magical he was a sor. Father he always took care 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:07.160 of my, daughter always like he died for, her not to, 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:15.520 pampers diapered like washing material. Diapers he made her baby. 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:18.320 Food he's the ONE i got up in a milan 0:15:18.360 --> 0:15:20.320 NI i didn't change. 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:22.600 Poopy diapers because he did that all of. 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:25.040 It he was also excellent To. 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:27.840 Nancy he did all the, cooking he did all the. 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:31.240 CLEANING i could tell him until. Time coming home from, 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:32.800 work he'd have a. 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:33.640 Bath ready for. 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:37.960 Me he'd have a buss wine for. Me he always cooked, dinner. 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:42.000 And this wasn't a phase for. Him year after, Year 0:15:42.480 --> 0:15:45.760 seth showed up for their family and their. Marriage she 0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:47.040 And seth were a. 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:52.320 Team we worked together in the house without, effort not Like, 0:15:52.360 --> 0:15:54.280 okay you're going to do this And i'm Gonna we 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:57.640 just did it like you and my mother used to, 0:15:57.680 --> 0:16:00.000 say you can'ts just do things. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:06.800 Effortlessly years into their, marriage they were still very much in. 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:11.080 Love the romance was still. There as As i'm, concerned 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:12.600 that didn't change at. 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:17.160 All even a neighbor commented on how physically close they. 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:20.240 Seemed she was, like every TIME i see you, guys 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:23.080 just so. Close she was, like he's mowing the lawn 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:26.120 and you're right next to. Him i'm like picking. Weeds 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:29.680 but we. Were we were always close together like. 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:29.800 That. 0:16:30.000 --> 0:16:33.560 Always at the, Time nancy worked at a. 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:37.440 BANK i had a computer to take home just in 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:38.440 case it was implement. 0:16:38.480 --> 0:16:42.760 Weather nancy was the only one in their house who 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:44.120 used the, computer. 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:47.840 AND i had told them this is just my work 0:16:47.880 --> 0:16:51.640 computer ONLY i can go on all. 0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:53.360 Right everybody knew THAT i was. 0:16:53.440 --> 0:16:58.320 Good one DAY i went on the computer and a 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:04.040 dating website popped. Up it was called adultfinder dot. Com 0:17:04.080 --> 0:17:06.960 i'll never forget it. Now the username was, there but 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:07.840 the password was. 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:27.880 There the username Was Peter. Parker five years into their, 0:17:27.880 --> 0:17:31.680 Marriage nancy found a strange dating website on her work 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:36.200 computer with a username she didn't. Recognize i'm Like Peter. 0:17:36.320 --> 0:17:39.560 Pocca So i'm, like somebody got my computer and put 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:41.600 their name on. Them i'm Thinking Peter parker's a, person 0:17:42.560 --> 0:17:45.720 And i'm, Like, seth what is did you see? That 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:48.600 he was, like, oh those things like pop? Ups And i'm, 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:51.199 like oh my. God let me call my company and 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:54.119 let them. KNOW i did not go on that, website 0:17:54.560 --> 0:17:57.240 and they took it out of space. Value they didn't 0:17:57.280 --> 0:17:58.560 dig into it or nothing like. 0:17:58.600 --> 0:18:03.719 That nancy didn't, Either, besides her focus was on their, 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:05.479 daughter who just started. 0:18:05.520 --> 0:18:09.680 SCHOOL i went to every at the school program and every, 0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:12.840 play AND i was always by myself because he was. 0:18:13.280 --> 0:18:18.720 Working he'd taken a demanding job at The metro. Rail 0:18:19.400 --> 0:18:23.199 he often worked overtime hours to make extra. Money they 0:18:23.240 --> 0:18:26.240 were only in their, thirties but they were already planning 0:18:26.240 --> 0:18:28.160 for an early, retirement. 0:18:27.880 --> 0:18:32.520 And we always talked about retiring In. Jamaica have a 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:35.119 house there up in the. Hills we finally had a. 0:18:35.119 --> 0:18:37.840 House it's beautiful up. There the air and everything is. 0:18:37.840 --> 0:18:40.760 Different we had a book and everything that we wrote 0:18:40.800 --> 0:18:41.919 In what We, Want What we're going To. 0:18:42.000 --> 0:18:46.040 Do a book where they wrote down their dreams for the. 0:18:46.119 --> 0:18:50.240 Future in order to make those dreams. Happen nancy And 0:18:50.320 --> 0:18:53.520 seth worked long. Hours the only day they both had 0:18:53.520 --> 0:18:58.679 off Was. Sunday that day was reserved for. Family when she. 0:18:58.840 --> 0:19:01.320 Got, older like, ten we would go to the. 0:19:01.359 --> 0:19:03.679 MALL i would go one way and they would go 0:19:03.760 --> 0:19:06.600 another because they'd go into the video game store And 0:19:06.640 --> 0:19:09.760 i'm In macy's or Jay z or something and we 0:19:09.840 --> 0:19:10.560 had wacky. 0:19:10.680 --> 0:19:14.679 Talkies we had lacky. Talkies it was. Cute they had 0:19:14.680 --> 0:19:15.280 a lot of fun with. 0:19:15.359 --> 0:19:20.040 Her One, Sunday nancy was looking forward to their family, 0:19:20.080 --> 0:19:22.760 time But seth took an overtime. 0:19:22.800 --> 0:19:26.880 Shift well called him at work for. SOMETHING i can't 0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:30.600 remember what it, was and he said he's not. Here i'm, Like, 0:19:30.600 --> 0:19:31.520 oh did he go to the? 0:19:31.520 --> 0:19:36.080 Bathroom you, Know, no he's not today's, say, oh but 0:19:36.240 --> 0:19:37.720 he's not doing overtime. 0:19:37.760 --> 0:19:38.080 Today. 0:19:39.680 --> 0:19:43.919 No so when he got home at, midnight when he 0:19:44.000 --> 0:19:47.000 normally gets, home he comes in the. DOOR i didn't 0:19:47.080 --> 0:19:50.280 mention to him THAT i knew he wasn't at. WORK i, said, 0:19:50.560 --> 0:19:52.560 oh ya home a little bit later, Then, NO i was, 0:19:52.560 --> 0:19:53.879 LIKE i know they at traffic at the. 0:19:53.960 --> 0:19:54.439 Summon you? 0:19:54.480 --> 0:19:58.119 Okay he said he stayed late to talk to a 0:19:58.160 --> 0:20:00.480 coworker who was having a releaseationship. 0:20:00.520 --> 0:20:03.239 Problem he was, like we would talking a long time 0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:05.240 because he was telling me that he cheated on his 0:20:05.240 --> 0:20:08.159 girlfriend and she found, out and that's why we was. 0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:10.760 Talking he needed somebody to talk. TO i was, like, 0:20:10.880 --> 0:20:13.879 wow a woman always finds out when you're DOING a 0:20:13.960 --> 0:20:15.040 dog comes To, mike don't. 0:20:15.040 --> 0:20:20.000 Forget she knew she'd Caught seth in a. Lie he 0:20:20.160 --> 0:20:22.639 hadn't been at work that day at, all and he 0:20:22.720 --> 0:20:26.520 certainly hadn't been comforting a, Coworker so where was? He 0:20:27.520 --> 0:20:30.760 instead of asking him, directly she decided to wait and 0:20:30.800 --> 0:20:34.240 see what else you can find. Out, plus she wasn't 0:20:34.280 --> 0:20:35.480 ready to accuse him of. 0:20:35.520 --> 0:20:39.119 Anything once you put it out there that you don't trust, 0:20:39.160 --> 0:20:43.800 them your full relationship. Changes you can't really ruin even 0:20:43.920 --> 0:20:47.119 like a. Friendship say you AND, i if we're. Friends 0:20:47.119 --> 0:20:49.960 in my pocketbook is. MISSING i put it in the wrong. 0:20:50.000 --> 0:20:52.520 Place but Now i'm, like did you take my? 0:20:52.640 --> 0:20:57.600 Pocketbook our friendship is. Over it's. Over you just have 0:20:57.680 --> 0:21:01.400 to be careful with stuff like, that you. Know SO 0:21:01.480 --> 0:21:05.520 i was kind of stuck UNTIL i could get something, tangible. 0:21:05.760 --> 0:21:11.640 And soon she would get something tangible or maybe. Metaphysical 0:21:13.480 --> 0:21:16.000 nancy was in bed late one night and out of 0:21:16.040 --> 0:21:20.280 their bedroom, window she could See seth standing outside their house. 0:21:20.760 --> 0:21:25.159 AND i saw a figure next to. Him AND i 0:21:25.240 --> 0:21:27.399 was half asleep and halfway CAN i stop back to? 0:21:27.440 --> 0:21:29.639 See AND i talked to him the next day AND i, 0:21:29.680 --> 0:21:31.440 said were you okay last? 0:21:31.520 --> 0:21:32.840 Night did anything different? 0:21:32.840 --> 0:21:35.280 Happen he, goes she had almost got into a car. 0:21:35.320 --> 0:21:37.400 Accident we were the only two cars in a. ROAD 0:21:37.480 --> 0:21:38.320 i almost got a car. 0:21:38.320 --> 0:21:41.760 Accident AND i was, LIKE i thigured something was. 0:21:41.800 --> 0:21:45.840 Wrong he said? Why AND i told him the story 0:21:45.840 --> 0:21:46.439 HOW i saw the. 0:21:46.440 --> 0:21:48.920 FIGURE i, said that was a guardian. Angel that. 0:21:49.080 --> 0:21:54.400 Safe after, That seth was. Spooked he knew she'd seen, 0:21:54.480 --> 0:21:57.840 something And nancy knew that the figure next to him 0:21:58.359 --> 0:21:59.320 was no guardian. 0:21:59.359 --> 0:22:03.600 Angel after, that you can tell he was so nervous 0:22:03.640 --> 0:22:04.159 to do. 0:22:04.200 --> 0:22:08.840 Anything she wasn't about to start spying on, him so she, 0:22:08.920 --> 0:22:10.280 Waited i'm not. 0:22:10.280 --> 0:22:13.760 Checking your pockets and your cell phone records and finding 0:22:13.800 --> 0:22:15.880 a way going and following you. Leave i'm not doing. 0:22:15.920 --> 0:22:18.000 That i'm not checking o man like. 0:22:18.040 --> 0:22:19.520 That i'm got time for. 0:22:19.560 --> 0:22:23.719 That but she kept setting traps in their conversations just 0:22:23.720 --> 0:22:24.680 to see how he would. 0:22:24.720 --> 0:22:28.480 React AND i told HIM i kept having a reoccurring 0:22:28.680 --> 0:22:30.800 dream of him being with somebody. 0:22:30.840 --> 0:22:38.880 Else christmas was coming, up and that Year seth went all. 0:22:38.920 --> 0:22:41.880 Out every year we always said we would buy each 0:22:41.880 --> 0:22:44.520 other just one gift and we'd e splourge everything else 0:22:44.560 --> 0:22:47.680 on our. Daughter and we did that for the longest. Time, 0:22:48.480 --> 0:22:51.920 well This CHRISTMAS i got it was an iPod at the, 0:22:51.960 --> 0:22:55.680 time does anyone and he got it engraved him back with. 0:22:55.640 --> 0:22:59.040 A whole PARAGRAPH i love, YOU i love you TODAY i. 0:22:59.119 --> 0:23:03.199 Die i'm, like oh, WOW i got The nikes with 0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:05.199