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Speaker 1: This is a freaking lifetime movie. An next say he

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Speaker 2: I'm like, am I lose? In my mind? I could

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Speaker 3: I'm Andrea Gunning and this is Betrayal, A show about

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Speaker 3: the people we trust the most and the deceptions that

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Speaker 3: change everything. Nancy grew up in Boston in the seventies.

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Speaker 3: She was the youngest of three girls. From birth, she

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Speaker 1: When I was born, they told my mother that I'm

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Speaker 1: fifty five. I've never had open hot surgery.

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Speaker 3: Because of her heart condition, her mother kept a close

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Speaker 1: I'm only four eleven, and when I was five years well,

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Speaker 3: As a kid, Nancy went to the cardiologist every week

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Speaker 1: I even remember being over her friend's house. We'd be

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Speaker 3: She surpassed medical expectations and grew up to be healthy,

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Speaker 1: I didn't hang out with friends on Saturday night. I

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Speaker 1: Everybody who loved her because she was just down to earth.

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Speaker 3: Early on in her life, Nancy saw that her father

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Speaker 1: Back in the day, my mother and my father used

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Speaker 1: ask my mother, is he hurting you? Because she's white?

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Speaker 3: Her father was black, and other kids tease Nancy about

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Speaker 1: It's like, what's wrong with your mother? There's nothing wrong

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Speaker 3: When Nancy was a teenager, she met a boy in

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Speaker 1: I'm like, who is this person? And he was extremely handsome.

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Speaker 3: One day, Devon brought her a present.

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Speaker 1: So he heard that I love saft served and ELASTI

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Speaker 3: She and Devon became high school sweethearts.

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Speaker 1: We were a class couple, of course we were. We

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Speaker 3: Their plan was to be together forever, and to this day,

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Speaker 3: Nancy still wishes they could have been, but tragedy derailed

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Speaker 1: I had heard that there was this extremely bad car accident,

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Speaker 3: He was a passenger in the collision and they needed

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Speaker 1: And I found out the person who told me said

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Speaker 3: She was by his side when he woke up from

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Speaker 1: But when he woke up, it was a different person,

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Speaker 1: you know. They asked things like when's your birthday, what's

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Speaker 3: DeVaughn was never the same.

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Speaker 1: After that. He started smoking cigarettes, never spoke, he was

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, Okay, it's gonna get better. It's going

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Speaker 3: After his traumatic brain injury, it wasn't the same relationship.

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Speaker 3: It was a lot for a seventeen year old to

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Speaker 1: I felt like he died in that. To me, he

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Speaker 3: Nancy made the tough decision to leave Devon and focus

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Speaker 1: And a beautiful condo in my house was fully furnished.

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Speaker 3: Every day, on her lunch break, Nancy chatted with a

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Speaker 1: I worked in the financial district. It was always constructing

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Speaker 1: was just when he's having lunch. I'm going to lunch,

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Speaker 3: His name was Marvin, and Marvin became a fixture in

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Speaker 1: And then he invited me to this club that he

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Speaker 3: He was Jamaican and Nancy's dad was from Cuba, so

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Speaker 3: she was interested in Boston's Caribbean community.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, guy and my friends have come

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Speaker 3: That weekend, as promised, she and her friends stop by.

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Speaker 3: It was a lively scene with music and dancing.

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Speaker 1: So when I went into the club, I was expecting

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Speaker 3: But she hardly noticed because she got distracted by a

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Speaker 1: He asked me to dance. I've danced to me, it's

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Speaker 3: Seth wasn't exactly her type.

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Speaker 1: Well then four eleven it is, because everybody's gonna be

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Speaker 3: Three nancy and her friends decided to leave the party

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Speaker 3: Seth what Did nancy's? Number it was the, nineties.

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Speaker 1: So he had to go to his car to get

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Speaker 3: Paper nancy found it. Endearing she thought she was meeting

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Speaker 3: meeting this nice. Guy it felt like. Fate the next,

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Speaker 1: Called i'll not. Forget it was A. Sunday it was

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Speaker 1: two o'clock in the afternoon and he. Called he said

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Speaker 1: he was. Working he was a. Butcher, OH i want

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Speaker 1: to come seeing you AFTER i got? Work all, right

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Speaker 1: where you? LIVE i, SAID i live? On?

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Speaker 2: REALLY i work On.

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Speaker 3: Wow he worked just a few blocks down from her,

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Speaker 3: Apartment so they agreed to meet up for. Lunch seth

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Speaker 3: recently moved To boston From, jamaica so you.

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Speaker 1: Told me, about you, know living In, jamaica and that

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Speaker 3: Visa she loved His jamaican, accent especially the way he

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Speaker 3: said her. Name she also liked his easygoing, personality so

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Speaker 1: Her he cooked for. Me he actually cooked it at

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Speaker 1: So It's jamaican. Wood it was a red. Snapper, delicious absolutely.

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Speaker 3: Cook she hadn't had a serious boyfriend Since DeVaughn in high,

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Speaker 3: school And seth reminded her a bit of. Him he

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Speaker 1: HAD i always tell people you sweetly off my. Feet i'll.

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Speaker 1: Say the biggest attraction was he was pleasant and calm and.

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Speaker 1: Respectful she cheeked me like a. Lady it was good to,

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Speaker 3: Clicked after they'd been dating for a few, Months seth

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Speaker 3: Took nancy to meet his. Uncle he was one of

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Speaker 3: a few people In seth's family who also immigrated To.

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Speaker 1: AND i was, LIKE i know.

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Speaker 3: You it Was, Marvin nancy's lunch break. Buddy AND i was, like.

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Speaker 1: You do the construction That liberty needs to him. Right he's, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: YEAH i see you when you're going to lunch. That, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: World years, Later nancy would find out it wasn't much

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Speaker 3: of a coincidence at. All that, summer she And seth

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Speaker 1: Together we went To New, hampshire ham To. BEACH i

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Speaker 1: went every year with friends or, whatever AND i, stated

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Speaker 1: AND i know that's WHERE i could see my.

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Speaker 2: CHILD i know that for a.

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Speaker 3: Fact nancy had lived her whole life believing she'd never have.

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Speaker 3: Kids she Told seth she couldn't get. Pregnant when she

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Speaker 3: found out that she was, expecting it felt like another medical.

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Speaker 3: Miracle her first call was to her.

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Speaker 1: Mom she was, like, yeah you'll have to get married.

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Speaker 1: NOW i, said right, now right.

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Speaker 3: Now it seemed old, fashioned but she trusted her mom

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Speaker 3: to guide her in the right. Direction we went.

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Speaker 1: To City hall to register for the marriage. Certificate i'm

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Speaker 1: four months pregnant and the lady gives you the. Paper

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Speaker 1: it's split in the middle and your information is here

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Speaker 1: and his information is. Here AND i was, like, oh

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Speaker 1: they have your birthdate. Wrong he's, like, no that's. RIGHT i, said,

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Speaker 1: no it's. Not he's, like it, Is, well you can't

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Speaker 1: be twenty six with this day of. Birth he was.

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Speaker 3: Nineteen he lied about his. Age he was in twenty,

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Speaker 3: six like he said he was. Nineteen nancy was twenty

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Speaker 3: three at the. Time seth gave her a simple.

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Speaker 1: Explanation he had to make up that age for me

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Speaker 1: to be interested because he told me he was. NINETEEN

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Speaker 1: i was definitely not dated, him he, SAID i, said you're,

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Speaker 1: right so he lied to be able to date. ME

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Speaker 1: i just stood there for a. Minute the place that

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Speaker 3: HEAD a few weeks, Later nancy And seth had a small.

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Speaker 3: Apart nancy wanted the sex of the baby to be a.

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Speaker 1: Surprise when she came, out there was a. Girl he

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Speaker 2: Frog all THAT i went, throre you better be.

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Speaker 3: Happy set's disappointment quickly. Faded they both fell in love

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Speaker 1: Magical he was a sor. Father he always took care

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Speaker 3: It he was also excellent To.

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Speaker 1: Nancy he did all the, cooking he did all the.

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Speaker 1: CLEANING i could tell him until. Time coming home from,

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Speaker 1: Me he'd have a buss wine for. Me he always cooked, dinner.

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Speaker 3: And this wasn't a phase for. Him year after, Year

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Speaker 1: Love the romance was still. There as As i'm, concerned

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Speaker 3: All even a neighbor commented on how physically close they.

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Speaker 2: Seemed she was, like every TIME i see you, guys

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Speaker 2: just so. Close she was, like he's mowing the lawn

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Speaker 2: and you're right next to. Him i'm like picking. Weeds

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Speaker 3: Always at the, Time nancy worked at a.

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Speaker 3: Weather nancy was the only one in their house who

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Speaker 1: AND i had told them this is just my work

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Speaker 2: Right everybody knew THAT i was.

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Speaker 1: Good one DAY i went on the computer and a

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Speaker 1: dating website popped. Up it was called adultfinder dot. Com

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Speaker 1: i'll never forget it. Now the username was, there but

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Speaker 3: There the username Was Peter. Parker five years into their,

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Speaker 3: Marriage nancy found a strange dating website on her work

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Speaker 3: computer with a username she didn't. Recognize i'm Like Peter.

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Speaker 1: Pocca So i'm, like somebody got my computer and put

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Speaker 1: And i'm, Like, seth what is did you see? That

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Speaker 1: he was, like, oh those things like pop? Ups And i'm,

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Speaker 1: like oh my. God let me call my company and

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Speaker 1: let them. KNOW i did not go on that, website

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Speaker 3: That nancy didn't, Either, besides her focus was on their,

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Speaker 1: SCHOOL i went to every at the school program and every,

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Speaker 1: play AND i was always by myself because he was.

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Speaker 3: Working he'd taken a demanding job at The metro. Rail

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Speaker 3: he often worked overtime hours to make extra. Money they

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Speaker 1: And we always talked about retiring In. Jamaica have a

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Speaker 1: Different we had a book and everything that we wrote

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Speaker 3: Do a book where they wrote down their dreams for the.

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Speaker 3: Future in order to make those dreams. Happen nancy And

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Speaker 3: seth worked long. Hours the only day they both had

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Speaker 3: off Was. Sunday that day was reserved for. Family when she.

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Speaker 2: Got, older like, ten we would go to the.

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Speaker 2: Talkies we had lacky. Talkies it was. Cute they had

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Speaker 3: Her One, Sunday nancy was looking forward to their family,

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Speaker 3: time But seth took an overtime.

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Speaker 2: Shift well called him at work for. SOMETHING i can't

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Speaker 2: remember what it, was and he said he's not. Here i'm, Like,

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Speaker 2: Today.

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Speaker 1: No so when he got home at, midnight when he

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Speaker 1: normally gets, home he comes in the. DOOR i didn't

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Speaker 1: mention to him THAT i knew he wasn't at. WORK i, said,

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Speaker 1: oh ya home a little bit later, Then, NO i was,

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Speaker 1: LIKE i know they at traffic at the.

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Speaker 2: Summon you?

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Speaker 3: Okay he said he stayed late to talk to a

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Speaker 1: Problem he was, like we would talking a long time

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Speaker 1: because he was telling me that he cheated on his

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Speaker 1: girlfriend and she found, out and that's why we was.

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Speaker 1: Talking he needed somebody to talk. TO i was, like,

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Speaker 1: wow a woman always finds out when you're DOING a

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Speaker 1: dog comes To, mike don't.

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Speaker 3: Forget she knew she'd Caught seth in a. Lie he

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Speaker 3: hadn't been at work that day at, all and he

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Speaker 3: certainly hadn't been comforting a, Coworker so where was? He

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Speaker 3: instead of asking him, directly she decided to wait and

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Speaker 3: see what else you can find. Out, plus she wasn't

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Speaker 3: ready to accuse him of.

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Speaker 1: Anything once you put it out there that you don't trust,

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Speaker 1: them your full relationship. Changes you can't really ruin even

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Speaker 1: like a. Friendship say you AND, i if we're. Friends

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Speaker 1: in my pocketbook is. MISSING i put it in the wrong.

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Speaker 1: Place but Now i'm, like did you take my?

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Speaker 2: Pocketbook our friendship is. Over it's. Over you just have

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Speaker 2: to be careful with stuff like, that you. Know SO

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Speaker 2: i was kind of stuck UNTIL i could get something, tangible.

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Speaker 3: And soon she would get something tangible or maybe. Metaphysical

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Speaker 3: nancy was in bed late one night and out of

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Speaker 3: their bedroom, window she could See seth standing outside their house.

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Speaker 1: AND i saw a figure next to. Him AND i

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Speaker 1: was half asleep and halfway CAN i stop back to?

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Speaker 1: See AND i talked to him the next day AND i,

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Speaker 1: said were you okay last?

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Speaker 2: Night did anything different?

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Speaker 1: Happen he, goes she had almost got into a car.

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Speaker 1: Accident we were the only two cars in a. ROAD

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Speaker 1: i almost got a car.

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Speaker 2: Accident AND i was, LIKE i thigured something was.

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Speaker 1: Wrong he said? Why AND i told him the story

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Speaker 1: HOW i saw the.

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Speaker 2: FIGURE i, said that was a guardian. Angel that.

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Speaker 3: Safe after, That seth was. Spooked he knew she'd seen,

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Speaker 3: something And nancy knew that the figure next to him

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Speaker 3: was no guardian.

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Speaker 1: Angel after, that you can tell he was so nervous

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Speaker 1: to do.

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Speaker 3: Anything she wasn't about to start spying on, him so she,

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Speaker 3: Waited i'm not.

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Speaker 1: Checking your pockets and your cell phone records and finding

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Speaker 1: a way going and following you. Leave i'm not doing.

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Speaker 1: That i'm not checking o man like.

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Speaker 2: That i'm got time for.

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Speaker 3: That but she kept setting traps in their conversations just

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Speaker 3: to see how he would.

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Speaker 1: React AND i told HIM i kept having a reoccurring

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Speaker 1: dream of him being with somebody.

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Speaker 3: Else christmas was coming, up and that Year seth went all.

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Speaker 1: Out every year we always said we would buy each

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Speaker 1: other just one gift and we'd e splourge everything else

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Speaker 1: on our. Daughter and we did that for the longest. Time,

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Speaker 1: well This CHRISTMAS i got it was an iPod at the,

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Speaker 1: time does anyone and he got it engraved him back with.

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Speaker 2: A whole PARAGRAPH i love, YOU i love you TODAY i.

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Speaker 1: Die i'm, like oh, WOW i got The nikes with

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Speaker 1: the predominan that was inside the.

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Speaker 2: SHOE i, mean he gave me so many.

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Speaker 1: And it was expensive, gifts And i'm, like why'd you

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Speaker 1: bind me so. Much he's, LIKE i just wanted To

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Speaker 1: i'm like.

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Speaker 3: Okay As Christmas day went, on she noticed That seth

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Speaker 3: was acting.

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Speaker 1: Strange he was so, quiet like he's a quiet person,

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Speaker 1: anyway BUT i mean. Nothing after we did the gifts

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Speaker 1: with one in my mother's house In, boston not a

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Speaker 1: word driving, there not a word during, dinner not a

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Speaker 1: word coming back.

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Speaker 2: Home AND i was, like what's wrong with? You are you?

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Speaker 2: Are you're? Sick what's? Wrong he's like. NOTHING i was,

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Speaker 2: like something's, wrong what's the? Matter? Nothing.

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Speaker 1: Okay we went to bed to a POINT i got.

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Speaker 2: IF i SAID i can't take it. Anymore something is.

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Speaker 2: Wrong what is wrong with?

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Speaker 1: You he jumps out of the bed and he gets

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Speaker 1: on his knees like he's going to, pray.

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Speaker 2: And closes his eyes and, SAID i got another woman.

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Speaker 3: Pregnant there it was the confession she'd been waiting, for

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Speaker 3: but it was much bigger than she could have. Imagined

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Speaker 3: the revelation was so overwhelming she passed.

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Speaker 2: Out it was like somebody like boom right in my.

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Speaker 1: CHEST i finally came to AND i just, said, WELL

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Speaker 1: i guess you just have to.

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Speaker 2: Go he, said just like.

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Speaker 1: THAT i, said, yeah just like, that because you're not

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Speaker 1: even gonna try to fight for. ME i, said how

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Speaker 1: CAN i fight for SOMETHING i already? LOST i, said

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Speaker 1: you can come get your stuff. Later for, now you

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Speaker 1: have to, go like right, now because if you, DON'T

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Speaker 1: i really don't think you're worth going to jail.

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Speaker 2: For SO i really think you should.

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Speaker 3: Leave right after he, Left nancy called her. Mom it

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Speaker 3: was three, am but of course her mom still picked,

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Speaker 3: up and.

439
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 2: She's, LIKE i. CAN'T i really can't believe this because

440
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 2: you would have never known.

441
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:14,119
Speaker 1: That and she loved him to. Death she said she

442
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,239
Speaker 1: deserves an. Oscar he really deserves an.

443
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 3: Oscar the next, Morning seth was at their front. Door

444
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 3: he needed to pack a, bag.

445
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: And that's WHEN i, asked how long have you been seeing?

446
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 1: Her he admitted to four. Years he, GOES i know you.

447
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: KNEW i was, like how when you told me about

448
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,679
Speaker 1: That guardian? ANGEL i knew you.

449
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 3: Knew Then nancy figured that the dating website she'd seen

450
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 3: years earlier was connected to this, affair AND.

451
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 2: I, said and who the hell Is Peter? Walker he,

452
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 2: said it's nine of, me and LIKE i was supposed to?

453
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 2: KNOW i was, like what he, said that's its real.

454
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 2: NAME i, said, so what does that have to do with?

455
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 2: You because you're not on the inside of. Man he,

456
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 2: said that's my Favorite charita Okay.

457
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 3: Si seth had been weaving a web of lies for

458
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 3: their entire, marriage And nancy was just starting to unravel.

459
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 3: It she told him to expect divorce papers On. Monday you,

460
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 3: said you're divorcing.

461
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 2: ME i, said, dude you're not getting. IT i told

462
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 2: you got to. Go would you THINK i just wanted to,

463
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,120
Speaker 2: go spend a night somewhere and just come back. Home.

464
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 2: No done.

465
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 3: With that, conversation their marriage was. Over they'd been together

466
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:40,199
Speaker 3: for fifteen. Years nancy thought she'd heard the worst of,

467
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 3: it but she'd soon realize his deception was far bigger

468
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:45,199
Speaker 3: than an.

469
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 1: Affair, ki you eventually told me the whole, story AND i,

470
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 1: said why? Me he, said as my uncle was, saying

471
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 1: why not.

472
00:26:55,480 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 3: You nancy's fifteen year marriage was blown apart when her

473
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 3: husband confessed to getting another woman. Pregnant but that wasn't

474
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 3: the whole. Story the real story started Before seth And

475
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 3: nancy even. Met here's What seth.

476
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 1: Confessed he, goes, WELL i came To america with a.

477
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 1: VISA i was only supposed to stay for six. MONTHS

478
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: i started a job AND i DECIDED i wanted to.

479
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: Stay and he, Said marvin told him that you have

480
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 1: to get your green, card and to get that he

481
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: would have to get. Married AND i, said oh, okay he,

482
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: goes well it was. YOU i, said it was, me

483
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: LIKE i was. Chosen he said, Yeah so our relationship

484
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: was set.

485
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 2: Up from the, beginning AND i had no.

486
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 3: Idea the Night nancy first Met seth at The Caribbean,

487
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 3: club that wasn't. Fate it was. Orchestrated she'd been singled

488
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 3: out By seth's, Uncle, marvin you, know the guy from,

489
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 3: work and he Invited nancy there for a.

490
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: Purpose his uncle had his eye on me and invited

491
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 1: me to the. Club WHEN i came To buddy made

492
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: sure his nephew was, there made sure his nephew danced.

493
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 3: Me she felt lucky Meeting seth at the, Club but

494
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 3: it turns out it was all planned for one.

495
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 1: Goal he told me his uncle was, like she looks

496
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: like she has. Money he's the ONE i put us

497
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: together with this crappy green.

498
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 3: Cot When nancy got, pregnant she Knew seth was still

499
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 3: on his visa.

500
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 2: BECAUSE i have to go, back And i'm, like, oh,

501
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 2: NO i need to have the.

502
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: Baby SO i said we can't get married thing BECAUSE

503
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: i didn't know it goes, yeah we, can but that changes.

504
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: EVERYTHING i just have to go and make it right

505
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: at the immigration office with the certificate called a green.

506
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 3: Car she was having a. BABY i was scared to

507
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 3: lose set so back, Then nancy had jumped into action

508
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 3: AND i.

509
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 2: Was, like, okay so what do we need to.

510
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:24,479
Speaker 1: Do he was, like, well it's easier and faster if

511
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: we have a, lawyer AND i said. Okay SO i

512
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 1: spent ten thousand dollars of my own money to get the.

513
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 3: Lawyer nancy saw the green card as another piece of

514
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 3: paperwork they needed to get. Married she had no. Idea

515
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 3: she was part of an elaborate.

516
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 2: SCHEME i definitely feel LIKE i was singled.

517
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 1: Out fortunately for, them it worked out And seth got

518
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 1: his green. Car marvin was the mastermind of the whole.

519
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 3: Thing and to add insult to, Injury seth had another

520
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 3: reason why he Chose, nancy, because.

521
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: Well you told me you couldn't have any children that

522
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 1: fit into the, plan THAT i wouldn't have to have

523
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:09,479
Speaker 1: any connection with.

524
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 2: YOU i, said, wow you guys are. Evil that is.

525
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 3: Evil this revelation made her feel as if her whole

526
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 3: relationship was, manufactured that she had been.

527
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 2: USED i was just a pawn in the little.

528
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 3: Game every day of their, marriage he welcomed her home

529
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 3: with a glass of wine and a home cooked. Meal

530
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 3: nobody had ever shown her love like this. Before If

531
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 3: nancy was just a means to an, end why Did

532
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 3: zeth father staying with her for fifteen? Years, Well nancy

533
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 3: asked him that, directly.

534
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: AND i, said, Okay, well we were married for fifteen,

535
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: years SO i don't.

536
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 2: Understand he, said, WELL i, Know i'm going.

537
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: To hell BECAUSE i had to stay married to you

538
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: a little bit longer because my girlfriend In jamaica wanted

539
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 1: to come, here and for me to be able to

540
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 1: bring her, HERE i had to show THAT i was

541
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: economically fit to be able to bring her.

542
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 3: Here nancy had assumed the affair was From seth's online

543
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 3: dalliances As Peter, parker but it turns out he'd been

544
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 3: with the other woman for their entire.

545
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 2: Marriage he knew her In.

546
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: JAMAICA i don't know if it was since they were

547
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 1: kids or all their. Life i'm not, sure but he

548
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: brought her here From.

549
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 3: Jamaica seth finally confessed his double life To nancy because

550
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 3: he was just in too. Deep it turns out the

551
00:31:55,760 --> 00:32:00,080
Speaker 3: pregnancy he Told nancy about wasn't the first. ONE i

552
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 3: had a whole other, family he.

553
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 1: Told me that, day because she was pregnant, again so

554
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:07,959
Speaker 1: there were.

555
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 2: Four she was pregnant with the. Fifth at that, point

556
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 2: he couldn't take it.

557
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 1: Anymore like do what he was doing financially with me

558
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: and our. Daughter he said he had come to a

559
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 1: point where it was just becoming too.

560
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 3: Much all those Years seth claimed to be working over,

561
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 3: time he was actually going over to his other house

562
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 3: to his other. Children it Shattered nancy's.

563
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 1: REALITY i felt LIKE i was living the life of

564
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: The Truman. Show AND i still feel that. WAY i

565
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: don't know what was real or. NOT i feel, like,

566
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: oh cry BECAUSE i feel so. Stupid everything was? Fake

567
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: who WAS i living? With are the walls? Real AM

568
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 1: i going to push them? Down and we're in a television?

569
00:32:58,720 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: Program what is?

570
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 3: This their daughter was fourteen at the, time And nancy

571
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 3: wanted to protect her from the reality of her father's.

572
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 3: Dishonesty she tried to maintain a sense of stability for

573
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 3: her and her. Daughter she moved to a new place

574
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 3: while they figured out the, divorce divided their, assets and

575
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 3: split up shared.

576
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 2: LIVES i had moved to a smaller.

577
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: TOWNHOUSE i was going back and forth to the home

578
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: that we owned, together except THAT i BECAUSE i had

579
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: to figure out WHAT i was bringing to my new.

580
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 3: Home they were waiting to put the house on the

581
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 3: market until the divorce was. Final in the, meantime clearing

582
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 3: out the old house was a constant.

583
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,959
Speaker 1: Chore and one DAY i went during the day AND

584
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: i went to open the door with my, key but

585
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 1: someone on the other side of the door opened it for.

586
00:33:56,560 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: Me someone's in my.

587
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: House skid the living crafts out of. Me i'm, like

588
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 2: who are? You he's, like who are? You i'm, like

589
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 2: this is my.

590
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 3: House Seth short sold their house without Telling. Nancy the

591
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 3: person who'd opened the door was the new.

592
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 1: OWNER i was only on the ded and of the,

593
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 1: mortgage SO i GUESS i didn't need to be there

594
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: for the sale of the.

595
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 3: Home since it was a short. Sale there wasn't even

596
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 3: a profit to divide in their, divorce even though she'd

597
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 3: paid half the mortgage for a. Decade it felt like

598
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 3: a slap in the. Face she couldn't move out on

599
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 3: her own. Terms but to make matters, worse some of

600
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 3: her most prized possessions were still sold with the house

601
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 3: and she would never see them.

602
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: Again my diaries in my ledgers THAT i been writing

603
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 1: in SINCE i was twelve. Thirteen up until that, POINT

604
00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 1: i had like a memory box THAT i got my

605
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,839
Speaker 1: daught his baby shoes in. It it had hairbows of her,

606
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: something little things that like memory, stuff ornaments that meant

607
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 1: some you, know, babies First, christmas things like.

608
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 2: That all of that was, gone and it was just.

609
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 3: Devastating after they, Separated seth wasted no time stepping into

610
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 3: his new. Life after, all he'd been building it for some.

611
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 1: Time he has this whole other new family to go,

612
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,280
Speaker 1: to as if he didn't have to skip a beat

613
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 1: While i'm scratching and scrounging to try to move and

614
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 1: find out WHERE i can live best for me and my, daughter.

615
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:42,760
Speaker 2: And it just didn't seem.

616
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:47,399
Speaker 3: Fair nancy was left to pick up the. Pieces it

617
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 3: all took an intense.

618
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 2: TOLL i don't remember three years of. That after the,

619
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 2: DOORS i was like in a.

620
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:58,919
Speaker 1: BOG i don't know any other way to explain, it

621
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 1: AND i told my, MOTHER i lost like two or

622
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 1: three years of my. LIFE i wouldn't even know what

623
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 1: happened in between that BECAUSE i was just.

624
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 3: Going her daughter got her through those difficult, ears.

625
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 2: And she was always my. Priority.

626
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: Always you kind of feel ashamed BECAUSE i started thinking to,

627
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 1: myself how stupid COULD i?

628
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 3: Be nancy is a, survivor.

629
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: Even THOUGH i was considered ill with the twisted vow Haunt.

630
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 2: MURMUR i was born a.

631
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:44,320
Speaker 3: Warrior it took years to recover emotionally and feel like herself,

632
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 3: again and, now fifteen years post, divorce she's proud of

633
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 3: how far she's, come.

634
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: And after time went, ON i can talk about this without,

635
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 1: crying without being upset like he.

636
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 2: Doesn't deserve my. Teams that's not my.

637
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 1: FAULT i did, survive AND i feel stronger now THAN

638
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: i did.

639
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 2: Before the resilience in. Me nobody can take that from.

640
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 3: Me we end all of our episodes with the same,

641
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 3: question why do you want to tell your?

642
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 2: Story it is my story AND i want to tell.

643
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: It maybe somebody's in it right, Now and Then i'm

644
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 1: thinking about it because this happens too much.

645
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 2: And it's somebody's, life you, KNOW.

646
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 1: I have a lot to give from that party that

647
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 1: can turn into a good thing.

648
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 3: On the next episode Of. Betrayal AND i said to

649
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 3: him on those last few days AS i was holding

650
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 3: his hand in the, HOSPITAL i was just, Like, man

651
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 3: you've got to go up. There you've got to talk to.

652
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 3: Mom you've got to find the. Answers if you would

653
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,160
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654
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:19,080
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655
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:23,959
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