WEBVTT - 9021One-on-One: Christie Lynn Smith who played Kristi 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:04.280 It's nine O gene one Old Engine with Jenny Garth 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:05.480 and Tory Spelling. 0:00:10.200 --> 0:00:13.360 We have a special guest today. She played Christy Koons 0:00:13.440 --> 0:00:18.919 on the episode titled Rebound. Welcome actress Christy Lynn Smith. Hello, 0:00:19.800 --> 0:00:21.520 how are you great? 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:22.800 You look so pretty? 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:26.040 You look so great? 0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:28.120 Oh my gosh. 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:30.560 You know what I see? I see like a woman 0:00:30.640 --> 0:00:33.680 living in her passion. Because I just was reading this 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:37.240 thing about this information that you sent of for about 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:40.400 your your film that you produced and co wrote. 0:00:40.560 --> 0:00:41.400 It's called Rated. 0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:42.560 It's called Rated. 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:44.200 It sounds fascinating. 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:46.839 Okay, you're amazing, by the way to even bring that up. 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:49.879 These aren't progressives, so I would have to go so 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:52.879 close to the things. I can see you better without 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:56.080 them unless I'm reading. But back to what you. 0:00:56.160 --> 0:01:02.080 Just mentioned, it sounds so great. You guys are amazing concepts. 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:02.720 Thank you. 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:03.040 So. 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:08.360 It's based on our award winning short film that we 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:11.920 We wrote it in twenty fourteen, We shot it in fifteen, 0:01:12.240 --> 0:01:15.920 premiered in twenty sixteen. This has been a ten year journey, 0:01:16.000 --> 0:01:20.280 you guys. Though it is called Rated, are ated, and 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:23.880 we are still in post production. It's about a woman 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:27.800 who's you know, in the crossroads of her life, little menopause, 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:31.399 little overwhelmed mother of two. She wakes up with a 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:34.240 yelp like star rating over her head. 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:38.200 This is a nightmare, really nightmare. Is this a scary movie? 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:41.520 No, not a scary movie. But I wake up with 0:01:41.640 --> 0:01:44.959 two and a half stars. Okay, my husband has five. 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:47.800 Oh. 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:52.440 And you know, it's really about her journey, about who 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:55.960 she is as a person. This story is really about 0:01:56.040 --> 0:01:59.440 humanity and empathy and kindness. If we could all just 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:02.960 have a little bit of more in the world right now. 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:08.600 But it really unravels this beautiful story of this woman 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:11.960 who I'm honored to play Maggie to, you know, play 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:15.160 her again after ten years, and we're like this little 0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:18.040 engine that could. It's a ten year journey, though, I 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:20.880 mean to get a movie made. And we've had a 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:24.520 couple of Guardian Angels that saw the short over COVID. 0:02:24.560 --> 0:02:28.359 We put it on Vimeo on demand, and this producer, 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:31.839 Mark Pellington reached out and said, do you guys have 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:35.560 anything you know beyond the short? This is the best 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:38.240 short I've ever seen. I mean, you know, take it 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.880 with a grain of salt, but it's one of my 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:44.560 passions that I that one of my passion projects that 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:47.560 I did ten years ago. I would love to say, 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:48.760 you guys, the short. 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:49.880 You need to see that, I want to see it. 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:52.359 I will send it to a team. 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:53.560 Talk about signs. 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:58.280 That's like it was crazy right, meant to be well, 0:02:58.480 --> 0:03:02.840 and it's been a journey. So we had to get financing, 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:07.560 which is not easy. A lot of eggs are in 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:11.840 the basket of our own and it's a low budget 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:15.440 indie movie that we shot in Oklahoma and it's in post. 0:03:15.639 --> 0:03:19.080 So the star like rating if you could imagine, you know, 0:03:19.160 --> 0:03:20.720 like floating over your head. 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:24.400 Yes I can. Yeah, I think we all can relate 0:03:24.440 --> 0:03:25.200 to that fear. 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:30.880 You know. It's just so relevant to what we're going 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:35.480 through with our world right now. And you know, if 0:03:35.480 --> 0:03:38.720 you were to ask yourself, how many stars would I 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:41.760 have on any given day? It really puts us in 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:44.680 a position to say, wow, wait a minute, how can 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:47.600 I be kinder? How can I be gentler with myself 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:50.480 and others? Because we really don't know what's going on 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:53.040 with any of us at any given day. 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:57.360 So are the stars based on kindness and being a 0:03:57.360 --> 0:04:00.680 good human? Are they based on like your appearance and your. 0:04:00.880 --> 0:04:04.040 Nothing nothing but who you are? As a person. 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:07.040 Okay, okay, okay, that is not something I wish this 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:07.640 was real. 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:08.760 You know what. 0:04:10.680 --> 0:04:13.320 We need like a yelp for humans. 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:17.359 Well, there was something that actually happened many years ago. 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:20.600 There's you know, there's a rating system and actually I 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:25.679 believe it's China, don't quote me or where John read 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:29.000 about this many many years ago, where there is a 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:34.359 rating system and you can get points deducted for applications 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:40.320 or loans. It's a really interesting concept. And you know, 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:43.360 our goal is that the whole world gets to see 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:46.599 this movie. So right now we're finishing post production with 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:50.080 the stars. There's I think twelve hundred visual effects, which 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:52.560 is almost as many as a Marvel movie. 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:53.240 I think. 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:56.360 On a tiny budget, wow. 0:04:56.560 --> 0:04:58.839 And a very little budget. We're like, we're like little 0:04:58.839 --> 0:04:59.680 baty people here. 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:03.240 Know well, it sounds like such an amazing, like fulfilling 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:05.920 I know, Tory and I are both just so happy 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:10.279 for you to keep it going, Like to finish something. 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:11.520 What an accomplishment? 0:05:11.680 --> 0:05:13.800 Yes, you know, that's that's the thing. 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:14.080 I mean. 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:17.279 John's chugging away. We have our little production thing here 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:20.160 in this in our garage. I'm in my garage right now. 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:26.160 I oh, mine recognize the self tape backdrop here, you. 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:29.880 Know, can we go back and talk about your time 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:30.840 on nine or two and oh. 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:33.159 All right, gosh, yes, but thank you so much for 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:36.640 just honoring that journey for me. It's it's been quite 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:39.240 a journey. So thanks, happy for you. 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:42.159 Well, we're so excited for you. And let us know 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:43.400 when how. 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:45.919 We can help send us the link to and support. 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:50.720 I will absolutely as you know, alumni of. 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:54.400 So we can say when when it becomes a massive hit. 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:57.320 Oh my gosh, thank you. You guys are so sweet. 0:05:57.320 --> 0:05:59.720 It means so much, you know, I really appreciate that. 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:01.040 So nine o two and. 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:03.960 Oh, how well do you remember your time there? 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:04.800 First? 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:06.479 Start with that because it was a long time ago. 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:09.720 It was so long ago, so I will say this 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:13.920 is very funny. So I auditioned multiple times for the show. 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:15.960 You know, it's a big deal toy to be on 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:18.520 a spelling show back you know, in the nineties, right, 0:06:18.600 --> 0:06:22.680 I mean, it's an honor. I auditioned many times, and 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:25.320 I was trying to remember how many times. I have 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:32.400 a little journal from nineteen ninety two. When I moved 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:35.719 out to Los Angeles in nineteen ninety two, I actually 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:38.880 have a. It was dated October. I mean, look at those. 0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:43.160 Christy Lynd Smith Lussy. October thirty first, nineteen ninety two 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:46.000 is when I moved to LA Is that crazy? There's 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:49.839 a really sweet little, you know, thing about following my 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:52.240 dreams and I'm going to miss my mom and it 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:56.320 was really sweet. I read it, I know, Oh. 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:59.240 My gosh, and it says, who'd you audition for? 0:06:59.320 --> 0:06:59.400 What? 0:06:59.520 --> 0:06:59.839 Character? 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:03.559 Okay, okay, let me get to the page. I know, right, 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:06.760 But I think I think I really aligned with Christy 0:07:06.839 --> 0:07:12.440 Koontz because I had just gotten engaged in June. I 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:15.280 think we shot this maybe in the fall, right, because 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:19.000 it aired in January sounds right. So I got married 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:22.800 June twenty seventh, nineteen ninety eight. This show aired, I 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:26.960 believe it was, I want to say January or February, 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:29.920 so we must have been filming in the fall. And 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:34.400 I got proposed June twenty seven, nineteen ninety seven, So 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:38.680 I was right in the middle of getting married, right 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:41.080 and being scared to get married. And this is what 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:45.560 this character is going through, which is very interesting to me. 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:48.360 I'm sorry, I'm so excited. I think I had too 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:50.440 MUCHO long tea today. Am I so hyper? 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:50.880 Right now? 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:54.960 You're bringing the energy. It's quite real. By the way, 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:56.400 we love your enthusiasm. 0:07:56.440 --> 0:08:00.520 This is all yeay, okay, Well, I will say that 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:03.200 the one that I booked, and it has in a 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:07.600 Highlight nine two and zero producer session, it was do 0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:10.400 you want to know what number audition this was? Since 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:14.080 I was, I guess in the book number two hundred 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:18.520 and twenty nine of Commercials, Films and TV. You kept 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:22.680 track in the beginning, but it just then I stopped 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:24.520 because it was too depressing, right. 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:28.960 I mean, you made it to two hundred and what. 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:32.440 Two hundred and twenty nine was the one that I booked? 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:35.280 Oh okay, this is such a good story. 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:35.760 Okay. 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:39.200 So right before on two twenty two, I was brought 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:41.160 in for a role named Emma. 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:45.559 Who's that Emma Cawfield? No, that was just his name. No. 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:48.080 I started to say the same thing. 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:50.439 No, Angel boris Emma Emma. 0:08:51.280 --> 0:08:53.120 Okay, but auditioned for that. 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:56.440 I'm glad you didn't get that, Okay. 0:08:56.440 --> 0:08:59.400 I like my part. I want you guys, it's really 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:00.000 kind of cute. 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:04.120 That would have been an interesting take because you would 0:09:04.120 --> 0:09:05.600 have been Brandon's. 0:09:05.160 --> 0:09:08.280 Tight because of Kelly anyway. 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:10.640 No, but I thought this was is this is this 0:09:10.720 --> 0:09:12.320 so cheesy that I'm sharing this? 0:09:12.440 --> 0:09:14.280 Oh no, fantastic? 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:19.240 Really okay, okay, let's see here. I know there was 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:22.000 another one. Oh there we go nine just as callback 0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:25.679 Vicki huff doesn't say the character on that particular one. 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:28.760 It was very sporadic. I would list the show, the 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:31.720 casting director, and then you know, a lot of feedback 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:36.480 would say like great actress, not the girl. Yes, we've 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:37.040 all been. 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:40.240 Run in a different direction, right right right. 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:42.800 But I thought this was cute that it did say 0:09:42.960 --> 0:09:45.880 when I booked it, let's see, it had a little, 0:09:46.240 --> 0:09:51.160 a little tidbit. Let me see here. Oh, okay, went 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:54.520 great nine O two one zero producers went great, booked 0:09:54.679 --> 0:09:57.520 with a big old book right there. 0:09:57.760 --> 0:10:00.200 Whoa. 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:02.720 So that was cute. And then I ended up after 0:10:02.760 --> 0:10:06.680 that doing the other show Seventh Heaven and Charmed. So 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:10.360 your dad was good to me. I was really sweet. 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:16.440 He just yeah yeah. 0:10:16.520 --> 0:10:20.400 And auditioning, I just remember the room being very crowded. 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:24.160 Do you remember self tapes were not happening back then. 0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:25.040 It was five. 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:26.440 I remember that room. 0:10:26.960 --> 0:10:28.120 I remember that room. 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:29.000 It was big. 0:10:29.520 --> 0:10:32.000 There was a lot of producers. 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:32.800 A lot of men in that room. 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:35.800 A lot of men, and I would always get little 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:39.719 butterflies before I auditioned for anything, or I still do. 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:43.360 I got butterflies even being with you today, because I 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:46.800 just I don't know, I get I I just call 0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:47.839 it excitement. 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:49.960 That's yeah. It's a good thing. 0:10:50.360 --> 0:11:04.160 Yeah. 0:11:04.200 --> 0:11:06.520 The show itself, I mean I rewatched it. 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:07.679 What did you think. 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:09.479 I loved it because. 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:12.600 You mostly worked with the character of Steve played by 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:16.480 Ian right, right, But what do you remember from that 0:11:16.600 --> 0:11:18.240 day or days whatever it was? 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:20.400 Well, I mean we had a little bit you and 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:23.520 I when I thought that was really cute. Actually, when 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:25.760 do you want me to start in the beginning, like 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:27.480 in order of the scenes or. 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:30.480 No, whatever whatever stood out to you, Okay, it floats 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:31.679 your boat. 0:11:32.880 --> 0:11:33.920 Who would you meet first? 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:36.240 Did you actually meet Ian since you were playing off 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:36.880 of him or no? 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:40.760 I don't remember who I met first, but I remember 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:44.480 them being lovely. Everyone was lovely on I mean, anyone 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:48.040 that I met. I remember being just very welcoming, which 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:50.640 was really sweet coming in. It's hard to come in 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:54.440 as a guest player sometimes I shit is and I 0:11:54.480 --> 0:11:59.319 felt very welcomed and warm. I don't know, Maybe I 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:00.920 don't know I just I felt. 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:03.680 Well, that's good news. Yeah, we love hearing that. 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:08.080 And the scenes when I rewatched them, you know, it 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:13.320 resonates even now that it was so in line with 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:14.320 what I was going through. 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:15.200 That is wild. 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:18.240 Yeah, it is, because Steve says, and I wrote it down. 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:22.120 Who's to say, what makes you happy at twenty three 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:25.000 is going to keep you happy at thirty three. 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.559 That's terrifying when you're about to get married. 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:29.400 Or forty three or fifty three, or. 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:34.640 It was that really sweet scene. I'm trying that gorgeous 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:39.600 wedding dress and he's just doing this. You know, he's 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:44.319 dealing with his own issues obviously, right, but he's saying 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:46.120 these things that are affecting christ. 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:48.080 You're getting what we're just saying because. 0:12:47.880 --> 0:12:49.080 I play Christy and Christy. 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:53.720 But the similarities are just too much much. 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:57.720 Sorry? Did you tell them the story that you were 0:12:57.840 --> 0:13:00.079 getting married like when you audition. 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:02.920 For I don't think so. 0:13:03.360 --> 0:13:07.800 It's so like uncannt like unbelievable, like right, I don't. 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:10.559 I probably would have been too nervous to say anything, 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:11.720 you know like that. 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:14.080 But can I ask you a question? Are you still 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:15.240 married to the man you married? 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:15.400 Then? 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:19.800 I am Okay, congrats, thank you. Second question is what 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:23.440 when you were in that moment and he was saying 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:26.440 that line that you would just read to us, did 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:29.920 you did that scare you? And then also did that 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:32.280 scare you to get married or did that creep into 0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:34.880 your mind at all? And then also, now what do 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:35.640 you think about that? 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:38.560 Okay? I think I was very young at the time. 0:13:39.000 --> 0:13:42.320 So when I was twenty seven when I shot this, 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:45.960 I got married at twenty eight. Looking back, I was like, 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:50.000 I was a baby getting married. I felt. Now looking back, 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:53.600 I'm thinking, well, I was really young. But John and 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:58.600 I have been so close for so long. We met 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:01.920 each other in acting class back in Florida. He moved 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:04.720 out a year before me. We became roommates. Yes, we were. 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:07.680 I was like, I was like Chrissy from Three's Company, 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:12.320 Me and three guys, and we were always there for 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:15.360 each other. Long story short. I went away to work 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:17.200 and when I came back, he asked me to be 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:21.480 his girlfriend. He actually proposed three times. I turned him down. 0:14:21.480 --> 0:14:25.400 The first two one was water scuba diving and I 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:31.920 swam away like no, but with bubbles. The second time 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:34.040 he was on the beach at the same location. And 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:35.840 I was getting bit by bugs and I ran down 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:41.920 the beach. And then the third was in La Joya. 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:44.480 He got on a rock where we had like hell 0:14:44.520 --> 0:14:46.720 litt kissy time. Did I say kissy time? 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:48.600 You said kissy time? 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:52.960 I like that and I said yes. And then so 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:56.240 to cut back to your question, I don't think it 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:59.480 resonated at the time. I think I was so involved 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:02.440 in Chris Stycones nine two to zero, doing a good job, 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:09.280 working very method actor myself. And but I'm sure it 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:13.200 creeped in unsubconsciously, and you know. 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:14.120 Uh. 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:16.520 Steve also says, you know, who needs a commitment at 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:19.520 this age? You know, certainly not me? I say, you know, 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:23.120 and a very young voice. I don't. You know what's interesting? 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:27.400 I do feel like my voice has changed, Yeah, in 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:30.760 my olden age. What is up with that? 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:33.160 I think that that happens for people. 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:36.000 I think that like you, you tap into like a 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:39.600 voice that resonates with like your true, your truth, you know, 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:44.880 and that is less like HI, maybe less like nervous. 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:48.280 That kind of uncertainty is gone in your voice as 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:48.920 you get older. 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:50.920 It's happened to all of us. 0:15:50.760 --> 0:15:54.200 Right, I mean, we were babies, little girl. 0:15:54.040 --> 0:15:56.240 Babies, babies, little baby people. 0:15:56.480 --> 0:15:58.760 I do feel like when I hear my voice, it 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:03.560 hasn't quite. It hasn't quite how do I I know 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:06.360 what you're saying, but almost like a it hasn't settled 0:16:06.680 --> 0:16:09.960 into my you know, into my soul in a way. 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:14.800 My voice, yeah, current voice, No back then, thirty years ago. 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:17.400 When I hear my voice now, I mean, I'm just hyper. 0:16:17.640 --> 0:16:21.600 So that's christy. People ask if I drink coffee, I'm like, no, this. 0:16:21.680 --> 0:16:22.160 Is just me. 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:25.240 Just tea, just teek tee. 0:16:25.280 --> 0:16:26.880 I think I did have a little too much oolong 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:30.240 tea today, but it'll hit you the tea, the tea, 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:34.440 I think it. But I think I wasn't. I don't 0:16:34.440 --> 0:16:38.400 think it resonated at the time, but I did. Leading 0:16:38.520 --> 0:16:41.880 up to the wedding with John, I think I I 0:16:42.040 --> 0:16:44.520 was nervous. I was even nervous walking down the aisle. 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:48.480 I think because your whole life is flashing before you 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:52.680 of what is this? And and but we're best friends, 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:55.280 you know, we've been very I don't know how long 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:55.680 that is. 0:16:56.000 --> 0:16:57.800 No, you have to remember the number, because that I 0:16:57.840 --> 0:16:59.560 know I'm trying to do and I can't. 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:02.840 Nineteen ninety eight eight. 0:17:02.720 --> 0:17:04.840 And then I am twenty six year. 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:09.160 Seven, twenty six, twenty seven years, twenty seven. I think 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:11.640 that's it because my daughter was born in ninety seven. 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:12.760 She's twenty eight. 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:15.520 Now, Oh wow, that's a long time. 0:17:16.280 --> 0:17:18.199 Yeah, you've been married a long time. How do you 0:17:18.680 --> 0:17:19.359 keep it going? 0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:23.200 You know, marriage is ninety how do you keep the kissy? 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:23.440 Time? 0:17:23.480 --> 0:17:23.800 A lot? 0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:25.960 Good one? 0:17:26.480 --> 0:17:30.320 You know, I mean it. I think we both know 0:17:30.480 --> 0:17:35.720 that marriage does change. But we are each other's biggest supporter. 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:43.280 We create together art now but also babies together. But 0:17:43.760 --> 0:17:46.240 we're always there for each other. We always have each 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:48.879 other's back no matter what. And we've been through a lot. 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:50.919 Yeah, that's a long time. 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:54.240 Fly time, and we both you know, we're both growing up. 0:17:54.920 --> 0:17:59.919 And I think, where did I hear this? I don't know, 0:18:01.400 --> 0:18:03.680 maybe I read it. But it's really about being each 0:18:03.720 --> 0:18:06.800 other's best friend, I think. And I feel like even 0:18:06.880 --> 0:18:10.320 Christine Harry seemed like they really cared about each other, 0:18:10.320 --> 0:18:13.280 but they were friends, you know. And I think friendship 0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:18.840 is important because people do change and just getting older 0:18:18.840 --> 0:18:21.879 and having kids, and you know, the time that we 0:18:21.920 --> 0:18:24.960 get to spend with one another, I think kindness goes 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:28.640 a little long way too, you know. In relationships, whether 0:18:28.680 --> 0:18:33.679 it's a partner or a friend or a coworker, and 0:18:34.119 --> 0:18:37.640 just giving each other a break on where they are 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:39.719 in the moment. 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:41.080 I don't know. 0:18:41.160 --> 0:18:43.600 I feel like it's hard to say. 0:18:43.720 --> 0:18:45.520 What, why? 0:18:45.880 --> 0:18:48.720 How we you know, are still together. I think love 0:18:48.800 --> 0:18:51.880 has a lot to do with it, but also respect 0:18:51.880 --> 0:18:52.520 for one another. 0:18:52.760 --> 0:18:55.040 Yeah, I think you just summed it up like those 0:18:55.119 --> 0:18:59.560 are all the good qualities of a relationship, and you know, 0:18:59.600 --> 0:19:01.120 you go in and out of them, you lose sight 0:19:01.119 --> 0:19:03.080 of them, you return to them, and then that's how 0:19:03.080 --> 0:19:03.679 you're growing. 0:19:04.000 --> 0:19:07.040 You're so inspiring. I don't think to her, she's. 0:19:06.960 --> 0:19:09.640 Just like I could listen to you speak all day. 0:19:09.720 --> 0:19:12.000 I Oh my gosh, I feel like I'm talking too much. 0:19:12.040 --> 0:19:15.680 So no, this is your interview. What are you talking about? 0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:16.920 This is about you? 0:19:17.600 --> 0:19:31.040 Oh wait? 0:19:31.080 --> 0:19:33.080 What signs are you? Guys? Sorry? I don't know. 0:19:33.240 --> 0:19:38.320 Okay, what science? Here we go. Okay, I'm a Gemini. Okay, 0:19:38.840 --> 0:19:41.600 so June third, what about you? 0:19:42.600 --> 0:19:46.760 I'm a Taurus Jennys and Aries. Okay, my daughter is 0:19:46.800 --> 0:19:47.400 a Gemini. 0:19:48.280 --> 0:19:49.080 What's her birthday? 0:19:49.400 --> 0:19:49.960 June ninth? 0:19:50.520 --> 0:19:54.520 June ninth? So does she have two personalities? Like she? 0:19:54.520 --> 0:19:57.439 Can you really bubbly? And then also be like a 0:19:57.480 --> 0:19:58.640 hermit in her room. 0:19:58.800 --> 0:20:01.320 Those weren't the wording so I was going to use. 0:20:01.520 --> 0:20:04.639 But she's still teenager. 0:20:05.119 --> 0:20:08.879 Yeah, super kind thinks about everyone, does you know, and 0:20:08.920 --> 0:20:12.199 then has the like don't mess with me kind of 0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:16.600 really inspirational, strong personality that I don't have and I 0:20:16.600 --> 0:20:17.040 look up to. 0:20:17.160 --> 0:20:22.320 Actually, but yeah, amazing. No, I just like, I feel 0:20:22.320 --> 0:20:25.320 like I'm very energetic and very I love people. But 0:20:25.359 --> 0:20:27.360 then I can go my other gemini. 0:20:28.480 --> 0:20:31.160 My husband's a Gemini, so I can one hundred percent 0:20:31.280 --> 0:20:32.479 relate to what you're saying. 0:20:32.840 --> 0:20:35.440 And then I get really Probably after this I'll be like, 0:20:35.480 --> 0:20:37.720