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Speaker 2: At least I know, because ignorance is bliss. And now

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Speaker 3: Dead ass, dead ass. Bro.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I'm Kadeen and I'm Devoued and we're the Ellis's.

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Speaker 3: You may know us from posting funny videos.

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Speaker 2: With our voys and reading each other publicly as a

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Speaker 3: Wait, I'll make you need therapy most days. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Oh and one more important thing to mention, we're married.

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Speaker 3: Yes, sir, we are.

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Speaker 1: We created this podcast to open dialogue about some of

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Speaker 2: Things most folks don't want to talk about.

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Speaker 1: Through the lens of a millennial married couple. Dead ass

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Speaker 2: Dead ass starts right now.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to We're going to get into why this

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Speaker 2: Well well, well, well, well she was raised.

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Speaker 3: Yes, so you're saying your mom's a heathen. She's a heathen.

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Speaker 2: That's not what I said, but I want you to

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Speaker 4: They don't eat pork, they don't eat shrimp, crustacean crustaceans.

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Speaker 2: You can't eat it and I can't eat it. There's

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Speaker 3: One more time.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I'm thinking about all the things, oxtail,

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Speaker 2: Eating Right for Your Blood Type and trying to think, like, man,

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00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:18,240
Speaker 2: if my mom and I have the same blood type,

437
00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,720
Speaker 2: we both have the sickle cell trait, maybe some of

438
00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:24,040
Speaker 2: the things that she shouldn't be eating I shouldn't be eating.

439
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,840
Speaker 2: And as I'm approaching or I'm calling it the road

440
00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:30,720
Speaker 2: to forty, I really am being more deliberate about being

441
00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:33,880
Speaker 2: my best self and my most natural, wholesome self. So

442
00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:36,399
Speaker 2: I've removed the IUD from my body, so I'm no

443
00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:38,240
Speaker 2: longer on any kind of birth control. Thank you to

444
00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:40,960
Speaker 2: my husband over here for getting a sectomy so now

445
00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:42,960
Speaker 2: we can safely and I still.

446
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,160
Speaker 3: Haven't got a vaseectam party yet.

447
00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:46,520
Speaker 2: Guys, that was the Beyonce show.

448
00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,720
Speaker 1: I should still have not gotten a sect me gone to.

449
00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:52,600
Speaker 1: I haven't got a vasecta me cake yet.

450
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:53,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

451
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:54,600
Speaker 3: I have all the.

452
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,920
Speaker 1: Things that I'm supposed to get I haven't gotten. She'd

453
00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,879
Speaker 1: been to see Beyonce three times. Guys, you want to

454
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Speaker 1: go and fifth time.

455
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:04,000
Speaker 2: I'm a plan of a sectomy party because it means

456
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:05,920
Speaker 2: that much he told me for me party. I guess

457
00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:06,480
Speaker 2: you have to have.

458
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Speaker 1: It for you. You mean you guess you have to

459
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:10,920
Speaker 1: have it. Didn't you have a push present?

460
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:15,919
Speaker 3: H yes? Didn't you have a baby shower?

461
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 2: Huh?

462
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:18,960
Speaker 3: Yes?

463
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,120
Speaker 2: How you asked some the questions to answer them yourself.

464
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 1: Because there's questions we want to know, like what you

465
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:26,640
Speaker 1: can't eat and you not get into it.

466
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:29,440
Speaker 2: So now that Deval has done that and I'm off

467
00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:32,399
Speaker 2: of the hormones, right, that was one adjustment that I

468
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:34,960
Speaker 2: had to make. And I've seen a significant improvement in

469
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,960
Speaker 2: my skin already from and my skin and my energy

470
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 2: and my mood from not being on birth control right,

471
00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:44,199
Speaker 2: and also my sex drive is back up. But I'm like,

472
00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:47,680
Speaker 2: what more can I do to ensure that? Moving forward

473
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,919
Speaker 2: into my forties and beyond and trying to live my

474
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Speaker 2: best life and my healthiest life for my children so

475
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 2: that they don't have to take care of me when

476
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 2: I'm in my eighties and my nineties. What can I do?

477
00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 2: So I decided to see the doctor that my mom's

478
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,639
Speaker 2: saw and get an extensive blood work panel done for

479
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:06,480
Speaker 2: myself to check hormones, check allergies, and check all of

480
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:11,199
Speaker 2: the things that I should be looking into. And baby,

481
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 2: let me tell you I got my results back. Can

482
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 2: you pas me this folder right here?

483
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 3: Baby?

484
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:15,719
Speaker 2: Please the moment you've been waiting for.

485
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:17,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, she want to ask me to do stuff. Yeah,

486
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 1: I see, she want to ask me to do stuff.

487
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 1: Let me help you, all right, give me the folder.

488
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:23,400
Speaker 1: Let me see if it's fuller.

489
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,159
Speaker 3: I don't see. No plans for no psychtomy party.

490
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:27,120
Speaker 2: Shut up.

491
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,400
Speaker 3: So I want to be celebrated, Okay.

492
00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 2: I got you. Don't worry about that. I got you.

493
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:34,680
Speaker 2: Since it means that much to you, I got you.

494
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 2: So yes, I have a more extensive panel. It does.

495
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Speaker 2: It means a whole lot to me. I love you

496
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 2: for it.

497
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 3: I almost have my offsecting me a year ago October, so.

498
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,880
Speaker 2: We can celebrate the anniversary of this year. We can

499
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 2: celebrate the anniversary of it. So that being said, I

500
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 2: got my blood work back and I was astounded, astonished

501
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 2: for so many adjectives when I got the results back.

502
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:03,880
Speaker 2: So she pretty much gives you a bar graph and

503
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 2: it's labeled with different foods. You have dairy, you have eggs,

504
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:15,680
Speaker 2: meat and poultry, vegetables, herbs and spices, grains, nuts and seeds,

505
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:21,679
Speaker 2: legoons what lego beans is the general term for it.

506
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 3: Legoon like legoons. I never even knew that.

507
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:28,639
Speaker 1: I'm about what are my lagoon options when I go

508
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 1: to a restaurant?

509
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 3: What are my lagoon options?

510
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 2: What's how we went to this French restaurant and Devour

511
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 2: was ordering dessert and the option on there was for

512
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 2: a fruit plate and Develops like, I'll have the fruit platee.

513
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 2: And they were like, excuse me.

514
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 3: Your trip well, you laughing too loud over there? You

515
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 3: laughing too loud though it was in French.

516
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 2: Excuse me? He thought the ship was in French. Is

517
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 2: there a fruit plate? They were like, you mean the

518
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 2: fruit plate, sir, And he was like, hey, that he's there,

519
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 2: fruit platae. So now you can run around saying lagoons

520
00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 2: culture to talk about beans, greens, potatoes, tomatoes, you name

521
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 2: it their lagoons. Okay, then you have fish crustaceans, and

522
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 2: it's like a story that we've had for years that

523
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,400
Speaker 2: we have to share. So whenever we go out now

524
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 2: and there is a fruit plate on the menu, I'm like,

525
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 2: you can't order the fruit plaatee.

526
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 3: Make sure you have a fruit plat at my second as.

527
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 2: Sure as hell will. I have several enligus too, Yes,

528
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 2: fish crustaceans and molluks, and there's fruit and then miscellaneous,

529
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 2: and then there's a candida, which is a yeas screening.

530
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 2: So I'm going to tell you everything that I can't

531
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 2: eat that I'm highly alertic to that I have been

532
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 2: consuming like a mug all my life. Top of the

533
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 2: list dairy cheddar cheese, cow's milk. Way, I need to

534
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 2: be dairy free. According to my blood work, I should

535
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,199
Speaker 2: not be ingesting any sort of dairy, so, you know,

536
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 2: milks and stuff like that, which is kind of okay

537
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 2: because I don't drink milk really, and if I do

538
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 2: drink milk, I drink CASHW milk, which I actually enjoy.

539
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 2: So I drink that because I enjoy it, but I

540
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 2: do every now and again get a little two percent

541
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 2: cow's milk organic to dip my chocolate chip cookie in.

542
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 2: And then my heart broke even more when I found

543
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 2: out I am allergic to chocolate. The cocoa bean on

544
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 2: the scale on that list, okay, it goes like a

545
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 2: green to a red. I am literally in the red

546
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:29,160
Speaker 2: for chocolate, y'all. When I take my edible at night

547
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 2: and I want a little snack, the first thing I

548
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:33,880
Speaker 2: reach for is chocolate.

549
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 1: Always to be chocolate all in the bag. It's I

550
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: wake up in the morning, It's just chocolate in the bed.

551
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, this is terrible.

552
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 2: CoDeeN alertic to cocoa bean.

553
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 3: It's a good thing. I'm caramel.

554
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:48,120
Speaker 2: That was cute.

555
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:48,679
Speaker 3: That was cute.

556
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 2: Beef, we can't have ax steel again?

557
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 3: Oh you mean.

558
00:25:55,960 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 2: You mean? So that's steak? I sail burgers. And I

559
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 2: won't say I eat red meat super often, but every

560
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 2: now and again, I want to go to a steakhouse

561
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 2: and get me a nice you know ribbi me.

562
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 3: You can, and you can, you can, but I'm.

563
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 2: Just gonna have to be prepared to be inflamed after

564
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 2: eating something like that. Like, do I want to have

565
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 2: to deal with that?

566
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 3: That's a good point.

567
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 2: The chicken egg white and yolk severely allergic.

568
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 3: She been eating.

569
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: Y'all been talking about how she's been losing so much weight,

570
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: which is crazy to me because you've been losing weight

571
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,679
Speaker 1: eating these things. Now we have to admit you have

572
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 1: been dealing with some inflammation. But I haven't been eggs

573
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 1: every day, egg whites every day.

574
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: I told y'all on a previous episode about in me

575
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,720
Speaker 2: trying to get back after you know, the kids and whatnot.

576
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 2: On my nutrition journey, I've been drinking egg whites Like

577
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 2: I literally would take a cup of egg whites and

578
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 2: put a little bit of that toffee sweetener in it

579
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 2: and drink it to get your proteine. And like you said,

580
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 2: it's amazing to me because I'm seeing my body transform

581
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 2: every day and I do feel out of aches and

582
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,680
Speaker 2: pains and stuff in my joints, and I'm thinking, man,

583
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,959
Speaker 2: I'm just approaching forty. So this is when the shit starts, right,

584
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 2: this is when the turn up happens. But she said

585
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 2: inflammation leads the toxins, which leads the diseases, and that's

586
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 2: essentially what's happening. So it may be beneficial to achieve

587
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 2: the things I want to achieve, but internally there's things

588
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 2: festering there I may not see. So the things that

589
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 2: I can have periodically chicken, lamb, turkey maybe three or

590
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 2: four times a week. My most compatible ahead, my most

591
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:35,919
Speaker 2: compatible go ahead, which read the lowest on the chart. Pork.

592
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 3: Now you're welcome.

593
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 1: You want to know why I say you're welcome, pork, y'all?

594
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 1: It was this country boy, well a city boy whose

595
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: families from the country, who introduced you to all the

596
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 1: different ways that you can use pork, baby, And that's

597
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: why you looking good the way you look now eating

598
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: pork blew my mind.

599
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 3: So bacon on it.

600
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 2: So me saying that I probably would never give up

601
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 2: bacon if I gave up the rest the pig. Now

602
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 2: now I have to go part taking more pigs.

603
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:06,440
Speaker 3: Go eat the pig, put bacon on it. It's good

604
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 3: for your blood time.

605
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 2: Like you used to do.

606
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 1: But isn't it crazy though, that while we've fallen into

607
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: this idea that you only have to eat a certain

608
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 1: way to achieve the maximum potential from your body, rather

609
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 1: than listening to our body. It kind of goes in

610
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,199
Speaker 1: synergy to what we're talking about, right, We as a

611
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:29,239
Speaker 1: couple tried to listen to everybody else's ideas of what

612
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: was going to make our relationship work, and it didn't work.

613
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: Our relationship was inflamed. And it wasn't until we started

614
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: listening to ourselves, testing ourselves that we figured out, Hey,

615
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 1: this works for us. It's literally the same thing with

616
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: food and your body.

617
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 2: The analogy.

618
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: Think about it, baby, that's that was deep, right, I

619
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 1: was deep. I was, I was, I was. I was

620
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: in here like porking your stomach, baby, giving you that.

621
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 2: Good easy digestion, not inflamed.

622
00:28:54,440 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: No inflammation, no Toxesach baby over here, baby, say I

623
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: want that pork.

624
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 3: I'll put that pork in my stomache. Let me put

625
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 3: that pork.

626
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 2: In, man, because it does a body good. Furthermore, it

627
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 2: says that my nutrition journey and my route to getting

628
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 2: back to what I want to be is not going

629
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 2: to be the same for everybody. Things are not compatible

630
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 2: with me that can be compatible for you. So for example,

631
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 2: my mom and having her issues didn't even show up

632
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 2: on her.

633
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 3: She can have she.

634
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: Wants, and you're a descendant of your mom, you would

635
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 1: think that y'all would have similar.

636
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 2: Things, which, in turn, I asked the doctor about this

637
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,719
Speaker 2: eating right for your blood type thing. Seen as though

638
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,959
Speaker 2: my mom and I have the same blood type, maybe

639
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 2: our profile should be the exact same, and it's not.

640
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 3: Y'all have the same blood type and it's different and

641
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 3: it's different.

642
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 2: So that blood reading eating right for your blood type

643
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 2: thing is probably loosely based on because everybody's so different.

644
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 2: Your genetic makeup may be similar but also different because

645
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 2: my dad's side.

646
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 3: Now, because the book.

647
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: Said, if you're this blood type, you should eat these

648
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 1: foods right, But it's not the same because you and

649
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: your mom have the same.

650
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you were just talking to me. Here you go.

651
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 1: Burping and getting hiccups in the way while I'm talking to.

652
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 3: My bad trouble. I just felt it. I stopped. I

653
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 3: stopped it, so you can cut it. You know what

654
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 3: I'm saying, My bad job.

655
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: Y'all ever heard me burp on the podcast, It ain't

656
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Speaker 1: it ain't my for k remind me that I was doing.

657
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 2: Because she got to listen to the ship and edit it. Right.

658
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 2: But so mom can eat beef, I can't. But we

659
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 2: both share the same dairy allergy, so we both can't have.

660
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 3: Dairy well, I mean half of your genetic makeup comes

661
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 3: from your.

662
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 2: My dad and da exactly, which makes me think even

663
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Speaker 2: further it would be interesting if my father did this,

664
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Speaker 2: so we can see the whole comparison here right. In

665
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 2: terms of vegetables, I'm pretty decent in most of them,

666
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 2: with the exception of carrot. I'm super allergic to carrot.

667
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 2: The funny thing is my mom hated carrots growing up

668
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 2: as a kid, so she never gave us carrots, so

669
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 2: I never grew up really eating carrots like that. I

670
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 2: try to introduce them to our kids that don't want

671
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 2: them to not eat them because I didn't eat them,

672
00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 2: and as parents, you kind of tend to do that.

673
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 2: You grow up in the house where y all eat

674
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 2: the same thing. But I do have a slight irritation

675
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 2: to tomato, and in looking at this again, it's moderate.

676
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 2: So I can have tomato, but probably on like a

677
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 2: rotating three to four times a week basis, which is

678
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 2: okay with me. Spices and herbs, coriander, I'm super alertic too,

679
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:21,959
Speaker 2: don't really cook with coriander. But the Corey poda. You

680
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 2: want to tell a Jamaican Vincenia and girl, she can't have.

681
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 3: Corey Jamaican and Indian.

682
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 2: Bro, Look at here. Curry powder for me is just

683
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 2: hitting the high mark. So we can't have currey chicken

684
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 2: corey go Speaking of which, I have to see what golat?

685
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 2: Where goat falls on this?

686
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 3: I think it's beef.

687
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 2: Is golt technically cut beef? Yeah? I feel like I

688
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 2: want to eat. I want to exist in the space

689
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 2: of ignorance and not even ask, so I can eat

690
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 2: my goat every now and again.

691
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: But I just want you to hear her at rationale.

692
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: That's the same rationale she used for the Vasectam party.

693
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 1: I'm operating a place of ignorance and act like I

694
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: don't know what he's talking about.

695
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 3: So I don't got to throw this man of a

696
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 3: sectamy party. I'm not letting it go. I just want

697
00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 3: you to see the synergies in her mindset.

698
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 2: Bro. But you want to tell a Jamken Vincen that

699
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 2: she can't have curry, that means doll. I love curry

700
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 2: eggplant or curry balangi as my father says in his country,

701
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 2: curry shrimp, all of that highly highly, well not highly.

702
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 2: I'm just hitting the high mark. I'm just hitting the

703
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 2: high mark on it.

704
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 3: Let mean, wait, wait, wait, wait, is it cury?

705
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 2: Curry? Powder's right here, it's in the red. It's pretty

706
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 2: much in the red. But again, am I eating curry now?

707
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 2: Because we have been a little curried out lately.

708
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: If you eat curry every two weeks, I don't think

709
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 1: that that's a big I agree, you know what I'm saying,

710
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: Because it's fifty two weeks in a year.

711
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 3: So if you eat it every two weeks, so it's

712
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 3: not every week.

713
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 1: You eat it twenty five times out of three hundred

714
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 1: and sixty five days, right, and in three hundred and

715
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 1: sixty five days, some three meals you looking at over

716
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 1: one thousand meals. If you eat curry twenty five times,

717
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: I doubt you know, twenty five times.

718
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 3: With one thousand meals, that's less than two percent.

719
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. No part of me was wondering if

720
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 2: I do introduce any of these things that I'm allergic to,

721
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 2: if my body's in a good place, will it like

722
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 2: set off some kind of reaction. So part of me

723
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 2: feels like I want to do the detox program with her,

724
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 2: and I want to kind of see an experiment because

725
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 2: she said you will, Like she said, nothing here, anybody

726
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 2: does one hundred percent. So when she puts me on

727
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 2: this detox program right to get rid of the build

728
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 2: up of east I have in my system because I

729
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 2: have it as well. I'm curious to see how things

730
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 2: will negatively impact my body moving forward, or how stellar

731
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 2: my body could be if I then remove these things

732
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 2: from my diet. So onto grains, Throw the whole grains away.

733
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 2: Just throw the whole fucking throw the entire thing away.

734
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 2: Look at this barley, gluten oaked. I love me a

735
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 2: bowl of oatmeal, no.

736
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 3: Corn, okay, grist me.

737
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: You marrying a Southern black man saved your life between

738
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: pork and grits, baby bacon at well the age you

739
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: can have bacon and grits in the more and it

740
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 1: was good for you.

741
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 3: That's why you thick the way you think.

742
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 2: And I'm thinking to me, like that's starch and fat, Like,

743
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: where's the protein in that?

744
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 3: You're welcome?

745
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 2: Where's the protein in that You're welcome? But baby, I'm

746
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:11,280
Speaker 2: gonna be eating more grits.

747
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,760
Speaker 3: Clearly that's gonna talk about. Baby. Grits is winning. Remember

748
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:15,320
Speaker 3: we had the grits versus porridge battle.

749
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 2: Yes we won, But but I'm gonna have to have

750
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 2: the grits savory because I'm allergic to cane sugar, y'all,

751
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:27,320
Speaker 2: because you are. You know that's true. The abundance of sweetness. Insiders,

752
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 2: they're like, you neededymore, says I did that, y'all, but

753
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:31,240
Speaker 2: sugar cane.

754
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 3: Like what moderation.

755
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 2: I'm a rum drinker. I'm gonna drink my rum. I'm

756
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 2: going to have my own rum one day. Moderation And

757
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 2: that's just what it is, moderation.

758
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 3: Think about it.

759
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 1: Even if you sip say you were to sip a

760
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 1: bit of rum every day, right, every day you have

761
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: three meals a day, You've been drinking water all day,

762
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 1: and you sip on a glass of rum with a

763
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: nice big ice cube, a nice little, nice rum.

764
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 3: Straight, that's not bad. Even if you do it every day.

765
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 1: It's three hundred and sixty five days out a year.

766
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 1: You have over a thousand meals. Right, that's if you

767
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 1: did it every day. You're not gonna sip rum every day.

768
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 1: So you say you sip rum every other day, you

769
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,439
Speaker 1: cut it in half. One hundred and fifty little things

770
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 1: a rum over a thousand meal.

771
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 2: You know what I love so much about you? Whereas

772
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 2: I came in thinking like, oh my god, my life

773
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:21,720
Speaker 2: is all work because I can't have any of this stuff.

774
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 2: You're over here saying, babe, this is the bright side. Yes,

775
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 2: that's such a youth thing, and I love you and

776
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 2: I appreciate you for that. But man, this blew my mind.

777
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 2: It blew my mind. I can't have lentils in the

778
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 2: lagomes category. Soybeans, well, soy is bad anyway because it

779
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 2: produces estrogen in the body, so you shouldn't really have that.

780
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 2: Wheat severely allergic to that. When it comes to nuts

781
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 2: and seeds, almonds probably my most favorite one.

782
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,800
Speaker 3: Taking any more nut.

783
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 2: Damn, damn, Sorry about that, babe.

784
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:52,720
Speaker 3: Damn got the most protein though.

785
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 2: Yeah it does, it does well. Your nut is not

786
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 2: potent anymore. And then we haven't had the vaseectonmy party yet,

787
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:00,840
Speaker 2: so we'll see how that people.

788
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 1: Matter fora We're gonna do a whole podcast when I

789
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 1: have is rejected to be partying.

790
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 2: You will have it, watch it, trust me, you'll have one.

791
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:07,280
Speaker 2: Don't worry about it. I wanted to be grand.

792
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 3: If the protein is everywhere, no, they will not pause that.

793
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 3: What are you talking about?

794
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 2: You have a big old penis cake with a little

795
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 2: band aid on the nuts.

796
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 1: First of all, they didn't cut my penis.

797
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 3: They cut my nuts, all right.

798
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: But I wonder though if the nut potency of the

799
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 1: protein levels in the nut dropped because there's no more

800
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: kids in there.

801
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 2: But we wouldn't know that because you haven't gone back

802
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 2: to get checked.

803
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 3: We do know that because you're not pregnant.

804
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 2: We was, we was. We was a little touch and

805
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 2: go with that one. It's a good thing that I

806
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 2: stayed on birth control for a lot.

807
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: You're not pregnant, and it's been in the amount of

808
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 1: stuff that's been going on here over these last couple

809
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: of months, you would have been pregnant, you know what

810
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Plus you way more in a way better shape, you,

811
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: way more fertile now your hormones, you'd have been pregnant.

812
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 3: So we know.

813
00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 1: But I am concerned about the amount of protein that

814
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: is in my nut nets.

815
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 2: So we may probably go get a tested and see.

816
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 2: We'll do a whole Patreon episode on that. We can

817
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 2: go back and get your your seedmen tested and we

818
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 2: can see so almonds, walnuts, chestnuts, macadamia nuts, hazel nuts, peanuts,

819
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: you can't none of that ships, None of that these

820
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 2: nuts I should have asked her. I'm like, can I

821
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 2: just at least hold on to my husband's That's the

822
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 2: only one I'm really interested in anyway, Right, So I

823
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 2: want to be replacing my oat milk almond milk with

824
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 2: cashew milk, now ya, I mean sorry, with cashew milk

825
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:34,479
Speaker 2: or coconut milk or pea milk I can use as well.

826
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 2: Don't even go there with THEE.

827
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,879
Speaker 3: I'm not going p E milk.

828
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 2: In the fish crustaceans malas category, I can have all

829
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 2: the things you know how hype, I will be things

830
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 2: you Gucci, all the things you.

831
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,760
Speaker 3: Can have fish, shrimp, livester crab you Gucci.

832
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 2: That just goes to show that my taste is innately

833
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 2: expensive because look at that all of the things that

834
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 2: look at that low. Everything is in the green lo

835
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:05,879
Speaker 2: lo lo lo lo. Everything should be carrying lifestyle with

836
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 2: no dairy and no eggs and no gluten essentially.

837
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 3: Which is not a bad lifestyle. WI.

838
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 1: You don't have to be vegan, no, you know what

839
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm saying, But you can you can have like almost.

840
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,319
Speaker 2: Vegan almost almost with the ascension, with the exception of

841
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 2: the fish category. But yes, with the egg free, gluten free,

842
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 2: that's essentially dairy free. It's like vegan, so cheeses I

843
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 2: would have to do like vegan cheeses, which.

844
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 3: Is not a bad health choice. It's really not nice.

845
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 3: You get to live a healthier life. I can still

846
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 3: live in moderations.

847
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 2: That's my mindset with it. That's you know, I've let

848
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,400
Speaker 2: it's soaking overnight because it's literally I'm doing this episode

849
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 2: the day after I got my results.

850
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 3: So let's let's make a plan. Okay, you get to

851
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 3: eat beef once a week.

852
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even do that. I don't even need it

853
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 2: that much. I don't eat beef once a week that much.

854
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 1: So then every other week, yeah, that's twenty five times.

855
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 2: If the beef is there and I want to have it,

856
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 2: I might take a bite or two.

857
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 3: But that's the whole point.

858
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 1: The point is when people get this not to be

859
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 1: like oh doom and gloom, right, is to really think

860
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: about your life and be like, you know what if

861
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: I had to make a choice in this moment to

862
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: eat something that I know was going to cause inflammation

863
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 1: in my body or eat something else. For example, if

864
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 1: you're out, let me not get a hamburger, let me

865
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 1: get a chicken salad or.

866
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 2: Let me get a turkey burger or burger bean burger

867
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 2: with bacon.

868
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:18,399
Speaker 3: You see what I'm saying.

869
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: That's the choice you make the spirit, and that's that's

870
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: how you get better.

871
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 2: And I implore everybody too. I mean, even if you're

872
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 2: not getting a test this extensive, just understand that what's

873
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 2: good for you is not good for somebody else, Which

874
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 2: makes me even think even further. Once you get your

875
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 2: results and you take you in, what about it. If we

876
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,240
Speaker 2: were to test all four of our boys, It's crazy.

877
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 2: This house would probably look insane with the amount of

878
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 2: things that they can and can't have. You know what

879
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 2: might because we realized recently Kikaz has a crab allergy

880
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 2: just from.

881
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,760
Speaker 3: Introducing we didn't we didn't get confirmation, we didn't.

882
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 2: We assume that it was because that was the one

883
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 2: thing that he had that he had never had that

884
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 2: gave him a little bit of a.

885
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 3: Little bit of action. Yeah, but how much did this

886
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 3: test costs?

887
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 2: So this testing, I think if you're doing blood alone,

888
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 2: it's twelve hundred. And that's the only thing that is

889
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 2: the downside with going to a.

890
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 3: Doctor who's investment.

891
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 2: We say downside, I mean it may not be cost effective,

892
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 2: cost effective or feasible for many people to just go

893
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 2: and do this test.

894
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 1: I'm not taking that as an excuse. I'm gonna tell

895
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: you why, Okay, gonna tell you why.

896
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 2: They can just finish this real quick so that way

897
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:22,799
Speaker 2: we can just okay, and just to round it off,

898
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 2: so I let you guys know, I'm severely allergid to cantalope.

899
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 2: Guava is up there as well too. I don't have

900
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 2: either often. Orange and papaya are kind of high up

901
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 2: there as well too, and I can kind of partake

902
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 2: in any other fruit after that, brewers yeast, cane, sugar, chocolate,

903
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 2: sunflower seeds, and then I have an abundance of candida

904
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 2: in my blood, so that's where it goes. And I'm

905
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 2: also doing a saliva and stool sample test that I

906
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:48,279
Speaker 2: have to start doing this week, so I'm getting in

907
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 2: the complete work up. But go on to say that, babe,

908
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 2: and I think I know where you're gonna go with.

909
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 3: We're going to go with this stool sample like that.

910
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 2: That's why you don't even need to be in my

911
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 2: business that much.

912
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 3: We put that out there. I put that out there

913
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 3: do not ask me to help you with that.

914
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,479
Speaker 2: I'm letting them know. The total package the blood work alone,

915
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 2: I believe is like twelve or fifteen hundred, and then

916
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,320
Speaker 2: if you're doing the stool and saliva sample and everything,

917
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 2: I feel like the total cost for everything to get

918
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 2: your entire work up. And that's also in addition to

919
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 2: the allergy test. I did a basic CBC panel. She

920
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 2: tested my glucose, sodium, potassium, magnesium. I have low iron,

921
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 2: low magnesium, My bag clestero is a little high. So

922
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:23,799
Speaker 2: there's a lot of things that are kind of an

923
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 2: effect of having the inflammation in my body now that

924
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 2: I have to rid my body of. So total with

925
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 2: everything was about thirty five hundred. But I think just

926
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:34,720
Speaker 2: for the blood price to pay this for the blood,

927
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 2: but I think that's a small price to pay to

928
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 2: at least know and that second investment for me in

929
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:40,479
Speaker 2: the rest of my life.

930
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:41,879
Speaker 3: Now me, I would do it this way.

931
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: Say, say we were in a position where we were

932
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 1: when we first got back to Brooklyn, right, and this

933
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 1: is something I really want to focus on. Remember, the

934
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:53,720
Speaker 1: younger you start this, the younger you will remain. For example,

935
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: we're all fighting the aging process the only thing you're

936
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: guaranteed in life is death. Yeah, from the minute you

937
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 1: start living, you start dying. Right, you're preparing yourself to

938
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 1: live as long as you can. How do you prepare

939
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: yourself to live as long as you can trying to

940
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 1: remain as young as possible by being healthy, right, working out,

941
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: eating right. If we were twenty six twenty seven year

942
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 1: old Devo right just got kicked out of the NFL,

943
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 1: had moved back to Brooklyn, this is something that I

944
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: would say, you know what, for the next year, I'm

945
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: going to save one hundred dollars a month and put

946
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 1: it in my blood sample test fund at the end

947
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 1: of the year. For the top of next year, I'm

948
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: going to take my blood tests twelve hundred dollars, find

949
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 1: out what I can they cannot eat, do another test,

950
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 1: I mean, do another year of changing the way I diet.

951
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 1: But then at the end of the next year, I

952
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 1: have another twelve hundred dollars do a separate part of

953
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 1: the test. This is not something you all have to

954
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: do at one time time and I don't want to

955
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: make people feel like them. I can't afford thirty six

956
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: hundred dollars, so it can't be healthy. Yes, you can

957
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 1: be healthy, especially if you sacrifice, because you know what

958
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 1: the sacrifice is. When you're not willing to sacrifice for

959
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 1: the things that you want, the sacrifice becomes the thing

960
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 1: that you want.

961
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 2: Man, listen, you know what I'm saying.

962
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:09,720
Speaker 1: If you're not willing to sacrifice for the things you want,

963
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:11,839
Speaker 1: the sacrifice becomes the thing you want.

964
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 2: No, it's that you're absolutely right about that. And think

965
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 2: about how many things you put on layaway, how many

966
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 2: things you're like, oh, I'm trying to go on this trip.

967
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 2: So every month, I'm gonna put towards this for this trip,

968
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 2: you know where, You're probably gonna eat and drink your

969
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:24,880
Speaker 2: life away, which is fine because we all deserve that

970
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 2: we do the same thing to that. But it's like,

971
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 2: I have four children and a husband to live for.

972
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 2: I do not want to be in my sixties and

973
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 2: seventies and dealing with you know, hypertension and diabetes and

974
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 2: all that, and then my children now have to then

975
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 2: turn in turn take care of me because I was

976
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 2: not responsible enough to take care of myself when I

977
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 2: could and I was able to. You know better, you

978
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:51,799
Speaker 2: should do better. Absolutely absolutely, So we are going to

979
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 2: do a Patreon episode where Daval goes in for his

980
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 2: blood work and gets his results and we'll chat with

981
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 2: the doctor too. I'm just waiting to get permission from

982
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 2: her to be able to do all of this and

983
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 2: speak openly about her works, which I'm sure she would

984
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 2: love to do, because she herself said too. Within our community,

985
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 2: specifically the Black community, the Caribbean community, the Black American community,

986
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 2: we just don't know about her line of work, and

987
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 2: it's harder to sometimes even afford it. But there are

988
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 2: ways to make it happen. And she doesn't deal with

989
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 2: just this component of health and wellness. She sees people

990
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 2: who suffer from all kinds of diseases and ailments, down

991
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,240
Speaker 2: to cancer patients. I mean, she has an entire wellness

992
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 2: facility where she does colonics, hyperbaric chambers, detoxes, all of that.

993
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 1: That tastes so funny. I think this will get black

994
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 1: men to commit to this, right, Okay. I had a

995
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 1: black man send me a DM that he found out

996
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 1: that he had high blood pressure, so he went he

997
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 1: had to take his blood pressure medication, but the blood

998
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 1: pressure medication doesn't give him a rectile dysfunction, so he

999
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 1: was just like bro like, what can I do? Because

1000
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,919
Speaker 1: he knew that I was in exercise physiology, in kinesiology,

1001
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:03,320
Speaker 1: so he was like, what can I do to lower

1002
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: my blood pressure so I don't have to take this medication.

1003
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: But this is a message to black men. If you

1004
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:11,919
Speaker 1: start focusing on your health when you're younger, it can

1005
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 1: help your libido last longer.

1006
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 3: Because here is the truth.

1007
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 1: Women start to get into their sexual peak late thirties forties.

1008
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 2: Maybe that's where I'm at.

1009
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:26,400
Speaker 1: Imagine, imagine your woman is now hitting her sexual peak

1010
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: and you can't keep up because of all of those

1011
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 1: years of drinking poorly, not exercising, eating poorly, smoking the

1012
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:37,120
Speaker 1: wrong things. But imagine now if you can reverse the

1013
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:39,919
Speaker 1: clock and feel like you're twenty two.

1014
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,239
Speaker 2: In your forties, that would be.

1015
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 1: So that you and your significant other can enjoy that

1016
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: love life. That is what I think black men would

1017
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: sign up for and be like, you know what if

1018
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,720
Speaker 1: I could extend my love life to enjoy it, because

1019
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 1: a lot of black men say, you can't even really

1020
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 1: enjoy your love life because financially you can't even afford

1021
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 1: the type of women that you want to share that with.

1022
00:45:57,880 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 1: And then finally when you get it you're in your thirties,

1023
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: your forties, and now your libido has dropped, right, you

1024
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I've had I've spoken to a

1025
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: lot of black men about this. You feel that way,

1026
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: This is a way, and I want to do a.

1027
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 3: Whole podcast about that.

1028
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: On health even you know, because we're supposed to go

1029
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: to chiropractor, Well, you went to the chiropractor. Took me

1030
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: to the chiropractor, and I learned a lot about the

1031
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 1: degenerative properties in my spine because of all of the

1032
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,240
Speaker 1: training I've been doing as a professional aspright.

1033
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 2: Or even in your spine at the top, from just

1034
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 2: holding your head down being on your phone, like we

1035
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 2: all are guilty of that.

1036
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 1: So just just and even even my flexibility in my hips,

1037
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 1: my alignment was on. There were certain moves I used

1038
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 1: to do when I was you know what I'm saying,

1039
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 1: when we was in college.

1040
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 2: To be in the moves when I'm like, yo, I

1041
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 2: can't even open my.

1042
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 3: Leg like that.

1043
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 2: You retired the move, Like, you can't retire the move.

1044
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,799
Speaker 4: We can't get that shit, Bay, I didn't retire because

1045
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 4: after we went to the chiropractor, I've been getting these

1046
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:50,399
Speaker 4: adjustments doing a decompression.

1047
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 1: Yes, I've gotten a lot more flexible. Yes, but I

1048
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 1: have done a better job things to my wife. And

1049
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 1: we're going to do a whole podcast on how Kadeen

1050
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 1: and I have turned into our grandparents, where Kadeen goes places,

1051
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 1: gets blood work done, gets this checked out, and then

1052
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: she drags me there and.

1053
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't want to do this, but then

1054
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 3: I learned so much about it.

1055
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, So we'll do a podcast about black men being

1056
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 1: more intentional about their health and wellness so that they

1057
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: can be great partners. Listen, in every aspect just being

1058
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 1: here healthy, but also being a good sexual partner for

1059
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:22,479
Speaker 1: your wife.

1060
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to get keep especially when it comes

1061
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 2: to my husband, Like, we're doing this life together till

1062
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 2: the wheels fall off, and if I know more that

1063
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 2: can help us, I'm going to do more, and I

1064
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:34,840
Speaker 2: want to bring you along. And I'm not keeping this

1065
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 2: information for y'all either, because in this community that we

1066
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 2: have here Dead Ass Podcast, We're going to tell you

1067
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 2: guys everything that we've learned to help our life to

1068
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 2: make it that much better, that much more enjoyable, and

1069
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,319
Speaker 2: how we can ride off into the sunset, baby right,

1070
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 2: off into the sunset healthily and enjoying the rest of

1071
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 2: the life that we have. All right, y'all, So this

1072
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 2: is kind of going to be a two be continued

1073
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 2: episode because once de Val gets his ress elson, we'll

1074
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:03,319
Speaker 2: probably do another episode and he'll let you guys know

1075
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 2: all the things that he cannot consume anymore and how

1076
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 2: we're working through that tickeet.

1077
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,799
Speaker 1: Adjustments together, because what if my thing is opposite from hers,

1078
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:12,879
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna expect her to make two dinners every

1079
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 1: night and I'm going so we're gonna figure how to

1080
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: make it work.

1081
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 3: So we'll see what I get my blood, sure, and

1082
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 3: we'll see.

1083
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 2: How works, and we're going to see how that trickles

1084
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:20,879
Speaker 2: down to the kids. All right, So stay tuned look

1085
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 2: forward to that. We're gonna pay some bills and come

1086
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 2: back with listener letters.

1087
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 3: All right, we're back now.

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00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:40,359
Speaker 2: We are back, and let's get into these lists first

1089
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 2: real quickly on go yes, all right? Do you think?

1090
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 3: All right? Number one?

1091
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 1: I love how much you guys love each other and

1092
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 1: how open you are. Your book is helping me give

1093
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 1: grace in my relationship now and understanding who he is

1094
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:52,840
Speaker 1: rather than trying to control how he is with me.

1095
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: That's what's up, man, That's what we want for everybody. Love,

1096
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 1: peace and happiness. I knew my boyfriend for twenty plus years.

1097
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,360
Speaker 1: We were friends since your high school. We got together

1098
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 1: in our early twenties, but ended up separating because he

1099
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: was immature and wanted to deal with multiple women at once.

1100
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: We reconnected in twenty nineteen and started having friendly conversation.

1101
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 1: It began to feel like old times, and in my heart,

1102
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: I felt like he was the one. He is the one,

1103
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: He's my soulmate. We took the leap of faith. But

1104
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 1: in between the time we separated, I had two children.

1105
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 3: Backstory.

1106
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 1: During the time we reconnected as friends, I was going

1107
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 1: through a horrible breakup with my children's father. He would

1108
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,879
Speaker 1: leave the house and not return till the next day

1109
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 1: to shower and do it all over again, and would

1110
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 1: leave me to take care of the children alone. My

1111
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: boyfriend has stepped in and been an amazing father figure

1112
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 1: to my children, and now their father is making it

1113
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:44,879
Speaker 1: difficult for us by doing little petty things to try

1114
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:47,359
Speaker 1: to provoke my boyfriend and send sheriffs to my home

1115
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 1: to try to get custody of the children. When he's

1116
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: seen I moved on. How do I go forward handling

1117
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:56,240
Speaker 1: this situation without jeopardizing my relationship?

1118
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 2: Damn girl, I feel like we know people who in

1119
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 2: this situation.

1120
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 3: Point.

1121
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:07,240
Speaker 1: She said that she moved on from her best friend

1122
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: because he was being immature and wanted to deal with

1123
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 1: different women. So then she went and got with a

1124
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 1: guy who was meeting with different women and had children

1125
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:20,359
Speaker 1: with that guy. This is what I want to point out.

1126
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 1: Sometimes when people are honest with you about what they

1127
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 1: need or require, that moment you run from the honesty.

1128
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: Remember you said ignorance is bliss. You ran from the

1129
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 1: honesty with someone who told you what he wanted to

1130
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: deal with, to deal with someone who was going to

1131
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:35,400
Speaker 1: give you a situation of ignorance is bliss.

1132
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 3: Yes, you don't know that he's dealing with other.

1133
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:42,280
Speaker 1: Women, but he is. And you had two children with him. Interesting,

1134
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:45,720
Speaker 1: And now the guy that you said was immature quote unquote,

1135
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:47,800
Speaker 1: and you knew he was dealing with other you know

1136
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:49,400
Speaker 1: he was dealing with other women. You coming back to

1137
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 1: him because he's a better person. I'm saying this to

1138
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,320
Speaker 1: you not as a woman, but as a person. Sometimes

1139
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:56,920
Speaker 1: when people give you the truth, don't run from the

1140
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 1: truth because it's not what you want to hear except

1141
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: the truth, because that's where that person is in that moment,

1142
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: even if they're even if where they are in that moment,

1143
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,800
Speaker 1: you don't want to deal with that's a good person

1144
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: because they're they're giving you the truth, and that's usually

1145
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:13,360
Speaker 1: what people want. Yes, you say you want the truth.

1146
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you deal with him exclusively. But

1147
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 1: don't go settle with someone who's gonna lie to you

1148
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:21,840
Speaker 1: because you don't want to deal with someone who's giving

1149
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:22,320
Speaker 1: you the truth.

1150
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:23,839
Speaker 3: That's the first thing I want to say. And that's

1151
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 3: the thing that's not a woman thing. Men do it too, right,

1152
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:27,480
Speaker 3: Men do it too.

1153
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 1: You got a woman who says she requires certain things

1154
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 1: in life, right, and then you're like, oh, she want

1155
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: too much. You want too much. So you go deal

1156
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 1: with a woman who's not going to tell you all

1157
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 1: the things she requires, but she's going to get all

1158
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 1: the things she require from other people.

1159
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:41,479
Speaker 2: Oh for sure.

1160
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 3: And now you feel messed up with just like man

1161
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 3: I thought. I was no no, no, no no.

1162
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 1: The woman that told you all the stuff she required,

1163
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 1: you ran from her because the accountability would have been

1164
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 1: that you if you want to be with her, have

1165
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,320
Speaker 1: to provide her with the stuff that she requires.

1166
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:56,719
Speaker 3: So you went to someone else who you.

1167
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 1: Thought required less, but they just decided not to tell

1168
00:51:59,920 --> 00:52:00,840
Speaker 1: you what they're required.

1169
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 3: It was getting it from other people.

1170
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:04,320
Speaker 2: It goes both ways, right, or didn't tell you and

1171
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 2: they expect you to miraculously deliver on these things that

1172
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:08,319
Speaker 2: you didn't even know they wanted to begin with because

1173
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 2: they didn't tell you.

1174
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 1: So the truth is stick with the people are going

1175
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:15,399
Speaker 1: to give you the truth, especially if you love them

1176
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 1: in a way that you know you're not going to

1177
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 1: find anywhere else.

1178
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:18,479
Speaker 3: That's the first part.

1179
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 1: The second part is dealing with your child's father. I

1180
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 1: have family members and friends who have significant others who

1181
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: are no longer in committed romantic relationships, but they share children.

1182
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: And a lot of times, the person who was mistreating

1183
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: the other person but doesn't want that person to move

1184
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 1: on to someone else's always the person who was doing

1185
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: the most shady stuff, and that man or woman they're

1186
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: doing the most shady stuff. I know baby mamas who

1187
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:56,720
Speaker 1: do shady stuff. I know baby daddies who do shady stuff.

1188
00:52:57,560 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 1: One thing I will tell you when it comes to

1189
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:01,280
Speaker 1: dealing with the shape the person. I know this works

1190
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 1: for a fact is to not converse or go back

1191
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:08,280
Speaker 1: and forth with them through conversations on the phone. Everything

1192
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: should be through text message or email as proof because

1193
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 1: now there's no argument around who said what or who

1194
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 1: provided what. Hey, let's do everything above board. You're going

1195
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: to communicate with me, communicate with me through text or email.

1196
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 3: Why I got to do all of that?

1197
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 1: This way, I can have a paper trail of what

1198
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:29,840
Speaker 1: was said, so that if I'm wrong, and this is

1199
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:32,440
Speaker 1: what happens if you always put it on them, they

1200
00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 1: feel like you're doing it because you want to prove

1201
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 1: them wrong. No, you just say, I want the paper

1202
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:39,879
Speaker 1: trail so that if I'm wrong, you can point out

1203
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 1: to me that, hey, remember you said this, and I

1204
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: can be like, you know what I did say that.

1205
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 1: Let me follow through with what I said. It's not

1206
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: just about holding them accountable, it's also about holding yourself accountable.

1207
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

1208
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 1: Once you have that paper trail, it's hard to navigate

1209
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: around that, and it's.

1210
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 2: Hard to have back and forth because a lot of

1211
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 2: time that's all they want that party is that they

1212
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 2: want the back of like the antagonizers just like poking

1213
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 2: me find ways to just get them, poke at them.

1214
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 2: And if you give them nothing, the what they got nothing.

1215
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 1: And she's right, they will do stuff like call the

1216
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 1: sheriff and do this. But you know what happens when

1217
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:19,720
Speaker 1: the sheriff comes. M officer, I have the correspondence between

1218
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 1: the person who filed the claim against me. This was

1219
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 1: everything that was said. I don't speak to this person.

1220
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 1: You can contact my attorney. Once you start to contact

1221
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,720
Speaker 1: your attorney, Oh, you have paper trails, you see people

1222
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 1: start to.

1223
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:35,919
Speaker 2: Kind of ease up. Ease up also, and I'm sorry,

1224
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 2: are you don't at that point? Just to kind of

1225
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:40,399
Speaker 2: wrap this up, I think the final point is when

1226
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 2: it comes to the children. Continue you and your boyfriend

1227
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:47,359
Speaker 2: to treat the children in a manner in which they

1228
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 2: need to be treated, and you want to treat them

1229
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 2: because children don't lie. And when the child has their lawyer,

1230
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 2: and then you got your lawyer and he or she

1231
00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 2: got their lawyer, and when the child's lawyer can see

1232
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:04,400
Speaker 2: who's a person who's completely not involved and only is

1233
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 2: very objective and is only interested in the well being

1234
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 2: of the child, then the child and that lawyer will

1235
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 2: then know who gets that child or it makes it

1236
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:17,800
Speaker 2: easier for the judge to err on one side or

1237
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 2: the other because they can see the proof is there.

1238
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:22,839
Speaker 2: The child is in a healthy environment, their love, they're

1239
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 2: provided for, They're not in the back and forth.

1240
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 3: We watched it recently.

1241
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:28,320
Speaker 2: We literally watched this on the fold with someone recently.

1242
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 2: So the children always know where they want to be,

1243
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,319
Speaker 2: and they'll advocate for themselves and say I want to

1244
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:34,839
Speaker 2: be with mom or I want to be with Dad

1245
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 2: because I enjoy the life that I live there.

1246
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:41,920
Speaker 1: And I will say this as a being mature. Maturity

1247
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 1: is knowing that speaking poorly about your child's parents co

1248
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 1: parent in front of that child is only going to

1249
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 1: cause a wedge between.

1250
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 3: You and that child long term. Absolutely, so you don't

1251
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 3: even start that.

1252
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:56,319
Speaker 2: Children will figure it out, thank you.

1253
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,839
Speaker 3: Children will recognize, so you don't have to do that. Yep,

1254
00:55:58,880 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 3: what's up?

1255
00:55:59,200 --> 00:55:59,359
Speaker 2: Well?

1256
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 3: Were speaking of children? Children will recognize.

1257
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 2: They sure will, No, they sure will, So good luck

1258
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 2: to you. I hope everything works out for the benefit

1259
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 2: of your current relationship and the kids. All right, And

1260
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 2: I'll ask this a letter question of the day. Hello

1261
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,440
Speaker 2: Deval and Kadeen. I would love to hear your perspective

1262
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 2: on grown men who follow ig models and porn stars.

1263
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 2: I know men are visual, etc. But where do you

1264
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 2: draw the line if a man's feet is mostly of

1265
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,760
Speaker 2: half naked women. I'm concerned that it'll become an issue

1266
00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:28,319
Speaker 2: for me Devl as a man. What's your perspective? Is

1267
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,239
Speaker 2: it something that I should bring up before we get

1268
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 2: serious or should I wait until we have gotten exclusive

1269
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 2: before having the conversation to bring it up? Kadeen, I

1270
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 2: would like to hear your perspective as well. As a

1271
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:41,400
Speaker 2: famous couple, do you have to deal with this or

1272
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:45,120
Speaker 2: something similar at some point? I don't care. Me and

1273
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 2: Devel be sending mead send women to each other, Like

1274
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 2: I will DH a woman's body and be like, oh

1275
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:54,439
Speaker 2: my god, look at her, like shed she's body goals,

1276
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:56,839
Speaker 2: or like, hey, babe, if I'm in the gym, what

1277
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:58,560
Speaker 2: exercise can I do to get my butt and my

1278
00:56:58,600 --> 00:56:59,759
Speaker 2: hamstrings to look like that?

1279
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 1: And like goes both ways, and it goes both I

1280
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 1: sent I've sent her some dudes out that was chopped up,

1281
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like, babe, do you think this is too muscular?

1282
00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:06,479
Speaker 3: Too big?

1283
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:08,400
Speaker 1: And sometimes she'd be like, yeah, too big that I

1284
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:10,239
Speaker 1: don't think that that's attractive.

1285
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 3: More lean, so we I don't I don't care if

1286
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 3: she looks.

1287
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 2: At We don't exist in a space like that. I

1288
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 2: don't think. I think we're both secure enough in ourself

1289
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 2: and our relationship where that doesn't bother me at all.

1290
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 2: Like THEV I will laugh and joke about his guy

1291
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 2: group chats where y'all send women back and forth in

1292
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 2: we do take it very lightly.

1293
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: We do, but I but I also understand too, like

1294
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 1: you have your group chats with your women, with y'all

1295
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 1: send pictures of all sorts of things. I'm going to

1296
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 1: be honest, it really doesn't bother me saying and I'd

1297
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 1: rather have the insight to know what you're into, so

1298
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: that I could be like, Okay, well she's into that.

1299
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 1: I fit that demographic of what she's into. I'm comfortable,

1300
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 1: you know. I like that My wife loves guys with beards, muscles, tattoos,

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Speaker 1: work out like that's her thing, that her her preference

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Speaker 1: is that type of guy. So when I look at

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Speaker 1: myself and I know that while she's chosen someone who's

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Speaker 1: in that demographic, I feel good about myself. It's the

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Speaker 1: same thing Kadeen knows. I love women who work out.

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Speaker 1: You know, I love thicker women. I love women who

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Speaker 1: have curves, Like, that's just what it is. Like she

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Speaker 1: go through my feed right now. If I open up

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Speaker 1: my feed right now.

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Speaker 2: It's going to be for his explore page.

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Speaker 1: My explore page is going to be football workout videos,

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Speaker 1: basketball train generally trained, basketball training videos, cars, houses, and women.

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Speaker 1: That's and it happens because in my group chats, when

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Speaker 1: they send you stuff and you look at it, your

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00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 1: algorithm becomes the stuff that you send people and they

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Speaker 1: send you.

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Speaker 2: For example, I just sent him a woman whose body

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Speaker 2: was banged showing a bad outfit. I sent it to him.

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Speaker 2: I was like, babe, how do you think I would

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Speaker 2: look in this? Or do you think my body is like?

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Speaker 2: Oh to party? Where's something like this? And then he

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00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 2: opened his feed said this morning, said did you send

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Speaker 2: me this girl? And I'm like I did, and the

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Speaker 2: outfit and it popped upon his feed. So I think

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Speaker 2: it's also being secure in like our relationship who we are.

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Speaker 2: And I know that the women that power up on

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Speaker 2: the speed, baby, I can go total toe with them

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Speaker 2: any day. He married his ig model, he married his

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Speaker 2: porn starts baby, It's okay and I'm securing that because

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Speaker 2: I know that he's getting what he desires anyway.

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Speaker 3: So now I feel you on that.

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Speaker 1: I also I also want to implore people to understand

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Speaker 1: that you don't have to follow these pages for them

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Speaker 1: to come up on your page. The way the algorithm

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Speaker 1: is now, I get so many suggested reels that I've

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Speaker 1: never followed that if you see your man something pops

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Speaker 1: up on his page, he may not even be following that.

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Speaker 1: It could be that he's in group chats, his friend

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00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 1: send it to him, he looks at he sends him stuff,

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Speaker 1: and now it comes up. I don't follow half of

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Speaker 1: these women that come up on my page. Some of

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Speaker 1: the women I do follow, most of them are fitness

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Speaker 1: women or athletes that I'd be like, hey, just like

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00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:46,800
Speaker 1: she said, I'd be like, yo, look at her legs.

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Speaker 1: This is what her program is to get her legs

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Speaker 1: Like that, you said you wanted this? Who was the

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00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 1: who is the good that I just sent you?

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Speaker 2: I don't even know cuban link. Yeah, le I'm just like, girl,

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01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 2: I need to do those exercises. He'll be like, yo,

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Speaker 2: try these for your hamstring or me having diastasis recti

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01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 2: after having the babies. He's like, Yo, this girl does

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01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:10,120
Speaker 2: like really deep core exercises, like maybe you want to

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01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:12,760
Speaker 2: try these planking, this, that, And it's been helpful to us.

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Speaker 2: So if it's a thing we're you're debating, I'm bringing

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Speaker 2: it up now, wait until you get serious. If it's

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Speaker 2: something that bothers you, I think we don't enjoy, you know,

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01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 2: holding on to these things, I say, speak about it

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01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 2: and have the discussion. If you're curious as to why

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01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 2: he's following these pages, but personally, from our perspective, it

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Speaker 2: isn't an issue.

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Speaker 1: So and just because it's not an issue for us

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01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that it's not an issue for you. If

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Speaker 1: you feel less strongly about it, I say, speak to

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Speaker 1: him openly and tell him like, this is how I

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Speaker 1: feel about it.

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Speaker 2: So and if you guys are in the beginning phases

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Speaker 2: of things, then you should bring it up before things

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Speaker 2: get serious. Because if it's something that you know that

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01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 2: you cannot handle, this the boundary for you and don't

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Speaker 2: take things any further.

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna be honest. I look at these women.

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Speaker 1: I don't lust for them and be like, damn, I

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01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 1: wish I could. I'm like, yo, she's bad like it

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Speaker 1: is what it is, that's what it is, and then

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Speaker 1: I'll be all over k and y'all see how I'm

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01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:59,040
Speaker 1: all over her. She could barely get a break, so

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Speaker 1: I doubt that she's that concern.

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Speaker 2: So for sure, for sure sounds good. All right, y'all.

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Speaker 2: If you want to be a listener letter, email us

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01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 2: at dead ass Advice at gmail dot com.

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01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 1: That's D E A D A S S A d

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01:01:11,120 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 1: V I C E at gmail dot com.

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01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 2: All right, moment of truth time. We had some really

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01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 2: good facts and status here that we didn't get you.

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01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:22,800
Speaker 2: But for me, it's really just a matter of making

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01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:27,440
Speaker 2: choices that will impact your life in the long run.

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01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 2: It's making the investments early on now while we're able

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01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 2: bodied and we can. If there's a way for you

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01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 2: to sacrifice in one area to be able to be

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Speaker 2: greater and to be healthier tomorrow, do it, do it.

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01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 2: And that looks different for everybody, But I just want

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01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 2: to employ you just the way I've trying to been

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01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:49,480
Speaker 2: talking myself into it, you know, approaching forty, just how

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01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:52,320
Speaker 2: I can live quote unquote my best life moving forward

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01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 2: with you, a long one and a healthy one for

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Speaker 2: you and our boys.

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Speaker 3: I love you.

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Speaker 2: I love you to you.

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Speaker 1: My moment of truth is I sayd K's life okay,

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01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 1: before me, she wasn't eating port and she wasn't eating grits.

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01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 1: The two things that fit best with her body corn

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01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:11,960
Speaker 1: and porks. You see what I'm saying, Corn and port.

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01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 1: You so so the southern gentleman and me saved your life.

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01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:15,920
Speaker 2: I appreciate it.

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01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 3: Niss created was one of pork and corn substances.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, I want to say, I'm proud of you, baby,

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Speaker 1: for making that transition.

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Speaker 3: I just posted the other day, don't think.

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Speaker 1: I posted there was a picture of K with the code,

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01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:30,040
Speaker 1: a video of K with the cold on her lap

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Speaker 1: and she was holding up a bit with hand, and

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01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:34,280
Speaker 1: I said, when you find your coconut and you turn

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Speaker 1: your coconut into a Southern bell.

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Speaker 3: That's how you knowsition.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, but no, that's my moment of truth

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01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 1: is that I appreciate you working hard to remain as

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Speaker 1: healthy as possible so we can live this life together.

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Speaker 2: I love that. And when we come back with Davao's episode,

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01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 2: we're going to go through a couple of fat since that,

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Speaker 2: So do your own homework right now, and you can

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Speaker 2: come back, you'll be a little bit more well versed

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01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,840
Speaker 2: on neuropathy yourself, and or neuropathy rather I said it wrong,

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01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 2: like a western neuropathy. Neuropathy and natural solutions to physical ailments.

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Speaker 2: Do y'all's homework, and then we're gonna come back with

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Speaker 2: Davao's episode later on in the season, all right, and

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Speaker 2: be sure to find us on Patreon. We're going to

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Speaker 2: go to the Doctor actually and do a Patreon episode

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Speaker 2: exclusively there, so you can watch that on our Patreon page,

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Speaker 2: can find us on social media at dead Ass the Podcast.

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