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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Tony,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome.

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Speaker 2: To the show. How are you good about you doing great? Thanks?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 2: What's going on with this woman? Kelly? We got to

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Speaker 2: know kind of the whole story. How did you meet?

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Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates that you've been on? And

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Speaker 1: then you know, why do you think you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I'm completely bewildered by it.

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Speaker 4: I met him, bumble with her, and you know, we

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Speaker 4: we had a little back and forth before we set

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Speaker 4: up a date, so I already felt like we kind

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Speaker 4: of knew each other a little bit. She doesn't drink,

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Speaker 4: so I was like, okay, I can I can work

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 4: You know, it was nice. We had great conversation. We

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Speaker 4: both have a dog, we both love dogs. We both think,

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Speaker 4: like you know, family is important. We love to travel,

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Speaker 4: going to concerts. So it's just like we were checking

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Speaker 4: each other's boxes, just down the list, very basic. I

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Speaker 4: just you know, I thought it was going well and

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Speaker 4: I asked her if she you would want to see

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Speaker 4: me again, and she said yes, Okay. It was like

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Speaker 4: quick too. It wasn't like she thought about it. She

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Speaker 4: was like, oh my yes, of course, and now you

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Speaker 4: know called since the date and texted her my good

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Speaker 4: old three text and I can't text you anymore.

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Speaker 1: Rule goes you'll text somebody three times with no response

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Speaker 1: before you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean I'll do I'll do it.

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Speaker 4: I'll do the first text, and then I'll do, like,

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Speaker 4: you know, a follow up text with something charming, and

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Speaker 4: then i'll do like a shortened one with like maybe

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Speaker 4: an emoji.

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Speaker 3: And if they don't respond to that, then what am

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Speaker 3: I supposed to do?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I'm a left on red once guy? You leave me

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Speaker 1: One more time after a couple of days, but I don't,

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on, but hey, whatever works for you, Tony. However,

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Speaker 1: in this case, all you're you're looking for really is

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Speaker 1: some answers, because it's like, why why did you tell

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Speaker 1: me on the date you want to go out with

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Speaker 1: me again?

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Speaker 2: And then why are you ignoring me?

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Speaker 1: Now I can understand why that would that would be

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Speaker 1: troublesome exactly. All right, we're gonna call it call. You'll

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Speaker 1: be on the phone. We're going to ask these questions

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Speaker 1: on your behalf. At some point, you're welcome to jump in.

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Speaker 1: And the hope is always is that we can straighten

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Speaker 1: this out, figure out what's up, and set you guys

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Speaker 1: up on another date, in this case, the second date,

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Speaker 1: and pay for it. Okay, stay right here, let's figure

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Speaker 1: out what's going on. We'll call her Part two of waiting.

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Speaker 1: Met the phone after Sizza in three minutes on The

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. SiZ I, it's the Fred Show. It's Friday,

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Speaker 1: pay Tony. Yeah, all right, let's call Cally. You guys,

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Speaker 1: you met on Bumble, the dating app. You went on

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Speaker 1: a date. You went for a walk. She's not a drinker,

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Speaker 1: alcohol is involved. But okay, this is good. I thought

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Speaker 1: it was very thoughtful of you. You had a lot

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Speaker 1: in common, you liked each other. And you haven't heard

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Speaker 1: and so you're confused. Let's call CALLI right now.

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Speaker 2: Good luck, Tony, thank you? Hello? Hi is this Kelly? Yes, Kelley? Hi,

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Speaker 2: good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,

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Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can which have for just

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Speaker 1: know it's a little bit strange, but thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Tony. He

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Speaker 1: says he met you on Bumble and you guys went

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Speaker 1: on a date recently, a coffee date. Yeah, okay, remember Tony,

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Speaker 1: all right, we're off your good starts. So what happened?

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Speaker 1: Because he called us and told us a lot of

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Speaker 1: you said yes. But he says you're not responding to

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Speaker 1: any of his text messages now, So why is that.

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Speaker 3: I'm a little surprised to hear from you.

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Speaker 5: I guess Tony should know he was being weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what happened, Like the beginning.

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Speaker 5: Of it was fine, and then he found out that

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Speaker 5: like he seemed really fixated on my kid and and

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Speaker 5: specifically like how he was born.

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Speaker 3: Like he he flat out asked me what my birth

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Speaker 3: of my body?

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Speaker 2: I have a three year old?

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Speaker 1: And he goes cool, how did Like was it natural

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Speaker 1: or sea section?

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Speaker 2: Is that what he was asking you?

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Speaker 2: Both are natural, but you know what was the primary right? Right? Okay?

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Speaker 2: So so he was concerned with the extraction methods.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, do you want to call it that?

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Speaker 2: Hy No one had.

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Speaker 3: Asked me that.

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Speaker 3: He seemed satisfied that.

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Speaker 5: I had a c section, But like, I didn't owe

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Speaker 5: him that explanation, and I just wanted to disheartening question.

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Speaker 1: I've never in my life asked now people volunteered that

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Speaker 1: this is where this or that the women will volunteer

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Speaker 1: we luckily we have an answer. We can get an answer.

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Speaker 1: Tony is here, Kelly. I'm sorry I forgot to mention

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Speaker 1: that Tony is here. I'm very forgetful, Tony. What are

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Well, I mean I don't think I don't understand

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Speaker 2: God, No, that's a legitimate thing to ask. What you're

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Speaker 3: All normal because you know.

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Speaker 1: The parts normal? What is going on with anatomy lately?

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Speaker 1: On this segment, you do people like it realized how

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, if you're going to get it on,

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Speaker 4: may it almost feels like she didn't have a kid

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Speaker 3: And that's something you got to no kind of a front.

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Speaker 2: The hell are you talking about? Yeah, you are a

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Speaker 1: Yes, it is in your in your mind, if she'd

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Speaker 3: I had a bad experience before.

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Speaker 4: So that's why I'm kind of figuring that out, because

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Speaker 3: Look, you could go on a bunch of dates, you could.

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Speaker 4: Be courting somebody, and then it doesn't work out when

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Speaker 4: I just you know, spent a bunch of money.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, God for now and common being and then

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Speaker 1: and now in your mind, now, doctor Tony over here

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Speaker 2: That's where Tony's bring Is it the bird for what

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Speaker 2: Tony might be working with?

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Speaker 1: Yes, say, maybe everything went back to normal like it

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: I mean everybody wants.

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Speaker 5: Maybe your dad should have pulled out, Maybe that shouldn't

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Speaker 2: This is gross. I'm sorry, Yeah, and oh it is.

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Speaker 1: It's a very very inappropriate thing to ask someone. And

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Speaker 1: You're not even based, this is even based in fact.

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Speaker 3: Now, I ad have to disagree. I think a lot

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Speaker 3: of people are being polite, but.

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Speaker 4: If you really ask dudes, they're gonna tell you behind

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Speaker 3: The same thing.

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Speaker 1: Well, I am a dude, and a dude, and Jason

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Speaker 3: Without without you being on the radio show. You would

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Speaker 1: Pagree with you. I would one hundred percent disagree with you. Actually,

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Speaker 1: and even even if you were right, which you're not,

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Speaker 1: asking somebody. And I can see now It's funny though,

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Speaker 1: because Tony over here, to your point, Kiki, he seems

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Speaker 1: to be having this problem regularly, So.

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Speaker 2: You might have the issue, my boy. And there's medicine

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Speaker 2: for that, I've heard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, pumps, Yeah, why don't you Why don't you go

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Speaker 1: get yourself a medical procedure.

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Speaker 2: Then you have a Microm'm.

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Speaker 3: Working with plenty of.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, big swing and Tony over here, that's what they

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Speaker 2: call it.

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Speaker 1: That's why, Cally, I'm sorry, and I appreciate you telling

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Speaker 1: us what I happened. That's very rude, inappropriate, incorrect, insensitive,

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Speaker 1: so many things, and I honestly I can't believe that.

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Speaker 5: No, and I really hope he doesn't have kids, because

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Speaker 5: I got a picture him being that dude in the

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Speaker 1: Stitch doctor, one of those guys. Yeah, don't be that again.

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Speaker 2: Thank you? What's that? That comes? All right? CALLI?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for your time. I'm sorry you had to

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Speaker 1: relive that, Tony. I don't know, man, I might rethink

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Speaker 1: the whole I might take an anatomy class or something.

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Speaker 3: That's rethink it and come back over to my side.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, I'm not. I'm all sick. You're the

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Speaker 2: one that needs to rethink it.

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Speaker 3: You're just saying that because you're on the radio.

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Speaker 1: Man, No I'm not all right. Thank you for your time,

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Speaker 1: Good luck out there. The Entertainment Report and two Fitty

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Speaker 1: with Shelby's Shelley in the Showdown both next Fred Show

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Speaker 1: back in