1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve harveysm dot com 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 1: it could be yours. It could be yours. Buckle up 8 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: and hole on type. We got it for you here. 9 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you, neph you subject 10 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:36,200 Speaker 1: you're not doing that tonight. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm dating 11 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: a man that has a beautiful personality, and we clicked 12 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: the moment we met. But there's a side to him 13 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: that I just saw for the first time, and I 14 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: don't know if I'm with the right man. He always 15 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:53,639 Speaker 1: smells amazing because he has lots of body oils, lotions 16 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: and potions that he uses every day. He uses a 17 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: lot more than I do, so I used to joe 18 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: him about his products. Then one day I had bad 19 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: cramps and he gave me a hot oil massage to 20 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: ease the pain and it worked. I was hooked until 21 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: one night I got a massage and got up to 22 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, and I slipped on the wood 23 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:21,680 Speaker 1: floor and almost broke my ankle because I was so greasy. 24 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: He prefers to be oiled up and glistening all of 25 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: the time. He said it is because he's a chocolate 26 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: brother and he's always ashy. But I think it's a fetish. 27 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: He's always in the bathroom longer than I am, and 28 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 1: it takes him longer to get dressed. I could deal 29 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: with that. But what got my attention and has me 30 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 1: second guessing him. It's what went down Saturday. My boyfriend's 31 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: co worker and wife came to visit, and his wife 32 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: was limping. She says she heard her leg having sex. 33 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: I tried to change the subject, but then my boyfriend 34 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: blurted out that he could help her get rid of 35 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: her leg pain. He said, she said that would be great. 36 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: My boyfriend told her to take off her pants and 37 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: lie on the lounger on the patio. Everyone seemed okay 38 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: with this, except for me. I reminded him that he 39 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 1: works for the government, not a spot. He said, he 40 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 1: has massage both of them before, so it's no big deal. 41 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 1: I told him he wasn't doing it again and he 42 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: got mad, so they left. Was he just being helpful 43 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:30,399 Speaker 1: or was I right to stop him? Well, I mean 44 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: it sounds to me like he was being helpful, but 45 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: you stopped him anyway. I'm just trying to figure out 46 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: what you're trying to figure out about him. You said 47 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: so many good things about him in the letter. He 48 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: has a beautiful personality. You guys clicked the moment you met. 49 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: He always smells amazing. He gives you massages when you're 50 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,239 Speaker 1: not feeling well and it works and you love it. 51 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: And he's also helpful with others and that should be 52 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: all good, right, or you would think it would be 53 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 1: all good. He's well groomed, he's not ash by ashy. 54 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: But now here you are trying to regulate and say 55 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: something's wrong with him. You know, on the slide you're 56 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: trying to say something about him. It sounds like a decent, caring, 57 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: professional man who's good at what he does and the 58 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: people around him appreciate what he does. Yes, he works 59 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: for the government, but apparently he's a good masseuse as well. 60 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: I say, please stop making problems where there are none. 61 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: This man takes care of himself and the others around him. 62 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: That should be a good thing. And that's why everyone's 63 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: okay with this, well everyone but you. I think you're 64 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: kind of cramping his style a little bit because you 65 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: broke the party up, and I think you just need 66 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: to chill. It's not that serious, Steve, What letter do 67 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: we read? A different? Is something missing? You're craving the style? 68 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: Seems like what you you? What? This lotter? Crazy? This 69 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: is that a guy crazy? Rode all over it? You're crazy? 70 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 1: He crazy? It ain't crazy? What this don't make no 71 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: damn sense. I'm dating the man. That's a beautiful personality. Clicked. 72 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 1: We clicked the moment we met. There's the side of 73 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 1: here and I just saw for the first time. And 74 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:26,239 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm with the right man. You ain't. 75 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: You ain't with the right man. Never just let I 76 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 1: just read I went Charley talking about you're cramping this down. 77 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: Give him a chance. He's wonderful. What this is crazy? 78 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: He always smells amazing because he has lots of body oars, lotions, potions, potions. 79 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: Black dudes don't do potions. There's little stuff in here. 80 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: He got body oars, lotions, potions, potion. We got started 81 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: looking at this boy. He uses a lot more than 82 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: I do. I used to joke him about the product well, 83 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: and then one day I had bad crimps. He gave 84 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: me a hot all massage. She's a paint and it worn't. 85 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: I was hooked. After one night I got a massage. 86 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 1: You got him go to the bathroom. I slipped on 87 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: the wooden floor, almost broke my ankle because I was 88 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:20,239 Speaker 1: so greedy. He prefers to be all up and glistening 89 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: all the time, he said, because he's chocolate brother. He's 90 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 1: always ashing. But I think it's a fetish. Oh, it's 91 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: way on the fetish left. Oh it's wind fish, I 92 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: like baby. Oh, I gotta fit it. That's fittshed. No, 93 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 1: there's something else right here. He's always in the bathroom 94 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: long and I am, and takes him longer to get dressed. Oh, okay, 95 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 1: gotta start. That ain't normal, But okay, I could deal 96 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: with that. Or what got my attention has me second 97 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: guess him? It's what went down, said my boyfriend's co 98 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 1: worker and his wife came to visit, and his wife 99 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: was limping. She said she hurt her leg having sex. 100 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 1: Who the hell, you're just not meeting at your house 101 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: from a co worker and a wife that's limping. And 102 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 1: she got the audacity to just come out and tell 103 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: you I heard my leg having sex. Where did he 104 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: have her leg off too? Where she limping? Okay, when 105 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: we come back, I'm gonna tell you what's wrong with 106 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 1: this now? All right? All right, coming up, we'll have 107 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: part two of Steve's response at twenty three minutes after 108 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: the hours Today's Strawberry letter. Subject is you are not 109 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 1: doing that tonight. Okay, we'll get back into it right 110 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening morning show. All right, Come on, Steve, 111 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is you're not 112 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: doing that tonight. Yeah, you ain't doing that tonight. Now, 113 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: Shirley gave her response. Were on two different programs with 114 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: this letter right here, because I think this whole letter crazy, 115 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: and he got it getting real crazy at the end. Now, 116 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: I don't know high he helpful, crazy ass mash they 117 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: clicked the moment they met. I just saw him, and 118 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm with the right man. He 119 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: smells amazing, A lot of oils, lotions and postions right there, 120 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: A black dude is okay with oars and lotions. Black 121 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: dudes don't normally mess with postions. Okay, so now you 122 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 1: got this which slash wall off living at your talk 123 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: about damn posts. Black ass out of there for something 124 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 1: after with no damn man. I had some bad cramps 125 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: one tall. He gave me a hot oil massage and 126 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: it worked and I was hooked. And then one night 127 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: I got a massage. I get him go to the bathroom. 128 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: I slipped on the wooden floor almost broke my ankle 129 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 1: because it was so greasy. He prefers to be alled 130 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: up and glistening all the time, he said, because he's 131 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 1: a chocolate brother and he don't want to look ashy. 132 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: But I think it's fetish or this is way more 133 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: than a fetish look. Girl. He's always in the bathroom 134 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: longer than I am and takes him longer to get dressed. 135 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: That's a little bit different right there. But if you 136 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: could deal with it, okay, I could deal with that. 137 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: But what got my attention when he asked me second 138 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: guess him, it's what went down said, now here's where 139 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: the letter takes a turn that I don't know how 140 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: anybody would overlook this, but I want my boyfriend's co 141 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 1: worker and his wife came to visit. Now, this is 142 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: who you hang out with, it work co working wife. 143 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 1: They came to visit. His wife was limping. Now somebody 144 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 1: must have said, why you limping? She said she heard 145 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: her leg having sex. Now, you know, anybody else would 146 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: have made up anything else. Ain't nobody fitting to tell 147 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: that girl. I was going down to steps and slipped 148 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: or anything. I was on some ice, I was on 149 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 1: some baby. All in the bathroom. You could have said anything, 150 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 1: but I heard my leg having sex. That was debate remark. 151 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 1: I tried to change the subject, but then my boyfriend 152 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:20,719 Speaker 1: blurted out that he could help her get rid of 153 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: her leg pain. He said this to his co worker's 154 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: girlfrid She said that would be great. Yeah, this is 155 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,719 Speaker 1: co worker's wife. She said that would be great. My 156 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 1: boyfriend told her take off her pants and lay on 157 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: the lounger on the one. He's helpful, Steve. What man 158 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:51,079 Speaker 1: can say in front of his girl to another woman 159 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: that's married to his co worker, which is another dude, 160 00:09:57,679 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: take off your pants and lay with your clothes on here, 161 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 1: government worker. Yeah, he ain't got a massage parlor. He 162 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 1: ain't got a table at the house that he traveled with. 163 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 1: He'll do house call. My boyfriend told her, take off 164 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: your pants and lay on the lounger on the patio. 165 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: He go the next part. Everybody seem okay with it. 166 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: So this was cool with the lady who was married 167 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: to his co worker. Take your pants off and go 168 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 1: out that ladder. Okay, the husband his boy co worker, Yeah, man, 169 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 1: my wife can take her pants off and go lay 170 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: on your lounge. By boy, miss me, you don't see 171 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: this little swinging thing going on. He bought them over 172 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: there to swing. He bossed them over there a swing, 173 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: and you just didn't You didn't get it. I heard 174 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: my leg having set. Were gonna say that. You knew 175 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, because it's what it is. Everybody 176 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 1: seemed okay with this except me. I reminded him. You 177 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: work for the government, not a spot he had. You're 178 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 1: gonna be working you you He could do more than 179 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 1: one thing, but this wind though, when you start doing 180 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:29,599 Speaker 1: this for other people, that's when you start doing this 181 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: for other women and in front of their husbands. On 182 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: the iPad him, you told this woman take her pants off, 183 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 1: it's not hold up. Then he told her, I've massage 184 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 1: both of them before, so it ain't no big deal. 185 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: What women hold up? Dog? He didn't massage the wife before, 186 00:11:55,520 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 1: but he didn't massage the husband before too. Hey man, 187 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: let me tell you something's done. A couple couple of 188 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: massages with my wife. Rude number one, ain't no man 189 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: rubbing huh? And came no, and came no man rubbed me. 190 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: A woman can rub me, and a woman can rub huck. 191 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: We came no man rubbed huh and ca't no man 192 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:21,559 Speaker 1: rubbed me. You can't hear your thumbs on the back 193 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 1: of my thash. You can't do that. That ain't that 194 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:30,959 Speaker 1: ain't what we're doing. Tom you called me whatever you 195 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 1: want to call me. They missed the rule. I woman 196 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 1: talking about him. You're the massage huh and him yeah, 197 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 1: And they was both fine with it. I told him 198 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: he wasn't doing it again, and he got mad, so 199 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,319 Speaker 1: they left. They left because now I ain't gonna be 200 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 1: the swing and they thought it was gonna because she 201 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: won't even go along with the massage. Lord Sheef, and 202 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: to go with the rest of this that we've been 203 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: doing this all and put the postious house. You're coming 204 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 1: un Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Murby had them on 205 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast. 206 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: Undemand now coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, 207 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 1: it's Junior with Sports Talk. We'll get into that right 208 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.