1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 2: Only on the Tuble Show. Carmen is on the phone 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been with her 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 2: boyfriend Adrian for a little over a year, but now 5 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 2: she thinks that something might be going on. So we'll 6 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,160 Speaker 2: see if we can help her out. And hopefully he's 7 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,959 Speaker 2: not cheating. Carmen, hopefully we can help you. What's going on? 8 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 2: Why do you think that Adriane is cheating? 9 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 1: So I'm not one to go through anyone's phone. I 10 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: know if you starts, she'll find go on and so forth. 11 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: But we were cooking dinner in the kitchen and he 12 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: went to go into another room and he left his 13 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 1: phone and so it lit up and I grabbed it 14 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 1: to go give it to him, and it was actually 15 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:41,520 Speaker 1: an email from your show, which we listened to your show. Yeah, 16 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: and it's kind of why I reached out in the 17 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 1: first place. 18 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 2: You got an email from the show. What was it about? 19 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: It was actually about the first date segment, So I thought, oh, 20 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: what is he planning? Like? Is he being funny? 21 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 2: Like? 22 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: What's going on? Is this a surprise? 23 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 2: To clarify, he emailed us about a first date follow up? 24 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 1: Yes, it was yes, yes. So when I looked at 25 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: the actual email, he had reached out to you guys 26 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 1: as a far as the first and I thought maybe 27 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: he was doing it as like a joke, he sang. 28 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 1: But then I go read I read through the email 29 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 1: and it's about a first date he went on with 30 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 1: someone named Megan. What yes, yeah, and she's not reaching 31 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:23,960 Speaker 1: back out And just like I just need answers. I'm 32 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: just confused, and I just want to get to the 33 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: bottom of what's going on. I didn't think that there 34 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: was anything wrong in our relationship. The more I was 35 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 1: reading it, the more I was seeing that there there 36 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 1: were like I was catching him in these lies, like 37 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:40,119 Speaker 1: he was out with his friends he told me, and oh, 38 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: we're doing a guys night. We're going to go to 39 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 1: the bar. And that was That was the actual day 40 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 1: that he said in the email that he had gone 41 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: on the date with this girl. 42 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 2: Wow, did you even bother asking him about it after 43 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: you read all of that, I mean, you had the information. 44 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: I know, I haven't. I'm not sure what has come 45 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: over me. I just I want to find out, you know, 46 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: if this is what's going on, like like that dude, 47 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: Like I just if he wants to reach out and 48 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: put his business on the radio. Guess what, that's what 49 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: he's going to get. I mean, that's kind of stupid, right, 50 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: like even if you're cheating me, Yeah, why would you 51 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: do that? 52 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 2: I'm not you him obviously, but I mean, is there 53 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 2: any way you can explain it away? I'm having trouble 54 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 2: finding it, but I'm just wondering if there could be 55 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 2: very reasonable what would he say? 56 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:30,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I can't think of anything. I mean, especially 57 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: as far as like, like again, like it would be 58 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: one thing if he was seen out with someone and 59 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,239 Speaker 1: someone reported it back to me'd be like, oh, yeah, 60 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 1: it was a co worker. So he applied, Like he 61 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: sent an email to your show asking to be on 62 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: the show about a first date with someone that isn't me. 63 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 1: That's wild, Like. 64 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 2: You wouldn't hear it, Like somebody wouldn't tell Yeah, yeah, 65 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 2: I mean, let's just call, let's play a song, come back, 66 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 2: call him, and then we'll just be from the show. 67 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 2: And because when people email us for those things, we 68 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 2: call them back and find out more information. So we 69 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 2: can just find out information on the first day fall 70 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 2: he wants to do and you can hear that and 71 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 2: then you can, oh gosh, do whatever you gotta do. 72 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:08,239 Speaker 2: Brace yourself. 73 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: Girls, sound good, sounds like a thing we're gonna do. 74 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry that you have to do this. It 75 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 2: doesn't make your situation anymore, no fun. But you know, 76 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 2: at least you can find out for sure. And if 77 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 2: there is some crazy way that it is legit, then 78 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 2: you'll find that out too. So we'll play a song, 79 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 2: come back and call him and get you to catch acheater. 80 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:34,239 Speaker 1: Next, it's time to Catch a Cheater only on the 81 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: Tuble Show. 82 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater. 83 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 2: Carmen is on the phone and she thinks that her 84 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 2: boyfriend of a little over a year might be cheating 85 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: on her. Pretty hard to think that he's not. Before 86 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 2: we call him to try to catch him, we'll let 87 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 2: Carmen explain her situation. Carmen refresh everybody's memory on what's 88 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 2: going on. 89 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: So my boyfriend, Adrian, he left his phone in the 90 00:03:55,960 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: kitchen and I saw an email to your show asking 91 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: to do a follow up on a first date. And 92 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: the first date was with someone that isn't me, And 93 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: so now I want to find out what what is 94 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: going on? 95 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 2: All right, So we're gonna call him and just be 96 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 2: from the show. Because when people email us about a 97 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 2: first date follow up, we you know, interview them and 98 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 2: find out more about it before we actually do it 99 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 2: on the air. So we'll just do that. We'll see 100 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: if we can get some information out of them. I'm 101 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 2: foolishly optimistic at times, so I still hope that there's 102 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 2: a way that this is not him cheating, but I 103 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 2: you know, I don't know how it's not right now, 104 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 2: it hopes so too, but really, yeah, Lucy, are you ready. 105 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: Ready as I can be? 106 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 2: All right? Here we go. 107 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 1: Hello. 108 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:51,239 Speaker 2: Hey is this Adrian? 109 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 1: Yeah? 110 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:52,840 Speaker 3: This Adrian? 111 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 2: Hey man, this is the Jubil Show. 112 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 1: Hey, nice to hear. What's going on? 113 00:04:58,520 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 2: Not much? How are you? 114 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 3: I'm feeling good, good day, you know, just looking looking 115 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 3: forward to call it. Calling this person, seeing if you 116 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 3: guys can get in touch with them. 117 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what we're calling about. We're calling about the 118 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 2: first day follow up email that you sent in. Yeah, 119 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 2: so just you know, before we do these on the air, 120 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 2: we do find out more information because sometimes it just 121 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 2: might not work for whatever reason. Tell like, what's the 122 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 2: situation again? 123 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 3: So I met this girl? Megan on Tinder and we 124 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 3: went out. We kind of went to a nice restaurant. 125 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 2: And and just for like a timeline in my head, 126 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 2: how long ago was that? 127 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: Two weeks ago? 128 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 2: Hey, go ahead? 129 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we had a pretty good night. 130 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 3: I we ended up actually. 131 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 1: Great night, hooking up at the end of the night. Yeah, 132 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: And I thought she was like. 133 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 3: Really sexy as well, and I would love to see 134 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 3: her again. 135 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 2: It's just. 136 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 3: Like I haven't felt like this about anybody for a 137 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 3: while now. 138 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 2: Wow. Really? 139 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, you you too, Adrian? Are you serious? Are you 140 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: for real? 141 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 2: Adrian? That is your girlfriend, Carmen. She emailed us about 142 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 2: a to get to cheeter. 143 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:18,119 Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, oh crazy. Yeah, we you haven't felt 144 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 1: that way about someone in a in hell long because 145 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: we've been together a year. So the math isn't mathing. 146 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: I saw the email that you sent, the first date 147 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: follow up email that you sent to the show, and 148 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: that's why I contacted them. 149 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I don't know what to say. 150 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: Uh is this something you do often? I mean, you 151 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 1: you lied, you told me you were going I mean 152 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: I know details to this. You're the email? Yeah yeah, 153 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: uh yeah, you told me you were going out with 154 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: your friends a guys night. And then you went on 155 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:56,919 Speaker 1: a like and you hooked up. I mean, I haven't 156 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: even processed that part of it yet. I do not, 157 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: like I want to be together. I'm so confused by this. 158 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 3: I don't I don't know how to I'm sorry. 159 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 1: I did well. 160 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 3: I mean, I did go out with my friend that night. 161 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 3: I just I literally, I don't know what you're talking about. 162 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 1: Like, uh, you told me that you were going out 163 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: with all the guys. It was a guy's night, that's 164 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 1: why none of the girlfriends were invited, and you were 165 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: going to the box and instead went on a date 166 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: with someone named Megan. 167 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 3: It wasn't really a date. It was just like we 168 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 3: hung out. 169 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: You just said you hooked up with her. You just 170 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: said was the best thing of your whole life, best 171 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 1: date ever. 172 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 3: I was just trying to like make it sound more interesting. 173 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 2: I didn't save yourself now, But. 174 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, I mean I don't know. I don't 175 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 3: I don't think. I don't know what we've We've been 176 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 3: going through a few things, so I thought i'd give it, 177 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 3: you know, try just try something once. And I guess 178 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 3: I just wanted to see what it's like. 179 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: Do you want to know what she's got. Do you 180 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: want to know why she's ghosting you? Because I called her. 181 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: I got her number from the email and I called 182 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 1: her from your phone and I called her, oh yeah, 183 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: and I let her know that you are you have 184 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 1: been in a relationship for the last year, that we 185 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,559 Speaker 1: have talked about moving in together, saying god, we didn't 186 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 1: do that, Oh my god. And I let her know everything. 187 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: So I don't know, I don't know what you want 188 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 1: to do with that information. That's why she's ghosting you. 189 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: That's your first day follow up. I called her, I 190 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: let her know. 191 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 2: You're whoa good job hosting the first day follow up? 192 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 2: Carmen job, Adrian? Are you still there? 193 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: Are you there? Do you? 194 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 3: Yeah? I'm here. I mean, I'm sorry. I don't know 195 00:08:59,520 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 3: what to say. 196 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: Well, don't worry about saying anything. Just just goodbye, get 197 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: off the phone. 198 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 3: I'll call you. 199 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 1: The shell. 200 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, she did awesome. She's a host and harmon bodyguard. Yeah, 201 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. 202 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I knew what it was going to be 203 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: going into it. How could I not? I just you know, 204 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: they're still shocked, but I'm just so glad we didn't 205 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 1: move in together. 206 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, real, Yeah, at least you don't. You don't have 207 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 2: to deal with that. And I don't even know what 208 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 2: that was. 209 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: I was like, no remorse, that was just like wild, Yes, 210 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 1: got saved a big time. Yeah I'm embarrassed. No, I'm 211 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 1: embarrassed that I dated that person's fault. 212 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 2: Yeah you don't. You don't know people, you know. You 213 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 2: didn't know that that about him when you started dating him. 214 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 2: And you should not be embarrassed about your radio hosting 215 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 2: skills either, because that was impressive, all of it. Yeah, 216 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 2: it was 217 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: The jewel shows to catch a cheater.