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Speaker 1: Oh god, this topic today. I don't know what this

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Speaker 1: says about us. Ship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I sit back, relax, and make sure you're wearing

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Speaker 1: Also, take your children out of the car. If you're

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Speaker 1: listening to this and there's children in the car, Hello, kids,

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Speaker 1: press the pause button. Though.

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Speaker 2: We're going to try and use medical terms.

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Speaker 1: Are you are we you can?

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Speaker 2: I can try?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Well anyway, Hi everyone, We're going to

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Speaker 1: get to this in a second. But I just told

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Speaker 1: Chip we were just discussing kind of our last minute

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Speaker 1: the podcast before the podcast because we were having such

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Speaker 1: an intense conversation about this topic. But Hi, welcome to

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Speaker 1: the Edge, and yeah, happy to be back with you guys.

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Speaker 1: I was out sick on Wednesday, so I hope that

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Speaker 1: you enjoyed the replay that we posted. We are back,

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Speaker 1: and I would say better than ever. I'm not real

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Speaker 1: sure how. I don't know what do you feel about this, Chip?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it hurts just even thinking about it. I

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Speaker 1: So earlier this week Chip sent me an article and

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Speaker 1: it was called something. I don't remember actually the actual title,

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Speaker 3: About the topic of scrow Talks and what is actually

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Speaker 3: a place in Los Angeles that does it.

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Speaker 1: I'd never just like an advertisement.

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Speaker 4: It felt very I mean it was I think it

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Speaker 2: So I had to google it and it sure enough

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Speaker 1: Well you know that your Instagram is now serving you

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Speaker 1: only things about vaginas and penises. That is literally where

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. I'm not really a pro. I just

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Speaker 2: get served a lot of information.

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Speaker 1: But it's also not sexual the stuff deserves Like that

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Speaker 1: makes it sound like you're some sort of like sex

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Speaker 1: know all about sex and all the things, but this

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Speaker 2: I would say, yeah, and they were a little bit

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Speaker 1: This is definitely shock for me.

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Speaker 1: It's still shocking. That's why I was like, we have

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Speaker 4: And it's bow words, scro them and botox and what

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Speaker 2: Scrow talk for talks?

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Speaker 1: So there's a new procedure that men are having done

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Speaker 1: and it's botox and your balls basically yes, and in

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, from what I'm reading is and disclaimer,

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Speaker 1: If you had had scrow talk's done, I would make

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Speaker 1: It's a medical examination.

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Speaker 4: So I'm honestly a little confused because I felt like

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Speaker 4: But it sounds like, after I've done a little bit

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Speaker 1: I did ask that question, yeah, because I could see

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Speaker 4: I mean, I've seen men that have silicone injected into

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Speaker 4: be that it smooths out the wrinkles on the testes

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Speaker 1: So it's weird to me that you would have more

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Speaker 1: Like is plastic surgery actually helping us as a culture

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Speaker 4: Well for something like this too? And it's not like

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Because I can tell you've

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Speaker 4: A boob job like bies, there you go, kids, he's

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Speaker 2: But yeah, but to get to do something to your balls, which,

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Speaker 2: They put they put a numbing cream on, and it's

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Speaker 4: And it lasts for four months. Both Amazon just came,

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Speaker 4: I'm doing something like this, of course, yeah, but so

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Speaker 4: I just can't imagine wanting to do something like that

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Speaker 4: that's elective. And before we started recording, I was like,

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Speaker 4: you call that?

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Speaker 2: Which which I.

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Speaker 4: Understand that like that necessarily isn't really an elective thing

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Speaker 4: because you get damaged in.

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Speaker 1: Birth exactly like it a lot more trauma than balls.

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Speaker 1: Do what trauma do balls go through?

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Speaker 2: You get kicked and stuff?

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Speaker 1: Though, No, no, you have a human being.

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Speaker 2: No, it's very different.

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Speaker 4: But I did read on one of these things that said,

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Speaker 4: if you have chronic testical pain, it is something that

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Speaker 1: That makes sense. It's like, how.

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Speaker 4: And that to me is not that is a medical

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Speaker 1: Well, it's like Jennifer Gray from Dirty Day Career to

437
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Speaker 1: change her nose, it.

438
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Speaker 2: Did, Yeah, like she kind of went away when she

439
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 2: got her nose.

440
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 1: Because she just didn't look like herself. And you know what,

441
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:08,119
Speaker 1: she looked kind of basic or there's more like every

442
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 1: day that don't mean it was she had a very

443
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 1: distinct look, and it like that is what's so interesting,

444
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:19,960
Speaker 1: Like back in the day, think about Barber streisand like

445
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,160
Speaker 1: they're in like even people like Susan Sarandon. They don't

446
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:26,239
Speaker 1: look the same as everyone, but they're beautiful women. And

447
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,719
Speaker 1: it's like, I just think we used to do a

448
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 1: better job of kind of embracing differences as beauty and

449
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:41,119
Speaker 1: like interesting exquisite qualities versus I need to have a

450
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 1: tiny waist, a big ass, big boobs, big lips, but

451
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,680
Speaker 1: you know, which is very Kardashian, right, but it.

452
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,480
Speaker 2: Also like those trends come in and out, like.

453
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:52,640
Speaker 1: Oh, I know they're already going out, so it'll be.

454
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 4: Really which happens when you've gotten twenty pounds of fat

455
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:56,920
Speaker 4: injected in the your butt.

456
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Speaker 1: Like out, Yeah, I don't know.

457
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 3: Anyway judgment here, Like I know, I just don't know.

458
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 2: That that is the path to happiness.

459
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 4: I think you have to find happiness and then work

460
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:14,879
Speaker 4: on the outside.

461
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 1: What I was going to make a joke about whenever

462
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 1: you said, uh, getting a new nose, is it going

463
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:21,919
Speaker 1: to make you happy or whatever? Or if you do

464
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:23,439
Speaker 1: the inner work and that's all you want to do

465
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 1: it like getting scrow tks isn't going to make your

466
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 1: girl like your balls. Just if any guys out there

467
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 1: are just to see what it does, I mean, maybe

468
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 1: the games would into it. That's such a gay That

469
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: is such a gay procedure if you really think about it,

470
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 1: The gays would be the ones to notice sprinkly balls

471
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,920
Speaker 1: the most. Like that is so true.

472
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 2: Because girls don't even want to see your balls.

473
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, no, I enjoy a ball. It's just

474
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 1: like to me, it's just a part of the thing,

475
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: you know, Like the balls are in the mix. We're

476
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,360
Speaker 1: we're the balls are around, they're being played. I don't

477
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 1: know how to say any of this because I know

478
00:23:58,920 --> 00:23:59,880
Speaker 1: my mom is listening.

479
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 4: A few balls in your time. It looks like there

480
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 4: are places in throw Talks.

481
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 3: Of course there is what do you think scrotoplastic?

482
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it just keeps getting bigger.

483
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: Ship. If you go, you realize this is going to

484
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 1: become a documentary for the Velvet See.

485
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not going to do it. I'm too scared.

486
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 1: You don't even like needles. You're really not going to

487
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: feel like I don't. I said, what if they miss

488
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: or what if they like hit the testicle accidentally? What's

489
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 1: going to happen?

490
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 2: That makes me want to die? Right now?

491
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:40,360
Speaker 1: If you go get scrow Talks, I would make sure

492
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 1: it's a very good provider, very experienced.

493
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 2: Five stars on Google.

494
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, which anyone's.

495
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 4: Gotten it or if anyone's husbands or boyfriends or brothers

496
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 4: have gotten it, please call in. I am begging you

497
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 4: to understand why yeah, and how it went and if

498
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 4: it was painful.

499
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,639
Speaker 1: I was telling you there's an episode of sex in

500
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: the City, and I need to go back and listen

501
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: to all the podcasts on how many times I quote

502
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 1: episodes of Sex in the City. But Steve has testicular

503
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: cancer and he loses a ball because they just remove

504
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 1: the ball to get rid of the cancer. And then

505
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 1: he's totally healthy. He's great, and he and Miranda are

506
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 1: not together, and he as they're friends though, and he

507
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: says to her, I think I'm gonna go get this

508
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 1: new procedure to have like a prosthetic ball put in.

509
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,199
Speaker 1: So she goes to the appointment with them and they say, like,

510
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 1: this is a very new procedure. There's all these risks,

511
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 1: and she's like, no, absolutely not. It's basically saying the

512
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,880
Speaker 1: same thing as me, like nobody cares about the balls,

513
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 1: like you have one ball or two balls, Like we're good.

514
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,679
Speaker 1: We're not going to be like, whoa, where's the other ball?

515
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: But so she ends up having what they call a

516
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: mercy fuck and having sex with them. So he still

517
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 1: feels like he's sexy, and she still gets pregnant from

518
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:58,639
Speaker 1: that quote unquote from the one ball. But it just

519
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: like it's me in case point, women don't think about balls.

520
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 1: That's not really a part of what we're really attracted to.

521
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: And it's just so interesting that we convince ourselves that

522
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: we need this thing to feel whole or feel complete,

523
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,400
Speaker 1: when in reality, like no one else is looking at

524
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: it that way. It's just like within ourselves, I could

525
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 1: get where like if you had one ball or one

526
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 1: boob or anything like that. Like I told you I

527
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 1: had a friend who had breast cancer and since she's

528
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: a lump missing out of her boob, and I have

529
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 1: so much respect for her because what most or a

530
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 1: lot of women do is, you know, get boob jumps

531
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: after and she's just left it. She's like, I don't

532
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 1: want to put my body through anything else. Like I'm

533
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 1: so happy, Like I'm proud of my body that it's

534
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 1: like functioning and it works now, and it's kind of

535
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 1: like a badge of honor in some ways of the

536
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 1: things I've been through, you know, and like also a

537
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: reminder of what I've overcome, which I thought was just

538
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: really beautiful. And like her partners since that surgery have

539
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: not cared one bit.

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00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's there's I know plenty of women

541
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 4: who've had what is it a lumpectomies?

542
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 2: Is that when you get your full breast removed, no misseectomy?

543
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 2: Is that a mus sectomy?

544
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 4: And then have gotten fake breast because they want to

545
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 4: look like the way that they looked.

546
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 2: And then I've known people that have just said get.

547
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 4: Rid of them, I don't care, you know, And I

548
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 4: think that you know it's coming that's coming from a

549
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 4: medical need perspective too.

550
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 3: It's not it's totally different than it's it's not a

551
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 3: psychological it's not a psychological thing. No, but the friend

552
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 3: that you're talking about, it is just like an aesthetic

553
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 3: thing that she's like, fuck, I don't care, you know,

554
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,679
Speaker 3: Like there's a reason and if anyone's got a problem

555
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 3: with it, they're probably pretty shallow anytheah, they're not like

556
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,640
Speaker 3: they're they're not for her.

557
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 1: I mean, it fits her personality. So I think it

558
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: is again, like as we're saying this over and over,

559
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 1: I really do feel in this situation it is to

560
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: each their own. Like I really don't have judgment. I'm

561
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: just kind of when you told me about scrow talks,

562
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 1: it took me off guard. And it's just one of

563
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: those things where you see these absurd things happening in

564
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: the news or on social media or whatever, and like

565
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 1: we just got to fucking start talking about this, y'all

566
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 1: be cause it's like we're off the rails here. We're

567
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: getting yeah, shocked, you've gone too falls, like what.

568
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,439
Speaker 4: We've gone too far. Look, if you've got pain in

569
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 4: your nuts, get it, you know.

570
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: But if if you're worried about the wrinkles and your balls.

571
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 1: Also the before and afters I like, the before is better.

572
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 4: That We've got to tell you. They make it makes

573
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,160
Speaker 4: sure dick looks smaller when your ball's hang too.

574
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,159
Speaker 1: Low because your balls are sitting baggy. Also, doesn't that

575
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 1: happen with age? So why are you trying to rush that?

576
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 2: Right? Oh my god?

577
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,439
Speaker 4: I wonder if there's because it's only been going on

578
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 4: since like twenty seventeen. It's sort of something that I read.

579
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 4: But yeah, so we don't have unless there was some

580
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 4: much older gentleman doing it. We don't know what it's

581
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 4: going to look like forty years down the road when

582
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 4: your balls would have naturally sagged.

583
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: Well, botox fades, so like you just have to point done.

584
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, but I would imagine that every four months. Yeah,

585
00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 4: it says every four months. It lasts about four months.

586
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's about the time for vosal.

587
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 2: Thanks.

588
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 4: If I'm going to stick an the eaedle on myself electively.

589
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 4: It's going to make my face look younger.

590
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 1: One. Yeah, I mean that's how I feel at least.

591
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 1: Right Well, if you're worried about your balls and you're

592
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: listening to this podcast, breathe. So let me just tell

593
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: you women don't care. And if you know of or

594
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: are just curious about this, this scrow Talk situation and

595
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: want to talk to us about it, please email. This

596
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,160
Speaker 1: is a topic I really want to hear about what

597
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: the listeners have to say about this. You can always

598
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 1: email us at the Edge at velvet edge dot com,

599
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 1: or if you want to leave us a voicemail, you

600
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 1: can hit that on the The link to in my bio.

601
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 1: Why is that always such a mouthful for me to say?

602
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 2: It's so hard?

603
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 1: Link in my bio on Instagram. On Instagram, I am

604
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 1: at Velvet's Edge. It's also in chips link in his bio,

605
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: which is.

606
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 2: At chip door. Should Chip d o r sc eight.

607
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know if the wrap up feels appropriate

608
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: right now. Nothing feels appropriate because we just talked about

609
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: balls for thirty minutes.

610
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 2: Lots of balls.

611
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: Anyway, as you guys go into the weekend and you're

612
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 1: living on the edge. I hope you always remember, too.

613
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 1: Bye casual, I mean that's all I got, all right,

614
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: Bye bye