Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect.
Speaker 2: Oh shit, we on the air.
Speaker 1: Welcome back to get another carefully reckless episode with your
Speaker 1: girl ess hilarious. Guess what you're so Last Friday at work,
Speaker 1: I felt my baby cack for the first time, and
Speaker 1: I was so so, so, so fucking happy. At first,
Speaker 1: you know, I thought it was just, you know, I
Speaker 1: had a little gas or something like that, just moving
Speaker 1: around on my stomach. But I'm like, oh no, no,
Speaker 1: this is really the baby. And y'all can refer to
Speaker 1: my page. I put it video on Instagram, like because
Speaker 1: they caught my reaction here at work and for her
Speaker 1: to kick me. And mind you, I keep saying her
Speaker 1: because that's what I'm wishing for it, that's what I'm
Speaker 1: hoping for. I'm saying her, That's what I'm manifesting my
Speaker 1: girl yet. But I have not found out the gender
Speaker 1: of the baby yet, right, but I felt her kick
Speaker 1: for the first time, and it's just amazing that they
Speaker 1: call that on air, right, Like, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: was so happy. I didn't know whether to screamshout, call
Speaker 1: my man, call my mom, call my sister. I was
Speaker 1: just so fucking happy now. I put the video up,
Speaker 1: and of course I go through my own comments, and
Speaker 1: I seen people in the comments like she had like
Speaker 1: Shane never had a baby before, Like, and I'm blocking y'all,
Speaker 1: Yes I am, Yeah, I'm blocking y'all because what the
Speaker 1: fuck bitch?
Speaker 2: I was nineteen.
Speaker 1: First of all, I don't even fucking remember like the
Speaker 1: specifics of my pregnancy. I remember me finding out at
Speaker 1: four months that I was pregnant. After that, I was
Speaker 1: just scared because, you know, I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I don't know what my mom gonna think. It was
Speaker 1: so much going through my fucking mind, Like a lot
Speaker 1: of things going through my fucking mind as a young
Speaker 1: mom soon to be mom, like don't fucking play with me,
Speaker 1: because y'all don't fucking know men. And not to mention,
Speaker 1: I was a fucking kid, I you know, I was.
Speaker 1: I was legal eighteen, but I wasn't adult. I was
Speaker 1: still living in my mother's house, you know, me and Rome,
Speaker 1: we were young.
Speaker 2: I wasn't. I wasn't really in tune with my own
Speaker 2: body like that.
Speaker 1: So No, I don't remember the first time I felt
Speaker 1: Ashton kick when he was in my stomach.
Speaker 2: No, I don't.
Speaker 1: I didn't really fully embrace my pregnancy because I was
Speaker 1: scared for my fucking parents to find out I didn't.
Speaker 1: I mean, I never wanted an abortion, and then by
Speaker 1: then I think it was too late for me to
Speaker 1: get one anyway, if I had even thought about going
Speaker 1: that route, which I never did.
Speaker 2: You know, Thank God for my son today.
Speaker 1: But bitch, y'all don't know me, so stop playing with me, okay,
Speaker 1: and I and it's been a long time since I
Speaker 1: called people some bitches. You know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: that's why y'all getting blocked. So I know a lot
Speaker 1: of people that I do block and that I have blocked.
Speaker 1: They reached out to me on my other pages, like
Speaker 1: why did you block me?
Speaker 2: Because your ass sitting up there.
Speaker 1: So then y'all be rude and nasty with it talking
Speaker 1: about she really would set up be in a egg
Speaker 1: like she ain't never fill a baby kick before. Bitch, No,
Speaker 1: I didn't say I didn't fill a baby kick before.
Speaker 1: I said, I don't remember the first time my son
Speaker 1: kicked when I was pregnant with him.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 1: But this is what I'm looking for with this pregnancy.
Speaker 1: This pregnancy is different. It's twelve years later, dumbass, and
Speaker 1: now this is a planned baby, and it's a planned
Speaker 1: baby with the man of my dreams, the man, the
Speaker 1: love of my life, like my best friend, my man,
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, my soon to be fucking husband.
Speaker 2: Like this is different.
Speaker 1: I'm very much in a different space than I was
Speaker 1: eleven twelve years ago, when I was nineteen, just out
Speaker 1: here doing my thang.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So give me some of my fucking grace and I can
Speaker 1: be happy about my baby. She my son is my son.
Speaker 1: Was like, you felt her kick and she ain't kick
Speaker 1: for me. I was like, ah, she gonna kick way, way,
Speaker 1: way more when I get a little bit bigger. You
Speaker 1: wanna say, that's why I need to be in Jersey
Speaker 1: with you, because I need to know when she kicking.
Speaker 1: I love my son, but yeah, don't play with me, y'all.
Speaker 1: I'm just laying y'all know, don't play with me, and
Speaker 1: y'all won't get blocked because y'all think I like blocking.
Speaker 2: Y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all think I like that shit, especially when you know
Speaker 1: YA really going against me. But y'all definitely sitting fucking air.
Speaker 1: Y'all sitting there playing and shit like, don't play with me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I'm emotional too, so I'm definitely bit blocking your
Speaker 1: ways if I feel like you're playing with me. So
Speaker 1: now let's get into it. We have a story that
Speaker 1: somebody's hyped and they want me to fix their mess.
Speaker 3: Hey, Jess, So I'm a lesbian, but I have yet
Speaker 3: to come out yet. My family is very homophobic, so
Speaker 3: it makes it even harder.
Speaker 2: I've been talking to this girl and.
Speaker 3: Have been though key hiding it because I'm around my
Speaker 3: family all the time and i know they would question
Speaker 3: me about it, and it's putting me in a deep
Speaker 3: depression because I want to be able to tell my family,
Speaker 3: but I don't want them to judge me or treat
Speaker 3: me any different. I am still the same O me,
Speaker 3: but I want to freely be a me. I feel
Speaker 3: what's really holding me back is that sometimes my family
Speaker 3: can make some pretty homophobic comments. And sometimes it isn't
Speaker 3: a joking matter, but I don't find it very funny.
Speaker 3: At times, I would literally fake a smile and walk away,
Speaker 3: but it literally kills me and bother me so much
Speaker 3: that they play around with it like that. Mom is
Speaker 3: like my best best friend, but it's that she's the
Speaker 3: main one to do it, so it's like a and
Speaker 3: it makes me mad at her. I want to be
Speaker 3: able to sit down with my family and tell them
Speaker 3: that I am a lesbian and that there is someone
Speaker 3: because I honestly do see myself getting somewhere with this girl,
Speaker 3: and I can even say I'm growing to love her.
Speaker 3: So of course I would want my family to know
Speaker 3: about this. But if my family doesn't take it how
Speaker 3: I expect or doesn't accept me, I know it would
Speaker 3: definitely crush me. But I will not change who I
Speaker 3: am to please them.
Speaker 2: Wow. So okay, I definitely do understand.
Speaker 1: I can empathize with you because I have a little
Speaker 1: sister and I'm not sure if she's bisexual or just homosexual, but.
Speaker 2: I do know that she's.
Speaker 1: Exploring women, and I know the first time that she's
Speaker 1: come to me and she told me about it, I
Speaker 1: kind of laughed it off because I just wasn't expecting it.
Speaker 2: Not that I was making fun of gaze or anything.
Speaker 1: I know. I know a lot of gays, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, making fun. I am a comedian, but
Speaker 1: before I'm a comedian, I was always just like, that's
Speaker 1: my personality anyway, to always play about everything, even things
Speaker 1: that I go through or things that about myself, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And my sister, I'm not sure
Speaker 1: if she ever thought that I can't come to my
Speaker 1: sister and talk to her and she'd be serious, because
Speaker 1: I do. I make fun of straight people, gay people,
Speaker 1: whoever the fuck you are. I mean, if you talk
Speaker 1: about ABU, I'm you know, I'm gonna play around or whatever.
Speaker 1: But I guess I never took into account how she
Speaker 1: would feel about that until just recently, like maybe a
Speaker 1: month or two ago, she told me she was getting
Speaker 1: serious with this girl.
Speaker 2: And I know the girl, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And I've known the girl to be gay for a
Speaker 1: long time, you know, far much longer than my sister.
Speaker 1: And so what I had told my sister is well,
Speaker 1: to be honest with you, No, I didn't take you serious,
Speaker 1: you know, because you were dating guys before. But I
Speaker 1: wanted you to take her serious, or take you know,
Speaker 1: being gay serious if that's what you are, or by
Speaker 1: sc serious, if that's what you are, because for some
Speaker 1: people it's a trend, for others, it's a lifestyle. You
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying, like this is a sexual preference.
Speaker 1: You get what I mean, Like, this is not just
Speaker 1: something you can put on and take off like a costume.
Speaker 2: Like you can't do that.
Speaker 1: So I want you to be serious because people get
Speaker 1: hurt over relationships, and I was letting her know, I
Speaker 1: don't want you to end up hurting this girl.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: Not that I cared more about the girl than my feeling,
Speaker 1: I mean, than my sister, but I know the girl
Speaker 1: was serious about her. You know, I could see after
Speaker 1: my sister sharing some things with me, I could see
Speaker 1: the girl was serious.
Speaker 2: And I could see that my sister was getting serious.
Speaker 1: She was getting there, and I just wanted her to
Speaker 1: think and you know, and to take something like this
Speaker 1: serious because, like I said, you don't want to play
Speaker 1: around with gay people. You just don't like, you know,
Speaker 1: just to say, oh, yeah, I fucked the girl before.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, like you in Layman's terms,
Speaker 1: like that's what it is, because that's what I did
Speaker 1: when I was younger. You get what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: wasn't really ready to be gay. I was just doing
Speaker 1: it because shit, like I was a track considers one girl.
Speaker 1: So I'm like shit, I'm a fucking around with her.
Speaker 1: And then after she broke my heart, I was like,
Speaker 1: oh no, fuck Dad, like I don't want to do
Speaker 1: it no more. But I was really just trying it
Speaker 1: any way to see what it was about. And that's
Speaker 1: okay to be curious as well, but to lead somebody on,
Speaker 1: I think is what I was trying to tell my sister.
Speaker 1: Don't do like because the girl was serious about her.
Speaker 1: So you know in your situation. That's why I can
Speaker 1: say I can relate to that.
Speaker 2: Hold up, Hold up.
Speaker 1: I know the shit getting good. But listen to just
Speaker 1: a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me,
Speaker 1: you'll listen. Now as far as your family, was your
Speaker 1: family like that before? You know, like, because if they've
Speaker 1: always been that way, I don't think that it's a
Speaker 1: it's a direct jab to you being gay.
Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If you got imagine being in the Waynes family and
Speaker 1: you come out with Marlin and Damon, Wayne's and all
Speaker 1: the imagine being in that family and you come out
Speaker 1: them people have always played like that. You can tell
Speaker 1: they're a very tight knit, close family that play about everything.
Speaker 1: They joke on each other for each other's problems and
Speaker 1: shit like that.
Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Imagine that now is it one of those things or
Speaker 1: do you feel like they personally attack you because you're gay.
Speaker 1: Now that's two different things. You know, you gotta let
Speaker 1: me know. But I think you should actually say, this
Speaker 1: is your family. You know, these ain't just strangers. Sit
Speaker 1: down and talk to them and tell them how that
Speaker 1: makes you feel. Now, they may be able to censor
Speaker 1: sometimes when they feel certain ways, and maybe sometimes you
Speaker 1: still may even get those jokes, bea the butt of
Speaker 1: some of those jokes. You have to learn how to
Speaker 1: be confident within yourself though, you get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You got to learn how to like really really not
Speaker 1: gonna say, have tough skin. I mean, but you know
Speaker 1: what comes with being gay, you know what I mean? Like,
Speaker 1: it's so many that came before you that it's so
Speaker 1: many stories that you know, and this goes for gays, trans, bisexual,
Speaker 1: pant sexual.
Speaker 2: Whatever you are other than heterosexual.
Speaker 1: If you know, these are just the struggles and the critique,
Speaker 1: the criticism that comes along with it. And we also
Speaker 1: live in the world today where nobody takes anything serious,
Speaker 1: but they make everything serious. You get what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: And I know that's contradicting, but so is everything else.
Speaker 1: So is this motherfucking world in these times.
Speaker 2: You get me.
Speaker 1: So you just have to prepare yourself for certain backlash,
Speaker 1: whether it be from your family or not, and you
Speaker 1: gotta stand in that shit. Look, I'm gay, I'm a
Speaker 1: homosexual woman. I'm in love with my girlfriend, and yeah,
Speaker 1: we you know what I'm saying, There's so many other
Speaker 1: things to worry about, and it is somebody criticizing you
Speaker 1: for your sexuality. Fuck them people, because they don't have
Speaker 1: to go to sleep with you. They ain't gotta wake
Speaker 1: up to you. They don't know you, they don't know
Speaker 1: what your heart is like, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: They don't know you. You know, some people hear the
Speaker 1: word gay and just bust out laughing just because of
Speaker 1: so many jokes and you know, stigmas that has been
Speaker 1: built around it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Fuck that.
Speaker 1: That's why a lot of people don't even like to
Speaker 1: be classified as gay, a lot of people, you know,
Speaker 1: and in certain states they're trying to even ban the
Speaker 1: fucking word, you know what I mean. But if you
Speaker 1: focus too much on that shit, that shit can brain
Speaker 1: you and take away from your happiness and who you
Speaker 1: really are.
Speaker 2: Fuck that, fuck all that.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying, you know, because trust me,
Speaker 1: you ain't the only one going through this. You know,
Speaker 1: but I love a person who still can stand in
Speaker 1: their originality, standing who the fuck they are.
Speaker 2: And I can tell it really really bothers you.
Speaker 1: But sit down and talk to your family, because communication
Speaker 1: is the best thing, especially for families.
Speaker 2: You get me.
Speaker 1: I want you to know that, and I want you
Speaker 1: to update me. And congratulations on you and your new love. Man,
Speaker 1: you're saying you falling in love with her, you know
Speaker 1: you really really care about her and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: Shit like that is hard to find these days.
Speaker 1: You know. Everybody is either superficial, damaged and fucking hurt
Speaker 1: from previous relationships, and before they heal themselves, they trying
Speaker 1: to jump in other relationships and make the new person
Speaker 1: pay for what the old motherfucker put them through and
Speaker 1: all of that. Love is just not easy. Love was
Speaker 1: never easy, but it seemed like it's beyond hard to
Speaker 1: find genuine.
Speaker 2: Love these days.
Speaker 1: So I say, if that's where you're getting it from,
Speaker 1: and you genuinely feeling in your heart that this person
Speaker 1: is for you. Keep on pushing with that, Mama. That's
Speaker 1: all I can say to you. But definitely sit down,
Speaker 1: have a talk with your family moving forward. Let them
Speaker 1: know and then the conversation. Let them know that you
Speaker 1: still love them and you expect for them to love
Speaker 1: you no matter who you bring home, no matter what
Speaker 1: sex you are attracted to you or whatever, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Let them know that this is serious
Speaker 1: for you and they hurt your feelings a lot of
Speaker 1: times with a lot of their jokes.
Speaker 2: Now, also let them know.
Speaker 1: I'm not expecting for y'all to get quiet when I
Speaker 1: come around, you know, but just have some respect for
Speaker 1: me in that right, you know, respect me, don't disrespect me.
Speaker 1: I'm cool with a little joke here in there, you know,
Speaker 1: unless you're not. But you can't expect for nobody not
Speaker 1: not to say nothing, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Let's just be real and then shit.
Speaker 1: I'm the type I'll start making jokes about they ass.
Speaker 1: Somebody broke, somebody lost their job, somebody can't afford you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like shit, start cracking back at
Speaker 1: they ass. If you don't want to sit down and
Speaker 1: talk shit, and then when they want high lanst you like, yo,
Speaker 1: why you say that? The same reason why y'all coming
Speaker 1: at me for my sexuality, the same reason why y'all
Speaker 1: feel like y'all can make jokes like I'm not a
Speaker 1: real person and this is not my real life.
Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You can either go that route, that mediation where you
Speaker 1: can sit down and talk to them, or you can
Speaker 1: start giving them a taste of their own medicine, and
Speaker 1: then before you know it, somebody ain't gonna be comfortable,
Speaker 1: somebody gonna open them off and say something.
Speaker 2: All right, what's up with you? What's up with me?
Speaker 1: Is I'm fucking gay, and y'all keep on shooting at
Speaker 1: me with these fucking jokes. But you ain't had a
Speaker 1: job since, you know, three years ago. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying.
Speaker 2: You ain't been able to afford your groceries for three years. Now.
Speaker 2: You got five different baby daddies. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm gay, because I don't want five different
Speaker 1: baby daddy.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Start getting funny back with theirs now. I know that's
Speaker 1: promoting a little bit of violence.
Speaker 2: I know that.
Speaker 1: I know how that may sound, but I want you
Speaker 1: to know that that comes with that tough skin, that
Speaker 1: come with that thick skin. Fuck that lets some of
Speaker 1: that shit roll down your back, because, like I said,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you're loved, you're happy.
Speaker 1: But yeah, talk to your family and if they ain't
Speaker 1: to talking too tight, like I said, go to Option B,
Speaker 1: Plan B. I bet you the motherfucker's ease up off
Speaker 1: your back.
Speaker 2: I bet you. But keep me updated.
Speaker 1: Girl, If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial
Speaker 1: and then we'll be right back.
Speaker 2: Okay, y'all.
Speaker 1: So next I want to do one of the just
Speaker 1: Fix My message that I did on Breakfast Club. So
Speaker 1: this woman had called up and she was saying how
Speaker 1: she had been married to her husband for I can't
Speaker 1: remember the amount of years, but they were together for
Speaker 1: a long time, and when they first got together, he
Speaker 1: started cheating on her and she tried to leave him,
Speaker 1: but he said that he would off himself, you know,
Speaker 1: he would unlive himself, basically commit suicide if he couldn't
Speaker 1: be with her, and blah blah blah blah blah. So
Speaker 1: she went back to him because of course, she cares
Speaker 1: about those who she loved, and although he cheated on her,
Speaker 1: she still loved him, and she loved him enough to
Speaker 1: go back because he and to kill himself. Now I
Speaker 1: stopped there just for a minute. I usually I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna say I don't take that type of shit serious.
Speaker 1: But my thing is my nigga, you want me to
Speaker 1: come back to you after you fucking cheated on me
Speaker 1: all because you said you're about to end your life,
Speaker 1: and then I will say some shit like, well end it,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, just to call their bluff.
Speaker 2: However, she got back with them.
Speaker 1: They had kids, they had three children, and he was
Speaker 1: doing good for a while, and then he started creeping
Speaker 1: around on her again, cheating throughout the years on this woman,
Speaker 1: and she got to a point where she was like, listen,
Speaker 1: I want a divorce. I'm leaving your ass again, and
Speaker 1: this time I'm staying gone, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And he actually really did kill himself because she left him.
Speaker 1: What I got from that was those were deeper issues,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying that that guy had.
Speaker 2: You know, he had the love of his life.
Speaker 1: Obviously, he was totally in love with his wife for sure,
Speaker 1: but I think it was more of abandonment starting from
Speaker 1: the root of his childhood or something like that. Somebody
Speaker 1: had to leave him. Somebody who he cared so much
Speaker 1: about left his ass. I don't know if it was
Speaker 1: one of his parents or a sibling or a grandmother
Speaker 1: or somebody. But you don't just kill yourself when your
Speaker 1: lover leaves you, when it's your fault.
Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying, Like, Yo, you cheated on
Speaker 2: this lady.
Speaker 1: She tried to leave you before, and you told her
Speaker 1: that she was going to kill yourself, so she came
Speaker 1: back to you. She gave you another chance, and you
Speaker 1: come back married, you gave you children. Cheated on her
Speaker 1: again and again and again, she said. Throughout years of
Speaker 1: their marriage, he cheated, and she finally got enough of
Speaker 1: it and was fed up, mustered up the strength to
Speaker 1: divorce him, and he killed himself because she left.
Speaker 2: He couldn't deal with it.
Speaker 1: So she was saying that she had blamed herself for
Speaker 1: a while, you know, because they not It wasn't just them,
Speaker 1: They had three children, you know, and and she just
Speaker 1: didn't know how to face them and deal with that.
Speaker 2: And you know, and still have to grieve.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like for her a longtime lover,
Speaker 1: you know, and the father of her children. But the
Speaker 1: advice I gave her is not not to blame yourself.
Speaker 1: I've never been our predicament, nor have I ever been married,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But some advice is just obvious,
Speaker 1: like listen, that was not your fault. That was not
Speaker 1: your fault, because that's a lot of pressure on you
Speaker 1: that dreams you like, he was fighting demons of his
Speaker 1: own long before you, before the marriage, before you became
Speaker 1: his girlfriend, before he met you. He was fighting demons obviously,
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. And I urged her to
Speaker 1: seek therapy, you know, for mental health, and because that
Speaker 1: that could drive someone to suicide as well, blaming themselves
Speaker 1: for a life that was lost, a life that you
Speaker 1: know that they feel, you know, was their fault, you know,
Speaker 1: because he took his life. He had told her that
Speaker 1: he was going to do it again, and she was like, right, well,
Speaker 1: look whatever, you know what I mean. She didn't she
Speaker 1: didn't think that he would do it this time. And
Speaker 1: then she just got fed up and just tired of
Speaker 1: all that she went through. She was miserable in her marriage,
Speaker 1: and then when he killed himself, she felt like, damn it,
Speaker 1: maybe if I would have stayed with him this time too.
Speaker 2: No, don't feel that way. Don't.
Speaker 1: And there's some other women I'm pretty sure going through
Speaker 1: this same fucking thing. No, ma'am, you should not have
Speaker 1: to feel that way. You pick your head up. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: and you go sit down and you talk to somebody.
Speaker 1: I know it's going to be hard for her to
Speaker 1: move forward with three children, you know, because looking at
Speaker 1: them every day will remind me of their father and
Speaker 1: the times that we shared as a family, you know.
Speaker 1: But time does heal all wounds, and to help that
Speaker 1: talking to a professional person, a professional therapist that can
Speaker 1: also heal wounds as well. Like and then we often say,
Speaker 1: you know, as black people, I don't need therapy, We
Speaker 1: won't need therapy.
Speaker 2: It's not just black men. I've heard black women say that.
Speaker 1: Too, like, no, I'm not gonna send on somebody coach
Speaker 1: and tell her my business, because no offer them to
Speaker 1: judge me, like no, no, no, no, no no, that's
Speaker 1: literally what they are for. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: You have deep, deep, deep issues with yourself.
Speaker 2: If that's how you look at a therapist.
Speaker 1: And I do understand not everybody is perfect, not even therapists,
Speaker 1: but they are licensed, professional people who are put in
Speaker 1: place for people who go through things like that. And
Speaker 1: so I want to speak to all the women you
Speaker 1: know and men who are going through something like that
Speaker 1: who actually take the blank for someone else, taking their
Speaker 1: own life in that instance. I don't know if any
Speaker 1: of you or you know my listeners pray to the
Speaker 1: same God. I pray to you every night in morning,
Speaker 1: but listen, He does heal as well, and he listens.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't want somebody to talk back. You just
Speaker 1: want somebody to listen. Look, talk to God. Shut your door,
Speaker 1: you know, you get on your knees, you lay in
Speaker 1: your bed, you talk to God.
Speaker 2: That's what you do.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And that's only if you
Speaker 1: don't want somebody to talk back.
Speaker 2: Trust me, He does communicate with us.
Speaker 1: But if you don't want to hear a voice, talk
Speaker 1: back to you because you feel like you're going to
Speaker 1: be judge, talk to him first, and he will show
Speaker 1: you how to love on yourself and how to heal
Speaker 1: you heal yourself again, you know, and and just get
Speaker 1: through things a bit easier, you know, and and just
Speaker 1: have better days than before. And on that note, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna end this episode, y'all. Jesus, I've been noxious this
Speaker 1: whole time, but it's all right, it's all right. This
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