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Speaker 1: your question At the sound of the beat.

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Speaker 2: Hey, t you just wanted to say, I'm a huge

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Speaker 2: fan of you in the podcast and I remind you

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Speaker 2: so much. I didn't want some advice, though, So two

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Speaker 2: years ago I got into my very first serious relationship

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Speaker 2: but because of work our past happened across again and

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Speaker 2: we've been talking and just a couple of nights ago

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Speaker 2: we talked about how we were willing to try things

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Speaker 2: again and you know, test the waters. And then today

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Speaker 2: we're in the car he gets a phone call from

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Speaker 2: this girl and she's like, I took a test, it's

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Speaker 2: positive and whatever. And then he, you know, we start

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Speaker 2: talking about it and he's like, well, when we were,

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Speaker 2: I met at the club. And he says that he

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Speaker 2: doesn't think he's the father. He says that, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: it's just like a tactic. I don't really know what

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Speaker 2: try things again. If you know, he slept with another girl,

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Speaker 2: well we were broken up, because yes, we were broken up,

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Speaker 2: but also like it's kind of uncomfortable. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm like one foot in, one foot out. I just

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Speaker 2: want some guidance or like, you know, to see where

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Speaker 2: things are willing to go. I told him I'm down

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Speaker 2: to try it again. I'm just it's in the back

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Speaker 1: Mind, alrighty, Julie, Okay, Well it is a little bit

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Speaker 1: of a pickle for sure. Okay, let's see, I don't

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Speaker 1: know how long you guys are broken up. That kind

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Speaker 1: of like depends for me a little. But truth be told,

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Speaker 1: you guys were broken up. It's free range. He can

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Speaker 1: do as he pleases, so can you. First of all,

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Speaker 1: now if you're willing to try it, you do have

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Speaker 1: the choice. Okay, first of all, let's figure out if

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Speaker 1: to figure that out? I don't know because we have

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Speaker 1: to wait, right But that's it. Yeah, But here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: What would I do? Okay? Ah, damn. It's a difficult one,

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Speaker 1: this one. This one has me a little stuck. Because

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Speaker 1: if you really love this person and he's being honest

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Speaker 1: being honest with you. And I commend that. I respect

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Speaker 1: that very much. I think it's gonna take a lot

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Speaker 1: really depends on you. I mean, do you see yourself caring?

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Speaker 1: Do you have that in your heart, in your person

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Speaker 1: That is only a question that you can answer, and

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Speaker 1: there's no right or wrong It's not gonna make you

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Speaker 1: a bad person if you walk away from him because

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Speaker 1: not like if it was just the wine one night's stand.

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Speaker 1: he could have ignored that call, he could have hidden it,

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Speaker 1: I'll leave it at that, Julie, So let me know,

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Speaker 1: I want to kind of know what happens. Let me

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Speaker 1: go back on, you know, on the recording, like what

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Speaker 1: I want to know what you decide. Wishing you the

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Speaker 1: very very very very best. All right, guys, let's move

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Speaker 3: Hi chikies, how are you Hope you're doing good? Just

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Speaker 3: to let you know you motivate me a lot, and

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Speaker 3: I love your empowering journey. I love your manifesting journey.

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Speaker 3: But I wanted to ask you what's your most effected

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Speaker 1: Ooh, Irene, I like, thank you, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: I really love where I'm at in my life right

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Speaker 1: It is one of my favorite ways to manifest because

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Speaker 1: that brings you good things. So if you're not doing that,

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Speaker 1: But it all is intertwined. It all just works together.

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Speaker 1: vision board because you visualize it, but you could also

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Speaker 1: like really believe it and believe that you deserve it.

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Speaker 1: You deserve it because you do. Okay, thank you, I read. Okay, guys,

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Speaker 1: All right, Mariisol, she was just like, straight up the

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Speaker 1: of advice has has always come from books. For me.

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Speaker 1: The Four Agreements, it has been the best advice and

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Speaker 1: I think the best out of the four for me.

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Speaker 1: Besides not taking things personal, are not expecting things from

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Speaker 1: haven't read that book, the Four Agreements, and I believe

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Speaker 1: they have a fifth now amazing life changing, great advice

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Speaker 1: for just living your best life. But yes, not expecting

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Speaker 1: things from others, just that will life changing, life changing.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, Marisoult, that is it. You guys, Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for your questions. I really really enjoyed this episode.

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