1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: don't know y'all bat all at all. 3 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 2: So don't give the. 4 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 1: Bus busy. 5 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 2: Steve listening to. 6 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: Show, don't joy? Yeah, joy, you know you. 7 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 3: Love you gonna turn. 8 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: To turn the mouth the turn you probably got to 9 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: turn the mouth, turn out the water of the money 10 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: up looking come come out you think. 11 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 4: That, Uh huh, I sure will come on and everybody 12 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 4: you are listening to the voice, come on, dig me now, 13 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 4: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. 14 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: Well, okay, here we go. 15 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 4: You know what's important, what's what can be a huge 16 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 4: part of your success is if you if you find 17 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 4: a balance, if you find a balance in your life. 18 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 4: That's that's been very important for me. And I've really 19 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 4: never phrased it this way until now, but I was 20 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 4: kind of thinking about it after my wife and I mean, 21 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 4: we set up one night recently. 22 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: Man. 23 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 4: You know, I often come on here and this is 24 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 4: kind of an inspirational moment of the show, and I 25 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 4: try to remind people about that most important relationship between 26 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 4: you and God. And that's that's the apex of it. 27 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 4: That's that's the that's the top of the crown. You've 28 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 4: got to form the relationship with God. If you don't, 29 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 4: everything else struggles. It's hard to be a good husband 30 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 4: without God. It's hard to be a good family man 31 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 4: without God. It's hard to be successful without God. Man, 32 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 4: it's hard to be hard to get through this thing 33 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 4: called life without God. 34 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 1: So that's clear. 35 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 4: But at the same time, you can't talk about God. 36 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 4: Twenty four seven. You got to go to work. Come on, man, 37 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 4: let's just be real. I ain't doing I ain't your pastor, 38 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 4: and I ain't at your church. But let's just be 39 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 4: real about it. You know, if people tell you got 40 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 4: to keep your mind stayed on Him and all like that, 41 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 4: that's a true statement. 42 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: Got to keep your mind stayed in that area. 43 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 4: I don't not here to tell you how to live, 44 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 4: but you got to keep your mind stayed in that 45 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 4: area of God, of doing the right thing, caring about people. 46 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 4: That's what I took it as. Now I could be wrong. 47 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 4: I apologize if I'm not saying it the way you've 48 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 4: been taught. I can only do me now. But after that, 49 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 4: you got to go to work. You got to have 50 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 4: some fun. You got to take care of your business. 51 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 4: And that's the balance. You have to find so it 52 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 4: once you focus on showing up your relationship with God, 53 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 4: you gotta balance this now. Now, you got to allocate 54 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 4: some time I don't care who you are, for your family. 55 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 4: If you're gonna have a family, you got to allocate. 56 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 5: Some time for them. 57 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: See, we can't just marry these women or make these 58 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: kids and then neglect them. 59 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 4: And fellas, especially if I'm talking to men out here 60 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 4: and ladies you can listen to, but listen, if you 61 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 4: find yourself struggling in your life, man, and you can't 62 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 4: seem to get it together, let's just go over a 63 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 4: couple of things. The first two things, if you find 64 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 4: yourself struggling, you can't seem to pull it together and 65 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 4: reach your goals and get the where you want to go, 66 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 4: Let's just do a check how is your relationship with God? 67 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 4: And then next how much time are you taking to 68 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 4: allocate for your family? Now, your family don't always live 69 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 4: in your house, but if you made them, they yours 70 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 4: and the responsibility to them is never lessen because you 71 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 4: don't stay that no more. Because you and the girl 72 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 4: broke up, You and a woman don't speak that, hey, man, 73 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 4: that don't ever release you from the obligation. Feel me 74 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:22,239 Speaker 4: what I'm telling you this now because I'm not telling 75 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 4: you something I'm wondering about. I've had to live through 76 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 4: them years. So two things you can start looking at. 77 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 4: If you not where you want to be, and you ain't, 78 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 4: you ain't really silent. You can't figure out why you 79 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 4: keep spending your wheels. Have you just done a random inventory? 80 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: Man? Have you just checked on your relationship with God? 81 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 4: Have you checked on the time you spending dedicated towards 82 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 4: your family, your children that you created? If them two 83 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 4: things is out of sink, man, that I can tell 84 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 4: you right now, you can go on and get to 85 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 4: explaining yourself away just like that. 86 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 1: Hey man, how come you ain't where you want to be? 87 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 6: Man? 88 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 1: Comes man, I really ain't. Well, if you really ain't, 89 00:05:58,960 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 1: then you really ain't. 90 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 4: The third thing is you got to allocate the necessary 91 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 4: time for your business. 92 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 1: You got to handle your business. 93 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 4: All of this, man, is the way it works, and 94 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 4: the order the order is God first, family second. 95 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 1: Then you got to handle all your business. But as me, 96 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: and this is what we do. 97 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 4: If I don't handle my business, I can't take care 98 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 4: of my family, true statement. But if your business is 99 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 4: in front of your family. 100 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 1: You out of order. 101 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 4: Now, that's all we talking about now in it. See, 102 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 4: that's all we really say in here now, fellas you know, 103 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 4: you know I mean, I mean, come on, man, you know, 104 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 4: let's have a real conversation about being better. You know, 105 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 4: if you have created these children, you got to handle 106 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 4: your business. You may not like the girl no more. 107 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 1: You and the woman might have. 108 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 4: Broken up, y'all might go your own way. But what 109 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 4: that got to do with the child though, Man, you 110 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 4: got to have under your business. They got to know 111 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 4: who daddy is. That's your obligation. Man, that God ain't 112 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 4: letting you off the hook for that. Try it. 113 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: Go ahead and try it and think you're gonna get 114 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: off the hook with that. Cause you not, man, You 115 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 1: just not. I'm sorry, man, dog Steve, Why you coming 116 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: like that? Because I did it like that. I did it. Man. 117 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 4: I was over here trying to reshape my life, get 118 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 4: myself up on my feet when I was a homeless 119 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 4: man and trying to come back. 120 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 1: Man, I thought I had to take care of me 121 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: first and then so I can neglect it. Care about 122 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: them kids. 123 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 4: Man, I ain't hid at work, man, God kept his 124 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 4: knee on my neck for a long time for that 125 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 4: one right there, till I finally learned the lesson hold up, man, 126 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 4: put these phone calls in, Go spend some time, do something, 127 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 4: And then it started turning around for me. You know, 128 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 4: I can't be there all the time because I am 129 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 4: out here on the grind, in the hustle. But at 130 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 4: the same time, man, some more phone calls, some more letters, 131 00:07:56,760 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 4: some more how he hes something, then take care of 132 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 4: your business. Man. 133 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: You got to work hard to be successful. 134 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 2: You know. 135 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 4: Sometimes I don't put that in there. I just live it, 136 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 4: and I expect my sons to emulate that. But I 137 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 4: gotta talk to them all the time. 138 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: How hard you got to work to be something. It's 139 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: all out of salt on it. 140 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 7: Man. 141 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 4: If you gotta target in mind, you gotta go. You 142 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 4: gotta wake up every day trying to get there, and 143 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 4: you can't get tired of it because it never ends. 144 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 4: You're gonna always be this way. That's how life is 145 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 4: designed and set up. You got to be a hard worker. 146 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 5: Man. 147 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 4: If you always looking for some time to chill, and man, 148 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 4: I wanna go do what I want to do, you 149 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 4: ain't gonna make it in order to be successful, you 150 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 4: have to do a series of things that you're uncomfortable doing, 151 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 4: and work is the thing that most of us are 152 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 4: uncomfortable doing. 153 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: It's so much easier to chill matter. I wish I 154 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: could kick back with a cigar man all the time, 155 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: but I can't, Man, I can't because I got to work. 156 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,959 Speaker 4: Then the last piece of the balance pipe balance piece 157 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 4: is you gotta take some time out to enjoy yourself. 158 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 4: But if you ain't where you wanna be, you ain't 159 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:21,839 Speaker 4: got a lot of time to enjoy yourself. Quit thinking, man, 160 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 4: that this balance is even. It's a whole lot of God, 161 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 4: a whole lot of family, a whole lot of business, 162 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:32,679 Speaker 4: and a little bit of chilling. The chilling can't be 163 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 4: equal to the family, the business, all your God. If 164 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:39,320 Speaker 4: the chilling is equal to any of them, you ain't. 165 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: Gonna make it. Quit chilling, man, and go to work 166 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: like a man. Do what you're supposed to do. 167 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 4: Work on your family, work on your relationship, work on 168 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 4: your God, work on your business. And then when you chill, 169 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 4: you might not chill as law, but you show gonna 170 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 4: chill bigger. You're gonna ball bigger. 171 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:55,839 Speaker 1: Baby. 172 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,319 Speaker 3: You're listening morning show. 173 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:05,839 Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen, it's here again. That almighty God has 174 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 4: done it again. Man, time after time after time. Do 175 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 4: you realize he's never ever been late? You realize he's 176 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 4: never not showed up. He's the one factor that can 177 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 4: be counted on one thousand percent of the time. Do 178 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 4: you know he's the only factor in your life that 179 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 4: has done every single thing he said he was gonna 180 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 4: do without excuse, reasoning, nothing, He just he's just awesome. 181 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: He just that are no superdatives for it. 182 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 4: Man, I'm trying to get everybody to understand the real 183 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 4: value in having a relationship with God and wake. 184 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 1: It up every day. 185 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 4: Man, this is special. I don't take it for granted. Man, 186 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 4: I invite you to do the same. It's Steve Harmony 187 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:56,680 Speaker 4: show right here, you feel me. It's Sharlon Strawberry Colin 188 00:10:56,760 --> 00:11:00,679 Speaker 4: for real, Mississippi Monica. And Junior, I don't even I 189 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:02,959 Speaker 4: don't know where he at. Don't even ask me, So 190 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 4: don't even ask me about this boy. I don't even 191 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 4: feel like it. 192 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: Junior, Yeah I did. 193 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 8: I didn't want to ask you about these honors. Perseverance. 194 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 8: What do you know about perseverance? Stay in the court 195 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 8: and how. 196 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 4: Much do I know yah perseverance, I would I would 197 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 4: A shorter answer would be, is what I don't know 198 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 4: about it? I have done nothing but persevere. Now I 199 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 4: found out truly what perseverance meant meant back in nineteen 200 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 4: seventy six. That's when I first started to understand what 201 00:11:55,559 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 4: perseverance meant, because it's one of the cardinal principles of life, 202 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:10,559 Speaker 4: is perseverance. But when it comes to the ability to persevere, 203 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:15,839 Speaker 4: I think I have a key factor. You know, I 204 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 4: should say it's for closing remarks, but most people that 205 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 4: listen to the opening remarks aren't available for their closing remarks. 206 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: One of my key secrets, or I would say. 207 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 4: Key characteristics to being able to persevere is I have 208 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 4: an uncanny knack of suffering. I know how to suffer, 209 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 4: and that it took me a long time to come 210 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 4: to that admission, but I know how to suffer. Most 211 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 4: people don't like suffering. I don't like suffering. Nobody I 212 00:12:55,280 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 4: know likes to suffer. It's just an uncomfortable process. But 213 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 4: once you can wrap your mind arout that suffering is 214 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 4: a part of the growth, that suffering is a part 215 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 4: of development, and that suffering don't last always. Once you 216 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:15,959 Speaker 4: can wrap your mind around that, you can handle it better. 217 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 4: And if you can handle suffering, you can persevere. Wow. 218 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 3: All right, that's a word. 219 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:27,559 Speaker 1: That might be a little too deep this morning. This 220 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: word shock me. 221 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 3: You just shocked me, all right? 222 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: I felt that. All right? 223 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 7: All right, we're about to get ignorant from that deepness. 224 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 7: Here we go with the ignorance coming up at thirty 225 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:42,679 Speaker 7: two minutes after. We'll run that prank back right after this. 226 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 7: You're listening Morning show, It is time now to run 227 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 7: that prank back with Junior in for the nephew. 228 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 3: What you got Jr? 229 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 1: Triple casket, triple casket, let's just find out what it is. 230 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 6: Triple caskets Mortuary. 231 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: This is Calvin. I, Uh, hey, how you doing? Uh 232 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: you said, Calvin? Right, yes, sir, h how you Calvin? 233 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: How you doing? 234 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 5: My name is Brandon Man, Brandon Giles. Uh, okay, I'm calling. 235 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 5: We've got somebody that uh has passed actually three people 236 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 5: passed away. I thank you for that, man. It was 237 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 5: kind of expected. Uh so, you know, it wasn't something 238 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 5: that caught us off guard. But you know, but all 239 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 5: in all, you know, we're still grieving about losing our 240 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 5: loved ones. But uh, but I wanted to give you 241 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 5: all a call. We're trying to pick a particular funeral 242 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 5: home on who we want to uh take care of 243 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 5: the service. 244 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, sir, yes, sir. 245 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 6: Okay, I can definitely help you with that, and we 246 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 6: can pretty much do the whole game that we We 247 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 6: can make sure that your need to take them from 248 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 6: you know, from from now on, we're here for you 249 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 6: to get that out. Uh what is your name? Need? Uh? 250 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 6: You said three people? 251 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 3: Yes? 252 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, I wanted to bring attention to you. Do 253 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 5: you got customize caskets? 254 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 6: Yes, we do, gold plating, uh, engraving. Uh even have 255 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 6: a new thing where we can put the picture of 256 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 6: the person on the outside like a semi gloss coating 257 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 6: a couple of hours. 258 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't need that on no goal 259 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: or nothing like that. Listen, listen, what I want to do. 260 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 5: Is it any way that you could maybe uh customize 261 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 5: a casket that can accommodate three people? 262 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 2: Uh? 263 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 6: Yes, like we can we can customize each individual casket 264 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 6: for each individual. 265 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 5: No, no, no, Calvin, I didn't want to ask. What 266 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 5: I'm saying is if I want to like like I said, 267 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 5: like I said, deep I could they was all close. 268 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 5: You know, I don't have a problem with all three 269 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 5: of them being in the same casket. 270 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 6: I get you, uh, you know, to my knowledge is 271 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 6: as far as I've been in this business, I've never uh, 272 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 6: I'm not really sure we can actually do that. 273 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I mean, but what's the problem 274 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: if we can get them all in there? 275 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 6: Well, sir, I mean I think that's a I don't 276 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 6: even think if, for one, it's legal in this state 277 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 6: or any state. Uh, three people in one casket and 278 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 6: ethics wise, I uh, that's not really something that we 279 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 6: actually you know. 280 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 5: But if you customize in a casket, Calvin, then you 281 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 5: ought to be able to put as many people in there. 282 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 5: If you make it deep enough and wide enough, ought 283 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 5: to get three people in there. 284 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: Right. 285 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:45,360 Speaker 6: Well, the customization is is the outer side of the 286 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 6: casket and maybe you know some people even put TV 287 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 6: screens on the inside or some of their their their 288 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 6: loved ones, uh, memorable mementos. H. We customize it for that, 289 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 6: you know, color wise, So. 290 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 5: What about winning win? Is a person real big uh, 291 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 5: you know, a heavyset person. You know, you got to 292 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 5: have a casket that can accommodate them. Right, Yes, you 293 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 5: ought to be able to put three people in one 294 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 5: casket if they can fit, if you put two one 295 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 5: way in one the other other way, and you ought 296 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 5: to be to have all three of them in there 297 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 5: at one time. 298 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 6: Is there anybody else around you and your family that 299 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 6: can help talk with me about this. 300 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 1: I'm talking you right now. 301 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 6: That's not something we're really uh. 302 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 5: That ain't something you used to doing, cabin but I'm 303 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,880 Speaker 5: calling you telling you that's the way I want this customize. 304 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 1: Man. 305 00:17:36,119 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 6: A right, brother, Look, brother, brother, just just chill out 306 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 6: with customers, all right. 307 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 1: So we're trying to get three people. 308 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, I have a standard plan, it'd be a low 309 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 6: end standard plan for three individual caskets. 310 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:52,119 Speaker 1: We ain't got We. 311 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 5: Don't have enough money for three individual caskets. I keep 312 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,320 Speaker 5: telling you that we got room for one casket. We 313 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 5: just need to big enough, man, so you could get 314 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 5: everybody in there and close the door. 315 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 6: I'm not good. I'm not I don't want to go 316 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 6: back and forth with you, sir. I know this is 317 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 6: the time. 318 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 5: Then you ain't gotta go back and forth with me. 319 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:13,200 Speaker 5: Buildings that I need, I can bury my family. I 320 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:15,680 Speaker 5: won't you tell me you're gonna get three people in 321 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,679 Speaker 5: the casket looking good that. 322 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 2: We cannot do that. 323 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: You holling that. Man, I'm the one going through bereathing. 324 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 2: I understand that, but you are, you're you use the 325 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:26,880 Speaker 2: foul language. 326 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 6: We can't do it. 327 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:32,920 Speaker 5: Brother, you hear me, No, no, no, hold on my 328 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 5: cousin them saying they wanted to use no sir, No, okay, 329 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 5: look im, look man, man, y'all gonna bury these three 330 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 5: people and you gonna put all three of them in 331 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 5: the same damn casking man, two on one way, on 332 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 5: one end and one on the other. 333 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: One. 334 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 6: Man, sir, if you're drinking, just stop. 335 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:55,679 Speaker 5: I ain't nobody Let me tell you something, man, let 336 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 5: me say this to you. Either y'all gonna bury my 337 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 5: cousins the way I Calvin. 338 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 2: You gonna get your who you're talking to. 339 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 1: That's what's gonna now. 340 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 6: Now no, now, that's it, right there, sir. I've been 341 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 6: trying to be as professional as I can. This whole 342 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 6: conversation is as crazy as it is. 343 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 2: But now I ain't nothing crazy. 344 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, you told you I want 345 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: you to bear. 346 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 2: My Come on down here. 347 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,239 Speaker 6: I got some places to put your body and your 348 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 6: cousin's body. 349 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:24,879 Speaker 2: How about that? Huh are you talking about yeah? Because 350 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 2: you know you don't. 351 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 5: You don't sound too damn confident. You don't sound too confident, Calvin. 352 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:32,879 Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell you right now. I'm gonna tell you 353 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 6: right now, this ain't the place and I'm not the 354 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 6: one you will be in the ground messing with us. 355 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 6: Matter fact, if you come here, I'm you up. How 356 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 6: about that? 357 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 1: Okay, Calvin? 358 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 5: Okay, Calvin, let me tell you something, Calvin, me and 359 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 5: Tommy gonna be down there today. 360 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 1: Then I'm bringing Tommy with me. 361 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 6: Who is Tommy? 362 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,120 Speaker 5: Huh? There's a nephew, tim Me from the Steve Harvey 363 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,199 Speaker 5: Marty Show. Baby, you just got brank Calvin. 364 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 6: Yo, y'all had me bring the whip, hell, y'all. 365 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:09,640 Speaker 1: I just want to know, reginal that works. 366 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 6: Yes, I'm a whip Reggie. You bet watch what you drink? 367 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 6: You bet watch with you. I'm on your revenge. 368 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 4: Red. 369 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,159 Speaker 1: Hey, ca, for give me this man. What's the baddest 370 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land. 371 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 6: Man, You know it's nothing but the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 372 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:30,199 Speaker 6: Y'all got got me. 373 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 1: Got what's too early? Follow this way? And we don't 374 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: know where he at. 375 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:42,000 Speaker 3: I don't know where he at all, right, Junior, thank you. 376 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,639 Speaker 7: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO with our 377 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 7: chief Love Officers. You're listening Harvey Morning Show coming up 378 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,959 Speaker 7: at the top of the hour, and Entertainment News. Fulton 379 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 7: County d A Fannie Willis's case against Trump is allowed 380 00:20:56,680 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 7: to continue. The na A c P Image Awards were 381 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 7: Saturday night. We'll have the highlights for you and Steve. 382 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 7: You're on the Today Show recently, and we'll recap that 383 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 7: interview as well. That's all coming up at the top 384 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:12,359 Speaker 7: of the hour. But right now it is time to 385 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 7: ask the CLO. This one's from Lynette in Bastrup. Lynette says, 386 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 7: I've been married seventeen years. My mother in law is 387 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 7: going senile. 388 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 3: And she just says crazy stuff. 389 00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 1: Now. 390 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:27,280 Speaker 7: She just told me that our ten year old nephew 391 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 7: is really my husband's biological son that his sister is raising. 392 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 7: He won't do a DNA test. Am I crazy to 393 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:36,639 Speaker 7: believe it? 394 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:38,640 Speaker 2: Well? 395 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 1: I I mean, yeah, yeah, let's just say you crazy 396 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:45,439 Speaker 1: to me? You say she's see. 397 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,720 Speaker 4: Now I'll just write it off, don't invite that problem 398 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:51,159 Speaker 4: into your life. And his sister raising it all this 399 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 4: what it's too late? What you're gonna do? You're gonna 400 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 4: leave your husband? I mean, I mean, let's take that 401 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:01,119 Speaker 4: through for a second. If it's true, are you leaving 402 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 4: your husband? 403 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 1: And I don't think so? 404 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 3: What about the boy? Should he know the truth? The 405 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,360 Speaker 3: biological son who is really fast fall? 406 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 4: Well, I mean, we don't know what the boy really 407 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,159 Speaker 4: know that he does. But to see now, we don't know. 408 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 4: Maybe the daddy knows. Maybe the boy know the dad. 409 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. 410 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 3: I don't, but everyone else I don't know. 411 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 4: Man, Sometimes digging up the past sometimes, sometimes I found 412 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 4: in my life sometimes. 413 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: It's best to lead a past right back there where 414 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 1: it is. 415 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, you're right. Colo. 416 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 7: Moving on to Phyllis and Saint Augustine's Philip says, my 417 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 7: husband died last year, and I already have been circling me, 418 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 7: circling around me. I'm ready to mix some mingle, but 419 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 7: my oldest son is constantly popping up on me. I 420 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 7: want him to stop, and I want my house keep back. 421 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 7: Will it hurt his feelings if I tell him? 422 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 6: Why? 423 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 5: Oh? 424 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's gonna it's gonna do a little something to him. Yeah, 425 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 4: but he I mean you can't. It's been a year, 426 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,920 Speaker 4: it's been here. And then, let's be honest, that's a 427 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 4: year ago your husband died. 428 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:16,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, mm hmm. That that's that's a while back. 429 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 4: Now we don't know the circumstances of the marriage while 430 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 4: he was livid. So I think it's perfectly fine for 431 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 4: you to move forward. You can't stay stuck. And it's 432 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 4: me encircling you. And you know, your oldest son keep 433 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:33,440 Speaker 4: popping up. 434 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 3: And men are circling around her. 435 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 1: Don't forget. That's hard. 436 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:41,959 Speaker 9: Yeah, you know he's concerned, right, the oldest son. He's 437 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 9: just checking out mama. He's concerned daddy. Yeah, yeah, oh 438 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 9: he knows. 439 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 1: Well maybe. 440 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:52,879 Speaker 4: In my case, why don't you just tell your daddy 441 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 4: just say hey, look, I mean I'm excuse me. Why 442 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 4: don't you tell your son, hey, look, I'm gonna start 443 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 4: dating kid. 444 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:01,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 445 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,160 Speaker 4: I just thought you'd knew that, So please call before 446 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 4: you come over. That's all you his mama. He ain't 447 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 4: your daddy that right. 448 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 3: But those boys can be rough when their moms starts 449 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 3: start to day. 450 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:17,679 Speaker 1: You know, well, it just be rough. You'll live here, 451 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 1: don't give me my keyback? Are you gonna mess around 452 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:23,120 Speaker 1: and get that lot? 453 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 6: Change? 454 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:27,159 Speaker 3: All right? 455 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:30,680 Speaker 7: Moving on to a Feinelle and t neck, Fanel writes, 456 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 7: I'm a bartender. My best girlfriend's man is always at 457 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 7: the bar. He's seeing another woman and they're always there together. 458 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 7: He knows I'd never tell my friend because I could 459 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 7: lose my job. But how do I stop him from 460 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:45,639 Speaker 7: doing this in my face? 461 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:48,400 Speaker 1: It ain't none you can do that? Ain't your job? 462 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:52,720 Speaker 4: Your job is to make drakes t hell you all 463 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,359 Speaker 4: over that for I'm talking about stopping him. Make your 464 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:56,440 Speaker 4: damn drakes. 465 00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 1: That's your job. If you don't want to lose your job, 466 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 1: make your damn. 467 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,160 Speaker 3: Drinks all in sugar, rim on your margarita. 468 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 4: What what are you talking about? How do I stop 469 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 4: him from doing this in my face? It ain't in 470 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 4: your face? Quickly looking down now. 471 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: For real, y'all. 472 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 9: She can't say nothing like no, you gonna have to 473 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:22,680 Speaker 9: stop coming up here with all this. 474 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: She can't say that she's a bar tender. That ain't 475 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 1: her ball. 476 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:31,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, so you know she works. She doesn't want to 477 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 3: lose her job. 478 00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,639 Speaker 9: She said, But she can't say nothing to him. She 479 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,480 Speaker 9: can't say nothing, y'all. What can she say to this man? 480 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 2: What's up? 481 00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 1: Else? I understand what you saying? Call her, but no 482 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: mine your damn this? 483 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, man, tell me I think he's stupid. It's got 484 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,199 Speaker 4: another ball. It's a lot, got to be another bar. 485 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 3: He's arrogant too, Yeah, yeah, he's very arrogant. 486 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:04,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh he is one. 487 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 4: He's stupid. But lady, don't let that affect you though 488 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,159 Speaker 4: in your life. Let me tell you something. All you 489 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 4: gotta do is lead us alone. Stupid people do stupid 490 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:26,639 Speaker 4: things all the time. Yeah, that's why they stupid. He 491 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:33,920 Speaker 4: can't see you let a most most most stupid people 492 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 4: have carryover. It's hard for I'll give you an example. Yeah, look, 493 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 4: look at this stupid person we got on this show. 494 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 4: Now when he on the show and he's stupid here 495 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,920 Speaker 4: today we don't get a call and and this ain't 496 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 4: the first time, just to carry over the carry and. 497 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: Now you'll you'll you don't see stupid in this. 498 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 3: All in it repeated behavior. 499 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: Y god, not to be stupid when that's. 500 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 5: What you are. 501 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 7: But I understand that she feels some kind of way 502 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 7: when she's with her best girlfriend, knowing this information about 503 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 7: her best girl's husband. 504 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,120 Speaker 3: You know, I mean feel some kind of way she does. 505 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 4: You don't have to be here, he doesn't have to 506 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 4: keep coming the wrong the wrongness, and this is he 507 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 4: coming to that bar. 508 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: That's what I'm wrong. 509 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 4: It's wrong on so many levels. But for you to 510 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 4: take it to her best friends place where she works 511 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:40,360 Speaker 4: at FOU. She ain't gonna say nothing because she'll lose 512 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:40,880 Speaker 4: her job. 513 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 1: That's file. 514 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:47,200 Speaker 3: It's beyond yeah, yeah, that's fine. It really is lose 515 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 3: her he's a movie. Yeah yeah. 516 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: But now here's the only thing the girl could say. 517 00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 1: And listen to me. 518 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 4: I'm uncomfortable looking at this, and you gonna make me 519 00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,240 Speaker 4: have to do something I don't want to do. So 520 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 4: take your food, listen to somewhere else. I'm just telling 521 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,119 Speaker 4: you that right now. But you're now gonna keep putting 522 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 4: it in my face. I'm just gonna tell you to 523 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,159 Speaker 4: go ahead, because I'm uncomfortable enough. Why I want to 524 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 4: say something if you just remove it from my face, 525 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 4: fear of your life. If you got to say something, 526 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 4: that's the only thing you can say. 527 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: Can she add this? 528 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 3: When I go on break, I'm taking my phone with me. 529 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 3: That's a terrorist threat, invite her Bessie down to the 530 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:35,400 Speaker 3: bar to have a drink. Take a picture, Freddy. 531 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 7: This last one Freddy and Sacramento says. I've been married 532 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 7: four times. I've been with my current girl for almost 533 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 7: two years. She wants to get married. I keep telling 534 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 7: her that I'm not good at marriage, but she won't 535 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 7: let it go. I'm sixty three, she's fifty nine. Should 536 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 7: I make her wife? 537 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 3: Number five? 538 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 2: Ye? 539 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 1: Marriage? 540 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 3: AE? 541 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 1: What you do, don't. 542 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 2: You? 543 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 4: Dog? 544 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 1: I dat what I do, so I know it. Number five. 545 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 1: I got to get out. 546 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:08,959 Speaker 3: Coming up at the top of the hour. Thank you, Cela. 547 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 3: We'll have some entertainment news for you right after this. 548 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 3: You're listening morning show. 549 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,240 Speaker 7: So in Atlanta, the case against Trump and several of 550 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:24,440 Speaker 7: his associates has been sidetracked for weeks. After the defendants 551 00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 7: in the case, Trump's team uncovered a romantic relationship between 552 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 7: Fulton County's District Attorney Fannie Willis and a subordinate attorney, 553 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 7: Nathan Wade. The defense argued that Willis should be disqualified 554 00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 7: for an improper conflict of interest, while on Friday, Fulton 555 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 7: County Judge Got McAfee stated that DA Fannie Willis's relationship 556 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 7: with Wade was a quote tremendous lapse in judgment. Yes, 557 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 7: but he did not disqualify her from the case. Instead, 558 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 7: Judge McAfee ruled that Willis must recuse herself from the 559 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 7: case or Nathan Wade must resign from the case. Nathan 560 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 7: Wade resigned. Trump trial will go on with funny Willis. 561 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, you go, oh head, oh hey, everybody, 562 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 1: excuse me? Excuse me? Oh hey, hell get him? Oh here, everybody, 563 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,160 Speaker 1: oh here, everybody? What man? Good morning? 564 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,400 Speaker 4: Good morning to everyone. No, no, no, no, no, no, 565 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 4: no no no no no no, no, we way past 566 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 4: good morning. Where your ass being? 567 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 1: Man? Let me tell you what it is. Did you 568 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 1: know Richmond is in a different time zone? Did you 569 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 1: know that? 570 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 2: No? 571 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: It's not? 572 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, all by itself, Richmond is in a different time 573 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 5: I didn't know. 574 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 1: What more what Richmond, Virginia is not on a different 575 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 1: time zone? 576 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 3: How he got an attitude that and we could get 577 00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:54,720 Speaker 3: to work? 578 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 2: Well? 579 00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 1: How you the only one think that? 580 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 4: Ain't nobody else? Ain't nobody in Richmond aware of this 581 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 4: except you and the time change last week. It don't 582 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,280 Speaker 4: change in Richmond. That's what I'm trying to tell you. 583 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:19,440 Speaker 1: So you're trying to. 584 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 4: Say, Richmond, they don't have daylight saving time. They don't. 585 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 1: They don't change it gets dark and Richmond when everybody else. 586 00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 9: Can they even if I google it right now, that's 587 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 9: what it's gonna I ask you to google nothing. 588 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 4: Wait no, no, no, no, no, no, hear my question. 589 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:41,200 Speaker 4: So when it get dark everywhere else, it's light in Virginia. 590 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 4: That's what you just said pretty much. So they done 591 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 4: moved Richmond to Alaska. 592 00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 1: They haven't moved it, but they've kept the same time though. 593 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 1: So they just don't. They don't. 594 00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 3: Can we just what is your point? What is your point? 595 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to make one. I'm not I just. 596 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 3: Because you have not. 597 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 1: Richmond is in a different. 598 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 3: Okay. 599 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 1: Can I guess some kind of family love you pa 600 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 1: about you? I'm not your damn. I got to stop 601 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 1: telling people that. 602 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 3: You just don't want to be associated with the stupidity 603 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 3: of it all. 604 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 7: All right, we're moving on. You came right in the 605 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 7: middle of entertainment news. Tommy. Did you see the na 606 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 7: A c P Image Awards Saturday night? You were on stage. 607 00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:46,920 Speaker 7: Weren't you a Richmond with a different times? 608 00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 1: Times girl. 609 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 2: Uh huh. 610 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well it was. 611 00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,840 Speaker 7: Hosted by the one and only Queen Latifa, who did 612 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 7: an outstanding She looked beautiful. 613 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 3: She changed clothes about a million. 614 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 7: Times, each outfit better than the last. 615 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:07,560 Speaker 3: I mean she was doing it. It was her birthday. 616 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,440 Speaker 3: They brought out a new cake saying happy Birthday tour. 617 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 3: That was nice. 618 00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 7: Andrew Day performed as well a song for Minnie Riperton, 619 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 7: Memory Lane. She performed that while they were doing the memoriam. 620 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 7: It was Usher's night. Though it was Usher's night. Usher 621 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 7: received the N Double ACP President's Award, which is given 622 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 7: for special achievements in public service. Usher also won for 623 00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:36,080 Speaker 7: Entertainer of the Year. He won Outstanding Male Artists. And 624 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 7: I mean it was just a beautiful night for him. 625 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 7: He looks so happy now. He thanked his mom, of course, 626 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 7: he thanked his wife. It was just beautiful his family 627 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 7: and all of his fans. New addition was inducted into 628 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:51,200 Speaker 7: the N Double ACP Hall of Fame. They reflected on 629 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 7: their legacy of over forty years. 630 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 3: Forty years in the mudistry. 631 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 7: My only disappointment there was that they didn't let Bobby 632 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:04,360 Speaker 7: speak him on the mic. They did not Mike spoke 633 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 7: and Ronnie de Vaux spoke, but it was nice. Congratulations 634 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:11,560 Speaker 7: to them and Steve. In the Outstanding Reality Program, Reality 635 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:15,879 Speaker 7: Competition or Game Show category, Celebrity Family Feud was nominated 636 00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 7: along with America's Got Talent, Barbecue Showdown, wild'n Out and 637 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 7: Critic Fixer's Country. That Nick Cannon's wild'n Out took that award, 638 00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 7: and congratulations to them. 639 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 3: Big shout outs to the eighty five South Show. 640 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 7: They won the award for Outstanding Society and Culture Podcast. 641 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, uh cat Dog. Yeah, I'm so happy for them. Yes, 642 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 3: that's so cool. 643 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 4: Wow. 644 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,600 Speaker 7: Finally, Steve, Now you didn't tell us this, but you 645 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:51,439 Speaker 7: were on The Today Show last Thursday from the set 646 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 7: of Family Feud in Atlanta. You shared a behind the 647 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:57,839 Speaker 7: scenes look at Family Feud, reflecting on some of your 648 00:34:57,880 --> 00:34:59,160 Speaker 7: favorite moments of the show. 649 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:04,120 Speaker 3: You did all of He spoke on returning to stand up. 650 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 7: Okay about that, and you said, though, that would have 651 00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 7: to be when you're done. 652 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 1: With TV, because I'm gonna be good with TV. 653 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 3: So let's talk about that. Why after your career is over. 654 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 4: If I go now, it's gonna be career ended, be canceled. 655 00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm telling you right now, I'm gonna say 656 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 4: what's really on my mind. I wouldn't go back and 657 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:39,000 Speaker 4: and be light. I would go back in my version 658 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:43,880 Speaker 4: of Dave Chappell. That's the only way I would go 659 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 4: back if I freely said everything I was thinking. 660 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:47,880 Speaker 3: All right? 661 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 7: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, former Vice 662 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 7: President Mike Penn said he won't be endorsing Donald Trump 663 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:55,719 Speaker 7: this year. 664 00:35:56,520 --> 00:36:01,040 Speaker 3: We'll find out why right after this. You're listening Hardy 665 00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:01,680 Speaker 3: Morning show. 666 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,360 Speaker 7: Well, former Vice President Mike Pence was a guest on 667 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 7: Fox News The Story on Friday, and he said, quote, 668 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 7: it should come as no surprise that I will not 669 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,560 Speaker 7: be endorsing Donald Trump this year. Donald Trump is pursuing 670 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 7: and articulating an agenda that is at odds with a 671 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,960 Speaker 7: conservative agenda that we governed on during our four years. 672 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,240 Speaker 7: This is why I cannot, in good conscience endorse Donald 673 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 7: Trump in this campaign. Please translates for Steve Well. 674 00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 4: That simply means he knows exactly who he is and 675 00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:37,080 Speaker 4: what he is, regardless as to what he's says. But 676 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,160 Speaker 4: if you listen to what he says, he's telling you 677 00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,919 Speaker 4: exactly who he is and them stupid ass. 678 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,360 Speaker 1: People still don't believe it. 679 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:51,480 Speaker 4: Man, He's shown you and in every aspect that he 680 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:55,840 Speaker 4: is incompetent to be president, but he's running on the 681 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:57,080 Speaker 4: Republican ticket. 682 00:36:58,880 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 683 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 4: Man, I saw something on the internet. This this white 684 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,280 Speaker 4: guy did a whole rent. It was really brilliant. 685 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:04,480 Speaker 2: Man. 686 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 1: He said, if Satan. 687 00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:13,160 Speaker 4: Was running against Christ but he was on the Republican 688 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:18,880 Speaker 4: ticket ahead all behind his name, they would, because of 689 00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 4: their policy, find. 690 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 5: A way. 691 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:31,600 Speaker 4: To make him right. Whoa hey, man, this dude did 692 00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:33,800 Speaker 4: a rent on the internet. And when you listen to 693 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:38,360 Speaker 4: what he says it was pertaining to it was so 694 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:43,320 Speaker 4: brilliantly did the way he wrapped around the agenda to 695 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:47,080 Speaker 4: make it look like that Satan would be a better candidate, 696 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,960 Speaker 4: you know, gun controlled law and all. 697 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 1: Of this right here. 698 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 4: It was crazy, man. And I'm not saying that Republicans 699 00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,399 Speaker 4: aren't Christians. That's not what I'm saying. 700 00:37:58,440 --> 00:37:58,560 Speaker 6: Now. 701 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 1: I'm telling you what I saw on it Internet. 702 00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:08,160 Speaker 4: But if you are supposedly a person of faith, Christians 703 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 4: are supposed to be christ like, where. 704 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 1: In him do you see that? Just help me, man. 705 00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:24,800 Speaker 4: I saw so many they named every single president and 706 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 4: the total number of indictments for every single president prior 707 00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:33,240 Speaker 4: to Trump, and when they totaled all of the indictments 708 00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:37,040 Speaker 4: against all of the presidents, the total was zero. 709 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:45,839 Speaker 1: Donald Trump got ninety one. Yeah. Well, it doesn't make 710 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,399 Speaker 1: any kind of sense. It don't make none at all. 711 00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:50,880 Speaker 4: And this is who you want to put put in 712 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,640 Speaker 4: front of your children and grandchildren and say this is 713 00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:57,240 Speaker 4: who we should accept and put in office as our leader. 714 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,920 Speaker 7: Right, Well, it's vice president's former vice presid and said nope, 715 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:02,160 Speaker 7: I'm not doing it. 716 00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:03,799 Speaker 3: Pence also said that he's here. 717 00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 4: You're gonna save the nation and you can't save yourself 718 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,000 Speaker 4: or your Yeah, man, miss me. 719 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, well, coming up with thirty four minutes after the hour, 720 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,720 Speaker 7: Sister Odell will be in the building. 721 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 3: Right after this. You're listening morning show, ladies and gentlemen. 722 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:25,800 Speaker 3: She is here. Without further. 723 00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:35,680 Speaker 1: I want to know, do you love him like I do? 724 00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 4: Oh? 725 00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:43,800 Speaker 1: You know, you know I'm li of me. Come on, 726 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,040 Speaker 1: so no, that was one of them. I started. I 727 00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:47,680 Speaker 1: wrote that song a long time. 728 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:54,719 Speaker 4: Anyway, morning everyone, good morning, there, good, good good. 729 00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 1: He's late with the music. It's okay, so we just 730 00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:02,319 Speaker 1: put it on whenever you want to the music. Yeah, 731 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm what's so what's going on today? 732 00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,879 Speaker 7: Well, sister Hotel, I was wondering if you knew about 733 00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 7: this little John the rapper, you know, the one that 734 00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:12,759 Speaker 7: says yeah, oh yeah, all. 735 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 3: The okay, okay, okay, yeah, No, that one I know him. 736 00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:18,560 Speaker 4: Yeah. 737 00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:20,960 Speaker 3: Well, he recently committed to Islam. 738 00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:21,759 Speaker 6: Uh. 739 00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:25,000 Speaker 7: He pledged his obedience to Allah. He's spoke in Arabic 740 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,919 Speaker 7: all of that. So I was wondering if you heard 741 00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,360 Speaker 7: about that now I hadn't. 742 00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:31,360 Speaker 1: I hadn't. 743 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,959 Speaker 3: Well he is now, he's a Muslim, he said. 744 00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 7: Well, he said that he testifies there's no one worthy 745 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:45,280 Speaker 7: of worship except Allah alone, without partner, and he testifies 746 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,720 Speaker 7: that Mohammad as a servant and final messenger. 747 00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:49,759 Speaker 3: So he's all in now. 748 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,839 Speaker 1: Well, you know one thing about me I've learned over 749 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,400 Speaker 1: the years. I let edra walls be who they're gonna be. 750 00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 1: Uh huh, ain't but one god? You call him what 751 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:00,680 Speaker 1: you want to call him? 752 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 3: Mm okay, okay. 753 00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:08,600 Speaker 4: I got kicked off two missionary boards for why? What 754 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:12,960 Speaker 4: is because these helpers wanted to wear blackstone in it? 755 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,680 Speaker 3: Wait, what's mister dell? Go ahead with the helper. 756 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,719 Speaker 1: These hellers wanted to wear black stockers. You don't do well. 757 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:22,920 Speaker 1: We want to wear white. 758 00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, everything had you tell white? 759 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:30,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, so what happened? I got kicked off the ball 760 00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 1: because I was I was a whole out boat and. 761 00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 4: They wanted to wear black stockers because they want to 762 00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,880 Speaker 4: go to funerals in black, and I don't care missionaries 763 00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 4: wear white, right right? 764 00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? So so you can't get back on or there's 765 00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:44,880 Speaker 3: no compromise. 766 00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,800 Speaker 1: I'm not there. I'm not going down there without my white. 767 00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:51,800 Speaker 3: Or penhole that's pantyhose, oh. 768 00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 1: Starkers, panty holes, you know, don't get under my clothes? 769 00:41:55,640 --> 00:42:00,359 Speaker 3: Really heard that to day? 770 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,799 Speaker 1: Were you called le tage? You call whatever you want 771 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 1: to everybody ain't got to know how to add on 772 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:14,879 Speaker 1: the guard strap or two? You know in my time? Yeah, 773 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,799 Speaker 1: you know when you get through missionary and you got 774 00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:18,440 Speaker 1: to go a hole handle business. 775 00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 3: Well, I hope you guys will be able to work 776 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,279 Speaker 3: that out one day or something. 777 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,120 Speaker 1: I don't know what they're gonna do. Missionaries were white swede. 778 00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:31,960 Speaker 1: I'm not fit to give up on that right there? 779 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 3: What do you want, boy? 780 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 1: Do you wear a pull stocking or do you tie 781 00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 1: in and not? She did not just tell you not 782 00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 1: to get up under my skirt, And where's your ask 783 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:41,520 Speaker 1: being all morning? 784 00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:47,000 Speaker 4: You don't ask all the time. You know everybody want 785 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,440 Speaker 4: to ask them. You know, you ask you questions and everything. 786 00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:52,640 Speaker 4: You would ask me nothing on Thomas, And I know 787 00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,200 Speaker 4: you was raised better than that. So you find yourself 788 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:59,840 Speaker 4: somewhere else to go except under sister Sister of O'Dell's business. 789 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:04,200 Speaker 1: The waterhead boy, I. 790 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,439 Speaker 4: Told you were slow when your mama. Well, I knew 791 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 4: you were slow when your mama had you because I said. 792 00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:11,440 Speaker 1: You know, his head seems rather long. 793 00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,200 Speaker 7: He grew into it though, right, sister, tell he's normal 794 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:19,440 Speaker 7: looking now he's looking now. 795 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,840 Speaker 4: I'll tell you one thing, because he's been in these movies, 796 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:26,239 Speaker 4: you know, because he's a good actor. Yes, ma'am, I 797 00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 4: didn't know he had grown into it. But well, I'll 798 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:30,160 Speaker 4: tell you what. When I saw a little man, I 799 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:30,920 Speaker 4: thought it was him. 800 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:39,960 Speaker 1: What the moment you You couldn't. 801 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:47,160 Speaker 4: You couldn't convince me it wasn't he. Somebody come talking 802 00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,360 Speaker 4: on that. Somebody told me one time that Marley Wamms. 803 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:51,880 Speaker 4: I said that at that topic. 804 00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:03,040 Speaker 7: Wow, Well, thank you, sister. Dell as always coming up 805 00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:06,359 Speaker 7: next he is here. The nephew will have the prank 806 00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:11,240 Speaker 7: phone call for today. Right after this, you're listening Hardy 807 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 7: Morning Show coming up at about four minutes after the hour. 808 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,160 Speaker 7: It's my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is 809 00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:21,399 Speaker 7: should I keep competing for a spot? Should I keep 810 00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,160 Speaker 7: competing for a spot. We'll get into that, find out 811 00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 7: what that's all about, because right now the nephew is 812 00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:30,279 Speaker 7: here with today's break phone call, which you got for us. 813 00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,760 Speaker 5: Now, before we get started, I want to thank Richmond, 814 00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:37,279 Speaker 5: Virginia for six sold out comedy shows we did. 815 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:39,200 Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. 816 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:42,239 Speaker 5: Hu lines wrapped around the building to come see the 817 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,320 Speaker 5: fool at his best, and I want to say I'm grateful. 818 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:48,360 Speaker 5: Laying in the cut is Montgomery, Alabama. I will be 819 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:50,719 Speaker 5: there show only that would be March thirtieth, Saturday Night 820 00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:54,719 Speaker 5: at the Montgomery Performing Arts Center, alone with Earthquake my 821 00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 5: Man JJ Williamson and Celebrity the Comedian, hosted by Yours 822 00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,600 Speaker 5: truly Time. And let's get into it. This right here 823 00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:06,840 Speaker 5: is can you do my makeup? Can you do my makeup? 824 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 5: A lot of people won't make up on their face. 825 00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:11,360 Speaker 5: A lot of people won't make up in various places. 826 00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:15,440 Speaker 5: I actually won't make up done on my butt. Can 827 00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:18,480 Speaker 5: you do my makeup? Hey? 828 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,480 Speaker 1: Hey, you want it where you want it? You know 829 00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:20,839 Speaker 1: what I mean? 830 00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:22,839 Speaker 5: You want it where you won't. Let's go all right. 831 00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,399 Speaker 5: Some people want a nice made up, but I want 832 00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:29,759 Speaker 5: a nice made up, but you want to smooth, no, 833 00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:35,720 Speaker 5: no discoloration, not beat, beat to the gold. 834 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:36,759 Speaker 3: Yes, I love. 835 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:39,319 Speaker 1: Let's go O care? 836 00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:41,279 Speaker 4: Hello? 837 00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:43,359 Speaker 2: Hello? Manw do uh brand? 838 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:44,040 Speaker 10: Yes? 839 00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,760 Speaker 2: This is Brandy Brandon. My name is Carl. I'm calling 840 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 2: I got ah. You can't highly recommend it? You actually 841 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,520 Speaker 2: you're you actually are. I'm sorry. I don't know if 842 00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,640 Speaker 2: I'm saying it right. A makeup artist, makeup style, that's 843 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:55,440 Speaker 2: what what do you call it? 844 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 10: It's makeup artists. I'm a professional makeup artists. 845 00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:01,239 Speaker 2: Okay. And you work at the you work with the 846 00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:04,800 Speaker 2: makeup counter and correct Okay, listen, I got a I 847 00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 2: got a photo shoot coming up, and I wanted to 848 00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 2: see about sometime this week maybe the following week you 849 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:14,280 Speaker 2: could actually come and and I hire you to actually 850 00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,880 Speaker 2: make me up for my photo shoot. Do you do 851 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:18,480 Speaker 2: a lot of photo shoots at all or you? 852 00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:20,760 Speaker 10: Yes, sir, I sure do. I've been in the business 853 00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:24,040 Speaker 10: for ten years, so I've been around several photo shoots. 854 00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,839 Speaker 2: Okay, good deal. So what's I mean you have any 855 00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:28,560 Speaker 2: time this week that I can actually just come in 856 00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,440 Speaker 2: and we can do like a trial run or something. 857 00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:34,920 Speaker 10: Yeah, I'll actually be here Friday for about six hours 858 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 10: with Friday work for you. I'm here, I start at eleven. 859 00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:39,480 Speaker 2: At eleven, I mean I could come in like maybe 860 00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:42,440 Speaker 2: like around three on Friday if you can you squeeze 861 00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 2: me in at that time. 862 00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:44,239 Speaker 10: I sure can. 863 00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,880 Speaker 2: Okay. What's what's so good? Is there a certain makeup 864 00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,920 Speaker 2: for men whether it's kind of works out? 865 00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:52,400 Speaker 10: It works out the same as for women in photo shoots. 866 00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,719 Speaker 10: You just need some type of cream, foundation, something to 867 00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:58,000 Speaker 10: even out the skin tone, powder you down to take 868 00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,560 Speaker 10: away the oils, cover up any blemishes, anything like that. 869 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,440 Speaker 10: It's pretty much the same. Of course, you don't get 870 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,960 Speaker 10: the whole eyeshadow and lashes and stuff. 871 00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,400 Speaker 2: Right right right right right well and all that. But 872 00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:08,839 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to, you know, just trying to look 873 00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:12,640 Speaker 2: good on camera. Let me ask you this, how much 874 00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:16,040 Speaker 2: makeup have you done as far as men? You know 875 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:16,440 Speaker 2: what I mean? 876 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:19,600 Speaker 10: Yeah, Okay, I'm very comfortable with it. You'll be fine, 877 00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:20,000 Speaker 10: trust me. 878 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:21,719 Speaker 2: That's what I was really worried about it if you 879 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:23,880 Speaker 2: were going to be comfortable with it, because I mean, 880 00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:28,120 Speaker 2: have you done I'm a little conscientious about a few things, 881 00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:28,719 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? 882 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:29,160 Speaker 4: And uh. 883 00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 2: Have you have you how many butts have you done? 884 00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:38,800 Speaker 10: I'm sorry, how many what like like like butts? 885 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,160 Speaker 2: You know, I mean, how many butts have you made up? 886 00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,320 Speaker 10: I haven't made up any butts? Like are you like 887 00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:46,600 Speaker 10: you mean like asses? 888 00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, because see, I'm actually doing a nude 889 00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:53,200 Speaker 2: photo shoot and uh, you know, I got a couple 890 00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:55,880 Speaker 2: of scratches and you know, some old scars on my 891 00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 2: butt and you know, like you said, you know, I'm 892 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:00,080 Speaker 2: a little shy about you know, some of that that 893 00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 2: you could actually hope you can actually make sure that 894 00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,320 Speaker 2: those scars don't show, and you know you say you 895 00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:10,200 Speaker 2: kind of you know, uh make sure everything is doesn't 896 00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,239 Speaker 2: look oially, you know what I mean? And uh, I 897 00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,600 Speaker 2: just need to get my out. 898 00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,759 Speaker 10: Well, but I didn't when I didn't understand what you're 899 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:19,520 Speaker 10: talking about. I may not be the makeup art. 900 00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:19,839 Speaker 1: I don't. 901 00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:22,360 Speaker 10: I'm not seriously, I'm not gonna. 902 00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,520 Speaker 2: Do your right. But I mean we're just talking about 903 00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 2: makeup though, I mean, you know you're talking about Yeah, 904 00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:28,279 Speaker 2: but I'm not about to. 905 00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:30,800 Speaker 10: Put my makeup brushes that I use on people's faces 906 00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:35,480 Speaker 10: on your ad like to tell your photographer just like photoshop. 907 00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,279 Speaker 2: That okay, okay, Well that's why I'm coming in to 908 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,800 Speaker 2: see you on Friday. I want you to do everything 909 00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,200 Speaker 2: and make me up there in the store so I 910 00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:43,799 Speaker 2: can see what it looks like. I want to see 911 00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:44,279 Speaker 2: you were. 912 00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:46,360 Speaker 10: Going to come into my job and make me do 913 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,359 Speaker 10: your like what are you? What's planted? Or where did 914 00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,399 Speaker 10: you think that was gonna work? You cannot come into 915 00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:53,200 Speaker 10: my job. How are you going to come to my 916 00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:54,920 Speaker 10: job naked? Seriously? 917 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:56,759 Speaker 2: I mean, well, I was gonna wear a robe. I'm 918 00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:58,160 Speaker 2: not gonna just you know, walk there. 919 00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:01,160 Speaker 10: Don't you even think of out coming into my job? 920 00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:04,480 Speaker 10: Who referred you? Who told you you need to delete 921 00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:05,320 Speaker 10: this number? Do not? 922 00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:06,880 Speaker 7: I'm not about to. 923 00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:10,759 Speaker 2: Get this job. I just done. Okay. I don't want to. 924 00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,160 Speaker 2: I don't want with you. Why is it? Why is 925 00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:15,359 Speaker 2: it a problem with you doing? What is the problem 926 00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:17,600 Speaker 2: with You're doing my butt and putting some makeup on it? Now, 927 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:20,000 Speaker 2: if I need to buy you some brushes, I buy 928 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:21,799 Speaker 2: you some brushes and you can take I don't want you. 929 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,239 Speaker 10: To buy me anything. I don't want you coming into 930 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,120 Speaker 10: my job. I don't want you calling me ever again 931 00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:27,160 Speaker 10: to do any kind of work. 932 00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:30,279 Speaker 2: I'm coming in there, and I'm now listen, I am. 933 00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,080 Speaker 10: A professional makeup artist. Clearly you don't know what that means. 934 00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:37,160 Speaker 2: So professional, then you will take out the part that's 935 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,560 Speaker 2: bothering you and through the job. Lady, you know what 936 00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:41,719 Speaker 2: I mean. If my story is on it, I want 937 00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,120 Speaker 2: to want to call on you before. 938 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:47,120 Speaker 10: I get real ignorant. I'm not about to finish this conversation. 939 00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,279 Speaker 10: Do not come into my job. Do not call me 940 00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:51,359 Speaker 10: to do your That's not gonna happen. 941 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,759 Speaker 2: So so so, I guess it's say to go around 942 00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:57,200 Speaker 2: and let people know that Brandy is not professional because 943 00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:00,959 Speaker 2: you can't do part is good in the streets. Boot. 944 00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:03,520 Speaker 10: You can't go around and tell anybody that I'm not professional. 945 00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:06,240 Speaker 10: Nobody ever called me to be there. Get some skincare 946 00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,239 Speaker 10: for you? How about that? And then you won't need 947 00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:08,840 Speaker 10: any makeup? 948 00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:10,920 Speaker 2: Oh no, you? Then you're not gonna sit here now 949 00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:13,360 Speaker 2: start talking about my if I told you some of 950 00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,920 Speaker 2: my deepest secrets to let you know, I want to 951 00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:16,319 Speaker 2: come in there. 952 00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,600 Speaker 10: Get some mad when you're bad for telling the stranger 953 00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:19,600 Speaker 10: your deepest secret. 954 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,120 Speaker 2: Okay, you know what, I'm coming up to your store 955 00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:24,279 Speaker 2: anyway on Friday, all right, and I'll talk to you 956 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,880 Speaker 2: a boss and letting them know. Don't let it fool you. 957 00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,239 Speaker 10: You heard me, don't come in my job. Look, if 958 00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,520 Speaker 10: I lose my job over your foolishness, I guarantee you 959 00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:33,760 Speaker 10: will be paying all my bills. 960 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:35,960 Speaker 2: Okay. The bottom line is I'm coming in there with 961 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:39,040 Speaker 2: my robe on Friday. Somebody gonna do my butt. You 962 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,239 Speaker 2: your manager, you're not coming you know what? 963 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:43,040 Speaker 10: How about you come up here right now? How could 964 00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:44,680 Speaker 10: I go ahead and take care of the situation right now? 965 00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:45,200 Speaker 10: I'm here now? 966 00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:45,960 Speaker 3: Can you come right now? 967 00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:49,480 Speaker 2: I'm up there right now with my robb Well, bring 968 00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:50,400 Speaker 2: bring your. 969 00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:51,960 Speaker 10: Butt up here right now. We'll see if your bud 970 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:53,000 Speaker 10: gets done. I'm not doing it. 971 00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,480 Speaker 2: Okay. With the bottom line, who is your manager anyway? 972 00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:56,000 Speaker 1: What's she at? 973 00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:56,640 Speaker 4: Is she there? 974 00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:58,160 Speaker 10: I am the manager? 975 00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:01,279 Speaker 2: Now what? Okay? See that's one of their problem is 976 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 2: you got your little self a little position at your job. 977 00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,319 Speaker 2: Now you're trying to throw your weight around if if 978 00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:08,879 Speaker 2: a person wants to get their butt done. Okay, Look 979 00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:13,160 Speaker 2: do you see avatar them people have makeup all on 980 00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,160 Speaker 2: they butt all on their back and every where. Not 981 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:15,960 Speaker 2: you call them. 982 00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:17,920 Speaker 10: You call them and ask them to do your butt. 983 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:18,560 Speaker 2: Don't call me. 984 00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:20,800 Speaker 10: I'm hanging up. Do not call me anymore. 985 00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:23,920 Speaker 2: They all make up artists. What are you look? This 986 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:26,279 Speaker 2: conversation is over. Yeah, it's over because you know what. 987 00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:28,480 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. You do you know who 988 00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:30,680 Speaker 2: you're talking to? Do you know who you talking to? 989 00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:32,960 Speaker 2: Do you know who you're talking to? I know who 990 00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:36,040 Speaker 2: I'm talking to. I'm talking to Brandy. But do Brandy 991 00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:37,279 Speaker 2: know who Brandy talking to? 992 00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:39,480 Speaker 10: Clearly somebody who is ignorant. 993 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:42,480 Speaker 2: Okay, well let me tell you who I am. This 994 00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:46,880 Speaker 2: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You 995 00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:49,720 Speaker 2: just got pranked by your girlfriend, Carmen. 996 00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:51,480 Speaker 1: You are light. 997 00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:55,799 Speaker 2: I'll get off the phone. 998 00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 10: Why that's I hope nobody's listening. 999 00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:07,080 Speaker 2: I got you good, I got you good with the butt, Yeah, 1000 00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:11,320 Speaker 2: for real, get you some skincare they no problem? I 1001 00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:12,759 Speaker 2: got one more thing. I got to ask you, what 1002 00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:15,160 Speaker 2: is the baddest And I'm talking about the baddest radio 1003 00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:15,719 Speaker 2: show in. 1004 00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:19,600 Speaker 10: The laying all the damn Steve Harvey Morning. 1005 00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:23,239 Speaker 1: Show and now you have it. 1006 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,640 Speaker 5: But but but stupid is still here a little late 1007 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:26,680 Speaker 5: with the stupid this morning. 1008 00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:29,480 Speaker 1: But I am here. You know, can you do my 1009 00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:31,359 Speaker 1: Can you do my makeup on my butt? 1010 00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,440 Speaker 5: Or like a buffet above facial you know, like that 1011 00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:42,320 Speaker 5: would be a butt facial, a buff facial. This you 1012 00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:44,960 Speaker 5: get facial on your face, get a buttle, get a 1013 00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:49,440 Speaker 5: buff when the person stupid this long? Yeah, really, I 1014 00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:52,400 Speaker 5: mean really, you know, I mean we damned there out 1015 00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:52,960 Speaker 5: of time. 1016 00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:56,520 Speaker 2: With it? 1017 00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:04,000 Speaker 1: All right, well butt screw a nice butt scrub ah. 1018 00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 3: But don't give up on your dreams though. Please. 1019 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:10,120 Speaker 7: Coming up next, it is a Strawberry letter. The subject 1020 00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:13,120 Speaker 7: is should I keep competing for a spot? We'll find 1021 00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:14,759 Speaker 7: out what that's all about right after this. 1022 00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:18,040 Speaker 3: You're listening Hardy Morning Show. 1023 00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,480 Speaker 7: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 1024 00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,719 Speaker 7: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 1025 00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:28,480 Speaker 7: please submit your Strawberry letter to STEVEVARVFM dot com and 1026 00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:31,560 Speaker 7: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 1027 00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:33,719 Speaker 7: live on the air, just like we're going to read 1028 00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,200 Speaker 7: this one right here, right now, and you never know, 1029 00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:38,040 Speaker 7: it could be yours. 1030 00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:40,239 Speaker 1: It could be yours. Bugle up and hold on tight. 1031 00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,960 Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here it is strawberry letter. 1032 00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:43,719 Speaker 3: Thank you ne for you. 1033 00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:48,000 Speaker 7: Subject Should I keep competing for a spot? Dear Stephen Shirley. 1034 00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:50,200 Speaker 7: I moved to a new city and I met a 1035 00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:53,360 Speaker 7: man at my apartment complex. He doesn't live there, his 1036 00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,400 Speaker 7: sister does. He asked me to go out, and our 1037 00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,640 Speaker 7: first date was so good that he wanted to show 1038 00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:02,000 Speaker 7: me around town. He became inseparable, but we haven't had 1039 00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:05,400 Speaker 7: sex or put a title on our relationship. It's been 1040 00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:08,400 Speaker 7: three months and I'm sexually attracted to him. So I 1041 00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:11,120 Speaker 7: asked if we were dating. He said that I'm new 1042 00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,320 Speaker 7: in town and when I got here, he had some 1043 00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:15,880 Speaker 7: loose ends he needed to tie up. He said, he 1044 00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:18,200 Speaker 7: is a couple of girls that he enjoys hanging out with, 1045 00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:22,680 Speaker 7: but right now I have all of his attention. I 1046 00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,800 Speaker 7: pumped the brakes and stopped thinking about wanting to sleep 1047 00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:28,160 Speaker 7: with him. I didn't want to hang out with him anymore, 1048 00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:30,600 Speaker 7: but I had to keep an open mind. I also 1049 00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:36,680 Speaker 7: appreciated his honesty. He continued to casually. I continually casually 1050 00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,480 Speaker 7: dated him. A week ago, he spent the night at 1051 00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,880 Speaker 7: my place for the first time. We did a lot 1052 00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:44,840 Speaker 7: of kissing and cuddling, and when things got heated, I 1053 00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:48,040 Speaker 7: pulled back. I told him that I'm protecting myself from 1054 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:51,040 Speaker 7: getting my heart broken. That was the wrong thing to say, 1055 00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:55,160 Speaker 7: because he's been acting weird since then. He probably thinks 1056 00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:57,600 Speaker 7: I'm falling in love with him. I'm in no way 1057 00:54:57,800 --> 00:54:59,960 Speaker 7: in love with him, but I do love hanging out 1058 00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:03,280 Speaker 7: with him. Now he is acting weird and we barely 1059 00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:05,960 Speaker 7: go out. Does it mean that he doesn't have good 1060 00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:09,719 Speaker 7: intentions for our relationship? Is he putting all this time 1061 00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:12,080 Speaker 7: in just to have sex with me? Am I better 1062 00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:14,759 Speaker 7: off leaving this man alone? Or should I keep on 1063 00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:18,520 Speaker 7: competing for a spot? Well, no, you definitely don't have 1064 00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:21,000 Speaker 7: to do that, And I say, just please go on 1065 00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:23,759 Speaker 7: with your business. Go on about your business, leave this 1066 00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:26,320 Speaker 7: man alone. You don't have to wait while he ties 1067 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:28,880 Speaker 7: up his so called loose ends and all that he 1068 00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:31,840 Speaker 7: said out of his mouth. You have all of his 1069 00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:35,520 Speaker 7: attention right now. He's not trying to claim you or 1070 00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:39,120 Speaker 7: put on put any type of label on your relationship. 1071 00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:42,080 Speaker 7: He did tell you he was honest that he's dating 1072 00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:45,120 Speaker 7: other people, which gives you the option of whether you 1073 00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:46,520 Speaker 7: want to keep dating him or not. 1074 00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:48,600 Speaker 3: I'm glad you pulled back. 1075 00:55:49,080 --> 00:55:50,879 Speaker 7: You told him you didn't want to get your heart 1076 00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:53,760 Speaker 7: broken and you didn't sleep with him. Then he started 1077 00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:56,960 Speaker 7: acting weird as you say, So what I mean you 1078 00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:59,360 Speaker 7: see how he's acting now. So if you're not in 1079 00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:02,120 Speaker 7: love with him, don't worry about him like you said. 1080 00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:04,600 Speaker 7: Like he said, you are new in town, so what 1081 00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:07,640 Speaker 7: does that mean? That means keep your options open. He's 1082 00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,040 Speaker 7: not the only man in the town. No one has 1083 00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:11,640 Speaker 7: time to play his little games. 1084 00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:12,400 Speaker 3: Steve. 1085 00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:17,800 Speaker 4: Wow, We're going to show all of you how women 1086 00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:21,440 Speaker 4: hear what they want to hear without listening to what 1087 00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:25,640 Speaker 4: a man says. Okay, now, surely you're not wrong in 1088 00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:29,040 Speaker 4: what you said, but you accused him of saying something 1089 00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:29,920 Speaker 4: he said. 1090 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:32,919 Speaker 1: And this is where we probably fell off. Trap. 1091 00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:35,600 Speaker 4: I'd have moved to a new city. I met a 1092 00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,880 Speaker 4: man at my apartment complex. He don't live there, but 1093 00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:40,879 Speaker 4: his sister. Dude, we done went out on our first 1094 00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:42,839 Speaker 4: date and it was so good. He wanted to show 1095 00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:47,040 Speaker 4: me around town. Okay, you went out on your first 1096 00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,440 Speaker 4: date was so good that he wanted to show you 1097 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:50,360 Speaker 4: around town. 1098 00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:54,319 Speaker 1: What do that mean exactly? The date was so good 1099 00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:55,799 Speaker 1: he wanted to show you around town. 1100 00:56:56,400 --> 00:57:00,680 Speaker 4: Okay, we became inseparable, but we haven't had had sex 1101 00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:03,560 Speaker 4: or put a title on our relationship. 1102 00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:07,200 Speaker 1: It's been three months now I'm sexually attracted to him. 1103 00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:09,560 Speaker 1: Now here we go. So I asked him if we 1104 00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:10,160 Speaker 1: were dating. 1105 00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:14,880 Speaker 4: He said that I'm new in town and when I 1106 00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:17,680 Speaker 4: got there, he had some loose ends he needed to 1107 00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:21,560 Speaker 4: tie up. Now what that means is you came into 1108 00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:25,480 Speaker 4: town new but already had some action going. I think 1109 00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:29,800 Speaker 4: we all agree with that. Then he said he had 1110 00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:33,080 Speaker 4: a couple of girls that he enjoys hanging out with. 1111 00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:38,120 Speaker 4: Now that means he's sleeping with a couple of women. 1112 00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:41,720 Speaker 4: That's the two he telling you about. Then she said, 1113 00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:45,440 Speaker 4: but right now, I have all of his attention. What 1114 00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:52,000 Speaker 4: you said, Shirley, was he told you that you have 1115 00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:53,200 Speaker 4: all of his attention. 1116 00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:54,760 Speaker 7: That is not what he said. 1117 00:57:55,920 --> 00:58:02,720 Speaker 1: We assumed that she has all of his attention. See, 1118 00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:05,440 Speaker 1: she said, I have all his attention. 1119 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:12,480 Speaker 7: He said, he said he has a couple of girls 1120 00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:15,720 Speaker 7: that he enjoys hanging out with. But right now I 1121 00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:17,000 Speaker 7: have all of his attention. 1122 00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:18,680 Speaker 1: He said, he didn't say that. 1123 00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:20,960 Speaker 3: What did he say he said it? 1124 00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:24,160 Speaker 4: Okay, no, no, no, listen to me. If he got 1125 00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:26,200 Speaker 4: a couple of girls he enjoyed hanging out with. 1126 00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:26,720 Speaker 2: Hi. 1127 00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:30,120 Speaker 4: Your hell, you got all his attention. He just told 1128 00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:32,480 Speaker 4: you he got a couple of girls he hang out with. 1129 00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:39,080 Speaker 4: But right now I have all his attention. See it 1130 00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:42,439 Speaker 4: don't make no sense, ladies, I'm just just a part 1131 00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:44,440 Speaker 4: I want women to get to it. 1132 00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:48,040 Speaker 1: Don't make no sense. It has to match up what 1133 00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,640 Speaker 1: a man says and what a man does. 1134 00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:53,640 Speaker 3: He told all word. 1135 00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:57,480 Speaker 4: Come, I'm just trying, ladies, I'm just trying to help you. No, no, no, 1136 00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:01,520 Speaker 4: but stop hearing the wrongs stuff. Pay attention. 1137 00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:04,720 Speaker 1: It's a couple of girls that I'm hanging out with. 1138 00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:06,840 Speaker 1: That mean I'm having sex with him? 1139 00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:09,400 Speaker 3: Yes, we get it. 1140 00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:12,880 Speaker 4: Uh huh now I suppose, he said. But right now 1141 00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:19,000 Speaker 4: you have all my attention. He said, But Shirley, listen 1142 00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:22,840 Speaker 4: to me. Yeah, what how does that make sense? 1143 00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:25,600 Speaker 3: I'm trying to No. 1144 00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:29,440 Speaker 4: No, what I'm telling women is don't go running all 1145 00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:33,200 Speaker 4: down the street with one line without listening to the 1146 00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:37,640 Speaker 4: whole story. Because you done took that. Let's say he 1147 00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:40,919 Speaker 4: did say. Let's let's give Shirley's story the benefit of doubt. 1148 00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:43,560 Speaker 4: He said, But you have all my attention, right now, 1149 00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:46,480 Speaker 4: but he just told you he's sleeping with two other chicks. 1150 00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:50,240 Speaker 1: Mm hmm, and y'all ain't having sex. 1151 00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:54,920 Speaker 7: Wait, y'all Done'll hold on, hold on, we have part two. 1152 00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,760 Speaker 3: We gotta get to uh take a break right here. 1153 00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:00,320 Speaker 7: All right, we'll have part two of your respond Steve 1154 01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:03,600 Speaker 7: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's 1155 01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:06,440 Speaker 7: Strawberry letter subject, should I keep competing for a spot? 1156 01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:09,960 Speaker 7: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 1157 01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,600 Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's 1158 01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:17,080 Speaker 7: recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is, should I keep 1159 01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:19,160 Speaker 7: competing for a spot? 1160 01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:22,520 Speaker 4: I don't want to get nobody off to the road, surely, 1161 01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:26,760 Speaker 4: And I just have a small slight variation in the 1162 01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:29,440 Speaker 4: interpretation of this letter, That's all it is. 1163 01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:30,760 Speaker 1: It's a misunderstanding. 1164 01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:35,200 Speaker 4: But it's also a misunderstanding that most women have when 1165 01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,760 Speaker 4: it comes to men. And I just wanted to point 1166 01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:39,440 Speaker 4: this out to you. She met this guy in the 1167 01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:42,160 Speaker 4: complex she moved into, but he don't live that but 1168 01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:44,680 Speaker 4: he over that date and his system. They went out, 1169 01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,400 Speaker 4: they had a good time, so now he's showing her 1170 01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:49,480 Speaker 4: around town. They've been dating for three months. Now they 1171 01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:52,560 Speaker 4: haven't had any sex, but she's sexually attracted to him. 1172 01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:56,040 Speaker 4: So then she asked him if we were dating. The 1173 01:00:56,200 --> 01:01:00,480 Speaker 4: man said, I'm new in town. You tell the girl 1174 01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:02,600 Speaker 4: you knew in time that when you got here, I 1175 01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:06,080 Speaker 4: had some loose ends I needed to tie up. He 1176 01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,840 Speaker 4: didn't say he was tying up no loose ends. He 1177 01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:10,960 Speaker 4: just said he has some loose ends he needed to 1178 01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:13,240 Speaker 4: tie But he didn't tell that he was tying nothing up. 1179 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,040 Speaker 4: He says he has a couple of girls that he 1180 01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:19,560 Speaker 4: enjoys hanging out with. What the hell does that mean? 1181 01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:24,560 Speaker 4: It's two women he's sleeping with. Yes, but right now 1182 01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:28,560 Speaker 4: I have all his attention now. Shirley said, that's what 1183 01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:32,600 Speaker 4: he told him. I'm saying that because they've been hanging 1184 01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:36,680 Speaker 4: out now inseparable. She's assuming she has all of his intentions. 1185 01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:40,040 Speaker 4: But he told her there's two women that I'm hanging 1186 01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:42,200 Speaker 4: out now, what the hell you think they at? I 1187 01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:44,040 Speaker 4: bet you they don't even know about the new girl 1188 01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:47,240 Speaker 4: in town. I bet you they don't even think they inseparable. 1189 01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:51,880 Speaker 4: Because he balancing these two women, he's still sleeping with them. 1190 01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:56,000 Speaker 4: She assuming she has all of his intention but he 1191 01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:58,960 Speaker 4: told her, I'm sleeping with two other women. 1192 01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:04,000 Speaker 3: I don't understand where our disagreement is though. It's like, 1193 01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:05,400 Speaker 3: I agree. 1194 01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:09,040 Speaker 7: He said that she has all of his attention, right, 1195 01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:11,680 Speaker 7: but he's not claiming her or anything like that because 1196 01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:12,919 Speaker 7: he has these other two women. 1197 01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:14,760 Speaker 1: You don't see that. 1198 01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:16,920 Speaker 3: I don't see what. 1199 01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:22,000 Speaker 1: Anybody have your full attention and he got two other women. 1200 01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:25,040 Speaker 1: That's right, that's just what he told her. 1201 01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:28,240 Speaker 3: She wasn't buying it. I don't believe she bought it 1202 01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:28,680 Speaker 3: at all. 1203 01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:33,880 Speaker 4: So I pumped the brakes and stopped thinking about wanting 1204 01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:34,960 Speaker 4: to sleep with him. 1205 01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:35,760 Speaker 1: That's a lie. 1206 01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:38,760 Speaker 4: I didn't want to hang out with him anymore, but 1207 01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:43,080 Speaker 4: I had to keep an open mind. What lady, what 1208 01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:46,280 Speaker 4: are you talking about? I didn't want to see him anymore, 1209 01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:49,720 Speaker 4: but I had to keep an open mind, open mind 1210 01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:53,720 Speaker 4: to what you just said. You stopped stopped thinking about it. 1211 01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:58,320 Speaker 4: That's how I know you, Lye. I also appreciated his honesty. 1212 01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:01,520 Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's good. So if I tell you I'm 1213 01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:03,640 Speaker 4: sleeping with some more people, do you appreciate that? 1214 01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:04,160 Speaker 1: Okay? 1215 01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:04,439 Speaker 2: Cool? 1216 01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,360 Speaker 3: Yeahsty Yes, we tell you that all the time. 1217 01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:09,760 Speaker 1: Yeah okay. And then he told you that what you want, 1218 01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:15,800 Speaker 1: what what you win for that what what rip of 1219 01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:17,080 Speaker 1: you get for that truth? 1220 01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:19,440 Speaker 3: But she gets the option to make up her own 1221 01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:20,480 Speaker 3: money to choose. 1222 01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:29,120 Speaker 4: No, no, no, Sureley, I show you something. It's the trap, man, God, y'all, Man, y'all, 1223 01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:31,080 Speaker 4: I continue to casually date. 1224 01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:31,600 Speaker 1: Here, here we go. 1225 01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:35,240 Speaker 4: All he did was throw it out there to see 1226 01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:38,439 Speaker 4: how you would react. You said, you stopped thinking about 1227 01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:43,040 Speaker 4: him sexually. But guess what, you continue, you continued because 1228 01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:45,800 Speaker 4: he threw out there the bait, and you bit. Now 1229 01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:47,720 Speaker 4: we're right back where we started from. 1230 01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:50,560 Speaker 1: A week ago. He spent the night at my place 1231 01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:53,680 Speaker 1: for the first time. How how he get in your bed? 1232 01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:54,000 Speaker 5: Now? 1233 01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:57,240 Speaker 7: Well, she said she was sexually attracted to him. 1234 01:03:57,320 --> 01:03:59,320 Speaker 1: No, no, no, What she said was. 1235 01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:04,400 Speaker 4: I pumped the brakes and stopped thinking about wanting to 1236 01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:06,320 Speaker 4: sleep with him, and I ain't want to hang out 1237 01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:07,120 Speaker 4: with him anymore. 1238 01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:08,920 Speaker 1: That's what she said. 1239 01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:12,120 Speaker 3: But she also says she was sexually attracted to him. 1240 01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:15,160 Speaker 4: Quit hearing what you want to hear running down the 1241 01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:19,480 Speaker 4: street with that information because you want to have a relationship. Now, 1242 01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:22,080 Speaker 4: we did a lot of kissing in the cuntling and 1243 01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:24,120 Speaker 4: then things got heated. What the hell you think was 1244 01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:28,920 Speaker 4: gonna help? I pulled back and I told him I'm 1245 01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:32,160 Speaker 4: protecting myself from getting my heart broken. That was the 1246 01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:35,160 Speaker 4: wrong thing to say, because he been acting weird since then. 1247 01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:37,520 Speaker 4: He probably thinks I'm falling. 1248 01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:40,560 Speaker 1: In love with him. No, he don't, No, he don't. 1249 01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:44,280 Speaker 4: What he probably think is he done wasted his damn 1250 01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:46,880 Speaker 4: time and you ain't gonna have sex with him? 1251 01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:50,480 Speaker 1: That's what he probably right there. 1252 01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:53,760 Speaker 4: Well, then he probably thinks I'm falling in love and 1253 01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:56,160 Speaker 4: I'm in no way in love with him, but I 1254 01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:59,919 Speaker 4: do love hanging out with him. Hey, stop saying love 1255 01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:08,400 Speaker 4: starting to be stupid? Stupid? No, but stop saying Look, 1256 01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:13,439 Speaker 4: he is now acting weird and we badly go out. 1257 01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:16,600 Speaker 4: Does it mean that he don't have good intentions for 1258 01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:17,480 Speaker 4: our relationship? 1259 01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:19,960 Speaker 1: Is he putting all this time in to have sex 1260 01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:20,200 Speaker 1: with me? 1261 01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:20,760 Speaker 5: Yes? 1262 01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:25,680 Speaker 1: Yes, that's why that's why we put time in to 1263 01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:29,680 Speaker 1: have sex? Hard at it? 1264 01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:33,919 Speaker 4: Am I better off leaving this man alone? Or should 1265 01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:38,240 Speaker 4: I keep competing for a spot? You already competed for 1266 01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:40,880 Speaker 4: the spot when you let him have a space in 1267 01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:43,880 Speaker 4: your bed and you're trying to get something from the 1268 01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:45,680 Speaker 4: man that he not find to give to you. 1269 01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:47,800 Speaker 1: You're fin to be number three. 1270 01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:52,680 Speaker 4: Because now her only question is should I keep competing 1271 01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:57,120 Speaker 4: for a spot because his mind? 1272 01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:01,840 Speaker 7: Comments on Today's strug Letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey 1273 01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:05,360 Speaker 7: FM Quinn check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast on. 1274 01:06:05,440 --> 01:06:10,280 Speaker 3: The Street Radio. I told her to go what are 1275 01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:14,040 Speaker 3: you talking about? Why are you mad at me? Because 1276 01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:15,080 Speaker 3: she didn't give him nine? 1277 01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:19,600 Speaker 8: All right? 1278 01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:23,360 Speaker 3: Coming up next Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this. 1279 01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:28,000 Speaker 3: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for 1280 01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:30,200 Speaker 3: Junior and Sports Talk. What you got junior? 1281 01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:32,320 Speaker 1: All right? Everybody, Well, it happened. 1282 01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:35,480 Speaker 8: Justin Fields has been traded to the Pittsburgh Steelers for 1283 01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:36,600 Speaker 8: conditional picks. 1284 01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:40,160 Speaker 1: He called to the Pittsburgh Steelers. Man, you're gonna join 1285 01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:40,960 Speaker 1: Russell Wilson. 1286 01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:47,240 Speaker 4: He's the backup proba as the backup quarterbacks. Got two. 1287 01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:51,080 Speaker 4: They got Russell Wilson and Justin Field, and the competition 1288 01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:55,520 Speaker 4: is on. They got Russell Wilson for one point two million. Yeah, 1289 01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:58,720 Speaker 4: they got Justin He's still on the back end of 1290 01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:01,560 Speaker 4: his rookie contract. Yep, So they got him from some 1291 01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:06,120 Speaker 4: conditional picks. Oh boy, they quarterback situation. Sweet, your boys 1292 01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:06,960 Speaker 4: go to work. 1293 01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:08,880 Speaker 1: Both of them can run. 1294 01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:09,440 Speaker 2: We know that. 1295 01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:12,000 Speaker 4: Boy. They finn to go to work. They ain't got 1296 01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:14,320 Speaker 4: to change they sister. They fixed they system because both 1297 01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:17,000 Speaker 4: of them is the same. That's the only thing is one. 1298 01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:17,600 Speaker 1: I'm younger. 1299 01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:20,560 Speaker 8: I ain't mad about it. Hey, you know, Aaron Donnald 1300 01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:23,080 Speaker 8: retired to man for the Los Angeles Rams. 1301 01:07:23,440 --> 01:07:24,920 Speaker 1: That surprised a lot of people. 1302 01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:28,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, did Andre Johnson going to the Hall of Fame. 1303 01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:30,600 Speaker 1: Everybody needs you to start standing up right now. 1304 01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:35,720 Speaker 8: Andrea, congratulations, big dog. Andre Johnson is going to the 1305 01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:38,240 Speaker 8: Hall of Fame. Chris Carter told him the news he's going, 1306 01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:39,160 Speaker 8: and he got the call. 1307 01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:40,280 Speaker 1: He going in there. 1308 01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:43,800 Speaker 8: Man, fourteen seasons with Houston. Man, appreciate you brother, all 1309 01:07:43,840 --> 01:07:46,920 Speaker 8: you put in there. You know, Devin Hester knocked on 1310 01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:50,960 Speaker 8: the door, didn't he your house? You're going to the house? Boy, 1311 01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:54,200 Speaker 8: You in there, You're finna be enshrined. Devin Hester going 1312 01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:57,480 Speaker 8: to man. Devin Hester play eleven years with the best, 1313 01:07:57,920 --> 01:07:59,400 Speaker 8: one of the best kick returners ever. 1314 01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:03,200 Speaker 1: Going to Dwhite, Freddie going d White. 1315 01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:05,959 Speaker 8: Freddy going to the Hall of Fame in Opplis coach 1316 01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:10,640 Speaker 8: defensive end made the spin move famous. Julius Peppers from 1317 01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:15,760 Speaker 8: the Carolina Pethers going to the Hall of Fame. Gold Jackets, 1318 01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:20,720 Speaker 8: Baby Patrick Willis, forty Niners linebacker going to the Hall 1319 01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:23,599 Speaker 8: of Fame. Man, proud of all y'all, but I'm mostly 1320 01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:26,280 Speaker 8: proud because Andre going. I ain't nobody from Cleveland on 1321 01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:26,640 Speaker 8: here yet. 1322 01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:33,120 Speaker 3: So push your button, push your button, Look again, look again. 1323 01:08:33,160 --> 01:08:37,000 Speaker 5: You don't see nothing. Panthers for looking at again, looking 1324 01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:37,479 Speaker 5: at again. 1325 01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:42,880 Speaker 1: That's the first that that's your first Houston Texan to 1326 01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:44,720 Speaker 1: ever get. He is the first one. 1327 01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:45,200 Speaker 6: He is. 1328 01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:47,879 Speaker 4: We have a long list of Hall of Fame players. 1329 01:08:48,080 --> 01:08:51,599 Speaker 4: Ozzie Newsom's would be the last one I remember. Uh. 1330 01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:53,120 Speaker 4: We can go back all the way to all the 1331 01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:58,360 Speaker 4: round Jim Jim Brown, we can go to Lee Roy Kelly, 1332 01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:00,840 Speaker 4: so you can go to a whole lot of people. 1333 01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:03,560 Speaker 4: So y'all just now got one. So congratulations. 1334 01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:06,560 Speaker 5: I'm going back to the You're back in the sixties 1335 01:09:06,600 --> 01:09:08,080 Speaker 5: with all these people you tell my back. 1336 01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:14,800 Speaker 3: Thank you. 1337 01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:20,600 Speaker 7: Will continue, obviously, you got one coming up at the 1338 01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:23,479 Speaker 7: top of the hour, Steve. A lady slept with her 1339 01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:26,200 Speaker 7: male best friend and her fiance wants to talk to 1340 01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:28,479 Speaker 7: her and she needs some advice from you. 1341 01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:30,519 Speaker 3: We'll find out what that's all about right after this. 1342 01:09:31,280 --> 01:09:37,280 Speaker 7: You're listening hard Morning Show, all right, Steve This is 1343 01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:40,559 Speaker 7: from rachelle In Tucker. She says, one of my closest 1344 01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:43,920 Speaker 7: male friends is getting married. We used to have sex, 1345 01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:46,880 Speaker 7: but not in over five years. A big group of 1346 01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:49,360 Speaker 7: our friends had a house party to celebrate him, and 1347 01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:52,880 Speaker 7: he chose not to invite his fiance. He got very drunk, 1348 01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:55,680 Speaker 7: so I had to drive him home. I went to 1349 01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:58,640 Speaker 7: use his bathroom, and when I finished, he asked if 1350 01:09:58,680 --> 01:10:01,960 Speaker 7: I wanted to fool around one last time before he 1351 01:10:02,040 --> 01:10:07,840 Speaker 7: gets married. We have the worst drunken sex ever. Right 1352 01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:11,519 Speaker 7: after sex, his fiance showed up. He eventually had to 1353 01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:14,799 Speaker 7: let her in and she could tell what it just happened. 1354 01:10:15,040 --> 01:10:18,439 Speaker 7: He keeps lying to her, so she's calling me for answers. 1355 01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:20,440 Speaker 7: Do I owe her an explanation? 1356 01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:26,120 Speaker 4: First of all, I have told y'all, yeah, over and 1357 01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:32,120 Speaker 4: over and over about these opposite sex friendships. Being your 1358 01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:36,360 Speaker 4: best friend and you are in a committed relationship, it 1359 01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:39,920 Speaker 4: almost don't ever work out. I don't know how you 1360 01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:43,160 Speaker 4: think it can. I just don't know how you think 1361 01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:46,400 Speaker 4: it can't. We are dealing with the male species here. 1362 01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:50,720 Speaker 3: But they hadn't done anything in five years. Steve Lly, 1363 01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:55,519 Speaker 3: are you listening to what I'm saying I'm saying, that's where. 1364 01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:57,960 Speaker 4: I don't give a damn if they ain't had sex 1365 01:10:58,120 --> 01:11:07,240 Speaker 4: ever before. Keep telling y'all, man, y'all just listen to me, 1366 01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:10,200 Speaker 4: this hardly ever works out. 1367 01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:14,360 Speaker 1: I haven't seen the workout check, and this. 1368 01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:15,920 Speaker 3: Is definitely not working out here. 1369 01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:20,160 Speaker 4: So now do you owe her an explanation? She keep 1370 01:11:20,240 --> 01:11:24,840 Speaker 4: calling you what you're gonna do? Ignore, So the dude 1371 01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:29,000 Speaker 4: then told her that it didn't happen. She keep calling 1372 01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:31,360 Speaker 4: you because she gonna make you crack because guess what, 1373 01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:35,720 Speaker 4: you a girl and you gonna crack because y'all have 1374 01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:42,040 Speaker 4: this un uncanny neck for just having to tell the truth. 1375 01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:46,160 Speaker 4: I don't know what this is with y'all, where you 1376 01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:49,280 Speaker 4: just have to tell the truth and this other ignorant 1377 01:11:49,280 --> 01:11:53,120 Speaker 4: mess y'all got. She should know, y'all, y'all need to 1378 01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:55,680 Speaker 4: go home with all that mess, get out of the 1379 01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:59,519 Speaker 4: screwing around business. If you're gonna tell the truth and 1380 01:11:59,680 --> 01:12:01,880 Speaker 4: feel like the other person got to know, you need 1381 01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:03,120 Speaker 4: to get out that business. 1382 01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:07,240 Speaker 1: Y'all don't want to say you do it wrong. 1383 01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:10,120 Speaker 4: It's wrong of you to sleep with this girl's fiance, 1384 01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:14,000 Speaker 4: But now you all of a sudden you're righteous, right, h. 1385 01:12:16,520 --> 01:12:20,280 Speaker 3: So she doesn't owe her an explanation. 1386 01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:30,280 Speaker 4: Messed up everything, you Ben, messed up everything, and now 1387 01:12:30,400 --> 01:12:31,920 Speaker 4: what can you say to this woman? 1388 01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:34,120 Speaker 3: And it wasn't even worth it. They had the worst 1389 01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:35,320 Speaker 3: drunken sec ever. 1390 01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,120 Speaker 1: There is no worth it. 1391 01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:40,920 Speaker 4: It could have been the best night of his life. 1392 01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:44,760 Speaker 4: If he lose his girl, yeah, it ain't worth it. 1393 01:12:46,439 --> 01:12:48,360 Speaker 4: The problem with this whole thing up for you is 1394 01:12:48,439 --> 01:12:53,120 Speaker 4: the truth, y'all. Y'all, y'all need to go some little 1395 01:12:53,160 --> 01:12:58,160 Speaker 4: sit down with all this hip. Stop running your damn mouth. 1396 01:12:58,600 --> 01:13:01,320 Speaker 4: If you're not gonna lie, shut up. 1397 01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:04,559 Speaker 3: If you're not gonna lie, don't talk. 1398 01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:09,040 Speaker 1: Because your mouth so so Steve, you're saying that. 1399 01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:13,080 Speaker 9: The lady that wrote the letter is she's not gonna 1400 01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:16,040 Speaker 9: lie and co sign on what the dude said, ride 1401 01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:18,640 Speaker 9: with his lie to say it didn't happen, and she 1402 01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:19,839 Speaker 9: doesn't say anything. 1403 01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:22,840 Speaker 1: That's what friends are for. 1404 01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:31,960 Speaker 3: They made that's keep lying. 1405 01:13:33,600 --> 01:13:37,680 Speaker 1: True because my boy would have to would have to 1406 01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:40,479 Speaker 1: take the hit for me. He cofored for me. If 1407 01:13:40,560 --> 01:13:41,799 Speaker 1: y'all gonna be best friends. 1408 01:13:42,200 --> 01:13:45,600 Speaker 4: But but now you got the opposite sex friends, and 1409 01:13:45,760 --> 01:13:46,879 Speaker 4: now you got a problem. 1410 01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:47,160 Speaker 2: Man. 1411 01:13:47,479 --> 01:13:49,439 Speaker 1: I just don't see how this is gonna work. 1412 01:13:49,920 --> 01:13:52,240 Speaker 4: And I think you should ignore the phone calls and 1413 01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:55,439 Speaker 4: leave that business between them. But then you you are 1414 01:13:55,560 --> 01:13:57,680 Speaker 4: they business because you put yourself in it. 1415 01:13:58,880 --> 01:14:00,880 Speaker 1: He cheated on his fee. Say with you you can 1416 01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:03,240 Speaker 1: see his friend and if you want to, but yeah, 1417 01:14:03,280 --> 01:14:04,040 Speaker 1: you can say all. 1418 01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:11,240 Speaker 3: That show, yeah, yeah, all right, we'll have a years. 1419 01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:12,280 Speaker 1: Like you don't remember that. 1420 01:14:13,080 --> 01:14:15,599 Speaker 7: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1421 01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:19,000 Speaker 7: up at twenty minutes after the hour right after this, you're. 1422 01:14:18,840 --> 01:14:25,360 Speaker 3: Listening Harvey Morning Show. Well, congratulations going out to doctor Dre. 1423 01:14:25,880 --> 01:14:28,880 Speaker 7: Doctor Dre is going to get his Hollywood star on 1424 01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:31,960 Speaker 7: the Walk of Fame tomorrow. His star will be right 1425 01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:35,360 Speaker 7: next to his longtime homie and collaborator Snoop Dog. 1426 01:14:35,600 --> 01:14:37,200 Speaker 3: As a matter of fact, Snoop. 1427 01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:41,639 Speaker 7: Will prevent we'll present the star. LA Radio legend Big 1428 01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:44,040 Speaker 7: Boy will be on the scene. He'll be the MC 1429 01:14:44,240 --> 01:14:47,120 Speaker 7: for the ceremony. It's pretty cool that two of LA's 1430 01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:51,080 Speaker 7: legendary entertainers will have stars side by side on the 1431 01:14:51,120 --> 01:14:52,240 Speaker 7: Hollywood Walk of Fame. 1432 01:14:52,360 --> 01:14:55,840 Speaker 3: So congratulations yet again to doctor Dre. When it will 1433 01:14:56,439 --> 01:14:57,920 Speaker 3: be like Snoop Man. 1434 01:14:58,240 --> 01:15:02,439 Speaker 1: Doctor Dre is just not getting his crab. It's Martin Hawens. 1435 01:15:02,800 --> 01:15:07,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Uncle Charlie got his like process, who opened? 1436 01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:09,439 Speaker 1: Who's a jar? 1437 01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:15,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? You have what money? About fifty grand? It's a lot. 1438 01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:19,519 Speaker 1: See. No, ya, it's not just that. It's not just 1439 01:15:19,640 --> 01:15:21,560 Speaker 1: the money. That's the cost of it. 1440 01:15:22,040 --> 01:15:22,400 Speaker 6: Uh huh. 1441 01:15:23,280 --> 01:15:24,400 Speaker 1: This is the process. 1442 01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:27,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's another process. You got to pay the money 1443 01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:31,559 Speaker 4: because they got a building. It's darn the ground. But okay, 1444 01:15:32,040 --> 01:15:33,719 Speaker 4: it's more than just paying some money. 1445 01:15:34,840 --> 01:15:40,320 Speaker 9: Donald Trump got a star before Doctor Drake. Yes, I'm 1446 01:15:40,400 --> 01:15:42,240 Speaker 9: struggling reading the names. 1447 01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:46,679 Speaker 3: Well, the most important thing is that he's getting it. Finally. 1448 01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:50,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, I wonder if his speech will be like snoops, 1449 01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:53,000 Speaker 7: I want to thank me, okay. 1450 01:15:54,320 --> 01:15:55,320 Speaker 1: For all that I did. 1451 01:15:56,960 --> 01:15:59,200 Speaker 3: Finally. All right, we'll have more of the. 1452 01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:01,519 Speaker 7: Steve Harby Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes 1453 01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:03,760 Speaker 7: after the hour, we'll play around and would you rather 1454 01:16:04,120 --> 01:16:09,280 Speaker 7: right after this you're listening hard morning show, it's time 1455 01:16:09,360 --> 01:16:11,960 Speaker 7: now for a round and would you rather? Guys, would 1456 01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:16,640 Speaker 7: you rather your underpants are very itchy or your underpants. 1457 01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:18,880 Speaker 3: Are just too small? Which one gives you the mon? 1458 01:16:21,520 --> 01:16:21,720 Speaker 5: Huh? 1459 01:16:21,840 --> 01:16:27,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, just the small estimmitted. I don't want to itch 1460 01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:28,080 Speaker 1: at all. 1461 01:16:29,040 --> 01:16:30,719 Speaker 3: Okay, you just want too small? 1462 01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:31,760 Speaker 1: That's standing over it. 1463 01:16:37,760 --> 01:16:40,639 Speaker 3: But you don't want penny lines, do you. They're too small? 1464 01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:42,800 Speaker 1: I want them lines outside of itching. 1465 01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:47,559 Speaker 4: Yes, a man's pants ain't supposed to be that tight, 1466 01:16:47,640 --> 01:16:49,240 Speaker 4: but you see petty lines anyway. 1467 01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:57,760 Speaker 1: Let me explain something too. Okay, that's it. No, No, 1468 01:16:58,600 --> 01:17:02,720 Speaker 1: let let's STARp with it. Wait, let me waiting. 1469 01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:09,760 Speaker 3: Himself. We're moving on. We're moving on. 1470 01:17:10,360 --> 01:17:13,160 Speaker 7: Would you rather use chopsticks for the rest of your 1471 01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:15,479 Speaker 7: life or would you rather eat with your hands? 1472 01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:18,679 Speaker 3: Which chopsticks? Fingers my hand? 1473 01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:25,040 Speaker 4: No, I've done that before. The real tradition is to 1474 01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:32,360 Speaker 4: eat with your hands everything. Okay, I'm just gonna tell 1475 01:17:32,360 --> 01:17:37,080 Speaker 4: you right now. Soup ain't real big over there. Let's 1476 01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:46,880 Speaker 4: just be clear. What's yeah, now, you know listen, man, 1477 01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:49,600 Speaker 4: in restaurants and stuff, nobody does that. But when they 1478 01:17:49,680 --> 01:17:51,920 Speaker 4: go you go to some people's homes, it's tradition. 1479 01:17:52,080 --> 01:17:55,160 Speaker 3: They eat, they head okay, okay, And it's it's. 1480 01:17:55,160 --> 01:17:58,360 Speaker 4: Tough, man. You gotta scoop it in. Sometimes you mash 1481 01:17:58,439 --> 01:18:01,599 Speaker 4: it together. It's just it's just too much. 1482 01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:04,120 Speaker 1: So that's a lot of. 1483 01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:09,479 Speaker 3: People with those long women with the long nails. Yeah, 1484 01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:09,840 Speaker 3: all right. 1485 01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:13,719 Speaker 7: Would you rather make your own clothes? Make your own clothes. 1486 01:18:13,840 --> 01:18:16,280 Speaker 7: Would you rather grow your own food? 1487 01:18:17,560 --> 01:18:20,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? I'm doing that now. Yeah, you know how big 1488 01:18:20,280 --> 01:18:22,200 Speaker 1: a food I look with something I made. 1489 01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:25,880 Speaker 3: Blue cheese and fell off. 1490 01:18:26,120 --> 01:18:26,960 Speaker 1: You're looking crazy? 1491 01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:28,280 Speaker 3: S Did you? 1492 01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:32,320 Speaker 8: Did you make that one of your sleeves longer than 1493 01:18:32,400 --> 01:18:35,920 Speaker 8: the other or I ain't got no zipple. 1494 01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:38,560 Speaker 1: I couldn't get that to work under button. 1495 01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:48,040 Speaker 4: Man, buttons ain't lined up right. Yeah, I look bad 1496 01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:50,439 Speaker 4: enough when I was wearing my sister's out fit. She 1497 01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:56,679 Speaker 4: when going to my sister was not a tailor, knew 1498 01:18:56,720 --> 01:18:59,200 Speaker 4: how to soap. That's the difference. 1499 01:18:59,520 --> 01:19:04,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, last one, guys, Would you rather never pay taxes again? 1500 01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:06,639 Speaker 7: Or never make love again? 1501 01:19:07,800 --> 01:19:11,559 Speaker 1: What did you hear? Beato? 1502 01:19:11,840 --> 01:19:12,000 Speaker 5: Yeah? 1503 01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:18,320 Speaker 3: Over never making love ever again? 1504 01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:20,599 Speaker 1: You go to prison for them taxes. 1505 01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:27,960 Speaker 3: All right, guys, that's today's round of would you rather? 1506 01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:30,200 Speaker 7: Coming up next to our last break of the day, 1507 01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:32,160 Speaker 7: and we will close out the show with the one 1508 01:19:32,240 --> 01:19:34,360 Speaker 7: and only Steve Harvey right after this. 1509 01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:37,800 Speaker 3: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 1510 01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:40,400 Speaker 7: All right, guys, here we are on this Monday, our 1511 01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:44,400 Speaker 7: last break of the day, and Steve, I know you 1512 01:19:44,520 --> 01:19:46,080 Speaker 7: have some words of wisdom. 1513 01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:51,960 Speaker 4: Earlier today, Junior had mentioned to me to talk to 1514 01:19:52,080 --> 01:19:56,320 Speaker 4: him about perseverance. And as I thought about it, it's 1515 01:19:56,400 --> 01:19:59,840 Speaker 4: something that I started saying about a year ago because 1516 01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:05,120 Speaker 4: somebody had breached a subject with me about my ability 1517 01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:11,920 Speaker 4: to stay level, my ability to maintain. How have I 1518 01:20:12,240 --> 01:20:18,160 Speaker 4: managed to keep forging ahead in the light of so 1519 01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:22,840 Speaker 4: much negativity, in the light of so many, so many attacks. 1520 01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:27,679 Speaker 4: That was the subject and at the time it came 1521 01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:31,200 Speaker 4: to me and I shared it again this morning. One 1522 01:20:31,240 --> 01:20:34,880 Speaker 4: of the key things about being able to persevere, which 1523 01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:40,520 Speaker 4: means to see it through, to see it through, to persevere. 1524 01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:43,839 Speaker 4: And I said, the first time I became keenly aware 1525 01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:51,120 Speaker 4: of this word persevere was in nineteen seventy six. Perseverance 1526 01:20:51,360 --> 01:20:56,040 Speaker 4: is a cardinal principle of something that I've involved in. 1527 01:20:56,600 --> 01:21:01,920 Speaker 4: Perseverance is one of the cardinal principles of it, and 1528 01:21:02,120 --> 01:21:06,240 Speaker 4: perseverance Man, I started learning what it was, and what 1529 01:21:06,360 --> 01:21:08,920 Speaker 4: I was telling Junior was one of the things that's 1530 01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:17,680 Speaker 4: enabled me to persevere is really simple. I know how 1531 01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:22,080 Speaker 4: to suffer. And as we were talking about the word 1532 01:21:22,320 --> 01:21:26,000 Speaker 4: suffering off the ad, the team kind of pointed out 1533 01:21:26,040 --> 01:21:28,400 Speaker 4: to me, but you know, when you say suffer, it 1534 01:21:28,640 --> 01:21:31,960 Speaker 4: means so many things to so many different people. You know, 1535 01:21:32,120 --> 01:21:38,760 Speaker 4: it's pain, it's sickness, it's it's enduring, it's suffering. 1536 01:21:40,120 --> 01:21:43,280 Speaker 1: And what I've learned how to do is how to suffer. 1537 01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:50,519 Speaker 4: If you can get comfortable being uncomfortable, I cannot tell 1538 01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:54,639 Speaker 4: you how that skill set will serve you in your life. 1539 01:21:56,240 --> 01:22:03,360 Speaker 4: I suffer oftentimes in silence, without anybody knowing. I have 1540 01:22:03,640 --> 01:22:07,680 Speaker 4: understood suffering so good that you don't even know when 1541 01:22:07,800 --> 01:22:12,840 Speaker 4: I'm suffering. I have understood suffering to the point where 1542 01:22:13,520 --> 01:22:19,720 Speaker 4: I can still function while I'm suffering. If you can 1543 01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:25,520 Speaker 4: master suffering, and it's not easy, but let me simplify 1544 01:22:25,600 --> 01:22:31,400 Speaker 4: it for you. Suffering is very, very uncomfortable. But let 1545 01:22:31,479 --> 01:22:34,720 Speaker 4: me help you all understand something. If you can get 1546 01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:41,839 Speaker 4: comfortable being uncomfortable, I cannot tell you how that skill 1547 01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:44,040 Speaker 4: set will serve you in your life. 1548 01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:48,639 Speaker 1: It will get you through some of the darkest times. 1549 01:22:49,080 --> 01:22:54,080 Speaker 4: But you have got to get comfortable being uncomfortable in 1550 01:22:54,240 --> 01:22:57,640 Speaker 4: your life if you have any aspirations of being successful, 1551 01:22:58,000 --> 01:23:01,680 Speaker 4: because success is on the other side of uncomfortable. 1552 01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:02,920 Speaker 1: It always is. 1553 01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:06,439 Speaker 4: In order to get to something, you got to go 1554 01:23:06,920 --> 01:23:12,080 Speaker 4: through something, and that's where most people lose it. 1555 01:23:14,000 --> 01:23:17,760 Speaker 1: You don't like being uncomfortable, I have news for you. 1556 01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:21,840 Speaker 1: No one does. I don't like suffering. 1557 01:23:22,240 --> 01:23:28,360 Speaker 4: I have news for you. No one does nobody. But 1558 01:23:28,560 --> 01:23:32,360 Speaker 4: if you keep living in this world, you will know 1559 01:23:32,520 --> 01:23:38,640 Speaker 4: what suffering is. Suffering is staying up all night to 1560 01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:42,479 Speaker 4: pass the bar exam. Suffering is trying to get yourself 1561 01:23:42,560 --> 01:23:45,439 Speaker 4: a college degree when you didn't get the proper tools 1562 01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:51,000 Speaker 4: to prepare yourself for college. Suffering is having an illness 1563 01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:54,360 Speaker 4: that you have to constantly deal with, but somehow you 1564 01:23:54,479 --> 01:23:58,080 Speaker 4: get through it anyway. Suffering comes in the loss of 1565 01:23:58,160 --> 01:24:03,720 Speaker 4: a loved one. Suffering comes in defeat. Suffering comes in 1566 01:24:03,880 --> 01:24:09,400 Speaker 4: losing your income. Suffering comes in getting foreclosed on. Suffering 1567 01:24:09,479 --> 01:24:13,000 Speaker 4: comes in the form of repossession. Suffering comes in the 1568 01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:16,240 Speaker 4: form of failure. I can't tell you how many ways 1569 01:24:16,320 --> 01:24:21,439 Speaker 4: that is to suffer. It's an endless array. It's a 1570 01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:26,280 Speaker 4: plethora of opportunities to suffer, and we're all gonna have 1571 01:24:26,360 --> 01:24:31,240 Speaker 4: to deal with one of them sooner or much sooner 1572 01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:36,680 Speaker 4: than later. And you're going to have to understand. 1573 01:24:36,040 --> 01:24:38,760 Speaker 1: It over and over and over and over. 1574 01:24:39,760 --> 01:24:44,440 Speaker 4: It has become the one thing that have become exceptionally 1575 01:24:44,520 --> 01:24:48,960 Speaker 4: good at doing. And people take this as a negative connotation, 1576 01:24:49,479 --> 01:24:52,160 Speaker 4: But boy, let me tell you something. You best to 1577 01:24:52,240 --> 01:24:56,160 Speaker 4: get used to it, because it's coming. It's coming again 1578 01:24:56,640 --> 01:25:01,640 Speaker 4: and again and again and again. And if you're so 1579 01:25:01,880 --> 01:25:03,840 Speaker 4: tired of suffering that you just ain't gonna do it 1580 01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:09,840 Speaker 4: no more, DA's when you lose hope. That's why people 1581 01:25:09,960 --> 01:25:16,400 Speaker 4: give up. If you can get comfortable being uncomfortable, I 1582 01:25:16,560 --> 01:25:20,720 Speaker 4: cannot tell you how that skill set will serve you 1583 01:25:20,880 --> 01:25:25,280 Speaker 4: in your life. That's when the devil wins. Because the 1584 01:25:25,400 --> 01:25:29,560 Speaker 4: devil got one job to rob you of your destiny, 1585 01:25:29,880 --> 01:25:32,200 Speaker 4: and what better way than to make you suffer? 1586 01:25:32,520 --> 01:25:32,880 Speaker 2: Do you know? 1587 01:25:33,000 --> 01:25:33,160 Speaker 5: Man? 1588 01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:37,200 Speaker 4: When Satan came after Job, he said, I can get job, 1589 01:25:37,520 --> 01:25:39,760 Speaker 4: and God said, I got a bad boy over there, 1590 01:25:40,040 --> 01:25:42,479 Speaker 4: and you know what to did? The devil threw everything 1591 01:25:42,560 --> 01:25:45,439 Speaker 4: at him, and God allowed it because he knew the 1592 01:25:45,560 --> 01:25:50,600 Speaker 4: soldier that he had in Job Job suffered through immist 1593 01:25:51,040 --> 01:25:55,599 Speaker 4: pressures and pains. They did everything to Job. He never 1594 01:25:55,760 --> 01:25:59,280 Speaker 4: denounced his love for the Lord, and his reward was great. 1595 01:26:00,120 --> 01:26:03,400 Speaker 4: Learn how to suffer, you will learn how to win, 1596 01:26:04,960 --> 01:26:08,519 Speaker 4: and that's all we try to do. Those are my 1597 01:26:08,640 --> 01:26:10,960 Speaker 4: closing remarks today, Lord have mercy. 1598 01:26:11,040 --> 01:26:15,680 Speaker 1: All right, amen, Hey y'all have a great day to day. 1599 01:26:15,760 --> 01:26:18,680 Speaker 1: Talk to God. 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