1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: Hi. I've received some requests for it and updates and 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: had a little time, so I decided it could be 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: a good fit. I'm going to thank you all from 4 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: the bottom of my heart from your comments, messages, and 5 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 1: well every piece of advice, because I feel like we 6 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: owe you for being even more paranoid than we were being. 7 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:20,119 Speaker 1: Remember my conspiracy theory. No, A couple people, No, I 8 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 1: don't want you to be right. 9 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:22,759 Speaker 2: This is AH. 10 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 1: A couple of people asked me what method we use 11 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 1: to know the gender of the baby. I announced it 12 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: after twenty weeks. The reason for waiting so long is 13 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 1: we have experienced a loss in the past which we 14 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: were prepared to announce when it happened, and we wanted 15 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 1: to be sure and have a safety of the feeling 16 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: about the announcement. Also, we were a naive enough to 17 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: think that it would be special for my mom, and 18 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: you were right. After posting, I handed it to my 19 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: husband and he read your messages, comments, and advice for 20 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: several days. We swiped the house and thankfully found nothing, 21 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 1: but felt extremely unsafe, so we went to a hotel 22 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: with my dad. I'm guessing, like implying, like is there 23 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: like like like a baby monitor like cameras like in the. 24 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 2: House felt extremely unsafe because someone's gonna steal your kid. 25 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 1: Maybe it's just like we're checking the house to make 26 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:14,279 Speaker 1: sure it's not any cameras or something along those lines. 27 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: But then we realized there was a tracker on my 28 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: fur baby's vest. The pets vest has a tracker on us, 29 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: so you. 30 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 2: Could always see where the whole family was. 31 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 3: That's so smart. 32 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: He's like, he is a very small dog and it 33 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: gets cold a lot, so he has a funny vest. 34 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: Never in a million years what I have thought of 35 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: looking there. That is such an evil genius that like 36 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: shows how dementagy is honestly how sick and twisted. But 37 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: we discovered the tracker when my dad walked him around 38 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 1: the hotel area and my sister came and asked about 39 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: me in reconciliation that she pulled up to the hotel 40 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: because of the tracker and the evil sister. I'll say 41 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: the evil sister. Now that's easier. The evil sister pulls 42 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 1: up and she's like, like you, why don't you how 43 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: does she know where the hotel was? They ran away 44 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: for it was like a last second. The tracker did 45 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: the tracker. I was really upset, so we decided to move. 46 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: Thankfully we can afford it. We are renting at the moment, 47 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: and also, oh, like move, move move, I mean they're 48 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 1: they're stalking you, like legit, legit. Wow, we need more 49 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:21,399 Speaker 1: legal action. 50 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 2: Now we need you need a restraining order. 51 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 3: To aug they suppressed charges. 52 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 2: Yeah right yeah. I feel like op's like, all right, 53 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 2: thankfully we have the money, and like it seems like 54 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 2: kind of upbeat about the move, but like I don't 55 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 2: think they like to move it, move it. 56 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: No, bring down the hammers. We are renting at the moment, 57 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 1: and also renting our place, so it's not just empty. 58 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 1: I used to love that house, but now I feel 59 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: it's ruined and tainted somehow. Sadly, my parents' house feels 60 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 1: the same. And not only for me. We all my brother, 61 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: my husband, dad, and sister in law, even my husband's family, 62 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: changed our numbers, got new electronics and notified art. 63 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 2: That's crazy. See the steps that you have to take insane, 64 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 2: doesn't that? Because it's like scares me that someone could 65 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 2: just like all of a sudden start stalking you, and 66 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 2: like there's not a ton you can. 67 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 1: Do, because like it's already crazy, like like like a 68 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: random stocker, I. 69 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 2: Guess you could. You could like humble on them, true. 70 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: A wacky series of events like all shucks, we didn't 71 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: do it this time. 72 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 4: Guys. 73 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 3: You just lure them into your house and like beat 74 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 3: them over the head with a bowling ball that fell 75 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 3: from a staircase. 76 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: They would just die. 77 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's unrealistic because those guys would get murdered. Yeah, yeah, 78 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 2: series of traps. 79 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: But like it's like random stoker someone who is literally 80 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: grew up with you. 81 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, like which would you rather? Which would you rather? Easily? 82 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 2: But like but like like high tech random stocker? Yeah, okay, 83 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 2: would you rather have a high tech random stocker or 84 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 2: a family member stalking you? High tech random stocker can 85 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,119 Speaker 2: know where you live because they can hack into your 86 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 2: stuff and has like all of them maybe spyware. 87 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 1: Maybe I'll take the dumb family. 88 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you would you rather be like murdered 89 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 2: by someone you know or someone you don't? You know? 90 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 2: It's like kind of same vibe. I think someone I 91 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 2: know screw that. I think it's scarier. It's scarier and 92 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 2: it's someone you don't know. 93 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 1: To me, I'm like, dude, you portray you betrayed the trust. 94 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 1: Well yeah, and in my in my I'm. 95 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: Like the Lord, you're dying breath, you know, I'm like 96 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 2: you trade me. Yeah. But it's like usually you wouldn't 97 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 2: see it coming, you know, with your it hurts so 98 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 2: much more. It would hurt more in the final moments. 99 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,160 Speaker 2: But like all right, like like someone breaks into your house, 100 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 2: they're chasing you, like that's scary, like for like Assaulid, 101 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 2: like you know, twenty minutes until they kill you. Your friend. 102 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 2: It's like that stabs you in the back. It's like 103 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 2: you're chilling, and then all of a sudden, you're like 104 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 2: what You're like, You're like almost like confused, and so 105 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 2: I feel like you're not You're not so much scared. 106 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 2: You're like like like, all right, when Caesar got stabbed 107 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 2: in the back by Brutus, he wasn't like, oh my god, 108 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 2: I'm so scared of you Brutus. He was like, oh 109 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,840 Speaker 2: wait what you two? Everyone you two at two Brute 110 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 2: He's like, he's like confused. 111 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: You know, we're going to vote in the poll and 112 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: we're also getting back to the story here, but we 113 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: won't read out the results, so we all change our numbers, 114 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: got new electronics, notified our employers, friends, and the police. 115 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: We all started therapy and family therapy. My dad and 116 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:19,039 Speaker 1: brother feel extreme guilt over the situation, even if I 117 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 1: have truly forgiven them, but we are healing as a unit. 118 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: My sister and mom insist that they are not wrong 119 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: and that they don't need therapy. My dad made a 120 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: new will in which my evils sister's son gets a 121 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:34,119 Speaker 1: trust fund and some inheritance, but my evil sister gets 122 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 1: a token amount. He is truly done with her, so 123 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:40,720 Speaker 1: like virtually nothing in comparison. I was feeling bad for her, 124 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 1: but I decided to focus my energy on my baby. 125 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: She is here and we are blessed. Horay. It is 126 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: not the experience I thought of, since my mom is 127 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 1: not around with me anymore. But so many of my 128 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 1: friends and family members have truly surprised us. By the end, 129 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: we were so paranoid. We started testing some people. We 130 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 1: were unsure of telling them that I was going into labor. Dude, 131 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: it works like a charm. We discovered who was still 132 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 1: feeding info to my mom and sister and cut them out. 133 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 2: Who's the mall dude. 134 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 5: Who's the rat that's give it a gene, but also 135 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 5: so sad well that someone's a rat, well that they 136 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 5: literally had to leak this fake information to realize smart. 137 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, really smart. So what they're doing like political campaigns 138 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 2: and stuff and like the mob and rap battles and 139 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 2: rap battles. Oh that is true. 140 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 1: That the rest understood when we explained the reasoning. Yeah, 141 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: we cut out all the people that we realized they're 142 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: feeding information in mom and sister. The rest understood when 143 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: we explained the reasoning. My ex, who my friends now 144 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 1: call baits, went around saying the baby was his because 145 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,720 Speaker 1: we've been having a tour affair due to my undying 146 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:53,599 Speaker 1: love for him. 147 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 2: Dude, he is desperate. 148 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: Let's suit him too. 149 00:06:56,640 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 2: He was desperate. Whatever else we got, Oh god, nobody 150 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 2: believe over it, right, dude, I imagine being so obsessed 151 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 2: that you can't move on for like years, per years, 152 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 2: almost twenty twenty years. I will say, man is committed. 153 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 2: Man is committed, and in a world of people who 154 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 2: are like you know, like you know, hookup culture, and 155 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 2: no one can commit this man. This guy can commit. 156 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: That's the kind of commitment. Sample on, guy, live in. 157 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 2: A society for twenty years, your applications in here. Yeah, 158 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 2: if you're not starving for twenty years, you don't love me, 159 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 2: you don't stock me. That was a joke of a joke, 160 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 2: and if you really loved me, you would know that. 161 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 2: Ex Actually, ah, you've failed to test. Now nobody believes 162 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 2: him anymore. 163 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 1: But it made my husband contact bases employer and tell 164 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: him about all the craziness. I kind of like that. 165 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: It's gone too far. Long story short. He was put 166 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: on suspension pending internal reviews. I am still positive he 167 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 1: will be fired since they have asked us for more 168 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: and more info and they seem really apologetic. My mom 169 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 1: has tried to find but all the people that know 170 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: of our location have gone no contact with her. My 171 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: dad's lawyers sent her a letter stating that due to 172 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: her unstability, all correspondence will be through lawyers. Now it 173 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 1: has been us and my dad because I felt so 174 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: bad for him being alone. He has promised he will 175 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: be fine and nothing is my fault, but I still 176 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: feel awful. He has been the best babysitter, theater, and 177 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: diaper changer in the universe. 178 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 2: Damn, that's all he is. Er changer. 179 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: He's just a bottle of stick in my kid's mouth. 180 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: I said what I said. My nephews are loving as always, 181 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: and my dad even got a visit with my sister's son. 182 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: It came about because she kept making videos threatening to 183 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 1: hurt herself if my husband didn't stop alienating her family. 184 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 1: So my dad emailing her about seeing her son and 185 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: told her that he would call the police about her threats. 186 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: So that seems to have stopped it. Lastly, someone brought 187 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: up that I gave Bates false hope. It couldn't be 188 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: further from the truth. I spent years uncomfortable because I 189 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 1: thought we had moved on. Then after I spoke up 190 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:05,559 Speaker 1: and then met my husband, I spent such a long 191 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: time fighting my sister about it. I had a very 192 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: long engagement, which is why I married after my sister. 193 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: I still love my mom and my sister, but I 194 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 1: chose a healthy life for me and my family over 195 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 1: that love. A poetic way to put. 196 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 2: It, hmm. 197 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: I have discovered a lot of loyalty, love and compassion 198 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: through this whole thing. As strange as it may seem, 199 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: I feel lucky that it all exploded. Hopefully it is 200 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 1: not too much of a ramble, but hugs from me 201 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 1: and you think we're done, but there's god yet another 202 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 1: one two months later. 203 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 2: We need to give a TLDR for everyone who just 204 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 2: Heather Nicole says she needs a TLDR. Absolutely, Let's let's give. 205 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 3: It two more updates after this, like this one and 206 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 3: another one. 207 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 2: How long is this story? 208 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 3: Six big ones? 209 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:51,679 Speaker 1: Long? Long? Okay? 210 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 2: Quick? 211 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: TLDR is this? 212 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 2: Wait? What what episode are we on right now? 213 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:55,319 Speaker 1: For? 214 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 3: We got one more after this? 215 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 1: Or in baby, so we're op. My sister is crazy. 216 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: Opie's mom is crazy. Initially, the sister was trying to 217 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: get her to marry her high school X because she's 218 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 1: married to the high school ex's brother, so they'd be 219 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: like two sisters married to two brothers. She has this crazy, 220 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: delusional fantasy. We learned. We at first thought the mom 221 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: was like kind of on OP side. Turns out the 222 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 1: mom was really on the sisters side the whole time. 223 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 1: It was just like playing playing both angles. Now basically 224 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: everyone's cut off, evil mom and evil sister. The dad 225 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 1: divorced the mom. Everyone's going no contact. They're just on 226 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: an island. 227 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,680 Speaker 2: And now they're stalking OP and. 228 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: Now they're stocking OP. They put a tracker on Opie's dog. 229 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:42,679 Speaker 1: It's basically, they haven't. They still haven't stopped. They still 230 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:46,079 Speaker 1: haven't relented after all this, which means there might still 231 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 1: be a lot more they have. They might go have 232 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 1: some more gas in the tank for their insanity. They're 233 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: crazy tanks. 234 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 2: The dude, the crazy tank never stopped. It really does. 235 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: So we're gonna find out just that much gas. 236 00:10:56,520 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 2: So let's buckle in, boyos and girls. 237 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: Let's go. So two months later, a quick deal, dr. 238 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 1: I'm happy to report we all live well and living 239 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 1: in a new house, and the baby is thriving, and 240 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: my ex bates was fired. Heck yah, love to hear that. 241 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 1: But here's a longer version. We officially moved into a 242 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:19,839 Speaker 1: new house, my dad moving into the guest house Loki 243 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: fle Okay. We had many discussions, both in and outside 244 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: of therapy, and we decided that while it would be 245 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 1: good for him to be with us, we all still 246 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: need our space. We are still renting out the old place, 247 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: but we and we will decide to do what to 248 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 1: do with that later. My dad has the grandchildren altogether 249 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: about three times a week now. He still has to 250 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 1: see my evil sister's kids separately since she refused to 251 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 1: let him take the kid unless she knew where he lived, which, 252 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: to be fair, is a normal thing, but considering she 253 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: is crazy, we don't want her close fair. My mom 254 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: complained to the lawyers about how unfair it is that 255 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: my dad still gets to see all the grandchildren, but 256 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: there's nothing she can do about it. Maybe by not 257 00:11:58,080 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: being a maniac. Yeah, did you ever can? 258 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 2: It's unfair. He acted like a civilized human, you good, madam, 259 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 2: did not correct. 260 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 1: About a month ago, my dad told me that he 261 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:11,679 Speaker 1: had a confession, and my stomach started hurting. 262 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,599 Speaker 2: No, I hope he doesn't need any more of confessions, 263 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 2: op He needs to be lied to and told good 264 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 2: bedtime stories and given a massage. 265 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: But maybe she's so resilient, you know. 266 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 2: It's just dude, She one woman, can only take so much. 267 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: No pay, no gains. But Opie, says, dear reader, he 268 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 1: pays for my nephew, the evil sisters kids, schooling and babysitting, 269 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 1: which is why she still allows him to see him. 270 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 1: He felt so guilty for hiding it and didn't want 271 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 1: to keep secrets. I assured him it was nothing wrong 272 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 1: at all, and to please don't feel bad because it's 273 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:47,959 Speaker 1: like the kid didn't do anything. He's helping support the 274 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: kid who was innocent, innocent kid, and I'm glad hope 275 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: he sees that too. But on Mother's Day, my dad 276 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: got an email with a link to an Instagram account 277 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:57,959 Speaker 1: in which they made a sad video about my mom 278 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 1: and how most of her family has abandoned her and 279 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 1: how much of a saint my sister is for being 280 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: there with her. 281 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,959 Speaker 2: Dude, I hate this political campaign starting. 282 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 1: A content series of an angel. 283 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 2: It's like that music's playing and it's like my mom 284 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 2: has been so brutally ignored and she has done nothing 285 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:23,680 Speaker 2: but love and support. In fact, she is the one 286 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 2: of the best matchmakers on this side of town. And 287 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 2: if you're looking to date, this wonderful X of my 288 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:34,959 Speaker 2: daughter called one eight hundred, I want that X now. 289 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 1: Great ad. It was really pathetic and enraged me, but 290 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:40,199 Speaker 1: I just sent it to. 291 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 2: My lawyer was editing this video of them, and also 292 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 2: I want to see it right. 293 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 1: Dad officially filed for divorce in May, but the process 294 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: is still ongoing. My mom insists that he is wrong, 295 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 1: but my dad said he would rather drink bleach then 296 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 1: go back to her, So I think it's final. 297 00:13:56,840 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 2: Wow, that is that's pretty bold. Put his foot outs 298 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 2: are He's serious. 299 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 1: My brother and husband took my dad out for the 300 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:07,679 Speaker 1: Father's Day and they had a blast. My sister posted 301 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 1: many many things that day, but they managed to block 302 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: my dad from even learning about it because they wanted 303 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: him to enjoy the day. He he freaking deserves it. 304 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: They also did a camping trip with the kids AKA 305 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 1: went to a hotel, got a suite and put a 306 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 1: tent in the middle area for the kids and a 307 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: little tepee for the baby. Honestly, having a baby is 308 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 1: one of the best things that has ever happened to me. 309 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: And seeing my husband being the amazing father I knew 310 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 1: he would be makes me so happy delby. It is tiring, 311 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 1: but we have so much support. I feel grateful beyond 312 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 1: anything because I have my rocks on my side. My 313 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 1: sister in laws and I are now get to have 314 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 1: a little calendar on sharing things that all the kids 315 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: get to do, things that are all age appropriate and 316 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 1: if they want to. We want to let them all 317 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 1: know they do not need to hang out with people 318 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: they dislike and their voices matter. Right now, they are 319 00:14:57,440 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 1: all obsessed with baby and say that they are her protectors, 320 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 1: adorable and we get little get togethers, brunch, et cetera, 321 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 1: et cetera. They have a great time. Honestly, having family 322 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 1: time is now such a pleasure and not a headache 323 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: without my evil sister there. I know it's wrong to say, 324 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: but she just sucks the positivity out of the room. 325 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 1: I don't think that's wrong to say at all. I 326 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: think that's saying it. I think that is literally what's happening. Yeah, 327 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: she's like a dementor. It's straight upoo soul sucker, not 328 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 1: the good kind. My mother in law loves having time 329 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: with the baby and stays in the guest room about 330 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 1: once a week. She asked politely and said she didn't 331 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: want to take baby for sleepovers or anything. I feel 332 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: respected and heard by her, and yes, have broken down 333 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 1: sometimes because I miss my mom a lot. I missed 334 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 1: the mom I had or I thought I had, not 335 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 1: the one that told me I would be a terrible 336 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 1: mother or was a hateful woman. 337 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 2: Fun love it, love that, just kidding. 338 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 1: My therapist said it's a marathon and to focus on 339 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: the good. Speaking about the good. The ex baits. He 340 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 1: was terminated fired. Not only that, but his reputation in 341 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 1: his industry was not only damaged, but nuclear level damage. 342 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 2: Really, what happened? Did he get out what he was doing? 343 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: Sounds like it. I mean if if his damage is reputation, 344 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 1: if his reputation is damaged into the entire industry, what 345 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: else would it be? So was his brothers. But because 346 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: brother in law not in an industry that cares as 347 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: much about reputation, he still has his job as far 348 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: as I know. I wonder what these niche industries are. 349 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 2: Maybe it's like kung fu and like, yeah, like it's like. 350 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 1: I was thinking of, like spicy fans or something. 351 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 2: I was. I was thinking more like martial arts, like 352 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 2: Baits is probably like a master of something. Oh oh, 353 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 2: master Baits. 354 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: Well I did I I was literally I was so 355 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: close to not falling into the trap, and just right 356 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 1: before the punchline, I fell right in. I fell right in. 357 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 2: I slept the puns, the puns I had to. It 358 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 2: was so low, it was so low hanging. I just 359 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 2: have to be well. 360 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 1: Bates sent me a twelve page, double sighted, seemed single 361 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 1: space letter about how hurt he is that I am 362 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 1: denying him. What's his and my husband is so threatened 363 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:14,880 Speaker 1: by him that he had to go and destroy him 364 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 1: professionally because he would not be able to destroy anything else. 365 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 2: Just just get a girl, dude, Yeah, literally, just more honestly, 366 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 2: just do what you're the master of and go into 367 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 2: a corner and just like be by yourself. 368 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 1: Bait it out dated out Oh god, Hey, there's one 369 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 1: girl who always love you, Jill. I said that once 370 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: with me Rally and Sophia, and she never understood and 371 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: it was so great, it was so. 372 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 4: Funny, and it was Sophia so sweet cherub so I said, 373 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 4: seemed because I didn't read it, my lawyer did and 374 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 4: gave me a summary I also heard from the grapevine. 375 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 1: No, I don't ask people. They just tell me since 376 00:17:56,440 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 1: they know he is talking to me that the mother 377 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: of his children moved away and he didn't even care 378 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 1: and said it was for the best. 379 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 2: Dude. 380 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 1: What a what a stand up guy. This man doesn't 381 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 1: even care about his kids, wants to play family with 382 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:12,160 Speaker 1: baby and me. Sadly, he won't be homeless or anything 383 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: because mommy already let him move back in with her, 384 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 1: So I doubt he will learn anything from this. Not 385 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 1: the flashiest of updates, but it is what it is, 386 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 1: and my husband burnt or donated every single item given 387 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:26,159 Speaker 1: to him by my mom or my parents with my 388 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:28,639 Speaker 1: dad's a blessing. He says, life is too short to 389 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:32,480 Speaker 1: give her space in his life, even if it's just memories. 390 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: And Ladies and gentlemen, we are approaching not just our 391 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 1: final update, but an update that comes from two years 392 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 1: later from where we just left off. Real quick thoughts 393 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: before diving into our final update. 394 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 2: Mister Donner, this is the story that never ends. 395 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 3: It's pretty long too. 396 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 2: This is the story that never ends. It's like I'm 397 00:18:55,760 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 2: having trouble listening to it because it's so painful. Imagine 398 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 2: living it, bro like this is. This would suck unimaginable. 399 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 2: Oh Pie, I am so sorry. 400 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 1: I will say. At least like it almost seems like 401 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 1: her support network grew and supported her even harder because 402 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: of what she was going through. And now it's like 403 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 1: all the kids at the OH they have like a 404 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 1: shared calendar. All the kids are enjoying, So there is 405 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 1: this great silver lining. But my god, what they had 406 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:25,360 Speaker 1: to do to get that Wellaies and gentlemen, Let's see 407 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:27,399 Speaker 1: if my conspiracy theory comes true. If Grandma has a 408 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 1: little kidnappened two years later. Update number five. Hi read it, 409 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 1: long time, No see you don't say? I have some 410 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:34,919 Speaker 1: updates for you. But first I want to thank you 411 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,200 Speaker 1: all for your comments and messages. Every time I log 412 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 1: into this account, I'm bombarded by mostly positive things and 413 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 1: I appreciate it a lot. I am unsure if anybody 414 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:44,919 Speaker 1: will read this, but for those who want updates, they 415 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:46,880 Speaker 1: are mainly good ones. With that out of the way, 416 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,120 Speaker 1: let's get into it. My parents are divorced now. After 417 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 1: many fights and tantruments from my mother, she can She 418 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 1: kept the house and got a bulk payment. But that 419 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 1: is it. I mean, that was like a lot. But 420 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:01,159 Speaker 1: my dad is like a new man and we are 421 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 1: also happy for him. A little throwback when all the 422 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 1: drama happened, we did not fire our cleaning lady. This 423 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,840 Speaker 1: is a woman that has been helping my husband's family 424 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 1: for decades and I was very stressed about her being 425 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 1: out of work because of what my crazy family did. Also, 426 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 1: we are not slobs, and she is not polishing floors 427 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:21,440 Speaker 1: on her knees or anything like that. In any case, 428 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:23,760 Speaker 1: my dad spoke with her and told her that she 429 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:26,520 Speaker 1: was on paid vacation and until we had a new 430 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,119 Speaker 1: house to please wait for us if she wanted. But 431 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:32,640 Speaker 1: she was absolutely not fired. That is a wow, super angelous, 432 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 1: super angel move. My dad started to get food and 433 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,880 Speaker 1: stuff from them from time to time because they were 434 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 1: so thankful about what he was doing for them. Well, 435 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 1: she has a sister, and you see, the sister owns 436 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:46,160 Speaker 1: her own nail salon, and my dad is dating her now. 437 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 1: She's a lovely woman and has grown children, so she 438 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: understands the dynamics happens sometimes. 439 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 2: Why are you reading this like there's gonna be a butt? Yeah? 440 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:56,679 Speaker 2: Why are you reading this like there's gonna be something terrible. 441 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:59,520 Speaker 2: We don't know exactly what's gonna happen, like a train's 442 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 2: gonna hear, So stop reading it like this. I'm scared. 443 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 2: You're making me scared. 444 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:08,400 Speaker 1: Well, so he has been very clear that he is 445 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,400 Speaker 1: not moving or marrying, and she's pleased with that because 446 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 1: she likes her independence. But I'm just kidding. My mother 447 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,479 Speaker 1: nearly had a stroke when she heard about this new 448 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: relationship and kept saying it was a late midlife crisis 449 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,399 Speaker 1: and he had to resort to being a sugar daddy. 450 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: This is obviously what I heard, because I don't have 451 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 1: any contact with her. But last I heard, she is 452 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,399 Speaker 1: having a hard time. She is struggling because she was 453 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:38,159 Speaker 1: never good at budgeting and relied on my dad to 454 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:40,919 Speaker 1: put a stop to ridiculous purchases. Why am I not 455 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: surprised my sister is also struggling because my dad is 456 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,879 Speaker 1: not helping her with money anymore. You'll see, he was 457 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,880 Speaker 1: willing to keep helping for the sake of a nephew. 458 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 1: Remember he was helping pay for the evil sister's son. 459 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 1: But then things got very rough. My nephew started calling 460 00:21:56,400 --> 00:22:01,119 Speaker 1: my kid in a fair baby oohoo ooh, he's turning. 461 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:05,119 Speaker 1: What evil sister is turned? Is making evil nephew? No, 462 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:06,120 Speaker 1: she's turning him. 463 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 2: She's turning, She's getting more supporters. 464 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 3: She's she's uh anakin him. 465 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 1: Oh, how she is not with her Real dad called 466 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 1: my other nephew's delusional, and during a birthday party, he 467 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 1: even pushed one of my nephews on my husband's side, 468 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 1: saying they were not my kid's cousins, only. 469 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 2: He was How old is the nephew We. 470 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 1: Don't know, but like a kid, right, I mean, I 471 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 1: can't imagine under his opie's baby is like three years 472 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 1: old at this point something like that, so this kid 473 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 1: can't be like dude. 474 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 2: The sister still has her clause. Yeah, she's Emperor Palpatine 475 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 2: given the dark side of the force. 476 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 1: He's her own child, is the only one left she 477 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 1: can manipulate. Basically, the kids were perplexed and so so 478 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,399 Speaker 1: so confused, but immediately told an adult about it. My 479 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 1: dad spoke with him, but he kept repeating it. He 480 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 1: spoke with my sister and she said that he could 481 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 1: do nothing to prevent a kid from telling the truth, 482 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: and didn't all kids tell the truth always? My God, 483 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,919 Speaker 1: he told her, until there is a change, he is 484 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: cutting them off. She panicked and cried, but she is 485 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 1: also super stubborn. So now my nephew goes to public 486 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:19,440 Speaker 1: school because my husband made my dad cut them off, 487 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 1: and good old baits the master of nothing. He's still 488 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 1: unemployed two years later. Dude, to my God, Seriously, I 489 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 1: know I was cryptic about what he did about it, 490 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: but he was in an industry related to vulnerable women 491 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 1: and some of it related to stalking. 492 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 2: Dude, so he has all the best strats. 493 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:46,160 Speaker 1: God, it's like law enforcement knowing how to get away 494 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: with crimes. 495 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,919 Speaker 2: It's like the hackers, like the White had hackers that 496 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 2: help all of the banks be extra secure, but they 497 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 2: can actually break into everything. 498 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: They built in the back door. Oh god, I pretty 499 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 1: much that's why he was fired, because he's like super 500 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 1: unfit to to do his job. The organization he was 501 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 1: in didn't want this to splash on them. I have 502 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:09,359 Speaker 1: received two more very long, handwritten rambling letters from him, 503 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 1: and since he only has my lawyer's address, guests who 504 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:16,440 Speaker 1: has the honor of receiving, reading, and filing those rambles. 505 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: I love my lawyer and he is a champ. When 506 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,160 Speaker 1: you love your lawyer, something is not good. Apart from 507 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,959 Speaker 1: that and the gossip, I have not had bad issues 508 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,440 Speaker 1: related to him, except for one. 509 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 2: No Ah too much. 510 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 1: I was at the grocery store and a random woman 511 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 1: came over ask if my kid was Bates's baby. 512 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 2: Shut the f up. 513 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 1: I was speechless and shocked. I asked her what she 514 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 1: was on and she said she has a photo of 515 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,679 Speaker 1: us on his profile and I should be ashamed of 516 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 1: myself for hurting such a good man. Turns out he 517 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 1: is still going by the narrative that my kid is 518 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 1: his and I loved him so much. 519 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 2: Wow, that is obviously not that much because you're not 520 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 2: still together. Yeah right, how does that make sense? Dude? 521 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 1: It's crazy the fact that three people this I can 522 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 1: maybe get the mom and the sister, but this ex 523 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 1: going along with the craziness is like what a three 524 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 1: like once in a millennia. But the thing crazy is 525 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,160 Speaker 1: altogether he. 526 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 2: Is so obsessed and so good at convincing everyone that 527 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 2: this is the dream. I bet he planted the idea 528 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 2: of like the brother sister thing in the sister's head 529 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 2: and then planned the idea. And the mother said, I 530 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:40,960 Speaker 2: think he's like cult level personality and able to manipulate 531 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 2: the people around him into everything. 532 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 1: You could be totally right. You could be totally right. Wow, 533 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: that's good theory. Say in the comments whether you think 534 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 1: he's right or not. Let us know. Now that is 535 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,879 Speaker 1: all news. But at the end, what shocked me the 536 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 1: most was the pick comment. This is not a photo 537 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 1: that has been public or anything like that. It was 538 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 1: sent to a family group once and that was it. 539 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 1: I told my husband immediately, and he was enraged but composed. 540 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,800 Speaker 1: We decided to smoke out the rat. Here we go. 541 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,919 Speaker 1: So long story short, it was my dad's two sisters 542 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 1: feeding info to my mom. 543 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 3: Oh uh, oh my god. 544 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 1: Sisters and you know what's crazy, that's not They're not 545 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 1: even related. They're like in laws. Y yeah, Like wow, 546 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 1: you really, God, you really can't. My dad was so disappointed, 547 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 1: but also had no doubts cutting them off. They are 548 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 1: still begging him to talk to them again. My brother 549 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: and his family are doing great. We see them a 550 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: lot and have been in some family holidays since the 551 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: last updates. They are also no contact with evil mom, 552 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,880 Speaker 1: evil sister, and my sister in law, a good one, 553 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 1: is actually super happy about it because it turns out 554 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,919 Speaker 1: that she was not a fan of our mom, but 555 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: kept the peace. My in laws keep being lovely as well. 556 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 1: We allow mother in law overnight babysitting now too, and 557 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,160 Speaker 1: she is over the moon with it. Sometimes she has 558 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 1: all her grandchill under the same roof and they're all 559 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,679 Speaker 1: delighted to be with her. Adorable. She is a former 560 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,879 Speaker 1: flight attendant, so their favorite game is to pretend airplane. 561 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Overall, they love her and we know 562 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,360 Speaker 1: she is good with the kids, so not to worry. 563 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,440 Speaker 1: She had to make her socials private because my mom 564 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:20,800 Speaker 1: kept stalking her Battle of the grainnies over here. I 565 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:24,400 Speaker 1: am sure she's extremely jealous, but she made her own bed. 566 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 1: By the way. You can make your bed while joining 567 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,879 Speaker 1: us every weekday live at three pm PST. Just have 568 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:34,359 Speaker 1: the profile. Ladies and gentlemen, Please tap it, please dap it. 569 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:37,720 Speaker 1: But lately, my husband keeps me sane whenever little things 570 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: come up. 571 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I said, but lately you got me, John, 572 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,199 Speaker 2: h get me. Butts. 573 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 1: We are thinking if we should have another baby or 574 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,359 Speaker 1: maybe adopt one. We are still undecided. We have a 575 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,480 Speaker 1: great support system and the privilege to have these conversations. 576 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,960 Speaker 2: Dude, I feel like you need nothing to happen in 577 00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 2: your life for a while. I think you just need 578 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:00,919 Speaker 2: the chill. 579 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:02,919 Speaker 1: A decade of peace inside. 580 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, you just need something boring before. 581 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 1: The evil Mom and Sister Kingdom rises again, back for vengeance. 582 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 1: I still miss my mom a lot. I cry sometimes 583 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 1: when I realize there are milestones I can no longer 584 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: share with her. But she is a bad person and 585 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 1: the safety of my family matters more. Last fun fact, 586 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 1: this Father's Day, they actually went camping, real camping. I 587 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,360 Speaker 1: guess it went great. Apart from the mosquito bis and 588 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,160 Speaker 1: some ill placed sunburns. 589 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,360 Speaker 2: But shut the fuck up. 590 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:36,680 Speaker 1: That's it. Whoo got them? 591 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, that was an hour and twenty minutes 592 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 2: of straight story. 593 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: That's gonna be an absolute banger. 594 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 2: Duze. 595 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 1: That one's gonna bang. 596 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 3: Wait till the next one. The next one is even better. 597 00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 1: You're ready, sammy boy? 598 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:51,400 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 599 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: Any closing thoughts, I feel like, also, all that ends well, ultimately, honestly, 600 00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 1: get rid of all your family. Great job navigating, honestly 601 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 1: a pretty good textbook approach to how you should. 602 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 2: I think they did it. I think they did it well. 603 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 2: I think they did it well. But you just had 604 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:05,000 Speaker 2: to deal. 605 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: With such bowl, such insanity, such a yes shot op 606 00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 1: for making it through the fire. 607 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,080 Speaker 2: If you love us, make sure to subscribe We love 608 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:13,840 Speaker 2: you and see it all