WEBVTT - The Best Man 101 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:06.359 Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion 0:00:06.920 --> 0:00:12.719 who talked back. What's up y'all? Welcome to a new 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:15.200 episode that we talked back at your dedicated to you 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:18.520 niguas and these homes okay and everybody else in between. 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:20.800 Its your co host aj Holiday. What's up to him? 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:27.040 Hey boo, Hey y'all. Happy New Year's me tread my throat? Yeah, 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:30.080 fun I did. I went to the basketball game last night. 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:33.280 I was screaming. Lebron was out there whooping my ass. Shame. 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:41.720 I was like, stop Lebron, stop that nigger. I've never 0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:44.239 seen Lebron. No, I have seen Lebron play. I can't 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:45.919 remember when, but I have seen him. Might have been 0:00:45.920 --> 0:00:48.919 in Charlotte a while ago. Everybody was at the game 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:52.640 last night. It was seen. Who are you seen? I seen? 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:57.000 The baby? Was this courtside? I was? I went in 0:00:57.080 --> 0:01:00.320 courseide yall. I couldn't afford them tickets last night. I 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:02.400 was in the suite. I didn't really that's the only 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:06.000 person I saw that with celebrity. I wasn't paying much attention, honestly, 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:10.399 but it was packed and the nosebleed seats was a 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:13.000 hundred ten dollars right up on the against the wall. 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:22.240 Shame that I am. Luckily, you don't gotta paid for 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:25.720 no tickets, you know, right exactly, I ain't paid for 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:31.039 a game ticket yet. Um. I just God came over 0:01:31.120 --> 0:01:33.639 me this morning, and I have a message for everybody listening. 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:35.720 He wanted me. I don't know who needed to hear this, 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:40.959 But clean your makeup brushes, ladies. Some of y'all ain't clean. 0:01:41.040 --> 0:01:44.320 Y'all makeup brushes sists before the pandemic. Go get your 0:01:44.319 --> 0:01:46.840 makeup brushes and clean them this week in the name 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:52.440 of Jesus. Okay, Amen, ain't wonder why they got acne. 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:55.000 You ain't changing the pillow cases. You ain't changing pillows. 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:57.720 You know, pillers be heavy. It's had with all them 0:01:57.720 --> 0:01:59.560 skin cells in there. Throw them damn pillars out for 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:05.960 the new year. And washing brushes, yes, janging mattress cuff. 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:10.040 But just do all the things. We're doing all the things. Okay. 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:14.040 So I was your weekend. Aside from that crazy I've 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:16.040 been manifesting it, I was like, I haven't been to 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:18.800 no games this season. This week I went to literally 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:22.200 three weeks since seven three games in seven days. So 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:26.880 on New Year's Eve, I went to another game. I 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:28.880 can't even remember who we played. Went to the game 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:31.160 and everybody was hanging out after the game. But I 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:35.160 came home. I came home and I, um, so, they 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:38.760 do the Charlotte celebration, like right on the side of 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:42.799 my building, so where the Queen the Queen crown goes 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:46.200 in the sky at midnight, it's literally right. I can 0:02:46.240 --> 0:02:49.160 see it from outside my patio. So I just went 0:02:49.160 --> 0:02:51.639 on my patio and watched the festivities and listen to 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:55.600 the music. And baby, they did the fireworks show. Bitch, 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:57.320 I thought that ship was coming in my house. It 0:02:57.400 --> 0:02:59.880 was so intense. I was out there screaming on from 0:02:59.880 --> 0:03:02.280 the time I had to run in the house. I 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.560 was scared. But it was a good time and I 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:08.160 just brought it in by myself. What about you? Um oh, 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:09.520 hold on, I want to say, did you know that 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:14.800 Charlotte is named after a black woman queen, Queen Charlotte Mecklenburg. Yes, 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:20.800 in case you'all ain't know royals in the South. Um So, 0:03:20.880 --> 0:03:22.480 I had like a little house party. I went to 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:24.160 one of my friends. I helped her plan a house 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:26.840 party on Friday for her birthday. So that was really nice. 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:30.400 A lot of CHERRYO. Yeah, you know, I take my 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:34.000 mic everywhere, so I was fucking entertaining. Bitch. Now I'm 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:40.640 feeling under the weather. Excuse me, y'all. This bitch really 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:47.800 karaoke mic just randomly with her kind U bitch, big wheels, 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:51.040 keep on turning, proud Mary. Whatever, whatever, I feel like, 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:55.000 I'm gonna do it. I'm an entertainer, okay. Um. New 0:03:55.120 --> 0:04:02.160 Year's Eve was Saturday. Um. I hung out with a friend. Okay, 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:09.800 we ate oysters and had a ski boards, both phones 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:12.400 for the New Year. Happy New Year, and like my 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:14.920 one of my resolutions, I was like, not even a resolution. 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:17.240 I was like, you know what, for the first three months, 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:28.000 I'm not having sex and then New Year. But I said, okay, 0:04:28.360 --> 0:04:33.000 that's it, the new Year, no more, no for three months. 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:35.640 I'm gonna really try to do it. Okay, that's good. 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:39.799 And look that takes us into our our stupid internet news. 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:46.159 What are the sins of this sweet so um just 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:49.320 the one thing I think that associates with me not 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:54.159 having sex. Hopefully, I'm gonna try real fucking hard. But 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:58.000 I saw um to Rogi p Henson. She did an 0:04:58.000 --> 0:05:03.000 interview with h um Angie Martinez this week and she 0:05:03.160 --> 0:05:05.440 was saying how she hadn't been happy in a long time. 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:07.480 And I was like, you know what, one of my 0:05:07.720 --> 0:05:09.680 I feel like one of my resolutions for last year, 0:05:09.720 --> 0:05:12.640 I wanted to be like when somebody asking like, hey girl, Agie, 0:05:12.640 --> 0:05:15.080 how you doing, I want to be able to say, girl, 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:18.880 you know I'm the happiest I've ever been. I've never 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:21.919 been able to do that. So just yesterday I was 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:25.520 saying how I wanted to, um, like plan a trip, 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:29.000 go someplace for a month by myself, you know what 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:30.960 I'm saying. So Taragi p Henson was saying, you know 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:34.560 how important mental health is and and being happy and 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:37.520 nobody outside of you can make you happy. So she 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:40.480 was saying, how, um, she's going to go to Bali 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:43.800 for a month by herself. And I'm like, damn, that's 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:46.440 confirmation for me. That's what I need to be doing 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:49.839 to get me together. Do you feel like you're not happy? 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:58.320 Not like um like ultimate happy? No? And I think 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:01.480 that most people fluctuate, you know, but I just want 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:05.920 to be like all around happy, good mental health. No, 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:09.200 I can't say that that's me throughout the entire year. 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:14.360 I don't think nobody is ultimate happy all year long. 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:17.960 I think it's possible, though, you know what I'm saying, happy, 0:06:18.279 --> 0:06:21.200 I think it's possible because you know, like when they'd 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:22.960 be like, oh, do to work, like the work has 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:25.240 an end date. You shouldn't always be having to do 0:06:25.279 --> 0:06:27.400 to work your whole life. Do you see what I'm saying. 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:30.200 So at some point that has to be I don't 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:33.200 mean completely healed from every yes, like it has to 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:36.800 be up sixty five by the time. You don't have 0:06:36.880 --> 0:06:39.720 to be like that. Though I don't. I feel like 0:06:39.880 --> 0:06:45.000 I'm happier then I feel like pandemic. I was tormented. 0:06:45.760 --> 0:06:51.000 I was pandemic. Was tormented me like it wasn't him, 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:54.360 It was just my life choices, you know that I 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:58.839 was tormented by. But now I feel free. But I 0:06:58.960 --> 0:07:02.640 feel good. I just feel like it's some things I 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:04.800 want to do top of this year. You know what 0:07:04.839 --> 0:07:06.560 I'm saying. I think that will really kick it off, 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:10.040 to make sure I reach all my um myum my 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:14.800 goals this year. That's all little solitude I think I 0:07:15.000 --> 0:07:18.680 asked somehow got to a place where the opinions of 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:21.480 others just stopped mattering at all. To me, that's a 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:25.280 good place, which especially in this industry. Yeah, it feels 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:28.840 so good, you know that a dookie story. I was 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:30.920 in my feelings for like two minutes about it, and 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:35.360 then it was like, I don't care. People got worse, 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:39.040 like embarrassing sexual moments than that. The funk I got 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:45.240 a few worse ones than that. Ship. All right, what 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:50.400 else happened in our stupid internet news? Well, this isn't 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:54.200 this really isn't stupid internet news. So yesterday, um, and 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:58.040 I actually was watching the football game and it's happened. Um, 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:00.960 And then I started started seeing people tweeting like damn 0:08:00.960 --> 0:08:03.280 that I just watched somebody die on the field. But 0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:08.480 he did not pass. But um, right now, the mar 0:08:08.600 --> 0:08:13.720 Hat Hammling he is in intensive care after having basically 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:17.760 a heart attack last night after tackling somebody. Oh yeah, 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:23.480 Buffalo Bills in Cincinnati Bengals game, if y'all missed it, Yeah, 0:08:23.640 --> 0:08:27.360 And you know, it just brings up the conversation because 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:29.440 maybe he had a hard condition already and we don't 0:08:29.640 --> 0:08:32.360 we didn't know about it. But what type of testing 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:34.760 are they doing on these young men to make sure 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:38.600 that they're healthy enough to play? In this game, and 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:42.440 is this game really a safe game? You think about 0:08:42.520 --> 0:08:47.040 CTE things like that, and all the concussions and brain 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:50.920 damage and things like that that happened with you know, 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:55.120 this sport, and it's just it's a sad chain of events. 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:57.960 I would not want my son. If I had a son, 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:01.120 I would not want him to play football. I would 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:03.840 want him to learn how to play baseball. I actually 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:06.280 love football. I don't like any other sport like that. 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:09.439 I like football. I like contact sports for the most part, 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:11.240 and a lot of the times like that should be 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:14.160 these boys lives. A lot of these guys are playing 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:19.760 football from little kids get up elementary to the pros, 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:22.400 so they their body is definitely going through a lot. 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:25.480 You know. I would like to think that they have 0:09:25.679 --> 0:09:29.120 medical where they have to do some type of um 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:32.160 rigorous testing to make sure these players are healthy enough. 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:34.600 But we see what happened with Antonio Brown, and Tonio 0:09:34.640 --> 0:09:36.679 Brown said he was hurt that game. We saw him 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:38.960 while out of his last game. He said he was 0:09:39.040 --> 0:09:41.440 hurt and forced to play. I believe him because you 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:44.679 know the saying they call him like forty million dollar slaves, 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:48.400 like y'all. And then in the football in in in NFL. Um. 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:51.800 They don't have guaranteed contracts, right, so you out there 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:54.160 smashing your body up and your career could be over 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:57.040 in a blink of an eye. And I know during 0:09:57.080 --> 0:10:00.599 COVID they were forcing you know, all these players that 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:02.960 get vaccinated. A lot of them got caught with caught 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:06.280 with fake vaccination cars, but majority of them are vaccinated. 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:10.360 And one of the things that's being found um with 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:14.400 all the different um you know, the fiser the maderna 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:17.640 is mirco didis. Mirco didis is like a hard condition 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:22.840 and it's it's been affecting men, specifically teenage men up 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:26.600 to like forties in the early forties. And that's one 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:30.480 of the these leading causes of cardiac arrest. So that's 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:32.839 something they need to dive into too. Another football player 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:37.080 died today at home. A former football player thirty eight 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:39.200 years old dropped dead from a heart attack at home 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:44.760 in his bedroom today. They so people are people are 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:47.360 dropping dead. We're not living as long as we think 0:10:47.720 --> 0:10:51.600 right now today y'all, this is recorded on Tuesday, so 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:53.880 by the time of year, it won't be today anymore. 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:58.760 But uh yeah, that's and that's why I would I 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:01.840 don't want I wouldn't want my son to play football, 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:03.680 as much as I do enjoy the sport, because I 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:06.920 do enjoy its intense and it's, you know, a good 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:10.000 time to see. It's just very scary. And you know, 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:12.960 I hope that this young man makes a full recovery. 0:11:13.640 --> 0:11:17.560 And I'm sure he's not gonna play football anymore after that. 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:20.480 But as long as he got his life, you know, 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:23.480 so y'all lift him up in prayer. Let's all lift 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:26.640 him up. You know, the voice of many to the Lord, 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:29.880 he hears us. So, y'all pray for my boy. I 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:33.679 guess you know. Questioning skip Bayliss's tweet from last night 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:36.319 because he says, no doubt the NFL is considering postponing 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:37.960 the rest of this game. It took him an hour 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:40.840 to postpone the game, y'all. So, and he says, this 0:11:41.040 --> 0:11:43.839 late in the season, a game of this magnitude is 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:47.800 crucial to the regular season outcome, which suddenly seems so 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:54.240 so irrelevant. It is irrelevant. It's very fucking irrelevant. Yeah, 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:56.800 so he can your word, you're right. He came back 0:11:56.800 --> 0:11:59.079 and said that people misinterpreted his tweet, but that's the 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:01.920 problem with text. Okay, you leave it to your reader 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:06.000 to interpret your demeanor in context if they can't hear you, 0:12:06.080 --> 0:12:09.840 so stop sucking tweeting. If you ain't got nothing like straight, 0:12:09.880 --> 0:12:13.040 clear dry to say, don't say it. It's hard with 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:15.319 because I know I didn't felt out with bitches and 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:18.320 niggas about a text that I meant something totally different 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:21.240 than we see, you know, right, so I can get that. 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:25.720 You know, I call if I feel like you misinterpreted 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:28.199 some sh I'm saying, I'm going to call. Yeah, yep, 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:30.600 you don't call me before because we me and you 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:33.120 don't went back and forth in some text messages. And yeah, 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:36.200 cause your ass is passive aggressive, let's be clear, very 0:12:36.920 --> 0:12:39.680 mention I'm not. I'm very direct. Okay, let's talk so 0:12:39.720 --> 0:12:44.160 you can hear, so you can hear high really mean, Okay, y'all. 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:48.000 Tammy asks me real nasty, nice nasty Okay, her assay 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:53.760 real me and ship nicely texted or verbally, and I'd 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:55.760 be yelling at the talk of my mother, sucking lungs. 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:59.280 Me and y'all we'll be on here laughing. But me 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:02.480 and this bitch going at it sometimes, we'd really be 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:07.240 going at it sometimes I love you nothing less arguing 0:13:07.240 --> 0:13:14.120 with other bit period but listen, um sadly and this 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:17.640 one uh me and Gangster Booth follow each other on Twitter. 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:22.920 She passed away over the weekend on New Year's Day, 0:13:23.240 --> 0:13:27.360 wasn't it? On New Year's Day? She passed away? And 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:30.160 they're saying it's another fan and all death or another overdose. 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:32.800 I would say overdose, but we know, like right now, 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:36.520 that's the real epidemic. That's the real pandemic right now. 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:38.839 We just said what we I just said I wanted 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:41.120 to leave that ship in two but I knew it 0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:44.640 was gonna come with us here that I hate that ship. 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:47.720 I really hate that ship. And here we are. So 0:13:48.160 --> 0:13:50.080 you know, I just saw an article came out on 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:53.360 on site said that, um, she was just booted off 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:57.200 of marriage boot camp because they apparently found a little 0:13:57.240 --> 0:14:00.800 small baggy in her and her husband's or her significant 0:14:00.800 --> 0:14:06.040 others um bedroom just you know, just recently and so 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:12.160 now here it is she's had a drug overdose. Um. 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:15.560 They also said her brother was in the hospital of 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:17.520 the day before she passed from a drug over dose. 0:14:17.640 --> 0:14:20.440 They probably you know, using the same drugs from the 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:22.960 same source. And this ship is not fucking safe. But 0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:25.640 like you're literally playing Russian Roulette right now. If you 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.960 can't kick the coke right, you don't know when your 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:31.240 time gonna be up. But here's the thing. That's the 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:35.560 thing about drugs. You know it is addictive. It is addictive. 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:39.240 So you know that there is a chance that I 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:42.000 might have a bad badge, but you still change it 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:44.600 because you're addicted to this substance and that and that's 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:47.440 the scary part about it. I've seen this article, um 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:51.840 I followed like a lot of financial Instagram pages so on. 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:55.640 This is a business week. They have an article that 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:59.040 says the Golden Age of cocaine is happening right now. 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:04.000 They're saying there's more poppy fields and never there's more 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:07.400 acreage of cocaine growing, It's being shipped more places in 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:12.920 the world. What the fuck are calling at the golden age? 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:14.920 I don't know. It says we're living in the golden 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:17.760 age of cocaine, said Toby muse To, author of the 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:22.760 book Kilo Inside the Deadliest Cocaine Cartels, who has been 0:15:22.800 --> 0:15:26.120 reporting on the Colombian drug trade for more than two decades. 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:28.480 Cocaine is reaching corners of the planet that I've never 0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:31.280 seen it before because there is so much of the drug. 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:35.280 So we all watched Ozark. I know you watched that 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:40.680 on Netflix, and you remember, like during that old season 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:43.440 where they were cutting the cocaine with fitting all like 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:45.640 it's showing you and all these people were coming up dead. 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:48.840 They're gonna try to find these people. You get a 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:52.400 lot of time if they need to find every last 0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:55.280 one on them, lock them up because they don't ruin cocaine. 0:15:55.360 --> 0:15:59.760 It's wild, It's really wild. It's really wild. I don't know. 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:03.400 That's something I would never try now. Never said now, 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:13.360 were you considering it before? I hate you? I hate you. No, 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:18.200 I want to try at some point, maybe when I 0:16:18.240 --> 0:16:21.440 was younger, like college age, I thought about it, but 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:27.960 I just seen the ramifications of addiction like firsthand in 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:32.760 my life, so I was always like, I'm cool. Never 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:35.400 nothing ever crossed my mind. I said, you know what, 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:38.640 one day, I'm gonna do something a little I just 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:40.960 like a little bit. I spent a lot of time 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:44.120 around white people. No shade to y'all, but y'all be 0:16:44.160 --> 0:16:48.720 doing coke aline period and they'd be having fun. I 0:16:48.760 --> 0:16:50.560 remember one time we were at a club. This is 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:55.120 when I was living in Florida and this black guy 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:59.200 came up. Two white home girls got them a little baggy. 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:02.320 We all went to the bathroom. They was like, try it, Tama, 0:17:02.640 --> 0:17:04.960 try it. I was like, no, I'm cool, I'm cool. 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:07.000 Just do it, gummy, Just do it, gummy, just a 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:08.840 little on your gumps. I was like, no, I'm cool. 0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:13.120 So I didn't take any They did their thing immediately 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:16.760 w w in the bathroom. They're wrestling all over. I mean, 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:18.919 it's so much. It was funny as fun though, like 0:17:18.960 --> 0:17:26.040 they just started but they're actually fighting. No, it's just fun. Yeah, 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:28.600 and I like the wrestle. So I was like, I 0:17:28.640 --> 0:17:30.800 want to try it. But I was like, nah, I'm cool. 0:17:31.760 --> 0:17:34.159 I'm glad I don't have a m I'm glad I 0:17:34.160 --> 0:17:37.159 don't have an addictive personality. Now. I am addicted to 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:42.480 fucking food fresh bait goods specifically, and people. But but 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:45.760 food kill more people than cocaine. Just know that I 0:17:45.840 --> 0:17:48.120 eat good food. You know how pickure I am about food. 0:17:48.160 --> 0:17:51.800 So I'm beating good now. But that's that's my damn problem, 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:56.800 food and people. Because I let your ass linger a 0:17:56.880 --> 0:18:03.840 little too fucking long. Yeah, um, child like Keith Stanfield. 0:18:04.040 --> 0:18:07.840 So he apparently has a newborn baby and also a 0:18:07.920 --> 0:18:12.840 new engagement, and the child's mother took to social media 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:17.560 to say, you know, uh, she decided to leave being 0:18:17.680 --> 0:18:24.600 someone's secret family in two meet Apolo Steinfield. M hm, yep, 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:30.560 congratulations with Keith on your new families like, and he 0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:35.040 came to reinforce his engagement, said, I love the holidays 0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:38.080 and spending time with family, some really great moments with 0:18:38.160 --> 0:18:42.159 loved ones, beautiful time with my fiance and the reinforcement 0:18:42.440 --> 0:18:45.600 of our bond in the midst of any kind of climate, 0:18:46.040 --> 0:18:47.960 and I feel like this more. He goes on and 0:18:48.000 --> 0:18:53.560 say some more ship but not nothing about yes, like 0:18:53.680 --> 0:18:57.399 how do you spend the holidays without a newborn right 0:18:57.520 --> 0:19:00.520 or even acknowledging the newborn in your post about family? 0:19:01.280 --> 0:19:03.600 That's so hurtful and that's baby's gonna see that when 0:19:03.600 --> 0:19:06.160 they get old. Yes, I have a problem. I don't. 0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:10.359 I don't particularly care for like Keith Stanfield. He used 0:19:10.359 --> 0:19:13.720 to be on Clubhouse a lot, and you get to 0:19:13.760 --> 0:19:17.840 really see people personalities and also how he was coming 0:19:17.840 --> 0:19:21.080 from my mother fucking brother Charlomagne before. Yeah, you could 0:19:21.160 --> 0:19:24.880 kiss my whole ass. Okay, I really don't particularly care 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:28.200 for him. I think he's like kind of weird, So 0:19:28.400 --> 0:19:30.480 you're weird for having a baby for him, but whatever 0:19:31.600 --> 0:19:38.760 you knew. That's mean. Yeah, that's okay. Uh, congratulations to 0:19:38.840 --> 0:19:44.320 keep Stanfield and his family and engage his families his families. 0:19:44.920 --> 0:19:48.440 I wish him best of luck and congratulations to the 0:19:48.520 --> 0:19:50.080 mother of a new child with a blessing to have 0:19:50.119 --> 0:19:52.560 a baby. That's all I'm gonna say about that. I 0:19:52.600 --> 0:19:57.280 guess okay. So, y'all spoiler alert. If you hadn't seen 0:19:57.320 --> 0:19:59.520 the Best Man series that just came out, you might 0:19:59.520 --> 0:20:01.359 as well go watch it and then come back and 0:20:01.400 --> 0:20:03.679 listen to this episode because we're about to get into it, 0:20:03.720 --> 0:20:05.639 all the way into it. I finally got a j 0:20:05.840 --> 0:20:09.119 to sit down and watch some television, you know, So 0:20:09.160 --> 0:20:11.400 I got her to watch it, and we're gonna discuss 0:20:11.520 --> 0:20:15.439 all the situations in that show. So come back, y'all, 0:20:15.680 --> 0:20:22.800 we'll be right back. We're bad guys, and now we're 0:20:22.800 --> 0:20:27.040 gonna get into it. So we're just going to discuss 0:20:27.840 --> 0:20:30.919 each character with their counterpart. And I just want to 0:20:30.960 --> 0:20:35.120 hear a J views because she's crazy, all right. There's 0:20:35.119 --> 0:20:38.240 a lot of social issues they I feel like TV now, 0:20:38.400 --> 0:20:42.479 and even with comedy, they're cramming all social issues into. 0:20:42.760 --> 0:20:46.040 So this was eight eight episodes, but I've seen them 0:20:46.040 --> 0:20:50.040 cramming into fifteen I mean our fifteen minute comedy shows, 0:20:50.080 --> 0:20:53.840 like can we just get I don't need reality TV 0:20:53.920 --> 0:20:57.320 all the time? Yeah, me neither. I don't need reality 0:20:57.920 --> 0:21:01.840 little reality TV anytime? Right, I don't. I don't like 0:21:01.880 --> 0:21:05.760 it no more? All right, So Shelby in Quintin mm hmm. 0:21:05.920 --> 0:21:09.360 So no, Shelby came back and got her man. Don't 0:21:09.359 --> 0:21:11.040 play with her. I was here for all of that. 0:21:11.680 --> 0:21:13.760 If that's the nigga that you love, you're supposed to 0:21:13.800 --> 0:21:19.680 fight for that ship funk that bit Siamara, Seeamarra, that 0:21:19.840 --> 0:21:22.040 wasn't even real. That was fake, and she'sa all right 0:21:22.040 --> 0:21:23.600 through it. So she went there to get her man 0:21:23.680 --> 0:21:26.199 and did well, I guess because she felt like he 0:21:26.280 --> 0:21:28.719 wasn't being himself with this person, right, like that's my man. 0:21:28.800 --> 0:21:33.280 But she realized she had two marriages, right that he 0:21:33.359 --> 0:21:37.600 had to sit through and watch publicly, you know, and 0:21:37.640 --> 0:21:40.159 you come crap when this man finally finds somebody he 0:21:40.200 --> 0:21:44.320 wants to be with, you come crash his wedding. Essentially, 0:21:44.359 --> 0:21:46.800 you fuck him m hm. And he had such an 0:21:46.880 --> 0:21:49.639 understanding fiance that would be me like, oh yeah, what 0:21:49.920 --> 0:21:52.720 everyone's will all right, cool, don't get mad what I 0:21:52.760 --> 0:21:56.320 do it though? You went so if your husband, your 0:21:56.359 --> 0:22:00.560 fiance fucked his ex girlfriend the night before our wedding 0:22:02.960 --> 0:22:08.160 at your wedding resort, obviously I'm sensationalizing some things, right, 0:22:08.240 --> 0:22:11.160 So of course not like bitch, why are you even here? Yeah? 0:22:11.240 --> 0:22:13.320 I really just in life in general, Like, if that's 0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:17.200 somebody you feel like you need to be okay, mm hmm, 0:22:18.359 --> 0:22:22.200 maybe we can have a dicession about it. M m. 0:22:22.640 --> 0:22:25.120 That's all I'm saying to tell you something. I'm here 0:22:25.119 --> 0:22:27.800 for Shelby doing what she did. But if I was 0:22:27.880 --> 0:22:31.720 a hole, if I would see Amara Shelby wasn't a hole, 0:22:31.880 --> 0:22:34.120 She'll be head a whole kid and married two other 0:22:34.200 --> 0:22:37.119 niggas from this man. Now, that was wild that she 0:22:37.200 --> 0:22:40.000 hit the kid. That part was kind of left field, 0:22:40.040 --> 0:22:42.600 like they could have just left it at somebody else. Baby. 0:22:42.600 --> 0:22:45.679 I don't know why the writing because they didn't have 0:22:45.720 --> 0:22:47.520 a whole storyline on that. It should have been like 0:22:47.560 --> 0:22:51.159 a huge conversation about that therapy and all kind of 0:22:51.200 --> 0:22:55.280 ship you're calling that got that baby calling him uncle daddy. 0:22:56.000 --> 0:22:58.840 That's that's wild to me. And she had to pretend 0:22:58.880 --> 0:23:00.719 like he was having a heart at act for her 0:23:00.760 --> 0:23:04.520 to call him daddy. He didn't. He wasn't pretended, Yeah 0:23:04.520 --> 0:23:07.159 he was. Yeah, he thought he was having a heart 0:23:07.160 --> 0:23:12.359 attack anyway. Yeah, another one. Yeah. But what I was 0:23:12.400 --> 0:23:16.520 gonna say is that part was fake with Shelby marrying 0:23:16.640 --> 0:23:20.120 him there, because Shelby, if she made it down at all, 0:23:20.280 --> 0:23:22.040 she would have made it down with a black eye 0:23:22.119 --> 0:23:24.080 busted lip because we would have beat me and my 0:23:24.119 --> 0:23:26.200 sisters would have beat the dog shit out of Shelby 0:23:26.440 --> 0:23:33.199 before she made it down, right, yes, rightfully. So like 0:23:33.960 --> 0:23:37.679 I don't respect that, and I don't feel like that 0:23:37.680 --> 0:23:41.160 would actually happen in real life. It's not real. Yeah, 0:23:41.760 --> 0:23:43.880 I don't respect that up but just for the sake 0:23:43.920 --> 0:23:45.880 of the show and the review of the show since 0:23:45.960 --> 0:23:49.440 I did watch it, I don't respect that. She should 0:23:49.440 --> 0:23:52.520 have never showed her ass up there. He should have 0:23:52.560 --> 0:23:55.040 never been marrying somebody all while you know in your 0:23:55.080 --> 0:24:00.080 heart is someplace else. I respected, because go after what 0:24:00.119 --> 0:24:01.920