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Speaker 1: Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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Speaker 1: who talked back. What's up y'all? Welcome to a new

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Speaker 1: episode that we talked back at your dedicated to you

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Speaker 1: niguas and these homes okay and everybody else in between.

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Speaker 1: Its your co host aj Holiday. What's up to him?

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Speaker 1: Hey boo, Hey y'all. Happy New Year's me tread my throat? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: fun I did. I went to the basketball game last night.

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Speaker 1: I was screaming. Lebron was out there whooping my ass. Shame.

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Speaker 1: I was like, stop Lebron, stop that nigger. I've never

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Speaker 1: seen Lebron. No, I have seen Lebron play. I can't

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Speaker 1: remember when, but I have seen him. Might have been

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Speaker 1: in Charlotte a while ago. Everybody was at the game

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Speaker 1: last night. It was seen. Who are you seen? I seen?

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Speaker 1: The baby? Was this courtside? I was? I went in

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Speaker 1: courseide yall. I couldn't afford them tickets last night. I

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Speaker 1: Shame that I am. Luckily, you don't gotta paid for

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Speaker 1: no tickets, you know, right exactly, I ain't paid for

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Speaker 1: a game ticket yet. Um. I just God came over

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Speaker 1: me this morning, and I have a message for everybody listening.

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Speaker 1: He wanted me. I don't know who needed to hear this,

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Speaker 1: But clean your makeup brushes, ladies. Some of y'all ain't clean.

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Speaker 1: Y'all makeup brushes sists before the pandemic. Go get your

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Speaker 1: You ain't changing the pillow cases. You ain't changing pillows.

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Speaker 1: You know, pillers be heavy. It's had with all them

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Speaker 1: skin cells in there. Throw them damn pillars out for

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Speaker 1: the new year. And washing brushes, yes, janging mattress cuff.

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Speaker 1: But just do all the things. We're doing all the things. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I was your weekend. Aside from that crazy I've

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Speaker 1: been manifesting it, I was like, I haven't been to

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Speaker 1: no games this season. This week I went to literally

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Speaker 1: can't even remember who we played. Went to the game

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Speaker 1: do the Charlotte celebration, like right on the side of

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Speaker 1: in the sky at midnight, it's literally right. I can

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Speaker 1: see it from outside my patio. So I just went

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Speaker 1: was so intense. I was out there screaming on from

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Speaker 1: hold on, I want to say, did you know that

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Speaker 1: Charlotte is named after a black woman queen, Queen Charlotte Mecklenburg. Yes,

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Speaker 1: in case you'all ain't know royals in the South. Um So,

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Speaker 1: A lot of CHERRYO. Yeah, you know, I take my

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Speaker 1: mic everywhere, so I was fucking entertaining. Bitch. Now I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it. I'm an entertainer, okay. Um. New

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Speaker 1: Year's Eve was Saturday. Um. I hung out with a friend. Okay,

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Speaker 1: one of my resolutions, I was like, not even a resolution.

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Speaker 1: And look that takes us into our our stupid internet news.

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Speaker 1: What are the sins of this sweet so um just

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Speaker 1: guess you know. Questioning skip Bayliss's tweet from last night

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Speaker 1: so he can your word, you're right. He came back

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Speaker 1: Well obviously that's what um what Quentin thought, because he

421
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 1: while he was he was like, I I ain't married

422
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 1: that she came there and she left. She was in

423
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,679
Speaker 1: the airport. The nigga followed her to the airport. She

424
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 1: was gonna let them have their happy nup shals. And

425
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 1: she said, a bitch, if you hurt him, it ain't

426
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 1: way in hell. I ain't gonna beat your ass, and

427
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:30,160
Speaker 1: then left, so Queinn came to get her. So let's

428
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: be honest about what happened. Then c Mr burnt that

429
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 1: ship down before she left, bitch waving the stage, and

430
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 1: there got the funk about it there. C Mr didn't

431
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 1: really love him, She just loved her. You think that's

432
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 1: what it was. I don't feel like she really loved

433
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 1: him like that. I don't know. One. She left too easy.

434
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,360
Speaker 1: She burned some ship down before she left. Though they skipped,

435
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 1: that's still too easy. This is because that's the writing.

436
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: We don't know what What would you have done? If

437
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 1: I told you? Shelby would have been black and blue

438
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 1: limping her ass down the aisle. Honestly, I had to

439
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: wear her ass out right. Thank god, it's a movie,

440
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: right in, not real life. Alright, alright, let's talk about

441
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: Merchant and Candice. I they were my like, um I

442
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:32,959
Speaker 1: would say favorite couple. M hm, No, yeah, they were

443
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 1: my favorite couple, and I felt him because we had

444
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,879
Speaker 1: a guest on recently and he pretty much told us

445
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: that his um his therapists essentially was trying to tell him, hey,

446
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: you're a simple so that kind of it would be

447
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: like Merchant's character, like he's the simple like everybody think

448
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 1: he is simp anyway, but he's a real man, right,

449
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,919
Speaker 1: And a part of him was thinking he was as

450
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 1: sim as well. You know, he's feeling like I've been

451
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 1: a bitch ass nigga far too long. They betrayed me,

452
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 1: like this bitch ass nigga in the movie My Best Friends.

453
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 1: They don't respect me as the man that I am.

454
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 1: This white lady trying to play with me like my

455
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 1: little girls, one of my little girls, like Daddy didn't

456
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,640
Speaker 1: do ship he you know, like coming in the house

457
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 1: acting like I can't hear her talking about me and

458
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 1: his wife is so understanding that. One thing I did

459
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 1: not like about this couple is Candice is hair. I

460
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 1: felt like Tyler Perry was producing a little bit so

461
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 1: yeah that week that week, because she's a beautiful woman,

462
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 1: that way do her any justice? Yeah, I agree, but

463
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 1: that was small in comparison to the character, right, the

464
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: character was a good woman. You know, she was far.

465
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 1: I think they wanted us to say, you think about

466
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: like how strippers are portrayed, and they made her a

467
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: super conservative. Yeah, like she danced at one time in

468
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 1: their life. We look at her, use the all the adjectives.

469
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: She's the educator, black progressive educator of the year. He

470
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: got that award, and she had a situation with the advisor.

471
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 1: And I so as soon as he sat his ass

472
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 1: up on that desk with his legs open behind her,

473
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 1: already knew what time it was because I didn't see

474
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 1: that stands the time or to life from um yeah,

475
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 1: men who were in leadership in my life. So I

476
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:30,400
Speaker 1: know exactly how that was about to go. But then,

477
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 1: all right, so this is the crazy part for me, y'all,

478
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: because he grabbed her shoulders and then he slid down

479
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: to her breast or whatever, and obviously he violated her.

480
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 1: She didn't go home to her nigga and tell her man.

481
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: I didn't understand why she felt like she couldn't say

482
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 1: nothing to her man about it, And I didn't see

483
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 1: why she was crying either. And then maybe maybe that

484
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: means that I'm too comfortable with abuse That's what I

485
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: was thinking. Am I too comfortable with abuse? Because why

486
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: am I life? Why she about it, Niga grabbing her TV?

487
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 1: I was just told my man, we would have went

488
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: to ride on him, right. So remember when she finally

489
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: did tell him in the kitchen after she saw him fighting,

490
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: how strong her man was. Um, Not that that had

491
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 1: anything to do with the two, but she said, you know,

492
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 1: I went through this thing time and time and time again.

493
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: In my mind, there's nothing I could have done any different.

494
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: That's what it was. She was blaming herself, and it's like,

495
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 1: did I do something to provoke this thing? Like did

496
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: I do something to send him the wrong cueues or

497
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: something like that. That's what women go through when you

498
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 1: get violated by somebody's like what did I do to

499
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 1: invite this? Right? So, when she was explaining to her

500
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: husband what had happened, and she told him, you know,

501
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 1: it's just him. He's a pig. He was gonna do

502
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 1: that no matter what. So that's why she didn't come

503
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: straight home and tell her husband because I think a

504
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: part of her, and also from having been a stripper

505
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: at some point, being um objectified in that way, she

506
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 1: might have felt like, did I do something to deserve this,

507
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 1: and a lot of women go through that before they

508
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: actually tell the truth. Girl in front pas shirts in

509
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: that ugly wig, you didn't do nothing. You didn't do nothing.

510
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have I don't know. I wouldn't have thought that,

511
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: and I don't think I would have been that upset

512
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: over it. What I wanted to see next though, I

513
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 1: wanted in my mind, I'm like, Okay, now her nigga

514
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 1: is doing kickboxing and all that ship. She about to

515
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: tell him this nigga that violated her. He's about to

516
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: pull up at that school. I wanted that. Yeah, I

517
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: wanted that, but it wasn't written in so I thought.

518
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: I thought Merch was going with heartber ass at one time, like, Oh,

519
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 1: he's gonna be heart grass up. I liked that for Merch. Yeah,

520
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: me too. I was happy for Merch because we twenty

521
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: years we've been seeing him be a bit yass nigga.

522
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: You know, so I can't hold water just doing goofy ship,

523
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: neurotic and goofy and socially awkward, acting weird about the

524
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 1: best man. But they're the best couple. They got the

525
00:30:55,560 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 1: healthiest marriage. Qua Mara Oh witnesses bow to the Union

526
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: of c Mar. I was like, oh my god, March,

527
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: you are so lame. Who snacks? Go Let's go go

528
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: I Harry, or let's get into it. Uh first, let's

529
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: just talk about Lance by himself. You know, when we

530
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 1: saw him like using sex as a tool to cope,

531
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 1: and you know, we had an episode on howen doesn't

532
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 1: heal and that just doesn't apply to women. You know,

533
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: we were speaking about women because we are that, but

534
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: Lance is just, you know, representation of how holing for

535
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:43,239
Speaker 1: anyone does not heal you when you're exactly. I think

536
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: a lot of men, a lot of men don't associate

537
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: like being promiscuous with some type of trauma. Mm hmm.

538
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: So he was using women as an outlet for what

539
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: he was actually going through in his life. So he's

540
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 1: just going to swimming pool but naked in front of

541
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 1: all these was I'm like, wait, is this a nude resort?

542
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: What the fund is happening on this on the show.

543
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: He looks good though, Let's just talk about that. So

544
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: so so mor shots not don't look like y'alla mean, no, no,

545
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: he just not. I think they look alike. They at

546
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,239
Speaker 1: least look like Ken. They look like family members. If

547
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: you're saying two black men with ball heads. Yes, but

548
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: look shout out to whoever did his motherfucking lace front

549
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 1: for the the back scene when he was in the hospital,

550
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 1: but his son having a baby? They did a good

551
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 1: hair was nice. Okay, it looked nice on here. You

552
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: should keep it? Or was that a scene from that time?

553
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: I don't remember that. Yeah it wasn't. Yeah, that's a

554
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: nice ass uh little uh fade lace front? He had

555
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: a right? Whoever did that? We should have did? Uh

556
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: Candice Week? Okay, So let's talk about Lance in LJ

557
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 1: in their relationship, because that is a huge dynamic within

558
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: our culture right now, especially with young people and their

559
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: parents and people our age trying to understand their kids

560
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 1: and understanding like having different pronouns and things like that

561
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 1: and sexuality and come into terms with that. What what

562
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 1: were your thoughts on it? So again, this is like

563
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 1: one of the many social issues they had in uh

564
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 1: Best Man final chapters. And I feel like it was

565
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 1: necessary because these people exist, right that this is a

566
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: new thing. The pronouns and all that stuff now that

567
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 1: they them, that's the one that confuses me the most. Okay,

568
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: if it's my child, I would try my best to

569
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 1: do the things, but I don't have any kids. I'm

570
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: not doing that in my real life for people, like

571
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 1: I'll just really, you call people by their names anyway,

572
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: like just name. I wouldn't have to say they them

573
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 1: to them for real unless I'm talking to other people

574
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: about them. Right, But if you're talking to other people

575
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 1: about them, are you going to use the pronouns that

576
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 1: they desire? If the person I'm talking to also requires that,

577
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: because you notice his friend was like, who are you

578
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 1: talking about? That's that's just too much. So if you

579
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 1: antagonizing this man and his son is missing. So I

580
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: just feel like it's just a little I don't know

581
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: if it was antiged antagonized, And I think it was

582
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: more about why they why he gone in the first place,

583
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 1: Like you're still doing this ship and this is why

584
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 1: he's not here. This is why you're searching for him

585
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 1: right now. It's because this reason right here. You don't

586
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,879
Speaker 1: respect who he is as an individual. But I feel like,

587
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: so he was a high school student, right, this boy

588
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 1: was still in high school. You're raised by a masculine,

589
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: masculine man, right, he's a single parent, he went through

590
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 1: a lot loss his wife. Now he's trying to raise

591
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 1: three children by himself. I think as kids we don't

592
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: give our parents enough grace as kids, and even sometimes

593
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 1: as adults, we don't be giving him enough grace. He

594
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 1: needed more time to adjust to that too, like that

595
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 1: that was that was his initial response. But if that's

596
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 1: not something that you anticipated for your child, and now

597
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: here it is, smack me in the face. And he

598
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: didn't have the decency to talk to him about it.

599
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: He felt like he didn't need to tell us dad

600
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 1: about it. But you upstairs in my friend's house with

601
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 1: lipstick on, Like I do feel like that that should

602
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: have been a conversation he had with his dad. Yeah,

603
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:33,800
Speaker 1: I think, uh, he was afraid, you know, he was scared.

604
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: I don't think it was he just like funk man,

605
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 1: he don't need to know my business. I think it

606
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: was more I'm afraid to tell my father because of

607
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: all these things that you said, because Mama ain't here,

608
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: because I don't think he'll accept me because he's so masculine.

609
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,399
Speaker 1: So I think that was the reason why he kept

610
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 1: from his father, not because he didn't respect to him

611
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 1: enough to tell him. You know, when I feel but

612
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 1: I think he needed a little bit more grace to

613
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 1: be okay with it, and maybe it took that traumatic event.

614
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 1: And thank you, regardless of what's going on, thank you

615
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,439
Speaker 1: about to lose your child. Does this eat this this,

616
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 1: does this thing? However your child wants identified, does it

617
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 1: even matter right because it's still your child that part,

618
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 1: you know. I have one of my closest friends, her

619
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: daughter see her son has you know, decided that they

620
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: identify as male, and you know, me knowing him his

621
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:36,839
Speaker 1: whole life, I struggle greatly, as you can see right

622
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: now just having a conversation with you. I struggle so

623
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:45,919
Speaker 1: much saying he and calling him by the name that

624
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: he's chosen for himself because of I just in my mind,

625
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 1: I see him as this person that I've known since

626
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 1: they came out of the wound, you know. And I

627
00:36:56,239 --> 00:37:00,760
Speaker 1: struggle with it so much, and I'm always apologizing because

628
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,359
Speaker 1: I don't want to offend anybody. I don't want to,

629
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:09,280
Speaker 1: you know, make him feel like I'm rude to how

630
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:13,240
Speaker 1: he sees himself. But it's hard for me. It's hard

631
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: for me. Do they visually look like him now? Not

632
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: to me? Well, they present themselves as male okay, but

633
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:27,479
Speaker 1: just in my in my psyche, it's just very hard,

634
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 1: you know. I tried my best, though, and I'll continue

635
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 1: to try and eventually I'll get it. So that's what

636
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. They have to have more grace with

637
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 1: us too. This is new. This is really really new.

638
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: Like I don't know when it came about, but um,

639
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: I have a friend. She's a chiropractor, and one of

640
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: her patients presents as a woman. When I say presents

641
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: as a woman, she still looks like a woman, right,

642
00:37:53,600 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 1: She's dressed as like a woman. She's married to a transwoman. Okay,

643
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: so a trans woman as a man? I was born

644
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:08,240
Speaker 1: a man, right, Okay? Okay, So this is a black woman,

645
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: she's a trans man, and she's married to a trans woman,

646
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 1: a white trans woman. So are they gay or no?

647
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 1: That's what I'm getting to, right, So she doesn't physically

648
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 1: look like a man, right, I think you need the

649
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 1: visuals to go with it also, But she wants to

650
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 1: be addressed as him, you know, he. But I have

651
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:38,479
Speaker 1: to then trick my mind to accommodate you in that way.

652
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 1: And it's hard, especially if you know sometimes like I

653
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,320
Speaker 1: have a couple of guys that I might hang out

654
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 1: like hang out with in my social circle that are

655
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:50,839
Speaker 1: gay guys, and because of their demeanor, it almost automatically

656
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 1: like comes out even like girl, ha ha ha, because

657
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 1: of how they act. But if you are physically acting

658
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: like a woman, looking like a woman, but you want

659
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 1: to be called him and he, that is very and

660
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: then how many other people? I gotta do this for life?

661
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 1: It's it's hard, it is difficult, but you know, you

662
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: want to respect everybody's choices. And that's why when I

663
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 1: say I'm thirty two, I just feel like people should

664
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 1: just respect that show I'm thirty two years old, and

665
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 1: I just feel thirty two inside. I don't feel like older.

666
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: So why the fund do I gotta be? With my

667
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: birth certificate says it is I'm thirty two. Bits trying

668
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: to get me cakes with that other number on it.

669
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: When I told you that ain't my motherfucking number. Period.

670
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: There are allowed to change in sex and stuff like

671
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: that on and birth certificates. Now, why I can't be younger? Trans?

672
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: I can't change my age. Yeah, I'm trans age. God damn,

673
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: I'm starting a new uh, we're starting a new movement.

674
00:39:56,480 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 1: Bit Actually, I'm caring Okay, y'all, we're gonna go to

675
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: break right quick. We'll be right back, all right. So

676
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 1: the final group of people, Harper, you know what, Before

677
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,839
Speaker 1: we get into Harper and Robbing, let's just talk about

678
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 1: Jordan by herself. Okay. I identified with Jordan's in a

679
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 1: lot of ways. I know you would say that. I

680
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 1: really you too, Did you feel like that? I think

681
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 1: a lot of single black women did with no children

682
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 1: identified with Jordan's. Yes, I did. In um when she

683
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: was like sitting in that boardroom and her brain like

684
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 1: she couldn't even see and she just was not prioritizing

685
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:51,720
Speaker 1: her health the way she should, and she's just taking

686
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 1: on everybody ship and not concerning with her own the

687
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:59,240
Speaker 1: way she should. Baby, that was like, M I need

688
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,280
Speaker 1: to I need to. Aren't take a lesson from this

689
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 1: moment right here, because you know, I have MS and

690
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: I don't always prioritize it like I should. I know,

691
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 1: like I just kind of like treated, I feel like

692
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 1: I do this thing in my mind, like I don't

693
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 1: feel like I have it, so I don't period. And

694
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: I think that that has helped me in many many

695
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 1: ways because I see so many people struggling with it

696
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: that in a way that I don't, but I'm gonna would.

697
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: God pray I don't start. But I know that I

698
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 1: need to like do more when it comes to health,

699
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 1: and I gotta like I work a lot, Like I

700
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: feel like my whole life is like, you know, go go.

701
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: Every time I wake up, it's like go go go,

702
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 1: go go go, you know. Like, so I need to

703
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 1: find a way to cut back on that and stop.

704
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I love money, y'all. I love money. I

705
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: love it. Give me something. If y'all love me, cash

706
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: at me right now. But I need to like not

707
00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 1: chase the bag so much. Yeah, because you stress will

708
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: literally take you out. M It would literally take you out.

709
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 1: And I have seen people who have went blind temporarily

710
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 1: from stress. So you definitely got to prioritize your health

711
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: over everything. If you ain't good, like none of that

712
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 1: should gonna matter. You can't take the money with you,

713
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: You can't take none of this ship with you. Be

714
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,240
Speaker 1: up out of here on the other side looking like damn,

715
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 1: that's my purse, my sister where Yeah, that's what it

716
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 1: would be. Um with with Jordan's um, I identified with

717
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 1: like the especially the relationship in particular that she has

718
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 1: with Harper. I have a couple of men that I

719
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,839
Speaker 1: have dated in the past and who have went off,

720
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: got married, stuff like that, and for whatever reason, and

721
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:50,280
Speaker 1: I don't talk to them often, but they'll periodically throughout

722
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,399
Speaker 1: the year text me. These should have would have could

723
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 1: have text messages, and I do not find them flattering

724
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 1: at all. I'm not your fucking safe space. Yes, I'm

725
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: exact exactly, that's what she said. And I felt that

726
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 1: because I feel like I've been that for a couple

727
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: of guys like y'all have went on built lives with

728
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 1: other women. You didn't choose me, and you realize maybe

729
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 1: because this this thing that you're in and ain't it

730
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: ain't what it is, it ain't me m M. And

731
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 1: you want to know, nigga, if you ain't choose me

732
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 1: the first time, sunk off my phone. But I've had

733
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,760
Speaker 1: the same phone number for so long. It's like people

734
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 1: just be I don't even know, maybe don't even want you.

735
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: Maybe I didn't want to know. They still have access

736
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 1: access to you. A lot of times people confusing this

737
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 1: nigga that I used to deal with. I would like

738
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: always allow him to come back in my space because

739
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 1: we had so much fun together, be like we just

740
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 1: got soul ties. I would say that and just let him.

741
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 1: But finally during the pandemic, I was like, no more

742
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,800
Speaker 1: started to funk away from me. Maybe I started getting

743
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: all kind of I'm this nigga me a d M

744
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: from a page that I don't because I blocked this

745
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 1: page from mine. The d M said, I'm gonna beat

746
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: you up on site and I'm gonna shooting'ty nigga as.

747
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna bust a grade y'all. But he just

748
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,879
Speaker 1: mad because he don't have access anymore. Niggas. Really, that's

749
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 1: all they want is the access and didn't even really

750
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,879
Speaker 1: want you. It's just to know they still got access. Right,

751
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 1: He ain't gonna buy'all. Don't be worried about that. He

752
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:33,840
Speaker 1: just talking shit. Right. What about Jordan's um the motherhood

753
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 1: cry she was set in the car was not fresh?

754
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: Ohoo foo foo. We have to talk about that because

755
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, we don't have any kids, we aren't

756
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:50,479
Speaker 1: as young. You know, Tammy's thirty two. Yay, I'm thirty eight,

757
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: and I mean it's that is like a reality at

758
00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:00,760
Speaker 1: this point, right. But what science people are having children

759
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 1: a lot later. Do I want to have to funk

760
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 1: with science to get a baby? That would be probably

761
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: be like my last like last resort for real. But

762
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: you can still have a baby. She could still have

763
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: a baby. But it is like a thing for a

764
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 1: lot of women. And it's not just black women who

765
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 1: are having fertility issues. It's like across the board because

766
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: of our food, the health care system, it's a lot

767
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 1: of different you know things going on right now that's

768
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 1: affecting people having kids. Like all of our grandparents had

769
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 1: a lot of kids. What's happening like now you're down

770
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:35,840
Speaker 1: to like one to three. Let's talk about playing bs

771
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: in abortion to they didn't have that option because some

772
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:42,240
Speaker 1: of y'all, Grandma, y'all wouldn't have been here, can be option.

773
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna yo, Grandma CoA gotta play be some

774
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 1: of my I don't know if I would have been

775
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 1: here right now. It's wallowing, it's playing a Let's be clear.

776
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,280
Speaker 1: They probably ain't been down for that. Shouldn't neither. Granny

777
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 1: probably like why in my mouth, it's not no get

778
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 1: somebody else to do it exactly because grandpa had a

779
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: family down the street anyway, Huh, See that's what I'm

780
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 1: talking about, keeping peace. Keeping peace. Sometimes you'll been you

781
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 1: need to outsource your nigga to somebody else, Like I

782
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:23,319
Speaker 1: know because I've been thinking, I'm alright, so I have

783
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: been singing for a minute. But I used to remember

784
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: my in my relationship, I used to think, like, damn,

785
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 1: I wish my nigga had another bitch, say annoyed right now?

786
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 1: Like is there not somebody else who you could go? Right? Yeah?

787
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: I used to feel like that, stupid Listen, Harper and

788
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: Jordans could never be together. Or maybe this is why

789
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 1: they think that them in a relationship with work is

790
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 1: because they equally work a lot. See um Robbin Harper's

791
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: wife Rob and she didn't she became a mother, She

792
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 1: didn't chase any of her dreams. So he was used

793
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: to that. He was used to her, you know, just

794
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 1: being his sidekick. Oh wow, Like your woman has things

795
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: that she wanted, ambitions that she wants to do. So

796
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: she pretty much gave her life up for his career

797
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 1: and to raise his child and all that stuff. And

798
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 1: then your home girl, you know, Jordan, and Jordan is

799
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: out here chasing her dreams doing a damn thing. She's

800
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 1: sad now because she doesn't have a family. So you

801
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 1: see both of these dynamics. You miss what you've never had. Well,

802
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 1: they say you can't miss what you never had, but

803
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: people do, right, So you see ends of the spectrum.

804
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 1: But in Harper's defense, he felt like he was doing

805
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:45,919
Speaker 1: He felt like he was doing like by tracing his dream,

806
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,919
Speaker 1: he was providing all the things that his family could

807
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:52,840
Speaker 1: ever need. The big house. That she was a little selfish.

808
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,919
Speaker 1: She was a little selfish. I under when they argued

809
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 1: about the jazz clubs that that that she wanted. I

810
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 1: under stood his perspective too. I'm out of town. I

811
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 1: didn't get to see it. Yeah, I trust you, but

812
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: you know it's still a big purchase. It's pricey. You

813
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You've done all these things. And

814
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 1: I identified with Jordans on this. I'm not sorry, I'm

815
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 1: not Jordan's um identified with Robin on this. I am

816
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:20,320
Speaker 1: the type of person who starts with ship and don't finish.

817
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 1: So that's another thing I'm doing for executing. Right. So

818
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:28,439
Speaker 1: her husband was like, I have supported you. You did this,

819
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 1: we did that. You stop you did this, you stopped

820
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: doing that, Like there could be another thing, right and

821
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: you just want me to jump out here and buy

822
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,359
Speaker 1: something off the whim because you called me and say

823
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: I need it right now. That's kind of hard. Yeah,

824
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 1: So I can I understand where he might have been, like,

825
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 1: you know, I'm a bad ship, you know, like can

826
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 1: we find a different building? You know, he was a

827
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 1: little bit insensitive, and I think that's where like the

828
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 1: tone comes in, just how you say things, you know

829
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,319
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because he didn't he didn't think it

830
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 1: was such a big deal, and it was. He didn't

831
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: realize how big of a deal it was for her

832
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: because he didn't even text her Happy New Year. His

833
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 1: assistant did. His assistant sent the Happy New Year because

834
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 1: she she had called him. She was trying to reach

835
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 1: him so that they could talk about the building, and

836
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 1: she couldn't reach him, and then you get the Happy

837
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:21,720
Speaker 1: New Year, I Love you text message. His assistant probably

838
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 1: sent that ship. So now it's like I really wanted

839
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 1: this thing, but we couldn't even communicate about it, and

840
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 1: now you acting like it's nothing and I'm in this

841
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 1: colde the house cold, and you know he I thought

842
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: that nigger was trying to save money or something. The

843
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:41,800
Speaker 1: house that you wanted. I didn't even want this house.

844
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: And now I ain't got no heat in his motherfucker

845
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: And here comes to his finance. Nigga what he does

846
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: and I'm not sucking his You need to hurry up

847
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:52,320
Speaker 1: and come get here. You need to get So that's

848
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:57,919
Speaker 1: where I also identified with Robbin, because here's the thing

849
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 1: I feel like, and I always say that women need

850
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,879
Speaker 1: a reason. Men just needed time and place. Mm hmm.

851
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,839
Speaker 1: Robin was ready to risk it off real because this

852
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: man saw her vision. He was supportive. He went with her,

853
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:12,160
Speaker 1: you know, to see the building and all this stuff

854
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:14,720
Speaker 1: that and it seems like that's a relationship. He found

855
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 1: the building for her. Yeah, and it seems like did

856
00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 1: did Harper even know about this guy? M It didn't

857
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:27,240
Speaker 1: seem that way. It wasn't written in there in that way. Meanwhile,

858
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: after Lance's um retirement event and Harper ends up at

859
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 1: the house with Jordan's they about to smash if the

860
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: phone didn't ring about Quentin, you didn't have a reason

861
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,400
Speaker 1: that you didn't your wife. No, that wasn't after the

862
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 1: retirement of it. That was that was after UM New

863
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 1: Year's Eve. Yeah, No, it was after his premiere oh,

864
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 1: you're right. That was after the premiere. M hmm. So

865
00:50:56,840 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 1: after the premiere, Harper and Jordan and dep together and

866
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:03,879
Speaker 1: they were getting pretty intimate. What reason did he have

867
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 1: to do that other than just being selfish because he's selfish.

868
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:13,360
Speaker 1: She's like the selfish character. The crazy part was his

869
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:17,840
Speaker 1: wife are selfish. So yeah, so she had the event.

870
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 1: They compromised, right, so she came to his event, then

871
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 1: he came to support her, and then it was the

872
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 1: active party. She was like, no, just go ahead, I'm

873
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: gonna stay here. I would have never sent my man

874
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:35,280
Speaker 1: nowhere with Jordan's ever. Maybe she wanted something to happen,

875
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: don't because I would have been like low key intimidated

876
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 1: by that woman all the time, just because I know

877
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 1: and fine and flies, no kid, no kids, it's just

878
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 1: fun over there. We just watched the movie where they

879
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: fake fuck. Even we know it wasn't them, but it's

880
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:58,399
Speaker 1: you know, in the movie, it's portrayed like they those

881
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 1: two had sex, so that the gee is already in

882
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 1: the space you think I'm sending you boy, you better

883
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: way here with me and we're gonna go. I feel

884
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 1: like she was already out the door at that point. Anyway,

885
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 1: she was one ft at the door once she started

886
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,800
Speaker 1: entertaining somebody else, Like usually you'd be looking for a

887
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: little replacement, a little bit, you're trying to get the fuck.

888
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 1: But so I was, you know, talking to this guy

889
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: at one point, right and I told him how I

890
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 1: wasn't working with him anymore. And he goes to say, like,

891
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 1: you can't just arbitrally make that decision on your own.

892
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you mean? I said, so, if

893
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm not like feeling you like that anymore, are you

894
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 1: telling me I can't walk away? And he was like, no,

895
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: you're not in this by yourself. You can't just call

896
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 1: me and say you're not a funking with me no more.

897
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 1: And I'm like, why not? Exactly? How does that work?

898
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:53,800
Speaker 1: One part of my brain was like, all right, that

899
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:56,319
Speaker 1: kind of makes sense. The other side was like, boy,

900
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 1: if I don't want to focus you like I'm gonna

901
00:52:58,239 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 1: if I gotta put a restraint in order you, that's

902
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 1: what's going to happen. But we don't realize once you

903
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 1: connect on people, connect with people, especially in a marriage

904
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 1: and with a child, you aren't in that situation by

905
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 1: yourself anymore. And even when you don't have kids involved,

906
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:17,520
Speaker 1: and even if you're not married and you're connecting with

907
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 1: somebody like in a real way, it's no longer like

908
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 1: I guess at some point you'll have to mutually say

909
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:26,880
Speaker 1: we funk with you like this. This was this guy's point.

910
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 1: We gotta mutually walk away. You can't just arbitrailly saying

911
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 1: I can't just arbitrailly say a bit you ain't you

912
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 1: bulls bullshit. You can wake up today and decide not

913
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 1: the funk with nobody somebody, and that's your prerogative, and

914
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,400
Speaker 1: they just have to figure out how they want to

915
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: navigate their own life after that. How do you want

916
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 1: to learn to live without you? Essentially exactly because but

917
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 1: just we ain't gotta mutually agree on ship, but just

918
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: think about times where just think about like it's really

919
00:53:57,160 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: hard to get over relationships. And I was saying, like,

920
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:04,399
Speaker 1: you should just stay with someone when you're unhappy. Um,

921
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 1: but I know you've left somebody before you see how

922
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 1: it affects them. I don't know. I actually went through

923
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 1: like breakup therapy before I left my ex, Like I

924
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:17,879
Speaker 1: had to actually talk to somebody to help me through

925
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 1: the process with leaving and staying gone because it is

926
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 1: a process. So now when you got a child involved,

927
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:31,399
Speaker 1: she's taking herr child to a whole another continent. You're

928
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:34,360
Speaker 1: not in this thing, You're not in this life by

929
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:38,839
Speaker 1: yourself anymore. You gotta take your ex husband into consideration,

930
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:41,839
Speaker 1: and you have to take your child into consideration. It's

931
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: not just what you want to do. Because you felt

932
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: like you've been supporting all the things he wanted to do.

933
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 1: That man would have never moved to another continent. Women

934
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,760
Speaker 1: we take things to the extreme a lot of times.

935
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 1: Because I've definitely moved moved twice to get away from

936
00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 1: a nigger. I moved to another continent to get a

937
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 1: away from a name I really did. I moved to

938
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 1: Europe right to get away from a nigga. I moved

939
00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:09,879
Speaker 1: to the Midwest. I moved to Atlanta first, that wasn't

940
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 1: far enough, and then I moved to St. Louis and

941
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: he wasn't coming up there. So yeah, like, we definitely

942
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 1: take things to the extreme, which what men won't do.

943
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:22,880
Speaker 1: But sometimes it requires that you don't feel like it.

944
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 1: That was one of the best decisions I ever made

945
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:30,320
Speaker 1: for myself, to move far, far, far away. So and

946
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 1: but then you don't have any kids, so that's enough.

947
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 1: Like your life is not your own once you have kids.

948
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 1: It's just not. And that little girl was already missing

949
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 1: her dad, so now you didn't give a funk. It's

950
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,560
Speaker 1: what you want to do, what you you you think

951
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 1: that's best for her. You're not taking into consideration that, um,

952
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 1: she needs her daddy, especially if they're used to being

953
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: in the house. And you made a decision that you

954
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:57,040
Speaker 1: wanted to leave the marriage, right, you had had enough

955
00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:02,319
Speaker 1: and you didn't care how he felt. And I don't

956
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:05,520
Speaker 1: understand how she got mad because he asked for um,

957
00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 1: he was trying to push for custody of his daughter.

958
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 1: That would be the advice I'd give any of my

959
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:13,240
Speaker 1: guy friends that they called me in the same situation.

960
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: Try to get your child, I would, you know, make

961
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 1: especially if you're an active parent. But I guess the

962
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 1: course were then taken to consideration that he's gone a lot,

963
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:26,960
Speaker 1: because it was she was in a house alone a lot. Right.

964
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: And then here's the thing, So the primary custodian parent

965
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 1: was Robin. She was always there with that child. The

966
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 1: happiest version of her was in Ghana. You know, don't

967
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:42,320
Speaker 1: you want your child to have the custodio parents be

968
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 1: the happiest they could be. Right, So I'm torn on that.

969
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 1: I'm torn on that, you know. You know, I'm just

970
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 1: trying to put myself in Robin's shoes. And she puts

971
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:57,120
Speaker 1: Gohna on her vision board many many many years ago.

972
00:56:57,320 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 1: You know, this is something that she has aspired to

973
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 1: for a long time in her life, and the opportunity

974
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 1: and the universe conspired to have that for her. So

975
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 1: why should she not going This man out here gallivant

976
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:14,399
Speaker 1: and were bitches from his past and can't even keep

977
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 1: the heat on in the house because he's so gone.

978
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 1: Why shouldn't she go do what she's been wanting to do,

979
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: you know. So a part of me looks at it

980
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 1: like that, But then I also understand staying in New

981
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 1: York for her child to have a close relationship with

982
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: the father. Right, And then ultimately in the end he

983
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:39,520
Speaker 1: thinked her thanked Robin because I guess once you have time,

984
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: because two years later now he's still doing his thing,

985
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 1: He's still want a pullit surprise exactly. So imagine the

986
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 1: work that took. Did you even have time for a

987
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 1: family for real? So maybe you know, Jordan might have

988
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 1: been a better meet for him right at that point,

989
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 1: but he got to have at the end of it,

990
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 1: he got to have everything he wanted. He got the

991
00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 1: he had the wife experience, he had the child, he

992
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 1: bought the four fun Jordan's soon seems like, and he

993
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 1: got the poblic surprize. He won, right, he did one,

994
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: but he is I believe him and his wife they

995
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 1: have the most complex relationship out of all the couples.

996
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 1: And it always been that way. Mmm. Girl, you got

997
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 1: engaged to that nigga at Mia and lace wedded after

998
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:32,360
Speaker 1: he got his ass wood for fucking the bride, all right,

999
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:35,120
Speaker 1: so you kind of fined up for this ship, you

1000
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And he told you he was

1001
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: about to funk Jordan that night before you came, and

1002
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 1: you stayed. So I mean you gotta take some accountability. Name.

1003
00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: I don't remember all that stuff, y'all, soo real TV

1004
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 1: motherfucker's Okay, I don't even remember all those details, but

1005
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: now I do. Yeah, that is wild and it's real.

1006
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: You lose him, how you get him? M hmm. Oftentimes

1007
00:58:58,800 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 1: he was about to funk George and while he was

1008
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: your man, the night before y'all got engaged. Shame, shame.

1009
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, isn't that okay? And this is this

1010
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 1: is a high. Also relate with Jordan's some more. I

1011
00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 1: know I'm not the safe wife. I'm not the safe girlfriend.

1012
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make you cry. I'm gonna give you something

1013
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 1: to deal with. You're like, men want to be able

1014
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 1: to do all these I'm not going to actually do it,

1015
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:28,560
Speaker 1: but if you do, some ship to me like, there's

1016
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 1: gonna be like repercussions. So I think that he Jordan

1017
00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: wasn't safe. You know, men oftentimes they don't marry the

1018
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: woman that they actually want. They marry safe. They're homely safe. Yeah,

1019
00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 1: they marry safe and then they go outside and do

1020
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 1: their little thing with the people they actually like. All right.

1021
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 1: You know one other thing that I just didn't like

1022
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 1: about the series. Why they had that financed black man

1023
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 1: will in the story? Is she fuck them? Yeah? So

1024
00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 1: man like like he was purposeless to the story, Like

1025
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 1: he didn't come to New York and fuck her? Like,

1026
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 1: why is he here being all fine and chocolate. I

1027
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 1: would have took that swordfish. I would be like, you

1028
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 1: only got one piece sordfish, sir, m hmmm, because I

1029
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:20,480
Speaker 1: was like, I had a snapper. I had a snapper. Yeah,

1030
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 1: because look, jas Fish, Yes, we gotta split it. We

1031
01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 1: definitely would have been eating off the same fork. And

1032
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:31,040
Speaker 1: that night we're gonna know. No one's gonna know who's

1033
01:00:31,040 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 1: gonna They're not gonna find out. But jazz And made

1034
01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:40,040
Speaker 1: her way to goddamn New York somehow. I don't understand

1035
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 1: why old boy made his way will Yeah, Jasmine came

1036
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 1: to me so all right. I like the part that

1037
01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: they made her. She was flirting. Now, she was being flirting,

1038
01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:53,960
Speaker 1: but she was engaged, and she let him know that

1039
01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 1: I'm loyal and I'm spoken for, so don't even try

1040
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 1: because it's not happening. And I think they wanted us

1041
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 1: to see that this character could be loyal to the

1042
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:07,000
Speaker 1: person that she's with. Yeah, a little frattenizing is healthy.

1043
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 1: You know. I got in trouble a lot in my

1044
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: last relationship for frattonizing. But it's not because he didn't frattenize.

1045
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 1: Is because I didn't snoop to see what he was doing. Um,

1046
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 1: and it just would dropping my lap. But I think

1047
01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:22,200
Speaker 1: that everybody does it. Everybody like had these little chit

1048
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:25,160
Speaker 1: chat little sneaky little things they do with people that

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Speaker 1: they have some type of connection with. But it's not cheating,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like and and as soon

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Speaker 1: as she told him, hey, when she felt like he

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01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 1: was liking her, she said, you know, I'm I'm engaged,

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Speaker 1: and that's just how it should be. I feel like

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Speaker 1: you should be able to have friends of the opposite sex. Yeah,

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01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 1: me too. Yeah, and if and even if you meet

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Speaker 1: them later on in life, like if you're in a

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Speaker 1: relationship and you like, why can't I meet a new

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Speaker 1: man and and not be somebody I want to have

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Speaker 1: sex with? Well, they did want to funk, though they did.

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Speaker 1: The energy was there. Overall, it was good. I enjoyed it.

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Speaker 1: I hope they have a part too. I don't know.

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01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: I think it might be the end of it because

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01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 1: they said the final chapters, but it would It's a

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01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:14,240
Speaker 1: story that could keep going. Honestly, we everybody loves these characters.

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01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:17,320
Speaker 1: They've been part of our lives for twenty years, so

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Speaker 1: I would I would watch another round. Well, maybe people

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01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 1: are watching my movie when it comes out. I haven't.

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you. I can't tell the people. I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you once I get you to sign this verbal

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Speaker 1: sign a verbal in d A. But it's essentially like

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Speaker 1: uh mixture between and some of the ship I was seeing.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, when you think something and you

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01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 1: put it in the university, need to hurry up and

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Speaker 1: do it because I think once you put it out

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01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 1: in it in the ethers, other people pick it up somehow.

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01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 1: Because some of the like little things I wanted to

1077
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Speaker 1: do in my movie is in Motherfucker best Man. So

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01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 1: so it's like a mix between Best Man and what's

1079
01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 1: that movie? Um, it's like white guys and they go

1080
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:07,160
Speaker 1: um on a bachelor party like in Vegas on one Hangover,

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01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 1: Hungo Hangover. So it's like a mix between those two.

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Speaker 1: Can I be a character in it? Yeah, you could

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01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:16,320
Speaker 1: be a character in it. I literally have like I'm

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01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:18,440
Speaker 1: looking at people like on social media. It's like some

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01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 1: people I want that are like aspiring actresses and stuff

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01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 1: like that that I won't get. You know, we canst

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Speaker 1: lines like they wait that way. I want to roll extra,

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01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 1: extra extra. I want to be just walking by on

1089
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 1: the phone, like like one of my characters is like

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01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 1: an Erica Bad type person. And so when I saw

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Speaker 1: the one character in the movie. I mean not like

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01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 1: that though. I want her to actually be like an

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01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 1: Erica Bad type type in real life. Yeah, she wasn't.

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01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:52,280
Speaker 1: That was the one who um was went Quentin was

1095
01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 1: gonna marry Quentin. Yeah, Cmara. So see it's like a

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Speaker 1: CMR type character, but like a real one, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So that's one of the characters in

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Speaker 1: my movie that's gonna like, um, you know, make one

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Speaker 1: of the other guys, the corporate thug nigga like change,

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Speaker 1: who got all the bitch is like change? Okay, coming soon, y'all,

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Speaker 1: I'll be here in a movie. So anyway, I enjoyed it. Nonetheless,

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Speaker 1: I stayed up til three o'clock last night because y'all

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01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 1: asked wanted to talk about this, But I enjoyed it.

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01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: It was watched this ship so we can talk about

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Speaker 1: it with our listening. I've been watching uh, His His

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01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:34,560
Speaker 1: Dark Materials on HBO Max. That's that's the show I've

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01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:39,440
Speaker 1: been currently watching. It's really good, y'all. Time travel married up. No,

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01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 1: it's like, um no, it's mixed. It's different people. It's

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01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:46,360
Speaker 1: like going in between different universes and she like that

1110
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Speaker 1: is stuff by the Bible. They got Metatron in there.

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01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:53,200
Speaker 1: It's it's real. Um, it's really good. But that's the

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Speaker 1: time you shouldn't be like going to watch anyway, y'all.

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01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:59,800
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll do these little reviews more often on the

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Speaker 1: Black Black cinema type movies that people have been following

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Speaker 1: for years and years and years. But yep, so listen.

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Speaker 1: If you enjoyed this episode, please tune in every Thursday

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Speaker 1: on an I Heart radio app wherever the fun you

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Speaker 1: get your podcast that this is your co host aj

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Speaker 1: Holiday too point. Oh, y'all follow me on instagrams. Go

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Speaker 1: ahead kicking tam and y'all is me Tim Bam. Y'all

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Speaker 1: follow me on Instagram to official Tam Bam. I love

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01:05:24,360 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 1: y'all so much. I didn't tell y'all in the beginning.

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Speaker 1: I forgot, but don't. It doesn't mean I forget to

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Speaker 1: love y'all. I love y'all every day, So y'all remember

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Speaker 1: to speak now and never hold Joe peace,