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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Dakota and this is Keon, your favorite

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Speaker 1: Okay storytime host, and we've got some great stories coming

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Speaker 1: My in laws thought I was poor and lazy, so

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Speaker 1: I sent them our prenup. Joke's on you for starters.

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Speaker 2: My husband no longer talks to his family except the

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Speaker 2: few who were always nice to me, The few.

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Speaker 1: The few to Marie.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he grew up in a family that has generational

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Speaker 2: wealth and only cares about Prestige.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's a good movie.

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Speaker 1: They only watched The Prestige.

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Speaker 3: But every game, every movie night, they're like, come on over,

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Speaker 3: come over, And he's like, I can't keep watching The Prestige.

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Speaker 3: I already know what happened.

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Speaker 1: I love Hugh Jackman, but enough is enough?

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Speaker 3: Please?

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, how do you think we got this generational wealth?

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Speaker 1: Where'd you go to school? What's your job title? How

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Speaker 1: much do you make? How much it's your home? Love?

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Speaker 1: Deed da this is dinner conversation, Well it kind of, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean, like, how much is your home and how much

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Speaker 3: do you make?

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Speaker 1: Weird?

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Speaker 3: What's your job? Where are you from?

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Speaker 2: Well it was where'd you go to school? Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 2: ivy or pathetic?

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Speaker 3: You know, yeah, but when you look on ivy you

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Speaker 3: can't say that either.

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Speaker 1: Well, clearly you can do. These people.

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Speaker 3: I went to school in Connecticut and they go classy.

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Speaker 1: Move which part of Connecticut is so big Connecticut state?

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Speaker 2: They go, Oh, they hated me from the start because

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Speaker 2: I do not have their blessing, which is their actual words.

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Speaker 1: Oh, oh worse, Oh it's worse than God. Wait, I

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Speaker 1: don't want what.

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Speaker 2: They hated me from the start because I do not

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Speaker 2: have their breeding, and you know in breeding, you know what.

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Speaker 1: I know immediately this is in the UK. What does

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Speaker 1: that mean?

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Speaker 3: These are British people.

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Speaker 1: That love the prestige worldwide.

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Speaker 2: They're actual words, and they were beyond rude to me.

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Speaker 2: I grew up in a working class family, bricklayers. My

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Speaker 2: dad is a tradesman and my mom is a teacher.

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Speaker 2: We grew up middle class and I had a happy childhood.

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Speaker 3: Doubted if you didn't have the prestige.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's easy to be happy when you don't know

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Speaker 2: what E'll miss it. My husband resents his parents because

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Speaker 2: they sent him off to boarding school and never paid

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Speaker 2: him attention when he finally met my family then welcomed

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Speaker 2: him immediately and treated him like a son. It was

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Speaker 2: the attention he never had, and he would do anything

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Speaker 2: for my family. At our wedding, his cousins made a

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Speaker 2: scene about how polly dressed my family was, particularly my

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Speaker 2: dad Bricklayer, and made them feel bad because.

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Speaker 1: They weren't wearing brand name clothes.

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Speaker 3: He's wearing his little brick cap, he's got his little

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Speaker 3: helmet on, He's holding a brick.

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Speaker 1: He came straight from work.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, anythink he might be feel bit but nope.

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Speaker 2: Where my Ba Sea Coast man, I would just be like,

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Speaker 2: you can rip them in half by the way if

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Speaker 2: you want.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy. Yeah, all you have to do is uh

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Speaker 1: this goop for flinching.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then that's when you bring out two bricks.

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Speaker 1: Bricklayer.

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Speaker 2: My husband spend part of our consoling my family members

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Speaker 2: about how rude his family was being. Our families had

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Speaker 2: not interacted much before this, but after he decided on

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Speaker 2: his own that he would never speak to some of

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Speaker 2: his family again.

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Speaker 1: Good move, not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they kind of stink.

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Speaker 1: You get snobby. At my wedding with my wife's family,

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Speaker 1: you're done. By the way, Oh, clipp it, clip it,

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Speaker 1: clipped it, clip it. My god, wow, right on the money. Wow,

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Speaker 1: that was like right here. It was like right under

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Speaker 3: It was blood.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god, you were close. I'm

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Speaker 1: keeping this.

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Speaker 3: This is to I survived both to good and I

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Speaker 3: got attacked in the face.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got to try to she got she got

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Speaker 2: head buttered by a crackhead.

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Speaker 1: It's true. It's true, just a moment ago right in

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Speaker 1: the orbital. Yeah, and she did it. That's not even

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Speaker 1: if that's not evenna lie. Yeah, you know she did

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Speaker 1: with them. She threw them in the orbit. Said you've

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Speaker 1: got their superpowers. Bye. By the way, this comes from

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Speaker 1: Blasian Invasions.

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Speaker 2: And if you want to submit your own stories, go

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Speaker 2: to the art slash Okay storytime sub Brendet.

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Speaker 1: I'm Dakota, Sophia.

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Speaker 2: I'm Wasian and uh, we're here to give good advice, goofy.

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Speaker 1: But we don't know everything.

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Speaker 2: So if you know better than us, if you dare

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Speaker 2: comment in the comments what you think.

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Speaker 1: I'm keon, he said Blazian invasion, So I mixed Asians,

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Speaker 1: shout out to you.

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Speaker 2: He's w Asian and I'm starting to see where maybe

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Speaker 2: the breeding comment came from me.

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Speaker 1: Too, Api month remember that that happened? So on? Now

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Speaker 1: now it's Filipino time. What have you not seen the

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Speaker 1: memes yet?

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's yeah, the Filipinos are having if you say so,

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Speaker 2: here's the cherry on.

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Speaker 1: Top or the nerve bullet on top. This is my toke.

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Speaker 1: I survived while my family is not rich. I am, oh.

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Speaker 3: Pretty messed up.

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Speaker 1: I started my own software company sold it for over

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Speaker 1: five million in twenty ten.

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Speaker 2: Bang, that's peasant numbers for these people. Mm hmm oh

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Speaker 2: they'll be like, oh Measley Peasley, Leasley, Weasley Beasley five million.

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Speaker 3: Also like money means nothing to these people. It's the breeding.

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Speaker 1: They don't care if you made much to prestige, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It's it's how much does your family over you know,

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Speaker 3: how old is your family?

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Speaker 2: How much does your family look like? Huge Ackman?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Uh huge Acman.

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Speaker 2: I took most of that five million and invested it

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Speaker 2: in technologies. Talso, my net worth is eight figures, whereas

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Speaker 2: my husband as a trust in seven figures. We just

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Speaker 2: don't flash fancy cars and absurd home or brand name everything.

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Speaker 2: The recent drama started with his uncle. His aunt stays

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Speaker 2: in contact with us, and she's one of the few

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Speaker 2: who are genuinely nice, like showing up to help me

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Speaker 2: after I had surgery w ant.

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Speaker 1: However, her husband is openly discriminatory and.

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Speaker 2: Was heard screaming in the background, Ask your nephew why

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Speaker 2: he's still with that slur gold digger oool.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry the aunt who is cool is with that guy.

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Speaker 2: He's not that cool. Then opposites really do attract. Let's

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Speaker 2: be real. I know many in his family hate me

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Speaker 2: because I am not white, but they definitely also hate

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Speaker 2: me because they think I'm poor. His uncle made another

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Speaker 2: comment about how I brainwashed my husband to buy our

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Speaker 2: new apartment. Meanwhile, I purchased it and it's in my name.

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Speaker 2: I've heard it all before from them, but something about

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Speaker 2: how his uncle said it really pissed me off and

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Speaker 2: I had enough, so I sent an email to several

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Speaker 2: of his family members with our prenup showing the long

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Speaker 2: list of assets under my name.

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Speaker 1: This shut them up. Good. Oh. I thought I was

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Speaker 1: gonna be like do they care? I feel like they'd

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Speaker 1: be like, okay, they're Opie's still rich, But apparently they

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Speaker 1: do care. Interesting I was gonna be like, oh, they

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Speaker 1: don't care because they also are racist. Imagine they start

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Speaker 1: coming around, They're like, hey, I have a wheel bill,

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Speaker 1: money for my bills please.

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Speaker 3: I'm actually really poor.

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Speaker 1: The gash in my boo o god, he's really expensive.

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Speaker 2: In fact, I've noticed some of his cousins anyting a

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Speaker 2: lot nicer lately. This did not sit well with my

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Speaker 2: family or my husband. My husband doesn't care that they

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Speaker 2: know we have a prenup, but he didn't want them

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Speaker 2: to know how much I have. He's more worried that

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Speaker 2: his family will try to leach off me. Now why

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Speaker 2: is he worried about that? Because that's entirely in your control.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm confused. I'm confused why any of them are

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Speaker 3: still in our life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why didn't a husband also just be like hey,

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Speaker 1: shut up, or like, why are we still talking to them?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I have money?

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Speaker 3: And why they're still even around you enough that you

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Speaker 3: can hear what they're saying?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, when you want to watch the Prestige,

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Speaker 2: you want to watch the Prestige.

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Speaker 1: It's true, that's why we get to the Presige.

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Speaker 3: Should make sacrifices when you want to watch the Prestige,

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Speaker 3: and I kind of want to watch the Prestige.

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Speaker 2: Right Shout out to all the people who have seen

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Speaker 2: The Prestige and understand what we're talking about and are

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Speaker 1: For this journey. We make it all the time ironic

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Speaker 1: And if you haven't seen the Prestige, what are you

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Speaker 1: doing watching the Prestige? Very ironic?

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Speaker 2: He could save others, but he could not save himself, Palpatine,

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Speaker 2: very ironic. I don't regret my actions, but my husband

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Speaker 2: keeps saying I messed up? Am I the ahle?

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Speaker 1: No? Not the a hole? Did you mess up? Like

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Speaker 1: a little bit?

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Speaker 3: Just in terms of who cares?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 3: Why are we sending our personal information to people who's.

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Speaker 2: Out Well, yeah, you sent them the bird is what

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Speaker 2: you sent. I think maybe the only thing you should

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Speaker 2: have done is.

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Speaker 1: Talk to your husband about it first. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I've been like, I'm doing this just because I'm sick.

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Speaker 2: I'm sick of it. I'm sick of it and this

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Speaker 2: doesn't mean that anything's gonna change. It's just like I

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Speaker 2: want to send them a finger.

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Speaker 1: In the mail. Yeah, I'm a middle finger. I feel

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Speaker 1: like there's there could have been like a better way

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Speaker 1: to shut them up rather than bean like, enjoy the prenup, Like.

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Speaker 2: You could have walked in with fifty million dollars just

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Speaker 2: taped to your body and been.

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Speaker 1: Like, what's up? Oh oh this old thing.

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Speaker 2: I got it from the bank out of my account

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Speaker 2: and turn around and leave comment one. I'm gonna say,

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Speaker 2: not the able, but your husband is right. You definitely

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Speaker 2: messed up in a moment of anger. You let them

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Speaker 2: get the better of you, and now you've shared your

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Speaker 2: private business with huge ales and for what their approval? No,

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Speaker 2: absolutely not. It was not for their approval. It was

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Speaker 2: be like shut up and you all still suck. I

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Speaker 2: feel like you made a mistake and should acknowledge that

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Speaker 2: and try to learn from it. Hope he does say,

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Speaker 2: you're right, I don't need their approval, but it became

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Speaker 2: a breaking point. I had enough of them calling me

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Speaker 2: a gold digger and lazy. It was years of this,

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Speaker 2: and my only regret is not saying something sooner. I've

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Speaker 2: actually been enjoying the fake nice act they're putting on lately,

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Speaker 2: but I know not to give them a dime. Everything's

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Speaker 2: already written to go to my family and charity. When

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Speaker 2: I drop bummit two says even if you didn't show

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's like a personally. I didn't think

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Speaker 1: They're not sleeping, they're yellow. Slurs at her.

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Speaker 3: Slurring dogs slur, No, let's slurring dogs tire themselves out

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like of their own making,

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Speaker 3: I do think he should have just been shutting that

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Speaker 1: Like you guys just don't get it.

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Speaker 2: When you want to watch the prestige, you have to

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Speaker 3: You know, you had the best freaking home movie theater

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Speaker 1: Big as a yacht.

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Speaker 2: It was a yacht, a yacht where they only watched

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Speaker 3: And everyone was like, Oh, it's your prestigious, prestigious yacht, and.

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Speaker 2: That's actually her name. We named her the Prestige anyway.

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Speaker 2: To be honest, I would be more than angry if

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Speaker 2: It would feel like a violation of my privacy. Opeel

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Speaker 2: I didn't disclose any details of his aside from the trust,

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Speaker 2: But it doesn't bother you that your husband was willing

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Speaker 2: I mean, if you're a combined front and you're like, I.

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Speaker 1: Know you're not a gold digger. We're never gonna convince

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Speaker 2: They all suck anyway, so we would there's nothing where

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Speaker 3: Yes, I do see that point, but it seems that

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Speaker 3: hey stop saying that that's not true. He has a

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Speaker 2: Also got a factor in the prestige British decorum. True,

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 1: Then you bring up your favorite football team and then

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Speaker 1: it's game over. Arsenal or not polite? Oh too soon,

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Speaker 2: Men?

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Speaker 1: But a man can't be What happened with them? Did?

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Speaker 1: People are people of not? Okay? No, they just lost?

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Speaker 3: I don't know anything. I don't care about that, so.

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Speaker 1: I you know what I who I root for?

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Speaker 1: What's the one who does in Bape play for real Madrid? Alright?

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Speaker 3: I don't care about this country.

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Speaker 1: Okay, balls come. Drick continues where was.

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Speaker 2: He when they were humiliating you with every family gathering,

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Speaker 2: Opie says, he's told them that I'm not over the years,

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Speaker 2: but they didn't believe.

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Speaker 1: It because of profiling.

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Speaker 2: Probably, Yes, everyone knows Blazian's a pull.

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Speaker 1: We can see it on you.

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Speaker 2: When I told them that I sold my business, they

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Speaker 2: and called me lazy for being at home and collecting

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Speaker 1: When was again, why are we letting this happen? I

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Speaker 1: mean for you to just be silent? Okay, it's fine,

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Speaker 1: but why wasn't your husband? It does seem like now

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Speaker 1: we know that he was saying, no, that's not true.

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Speaker 3: That's not true, and they're like, m mam, We're going

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Speaker 3: to continue to believe it.

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Speaker 1: But we like saying this about. Yes, we like being rude,

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Speaker 2: Meanwhile, I'm working on another startup and teaching classes remotely

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Speaker 2: for university.

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Speaker 1: I have to see it to believe it, I guess.

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Speaker 2: And there's an edit to add or wanted to clarify

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Speaker 2: a few things since I just learned that I can

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Speaker 2: add more text. I sent the whole prenup doc, but

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Speaker 2: over half of it was redacted, including much of my

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Speaker 2: of what I have and certainly not accounting. I have

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Speaker 2: cut childhood friends out of my life for trying to

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Speaker 2: pull a fast one, so I'm not going to be

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Speaker 2: tricked by his superficial family members who have already shown

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Speaker 2: me their true colors. My husband knew I was going

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Speaker 2: to do this, but has tried to talk me out

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Speaker 2: of it for my benefit.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's another good thing, at least that's what he says.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he knew in advance.

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Speaker 1: So he did know.

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Speaker 2: He was like, don't do that, but he didn't know

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Speaker 2: I'm doing it. But I'm slam dunking on your uncle.

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Speaker 2: It's happening, slam dunkle.

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Speaker 1: It was just like a slam dunk. This kind of

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Speaker 1: feels like a layup. Yeah, I guess. Well, it's like

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Speaker 1: the slam dunk at the end of the.

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Speaker 2: Game when you're already up twenty sports stock sports Stock Sports.

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Speaker 3: It's like the slam dunk at the end of the

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Speaker 3: game where you're up twenty, but the other team hasn't

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Speaker 3: looked at the scoreboard at the whole time, and so

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Speaker 3: they think they're up twenty.

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Speaker 1: Exactly falling off my head. I oh it was gold,

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Speaker 1: No strong mells, My nose is clean.

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Speaker 2: I have been talking about this for years. Everyone in

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Speaker 2: his family knew we had a preenup. They just didn't

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Speaker 2: know it was me that pushed for one. For those

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Speaker 2: looking for an episode two, I'll keep you posted. But

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Speaker 2: they've been faked nice lately and asking how I'm doing

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Speaker 2: that day, et cetera. Previously these people would open by

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Speaker 2: saying things like have you checked your wallet today?

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Speaker 1: To my husband? Why are we.

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Speaker 3: Why are we around them at all? Why were you

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Speaker 1: When they're like nice to you ask them about your day?

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Speaker 1: Are you replying yeah?

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Speaker 3: Are you like yeah, it is pretty nice?

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Speaker 2: Because I'm rich like all these people, you should be

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Speaker 2: blocked like you should have been like, yeah, by the way,

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Speaker 2: this is my net worth blocked blocked, blocked, blocked blocked.

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Speaker 3: That's what I don't understand. Why are we around them?

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Speaker 1: Like why she likes the game? Why can we hear

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Speaker 1: their little tiney voices?

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Speaker 2: Because now they're the puppets dancing on her street.

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Speaker 1: O piece haters are Opie's motivators. Oh, you know what

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Speaker 1: she's doing. This is what she's doing.

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Speaker 2: She's playing the long con. Yeah, and wanted them to

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Speaker 2: ask her for something. She's gonna be like, yeah, for sure,

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Speaker 2: and then just never do it.

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Speaker 1: Ooo, that's what she's gonna do.

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Speaker 3: Ooh, and then she sends it to everyone and says, oh,

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Speaker 3: who's poor.

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Speaker 1: Now, look at this brokie asking me for help. How pathetic.

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Speaker 2: My personal belongings don't define me. For one, I still

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Speaker 2: drive a Toyota Corolla twenty ten, one of the greatest

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Speaker 2: cars of all time, and if it ain't broke, don't

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Speaker 2: fix it. I care about life experiences in treating people

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Speaker 2: with respect, kindness, and empathy. I believe that's what makes

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Speaker 2: a classy person. And there is a little bit left here.

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Speaker 3: Ooooooo.

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Speaker 2: I would have done exactly what you did, Opie, except

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Speaker 2: I would have also then blocked them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think that needs to be as that

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Speaker 3: is a necessary step. Should have done it when they

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Speaker 3: were saying all that nasty stuff. Should have blocked them,

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Speaker 3: never seen them again, and definitely should do that now.

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Speaker 1: I wanted Opie could have pulled a batman, and she's

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Speaker 1: been like, whichever your strongest hater is in that family

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Speaker 1: buy one of their things, is by one of the things, but.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, like to buy their house from the bank, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: get like outbid them, so yeah on them and just

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Speaker 2: go ahead.

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Speaker 1: You could do that. And it's add number two.

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Speaker 2: I feel the need to clarify that my husband and

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Speaker 2: I have tried to tell his family that I'm doing

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Speaker 2: fine for years. Of course that's just the first step

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Speaker 2: we took. But they just don't believe that a mixed

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Speaker 2: let her trick you. Also, as for why he still

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Speaker 2: talks to his family, it's easy to say, don't talk

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Speaker 2: to them, but there are a handful that he is

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Speaker 2: close with who've supported and raised him and hate how

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Speaker 2: the rest of the family behaves as much as we do.

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Speaker 1: So why don't we just cut off that part of

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Speaker 1: the Why can't we just cut them everyone else besides them?

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Speaker 1: Honestly probably politics.

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Speaker 2: Then you cut them off and then they can't talk

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Speaker 2: to you because they're cut off, And there.

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Speaker 1: Goes the money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and honestly that securing the trust true that money

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Speaker 2: will make people.

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Speaker 1: You got to play the long con. Money has so

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Speaker 1: much money, money money, money me.

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Speaker 2: Not fair for me to say cut them all off

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Speaker 2: when he has bonds to some of them, and I

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Speaker 2: also like those same handful as well. Unfortunately, this does

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Speaker 2: give us the occasional exposure to the rest of his family.

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Speaker 1: I guess I think.

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Speaker 2: You guys played that perfectly. Don't let anyone tell you different.

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Speaker 1: So one of the things you played it perfect except

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Speaker 1: for the not blocking.

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Speaker 2: But I guess politics so that you could see the

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Speaker 2: cool members of your family.

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Speaker 1: Quick buy all of the family members of copy of

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Speaker 1: the Prestige. Yes, I like that, Buy them the Prestige.

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Speaker 1: And then the Great Sheep Detective the actual trick.

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Speaker 3: Great movie, Hugh Grant's highest rated film.

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Speaker 1: That's not Hugh Grant, Beckman, That's what I meant. I

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Speaker 1: was so confused.

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Speaker 3: I did mean, huje act.

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Speaker 2: Great Sheep Detective. Let me tell you something. There's no

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Speaker 2: great detectives in that movie. You could have solve that

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Speaker 2: crime in five minutes.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you're not a sheep?

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Speaker 1: Or is he? Or is he a sheep? In? Is

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Speaker 1: he a wolf in sheep's clothing?

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Speaker 2: All I gotta say is, never get into foul play

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Speaker 2: in the English countryside because they don't know how to police.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is the raal the story, except he learned

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Speaker 3: he figures it out does though. My wife quit her

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Speaker 1: These are investments, meaty. Wait wait wait, these vestments are investments.

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Speaker 3: Meet thirty six mail and my wife thirty six female,

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Speaker 2: I've always had similar life goals just in case you

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00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:20,679
Speaker 2: guys didn't know, same ay.

445
00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,520
Speaker 3: And been relatively on the same page in terms of

446
00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:26,000
Speaker 3: what we both want for ourselves and each other over

447
00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:27,920
Speaker 3: the fifteen years we've been together.

448
00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:34,080
Speaker 1: Same age, same page. Oh yeah, Nick cage rage.

449
00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:38,880
Speaker 3: We both have master's degrees in our respective fields.

450
00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:41,520
Speaker 1: And how we uld say the same fields. No, it's

451
00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:42,600
Speaker 1: respective fields.

452
00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,800
Speaker 3: In us, same field. No, in our respective fields. And

453
00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:47,600
Speaker 3: I've worked very hard to buy a home, purchased a

454
00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:50,280
Speaker 3: duplex to rent out and build our lives. We have

455
00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:53,840
Speaker 3: both been very frugal and conscientious about money. About a

456
00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:56,159
Speaker 3: year ago, she lost her job due to downsizing in

457
00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:58,960
Speaker 3: her company and decided she wanted to be a homemaker.

458
00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,640
Speaker 3: After this happened and deal with their tenants and household affairs.

459
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:04,960
Speaker 3: We don't have any children, so really all she would

460
00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:07,600
Speaker 3: have to do is clean house, collect rent checks, and

461
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,200
Speaker 3: call the plumber or something if there's an issue, either

462
00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:13,680
Speaker 3: at the rental property or ours. We weren't necessarily struggling

463
00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:15,680
Speaker 3: for money at this point, so if this is how

464
00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:18,400
Speaker 3: she decides she wants to spend her time, I'll support her.

465
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,240
Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from throw a f six'

466
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,240
Speaker 3: three and if you want to spit your own stories

467
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Speaker 3: part of the r slash okay storytime.

468
00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:29,240
Speaker 1: Separate I'm, Sofia I'm, Dakota I'm, ion.

469
00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:32,159
Speaker 3: And we're here to give good advice, goofully but we

470
00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,120
Speaker 3: don't have all the. Answers we only know what we'd,

471
00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:35,879
Speaker 3: Do so let us know what you would do in the,

472
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:39,320
Speaker 3: comments And opie says the issue is that she doesn't

473
00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 3: do any of these. Things, either she'll spend the entire

474
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:46,720
Speaker 3: day watching, television browsing The, internet or go out shopping

475
00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:49,840
Speaker 3: and spending zuberant amounts of. Money i'm not exaggerating when

476
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,560
Speaker 3: it comes to out. Much she's been spending a brand

477
00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:56,000
Speaker 3: new fancy, car tons of expensive high end clothes with

478
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,359
Speaker 3: brand names From. EUROPE i haven't even heard of a

479
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:00,680
Speaker 3: bunch of fancy gadgets and whatever else.

480
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:02,919
Speaker 1: Is she trying to be. BATMAN a girl's gotta have

481
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,600
Speaker 1: her fancy. Gadget she's inspector.

482
00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:12,040
Speaker 3: Gadget we weren't high rolling it, before do just living relatively.

483
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,160
Speaker 3: Comfortably and all of this spending has put a financial

484
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:15,679
Speaker 3: strain on.

485
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 1: Things, hey big, SPENDER i mean.

486
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:23,240
Speaker 3: Like how much fancy com brand names two hundred thousands

487
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 3: of A, quick two hundred, foul two hundred bands for

488
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:27,720
Speaker 3: the Girl.

489
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 1: Quick alexa Play fancy By Iggy. Azale on top.

490
00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:31,960
Speaker 3: Of, this she isn't doing any of the things she

491
00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,840
Speaker 3: said she wanted to do as a. HOMEMAKER i cleaned

492
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,119
Speaker 3: the entire, HOUSE i deal with issues at the, RENTAL

493
00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,679
Speaker 3: i searched for a new, tenant all of the things

494
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,920
Speaker 3: we once shared responsibility, for and she said she would

495
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 3: completely handle after losing her. JOB i have been taken care.

496
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,719
Speaker 3: OF i have been concerned about, this as you should,

497
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 3: be as it's unlike her and a dramatic shift in her.

498
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:56,160
Speaker 3: BEHAVIOR i tried asking if something's, wrong and she says everything's.

499
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 1: Fine that IS i is not.

500
00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 3: True, ye this sounds like. Depression. DEPRESSION i tried telling

501
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,720
Speaker 3: Her i'm a bit concerned and suggested seeing a therapist

502
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 3: and that we could even go in, together but she.

503
00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 3: Refused two nights, AGO i came home late after working

504
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,360
Speaker 3: for twelve hours and found the house an even bigger

505
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 3: mess than WHEN i, left and there was a huge

506
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 3: pile of new clothes she bought sitting in the living

507
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 3: room that she spent seven thousand dollars. ON i saw

508
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 3: a notification from the credit card company on my phone

509
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 3: about ten minutes before walking through the.

510
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 1: Door, yeah you.

511
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,360
Speaker 2: Don't want to call them and uh put a put

512
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 2: a put a limit on that credit card.

513
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 3: Immediately immediately limit on the credit. Card. Immediately we take

514
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 3: all of those clothes back and return them if we.

515
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 2: Can, yeah, maybe, wife no more credit, Card no more credit.

516
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 3: CARD i told, HER i don't know what the f

517
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:51,200
Speaker 3: is happening or going on with, her but she needs

518
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:53,719
Speaker 3: to get offered butt to either get a job and

519
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,879
Speaker 3: pay for all, this go to, therapy or stop spending

520
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 3: so much and do what she promised after she decided

521
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 3: to not go back to. Work this is after a

522
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 3: year of me trying to talk to her about whatever

523
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 3: the heck is going, on AND i just reached a breaking.

524
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,679
Speaker 2: Point i'm that it happened for a. Year, yeah you

525
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,639
Speaker 2: let her get get it to a. Year must have

526
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 2: had a lot of money saved.

527
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 1: Up, yeah what do you not? Anymore? Though you let this? Happen,

528
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 1: YEAH i have very.

529
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 2: LITTLE i, MEAN i guess at some level you're, like

530
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 2: it'll stop any day, now, Right.

531
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 1: Well he's just stop any day, now. Right there's only so.

532
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 3: Much that you can, do you, know beyond, saying, hey

533
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 3: go to, therapy go to. THERAPY i want you to get.

534
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 3: Help let's work on this other than just ending the.

535
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 1: Relationship if, well, yeah if that's not working WITHIN i don't.

536
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 1: KNOW i, said let's say first two, months and that's

537
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: still a long. Time but that's not working within a

538
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 1: very short time, period then you let you just take

539
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 1: away the credit, card cancel the credit, card and you're,

540
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 1: like can't spend no money when you have nothing to

541
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 1: spend it. With, sorry he's.

542
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,119
Speaker 3: Tricky it's a slippery. Slope if you left to go

543
00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 3: to her mother's and my mother in law has been

544
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:02,120
Speaker 3: texting me, NonStop up calling me a bad husband and

545
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 3: a piece of, garbage and my wife hasn't been returning my. Calls,

546
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 3: okay text mom and you, say, hey this is what's

547
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 3: been going, on.

548
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 1: And then you'll you'll get what you pay for. This

549
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 1: then you ask, Her, hey what did she tell? You,

550
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 1: yeah BECAUSE i have a feeling she didn't tell you

551
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 1: what's actually.

552
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 3: Happening common one, says not the. Ale you are understandably

553
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 3: at your breaking. Point it does sound like there's something going.

554
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 3: ON i think you should continue to suggest, counseling as

555
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 3: she clearly needs it and is in denial about. It op,

556
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 3: SAYS i just want my wife, back as her personality

557
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 3: has shifted a bit as. Well our plans to buy

558
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 3: another rental are out the window for quite some time.

559
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 3: Now it'd a lot saved and we're planning to buy

560
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 3: once thousand market goes back. DOWN i have a decent,

561
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:48,120
Speaker 3: job BUT i don't make enough to sustain. This common two,

562
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 3: says is your financial issues severe enough to call company

563
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 3: and restrict. Usage i'd be concerned about her maxing them

564
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 3: out or using all the money in the bank after

565
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 3: you confronted, Her op, Says i'll call the bank today

566
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 3: and set limits to. Everything there haven't been any new

567
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,919
Speaker 3: expenses since she, left besides in order to a local takeout.

568
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 3: PLACE i think it has reached that. Point, yes this

569
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 3: is the first time in my Life i've ever been

570
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 3: in a net negative in terms of savings and, debt

571
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,119
Speaker 3: not even in college AS i Joined National guard to

572
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 3: pay for. School, OPIE i genuinely can we take any

573
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 3: of this stuff?

574
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 2: Back is there no way to get a little recoup.

575
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 1: On our money? Here, also why are we dropping seven

576
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 1: thousand dollars on? Clothes, well it's like.

577
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 2: A limited edition or that limited, addiction limited, addiction limited edition.

578
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 3: Addiction our savings have dwindled to a fraction of what they,

579
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 3: were and we had been saving a lot beforehand to

580
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 3: buy another rental property down the road once the housing

581
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 3: market goes down, again and we got an update more

582
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 3: than a week. Later what do you THINK i?

583
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 2: Mean clearly this is all like brought on by her

584
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:02,919
Speaker 2: losing her. Job, yes so he needs, help but you

585
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 2: also need help because if she doesn't, stop she's gonna

586
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 2: make y'all.

587
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: Destitute.

588
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, serious serious talks need to, happen serious sit

589
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 2: down of, like, hey no more credit, card you HAVE

590
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 2: x amount of dollars to spend per week and once

591
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 2: you're out of, that so it's.

592
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:26,159
Speaker 3: Done, yeah and see if you can get you, know

593
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 3: kind of intervention, style get anybody in her support system

594
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 3: on your. Side see if mom just doesn't know the.

595
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 3: Truth but we got an update more than a week.

596
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 2: Later there's zero percent mom knows the.

597
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,679
Speaker 1: Truth if she called you saying you're a.

598
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 3: Scumbag, yeah, yeah when you're paying seven dollars for daughter plus.

599
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 3: MORE i just thought i'd write a quick.

600
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: Follow up to my previous.

601
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 3: Post things have improved okay in a.

602
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 1: Week.

603
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 3: Wow as many of you, suspected my wife told her

604
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 3: mother a completely different story than what. Happened.

605
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: Shocker he was, like he keeps all my money from,

606
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 1: me and he only lets me spend seven.

607
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,679
Speaker 3: Dollars he could a seven thousand dollars limit on my credit.

608
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,239
Speaker 3: Card WHEN i spoke to my mother in, law she

609
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 3: was immediately concerned about my wife's. Behavior my sister in,

610
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 3: law who is no longer with, us struggled with manic

611
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 3: depressive disorder for many, years and after a long period

612
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 3: of spiraling and frightening, behavior my mother in law now

613
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 3: knows how devastating and serious mental illness can be and

614
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,679
Speaker 3: immediately encouraged my wife to speak to a.

615
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: Therapist then why did she sail of that to?

616
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,159
Speaker 3: You that was probably before she was, like, yes my

617
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 3: daughter is, right and that she thought about, it and.

618
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: She was, like there's just no way that daughter.

619
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:44,479
Speaker 3: Explained me and my mother in law worked together over

620
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 3: the next few days to find something for. Her at,

621
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 3: first my wife, refused but with me and her mother

622
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 3: both saying she needed to recognize she needed, help she eventually.

623
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,479
Speaker 3: Accepted we had our first counseling session this, week and

624
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 3: we went in. Together even though it may be hard

625
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 3: to say since we both just started, THERAPY i think

626
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 3: things seem. Promising my wife made some big. Steps we

627
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:10,640
Speaker 3: returned or are in the process of selling the majority

628
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 3: of everything she's bought over the past. Year.

629
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:13,919
Speaker 1: Amazing this is.

630
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 3: Good this is really, good even though she didn't even

631
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 3: use most of. It separating herself from these items with

632
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 3: something difficult for, her And i'm immensely proud of her

633
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 3: for doing the right. Thing we got a little bit, left,

634
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 3: though what do you think you?

635
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 2: Know, ay you're on The you're on the right.

636
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: Track how did you let this happen for a?

637
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 2: Year?

638
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 3: YEAH i mean, yeah two months of this?

639
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: Girl oh oh she did this like every? Week what

640
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 1: are we? Doing? Yeah we, like let me see the

641
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: credit card that's? Mine?

642
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 3: Thanks, yeah even that lost my job and NOW i

643
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,959
Speaker 3: want to be a stay at home wife and clean

644
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 3: and you, know take care of the. Tenants like if

645
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 3: my partner said that to, me no, knowing you know

646
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 3: that she was never like that, BEFORE i would have

647
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 3: a lot of. Questions it wouldn't just be like blanket.

648
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 3: Support i'd be, like, hey are you?

649
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: Sure are you sure about? That are you sure you?

650
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 3: Want can we look into other you, know make sure

651
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 3: that's the?

652
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 1: Options be. Sure some of you were also.

653
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 3: Right that she may be having second thoughts about my.

654
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 3: Vasectomy when did we did we know?

655
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: This what did that come?

656
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 2: ABOUT i have a first thought about, that which is

657
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 2: right now, okay new information and.

658
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 3: May want to have a. KID i told her that

659
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 3: we should focus on her recovering for, now but once that,

660
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 3: happens we can start talking.

661
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 2: Options snip, snap snip, snap snip, snap snip.

662
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Speaker 1: SNAP i think she's Going, YEAH i think she's going

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00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 1: through a lot right. Now.

664
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Speaker 3: YEAH i have alerts on all my cards and, accounts

665
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,239
Speaker 3: so if she goes into another spending, SPREE i can

666
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 3: shut the cards down again IF i have. To that,

667
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 3: IS i have a friend who had a manic episode

668
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 3: and they talked about like the amount of money they

669
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 3: were spending so that does make sense, that you, know

670
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 3: she had a sister who had. That, yeah you, know

671
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:07,719
Speaker 3: genetic goes into the manic. Episode is just spending thousands of.

672
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 1: Dollars, yeah, yeah.

673
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 3: TOUGH i also told my brother about what's been going.

674
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 3: On he called me a dumb butt for not THINKING

675
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 3: i could come and talk to him about. Anything we

676
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 3: had a big hug and a long talk over a few.

677
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 3: Beers even though things aren't, perfect this is the first

678
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 3: time things have been looking up in a long.

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Speaker 1: Time and that's the end of that. Story all, right, Amazing,

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Speaker 1: OKAY i love. That did you return the?

681
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 3: Clothes, yeah they are, good good on the, road so

682
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 3: they returning and selling.

683
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 1: EVERYTHING i hope you can get your money back and

684
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: more that, sticks you.

685
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 3: Know, well job. Dude, YEAH i mean people can go

686
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 3: into manic. Episode it's not like something that you, get

687
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 3: so it's not a one and. Done so definitely. Therapy

688
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 3: definitely getting you, know medication if she needs. That.

689
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, hey It's, dakota your favorite good time boy.

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693
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Speaker 1: Sponsors my wife packed lingerie for a work trip and

694
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Speaker 1: it made me. PARANOID i like to feel.

695
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 2: SPICY i have been with my wife for six years

696
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 2: and we've been married for just over.

697
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 1: Two from What i'm, aware we have a great.

698
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 2: Relationship we rarely, argue have a, healthy sposey, life and

699
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 2: have discussed having children in the. Future at no stage

700
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 2: IF i had any reason to believe she would be.

701
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 2: Unfaithful my wife holds a management position in the tech

702
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 2: company and is therefore occasionally away on work. Trips i've

703
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 2: been with her a few times if it's an opportunity

704
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 2: to network or IF i want to see a new,

705
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 2: city but she usually goes on her own with her.

706
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 2: Colleagues On sunday, evening who's packing a small suitcase for a?

707
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 2: Trip following, day as she was downstairs cooking, DINNER i

708
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 2: popped upstairs to the bedroom to grab my.

709
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: Laptop suitcase was open on the, bed WHICH.

710
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 2: I didn't think much, of but WHEN i walked, past

711
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 2: something caught my.

712
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 1: Eye it's a red launch raise. Set mm. Hmm it

713
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: wasn't something i'd consider business.

714
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 3: Attire what, well you don't know that what type of

715
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 3: businesses you? Do hot story gives Me that is exactly

716
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 3: WHAT i. Thought that is exactly WHAT i. Thought the

717
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 3: only reasonable explanation for this is if she wanted to

718
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 3: do a photo shoot for. You that is the only

719
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 3: reasonable EXPLANATION i could think. Of we're on the same.

720
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 1: Page it consisted of a small lace red thong with

721
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: circular loop at the top in a matching red Bra

722
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 1: WHEN i did some more, DIGGING i found a black

723
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: set with another small. Thong and by the, way this

724
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,560
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Speaker 2: maybe maybe have.

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Speaker 1: A little goofball.

731
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 2: Time we don't know, everything, though so let us know

732
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 2: what you would do in the. Comments, oh he, Says

733
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 2: it immediately set my heart racing like a. Rabbit my

734
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 2: wife doesn't usually wear anything like. This you used to

735
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 2: wear lingerie when our relationship and spicy sleep was, fresh

736
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 2: but she doesn't bother at all these.

737
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: Days what's going? On?

738
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 3: MMM i don't.

739
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 2: Want you to have the green eminem who's. Hot they

740
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 2: want the green eminem to wear frumpy, pumps rumpy, pumps

741
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 2: pumps still, hot rumpy. Pumps even wearing a thong is incredibly,

742
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 2: rare and she would generally only wear plain cotton, underwear

743
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 2: which is why this is out of.

744
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: Character AND, i you know, what good for? Her good for?

745
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 1: Her got? Hers we don't need to wear a. Thongs

746
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: got a cotton's arm? Uncomfortable, hey cotton? Breatheable, ooh you

747
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: caught me in My cottons down, THERE i got me

748
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 1: in my. Cottons oh, boy you caught me in my.

749
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 1: Cottons she hasn't acted out of the ordinary at. All

750
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: in that same, evening we.

751
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 2: Had a lovely meal and, chatted even IF i was

752
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 2: admittedly distant because of the. Situation you picked up on,

753
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 2: it AND i just put it down to, tiredness which

754
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 2: was the same USE i used WHEN i drove it

755
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 2: at the airport. YESTERDAY i haven't been able to get

756
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 2: this out of my mind SINCE i want to give

757
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 2: my wife the benefit of the. Doubt but the situation

758
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 2: just doesn't make sense BECAUSE i don't know why she

759
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,800
Speaker 2: would pack lingerie for a two day business trip unless

760
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 2: she intends for someone to see.

761
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: It do you like think you're? Right you?

762
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 3: Think?

763
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 1: YEAH i think she intends for you to see it.

764
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,320
Speaker 1: Later she likes stealing Aerodynamic.

765
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,839
Speaker 3: So then but that to, me that is pretty easily.

766
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 3: Provable you wait two days and then, yeah, yeah if

767
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 3: you don't get, anything.

768
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 1: That's how you.

769
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:34,920
Speaker 2: Testothesis, yeah then you, Go, okay what's going? On you know?

770
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 1: What? Right wait a, minute what is going? On AM i?

771
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 1: Right she's not in her. Curtains you've got your cottins. On?

772
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 2: Baby can anyone help me rationalize the situation and tell

773
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 2: me If i'm. OVERREACTING i have absolutely nothing else to

774
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 2: go off other than some lace. Underwear but this is

775
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 2: driving me, insane and there's an.

776
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: Update you just gotta.

777
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 3: WAIT i think unless she was very, silly why would

778
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 3: you put but two lingerie sets out in the? Open

779
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 3: it does, like, oh he didn't. Snoop you just saw.

780
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 3: Them they were on, top they were out in the.

781
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: Open she wasn't trying to hide. Them she they were right,

782
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 1: there like she, LIKE i.

783
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 3: Think she was like, ooh la, la take a look

784
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 3: at my. Suitcase, oh you have to go check for

785
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 3: your computer. Upstairs maybe you'll see what your what you

786
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 3: got in store for the.

787
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: Weekend he's like, No she's like why didn't you put it?

788
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 1: On that was for? You those were for.

789
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 3: You he's, like but, babe you KNOW i only wear My.

790
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 2: COTTONS i only Wear. Cottons that we got to get

791
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 2: a sponsorship for.

792
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:38,879
Speaker 3: That For cottons, whatever cotton, underwear cotton, underwear spot only

793
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 3: ever Wear.

794
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 1: Cottons you know they say Cotton. Clinton they called me

795
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,760
Speaker 1: down south In. Arkansas it's a bold, strategy.

796
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 2: Cotton oh, okay we got an update and just ask

797
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 2: her to be like send.

798
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: Pics it seems my previous post was deleted by mods

799
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: for some.

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00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 2: Reason BUT i know a lot of people wanted an,

801
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 2: updates SO i THOUGHT i would share one with.

802
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: You my, Wife i've.

803
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 2: Returned from her work trip around lunchtime. TODAY i worked from,

804
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 2: home so was there to.

805
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,320
Speaker 1: Greet, her and she seemed in normal.

806
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 2: Spirits she greeted me with a, kiss sent her present

807
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 2: to issue went, well and asked.

808
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 1: IF i wanted to grab lunch.

809
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 2: Somewhere couldn't take not knowing any, longer SO i straight

810
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 2: up asked her why she took lingerie with her on

811
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:18,919
Speaker 2: her work.

812
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,479
Speaker 1: Trip you looked. Confused she looked Like emma Stone let's.

813
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 3: Day, yes WHAT i?

814
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 2: MEANT i told her That i'd noticed the lingerie in

815
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,240
Speaker 2: her suitcase before she, left and as it wasn't Something

816
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,959
Speaker 2: i'd seen before and nothing like what she'd usually, wear

817
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 2: it made no sense to. Me he asked IF i

818
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 2: was implying whether she was having an affair based on

819
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 2: sets of, underwear.

820
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 1: AND i straight up told HER i.

821
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 3: Was she SAID i was.

822
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 2: Crazy and that she'd simply bought new underwear for herself

823
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 2: and that's what she decided to take traveling. AGAIN i

824
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 2: queried why she would buy lingerie for herself when she

825
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,400
Speaker 2: usually just wears Her, cottons and she just emphasized THAT

826
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 2: i was crazy and it was just what was available

827
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 2: in the.

828
00:36:55,680 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 3: Store, no, no what? Story are you going to the lingerie's?

829
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:01,320
Speaker 1: Store?

830
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 3: No uh, uh it's not just what you go to that.

831
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 3: Store you go to a specific store to get that

832
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 3: type of.

833
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 1: Stuff they don't make my cottons. Anymore they, changed they.

834
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 3: Pivoted, Yeah she's, LIKE i went to the, store there

835
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 3: was No cottons.

836
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 1: There what was a girl supposed to?

837
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 3: Do lingerie is the next?

838
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 1: Step they changed From cottons to.

839
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 3: Laces you Think i'm just gonna go in between and

840
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 3: do FREAKIN' i don't.

841
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: Know Not Cotton's, Yes, polyesta thank.

842
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 2: YOU i couldn't remember the Word, Polliesta Princess. Ross she

843
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:34,279
Speaker 2: offered me her phone IF i wanted to look through.

844
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 2: It we have an open phone, policy But i've never

845
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 2: had to rely on, it SO i took her up

846
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 2: on the. OFFER i couldn't find any messages or photos

847
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 2: upon having a, scroll But i'm also aware that she

848
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 2: works in tech and her way of hiding anything could

849
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 2: be beyond my. CAPABILITIES i said it still didn't add,

850
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 2: up but again she just responded that she couldn't BELIEVE

851
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 2: i thought she was cheating based on her packing a.

852
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 2: Thong she said she didn't want to continue this conversation

853
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 2: and expected her husband to be welcoming after she had

854
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:00,880
Speaker 2: just returned from a, trip not to face an.

855
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: Interrogation that's the.

856
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 3: Thing though it wasn't a, thong it was a matching.

857
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 3: Set if that's, different Storm getting, SAYS i have a

858
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:11,880
Speaker 3: feeling she's not doing a photo show photoshoot for.

859
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 2: HIM i have a feeling that she did do a

860
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 2: photo shoot and now she's just really trying to.

861
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 3: Surprise it's like that was for your.

862
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 1: BIRTHDAY i don't. KNOW i would just like JUST i

863
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: would rather be spoiled Than, yeah when. CRAZY i don't,

864
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: know this is making her less.

865
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,800
Speaker 2: TRUSTWORTHY i THINK i would just forget about, this, honestly

866
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 2: because it's like it's LIKE i.

867
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 1: WOULD i could believe, it But i'd be, like, no

868
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:47,919
Speaker 1: man'll put those. On, yeah, yeah put it. On MAYBE

869
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: i believe. IT i don't. KNOW i need, PROOF i

870
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 1: need visual.

871
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 2: Proof, yeah she left and went to get food, herself

872
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 2: While i've still been stuck. HERE i want to believe,

873
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 2: her and she seemed confident in what she was.

874
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: Saying it was eye.

875
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 2: Contact you seem, surprised and there was no suggestion that

876
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 2: she was hiding. Something but then, AGAIN i know my,

877
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 2: wife and she knows how to be. Confident, well something

878
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 2: still doesn't add, up even IF i desperately want to

879
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:13,839
Speaker 2: give her the benefit of the. Doubt i've looked through her,

880
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,479
Speaker 2: phone found nothing, there and don't want to follow, her

881
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 2: BUT i FEEL i have no choice IF i don't

882
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 2: want to drive myself into a mental.

883
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: Breakdown any advice would be. Appreciated there's another.

884
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 3: UPDATE i MEAN i don't think you should follow.

885
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 1: HER i, mean just, again LIKE i saw, it like

886
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 1: you had you blatantly put it. There, yeah but you

887
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: weren't hiding. IT i know you weren't hiding, it.

888
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 2: But that makes it even less suspicious, then because it's

889
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 2: like you weren't even hiding.

890
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 3: It you weren't hiding.

891
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: IT i did see, it was right.

892
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 3: THERE i THINK i would go to and, say, HEY

893
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:49,840
Speaker 3: i want to trust. You you have besides this, moment

894
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 3: have given me no other reason not. To, yeah BUT

895
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 3: i am having these. DOUBTS i don't want to put

896
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 3: that on, you but if you could help me feel more,

897
00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 3: comfortable if there is any way that we, can you, know.

898
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 1: It's also just weird the way she answered it was really.

899
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 2: BABY i, know but you're a cotton girl and well

900
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 2: you weren't wearing your cottons this, weekend and it makes me.

901
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 1: Confused you can see HOW i could.

902
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 3: Get, Confused like it's just the. Answer if she had,

903
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 3: said if she had, said, OH i did it BECAUSE

904
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 3: i wanted to feel, confident OR i did it BECAUSE

905
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:27,879
Speaker 3: i wanted to do a photo shoot for, you or

906
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 3: LIKE i don't. Know, honestly those are the two most

907
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 3: likely THAT i would excuse. Away but she just, said,

908
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 3: oh that's all they.

909
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 1: Had, yeah it's never really all they, have, Right.

910
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 3: It's barely what they. Have they don't even have. That

911
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 3: it's so hard to get.

912
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:43,959
Speaker 1: THAT i don't really have, That, like what are you talking? About?

913
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 2: Girl, okay of day number, two my wife returned at

914
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 2: around nine pm that night AFTER i effectively accused her

915
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 2: of cheating having read your.

916
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: Comments the first THING i did was.

917
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 2: APOLOGIZE i SAID i had no reason to doubt her

918
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 2: and always loved, her and apologized for acting so nationally

919
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 2: and jumping to allegations of cheating based solely on new.

920
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 1: Underwear that's what she, said though it's not what you. Said,

921
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: yeah she, said are you accusing me of? Cheating and

922
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 1: you went, yeah BUT i don't even think that's what you're.

923
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 2: Doing, no you're just, LIKE i just want an explanation

924
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 2: for this inexplicable thing that you.

925
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 3: Did, yeah and she gave you a bad.

926
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:22,919
Speaker 2: Explanation she responded that she accepted my, apology that she loved,

927
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 2: me and that there wasn't anyone else in the world

928
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 2: she would want to be with.

929
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 3: More, Dude she never said. Anything IF i were, her

930
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 3: IF i were in the position where my partner, said,

931
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 3: HEY i saw this weird thing makes me a little.

932
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:35,800
Speaker 3: UNCOMFORTABLE i feel like you know there's kind of something.

933
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 3: SUSPICIOUS i would be, like oh my, god well, One

934
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 3: i'm a little hurt about your, accusation but how DO

935
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 3: i prove my? Innocence?

936
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

937
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 3: WEIRD i think op is right on the.

938
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 2: Money give me that photo. Shoot, however the next day

939
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 2: something seemed. OFF i couldn't put my finger on. It

940
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,840
Speaker 2: but my wife was distant and. Uncommunicative, oh there it,

941
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 2: is you put your finger on. It WHEN i asked

942
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 2: her if everything was all, right she just dismissed his

943
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 2: work stress and that she was tired after the.

944
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 1: Trip this is. Common.

945
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 2: Fight didn't question it any, further AND i tried to

946
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 2: show extra affection as a means of making.

947
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 1: Up for my.

948
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 2: Behavior why so tired from all that lingerie In she

949
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 2: was longingerieing around.

950
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 3: On the chase, lounge pramping around in your. Cottons they

951
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 3: weren't even.

952
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: Cotton they was. Silk i'm calling. Underwear that. Foreverything by the,

953
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 1: Way OH i need to.

954
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 2: Cottons she was still like this before she left for

955
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,879
Speaker 2: work On, friday and As i've known her for six,

956
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 2: Years i'm aware when something is bothering. Her there was

957
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 2: no difference when she came back from work and she

958
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 2: seemed distracted and, distant and she came into the bedroom

959
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 2: later that night she'd clearly been crying and told me

960
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 2: she couldn't take it anymore and had something to.

961
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 1: Share, oh this feels like it's not gonna be. GOOD

962
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 1: i think she cheated on. You it better be her

963
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 1: in the. Lingerie. Yeah she said. That across the past few,

964
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:04,879
Speaker 1: months she had formed a very strong connection with a, photographer, photographer, photographer.

965
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 3: Work colleagueographer writing and you were right on the, money

966
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 3: and she tried to make you feel. Raizy brush your freaking?

967
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 1: Gut was it really a work?

968
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 3: Thing no one ever brings a matching set without a.

969
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 1: Reason for two, days for matching sets to two? Days

970
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 1: did she really have a work? Thing did she really

971
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: have a WORK i was, thinking, well it seems like

972
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: she did because work colleague was. There, sure, right, ROW

973
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:35,800
Speaker 1: i guess appointment is.

974
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 2: Immeasurable, yeah and my day is ruined and your, cottons

975
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 2: my cottons are.

976
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 1: Soiled, Ohoo i'm. Distressed.

977
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 2: Okay at first she thought he was just, friendly but

978
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,240
Speaker 2: the more they worked and spent time, together she'd started

979
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:54,359
Speaker 2: to become confused about her feelings towards. Him told me

980
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 2: That he makes her feel positive about, herself which she

981
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 2: often needs when dealing with the stress at.

982
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: Work Clost are they got.

983
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 2: The more she thought something might happen between, them which

984
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 2: is why she packed the lingerie before the trip in

985
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 2: case it.

986
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 1: Did oh the.

987
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 2: Premeditation, okay, well first of, all that's a, lie is

988
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 2: WHAT i would.

989
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,240
Speaker 1: Say, yeah that is a big whopping.

990
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,240
Speaker 2: LIE i don't trust that she's trying to trickle.

991
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 3: Truth you yeah, Saying, OH i didn't, cheat BUT i

992
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:23,720
Speaker 3: was thinking about.

993
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:23,879
Speaker 2: It.

994
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: Girl you packed on two separate. Sets, yeah you don't need,

995
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 1: to so.

996
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 3: True you don't need two sets for premeditated.

997
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 2: Cheating you gave him one for each day that Wasn't.

998
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: What are you talking? About? Bad mmmm mmm.

999
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 2: Yeah at this, Point i'm, like it's. Over i'm, Sorry,

1000
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 2: yeah it's.

1001
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 1: Over you don't even don't even keep. Talking oh, Okay,

1002
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 1: well if you wanted to just like try, it go

1003
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: ahead and just do, it because we're. Done do you

1004
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:51,879
Speaker 1: know what's crazy is.

1005
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,400
Speaker 2: That this stuff does, happen and what you're supposed to

1006
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 2: do is go to your partner and have the really,

1007
00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 2: hard uncomfortable conversation of, LIKE I i Think i'm developing

1008
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 2: feelings for a, coworker and it's scaring. ME i don't

1009
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,879
Speaker 2: know what is, happening BUT i don't think that means we're.

1010
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:11,800
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, like clearly we need to have a conversation about,

1011
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 3: something and MAYBE i need to adjust my working hours

1012
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 3: or my time spent with that person.

1013
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: Or just my. Job yeah.

1014
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 2: Mm she then said that when they were spending the

1015
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 2: night together at an evening drinks event to celebrate the

1016
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,360
Speaker 2: success of the work, presentation they ended up sharing a

1017
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:30,760
Speaker 2: drunken kid at this.

1018
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 1: Point don't need to hear anything. Else you wanted to do,

1019
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 1: it you probably did do? It was it? Already did? It?

1020
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 2: Yeah before this you got? Two, yeah you already lied

1021
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 2: straight to my, face.

1022
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 3: LIKE i don't believe anything you.

1023
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 1: Say you got? Two you, Lie.

1024
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 3: And she lied. Confidently she lied.

1025
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 2: Confidently she lied good enough to make you be, LIKE

1026
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 2: i don't, know sue my shirt telling them.

1027
00:45:56,719 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: TRUTH i, go, hey it's key on you with the cakes.

1028
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: Here we're going to get back to the. Stories but

1029
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 1: here's three minutes of ads from our. Sponsors they went

1030
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,439
Speaker 1: to his hotel, room but before anything could go any,

1031
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: further my wife said she came to her senses and

1032
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 1: felt an immense sense of. Guilt check the. Lingerie, yeah

1033
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 1: oh is it?

1034
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:20,760
Speaker 3: WRINKLED i was gonna ask smell, it not smell.

1035
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 1: It see if it's, wrinkled smell. It is it? Crusty

1036
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 1: e her? Cottons? Rut it's. Rude you're cotton well.

1037
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 3: A man who ruined your? Cottons?

1038
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 1: Cottons from the? Man my?

1039
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 3: Boy does do they need to go in the wash or?

1040
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 1: Not do you need to do? Laundry, yeah that's the first.

1041
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 3: Thing you, asked continue to do the?

1042
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 1: Laundry m? Hm did you do?

1043
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 2: Laundry in her, words she realized that the only person

1044
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 2: she wanted to be with was, me and she knew

1045
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 2: that she didn't want to wreck our future in the

1046
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 2: possibility of starting family together to, wait which is.

1047
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 1: Why she came. Home and the first thing she did

1048
00:46:58,400 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: was confess about what.

1049
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,360
Speaker 2: Happened oh, Wait, no the first thing she did was

1050
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 2: lie right to your face about the whole thing and

1051
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 2: make you feel like you're.

1052
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: Crazy, yeah you said you're crazy because of how guilty

1053
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: she felt. Crazy that's why she did, that because she

1054
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 1: felt so. Guilty oh, yeah.

1055
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:16,200
Speaker 2: Yea she told him she was leaving and kept her

1056
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 2: distance for the remainder of the trip, liar.

1057
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:19,800
Speaker 1: And then she got a gold.

1058
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 3: Star oh were her pants on fire?

1059
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:25,839
Speaker 2: Too, yeah just Her, lingerisa they were cottons and they

1060
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 2: went a light like nobody's. Business when she got back

1061
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 2: AND i questioned, her she panicked and didn't want to

1062
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:33,720
Speaker 2: admit to anything because it hadn't gone.

1063
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:35,399
Speaker 1: Too far and she didn't want to lose me over

1064
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 1: a stupid. Kiss oh, no, no, everyone that's. Fine every

1065
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 1: relationship gets a stupid.

1066
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 2: Kiss, yeah every relationship gets a hold on to a

1067
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 2: lie for the rest of my life and never tell

1068
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 2: you because it would just ruin. Everything, Right she a, Liar,

1069
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 2: however she now felt she needed to be utterly transparent

1070
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:54,959
Speaker 2: about it because the guilt was eating her.

1071
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 1: Up because you caught, her not because it was eating at.

1072
00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 2: Her she felt like she had to tell you because

1073
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 2: she was now. Uncomfortable not, you, though but the guilt

1074
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 2: was negatively impacting, her so she had to let it.

1075
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 3: Out and she's, LIKE i felt so bad THAT i

1076
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 3: couldn't keep it. In really has nothing to do with.

1077
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:15,320
Speaker 2: You, Yeah it honestly took me a good minute or

1078
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 2: two to. RESPOND i just felt.

1079
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,719
Speaker 1: Numb lincoln part thank.

1080
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 2: YOU i asked her to swear that nothing else had,

1081
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 2: happened which she, did and that's worth exactly. NOTHING i

1082
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 2: asked to look at her phone, again and she told

1083
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 2: me that any conversations were on work software On. TELEGRAM

1084
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 2: i didn't look at or wasn't on her phone. PREVIOUSLY

1085
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 2: i read the, conversations which went from a mixture of

1086
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:37,400
Speaker 2: work chat to the occasional.

1087
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 1: FLIRTING i felt.

1088
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 2: Sick, yeah, yeah it's over, Over it's like way, over it's.

1089
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:48,360
Speaker 2: Jover it's LIKE i already called the. Lawyer the papers

1090
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 2: are being, drafted type, over the papers are in your.

1091
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 1: Suitcase are we doing fifty to fifty? Here custody on

1092
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 1: the lingeriss m, h well you just split it right. Down,

1093
00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 1: YEAH i. Go when you get, ONE i get the red.

1094
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 2: One WHEN i say d you say vorce d hoorce.

1095
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:09,280
Speaker 1: Dorse WHEN i say, horse you say, man horse, man horse.

1096
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,800
Speaker 1: Man that would be wouldn't be scary divorce.

1097
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 3: Horseman the plot Of BoJack.

1098
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 1: Horns Sequel Divorce. Horseman the plot Of BoJack horses is

1099
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: that also in relation To Hugh, Jackman Hugh.

1100
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 2: Grant we're, putting we've got the red. Lines they're all coming,

1101
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 2: together they're all coming together.

1102
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: Form it's forming a set of, lingerie this, scoundrel with

1103
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 1: all the power within. You divorce by the power Of Gray.

1104
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 1: Skull that's the name of my. Attorney i'm using to divorce,

1105
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 1: You gray Scull.

1106
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 2: ESQUIRE i told my wife she needed to, leave AND

1107
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 2: i got my head. Straight she begged me to listen

1108
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 2: to her and give her a, chance and all that

1109
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 2: bowl about How i'm the only one for her and

1110
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 2: it would never ever and she would never ever do

1111
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 2: anything to hurt me. Again YET i put my foot

1112
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 2: down and after half an hour or so of, crying

1113
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 2: she left to stay with her. Sister sat here on

1114
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 2: my own since last night and have just. CRIED i

1115
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 2: really really love my, wife really really AND i want

1116
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 2: to forgive, her but it's so.

1117
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: Hard don't. Forget, no, no don't do. That, hey wake.

1118
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,239
Speaker 3: Up, no here's a nice.

1119
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: Back don't do. It hurt only TIME i forgive. This

1120
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 1: she comes. Home first thing out of her mouth when

1121
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 1: she comes through the. DOOR i gotta talk to.

1122
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 3: YOU i almost did this. THING i did DO a

1123
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 3: thing had.

1124
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 2: To be the first thing out of her, mouth and

1125
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 2: she had to tell me it. Immediately, yeah the fact

1126
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:40,319
Speaker 2: that she bought the underwear and it appears premeditated rather

1127
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:42,359
Speaker 2: than a spur of the. Moment thing makes it hurt even.

1128
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 2: More it appears that way because it is that. Way

1129
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:48,959
Speaker 2: my wife has texted me a few, times BUT i haven't.

1130
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,399
Speaker 2: RESPONDED i have no idea What i'm going to do,

1131
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 2: divorce and don't know If i'll update this, Again but

1132
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:57,280
Speaker 2: thank you for all your thoughts and responses on the previous.

1133
00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:58,879
Speaker 2: Posts that is the end of that.

1134
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 3: Story oh, man well, man oh, man oh.

1135
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 2: Man ye do divorce by the power of, grace.

1136
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:12,920
Speaker 3: Call by The city Of Los. Angeles.

1137
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:17,360
Speaker 2: DIVORCE i, mean, like you, know it's it's truly, like,

1138
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 2: uh you know a lot of, PEOPLE i mean read

1139
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 2: a bunch of stories where it's, like, yeah of course

1140
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 2: you should leave that person they cheat on. You but

1141
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 2: it's like there are situations where it's, LIKE i don't,

1142
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 2: know there can be ways, back but it's so, delicate

1143
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 2: and she immediately blew it by coming back, home lying

1144
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:33,919
Speaker 2: and actually trying to make you the bad.

1145
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,839
Speaker 3: Guy, yeah like saying you're, crazy you're asking to any.

1146
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:38,239
Speaker 1: Questions, yeah to the.

1147
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 3: Point where you apologize to.

1148
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:43,840
Speaker 2: Her, yeah it was uh, yeah that would be that

1149
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 2: would seal the deal for. Me, oh SO i can

1150
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 2: literally never trust a word out of your mouth ever. Again,

1151
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 2: yeah because she lied so effectively straight to my face

1152
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 2: after doing the thing you, said riddled you so deeply

1153
00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 2: with guilt that you couldn't help but.

1154
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,839
Speaker 3: Confess, Yeah, NO i would never trust her.

1155
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: Again it's.

1156
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 2: Over hope you like that guy, though hope you like

1157
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 2: that guy with your lingerie. Yours, yep but that actually

1158
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:13,799
Speaker 2: is the end of that, story in the end of this.

1159
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 1: Episode, no it's not. Not. NO i thought we had, Enough,

1160
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:18,359
Speaker 1: okay we got one.

1161
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 3: MORE i told my HUSBAND i want to go back to.

1162
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:24,879
Speaker 3: Work he patted about it would make his. Breakfast i'm.

1163
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 1: Sorry i'm just a poor widow. MAN i don't know

1164
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:27,759
Speaker 1: how to scramble an.

1165
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,360
Speaker 3: Egg i'm a standtle mom to a two and a

1166
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 3: half year. Old my husband works full time for ten

1167
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 3: hour shifts with three days.

1168
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 2: Off that's a that's that's what they. Do that a

1169
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:39,399
Speaker 2: lot of, places, Actually.

1170
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:42,360
Speaker 3: Yeah four ten hour, shifts three days.

1171
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:45,760
Speaker 1: Off, yeah it's forty. Hours, yeah that's not that. Crazy

1172
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: it was full.

1173
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 3: Time, yeah it's full.

1174
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 1: Time BUT i feel like he's gonna be, LIKE i

1175
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 1: work so.

1176
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 2: Much you work the exact amount everyone is expected to.

1177
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 3: WORK i was working full time until the beginning of my,

1178
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 3: pregnancy and then my husband said he'd like for me

1179
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:03,359
Speaker 3: to stay. HOME i was admittedly apprehensive at. FIRST i

1180
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,719
Speaker 3: liked working AND i didn't want to be totally financially

1181
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:08,719
Speaker 3: dependent on, him but he was very insistent about, it

1182
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:11,319
Speaker 3: to the point of being. OFFENDED i wouldn't let him

1183
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 3: take care of, me And i'm immediately red flags going.

1184
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:18,319
Speaker 2: Off uh, yes, yes and NOW i know you were

1185
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:19,920
Speaker 2: talking about system of it down fan.

1186
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 3: Campinator SO i accepted and have been jobless for all this.

1187
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 3: Time by the, way this comes From Marion Very future

1188
00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 3: one oh. Three and if you want to smit your own,

1189
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:31,240
Speaker 3: stories go the r. Slash, okay storytime supped.

1190
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 1: It I'm, Sophia i'm The, Cooda I'm, keon.

1191
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 3: And we're here to give good.

1192
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 1: Advice.

1193
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 3: Goofly but we don't have any. Answers we only know

1194
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 3: some small pieces of. Information let us know if you

1195
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,320
Speaker 3: have anything to, share comments.

1196
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 2: LIKE i know you didn't eat breakfast, today don't ever

1197
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 2: ever catch you not eating breakfast.

1198
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: Again.

1199
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:53,359
Speaker 3: Eat my husband has always been made well aware by

1200
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 3: me that this is not. Forever i've been happy to

1201
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 3: keep our son out of take care WHILE i, Can

1202
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 3: but when the time, Comes i'm very excited to retire

1203
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,759
Speaker 3: from this stay at home mom. Position some people love

1204
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:06,879
Speaker 3: being a stay at home. PARENT i am not one

1205
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 3: of those.

1206
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: People oh, lordy, lady you got fifteen and a half years.

1207
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 3: LEFT i don't understand. WHY i, MEAN i do understand

1208
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 3: in this. Situation but if you don't want to be

1209
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 3: a stay at home, parent do not let your partner.

1210
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 1: Say you should be. One, no you should be.

1211
00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:23,520
Speaker 3: One oh you're not gonna let me take care of.

1212
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:24,759
Speaker 3: YOU i don't want you.

1213
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 1: To this guy just doesn't know how to scramble his own.

1214
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 3: Eggs, WELL i am so grateful that my husband made

1215
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:33,399
Speaker 3: enough for us to stay. Afloat the truth, is we

1216
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 3: live paycheck to. Paycheck it's very. Tight being a two

1217
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 3: income household would reduce so much stress on both of.

1218
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 3: Us we could have so much fun money, again and

1219
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 3: we want to buy a.

1220
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:45,880
Speaker 1: House this is so crazy to.

1221
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:48,840
Speaker 3: Me my husband is constantly talking about how stressful and

1222
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:52,320
Speaker 3: miserable it is being the sole, income almost every single

1223
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 3: day for. Years, genuinely IF i ever heard him say that,

1224
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 3: ONCE i would, say, well Then i'm going back to.

1225
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 1: Work, Yeah i'm go in job.

1226
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:04,959
Speaker 3: Today, additionally my son has multiple developmental delays and would

1227
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:08,319
Speaker 3: benefit greatly from. Preschool everybody wins IF i go back to.

1228
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:10,920
Speaker 3: Work it feels like it's, time then let's.

1229
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: Go you don't need his.

1230
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,760
Speaker 3: Permission last SUMMER i talked to my husband about potentially

1231
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 3: enrolling our son in.

1232
00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 1: A free preschool offered near.

1233
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 3: US i got him on the wait, list thinking it

1234
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 3: would take a long, time but because of its delays

1235
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 3: and our, income he got accepted. FAST a few days

1236
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:29,399
Speaker 3: before his start, date my husband sat me, down very,

1237
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:32,359
Speaker 3: upset SAYING i had never consulted how he felt about

1238
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,799
Speaker 3: our son starting preschool and my returning to, work and

1239
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:39,399
Speaker 3: he wasn't ready to lose us. Yet what are you talking, about?

1240
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:42,840
Speaker 1: DUDE i can't lose, you, guys, genuinely what are you talking.

1241
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:45,880
Speaker 2: About i'm, Right i'm gonna be right. Here i'm losing.

1242
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 1: You no one's losing.

1243
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 3: ANYONE i felt guilty because it's. TRUE i hadn't really

1244
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 3: asked him about how he felt about the, preschool SO

1245
00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 3: i canceled.

1246
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:58,320
Speaker 2: It, no we mean it's true your kids developmental.

1247
00:55:58,320 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 1: Delays he needs to be around other.

1248
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 3: Kids your kid is development to the lace you got free,

1249
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 3: preschool and you, said, NO i don't like. Anyone about

1250
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 3: a month, ago my husband playfully, SAID i don't want

1251
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 3: you to go back to.

1252
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 1: WORK i like having you here WHILE i take care of.

1253
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 3: You it makes me feel.

1254
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:17,600
Speaker 1: Good i'm gonna throw a ball at his. HEAD i

1255
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:19,040
Speaker 1: throw it.

1256
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 3: Make you feel, bad to WHICH i, REPLIED i was

1257
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:23,839
Speaker 3: thankful for all he's, done BUT i want to take

1258
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:26,359
Speaker 3: care of us. Too he got pouty and, said none

1259
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:29,320
Speaker 3: of that is as important as taking care of. Me shut.

1260
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 2: Up do you mean if that's so important to, you

1261
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:33,759
Speaker 2: then would it makes sense that it's important to me.

1262
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 1: Too, no because it's more important than. Him dune major.

1263
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:41,320
Speaker 3: Difference YESTERDAY i tried to talk to him about potentially

1264
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,319
Speaker 3: going to school SO i can have a big girl job.

1265
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:45,920
Speaker 1: Someday he's you're an. Adult what do you guys to?

1266
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 1: Work is? This what is this?

1267
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 3: Relationship Anytime i've tried to bring this, up he doesn't really,

1268
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:54,440
Speaker 3: engage Or i'll just make negative comments about, INDUSTRIES i.

1269
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 3: Suggest my attempt at this conversation went. Nowhere later that,

1270
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 3: night he, said WHEN i go back to, WORK i

1271
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 3: need to compromise with. Him he, SAID i, NEED i

1272
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 3: need to try to work the exact days and hours

1273
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 3: he does so that he doesn't miss any time with.

1274
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:11,879
Speaker 3: Me he works a blue collar, job late, evenings four

1275
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 3: days a, week AND i want to work more of

1276
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 3: a traditional nine to five. Situation he started pouting and

1277
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 3: SAYING i was hurting his.

1278
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:22,479
Speaker 1: Pouting why are you a baby you? Have, yeah he's

1279
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 1: acting more of a baby than your actual, baby.

1280
00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 3: And he WISHES i would consider him in this. Situation shut,

1281
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 3: UP i spank. HIM i don't like. THIS i don't

1282
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 3: like your. HUSBAND i want him to go away. Forever, Opie, Snap,

1283
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 3: snap wake? Up, Truly Like opie's gonna see. This there's

1284
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 3: gonna be a point Where opie, Realizes, Oh i'm being.

1285
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 3: Manipulated oh this is not. Healthy and she's gonna look

1286
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 3: back on this and be, like why DID i let?

1287
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 2: Him?

1288
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: Yeah why DID i let? Him like tell me to

1289
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: cancel preschool for our child and also not go to.

1290
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,360
Speaker 1: School you, went CAN i go back to school for

1291
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 1: a big? Gold and he's, like, NO i like you

1292
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: dumb and.

1293
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:04,280
Speaker 2: Plyable, yeah and you feel like you, dumb liliable and

1294
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 2: financially dependent on.

1295
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:07,280
Speaker 3: Me you're gonna realize, this.

1296
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 1: You, KNOW opi he's doing a. Thing you know what it.

1297
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:16,480
Speaker 1: Is i'll give you three. Seconds one. Two he's controlling.

1298
00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 3: YOU i told HIM i still make a priority to

1299
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:24,960
Speaker 3: see him and have much as much time together as we.

1300
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 3: Can but of course the reality is we're most likely

1301
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 3: going to have less time.

1302
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 1: Together you can't really be.

1303
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 3: Helped it's just a normal part of. Life he sulked

1304
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 3: the rest of the night and told, me you don't

1305
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 3: want to talk about it. Anymore he, SAID i was,

1306
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 3: cold And conn is setting for saying it's just a

1307
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 3: normal part of. Life you are, cold And conn is

1308
00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 3: setting for help for telling him how jobs?

1309
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 2: Work what Is where does he work for forty hours a?

1310
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,240
Speaker 1: Week is he the glose nipping?

1311
00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 3: Factory?

1312
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 1: Like what is? This i'm telling, him, like you know,

1313
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 1: What i'm gonna take the toddler, out, uh and you know,

1314
00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 1: what you go hang out in the crib because where

1315
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 1: the baby. Sleeps he works for forty hours a. Week

1316
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 1: he's the taste tester For elmer's. Glues it's really.

1317
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 3: Glue just tastes like. GLUE i cannot think of how

1318
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 3: ELSE i could have expressed this. Sentiment AM i the

1319
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:17,720
Speaker 3: ale for HOW i responded to? Him what he's saying

1320
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 3: IS i would need to find a job only on

1321
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 3: the days he, works never his days, off and it

1322
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 3: can't be too early BECAUSE i have to help him

1323
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 3: get ready for work in the.

1324
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:25,840
Speaker 1: Morning he was.

1325
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:27,920
Speaker 3: Literally, like would you make my coffee and lunch and

1326
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:28,919
Speaker 3: you make me breakfast every?

1327
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 1: Day i'll be so sad about.

1328
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 3: It, oh there it, is it's all of. It he

1329
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 3: also told me he's Afraid i'll meet SOMEONE i like

1330
00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 3: more than. HIM i sure have tech.

1331
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:42,480
Speaker 2: Hope so that's that's the, thing that's the, True the

1332
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 2: nugget of truth at the center of all of this

1333
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:46,800
Speaker 2: is he's, like you need to be exactly WHERE i,

1334
00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 2: am and you can't be anywhere, else.

1335
00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 1: And you if you blah blah blah blah.

1336
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 2: Blah he's just he thinks you're gonna leave. Him wich

1337
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 2: is why he's trying to make you as dependent on

1338
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 2: him as.

1339
00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 3: POSSIBLE i told him he needs to have more faith

1340
00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 3: in me and. Us he should have less faith because

1341
00:59:58,240 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 3: you guys are headed towards.

1342
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:01,440
Speaker 1: DEVORCE i. HOPE i don't.

1343
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 3: KNOW i think of the CHILD i. HATE i am

1344
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 3: thinking of the.

1345
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 1: Story he's a good.

1346
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 2: Dad he sounds like he's a good. Dad he would

1347
01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 2: get along with babies very.

1348
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:16,080
Speaker 1: Easily, yeah keeps his child out of. Preschool free. Preschool great,

1349
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 1: dad such a good, Dad great Dad.

1350
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 3: Award my advice is leave this relationship, op and you're

1351
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:23,640
Speaker 3: gonna figure that out.

1352
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: Soon. YEAH i pulled up you will get. THERE i

1353
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 1: pulled up the comments on that. One just look it.

1354
01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:35,440
Speaker 1: Up top comment From, Guinness jenny ninety, says oh my,

1355
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 1: gosh your husband is more immature than your.

1356
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 2: Toddler, yeah who's gonna make my breakfast in your?

1357
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 1: Morning and then someone replies, saying, no he loves his

1358
01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 1: child and knows what is. Best being home is always

1359
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: superior to. Daycare, Correct and that one got down though

1360
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:56,680
Speaker 1: at all.

1361
01:00:56,800 --> 01:01:01,240
Speaker 2: Correct Be keeping your developmentally delayed child wild isolated at

1362
01:01:01,240 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 2: home is better than putting them in daycare where they

1363
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 2: can interact with other.

1364
01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 1: Children insane thought right.

1365
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 3: There that's so insane to.

1366
01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 1: Me hmmm. Wow some people are THAT i have no.

1367
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 2: Words she's petting her bangs like a.

1368
01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 1: CAT i have no, words.

1369
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 3: Yan, yan that's what it makes me, feel, like where's your?

1370
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:25,920
Speaker 1: Goldfish? Oh you took it, away.

1371
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 3: But we gotta win one more.

1372
01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 1: Story but you know what the?

1373
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:34,600
Speaker 3: Goldfish what You but that's the end of this, episode

1374
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 3: so if you love, us make sure to. Subscribe We

1375
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:40,040
Speaker 3: love you And Seeing tomorrow