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Speaker 1: All right, this is Kiss FM. So we are in

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift Midnight's month, the month of October. She spoke

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Speaker 1: about one of the tracks and Tany has more in

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Speaker 1: the Trending Report, and then it's Ryan's Roses. Taylor Swift

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Speaker 1: is just brilliant, like just incredibly talented, so many facets

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Speaker 1: and clever and so clever, Like she made the four like,

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Speaker 1: there's gonna be four vinyls of this this album Midnights,

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Speaker 1: and if you buy all four, they make a clock,

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Speaker 1: like an actual clock that you can put on your wall.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, what a genius way to sell all

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Speaker 1: four vinyls because you know fans are going to buy

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Speaker 1: the clock. Yeah, it's so clever. It's so clever. So anyways,

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Speaker 1: she's been explaining a little bit about some of the

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Speaker 1: songs off of this album, and this one song in

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Speaker 1: particular really struck a chord with people, and it's called

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Speaker 1: anti Hero and it's inspired by all of Taylor's insecurities

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Speaker 1: and feelings of self hatred and it's one of Taylor's

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Speaker 1: favorite songs that she's ever written. And she said, this

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Speaker 1: song is a real guided tour throughout all the things

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Speaker 1: that I tend to hate about myself. So she kind

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Speaker 1: of went into things that, um, you know her, a

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Speaker 1: lot of her insecurities come from not feeling like a

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Speaker 1: real person, and she kind of did this thing where

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Speaker 1: she was like, you know, don't boo who me. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's not poor me, but it's like that's something that

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Speaker 1: she really struggles with. And so I feel like there

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Speaker 1: are things we all hate about ourselves, and it's all

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Speaker 1: those aspects of these things that we dislike about ourselves

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Speaker 1: and you have to come to terms with and that's

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Speaker 1: what the song is about. And so I thought it

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Speaker 1: would be interesting if we took a deep dive into

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Speaker 1: our insecurities and discussing why there's so much power in

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Speaker 1: discovering these things, because I think, so what I've realized

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Speaker 1: through therapy, one of my insecurities is not feeling good enough,

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Speaker 1: like I just I'm never good enough in every aspect

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Speaker 1: of my life, professionally, personally, like everything. And when you

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Speaker 1: start to kind of peel back those like layers of

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Speaker 1: like why do you feel like that? And the things,

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Speaker 1: the actions that you take, the things that you do

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Speaker 1: in your day to day that stem from that insecurity,

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Speaker 1: you start to kind of like realize it and realize

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Speaker 1: that you can kind of just like sit back and

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Speaker 1: you don't have to be as intense. So just so

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Speaker 1: I followed the ball here, Taylor's genius has turned into

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Speaker 1: us having to reveal our deepest insecurities without going to therapy.

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Speaker 1: First to tell the therapist, right, yeah, like and then

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Speaker 1: the privacy of therapy and like you you're doing the

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Speaker 1: right thing. You're going and you're talking about and then

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Speaker 1: you're coming back with like the reasons why I think

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Speaker 1: Cissy and I are like at the beginning of the book, right,

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Speaker 1: that's all it just takes. It only takes a spark

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Speaker 1: to get a fire going. Yeah, I don't even have

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Speaker 1: that spark right now. Okay, well there's an insecurity. Look

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Speaker 1: what we've uncovered. No spark, no spark. I mean, my

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Speaker 1: list is so long. I know, it's wild. And like

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Speaker 1: the way that you act, the things that you do

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Speaker 1: all stem from those insecurities that smarter people than I

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Speaker 1: tell me that I keep so busy because I'm afraid

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Speaker 1: of whatever. How and when you slow down, what is that?

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Speaker 1: I don't know? But that's like, why why am I

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Speaker 1: afraid of marriage? I don't know why? But like I

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Speaker 1: don't do it because I keep myself so busy, and

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Speaker 1: I blame it on that right right, Like I can't,

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Speaker 1: I can't think about anything else because because I keep

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Speaker 1: adding on to everything to keep my speed going like this,

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Speaker 1: so that there's no time to think about those things

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Speaker 1: that you're thinking about in your therapy session. Yes, smarter people, den,

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Speaker 1: I don't you find that interesting though, that you just

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Speaker 1: feel your plate so that you can just kind of

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Speaker 1: keep going, going, going, going, so you don't have to

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Speaker 1: think about those things. But I have a new idea

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Speaker 1: to fill my plate with that could take me in

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Speaker 1: the right direction, called keeping up with the Crawl. Keeping

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Speaker 1: we had Javier On from l a Taco Chronicles. I

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Speaker 1: liked his idea of the Taco Crawl. I was thinking

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Speaker 1: I could do like a series called the Crawl where

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Speaker 1: you just go to different places and taste foods. Well,

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Speaker 1: this is you filling your plate with more stuff instead

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Speaker 1: of figuring out what do you think about when you

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Speaker 1: get out of bed at night, like when you lay

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Speaker 1: your head on your pillow, what time you have to

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Speaker 1: get up? And why is it gonna come so fast?

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Speaker 1: And why does everything hurt when I sleep? Things hurt

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Speaker 1: when you leave. Yeah, I mean my body hurts when

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Speaker 1: I sleep bad. Well, no now, and I'm a meniscus.

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Speaker 1: It's just, you know, intense workouts make you sore. I

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Speaker 1: guess my insecurities that I always have to be moving

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Speaker 1: on to the next thing, which is Ryan's roses, which

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Speaker 1: is next, And that's at issue. I'm security is switching

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Speaker 1: letters and words, channing tantum, channing chatum. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: fear of commitment already opened up like an honor student here, guys,

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Speaker 1: I know, honestly, I'm really impressed with you. You get

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Speaker 1: a good plus. But I do want to just take

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Speaker 1: for the transcript record, it's kind of unfair when these

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Speaker 1: things are sprung on us. Are you spring things on

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Speaker 1: us all the time? Spring spring, spring, spring spring, not

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Speaker 1: deep stuff, not like you have a whole page of

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Speaker 1: notes and things in your response from your therapist, Like,

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Speaker 1: isn't that I need a beat? Yeah, Like we can't

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Speaker 1: be that quick, that fact we need to go. But

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Speaker 1: I can't. I'm busy and I have three kids. You

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Speaker 1: gotta make time. They go on zoom. Now you can

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Speaker 1: do them on zoom, all right, Speaking of moving on

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Speaker 1: Ryan's roses, is next, which is part of why I'm

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Speaker 1: insecure about Mary