WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Yawn and She's Gone

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. Not to put any pressure on this

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, but assuming this actually goes to air, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this will be our one thousandth second date phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>No are you joking? And we've had four hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>ninety people say no, no, you sucked. No, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Nine hundred and forty said you sucking you that, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>That means you have a chance. I like those.

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<v Speaker 2>I like those.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome congratulations on being the one thousandth second dater.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, I was.

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<v Speaker 2>More fireworks, more congratulations would should I think.

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<v Speaker 4>That after a thousand of these we would have a

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<v Speaker 4>better percentage of like people saying yes.

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<v Speaker 2>No, not at all. I feel like it's getting worse

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<v Speaker 2>as the years go.

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<v Speaker 1>By, caring less and less about this. Okay, I just

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<v Speaker 1>keep getting it wrong. Well, yeah, because it's our one

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<v Speaker 1>thousandth we promised to care extra hard for you today, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about the woman that you want us

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<v Speaker 1>to call. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, her name is Amanda. And I'm hoping that this

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<v Speaker 3>results in a big one thousand for you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm hoping she's more excited about being part of

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<v Speaker 2>the one thousandths than you were.

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<v Speaker 1>Y you want to try again. You're excitement.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, all right, it is.

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<v Speaker 2>That's Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel good going into this. Tell us about how

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<v Speaker 1>you met Amanda.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we met online and all the normal stuff. Good, like,

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<v Speaker 3>she's really pretty. We chatted a lot. I was super

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<v Speaker 3>excited to go out on a date with her and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's where we ran into the first little roadblock.

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<v Speaker 3>Her schedule was really, really tight. I work as a nurse,

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<v Speaker 3>and the only day she was a veil would have

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<v Speaker 3>been right at the end of a thirty five hour shift.

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<v Speaker 1>My god, why.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that not illegal?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like it should be a pay a lot more.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, But we'll get into that on a separated Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>did you go on the date after your long shift?

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<v Speaker 3>I did?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 3>I needed Well, if it wasn't for this chance, there

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't going to be another chance.

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<v Speaker 1>And how did it go?

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't fall asleep?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, accomplished. Now, most people when they say I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't fall asleep on a date, that wouldn't be a

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<v Speaker 1>huge victory. But that's a big win. She was impressed too.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I imagine you're so tired that you're not

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<v Speaker 2>even nervous. When you're like, what'd you guys do? Go

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<v Speaker 2>to drinks?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we went for drinks. And the thing is I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't tell her that it was going to be at

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<v Speaker 3>the end of a thirty five hour shift.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't want her to worry about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was honestly thinking about it from her angle.

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<v Speaker 4>If someone said I'm at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 4>I would be like, do.

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<v Speaker 1>Not go out with me to sleep. There's no way

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go. So I can see why you got

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<v Speaker 1>to do it. Yeah, okay, So how did it go.

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<v Speaker 3>It started out great, ordered a couple of martinis, talked

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<v Speaker 3>about our lives, talked about our dogs we both have dogs,

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<v Speaker 3>were vibeman on a bunch of stuff. I mean, everything

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<v Speaker 3>was going awesome. And then she was like, Hey, I

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<v Speaker 3>need to go to the restroom real quick. I waited

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<v Speaker 3>a while and she just never came back, did you.

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<v Speaker 1>This is why I never let women go to the restroom.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, we have to wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>What will you go after we're done? You, Jeff, that's okay? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so she never came back.

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<v Speaker 3>No, well, she sort of came back cause after a

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<v Speaker 3>while and I asked the bartender. I'm like, hey, have

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<v Speaker 3>you seen this girl I was with? And he's like, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I totally sorry. She left a twenty on the bar

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<v Speaker 3>and left.

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<v Speaker 1>Confirmation due did you text her?

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be so. I mean, you probably were so tired

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<v Speaker 2>that you couldn't even muster anger.

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<v Speaker 4>But or maybe you were so tired, like the date

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<v Speaker 4>actually went through and ended and you just don't realize

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<v Speaker 4>I remember the end of this.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, we kissed and everything. What do you mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the last thing that you do remember about the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day. How did it end?

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<v Speaker 3>Her leaving me just standing there and being like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>this really just happened at the end of a thirty

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<v Speaker 3>five hour ship and then I went home and slept

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<v Speaker 3>for twelve hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, did you like call her and reader

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<v Speaker 2>the riot act? Like? Where were you? Emotionally?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm just generally not that angry of a guy,

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<v Speaker 3>because all I've been running through my head is like,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe I came across as a little more out of

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<v Speaker 3>it than I thought, maybe like something weird slipped out

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<v Speaker 3>of my mouth, But I can't imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a piece of broccoli came out of her mouth

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<v Speaker 1>like a word.

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<v Speaker 4>That makes sense, bro, Because again, if you're on a

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<v Speaker 4>date and someone's like yawning and they're exhaustedy, you make

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<v Speaker 4>me feel like you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Baring ditch though. Yeah, you have to do something bad. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>why do you I want to call her again? Why

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<v Speaker 2>would you want to see her?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I wanted to date in the first place, right,

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<v Speaker 3>So all that stuff is still kind of there. And

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<v Speaker 3>this is what she did. That is pretty harsh. But

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<v Speaker 3>listen to your guys one thousands. I don't want this

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<v Speaker 3>to be another like Ellen mc column.

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<v Speaker 2>They we're used to being in the loser bracket.

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<v Speaker 3>It's fine, don't worry. Even if she doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 3>go out again, Like, nothing like this has ever happened

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<v Speaker 3>to me before. I need to know why.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Okay, you're looking mainly for the reason even if

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't work out, But we do want to send

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<v Speaker 1>you on another date, and we're going to like really

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<v Speaker 1>press the fact that you're an amazing healthcare worker.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and she's going to feel so guilty when she

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<v Speaker 2>finds out that you would just finish a thirty five

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<v Speaker 2>hour shift and she ditched you.

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<v Speaker 1>Or do you still not want her to know that?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's not that I don't want her to know,

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<v Speaker 3>but I also don't want her to just say yes

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<v Speaker 3>to another date out of pity.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I do. I want a guilt trip her until

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<v Speaker 1>she says yes. That's the Maybe that's just the jewishness

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<v Speaker 1>in me, but it I swear it works at least.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember look, remember our record, we have nine and forty losses.

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<v Speaker 1>We need one in whatever means you're desperate, right, pity

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<v Speaker 1>date coming on our one thousand second date updates right

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<v Speaker 1>after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Second, out of all the human emotions, excitement, fear, joy,

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<v Speaker 1>none are stronger and more powerful than pity. Why do

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<v Speaker 1>you think I work with Brook?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, the only way.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm the only dummy that would work with you.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of love and respect between us, but

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<v Speaker 1>deep down at the new giddy center of this work

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<v Speaker 1>relationship is a heaping, delicious nugget of pity, of pity

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 2>You've only worked here your whole life.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very sad.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>See, look look at the bonds that are happening here,

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<v Speaker 1>the joy that's coming out of this moment. Job, let's harness,

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<v Speaker 1>let's harness the pity in the room and adding a

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<v Speaker 1>little guilt to help our listener, Chris get a second

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<v Speaker 1>date with Amanda.

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<v Speaker 2>With you, we've got the king of pity ready to

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<v Speaker 2>take it on for you, Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, Chris, because if you're just tuning in, he

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<v Speaker 1>met her after working a thirty five hour shift at

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<v Speaker 1>the hospital where he's a nurse.

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<v Speaker 3>God.

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<v Speaker 2>I love how we complain that we're tired after like

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<v Speaker 2>six hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know this guy is a sick Chris. You're

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<v Speaker 1>still awake, right, Yeah, let's get off of a long shift,

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<v Speaker 1>did you?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, today is an off day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this is the off day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, can you imagine what he's on? He

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<v Speaker 2>saves it for his patience.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, we're going to save all of your energy

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<v Speaker 1>until we call you into the conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'll try my best to be nice because right

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<v Speaker 2>now I'm not happy with her.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh. I appreciate this because I just I need to

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<v Speaker 3>know why.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get there, we'll find your why. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel very Let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that.

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<v Speaker 5>Ad.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's make the one thousandth second date phone call hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>ended on a good note. Here we go, Hello. Right

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<v Speaker 1>off the bat, the judgment I say anything. Hey, Amanda,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Amanda. Hey. You may or may not know us,

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<v Speaker 1>but we are a morning radio show. We're called Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we would love to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you a little bit about your personal life,

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<v Speaker 1>just one specific thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Not all of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to talk to you about your entire life,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you want, we could just focus on the

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<v Speaker 1>dating aspect, because we're in a segment called a Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update, and we're trying to help out one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners that you met up with the other night

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<v Speaker 1>named Chris.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, and this is an interesting conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, we'd like to gauge how you feel about

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<v Speaker 1>Chris and the chances of you guys meeting up for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date.

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<v Speaker 5>Is that really well, I'm I'm assuming that you know

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<v Speaker 5>you have a story that he emailed you or something.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know how it works.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, yeah, I was just trying to read your

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<v Speaker 1>vibe first before I told you what we know, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because here's the information that we have. We know that

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<v Speaker 1>you two met online, that you both have very busy schedules,

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<v Speaker 1>and this was the only night that you guys could

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<v Speaker 1>get together, and so you went to a bar at

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<v Speaker 1>drinks and talked about a lot of stuff like your

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<v Speaker 1>your lives and your dogs, and he really.

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<v Speaker 2>Felt like you guys were like having a good time,

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<v Speaker 2>like really connecting in conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you feel that I did?

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<v Speaker 6>I agree? It was okay, it was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, he didn't tell us the exact amount

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<v Speaker 1>of time that the two of you were there, but

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<v Speaker 1>from the sound of it, it was around fifteen to

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minutes maybe, and then you excused yourself to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom and never came back to the table.

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<v Speaker 1>Well before you tell us your excuse about why you

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<v Speaker 1>did it and why.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't sound guilty right now, I'd also.

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<v Speaker 1>Like to I think you do need to know something

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<v Speaker 1>about Chris, that he is a dedicated healthcare worker who

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<v Speaker 1>had just come off a thirty five hour shift to

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<v Speaker 1>meet up with you. And I know that you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know that he didn't want to tell you. He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, But I do think it's pretty brutal to

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<v Speaker 1>ditch somebody like that.

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<v Speaker 2>We all think that. I bet you think that. How

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<v Speaker 2>would you feel if someone left you in the middle

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<v Speaker 2>of a date.

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<v Speaker 7>How would you feel if somebody fell asleep on yours.

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<v Speaker 1>He did. That happened. It wasn't that bad, but he

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<v Speaker 1>fell asleep.

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<v Speaker 7>Listen, I excused myself for the rush room. When I

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<v Speaker 7>got back, maybe five minutes later, he was asleep.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but it sound like he fell asleep, like while

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<v Speaker 1>talking to you. He fell asleep while you weren't there. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I was gone for less than five minutes, and I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't know that he was up for thirty five hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he should have told you that saving lives for

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<v Speaker 2>thirty five hours. So you you went, Why didn't you

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<v Speaker 2>wake him up? I would have just woken the person up.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, I tried.

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<v Speaker 6>I tapped him on the shoulder.

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<v Speaker 7>I was like, Chris, Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you worried that he was dead?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 5>I saw him breathing, but I figured he'd been drinking

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<v Speaker 5>all day. I didn't know if he was a drum.

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<v Speaker 6>I could see that, so I did the decent thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I paid the tab.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah right. He said that he asked the bartender and

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<v Speaker 2>that you left a twenty dollars bill for them, But

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<v Speaker 2>the bartender didn't tell him he was asleep. Did the

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<v Speaker 2>bartender dot?

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<v Speaker 1>See?

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe not?

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<v Speaker 7>I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 5>We weren't very close to him.

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<v Speaker 7>So I wouldn't be surprised if he didn't notice.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, Well.

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<v Speaker 1>You're actually closer to him than you realize. Your one

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<v Speaker 1>phone line away from each other. And when I push

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<v Speaker 1>this button, you're going to be on the same line.

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<v Speaker 1>So here we go. I'm pushing it right now for

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<v Speaker 1>a thousand times. Chris, you're there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, okay, thank god. I thought you fell asleep for

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<v Speaker 1>a second.

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<v Speaker 2>Chris, this all makes sense. I thought you feel so relieved.

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<v Speaker 1>Who Chris, did you? Are you there? You fall asleep?

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<v Speaker 3>Now? No? No, I'm here. Hey, okay, Hey, Amanda, Hi, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we just had that moment.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, come on, that that didn't actually happen, right?

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<v Speaker 5>What?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? It did? And I don't I it did.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I promise you. I sat with you for fifteen

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<v Speaker 5>minutes while you had your head on the table and

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<v Speaker 5>your hands and your lap and you were all storing.

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<v Speaker 2>You stayed with him while he slept.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, because I thought he would wake up.

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<v Speaker 6>I was enjoying our time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Chris, how does that make you feel?

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<v Speaker 3>I find that pretty hard to believe.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatell you just gonna have a thirty five hour shift?

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<v Speaker 2>How is that hard to believe?

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<v Speaker 3>Because it wasn't my first ever thirty five hour shift.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't just pass out in bars like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you go to the bars often after a thirty

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<v Speaker 2>five hour shift.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of healthcare workers actually do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know, but you have like a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>SIPs of a martini. Those are gonna put you out

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<v Speaker 2>in a second.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd remembered if I passed out, because I mean I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't lose any time I was there. She left, I waited,

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<v Speaker 3>and then I like got right up and went and

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<v Speaker 3>talked to the bar tender. There was no like loss

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<v Speaker 3>of time.

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<v Speaker 1>She don't remember waking up.

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<v Speaker 2>But listen, how could she lie? She told us that

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<v Speaker 2>story before she even knew that you were on that

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<v Speaker 2>long shift.

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<v Speaker 1>And why would she make that up?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, maybe she's trying to cover her up because

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<v Speaker 3>she's on the radio now that she's trying to look

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<v Speaker 3>better for me.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, I'm not lying, And I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 7>brew it to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe some security camera footage from inside the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's ridiculous. I mean, she didn't even know

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<v Speaker 2>that you did the thirty five hour shift, because she

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<v Speaker 2>told us that before Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Told her, No, I actually, I think I told her first.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I asked for her.

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<v Speaker 5>I just don't know what else to say, Like it happened,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm sorry that it did, and that sucks. And

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<v Speaker 5>I would have been more understanding and I probably would

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<v Speaker 5>have responded to the text messages that you sent me

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<v Speaker 5>if I had known the circumstances.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, I think overall, like before all the sleeping confusion,

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<v Speaker 1>he liked Amanda, Amanda liked Chris. Let's just go back

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<v Speaker 1>to that moment and offer to send you guys out again.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to ask, Amanda, would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Chris one more time? Give it another shot,

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<v Speaker 1>for him to be awake the entire dinner and we

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<v Speaker 1>would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I should be totally transparent with him on the line,

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<v Speaker 5>I am seeing other people because I'm I'm dating.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not exclusive with anybody. So if that's something that

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<v Speaker 6>he's okay with going on a casual date, I would

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<v Speaker 6>I would like to try again. I really liked our

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<v Speaker 6>time together, Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>She's honest, right, what do you think about being one

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<v Speaker 1>of many?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't believe her, And now she's saying

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<v Speaker 3>she might go out with me amongst a bunch of

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<v Speaker 3>other guys, which is also I guess she didn't have

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<v Speaker 3>any room in her schedule to go out except that

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<v Speaker 3>one night.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, maybe you shouldn't believe that she will go out

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<v Speaker 1>with other guys too. Don't believe her on that.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not going to say no, are you, Chris?

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<v Speaker 3>No, not to the date.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't leave mark it up on the board. Ny

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<v Speaker 1>one knows for broken Jeffrey in the morning. Well, christ

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you get some rest. Okay, we'll see you

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<v Speaker 1>in a week. He's asleep.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll try yeah, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Has anybody here fallen asleep during a date in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of it?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? No.

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<v Speaker 4>One time I fell asleep while the girl was on

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<v Speaker 4>the way to my place. I I woke three hours

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<v Speaker 4>later to her a bunch of calls and angry cakes.

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<v Speaker 1>You never sorry, No, I never saw her again. I

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<v Speaker 1>was wasted.

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<v Speaker 2>I fell asleep once, so I'm not going to tell

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<v Speaker 2>you why where Wait a minute, Wait, hold on, you're

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<v Speaker 2>really tired and the guy was really boring?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, her and her husband's the guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>One time I faked being asleep in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>a date in order to get out of it, which

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<v Speaker 1>does make me sound like a horrible person. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but in my defense, she was the daughter of a oil.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't make me explain what a moil sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a bad medical problem. No, it's a Jewish term. My

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<v Speaker 1>mom knew all the oils. You're Jewish. No, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a rabbit. I never should have told this

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<v Speaker 1>story in the first way.

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<v Speaker 5>Is mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it a mean thing?

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<v Speaker 1>We're not going like I got a We didn't do

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<v Speaker 1>a very good job getting a second date update there

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<v Speaker 1>for Chris on our thousand second date call.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we learned something about each other in the last minute,

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<v Speaker 2>so that was good.

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