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Speaker 1: Second date update. Not to put any pressure on this

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Speaker 1: second date update, but assuming this actually goes to air, okay,

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Speaker 1: this will be our one thousandth second date phone call.

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Speaker 1: No are you joking? And we've had four hundred and

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Speaker 1: ninety people say no, no, you sucked. No, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Nine hundred and forty said you sucking you that, Chris,

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Speaker 1: That means you have a chance. I like those.

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Speaker 2: I like those.

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Speaker 1: Welcome congratulations on being the one thousandth second dater.

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Speaker 3: Thanks.

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Speaker 4: Wow, I was.

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Speaker 2: More fireworks, more congratulations would should I think.

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Speaker 4: That after a thousand of these we would have a

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Speaker 4: better percentage of like people saying yes.

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Speaker 2: No, not at all. I feel like it's getting worse

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Speaker 2: as the years go.

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Speaker 1: By, caring less and less about this. Okay, I just

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Speaker 1: keep getting it wrong. Well, yeah, because it's our one

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Speaker 1: thousandth we promised to care extra hard for you today, Chris,

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Speaker 1: So tell us about the woman that you want us

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Speaker 1: to call. What's her name?

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Speaker 3: Well, her name is Amanda. And I'm hoping that this

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Speaker 3: results in a big one thousand for you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm hoping she's more excited about being part of

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Speaker 2: the one thousandths than you were.

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Speaker 1: Y you want to try again. You're excitement.

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Speaker 2: I'm kidding.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, all right, it is.

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Speaker 2: That's Chris.

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Speaker 1: I feel good going into this. Tell us about how

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Speaker 1: you met Amanda.

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Speaker 3: Well, we met online and all the normal stuff. Good, like,

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Speaker 3: she's really pretty. We chatted a lot. I was super

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Speaker 3: excited to go out on a date with her and everything.

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Speaker 3: But that's where we ran into the first little roadblock.

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Speaker 3: Her schedule was really, really tight. I work as a nurse,

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Speaker 3: and the only day she was a veil would have

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Speaker 3: been right at the end of a thirty five hour shift.

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Speaker 1: My god, why.

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Speaker 2: Is that not illegal?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like it should be a pay a lot more.

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Speaker 2: Right, But we'll get into that on a separated Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: did you go on the date after your long shift?

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Speaker 3: I did?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 3: I needed Well, if it wasn't for this chance, there

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Speaker 3: wasn't going to be another chance.

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Speaker 1: And how did it go?

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Speaker 3: I didn't fall asleep?

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Speaker 1: All right, accomplished. Now, most people when they say I

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Speaker 1: didn't fall asleep on a date, that wouldn't be a

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Speaker 1: huge victory. But that's a big win. She was impressed too.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I imagine you're so tired that you're not

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Speaker 2: even nervous. When you're like, what'd you guys do? Go

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Speaker 2: to drinks?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we went for drinks. And the thing is I

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Speaker 3: didn't tell her that it was going to be at

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Speaker 3: the end of a thirty five hour shift.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want her to worry about that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was honestly thinking about it from her angle.

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Speaker 4: If someone said I'm at the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: Not go out with me to sleep. There's no way

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go. So I can see why you got

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Speaker 1: to do it. Yeah, okay, So how did it go.

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Speaker 3: It started out great, ordered a couple of martinis, talked

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Speaker 3: about our lives, talked about our dogs we both have dogs,

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Speaker 3: a while and she just never came back, did you.

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Speaker 1: This is why I never let women go to the restroom.

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, we have to wait.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's cute.

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Speaker 1: What will you go after we're done? You, Jeff, that's okay? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so she never came back.

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Speaker 3: No, well, she sort of came back cause after a

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Speaker 3: while and I asked the bartender. I'm like, hey, have

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Speaker 3: you seen this girl I was with? And he's like, yeah, no,

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Speaker 3: I totally sorry. She left a twenty on the bar

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Speaker 1: Confirmation due did you text her?

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Speaker 2: I'd be so. I mean, you probably were so tired

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Speaker 4: But or maybe you were so tired, like the date

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Speaker 4: I remember the end of this.

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Speaker 1: She's like, we kissed and everything. What do you mean,

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Speaker 3: Her leaving me just standing there and being like, hey,

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Speaker 3: this really just happened at the end of a thirty

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, did you like call her and reader

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm just generally not that angry of a guy,

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Speaker 1: Like a piece of broccoli came out of her mouth

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Speaker 4: That makes sense, bro, Because again, if you're on a

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Speaker 4: date and someone's like yawning and they're exhaustedy, you make

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Speaker 2: Baring ditch though. Yeah, you have to do something bad. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: why do you I want to call her again? Why

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Speaker 3: Well, I wanted to date in the first place, right,

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Speaker 3: So all that stuff is still kind of there. And

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Speaker 3: this is what she did. That is pretty harsh. But

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Speaker 3: listen to your guys one thousands. I don't want this

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Speaker 3: to be another like Ellen mc column.

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Speaker 2: They we're used to being in the loser bracket.

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Speaker 3: It's fine, don't worry. Even if she doesn't want to

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Speaker 3: go out again, Like, nothing like this has ever happened

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Speaker 3: to me before. I need to know why.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, you're looking mainly for the reason even if

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Speaker 1: it doesn't work out, But we do want to send

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Speaker 1: you on another date, and we're going to like really

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Speaker 1: press the fact that you're an amazing healthcare worker.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's going to feel so guilty when she

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Speaker 1: Or do you still not want her to know that?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's not that I don't want her to know,

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Speaker 3: to another date out of pity.

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Speaker 1: Well I do. I want a guilt trip her until

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Speaker 1: she says yes. That's the Maybe that's just the jewishness

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Remember look, remember our record, we have nine and forty losses.

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Speaker 1: We need one in whatever means you're desperate, right, pity

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Speaker 1: after this.

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Speaker 3: Thanks guys.

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Speaker 1: Second, out of all the human emotions, excitement, fear, joy,

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Speaker 1: none are stronger and more powerful than pity. Why do

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Speaker 1: you think I work with Brook?

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Speaker 4: Okay, the only way.

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Speaker 2: I'm the only dummy that would work with you.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of love and respect between us, but

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Speaker 2: You've only worked here your whole life.

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Speaker 1: It's very sad.

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Speaker 1: See, look look at the bonds that are happening here,

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Speaker 1: the joy that's coming out of this moment. Job, let's harness,

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Speaker 1: let's harness the pity in the room and adding a

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Speaker 2: With you, we've got the king of pity ready to

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Speaker 1: That's right, Chris, because if you're just tuning in, he

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Speaker 3: God.

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Speaker 2: I love how we complain that we're tired after like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know this guy is a sick Chris. You're

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Speaker 3: No, No, today is an off day.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is the off day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, can you imagine what he's on? He

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, we're going to save all of your energy

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Speaker 1: Let's make the one thousandth second date phone call hopefully

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Speaker 1: ended on a good note. Here we go, Hello. Right

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Speaker 1: off the bat, the judgment I say anything. Hey, Amanda,

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Speaker 2: Not all of it.

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Speaker 1: I would love to talk to you about your entire life,

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we'd like to gauge how you feel about

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Speaker 5: Is that really well, I'm I'm assuming that you know

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Speaker 6: I don't know how it works.

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Speaker 2: We all think that. I bet you think that. How

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Speaker 7: How would you feel if somebody fell asleep on yours.

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Speaker 1: He did. That happened. It wasn't that bad, but he

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Speaker 7: Listen, I excused myself for the rush room. When I

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Speaker 1: Okay, but it sound like he fell asleep, like while

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Speaker 5: I was gone for less than five minutes, and I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he should have told you that saving lives for

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Speaker 7: Oh, I tried.

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Speaker 6: I tapped him on the shoulder.

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Speaker 7: I was like, Chris, Chris.

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Speaker 1: Were you worried that he was dead?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 5: I saw him breathing, but I figured he'd been drinking

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Speaker 6: I could see that, so I did the decent thing.

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Speaker 3: I paid the tab.

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Speaker 2: Yeah right. He said that he asked the bartender and

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Speaker 2: that you left a twenty dollars bill for them, But

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Speaker 2: the bartender didn't tell him he was asleep. Did the

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Speaker 1: See?

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Speaker 5: Maybe not?

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Speaker 7: I have no idea.

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Speaker 5: We weren't very close to him.

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Speaker 7: So I wouldn't be surprised if he didn't notice.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Well.

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Speaker 1: You're actually closer to him than you realize. Your one

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Speaker 1: So here we go. I'm pushing it right now for

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Speaker 1: a thousand times. Chris, you're there?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey, okay, thank god. I thought you fell asleep for

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Speaker 2: Chris, this all makes sense. I thought you feel so relieved.

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Speaker 1: Who Chris, did you? Are you there? You fall asleep?

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Speaker 3: Now? No? No, I'm here. Hey, okay, Hey, Amanda, Hi, right.

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Speaker 1: I think we just had that moment.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, come on, that that didn't actually happen, right?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 3: Yes? It did? And I don't I it did.

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Speaker 5: Like I promise you. I sat with you for fifteen

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Speaker 2: You stayed with him while he slept.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because I thought he would wake up.

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Speaker 6: I was enjoying our time.

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Speaker 1: Oh Chris, how does that make you feel?

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Speaker 3: I find that pretty hard to believe.

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Speaker 2: Whatell you just gonna have a thirty five hour shift?

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Speaker 2: How is that hard to believe?

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Speaker 3: Because it wasn't my first ever thirty five hour shift.

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Speaker 3: I don't just pass out in bars like that.

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Speaker 2: Well, you go to the bars often after a thirty

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of healthcare workers actually do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but you have like a couple of

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Speaker 2: SIPs of a martini. Those are gonna put you out

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Speaker 3: I'd remembered if I passed out, because I mean I

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Speaker 3: talked to the bar tender. There was no like loss

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Speaker 1: She don't remember waking up.

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Speaker 2: But listen, how could she lie? She told us that

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Speaker 1: And why would she make that up?

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Speaker 3: I mean, maybe she's trying to cover her up because

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Speaker 3: better for me.

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Speaker 7: Oh, I'm not lying, And I don't know how to

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Speaker 7: brew it to you.

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Speaker 1: Maybe some security camera footage from inside the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's ridiculous. I mean, she didn't even know

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Speaker 2: told us that before Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Told her, No, I actually, I think I told her first.

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Speaker 3: And then I asked for her.

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Speaker 5: I just don't know what else to say, Like it happened,

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Speaker 5: and I'm sorry that it did, and that sucks. And

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Speaker 5: I would have been more understanding and I probably would

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Speaker 5: if I had known the circumstances.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I think overall, like before all the sleeping confusion,

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Speaker 1: he liked Amanda, Amanda liked Chris. Let's just go back

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Speaker 1: to that moment and offer to send you guys out again.

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Speaker 1: I need to ask, Amanda, would you like to go

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Speaker 5: Well, I should be totally transparent with him on the line,

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Speaker 5: I am seeing other people because I'm I'm dating.

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Speaker 6: I'm not exclusive with anybody. So if that's something that

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Speaker 6: he's okay with going on a casual date, I would

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Speaker 6: I would like to try again. I really liked our

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Speaker 1: She's honest, right, what do you think about being one

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Speaker 1: of many?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't believe her, And now she's saying

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe you shouldn't believe that she will go out

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Speaker 1: with other guys too. Don't believe her on that.

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Speaker 2: You're not going to say no, are you, Chris?

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Speaker 3: No, not to the date.

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Speaker 1: I don't leave mark it up on the board. Ny

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Speaker 1: one knows for broken Jeffrey in the morning. Well, christ

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Speaker 1: make sure you get some rest. Okay, we'll see you

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Speaker 1: in a week. He's asleep.

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Speaker 3: I'll try yeah, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Has anybody here fallen asleep during a date in the

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Speaker 1: middle of it?

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Speaker 5: Oh? No.

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Speaker 4: One time I fell asleep while the girl was on

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Speaker 1: You never sorry, No, I never saw her again. I

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Speaker 2: I fell asleep once, so I'm not going to tell

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Speaker 2: you why where Wait a minute, Wait, hold on, you're

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Speaker 2: really tired and the guy was really boring?

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Speaker 1: Wow, her and her husband's the guy.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: One time I faked being asleep in the middle of

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Speaker 1: a date in order to get out of it, which

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Speaker 1: does make me sound like a horrible person. I know,

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Speaker 1: but in my defense, she was the daughter of a oil.

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Speaker 1: You don't make me explain what a moil sounds like

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Speaker 1: a bad medical problem. No, it's a Jewish term. My

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Speaker 1: mom knew all the oils. You're Jewish. No, it's it's

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Speaker 1: it's like a rabbit. I never should have told this

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Speaker 5: Is mean?

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Speaker 2: Is it a mean thing?

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Speaker 1: We're not going like I got a We didn't do

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Speaker 1: a very good job getting a second date update there

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Speaker 1: for Chris on our thousand second date call.

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Speaker 2: No, we learned something about each other in the last minute,

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Speaker 2: so that was good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of things happen, and we want to

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