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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 1: with i R Radio. We'll back for another week of

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Speaker 1: the Almost Famous Podcast. We've had a great time recently

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Speaker 1: doing some in depth episodes with some incredible guests. I

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Speaker 1: mean here in the last month we've had Andy Dorfman,

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Speaker 1: we just had Jason Tardik. If you're a fan of

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Speaker 1: the podcast, or even if you're not a fan of

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Speaker 1: the Almost Famous Podcast, I know you're gonna love the

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Speaker 1: in depth episode, so go back and listen to those.

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Speaker 1: Those will be wherever you can listen to the Almost

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Speaker 1: Famous Podcast. But with that, we're back. I'm Ben and

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Speaker 1: Ashley comes onto the podcast today and you've heard me

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Speaker 1: tell it before, I'll never back down from this statement.

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Speaker 1: Ashley con Eddie is a absolutely beautiful human physically and

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Speaker 1: soulfully inside and now. But she shows up to the

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Speaker 1: podcast today and I'm learning more and more as I

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Speaker 1: go about women. I haven't known. I didn't know how

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Speaker 1: much I didn't know about women until really this podcast,

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Speaker 1: being engaged to Jessica and and just being more curious

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Speaker 1: about the ins and outs of a woman's life. As

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Speaker 1: shows up to the podcast, and her face is like

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Speaker 1: red and it has like skin falling off of it.

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Speaker 1: I've never seen this before, Ashley, for myself and our listeners,

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Speaker 1: can you educate me on what is going on? Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: I'll use this time to shout out Olga Lawrence and

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Speaker 1: she's like my skincare go to. She has really been

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Speaker 1: the woman in charge of halle Berry's skin for like

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Speaker 1: the past twenty years. So like if yeah, if there's

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Speaker 1: somebody listen to, it's oga. So I have done two

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Speaker 1: vampire facials to get rid of my melasma over the

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Speaker 1: past a couple of months, and they just really they

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Speaker 1: weren't as effective as I would like them to have been.

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Speaker 1: So it's a vampire facial. I'm going to interrupt you

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Speaker 1: because you've got to help me out here. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if you ever saw those pictures of Kim Kardashian

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Speaker 1: where she had like blood on her face. So basically,

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Speaker 1: it's a little needle and it's it kind of it's

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Speaker 1: like a think of electronic pen with needles on it,

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Speaker 1: that pen, and then they like stab your face all

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Speaker 1: over and it's like collagen producing and it makes you

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Speaker 1: like flake off. That first layer of skin because that

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Speaker 1: wasn't as effective with my really bad melasma. It's just

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Speaker 1: like I never had it until like a year and

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Speaker 1: was like, why do I have a mustache that's just

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Speaker 1: not of hair, It's just not a hair. And then

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Speaker 1: it gets worse than the sun. It's people who are

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Speaker 1: like all of toned. They are more susceptible to it. Um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: exactly exactly. And I so I'm doing now the gold standards,

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Speaker 1: So the vampire face will takes like three days to

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Speaker 1: the cosmolon peel is definitely something we have to hide

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Speaker 1: So now I'm read and pealey at least for the

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Speaker 1: when I'm done before and afters if they are accurate

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Speaker 1: and they're all over the internet, I might not have

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Speaker 1: malasma at all. Anymore. And if you guys don't know

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Speaker 1: what malasmas, it's it's pigmentation. It's darker pigmentation spots around

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Speaker 1: your face. And with women, especially when it's formon related,

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Speaker 1: it often goes in that mustache area. Yeah. So, um,

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Speaker 1: I texted your fiance about it. I told her what

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Speaker 1: tell you who my asgetation is. And she just said

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Speaker 1: at home even better. So your fiance is gonna look

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Speaker 1: the time to cover up those brown spots. Well, here's

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Speaker 1: the thing. What happens when you fall in love. I'm

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Speaker 1: I don't get it. I respect it. And to close

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Speaker 1: this thought, you made a comment that I'm super intrigued

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Speaker 1: by because Melasma was an insecurity of Jessica's for a

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Speaker 1: that will keep it at bay. Wow. Wow to just

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Speaker 1: absolutely incredible experience, but just a wildly, wildly. There's just

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Speaker 1: so many things that you do that I respect, love,

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Speaker 1: and also yeah, it's wild. You guys are so lucky.

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Speaker 1: Like I just Jared and I laughed all the time

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Speaker 1: never It will never be ripped off my body. Well, hey,

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Speaker 1: the big news that you need to tell us? Well, actually,

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Speaker 1: do know is love can change you as a person overnight. Um,

428
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 1: And so if Colton came out and said, hey, I

429
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 1: went too far. I made big and terrible mistakes, but

430
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,440
Speaker 1: I did it because I was broken, my response to

431
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: him would be I get it. Yes, you were wrong,

432
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 1: I get it, And now what now? What are we

433
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,200
Speaker 1: gonna do about it? Right? I feel like people are

434
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:27,160
Speaker 1: more apt to forgive when people are being honest than

435
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 1: like forgive him if he were to just keep denying

436
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 1: that these like, if he keeps denying them, I think

437
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a worse. Look, that's what I mean. Well,

438
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 1: and you know, with you know, we can blame we

439
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 1: can all blame everybody else for our problems. We can

440
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,640
Speaker 1: blame you know, it's a common thing on the show.

441
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,360
Speaker 1: Come off the show. Blame producers if you if it's

442
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,679
Speaker 1: not what you wanted to, come off the show. Blame

443
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 1: the cast, Blame other people. Uh, blame if we're in relationships,

444
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 1: blame your ex. Is all these things, right, but at

445
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 1: some point we all I mean, and I'm learning this

446
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 1: right now, Like we all have to own up to

447
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: our issues. And you know this as somebody who's married, right, Like,

448
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 1: in a marriage, you can't just blame your spouse the

449
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,400
Speaker 1: old time. That's not going to go well for you now,

450
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:14,199
Speaker 1: Like you have to start taking ownership for your mutual

451
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 1: mistakes and the things that you've done. That we're at

452
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 1: a hand out of line no matter how big of

453
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: a deal they are. And this is a big deal, um,

454
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:23,919
Speaker 1: and we're wishing the best for both of them, but

455
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 1: we're really sensitive here to Cassie and the fact that

456
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: she's walking through something, um that is obviously not ideal.

457
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 1: Well Hey, speaking of Yeah, Peter Webber, who are who

458
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 1: I really do love deeply and he was a great guy.

459
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 1: But I don't know where this comes from. Actually, I

460
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,360
Speaker 1: need you to teach me. Peter Webber implies he's going

461
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 1: to spill Bachelor t when his n d A is up. This,

462
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 1: according to Cosmopolitan, well, to be honest, man, I can't

463
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:54,680
Speaker 1: believe that the Bachelor hasn't extended their n DA times

464
00:24:55,640 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 1: have that option? Right? Right? Is our contract? Like do

465
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,199
Speaker 1: we have to be secretive about certain things for the

466
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 1: rest of our lives? And there are certain things that

467
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 1: we can start talking about or are we like free

468
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 1: free will for total free will on Bachelor production after

469
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: our contract dents? Do you know this? It's a little sticky.

470
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 1: So yeah, exactly, if you use the Bachelor name and

471
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: you associate whatever you're saying and doing with the Bachelor,

472
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 1: then you need their approval for perpetuity, like they have

473
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,959
Speaker 1: your rights to air your season, to use that for

474
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:33,680
Speaker 1: as long as this show exists, and even after now

475
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 1: when it comes to the tea and whatever to kind

476
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,920
Speaker 1: of tea that is, it gets sticky, Like it's not

477
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 1: it's not a clear cut thing for any of us.

478
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,199
Speaker 1: But there have been so many Bachelor tell alls, and

479
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: the tell alls do give you some good dirt, and

480
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: it looks like Peter might be doing a tell all.

481
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: So Cosmo wrote this article. I think that they're like

482
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 1: stretching here. They said that under an instagram of Peter's

483
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: he talks about he writes comments towards the fans. You know,

484
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: he asks them and says, I'll explain myself one day.

485
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: He also said happy y'all are to um somebody. So

486
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 1: somebody said, happy you all are together, But I wasted

487
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:22,160
Speaker 1: my time on this season. This fan means I shouldn't

488
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 1: have watched your season. I wasted my time on it

489
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 1: because like you didn't end up with you ended up

490
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: with the girl that you've met before the season. And

491
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: that's when he said I'll explain myself one day. And

492
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 1: then he also said in the comments, there's just so

493
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: much no one knows about it yet, so it'll be

494
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: good to get it out there. And then he also

495
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: said to a fan that his n d A is

496
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: over on March. And from these comments Cosmo fans, they're

497
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: speculating that there's they're speculating that he's going to eat

498
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: for podcast out or a book out or something like

499
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 1: that that will explain why he and Kelly never got

500
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:11,919
Speaker 1: together on the show. Um Kelly did did an it's

501
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: the story this week kind of going off of this,

502
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: she said, somebody said in her questions on Instagram, why

503
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 1: didn't Peter picky the first time? We all knew it

504
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,640
Speaker 1: was fate? And I do feel like they're they're coupling

505
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: was very fate. Like I mean, they met before the show,

506
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: they definitely hit it off. There's just was something there

507
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 1: I always felt. But she says as her answer, Peter

508
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 1: was told flash thought I didn't like him and I

509
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 1: was only there to have fun. That's kind of what

510
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: her storyline was on the show, that she was, uh,

511
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: you know that she wasn't all in on Peter the

512
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: guy because she wasn't like sure she really was getting

513
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 1: to know him or and then she felt like the

514
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 1: show was just not a place or her to find love,

515
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 1: and that everybody was saying like, oh, Kelly doesn't even

516
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 1: be taking this seriously. She's only here about fun, Like

517
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 1: this is kind of stuff we've already known. Um So, yeah,

518
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: we'll see if there's more depth to this mystery of

519
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,919
Speaker 1: why Kelly and Peter didn't end up on the show together.

520
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 1: On March fIF two, possibly, do you think it's a

521
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: smart idea if he does a tell on this, I mean,

522
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: it matters in what form you can do a podcast

523
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 1: and start talking about the show, which has obviously been

524
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 1: a great thing for you and I. I would never

525
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: tell anybody not to do it. I think it's a

526
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 1: great thing you and I enjoy doing it obviously. Uh,

527
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: there's been others that keV came about and been very

528
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: successful talking about the show and breaking down every episode,

529
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 1: and I would support anybody to do that does that.

530
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: If that's his format, great, it's a book again, I mean,

531
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: on a day that my book gets released, I'm gonna say,

532
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: write a book like it's therapeutic. It's hard, it's difficult,

533
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 1: you have to really start confronting your own things. Uh.

534
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: And if it's a tell all form, I'm I'm I'm

535
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 1: sure he's gonna be reliving memories from the show that

536
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 1: he's probably forgotten or tried to forget, and he'll be

537
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 1: writing him down, which could be therapeutic. Um. I don't know.

538
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: I don't know what has not been shown in his

539
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: season though. That's the part that I'm gonna be shocked by,

540
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: because I felt like his season showed more of the

541
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,479
Speaker 1: behind the scenes than any season ever. I Mean, we

542
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 1: had like parental um issues, we had, we had massive

543
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 1: I mean I can't even still to this day, remember

544
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 1: how the triangle of love had existed like it was

545
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 1: Hannah and to then Maddie for like a few moments,

546
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: and then now to Kelly and now he's super happy

547
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 1: with Kelly. If if Peter Gold means it's been what

548
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 1: what should I do? I say, Hey, do what you

549
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 1: gotta do. But this has all worked out pretty good

550
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: for you, Like people love you, people are still celebrating you.

551
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: You've got a great girl. Now this this is all

552
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 1: played out now, maybe not how you dreamed it would be,

553
00:29:56,600 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: and it wasn't like perfectly like perfect, like there were

554
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 1: issues involved, but it's now it's a good thing for you.

555
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 1: And I would just be cautious anytime anybody wants to

556
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 1: take a good thing and make it bad. Totally agree. Yeah,

557
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 1: I mean I can't. Okay, if there was a girl

558
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 1: on your season and let's just pretend the producers were like, Ben,

559
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: she's just here to have fun, blah blah blah, would

560
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: you really listen to the producers that much? But but

561
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 1: also with all that being said, and if Peter came

562
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 1: on the podcast, now I know he would tell you

563
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 1: like he he did I mean one of his biggest

564
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: things was he he couldn't get a grasp of what

565
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: was going on in that environment the time. I mean

566
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: it was, it was the whole thing, the whole season

567
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 1: was Peter, put your foot down, stop the chaos, stop

568
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 1: the gossip, stop the controversy, like say something like, you know,

569
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 1: lead this thing forward a little bit, and it was.

570
00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 1: It was the one thing as a bachelor like that.

571
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: People Well, we'll criticize him for the most but the

572
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: other part about Peter that people will celebrate is the

573
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: guy super lovable. He really wanted to find love. He

574
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: was really in the pursuit of love on this show.

575
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 1: He did it. He did it to the best of

576
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: his ability, and he found it. So I don't know,

577
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: I guess I go back to this and we can

578
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: move forward with this. I don't know what else there

579
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: is to say. UM, So I'm intrigued. I'll be listening.

580
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: Um and you know, Peter Weber is going to spill

581
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: the tea at least that's what people think. Uh, once

582
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: his n DA is up and uh and at that

583
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: point in time, we'll break it down again. I mean,

584
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: I mean, there are stories like this, there's a lot

585
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: of stories like this from Bastmination. There's Molly Mesnick and

586
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: Jason Mesnick. Honestly, there's me and Jared. It's like we

587
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 1: we dated other people on the show, and you come

588
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: to you find the person you're meant to be with

589
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,719
Speaker 1: along the way. It doesn't mean that you don't have

590
00:31:55,800 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 1: feelings for other people. UM, it's really about timing, and

591
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: it's about like getting to know yourself and sometimes, like

592
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: in my case and like in Molly's case, you actually

593
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: need to be separated with the franchise for a while

594
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 1: in order for people to discover what they really want

595
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: and need. Well, that's everybody's love story, right, It's timing.

596
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: It's place you could fall from multiple people in your journey,

597
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: but at some point you end you know, all the

598
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: roads lead to that partner, that person that matches you best. UH.

599
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: And so we'll see we'll be watching speaking of UH

600
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 1: women for my season. I do want to give a

601
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 1: special shout out and in congratulations to Lauren Himmel who

602
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: UH got married recently. She was on the podcast just

603
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 1: a few weeks ago, UM breaking down UH the episode

604
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: of the Goat that that Laura and I were in. UH.

605
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: Congratulations Lauren himil big deal. Congrats to Lauren. Also congrats

606
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: to Kenny King, who is engaged. Uh. It was the

607
00:32:56,240 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: perfect place and perfect person. The couple says, um, so

608
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 1: I think he was planning. He was pretending to his

609
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: girlfriend that they were having a family picture day. So

610
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: she was all like cute and dressed up, and she

611
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 1: said that he had other plans. And she says on

612
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: her Instagram, of course I say yes to forever with you.

613
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 1: Kenny King is so underrated in Bachelor Nation. What a

614
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: freaking sweetheart. What a great warmth about him. Yeah, that's

615
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: just that. I mean, those are good stories and and

616
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 1: there's mortgod stories to talk about. Katherine and shan Low

617
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: obviously have a few kids. They have three kids, and

618
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 1: Catherine has recently came out and said that parenting is

619
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 1: a s h I T show this. According to US Weekly, Ashley,

620
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: what's your referring to? Well, basically, they have one kid

621
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: in diapers. Uh, they have a two year old and

622
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: a four year old. And she just says that everything

623
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: about their day it's somehow related to poop. She goes,

624
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: It's always poop and somehow how we've never gotten sick

625
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,479
Speaker 1: or had pink Eye knock on wood. But I've never

626
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: had pink eye. It's like a constant show around here.

627
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 1: Before we had before we have kids before. Yeah, this

628
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 1: is funny. This happens all the time to us. Before

629
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 1: you have kids, she says, people are always trying to

630
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 1: sell you on the fact that it's like such an

631
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 1: amazing life, like, oh, kids are the best, right, And

632
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 1: she said they say that, so you joined the exhaustion

633
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: club with them. Uh yeah, I don't know. We've been Ron,

634
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: Jane and Tanner enough too. I feel like know what

635
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 1: what we're getting into. And it seems rough. I mean

636
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: it's rough. And like my buddy who has three kids now. Uh,

637
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 1: he and I used to kind of like hang out

638
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 1: together when we were single and go out together. And

639
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 1: I recently saw him in Denver and there's a joy

640
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 1: to it that's like indescribable, and there's an energy that

641
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 1: comes to you as a parent. It feels like that

642
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: like I don't have right now. But then again, I

643
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 1: watched my buddy when I hung out with him with

644
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,760
Speaker 1: his three kids. His head is constantly on a swivel.

645
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: There's constantly something breaking. There is, yeah, diapers being changed,

646
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: there's kids disappearing like it. I left there and I said,

647
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: I still want kids. I'm still confident that get scared

648
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:20,439
Speaker 1: every time. Yeah, but like I'm scared, Like I love

649
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: having a meat clean house, and I feel like that's

650
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: one of the things that's not on the top of

651
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 1: my mind when we think about kids. But it's something

652
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 1: I'm gonna miss so much. Oh, it's absolutely ridiculous. But

653
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: Kathery and Sean have always been good at highlighting their

654
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 1: family and talking about the the ins and outs of parenting.

655
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 1: It's it's just a great article to read if you

656
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:42,319
Speaker 1: get a chance. Um. But Kathery and Sean wishing the

657
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 1: best and thanks for being honest. Yeah. Then I have

658
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 1: a question about kids for you. And I know this

659
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 1: is like a long time coming because you and Jess

660
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: aren't married yet, but you guys planned to move to Denver, right,

661
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: so that means that neither of your parents are going

662
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 1: to be there. Do you feel like having parents, a

663
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 1: set of the parents there the first kid, or maybe

664
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: even just always is something that you would want? Yeah, Um,

665
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 1: I I do. I mean I think that's something Jess

666
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 1: and I really want, is our family, Like both of

667
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: our sets of parents are so awesome. I mean, I

668
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 1: really one of the coolest things about my relationship with Jessice.

669
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: I really love her parents and her family like deeply,

670
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: and she feels the same way about mine. I want

671
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: them involved because I just think they're good influences and

672
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: I think they're a good help and I think they

673
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 1: would help guide us in our most troubled times. And

674
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 1: here's maybe one of the biggest reasons selfishly, Jesse and

675
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 1: I have talked about this often, is we really want

676
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: to have kids but also still have a relationship, and

677
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: we want to go out on dates and we want

678
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 1: to explore together. And I think having a parent like

679
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: one of our parents they're really would help that and

680
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 1: actually add to the child's life. Like it wouldn't take

681
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 1: away anything. It wouldn't make us less less or wouldn't

682
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:57,720
Speaker 1: make us parents who push our kids to the side.

683
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,080
Speaker 1: It would just make them be able to experience their grandparents,

684
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: and I want that for them. I totally agree. You're right,

685
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 1: You're able to keep more of a relationship together when

686
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: you have your parents to lean on. Yes, so it

687
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 1: is important to us, um and uh, And it might

688
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 1: not be for everybody, but it is for us. Switching

689
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 1: gears quite a bit from relationships and parenting to now.

690
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: Rachel Lindsay details her first conversation with ex Peter Krauss

691
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 1: since The Bachelor. At this according to E News Online. Yeah,

692
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: so apparently back in June, it seems during the you know,

693
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 1: the beginning of the Black Lives Matter movement, he reached

694
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: out to her. He quote, he was asking me questions

695
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: about it and stuff for some advice about responses he

696
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: had gotten. Um, she said, we're adults here and we

697
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 1: can all move on. Yeah, so it's pretty simple. But

698
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: that's that. I mean, just yeah, I don't know what

699
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: to do with this, but it is interesting that they

700
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 1: spoke again, right, I mean what I look at like

701
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,399
Speaker 1: exactly I was gonna say, most of the leads end

702
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: up talking to or even being friends with their runner up, definitely,

703
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: because there's like that respect and that you obviously know

704
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: the person. You're like, Yeah, I like you, Like I

705
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: care about you a lot as a human like I obviously,

706
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 1: and so not shocking, um, you know, but it's a

707
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 1: big deal and and for me it's it was a

708
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 1: I remember our very first conversation and it was almost

709
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 1: like a weightlifted. I don't know if it was for her,

710
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: but for me it was just like, okay, good. Now

711
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: we'll probably see each other at events, will probably be

712
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 1: around each other more than you would be with a

713
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 1: typical X And it's great now that we can at

714
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: least come into it like as friends, with that mutual

715
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 1: respect and care for each other. And I'm sure Rachel

716
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 1: and Peter are gonna not be able to do the

717
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: same thing, which is which is really awesome. Um, speaking

718
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 1: of x IS and somebody I'm a friend with, Caitlin

719
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 1: Brusto just continues to keep the headlines Caitlin Bristow is

720
00:38:58,400 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: on Dance with the Stars. If you don't know that,

721
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:02,400
Speaker 1: well I don't know where, Well you don't listen to

722
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: the podcast, and you don't watch TV and all that.

723
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 1: And and here's something really exciting about Caitlin. Lady she

724
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 1: she danced to a song by Lady Gaga, and Lady

725
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: Gaga actually retweeted this, so she saw it and she says,

726
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 1: and I quote it made her cry. I know, Lady

727
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 1: Gaga said, isn't it weird? Is it weird that this

728
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 1: made me cry? I love watching people happy and dancing.

729
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 1: So Lady Gaga knows who Caitlin is, and if I

730
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: were Caitlin, I'd be like, Wow, that is maybe the

731
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 1: coolest moment of my life. It's uh, it's just one

732
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: of those like I don't know how Caitlin feels. I mean,

733
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: Caitlin's is a big deal and she's everywhere now. She's

734
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 1: a celebrity in her She's like such a celebrity that

735
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: maybe doesn't excite her to see other celebrit I would

736
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: be off the wall with lady Guyer retweeted me. I'd

737
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: be telling my family, my friends, my grandma, like that

738
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 1: would be wild. But good for Caitlin. She's still on

739
00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: Dancing the Stars, Ashley, Uh, how is doing? And she's

740
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: doing really well. We she I saw her dance last week,

741
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: you know, as I hope all you guys did. She

742
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:11,720
Speaker 1: did a fantastic cha cha with Artem and Dante Copa

743
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,280
Speaker 1: Stars airs Tuesday this week. So now that you're listening

744
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: to this podcast either late Monday night or Tuesday, make

745
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,959
Speaker 1: sure to tune in watch Caitlin and vote, vote vote.

746
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 1: Bachel Nation just comes out in supports. I mean, you know,

747
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 1: it's just a great place. Uh, it's just a great

748
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,400
Speaker 1: place to spread love and to show the support for

749
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 1: the people who have gone on the show. Um, it

750
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: would be absolutely incredible if Caitlyn can win once again. Uh.

751
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: Last two headlines. One is we just want to once again,

752
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 1: UH send our warmest regards and also just our happiest

753
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 1: of thoughts to Liz sand Off from The Bachelor. Um.

754
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 1: The more details have come out according to people, UH

755
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 1: that Liz says that they're they're recently born child. I

756
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 1: think it's Jovi j O v i E. Noel. Um

757
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: was not breathing when she was born, which has to

758
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 1: be so scary as a parent. But um, as as

759
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 1: they go onto the article and talk about it was

760
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 1: a everything is good now. It was tough. It was

761
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:15,320
Speaker 1: one of those really scary moments. UM. But Jovi Noel

762
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: and UH the family are healthy and good and we

763
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: just want to say once again we talked about it

764
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 1: last week, but we just want to say once again

765
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 1: how thankful for we are for that. Uh and UH

766
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:28,720
Speaker 1: and that that is the headline of the article. So hey, Ashley,

767
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 1: you know, we we've talked for a while now, we've

768
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 1: talked through the season of COVID. UH. It's actually been

769
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: really good. I think for us in our podcast and

770
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 1: the and the listeners. We have a good we've had

771
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: a good time with it, but we were soon approaching

772
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: a season that we won't have to talk about headlines

773
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: and do interviews. We're actually gonna have a season to

774
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:54,720
Speaker 1: break down. More teasers are coming out Ashley this week

775
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 1: as we get one week closer to Claire season. What

776
00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 1: are you feeling and what are you thinking? I'm thinking,

777
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 1: how many great puns do they have with Claire's name?

778
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: You want clarity, you want to clarify what other ones

779
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: are there? Uh? You want to clear the air. I

780
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: don't know so many great puns, so much pretty Claire. Um.

781
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: But they definitely are alluding to in these new spots

782
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,879
Speaker 1: that are getting that are airing during Dancing with the Stars,

783
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: that that we that there's some sort of announcement that

784
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 1: we are just dying to have that they haven't given

785
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 1: us yet, which would be well, I I mean, yes,

786
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: I think we're all assuming it's gonna be Taisha. But

787
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 1: the cool part is actually one of the things that

788
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 1: you and I are both worried about is if Claire

789
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:48,479
Speaker 1: left early for whatever reason, we're gonna miss the clear

790
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: moments that we're expecting we are, but we're gonna get it.

791
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: Like we've already seen in the teasers, she yells at

792
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:56,879
Speaker 1: a contestant get out of here, and then we see

793
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 1: Chris Harrison doing it. Chris Harrison does best with sis,

794
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,879
Speaker 1: you know, say down with her having that relationship conversation.

795
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: I mean, we're gonna get and I don't know if

796
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: we're gonna get enough Claire. We're gonna get at least

797
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 1: some Claire still during this season. Oh, we're gonna get

798
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: quintessential Claire. But you're right, Ben, and I haven't quite

799
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 1: said it blatantly, but when I did hear that she,

800
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 1: you know, might have left the show early, I was like, Oh,

801
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 1: I was really hoping for eleven weeks of Claire and

802
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 1: I would love eleven weeks Septatia to you know, like

803
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: two separate Bachelor season Bachelorette seasons. But I was definitely

804
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 1: looking forward to so much claireisms and we're only going

805
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: to get possibly a few weeks of them. So but

806
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: you're right, I think she will deliver in the weeks

807
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 1: that she she has. Yeah, Claire, Claire will still be clear.

808
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 1: She doesn't change no matter how long or short she's

809
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 1: there Ashley up. Next, we have one of Caitlin Bristow's

810
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 1: x is one of our good friends, Chris Strandberg on

811
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: the podcast, breaking down everything Caitlin and who knows what else.

812
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:00,359
Speaker 1: I mean, he's a dentist, so I'm sure we're gonna

813
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: talk about that, uh and possibly relationship he's been in

814
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,919
Speaker 1: for two years and been pretty quiet about. So let's

815
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:07,760
Speaker 1: take a break. We come back. We'll have Chris Stranburg

816
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:20,279
Speaker 1: on the podcast. All right, guys, Chris Stranburg. It is

817
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: on the podcast for the first time since these guys

818
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 1: and I'm talking about you, and the producer has been

819
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 1: trying to set me up with him like four years ago.

820
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:37,359
Speaker 1: Oh man, good old days. Yes, you guys made me

821
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 1: blush and Phil awkward at all times every episode. You

822
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 1: wouldn't let it die anyway. Now, the last time I

823
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 1: saw Chris, which is a very sad, sad fact, was

824
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 1: at my wedding. Uh, Chris at my wedding. Something very

825
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,400
Speaker 1: funny happened. Like if we had a reality if the

826
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: Bachelor came and taped our wedding, like this would be

827
00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: a really funny focal point. You took yourself to the

828
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 1: hospital the day on my wedding. Can you explain this story? Well,

829
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 1: you know, I'm I'm really tough, I'm good at all sports. Um,

830
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 1: and it's no surprise that I would get a concussion

831
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 1: playing touch football on the beach. Okay, this is good.

832
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: This is where we need to die. Wait a minute,

833
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 1: Wait a minute. Maybe somebody touched me really hard you think, no, No,

834
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 1: nobody touched me. Nobody touched me. I just jumped for

835
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 1: the ball and landed on my head. Like you were

836
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 1: very the guys, the guys didn't hide the fact that

837
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 1: you were very awkward at playing football. They're like, he

838
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 1: said that he was going to be awkward, but we

839
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 1: didn't think it was going to be this bad. And

840
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 1: then you jumped, you hit the back of your head,

841
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 1: and then you ended the game with that. Like they

842
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 1: all had to stop. They had to stop because suddenly

843
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 1: I didn't know how I got there. Literally, I lost

844
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: to the beach. For you memory twelve hours? Yeah, I

845
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 1: had to. I literally had to call my mom and

846
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 1: I was like, his mom, So I'm fine, but how

847
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 1: did I get here? Can you walk me through the

848
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 1: last twelve hours? That's not a scary phone call from

849
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 1: my mom? Hey mom, Yeah, I'm fine, I just don't

850
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 1: remember life. Wait, wait, now that I'm thinking about this, this

851
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,919
Speaker 1: this is the day of a rehearsal dinner. Tara didn't

852
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: play football all the day of our wedding. Yeah, okay,

853
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: rehearsal then you were there. Yeah, We're on the beach

854
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 1: in Newport, and um uh there is a pass thrown

855
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: to Chris, who jumps up in the air to grab it,

856
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: and it was actually I mean, for what Chris lacks

857
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 1: in um catching ability, he makes up for in his

858
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 1: his jumping skills. He's a very good levitation, very he

859
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,240
Speaker 1: has a very good jump. So he jumps up. Well,

860
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 1: he doesn't catch the ball, but what he does do

861
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: is he falls backwards onto his back and he hits

862
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: his head against the sand, which automatically, I guess knocked.

863
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:03,800
Speaker 1: Chris is memory just completely gone. He starts wandering the beach.

864
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 1: The game ends because we no longer have even sides,

865
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:14,480
Speaker 1: and Chris takes himself to the hospital, which came out fine, nothing,

866
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: nothing major. He was okay. He showed up to rehearsal

867
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 1: dinner that evening. He made the most. Memory came back.

868
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 1: Memory came back. He remembers the love story that Ashley

869
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 1: and Jared portrayed to all of us. But I would say,

870
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: I will say I've never seen somebody get so hurt

871
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:35,280
Speaker 1: in a touch football game. Never so one of my skills.

872
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 1: You know, I'm extra fragile, and uh, I took that

873
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,799
Speaker 1: fall like a champ. Hey. I take a doctor over

874
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 1: an athlete any day, And I'm pretty sure most women

875
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:50,799
Speaker 1: out there would, including your girlfriend, including my girlfriend, who

876
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:54,720
Speaker 1: you've been with for how long? Two years? Wow? How's

877
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:58,879
Speaker 1: it going? It's going good. COVID hasn't got us down?

878
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,720
Speaker 1: Are you? How much time have you spent together during COVID?

879
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 1: How much time did she and I spend together? Um?

880
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 1: A good amount, but not all the time. Let's say

881
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 1: about half the week. That's pretty good. She's pretty busy

882
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: with her new jobs, so um yeah, and then our

883
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 1: schedules are a little bit off, but we make a

884
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: good amount of time. How has the dental intry industry,

885
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 1: would you, diddle Field been affected by COVID? Because when

886
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: I think about going to get it cleaning now, I'm like,

887
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 1: I feel pretty save a lot of places, But with

888
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 1: my mouth open like that, I could I feel pretty susceptible,

889
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: pretty vulnerable, it's the one place you're required not to

890
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 1: wear a mask. Yeah, why can't can't can't wear a

891
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: mask over your mouth? That's a dentist. Oh. I felt

892
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 1: like when you walked in like you couldn't have a

893
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 1: mask on though when you sit down in the Yeah,

894
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: that makes sense. The uh I mean, but you're you're

895
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 1: you're staying upright. Things are okay right now, as we

896
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:57,839
Speaker 1: talked to Chris, he's in his scrubs and he has

897
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 1: a bonnet on his head. Uh. Yeah, Chris, we saw

898
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: recently you've been doing more and more kind of like

899
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 1: beauty tips and kind of you took over Amazon's um

900
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:16,160
Speaker 1: Beauty Weak or whatever it was. I'm doing that on Friday, Yeah,

901
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 1: so we did an Amazon live There was a deal

902
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 1: of the day that water cad was some of their products,

903
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:23,879
Speaker 1: so I did a live stream with them. And now

904
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: there's a special beauty Day. So I guess you know

905
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:29,720
Speaker 1: your teeth are considered a beauty products. So a couple

906
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 1: of the water Pig products are going on sale and

907
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: I'm hosting a live stream of that. But what are

908
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: some of the tips that you would give to? Like? Okay,

909
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 1: if for any of our listeners who are not, uh,

910
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 1: beauty experts. Some of them probably are, but they just wonder,

911
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 1: what are some of the secret tips that taken care

912
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 1: of your teeth. What are some of the tips that

913
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 1: you would give. Number One, you have to be consistent. Um.

914
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,800
Speaker 1: People will be on a good role with their teeth

915
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 1: and then they'll kind of fall off. It happens when

916
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 1: people get stressed out. Things happen in life. Home care

917
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 1: takes a you know, back seat. It feels like a

918
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 1: low priority. But staying consistent with is important. Um. But

919
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 1: you gotta clean between your teeth um, where stain develops.

920
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 1: Toothbrushes often can't even though you're brushing your teeth. The

921
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: stain develops in the creases of your teeth between right.

922
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 1: Bad breath happens from bacteria collecting between your teeth and

923
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: below your gun line. So you've got to clean those spaces.

924
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry that the toothbrush alone doesn't do that.

925
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 1: And you know, I tried for a few years working

926
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 1: in dental practice, telling people the floss floss, floss floss,

927
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 1: using string floss, and then even the people who are good,

928
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,280
Speaker 1: they're not doing it right because it's very technique sensitive.

929
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 1: So finally, I'm just like, okay, what else is there?

930
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 1: And you just take a jet stream of water and

931
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,799
Speaker 1: then you power washed between your teeth. It's kind of

932
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 1: like simple, it makes sense, but it doesn't seem like, okay,

933
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 1: well is that effective. Well, you're breaking up the bacteria

934
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 1: and you're getting in deep for than you could with

935
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 1: the string, so you're really cleaning it out. But in

936
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 1: addition to that, with the string, you're kind of leaving

937
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: some of that debris in between your teeth, but with

938
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:12,359
Speaker 1: the water you rinse it away. So you know, they've

939
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: done tons of studies on this and every time it's

940
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 1: like twice as effective as the other way a string floss.

941
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 1: So I just I'm a big believer it. Do you

942
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:25,319
Speaker 1: water pick before you brush, then I do. I think

943
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 1: that's a great way to do it, because the reason

944
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:31,240
Speaker 1: that we use fluoride and toothpastees is to repair the enamel.

945
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: And if the in between surfaces of your teeth are

946
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: clean from having just water floss, then when you brush,

947
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,880
Speaker 1: the fluoride will soak into your teeth and repair the

948
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 1: sides of your teeth. Here's my issue. I have one

949
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 1: issue at this. So I had a water pick for

950
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: a bit, and I pick my teeth as often as

951
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:53,880
Speaker 1: I could, But then my mirror is covered in water

952
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:57,480
Speaker 1: pellets and it's going everywhere, and it felt disgusting and

953
00:51:57,480 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 1: it was hitting my face and I couldn't keep the

954
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:03,239
Speaker 1: water inside of my mouth. It was flying everywhere. My

955
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 1: techniques obviously failing. How do I do this better? So

956
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:11,879
Speaker 1: to two ways you can fix your problem. Number one,

957
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 1: they make a waterproof version that you can take in

958
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: the shower. That sounds fun, rechargeable, it's really cool. Um

959
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:24,799
Speaker 1: My favorite one is the cordless Advance. But another thing

960
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:28,319
Speaker 1: is break up your mouth into small sections, so don't

961
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:30,840
Speaker 1: try to rinse your whole mouth out at a time

962
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 1: with the floss. You keep your hand like there's normally

963
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 1: like a power button or an on off switch, So

964
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: close your lips around the tip and then just do

965
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:42,880
Speaker 1: five teeth and then turn it off and spit and

966
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: then repeat and repeat, so you're only getting a little

967
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 1: bit of water in your mouth each time. If you

968
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 1: switch to that method rather than trying to do the

969
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 1: whole thing, you're like overwhelmed, like, oh my gosh, my

970
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:53,799
Speaker 1: mouth is filling up with water. Just break it up

971
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 1: into little sections overnight it will change. You won't get

972
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 1: the mirror anymore. I won't get on your chin or

973
00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 1: your shirt. Huge. Well, I love the way that this

974
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 1: has become a beauty podcast where you're we're going to

975
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 1: title this Bachelor beauty. And I have two questions in

976
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 1: that realm for you. One whitening toothpaste. Um, I know

977
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: that a lot of dentists like, don't like don't they

978
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: think that whitening toothpaste like strips the enamel? Yes, okay,

979
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:26,800
Speaker 1: So Jared did some research on what the best whitening

980
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 1: toothpaste was and it's said on the internet that it

981
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,720
Speaker 1: was Armine Hammer. So he got the arm and Hammer

982
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 1: and I was like, this taste disgusting and how in

983
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 1: the world is this the number one for whitening Because

984
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:42,839
Speaker 1: the Crest and cold Gate they just brand the out

985
00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 1: of their whitening stuff, and I really believe it was

986
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 1: like all their little like sparkles in the toothpaste. And

987
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 1: then after a month or so, I'm like, holy crap,

988
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,680
Speaker 1: your teeth are almost whiter than mine. Now. It was

989
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: a significant improvement, more than I've ever seen. And Chris

990
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 1: is doing a little jig over there. Are you dancing

991
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 1: at what I'm saying, I'm dancing. Do you like that?

992
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 1: You like what happened here? So, the philosophy for whitening

993
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 1: your teeth with the toothpaste two ways your teeth get yellow.

994
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 1: There's the surface stain, the junk on top of your teeth,

995
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 1: and then there's the internal color of your teeth. The

996
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 1: surface stain is minimized by keeping them, you know, keep it,

997
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 1: keeping that film, that plaque, keeping them off your teeth.

998
00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:26,280
Speaker 1: The other thing is bleaching the inside of your tooth,

999
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:28,359
Speaker 1: which is like all of those things that you see

1000
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 1: on TV or on Instagram. How do I bleach my teeth?

1001
00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 1: You use hydrogen peroxide. The certain other products that you

1002
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: mentioned contain really abrasive um, little like almost sand. It's

1003
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:47,800
Speaker 1: hydrated silica, and that scratches your teeth surfaces to remove

1004
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 1: quote unquote like the surface stain. But hydrated silica is

1005
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 1: really damaging to enamel. So arm and hammer actually has

1006
00:54:57,120 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: more um sodium bicarbonate, which is baking soda, and that's

1007
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: what you taste, and it's the sodium. It's kind of

1008
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:07,440
Speaker 1: like this weird salty, grainy downside. I'm like, how you

1009
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 1: brush your teeth with this? Yeah? Well, My favorite formula

1010
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,880
Speaker 1: for taste and also for just for all around is

1011
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 1: called Bright and Strong, and it's by armad Hammer. But

1012
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 1: the difference is that the baking soda is not abrasive

1013
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 1: to your enamel. Instead, it breaks up the plaque in

1014
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: a different way, almost in a chemical way, so it's

1015
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:31,880
Speaker 1: not as abrasive. It sort of melts it away, but

1016
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:35,439
Speaker 1: that doesn't affect your enamel at all. So that's Number one,

1017
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 1: is that it removes the surface stains more gently and

1018
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:42,839
Speaker 1: more effectively. Number Two, it contains hydrogen peroxide, so that

1019
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 1: day in day out you're doing this, it's soaking in

1020
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,400
Speaker 1: deeper than the surface, and it's brightening up from the

1021
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:52,440
Speaker 1: inside right to know, thank you, I love this stuff.

1022
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 1: Number Two, I noticed, and I've told you this a

1023
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 1: number of times, and I will bite the bullet one

1024
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:02,280
Speaker 1: day that my teeth are really shifting on the bottom.

1025
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: And my question to you is, if you had braces

1026
00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 1: as a kid, is it inevitable that your teeth will

1027
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 1: shift again? If you at all stop your retainer. It is,

1028
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 1: almost without exception, inevitable. And it's because there's a genetic

1029
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:26,879
Speaker 1: adaptation where teeth are designed to shift forward. Because as

1030
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:30,799
Speaker 1: we age, our teeth actually rub against each other and

1031
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:34,360
Speaker 1: they get smaller, so gaps would develop between our teeth

1032
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:37,839
Speaker 1: unless they were shifting forward like everybody you know, stay

1033
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:41,879
Speaker 1: close in line. And then obviously ancient history people lost

1034
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:43,880
Speaker 1: their teeth a lot more frequently. If you have a

1035
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:46,839
Speaker 1: big missing space there, it's not ideal. But if your

1036
00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:49,600
Speaker 1: teeth move forward to close the gap, it tends to

1037
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: be better. So there's that element which is teeth move forward,

1038
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:56,280
Speaker 1: and then over time it can increase. If your bite

1039
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 1: is off, it's if it's not stable, then um teeth

1040
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: will crow out more often. And also if you get

1041
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 1: gum disease, the bone support will actually degrade and that

1042
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 1: makes teeth more movable and then they'll tend to lean

1043
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 1: forward as well. So unfortunately, it's as deep as like genetics.

1044
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 1: So you need to keep your retainer in to maintain

1045
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: straight teeth pretty much no matter what. There's not many

1046
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 1: things I'm great at in life, but I am really

1047
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: good at wearing my retainer. I wear every night. Chris,

1048
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 1: I just want to tell you that so that you

1049
00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: would feel like I'm a little bit better a human. Um.

1050
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 1: I hope that worked. It's it's a genuine need. But yes,

1051
00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: then you always know how to sweet talk to me.

1052
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 1: I'm really getting in deep here. I'm pretty good at

1053
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 1: it actually, any more beauty tips, Well, no, I do

1054
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: have a marketing ploy for you though. So if I

1055
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 1: was a publicist of a boy band, like a publicism

1056
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: boy band, I would tell them too that they all

1057
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Speaker 1: have to remain single in order to get the girls

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00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 1: to come to the concerts, you know, because the girls

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00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: need to have that fantasy of getting with them. With you,

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00:57:55,960 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: as the hot dentist opening a new office, I would

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00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:02,439
Speaker 1: have not even brought up your girlfriend and just tried

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00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 1: to get everybody that listens to our podcast to go

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Speaker 1: to your office. And then when they're there and sucked

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Speaker 1: in by your talent, then they'd be like, oh, he's

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Speaker 1: not single, darn it. They see the picture on the

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Speaker 1: desk of him and his girl smiling. Well, Chris to

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Speaker 1: in this to talk about your girlfriend the one last time.

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Speaker 1: I have two big questions for you. Okay, one's gonna

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00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: be a softball question and I'll wait to end it

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Speaker 1: with that. The first one is, how is your girlfriend's breath?

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend, Well, come on, I'm on her about brushing

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Speaker 1: and filosting. Twice a day, so she's perfect and you

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00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:44,800
Speaker 1: know what, not accept anything different than that. But fortunately

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Speaker 1: she's kind of like a neat freak and health freak anyways,

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Speaker 1: so it didn't take long. But she's got the water pick,

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00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 1: she's got the toothpaste, so it's it's minty all the time.

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Speaker 1: You're getting all giddy talking about that. When you get giddy, yeah,

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00:58:57,960 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 1: but we start talking about your girlfriend's breath and you're

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00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 1: worman in your chair. You're smiling big. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: know how to get to Chris's hard. The last question

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Speaker 1: for you, buddy, is what what are your favorite characteristics

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00:59:09,240 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 1: about your girlfriend? Like, what do you really like after

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00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 1: two years? What have you learned that you really appreciate

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00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:17,640
Speaker 1: about her? She's just such a sweetheart. I mean, she

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00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 1: she cares about me so much. If I'm stressed out,

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00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: she's there for me. She's supportive, and she really is encouraging.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you know, you have self doubt sometimes

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00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 1: and she just like believes in me so much, so

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Speaker 1: I would say that that's the thing. Also, we can

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00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 1: talk and talk and talk forever. She's always got um

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00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 1: like something interesting to say, and I feel like that

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00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 1: for me in the past, that's been uh kind of

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00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:45,920
Speaker 1: a hold up? Is you just kind of run out

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00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 1: of things to talk about? But she and I are

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00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 1: always having some good conversations, so I don't know if

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00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 1: she's just very engaging and she's gotta big heart. Let's

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Speaker 1: talk about your extralfriend. Caitlin Burstow for a second, are

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00:59:57,360 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 1: you watching her? I'm Dancing with the Stars. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: she did so good. Even later dog out thought she

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Speaker 1: did well. I saw that. I mean, I'm I'm so

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Speaker 1: happy for Caitlin because eat any one of these elements

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Speaker 1: in isolation would have been enough to just make everything

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01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:20,400
Speaker 1: for make her year. But they're all happening together and

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Speaker 1: she's actually doing well, So I know it'd be hard

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Speaker 1: to have, Like it would be two bachelorettes in a

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Speaker 1: row if she wins, right, Yeah, I know that'd be

1107
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:33,760
Speaker 1: seems unprecedented. Yeah, I think she could do it. Bachelor

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Speaker 1: Nation strong, they support, they love hard, come on, stick together,

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation. It's been a rough year for Bachelor Nation

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Speaker 1: with COVID and having to wait for the shows like

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Speaker 1: Rally Around. Caitlin. Absolutely, I love that advice. Now if

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Speaker 1: people want to visit you become a new patient. Where

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Speaker 1: should they go to? Those are the longest way list.

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Speaker 1: You can go to my website UM vision donal MV

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Speaker 1: dot com that's m V for mor Vista, or you

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Speaker 1: can go to tooth Stagram UM or my regular Instagram page. Also,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to throw out there. Starting at four am tomorrow,

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01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:20,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to be doing a media blitz with water Picks,

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01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: So I'm doing like fifteen to twenty interviews UM across

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Speaker 1: like the nation about water Pick products, going on local

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Speaker 1: news shows. So they've been keeping me busy recently. Are

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Speaker 1: you going to be like on the cover of water

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Speaker 1: Pick the Box? Because I feel like you should. It

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Speaker 1: would be a great selling point. UM. Maybe you know

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Speaker 1: that's but I don't buy a lot of things for

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01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:47,479
Speaker 1: the box, but I'd buy that box right there. Chris

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Speaker 1: Stranburger the man. We love you, Thanks for coming on, UM,

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Speaker 1: thanks for sharing your beauty tips with us, and best

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Speaker 1: of luck to you and the girlfriend as you move forward.

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Speaker 1: Chris Stranberg, fantasic Love you guys, up to you soon first, Chris,

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01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:07,520
Speaker 1: love you to bye bye. Chris is always great, sweet guy.

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Speaker 1: UM and UH and to your listeners, we want to

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01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: remind you once again to follow our Instagram page. We

1134
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:18,440
Speaker 1: are tracking it. We've been very active on posting on it,

1135
01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 1: which is awesome. It's on Instagram. It's almost underscore famous podcast.

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01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 1: Go out and follow that for all of the clips

1137
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:30,880
Speaker 1: from our show, some more behind the scenes, uh footage.

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01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 1: It's It's gonna be a lot of fun for us

1139
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:34,720
Speaker 1: to interact with you in a different way, but we

1140
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 1: also always love it when you email us. Continue to

1141
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: email us at Ben and Ashley at iHeart media dot com. Uh.

1142
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 1: And we got an email from Maddie that we're gonna

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01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 1: respond to right now. She says, I have this burning question,

1144
01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: ses you two seem to have a great relationship with

1145
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:52,520
Speaker 1: everyone in Bachelor Nation. Does it ever feel hard to

1146
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: give headlines on good friends of yours? Even if they're

1147
01:02:55,440 --> 01:03:00,200
Speaker 1: positive headlines? Well, not positive headlines. In my opinion, the

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01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: headlines are always easy, but uh, these controversial headlines, especially

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01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 1: that we've been getting over the past year, have been

1150
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:10,480
Speaker 1: very awkward to talk about. And even if you're not

1151
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: friends with them, you've met them a few times and

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01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 1: I feel like what Ben always says about in depth podcast,

1153
01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:21,040
Speaker 1: once you know someone, it's hard to ever it's hard

1154
01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:25,320
Speaker 1: to not like them. Yeah, so so yeah, it's it's

1155
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 1: a challenge to talk about some of these topics about

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01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 1: our friends and acquaintances. But we also hope that they

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Speaker 1: respect that this is like our job and that they

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01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: have chosen to be public figures who should expect to

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Speaker 1: be spoken about in the media. I mean, some of

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Speaker 1: my friends. If I were to do something, uh that

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01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:46,760
Speaker 1: was off center and I would expect me to talk

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01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 1: about it, I'd have no problem with that. It wouldn't

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Speaker 1: be fun, right, It's not ideal, but that's the world

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Speaker 1: that we live in. I will say this though before,

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01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 1: like especially right now, like Colton and Cassie are a

1166
01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:00,760
Speaker 1: a scenario we can talk about going on right now,

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01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 1: Ashley and I do spend time off of the podcast

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01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 1: talking about each other's emotions and feelings and trying to

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Speaker 1: get to a place that's not um unhealthy. I guess

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01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: would like at least a place that's been thought through

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01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:18,400
Speaker 1: and not speaking from reaction, but speaking from hey, what's

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01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 1: being reported, what are people saying? How do you feel

1173
01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:22,880
Speaker 1: about this? How do I feel about it? And then

1174
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: we can come on here and have a little bit

1175
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:29,280
Speaker 1: of a wiser conversation that still touches everything that we're

1176
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:32,480
Speaker 1: feeling and thinking. It just not might not be so reactionary,

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01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 1: because I think reaction will get us into trouble and

1178
01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:38,720
Speaker 1: oftentimes have us saying things that just aren't true. That

1179
01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 1: just becomes more difficult because it takes more time. But

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Speaker 1: it's not fun and it's all I mean, let's just

1181
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 1: be honest with everything here. Like you all are fans

1182
01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 1: of the of the Bachelor and the Bachelor at it's

1183
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 1: not fun for you either to hear these headlines, Like

1184
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 1: it's not like you're celebrating the fact that there's trauma.

1185
01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 1: There's drama and trauma and issues going on in the

1186
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:01,160
Speaker 1: lives of these people who you've watched and rooted for

1187
01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:04,560
Speaker 1: and celebrated. Like it's hard for everybody involved, including the people.

1188
01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 1: But we have the unique position that we need to

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Speaker 1: talk about it because it is what we signed up for.

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Speaker 1: It is what we've agreed to do. It's not fun, though,

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01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 1: and we hope that all these people know that if

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Speaker 1: they do want to platform and talk about it, that

1193
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 1: we are giving it to them here too. So we

1194
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:23,760
Speaker 1: never want to just talk about them. We like to

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01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:28,920
Speaker 1: talk with them if they feel comfortable. Well, actually, It's

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01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:31,440
Speaker 1: been another week of the Almost Famous podcast and has

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Speaker 1: you you go heal that face years? Is that the

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01:05:34,240 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 1: right way? Okay, yeah, it's it's healing. And I also

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Speaker 1: want to thank everybody who wrote on our message boards

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Speaker 1: on Facebook. The Almost Famous message boards is a really

1201
01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:47,640
Speaker 1: fun place for us to go and look to for

1202
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:49,960
Speaker 1: feedback on the podcast, and you guys have given us

1203
01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: some good feedback there and are helpful feedback. And I

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01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: also just want to let you know that all of

1205
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:59,080
Speaker 1: those suggestions that you guys had for in depth podcasts

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01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:05,120
Speaker 1: are definitely being considered. I'm thinking you guys. Emily Maynard,

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01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:09,160
Speaker 1: she hasn't responded to us. We really really wanted to

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01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 1: come on. So if you can do anything to push that,

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01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 1: we'd love that. Um not push too hard to be rude,

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01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:17,720
Speaker 1: but you know, like a loving push. And then I

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01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:20,120
Speaker 1: think Karin is a great idea for an in depth too,

1212
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:22,360
Speaker 1: So keep that feedback coming. We love you so much,

1213
01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:26,439
Speaker 1: and uh for now, then you've got to sign off first,

1214
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Speaker 1: because that's how we do it. Yeah that's right. Well, Hey,

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Speaker 1: thank you all, Thank you Ashley, And with that that's

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Speaker 1: another week I've been been. I've been Ashley to Telu

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Speaker 1: y'all Leader, followed the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous

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Speaker 1: podcast on IHUR Radio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.