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Speaker 1: Spreading In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. I swear we cannot

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Speaker 1: start a podcast without having technical difficulties ever since March

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Speaker 1: of last year. Yeah, I mean, you know, I thought

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Speaker 1: I could really master this engineering situation at the rat pad,

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Speaker 1: and it just never seems to work quite right. It's fine,

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Speaker 1: we're recording. You and I are looking at each other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, I mean you could swing your chair. Oh,

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Speaker 1: you could swing your chair over here and we could

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Speaker 1: both be on this one. Why it just dies that way,

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Speaker 1: Mark and Easton can see. So I have to come

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Speaker 1: all the way over there and move everything all the way.

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Speaker 1: You have to move your microphone and I will move

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Speaker 1: the There we go. Nice, Oh nice, It's like watching

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Speaker 1: the evening news with Tanya and Becca. Yeah, that's what's

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Speaker 1: going to be like. And you know how I feel

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Speaker 1: about the side by side, just getting nice up next

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Speaker 1: to me, all right, and we're back side by side.

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Speaker 1: Just altana. It just the way she likes a filter

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Speaker 1: on your zoom because this like, we look so angelic

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Speaker 1: compared to what mine looked like. No, I wish I

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Speaker 1: did have a filter. Wow. Just she has fourteen lights

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Speaker 1: on our faces, so that must be why, um what

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Speaker 1: I'm all thrown off? Um? Okay. So last time we

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Speaker 1: did our podcast it was Our Lives Show, which is

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Speaker 1: so much fun. Yeah, it feels like forever ago. It

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Speaker 1: does because we did it and then we had the

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Speaker 1: next week off because the President's Day. Yeah. Um. But

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Speaker 1: I actually I had a proposition that I wanted to

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Speaker 1: run by you that came about. The idea came about

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Speaker 1: from a conversation that we had, um recently over dinner. Okay, this, Um,

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Speaker 1: I get nervous when you do a proposition live on

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Speaker 1: the podcast. And here's the thing. You can do it

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Speaker 1: with me or I want to do it period and

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Speaker 1: I just need your assistance. So either you're gonna help

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Speaker 1: me do it, which I think you'll be fine with,

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Speaker 1: or you're gonna do it with me. Okay, Okay, So

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Speaker 1: we were talking. I don't even know how we got

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Speaker 1: a socially distanced outside girls dinner and we got on

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Speaker 1: the topic of like boudoir photos and and like how

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Speaker 1: with Sicony and Patty and we were in Atlanta and

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Speaker 1: I had them take these like photos of me that

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Speaker 1: were just literally the like the opposite of the word sexy,

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Speaker 1: just looking through and I was like, this is sad

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Speaker 1: have of myself? Can you, yeah, can you please tell

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Speaker 1: them what the photos? Knowing what they is covering you

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Speaker 1: makes it that much not sexy. So we went to

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Speaker 1: Ryan's high school and we actually had Scrubbers meet us

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Speaker 1: bunch of starbursts with them. So we had all these

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Speaker 1: Iratis board and they were like, they both said, can

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Speaker 1: the starbursts all over my body like covering her private secret.

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Speaker 1: But you can't even tell what it what. You can't

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Speaker 1: all you know, like it's so zoomed in. Do you

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Speaker 1: do you say, boudoir? Yeah? Mine were just there, just

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Speaker 1: finding one that I thought was actually quite tasteful. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so this brings me back to my proposition for you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's just like, you know, I think that everybody is

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Speaker 1: And I always thought that understanding each other. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: Now I have made one meal in a crock pot,

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Speaker 1: and I have become obsessed learning all the fun recipe

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Speaker 1: crock pot? What was that hot sauce? Buffalo looked like it?

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Speaker 1: Phoebe's always gone to the person who needs like emotional

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00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 1: care and support. It was the she literally like no offense.

425
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 1: She just went straight to me. No, I mean I

426
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 1: was offended, but then I was like, you, she needs

427
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 1: this more than I do. And she didn't even flint,

428
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: she didn't even try to move. No, she just like

429
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,120
Speaker 1: you were like egging her on. You were like Phoebe,

430
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 1: and I was like, she sparked her right. Yeah. It

431
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 1: was really sweet, um, but yeah, she so Taylor. Tanny

432
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,199
Speaker 1: was just blasting old Taylor the whole time, and I

433
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 1: was like, God, forgot about some of these songs. White Horse.

434
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone remembers. But it premiered on

435
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: Grey's Anatomy and it was just like really intense scene

436
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 1: and that songs playing, and I waited forever for her

437
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 1: to finally release it because I had heard it and

438
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:03,680
Speaker 1: I was like, I need this song. That song does

439
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 1: things to my body that songs just don't do. Right now, okay, okay,

440
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: this is a good game. Where what song would you

441
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: just like in your life today, how you're feeling emotionally

442
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: and everything. What Taylor song represents you know, it's hour

443
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 1: by hour okay, right now and this hour, um, I

444
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 1: want to stick with like a steady right now, I'm

445
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 1: in this like invisible string mode because to me, that

446
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: song is like it's almost like a It's just so hopeful,

447
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. They're just it's just full

448
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 1: of hope. It's not sad, it's not happy, it's not

449
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,439
Speaker 1: it's just hopeful. That's a good one. I listened to

450
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 1: it daily. Is that weird? I feel like you've listened

451
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: to a daily since it came out last July or

452
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 1: August whenever it came out, not totally accurate, but as

453
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: of late yes, daily, it's in the mix. Yeah, it's

454
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,919
Speaker 1: it's a good one. Would you ever consider getting a dog?

455
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 1: You know what? I yeah, I would consider getting a dog,

456
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: but I would be able to have a dog until

457
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: we go back to work, you know, right, once we're

458
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 1: working again. It's gonna be hard after it if you

459
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:19,879
Speaker 1: need to leave town or whatever it is. Yeah, I agree,

460
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 1: and like that you have like your sister's I mean,

461
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 1: kind of pink at least like one person that lives

462
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, it's been it's been more convenient to

463
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 1: have someone. But I think you'd be surprised, like people,

464
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 1: especially if it's a cute, easy going dog. If it's not,

465
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 1: that's where it gets challenging. But I mean, who needs

466
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 1: a dog when I have crotches, panties and ted lasso

467
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 1: to just keep going on a Monday? That's the age. Yeah,

468
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 1: who needs a dog when you have crotchles, panties Like

469
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: that's everyone always says that. Yeah. Wait, so where did

470
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 1: we land on the boudoir photo shoot? Are you down

471
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 1: to do? We're gonna do it together. Let's pick a

472
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: d together together, which is great because Easton and I

473
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 1: have already been planning doing the same thing. I'm gonna

474
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: go to his place he just got some brand new briefs. Yeah,

475
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: I'd be happy to see. So we're posing together? No not, no,

476
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 1: we do like you take pictures of me, I take

477
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 1: pictures of you. Yeah, they don't mean together, little weird. Yeah,

478
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 1: I don't want to be offensive. No no, no, I

479
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 1: mean you do with yours what you want. I will

480
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 1: do with mine what I want. But I think we

481
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: could do it like together. Okay, yeah, I'm down great now,

482
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: Tanya in Atlanta. Those were done to give to someone, yes, correct,

483
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: And these are just for none none. Could these be

484
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: like would you have these in the like archives to

485
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: like bring out when you need you know. What's funny

486
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 1: is a girlfriend of mine actually did this for her

487
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: husband the night before they got married. She made like

488
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 1: this beautiful boudoir booklet essentially of just photos of they

489
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: were like very again, they're not dirty, they're very very

490
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 1: tastefully done and like just beautiful photos. And her husband

491
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:16,120
Speaker 1: was obsessed with it, like just loved it so much. Um.

492
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 1: And I actually was going to do it recently for

493
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: a holiday. Things changed so didn't end up going through that.

494
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 1: But I was like, why don't I just take this

495
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 1: for myself? You know? Well, that's what I'm asking. I'm

496
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: not trying to pry. I'm saying, these is the mindset.

497
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 1: These are for a future partner or is these for

498
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,439
Speaker 1: future you to look back on a different time in

499
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: your life? Yeah? These are just just for now. These

500
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: are for empowerment and self love. Yeah. I mean, I'm

501
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: telling you, I put on this, this sexy outfit, and

502
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: I just felt a shift in my mojo, Like I

503
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: was like, this is it? Okay? Well, looking forward to

504
00:28:55,800 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 1: But she's gonna be like, oh, I know after this podcast,

505
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: he's gonna be like, so what dare you available? I

506
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: was going to say we should do it March fifteen,

507
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 1: because that gives us. That gives us like one too,

508
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 1: that gives us like three weeks, yeah, snatching in get

509
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: some new lingerie, all right, looking forward to that? Is

510
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: that a good day? I feel like that's so far

511
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: in advance. I don't so far, it's in three weeks's.

512
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 1: This is the fundamental difference between Tanya and Becca Maift

513
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: is another lifetime Tobecca Dania is like, I gotta fill

514
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: it up. I gotta I got the days in March.

515
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: I gotta fill him up already. Yeah, It's true. Well,

516
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: I was thinking we because well, yeah, okay, yeah, we'll

517
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: discuss logistics later down the line. Um, we're gonna take

518
00:29:48,760 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: a break and we will be right back. Okay, we're back.

519
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: I also we were going to play a game, and

520
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: we have emails. But I wanted to talk about this

521
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 1: really quick because Jesse Williams did an interview with E

522
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 1: T with Katie Cross and I know, and he basically

523
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 1: said he would be happy if somehow April came back

524
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: and they were able to continue that relationship. You know,

525
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: if you would have told me six months ago that

526
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: this would happen, I would have been stoked. But I

527
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: really like Jackson and Joe. I want to give him

528
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: a shot. Do you feel chemistry there? I love the

529
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: idea of them together, but I haven't seen enough to

530
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: know if there's chemistry. I haven't seen enough, but I

531
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: gotta say I want to see more. Okay, I'm there.

532
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:53,959
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm with you on that I would like

533
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 1: able to come back. I mean I would be it

534
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: would be so there could be some juicy thing where

535
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 1: Jackson is already deep into it and then April shows

536
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 1: up again and then this drama. That's all good with me.

537
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 1: But as long as April Keptner is back on the show,

538
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm happy. I agree. I did love April Keptner. Yeah,

539
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: same Tacker anyway, like anyway, bring her back. You're just

540
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 1: you just wonder yea with Jackson, without Jackson. We still

541
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: have weeks to go before the show returns. By the way,

542
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: March eleventh, that will finally be on our TVs again.

543
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm excited though, because I did forget about this, I

544
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: kind of. I don't know how I forgot about it,

545
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: because it's how it ended. But when um, yeah what

546
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 1: de Luca takes off to go catch the um, how

547
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: quickly we forget I know that the sexual predator or

548
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: the sex trafficking storyline, remember, Yeah, No, that does seem

549
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 1: like a long time ago. It does seem like a

550
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 1: long time ago. But I'm just glad because the season

551
00:31:55,920 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: finale back when ended without us having any closure. Yeah,

552
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 1: we didn't have any closure, and then they didn't really

553
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: pick it up again until the end of the of

554
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 1: the first half of this season. I'm very excited, very

555
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:14,719
Speaker 1: March eleven is going to be here. Before we know it,

556
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: we're basically March and then four days later we have

557
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: our photo shoot. I was like, let's four days a well, yeah,

558
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to set reminders for that weekly, a

559
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: weekly reminder. I can put it in your calendar. Okay,

560
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 1: I can do it. I just picked the fifteen because

561
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 1: it's a Monday, so I figured we could do the

562
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: podcast and then do the photo shoot after. Oh I see, Okay,

563
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: unless you don't like that, we can do a different

564
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: day of the week. I'm not opposed. So many things

565
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 1: can happen and change in between them that I'm let's

566
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: put it in there tentatively. Tentatively. Is there a lot

567
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: of preparation that goes into this? You're gonna get a

568
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 1: spray ten, You're gonna do a lot of sit ups,

569
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: Like I don't know what it's gonna be, some electrolysis involved,

570
00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 1: Like how much prep goes into this? I would like

571
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 1: I don't need it necessarily a spray tan, but a

572
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: self a tan for sure, like tan towel. Yeah, I

573
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: don't need like the fool to do, but um, I

574
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: would like to have a tan. Yeah. Are you going

575
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: to take them like in your are you just gonna

576
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: be like in your studio there or like are you

577
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: going to have a backdrop in the studio with like

578
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: my headphones and it's a nice snapshot of your life. No,

579
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: we'll do it. We'll do it in the bedroom and

580
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: get a collection of starbursts and we'll try to recreate

581
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: what had been attempted before. Maybe we'll glue starbursts on

582
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: the lingerie, oh yeah, or the wrappers, the rappers. So

583
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: it's like a subtle in your window. But I feel

584
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 1: like we have to do mine in my bed, and

585
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: we had to do yours in your bed, So we're

586
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: gonna have to do It's gonna be two locations situation. Yeah,

587
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: it's gonna have to be two location situation. Okay, so

588
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 1: maybe we do it on a different day. Maybe we

589
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 1: do yours on one day and then we can you know. Yeah, Okay,

590
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: it feels like it really works out for me. Getting complicated. Okay,

591
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 1: let's play a game. We don't know what. This game

592
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:24,800
Speaker 1: is called the Mark and Eastern Game. We're going to

593
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: give you a fun fact about one of us, and

594
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 1: you guys have to decide is it Mark or Easton?

595
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: Back and forth? Not not this game. Maybe in the

596
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 1: future will do Mark Eastern or neither, but today it's

597
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 1: just Marker Easton and you will both play. You don't

598
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: have to agree with each other. In fact, to be

599
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 1: great if you didn't agree with each other, But if

600
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 1: you do, you do, and we'll play it that way. Okay, Okay,

601
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 1: here we go. Number one, Mark or Easton is ineligible

602
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:56,280
Speaker 1: to be a contestant on Jeopardy. Is that Mark or Easton?

603
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go Mark. I'm gonna go Easton. Mark was

604
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: once on Rock and Roll Jeopardy, which precludes you from

605
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 1: ever being on any Jeopardy. Ever, therefore it is Mark

606
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 1: and Becca gets a point. Yeah. I was going to

607
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 1: go Mark, but then I was like, I thought it

608
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 1: was maybe just because of your age, and that seemed

609
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: to agist, so I went with Easton. Well, I'm too

610
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: old to be on Jeopardy. I don't know they have

611
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 1: ancient people. Well, you have you ever seen someone dig

612
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 1: themselves in a hole so quickly? I'm not even in

613
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 1: the target demo yet. I don't think like that show

614
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: is for old people. I didn't know. I didn't know.

615
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:49,439
Speaker 1: That's weird. Once interviewed our Vice President Kamala Harris. Mark

616
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: or Easton once interviewed Vice President Kamala Harris prior to

617
00:35:53,800 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: her being vice President Mark going easton Eastern? That was me.

618
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 1: My first interview ever in radio was with then Attorney

619
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: General California, Kamala Harris. Who that's cool. That's so funny.

620
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 1: I thought I thought time you was frozen, but then

621
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: Becca was moving and You're in the same screen, So

622
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 1: I couldn't have been an internet issue, all right. Once

623
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: acted in a Discovery Channel crime reenactment. Is that Mark

624
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 1: or Eastern? I don't know, but I'm whoever it is.

625
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 1: I'm going to Easton Becca. That's three in a row.

626
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 1: Easton did that. It was an episode of The New Detectives.

627
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 1: It's on It's on Amazon Prime, It's on Discovery Plus.

628
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 1: I was Surfer number two. Me and my dad found

629
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: a dead body. It was about a case he worked.

630
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: My dad a voice officer. How long did it take

631
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 1: to shoot something like that? I always wonder that that

632
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: took old day I was. I was sixteen years old,

633
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: and um I it was freezing cold. It was super windy,

634
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 1: and I wanted to be like Mr Cool, so I

635
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: wanted up my shirt off and the producers like, you

636
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:05,239
Speaker 1: can keep your shirt on, It's fine. I'm like, no, no, no,

637
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 1: I'm doing it. How many minutes were you How many

638
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: minutes were you in the episode? I was in it

639
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 1: for like, oh god, maybe three seconds all day and

640
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: there's like two frames of me like walking up and

641
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 1: pointing at a body. Uh. It's a lot of fun,

642
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: but t be magic, you know. Yeah, yeah, could you

643
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 1: imagine though like that? If we want to be extras

644
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 1: on graz on me, we'd have to We'll probably be

645
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 1: there all day. Yeah. All right, we're getting to a

646
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: point now we're talking. You cannot win this game, but

647
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 1: let's see what happens in the next couple of questions.

648
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:45,360
Speaker 1: Here um sneaked under the set of Seinfeld and stole

649
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 1: a script. Who know, you guys are so like sneaky.

650
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:02,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go Mark, I'm going to eat Suston. Tanya's

651
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: on the board. That was me. Uh, my friend j

652
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:09,839
Speaker 1: D got us sound of the lot CBS Radford. All

653
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:11,880
Speaker 1: he did was he knew the name of production company

654
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: on the lot. So we walked through security, just right

655
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 1: past security, and they said excuse me, and j D

656
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: said Carcy Warner because that was one of the production

657
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: studios on the lot, and they said all right. So

658
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 1: we just walked around and then we went into the

659
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 1: Seinfeld set, which was not active at the time. But

660
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 1: we were sitting in the Seinfeld living room and there

661
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: was a script on the prop coffee table, and so

662
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: I grabbed it and then we took the bright yellow

663
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 1: cover off of it because that would be obvious. And

664
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: I just looked like a pile of paper, and I

665
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 1: stuck it under my shirt behind my back and we

666
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 1: walked up and I kept it. What would have helped

667
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,320
Speaker 1: it would have helped you there, because I was eleven

668
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,479
Speaker 1: when Seinfeld went off the air. That's a clear right there.

669
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: This was right around the time of the finale. Okay, anyway,

670
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: three to one Becca Tanya making a comeback here, come

671
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: back to see um once went horseback riding with weird

672
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: Al Yankovic, Like what, I'm going east easton no points awarded?

673
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 1: That was me. That image is delightful though. Uh you

674
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: know the sunset ride. There's a sunset ride that you

675
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: can get up beech Wood in Hollywood and you get

676
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 1: on horses and you go over the hill into Burbank

677
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: and have dinner at a Mexican restaurant and then you

678
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 1: get back and you go over and you go over

679
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: at sunset. How fun is that. Do they still do that.

680
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. This was easily twenty years ago. But

681
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: it's a great it's a really great experience because the

682
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: views from up there fantastic, as you get the Hollywood

683
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 1: side and you get the valley side. But anyway, I

684
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,279
Speaker 1: would did that with my wife and in our group

685
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: of ten or so was weird Al Yankovic and his

686
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 1: girlfriend at the time, and uh, and it was just

687
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 1: kind of a surreal experience. He denies it, by the way.

688
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: I met him once and I brought this up, and

689
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 1: he did not He he claimed that never happened, but

690
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 1: it absolutely was him, I swear. I don't know, but

691
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:14,360
Speaker 1: it was uncomfortable yea. So maybe maybe he was a

692
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 1: woman who's not with anymore. I don't know the details.

693
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 1: But at one point he was kind of his saddle

694
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 1: wasn't properly a fix to the horse, and he started

695
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:24,440
Speaker 1: sliding to one side and the guide guide, and the

696
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,479
Speaker 1: guide had come and help him back on his horse.

697
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: He would remember that, So I don't know why he

698
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: was being evasive about it. Maybe it's the person he

699
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: was with and he doesn't that's what I'm thinking, bad

700
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 1: memory or something. I don't know all right. Back to

701
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: the action. Three to one. Becca still is known to

702
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 1: eat lemons like apples, rind and all eastern east Well,

703
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: very good, Yeah, that's true. Guilt weirdly knew that one

704
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: he did. Okay, let's see, I'm running out of these.

705
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 1: It is four to two Becca. I think I only

706
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: have one more, so we'll give you the one more.

707
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 1: Once played the role of Dave in a movie called Flush.

708
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 1: M I'm gonna go Mark, when did this move? What's

709
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: this movie called Flush? There's no no additional details, get

710
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 1: to know when it came out. I'm gonna go Mark too,

711
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:29,880
Speaker 1: because yeah, yeah, that was me. Yeah. Now, don't everyone's

712
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 1: gonna google that. I'll tell you, don't even waste your time.

713
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:35,359
Speaker 1: It doesn't exist. I would love it if it did,

714
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: to be hilarious, but that is not out there anywhere.

715
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 1: But we shot that right when I got to Los Angeles.

716
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 1: It was you know, this was gonna be the next

717
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 1: Swingers who was gonna be a big deal. And then

718
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: it just never happened. It never was. It was shown

719
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 1: to us as some sort of cast party when it

720
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,400
Speaker 1: was finally edited, and after that, I don't think it

721
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: was ever shown to anyone again. So it was just

722
00:41:54,719 --> 00:42:02,840
Speaker 1: it's like an adult film. You're saying it was not pornography. No,

723
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 1: I played a stoner named Dave. You want have said that?

724
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: I would have known it off the bat, because yeah, well,

725
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: because I feel like I remember you talking about playing

726
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:19,279
Speaker 1: a stoner in something the store back befour tied you two.

727
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:26,880
Speaker 1: Thanks for playing today's episode of Mark or Eastern. I

728
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 1: enjoyed that and feel very validated that I know you

729
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 1: both so well. Okay, those are so gussy, but I

730
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: guess on one and I got it wrong. All right,

731
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 1: Shall we hit some emails here? This is from Kaylee.

732
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 1: I had a boyfriend for six years and it was

733
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 1: a really toxic relationship. It ended about a year and

734
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 1: a half ago because he cheated. Fast forward to now,

735
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: my best friend is a photographer and she just took

736
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: his new girlfriend grat college graduation pictures. Because of this,

737
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: I did a little snooping and saw that my best

738
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: friend likes all of the stuff they post as a couple.

739
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: Am I being dramatic for being kind of mad and hurt?

740
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: I get him and I ended things nicely, but it

741
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: still hurts to see my best friend doing these things

742
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: and I know money is money, but if it was

743
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 1: going to hurt your best friend, wouldn't you refer her

744
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: to a different photographer? Okay, let's use this as a situation. Okay,

745
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: say and I break up and your photographer and is like, hey, Tanya,

746
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 1: will you take some photos of me? I'd say no? Right,

747
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 1: So there's I think the answer. I think it's just

748
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, there's just an element of loyalty, especially

749
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 1: when you've been cheated on too. Like it's not even

750
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 1: like because Okay, let's say let's say Robert reached out

751
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 1: was like, hey Tony, will you take some photos of me?

752
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: I would have no issue with that. Yeah, And I

753
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 1: don't understand. If it's her job and she needs to

754
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 1: make the money, then I get it. But liking the

755
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: photos just takes it to another level that's not necessary.

756
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, taking the photos, it's a job,

757
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 1: it's a business transaction. But when you personally go and

758
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: like other photos, not even the photos you took, I

759
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: think that's just kind of um inconsiderate. Yeah, I think

760
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: People's advocate. Could that be part of her outreach? Could

761
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: that be part of her promotion? Could that be part

762
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 1: of her thing is that she likes to stay close

763
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 1: to these couples so that when they need photographers in

764
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: the future, they'll think of her because she's there, she's

765
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 1: on their social media, she's part of their lives. Yeah,

766
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 1: for sure, do that with all your other clients. And also, yeah,

767
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: it's one client that you're asked not to like. And also,

768
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: if you're good enough photographer, they're going to remember you

769
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 1: regardless of if you're liking their photos. I agree, So

770
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 1: I would just have a conversation. I would reach out

771
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 1: to her and say, hey, I know this is, you know, excessive,

772
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 1: but I notice that you have been liking all of

773
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 1: the photos um of my ex and his new girlfriend.

774
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 1: I understand that you took our photos and you know,

775
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:07,720
Speaker 1: have a relationship with her, but it hurt my feelings

776
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:10,280
Speaker 1: when I saw that you liked all their photos together

777
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 1: when he really hurt me. And I'm sure if she's

778
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 1: a good friend, she's going to be like, I'm so

779
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: sorry I didn't even take the end of consideration, and

780
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry. I'll stop doing that. I would hope

781
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 1: I would think so too. I think I'm just confused

782
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: as to why she did in the first place. But

783
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,239
Speaker 1: that's neither here nor there. Yeah, we we only have

784
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 1: the details, right, right, we only have the facts. We

785
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 1: can't remind the history. Yeah, I think maybe you go

786
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: to her kind of like you came to us, Like

787
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 1: you go to her like, am I being crazy? I

788
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: just have to tell you that this bothers me and

789
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 1: and maybe I should Maybe it shouldn't, but it does.

790
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 1: You know, maybe she kind of words it the way

791
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 1: she ordered it to us, like even questioning whether or

792
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 1: not it should bother her or is that rong? So

793
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 1: she just have the courage of her conviction to just

794
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 1: put it out there. I like that mark. I think

795
00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:58,439
Speaker 1: going and saying like I don't know if I'm being

796
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: crazy or if if if I have feelings like the

797
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 1: right to feel that this was hurtful, but also like

798
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: less confrontational if like I don't like the cheating thing

799
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,919
Speaker 1: is what really throws me, because I would not even

800
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 1: want to talk to an act of years that they

801
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:15,879
Speaker 1: cheated on you. I know That's what I'm saying. Same,

802
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:20,240
Speaker 1: So I don't know. Not all friendships are created equal

803
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,279
Speaker 1: like there. I think there are certain people who maybe

804
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: don't think that way about certain things, but I would

805
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 1: I do think it warrants a conversation if she's someone

806
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 1: that is really if you're really close to and you

807
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 1: because if you don't say anything and you just keep

808
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 1: seeing her like photos, it's just gonna eventually build a sentment.

809
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. That's for Kaylee. No. This is from an

810
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 1: anonymous emailer. Over the past year, I developed feelings for

811
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 1: my best girlfriend. I thought I was straight when we met,

812
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:51,319
Speaker 1: and my feelings for her made me question my sexuality

813
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 1: and I'm actually by now. I told her about the feelings,

814
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 1: and long story short, there are mutual feelings, but she

815
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 1: doesn't want to explore a relationship. I decided I needed

816
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 1: space from our friendship to move on. My question is

817
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,319
Speaker 1: do you think we'll be able to come back from

818
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 1: this and be friends later on? Or is this friendship

819
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:16,200
Speaker 1: probably over? What I'm just gonna say, I think the

820
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 1: friendships over only because of this reason. I don't believe

821
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: that you can move on and develop feelings for somebody

822
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:29,399
Speaker 1: else if you are still in a relationship with even

823
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 1: if it's a friendship with somebody that you have feelings for,

824
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 1: does that make sense? So like, if you really want

825
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 1: to find somebody, you need to cut ties with this

826
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 1: friend because you have emotions and feelings there, and so

827
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 1: you just have to in order to have feelings. When

828
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: you're starting to develop feelings for somebody else, you're not

829
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 1: going to be able to continue that relationship. I think, Um,

830
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:57,800
Speaker 1: I think, I think taking a break from the friendship

831
00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 1: is definitely necessary. Like, I don't think you can can

832
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: continue to hang out and talk all the time and

833
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: get over those feelings by doing that. But I had

834
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:11,479
Speaker 1: a situation one of my guy friends you know, said

835
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: that he liked me more than friends, and when you know,

836
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,399
Speaker 1: it wasn't reciprocated. He was like, I just I need

837
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: some space, and I totally understood. I was like, take

838
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 1: all the time you need. I obviously love you so

839
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 1: much as a friend, but I don't want to make

840
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 1: it harder than it is. And he ended up, you know,

841
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: taking We didn't talk and hang out, and it was

842
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 1: hard because we did everything together. And then you know,

843
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 1: he was able to be like I'd rather have you

844
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:40,760
Speaker 1: in my life as a friend than not at all, um,

845
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:44,359
Speaker 1: And it was like very healthy and mature and it

846
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 1: was a great thing. So I disagree that the friendships over.

847
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 1: I just think that you need to take the space

848
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:53,840
Speaker 1: that you need and also open your heart to meeting

849
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: someone else and having feelings for someone else. Space isn't impossible.

850
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,280
Speaker 1: She could meet some money would make her completely forget

851
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: about the feelings she has for her friend. Yeah, I

852
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:08,720
Speaker 1: think so, in which case space is the answer. Space

853
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: and time or they're their healers. Honestly, I mean people

854
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 1: always say time heals all wounds. It's so true, like

855
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: you literally cannot rush getting over something or someone. It's

856
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: just time and sometimes and also and this is probably

857
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:28,439
Speaker 1: the wrong motivation, but also letting their friend experience life

858
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 1: without you for a little while, isn't that a positive thing?

859
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: Because sometimes they'll realize what they missed out at well,

860
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: and the fact that she said the friend said the

861
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: feelings are mutual, that's like, I don't get it very

862
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 1: I think it's I think people underestimate, Like it's scary

863
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: to have feelings for someone that you've never expected to

864
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: have feelings for, and how to navigate can I be

865
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 1: in a relationship with this person? Like will my family

866
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 1: agree with it? Well? My friends think weirdly, you know,

867
00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 1: like it's a lot bigger than just her. It's bigger

868
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 1: than just like, oh this is my friend. This is

869
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 1: a friend of the same sex that's new to me. Yeah, yeah,

870
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 1: that as a whole nother layers. We don't know this.

871
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 1: It might be new to the friend too. We don't

872
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: know that anyway, Space and time and she who knows

873
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: if she has mutual feelings, then she'll if she sees

874
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 1: you out there exploring other things, she might be like, Okay,

875
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna act on these feelings and date you. Yeah,

876
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:32,040
Speaker 1: but that is tricky. I didn't even think about that, Becca. Yeah,

877
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: tricky dickery, doc, tricky dicky duckety. It feels like so

878
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 1: I feel like we can have some solid advice today. Yeah.

879
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 1: Those both felt pretty solid though, Like I feel like

880
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 1: we kind of had our differences, but then we came

881
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 1: to a conclusion. Yeah, we all. We all do that.

882
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:53,240
Speaker 1: We listen to each other. We are open to hearing

883
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 1: someone else's opinions and changing our mind if that opinion

884
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 1: feels right correct, And I shape that about all of

885
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 1: you and your wisdom. I also want to talk one

886
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: more thing because I saw Ashley I she did rant

887
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: on Instagram about um sex in the city and I

888
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: know too, so obviously I've known that we all knew

889
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,160
Speaker 1: Samantha wasn't gonna be a part, and now they're saying

890
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 1: Big isn't going to be in it, Steve isn't gonna

891
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 1: be in it, and they're gonna ddress the pandemic like

892
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 1: it's going to be during It's gonna have a COVID storyline,

893
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:28,919
Speaker 1: which is a no for me, and I'm getting I'm

894
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 1: getting a little fearful about it. I'm not gonna lie.

895
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 1: I texted Ashley after I saw those posts, and we

896
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: had a very energetic conversation about it. But I didn't

897
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 1: want this to happen when they first announced it. I

898
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:48,279
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, like they're gonna kill Big, right,

899
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:50,879
Speaker 1: is that where they're going to address this? Well, they're

900
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: not saying they're not really, They're just saying he's not

901
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: going to be a part of it, but they're not

902
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 1: saying what they're doing with him. I mean, I don't know.

903
00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 1: I just don't want no. Yeah, I don't think so.

904
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 1: I think I told actually this. I think the only

905
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 1: way they could do this and have it be have

906
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 1: it work is you get an entirely new cast, new characters,

907
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: and you have like carry like a mentor to like

908
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 1: a blogger or something that's like in a modern day

909
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:17,919
Speaker 1: analog of Carry Bradshaw. Well, no, because I think they've

910
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 1: done this. It's like the Carrie Diaries, do you know

911
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like they've done this the new crop

912
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 1: of girls. So like the nostalgia and the like excitement,

913
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:32,840
Speaker 1: was the original girl gang getting back together navigating dating

914
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 1: in their fifties or you know, I don't remember where

915
00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 1: the second movie left off, Like I think Brandon Steve divorced,

916
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:46,360
Speaker 1: Charlotte's still married, and Carry Carry Bigger TBD married. No,

917
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 1: they're married. I live in world where the second movie

918
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 1: didn't happen. So I'm with you. I'm with you. I'm

919
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 1: like I would even be happy if they picked up

920
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: from the season finale of the entire stories. Just forget

921
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:01,359
Speaker 1: the happy yeah, just forget the movies that happened, and

922
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 1: just kind of watch them navigating, you know, newly dating

923
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:07,880
Speaker 1: and marriage in their fifties in the city with you know,

924
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 1: maybe new girlfriends that are going through things with no

925
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 1: COVID in it. And like I personally, I was a

926
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:19,280
Speaker 1: fan of Aiden, and so if they bring back Aiden,

927
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 1: I'm not I wouldn't be mad about that because if

928
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: if Big and the only way they could do it

929
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:30,400
Speaker 1: that I think feels respectful, which is still disrespectful, is

930
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 1: that he died because for her for it to just

931
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,319
Speaker 1: be that it ended after all that, that they broke

932
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:39,319
Speaker 1: up and he's just not in the picture anymore and

933
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:43,360
Speaker 1: we don't He's just gone. That feels like, what was

934
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 1: the point of the investment of that love story. Yeah,

935
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 1: if they bring back Aiden, I'm canceling my HBO Max,

936
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:57,239
Speaker 1: I'm canceling it. I can't stand Aiden. Why. Here's the Okay,

937
00:53:57,239 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 1: We've been rewatching a lot of season three, a lot

938
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 1: of early Aiden, and I'm just reaffirmed time and time again.

939
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 1: He is super passive, aggressive. He never really liked Carry,

940
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: he liked the idea that Carry liked him. And after

941
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,720
Speaker 1: she cheats spoiler alert once after she has the affair

942
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:16,879
Speaker 1: with Big, it's like irreparable, like he should have never

943
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 1: got like taken her back after that. It's like I

944
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 1: watched that episode. I agree, I agree. I do think

945
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 1: that once she had the affair, they should have been done.

946
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 1: It's like, I mean, how many how many piece of

947
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,280
Speaker 1: evidence do I need him? I entered the new laptop.

948
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 1: That was that was insane, taking her to the woods.

949
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,320
Speaker 1: She clearly didn't want to do that. Do you remember

950
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 1: that episode where um Big calls her uh and he

951
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: like they're they're making love and Big leaves a message

952
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 1: on their machine and they just like don't talk about it,

953
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 1: and then Aiden's just like, pardon me. He's just like

954
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 1: an asshole for like the rest of the episode, for

955
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:53,400
Speaker 1: like weeks, and it's like, dude, just like he just

956
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: can't be honest about his feelings. He's like a big baby.

957
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: I don't know. He does nice stuff to look like

958
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 1: a nice guy, not because he cares about Harry. There

959
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:06,720
Speaker 1: you go. Interesting. That was a deep dive into that dynamic.

960
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,120
Speaker 1: You know what's interesting. I would I'm going to rewatch

961
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 1: season three to see Aidan with my fresh eyes because

962
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 1: last time I saw Aiden, I was nineteen twenty and

963
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm a different woman now. So let

964
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 1: me reassess Aiden in my adult life and I will

965
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: get back to you because I can now let you

966
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 1: say it like that, I can kind of see it.

967
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,800
Speaker 1: But I always thought Big was I don't know, Okay,

968
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:33,280
Speaker 1: well he was too. There were problems. There were also

969
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 1: problems with Too, but he's upfront about it, you know.

970
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 1: He's toxic. You know. I like being my Charlotte York

971
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: Bliss where she meets Harry and just that is everything

972
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 1: of the sort. I might go back and watch those

973
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 1: episodes two because you have me really think thinking. Yeah,

974
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna think about aid and after a minute here

975
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:57,280
Speaker 1: Also Carry has the best hair in season three for sure.

976
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: I like her hair. And see and five too straight

977
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 1: straight situation. I just loves loves the girls, loves the waves.

978
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 1: Um yeah, I mean, I don't know. I might be

979
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 1: out on the Sexons City reboot if it keeps going

980
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 1: down this path. Just wait a little bit here, let's

981
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: let's let's get some more information, but I don't jump

982
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:26,359
Speaker 1: to conclusions. The info we have so far isn't it's

983
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 1: not promised, it's not great, but I'm definitely open to it.

984
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 1: Like Ashley said, I'm going to watch it, and I

985
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 1: hate that. I I hate that I still watch things

986
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 1: knowing that I'm going to be disappointed. I do it

987
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:46,319
Speaker 1: all the time. You do, well, yeah, like if it's

988
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 1: I mean, the Bachelor is like every time I watched it,

989
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, why do the thing is? Is I never

990
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 1: even watched I never even watched the Bachelor before I

991
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 1: was on it, and then afterwards got more into it,

992
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:04,400
Speaker 1: and now I'm psyched myself up, and I'm like why,

993
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:08,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, because, yeah, you still have ted Lasso

994
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 1: to catch up on. I know, I mean, I'm interested

995
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 1: in ted Lasso, so I'm definitely gonna I'm going to

996
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 1: continue that. Um, I'm excited about this journey for you.

997
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: Thank you. I hope it's better than you've presented it

998
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:25,440
Speaker 1: so far, because I I'm definitely not watching it because

999
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 1: of the scenes you describe. I knew I wasn't doing

1000
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 1: it justice. I honestly knew I wasn't doing it. You

1001
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: were just laughing so hard that I was like ready

1002
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:38,920
Speaker 1: to be peeing my pants, and it was not I'm

1003
00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 1: not gonna like, I'm not gonna regurgitating. Hannah, come in

1004
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 1: here and tell back at the way you just posted.

1005
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 1: I literally love ted Lasso, like it is so good.

1006
00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:53,600
Speaker 1: I don't think she was here for the beginning of

1007
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 1: the episode when Tanya tried to reenact it. So I

1008
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 1: already told you that my reenaction is not a depiction

1009
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: of of the show. I just those were those were

1010
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:07,680
Speaker 1: standouts to me. But I'm never good at like reiterating stories.

1011
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 1: Those moments were stand out forgetting. We should just stop

1012
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: talking about it so that i'll see third opinion from Hannah.

1013
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:20,400
Speaker 1: Third opinion. No, no, yeah, I've heard it's good. I've

1014
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 1: heard it's good. I just wish I hadn't heard tony

1015
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 1: of standout moments because they were very lackluster. Just called this,

1016
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 1: and please stop having time to talk about this show.

1017
00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 1: We're losing subscribers. We'll do anything, please stop. Oh man. Well,

1018
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 1: on that note, everyone, please watch Behind Her Eyes or

1019
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:47,440
Speaker 1: Penguin Bloom, whichever one suits you, so that I can

1020
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:51,680
Speaker 1: discuss it. Um, and I'll watch ted Lasso. I'll do

1021
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 1: my part. I'll contribute to this podcast where I can.

1022
00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 1: Nothing makes me happier. And until then, oh whoa, um,

1023
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:06,520
Speaker 1: I forgot. I guess we can discuss because whatever. But

1024
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 1: my new Becca wants to have a meal with me

1025
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 1: and Becca, my new Becca, not not new Becca, my

1026
00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 1: new Becca. Sorry what us call her the Duela Becca?

1027
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 1: The Duala Becca wants to do like a double with

1028
00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: her and her best friend in me and you. Okay, cute, right, yeah,

1029
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 1: I'm fine. I mean it's her best friend named because

1030
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:38,919
Speaker 1: that would be excellent. No, but her best friend kind

1031
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 1: of looks like me, but I don't look like Becca.

1032
00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 1: We just have the same name, yeah exactly. Yeah, but

1033
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 1: you'all don't have the same name, but you look like exactly.

1034
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 1: Like we're meant to be friends. April twelfth was all

1035
00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 1: July around. I was actually thinking the first week of March,

1036
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 1: that's next week in fairness. Yeah, yeah, so yeah, you're in. Yeah,

1037
01:00:11,240 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm down for that. So cute, right, I feel it

1038
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 1: feels friend dates like meeting new friends and meeting them

1039
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: for the first time. It's always so I get awkward

1040
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 1: thinking about it, especially now it's like trying to socialize

1041
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:28,440
Speaker 1: with someone that you don't know already. It's already hard

1042
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:30,520
Speaker 1: to socialize with the people you do know, I know,

1043
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 1: and now it's awkward because you just I mean, you

1044
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:34,320
Speaker 1: obviously have to just meet somewhere outside and distant, and

1045
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 1: then you can't hug or shake hands. So that just

1046
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 1: adds a whole another element of like, hey, yeah, we

1047
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: we just started being friends with our next door neighbors.

1048
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:44,360
Speaker 1: There there are a couple are around our age and

1049
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 1: we're like, I've never I haven't felt like this since

1050
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:49,640
Speaker 1: I was like dating somebody, Like every time I said, like,

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01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 1: we have a group DM Alison and I and and

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01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 1: Tricia and dil On on Instagram, and I'm like second

1053
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 1: guessing everything I write. I'm like, does this make me

1054
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:02,640
Speaker 1: look weird? Does this funny? Else? I think the pandemic

1055
01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 1: has kind of created a little bit of social awkwardness. Yeah, yeah, no, literally.

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Speaker 1: I when I have seen a few of my friends

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Speaker 1: that I've seen outside of zoom or text or phone,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, yeah, you just have to say hey,

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01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 1: like you can't hug, you can't touch. Yeah, it's like

1060
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 1: the same thing, like, oh yeah, this is so crazy. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I can't wait to perform for Becca or look

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01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:37,720
Speaker 1: like Tanya friend. So should I call her my look

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01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 1: my lookalike Tanya? No, I'll find out her name, Okay,

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Speaker 1: but it'll be so cute. I've never met her either.

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Speaker 1: I just think it'd be fun. No, think it'll be

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Speaker 1: great just gal paling around. That's us. And then you

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Speaker 1: can ask her any questions you have about birth. Yeah

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Speaker 1: I don't have that like desire, but um, you can,

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01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 1: so what do you do with that? I just love

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Speaker 1: that Tanya had so many questions about birth, so many.

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Speaker 1: I'm just just like I didn't know the baby torpedoed

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Speaker 1: out of you, and that like you could use the

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Speaker 1: movement in your hips to help the situation. I tried

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01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 1: to explain to Tanya though, because she was talking about

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01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:20,560
Speaker 1: this about we were just in the car having a

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Speaker 1: conversation about like epidural no epidural, how everyone does it

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01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 1: different and she was like yeah, she was saying that

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01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:28,800
Speaker 1: if you stand and use your hips, it helps with

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Speaker 1: getting the baby out. And I was like, I just

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Speaker 1: want you to know there's a shoulders coming through that hole.

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Speaker 1: So what you're talking about with no pain and whatever,

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Speaker 1: if you're if you're a badass and you can do

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01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 1: it by yourself. I mean all Honestly, every single woman

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Speaker 1: who has given birth is a hero to me, whether

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01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 1: they did it with an epidural or not. Um, but

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Speaker 1: I was like, their shoulders coming out of there. Remember

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01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:57,800
Speaker 1: that shoulders, shoulders? Something is why does part of your

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01:02:57,800 --> 01:03:02,280
Speaker 1: body but it's a baby still Okay, Well, if you've

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01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 1: had anything, I know your mom thinks you had an

1090
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 1: eggplane up there, but like, aside from that, I'm talking

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Speaker 1: to you. When you've had shoulders up there, well, let

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Speaker 1: me tell you. And I'm kidding Yeah, that is horrifying

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Speaker 1: A weird note. We'll be back next week. That's right,

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01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 1: I thought you were going to add something. I will

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01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 1: have seen ted Lasso by the time we talk next time,

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01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:39,919
Speaker 1: so I will be ready to talk about it. Great

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01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 1: you and I can discuss um. But anyways, I love

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Speaker 1: you all. I hope you have a wonderful week, and

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Speaker 1: we'll see you next time. I love you. Bye. Two