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Thanks for listening to 38 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 2: our podcast and thanks for supporting the ministry. 39 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: If you enjoy today's message, why don't you be a 40 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:40,759 Speaker 1: blessing and share it with a friend. 41 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 2: We appreciate you and pray for God's very best in 42 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 2: your life. God bless you always a joy to come 43 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 2: into your homes. We love you. You're ever in our area. 44 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 2: I hope you'll stop by and see us. I promise 45 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 2: you will make you feel right at home. But thanks 46 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 2: so much for tuning in today. I like to get 47 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 2: started with something funny each week. And I heard about 48 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 2: this man. He came up to a Baptist pastor and 49 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 2: he said, Sir, my dog has passed away, and I 50 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 2: was wondering if you could come to my house and 51 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 2: have a funeral for him. The pastor seemed kind of annoyed, 52 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:23,079 Speaker 2: and he said, no, I can't do a funeral for 53 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 2: a dog. The man said, well, that's too bad, because 54 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 2: I was thinking about making a five thousand dollars donation 55 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 2: to your church. The pastor smiled and said, why didn't 56 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: you tell me your dog was Baptist? All right, hold 57 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 2: up your bible. Say it like you mean it's This 58 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 2: is my Bible. I am what it says. I am. 59 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,679 Speaker 2: I have what it says I have. I can do 60 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: what it says I can do. Today I will be 61 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 2: taught the Word of God. I boldly confess. My mind 62 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 2: is alert, my heart is receptive. I will never be 63 00:02:55,560 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 2: the same. I am about to receive the incorruptible, end instructible, 64 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 2: ever living seed of the Word of God. I'll never 65 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 2: be the same, never, never, never, I'll never be the same. 66 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 2: In Jesus' name, God bless you. I want to talk 67 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:17,519 Speaker 2: to you today about being a loyal person. If there's 68 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 2: one quality that seems to be lacking in our society, 69 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 2: it's loyalty. The words respect, honor, duty, integrity. We don't 70 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 2: hear too much of that anymore. And sadly, many people 71 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: are only out for themselves. They don't stick up for 72 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 2: their family and friends. They'll stab somebody in the back 73 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 2: in order to get ahead. They're not honorable. They think 74 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 2: nothing of criticizing people, bad mouthing their boss, bad mouthing 75 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 2: their country. They don't keep their commitments. They'll pack up 76 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 2: and leave their company of ten years overnight, high and dry, 77 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 2: just because they got a better offer somewhere else. It 78 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 2: all boils down to a lack of loyalty. And the 79 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 2: Scripture says in Proverbs twenty one twenty one, he who 80 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 2: pursues righteousness and loyalty finds life. Notice how righteousness and 81 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 2: loyalty go together. In other words, if we're not being 82 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 2: loyal to our family, loyal to our friends, loyal to 83 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 2: our country, then we're not going to experience God's best. 84 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 2: And I've seen people betray lifelong friends just to get 85 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 2: a promotion at the office. They may get ahead for 86 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 2: a little while, but in the end they're going to suffer. 87 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: God rewards loyalty and loyal people are honorable people. When 88 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 2: you're loyal, you stick with somebody through thick and thin. 89 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 2: When you're loyal, you keep your word even when it hurts. 90 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 2: People can count on you. Loyal people are respectful of 91 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 2: their country and leaders. They don't go around bad mouthing 92 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 2: people in authority. Loyal people honor their parents, They defend 93 00:04:56,920 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 2: their family, they defend their friends. When you're life, you 94 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 2: stick up for people. For instance, if I hear somebody 95 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 2: start to talk about you, and I know you're a 96 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 2: part of the Lakewood family, even if I don't know 97 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 2: you by name, I can tell you this, I'm gonna 98 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 2: defend you. I believe the best in you, so I'm 99 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 2: gonna do everything I can to take up for you. 100 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 2: That's what a loyal person does. Well, Joel, one of 101 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 2: your members tried to run me off the road last week. Well, 102 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 2: I'm sure they didn't mean to. I'm sure they just 103 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 2: got distracted. Maybe they were looking for their cell phone. No, 104 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 2: they were mad. They're hanking their horns. They had their 105 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 2: hands in the air, Oh, I'm sure they're just worshiping 106 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 2: the Lord. Lord. You are good. When you're loyal, you 107 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 2: will defend people even to a fault. Well, Joel, I 108 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 2: don't think that's right. Listen. I'd rather be too merciful 109 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 2: than too judgmental. And even if they were wrong, even 110 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 2: if they blew it, maybe they were having a bad day. 111 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 2: Why don't you give them the benefit of the doubt. 112 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 2: After all, if you've never blown it, go ahead and 113 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 2: throw the first down. See, when you're loyal, stick up 114 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 2: for each other. You believe the best in people. Anybody 115 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 2: can jump on that old negative, critical, fault finding bandwagon. 116 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 2: That's easy. But I don't know about you. I don't 117 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 2: want to be a fair weathered friend. I'll be with 118 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 2: you in the good times, but God bless you, and 119 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,359 Speaker 2: good luck and the tough times. You're on your own now, 120 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 2: I'm gonna stick with you through thick and thin. When 121 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 2: you're loyal, you'll be with somebody on the mountaintop celebrating 122 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 2: their victories, and you'll still be with them in the valley, 123 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 2: defending their honor, fighting for them. That's what it means 124 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 2: to be loyal. I heard something that Kevin mchel said 125 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 2: he was a famous basketball player with the Boston Celtics, 126 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 2: and after somebody made a game winning shot or they 127 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 2: did something really unbelievable to help win the game, the coach, 128 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 2: Casey Jones would never come over and congratulate that person. 129 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 2: He'd just go about his business. But anytime somebody missed 130 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 2: a game winning shot, did something that caused the team 131 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 2: to lose, Casey Jones would be the first one to 132 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 2: go to the person and encourage them, say hey, don't 133 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 2: worry about it, we'll get them next time. And one 134 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 2: day Kevin mchel asked him. He said, coach, how come 135 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 2: you never come over and congratulate us when we do 136 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 2: something good, but you're always the first one over when 137 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 2: we mess up and lose the game. He said, here's why, Kevin. 138 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 2: When you win, everybody's teering your own fifteen thousand people 139 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:23,559 Speaker 2: are screaming your name, shotting your praises. But when you lose, 140 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 2: when you're down, when you've blown it, when you've made mistakes, 141 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 2: that's when you need a true friend. And really that's 142 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 2: the way it is in life. It's easy to cheer 143 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 2: people on when they're on the mountaintop. It's easy to 144 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 2: tear them on when everything's going their way. But a 145 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 2: loyal person, a person of honor, a true friend, is 146 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 2: going to be their teering, your own, even when nobody 147 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 2: else is around. That's the kind of people we need 148 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 2: to strive to be true friends. The scripture says in 149 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 2: Galatians six', one whenever you see a brother or a 150 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 2: sister that has, fallen you who are spiritual should gently restore. 151 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:04,679 Speaker 2: Them notice it doesn't say you who are spiritual should 152 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 2: look down on them and sit around the table at 153 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:11,239 Speaker 2: lunch discussing their. Failures it doesn't say that we should 154 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 2: be critical in. Judgmental it says we're supposed to gently restore. 155 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 2: Them that's what a loyal person. Does there are too many, 156 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 2: fair weathered friends these. Days you even see it in 157 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 2: the sports. World one moment you're the. Hero a couple 158 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 2: of weeks, later you have a couple of bad, games everybody's, 159 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 2: boo and you're trying to run you out of. Town, 160 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 2: now we need to let our friends and our family 161 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 2: know we're with them for the long. Haul we're going 162 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 2: to be by their, side committed to them through thick and. 163 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:42,839 Speaker 2: THIN a true friend, defends a true friend restores and 164 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 2: a true friend is. COMMITTED i was in a grocery 165 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 2: store one time and there was this little boy looked 166 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 2: to be about three or four years, old and he 167 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 2: snuck around the corner where his mother couldn't see, him 168 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 2: and then he reached up and he pulled a whole 169 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 2: stack of cans off the, shelf must have been about 170 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: fifteen or twenty of. Them they hit the, ground started rolling, 171 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:05,079 Speaker 2: around and about thirty seconds, later his mother came around the, 172 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 2: corner and at the same, time another man that had 173 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,959 Speaker 2: been stalking the, shelves he came around the corner as. 174 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 2: Well you could tell he's a little. Aggravated and he 175 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 2: came over to this lady and, said, ma'am you're gonna 176 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,599 Speaker 2: have to keep your son under better control than. That 177 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 2: you cannot let him do this in our grocery. Store 178 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 2: and this mother was just a little, lady but she 179 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:26,559 Speaker 2: rose up like a. Tiger she, said let me tell, 180 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 2: you how dare you accuse my. Son you didn't see 181 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:31,719 Speaker 2: him do. IT i didn't see him do, It and 182 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:33,959 Speaker 2: even if he did do, it it's. Okay he's just 183 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 2: a little. Boy AND i, thought, man, mister you were 184 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:40,599 Speaker 2: messing with the wrong. Woman don't ever get between a 185 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:43,719 Speaker 2: mother and her. Child and WHAT i loved about that 186 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 2: was the way she rose up to defend her. Son 187 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 2: AND i, thought if we could just have that same 188 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 2: attitude toward the people in our. Lives when somebody starts 189 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:57,439 Speaker 2: accusing and talking about somebody we, love we should, say, 190 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 2: hey wait a, minute that's my, son that's my, friend 191 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 2: that's my, neighbor that's my. Coworker they may have made a, 192 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 2: mistake but you better give them a little, mercy because 193 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:09,200 Speaker 2: when you're messing with, them you're messing with. Me they 194 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 2: may not be, perfect but neither of. You so you 195 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 2: needed to back. Off you need to give them a little. 196 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 2: Slack that's what it means to be. Loyal you stick 197 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:21,079 Speaker 2: up for. People and it's funny this society has a 198 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 2: way of kicking people when they're. Down it seems like 199 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 2: we love to build people, up only to enjoy even 200 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 2: more seeing them torn. Down but when you're, lawyer when 201 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:33,559 Speaker 2: you're honorable and you see a, friend a, brother or 202 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 2: sister that's, down instead of talking about them being critical, judgment, 203 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 2: well really you're getting what you. Deserve, now we're supposed 204 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:45,199 Speaker 2: to lift the. Falling we're supposed to restore the. Broken 205 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 2: instead of saying too bad for, you we're supposed to 206 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 2: go to them and pour the healing oil onto their. 207 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 2: Wounds the scripture, says a gentle tongue brings. Healing do 208 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 2: you know kind words can get people back up on 209 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 2: their feet. Again, really mercy is simply loyalty in. Action 210 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 2: when you're, merciful when you're, forgiving when you help, restore 211 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 2: that is loyalty at. Work let me ask you, today 212 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 2: are you being loyal to your, friends loyal to your? 213 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 2: Family do you stick with them through thick and. Thin 214 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 2: it's so easy when people are, down when they made, 215 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 2: mistakes to be, critical to condemn, Them but really that's 216 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 2: when our friends need us the very. Most, now a 217 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 2: true friend is going to be by your side when you're, 218 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 2: hurting when you're, falling when you've made. Mistakes when we 219 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,719 Speaker 2: see somebody in, need our attitude should be they're on my, 220 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 2: team they're a part of my, family they work at my, 221 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 2: company they're a part of my. Church i'm not gonna sit. 222 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 2: Back i'm gonna step up and defend. Them and they 223 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 2: may have made. Mistakes i'm not saying that they're. Perfect 224 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 2: maybe they are, guilty but understand only the guilty need. 225 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 2: Mercy and if you're a spiritual, person you won't be 226 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 2: a part of the problem and, say oh, yeah that's. 227 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 2: Juicy let me tell you something. ELSE i know, now 228 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 2: when you're, loyal you will put a stop to. It 229 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:10,959 Speaker 2: when you're, loyal you'll be. Merciful there's a scripture In. 230 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 2: Proverbs it, says have you heard a word against your, 231 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:18,439 Speaker 2: neighbor then let it die within. YOU i like. That 232 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 2: it's saying you heard any good gossip? Lately you heard 233 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 2: anything bad about your, neighbor your, friends your, family your. 234 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 2: Pastor here's what you need to. Do bury, it don't spread, 235 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 2: it don't pass it. On you have a duty to 236 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 2: keep it. Quiet you have a duty to put a 237 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 2: stop to. It and they may be, wrong but a 238 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 2: loyal person doesn't go around bad. MOUTHING a loyal person 239 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 2: helps RESTORE i. Know years, ago one of the prominent 240 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 2: ministries was involved in a big. Scandal it was all 241 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 2: over the news and the men was. Guilty he admitted, 242 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 2: it and it seemed like the whole world had turned against. 243 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 2: Him the, media the late night talk show, hosts they 244 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 2: were having a heyday with. Him and when my father passed. 245 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 2: Away we were going through his files and we found 246 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 2: a letter that he had written this man during that. 247 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 2: Time daddy, SAID i know you are, hurting but we 248 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 2: want you to know we here At lakewood are on your. 249 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 2: Side and when we. Hurt my father went on to 250 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 2: tell him how he loved, him and he encouraged him 251 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 2: That god could still. Restore, see everybody has a bunch of. 252 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 2: Friends when they're on the, mountaintop they get all kinds 253 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 2: of praise and appreciation up. There your friends really needs 254 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 2: you when life has taken an unexpected, turn when they've made, 255 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 2: mistakes when they're in those difficult. Times AND i want 256 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:36,319 Speaker 2: you to have a bigger vision. Today the people in 257 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 2: this church are on your. Team defend. Them the people 258 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 2: in the church down the, street they're on our. Team 259 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 2: let's stick up for each. Other you hear somebody talking 260 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 2: about them knocking their pastor knocking why they do. Something don't, 261 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:52,599 Speaker 2: say oh, YEAH i don't understand it. Either that's kind of. 262 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:55,079 Speaker 2: Weird no stick up for. It put an end to. 263 00:13:55,240 --> 00:14:00,559 Speaker 2: It your coworkers at the, office your, friends your, neighbors your. 264 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 2: Team and these, days more than, ever we need each 265 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:07,439 Speaker 2: other and we need to make, sure especially that we 266 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 2: are loyal to our own family. Members stick up for your, 267 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 2: brothers your, sisters your, aunts your, uncles your. Relatives you 268 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 2: may not agree with everybody in your. Family you probably. 269 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 2: Don't some of them may get on your. Nerves some 270 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 2: of them may be a kind of. Loose maybe some 271 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 2: of them their elevator doesn't go. 272 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 3: All the way. 273 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 2: Up but if somebody is talking about one of your family, 274 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 2: members it is your duty to put a stop to. 275 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 2: It don't you? Dare let them get you all stirred 276 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 2: up to where you join in and before long you're 277 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 2: air and out all your family's dirty. Laundry, no we 278 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 2: should always be positive and honoring toward our. Family it 279 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 2: doesn't matter if they're the, laziest most undisciplined scoundrel. Around 280 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 2: you should never portray them in a negative. Light that's your. 281 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 2: Blood And i've seen people when somebody starts talking about their, 282 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 2: family they just jump on the. Wagon oh, yeah, MAN 283 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 2: i know what you. Mean they've been a jerk for. 284 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 2: Years you should see What i've had to put up. 285 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 2: With let me tell you some more stories about. Them, 286 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 2: no you have a responsibility to put a stop to. 287 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 2: It And i'm not saying make excuses for, them but 288 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 2: you can say something, like you, KNOW i know they've 289 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 2: got some. ISSUES i know they're a little bit, different 290 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 2: but they're, growing they're making. PROGRESS i love them down. 291 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 2: Deep they're a good. Person see that's your. Family be, 292 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 2: loyal take up for. Them always be positive in honoring 293 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 2: toward your own. Family and no matter how tempted you 294 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 2: are to get upset at, them no matter how different 295 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 2: they may, be never make the mistake of airing out 296 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 2: your dirty laundry from your family with other, people because 297 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 2: if you tell it to, somebody they're going to tell 298 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 2: it to somebody, else and before, long the whole world 299 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 2: will be talking about your family's. Problems that only makes it. Worse, 300 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 2: well you, Say, joel you don't understand my. Situation my 301 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 2: brother borrowed money from all of, us now he can't 302 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 2: pay us back and we're all. Upset or my father 303 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 2: ran off and married another lady messed our family. Up 304 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 2: well that's, unfortunate but it's still your. Family and it's 305 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 2: easy to kick people when they're. Down it's easy to 306 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 2: be judgmental and SAY i told you, so and just 307 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 2: shut somebody out of your. Life but the honorable thing 308 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 2: to do is to help restore that. Person the honorable 309 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 2: thing to do is to help bring peace back to your. 310 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 2: Family after, all they've got enough people pushing them. Down 311 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 2: the least they should be able to count on is 312 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 2: their own. Family AND i hope you have a good, 313 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 2: Family but if you, don't start sowing some, SEEDS i 314 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 2: Know i've been blessed in my. FAMILY i BELIEVE i 315 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 2: have people around me that would die for. Me my, wife, brothers, 316 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 2: sisters brother in, law sister in. LAWS i really believe 317 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 2: they would defend me to their dying. DAY i MEAN 318 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 2: i could go out here and rob a bank this, 319 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 2: afternoon steal a, car and they're gonna tell you, All, 320 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 2: joe he's just borring. It he's wanting to help somebody. Else, 321 00:16:57,760 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 2: now behind closed, doors they're gonna tell me to get 322 00:16:59,880 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 2: MY i act. Together but in front of, you that's my. 323 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 2: FAMILY i can do no. Wrong they're, loyal they're gonna defend. 324 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 2: Me they're gonna stick up for. Me and if we 325 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:11,679 Speaker 2: can't count on our own family to be with us 326 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:13,879 Speaker 2: in our times of, need who can we count. ON 327 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:19,159 Speaker 2: i remember one, time years, AGO i went through a 328 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 2: difficult time in my life a little set. BACK i 329 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 2: was kind of down in, discards thinking that everybody was against. 330 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 2: Me and about that TIME i got a note from 331 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 2: my Brother, paul and he, said, JEL i just want 332 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 2: to tell you how incredibly proud of aiming. You he. 333 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 2: SAID i love, YOU i respect, YOU i believe in. 334 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 2: You he, SAID i know this time is, difficult But 335 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 2: i'm going to be there to do ANYTHING i can 336 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 2: to help you make it through. It the scripture says 337 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 2: a friend loves at all, times but a brother is 338 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 2: born for. Adversity that's saying your friends are, great we 339 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:54,360 Speaker 2: all need, them but there's something special about your own. 340 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:57,879 Speaker 2: Family your, brothers your, sisters your, mom your, dad your, 341 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:00,879 Speaker 2: aunt's your. Uncles they were born to be with you 342 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 2: in the tough. Times and when things get, difficult we 343 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 2: have to learn to pull together as a. Family the 344 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 2: enemy would love to bring. Division he would love to 345 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 2: use strife and, conflict jealousy and bad attitudes to pull us. 346 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 2: Apart but we've got to rise above. That, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles. 347 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 2: Relatives quit bickering over things that don't. Matter get over 348 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 2: those petty little. Differences soon we're all going to be, 349 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 2: gone don't waste years of your life being mad at each. 350 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:35,359 Speaker 2: Other your family needs. You you have something that only 351 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:38,399 Speaker 2: you can give as a, brother a, sister an aunt and, 352 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 2: uncle a. Relative be there for your family when you're 353 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 2: a loyal. Person when you're a loyal, person you respect 354 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 2: and honor your. Parents you listen to what they have to. 355 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 2: Say you make them a part of your, life and 356 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 2: when they get, older you do your part to help 357 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 2: take care of them at. It when you were a, 358 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 2: child they watched after, you they fed, you they clothed, 359 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:09,120 Speaker 2: You they made incredible sacrifices for your. Sake and, really 360 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 2: life is a big. Cycle most likely there'll be a 361 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:15,640 Speaker 2: time when your parents need you to watch after, them 362 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 2: to help feed and clothe them as. Well they did 363 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 2: it for. You it's your duty to do it for. 364 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 2: Them do you know how many lonely parents there are 365 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 2: today sitting up in a nursing home. Somewhere nobody comes 366 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 2: to see. Them children too busy working all the time 367 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 2: building their. Careers know the honorable thing is to take 368 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 2: time for your, parents make them a part of your, 369 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 2: Life call them and let them know what you're. Doing 370 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 2: honoring our parents is the only commandment that comes with a. 371 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 2: Promise it, says if you will honor your mother and, 372 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 2: father you will live a long. Life AND i know 373 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 2: this takes, time it takes, commitment and, REALLY i don't 374 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 2: think the best thing to do is to just pay 375 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 2: somebody to take care of your. Parents it's our, duty 376 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:03,640 Speaker 2: our responsibility to spend time with, them to watch after. 377 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 2: Them and if you have brothers and, sisters it should 378 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:13,159 Speaker 2: be a team. Effort don't make one child do all the, 379 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:16,160 Speaker 2: work one brother pay all the, bills one sister spend 380 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 2: all the. Time, no pull your. Load be responsible and 381 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:23,399 Speaker 2: honor your parents by taking care of. THEM i believe 382 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:26,120 Speaker 2: one reason That god has blessed me is Because i've 383 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 2: always done my best to honor my father and my. 384 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:32,159 Speaker 2: Mother And i'm not, perfect but anybody that knows me 385 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 2: will tell you THAT i always treated my father like a. 386 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 2: KING i used to go over to my parents' house 387 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:40,440 Speaker 2: Every saturday night And i'd pick out a suit and 388 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:43,159 Speaker 2: a tie for my father to Wear Sunday morning on. 389 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 2: Television seventy five years, old AND i was still picking 390 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 2: out his. CLOTHES i remember One SATURDAY i was running. 391 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 2: Late my father, said Oh, joe don't worry about. It 392 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 2: let me pick out something on my. Own i'll pick 393 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:57,560 Speaker 2: out something. Good daddy showed Up sunday. MORNING i, thought Dear, 394 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 2: lord the cameras can't even handle. That you better. Believe 395 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 2: the Next, SATURDAY i made SURE i made it by his. 396 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 2: House later in my father's, life when he went on, 397 00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 2: DIALYSIS i was able to take him to the clinic many. 398 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 2: Times in, fact the last day of his, LIFE i 399 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 2: took my father to dialysis at four o'clock that. Morning 400 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 2: What i'm saying is sometimes you have to make sacrifices 401 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:24,359 Speaker 2: to honor your. PARENTS i didn't necessarily like getting up 402 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 2: at four o'clock many of those, mornings but that's. Okay 403 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 2: that's our duty as a, son as a. Daughter if 404 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 2: your parents live close, by swing by and check on, 405 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:36,920 Speaker 2: them mow their, lawn take them out to, dinner change 406 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 2: the oil in their, Car let them be involved in your. 407 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 2: Life watch after. THEM i know this young lady that 408 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:45,639 Speaker 2: gets up early every morning and before she goes to, 409 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 2: work before she gets her kids off to, school she 410 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 2: makes lunch and dinner for her elderly. Parents then after 411 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 2: she drops her kids, off she swings by and takes 412 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,640 Speaker 2: her parents that, food and then she goes to, Work 413 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:00,920 Speaker 2: she'll get up the next day it all over. Again 414 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 2: let me tell you that young lady is going to be. 415 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 2: Blessed she's going to live a long. Life god sees 416 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:11,200 Speaker 2: those seeds of. Loyalty AND i realize some of you 417 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,399 Speaker 2: don't have your parents any, longer or maybe you were 418 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,120 Speaker 2: raised by parents that didn't necessarily treat you very. Good 419 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 2: and you're, Thinking, joe the last Thing i'm gonna do 420 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 2: is honor my parents after what they did to. Me 421 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 2: BUT i want to challenge. You it may be, difficult 422 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 2: but you've got to do whatever you can to make. 423 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:30,639 Speaker 2: Amends and you may not ever be best, friends but 424 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 2: the fact Is god chose that man and woman to 425 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,880 Speaker 2: bring you into this, world and you have a responsibility 426 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 2: to show them respect and. Honor and even if you 427 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 2: don't do it for, them number, one you should do 428 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:44,680 Speaker 2: it for yourself so you can live a long. Life 429 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 2: and then number, two you should do it for your. 430 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 2: Children don't keep passing all that junk. Down set a new. 431 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 2: Example your children are watching. You they're watching how you 432 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 2: treat your. Parents and if you're cold and rude and 433 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,119 Speaker 2: you just blow them off and you don't let and 434 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 2: be a part of your. Life then those same seeds 435 00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 2: are being planted in your. Children now you've got to 436 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 2: swallow your pride and do whatever it takes to make 437 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 2: amends if you want to live a long. Life we 438 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 2: need to honor our. Parents we should learn to be 439 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:18,240 Speaker 2: loyal to our, family loyal to our, friends and then 440 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 2: let's make sure that we are loyal to our. Country 441 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 2: be loyal to that place wherever you. Live it may 442 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 2: not be, perfect but that's Where god has. You and 443 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 2: REALLY i don't know of one perfect. Country you have 444 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,399 Speaker 2: to look for the good and then be grateful for. 445 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 2: That and we should never demean and bad mouth our. 446 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 2: Leaders god has placed those people in. Authority we may 447 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:45,399 Speaker 2: not like what they, do but the scripture tells us 448 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 2: to pray for our. Leaders and there's so much hatred 449 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 2: and mean spiritedness in the world, today especially in the 450 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 2: area of politics and toward our. Leaders and we may 451 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,879 Speaker 2: not agree with, them we may not see eye to 452 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,439 Speaker 2: eye on their. Policy when it comes to name calling 453 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 2: and these personal, attacks it's not only dishonoring to that, 454 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 2: person it's dishonoring to our. Country and my prayer is 455 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 2: that we'd see a rebirth of, patriotism that we would 456 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 2: not focus so much on what we don't agree, on 457 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 2: but rather what we do agree. ON i, Know victoria 458 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 2: and all the national, holidays we hang the flag outside our. 459 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 2: Home we loved our. Country this is a great place to, 460 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 2: live And i'm all for having freedom of. Speech but the, 461 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 2: anger the, hostility it's not doing anything. Productive it's divisive 462 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 2: rather than unifying. Us and we need to learn to 463 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,640 Speaker 2: honor those that serve. Us learn to honor the people 464 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 2: in our. Military when you see one of our service 465 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 2: men or, women thank, them buy their, dinner express your. 466 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 2: Gratitude let's be loyal. CITIZENS i think about this. Church 467 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 2: it was built by loyal, people people that have stuck 468 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 2: with us for thirty or forty, years through the exciting 469 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 2: times and the not so exciting. TIMES i ran into 470 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 2: a lady last. Week she, Said, JOEL i remember when 471 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 2: you were. BORN i used to change your diapers in the. 472 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 2: NURSERY i, said that's, great but you can go ahead 473 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 2: and keep that to. Yourself but it was built by faithful, 474 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 2: people people we could count. ON i See robin around 475 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,240 Speaker 2: here all the. Time i've known, him since he was this. 476 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:29,440 Speaker 2: Big he and his family have been here, forever serving. 477 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 2: Faithfully they are. LOYAL i could Give robin the keys 478 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,360 Speaker 2: to my, car my, house give him my. Wallet i'm 479 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 2: not going To he's not that. Loyal but they are true. 480 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 2: Friends they are committed, people and that's the kind of 481 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 2: PEOPLE i want us to, be not high maintenance. Friends 482 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,359 Speaker 2: where if you do everything just right and you never 483 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,400 Speaker 2: let me down and you never offend, me Then i'll 484 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 2: stick with, you. Man but the moment you don't perform 485 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,159 Speaker 2: perfectly and you make a mistake and you don't come 486 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,399 Speaker 2: to my birthday, party That i'm out of. Here, now 487 00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:02,400 Speaker 2: let's be bigger than. That lest they committed to each 488 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 2: other through thick and. THIN i heard a story about 489 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 2: two young, Men jim And. Philip they were the best of. 490 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 2: Friends they did everything. Together they went to high school 491 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 2: and college. Together they played sports. Together even after, college 492 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:20,199 Speaker 2: they both joined The. Marines they were, inseparable and one 493 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:23,119 Speaker 2: day they were out on the battlefield In germany in 494 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 2: the midst of a very fierce. Battle gunfire was, everywhere 495 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 2: bombs were. Exploding it got so bad they were giving 496 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 2: the order to. Retreat as the men were running, Back 497 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,639 Speaker 2: jim noticed that his Friend philip wasn't with. Him his 498 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 2: heart was gripped with. Fear he. Panicked he rushed over 499 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 2: to the commanding officer and requested permission to go back 500 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 2: into the battle. Zone the officer, said are you. Crazy 501 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 2: you don't have a. Chance they'd be committing suicide going 502 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:54,640 Speaker 2: back in. There without missing a, Beat jim turned around ran, 503 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:58,200 Speaker 2: back defying the. Orders in a few, minutes the officer 504 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 2: Saw jim hobbling back across the field carrying a lifeless 505 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,240 Speaker 2: body in his. Arms it was his, Friend. Philip he 506 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,879 Speaker 2: squeamed at. HIM i told you not to. Go you 507 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,640 Speaker 2: could have been. KILLED i knew your friend was already. 508 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 2: Dead jim, said, no, sir you were. Wrong he was 509 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 2: still alive WHEN i got, there and his last words 510 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 2: WERE i knew you would come. Back and that's the 511 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 2: kind Of that's WHAT i want my friends in my 512 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 2: family to be able to say about. Me be, loyal stay, 513 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 2: committed stick up for each other when somebody falls when they're, 514 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 2: down don't kick, them don't criticize, them restore, them go to, 515 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,399 Speaker 2: them pour the healing oil onto their. Wounds, remember mercy 516 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,639 Speaker 2: is loyalty in. Action and when you're loyal to your, 517 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 2: family to your, country to your, friends then in your 518 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,399 Speaker 2: time of, need you can be Assured god will have 519 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:57,159 Speaker 2: somebody there for. You god rewards, Loyalty so let me 520 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 2: challenge you. Again be a person of. Honor don't be 521 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:04,160 Speaker 2: a fair weathered, friend stay, committed stick up for each, 522 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 2: other defend your, family honor your. Parents if you'll keep 523 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 2: sowing these seeds of, Loyalty god has promised he'll pour 524 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 2: out his blessings and favor and you'll find that life 525 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:17,000 Speaker 2: of victory That he has in. Store, amen do you 526 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 2: receive it this? MORNING i know you. Do we never 527 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 2: like your cars our broadcast without giving you an opportunity 528 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 2: to Make jesus the lord of your. Life would you 529 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:30,879 Speaker 2: pray with? Me just, Say, Lord, JESUS i repent of my. 530 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:36,160 Speaker 2: Sins come into my. HEART i make you My lord and. Savior, 531 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 2: friends if you've prayed that simple, prayer we believe you 532 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 2: got born. Again get in a Good bible based, Church 533 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,480 Speaker 2: Keep god first. Place he's going to take your places 534 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 2: that you've never dreamed. 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