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Speaker 1: Tips podcast because Rod and Karen are hot.

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Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to another episode of The Black Guy to

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Speaker 2: His podcast. I'm your host, Rod, join us always from

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Speaker 2: by my co host Hearing, and we are live on

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Speaker 2: a Saturday afternoon night evening, Saturday evening on a Saturday evening,

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Speaker 2: ready to do some feedback. This is where we talk

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Speaker 2: We're gonna cover it today and we're gonna, you know,

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Speaker 2: let you guys know that you're heard. You know we're listening.

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Speaker 2: And it's just gonna be one good, happy, you know,

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Speaker 2: happy episode. And it comes a day after are the

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Speaker 2: thirteenth anniversary of doing this podcast. M Yeah, like the

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Speaker 2: January sixth, before it was ruined as.

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Speaker 3: How damn y'all come and Yank got holiday away from us.

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Speaker 4: They gentrified our anniversary.

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Speaker 2: So Yeah, it's our potiversary. We started this January sixth,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like we we really did put the work in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and so the original January sixth.

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Speaker 4: Y'all know what we do.

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Speaker 2: First thing we need to do is talk about the

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Speaker 4: So let's go ahead and get into that happy attention.

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Speaker 2: Dizzy Lizzie Gal says, I too have thrmostat trauma. My

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Speaker 3: You know what this I'm surprised this ain't an article

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Speaker 1: A great article for that magazine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was episode fourteen eighty five. Damn, that's been

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Speaker 4: Y'all are awesome. Thank you. This looks like Key or Quig.

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Speaker 1: Oh my what did we talk about y'all arguing.

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Speaker 4: Well, Apia, I believe you forgot.

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Speaker 3: You're an introvert to and a lot of people they

443
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,680
Speaker 3: because we do the podcast and you know you're you're

444
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 3: not then quote unquote when people say introvert, I don't

445
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,879
Speaker 3: know why people think you're just a weirdo. Introverts are

446
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 3: not weird though, and they do have social skills a

447
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 3: lot of people just.

448
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 4: So Yeah, But that's the thing.

449
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 2: It's not just the introversion, it's also the risk aversion,

450
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, It's also me being like

451
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,879
Speaker 2: you know, when I when when you see people saying

452
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 2: shit like this city that I'm in, uh is in

453
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 2: like you know, the red as far as like alerts

454
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 2: for COVID, and then people are just.

455
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 4: Like, nah, fuck it.

456
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,159
Speaker 2: I'm not a all fuck it guy. You know, it

457
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,919
Speaker 2: just is what it is. But hopefully the numbers will

458
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 2: go down and I will be able to do some stuff.

459
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Speaker 8: You know.

460
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,679
Speaker 2: You know, they're predicting, at least the COVID guide our

461
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 2: offices predicting maybe into January, beginning of February, we'll see

462
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 2: the numbers come down and we'll be able to do

463
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 2: more stuff without mask and shit. And I think if

464
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 2: that happens, then then I'll be more after this do shit.

465
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 2: But yeah, right now, it's hot outside, you know, ibia

466
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 2: says we were told in company remote workers. Okay, especially

467
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 2: for people with other positions with no customer contacts on

468
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 2: like my job as long as it's in Germany because

469
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Speaker 2: something something tax law. I didn't research further because as

470
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 2: I told you, I can't do it.

471
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Speaker 4: Really. Yeah, I'm not knocking anybody. Yeah, Like you know, I.

472
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 3: Understand what you're saying about keys, because like the thing

473
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Speaker 3: that's unpredictable because children are unpredictable. So for some people,

474
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Speaker 3: particularly if you had children, you were sending them off

475
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:54,120
Speaker 3: the school. Not how funny, it was almost inevitable and ineviable.

476
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 3: But that word, uh, because you know you're dealing with

477
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Speaker 3: with children, and and.

478
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 2: We've talked about it many times. I've addressed it many times,

479
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 2: and you know, we've talked about we've been privileged to

480
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 2: go through this with the situation we have, So I'm

481
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 2: not you know, I would hope at this point y'all

482
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,199
Speaker 2: don't need me to acknowledge it every single time I

483
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 2: speak on it, because I've said it so many times.

484
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 2: But you know, in addition to those privileges, I know

485
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:26,120
Speaker 2: people that have the same privileges and they got it, you.

486
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 4: Know what I mean.

487
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,160
Speaker 2: Like, it's just it just it's just I know, I'm

488
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 2: in a very small group of people at this point,

489
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 2: and I'm not trying to risk getting it if i

490
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 2: can avoid it, The Swami says hi Rod and Karen

491
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 2: about the TikTok celebrity death prink. After a while, the

492
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:45,199
Speaker 2: admonitions of Angela Basset's son got to be too much

493
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 2: of a power on I saw too many people make

494
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 2: it all. They were tweeting about for multiple days and

495
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 2: reiterating the same points. Once he apologized, that should have

496
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 2: been it, but people were out here like dogs with

497
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: a bone.

498
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how it works. And yet.

499
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 3: They like you giving up like this. They We're gonna

500
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 3: keep talking until something else happened. We boared, so that

501
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 3: was gonna be the thing until something else took its place.

502
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 2: This is what I'll be talking about when I talk

503
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:17,959
Speaker 2: about these weird ass online hate parties. And I know

504
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 2: that there's people that listen to this, or you know,

505
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 2: maybe they stop listening. But I know there's people who

506
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 2: think I'm some level of contrarian at this point where

507
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, I like so and so or something

508
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 2: like that. But I swear to God, it's just not that.

509
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 2: It's just if a big ass group of people is

510
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 2: consistently like telling you, like targeting people for like mistakes

511
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,640
Speaker 2: or social faux pause and shit like that, especially after

512
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 2: the people have either apologized or addressed it, that group

513
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 2: is probably wrong and they're definitely not a group I

514
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 2: want to hang out with, even if I thought they

515
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 2: were right, because to me, it's not about the infraction.

516
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 4: It's about the.

517
00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 2: High of the group vibe the dynamic of we're all

518
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 2: gonna talk about this again, and yeah, a lot of

519
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 2: these motherfuckers.

520
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 1: Mhm, I said, and I'm better than.

521
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,199
Speaker 2: You and a lot of these motherfuckers to mean, the

522
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 2: problem is just the hypocrisy, because I watched the same

523
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 2: people talk about like shaming people for being like like

524
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 2: you need to be a soft parent or even and

525
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 2: you know, even if it's just somebody that says something

526
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 2: not not even like harsh like I'm gonna hit my kid,

527
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 2: but something like yeah, my kid did blank, and so

528
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 2: we had this thing planned for them and we're not

529
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 2: gonna do it now because they didn't do whatever it

530
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 2: was they were supposed to do in school.

531
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 4: And people, I'm for that behavior, right, and people will

532
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 4: be like, this is what's wrong with black parents and ship.

533
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 2: Like that where it's like, damn, what the like, y'all

534
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 2: are y'all are y'all are on one? Y'all really be

535
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 2: on one sometimes And yet those same people literally to

536
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 2: some of the same people. Word are people saying like

537
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 2: I hope they hit this kid. I hope Edgela, you know,

538
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: Angela bassetting them whooped them. Look at this, Look at

539
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 2: how he cryed that's because they you know, And I

540
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 2: was like, damn, you know, or I normally don't believe

541
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 2: in he and kids, but this one time, well, nigga,

542
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 2: everybody got one time. If that's the case, if that's

543
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 2: the if that's what the rule is gonna be, you know,

544
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 2: it's that full. Anyway, I didn't want to get in

545
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 2: to a whole tangent, my point being, I'm with you.

546
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 2: I thought the power on seemed kind of harsh, and

547
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 2: it ultimately seemed like the kind of shit that like,

548
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 2: these these kids are learning lessons.

549
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 3: But they happened to learn it, and he just happened

550
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 3: to learn it on a bigger platform because of who

551
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 3: his parents are.

552
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: Like you said, there's a lot.

553
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 3: Of children that have done this shit, but they're not

554
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 3: famous and their parents aren't famous, so nobody really cares.

555
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, he learned it in front of everybody, and that

556
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 2: sucks for him, and I do wonder what that will mean,

557
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: but you know, hopefully it'll be all good. But yeah,

558
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 2: I thought that was I thought it was interested in

559
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 2: how long people were mad at that kid. Adults like

560
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 2: the chastise the kid for their irresponsible Internet pranks. But

561
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 2: I find the train of harping on this for days

562
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 2: to be irresponsible, boarding off bullying, especially when it comes

563
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 2: from grown ass people who should have have their own

564
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 2: business to tend to and should who should know better.

565
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 2: Thanks for your perspectives. Love the show.

566
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 4: I'm with you, totally agree.

567
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 3: Uh.

568
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 2: Tanya says, rod so cool that you got a delivery

569
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 2: from Joe Stein rice roll. It's so good. I stopped

570
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 2: by their Upper West Side location from time to time.

571
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 2: If you order it from them again, ask for extra

572
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 2: chili oil.

573
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 4: It's amazing.

574
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 2: I did get extra chili oil. It's an option on

575
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 2: the delivery. And you know what, I was dipping, dipping,

576
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 2: dipping up in that chili oil. So uh, I was

577
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 2: dipping up in the oil.

578
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 3: Uh.

579
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 4: Dizzy. Lizzie Gao says.

580
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 2: Never taking a hush trip, but because we talked about

581
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 2: hush trips and I think it was the pole. A

582
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 2: hush trip is a trip you take from your without

583
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 2: your job knowing. So she says, never taken a hush trip,

584
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 2: but mostly because when I'm on vacation, I'm on vacation, lol.

585
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 2: I don't want to answer emails, take calls, nothing to

586
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 2: eat his own But that sounds like a drag to me.

587
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 2: I can I see how you would feel that way.

588
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 4: I think depending on the kind of job I had.

589
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 2: Like if I knew when five o'clock hit, I was off,

590
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 2: I knew for a fact I would be off. I

591
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 2: think I would do a hush trip like I like it,

592
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 2: because what would be better than being off? But you

593
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 2: in France, you know what I'm saying, like like like

594
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like, I'm maybe I had to be

595
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 2: in my hotel room or my airbnb for that eight

596
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 2: hours and that sucks or whatever. But then it's like

597
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 2: you walk outside and you're eating a fucking croissant and

598
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 2: going to the Eiffel Towers, like, yeah, this ship hit,

599
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 2: this ship hit different, you know.

600
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 6: Yeah?

601
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 3: And I do understand that the depend on what kind

602
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 3: of job you have. Say like no, no, nigga, you

603
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 3: can't do this because of whatever restriction within your job.

604
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: That's very understandable.

605
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 3: I know, certain government jobs and things like that, But

606
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 3: there are some jobs I'm like, y'all just doing this

607
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 3: just because y'all won't to Yeah.

608
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 2: I think the biggest thing would be where would you

609
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: go on a vacation and what the time zone difference?

610
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 4: Would be right, because like, I wouldn't want to go

611
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 4: to like Australia and I have to be.

612
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: Up from your day in advance.

613
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I gotta be up from like one am to

614
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 4: you know, nine am to.

615
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 2: Make it look like I'm working at the right times.

616
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 2: And shit, that's crazy. Sean says, I haven't taken a

617
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 2: hush trip, but I had a coworker who decided to

618
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 2: take on a full time synchronized remote teaching position with

619
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 2: zoom classes while the university we were working at was

620
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 2: using asynchronized remote teaching, which is no assigned class times.

621
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 2: Do you do it at your own pace? We got

622
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 2: a permanent he got a permanent position at the new place.

623
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 2: He was woundlighting that motherfucker. But I'm not bitter. The

624
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 2: Pink Superhero says, if you think vaccine compliance is scary overall,

625
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 2: wait until you look at things by age. Children in particular,

626
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 2: are so poorly vaccinated. For the under five set, it's

627
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 2: hovering their just to touch over ten percent. Why people

628
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 2: aren't more terrified of the impact of COVID on their

629
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 2: children's completely beyond me.

630
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 4: It wasn't fun.

631
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 2: Dragging my kids to get vaccinated over and over, but

632
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 2: we did that.

633
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 4: I don't get it either.

634
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 1: But this is just my prediction.

635
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 3: A lot of misinformation and a lot of the governments

636
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 3: and their messaging like this is one time I do

637
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 3: kind of you know, put it on them. A lot

638
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 3: of people bought into the myth that children can't catch

639
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 3: it and shit like that, and people was like, well,

640
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 3: you do know, we.

641
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: Took children out of school immediately so they were not

642
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: around each other.

643
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 3: But it was like when they started doing shit like

644
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 3: summer camps and all the shit would be like run

645
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 3: through these caps and run through this administrators.

646
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 1: We was ringing this over and.

647
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 3: Over again, and people just like it didn't matter. Children

648
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 3: were actually getting the adults around them sick and needs

649
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,720
Speaker 3: of some of these adults we were dying or dead

650
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 3: or you know me end up dying from it, and

651
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 3: people just have this myths, Well, it ain't that bad

652
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 3: in kids. Yeah, you said that to the parents who

653
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 3: have kids with lone COVID. You know you say that

654
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 3: to the parents because you know, children's immune systems are developing,

655
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 3: so how it shows in us and how it shows

656
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 3: in them might not be the same.

657
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 1: Because you know, none of us are pediatricians.

658
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 3: And some that's one of these things where people just

659
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 3: have this myth that their children would just be all right.

660
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,240
Speaker 3: But when you have a child and my be immune

661
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 3: compromising all these other things, you.

662
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: Know, as a parent, I was like, I would not

663
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: want my child to get this.

664
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 3: In a lot of this, a lot of people, Uh,

665
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 3: the anti backs movement has grown too, and a lot

666
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 3: of parents are you ain't getting this, nor are you're

667
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 3: getting anything else that you actually need to survive.

668
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:06,439
Speaker 1: Yeah.

669
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 2: I just think the fear mongerant around the vaccine was

670
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:15,880
Speaker 2: stronger than the fear people had of COVID, And I

671
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 2: think when they heard that kids weren't dying at a

672
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 2: rapid rate, it was like, then I'm not even gonna

673
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 2: get my kids vaccinated. And because kids weren't dying getting

674
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 2: sick at rapid amounts, because we you know, really cut

675
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 2: school out, we did a bunch of shit to make

676
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 2: su your kids didn't get it. But because that happened,

677
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 2: I think a lot of the talking points from a

678
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 2: lot of people turned instead of turning into like we

679
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 2: did a good job keeping this away from the kids,

680
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 2: it turned into well the kids can't even get really

681
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:53,879
Speaker 2: sick from it, Like like it just flipped into like, yeah,

682
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,359
Speaker 2: the kids are fine. We should let them get as

683
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,400
Speaker 2: much as they want and pass it around, even though

684
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 2: we finding out new long term effects all the goddamn

685
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,879
Speaker 2: time of like oh or the variants coming and it's like, oh,

686
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 2: this one has different effects than the last one.

687
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 3: So yeah, mm hmm and uh and a lot of

688
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,439
Speaker 3: children Black and brown children were being impacted, probably more

689
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 3: I think you read some more than the other groups,

690
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:22,839
Speaker 3: and so not funny like COVID when they was like, oh,

691
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 3: black and Brown's time.

692
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:25,879
Speaker 1: I won't get fun at take off your mask.

693
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, or just even even if it's not a race thing.

694
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 2: Some of the kids being disabled or uh, you know,

695
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 2: pre existing conditions, a lot of people didn't care.

696
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:40,400
Speaker 4: It's like, well, my kid doesn't have those things. Let's see.

697
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 2: Evie says, I didn't really know much about Andrew Tate

698
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,399
Speaker 2: until he got banned from Twitter the first time, and

699
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 2: then I forgot about him, and then he came back

700
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 2: with when Eli unbanned his Twitter. I just assumed he

701
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 2: was the white Kevin Samuels, but way worse. Even even

702
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: if he didn't get arrested because of the pizza box.

703
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 2: You gotta admit the time and the arrest is hilarious

704
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 2: because his last tweet was him being triggered by a

705
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 2: teenage girl. Oh, it's definitely hilarious if anything like I said,

706
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 2: it really points out the only wanted to make two points.

707
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 4: One the erroneousness.

708
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 2: Of it, but the way that it was accepted as

709
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 2: truth points out a lot of our biases.

710
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 4: Right.

711
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 2: We wanted to believe that that's what's happened, so that's

712
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 2: what we said now. And then the second thing was

713
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:31,839
Speaker 2: this woman knew that she made that up, and then

714
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 2: once the police had to come out and be like,

715
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 2: that's not how we caught him, she then only then

716
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,839
Speaker 2: came out and addressed like, oh yeah, I did make

717
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 2: this up, but still wouldn't delete it, which is so

718
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 2: interesting to me because I don't think that's an integrity thing.

719
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 4: I think that's a dopamin thing.

720
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 1: Of course, because it was integrity, you took it down.

721
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 4: That's what I believe.

722
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,760
Speaker 2: Gina Gate says, so so I so enjoy hearing Karen

723
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 2: talk about basketball. I had no idea players could be

724
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 2: so diverse in function. Oh my god, I don't.

725
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 1: Miss something more than me, but I don't miss something.

726
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

727
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 2: Thank y'all so much for introducing me to the way

728
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 2: of the house husband. It's adorable and hilarious, and it's

729
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 2: dubbed so I can listen. Do y'all know if there

730
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 2: are any sites or titles that have audio description of

731
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 2: anime English. I've added Love, Death and Robots to my

732
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 2: cue because it has audio description, but I haven't seen

733
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:33,959
Speaker 2: any others. Thanks, you know, Gina, I don't know. It's

734
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:38,799
Speaker 2: so interesting right because anime, I think they look at

735
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 2: it as well. We dubbed it to whatever native language.

736
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 2: That's the end, you know, Like I don't even think

737
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,879
Speaker 2: like and even then a lot of times they don't

738
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 2: really do a great job with that, cause, like I'm listening,

739
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 2: like on Crunchy Row. Sometimes they'll dub it no subtitles, right,

740
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 2: so they dubbed it, but now you can't read the

741
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 2: subtitles or no, you know what I'm saying if you

742
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 2: want to follow along or something, not even just the

743
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 2: subtitles from the Japanese version. Another thing they'll do, they

744
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 2: dubbed it, uh what uh spa family still two episodes behind?

745
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 2: My hero Academic still two episodes behind. And it's been

746
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 2: two episodes and it's been two episodes behind for like

747
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 2: a month. Like it's like it's not like because they took.

748
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:29,760
Speaker 4: A break for the for the for the holiday or whatever.

749
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 2: It's not like they're going, Okay, we took a break,

750
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 2: but you know, let's go ahead and catch up on

751
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 2: those real quick. For people, it's like, no, this is

752
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,839
Speaker 2: gonna be two episodes behind for a long time. And

753
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 2: so yeah, I don't think you're gonna find I hope something.

754
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 2: I hope there is someone that knows a resource hit

755
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 2: us up, but I don't think you're gonna find it

756
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 2: in the anime because they've packed themselves on the back

757
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 2: for just fucking translating the shit right.

758
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 3: They was like, you got it, But yeah, particularly with

759
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:02,439
Speaker 3: certain anime, uh like TV shows, particularly if they talk

760
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 3: low and things like that, like I actually want to

761
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 3: know what they're saying. And it'd be sometimes where you

762
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 3: know certain things they whispering something like down, I'm like, well,

763
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 3: what do they say?

764
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 1: I missed it?

765
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,240
Speaker 3: But you know, I don't have anything floating across my screen,

766
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:15,399
Speaker 3: so that turn it.

767
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,359
Speaker 1: Up real loud. It's like, no, this should come across

768
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 1: my screen. I was able to read this.

769
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Speaker 2: We got a couple of comments on YouTube. For this episode,

770
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 2: j del Nagro says, laughing my ass off at I

771
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 2: got some points.

772
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 4: You can you can power and all shit, what a

773
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 4: bitch is that?

774
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 2: During the HR diversity meeting, Ramsey says five stars for

775
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 2: said staying truthful in these streets.

776
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 4: Thank you. You know how we do.

777
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:47,879
Speaker 2: And the poll for this episode is have you ever

778
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 2: taken a hush trip? Ten percent of our audience has

779
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:55,440
Speaker 2: nine have not on the.

780
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 4: Website, but let's check.

781
00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 2: The people with money on Spotify probably work remote sixteen percent,

782
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 2: so it's a higher percentage sixteen percent have eighty four

783
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 2: percent have not. Now they also probably don't need to

784
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:12,759
Speaker 2: take her trips because when you got that kind of

785
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 2: money at your job, you can just take a loud

786
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 2: trip like I'm not working because I'm gonna be in Cabo,

787
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,880
Speaker 2: Sam lucas usual PTO.

788
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 1: These people not here with the unlimited PTO time.

789
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 4: Right, don't worry about what I'm doing.

790
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,359
Speaker 3: And nobody answering no email you you see my out

791
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 3: of office message right then.

792
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 2: The comment for the show was where does one go

793
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 2: to meet adult friends?

794
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:40,879
Speaker 1: That's a great question.

795
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 4: Because it's not a dope friend finder. No, it's definitely you.

796
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 1: Don't want to find them there.

797
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,840
Speaker 2: No, So if you want to find some adult friends,

798
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 2: it's like you really don't have as many options as

799
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 2: it seemed like you should.

800
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:53,359
Speaker 8: Uh.

801
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 2: Chresey one thirty one says the Orthodonis that's in like

802
00:41:58,200 --> 00:41:58,839
Speaker 2: the waiting room.

803
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 4: Maybe Raphael have straight teeth or they're trying to get there.

804
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 4: If they had the orthodot, try to get teeth.

805
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 2: Raphael says, go to Prospect Park and staying in the

806
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 2: big line with a sign describing as type of friends

807
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:14,839
Speaker 2: you seek and you shall find thee Let me know

808
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 2: how it goes, and if you get paid, give me

809
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 2: fifteen percent considered research. Is that what the prostitutes are?

810
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:27,320
Speaker 2: What's Prospect Park? Ms Barr says the bar with the

811
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 2: thumbs up emoji. Okay, so that's all I like to do.

812
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 2: Start off with them being drunk. You know, I like

813
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 2: my friends unstable.

814
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 4: Aaron says. Bumble bff, bumble bff. That's that subdivision of bumble.

815
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 4: Kiser says, damn, I damn if I know. After my

816
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,800
Speaker 4: divorce in twenty fifteen, I used to find events to

817
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 4: meet new people via Meetup. I made a few pals

818
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:54,919
Speaker 4: through Facebook, but it's hard to make new in real

819
00:42:54,960 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 4: life pals. Vader says, Bumble friends has worked for me

820
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 4: a bit. Oh so he was real for real about

821
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 4: that Bumble thing.

822
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 2: Okay, in terms of places, dog it's so wait on

823
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 2: Bumble's be claim to fame is at least on the

824
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 2: dating side, I guess on the heteronormative dating side. It

825
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 2: being specific, the women have to accept the requests from

826
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 2: the dude before you can even really start talking.

827
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:22,280
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.

828
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 4: Does it work that way for the friends too?

829
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 3: Okay, so the friend find is like a subsection of

830
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 3: like Bumble itself.

831
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 4: It sounds like, yeah, it sounds like they have a

832
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 4: friend division.

833
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 3: But then you just out here you just needing friends

834
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 3: because they figured out that for some people, they like,

835
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 3: I don't want to date. I just want to meet

836
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 3: people to be friends. Like, nothing sexual about it for

837
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 3: some people.

838
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 2: But if the hook is on Bumble, the women have

839
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 2: to accept first. How does it work for just the

840
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 2: friend part? That's what I'm asking, Like, do they still

841
00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 2: have that rule?

842
00:43:58,640 --> 00:43:58,800
Speaker 4: You know?

843
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: Does the roof? I don't know?

844
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 4: Uh, but she says, uh, I got She says.

845
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 2: Dog parks are all all right, but depending heavily on

846
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 2: where you live and if you have a dog, right,

847
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 2: if seeming awkward does show up with no dog, Like,

848
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to make some friends. Uh, I got

849
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 2: so many whites in mind that it starts to feel

850
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 2: like I'm at the office. And Neil finally says, I

851
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 2: found one of my closest friends playing pickup soccer at

852
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 2: my local park.

853
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, pick up basketball, I think is a pretty.

854
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 2: Reliable way to meet friends because you can kind of

855
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 2: fill them out through, you know, playing the sport. Cause

856
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 2: I think people basically play sports the way they are

857
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:41,360
Speaker 2: in real life. You know, they cheat on the on

858
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 2: the court, they cheat on their wife, they cheat on

859
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:43,800
Speaker 2: their taxes.

860
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 4: You know, I'm that serious, Like.

861
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 1: All that shit you said that.

862
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 3: I think you said your dad told you like people's

863
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 3: personalities would shine on the court, like who you are

864
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 3: will actually shine.

865
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:57,479
Speaker 2: I don't know if it was something my dad told

866
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 2: me or just something I picked up in life, but

867
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:03,359
Speaker 2: just how motherfuckers are playing basketball is how the fuck

868
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 2: they are period.

869
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 1: I remember you telling me that.

870
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember, I think you said that, but I

871
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 3: remember you were saying, yeah, you were saying, if you

872
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 3: do certain things and I look at your life, all

873
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 3: that shit bulls down together.

874
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: You're like, if you come in here anger you is

875
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 1: anger in life.

876
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 4: Yeah.

877
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:21,320
Speaker 2: Episode twenty six fifty six, the last Karen og you

878
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 2: had four comments, Appia says, the name Karen is absolutely

879
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 2: unknown here. I know no one who isn't from the

880
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 2: English world who has this name. We have Karen with

881
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 2: an I close but somehow very different and also spoken differently,

882
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 2: with the A like the A at the end of

883
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 2: him the so like Karen, Like that okay, interesting, I've never.

884
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: Seen it with I send it with a y, I

885
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:49,879
Speaker 1: send it with an E.

886
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, that's interesting.

887
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 2: And I guess they don't have a reputation then, like

888
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 2: the Coree over there in Germany isn't like they're not like,

889
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 2: oh my god, here she goes, She's gonna call the cops.

890
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 9: Uh.

891
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:10,439
Speaker 2: Newsy says, oh man, I love that Karen flew through

892
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 2: Kataru Lives Alone. That anime was so good. I wonder

893
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 2: if you were like Romantic Killer Karen. It's out about

894
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 2: a girl who has handsome men thrust into her life

895
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 2: and attempt to get her to fall in love, but

896
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 2: all she cares about is chocolate, video games, and her cat.

897
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,359
Speaker 2: It's hilarious but also a little sad yay anime.

898
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:32,919
Speaker 1: So that sounds fun.

899
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 6: Yeah.

900
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: I flew through that and I was like, oh, think

901
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 1: of the season two.

902
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what app that song. I'm looking

903
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 2: it up now it's on Netflix. Okay, cool, so I'll

904
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:46,800
Speaker 2: added to my cue as well.

905
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think.

906
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 2: I'm waiting on Spot Family and Funimation to get the

907
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 2: dubs going for uh for my hero.

908
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 1: But check get It Together.

909
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 4: I check every day to multiple times.

910
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:08,839
Speaker 3: I tricked Country Road like one of y'all bitches, get

911
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 3: it Together now.

912
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 4: Hulu, all of them, they are like, right.

913
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 3: But tipped the press playing like fuck it, but I

914
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:19,879
Speaker 3: like the English version right right?

915
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 4: So but uh Yeah.

916
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 2: In the meantime, I actually started watching Housing Complex.

917
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 4: See it's on HBO Max.

918
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,959
Speaker 1: Oh that's the one they had on Adults Swim.

919
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 10: Yeah.

920
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:35,720
Speaker 4: And then.

921
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot slower than the commercials made it look.

922
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 2: I'm on like episode three. It ain't shit happened really,

923
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,439
Speaker 2: And then the other thing I'm watching is and I'm done.

924
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 4: I'm almost done.

925
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 2: I'm on the last episode and it's been a journey

926
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:53,760
Speaker 2: because it's nine episodes as long. It's called uh Inventing Anna.

927
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 2: I guess inventing Anna, as she would say in her accent.

928
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 2: But uh, it's about that scammer that was like part

929
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 2: of the high society life of New York City and

930
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 2: ended up being exposed as like a fake German heiress

931
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:13,360
Speaker 2: that ended up going to jail for the frying a

932
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 2: bunch of people and shit.

933
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 4: A little because I never really gave a fuck.

934
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 2: Okay, like, hoigh society, Yeah, high society, white people scaming.

935
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 2: It's just I think I just don't have the reverence

936
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 2: for it that it seemed like that during the the

937
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 2: the hot the heyday of the scammer, where everybody was like,

938
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 2: I'm a scammer and all scammers.

939
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 4: I love scammers.

940
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 2: I guess I just never got into it. Like it

941
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 2: always was something about it that felt like, I don't know,

942
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 2: they seemed like kind of shitty people, Like like a

943
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 2: lot of that.

944
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 1: Was not complex.

945
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 3: It was like, oh, y'all just doing this, like they

946
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 3: allowed to be scammed because they're white. They're not scamming

947
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 3: because they doing so because you know, they are good

948
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 3: scammers regardless of the color of skinning.

949
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 1: But like, oh, yeah, this is some complicated shit.

950
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 3: Did you know we're trying to fool people, but they

951
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 3: were just doing basic gas.

952
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 1: I'm white and money at them.

953
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 4: I am now and I don't know how this happened.

954
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 4: I don't know.

955
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm just in a mood, but I am like

956
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 2: I have watched like three or four things about scammers

957
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:21,720
Speaker 2: in the last like week or two. I watched Bernie

958
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 2: Madoff's documentary series on Netflix. It's like four episodes long,

959
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:31,439
Speaker 2: very unimpressed by his scamming, and came away just going, oh,

960
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:35,399
Speaker 2: he was a white man and other white people trusted him,

961
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:40,320
Speaker 2: and the apparatuses that are supposed to catch people scamming

962
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 2: didn't work because the people just trusted him.

963
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 3: Beyond that, they didn't work right because you'd be like, oh, yeah,

964
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 3: if somebody with it did a basic as job, it

965
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 3: would have flagged something.

966
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 2: They had multiple times where people literally had him dead

967
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 2: to rights and just did not do the due diligence.

968
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 2: Like there was a time where someone did a whistleblower

969
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 2: thing on him, and the FCC or whoever it was

970
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 2: called him or the SEC whichever one anyway they called him.

971
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 2: He said he didn't do it, and then they just

972
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 2: was like, okay, good enough for us. And I was

973
00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 2: just like okay, and then he just went on to

974
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 2: steal billions of dollars.

975
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 1: But cool, cool, cool.

976
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 2: And then the other one I watched last night was

977
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 2: call Me Miss Cleo, missus Cleo or miss Cleo.

978
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, HBO hated that document.

979
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:37,439
Speaker 2: I would have liked it, I think if they would

980
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 2: have stuck with the black people that knew her from

981
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,799
Speaker 2: when she was coming up and when she kind of

982
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 2: invented that character. But then they switched halfway through into

983
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 2: this very sympathetic we believe everything she said. She was

984
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 2: a real victim, her life was traumatic, even though we

985
00:50:55,320 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 2: don't really know any details and can't confirm shit. And

986
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 2: then it turned into all the white people that kind

987
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:06,880
Speaker 2: of took her in like a pet after the psychic

988
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 2: after the Psychic hotline thing blew up, and she was

989
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 2: like had She was like basically disgraced, even though I

990
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 2: do understand how she got an unfair shake with the

991
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 2: Psychic Hotline thing, because it's not like she owned it.

992
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:21,360
Speaker 4: She just was the person in commercial.

993
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 2: And she her reputation and shit took a bigger hit

994
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:28,359
Speaker 2: than the people that fucking really was scamming people, right,

995
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 2: But all that shit aside, she was also like a

996
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 2: shady person.

997
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 4: In a lot a lot in life, and she and so.

998
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 2: But it was so crazy to watch these white folks

999
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 2: because at the end, those are the people that seemed

1000
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:49,879
Speaker 2: like they really wanted this documentary made and really wanted

1001
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 2: a sympathetic take. And for some reason, Raven Simone was

1002
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 2: in there, even though Raven Simone must have been four

1003
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 2: years old when this shit happened.

1004
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, she I feel like she had to be a

1005
00:51:58,680 --> 00:51:59,720
Speaker 1: little girl and that shit.

1006
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so weird, so weird, but it was just so

1007
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 2: weirdly done, and knowing nothing was really answered, you know,

1008
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 2: it's like it's like the documentary. It's like the documentary,

1009
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 2: but the fucking it's not that I just like to

1010
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 2: answer to my documentaries. The fucking documentary is basically what

1011
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 2: happened to miss Cleo?

1012
00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:24,960
Speaker 4: Who was?

1013
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:26,799
Speaker 2: She might as well have been the name of it.

1014
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 2: And then when you fucking watch it, you're like, wait, what?

1015
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 4: Like what? What?

1016
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 5: How? How?

1017
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 3: How?

1018
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 4: When? When when y'all gonna tell me where she came from?

1019
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 4: When y'all gonna find any you know, any of the

1020
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 4: claims that she made about like her family and the

1021
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 4: people who did raise her. No one went to look

1022
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 4: into that that's crazy to me.

1023
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:58,879
Speaker 2: That's you gotta do due diligence like that.

1024
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 8: Huh.

1025
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 2: They taught her immediate family, No, nobody from her past

1026
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 2: other than the people that like.

1027
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 4: Grew like the people that the people that the people that.

1028
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 2: Were in like drama and stuff like that were her

1029
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 2: and was like, yeah, we knew her when she went.

1030
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 2: Her real name was Jurie and she we knew her

1031
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 2: from like doing this. Some people even was like we

1032
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 2: was in the drama club. Whatever the fuck when she

1033
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 2: invented the charactermist Cleo and then they had a ton

1034
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 2: of Jamaican people that was like, yes, she was not Jamaican,

1035
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:40,839
Speaker 2: Like the way she talked, it was not how we

1036
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:44,880
Speaker 2: talk and it was like a put upon accent. And

1037
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 2: everybody black, everyone Jamaican knew that it was a fake

1038
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:51,799
Speaker 2: ass accent, but these white people ate it up.

1039
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:52,800
Speaker 4: Put line and sinker.

1040
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 2: My favorite line was this one white woman going some

1041
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 2: shit to the It was some stupid ass line like

1042
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 2: we don't know whether she was Jamaican or what she

1043
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 2: really was, but it didn't matter because love doesn't have

1044
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 2: an accent, bitch.

1045
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 4: What yeah what that means?

1046
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:20,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it was just super accent. Yeah, it was

1047
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 2: just super weird man.

1048
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 4: But yeah, it's you.

1049
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:32,320
Speaker 3: Know, so your love don't so your love don't walk

1050
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:34,280
Speaker 3: in there speaking all all.

1051
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 1: Types of accents. Your love don't do that, apparently, right.

1052
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 2: So and yeah, I see some people saying Raving Simone

1053
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 2: would have been twenty.

1054
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:46,280
Speaker 4: When it's happened.

1055
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 2: So because it was in the late nineties, Raving Simone

1056
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 2: is what thirty seven, so she would have been No,

1057
00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 2: late nineties is over twenty years ago, so she would

1058
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 2: have been like sixteen, seventeen some shit like that.

1059
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 4: I said four as a joke, but so.

1060
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 2: She she she was not old enough to like know

1061
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 2: Miss Cleo is my point. And if you watch the

1062
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:12,919
Speaker 2: fucking documentary, which I suggest you do. If you don't

1063
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:15,760
Speaker 2: believe me, go listen to how she talks about Miss Cleo.

1064
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:19,760
Speaker 2: She talks about it like she's finding out like the audience.

1065
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 2: She has no personal relationship, no story of specific like

1066
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 2: that specific to like anything. It's all just like you know,

1067
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 2: the documentary will be like and then Miss Cleo came

1068
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 2: out of the closet, and then they cut back the

1069
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 2: Raven Simona.

1070
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 4: Raven Simona will be like, okay, go ahead, Miss Kleo.

1071
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:43,040
Speaker 2: And I'm like, she just found that out. She just

1072
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:45,759
Speaker 2: found that out. Get out of here, like you like,

1073
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 2: why is she in this documentary? Why y'all just just

1074
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 2: want to be like and remember her from the nineties, like,

1075
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 2: get out of here, guys. But yeah, that's it's all good.

1076
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 2: I just it wasn't a good documentary. And then so yeah,

1077
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 2: I think those I watched that the made off thing

1078
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 2: in this inventing honor thing, which is also ridiculous.

1079
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 4: So I guess I'm just in the scammer territory right now,

1080
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:09,360
Speaker 4: all right. Tangent over.

1081
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 2: Uh Brooklyn Shoe Base says I haven't followed Diddy's love

1082
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 2: life since he dated Jlo lo O l Happy New

1083
00:56:19,040 --> 00:56:22,959
Speaker 2: Year fam girl, saying, and I honestly didn't care about

1084
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 2: that until that shooting.

1085
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,719
Speaker 3: I'm the same and they broke up and I didn't

1086
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:28,800
Speaker 3: care since then.

1087
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 2: And I and I unlike I know a lot of

1088
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 2: people won't admit, but they really didn't start hating j

1089
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 2: Lo until that shooting. Ship and I was one trillion

1090
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:45,800
Speaker 2: percent on j Loo side. Mm hm one, I can't.

1091
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,440
Speaker 2: I couldn't have been more on jay Loo side about that.

1092
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:52,760
Speaker 3: Damn shippe nigga, you shooting people.

1093
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:58,239
Speaker 4: The fuck? What do you think? No, I'm not doing that.

1094
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:02,959
Speaker 4: Mm hmm. We not casually fucking around with murder.

1095
00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:05,359
Speaker 1: Uh uh. People.

1096
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 4: I thought Dylo was ride or out Nigga, what died?

1097
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:11,320
Speaker 6: Did I?

1098
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:15,759
Speaker 1: I am not ride and I ride and call the

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Speaker 1: motherfucking police. I'm not that bitch.

1100
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Speaker 2: I still remember people talking like she was supposed to

1101
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Speaker 2: like go to jail for them or some shit.

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00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 4: I'm like, Nigga's just crazy.

1103
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 3: I don't don't care how hot your boppus to try

1104
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 3: to beg her to come back bitch.

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00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:32,240
Speaker 2: No, yeah, yeah, when these made them, I need a

1106
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:34,480
Speaker 2: girl part wanting too, I said, yeah, well, it's not

1107
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 2: gonna be j Lo to scare her away, even he says.

1108
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 2: I live next to a Karen whose name is actually Caring,

1109
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:43,760
Speaker 2: and she's nosy as hell, but she's nice to me,

1110
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Speaker 2: so no problems these past twelve years. But don't let

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Speaker 2: her catch you outside because she will talk to you

1112
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Speaker 2: for a half hour straight and won't take hints when

1113
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 2: you say you have to go. I imagine with the

1114
00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 2: negative connotation of that name. Now, not many people will

1115
00:57:57,520 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 2: name their kids that for many years to come, unless

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00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:02,160
Speaker 2: the parents are hippies like the ones who named their

1117
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 2: kids Gertrude and author. If you looking for anime suggestions,

1118
00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:10,920
Speaker 2: you may enjoy blue Lock. If you're into sports anime,

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00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:13,440
Speaker 2: it's pretty good, all right.

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Speaker 1: I've never heard of that one.

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00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know blue Lock either.

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00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 1: With soccer and one of the mother with sports.

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, Actually we were suggested this on the nerd Off,

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I've heard of it, just haven't had time

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Speaker 2: to get to it. And then let's check the comments

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Speaker 2: on YouTube for this episode, which was the last karen

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Speaker 2: og two six five six. We got through two comments.

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Speaker 2: My mom says, great show, dear brother and their sister,

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00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 2: Thank you mom. Jay says, dude, with the fake parking

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00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 2: tickets that sound like a Van Wilder plot line to

1131
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 2: get beer money?

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00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 4: It does?

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00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:56,520
Speaker 5: It does?

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00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 4: Oh that kid man. And then the poll was, did

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00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 4: do you follow Diddy's love life? Yes? And I always have? Yes,

1136
00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 4: but only recently or not really?

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00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 1: Not really? I could kill less ninety.

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00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 2: Six percent of the audiences with you they do not

1139
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:17,760
Speaker 2: follow his love life. Four percent says yes, but only recently,

1140
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:21,480
Speaker 2: probably because they following JT and the City Girls. Probably

1141
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 2: I don't really know who City Girls is zero percent

1142
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 2: say they always have, which, like I said, I'm not

1143
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,560
Speaker 2: even judging people. It was more that I did not

1144
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 2: know there were any there was anybody that did follow

1145
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:39,439
Speaker 2: his love life like that until black Twitter. Black Twitter

1146
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 2: was the thing no I first saw people. It's yeah,

1147
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 2: it was the first time I saw people being like,

1148
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 2: this is a black you know, this is a black

1149
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:49,800
Speaker 2: guy that I care about because I'm black. And I

1150
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 2: was like Diddy, who did his fucking Okay, all right,

1151
00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 2: that's that's new for me to me. But uh, it's

1152
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 2: like another one is when you find when I found

1153
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 2: out that everybody that black people fuck with the woman

1154
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:15,200
Speaker 2: from Golden Girls that just died like like recently before

1155
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 2: she turned a hundred, Betty White, I didn't.

1156
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 4: Know that was I.

1157
01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 2: You know, it was like, oh, yeah, I love the

1158
01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 2: Golden Girls, you know, buy me being at my grandmama

1159
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 2: house and watching them spicy old white women talking. You know,

1160
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:32,200
Speaker 2: I loved I loved Rose and Angela and Dorothy and

1161
01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,160
Speaker 2: Blanche like that was my ship.

1162
01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 4: As a kid.

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01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 2: But I didn't know anybody else black fucked with Golden

1164
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 2: Girls cause we wasn't going to school and having the

1165
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:47,200
Speaker 2: Golden Girls conversation like you know, like that wasn't a

1166
01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 2: topic of conversation. It wasn't like Martin or living single

1167
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 2: or something. It's like, oh, what did you see when

1168
01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:55,400
Speaker 2: Blanch when she fucked that that new.

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01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 4: Suitor and he died, Like, we don't. We didn't talk

1170
01:00:58,160 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 4: about that.

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01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 8: So uh.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't until Twitter that I found out so many

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01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 2: black people had grown up and loved Golden Girls and

1174
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:10,439
Speaker 2: specifically Betty White Diddy's love life.

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01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 4: Is that for me?

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01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 2: Well, I'm like, oh, it was a subsection of black

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01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 2: people that they didn't just follow him, but they have

1178
01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 2: opinions and they get mad about the shit.

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01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:22,200
Speaker 1: They care. They care a lot more than me.

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01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't. Do you follow these love life for

1181
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 4: the people with money on Spotify? Yes? And I always

1182
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:34,960
Speaker 4: have four percent, yes, but only recently seven. Not really.

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01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 2: The pole the liver King, I mean, not the pole,

1184
01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 2: the comment the liver king more like the liar king

1185
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:49,560
Speaker 2: boom roasted, unlike the meat he consumes it was roasted.

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01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 3: Uh.

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01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 2: Keith Taylor says, I just looked up what your liver

1188
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,920
Speaker 2: does and what the entire hell would make anyone want

1189
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:56,919
Speaker 2: to eat that shit wrong.

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01:01:57,080 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 4: Periodically, I have to ask aloud all the whites. Okay,

1191
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:01,440
Speaker 4: the essence always.

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01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 1: Know that's is out a lot of shit.

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Speaker 2: Well, the other thing with the liver king that's so

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01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 2: interesting is I don't like regular cook the liver. I like,

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01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:23,439
Speaker 2: I don't even like that, and I don't think many

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01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:23,960
Speaker 2: people do.

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01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 4: Now, there's gonna be some weirdose that's gonna say they

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01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 4: love it, because there's always some black people that love everything,

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Speaker 4: and so I'm not saying there's a model lift, but

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying I don't know these people, you know

1201
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 4: what I mean.

1202
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,880
Speaker 2: Like, I've never kicked it with the person. Like, I've

1203
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:43,439
Speaker 2: never been at a restaurant and watched somebody order liver.

1204
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 2: I've only had this environmental settings where I either had

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01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:54,880
Speaker 2: no choice or something like like where it's like my

1206
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:57,360
Speaker 2: mama made liver. So guess what the fuck were eating

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01:02:57,680 --> 01:02:59,959
Speaker 2: what mama made? Cause you ain't really got no choice,

1208
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 2: do you.

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01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: That's why I hate I haven't ate that in years.

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01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,040
Speaker 1: And it's one of those things where it's not on

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01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: the top of the agenda, and it's hard.

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01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 2: It's not just not on the top of the agenda,

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01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:13,080
Speaker 2: it's on the fucking bottom of the agenda.

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01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:13,480
Speaker 4: Karen.

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01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 2: It's not on the agenda at all. It's we've been

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01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:23,160
Speaker 2: together so long, not once, Nope, livers on sale, not once?

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01:03:23,280 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 4: Have you? Oh, let me get some liver. You know

1219
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:27,640
Speaker 4: what I want to make. Why don't you make me

1220
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 4: some liver tonight now? Not one request? Ever, it's not good.

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01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:35,200
Speaker 4: So yeah, this nigga eating it raw, that's even worse.

1222
01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 4: Is my point? Be cooked, Miss barn says. Miss Barne says,

1223
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 4: what was this?

1224
01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 3: Full?

1225
01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:47,600
Speaker 4: On January sixth, Raphael says, apparently if I was a shirtless.

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01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:51,840
Speaker 2: In lemon MANKINI mumbling and a lemon MANKINI mumbling, grumbling,

1227
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 2: I mean mumbling, grunting, wild flashing abs, I would have

1228
01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:58,360
Speaker 2: been sold out of NFTs and living on my own

1229
01:03:58,400 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 2: private island.

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01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 3: But I have a yes, you would have you trying

1231
01:04:01,600 --> 01:04:04,919
Speaker 3: to have standards of selling your NFTs and that don't work.

1232
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 4: New Year, New Flavor. Here's the thing.

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01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 2: I don't think there's a black version of the liver

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01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 2: ky that makes what he made. I think you just

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01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 2: would have been I think you just would have been

1236
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 2: a weird fake app having a nigga because the white

1237
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 2: people is not the thing that he's he's also selling

1238
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 2: that that none of that he's not having to be

1239
01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 2: out loud about is insurrection and in cell and January.

1240
01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, like he's selling a lot of magas.

1241
01:04:37,160 --> 01:04:38,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not gonna be able to know I'm not

1242
01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 2: just talking about steroids because he wasn't selling that.

1243
01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:42,480
Speaker 4: He was selling the opposite of steroids.

1244
01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 3: He was.

1245
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 4: He was like, I'm doing all this through just eating liver.

1246
01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:48,920
Speaker 4: That's what he was. I'm eating raw and that's why I'm.

1247
01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 8: Right.

1248
01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 4: But the under the unspoken part he was selling was

1249
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 4: a lot of white supremacy.

1250
01:04:56,720 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 2: You know, you didn't see him hanging American flags, right,

1251
01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 2: you ain't see him hanging out a lot of brothers.

1252
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:03,360
Speaker 10: You know.

1253
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:06,959
Speaker 2: He's also like anti vaxx leaning. You know what I'm saying,

1254
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 2: Like you so don't don't. What I'm saying is, don't

1255
01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 2: be too hard on yourself. I think you would have

1256
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 2: run into some other hurdles connecting with his audience, is

1257
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 2: all I'm saying. Roger says, cook his cook, that nigga,

1258
01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 2: that's what he should have did to that liver.

1259
01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:31,360
Speaker 4: Cook that lever. So that's it for that. One last

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01:05:31,480 --> 01:05:35,640
Speaker 4: episode is viral load, And we had.

1261
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Speaker 2: Seven comments on episode twenty six fifty seven viral load.

1262
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:42,760
Speaker 4: Sorry, that wasn't supposed to play.

1263
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 2: Let's get to the comments on the website. Appil says,

1264
01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 2: predicting the worst news imaginable seems to be great but

1265
01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:55,959
Speaker 2: for business, and you never have to say you were wrong.

1266
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 2: You can just say that it didn't come true.

1267
01:05:58,560 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 4: Yet. That's a great point.

1268
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:04,280
Speaker 2: Now do you remember when in twenty twenty Corona started

1269
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:06,840
Speaker 2: and so many people said the world was ending and

1270
01:06:07,000 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 2: there was never any correction. How people were expecting amoricron

1271
01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 2: a delta remix to take over an affection is omoricron

1272
01:06:13,520 --> 01:06:16,440
Speaker 2: and as deadly as delta. It didn't happen. Yes, remember

1273
01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:19,440
Speaker 2: when they said we're gonna have flu rona. It was

1274
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:21,200
Speaker 2: gonna be the flu and coronavirus.

1275
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:21,960
Speaker 4: You don't remember this?

1276
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:25,439
Speaker 1: Oh shit, they crossing hands, reaching across the eye.

1277
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:28,520
Speaker 4: This is news to you, Karen. I swear we covered

1278
01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:29,800
Speaker 4: this on the show We Problem to Do.

1279
01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:31,400
Speaker 1: You just sticking my head?

1280
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 4: All right?

1281
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 2: Well, well I guess that's that's just more proof, right.

1282
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 2: Flu Arna was such a big deal.

1283
01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 3: It didn't last long, not long enough for me to

1284
01:06:40,480 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 3: remember them. But but you know, I remember BB one, three,

1285
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,200
Speaker 3: eight and all these other variations.

1286
01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 2: It was supposed to be so fucking scary, and then

1287
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:52,160
Speaker 2: it just didn't happen, and nobody went back and went, huh,

1288
01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 2: maybe we should have to relax one of bringing the

1289
01:06:57,480 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 2: fear level up to one million and take a step back,

1290
01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:05,160
Speaker 2: and tangentially, it's all to me goes back to people

1291
01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:06,320
Speaker 2: not deleting tweets like.

1292
01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 4: You'd rather get the attention of Flarona is coming and

1293
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:15,480
Speaker 4: it's gonna kill your kids and your grandchildren and your bets.

1294
01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 3: And then when it's like it's gonna up, it's gonna

1295
01:07:18,440 --> 01:07:20,680
Speaker 3: jump out the window and attack you in the middle

1296
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:21,080
Speaker 3: of the night.

1297
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 2: I've been doing my calculations and as you look on

1298
01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:28,720
Speaker 2: this chart, you can see by tonight at midnight, Florona

1299
01:07:28,800 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 2: will be one hundred percent in everybody. And it's like, okay, well.

1300
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:36,400
Speaker 4: That's either gonna happen or not happen, and we will

1301
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:38,880
Speaker 4: have proof at midnight that it didn't happen.

1302
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 2: Yet I'm like, oh, okay, okay, uh, this way, we

1303
01:07:45,640 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 2: always have a very anxious state. Can they relaxed ninety

1304
01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 2: five minutes? And that's why at the end of the

1305
01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:52,320
Speaker 2: year it was always a terrible year, as it seems

1306
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:57,640
Speaker 2: right and That's also why I don't watch news anymore.

1307
01:07:57,680 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 2: I read them and it's more than enough. Lou Luna says,

1308
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 2: I think that ten year old party story is a

1309
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 2: total scam. I'm always skeptical of all stories like this,

1310
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 2: but when it's this saddening, it feels like a scheme.

1311
01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:14,760
Speaker 2: I blame the parents on this. When going and telling

1312
01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:17,519
Speaker 2: this to Reddit is a red flag. It seems to

1313
01:08:17,640 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 2: me like a sympathy graph for an attention seeking parent.

1314
01:08:20,520 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 2: If it actually did happen, I still blame the parents.

1315
01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 2: They must be awful enough for adults not to just

1316
01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:27,000
Speaker 2: suck it up and let their kids come, eat some

1317
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:29,519
Speaker 2: cake and run around with their friend. Maybe it's the

1318
01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:32,599
Speaker 2: whole family and they don't get just how much people

1319
01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:35,560
Speaker 2: do not like them. Right, they be showing up the

1320
01:08:35,560 --> 01:08:37,800
Speaker 2: school board meanings like we need to burn these books

1321
01:08:37,840 --> 01:08:40,200
Speaker 2: and get read of critical race theory. Now, instant listen.

1322
01:08:40,280 --> 01:08:42,559
Speaker 2: My kid has a birthday party coming up on Saturday.

1323
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:45,840
Speaker 2: All you niggas are, all you niggas are invited, Okay,

1324
01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:49,400
Speaker 2: I don't care. I don't care, okay, but I just

1325
01:08:49,479 --> 01:08:51,640
Speaker 2: bring make sure you bring a present, take your shoes off,

1326
01:08:51,720 --> 01:08:52,719
Speaker 2: and you gotta stay outside.

1327
01:08:52,760 --> 01:08:57,280
Speaker 4: I mean, I mean, come in, okay, as.

1328
01:08:57,360 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 2: Listen, don't say gay, But that don't mean you can't

1329
01:09:00,439 --> 01:09:03,720
Speaker 2: say happy birthday. So don't don't let don't let that

1330
01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:06,720
Speaker 2: stop me. Okay, you can blow out some candles as

1331
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:08,639
Speaker 2: long as you don't touch anybody at my party.

1332
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:13,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I could definitely see. I could definitely it's gotta

1333
01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:15,559
Speaker 4: be something with them kids, with the parents, I can

1334
01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:15,840
Speaker 4: see that.

1335
01:09:16,640 --> 01:09:18,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, she said, if it's just the parents and

1336
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:21,559
Speaker 2: the kid's sweet as can be, then I really feel

1337
01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:24,240
Speaker 2: for him. But all in all, I totally agree with Rod.

1338
01:09:24,280 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 2: I was washing the dishes when y'all were going through this,

1339
01:09:26,439 --> 01:09:28,840
Speaker 2: when shaking my head, and then I jumped right towards

1340
01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:30,760
Speaker 2: my speaker as if y'all were in the kitchen with me,

1341
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:33,439
Speaker 2: screaming there's something more than this and it just reeks

1342
01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:35,120
Speaker 2: of scam slash awful humans.

1343
01:09:36,520 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 4: Yeah. Absolutely, he just.

1344
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:42,880
Speaker 3: Loved cake and pointless times and running around like you

1345
01:09:43,040 --> 01:09:44,640
Speaker 3: had literally everything a.

1346
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:48,040
Speaker 1: Child will won't and parents was like m.

1347
01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 2: And a lot of parents will suck it up, meaning

1348
01:09:52,400 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 2: they can like for the sake of their kids, like

1349
01:09:55,520 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 2: my kid is friends with a conservative with a kid

1350
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:04,439
Speaker 2: who has a conservative set of parents or whatever. But

1351
01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:07,439
Speaker 2: those two kids happen to be friends, and a lot

1352
01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:10,120
Speaker 2: of times parents will be like, well, and now maybe

1353
01:10:10,160 --> 01:10:10,679
Speaker 2: it's changed.

1354
01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 4: You know, I can see it changing over Trump, but

1355
01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:16,599
Speaker 4: at least back in the line at Trump. But at

1356
01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:18,439
Speaker 4: least back in the day they used.

1357
01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:20,920
Speaker 2: To be like a level of like, you know what, man,

1358
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:24,719
Speaker 2: like we don't need to make kids deal with adult

1359
01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:28,519
Speaker 2: shit yet. So like, just because you voted for a

1360
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:31,760
Speaker 2: person I didn't vote for, that don't mean our kids

1361
01:10:31,800 --> 01:10:36,080
Speaker 2: can't play basketball together. And so so it just makes

1362
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 2: me think something else is up. If the parents couldn't

1363
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 2: even look that aside to be like going to the party,

1364
01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:44,240
Speaker 2: it's fine, I've bell says, I agree one hundred percent.

1365
01:10:44,560 --> 01:10:46,920
Speaker 2: Sounds very suspicious and I wouldn't find it. I would

1366
01:10:46,920 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 2: find it very embarrassing as a kid to get this

1367
01:10:49,439 --> 01:10:52,720
Speaker 2: kind of attention. You have no friends, but at least

1368
01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:54,479
Speaker 2: strangers feel bad for you and pity you.

1369
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 1: Right right, there's a bunch of shit from people we

1370
01:10:58,880 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 1: don't know.

1371
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:01,639
Speaker 4: Not calling the news team.

1372
01:11:02,160 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 5: You know you ain't calling Channel nine out.

1373
01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 4: Went this news report.

1374
01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:11,280
Speaker 2: Wow, nobody nobody showed up to my loser son's birthday.

1375
01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:13,679
Speaker 2: Call Channel seven.

1376
01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:16,599
Speaker 1: Tune in at eleven.

1377
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:20,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, eve E says, I called bys with the kid's

1378
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:22,880
Speaker 2: birthday party as well. It seems like this trend started

1379
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 2: a while ago where someone posts their kid looking all

1380
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 2: sad because no one showed up to their party, and

1381
01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:30,360
Speaker 2: it's usually a kid that has special needs. First of all,

1382
01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 2: I thought that trend was kind of humiliating for the child,

1383
01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:35,400
Speaker 2: and up there with the parents who punished their kids

1384
01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:38,840
Speaker 2: online for likes. Your parenting online just seems like a

1385
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:40,080
Speaker 2: bad proposition.

1386
01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:41,519
Speaker 4: In general, terrible idea.

1387
01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:44,280
Speaker 2: The point I think was the game sempathy and possibly

1388
01:11:44,320 --> 01:11:46,519
Speaker 2: money and gifts out of it, and it usually worked

1389
01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:49,599
Speaker 2: after the first few posts like that when viral, more

1390
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:50,600
Speaker 2: people started doing it.

1391
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:53,880
Speaker 4: But then this is when all the scammers came in.

1392
01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:56,519
Speaker 2: For example, a few years back, a woman posted her

1393
01:11:56,600 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 2: kid and her car crying her eyes out because he

1394
01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:02,639
Speaker 2: was being bullied. People were sharing their posts and even

1395
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:05,120
Speaker 2: I felt bad for the kid. The kid even had

1396
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:08,720
Speaker 2: his Chris Evans and Mark Ruffalo. Oh, the kid even

1397
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:11,280
Speaker 2: had Chris Evans and Mark Ruffalo invite him to the

1398
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:12,680
Speaker 2: premiere The Avengers and Family War.

1399
01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:14,759
Speaker 4: I remember that story black.

1400
01:12:14,560 --> 01:12:16,680
Speaker 2: Twitter CSI stepped in and found out the kid was

1401
01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:19,400
Speaker 2: being bullied for Collins classmates the end Word and found

1402
01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:21,680
Speaker 2: out the family was a whole last Team Magot. I

1403
01:12:21,800 --> 01:12:24,640
Speaker 2: remember that they've lit that family up and Chris and

1404
01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:27,000
Speaker 2: Mark Mark felt so bad he had to invite a

1405
01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:28,600
Speaker 2: black kid who was bullied.

1406
01:12:28,280 --> 01:12:29,519
Speaker 4: To the premiere as well.

1407
01:12:29,840 --> 01:12:33,519
Speaker 2: I remember that now whenever I see people post their

1408
01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 2: kids to Gardner sympathy, I scrolled right to past.

1409
01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:37,320
Speaker 1: Yo.

1410
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:43,200
Speaker 2: Yes, that's what it is, the fact that you're even

1411
01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:49,400
Speaker 2: putting it out there is suspect. It's suspect because it's

1412
01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:54,240
Speaker 2: like it's like almost like a weird Munchauser syndrome type reaction,

1413
01:12:55,280 --> 01:12:59,800
Speaker 2: you know, so Munchchime's the syndrome is when people make

1414
01:12:59,880 --> 01:13:02,599
Speaker 2: the kids or pretended that kids are sick to get

1415
01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:05,559
Speaker 2: the attention and the sympathy from the folks within the community,

1416
01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:09,559
Speaker 2: and they'll be like, oh, my kid has cancer, Da

1417
01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 2: da da da, And then you find out later like oh,

1418
01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:14,360
Speaker 2: she was poisoning her kid, or she was making them

1419
01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:15,160
Speaker 2: go to the hospital.

1420
01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:17,920
Speaker 3: Stories like that, Yes, well you were like the fuck

1421
01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 3: were you doing? Or either they flat line all together,

1422
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:22,240
Speaker 3: Baby ain't even sick.

1423
01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:23,439
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.

1424
01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:26,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, Apia says, my job is a kind of job

1425
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:28,240
Speaker 2: where I could work twenty four to seven because there

1426
01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:31,560
Speaker 2: were always one hundred and fifty projects simultaneously, and I

1427
01:13:31,640 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 2: have to set boundaries to not work on weekends or vacation. Luckily, Wolfgame,

1428
01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:38,599
Speaker 2: my supervisor also sets those boundaries. For example, doesn't call

1429
01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:41,240
Speaker 2: at the six pm unless we are having an event.

1430
01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:42,840
Speaker 4: But it pays well.

1431
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:45,519
Speaker 2: I always tell myself, Appia, you could be stressed and

1432
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:48,360
Speaker 2: make no money. When I'm very stressed, I opened my

1433
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 2: pacelips files and look at them. No joke, it helps.

1434
01:13:51,960 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1435
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:54,640
Speaker 4: You know what's funny is like, and I've just been

1436
01:13:54,960 --> 01:13:58,519
Speaker 4: lucky in life. I've never really done.

1437
01:14:00,200 --> 01:14:04,320
Speaker 2: As of yet, I've never done something where I like,

1438
01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:06,880
Speaker 2: really fucking hated it, but it was getting paid so

1439
01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 2: well that I was like, I guess I'm gonna deal

1440
01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:09,960
Speaker 2: with this shit that I hate.

1441
01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:14,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've done a lot. I broke jobs that I

1442
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:16,760
Speaker 1: did not like, but the money was not with you.

1443
01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, but the money wasn't It wasn't a money thing.

1444
01:14:19,200 --> 01:14:21,160
Speaker 2: It's like, I didn't I don't like this job, but

1445
01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:24,400
Speaker 2: I'm I you know, shit, I wish I could look

1446
01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:25,679
Speaker 2: at a check and get the motivation.

1447
01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 1: You know, I ain't that the truth.

1448
01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 2: But uh yeah, so as of yeah, I haven't hated

1449
01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:33,519
Speaker 2: anything that much that I needed to look.

1450
01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:36,519
Speaker 4: At my bank account. But also I haven't made enough

1451
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:39,920
Speaker 4: to be looking at my bank account and be like, oh,

1452
01:14:40,040 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 4: thank god, because I would kill these motherfuckers if it

1453
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:43,680
Speaker 4: wasn't for this.

1454
01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:47,080
Speaker 1: You know, they was paying me a lot less.

1455
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:51,760
Speaker 4: No, all right, Gina says. Having to get back in

1456
01:14:51,840 --> 01:14:54,880
Speaker 4: the mask and consistently at work again. It's so hard.

1457
01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:56,760
Speaker 4: The second day back, one of my.

1458
01:14:56,800 --> 01:14:59,120
Speaker 2: Coworkers tests are positive. She thought it was the flu,

1459
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:03,240
Speaker 2: and the students are. Before the break, my boss had it.

1460
01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 4: Damn.

1461
01:15:04,360 --> 01:15:06,960
Speaker 2: I'm vaxed and booster. But it's getting scared again. I

1462
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:10,560
Speaker 2: don't want to get it in three years in I

1463
01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:12,320
Speaker 2: want to get my COVID diploma.

1464
01:15:12,439 --> 01:15:14,559
Speaker 5: Me too, Me too.

1465
01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:15,839
Speaker 1: That's why.

1466
01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:21,479
Speaker 3: I guess it's something you never graduate from until COVID

1467
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:24,040
Speaker 3: decide to throw its cap and gown and nail.

1468
01:15:24,680 --> 01:15:27,160
Speaker 1: You never graduate from it. Yeah, and you just keep

1469
01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:27,960
Speaker 1: getting the boosters.

1470
01:15:28,240 --> 01:15:29,200
Speaker 4: We'll see what happens.

1471
01:15:29,240 --> 01:15:29,439
Speaker 3: Man.

1472
01:15:30,800 --> 01:15:32,760
Speaker 2: The written one says Rod, I thought I was being

1473
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 2: an asshole, so I'm glad. I'm so glad. You also

1474
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:37,960
Speaker 2: called bullshit on that kid's birthday.

1475
01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 4: Party.

1476
01:15:38,240 --> 01:15:39,920
Speaker 2: I knew she was lying when she said all for

1477
01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:43,400
Speaker 2: the guests return to RSVP. That has never happened ever.

1478
01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:45,760
Speaker 2: And you mean to tell me not even one.

1479
01:15:45,760 --> 01:15:47,880
Speaker 4: Or two of those kids showed up after saying they come.

1480
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 2: Ain't no way. I think Mama just wanted to go

1481
01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:53,160
Speaker 2: viral and get the loot. She knew cond people would

1482
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:54,960
Speaker 2: send to her. It's happened before.

1483
01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:55,960
Speaker 4: I'm with y'all.

1484
01:15:57,720 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 2: That's a conspiracy theory. I'm all in on every We

1485
01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:04,599
Speaker 2: got comments on YouTube. My mom says, y'all got them

1486
01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:05,400
Speaker 2: joke jokes.

1487
01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 4: Thank you, mom. I have fun with the viral load story.

1488
01:16:10,720 --> 01:16:10,920
Speaker 3: You know.

1489
01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 2: I think we had a We had a bunch of

1490
01:16:13,160 --> 01:16:17,559
Speaker 2: silly stories this week, and that was very fun. Jay

1491
01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:20,320
Speaker 2: Deel Nigro says, viral problems is what shuts down porn

1492
01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:24,479
Speaker 2: production in the Valley. Viral problems is how Sepsis talks

1493
01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:27,360
Speaker 2: ish to the staff infection. I promise you you don't

1494
01:16:27,360 --> 01:16:30,280
Speaker 2: want these viral problems in your life. You got you

1495
01:16:30,400 --> 01:16:32,760
Speaker 2: get viral problems after you click the link in that

1496
01:16:32,960 --> 01:16:37,840
Speaker 2: unfamiliar email message saying you've been awarded money for mesothelioma

1497
01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:42,120
Speaker 2: vesseloma Class actual lawsuit and now viral problems can be

1498
01:16:42,280 --> 01:16:43,280
Speaker 2: used in bank heist.

1499
01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:45,600
Speaker 4: Gotta love It, Gotta love it.

1500
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:47,680
Speaker 1: The only reason why I remember that is because of

1501
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:49,320
Speaker 1: the lawsuit I looked at. They were like, the hell

1502
01:16:49,439 --> 01:16:50,320
Speaker 1: is that? Nick said?

1503
01:16:50,360 --> 01:16:51,559
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I know what that is now,

1504
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:58,519
Speaker 4: And then the poll is do you currently work more

1505
01:16:58,560 --> 01:17:04,160
Speaker 4: than one job to make the ends me? Nineteen? Go ahead,

1506
01:17:04,160 --> 01:17:05,719
Speaker 4: I'm sorry yes.

1507
01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:09,240
Speaker 1: And the thing is because I'm just so accustomed to

1508
01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:09,960
Speaker 1: doing what we do.

1509
01:17:10,160 --> 01:17:14,160
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's work, but it's like one of these things

1510
01:17:14,200 --> 01:17:16,599
Speaker 3: where you go, yeah, I'm actually in the group.

1511
01:17:16,400 --> 01:17:17,680
Speaker 1: Because you're at a tam You was like, you know,

1512
01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:18,679
Speaker 1: we both in this group.

1513
01:17:19,200 --> 01:17:21,840
Speaker 2: Well, you know what's interesting. I would not I would

1514
01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:24,040
Speaker 2: not say I'm in this group. And here's what I

1515
01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:25,920
Speaker 2: mean by that. I'm not doing it to make the

1516
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:26,599
Speaker 2: ends meet.

1517
01:17:27,400 --> 01:17:32,080
Speaker 1: No, I'm not either group, but I work do work

1518
01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:32,679
Speaker 1: two jobs.

1519
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:37,639
Speaker 4: I've been in this group before, you know what I'm saying.

1520
01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:41,400
Speaker 2: Where it was like like, like not that I would

1521
01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:45,720
Speaker 2: do this, but like I could technically be like, man,

1522
01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:46,920
Speaker 2: I'm coming home.

1523
01:17:47,240 --> 01:17:49,599
Speaker 4: I don't want to do game theory anymore.

1524
01:17:50,320 --> 01:17:52,400
Speaker 2: Y'all could keep the rest of this check and I

1525
01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:55,320
Speaker 2: could go back home and make a living off of

1526
01:17:55,400 --> 01:17:59,920
Speaker 2: our podcast and we would be straight. So like, to me,

1527
01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:03,320
Speaker 2: that's different than when I was like getting off of

1528
01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:04,600
Speaker 2: work and then going to.

1529
01:18:04,720 --> 01:18:09,000
Speaker 4: My other job and it was like I'm gonna need

1530
01:18:09,120 --> 01:18:10,519
Speaker 4: this check on Friday.

1531
01:18:11,080 --> 01:18:14,000
Speaker 2: I gonna need the other check every other Friday, or

1532
01:18:14,160 --> 01:18:17,240
Speaker 2: rent is going not it's not gonna happen.

1533
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:22,200
Speaker 4: That was different. So yeah, I would say, you know,

1534
01:18:22,400 --> 01:18:25,400
Speaker 4: we moved on up a little bit, but yeah, yeah,

1535
01:18:25,760 --> 01:18:27,760
Speaker 4: we got jobs are convenience.

1536
01:18:27,840 --> 01:18:31,559
Speaker 3: So I'm I'm blessed to be like I I uh

1537
01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:36,439
Speaker 3: am the point where uh it's not like rent won't

1538
01:18:36,439 --> 01:18:36,880
Speaker 3: get paid.

1539
01:18:37,200 --> 01:18:39,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, they making the ends meet a little better, that's all.

1540
01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:43,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, Paul, do you currently work more than one

1541
01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 2: job to make the ends meet?

1542
01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:47,160
Speaker 4: Yes? Eighty No.

1543
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:53,000
Speaker 2: On Spotify of course, twenty four percent. Yes, seventy six

1544
01:18:53,080 --> 01:18:58,560
Speaker 2: percent no job well no, no, no, hold on, I

1545
01:18:58,880 --> 01:19:01,240
Speaker 2: listen to the math, Caaren, Yes, it's higher.

1546
01:19:02,600 --> 01:19:04,800
Speaker 4: Oh oh, so so.

1547
01:19:04,840 --> 01:19:06,479
Speaker 1: They got them hustles, they like I got I got,

1548
01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:07,439
Speaker 1: I gotta get to the bag.

1549
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:10,439
Speaker 4: No that's not that's not what I think it all.

1550
01:19:10,920 --> 01:19:13,919
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm the opposite, Am I not understanding?

1551
01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:14,720
Speaker 4: No you don't.

1552
01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:16,960
Speaker 2: It's not that you're not understanding. I'm just I'm just

1553
01:19:17,080 --> 01:19:18,680
Speaker 2: gonna let you finish. And now I was gonna say

1554
01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:22,920
Speaker 2: what I think happened. Go ahead, I think this is

1555
01:19:23,040 --> 01:19:26,840
Speaker 2: how the rich people they spend more money. So like

1556
01:19:27,560 --> 01:19:29,800
Speaker 2: we looking at it, like, but these are the rich

1557
01:19:29,840 --> 01:19:32,200
Speaker 2: people on Spotify, and they're like, yes, but I have

1558
01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:37,479
Speaker 2: a penthouse in the middle of Manhattan, so I gotta

1559
01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:42,400
Speaker 2: work these two jobs as an ar label executive and

1560
01:19:43,200 --> 01:19:46,120
Speaker 2: as a Tesla engineer. I have to work both of

1561
01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:50,439
Speaker 2: these jobs to afford you know, my my, my, my

1562
01:19:51,080 --> 01:19:55,720
Speaker 2: penthouse apartment. You know, I can't this infinity pool. We're

1563
01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:58,560
Speaker 2: not gonna pay for it selfs Okay. The rest of

1564
01:19:58,640 --> 01:20:02,000
Speaker 2: y'all pools is finish like they they ended.

1565
01:20:02,120 --> 01:20:06,200
Speaker 1: They got a limit. My pool, My pool is limits.

1566
01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:06,759
Speaker 4: Okay.

1567
01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:10,599
Speaker 1: My pool is in them circles going around each other.

1568
01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:13,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, my pool might as well have a tank on

1569
01:20:14,000 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 2: the front of it with some diamonds because it's got

1570
01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:17,519
Speaker 2: no limit.

1571
01:20:17,880 --> 01:20:23,200
Speaker 4: Okay. But yeah, the Q and A was looks like

1572
01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:25,080
Speaker 4: I flew the coop Batman.

1573
01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:26,880
Speaker 8: Uh.

1574
01:20:27,240 --> 01:20:31,679
Speaker 2: The answers were Spotify, Baby, we got money, Sandy says,

1575
01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:32,799
Speaker 2: I need this comic.

1576
01:20:32,920 --> 01:20:33,040
Speaker 3: Now.

1577
01:20:33,160 --> 01:20:35,599
Speaker 2: That's why Peacemaker's dad was real when he was racist

1578
01:20:35,600 --> 01:20:41,639
Speaker 2: as hell. Oh yeah racist uh raul up, the racist

1579
01:20:41,720 --> 01:20:44,240
Speaker 2: villain would be uh canceled immediately.

1580
01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:47,559
Speaker 4: I don't think. I think one issue of our comic

1581
01:20:47,600 --> 01:20:49,800
Speaker 4: book and it would be like these niggas not getting the.

1582
01:20:49,800 --> 01:21:01,479
Speaker 5: Part too, this kind of book of all time, Right, I.

1583
01:21:01,520 --> 01:21:03,800
Speaker 2: Guess you're gonna throw me in prison with the rest

1584
01:21:03,840 --> 01:21:06,120
Speaker 2: of the blacks. At least I won't be the only

1585
01:21:06,200 --> 01:21:11,679
Speaker 2: one in a sickle cell. Batman, he's he's.

1586
01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:16,240
Speaker 4: Racist and he's he's a bad person, then like the

1587
01:21:16,360 --> 01:21:18,759
Speaker 4: Joker will be looking at him, like, God, you racist.

1588
01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:21,360
Speaker 4: I can't believe. I know, I know I killed.

1589
01:21:21,520 --> 01:21:23,639
Speaker 2: I know I killed a whole school full of children

1590
01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:26,800
Speaker 2: with toxic poison that made him smile and laugh to death.

1591
01:21:27,040 --> 01:21:29,160
Speaker 2: But at least I didn't just pick him because it

1592
01:21:29,280 --> 01:21:30,479
Speaker 2: was the black side of town.

1593
01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:33,479
Speaker 3: Right, Dyvid, Like, you're gonna put me in a black

1594
01:21:33,560 --> 01:21:36,640
Speaker 3: white so I can die of beads.

1595
01:21:38,760 --> 01:21:42,160
Speaker 1: That I know, sir, And that was like, we actually

1596
01:21:42,200 --> 01:21:45,640
Speaker 1: need to really lock you up, We need to put me.

1597
01:21:45,840 --> 01:21:47,400
Speaker 3: We gonna have to put you in a special wing

1598
01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:49,920
Speaker 3: by yourself, or get hold of.

1599
01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:55,120
Speaker 2: You, magnificent Breeze, says Gunny Guns Batman, have you met

1600
01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:58,200
Speaker 2: my friend to Polio. He's the point over there with

1601
01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:01,280
Speaker 2: the pole and hit him with the pole. Polio had

1602
01:22:01,360 --> 01:22:04,120
Speaker 2: me laughing out way too loud every single time.

1603
01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:05,240
Speaker 4: You guys are hilarious.

1604
01:22:05,320 --> 01:22:11,960
Speaker 2: Thank you, Yumante, says Viral Load and his henchman, the

1605
01:22:12,040 --> 01:22:17,120
Speaker 2: Bivalent bastards. Also watch Fire of Love Disney, Magma, Bonnie

1606
01:22:17,120 --> 01:22:17,599
Speaker 2: and Clyde.

1607
01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:21,439
Speaker 4: It's a whole lav of love. Fire of Love.

1608
01:22:21,840 --> 01:22:22,320
Speaker 10: What is that?

1609
01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:29,720
Speaker 4: Oh it's a documentary. Wait what.

1610
01:22:32,120 --> 01:22:36,080
Speaker 2: Okay, Sanchas and lovers died in a volcanic explosion.

1611
01:22:37,040 --> 01:22:44,559
Speaker 4: Oh this sounds terrible. No, thanks, each act.

1612
01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:49,679
Speaker 2: I told you, I just watched the depressing documentary about

1613
01:22:49,720 --> 01:22:51,320
Speaker 2: some motherfucker's down in the volcano.

1614
01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:56,400
Speaker 4: I'm good. Good for the year, guys. Let's see. Uh,

1615
01:22:57,200 --> 01:23:00,760
Speaker 4: it looks like our son of Strong says his crew

1616
01:23:00,840 --> 01:23:08,000
Speaker 4: could be called the Specimen. That's so good, the speciymen,

1617
01:23:08,240 --> 01:23:12,320
Speaker 4: Viral Load and the Specimen. Okay, listen, we gotso creative,

1618
01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:15,920
Speaker 4: funny ass listeners. Uh, and we appreciate y'all. Those are

1619
01:23:15,960 --> 01:23:18,480
Speaker 4: the comments on the website.

1620
01:23:18,640 --> 01:23:21,360
Speaker 2: Let me check to see if we have any voicemails

1621
01:23:22,080 --> 01:23:27,000
Speaker 2: before we move into the actual emails. And we do

1622
01:23:27,240 --> 01:23:32,040
Speaker 2: have a few voicemails. Let me play some transition music

1623
01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:37,640
Speaker 2: and h we'll get into the Oh damn and I

1624
01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:42,560
Speaker 2: hit the wrong but oh wait, I still got that

1625
01:23:42,640 --> 01:23:43,479
Speaker 2: one song queued up.

1626
01:23:43,600 --> 01:23:44,360
Speaker 4: We'll just play this.

1627
01:23:58,479 --> 01:24:11,720
Speaker 7: Miamimi ya.

1628
01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:15,240
Speaker 2: That's the other thing I don't like about in metting

1629
01:24:15,360 --> 01:24:20,400
Speaker 2: Anna is the amount of times that they make a

1630
01:24:20,479 --> 01:24:24,400
Speaker 2: scene as ana pretending to be a business woman or

1631
01:24:24,400 --> 01:24:27,840
Speaker 2: a mover and shaker, and they just add like inspirational

1632
01:24:27,920 --> 01:24:33,679
Speaker 2: thought music underneath it. The first time, okay, the seventeenth time,

1633
01:24:33,800 --> 01:24:37,160
Speaker 2: it's not hitting the same. It's just it's just her

1634
01:24:37,479 --> 01:24:40,479
Speaker 2: in like a suit talking to faux white men in suits,

1635
01:24:40,760 --> 01:24:42,759
Speaker 2: drinking expensive bottles of wine.

1636
01:24:43,520 --> 01:24:45,120
Speaker 4: And then the song Underneava is just like.

1637
01:24:45,720 --> 01:24:48,120
Speaker 2: H and my bitches got bitches and were getting the money,

1638
01:24:48,160 --> 01:24:50,040
Speaker 2: and the money with the bitches with the bitches is coming,

1639
01:24:50,120 --> 01:24:51,320
Speaker 2: and it's like, Okay, we.

1640
01:24:51,520 --> 01:24:52,360
Speaker 6: We get it.

1641
01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:55,599
Speaker 4: Hip hop is the money of music.

1642
01:24:56,000 --> 01:24:57,760
Speaker 1: We get it.

1643
01:24:58,040 --> 01:25:00,880
Speaker 4: She's a scammer. I'm a over it all right.

1644
01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:03,040
Speaker 2: Let's get to these voicemail seven h four five five

1645
01:25:03,080 --> 01:25:06,519
Speaker 2: seven zero When they six is the voicemail line, make

1646
01:25:06,600 --> 01:25:08,680
Speaker 2: up two minutes or less or you get cut off.

1647
01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:11,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, the white woman would boot you off. We don't

1648
01:25:11,240 --> 01:25:11,680
Speaker 1: control that.

1649
01:25:12,200 --> 01:25:14,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh what sound like this person wants to butt

1650
01:25:14,560 --> 01:25:17,160
Speaker 2: down us because I just hit play and I'm not

1651
01:25:17,240 --> 01:25:17,879
Speaker 2: hearing anything.

1652
01:25:18,840 --> 01:25:20,080
Speaker 4: They left three messages in the row.

1653
01:25:21,680 --> 01:25:26,559
Speaker 6: Again. I was listening to the podcast and y'all were

1654
01:25:26,600 --> 01:25:32,040
Speaker 6: talking about about COVID with that article with that bullshit

1655
01:25:32,080 --> 01:25:36,000
Speaker 6: ass headline. But anyway, I don't think y'all are weird

1656
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:41,719
Speaker 6: for y'all's approach to COVID. But I do think there's

1657
01:25:41,800 --> 01:25:47,400
Speaker 6: a different mentality that some people have developed, because Okay,

1658
01:25:47,479 --> 01:25:51,320
Speaker 6: so take myself for example, I still work in service industry.

1659
01:25:51,800 --> 01:25:56,160
Speaker 6: So when the lockdown ended, it like the lockdown hadn't

1660
01:25:56,240 --> 01:25:58,360
Speaker 6: even ended when they were like, y'all niggas go back

1661
01:25:58,400 --> 01:26:02,040
Speaker 6: to work though, right, and there was no vaccine, so

1662
01:26:03,120 --> 01:26:06,040
Speaker 6: you masked up. You working in this place. You nervous

1663
01:26:06,040 --> 01:26:08,560
Speaker 6: as fuck all the time, You're scared of shit, and

1664
01:26:08,720 --> 01:26:11,200
Speaker 6: over time you kind of have to block that shit

1665
01:26:11,240 --> 01:26:14,560
Speaker 6: out because you need you need the money. So the

1666
01:26:14,640 --> 01:26:17,640
Speaker 6: first vaccine comes out, I go grab it immediately. Like

1667
01:26:17,760 --> 01:26:19,840
Speaker 6: I lied said I was a teacher. It wasn't a teacher.

1668
01:26:20,280 --> 01:26:23,479
Speaker 6: I got in line early, I skipped some people. I

1669
01:26:23,640 --> 01:26:27,200
Speaker 6: beat it it. But you know what I'm saying, get

1670
01:26:27,240 --> 01:26:29,160
Speaker 6: my first Roundweb, and then I go back to work

1671
01:26:29,200 --> 01:26:31,920
Speaker 6: and I'm working and working and working, and it's still

1672
01:26:32,080 --> 01:26:35,400
Speaker 6: kind of the same thing though, like that same thing

1673
01:26:35,520 --> 01:26:37,920
Speaker 6: lingers over you where you have to be in this

1674
01:26:38,040 --> 01:26:42,479
Speaker 6: high exposure environment all the time, and to be on

1675
01:26:42,640 --> 01:26:45,080
Speaker 6: such high alert, like to be vigilant, like you say,

1676
01:26:45,680 --> 01:26:49,320
Speaker 6: it's almost it almost wears you down. And then you

1677
01:26:49,439 --> 01:26:52,120
Speaker 6: get almost resentful of watching other people not give a

1678
01:26:52,200 --> 01:26:55,479
Speaker 6: fuck about it all day long while you just over

1679
01:26:55,560 --> 01:26:58,200
Speaker 6: here dancing and slavering for the white man. You know,

1680
01:26:58,240 --> 01:27:00,160
Speaker 6: I'm a server too, so I'm over here lit to

1681
01:27:00,240 --> 01:27:03,000
Speaker 6: really serving people while they do this shit. And then

1682
01:27:03,040 --> 01:27:06,160
Speaker 6: it then becomes difficult to not do shit in your

1683
01:27:06,200 --> 01:27:09,120
Speaker 6: personal life. It's like, man, I'm risking my exposure for

1684
01:27:09,240 --> 01:27:13,040
Speaker 6: these other people, but then I'm limiting everything for everything

1685
01:27:13,080 --> 01:27:15,200
Speaker 6: that would be good for me. And it's not to

1686
01:27:15,280 --> 01:27:18,680
Speaker 6: say that it's good logic. It's still like he.

1687
01:27:18,680 --> 01:27:21,400
Speaker 2: Got cut off, he left one more voicemail, okay, and

1688
01:27:21,520 --> 01:27:22,839
Speaker 2: we'll play that new O respond.

1689
01:27:25,040 --> 01:27:26,639
Speaker 6: I knew that was gonna go over on this one.

1690
01:27:26,640 --> 01:27:31,080
Speaker 6: But whatever the whole point is, it's not necessarily to

1691
01:27:31,160 --> 01:27:36,040
Speaker 6: say that all of this justifies not being vigilant and

1692
01:27:36,160 --> 01:27:38,640
Speaker 6: not getting updated on all your boosters and all these

1693
01:27:38,680 --> 01:27:41,320
Speaker 6: other things. It's just kind of to say all of

1694
01:27:41,400 --> 01:27:46,200
Speaker 6: it isn't necessarily rooted in, at least for me. I

1695
01:27:46,280 --> 01:27:48,799
Speaker 6: don't care about myself. For other people, I don't believe

1696
01:27:48,920 --> 01:27:51,200
Speaker 6: in all this other stuff. But I think the people

1697
01:27:51,240 --> 01:27:53,600
Speaker 6: who get the vaccine are with because that's actually not

1698
01:27:53,720 --> 01:27:57,400
Speaker 6: true at all. Anytime it comes to my mind like shit,

1699
01:27:57,760 --> 01:28:00,880
Speaker 6: I still haven't gotten boosted. I feel like I'm fucking up.

1700
01:28:00,960 --> 01:28:02,439
Speaker 6: I'm like shit, like I need to go get that

1701
01:28:02,560 --> 01:28:06,000
Speaker 6: taken care of. But it's almost like I trained my

1702
01:28:06,160 --> 01:28:12,360
Speaker 6: mind to be so almost apathetic to COVID in order

1703
01:28:12,560 --> 01:28:17,679
Speaker 6: as like a coping response, almost that it's almost hard

1704
01:28:17,840 --> 01:28:20,240
Speaker 6: to make it a priority in my mind like that,

1705
01:28:20,400 --> 01:28:22,719
Speaker 6: if that makes any sense. But with that being said,

1706
01:28:22,920 --> 01:28:24,880
Speaker 6: a whole bunch chep wint off and getting really sick

1707
01:28:25,360 --> 01:28:26,920
Speaker 6: and getting COVID again, I'm about to hurry up and

1708
01:28:26,960 --> 01:28:29,000
Speaker 6: go get my booster and Chris fucking playing with myself.

1709
01:28:30,360 --> 01:28:33,439
Speaker 6: But uh, yeah, I don't know. I just thought that

1710
01:28:33,720 --> 01:28:36,160
Speaker 6: just hearing y'all side of it, I thought that it

1711
01:28:36,160 --> 01:28:38,519
Speaker 6: would be interesting to hear what I'm saying. Maybe for

1712
01:28:38,640 --> 01:28:41,800
Speaker 6: y'all to hear kind of the mentality of somebody who's

1713
01:28:41,880 --> 01:28:44,920
Speaker 6: not as on it, but like still believe in it

1714
01:28:44,960 --> 01:28:46,960
Speaker 6: and still cares as much about it. Anyway, I'm not

1715
01:28:47,000 --> 01:28:48,439
Speaker 6: going to cut off like slug out by.

1716
01:28:49,880 --> 01:28:54,479
Speaker 1: Oh and I completely understand Come and Roger both served.

1717
01:28:55,120 --> 01:28:58,840
Speaker 3: And the thing is, in my perspective listening to what

1718
01:28:58,920 --> 01:29:02,080
Speaker 3: you was talking about, is that fight a flight. The

1719
01:29:03,120 --> 01:29:06,160
Speaker 3: the brain cannot sit and fight a flight for long

1720
01:29:06,320 --> 01:29:07,720
Speaker 3: extended periods of time.

1721
01:29:07,800 --> 01:29:08,519
Speaker 1: It fucks with you.

1722
01:29:09,520 --> 01:29:11,400
Speaker 3: And like you said, you're going to work every day

1723
01:29:11,439 --> 01:29:13,720
Speaker 3: you're dealing with this fight a flight is on one

1724
01:29:13,840 --> 01:29:17,200
Speaker 3: hundred like it is. It is popping all of the time,

1725
01:29:17,760 --> 01:29:20,760
Speaker 3: and and the way you down those homoonnes and things

1726
01:29:20,800 --> 01:29:23,240
Speaker 3: pressed through your body, it fucks with your brain like

1727
01:29:23,400 --> 01:29:24,840
Speaker 3: like it really messes people up.

1728
01:29:25,360 --> 01:29:26,040
Speaker 1: And so after a.

1729
01:29:26,040 --> 01:29:27,840
Speaker 3: While you've got to get out of that fight a

1730
01:29:27,960 --> 01:29:30,360
Speaker 3: flight mode. And so like you said, that's when it

1731
01:29:30,479 --> 01:29:34,400
Speaker 3: turns to Okay, I have to learn how to function

1732
01:29:34,880 --> 01:29:38,280
Speaker 3: in this by necessity. Same thing with you and the

1733
01:29:38,400 --> 01:29:42,120
Speaker 3: teachers and the nurses and things like that. They was like,

1734
01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:44,040
Speaker 3: y'all gonna, y'all gonna get out here and and and

1735
01:29:44,240 --> 01:29:46,320
Speaker 3: and just gonna have to deal with it, and they

1736
01:29:46,760 --> 01:29:48,200
Speaker 3: a lot of times they know that people are in

1737
01:29:48,280 --> 01:29:51,479
Speaker 3: a position where they have to deal with it. For

1738
01:29:51,600 --> 01:29:54,040
Speaker 3: people that were privileged enough to be like nah, fucked that,

1739
01:29:54,080 --> 01:29:56,280
Speaker 3: a lot of them left switched whatever whatever they had

1740
01:29:56,320 --> 01:29:58,120
Speaker 3: to do because for some people they were like, I

1741
01:29:58,280 --> 01:30:01,200
Speaker 3: don't have to do this. And the thing is, like

1742
01:30:01,320 --> 01:30:06,200
Speaker 3: you say, the mind can psych itself into thinking things

1743
01:30:06,320 --> 01:30:09,720
Speaker 3: are not as important as they really are. And we

1744
01:30:09,920 --> 01:30:14,439
Speaker 3: can quote unquote create our own reality just as a

1745
01:30:14,520 --> 01:30:17,320
Speaker 3: coping mechanism, and sometimes that's not safe, and that's not

1746
01:30:17,400 --> 01:30:19,680
Speaker 3: always healthy. But like you said, it's one of those

1747
01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:21,360
Speaker 3: things where you go, yeah, I get it, I get it,

1748
01:30:21,479 --> 01:30:24,400
Speaker 3: I get it, I get it. And like everything else,

1749
01:30:24,479 --> 01:30:28,040
Speaker 3: for a lot of people, they always and and I've

1750
01:30:28,600 --> 01:30:30,680
Speaker 3: done this too, everybody thinks they an except them to

1751
01:30:30,720 --> 01:30:34,080
Speaker 3: the rule until you're not. And so you know, it's

1752
01:30:34,080 --> 01:30:35,880
Speaker 3: one of those things where I'm glad that you was, like,

1753
01:30:35,920 --> 01:30:37,760
Speaker 3: you know what, I need to quit fucking around and

1754
01:30:37,920 --> 01:30:41,320
Speaker 3: I need to get my booster right because everybody thinks

1755
01:30:41,439 --> 01:30:43,120
Speaker 3: it's always going to happen to somebody else.

1756
01:30:43,240 --> 01:30:45,120
Speaker 1: They never think that it's gonna happen to me until

1757
01:30:45,160 --> 01:30:45,479
Speaker 1: it does.

1758
01:30:46,320 --> 01:30:50,240
Speaker 2: We covered a story early in the pandemic from Chicago.

1759
01:30:51,840 --> 01:30:55,439
Speaker 2: I just I'll never forget it because it was a

1760
01:30:55,520 --> 01:30:57,880
Speaker 2: bunch of young kids going out and they were having

1761
01:30:57,960 --> 01:31:01,080
Speaker 2: parties and they were and they were breaking curfew and

1762
01:31:01,800 --> 01:31:04,759
Speaker 2: it was before we had a vaccine, and the adults

1763
01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:07,760
Speaker 2: in Chicago were mad, and they were almost all black

1764
01:31:07,800 --> 01:31:11,400
Speaker 2: and brown kids. And people were like, those people are

1765
01:31:11,400 --> 01:31:14,280
Speaker 2: gonna get their family sick. And those those those and

1766
01:31:14,360 --> 01:31:16,320
Speaker 2: they were gonna get their family sick. Some of them

1767
01:31:16,360 --> 01:31:20,639
Speaker 2: probably lost people because of that decision. But I remember

1768
01:31:20,840 --> 01:31:23,840
Speaker 2: when we covered that story, I said, what I see

1769
01:31:24,560 --> 01:31:28,120
Speaker 2: is also people that are probably working the front line.

1770
01:31:29,280 --> 01:31:35,120
Speaker 2: And if they can't, if society is saying you can't

1771
01:31:35,160 --> 01:31:38,880
Speaker 2: stay home from bagging groceries, you can't stay home from

1772
01:31:38,920 --> 01:31:42,480
Speaker 2: working in food service industry. We don't even have a vaccine.

1773
01:31:42,720 --> 01:31:47,559
Speaker 2: We got these masks, you know, but we're you know, like, basically,

1774
01:31:49,439 --> 01:31:54,080
Speaker 2: why the fuck would I stay inside? So when I'm

1775
01:31:54,760 --> 01:31:59,439
Speaker 2: making this money for Kroger and my life is just

1776
01:31:59,479 --> 01:32:01,920
Speaker 2: as much a risk and I'm having no fun and

1777
01:32:01,920 --> 01:32:06,120
Speaker 2: I'm getting paid minimum wage, but then when I go

1778
01:32:06,360 --> 01:32:12,160
Speaker 2: to a party for myself and hang out with my folks, like, hey,

1779
01:32:12,240 --> 01:32:16,200
Speaker 2: it is what it is like I'm I'm just like

1780
01:32:16,400 --> 01:32:18,360
Speaker 2: to them in their mind it was like I'm in

1781
01:32:18,560 --> 01:32:20,679
Speaker 2: for a pinion for a pounds. So I think that's

1782
01:32:21,400 --> 01:32:23,720
Speaker 2: the mentality a lot of people had. And yeah, people

1783
01:32:23,760 --> 01:32:27,519
Speaker 2: have numbed out to it. And you know, during that segment,

1784
01:32:27,560 --> 01:32:31,480
Speaker 2: we didn't say people were Republican, or people were conservative,

1785
01:32:31,520 --> 01:32:34,679
Speaker 2: or people were anti VAXs. We just said, I just said,

1786
01:32:35,479 --> 01:32:37,720
Speaker 2: it's a shame that the numbers for the booster have

1787
01:32:37,840 --> 01:32:40,720
Speaker 2: gone down so much because it just shows you how

1788
01:32:40,920 --> 01:32:42,880
Speaker 2: lax people have gotten and.

1789
01:32:43,960 --> 01:32:45,519
Speaker 4: The boosters are so good.

1790
01:32:45,960 --> 01:32:50,760
Speaker 2: When we read those numbers down, it's it's almost insane

1791
01:32:50,880 --> 01:32:54,320
Speaker 2: to not think to yourself, wait, like that title that

1792
01:32:54,479 --> 01:32:57,040
Speaker 2: article is terrible and the shit like that that's keeping

1793
01:32:57,040 --> 01:32:58,720
Speaker 2: people from getting the booters. By the way, it's because

1794
01:32:58,720 --> 01:33:00,880
Speaker 2: the title of the article is tear and then you

1795
01:33:01,000 --> 01:33:03,960
Speaker 2: read the fucking headline. It's like you have a thirteen

1796
01:33:04,400 --> 01:33:08,600
Speaker 2: thirteen times less likely chance of going to the hospital,

1797
01:33:09,120 --> 01:33:11,880
Speaker 2: you know, a blank amount of times less likely of dying,

1798
01:33:12,200 --> 01:33:15,000
Speaker 2: a blank amount of times less likely along COVID, Why

1799
01:33:15,080 --> 01:33:17,560
Speaker 2: the fuck didn't you lead with that? Why isn't that

1800
01:33:17,680 --> 01:33:20,400
Speaker 2: the only message about the Boosters? There doesn't need to

1801
01:33:20,520 --> 01:33:24,320
Speaker 2: be another message competing with it, and the more people

1802
01:33:24,400 --> 01:33:28,680
Speaker 2: died that were vaccinated that that's not scaring people or

1803
01:33:28,920 --> 01:33:31,880
Speaker 2: informing people, and you're hoping to scare them, but you're

1804
01:33:31,920 --> 01:33:34,960
Speaker 2: actually making them apathetic. So yeah, that I'm with you

1805
01:33:35,080 --> 01:33:37,280
Speaker 2: on all that shit. I don't think we disagree at all.

1806
01:33:38,640 --> 01:33:41,639
Speaker 2: All right, next voicemail is from Katrina.

1807
01:33:46,240 --> 01:33:51,000
Speaker 9: Hi, my lovely is happy, Happy New Year, Happy tween

1808
01:33:51,080 --> 01:33:51,599
Speaker 9: twenty three.

1809
01:33:52,040 --> 01:33:54,400
Speaker 8: Just to listen to y'all the New Year's Eve show.

1810
01:33:54,880 --> 01:33:58,959
Speaker 9: And now I'm sort of halfway through the next episode.

1811
01:33:59,120 --> 01:34:00,479
Speaker 8: Hope you are well.

1812
01:34:01,120 --> 01:34:04,600
Speaker 9: And I tried to leave the message on Spotify, but

1813
01:34:04,800 --> 01:34:06,280
Speaker 9: it was not having it, so I said, you know,

1814
01:34:06,360 --> 01:34:07,720
Speaker 9: I'm just going to call it in and say what

1815
01:34:07,760 --> 01:34:11,120
Speaker 9: I have to say. So you know that I live

1816
01:34:11,360 --> 01:34:15,360
Speaker 9: in the UK right now, and I.

1817
01:34:15,520 --> 01:34:20,560
Speaker 8: Wanted to answer about the the hush trip thing and

1818
01:34:20,640 --> 01:34:22,160
Speaker 8: I was like, wait, oh, I took one of those,

1819
01:34:22,200 --> 01:34:23,840
Speaker 8: but it wasn't a hush trip at all, because I

1820
01:34:23,880 --> 01:34:27,120
Speaker 8: said it was my whole chest to my university. I

1821
01:34:27,240 --> 01:34:29,479
Speaker 8: let them know last June that I was going to

1822
01:34:29,520 --> 01:34:32,000
Speaker 8: be in France the entire month, that I was going

1823
01:34:32,080 --> 01:34:35,680
Speaker 8: to be working remotely the first half and then I officially.

1824
01:34:35,320 --> 01:34:36,000
Speaker 6: Put in for.

1825
01:34:37,840 --> 01:34:41,439
Speaker 8: You know, holiday time for the last two weeks. Now,

1826
01:34:42,120 --> 01:34:45,760
Speaker 8: why did I get COVID for the first time, like

1827
01:34:45,920 --> 01:34:48,160
Speaker 8: literally days after being there. I must have caught it,

1828
01:34:48,280 --> 01:34:51,360
Speaker 8: like right before we left in you know. Thankfully we

1829
01:34:52,240 --> 01:34:56,479
Speaker 8: had a cabin to ourselves on the on the the

1830
01:34:57,240 --> 01:34:59,280
Speaker 8: what is that thing called thing on the seat? I

1831
01:34:59,280 --> 01:35:03,400
Speaker 8: can't think of it right now. Anyway, the ferry right

1832
01:35:03,439 --> 01:35:04,920
Speaker 8: and we drove the rest of the way so we

1833
01:35:05,000 --> 01:35:09,280
Speaker 8: weren't around people, so thankfully that didn't happen. But anyway, yeah,

1834
01:35:09,439 --> 01:35:11,559
Speaker 8: I mean I was sick. I didn't know I had

1835
01:35:11,640 --> 01:35:15,160
Speaker 8: COVID at the time, and I was grading papers on

1836
01:35:15,240 --> 01:35:19,160
Speaker 8: the balcony. We had a beach side apartment for the month,

1837
01:35:19,240 --> 01:35:21,400
Speaker 8: and it worked out better financially to take it for

1838
01:35:21,479 --> 01:35:23,800
Speaker 8: a month rather than two weeks. So I was like,

1839
01:35:24,600 --> 01:35:28,519
Speaker 8: I'm not teaching anymore in classes they're over I have

1840
01:35:28,640 --> 01:35:32,360
Speaker 8: a laptop, we log it to a remote portal. What

1841
01:35:32,479 --> 01:35:34,720
Speaker 8: does it matter where I am when I graade these

1842
01:35:34,760 --> 01:35:37,160
Speaker 8: papers and we still have teams meetings, So it just

1843
01:35:37,240 --> 01:35:39,280
Speaker 8: made sense to me, and no one really had a

1844
01:35:39,360 --> 01:35:42,040
Speaker 8: problem with it. But there's a better attitude over here

1845
01:35:42,120 --> 01:35:44,720
Speaker 8: towards you know, taking the cake and.

1846
01:35:44,760 --> 01:35:46,960
Speaker 4: Then she I guess she cut off, but she didn't

1847
01:35:47,040 --> 01:35:48,840
Speaker 4: call back because I think she had made her point.

1848
01:35:48,920 --> 01:35:51,800
Speaker 4: But yeah, she took one of the hush trips and

1849
01:35:51,960 --> 01:35:56,880
Speaker 4: she saying for one of them, I'm sorry, kay what

1850
01:35:57,680 --> 01:35:57,920
Speaker 4: she did?

1851
01:35:58,000 --> 01:35:59,920
Speaker 1: One of them saying would you test your chest? Trip?

1852
01:36:00,120 --> 01:36:00,240
Speaker 3: Right?

1853
01:36:01,040 --> 01:36:01,880
Speaker 4: Took a loud trip?

1854
01:36:02,360 --> 01:36:02,479
Speaker 5: Uh.

1855
01:36:02,640 --> 01:36:07,240
Speaker 4: The next one, Miss Crystal, it's miss principal.

1856
01:36:07,280 --> 01:36:10,519
Speaker 11: And that's how I was screaming. When Jayson Vests of

1857
01:36:10,680 --> 01:36:14,200
Speaker 11: the Left gave y'all y'all shoutouts, I was like, this said,

1858
01:36:14,920 --> 01:36:17,880
Speaker 11: woolful of sugar. I'm like, yes, woolful of sugar. Grit

1859
01:36:21,439 --> 01:36:24,160
Speaker 11: for y'all riding me up when you were sing y'all

1860
01:36:24,200 --> 01:36:28,639
Speaker 11: outside in the city. I think, you know, maybe museum

1861
01:36:29,200 --> 01:36:33,960
Speaker 11: going to museums and ninety five or a comedy show

1862
01:36:34,520 --> 01:36:39,040
Speaker 11: ninety five to be safe. So just let me know, Karen,

1863
01:36:40,760 --> 01:36:42,960
Speaker 11: don't have too many parties at the house already know

1864
01:36:44,120 --> 01:36:48,360
Speaker 11: you or you're extraver you having parties, having swimmer parties,

1865
01:36:48,360 --> 01:36:51,880
Speaker 11: all that stuff at the house, So you know, keep

1866
01:36:52,000 --> 01:36:53,599
Speaker 11: things play and I'll talk to y'all later.

1867
01:36:56,160 --> 01:37:01,599
Speaker 4: She's so funny. Yeah, we'll see what we do during

1868
01:37:01,640 --> 01:37:03,679
Speaker 4: the week. When Karen's hair and stuff.

1869
01:37:03,720 --> 01:37:05,240
Speaker 2: I mean, there's stuff to do in the city, but

1870
01:37:05,360 --> 01:37:07,479
Speaker 2: like I said, I'm gonna be working, so it's not

1871
01:37:07,600 --> 01:37:09,840
Speaker 2: like I have the week off. Last time I had

1872
01:37:09,880 --> 01:37:12,320
Speaker 2: the week off when Karen was here, I was just

1873
01:37:12,400 --> 01:37:15,000
Speaker 2: playing shit, you know, every day, like Okay, we're going

1874
01:37:15,040 --> 01:37:16,200
Speaker 2: to do this, we're going to do that.

1875
01:37:16,479 --> 01:37:19,480
Speaker 4: But this time, you know, between.

1876
01:37:19,200 --> 01:37:21,800
Speaker 2: Work and just life stuff, it'll probably be a lot

1877
01:37:21,840 --> 01:37:26,080
Speaker 2: more low key. But yeah, I'll take everything on their advisement,

1878
01:37:26,200 --> 01:37:31,559
Speaker 2: you know. And then lastly, Jen from Brooklyn sent us

1879
01:37:32,000 --> 01:37:33,040
Speaker 2: two voicemails.

1880
01:37:34,360 --> 01:37:38,320
Speaker 10: Hi, Rod and Karen, good morning, Happy New Year. I

1881
01:37:38,439 --> 01:37:42,360
Speaker 10: hope you're both well. This is Jen from North Carolina

1882
01:37:42,800 --> 01:37:45,479
Speaker 10: living in LA but I lived in New York for

1883
01:37:46,640 --> 01:37:49,960
Speaker 10: about ten years, so I'm loving all of the New

1884
01:37:50,040 --> 01:37:57,360
Speaker 10: York updates, especially here debacle. It's just like a rite

1885
01:37:57,400 --> 01:38:00,800
Speaker 10: of passage to deal with the clicking and clank of

1886
01:38:00,880 --> 01:38:03,400
Speaker 10: a heater in the winter when it starts to kick up.

1887
01:38:03,560 --> 01:38:06,320
Speaker 10: And also the one temperature for the whole building is

1888
01:38:06,640 --> 01:38:10,920
Speaker 10: just like something you all have to go through. Yeah,

1889
01:38:11,000 --> 01:38:13,840
Speaker 10: and I'm cold natured, so I always loved that the

1890
01:38:13,960 --> 01:38:17,360
Speaker 10: heat was cranked, but even I had to crack a window.

1891
01:38:17,479 --> 01:38:18,599
Speaker 6: So I love the updates.

1892
01:38:18,600 --> 01:38:20,639
Speaker 10: It's so funny, and I hope that you're staying cool

1893
01:38:20,760 --> 01:38:24,560
Speaker 10: out there, and then I'm relate to this party, but

1894
01:38:24,640 --> 01:38:28,120
Speaker 10: I'm meaning to call y'all for a while to talk

1895
01:38:28,160 --> 01:38:30,599
Speaker 10: about some of the emotional labor stuff that y'all had

1896
01:38:30,640 --> 01:38:34,360
Speaker 10: chatted about, because, Jeff, before you had that conversation, I

1897
01:38:34,479 --> 01:38:40,720
Speaker 10: ended up having a kind of intense conversation with a

1898
01:38:40,800 --> 01:38:43,160
Speaker 10: friend of mine, a really good friend of mine who

1899
01:38:43,240 --> 01:38:47,960
Speaker 10: has a lot of chronic pain and depression and just

1900
01:38:48,120 --> 01:38:51,960
Speaker 10: issues with like family and dating and life in general.

1901
01:38:52,160 --> 01:38:54,960
Speaker 10: And it was getting to be a lot. And it

1902
01:38:55,080 --> 01:38:59,040
Speaker 10: wasn't that the relationship was necessarily unbalanced, but it just

1903
01:38:59,160 --> 01:39:01,960
Speaker 10: became a lot in terms of I couldn't be that

1904
01:39:02,120 --> 01:39:06,400
Speaker 10: one person for her. And right before y'all had that

1905
01:39:06,600 --> 01:39:09,160
Speaker 10: chat on your show, I talked to her and I

1906
01:39:09,320 --> 01:39:12,080
Speaker 10: just kind of set that boundary. So when you mentioned

1907
01:39:12,120 --> 01:39:14,680
Speaker 10: that you set a boundary, that kind of affirmed, like,

1908
01:39:15,160 --> 01:39:17,320
Speaker 10: if you're dealing with this situation with a friend, you

1909
01:39:17,439 --> 01:39:20,640
Speaker 10: have to set that boundary. So I really appreciated that conversation.

1910
01:39:21,439 --> 01:39:23,000
Speaker 10: I think I'm going to get cut off, but I'm

1911
01:39:23,000 --> 01:39:25,439
Speaker 10: going to call back because I been meeting to call

1912
01:39:25,520 --> 01:39:26,760
Speaker 10: y'all for a minute about this.

1913
01:39:27,760 --> 01:39:30,920
Speaker 2: All right, I'll play the next one. But that's dope

1914
01:39:30,960 --> 01:39:34,240
Speaker 2: that you were able to set that boundary. And honestly,

1915
01:39:34,760 --> 01:39:39,560
Speaker 2: it's that communication that is the toughest part of the relationship.

1916
01:39:39,640 --> 01:39:42,320
Speaker 2: But it's the only part of a relationship that's truly valuable,

1917
01:39:43,000 --> 01:39:45,240
Speaker 2: is being able to communicate something like that, or else

1918
01:39:45,240 --> 01:39:49,320
Speaker 2: you're really not friends. And if they're understanding of it,

1919
01:39:49,479 --> 01:39:54,519
Speaker 2: they'll see that you're doing this, so you won't start

1920
01:39:54,600 --> 01:39:58,439
Speaker 2: feeling that resentment in that Okay, here they call again,

1921
01:39:58,600 --> 01:40:01,360
Speaker 2: Oh my god, like, so you won't feel that, because

1922
01:40:01,400 --> 01:40:04,960
Speaker 2: once that feeling kicks in, it's hard to salvage a

1923
01:40:05,000 --> 01:40:09,800
Speaker 2: relationship when when all you're thinking about is how much

1924
01:40:09,880 --> 01:40:12,599
Speaker 2: you don't really want to talk to this person anymore?

1925
01:40:13,240 --> 01:40:16,280
Speaker 4: Right, next wifemail, I'm sorry, we'll finish her off.

1926
01:40:19,840 --> 01:40:22,400
Speaker 10: Hey, it's jan and Mela again. I just wanted to

1927
01:40:23,080 --> 01:40:26,320
Speaker 10: say thank you for having that conversation about what emotional

1928
01:40:26,400 --> 01:40:29,000
Speaker 10: labor may mean. What it's not that friendship should not

1929
01:40:29,160 --> 01:40:33,200
Speaker 10: feel like emotional labor. It was definitely a tough conversation

1930
01:40:33,360 --> 01:40:36,200
Speaker 10: that I had with that friend, but I think that eventually,

1931
01:40:36,400 --> 01:40:38,720
Speaker 10: you know, will be better for it. And I really

1932
01:40:38,920 --> 01:40:41,120
Speaker 10: was truly scared to set that boundary. But I was

1933
01:40:41,280 --> 01:40:45,840
Speaker 10: creating this resentment from our friendship because I just felt

1934
01:40:45,880 --> 01:40:48,040
Speaker 10: like I was doing the work of a therapist or

1935
01:40:48,600 --> 01:40:50,720
Speaker 10: you know, even like a doctor at certain times with

1936
01:40:50,960 --> 01:40:55,800
Speaker 10: just like you know, trying to give advice but then

1937
01:40:55,960 --> 01:41:00,880
Speaker 10: not necessarily having that advice received in terms of recommending medication, therapy.

1938
01:41:00,680 --> 01:41:02,800
Speaker 1: And then any of those kind of no downs.

1939
01:41:02,920 --> 01:41:06,360
Speaker 10: So that's one instance when I thought of a friendship

1940
01:41:06,479 --> 01:41:09,360
Speaker 10: or relationship being emotional labor. But really it was on

1941
01:41:09,640 --> 01:41:13,360
Speaker 10: me to set the boundary of hey, this isn't always

1942
01:41:13,400 --> 01:41:15,880
Speaker 10: I don't always have space for this. If we can

1943
01:41:15,960 --> 01:41:18,240
Speaker 10: figure out a way that we can like make space

1944
01:41:18,320 --> 01:41:20,599
Speaker 10: for this at certain times but not necessarily all the time.

1945
01:41:20,760 --> 01:41:23,320
Speaker 10: So I really appreciate that conversation. I know I'm late

1946
01:41:23,400 --> 01:41:25,519
Speaker 10: to the party. I'm not sure when y'all will have

1947
01:41:25,560 --> 01:41:28,040
Speaker 10: a feedback show again, because I know you're both busy

1948
01:41:28,120 --> 01:41:30,519
Speaker 10: in your separate states, But I really appreciate y'all. I

1949
01:41:30,560 --> 01:41:32,960
Speaker 10: love y'all, and happy New Year.

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01:41:33,920 --> 01:41:40,600
Speaker 2: Hi, thank you. The other thing I'll say too, is

1951
01:41:43,040 --> 01:41:46,519
Speaker 2: when you start feeling that level of like resentment and

1952
01:41:49,200 --> 01:41:54,720
Speaker 2: whatever else, there's so one the way I get out

1953
01:41:54,760 --> 01:41:59,040
Speaker 2: of it is, I actually email them an invoice for

1954
01:41:59,160 --> 01:42:04,439
Speaker 2: the emotional labe. Then once they get the emotional labor

1955
01:42:04,560 --> 01:42:08,280
Speaker 2: invoice and my rates are pretty high, they're not reasonable

1956
01:42:08,320 --> 01:42:14,400
Speaker 2: at all normally normally that they'll hit me back. Yeah,

1957
01:42:14,560 --> 01:42:16,719
Speaker 2: because I'm like, I'm not gonna be a therapist. Okay,

1958
01:42:18,080 --> 01:42:21,519
Speaker 2: but no, Seriously, one of the things a lot of

1959
01:42:21,520 --> 01:42:24,559
Speaker 2: times people need is like a therapist, like someone they

1960
01:42:24,720 --> 01:42:29,080
Speaker 2: pay to hear that, because I don't. My hope would

1961
01:42:29,120 --> 01:42:32,120
Speaker 2: be that a lot of times people don't want to

1962
01:42:32,320 --> 01:42:32,960
Speaker 2: be resented.

1963
01:42:34,160 --> 01:42:36,320
Speaker 4: I don't want people to feel like I'm work to

1964
01:42:36,479 --> 01:42:36,800
Speaker 4: talk to.

1965
01:42:38,920 --> 01:42:44,240
Speaker 2: Also, a lot of people's shit is just like undiagnosed

1966
01:42:44,560 --> 01:42:52,920
Speaker 2: or untreated depression, anxiety, things that they really should be

1967
01:42:53,120 --> 01:42:56,160
Speaker 2: working on outside of like a friend.

1968
01:42:56,600 --> 01:42:58,080
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, because.

1969
01:43:00,479 --> 01:43:03,640
Speaker 2: I'llso your friends aren't always gonna be able to they

1970
01:43:03,720 --> 01:43:05,280
Speaker 2: haven't dealt with this, They're not We're gonna have the

1971
01:43:05,360 --> 01:43:05,840
Speaker 2: right answer.

1972
01:43:06,720 --> 01:43:09,640
Speaker 4: And one of the scariest things for me was seeing it.

1973
01:43:09,720 --> 01:43:13,320
Speaker 2: On social media and it was like a switch flipped

1974
01:43:13,400 --> 01:43:16,080
Speaker 2: and once I saw it, I couldn't unsee it. But

1975
01:43:16,240 --> 01:43:23,120
Speaker 2: the narcissism of depression and anxiety that it comes along

1976
01:43:23,200 --> 01:43:26,040
Speaker 2: with it and I'm not saying people are narcissists, like

1977
01:43:26,200 --> 01:43:31,840
Speaker 2: not technically, I'm saying the narcissism of those conditions where

1978
01:43:31,880 --> 01:43:34,920
Speaker 2: your brain is telling you things that aren't true. Anxiety

1979
01:43:35,040 --> 01:43:37,800
Speaker 2: is a liar, Depression is a liar, and it's telling

1980
01:43:37,840 --> 01:43:40,599
Speaker 2: you stuff like no one cares about you. And then

1981
01:43:40,640 --> 01:43:43,360
Speaker 2: you see someone put that on their social media, like

1982
01:43:43,960 --> 01:43:46,680
Speaker 2: and it's so manipulative, and I don't even get mad

1983
01:43:46,760 --> 01:43:49,360
Speaker 2: at them. I think it's I think it's the brain

1984
01:43:49,680 --> 01:43:53,360
Speaker 2: chemistry telling them this is a truth and when it's

1985
01:43:53,400 --> 01:43:57,000
Speaker 2: a lie. But it's like y'all always say check on

1986
01:43:57,040 --> 01:43:59,080
Speaker 2: your strong friends, but nobody checking on me.

1987
01:44:00,120 --> 01:44:03,519
Speaker 4: Fam. That's a cry for help. That's a you need

1988
01:44:03,560 --> 01:44:04,639
Speaker 4: to talk to a therapist.

1989
01:44:05,040 --> 01:44:09,440
Speaker 2: You need to talk to a psychiatrist, psychot someone professionally,

1990
01:44:09,880 --> 01:44:13,719
Speaker 2: because if all, if you, if your brain is saying

1991
01:44:13,840 --> 01:44:17,280
Speaker 2: that to you that no one cares about you, that

1992
01:44:18,640 --> 01:44:21,080
Speaker 2: that you need to put out this passive regressive thing

1993
01:44:21,240 --> 01:44:23,680
Speaker 2: so you can get likes and attention and replies and

1994
01:44:24,320 --> 01:44:27,519
Speaker 2: you can get those what you call those what do

1995
01:44:27,600 --> 01:44:31,880
Speaker 2: you call it? When somebody is saying something bad about

1996
01:44:31,880 --> 01:44:34,400
Speaker 2: themselves so they can get compliments. I forget what it's called.

1997
01:44:34,320 --> 01:44:38,200
Speaker 4: You know what I'm talking about, Like, but yeah, if

1998
01:44:38,240 --> 01:44:41,160
Speaker 4: you're saying that so that you can get like the

1999
01:44:41,360 --> 01:44:44,880
Speaker 4: response of like, no, I do care about you.

2000
01:44:45,400 --> 01:44:47,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, and and and it's a dopamin to that.

2001
01:44:47,720 --> 01:44:50,439
Speaker 3: That's why I said a lot of people are it's

2002
01:44:50,439 --> 01:44:53,519
Speaker 3: an addiction and and and and and even in sadness

2003
01:44:53,600 --> 01:44:54,719
Speaker 3: and depression and all.

2004
01:44:54,640 --> 01:44:57,679
Speaker 2: This, even when you say, even when you see people

2005
01:44:57,720 --> 01:45:01,080
Speaker 2: say ship like you know, I'm feeling sad, everybody send

2006
01:45:01,120 --> 01:45:04,600
Speaker 2: me pictures of their pets. That like that is is

2007
01:45:05,240 --> 01:45:07,880
Speaker 2: the fact that it's happening in that medium in that way,

2008
01:45:08,520 --> 01:45:12,759
Speaker 2: and that that's not really any level of like actual

2009
01:45:15,320 --> 01:45:19,320
Speaker 2: it's not really any level of actual work or or therapy.

2010
01:45:19,040 --> 01:45:19,840
Speaker 4: Or healing or anything.

2011
01:45:19,920 --> 01:45:22,559
Speaker 2: It's just it's like I just need to see people

2012
01:45:22,680 --> 01:45:25,960
Speaker 2: react to me and to know what they're doing or whatever.

2013
01:45:26,160 --> 01:45:29,639
Speaker 2: And I think people and I think we haven't thought

2014
01:45:29,920 --> 01:45:33,760
Speaker 2: enough about what does that really mean? You know what

2015
01:45:33,840 --> 01:45:37,559
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like, if like you need pictures of people's kids,

2016
01:45:39,360 --> 01:45:40,720
Speaker 2: you probably also need to.

2017
01:45:41,000 --> 01:45:42,519
Speaker 4: Talk to like a therapist for real.

2018
01:45:42,840 --> 01:45:45,360
Speaker 2: Like you if you just have friends and all you

2019
01:45:45,439 --> 01:45:47,439
Speaker 2: want to do is like talk to them about how

2020
01:45:47,520 --> 01:45:50,400
Speaker 2: much pain you're in and how much you have to

2021
01:45:50,520 --> 01:45:54,120
Speaker 2: also understand that they might not have the space for that.

2022
01:45:54,240 --> 01:45:58,240
Speaker 2: And it's also very inconsiderate of the fact that other

2023
01:45:58,400 --> 01:46:02,400
Speaker 2: people have their stuff that they're working through too.

2024
01:46:03,680 --> 01:46:05,040
Speaker 4: The world don't revolve around you.

2025
01:46:05,720 --> 01:46:08,439
Speaker 2: So while you're thinking I can call this person invent

2026
01:46:08,520 --> 01:46:10,840
Speaker 2: to them all the time, that person might be going

2027
01:46:10,880 --> 01:46:13,559
Speaker 2: through their own levels of depression and anxiety or whatever

2028
01:46:13,640 --> 01:46:16,720
Speaker 2: the fuck, and they may be trying, They may be

2029
01:46:16,840 --> 01:46:19,439
Speaker 2: dealing with it differently than you are. They may be trying,

2030
01:46:19,520 --> 01:46:22,000
Speaker 2: they may need to establish a boundary so that they're

2031
01:46:22,040 --> 01:46:23,160
Speaker 2: not dragged down.

2032
01:46:23,000 --> 01:46:23,960
Speaker 4: Into that shit with you.

2033
01:46:24,640 --> 01:46:25,200
Speaker 5: You know what I mean.

2034
01:46:25,439 --> 01:46:28,040
Speaker 2: It's like, it's just a lot of moving parts, and

2035
01:46:28,120 --> 01:46:32,479
Speaker 2: it's deeper than what people say. So setting a boundary,

2036
01:46:32,720 --> 01:46:35,439
Speaker 2: to me, is always a gift for you and for

2037
01:46:35,560 --> 01:46:38,240
Speaker 2: the other person, because that means you're being You're giving

2038
01:46:38,360 --> 01:46:45,040
Speaker 2: them honesty, you're trusting them with communication and respect, And

2039
01:46:45,360 --> 01:46:47,960
Speaker 2: if they violate that boundary, then that's a whole different

2040
01:46:48,240 --> 01:46:51,080
Speaker 2: set of problems that you gotta have. But there's nothing

2041
01:46:51,160 --> 01:46:52,600
Speaker 2: wrong with setting the.

2042
01:46:52,680 --> 01:46:57,519
Speaker 3: Boundary, right And also, I think how canna say this

2043
01:46:58,240 --> 01:47:07,840
Speaker 3: For a lot of people they hear about therapy and

2044
01:47:08,760 --> 01:47:11,400
Speaker 3: it's the quote unquote the fat if that makes sense,

2045
01:47:11,520 --> 01:47:14,120
Speaker 3: even though therapy is the real thing and people actually,

2046
01:47:14,479 --> 01:47:16,920
Speaker 3: you know, do work through it and do get true healing,

2047
01:47:17,400 --> 01:47:19,479
Speaker 3: but for some people it's a quote unquote fat So

2048
01:47:19,960 --> 01:47:23,599
Speaker 3: people use their friends as a form of therapy instead

2049
01:47:23,640 --> 01:47:26,640
Speaker 3: of getting the help they need. Your friends may not

2050
01:47:26,800 --> 01:47:31,120
Speaker 3: be qualified nor trained in this, so you're dumping information

2051
01:47:31,360 --> 01:47:35,120
Speaker 3: on them that they're processing through that they really might

2052
01:47:35,240 --> 01:47:37,599
Speaker 3: not be able to help you. But we've been taught

2053
01:47:37,640 --> 01:47:40,920
Speaker 3: that friends are quote unquote supposed to help you through everything.

2054
01:47:41,120 --> 01:47:44,040
Speaker 3: That's not a true thing. There are some shit that

2055
01:47:44,120 --> 01:47:45,920
Speaker 3: you got to pick up on your own, put your

2056
01:47:45,960 --> 01:47:49,479
Speaker 3: big boy, big big to pick up on your own,

2057
01:47:50,160 --> 01:47:53,040
Speaker 3: put on your grown people pants, and figure out shit out.

2058
01:47:53,120 --> 01:47:55,680
Speaker 3: And sometimes that means figuring out without your friends, and

2059
01:47:55,800 --> 01:47:58,720
Speaker 3: people don't want to do it, and they don't really

2060
01:47:58,840 --> 01:48:02,560
Speaker 3: under understand that there are some things in life that

2061
01:48:02,640 --> 01:48:06,560
Speaker 3: you're gonna have to figure out separate from them. And

2062
01:48:06,960 --> 01:48:08,840
Speaker 3: it's okay to have people to talk to. It's okay

2063
01:48:08,840 --> 01:48:10,800
Speaker 3: to have people to walk through things with like like that,

2064
01:48:10,960 --> 01:48:13,479
Speaker 3: that's what friendships are. But there are some things your

2065
01:48:13,520 --> 01:48:17,040
Speaker 3: friendship people around you just not have the capability of handling.

2066
01:48:17,360 --> 01:48:21,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes they just don't know, right, And a therapist

2067
01:48:21,280 --> 01:48:24,240
Speaker 2: at least is paid to know or have some techniques

2068
01:48:24,360 --> 01:48:27,240
Speaker 2: or something. And we really do this thing where we

2069
01:48:27,360 --> 01:48:31,519
Speaker 2: make people try to be the missing puzzle piece for everybody.

2070
01:48:31,600 --> 01:48:33,519
Speaker 2: And if you're not, then you're not a good friend.

2071
01:48:33,600 --> 01:48:35,880
Speaker 2: You're not the Sometimes a good friend is the person

2072
01:48:35,920 --> 01:48:37,800
Speaker 2: to be like, I'm not the one to handle this,

2073
01:48:39,240 --> 01:48:41,320
Speaker 2: you know, Like like it's like if you have a

2074
01:48:41,400 --> 01:48:44,400
Speaker 2: homie that's constantly calling you to tell you how much

2075
01:48:45,200 --> 01:48:47,679
Speaker 2: him and his wife ain't getting along. At some point,

2076
01:48:47,720 --> 01:48:50,439
Speaker 2: it's like you all should either talk to a marriage

2077
01:48:50,479 --> 01:48:53,880
Speaker 2: counselor or each other, right, you see what I'm saying.

2078
01:48:54,000 --> 01:48:56,479
Speaker 4: Like, sometimes being a friend is being the one to

2079
01:48:56,600 --> 01:48:59,360
Speaker 4: pull the plug and be like, uh uh, this is

2080
01:48:59,560 --> 01:49:00,640
Speaker 4: this is beyond me.

2081
01:49:01,640 --> 01:49:04,479
Speaker 2: And a lot of times the reason a friend can't

2082
01:49:04,520 --> 01:49:07,880
Speaker 2: be the shoulder to lean on this because a lot

2083
01:49:07,920 --> 01:49:12,800
Speaker 2: of times people measure friendship very arbitrarily, and they measure

2084
01:49:12,880 --> 01:49:16,920
Speaker 2: support arbitrarily. I know I'm not the person to be

2085
01:49:17,040 --> 01:49:20,640
Speaker 2: friends with many people because many people measure loyalty on

2086
01:49:20,800 --> 01:49:22,840
Speaker 2: some like get down or lay down shit.

2087
01:49:23,479 --> 01:49:23,639
Speaker 5: Right.

2088
01:49:24,080 --> 01:49:25,800
Speaker 2: You know, if I call you and say my wife

2089
01:49:25,920 --> 01:49:28,639
Speaker 2: is a bit you better say hell, yeah, man, you bitch.

2090
01:49:28,920 --> 01:49:32,000
Speaker 2: I agree, you know, And I'm not that guy. I'm

2091
01:49:32,040 --> 01:49:34,000
Speaker 2: the one to be like, No, I don't know about that.

2092
01:49:34,120 --> 01:49:35,439
Speaker 4: Bro, you know what I mean.

2093
01:49:36,160 --> 01:49:38,320
Speaker 1: You might need to work that out, right, Yeah.

2094
01:49:38,479 --> 01:49:40,400
Speaker 2: Like, so I'm just not I'm not the one to

2095
01:49:40,520 --> 01:49:43,800
Speaker 2: call where you're like, I'm dead wrong and I don't

2096
01:49:43,800 --> 01:49:45,560
Speaker 2: want you to say nothing. I'm gonna call you a

2097
01:49:45,640 --> 01:49:48,000
Speaker 2: bad person, you know what I mean. I'm just not

2098
01:49:48,120 --> 01:49:50,040
Speaker 2: the one. And it doesn't mean you can't have those people,

2099
01:49:50,400 --> 01:49:51,080
Speaker 2: but I'm not the.

2100
01:49:51,160 --> 01:49:55,040
Speaker 4: One for that shit. So it's just a different roles

2101
01:49:55,080 --> 01:49:57,040
Speaker 4: for different people. And no, I don't have all the

2102
01:49:57,120 --> 01:49:59,880
Speaker 4: answers and me telling you you gotta go find some

2103
01:50:00,000 --> 01:50:02,680
Speaker 4: somebody else is helping you find the real people that

2104
01:50:02,800 --> 01:50:04,080
Speaker 4: might be able to help your ass.

2105
01:50:04,160 --> 01:50:06,160
Speaker 3: And actually get to the root of the problem because

2106
01:50:06,200 --> 01:50:07,800
Speaker 3: you're talking to me and it may stem from some

2107
01:50:07,920 --> 01:50:10,360
Speaker 3: other shit that I am unaware of, and you need

2108
01:50:10,479 --> 01:50:15,400
Speaker 3: to pay somebody or find resources of your insurance company

2109
01:50:15,680 --> 01:50:17,719
Speaker 3: and things like that or whatever.

2110
01:50:17,560 --> 01:50:20,640
Speaker 1: It takes to find people that can actually help in

2111
01:50:20,760 --> 01:50:22,040
Speaker 1: a train to get to that.

2112
01:50:22,479 --> 01:50:25,200
Speaker 2: And I've seen I've seen not just therapy work, but

2113
01:50:25,400 --> 01:50:28,760
Speaker 2: just like self improvement, people are reading more people are

2114
01:50:28,960 --> 01:50:32,439
Speaker 2: learning boundaries. I've seen people make drastic changes in their

2115
01:50:32,520 --> 01:50:36,240
Speaker 2: lives where you just look up one day and you go, oh, Okay,

2116
01:50:36,320 --> 01:50:39,000
Speaker 2: that person's not just online talking about how terrible life

2117
01:50:39,120 --> 01:50:41,640
Speaker 2: is every day. Because here's the thing, and I'll move

2118
01:50:41,720 --> 01:50:42,880
Speaker 2: on from this. This is the last thing I'll say

2119
01:50:42,920 --> 01:50:47,960
Speaker 2: about it. You can look at people's presence online a

2120
01:50:48,040 --> 01:50:52,839
Speaker 2: lot of times. And I'm not a fucking psychologist, psychiatrist, therapist,

2121
01:50:53,160 --> 01:50:55,360
Speaker 2: but you can just look, especially if you've been where

2122
01:50:55,360 --> 01:50:59,080
Speaker 2: they are, and go, that person's dealing with depression or

2123
01:50:59,200 --> 01:51:01,080
Speaker 2: anger or some resentment.

2124
01:51:01,400 --> 01:51:02,040
Speaker 4: But they can't.

2125
01:51:02,120 --> 01:51:04,800
Speaker 2: They don't even know it. They but they don't. They

2126
01:51:04,840 --> 01:51:08,719
Speaker 2: don't think to themselves. I'm posting X amount of times

2127
01:51:08,760 --> 01:51:12,320
Speaker 2: a day and the content of this is mostly negative.

2128
01:51:13,320 --> 01:51:15,800
Speaker 2: It's all about just my problems and this that, And

2129
01:51:16,800 --> 01:51:21,760
Speaker 2: you might want to talk to somebody professionally, like you

2130
01:51:22,000 --> 01:51:25,400
Speaker 2: might want to take account of just like the cycles

2131
01:51:25,439 --> 01:51:28,519
Speaker 2: your life is in because you're not happy and you're

2132
01:51:28,640 --> 01:51:32,479
Speaker 2: not gonna find happy here because happy don't live on

2133
01:51:32,840 --> 01:51:36,840
Speaker 2: social media really, you know, like, I like one thing

2134
01:51:36,920 --> 01:51:39,640
Speaker 2: you will see people say, and people will say it

2135
01:51:39,880 --> 01:51:41,720
Speaker 2: all the time and I never related to it.

2136
01:51:42,360 --> 01:51:44,040
Speaker 4: But then I realized it's kind of like a cry

2137
01:51:44,160 --> 01:51:46,840
Speaker 4: for help. They go, yeah, you know, I had.

2138
01:51:46,800 --> 01:51:48,719
Speaker 2: To get off on Instagram because you just see people

2139
01:51:48,800 --> 01:51:51,800
Speaker 2: on there and they're like getting married and they're getting

2140
01:51:51,840 --> 01:51:54,840
Speaker 2: the house and getting a job, and it just makes

2141
01:51:54,880 --> 01:51:56,480
Speaker 2: you so mad and resentful.

2142
01:51:56,560 --> 01:51:58,360
Speaker 4: And I just don't like that.

2143
01:51:58,479 --> 01:52:02,080
Speaker 1: And I said, huh, that's something within you.

2144
01:52:02,800 --> 01:52:05,559
Speaker 4: It don't make me mad a resentful and it never

2145
01:52:05,720 --> 01:52:07,200
Speaker 4: has me either.

2146
01:52:07,240 --> 01:52:10,880
Speaker 1: I'm not one, not one get a heart from me, like.

2147
01:52:11,280 --> 01:52:13,960
Speaker 2: Even it don't like and and and and I'm not

2148
01:52:14,040 --> 01:52:16,040
Speaker 2: just talking about romantic shit, like even if it was

2149
01:52:16,120 --> 01:52:18,519
Speaker 2: like when I had a shitty job, if one of

2150
01:52:18,560 --> 01:52:22,000
Speaker 2: my homies got a dope job, nothing inside.

2151
01:52:21,560 --> 01:52:25,439
Speaker 4: Of me was like, fuck, what am I doing my life?

2152
01:52:25,960 --> 01:52:27,160
Speaker 4: That's some internal shit.

2153
01:52:27,280 --> 01:52:30,439
Speaker 2: You gotta go talk to a professional, you know, if

2154
01:52:30,439 --> 01:52:32,519
Speaker 2: you putting that kind of pressure on yourself where like

2155
01:52:34,080 --> 01:52:36,800
Speaker 2: someone else gets an opportunity that you want it and

2156
01:52:36,960 --> 01:52:39,240
Speaker 2: now you like, I can't even fucking be happy for

2157
01:52:39,360 --> 01:52:43,720
Speaker 2: my homie dog. That's that is saying something is going

2158
01:52:43,800 --> 01:52:47,120
Speaker 2: on internally. And it's not not that it's a feeling

2159
01:52:47,240 --> 01:52:50,160
Speaker 2: no one else has or it's a bad feeling wrong,

2160
01:52:50,479 --> 01:52:52,559
Speaker 2: but it's a feeling that you have that is coming

2161
01:52:52,600 --> 01:52:55,360
Speaker 2: out because there's somewhere inside of you that's not being

2162
01:52:55,400 --> 01:52:59,880
Speaker 2: addressed like it like and so you know, while you're

2163
01:53:00,080 --> 01:53:04,160
Speaker 2: friends can be the person you can maybe reveal that to,

2164
01:53:04,560 --> 01:53:07,920
Speaker 2: They're not gonna be the person that normally tells you, like, hey,

2165
01:53:08,080 --> 01:53:11,160
Speaker 2: but you should do these type of exercises to like

2166
01:53:11,280 --> 01:53:13,280
Speaker 2: work on that so that you don't feel that way

2167
01:53:13,720 --> 01:53:16,280
Speaker 2: every time you see somebody get something, because that's not healthy.

2168
01:53:16,320 --> 01:53:19,200
Speaker 2: It's gonna lead to a huge gaping hole of resentment

2169
01:53:19,280 --> 01:53:22,000
Speaker 2: in you all the time. You know, like you need,

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Speaker 2: you need to talk to somebody different than just the

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01:53:25,920 --> 01:53:27,920
Speaker 2: people that want to want you to like them, you know.

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Speaker 2: So all right, Uh, that's the last voicemail. We didn't

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Speaker 2: get any emails this week, So Karen, what was in

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Speaker 2: the mailbox?

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01:53:36,439 --> 01:53:37,719
Speaker 1: Any emails day?

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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01:53:39,320 --> 01:53:43,439
Speaker 2: I was like, uh about well, they wrote a bunch

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Speaker 2: of comments. I mean, let's not let's not knock them caring.

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Speaker 1: That's true, that's true, that's true, Corinthea.

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01:53:52,840 --> 01:53:59,920
Speaker 4: We got kritha sorry all she got us a holiday

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01:54:00,320 --> 01:54:01,080
Speaker 4: her and her husband.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm, yeah, I like that.

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Speaker 4: Craig, I feel I don't. I've never met I don't

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01:54:08,200 --> 01:54:09,920
Speaker 4: think I've ever met or talk to Craig, but I

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01:54:10,000 --> 01:54:13,040
Speaker 4: feel like we know he exists on social media. I

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Speaker 4: feel like I know him.

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01:54:14,240 --> 01:54:17,120
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, we know he exists. If if it

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01:54:17,120 --> 01:54:19,360
Speaker 3: wentn't for her posting the pictures, I'd have been.

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01:54:19,320 --> 01:54:20,000
Speaker 4: Like, he ain't real.

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01:54:20,439 --> 01:54:23,720
Speaker 2: Shout out the shout out the professor her in the

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01:54:23,800 --> 01:54:24,559
Speaker 2: fancy practice.

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Speaker 3: Come on, professionals. Three be incredibly good to you and yours,

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01:54:33,480 --> 01:54:36,480
Speaker 3: and thank you for letting us witness some of your

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Speaker 3: remarkable journey.

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01:54:38,680 --> 01:54:40,440
Speaker 4: All, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I got some more cars to hold on to. Mm hmm,

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Speaker 1: i'd be loving the cars. This is from Mary Cool

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Speaker 1: our fans keep the Mahogany people in business.

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Speaker 4: Season greeting little black girl dog next to her.

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Speaker 1: Y'all love it and we do too. We love Mahogany too.

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Speaker 4: I'm more of an ebony man than a Mahogany man.

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Speaker 4: But it's nothing.

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Speaker 1: Riding Karen, wishing you had blessed holiday season. Thank you

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01:55:21,240 --> 01:55:24,720
Speaker 1: for all. Okay, this is in curses, so please forgive

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01:55:24,800 --> 01:55:29,560
Speaker 1: me hold on, so.

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Speaker 4: Now you'll go through contact clothes.

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Speaker 3: Y'all.

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01:55:31,360 --> 01:55:34,720
Speaker 4: See, y'all see the cursive. It's not it's not doing

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Speaker 4: what y'all think is doing.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for all the okay entertainment throughout the year. Uh,

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Speaker 3: you truly make my year better. Sincerely, Mary, A tipper

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01:55:46,920 --> 01:55:49,400
Speaker 3: from Cali. Thank you, And I'm sorry if I jacked

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Speaker 3: it up.

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01:55:49,720 --> 01:55:52,600
Speaker 4: Baby, No it's not don't don't apologize. It's her.

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01:55:52,760 --> 01:55:55,520
Speaker 2: She flew too close to the sun. It's her fault

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01:55:55,520 --> 01:55:57,640
Speaker 2: for writing a cursive trying to be fancy, trying to

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01:55:57,680 --> 01:55:59,840
Speaker 2: stun on us. But how you're gonna stone on me

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01:55:59,840 --> 01:56:01,480
Speaker 2: if I can't even read it? I don't know what

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01:56:01,520 --> 01:56:02,120
Speaker 2: you're talking about.

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01:56:03,400 --> 01:56:06,840
Speaker 1: And we we we are the last of a dying

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Speaker 1: breed that I can actually read.

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Speaker 4: Curse be not really you was struggling it. It all

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01:56:13,000 --> 01:56:14,040
Speaker 4: looked like risotto to me.

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01:56:17,160 --> 01:56:18,680
Speaker 1: I can get the most fit.

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Speaker 10: Uh.

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01:56:20,480 --> 01:56:21,920
Speaker 1: This is from the Cannon family.

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01:56:22,520 --> 01:56:25,400
Speaker 2: Oh ship, I know that's a big ass family, you know, Cannon,

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01:56:25,840 --> 01:56:30,640
Speaker 2: the Cannon guy, A bunch of them. Ah, look at

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01:56:30,680 --> 01:56:33,839
Speaker 2: the babies, the Christmas outfits.

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Speaker 3: Oh I love this though, Ba Grove, you got a

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01:56:40,680 --> 01:56:42,160
Speaker 3: black cabbage patch doll.

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Speaker 1: Let's go.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Happy holidays all, Hey riding Karen. So let

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01:56:51,360 --> 01:56:55,080
Speaker 3: me explain this photo shoot started out as a joke.

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01:56:55,840 --> 01:56:58,120
Speaker 3: I do wacky things like this on a regular to

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Speaker 3: make my friends, friends and family laugh.

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01:57:01,120 --> 01:57:03,240
Speaker 1: But then I got an idea to take it up

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01:57:03,240 --> 01:57:06,400
Speaker 1: a notch. I usually received bountiful.

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01:57:07,280 --> 01:57:09,200
Speaker 3: I've used to receive that bounty of car during the

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Speaker 3: holiday seasons all and I never and I've never been

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Speaker 3: a big fan of Christmas cards.

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01:57:15,360 --> 01:57:18,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I use uh, I used. I used to be

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01:57:18,760 --> 01:57:20,200
Speaker 1: the internal the internal grinch.

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01:57:20,400 --> 01:57:23,760
Speaker 3: Oh, you was the grinch baby the past three years

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01:57:25,280 --> 01:57:30,480
Speaker 3: in this Panorosa Ponderosa, Panorosa ponorosa, it's.

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01:57:30,400 --> 01:57:33,000
Speaker 1: The same thing, baby, we get. It has taught me

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01:57:33,960 --> 01:57:36,720
Speaker 1: to be married for the present as it is truly

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01:57:36,800 --> 01:57:37,120
Speaker 1: a gift.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for both being internally grateful, an internal part

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Speaker 3: of my listening. Oh, I'm sorry, thank you for being

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01:57:47,200 --> 01:57:52,960
Speaker 3: an intergral part of my daily listening life. I think

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01:57:53,640 --> 01:57:57,000
Speaker 3: create I think I created a monster all from these cars.

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01:57:59,200 --> 01:58:00,400
Speaker 1: I can't wait to see.

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01:58:00,920 --> 01:58:03,200
Speaker 3: She called him, She called Himbout, the baby doll, Trixy

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Speaker 3: Faith Fay, my thirty eight year old daughter and I

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Speaker 3: going to be next year.

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Speaker 5: All all the best.

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01:58:14,040 --> 01:58:16,080
Speaker 1: For the remainder of twenty two and beyond.

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01:58:17,320 --> 01:58:21,800
Speaker 3: Your future is so bright with my eyes, and I mean, yeah,

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01:58:21,880 --> 01:58:24,480
Speaker 3: your future is so bright, my eyes are blinded.

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Speaker 1: Oh Christmas twenty twenty two. K Ken, No, I'm glad

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01:58:32,400 --> 01:58:33,560
Speaker 1: you're not no Gritch no more.

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01:58:33,640 --> 01:58:35,800
Speaker 5: And Honey, I thank you for putting us on the list.

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Speaker 10: And that was it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Well, thank you everybody for the for the

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01:58:44,960 --> 01:58:49,200
Speaker 2: presence and the cards and the comments and the five

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Speaker 2: star reviews especially. We really appreciate y'all. Once again, I'm

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01:58:54,440 --> 01:58:57,440
Speaker 2: gonna be another touch and go week. This time, I'll

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01:58:57,760 --> 01:59:00,360
Speaker 2: have a five day work week, so we'll we'll see

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Speaker 2: how it goes. We may get to all five episodes,

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01:59:03,560 --> 01:59:07,040
Speaker 2: it may not, but it'll be alright either way. We'll

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Speaker 2: probably do an episode tomorrow for sure. And uh yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's it man. Happy podcast anniversary, baby, thirteen years down,

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01:59:17,400 --> 01:59:18,360
Speaker 2: thirteen years down.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And to the rest of y'all, we'll see y'all soon.

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Speaker 4: Until next time, I love you.

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Speaker 1: I love you too,