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Speaker 1: It's time right now to ask Celo or chief Love

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Speaker 1: our Chief Love.

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Speaker 2: Officer Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: This one's from Alonzo and Syracuse Clo. Alonza writes, I'm

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Speaker 1: getting to know a beautiful woman I met online four

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Speaker 1: years four months ago. Every time I go visit her,

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Speaker 1: she asked me to do some kind of work around

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Speaker 1: her house. I can't tell if she likes me or

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Speaker 1: if she needs a handyman. Is this part of the

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Speaker 1: process or is she using me?

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Speaker 2: Well? Brouh?

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Speaker 3: I mean, look here, uh, men have some like the

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Speaker 3: other day a guy had a gold digger test, which

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Speaker 3: was stupid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know you didn't want to she she could,

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Speaker 2: she could genuinely need help.

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Speaker 3: And maybe she's saying, man, here's a guy that I

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Speaker 3: like and is also willing to help me.

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Speaker 2: Is it really that bad?

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Speaker 3: I don't know why there's such a thought is being

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Speaker 3: given these days to is a woman using me? I'm

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Speaker 3: buying all these dinners and I'm doing this here?

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Speaker 4: Bruh.

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Speaker 3: Don't you understand there's a cost to this. Now, That's

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Speaker 3: why there's a cost to dating. You know, it's a

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Speaker 3: cost to being in a relationship. There's a cost. Stop

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Speaker 3: wanting it to be easy and free.

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Speaker 2: It's not pruh.

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Speaker 3: You're helping a woman out worst case scenario. You help

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Speaker 3: the person. You don't understand that there's a blessing in

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Speaker 3: that next question?

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Speaker 4: You frustrated your steve.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, these these young guys. Look, I'm

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Speaker 3: not mad at you, but and then I do understand.

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Speaker 3: But I don't mind helping you. But you got to

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Speaker 3: be open to what I'm saying. You know that there's

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Speaker 3: times it's different.

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Speaker 2: Y'all need to.

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Speaker 3: Stop saying that. Y'all need to stop saying times it's different.

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Speaker 3: I got times as differ.

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Speaker 2: But love is the same.

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Speaker 3: Discipline is the same, Loyalty and dedication is the same.

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Speaker 2: That will never go out of style. Yeah, purpose is

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Speaker 2: the same. Go ahead, all right.

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Speaker 1: This one's from Raquel and Jackson. Raquel writes, my husband

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Speaker 1: used to gossip with me, but now he says I'm

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Speaker 1: being messy. He said, I need to listen to the

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Speaker 1: sermons on Sunday. Since when is it a sin to

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Speaker 1: gossip with your spouse? It's what we've done for years.

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Speaker 1: Who am I supposed to talk to?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 3: Well, get you some friends. Ain't it something in the Bible?

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Speaker 3: And say God should not be a false witness against

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Speaker 3: that neighbor. Yeah, yeah, well then gossip isn't necessarily facts.

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Speaker 4: Did you hear.

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Speaker 2: About, Well, suppose what you heard about ain't true.

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Speaker 1: Not true.

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Speaker 3: You know, you know they say so and so did this, Paul,

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Speaker 3: so and so didn't do that. But even if so

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Speaker 3: and so did that, you don't really know that gossip

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Speaker 3: is hearsay. So that's what your husband is saying. You know,

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Speaker 3: he trying to get better, right, Getting better.

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Speaker 2: Costs That's it. That's it right there.

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Speaker 3: It costs you something you enjoyed it. I wish I

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Speaker 3: could pull up this thing I pulled online the other day. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you need to stop gossipeling call your girlfriends.

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Speaker 1: Just into it, because your husband's not here for it

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Speaker 1: any longer. Okay, all right, Moving on to Patrick in

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Speaker 1: La Patrick says, I'm fifty nine years old and my wife.

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Speaker 4: Is fifty two.

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Speaker 1: She gets in the mood at the strangest times, and

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Speaker 1: I'm supposed to have sex when she wants to. I'm

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Speaker 1: not always in the mood, but she doesn't care. How

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Speaker 1: do I put my foot down and tell my wife no?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Patrick, you can't. I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: don't know, So he should just go along with it. Bro,

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Speaker 2: you got the best problem. You can have your mouth

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Speaker 2: and get in there and laid out.

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Speaker 1: But he's not always in the mood.

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Speaker 4: Shut up? Do it?

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Speaker 1: Is it because of the times, he says, at the

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Speaker 1: strangest times? What are these strangest times?

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Speaker 2: I don't care? Yeah, I don't care. I don't care.

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Speaker 3: Go in there and perform your husband duties. I got

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Speaker 3: got it, got no help for you. Stop crying stuff.

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Speaker 3: You're whining, because Bro, it can be the opposite. M

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Speaker 3: m hm, and then what if it were the opposite?

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Speaker 4: Don't know?

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Speaker 2: Won't be knowing me? You telling my ass? Cause she

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Speaker 2: tells me no, she got a head. She she tired,

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Speaker 2: she's been working all day, she's been feeling with your kids.

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Speaker 2: She don't feel like guy?

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Speaker 4: What what?

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Speaker 1: Junior? What you say? Now?

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Speaker 4: I want my wife to hear Patrick's prime.

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Speaker 2: I need her to hear this.

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Speaker 1: You guys have just the opposite issues, won't me all

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Speaker 1: the time? Have you ever said no? Have you guys

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Speaker 1: ever said no to your wife?

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Speaker 4: I can't you really don't No.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to help someone You're.

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Speaker 4: Not gonna be talking under my clothes. You don't talk

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Speaker 4: my clothes.

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Speaker 1: I know my moms say that. All right, all right,

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Speaker 1: so get with it. Patrick, that's the advice from the colo.

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Speaker 1: All right, moving on. This is the last one, Steve.

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Speaker 1: This is from Onyx in Hilton Head. Onyx writes, I

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Speaker 1: bought a small condo near the beach, and my son

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Speaker 1: and his pregnant wife are coming to visit me. They

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Speaker 1: usually sleep on the sleeper sofa, but she asked if

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Speaker 1: they could sleep in my room since she's pregnant. Am

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Speaker 1: I obligated to give them my bed? That's what she

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Speaker 1: wants to know.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you get it? So one. So it's one bedroom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a small condo near the beach. Yeah, just for

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Speaker 1: her and she has her room and then a sleeper sofa.

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Speaker 2: Oh where do they live?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: Well, it looks like you don't know how to hair

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Speaker 3: your baby, that's what the old lady ought to say. Well,

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Speaker 3: it looked like you don't need you don't know how

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Speaker 3: to hair your baby.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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Speaker 2: You know? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I ain't never been pregnant, so I I.

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Speaker 2: Know it looks hard. It really does look hard. So

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Speaker 2: I don't really have nothing to say. So is she

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Speaker 2: obligated to give them her room?

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Speaker 3: No, she's not obligated. It would be a very kind gesture.

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Speaker 3: But why don't y'all get an ad mattress?

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Speaker 1: I want to get a room, all right, they're going

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Speaker 1: to they want to spend be on the beach in

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Speaker 1: the condo. Some people like a lot of attention though

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