Speaker 1: All right, it's Brooke and Jeffery's second date classic update.
Speaker 1: It's me Ashton in the studio by myself. They're all home,
Speaker 1: and they just gave me the free reign to do
Speaker 1: whatever I wanted today. So I'm thinking I'll probably drink
Speaker 1: some of Jose's old coffee he's got left sit in
Speaker 1: as desk. Maybe steal some of those sour pash watermelons
Speaker 1: that Alexis has her desk. Just steal one of the
Speaker 1: many credit cards that Brook has laying around in hers.
Speaker 2: And while I do that, you.
Speaker 1: Guys can enjoy this classic second date update. Enjoy I
Speaker 1: love you.
Speaker 3: Why is it best friends always make the worst matchmaking
Speaker 3: decisions when they're trying.
Speaker 2: To set you up.
Speaker 3: Amen, They're like, what, he's a great guy, he's just
Speaker 3: got a weird roommate that he's quote unquote legally married too,
Speaker 3: with several children.
Speaker 4: Yeah, god for you, Yeah, it's perfect for you. You
Speaker 4: guys would be so cute, all right.
Speaker 2: Get the Oh she's super annoying. Her laugh is so obnoxioal,
Speaker 2: just like your Can you imagine.
Speaker 5: Us together in a room?
Speaker 2: Then, oh my god.
Speaker 3: One of our listeners had the shock of a lifetime
Speaker 3: when her friend tried to set her up on a
Speaker 3: date at the last minute, and as she walked into
Speaker 3: the bar that night, she knew immediately there had been
Speaker 3: a terrible misunderstanding.
Speaker 2: Still though, she gave it.
Speaker 3: Her best shot, and you're gonna hear what happened in
Speaker 3: a second date update right after this.
Speaker 6: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates.
Speaker 3: If someone sets you up on a blind date, what
Speaker 3: are the worst possible case scenarios that could come of it?
Speaker 3: Like in the first five minutes they asked for a
Speaker 3: job interview at your company.
Speaker 2: I don't know you would like that.
Speaker 4: I mean I thought of worse things in my head
Speaker 4: than that.
Speaker 3: I didn't even get you in it, Like yeah, driving
Speaker 3: the getaway car and they do the bank.
Speaker 4: Heist, I mean, how are they.
Speaker 2: Let's say they were really.
Speaker 7: Hot, I mean a fast driver.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's excited.
Speaker 3: Maybe you realize halfway through dinner your date is just
Speaker 3: three children standing on top of each other.
Speaker 2: They're in a trench coat. It happens more.
Speaker 5: Than you think.
Speaker 8: Hey, you guys want to go play Fortnite's not a
Speaker 8: best case scenario for Jose, but one of our listeners,
Speaker 8: Janelle said she had the worst possible thing happened after
Speaker 8: she was set up on a date by her friend.
Speaker 2: To us today.
Speaker 9: Wait, you know, worse than the three children on stacked
Speaker 9: on top of each other.
Speaker 5: It's so much worse than that.
Speaker 2: Five children, five toddlers, a baby, dude.
Speaker 4: Okay, we're stopping at your page.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's stop guessing. Why don't you tell us the story.
Speaker 3: You said a friend set you up on a blind date.
Speaker 10: Yeah, so one of my friends at work, she was
Speaker 10: a happy hour.
Speaker 5: And there's this two guys.
Speaker 11: Okay, she's setting there and she wanted me to hang out.
Speaker 4: Like a waiter at the happy hour place. Is that
Speaker 4: what you're saying?
Speaker 10: No, he hangs out there.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 3: For Brook, her biggest fantasy is like making away with
Speaker 3: one of the staff with the help.
Speaker 4: Fantasy reality job.
Speaker 2: Okay, who was she trying to set you up with?
Speaker 10: Well, this guy named David. She's like, he's a real cutie,
Speaker 10: So why don't you come up here and just try
Speaker 10: your hands?
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 3: This is like a spontaneous date that she set up
Speaker 3: while she was out somewhere already.
Speaker 10: Yeah, so I get up there and one got cute
Speaker 10: of course, and we get there and it's not busy
Speaker 10: at all. So once I walk inside the door, I immediately
Speaker 10: lock eyes with It's gotta be David.
Speaker 11: And guess what what.
Speaker 10: I know David already because he has experimented three years ago.
Speaker 5: Okay, it's work.
Speaker 9: So she knows your type because it is your type
Speaker 9: because you've dated him before.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh no, is that good or bad?
Speaker 11: Awkward?
Speaker 12: Because he kind of just.
Speaker 10: Disappeared on me three years ago. He texted me like
Speaker 10: and just you know, gid my walking papers be.
Speaker 3: It text ox was d bye, We're done. Yeah, at
Speaker 3: least he messaged you. A lot of guys wouldn't even
Speaker 3: have the dunity to do that.
Speaker 9: I love how that's still a positive. Like, how long
Speaker 9: did you guys hang out for three years ago?
Speaker 11: Just for a few months.
Speaker 10: It wasn't long at all, but just kind of by
Speaker 10: you know, wow.
Speaker 3: My god, So how did your friends find out that
Speaker 3: this was your ex?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 2: I just kind of blurted it out.
Speaker 11: I was like, uh, I dated him before?
Speaker 4: Oh my, oh what did they say?
Speaker 10: Everybody was just embarrassed for me and was he kind
Speaker 10: of pulled me to the side. And he's apologetic.
Speaker 11: He said he wanted to explain to me the reason,
Speaker 11: but I.
Speaker 12: Didn't want an explanation.
Speaker 4: Like, oh about why he kind of ghosted?
Speaker 10: Maybe there was a good explanation was yeah, well kind
Speaker 10: of just let me know that he wasn't ready for
Speaker 10: what I was looking for at that time.
Speaker 3: He was busy studying to be a doctor. To say,
Speaker 3: it's usually not the excuse was something worse than that.
Speaker 9: No, yeah, I think he had other ideas of what
Speaker 9: he wanted to do with his time or who.
Speaker 2: Probably most don't lie about that stuff.
Speaker 9: But did he do the thing where he comes crawling
Speaker 9: back because now he's seen that there isn't anything better
Speaker 9: in the dating world.
Speaker 10: I can't say that, But what I can say is,
Speaker 10: after a few dreams we talked about making out, I mean.
Speaker 3: Talk about making about making out.
Speaker 4: Who brought that up?
Speaker 10: I did?
Speaker 5: He was kind of one of my best makeout partners.
Speaker 9: Oh okay, so I'm totally disappointed that it was David
Speaker 9: when he showed up to the bar.
Speaker 3: You can make out, though, but you've gone from like
Speaker 3: I cannot believe I got set up with this horrible
Speaker 3: x of mind to talking about you're the best makeout
Speaker 3: I've ever had, so.
Speaker 4: Then calling us to call him again.
Speaker 12: It isn't funny, how light is.
Speaker 4: What happened that night?
Speaker 10: Yeah, well, guys, I'm going to shock you with this one.
Speaker 5: We made out.
Speaker 2: You don't say.
Speaker 4: You went back to his place? No?
Speaker 10: No, no, he fit me home in an uber like
Speaker 10: I was on cloud nine?
Speaker 5: Wow?
Speaker 4: You want the uber? Was he like? See she's getting
Speaker 4: I thought this was your.
Speaker 2: Stop asking to make out with me and go home.
Speaker 2: That's a good point of like we're saying, congrats. Did
Speaker 2: you want to leave.
Speaker 6: With him or no?
Speaker 10: Of course I wanted to leave with him, Okay, but
Speaker 10: he was trying.
Speaker 2: To be responsible.
Speaker 4: Did you really think at the end of the night
Speaker 4: you would hear from him again? I was hop Okay,
Speaker 4: you were Okay, some people grow, you know.
Speaker 2: Have you tried to contact him after that night happened?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 5: You have?
Speaker 4: How many times? And it was time of day.
Speaker 10: The whole history has a repeat itself. Apparently I didn't
Speaker 10: learn my lessons because he's not responding again.
Speaker 9: Okay, And why do you think us calling him is
Speaker 9: going to make a difference, Because we're not her bro.
Speaker 10: He'll be honest, like, I'll learn something from this.
Speaker 3: Okay, you're still willing to give this guy a chance
Speaker 3: after he ditched you, not once, but twice, or this.
Speaker 2: Will end the cycle.
Speaker 4: Yes, that toxic.
Speaker 3: Don't trust the gen Z on what's toxic and not.
Speaker 4: There's a lot about gen Zer, but don't trust Alexis.
Speaker 2: She just set it four boys before we started. But
Speaker 2: you know what, we're gonna try this. We're gonna do
Speaker 2: this for you.
Speaker 3: You know, we're gonna call David, who's technically one of
Speaker 3: your exes, and see if he's willing to give it
Speaker 3: another shot with you.
Speaker 2: I hope he remember to what's happening. We're doing it
Speaker 2: with our second date update right after this.
Speaker 6: Hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: Second date updates.
Speaker 3: If you're just joining us, this is definitely an unusual
Speaker 3: one for second date because we're kind of reaching out
Speaker 3: to Janelle's ex boyfriend David.
Speaker 4: I don't think there's a kind of about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the return of the Dave because they dated.
Speaker 3: They dated three years ago when he suddenly ditched her
Speaker 3: over text message.
Speaker 2: So fast forward to today.
Speaker 3: At a random happy hour, they accidentally got set up
Speaker 3: on a blind date, which of course was very awkward
Speaker 3: when it first started, but after an apology and a
Speaker 3: lot of drinks. They were in a much better place. Yes,
Speaker 3: even ended up making out again that night, which I.
Speaker 4: Mean, your ex is at a bar. Who isn't going
Speaker 4: to make out with him? It's how you say?
Speaker 5: Hi?
Speaker 3: Yeah, Now Dave is being shady once again, shocking, So
Speaker 3: we need to call him and figure out once and
Speaker 3: for all what's going on?
Speaker 5: Brooke?
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on this situation?
Speaker 4: I just think you know already what's going on.
Speaker 9: But I get it, like chase, it's a chase. It's
Speaker 9: why doesn't he want you? Like?
Speaker 4: That is totally understandable.
Speaker 10: I'll never know unless how about that?
Speaker 2: Okay? Well, the two times that he told you no.
Speaker 9: The thing is she wants an answer that he hasn't
Speaker 9: given her yet.
Speaker 3: Right, Okay, maybe a radio show calling will help give
Speaker 3: him some clarity and realize that you're the one for him.
Speaker 11: What exactly?
Speaker 4: I still think there's something there. You're hoping he grew up? Okay?
Speaker 2: The dating world has really messed you up?
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 3: Well, you know what, there's some optimism in the room.
Speaker 3: Let's give David a call see if he answers. I'm
Speaker 3: down the number right now. Hello, Hey, we're looking to
Speaker 3: talk to David. Yeah, hey David, brace yourself because you're
Speaker 3: on the radio right now.
Speaker 4: Hey David, Yo, welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: What is this allowed allowed?
Speaker 6: That's all required. It's part of our show.
Speaker 2: As long as I tell you that you're on the radio,
Speaker 2: then it's legal.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Not funny. It's very easy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay with them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll beat stuff if you swear.
Speaker 3: This is a segment that we do called the second
Speaker 3: Date Update, where we try to help one of our
Speaker 3: listeners reconnect with somebody that they had like a romantic
Speaker 3: spark with.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, and.
Speaker 3: This is a woman that you actually have a lot
Speaker 3: of history with, but you met up with her again
Speaker 3: recently at a happy hour named Janelle.
Speaker 5: Oh why does she want?
Speaker 4: Oh? So that was like, what does she want? I'm
Speaker 4: so excited?
Speaker 3: I mean the short answer is like, what she wants
Speaker 3: is to see you again.
Speaker 13: Oh no, yeah, I don't know about that.
Speaker 9: Oh well, yeah, were you excited to see Janelle when
Speaker 9: she walked into the bar?
Speaker 5: No, that was super awkward.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 8: In her defense, she was like, oh no, I've dated him,
Speaker 8: and it was like it was awkward for her too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 3: It was awkward for the people in the room too,
Speaker 3: when they all found out that you guys had.
Speaker 2: Been together before.
Speaker 5: Yeah so yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: I mean totally understandable. But Janelle said that after you
Speaker 3: guys hung out for a little bit, after you had
Speaker 3: a few drinks, things seemed to settle in more.
Speaker 2: And you even apologize to her.
Speaker 13: Oh yeah, I mean, like, I don't like that I
Speaker 13: semi ghosted her and it's not like who I am,
Speaker 13: you know, I don't mean.
Speaker 5: To do that.
Speaker 4: It's kind of what you're doing again because.
Speaker 3: Well he doesn't like that he's doing it again. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it just doesn't make him feel good, but he will
Speaker 3: do it.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 13: I mean, like, look, I know I told her I
Speaker 13: had grown, but like I don't want to date.
Speaker 4: Wait, you don't want to date or you don't want
Speaker 4: to date her.
Speaker 13: Just in general honestly. Oh yeah, I mean she I
Speaker 13: know she wants to lie, settle down and have kids,
Speaker 13: and like we talked about that, but I don't. I
Speaker 13: don't want to do that. I don't I want to
Speaker 13: be single. I don't want to disappoint her or anything.
Speaker 9: That is like such a hard thing for women to accept,
Speaker 9: and I don't like I think that you're totally valid
Speaker 9: for saying that, but like so many times, women can
Speaker 9: be like, well.
Speaker 13: But if you do it with me, you know, I
Speaker 13: can see us having plans on a Friday night and
Speaker 13: then a buddy calls me up and is like, hey,
Speaker 13: you want to go hang.
Speaker 5: Out, and honest to god, I would ditcher.
Speaker 13: It's an unfortunate circumstances, like I won't make her a priority.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean it's because it's mature that you know that,
Speaker 8: and you can like say that, but.
Speaker 4: It's not mature that the.
Speaker 13: Yeah, I don't care, like whatever judgment call you want
Speaker 13: to put on it. It's who I am and I
Speaker 13: admit it.
Speaker 9: Yeah, somebody says who they are, you gotta believe.
Speaker 8: Them absolutely, at least you're saying it.
Speaker 2: Some people just ghost.
Speaker 13: Well he was doing was I mean, I was going
Speaker 13: to I was going to a texture, but that classic.
Speaker 2: Text love that thing.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry to ruin your plans to text her and
Speaker 3: bit her, but we need to tell you she's actually
Speaker 3: on the phone right now wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 9: Why.
Speaker 2: It's different energy than I thought.
Speaker 3: Hi, how are you Jane Janelle?
Speaker 2: You heard what he was saying.
Speaker 10: Right, Yeah, I mean, but what could be so bad?
Speaker 10: David like me?
Speaker 5: Wait?
Speaker 4: Wait are you not listening to him?
Speaker 10: I mean, if you wanted to hang out with your
Speaker 10: friends while we were hanging out, all you have to
Speaker 10: do is say so you can do that?
Speaker 5: Oh god, seriously, Like you don't mean that. Yes, it
Speaker 5: will be no issue.
Speaker 9: No, this is like I'm a cool girl, walk all
Speaker 9: over me.
Speaker 4: I don't do that.
Speaker 11: I'm trying to be understanding.
Speaker 9: I have to be understanding with someone who will make
Speaker 9: you also a priority.
Speaker 2: Yes, respects you.
Speaker 13: I mean you want to be understanding.
Speaker 5: Understand that, Like, I don't want this?
Speaker 10: What exactly don't you want there?
Speaker 5: It's crazy.
Speaker 13: I don't know. You want to be in a serious
Speaker 13: relationship and I'm looking for a very much more casual thing.
Speaker 5: I don't think you get it.
Speaker 11: I have a lot of clothes I can put on.
Speaker 4: That's a good spin. That's a good spin.
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I don't know if you like who I am.
Speaker 5: I really don't.
Speaker 12: Oh what, You're an awesome person.
Speaker 11: What is there not to like about you?
Speaker 5: I don't want to do that though, I don't want
Speaker 5: to look.
Speaker 13: I buy my phenails and I eat them all right,
Speaker 13: and I put the big ones.
Speaker 5: I keep the big ones in a little box.
Speaker 9: Oh God, what the flexibility it takes to be able
Speaker 9: to do that.
Speaker 10: We'll just work on healthier coping mechanisms. Like that's all.
Speaker 2: Huh, he's trying to.
Speaker 5: Get rid of her.
Speaker 11: There's so many other things that you can chew on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I will.
Speaker 3: I feel like he's politely as possible trying to steer
Speaker 3: you away from a bad situation.
Speaker 4: But I wasn't. To her credit, I don't know.
Speaker 9: When we talked to her, she didn't say she wanted
Speaker 9: a big relationship with you. She literally said, I just
Speaker 9: want a couple more dates.
Speaker 13: Like yeah, no, I don't.
Speaker 10: I don't think you will eating baby or anything with you.
Speaker 13: I don't think you get me.
Speaker 5: Like I'm super lazy.
Speaker 13: Okay, Like I pee in the backyard instead of.
Speaker 5: Going upstairs to go pee in the bathrooms.
Speaker 11: Nothing wrong with that?
Speaker 2: What God?
Speaker 4: Now, pick up your self respect, it's on the floor.
Speaker 11: I'm not a quitter.
Speaker 5: I am not a quitter.
Speaker 3: Janelle is still into this after the toe biting and
Speaker 3: the backyard defecating. We love to send you guys on
Speaker 3: another date that we would pay for and.
Speaker 2: Probably did you halfway through for his friends.
Speaker 3: I know the answer is yes from Janelle already, so
Speaker 3: we needed to get an answer from you, David.
Speaker 2: Would you be willing to see her one more time?
Speaker 5: No? You know you're great. Seriously, you're great. It's not
Speaker 5: you with me.
Speaker 12: I just don't want classic.
Speaker 3: Well, Janea, I'm sorry, but it looks like we're not
Speaker 3: going to be able to set you up again with
Speaker 3: your ex boyfriend.
Speaker 2: That is the universal sounds. That's the title of Janelle's
Speaker 2: entire dating life.
Speaker 6: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Oh man, I have a lot of hope going.
Speaker 9: Did you?
Speaker 4: I mean, before we even called him, I didn't have hope.
Speaker 3: What rekindling an old relationship worked for j Lo and
Speaker 3: Ben Affleck. They look absolutely miserable whenever they're around each other,
Speaker 3: and both of their careers are tanking at an astronomic
Speaker 3: Go great, yeh together, Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: But they phoned the Dunkin Donuts commercial together, Brooke.
Speaker 9: Okay, it is literally the only good thing that happened,
Speaker 9: and that was mostly because Matt Damon was I was
Speaker 9: just gonna say that.
Speaker 3: Well, they could have had their Matt Damon Duncan Donuts
Speaker 3: commercial moment. Unfortunately, someone wasn't willing to give it a chance.
Speaker 4: Wow, what a stickler. He is his own ideal.
Speaker 2: So you lost me the analogy. So she needs to
Speaker 2: date Matt Damon.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we'll go with that conclusion.
Speaker 2: I think that's a good thing.
Speaker 3: Reach out to him next, and we can reach out
Speaker 3: to anybody that you want us to. You just have
Speaker 3: to call us and we'll call that person not calling
Speaker 3: you back and go check out all of our second
Speaker 3: dates wherever you get your podcast out Broken Jeffery.
Speaker 6: Yeah, bo Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: On a dinner date, it's not totally unheard of to
Speaker 3: ask the waiter if you could switch tables.
Speaker 4: No, No, it's pretty normal because.
Speaker 3: Maybe the leg is wobbly, or maybe it's right below
Speaker 3: the air conditioning vent, or maybe you just want to
Speaker 3: be less visible to the security cameras so they can't
Speaker 3: see what's happening under the tablecoth.
Speaker 5: The play.
Speaker 3: But in today's call, none of those explanations seem to
Speaker 3: fit for why a guy asked to switch booths halfway
Speaker 3: through a date.
Speaker 2: And we were.
Speaker 3: All stunned when we finally learned the actual reason he
Speaker 3: demanded to switch locations. Did not have it on my
Speaker 3: Bengo card. I'll tell you that you'll hear it. A
Speaker 3: second date update next.
Speaker 6: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: Second date update.
Speaker 3: If you go out on a really good first date,
Speaker 3: it might end in a little kiss. It could end
Speaker 3: in a tender hug, or, if you're lucky, a three
Speaker 3: way chicken fight with your parents.
Speaker 4: And I don't know what that is.
Speaker 3: Sitting on top of each other's shoulders inside of a pool.
Speaker 5: Well.
Speaker 3: One of our listeners says she got something else at
Speaker 3: the end of her night, a two word whisper in
Speaker 3: her ear, and she's not sure really what it meant.
Speaker 2: It's anything, so let's talk to her.
Speaker 4: I just cringe, think you.
Speaker 3: It could be something really nice and romantic, Baby Angie,
Speaker 3: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: I'm very curious about this whisper.
Speaker 3: But before we get to that, first, tell us the
Speaker 3: guy's name and how you met him.
Speaker 9: Whisper it to us, Nichola, No more whispering, No more whispering.
Speaker 2: Until the actual whisper happened. How about that the.
Speaker 6: Car their radios down or out there?
Speaker 2: I don't know me, Nicholas, how I.
Speaker 11: Mean, it's kind of embarrassing, but we met on plenty
Speaker 11: of Fish, which I know people don't even use anymore.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think there's actual only fish on their question.
Speaker 4: What drove you to plenty of Fish?
Speaker 13: I don't know.
Speaker 11: It's just one of those that, like I said, up
Speaker 11: a profile I don't even know how long ago, and
Speaker 11: then I'll get in a relationship and I'll get off it.
Speaker 11: But like I can just go reactivate it.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Okay, some question. Does it even have an app? Or
Speaker 4: you have to use a browser?
Speaker 2: I don't even know. It only operates over facts.
Speaker 4: Now, Okay, I thought it still was printed out on
Speaker 4: the back of the weeklies.
Speaker 2: That could be.
Speaker 3: But the important thing is that you matched with this
Speaker 3: Nicholas guy. So tell us what did you do for
Speaker 3: your date?
Speaker 11: We went to dinner. We went to a tie place,
Speaker 11: which is one of my faves, so that was good.
Speaker 9: Did he remember that it was one of your favorites
Speaker 9: because that's always like really nice too.
Speaker 11: Well, I picked it, so that made.
Speaker 2: It deserves credit a little bit for going along thing.
Speaker 2: So let's get it.
Speaker 11: And I'm a lady who knows what she likes and
Speaker 11: it's pad tie.
Speaker 2: Awesome. So what did you think when you first saw
Speaker 2: each other.
Speaker 11: I mean, I feel like we hit it off. I mean,
Speaker 11: I will say dating kind of sucks, and I feel
Speaker 11: like a lot of time they get like flirty to
Speaker 11: the point that you're like, all right, dude, calm down,
Speaker 11: Like they'll ask you for sexy pictures before you've even met.
Speaker 11: And he didn't. He was more like soft spoken, more
Speaker 11: like a like a nerdy type.
Speaker 4: But it was cute and he was respectful of your boundaries.
Speaker 3: Wow, so a nice guy. That's sweet and considerate. I'm
Speaker 3: surprised you didn't unmatch him immediate, right, Yeah.
Speaker 4: That's really funny.
Speaker 9: Was there any like, I don't know, moments of real
Speaker 9: flirtation that happened.
Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean it felt like a good first day
Speaker 11: for the most part, but like I don't know, they'd
Speaker 11: be like I'd ask him a question and there'd be
Speaker 11: like a five second delay and then he would go
Speaker 11: and the answer and it wasn't weird.
Speaker 4: At all, but like just staring at you for the
Speaker 4: five seconds.
Speaker 9: You know, though, some people are just bad at timing
Speaker 9: in a conversation. Have you ever talked to somebody who
Speaker 9: like takes really long pauses and you're like, wait, do
Speaker 9: I go do we not go like, maybe his timing
Speaker 9: is just a little off.
Speaker 3: Maybe what are you talking about me?
Speaker 4: Sorry waited to answer.
Speaker 2: So I like to think of it as I'm just
Speaker 2: a good listener.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but I was done talking.
Speaker 11: I mean, he was checking his phone a lot, So
Speaker 11: I wonder if maybe, like maybe I thought I was boring.
Speaker 12: I don't know, you know what, I think this is
Speaker 12: mind blowing to me.
Speaker 8: He does something that I could never do, and that
Speaker 8: is think before he speaks.
Speaker 4: I'm thinking Google before he speaks, Google.
Speaker 2: Beast.
Speaker 4: I know that he's having a I listen.
Speaker 2: In the same thing.
Speaker 11: It was one point, like early on, after we sat down,
Speaker 11: like before we had ordered anything, he was like, oh man,
Speaker 11: it's really loud over here, and he was like, do
Speaker 11: you mind if we moved to like the back where
Speaker 11: it's choire And I was like, no, that's fine, and
Speaker 11: I moved us up.
Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know. I think I honestly think we're
Speaker 4: over thinking it.
Speaker 3: I was just thinking what jose was thinking, like, if
Speaker 3: this is a really sweet, nice guy who's trying to
Speaker 3: come off like he really cares, he might take a
Speaker 3: second to try and come up with a really good
Speaker 3: answer to your questions.
Speaker 2: I mean blurting stuff out.
Speaker 9: The whole point is that the awkward pauses didn't bother you, right, No,
Speaker 9: I wouldn't.
Speaker 11: Say they bothered me. I just it was weird, was
Speaker 11: noticeable because.
Speaker 4: They probably didn't bother him. That's how he communicated to him.
Speaker 3: He was like, that was a normal back and forth
Speaker 3: totally so overall pretty solid date. I'm really really interested though,
Speaker 3: in the end here when he whispers something in the words,
Speaker 3: I want to know.
Speaker 4: If he waited five seconds before he did the run us.
Speaker 2: Through what happened there.
Speaker 11: Okay, so end of the day, we were like outside
Speaker 11: of the restaurant about to go our separate ways. I
Speaker 11: give him a hug, and when I hug him, he
Speaker 11: whispers in my ear, good.
Speaker 7: Job, good job, good job.
Speaker 12: Yea like sums up good job.
Speaker 2: Well, that's weird. Maybe he just doesn't know how to
Speaker 2: end a date, like.
Speaker 4: Maybe it was any dialogue that came out. Maybe he
Speaker 4: was talking to you.
Speaker 3: Is it like the thing where you're you're wanting to
Speaker 3: be like hey, good date, or like in two words,
Speaker 3: that you mix two things together and accidentally say something awkward.
Speaker 4: It could be the whole reason he's not calling you
Speaker 4: back because he's like, God, what did I say that?
Speaker 11: I mean maybe, but like even after he said it,
Speaker 11: I was like, wait, what are you talking about?
Speaker 5: What did he say?
Speaker 11: He just he put his finger to his mouth, like
Speaker 11: like it's our secret.
Speaker 12: But I have no idea what he was talking about.
Speaker 13: What is happening?
Speaker 9: That is pretty romantic, But anytime a man puts his
Speaker 9: finger to his I don't like that.
Speaker 4: It's creepy. Anybody nobody should.
Speaker 2: So have you texted him since the date ended?
Speaker 13: Yeah?
Speaker 11: So we were, you know, we were. We had like
Speaker 11: a cute little back and forth before the day, you know,
Speaker 11: we'd like send each other memes or whatever, so like
Speaker 11: I did that, but no, I have not gotten any response.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, something's up. We're going to come back rate
Speaker 3: that's not okay. We're gonna call this plenty of fishing,
Speaker 3: and we're gonna see what he has to say when
Speaker 3: we come back and get you your second date update.
Speaker 6: Right after that, broke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: Second date update.
Speaker 3: It's the two words that every little boy is dying
Speaker 3: to hear from his unapproving father.
Speaker 2: Good job, Yeah, proud of your son.
Speaker 4: We're proud of you Jeff, that's not.
Speaker 3: Exactly what a woman wants to have whispered into her
Speaker 3: ear at the end of a first game.
Speaker 4: I thought we were going to go into jeff therapy session.
Speaker 3: We do nearly enough time, okay, But it's what happened
Speaker 3: to our listener Angie after she hung out with a
Speaker 3: guy named Nicholas the other night. He gave her a
Speaker 3: hug and then softly said, good job.
Speaker 8: In her girls are not happy about this.
Speaker 2: She wasn't either, right. I don't think any woman would
Speaker 2: be happy about that. But we've got a lot.
Speaker 3: Of questions about the good job, about some of the
Speaker 3: other weird stuff that was happening during the day. Angie
Speaker 3: said she's willing to look past it if she can
Speaker 3: get another chance with him, because he seemed like a
Speaker 3: great guy.
Speaker 4: You said that he was.
Speaker 9: Like a little reserved, a little nerdy, Like those are
Speaker 9: some of the quirks that come with nerdy, you know.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 11: I mean that's the thing though, Like it's so hard
Speaker 11: to meet an actual, nice, respectful guy, and I just
Speaker 11: feel like he.
Speaker 12: Was and I'm assuming I messed up, you know what
Speaker 12: I mean?
Speaker 4: You think you messed up, and that's why you like.
Speaker 11: Literally it's the person who called in that messed up and,
Speaker 11: like I said, maybe thought I was boring.
Speaker 3: I don't know, becoming self aware.
Speaker 4: No, you don't like that?
Speaker 2: Are you cool?
Speaker 3: If Nicholas has an unapproving father, is that okay?
Speaker 11: I think I can deal with that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's good.
Speaker 4: It'll be something Jeffrey and he can bond about it.
Speaker 2: Let's call him. I'm a Dalla's number right now. Let's
Speaker 2: see if he picks up.
Speaker 3: Hell, he is this Nicholas. Listen, Nick, hey man, thanks
Speaker 3: for answering. You are on a radio show right now
Speaker 3: called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Welcome to the show, Nicholas, How are you man?
Speaker 5: Good morning? Why Why am I on a radio show?
Speaker 4: Great question?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so, I don't know. Have you ever heard of
Speaker 3: something called a second date update before?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I think so. I think so.
Speaker 4: Oh you have Okay, congrats.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know.
Speaker 7: Who we are.
Speaker 2: Now you get to be a part of one.
Speaker 3: So the way that it works is one of our
Speaker 3: listeners has reached out to us hoping that we could
Speaker 3: get a hold of you.
Speaker 2: A girl named Angie.
Speaker 5: Angie's trying to get ahold of me.
Speaker 9: Yeah, do you remember her, you guys wing to ty food.
Speaker 4: The other night.
Speaker 3: She's hoping that she can maybe get another chance to
Speaker 3: hang out with you again.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I don't. I don't think that's going to
Speaker 5: work out.
Speaker 2: Really, Okay, it sounded like such a good date.
Speaker 3: Well yeah, but before you even go there, Nicholas, I'm
Speaker 3: just gonna let you know. She said that she really
Speaker 3: liked you and that you two shared a good vibe.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I thought Aye was nice.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she didn't mention that, actually, Nicholas. She mentioned a
Speaker 3: few odd things that happened on the date, and she
Speaker 3: wasn't sure if maybe those were early signs that you
Speaker 3: weren't interested in.
Speaker 9: Her, which actually turns out could be true. At this point,
Speaker 9: at first we thought she.
Speaker 5: Was nuts, But well, well what what did she What
Speaker 5: did she name?
Speaker 3: Well, like we just mentioned, there's like a delay in
Speaker 3: your responses a little bit during the normal conversation.
Speaker 8: Almost like you're intently thinking of what you're gonna say.
Speaker 5: A delay.
Speaker 2: Okay, almost happened again.
Speaker 9: I think he doesn't noticed that is a part of
Speaker 9: your conversation.
Speaker 4: That's fine, that's okay.
Speaker 3: And also she said that you had to move to
Speaker 3: a quieter area and I'm just going to let you
Speaker 3: know what the room thought when we heard everything. The
Speaker 3: room was wondering if maybe you had AI listening in
Speaker 3: on your conversation to help you respond to your date,
Speaker 3: because you were checking your phone a lot too.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I don't know who the room is, who's
Speaker 5: the who's the room?
Speaker 4: It was mostly Alexis.
Speaker 5: Oh you people, okay.
Speaker 9: Because when we talked to her, you know, we all
Speaker 9: give our ideas like, oh, maybe it could be this,
Speaker 9: maybe it could be that.
Speaker 2: These are just theories.
Speaker 3: So could you just be honest with us and tell
Speaker 3: us did you do that? Were you using AI to
Speaker 3: assist you?
Speaker 5: I was having some help on the date, but I
Speaker 5: wasn't using the AI some.
Speaker 9: Help on the date, help from your phone.
Speaker 5: I was on the line with my ex and she was.
Speaker 5: She was on the line with us the whole time.
Speaker 2: Your ex.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I I mean sometimes I just need help.
Speaker 5: So she's kind of like a security blanket for me.
Speaker 9: Oh wait, you date, did you have like earbuds in
Speaker 9: and you were listening to your ex at the same
Speaker 9: time you were listening to her?
Speaker 5: No? No, she was just not mute, like she couldn't
Speaker 5: say anything. She wasn't coaching me. I just wanted her
Speaker 5: to hear.
Speaker 8: Everything, So she's kind of taking notes and then later
Speaker 8: you will call her and she will go over the notes. Here,
Speaker 8: that's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 4: Volunteers to listen to hours of your dates?
Speaker 2: What what a kind woman.
Speaker 5: Well, it's part of our post breakup growth.
Speaker 2: Agreement, post break up growth agreement.
Speaker 4: Wore in that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we mutually agreed upon and I listened to her
Speaker 5: dates too on occasion. It's just we help each other
Speaker 5: get through our past breakup and move into a new one.
Speaker 5: So it's healthy and very healthy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, it's a very conscious uncoupling.
Speaker 4: Just doesn't like your new dates.
Speaker 9: Oh yeah, that's a good point, because he said sabotage.
Speaker 5: You know she was not a fan of Angie.
Speaker 3: Okay, well she was, But how did you feel about her?
Speaker 5: I was enjoying myself, but she mentioned that she seemed
Speaker 5: like a try hard, and then when I was thinking
Speaker 5: about it, I think that she might be kind of
Speaker 5: a try hard.
Speaker 6: Whoa wait, wait.
Speaker 9: Don't you want people to try hard on a first day?
Speaker 11: Excuse me? How was I a try hard?
Speaker 4: That's coming in hard?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Nicholas, you might find this funny, But
Speaker 3: your ex girlfriend and Angie have a lot in common
Speaker 3: because she's actually been.
Speaker 2: On the phone listening in on this conversation.
Speaker 5: Okay, that's not that's not fair. I didn't I didn't
Speaker 5: know that. I didn't.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and Angie didn't know her X was listening to her.
Speaker 2: Either plays to be judging, but say hi to Angie,
Speaker 2: but she was.
Speaker 5: Hi, Angie, there you go.
Speaker 7: Hi.
Speaker 11: I'm mean, you're saying this is a healthy thing. But
Speaker 11: you also said your ex is your security blankets, so
Speaker 11: it doesn't feel like you're ready to be dating other people.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, in most relationships, people don't have the right
Speaker 5: closure and then they hold on to the past, and
Speaker 5: so this is a way to move on to my future.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you're not moving on.
Speaker 11: You're literally still relying on your ex to make your
Speaker 11: decisions down there.
Speaker 5: You're dating, Well, we spend a lot of time together,
Speaker 5: so she knows me really well, and she sees things
Speaker 5: from the opposites X that I might.
Speaker 12: Not see, and maybe you guys should be together.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, it's not. It's not like that. We're not
Speaker 5: romantically involved whatsoever. It's just we have a year left
Speaker 5: in our post breakup growth agreement.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a long time.
Speaker 2: You're kind of each other's life.
Speaker 9: Coaches, Really, can you just recap the date with your
Speaker 9: ex instead of.
Speaker 4: Time.
Speaker 5: Well, see, there's trigger words and things that she'll say,
Speaker 5: like well that the red flag that I don't typically see.
Speaker 3: This does make sense now why he whispered good job
Speaker 3: at the very end of the date. He wasn't saying
Speaker 3: it to Angie. He was saying it to his ex
Speaker 3: girlfriend who was listening.
Speaker 12: That doesn't make sense.
Speaker 5: No, I was talking to Angie. I did whisper this
Speaker 5: job because I thought that we were going to get
Speaker 5: to go on another date, because I enjoyed myself and
Speaker 5: I didn't want my ex to hear her.
Speaker 4: Nicholas, so you're not.
Speaker 12: To go out with me again and you hearing me.
Speaker 4: I mean, here's the thing.
Speaker 9: I actually think Nicholas is over his ex. I think
Speaker 9: your ex Nicholas is not. And I don't think you're
Speaker 9: seeing that correctly.
Speaker 5: I mean that's a possibility, and I and I kind
Speaker 5: of agree with that, but we still have our agreement
Speaker 5: and I have.
Speaker 10: Okay, what are we talking about?
Speaker 9: And if all she could come up with is she's
Speaker 9: a tryhard as the biggest red fla. Oh man, that's
Speaker 9: a weak red flag.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and I didn't try that hard.
Speaker 11: I didn't even save my legs for that day.
Speaker 3: There must be some claws in your contract with her.
Speaker 3: They'll let you get out of it when you find
Speaker 3: an amazing new girl like Angie here.
Speaker 12: Because I have a question, what if I had put
Speaker 12: out on the first date, which you have been listening,
Speaker 12: Oh my god, our.
Speaker 5: Date, whether it's supposed to go over an hour and
Speaker 5: a half. I know we were already pushing it at
Speaker 5: an hour forty a.
Speaker 2: Time if you wanted to.
Speaker 3: He was already breaking the rules a little bit. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so the band aid's starting to come off.
Speaker 2: Or he's like, hold on, let me ask my ex, Hey,
Speaker 2: can I sleep with this?
Speaker 6: Angie?
Speaker 3: Just real quick, first, are you still interested in meeting
Speaker 3: up with Nicholas again after what you know?
Speaker 11: Are you insane?
Speaker 2: There's no way, Oh I thought you were okay?
Speaker 9: No, Jeff, that would have been wild if she said, yeah,
Speaker 9: let he breaks the thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's true.
Speaker 3: Angie doesn't want to extend the offer anymore. So Nicholas,
Speaker 3: we're not obviously going to give you another date with
Speaker 3: Angie here, but funny.
Speaker 2: If his girlfriend has been on the line this whole
Speaker 2: time too.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, wait she is?
Speaker 2: She on the third line?
Speaker 12: What's her name?
Speaker 11: Let's say hi, Reok and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: So his ex was on the phone on mute, listening
Speaker 3: to the entire date for an hour and forty minutes,
Speaker 3: taking notes, and she said no.
Speaker 7: I mean that's shocking.
Speaker 4: I really thought that that was gonna work out too.
Speaker 7: I tried to call my ex over and over.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and she's gonna answer.
Speaker 2: What's wrong with her?
Speaker 7: I don't get it, Jack.
Speaker 3: I guess the fascinating thing to me is if she
Speaker 3: would have said yes. Could you imagine that conversation where
Speaker 3: Nicholas is really excited and he calls you, like.
Speaker 2: Hey, great news, we get to go out again.
Speaker 3: My ex gave you the thumbs up, first one in
Speaker 3: six months.
Speaker 9: Congrab She proves it really did sound like Nicholas was
Speaker 9: over his ex and his extras isn't overhead.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like no girls him or something. Yeah, whatever it is,
Speaker 2: it is a messy situation. Did give him away at
Speaker 2: the wedding.
Speaker 4: She's still hoping that she is the one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, reardless we find out.
Speaker 3: But speaking of messy situations. Our social media YouTube TikTok,
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