WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: I've Dated My Date Before + Two Word Whisperer 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:04.200 All right, it's Brooke and Jeffery's second date classic update. 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:08.959 It's me Ashton in the studio by myself. They're all home, 0:00:09.039 --> 0:00:10.480 and they just gave me the free reign to do 0:00:10.520 --> 0:00:13.600 whatever I wanted today. So I'm thinking I'll probably drink 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:15.680 some of Jose's old coffee he's got left sit in 0:00:15.680 --> 0:00:19.640 as desk. Maybe steal some of those sour pash watermelons 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:23.000 that Alexis has her desk. Just steal one of the 0:00:23.040 --> 0:00:25.520 many credit cards that Brook has laying around in hers. 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:27.280 And while I do that, you. 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:31.360 Guys can enjoy this classic second date update. Enjoy I 0:00:31.400 --> 0:00:32.920 love you. 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:37.839 Why is it best friends always make the worst matchmaking 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:39.239 decisions when they're trying. 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:39.800 To set you up. 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:45.000 Amen, They're like, what, he's a great guy, he's just 0:00:45.080 --> 0:00:48.720 got a weird roommate that he's quote unquote legally married too, 0:00:48.880 --> 0:00:49.800 with several children. 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:53.920 Yeah, god for you, Yeah, it's perfect for you. You 0:00:53.920 --> 0:00:55.400 guys would be so cute, all right. 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:58.360 Get the Oh she's super annoying. Her laugh is so obnoxioal, 0:00:58.960 --> 0:01:01.880 just like your Can you imagine. 0:01:01.520 --> 0:01:02.440 Us together in a room? 0:01:02.520 --> 0:01:04.120 Then, oh my god. 0:01:04.600 --> 0:01:06.759 One of our listeners had the shock of a lifetime 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:08.560 when her friend tried to set her up on a 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:11.920 date at the last minute, and as she walked into 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:15.520 the bar that night, she knew immediately there had been 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:17.240 a terrible misunderstanding. 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:19.880 Still though, she gave it. 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:21.880 Her best shot, and you're gonna hear what happened in 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:24.000 a second date update right after this. 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:27.000 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates. 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:30.240 If someone sets you up on a blind date, what 0:01:30.319 --> 0:01:33.640 are the worst possible case scenarios that could come of it? 0:01:34.240 --> 0:01:36.160 Like in the first five minutes they asked for a 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:37.760 job interview at your company. 0:01:38.760 --> 0:01:40.600 I don't know you would like that. 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:42.679 I mean I thought of worse things in my head 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:43.039 than that. 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:45.440 I didn't even get you in it, Like yeah, driving 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:47.920 the getaway car and they do the bank. 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:50.760 Heist, I mean, how are they. 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:51.080 Let's say they were really. 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:53.000 Hot, I mean a fast driver. 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:54.240 Okay, that's excited. 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:57.840 Maybe you realize halfway through dinner your date is just 0:01:57.920 --> 0:02:00.000 three children standing on top of each other. 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:03.520 They're in a trench coat. It happens more. 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:03.920 Than you think. 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:07.160 Hey, you guys want to go play Fortnite's not a 0:02:07.400 --> 0:02:10.160 best case scenario for Jose, but one of our listeners, 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:14.320 Janelle said she had the worst possible thing happened after 0:02:14.400 --> 0:02:16.799 she was set up on a date by her friend. 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:19.200 To us today. 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:21.880 Wait, you know, worse than the three children on stacked 0:02:21.919 --> 0:02:22.839 on top of each other. 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:25.520 It's so much worse than that. 0:02:27.240 --> 0:02:30.880 Five children, five toddlers, a baby, dude. 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:32.640 Okay, we're stopping at your page. 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:35.000 Yeah, let's stop guessing. Why don't you tell us the story. 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:37.880 You said a friend set you up on a blind date. 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:41.200 Yeah, so one of my friends at work, she was 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:42.320 a happy hour. 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:44.480 And there's this two guys. 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:47.399 Okay, she's setting there and she wanted me to hang out. 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:49.440 Like a waiter at the happy hour place. Is that 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:50.040 what you're saying? 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:52.240 No, he hangs out there. 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:53.640 Uh. 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:56.760 For Brook, her biggest fantasy is like making away with 0:02:56.800 --> 0:02:58.639 one of the staff with the help. 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:01.639 Fantasy reality job. 0:03:03.000 --> 0:03:04.760 Okay, who was she trying to set you up with? 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:07.639 Well, this guy named David. She's like, he's a real cutie, 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:09.880 So why don't you come up here and just try 0:03:09.919 --> 0:03:10.320 your hands? 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:10.840 Okay. 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:13.680 This is like a spontaneous date that she set up 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:15.440 while she was out somewhere already. 0:03:15.880 --> 0:03:18.360 Yeah, so I get up there and one got cute 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:21.760 of course, and we get there and it's not busy 0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:25.440 at all. So once I walk inside the door, I immediately 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:28.160 lock eyes with It's gotta be David. 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:29.920 And guess what what. 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:33.919 I know David already because he has experimented three years ago. 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:35.440 Okay, it's work. 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:39.600 So she knows your type because it is your type 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:40.800 because you've dated him before. 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:44.400 Yeah, oh no, is that good or bad? 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:46.800 Awkward? 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:49.400 Because he kind of just. 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:53.600 Disappeared on me three years ago. He texted me like 0:03:53.760 --> 0:03:56.400 and just you know, gid my walking papers be. 0:03:56.400 --> 0:04:02.560 It text ox was d bye, We're done. Yeah, at 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:04.560 least he messaged you. A lot of guys wouldn't even 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:05.760 have the dunity to do that. 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:10.720 I love how that's still a positive. Like, how long 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:12.320 did you guys hang out for three years ago? 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:14.360 Just for a few months. 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:17.599 It wasn't long at all, but just kind of by 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:19.720 you know, wow. 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:23.720 My god, So how did your friends find out that 0:04:23.800 --> 0:04:24.679 this was your ex? 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:25.680 Well? 0:04:25.760 --> 0:04:27.080 I just kind of blurted it out. 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:29.640 I was like, uh, I dated him before? 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:32.440 Oh my, oh what did they say? 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:37.440 Everybody was just embarrassed for me and was he kind 0:04:37.440 --> 0:04:39.760 of pulled me to the side. And he's apologetic. 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:42.560 He said he wanted to explain to me the reason, 0:04:43.000 --> 0:04:43.320 but I. 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:44.960 Didn't want an explanation. 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:46.600 Like, oh about why he kind of ghosted? 0:04:47.960 --> 0:04:52.120 Maybe there was a good explanation was yeah, well kind 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:54.080 of just let me know that he wasn't ready for 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:55.920 what I was looking for at that time. 0:04:57.960 --> 0:04:59.880 He was busy studying to be a doctor. To say, 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:05.400 it's usually not the excuse was something worse than that. 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:07.080 No, yeah, I think he had other ideas of what 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:08.720 he wanted to do with his time or who. 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:11.520 Probably most don't lie about that stuff. 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:14.440 But did he do the thing where he comes crawling 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:16.760 back because now he's seen that there isn't anything better 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:17.559 in the dating world. 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:20.919 I can't say that, But what I can say is, 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:25.040 after a few dreams we talked about making out, I mean. 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:29.000 Talk about making about making out. 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:30.160 Who brought that up? 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:30.960 I did? 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:33.600 He was kind of one of my best makeout partners. 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:39.520 Oh okay, so I'm totally disappointed that it was David 0:05:39.560 --> 0:05:40.600 when he showed up to the bar. 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:43.400 You can make out, though, but you've gone from like 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:46.120 I cannot believe I got set up with this horrible 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:48.359 x of mind to talking about you're the best makeout 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:48.960 I've ever had, so. 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:50.240 Then calling us to call him again. 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:52.800 It isn't funny, how light is. 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:56.520 What happened that night? 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:00.479 Yeah, well, guys, I'm going to shock you with this one. 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:01.839 We made out. 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:05.560 You don't say. 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:09.480 You went back to his place? No? 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:13.360 No, no, he fit me home in an uber like 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:14.680 I was on cloud nine? 0:06:15.800 --> 0:06:16.040 Wow? 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:22.800 You want the uber? Was he like? See she's getting 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:24.040 I thought this was your. 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:27.360 Stop asking to make out with me and go home. 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:32.200 That's a good point of like we're saying, congrats. Did 0:06:32.200 --> 0:06:33.679 you want to leave. 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:34.279 With him or no? 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:37.920 Of course I wanted to leave with him, Okay, but 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:38.679 he was trying. 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:39.440 To be responsible. 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:43.280 Did you really think at the end of the night 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:46.800 you would hear from him again? I was hop Okay, 0:06:47.040 --> 0:06:51.159 you were Okay, some people grow, you know. 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:55.320 Have you tried to contact him after that night happened? 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:56.400 Yeah? 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:57.160 You have? 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:00.719 How many times? And it was time of day. 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:05.760 The whole history has a repeat itself. Apparently I didn't 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:09.239 learn my lessons because he's not responding again. 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:12.680 Okay, And why do you think us calling him is 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:14.560 going to make a difference, Because we're not her bro. 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:20.440 He'll be honest, like, I'll learn something from this. 0:07:20.680 --> 0:07:23.600 Okay, you're still willing to give this guy a chance 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:26.760 after he ditched you, not once, but twice, or this. 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:27.640 Will end the cycle. 0:07:27.840 --> 0:07:30.080 Yes, that toxic. 0:07:31.480 --> 0:07:34.000 Don't trust the gen Z on what's toxic and not. 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:37.440 There's a lot about gen Zer, but don't trust Alexis. 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:40.680 She just set it four boys before we started. But 0:07:40.720 --> 0:07:42.360 you know what, we're gonna try this. We're gonna do 0:07:42.400 --> 0:07:42.760 this for you. 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:46.080 You know, we're gonna call David, who's technically one of 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:48.440 your exes, and see if he's willing to give it 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:49.240 another shot with you. 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:54.240 I hope he remember to what's happening. We're doing it 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:55.840 with our second date update right after this. 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:57.800 Hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:07:58.000 --> 0:07:59.320 Second date updates. 0:08:00.640 --> 0:08:04.240 If you're just joining us, this is definitely an unusual 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:07.280 one for second date because we're kind of reaching out 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:09.560 to Janelle's ex boyfriend David. 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:11.280 I don't think there's a kind of about it. 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:14.880 Yeah, it's the return of the Dave because they dated. 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:20.240 They dated three years ago when he suddenly ditched her 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:21.280 over text message. 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:23.000 So fast forward to today. 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:26.280 At a random happy hour, they accidentally got set up 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:29.920 on a blind date, which of course was very awkward 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:32.720 when it first started, but after an apology and a 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:35.640 lot of drinks. They were in a much better place. Yes, 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:39.000 even ended up making out again that night, which I. 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:41.280 Mean, your ex is at a bar. Who isn't going 0:08:41.320 --> 0:08:42.760 to make out with him? It's how you say? 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:42.959 Hi? 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:48.440 Yeah, Now Dave is being shady once again, shocking, So 0:08:48.920 --> 0:08:50.760 we need to call him and figure out once and 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:52.120 for all what's going on? 0:08:52.600 --> 0:08:52.880 Brooke? 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:54.640 What are your thoughts on this situation? 0:08:54.880 --> 0:08:57.800 I just think you know already what's going on. 0:08:58.000 --> 0:09:01.720 But I get it, like chase, it's a chase. It's 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:03.720 why doesn't he want you? Like? 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:05.360 That is totally understandable. 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:10.079 I'll never know unless how about that? 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:14.480 Okay? Well, the two times that he told you no. 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:18.760 The thing is she wants an answer that he hasn't 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:19.480 given her yet. 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:24.920 Right, Okay, maybe a radio show calling will help give 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:28.160 him some clarity and realize that you're the one for him. 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:29.600 What exactly? 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:34.880 I still think there's something there. You're hoping he grew up? Okay? 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:37.440 The dating world has really messed you up? 0:09:37.480 --> 0:09:41.439 All right? 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:43.440 Well, you know what, there's some optimism in the room. 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:46.720 Let's give David a call see if he answers. I'm 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:56.840 down the number right now. Hello, Hey, we're looking to 0:09:56.840 --> 0:10:02.640 talk to David. Yeah, hey David, brace yourself because you're 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:03.600 on the radio right now. 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:06.360 Hey David, Yo, welcome to the show. 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:09.559 What is this allowed allowed? 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:12.160 That's all required. It's part of our show. 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:13.920 As long as I tell you that you're on the radio, 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:14.680 then it's legal. 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:15.439 Yeah. 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:17.440 Not funny. It's very easy. 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:18.880 Yeah, okay with them. 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:21.720 Yeah, we'll beat stuff if you swear. 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:23.800 This is a segment that we do called the second 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:26.400 Date Update, where we try to help one of our 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:30.000 listeners reconnect with somebody that they had like a romantic 0:10:30.080 --> 0:10:30.520 spark with. 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:33.840 Okay, okay, and. 0:10:34.320 --> 0:10:36.040 This is a woman that you actually have a lot 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:38.440 of history with, but you met up with her again 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:40.640 recently at a happy hour named Janelle. 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:43.760 Oh why does she want? 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:46.959 Oh? So that was like, what does she want? I'm 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:47.720 so excited? 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:52.480 I mean the short answer is like, what she wants 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:53.920 is to see you again. 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:56.560 Oh no, yeah, I don't know about that. 0:10:57.160 --> 0:10:59.959 Oh well, yeah, were you excited to see Janelle when 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:00.920 she walked into the bar? 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:03.440 No, that was super awkward. 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:06.600 Oh okay, hold on, hold on. 0:11:06.679 --> 0:11:09.520 In her defense, she was like, oh no, I've dated him, 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:11.040 and it was like it was awkward for her too. 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:11.720 Yeah, that's true. 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:13.720 It was awkward for the people in the room too, 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:15.800 when they all found out that you guys had. 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:16.520 Been together before. 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:19.599 Yeah so yeah, okay. 0:11:19.280 --> 0:11:23.280 I mean totally understandable. But Janelle said that after you 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:25.240 guys hung out for a little bit, after you had 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:27.920 a few drinks, things seemed to settle in more. 0:11:27.960 --> 0:11:29.640 And you even apologize to her. 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:31.920 Oh yeah, I mean, like, I don't like that I 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:34.760 semi ghosted her and it's not like who I am, 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:36.000 you know, I don't mean. 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:36.200 To do that. 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:39.239 It's kind of what you're doing again because. 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:43.520 Well he doesn't like that he's doing it again. Yeah, 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:45.440 it just doesn't make him feel good, but he will 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:45.839 do it. 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:47.000 Yeah. 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:49.240 I mean, like, look, I know I told her I 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:51.920 had grown, but like I don't want to date. 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:54.240 Wait, you don't want to date or you don't want 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:55.239 to date her. 0:11:55.920 --> 0:11:59.000 Just in general honestly. Oh yeah, I mean she I 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:02.200 know she wants to lie, settle down and have kids, 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:04.920 and like we talked about that, but I don't. I 0:12:04.920 --> 0:12:06.480 don't want to do that. I don't I want to 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:08.880 be single. I don't want to disappoint her or anything. 0:12:09.400 --> 0:12:12.000 That is like such a hard thing for women to accept, 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:14.559 and I don't like I think that you're totally valid 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:17.080 for saying that, but like so many times, women can 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:17.760 be like, well. 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:20.960 But if you do it with me, you know, I 0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:23.480 can see us having plans on a Friday night and 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:25.280 then a buddy calls me up and is like, hey, 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:26.120 you want to go hang. 0:12:26.000 --> 0:12:28.000 Out, and honest to god, I would ditcher. 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:33.040 It's an unfortunate circumstances, like I won't make her a priority. 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:36.800 Yeah, I mean it's because it's mature that you know that, 0:12:36.880 --> 0:12:39.439 and you can like say that, but. 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:40.680 It's not mature that the. 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:45.760 Yeah, I don't care, like whatever judgment call you want 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:47.680 to put on it. It's who I am and I 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:48.200 admit it. 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:52.280 Yeah, somebody says who they are, you gotta believe. 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:54.959 Them absolutely, at least you're saying it. 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:56.240 Some people just ghost. 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:58.640 Well he was doing was I mean, I was going 0:12:58.679 --> 0:13:03.200 to I was going to a texture, but that classic. 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:04.040 Text love that thing. 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:06.280 I'm sorry to ruin your plans to text her and 0:13:06.400 --> 0:13:08.959 bit her, but we need to tell you she's actually 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:12.240 on the phone right now wanting to talk to you. 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:13.559 Why. 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:18.240 It's different energy than I thought. 0:13:18.559 --> 0:13:25.920 Hi, how are you Jane Janelle? 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:27.760 You heard what he was saying. 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:31.640 Right, Yeah, I mean, but what could be so bad? 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:32.720 David like me? 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:33.760 Wait? 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:35.440 Wait are you not listening to him? 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:37.880 I mean, if you wanted to hang out with your 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:39.960 friends while we were hanging out, all you have to 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:41.840 do is say so you can do that? 0:13:42.040 --> 0:13:49.920 Oh god, seriously, Like you don't mean that. Yes, it 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:51.120 will be no issue. 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:56.080 No, this is like I'm a cool girl, walk all 0:13:56.120 --> 0:13:56.520 over me. 0:13:56.960 --> 0:13:58.240 I don't do that. 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:00.760 I'm trying to be understanding. 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:02.800 I have to be understanding with someone who will make 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:04.120 you also a priority. 0:14:04.240 --> 0:14:06.280 Yes, respects you. 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:07.800 I mean you want to be understanding. 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:09.600 Understand that, Like, I don't want this? 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:16.800 What exactly don't you want there? 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:17.920 It's crazy. 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:19.560 I don't know. You want to be in a serious 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:22.360 relationship and I'm looking for a very much more casual thing. 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:23.400 I don't think you get it. 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:26.520 I have a lot of clothes I can put on. 0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:31.800 That's a good spin. That's a good spin. 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:33.720 Okay, Well, I don't know if you like who I am. 0:14:34.000 --> 0:14:34.640 I really don't. 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:37.520 Oh what, You're an awesome person. 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:39.640 What is there not to like about you? 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:41.440 I don't want to do that though, I don't want 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:41.680 to look. 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:44.120 I buy my phenails and I eat them all right, 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:49.840 and I put the big ones. 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:51.320 I keep the big ones in a little box. 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:55.120 Oh God, what the flexibility it takes to be able 0:14:55.160 --> 0:14:55.520 to do that. 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:59.960 We'll just work on healthier coping mechanisms. Like that's all. 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:03.080 Huh, he's trying to. 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:03.600 Get rid of her. 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:06.080 There's so many other things that you can chew on. 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:07.120 Yeah, I will. 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:11.440 I feel like he's politely as possible trying to steer 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:13.200 you away from a bad situation. 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:16.080 But I wasn't. To her credit, I don't know. 0:15:16.120 --> 0:15:19.000 When we talked to her, she didn't say she wanted 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:22.360 a big relationship with you. She literally said, I just 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:23.640 want a couple more dates. 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:27.680 Like yeah, no, I don't. 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:31.800 I don't think you will eating baby or anything with you. 0:15:33.120 --> 0:15:33.920 I don't think you get me. 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:35.280 Like I'm super lazy. 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:37.400 Okay, Like I pee in the backyard instead of. 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:41.400 Going upstairs to go pee in the bathrooms. 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:42.520 Nothing wrong with that? 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:44.800 What God? 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:47.240 Now, pick up your self respect, it's on the floor. 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:48.240 I'm not a quitter. 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:49.400 I am not a quitter. 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:55.480 Janelle is still into this after the toe biting and 0:15:55.680 --> 0:15:59.840 the backyard defecating. We love to send you guys on 0:15:59.880 --> 0:16:02.600 another date that we would pay for and. 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:04.880 Probably did you halfway through for his friends. 0:16:04.920 --> 0:16:07.560 I know the answer is yes from Janelle already, so 0:16:07.680 --> 0:16:09.400 we needed to get an answer from you, David. 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:10.960 Would you be willing to see her one more time? 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:17.480 No? You know you're great. Seriously, you're great. It's not 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:18.160 you with me. 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:20.480 I just don't want classic. 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:23.640 Well, Janea, I'm sorry, but it looks like we're not 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:25.760 going to be able to set you up again with 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:26.720 your ex boyfriend. 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:34.520 That is the universal sounds. That's the title of Janelle's 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:35.600 entire dating life. 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:40.440 Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:43.520 Oh man, I have a lot of hope going. 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:43.760 Did you? 0:16:45.280 --> 0:16:48.040 I mean, before we even called him, I didn't have hope. 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:51.720 What rekindling an old relationship worked for j Lo and 0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:57.040 Ben Affleck. They look absolutely miserable whenever they're around each other, 0:16:57.080 --> 0:16:59.960 and both of their careers are tanking at an astronomic 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:01.600 Go great, yeh together, Jeffrey. 0:17:01.680 --> 0:17:04.040 But they phoned the Dunkin Donuts commercial together, Brooke. 0:17:03.880 --> 0:17:07.160 Okay, it is literally the only good thing that happened, 0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:09.280 and that was mostly because Matt Damon was I was 0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:10.120 just gonna say that. 0:17:10.720 --> 0:17:13.959 Well, they could have had their Matt Damon Duncan Donuts 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:18.359 commercial moment. Unfortunately, someone wasn't willing to give it a chance. 0:17:18.800 --> 0:17:21.399 Wow, what a stickler. He is his own ideal. 0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:23.320 So you lost me the analogy. So she needs to 0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:24.520 date Matt Damon. 0:17:24.640 --> 0:17:26.679 Yeah, yeah, we'll go with that conclusion. 0:17:27.000 --> 0:17:27.920 I think that's a good thing. 0:17:27.960 --> 0:17:30.480