1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: All right, it's Brooke and Jeffery's second date classic update. 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 1: It's me Ashton in the studio by myself. They're all home, 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: and they just gave me the free reign to do 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: whatever I wanted today. So I'm thinking I'll probably drink 5 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: some of Jose's old coffee he's got left sit in 6 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: as desk. Maybe steal some of those sour pash watermelons 7 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: that Alexis has her desk. Just steal one of the 8 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: many credit cards that Brook has laying around in hers. 9 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 2: And while I do that, you. 10 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: Guys can enjoy this classic second date update. Enjoy I 11 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: love you. 12 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 3: Why is it best friends always make the worst matchmaking 13 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:39,239 Speaker 3: decisions when they're trying. 14 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 2: To set you up. 15 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 3: Amen, They're like, what, he's a great guy, he's just 16 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 3: got a weird roommate that he's quote unquote legally married too, 17 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 3: with several children. 18 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, god for you, Yeah, it's perfect for you. You 19 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 4: guys would be so cute, all right. 20 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 2: Get the Oh she's super annoying. Her laugh is so obnoxioal, 21 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 2: just like your Can you imagine. 22 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 5: Us together in a room? 23 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 2: Then, oh my god. 24 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 3: One of our listeners had the shock of a lifetime 25 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 3: when her friend tried to set her up on a 26 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 3: date at the last minute, and as she walked into 27 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 3: the bar that night, she knew immediately there had been 28 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 3: a terrible misunderstanding. 29 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 2: Still though, she gave it. 30 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 3: Her best shot, and you're gonna hear what happened in 31 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 3: a second date update right after this. 32 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 6: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates. 33 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 3: If someone sets you up on a blind date, what 34 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 3: are the worst possible case scenarios that could come of it? 35 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 3: Like in the first five minutes they asked for a 36 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 3: job interview at your company. 37 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 2: I don't know you would like that. 38 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 4: I mean I thought of worse things in my head 39 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 4: than that. 40 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 3: I didn't even get you in it, Like yeah, driving 41 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 3: the getaway car and they do the bank. 42 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 4: Heist, I mean, how are they. 43 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 2: Let's say they were really. 44 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 7: Hot, I mean a fast driver. 45 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 4: Okay, that's excited. 46 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 3: Maybe you realize halfway through dinner your date is just 47 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 3: three children standing on top of each other. 48 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: They're in a trench coat. It happens more. 49 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 5: Than you think. 50 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 8: Hey, you guys want to go play Fortnite's not a 51 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 8: best case scenario for Jose, but one of our listeners, 52 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 8: Janelle said she had the worst possible thing happened after 53 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 8: she was set up on a date by her friend. 54 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 2: To us today. 55 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 9: Wait, you know, worse than the three children on stacked 56 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:22,839 Speaker 9: on top of each other. 57 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 5: It's so much worse than that. 58 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 2: Five children, five toddlers, a baby, dude. 59 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 4: Okay, we're stopping at your page. 60 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's stop guessing. Why don't you tell us the story. 61 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 3: You said a friend set you up on a blind date. 62 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 10: Yeah, so one of my friends at work, she was 63 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 10: a happy hour. 64 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 5: And there's this two guys. 65 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:47,399 Speaker 11: Okay, she's setting there and she wanted me to hang out. 66 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 4: Like a waiter at the happy hour place. Is that 67 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 4: what you're saying? 68 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 10: No, he hangs out there. 69 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 2: Uh. 70 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 3: For Brook, her biggest fantasy is like making away with 71 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 3: one of the staff with the help. 72 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 4: Fantasy reality job. 73 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 2: Okay, who was she trying to set you up with? 74 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,639 Speaker 10: Well, this guy named David. She's like, he's a real cutie, 75 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 10: So why don't you come up here and just try 76 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 10: your hands? 77 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 5: Okay. 78 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 3: This is like a spontaneous date that she set up 79 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 3: while she was out somewhere already. 80 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 10: Yeah, so I get up there and one got cute 81 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 10: of course, and we get there and it's not busy 82 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 10: at all. So once I walk inside the door, I immediately 83 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 10: lock eyes with It's gotta be David. 84 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 11: And guess what what. 85 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 10: I know David already because he has experimented three years ago. 86 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 5: Okay, it's work. 87 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 9: So she knows your type because it is your type 88 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 9: because you've dated him before. 89 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh no, is that good or bad? 90 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 11: Awkward? 91 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 12: Because he kind of just. 92 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 10: Disappeared on me three years ago. He texted me like 93 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 10: and just you know, gid my walking papers be. 94 00:03:56,400 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 3: It text ox was d bye, We're done. Yeah, at 95 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 3: least he messaged you. A lot of guys wouldn't even 96 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 3: have the dunity to do that. 97 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 9: I love how that's still a positive. Like, how long 98 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 9: did you guys hang out for three years ago? 99 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 11: Just for a few months. 100 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 10: It wasn't long at all, but just kind of by 101 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 10: you know, wow. 102 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 3: My god, So how did your friends find out that 103 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:24,679 Speaker 3: this was your ex? 104 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 5: Well? 105 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 2: I just kind of blurted it out. 106 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 11: I was like, uh, I dated him before? 107 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 4: Oh my, oh what did they say? 108 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 10: Everybody was just embarrassed for me and was he kind 109 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 10: of pulled me to the side. And he's apologetic. 110 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 11: He said he wanted to explain to me the reason, 111 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 11: but I. 112 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 12: Didn't want an explanation. 113 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 4: Like, oh about why he kind of ghosted? 114 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 10: Maybe there was a good explanation was yeah, well kind 115 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 10: of just let me know that he wasn't ready for 116 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 10: what I was looking for at that time. 117 00:04:57,960 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 3: He was busy studying to be a doctor. To say, 118 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 3: it's usually not the excuse was something worse than that. 119 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 9: No, yeah, I think he had other ideas of what 120 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 9: he wanted to do with his time or who. 121 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: Probably most don't lie about that stuff. 122 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 9: But did he do the thing where he comes crawling 123 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 9: back because now he's seen that there isn't anything better 124 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:17,559 Speaker 9: in the dating world. 125 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 10: I can't say that, But what I can say is, 126 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 10: after a few dreams we talked about making out, I mean. 127 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 3: Talk about making about making out. 128 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:30,160 Speaker 4: Who brought that up? 129 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 10: I did? 130 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 5: He was kind of one of my best makeout partners. 131 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 9: Oh okay, so I'm totally disappointed that it was David 132 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:40,600 Speaker 9: when he showed up to the bar. 133 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 3: You can make out, though, but you've gone from like 134 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 3: I cannot believe I got set up with this horrible 135 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 3: x of mind to talking about you're the best makeout 136 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 3: I've ever had, so. 137 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 4: Then calling us to call him again. 138 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 12: It isn't funny, how light is. 139 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 4: What happened that night? 140 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:00,479 Speaker 10: Yeah, well, guys, I'm going to shock you with this one. 141 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:01,839 Speaker 5: We made out. 142 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 2: You don't say. 143 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 4: You went back to his place? No? 144 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 10: No, no, he fit me home in an uber like 145 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 10: I was on cloud nine? 146 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 5: Wow? 147 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 4: You want the uber? Was he like? See she's getting 148 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 4: I thought this was your. 149 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 2: Stop asking to make out with me and go home. 150 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 2: That's a good point of like we're saying, congrats. Did 151 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:33,679 Speaker 2: you want to leave. 152 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 6: With him or no? 153 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 10: Of course I wanted to leave with him, Okay, but 154 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:38,679 Speaker 10: he was trying. 155 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 2: To be responsible. 156 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 4: Did you really think at the end of the night 157 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 4: you would hear from him again? I was hop Okay, 158 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 4: you were Okay, some people grow, you know. 159 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 2: Have you tried to contact him after that night happened? 160 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 10: Yeah? 161 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 5: You have? 162 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 4: How many times? And it was time of day. 163 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 10: The whole history has a repeat itself. Apparently I didn't 164 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:09,239 Speaker 10: learn my lessons because he's not responding again. 165 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 9: Okay, And why do you think us calling him is 166 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 9: going to make a difference, Because we're not her bro. 167 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 10: He'll be honest, like, I'll learn something from this. 168 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 3: Okay, you're still willing to give this guy a chance 169 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 3: after he ditched you, not once, but twice, or this. 170 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 2: Will end the cycle. 171 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 4: Yes, that toxic. 172 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 3: Don't trust the gen Z on what's toxic and not. 173 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 4: There's a lot about gen Zer, but don't trust Alexis. 174 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 2: She just set it four boys before we started. But 175 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 2: you know what, we're gonna try this. We're gonna do 176 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 2: this for you. 177 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 3: You know, we're gonna call David, who's technically one of 178 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 3: your exes, and see if he's willing to give it 179 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 3: another shot with you. 180 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 2: I hope he remember to what's happening. We're doing it 181 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 2: with our second date update right after this. 182 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 6: Hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 183 00:07:58,000 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 7: Second date updates. 184 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 3: If you're just joining us, this is definitely an unusual 185 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 3: one for second date because we're kind of reaching out 186 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 3: to Janelle's ex boyfriend David. 187 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 4: I don't think there's a kind of about it. 188 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the return of the Dave because they dated. 189 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 3: They dated three years ago when he suddenly ditched her 190 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 3: over text message. 191 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 2: So fast forward to today. 192 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 3: At a random happy hour, they accidentally got set up 193 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 3: on a blind date, which of course was very awkward 194 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 3: when it first started, but after an apology and a 195 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 3: lot of drinks. They were in a much better place. Yes, 196 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 3: even ended up making out again that night, which I. 197 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 4: Mean, your ex is at a bar. Who isn't going 198 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 4: to make out with him? It's how you say? 199 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:42,959 Speaker 5: Hi? 200 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, Now Dave is being shady once again, shocking, So 201 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 3: we need to call him and figure out once and 202 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 3: for all what's going on? 203 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 5: Brooke? 204 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on this situation? 205 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 4: I just think you know already what's going on. 206 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 9: But I get it, like chase, it's a chase. It's 207 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 9: why doesn't he want you? Like? 208 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 4: That is totally understandable. 209 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 10: I'll never know unless how about that? 210 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 2: Okay? Well, the two times that he told you no. 211 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 9: The thing is she wants an answer that he hasn't 212 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 9: given her yet. 213 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 3: Right, Okay, maybe a radio show calling will help give 214 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 3: him some clarity and realize that you're the one for him. 215 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 11: What exactly? 216 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 4: I still think there's something there. You're hoping he grew up? Okay? 217 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 2: The dating world has really messed you up? 218 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:41,439 Speaker 4: All right? 219 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 3: Well, you know what, there's some optimism in the room. 220 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 3: Let's give David a call see if he answers. I'm 221 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 3: down the number right now. Hello, Hey, we're looking to 222 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 3: talk to David. Yeah, hey David, brace yourself because you're 223 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 3: on the radio right now. 224 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 4: Hey David, Yo, welcome to the show. 225 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,559 Speaker 5: What is this allowed allowed? 226 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 6: That's all required. It's part of our show. 227 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 2: As long as I tell you that you're on the radio, 228 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 2: then it's legal. 229 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:15,439 Speaker 5: Yeah. 230 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 4: Not funny. It's very easy. 231 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay with them. 232 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll beat stuff if you swear. 233 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 3: This is a segment that we do called the second 234 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 3: Date Update, where we try to help one of our 235 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 3: listeners reconnect with somebody that they had like a romantic 236 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 3: spark with. 237 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 5: Okay, okay, and. 238 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 3: This is a woman that you actually have a lot 239 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 3: of history with, but you met up with her again 240 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 3: recently at a happy hour named Janelle. 241 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 5: Oh why does she want? 242 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:46,959 Speaker 4: Oh? So that was like, what does she want? I'm 243 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 4: so excited? 244 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 3: I mean the short answer is like, what she wants 245 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 3: is to see you again. 246 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:56,560 Speaker 13: Oh no, yeah, I don't know about that. 247 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 9: Oh well, yeah, were you excited to see Janelle when 248 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 9: she walked into the bar? 249 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,440 Speaker 5: No, that was super awkward. 250 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 2: Oh okay, hold on, hold on. 251 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 8: In her defense, she was like, oh no, I've dated him, 252 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 8: and it was like it was awkward for her too. 253 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. 254 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 3: It was awkward for the people in the room too, 255 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 3: when they all found out that you guys had. 256 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 2: Been together before. 257 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,599 Speaker 5: Yeah so yeah, okay. 258 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 3: I mean totally understandable. But Janelle said that after you 259 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 3: guys hung out for a little bit, after you had 260 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 3: a few drinks, things seemed to settle in more. 261 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 2: And you even apologize to her. 262 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 13: Oh yeah, I mean, like, I don't like that I 263 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 13: semi ghosted her and it's not like who I am, 264 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 13: you know, I don't mean. 265 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 5: To do that. 266 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,239 Speaker 4: It's kind of what you're doing again because. 267 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 3: Well he doesn't like that he's doing it again. Yeah, 268 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 3: it just doesn't make him feel good, but he will 269 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:45,839 Speaker 3: do it. 270 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 5: Yeah. 271 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 13: I mean, like, look, I know I told her I 272 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 13: had grown, but like I don't want to date. 273 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 4: Wait, you don't want to date or you don't want 274 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:55,239 Speaker 4: to date her. 275 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 13: Just in general honestly. Oh yeah, I mean she I 276 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 13: know she wants to lie, settle down and have kids, 277 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 13: and like we talked about that, but I don't. I 278 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 13: don't want to do that. I don't I want to 279 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 13: be single. I don't want to disappoint her or anything. 280 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 9: That is like such a hard thing for women to accept, 281 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:14,559 Speaker 9: and I don't like I think that you're totally valid 282 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 9: for saying that, but like so many times, women can 283 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 9: be like, well. 284 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 13: But if you do it with me, you know, I 285 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 13: can see us having plans on a Friday night and 286 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 13: then a buddy calls me up and is like, hey, 287 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 13: you want to go hang. 288 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 5: Out, and honest to god, I would ditcher. 289 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 13: It's an unfortunate circumstances, like I won't make her a priority. 290 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean it's because it's mature that you know that, 291 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 8: and you can like say that, but. 292 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 4: It's not mature that the. 293 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 13: Yeah, I don't care, like whatever judgment call you want 294 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:47,680 Speaker 13: to put on it. It's who I am and I 295 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 13: admit it. 296 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 9: Yeah, somebody says who they are, you gotta believe. 297 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,959 Speaker 8: Them absolutely, at least you're saying it. 298 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 2: Some people just ghost. 299 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 13: Well he was doing was I mean, I was going 300 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 13: to I was going to a texture, but that classic. 301 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 2: Text love that thing. 302 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 3: I'm sorry to ruin your plans to text her and 303 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:08,959 Speaker 3: bit her, but we need to tell you she's actually 304 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 3: on the phone right now wanting to talk to you. 305 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 9: Why. 306 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 2: It's different energy than I thought. 307 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 3: Hi, how are you Jane Janelle? 308 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 2: You heard what he was saying. 309 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 10: Right, Yeah, I mean, but what could be so bad? 310 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 10: David like me? 311 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 5: Wait? 312 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:35,440 Speaker 4: Wait are you not listening to him? 313 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 10: I mean, if you wanted to hang out with your 314 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 10: friends while we were hanging out, all you have to 315 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 10: do is say so you can do that? 316 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 5: Oh god, seriously, Like you don't mean that. Yes, it 317 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 5: will be no issue. 318 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 9: No, this is like I'm a cool girl, walk all 319 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 9: over me. 320 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 4: I don't do that. 321 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 11: I'm trying to be understanding. 322 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 9: I have to be understanding with someone who will make 323 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 9: you also a priority. 324 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 2: Yes, respects you. 325 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 13: I mean you want to be understanding. 326 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 5: Understand that, Like, I don't want this? 327 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:16,800 Speaker 10: What exactly don't you want there? 328 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 5: It's crazy. 329 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 13: I don't know. You want to be in a serious 330 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 13: relationship and I'm looking for a very much more casual thing. 331 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 5: I don't think you get it. 332 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 11: I have a lot of clothes I can put on. 333 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 4: That's a good spin. That's a good spin. 334 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I don't know if you like who I am. 335 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 5: I really don't. 336 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 12: Oh what, You're an awesome person. 337 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 11: What is there not to like about you? 338 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 5: I don't want to do that though, I don't want 339 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 5: to look. 340 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 13: I buy my phenails and I eat them all right, 341 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 13: and I put the big ones. 342 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 5: I keep the big ones in a little box. 343 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 9: Oh God, what the flexibility it takes to be able 344 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 9: to do that. 345 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 10: We'll just work on healthier coping mechanisms. Like that's all. 346 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 2: Huh, he's trying to. 347 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 5: Get rid of her. 348 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 11: There's so many other things that you can chew on. 349 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I will. 350 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 3: I feel like he's politely as possible trying to steer 351 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 3: you away from a bad situation. 352 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 4: But I wasn't. To her credit, I don't know. 353 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 9: When we talked to her, she didn't say she wanted 354 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 9: a big relationship with you. She literally said, I just 355 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 9: want a couple more dates. 356 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 13: Like yeah, no, I don't. 357 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 10: I don't think you will eating baby or anything with you. 358 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 13: I don't think you get me. 359 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 5: Like I'm super lazy. 360 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 13: Okay, Like I pee in the backyard instead of. 361 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 5: Going upstairs to go pee in the bathrooms. 362 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 11: Nothing wrong with that? 363 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 2: What God? 364 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 4: Now, pick up your self respect, it's on the floor. 365 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 11: I'm not a quitter. 366 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 5: I am not a quitter. 367 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 3: Janelle is still into this after the toe biting and 368 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 3: the backyard defecating. We love to send you guys on 369 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 3: another date that we would pay for and. 370 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 2: Probably did you halfway through for his friends. 371 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 3: I know the answer is yes from Janelle already, so 372 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 3: we needed to get an answer from you, David. 373 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 2: Would you be willing to see her one more time? 374 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 5: No? You know you're great. Seriously, you're great. It's not 375 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 5: you with me. 376 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 12: I just don't want classic. 377 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 3: Well, Janea, I'm sorry, but it looks like we're not 378 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 3: going to be able to set you up again with 379 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 3: your ex boyfriend. 380 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 2: That is the universal sounds. That's the title of Janelle's 381 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 2: entire dating life. 382 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 6: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 383 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 2: Oh man, I have a lot of hope going. 384 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 9: Did you? 385 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 4: I mean, before we even called him, I didn't have hope. 386 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 3: What rekindling an old relationship worked for j Lo and 387 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 3: Ben Affleck. They look absolutely miserable whenever they're around each other, 388 00:16:57,080 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 3: and both of their careers are tanking at an astronomic 389 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 3: Go great, yeh together, Jeffrey. 390 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 2: But they phoned the Dunkin Donuts commercial together, Brooke. 391 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 9: Okay, it is literally the only good thing that happened, 392 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 9: and that was mostly because Matt Damon was I was 393 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:10,120 Speaker 9: just gonna say that. 394 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:13,959 Speaker 3: Well, they could have had their Matt Damon Duncan Donuts 395 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 3: commercial moment. Unfortunately, someone wasn't willing to give it a chance. 396 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:21,399 Speaker 4: Wow, what a stickler. He is his own ideal. 397 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 2: So you lost me the analogy. So she needs to 398 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 2: date Matt Damon. 399 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:26,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we'll go with that conclusion. 400 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 2: I think that's a good thing. 401 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 3: Reach out to him next, and we can reach out 402 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 3: to anybody that you want us to. You just have 403 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 3: to call us and we'll call that person not calling 404 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 3: you back and go check out all of our second 405 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 3: dates wherever you get your podcast out Broken Jeffery. 406 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, bo Jeffrey in the morning. 407 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 3: On a dinner date, it's not totally unheard of to 408 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:50,359 Speaker 3: ask the waiter if you could switch tables. 409 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 4: No, No, it's pretty normal because. 410 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 3: Maybe the leg is wobbly, or maybe it's right below 411 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 3: the air conditioning vent, or maybe you just want to 412 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 3: be less visible to the security cameras so they can't 413 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 3: see what's happening under the tablecoth. 414 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:06,640 Speaker 5: The play. 415 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 3: But in today's call, none of those explanations seem to 416 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 3: fit for why a guy asked to switch booths halfway 417 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 3: through a date. 418 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:20,679 Speaker 2: And we were. 419 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:24,439 Speaker 3: All stunned when we finally learned the actual reason he 420 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 3: demanded to switch locations. Did not have it on my 421 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 3: Bengo card. I'll tell you that you'll hear it. A 422 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,120 Speaker 3: second date update next. 423 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 6: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 424 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 7: Second date update. 425 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 3: If you go out on a really good first date, 426 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 3: it might end in a little kiss. It could end 427 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 3: in a tender hug, or, if you're lucky, a three 428 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:51,360 Speaker 3: way chicken fight with your parents. 429 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 4: And I don't know what that is. 430 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 3: Sitting on top of each other's shoulders inside of a pool. 431 00:18:58,960 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 5: Well. 432 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:02,120 Speaker 3: One of our listeners says she got something else at 433 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 3: the end of her night, a two word whisper in 434 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 3: her ear, and she's not sure really what it meant. 435 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 2: It's anything, so let's talk to her. 436 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 4: I just cringe, think you. 437 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 3: It could be something really nice and romantic, Baby Angie, 438 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:22,879 Speaker 3: Welcome to the show. 439 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 2: I'm very curious about this whisper. 440 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 3: But before we get to that, first, tell us the 441 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 3: guy's name and how you met him. 442 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 9: Whisper it to us, Nichola, No more whispering, No more whispering. 443 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:40,119 Speaker 2: Until the actual whisper happened. How about that the. 444 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:44,360 Speaker 6: Car their radios down or out there? 445 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:47,360 Speaker 2: I don't know me, Nicholas, how I. 446 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 11: Mean, it's kind of embarrassing, but we met on plenty 447 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 11: of Fish, which I know people don't even use anymore. 448 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 2: But yeah, I think there's actual only fish on their question. 449 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 4: What drove you to plenty of Fish? 450 00:19:58,440 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 13: I don't know. 451 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 11: It's just one of those that, like I said, up 452 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 11: a profile I don't even know how long ago, and 453 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 11: then I'll get in a relationship and I'll get off it. 454 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 11: But like I can just go reactivate it. 455 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 5: I don't know. 456 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 4: Okay, some question. Does it even have an app? Or 457 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 4: you have to use a browser? 458 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:16,719 Speaker 2: I don't even know. It only operates over facts. 459 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 4: Now, Okay, I thought it still was printed out on 460 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 4: the back of the weeklies. 461 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 2: That could be. 462 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:25,159 Speaker 3: But the important thing is that you matched with this 463 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 3: Nicholas guy. So tell us what did you do for 464 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 3: your date? 465 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 11: We went to dinner. We went to a tie place, 466 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 11: which is one of my faves, so that was good. 467 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 9: Did he remember that it was one of your favorites 468 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:37,720 Speaker 9: because that's always like really nice too. 469 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:39,919 Speaker 11: Well, I picked it, so that made. 470 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 2: It deserves credit a little bit for going along thing. 471 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:45,159 Speaker 2: So let's get it. 472 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:47,879 Speaker 11: And I'm a lady who knows what she likes and 473 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:49,200 Speaker 11: it's pad tie. 474 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,120 Speaker 2: Awesome. So what did you think when you first saw 475 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 2: each other. 476 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 11: I mean, I feel like we hit it off. I mean, 477 00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 11: I will say dating kind of sucks, and I feel 478 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,919 Speaker 11: like a lot of time they get like flirty to 479 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 11: the point that you're like, all right, dude, calm down, 480 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 11: Like they'll ask you for sexy pictures before you've even met. 481 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:12,360 Speaker 11: And he didn't. He was more like soft spoken, more 482 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:14,479 Speaker 11: like a like a nerdy type. 483 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 4: But it was cute and he was respectful of your boundaries. 484 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 3: Wow, so a nice guy. That's sweet and considerate. I'm 485 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 3: surprised you didn't unmatch him immediate, right, Yeah. 486 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 4: That's really funny. 487 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 9: Was there any like, I don't know, moments of real 488 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 9: flirtation that happened. 489 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,680 Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean it felt like a good first day 490 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 11: for the most part, but like I don't know, they'd 491 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,399 Speaker 11: be like I'd ask him a question and there'd be 492 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 11: like a five second delay and then he would go 493 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 11: and the answer and it wasn't weird. 494 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,399 Speaker 4: At all, but like just staring at you for the 495 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 4: five seconds. 496 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 9: You know, though, some people are just bad at timing 497 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 9: in a conversation. Have you ever talked to somebody who 498 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 9: like takes really long pauses and you're like, wait, do 499 00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 9: I go do we not go like, maybe his timing 500 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:01,440 Speaker 9: is just a little off. 501 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 3: Maybe what are you talking about me? 502 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,879 Speaker 4: Sorry waited to answer. 503 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 2: So I like to think of it as I'm just 504 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 2: a good listener. 505 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, but I was done talking. 506 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 11: I mean, he was checking his phone a lot, So 507 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 11: I wonder if maybe, like maybe I thought I was boring. 508 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 12: I don't know, you know what, I think this is 509 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 12: mind blowing to me. 510 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 8: He does something that I could never do, and that 511 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:26,879 Speaker 8: is think before he speaks. 512 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 4: I'm thinking Google before he speaks, Google. 513 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 2: Beast. 514 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 4: I know that he's having a I listen. 515 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,120 Speaker 2: In the same thing. 516 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 11: It was one point, like early on, after we sat down, 517 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 11: like before we had ordered anything, he was like, oh man, 518 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 11: it's really loud over here, and he was like, do 519 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 11: you mind if we moved to like the back where 520 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:49,919 Speaker 11: it's choire And I was like, no, that's fine, and 521 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 11: I moved us up. 522 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know. I think I honestly think we're 523 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:55,439 Speaker 4: over thinking it. 524 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 3: I was just thinking what jose was thinking, like, if 525 00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 3: this is a really sweet, nice guy who's trying to 526 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 3: come off like he really cares, he might take a 527 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 3: second to try and come up with a really good 528 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 3: answer to your questions. 529 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 2: I mean blurting stuff out. 530 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 9: The whole point is that the awkward pauses didn't bother you, right, No, 531 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 9: I wouldn't. 532 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 11: Say they bothered me. I just it was weird, was 533 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 11: noticeable because. 534 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 4: They probably didn't bother him. That's how he communicated to him. 535 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 3: He was like, that was a normal back and forth 536 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 3: totally so overall pretty solid date. I'm really really interested though, 537 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:28,959 Speaker 3: in the end here when he whispers something in the words, 538 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 3: I want to know. 539 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,400 Speaker 4: If he waited five seconds before he did the run us. 540 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 2: Through what happened there. 541 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 11: Okay, so end of the day, we were like outside 542 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 11: of the restaurant about to go our separate ways. I 543 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 11: give him a hug, and when I hug him, he 544 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 11: whispers in my ear, good. 545 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 7: Job, good job, good job. 546 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 12: Yea like sums up good job. 547 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 2: Well, that's weird. Maybe he just doesn't know how to 548 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 2: end a date, like. 549 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 4: Maybe it was any dialogue that came out. Maybe he 550 00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 4: was talking to you. 551 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 3: Is it like the thing where you're you're wanting to 552 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 3: be like hey, good date, or like in two words, 553 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 3: that you mix two things together and accidentally say something awkward. 554 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 4: It could be the whole reason he's not calling you 555 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 4: back because he's like, God, what did I say that? 556 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 11: I mean maybe, but like even after he said it, 557 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 11: I was like, wait, what are you talking about? 558 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 5: What did he say? 559 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,359 Speaker 11: He just he put his finger to his mouth, like 560 00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:26,440 Speaker 11: like it's our secret. 561 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 12: But I have no idea what he was talking about. 562 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 13: What is happening? 563 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,719 Speaker 9: That is pretty romantic, But anytime a man puts his 564 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 9: finger to his I don't like that. 565 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 4: It's creepy. Anybody nobody should. 566 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 2: So have you texted him since the date ended? 567 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 13: Yeah? 568 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 11: So we were, you know, we were. We had like 569 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 11: a cute little back and forth before the day, you know, 570 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 11: we'd like send each other memes or whatever, so like 571 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:52,119 Speaker 11: I did that, but no, I have not gotten any response. 572 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:56,880 Speaker 3: Oh okay, something's up. We're going to come back rate 573 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,959 Speaker 3: that's not okay. We're gonna call this plenty of fishing, 574 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,120 Speaker 3: and we're gonna see what he has to say when 575 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,360 Speaker 3: we come back and get you your second date update. 576 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 6: Right after that, broke and Jeffrey in the morning. 577 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 7: Second date update. 578 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:17,439 Speaker 3: It's the two words that every little boy is dying 579 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 3: to hear from his unapproving father. 580 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,240 Speaker 2: Good job, Yeah, proud of your son. 581 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,160 Speaker 4: We're proud of you Jeff, that's not. 582 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,199 Speaker 3: Exactly what a woman wants to have whispered into her 583 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 3: ear at the end of a first game. 584 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 4: I thought we were going to go into jeff therapy session. 585 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 3: We do nearly enough time, okay, But it's what happened 586 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 3: to our listener Angie after she hung out with a 587 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:40,879 Speaker 3: guy named Nicholas the other night. He gave her a 588 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,960 Speaker 3: hug and then softly said, good job. 589 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 8: In her girls are not happy about this. 590 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,160 Speaker 2: She wasn't either, right. I don't think any woman would 591 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,040 Speaker 2: be happy about that. But we've got a lot. 592 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 3: Of questions about the good job, about some of the 593 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 3: other weird stuff that was happening during the day. Angie 594 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,640 Speaker 3: said she's willing to look past it if she can 595 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,639 Speaker 3: get another chance with him, because he seemed like a 596 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:03,120 Speaker 3: great guy. 597 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:04,400 Speaker 4: You said that he was. 598 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 9: Like a little reserved, a little nerdy, Like those are 599 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,199 Speaker 9: some of the quirks that come with nerdy, you know. 600 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 10: Yeah. 601 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 11: I mean that's the thing though, Like it's so hard 602 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:17,439 Speaker 11: to meet an actual, nice, respectful guy, and I just 603 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:18,159 Speaker 11: feel like he. 604 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 12: Was and I'm assuming I messed up, you know what 605 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 12: I mean? 606 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 4: You think you messed up, and that's why you like. 607 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 11: Literally it's the person who called in that messed up and, 608 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 11: like I said, maybe thought I was boring. 609 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 3: I don't know, becoming self aware. 610 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 4: No, you don't like that? 611 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 2: Are you cool? 612 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:40,680 Speaker 3: If Nicholas has an unapproving father, is that okay? 613 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 11: I think I can deal with that. 614 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's good. 615 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 4: It'll be something Jeffrey and he can bond about it. 616 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 2: Let's call him. I'm a Dalla's number right now. Let's 617 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:50,639 Speaker 2: see if he picks up. 618 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 3: Hell, he is this Nicholas. Listen, Nick, hey man, thanks 619 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 3: for answering. You are on a radio show right now 620 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 3: called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 621 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 4: Welcome to the show, Nicholas, How are you man? 622 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 5: Good morning? Why Why am I on a radio show? 623 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:16,919 Speaker 4: Great question? 624 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, so, I don't know. Have you ever heard of 625 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 3: something called a second date update before? 626 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:24,399 Speaker 5: Yeah? I think so. I think so. 627 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 4: Oh you have Okay, congrats. 628 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:29,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know. 629 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:29,920 Speaker 7: Who we are. 630 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:31,160 Speaker 2: Now you get to be a part of one. 631 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 3: So the way that it works is one of our 632 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 3: listeners has reached out to us hoping that we could 633 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 3: get a hold of you. 634 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 2: A girl named Angie. 635 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 5: Angie's trying to get ahold of me. 636 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, do you remember her, you guys wing to ty food. 637 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 4: The other night. 638 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,439 Speaker 3: She's hoping that she can maybe get another chance to 639 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 3: hang out with you again. 640 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I don't. I don't think that's going to 641 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 5: work out. 642 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 2: Really, Okay, it sounded like such a good date. 643 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 3: Well yeah, but before you even go there, Nicholas, I'm 644 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 3: just gonna let you know. She said that she really 645 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 3: liked you and that you two shared a good vibe. 646 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I thought Aye was nice. 647 00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, she didn't mention that, actually, Nicholas. She mentioned a 648 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:21,199 Speaker 3: few odd things that happened on the date, and she 649 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 3: wasn't sure if maybe those were early signs that you 650 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:25,640 Speaker 3: weren't interested in. 651 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 9: Her, which actually turns out could be true. At this point, 652 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 9: at first we thought she. 653 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 5: Was nuts, But well, well what what did she What 654 00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 5: did she name? 655 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 3: Well, like we just mentioned, there's like a delay in 656 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:40,719 Speaker 3: your responses a little bit during the normal conversation. 657 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 8: Almost like you're intently thinking of what you're gonna say. 658 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 5: A delay. 659 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 2: Okay, almost happened again. 660 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 9: I think he doesn't noticed that is a part of 661 00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 9: your conversation. 662 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 4: That's fine, that's okay. 663 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 3: And also she said that you had to move to 664 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 3: a quieter area and I'm just going to let you 665 00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,240 Speaker 3: know what the room thought when we heard everything. The 666 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 3: room was wondering if maybe you had AI listening in 667 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 3: on your conversation to help you respond to your date, 668 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,520 Speaker 3: because you were checking your phone a lot too. 669 00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, so I don't know who the room is, who's 670 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 5: the who's the room? 671 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 4: It was mostly Alexis. 672 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 5: Oh you people, okay. 673 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 9: Because when we talked to her, you know, we all 674 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 9: give our ideas like, oh, maybe it could be this, 675 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:26,959 Speaker 9: maybe it could be that. 676 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:27,960 Speaker 2: These are just theories. 677 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 3: So could you just be honest with us and tell 678 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 3: us did you do that? Were you using AI to 679 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:35,400 Speaker 3: assist you? 680 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 5: I was having some help on the date, but I 681 00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 5: wasn't using the AI some. 682 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 9: Help on the date, help from your phone. 683 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 5: I was on the line with my ex and she was. 684 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 5: She was on the line with us the whole time. 685 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 2: Your ex. 686 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I I mean sometimes I just need help. 687 00:29:57,400 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 5: So she's kind of like a security blanket for me. 688 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 9: Oh wait, you date, did you have like earbuds in 689 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 9: and you were listening to your ex at the same 690 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 9: time you were listening to her? 691 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,120 Speaker 5: No? No, she was just not mute, like she couldn't 692 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 5: say anything. She wasn't coaching me. I just wanted her 693 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 5: to hear. 694 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 8: Everything, So she's kind of taking notes and then later 695 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 8: you will call her and she will go over the notes. Here, 696 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 8: that's what I'm thinking. 697 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 4: Volunteers to listen to hours of your dates? 698 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 2: What what a kind woman. 699 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 5: Well, it's part of our post breakup growth. 700 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 2: Agreement, post break up growth agreement. 701 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 4: Wore in that. 702 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, we mutually agreed upon and I listened to her 703 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 5: dates too on occasion. It's just we help each other 704 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 5: get through our past breakup and move into a new one. 705 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 5: So it's healthy and very healthy. 706 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, it's a very conscious uncoupling. 707 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,240 Speaker 4: Just doesn't like your new dates. 708 00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 9: Oh yeah, that's a good point, because he said sabotage. 709 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 5: You know she was not a fan of Angie. 710 00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 3: Okay, well she was, But how did you feel about her? 711 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 5: I was enjoying myself, but she mentioned that she seemed 712 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:15,480 Speaker 5: like a try hard, and then when I was thinking 713 00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 5: about it, I think that she might be kind of 714 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:18,360 Speaker 5: a try hard. 715 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 6: Whoa wait, wait. 716 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 9: Don't you want people to try hard on a first day? 717 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,880 Speaker 11: Excuse me? How was I a try hard? 718 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 4: That's coming in hard? 719 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 720 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,600 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Nicholas, you might find this funny, But 721 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,440 Speaker 3: your ex girlfriend and Angie have a lot in common 722 00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 3: because she's actually been. 723 00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,520 Speaker 2: On the phone listening in on this conversation. 724 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 5: Okay, that's not that's not fair. I didn't I didn't 725 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 5: know that. I didn't. 726 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, and Angie didn't know her X was listening to her. 727 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 2: Either plays to be judging, but say hi to Angie, 728 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 2: but she was. 729 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 5: Hi, Angie, there you go. 730 00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 7: Hi. 731 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 11: I'm mean, you're saying this is a healthy thing. But 732 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,719 Speaker 11: you also said your ex is your security blankets, so 733 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:11,200 Speaker 11: it doesn't feel like you're ready to be dating other people. 734 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, in most relationships, people don't have the right 735 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,800 Speaker 5: closure and then they hold on to the past, and 736 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 5: so this is a way to move on to my future. 737 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,719 Speaker 6: Yeah, you're not moving on. 738 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,960 Speaker 11: You're literally still relying on your ex to make your 739 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 11: decisions down there. 740 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 5: You're dating, Well, we spend a lot of time together, 741 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 5: so she knows me really well, and she sees things 742 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 5: from the opposites X that I might. 743 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 12: Not see, and maybe you guys should be together. 744 00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, no, it's not. It's not like that. We're not 745 00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 5: romantically involved whatsoever. It's just we have a year left 746 00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 5: in our post breakup growth agreement. 747 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a long time. 748 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 2: You're kind of each other's life. 749 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:53,040 Speaker 9: Coaches, Really, can you just recap the date with your 750 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 9: ex instead of. 751 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 4: Time. 752 00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 5: Well, see, there's trigger words and things that she'll say, 753 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 5: like well that the red flag that I don't typically see. 754 00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,480 Speaker 3: This does make sense now why he whispered good job 755 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,800 Speaker 3: at the very end of the date. He wasn't saying 756 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 3: it to Angie. He was saying it to his ex 757 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 3: girlfriend who was listening. 758 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 12: That doesn't make sense. 759 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,480 Speaker 5: No, I was talking to Angie. I did whisper this 760 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:19,680 Speaker 5: job because I thought that we were going to get 761 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,560 Speaker 5: to go on another date, because I enjoyed myself and 762 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:24,239 Speaker 5: I didn't want my ex to hear her. 763 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 4: Nicholas, so you're not. 764 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,800 Speaker 12: To go out with me again and you hearing me. 765 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:35,320 Speaker 4: I mean, here's the thing. 766 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,920 Speaker 9: I actually think Nicholas is over his ex. I think 767 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 9: your ex Nicholas is not. And I don't think you're 768 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 9: seeing that correctly. 769 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 5: I mean that's a possibility, and I and I kind 770 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:47,720 Speaker 5: of agree with that, but we still have our agreement 771 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 5: and I have. 772 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,920 Speaker 10: Okay, what are we talking about? 773 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,160 Speaker 9: And if all she could come up with is she's 774 00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:02,480 Speaker 9: a tryhard as the biggest red fla. Oh man, that's 775 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:03,479 Speaker 9: a weak red flag. 776 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, and I didn't try that hard. 777 00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:11,360 Speaker 11: I didn't even save my legs for that day. 778 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 3: There must be some claws in your contract with her. 779 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:15,479 Speaker 3: They'll let you get out of it when you find 780 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,480 Speaker 3: an amazing new girl like Angie here. 781 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 12: Because I have a question, what if I had put 782 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 12: out on the first date, which you have been listening, 783 00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 12: Oh my god, our. 784 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,320 Speaker 5: Date, whether it's supposed to go over an hour and 785 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 5: a half. I know we were already pushing it at 786 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:32,719 Speaker 5: an hour forty a. 787 00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:34,880 Speaker 2: Time if you wanted to. 788 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 3: He was already breaking the rules a little bit. Yeah, 789 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,440 Speaker 3: so the band aid's starting to come off. 790 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 2: Or he's like, hold on, let me ask my ex, Hey, 791 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:43,600 Speaker 2: can I sleep with this? 792 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:45,720 Speaker 6: Angie? 793 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 3: Just real quick, first, are you still interested in meeting 794 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,640 Speaker 3: up with Nicholas again after what you know? 795 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 11: Are you insane? 796 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:55,840 Speaker 2: There's no way, Oh I thought you were okay? 797 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 9: No, Jeff, that would have been wild if she said, yeah, 798 00:34:58,640 --> 00:34:59,520 Speaker 9: let he breaks the thing. 799 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:01,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's true. 800 00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 3: Angie doesn't want to extend the offer anymore. So Nicholas, 801 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 3: we're not obviously going to give you another date with 802 00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,319 Speaker 3: Angie here, but funny. 803 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:09,839 Speaker 2: If his girlfriend has been on the line this whole 804 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:10,239 Speaker 2: time too. 805 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:11,840 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, wait she is? 806 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 2: She on the third line? 807 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:13,839 Speaker 12: What's her name? 808 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:21,279 Speaker 11: Let's say hi, Reok and Jeffrey in the morning. 809 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 3: So his ex was on the phone on mute, listening 810 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,880 Speaker 3: to the entire date for an hour and forty minutes, 811 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 3: taking notes, and she said no. 812 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:30,680 Speaker 7: I mean that's shocking. 813 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 4: I really thought that that was gonna work out too. 814 00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:35,879 Speaker 7: I tried to call my ex over and over. 815 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and she's gonna answer. 816 00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 2: What's wrong with her? 817 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 7: I don't get it, Jack. 818 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,799 Speaker 3: I guess the fascinating thing to me is if she 819 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,759 Speaker 3: would have said yes. Could you imagine that conversation where 820 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 3: Nicholas is really excited and he calls you, like. 821 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,640 Speaker 2: Hey, great news, we get to go out again. 822 00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 3: My ex gave you the thumbs up, first one in 823 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:55,720 Speaker 3: six months. 824 00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:59,320 Speaker 9: Congrab She proves it really did sound like Nicholas was 825 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,840 Speaker 9: over his ex and his extras isn't overhead. 826 00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, like no girls him or something. Yeah, whatever it is, 827 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 2: it is a messy situation. Did give him away at 828 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:09,520 Speaker 2: the wedding. 829 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 4: She's still hoping that she is the one. 830 00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, reardless we find out. 831 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 3: But speaking of messy situations. Our social media YouTube TikTok, 832 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 3: Instagram messy. You could see all of our second dates 833 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 3: on there, and those are messy for sure. Make sure 834 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:30,160 Speaker 3: to comment, like, subscribe at Brook and Jeffrey. We appreciate 835 00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 3: all of our listeners and if you ever need help 836 00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,360 Speaker 3: in your dating life, email the show. We'll call that 837 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:35,719 Speaker 3: person who's not calling you back.