WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: I Made You a Collage

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jebels second dat up date. I haven't done a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of online dating or any really, because, let's face it,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need to know. It's because you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to take people on actual dates. It's their second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>I bring up the thing about online dating because Lydia

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<v Speaker 1>has done it before. How do you decipher who you

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with and who you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with just based on reading their profile? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty much. I mean I'm not an expert on it.

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<v Speaker 1>I've not had successful dates. He had a boyfriend out

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<v Speaker 1>of it, that's true. I guess that counts. But he

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<v Speaker 1>was basically the first person that talked to me, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yep, all right, and he was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a turn So anyway, our second dat or today

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<v Speaker 1>is named Dylan. Dylan emailed us about a girl that

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<v Speaker 1>he met online named Natalie. What's up, Dylan? Okay, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? I'm good? How are you pretty good? So?

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<v Speaker 1>What did you like about Natalie's profile? Oh? Just about everything? Really? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>First off, her pictures? Oh yeah, very gorgeous. Yeah okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the obvious one. What else did you like? She

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<v Speaker 1>said she liked good listeners and I love to listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm a really good communicator. So that was good.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Oh, I mean you are adorable. Your email

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<v Speaker 1>says that you went on a very interesting date, but

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't go into any more detail than that. Would

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<v Speaker 1>you mind explaining what you mean by you went on

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<v Speaker 1>an interesting date? Oh? Sure? Okay. So in her profile

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<v Speaker 1>she said that she liked surprises, so I thought I

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<v Speaker 1>would surprise her with flowers. That's a nice to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Chicks those yeah they do. Yeah, it's amazing. And then

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<v Speaker 1>we went out to read some wine tasting and that

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<v Speaker 1>went well. And then afterwards we went out to look

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<v Speaker 1>at some homes, some houses. What house? What are you slowdown?

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<v Speaker 1>Did things move that? Well? Yeah, this thing is going awesomely.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's buy a house. I have a good credit school,

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<v Speaker 1>I coul probably gets approve. Right, Are you like in

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<v Speaker 1>the market for a house or something? How how'd that

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<v Speaker 1>come about? Well, you know, looking at houses and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that, it's like always like party or like they

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<v Speaker 1>have order grips and stuff like that. And I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it would be nice to go check out all these

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<v Speaker 1>really expensive homes. That's kind of genius. But I brought

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<v Speaker 1>a camera and I had all the realtors there take

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<v Speaker 1>pictures of us throughout these houses, because it would be

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<v Speaker 1>cute to have pictures of us at all these different places.

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<v Speaker 1>So you went to crash these parties through these open

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<v Speaker 1>houses and add them take pictures of you guys like

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<v Speaker 1>you were a couple linking to buy house. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>wonder she's not calling you back. It's weird. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that could be funny and fun if she was into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Where is someone for everyone and this girl may be

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<v Speaker 1>into something like that? Yeah? Maybe, So what'd you do

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<v Speaker 1>with the clouds and you put it on your shrine? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just spending at my house right now, Dylan, are

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<v Speaker 1>you prepared for your lovely date to possibly make fun

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<v Speaker 1>of you as much as you bulos? I'm hoping that

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<v Speaker 1>she won't make fun of I don't think there's a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot to be made fun of them. But okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't, you don't, Well, just you didn't get them.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't get a vibe from her like she was

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<v Speaker 1>upset at the end of the day at all. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. I thought she had a great time, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And she doesn't know anything about the collauge. You guys,

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, Dylan, is this the first time you made

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<v Speaker 1>a collage for a girl? Yeah? Like I saw online

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<v Speaker 1>that some girls like I think it's sweeten. Yeah, alright,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, we're gonna play a song. Come back and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. All right, just hang on

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<v Speaker 1>for about three and a half minutes. She was some

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<v Speaker 1>time to tweak that collage a little better. Hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>looking jubil in the morning. Second, I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>need to apologize to our second date or Dylan, who

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<v Speaker 1>is still on the phone. Not because I made fun

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<v Speaker 1>of him for the collage that he made of the girl,

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<v Speaker 1>but Dylan, I apologize for making fun of your date.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's actually a really good idea to do

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<v Speaker 1>what you did. Oh but Dylan, he's not complimenting your

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<v Speaker 1>like creativity, complimenting your free food. Yeah, that's exactly what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm commenting. I thought about it over the song. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just tuning in for the second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>Dylan took a girl out on a date he met

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<v Speaker 1>her online. He ended up taking her to a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of rich homes who were having open houses so they

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<v Speaker 1>could take advantage of the free snacks, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>took a bunch of pictures there and acted like they

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<v Speaker 1>were together. That sounds kind of fun and cheap. I

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<v Speaker 1>still have creeped out by the clause you made for Dylan,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think the date idea was a good idea. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking guys like over during the song. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys seem to really not like that collage idea. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so if you could not mention that, that would be great,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you didn't know about that, I think that

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<v Speaker 1>would help my chances. Well, I can't promise you anything done.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't even know if she's gonna answer the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>If we get her on, I promise you'll have a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to ask her for a second date, and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>try to state your case the best possible. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call her right now. Positive thoughts. See we

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<v Speaker 1>get her on the phone. Okay, Hello, Ah is Natalie.

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<v Speaker 1>There is Natalie. Hey Natalie, how are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving

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<v Speaker 1>ninety two point five. This is the radio station. Yep,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? I'm good? Why are you guys calling me? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to chat with you for a little while.

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<v Speaker 1>I like you a lot. Yeah, I'm calling what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you because we got an email about you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you remember Dylan? What do you think of Dylan? First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, I liked him. He's very sweet. If I

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<v Speaker 1>had to pick one word, I would say sweet. What

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<v Speaker 1>did you think about the date that you went on?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I have to say it's probably one of

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<v Speaker 1>the most unique dates that I've ever been on. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you like the home tours? You guys? Did? I know?

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<v Speaker 1>You went wine tasting and then oh my gosh, so

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<v Speaker 1>he told you all about the date. Yeah, well I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I was cute. It was a little different, so

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he put in a lot of effort. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you guys do any online naming,

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<v Speaker 1>but a lot of these it's just kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>you go for a drink, you might have a bite

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<v Speaker 1>to eat, and then it's like, Okay, are we gonna

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<v Speaker 1>hook up? Are we not going to hook up? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>And I didn't get that vibe from him, which I

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<v Speaker 1>thought was actually like he was very chivalrous, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that was nice that he did all that

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<v Speaker 1>extra stuff. Natalie, If you liked him, why are you

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back? You know? I'm actually on the fence

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<v Speaker 1>about it. It's only been three days, so I've actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, talking to my girlfriends and oh, it's only

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<v Speaker 1>it's only been three days. It's only been three days. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you never asked him that. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>he called, like he texted maybe once or twice, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I think he called once or twice. Is it

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<v Speaker 1>too much or no? A little bit but not bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But you said you're on the fence. What is stopping

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<v Speaker 1>you from returning his call? There's something about him that

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<v Speaker 1>may be like a little bit nak You know. I

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<v Speaker 1>tend to kind of go for a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>of a bad boy, and he's a little reserved. And Natalie,

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<v Speaker 1>what if I get you to talk to Dylan right now? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean? Don't say what's up to Natalie? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Natalie Hoe. Oh it's just more embarrassing. That was a

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<v Speaker 1>little rough to here. Uh, but befides all that, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we had something, oh special, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>really like to go out again with you, so we

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<v Speaker 1>could not plan something. We could kind of go off

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<v Speaker 1>the cuff like that for your style here right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're being too sweet, Natalie, you know, how sweetie is?

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<v Speaker 1>How sweet? After you guys went to look at all

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<v Speaker 1>those open houses and took those pictures, Dylan went home

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<v Speaker 1>and made a collage out of the pictures. You put

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<v Speaker 1>them all together and with Elmer's glue and lots of love.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure why did wait came out too? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>just say the word collage? Yeah? You made a collage

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<v Speaker 1>of all the pictures that you guys took at the

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<v Speaker 1>open house. Are you serious? Yep? So you went and

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<v Speaker 1>you sat the pictures developed, you brought them home, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you cut them up and put them on a

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<v Speaker 1>piece of paper with a clue. Yeah, it was an

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<v Speaker 1>afternoon project. But how wrong that was? Okay, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I can handle that. That's a little over

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<v Speaker 1>that's a little over the top, Dylan. It was an

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<v Speaker 1>afternoon project, though, Natalie. Come on, you know, some people garden.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people make collages of people they like, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. I don't know if I'm supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>like if you're like my soulmate, or if you're like

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<v Speaker 1>some creepy guy. Right now, that's just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Okay, people, I see now that it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was wrong that was that. You're right, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a step or two, maybe three over. You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>it is considered normal, so not not a thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>am going to burn it. I'm going to throw it away.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to keep a couple of pictures, so

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<v Speaker 1>because some of them are actually pretty nice. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that is and I believe this was a good Bernie experience,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will again, Well, Natalie, we'll pay for you

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<v Speaker 1>guys to go on a second date if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Dylan again. Dylan, you're too sweet for me

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<v Speaker 1>to refuse you. You're very, very sweet. You just gotta

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<v Speaker 1>speak it up a bet. Okay, Dylan, can we at

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<v Speaker 1>least hear an attempt at you being like spontaneous or

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a bad boy right now? Spontaneous? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I get a minute to think about it? No,

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<v Speaker 1>how about in your sexiest voice, Dylan, you tell Natalie

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<v Speaker 1>how hot you think she is. I mean it's a

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<v Speaker 1>little she I mean, honestly, she's it's a little overwhelming.

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<v Speaker 1>She's very very pretty. Um wow, sounded like Barack Obama

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<v Speaker 1>sexy talking right then? Okay, all right, saved in sexy

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<v Speaker 1>voice for the second date. Okay, okay, Sorry, they have

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<v Speaker 1>a spot a little bit messed up. I got work

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<v Speaker 1>towards it. Dylan, you got it, man. I'm not worried

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<v Speaker 1>about you one bit. I know it's in there. I

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<v Speaker 1>know there's a tiger deep inside you, ready to escape.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope, so broken Jupil in the morning,