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Speaker 5: Oh they love that, John, It'll be their favorite thing.

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Speaker 1: My mother, fifty two, has always been controlling and frankly,

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Speaker 1: Yeah? How dare you? You? You have sexual intercourse during

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Speaker 5: Also, also when it's like your own child is telling

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Speaker 5: I listened to the White Girl true crime shows. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's right. Six hours later, my mother pulled back up

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Speaker 1: I'm being called an a hole for saying my son

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Speaker 1: please God, let it like, let her learn. Yes, it

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Speaker 1: My partner's family are being amazing and looking after us all.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you can't, like you can't let them into the

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Speaker 1: And it seems like this mother is doing that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you got to like call like you have to

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Speaker 5: call it at some point, like what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Just let them keep walking all over you? Now you

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Speaker 1: can't eat everything. Yeah, you gotta have your own life.

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Speaker 5: At some point, I'm you try to kidnap my son,

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