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Ever been left waiting by the phone, 11 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show. Adam, Welcome to the program. Hello, Hello, 12 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 1: what's going on with this woman? Jen? I gotta know 13 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: how did you meet? Tell us about any dates you've 14 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: been on, and then what's happening now and how we 15 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: can help? Okay, sounds good. I'm at Jen on Hinge. 16 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 1: I think you've probably heard of that. Oh, I'm I'm 17 00:00:55,440 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: vaguely familiar with the yeah Hinge. Yeah, And I'll be honest. 18 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 2: I thought she was hot in her photos, so I 19 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 2: was like, let's let's, you know, we chat it briefly 20 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 2: and I set up a date. I'm pretty easy to 21 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 2: get a We went to get some drinks and go 22 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 2: to a comedy show. 23 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: Okay, and and let's take it, by the way, on 24 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: the dating apps, that's what we're doing here. We're hot 25 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 1: or not on the dating apps. I mean, you know, 26 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 1: you can dig into the prompts in the bio if 27 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: you want to, but like, no one's looking at where 28 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: you went to college really well, and they may see 29 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 1: if you're hot. Like once, if I see someone I'm 30 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: attracted to, then I might read some of the words 31 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: the profile, but usually no, So you were attracted to her, 32 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: and you plan this day with an activity, even a 33 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: comedy show, Okay, yeah, exactly. 34 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 2: I felt like it went really well. She you know, 35 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: we got along, we have a lot of things in common. 36 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 2: And I even made her laugh. You know that's always 37 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 2: I know, that's always good if she's laughing. Okay, So 38 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 2: everything went really well on just like I can't. She 39 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 2: kind of goes with me now and I'm like, uh wow, 40 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 2: I can't really wrap my head around this one because 41 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 2: I didn't. I don't know what I did, made wrong 42 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 2: or anything like that. There was no awkward moment. 43 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, look at this guy, Look at this guy, 44 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: he you know, he matches with a woman. He plans 45 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 1: more than just a drink state, which I'm guilty of. 46 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: I'm so guilty of that drink state. That's what I did. 47 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: Nothing creative, Okay, No, I mean the first date is 48 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: a drink state, but then maybe second day we include 49 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: some form of activity. But this guy, like really thought 50 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: about a comedy show, drinks. You know he was attracted 51 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: to her, Yeah, he said, the conversation, the chemistry was good. 52 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: But you have not heard from Jen since the date. 53 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 1: You want to know why that would bother most people. 54 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: So let's call Let's call Jen. We're gonna see what's 55 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: going on and hopefully straightened things out and then set 56 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:48,959 Speaker 1: you guys up on another day. 57 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 3: That we play for. 58 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that's great, Adam, Yeah, welcome back. Let's call Jen. 59 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: You met on a dating app, you planned a date, 60 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: you went, you went to a comedy show. You felt 61 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: like the conversation was good, you were attracted to her, 62 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: you were excited to see her again for a second date. 63 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: But now you can't get a hold of her. She's 64 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: not responding to you, you're not answering the phone, and 65 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: you want to know why like, what happened? How do 66 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 1: we go from a good date and now I can't 67 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: get a hold of this person? Yeah, yeah, I don't know. Yeah, 68 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: all right, let's call Jen now? Good luck at him? 69 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 2: Thank you? 70 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 3: Hello? 71 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: Hi is this Jen? 72 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 4: Yeah? 73 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: Jen? Hi? Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling 74 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio show, and I 75 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: have to tell you that we are on the radio 76 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: right now, and I would need your permission to continue 77 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: with the call. Can we chat for just a second 78 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: on the show. You can hang up anytime? Yeah? Okay? 79 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: Well good? Oh, thank you? Yeah again, I'm gonna take 80 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: that as a guess. But we're calling on behalf of 81 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: a guy named Adam who says he matched with you 82 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: recently on a dating app and you, guys went out. 83 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: Do you remember a date with him? 84 00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 4: Yeah? 85 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: Okay, Well he called us and he was describing he 86 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: thought you were very attractive, and he thought that he 87 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: planned a great date and he felt like the date 88 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: went well, and he said that he made you laugh 89 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 1: and the conversation was good and all these things. But 90 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: he says he can't get a hold of you now 91 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: and it's bugging him. He feels like he's being ghosted. 92 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: Is that was that? What is happening? Yeah kind of? 93 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 3: I mean, look he seemed fun. 94 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 4: Like before we met. Everything in cool, he's in cool. 95 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: I just okay. 96 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 4: So basically he said we were gonna go to a 97 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 4: comedy show, right, was fine, comedy, Yeah, but we get 98 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 4: there and it's just an opening like night, and I. 99 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 3: Was like okay. Then he told me that he was 100 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 3: trying to like perform. 101 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: In it, and then he did. Oh so this wasn't 102 00:04:57,640 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 1: like we didn't go see Dave Chappelle or something like 103 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: we didn't go to we didn't go to that Nate 104 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: Burgatesey or whatever guy we we you know, this was 105 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: a Sebastian maniscal but like like this guy he was 106 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: the comedy show. Oh god, yeah, I'm already uncomfortable. 107 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and he didn't do well like bombed. 108 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: Oh no, so he goes out there nobody laughs at him. 109 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:26,359 Speaker 3: Well, it was worse than that because people were like 110 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 3: brewing him and heckling him. Like it wasn't just it 111 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 3: was bad, like it was offensive, like in what way 112 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 3: it was like sexist? 113 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: It was racist? Whoa oh cool first date, I'm going 114 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: to do the comedy. I'm going to run the chance 115 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 1: that I bomb, and then I'm also going to be 116 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: racist and sexist in front of this woman who I'm 117 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: for whom I'm trying to make an impression. Wow. And 118 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:53,599 Speaker 1: you said people were booing him. 119 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah they were him. 120 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: Somebody was throwing food at him. Wow. That great. Yeah, 121 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 1: let me bring Adam. And I forgot to mention that 122 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: Adam is here. I'm extremely forgetful and I'm sorry about that. Adam. 123 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:12,679 Speaker 1: You said you went to a comedy show. You didn't 124 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: mention that you were the comedy show. 125 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 2: I'm here. Hey, hey, Jen, are you doing your set now? 126 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: This is an overreaction. 127 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 128 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 2: Absolutely, I was working on a new set, so like 129 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 2: I was. 130 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: Just practicing my crowd work. 131 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's just my might have not landed. 132 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: It wasn't working with her. I mean, dude, so you 133 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 1: go up there and tell racist and sexa's jokes, you 134 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: get booed. And this is all on a first date. 135 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I look, if you guys were married or like, 136 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: knew each other and she knew when she was getting 137 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 1: into that's one thing. But do you realize you embarrassed 138 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:57,599 Speaker 1: her too? Again, overreaction. This is not my fault that 139 00:06:57,720 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: the crowd in. 140 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 2: Her or you don't have a good sense of humor. 141 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 1: Like dark humor. This is good, Jane. It's your fault. 142 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 1: It's your fault, it's the audience's fault. Look when I 143 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: say something, if you don't last, it's your fault. Everybody 144 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: knows that what I said. 145 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: Regret saying all this when I get a Netflix deal. 146 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 2: This is just like how Jerry Seinfeld and Dave Chappelle 147 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 2: had to practice. 148 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: Before they got really good. So I don't see the problem. 149 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: Do you think they took women to their practice sets? Maybe? 150 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: I mean maybe they did, but they're they're funny though. Yeah, 151 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's a very it's a very bold 152 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: thing to do, especially if you're if your approach is 153 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: a little bit controversial. 154 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 2: This is just normal stuff that people do these days. 155 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 2: I don't understand you, just Jen, Why do It's just 156 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 2: a character? Like I was just putting on a on 157 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:51,239 Speaker 2: a character. 158 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: It's just a character, Jen, Listen to this guy, Oh character? 159 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 1: Why are we playing characters on the first date? I 160 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: know someone? That's what I mean for yourself, right, Like 161 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: you plan this date, Adam to be the center of 162 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: attention and the unfortunately you took a big gamble and 163 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: you lost. Because maybe maybe if you had gone up 164 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: there and killed it, she would have been impressed. But 165 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: I also would argue that a first date is a 166 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: chance to like sit down and talk and make it 167 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: about the other person, and you made it about you 168 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: and it failed. 169 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 2: I didn't just get there and go up on stage. 170 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 2: That's the thing, Jen, You're overreacting like you had fun. 171 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: I saw you laugh I mean, were you laughing at 172 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: how are you we laughing out of misery? Out of discomfort? 173 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: Were you laughing at him? 174 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:43,719 Speaker 3: If I was laughing at Alder and said it was 175 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 3: because it was incredibly uncomfortable, like it is, not because 176 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 3: I thought it was funny. 177 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a pretty wild, wild move. All right, Look, 178 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask the question, Jen. I think I know 179 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: the answer. But would you enjoy going out with Adam again? 180 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 1: Let's say we don't do that. Let's say we actually 181 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: do like a like a dinner and you know, we 182 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 1: don't do another comedy show, don't go to something. Yeah right, 183 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: we don't do another wacky stand a bit. You know, 184 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: I'm good. Adam, by the way, a racist and sexist. 185 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: I mean, like, why would you Why wouldn't she assume 186 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,439 Speaker 1: that you're not racist and sexist if you're up there 187 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: doing this stuff. 188 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 2: It's just a shame she's not sophisticated enough to get 189 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 2: my hemor. 190 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: That's what it is. It's a sophistication issue. It definitely 191 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 1: is a h Okay, I would ask you for a joke, 192 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: but I'm I'm not. I'm not going to do that. No, 193 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 1: we really, I'm afraid. Actually, I'm not going to put 194 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: Jen through that again. So all right, Jen's not interested, Adam. 195 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: Look good luck out there, man. I can't wait for 196 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:42,959 Speaker 1: the special. Let me know where it airs.