1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: don't know y'all at all at all. Soon given them 3 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: black busy listening to me. 4 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 2: To don't joy. 5 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 3: Ye joy. 6 00:00:53,640 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 4: May have you got to do that? I love you. 7 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 4: Turn you. 8 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 5: Gotta turn. 9 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 2: I can't. 10 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: I got to turn the mouth the turn I probably 11 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: got to turn the mouth the turn out, turn the money. 12 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 6: Looking me. 13 00:01:55,760 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: Come come on, you'll think that, Uh huh, I sure will. 14 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 6: Good morning everybody you're listening to the voice, Come on, 15 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 6: dig me now. 16 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: One and only Steve Harley got a radio show today. 17 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 6: It's real simple for everybody that's trying to become successful 18 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 6: on any level, in any arena, any genre. I don't 19 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,679 Speaker 6: care what it is. If you're trying to be successful, 20 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 6: this message is for you. Let me help you understand 21 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 6: something real clear. You ain't gonna make it the way 22 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 6: you want to, and you're not going to make it 23 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 6: to the heights that's fully out there and available for 24 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 6: you without God. And I'm just keep it real simple 25 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 6: and clean for you today. You're not going to make 26 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 6: it the way you want to, and you're not going 27 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 6: to get to the heights that's available to you without God. 28 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 6: You have to get this through your head. You can 29 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 6: try it if you want to, because I did. I'm 30 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 6: here to tell you I am talking purely from experience. 31 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 6: Here you can try it without God, and you can 32 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 6: see how far you can get. Will you have some 33 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 6: measures of success? Of course you will. Will it feel 34 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 6: like days like you might make it? Of course you will. 35 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 6: But let me ask you a question, though. What you're 36 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:23,679 Speaker 6: gonna do about them days when you feel like you 37 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 6: ain't gonna make it. When you're gonna do about them 38 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 6: days where it feel like there are no answers to 39 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:30,359 Speaker 6: your questions. What you're gonna do about them days? What 40 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 6: you're gonna do about them days when everybody laughing at you, 41 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 6: turn against you. What you're gonna do about them, days 42 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 6: when you just don't see no way through it? What 43 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 6: you're gonna do about them days? I got the sunshine? 44 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 6: You know, sunshine cool? Everybody got friends? When it's sunny outside. 45 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 6: You want some friends, hit the lotto, You wanna get 46 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 6: rid of them friends, Go ask for some help. 47 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: Man. 48 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 6: I'm talking about man. They scattered like roaches when lights 49 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 6: come on. I'm trying to tell you, so, now here 50 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 6: we go again. You can do this without God. Now, 51 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 6: because I've done it and you can have yourself some 52 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 6: measure success. Let me even hip you to a little 53 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 6: bit closer, though, let me tell you why you are 54 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 6: doing it without God and having some measure of success. 55 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: Can I tell you why? 56 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 6: Because of God's grace and mercy to us, because of 57 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 6: his grace and mercy trying to keep us in spite 58 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 6: of ourself for the real mission that He really got 59 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 6: for us. See that's the truth of the matter now 60 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 6: now what we're talking about, nasty See. So yeah, yeah, 61 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 6: you can do it without God and you can have 62 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 6: some measure of success without God. And yeah, you know, 63 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 6: yeah you got your little degree and everything, or yeah 64 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:38,119 Speaker 6: you completed the program God, all that, YadA, YadA, YadA. 65 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 6: But don't you know something. It's because of God's grace 66 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 6: and mercy that he helps us anyway, well, even when 67 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 6: we ain't asking for help, When he bails us out anyway, 68 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 6: when wein't even ask him to be bailed out. You 69 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 6: know why, because He love us that much that he 70 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 6: would allow us to exist until we get our mind 71 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 6: together where he could take us away, really trying to 72 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 6: take us. Let's get this real straighting clear today You 73 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 6: can do this without God if you want to. But 74 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 6: I am telling you to get to where you really 75 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 6: want to be and to be all that God has 76 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 6: for you. You got to have God. That is no 77 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 6: ifs ads, but about it. And let me tell you 78 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 6: this here. I don't really care what nobody. 79 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 1: Then told you. 80 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 6: Are you listening to me? I don't care what they say. 81 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 6: Don't get this thing twisted. They got these people out 82 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 6: here talking about they illuminatis and all. Listen, man, don't 83 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 6: listen to me. Don't get caught in this mess. Don't 84 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:38,239 Speaker 6: get caught in no foolishness. You were created by God. 85 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 6: God created you and your soul. We were all created 86 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 6: in His image, all of us. Don't get to talking 87 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 6: about you. 88 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 1: Finish. Cut a deal with the devil and all you 89 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: ain't cutting no deal with nobody. 90 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 7: Man. 91 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: The devil don't do deals. He one sided. I'm taking 92 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: you to hell. You going to hell. 93 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 6: You're burning here, that's his deal. I want your soul. 94 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 6: I want you to lose hope. I want you to 95 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 6: take your life. I want you to take some other 96 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 6: people's lives. I want you to feel hopeless. I want 97 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 6: you to realize that it ain't no God, that's his 98 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 6: whole deal. His whole deal is negative. Oh he can 99 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 6: talk you in the deal in drugs if you want to. 100 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 6: But let me tell you. 101 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: Something about this. 102 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 6: I watch these shows all the time, drug inc And 103 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 6: all this here cocaine mafia. Everybody on now go to 104 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 6: jail and get killed. Our prisons is filled today with 105 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 6: our young boys because they thought they can outslick the system. 106 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 6: They thought they had away, they thought they sitting up 107 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 6: been here, and they failed. For the old cliche, man, 108 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 6: I gotta do what I gotta do, I gotta get 109 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 6: this money. Well, the only reason you gotta do what 110 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 6: you gotta do is because, like I say all the time, 111 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 6: you didn't do what you were supposed to do. It 112 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 6: is but because of His grace and mercy that we exist, 113 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 6: and God is just taking care of you, looking out 114 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 6: for you. Got some angels and camped around you until 115 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 6: you get your mind right so he can get you 116 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 6: where you're going. But now I want you to understand something. 117 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 6: There's a cost and a consequence and a penial for 118 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 6: everything we do. This outside the will of God. That's 119 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 6: for all of us. All of us have consequences, penalties 120 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 6: and everything that we got to deal with outside of 121 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 6: the will of God. Understand that clearly. Don't get this 122 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 6: thing twisted sideways. You understand me. 123 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 3: You know. 124 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 6: I heard a young man tell me one day. He said, Steve, 125 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 6: you know, man, I just don't see how God looking 126 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 6: out for me, if he would allow all these things 127 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 6: to happen to me. I'm having such a hard time 128 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 6: in my life. I really don't see how there's a 129 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 6: God looking out for me. I lived a young man. 130 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 6: I said, in the man, ask you something. Man, you're 131 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 6: still breathing. He said, yeah, I'm standing here talking to you. 132 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 6: I said, you're still free. He said what you mean. 133 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 6: I said, you ain't locked up, are you? He said no, 134 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 6: I'm standing here talking to you. I said, where you 135 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 6: get them clothes from? 136 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: I bought him. I said, well, you bought them with 137 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: what I bought them with money. I said where you 138 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: get the money from? Young Joe. 139 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 6: So I got job, mister I got a job. I said, well, 140 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 6: well where you live though, he'said, I got apartment. I 141 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 6: said where you get the apartment from, mister Harvey, I'm working. 142 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 6: I got an apartment. 143 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: I got a job. 144 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 6: I said, okay, okay, So now this this God ain't 145 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 6: looking out for you. Think finish, finish telling me what 146 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 6: you're telling me. Well, see, man, I'm having it real 147 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 6: hard right now. I said, hey, hey, man, are you hungry? 148 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 6: Have you had lunch yet? He's yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 149 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 6: already had lunch. 150 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. 151 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 6: I said, oh, okay, okay, so gone finish telling me 152 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 6: about this how God ain't looking out for you? He said, oh. 153 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 6: And you know, man, every every time I try to 154 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 6: do something, it seemed like it go wrong for me. 155 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 6: I said, but let them let man something man, I said, 156 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 6: every time it go wrong for you, I say, somehow 157 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 6: you survive it. He said, yeah, yeah, I survive in 158 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:41,559 Speaker 6: some kind of way, but it's still be all messed 159 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 6: up on me. I said, but but you still got 160 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,679 Speaker 6: through it though, he said yeah. I said, okay, man, 161 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 6: gone finish telling me how God ain't looking out for you? 162 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 6: And he stopped. He said, hey, miss Harvey, He said, 163 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 6: how come every time I tell you something that's going wrong, 164 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 6: you keep telling me God looking out for me? I said, 165 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 6: because you're still here, man, I said, See, you don't 166 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 6: understand it. I said, you see to think that you're 167 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,559 Speaker 6: supposed to just you're supposed to skate through life. That 168 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 6: is all supposed to go how you want it, any 169 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 6: kind of way, I said, Man, thisesus the test to 170 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 6: your faith, I said, God looking out for you the 171 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 6: whole time. I said, every time you tell me something 172 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 6: going wrong, you seem to turn around and tell me 173 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 6: how you survived that. You keep telling me what ain't 174 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 6: going right, but you keep telling me all these things 175 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:21,439 Speaker 6: you have. I said, man, so what you gotta do 176 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 6: is you got to stop looking at the what you 177 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 6: ain't got column and start focusing on what you do 178 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 6: have column. But if you ain't happy with nothing he'd 179 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:30,719 Speaker 6: have done for you, you wanted to keep piling stuff on. 180 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 6: I said, you fail in the test, young man. The 181 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 6: test is are you grateful for where you are right now? 182 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 6: So I could give you more so we can move forward. 183 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 6: He said, oh, Man, never even looked at like that. 184 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 6: I said, well, why don't you take your blessed self 185 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 6: on somewhere and sit down? He said, I think I'm 186 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 6: going over here and let you finish talking. I said, 187 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 6: thank you. So sometimes you just got to look at 188 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 6: what you do God, folks, that's all it is. Okay, 189 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 6: you can't make it with our God, y'all you got 190 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 6: me today. All right, let's be clear, let's go. 191 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 8: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 192 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. 193 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 6: It it's here, the Steve Harvey Morning Show sits upon 194 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 6: us another great day, another opportunity, another blessing. Man, How 195 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 6: good is it to be alive? How good is it 196 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:20,719 Speaker 6: to be filled with another opportunity? To be given so 197 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:25,319 Speaker 6: much grace? Whatever measure of health you may have, you 198 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 6: have it the ability to rhyme, reason or think, Oh Man, 199 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 6: thank you Lord. 200 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 1: I didn't take a lot of time to say. 201 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 6: Thank you this morning, so I'm stopping with a humble 202 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,719 Speaker 6: heart to say thank you, Heavenly Father for all the 203 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 6: great gifts and blessings you bestowed upon me. Man, I 204 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 6: would be nothing without you. That's a fact, Man. That 205 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 6: ain't radio. That's a fact. Steve Harvey Morning Show, Charlie Strawberry, 206 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:57,199 Speaker 6: Colin Farrell, Matha, the South Junior Government, name kills, faith 207 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 6: and the legend, Nephew Tomas Junior. 208 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 1: What's on your mind? Man's just stay right there. Let's 209 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:04,599 Speaker 1: talk about that. Your gratitude. Well, what are some of 210 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: the things that you thank God for that most people miss? 211 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 9: I don't know. 212 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 6: I don't really know what most people miss. I really don't. 213 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 6: But it's the simplest things, man. It's that sometimes we 214 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,959 Speaker 6: take for granted, like the ability to wake up in 215 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:20,719 Speaker 6: the morning. I don't know if you realize it, but 216 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 6: you really don't have the ability to wake up. Oh, 217 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 6: you can set your alarm, but you do understand that 218 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 6: the alarm is just annoyed that goes off at a 219 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:35,719 Speaker 6: specific time. Something. Somebody has to shake you to hear it. 220 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 6: Somebody has to give you the health and measure to 221 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 6: react to the sound that you set the time clock 222 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 6: for something. And it ain't iPhone people, it ain't Apple. 223 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 6: I can tell you that right now. Yeah, that that 224 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:55,599 Speaker 6: gift of life and breath and wake it up is 225 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 6: only given by a heavenly fog. He's in control of 226 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 6: all of that. Now circumvent that if you want to, 227 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 6: you can cut it short. You can live a life 228 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,319 Speaker 6: of crime and hatred and go around do what you 229 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:07,079 Speaker 6: want to do. You can cut your life short. You 230 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 6: can dishonor your mother and father. It's a lot of 231 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 6: things you can do to you know, man, to cut 232 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 6: your life short. But if you ain't shooting for that, 233 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 6: that's God. God gives you grace. 234 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 3: Man. 235 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,599 Speaker 6: So I think one of the basic things, man, is 236 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 6: just the ability to wake up and have a measure 237 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 6: of health. But I go so far as I think 238 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 6: I've gotten to the point now, Junior, where I'm able 239 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 6: to actually thank God for my hardships and my troubles. 240 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 1: Now that took some learning, Oh man, that took some learning. 241 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: But what I have learned though, is. 242 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:44,599 Speaker 6: During the trials and tribulations and the hardships, all that 243 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:48,439 Speaker 6: is is God preparing you for something you asked him for. 244 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: I look at my life and I look. 245 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 6: At it today and I realize, I say to myself, well, 246 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 6: God knew where I was going in life. I had 247 00:12:56,920 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 6: to be tough, so he toughened me in situations that 248 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 6: toughened me. He knew I was gonna have to be strong, 249 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 6: so he put me in a lot of situations that 250 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:09,079 Speaker 6: I had to be that strengthened. He knew I had 251 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 6: to be caring, so he put a lot of trouble 252 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 6: people in my path that I could understand and be 253 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,319 Speaker 6: so and show a sympathy for. 254 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: He knew all of that. 255 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 6: He knew that I was going to carry a heavy load, 256 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 6: so he made my backstrong all that. 257 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: Man, it just makes sense. 258 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 6: So now, man, when I get into hardships, I said, okay, 259 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 6: he getting me ready? 260 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 1: He finish, flip a switch on me. 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Check out trainer games dot com for details. 275 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 10: All right, it is time now to start your morning 276 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 10: off with the Nephew and run that brank back. What 277 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 10: you got for us, nep y'all hold. 278 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 1: Tight here come hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach your Sandra. 279 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 3: This is she. 280 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 1: Hey, how you doing? I'm fine with this This is Brian. 281 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 11: This is Brian. I work with your sister Kieva. Okay, 282 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 11: we've met a couple of times. You've come out to 283 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 11: Happy Hour with us a couple of times, but that's 284 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 11: been you just had a. 285 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 12: Baby, right, Oh yeah, so that must have been a 286 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 12: long time ago. I sure did just have a baby, 287 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 12: she said. This is Brian. 288 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 11: Yeah, Brian, congratulations. How many months is it now? 289 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 12: It's been three months since I've had them? 290 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well congratulations to you. 291 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 11: Listen, we we're putting together a pot luck Christmas party 292 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 11: and we wanted to invite you out. 293 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 12: Oh okay, is this some kind of surprise or something? 294 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 11: Well, I I you know what I'm My job is 295 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 11: to call around since it's a pot luck and make 296 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 11: sure we get everybody to bring something. What I wanted 297 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 11: to do is I told her she should invite her sister. 298 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 11: I'm sure your sister. I was just saying you probably 299 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 11: hadn't been able to get out since the baby, and 300 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 11: maybe you would want to get out. 301 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: A little bit. 302 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 12: Yeah you said that, I've been trapped in this house 303 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 12: with this baby. Oh and he oh, he's such a 304 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 12: greedy baby. But yeah, I'm here a lot This is 305 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 12: like my second child, and I'm telling you he was 306 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 12: nothing like the first one. But I haven't been out. 307 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 12: When is the party. 308 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 1: It's gonna be next week, next Friday. 309 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 11: We're gonna throw it and we're not trying to do 310 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 11: anything too late, probably around six o'clock. Everybody's gonna leave 311 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 11: work a little early, but we're gonna all bring a 312 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 11: little something to contribute to the party, you know, whatever 313 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 11: type of food or drinks or whatever. So we just 314 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 11: wanted to reach out and give you an invitation. 315 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 12: I just need to see if I can get a 316 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 12: baby sitter. I haven't had to use a babysitter yet, 317 00:15:57,680 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 12: but I'll try. 318 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 2: I'll do my best for me. 319 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 12: It's my sister and her friends, so i'd be glad 320 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 12: to come. So you said it's pot luck. What are 321 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 12: y'all bringing? 322 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 11: Well, some people are bringing finger food, some people are 323 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 11: bringing desserts, nachos and things like that. So I guess 324 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 11: a little bit of everything, and uh, everybody's just in 325 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 11: the Christmas spirit. 326 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 1: We just gonna have a good time. 327 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 12: Well do I need to cook it myself or can't 328 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 12: I just order something to have it delivered or something 329 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 12: like that, you know, I'm food with this baby. I 330 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 12: can't get too much done while i'm here, but I'd 331 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 12: be glad to contribute. 332 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 1: Uh well, actually we're interested in getting some eggnog. 333 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 12: Uh yeah, I can probably I could send my husband 334 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 12: out to get some because you know, NaN's just school 335 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 12: a specialty shop. They make some good homemade ignog. I 336 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 12: could do eggnogs. 337 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 11: Well, well, hang on, we didn't. We didn't want anything 338 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 11: from a specialty shop. We're real particular about having good eggnog. 339 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 11: We've always had good eggnog every year when we throw 340 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 11: the big pot luck Christmas party. We wanted to see 341 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 11: if you didn't mind making some eggnog from scratch. But 342 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 11: you know, if you if you could really really help 343 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 11: us out, you know, using using breast milk to do it. 344 00:16:58,760 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 2: Well, they make the. 345 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 12: Best milk over there. I know they use whole milk. 346 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 12: Sometimes they use that butter cream milk. You know what 347 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 12: I should get my aunt to make because she got 348 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 12: a real good recipe and I know she used the 349 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 12: best milk. Is I can get her to make thumb? 350 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 4: Is that? 351 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 12: Okay? 352 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:13,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so your mom has what kind of milk? 353 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:16,399 Speaker 12: My ain't tea? She makes the best eggnog, and I 354 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 12: know she us like whole milk and buttermilk and stuff. 355 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 12: That's what I was thinking. I don't know told you, 356 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 12: but no, no, no, no, no, no no. 357 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:26,159 Speaker 11: We want some breast milk, not the best milk. We 358 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 11: want breast. Aren't you breastfeeding? 359 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:32,919 Speaker 12: You you say breast as in b r east, breast milk. 360 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 1: Breast milk. 361 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 12: Yes, yes, Wait a minute, wait a minute, yeah, I'm breastfeeding. 362 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 12: But breast milk is for babies. Adun't people don't supposed 363 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:40,880 Speaker 12: to drink that. If you if you not know anything, 364 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 12: you're not supposed to bress milk. 365 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 11: Breast milk is the best milk. So what we was 366 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 11: trying to do is get it. Get the eggnog made 367 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:48,640 Speaker 11: with breast milk, and that's what we want. 368 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 12: Brian, you say your name is Brian, Yes, I'm Brian. Okay, Brian, 369 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,160 Speaker 12: you must be white because because black folks don't drink 370 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 12: breast milk that's for babies. Okay, I am not making 371 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 12: eggs with breast milk. 372 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:02,160 Speaker 4: Now. 373 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 12: Breast milk is not what you get. That is for 374 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 12: my newborn infants. That sounds nasty, unstounded. Why would I 375 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 12: do that to other people have to have somebody to do. 376 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:12,679 Speaker 1: I mean, is there what you can like pump out 377 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 1: two gallons for us? 378 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 12: I mean what we're about to end this conversation. That 379 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 12: is not something I'm about to do. Okay, I am 380 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 12: not pumping milk for some Christmas party. That that is nasty. Okay, 381 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 12: somebody gonna call it the health's apartment on y'all bring 382 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:30,880 Speaker 12: them milk up there to make some eggnog? 383 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 2: What does that? We don't do that? 384 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 12: This ain't no feet of village with my milk, you 385 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:37,360 Speaker 12: know what, ma'am? 386 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:38,119 Speaker 1: I mean. 387 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 11: I wasn't trying to offend you. I just wanted to 388 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,239 Speaker 11: see if it was something that you would do for us. 389 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 11: You know, maybe you could, you could squeeze out a 390 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 11: couple of gallons and we could. 391 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 12: I'm past offended. I ain't squeezing out a table spool 392 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,640 Speaker 12: of breast milk to be donating to some Christmas party? 393 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 2: Does? 394 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 13: Yeah? 395 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 12: You got me something you need to tell Keith. First 396 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 12: of all, I don't even know why he would give 397 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 12: you my number to invite me to some She couldn't 398 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:02,200 Speaker 12: have She couldn't have know you're gonna ask me to 399 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 12: make some egnog with real breast milks. 400 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:05,400 Speaker 1: I didn't didn't. 401 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 11: I didn't tell Keith exactly what I wanted, but I 402 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 11: didn't think it was gonna be this much of a 403 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 11: problem that you would have a problem with a couple 404 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 11: of gallons so we could have a good time with 405 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 11: real good milk. 406 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:17,159 Speaker 12: Well, Brian, y'all work in corporate America. Surely you are 407 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 12: smarter than that to be calling somebody asking me for 408 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 12: some breast milk. 409 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 2: Who does that? 410 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 12: What you can do if you want some eggnog, you 411 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:25,159 Speaker 12: could stop at the grocery store and get you some 412 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 12: infa milk some similar and mixing agnog yourself if that's 413 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 12: what you choose to do. But my breast milk, you 414 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 12: can't even pay for it. Okay, I don't get down 415 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:34,920 Speaker 12: like that. That's some if I ever heard of it, 416 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 12: you too. It tells you be calling around asking people 417 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 12: for milk. 418 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 11: You're gonna be this selfish that you can't loan us 419 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 11: a little bit of breast milk so we can have 420 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 11: a great time with some eggnog at the party. 421 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 12: Self selfish loan breast milk? 422 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 1: Okay, you know what? 423 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:51,959 Speaker 11: You know what concerned, don't worry about We don't even 424 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 11: want you at the party. If you're gonna bring the 425 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 11: breast milk, then don't come to the party. 426 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:56,919 Speaker 12: Right, I don't need to come here on a Sunkey party. 427 00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:59,360 Speaker 12: And you tell Keiva this is some st even. 428 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,119 Speaker 11: Have her friend call I am the party coordinator, and 429 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 11: Keev knows that that's and I tried to be nice 430 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 11: enough to invite you. 431 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,120 Speaker 12: I offended. I am offended. Okay, would you ask your 432 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 12: wife or your girlfriend or whoever your baby mam is 433 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,359 Speaker 12: to do something like that? Would you expect somebody to 434 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 12: ask herr You're just respecting me asking me for some 435 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 12: like that. Okay, you know what, Brian, what is your 436 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:19,919 Speaker 12: last name? Because I'm failing to remember who you are 437 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 12: because I'm sure gonna. 438 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,360 Speaker 1: Ask, Well, Brian ain't really my name. 439 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 12: I didn't really want to tell you my real name, 440 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 12: so so you playing on the phone, then you probably 441 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:28,359 Speaker 12: don't even know my sister. 442 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 4: Who is this? 443 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I talk to your sister about twenty minutes ago. 444 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 1: I talked to Keith. 445 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:34,920 Speaker 12: You may't talk to my Kiva because this is a 446 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 12: I know that too clearly. 447 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:38,159 Speaker 1: Okay, but I want to go and tell you this here. 448 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 12: You know what you're gonna get off my phone. That's 449 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 12: what you're gonna do. 450 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 11: Keeble told me the call because see, I am nephew 451 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:46,200 Speaker 11: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and your sister 452 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:48,360 Speaker 11: Cable got me the prank phone call. 453 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 12: You you talking about that nephew timent's on the TV 454 00:20:51,480 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 12: in the radio. I dear this KB real who oh 455 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:06,880 Speaker 12: my god? 456 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:07,680 Speaker 2: Oh you real? 457 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 12: Funny? 458 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 13: Okay, exactly. 459 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 11: I gotta ask you, baby, what's the baddest that, I mean, 460 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 11: the baddest radio show in. 461 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 12: The last, the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 462 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,160 Speaker 1: You can thank me later. 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Explore Sono Soundbard, speakers and more at 478 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:09,120 Speaker 11: Sonos dot com. 479 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: Once again, there's Sonos dot com. 480 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 10: It is time to ask the clo our cheap Love 481 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 10: Officer Steve Harvey. 482 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 1: Here we go. 483 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 10: Annie and Towson says, I've been married for thirty years 484 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 10: and I found out that my husband's cousin is not 485 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:33,399 Speaker 10: his blood cousin. She stayed at our house before, and 486 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,119 Speaker 10: he's been to New York to visit her without me. 487 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 8: Did he hide this from me for years because she's 488 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:39,879 Speaker 8: his side? 489 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 1: Check? 490 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 6: Hm, No, not just ain't his blood because you know, 491 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 6: people we had that in it and everybody has that 492 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 6: play cubina all like that, you know, as long as 493 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 6: they don't play too much. 494 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 1: It's what you yeah, y'all play too much, you know, 495 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: but that. 496 00:22:56,720 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 13: Is you know, Okay, all right, all right? 497 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:06,360 Speaker 10: Moving on to Chandria and Lansing Chandrier. Right, So, I'm 498 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 10: twenty eight years old and I have a dog walking business. 499 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 10: One of my pet owners was home sick Wednesday, and 500 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 10: I went out and bought him some cough medicine. His 501 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 10: wife fired me the next day. Was I wrong for 502 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 10: trying to be a good Samaritan? 503 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 6: Well, you wasn't wrong, but he cost you your job. 504 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 6: He's gonna stick with them dogs. Yeah, you just walk 505 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:27,160 Speaker 6: them dogs. You don't wear it. But you don't take 506 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,879 Speaker 6: care of nobody. Husband. You take care of dog. You 507 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 6: had a dog watching service. You don't have a husband 508 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 6: care business. Point in life, you gotta understand. You can overpeal. 509 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 6: It ain't your business. He walked down there, you know, 510 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 6: you walked your little dude down there and bought some 511 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 6: cough medicine. 512 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 1: He ain't crazy, you know. You go, I just walked 513 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 1: these dogs. Now for dog cough. The dogs jail if 514 00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 1: the dog cough. 515 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, you don't help out the big dog. You just 516 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 6: work with that little dog on that leaf. You gol right, 517 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:08,200 Speaker 6: you're over helping. Yeah, I heard him from so I 518 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:09,399 Speaker 6: went to the store and got him. 519 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:10,400 Speaker 1: That ain't your business. 520 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:11,719 Speaker 4: Are you out? 521 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,160 Speaker 1: Do you see all that all over carried? It ain't 522 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:14,920 Speaker 1: your business. 523 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:16,160 Speaker 13: Let's and learn. 524 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 6: You can't give everybody on the side of the road 525 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 6: to ride. Hello, okay, all right? 526 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 14: Taking care of somebody else, husband man, Yeah, what you're 527 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 14: doing just dog. 528 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 10: Moving on to Felicity and Denver. Felicity says, my husband 529 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:37,679 Speaker 10: heard him coughing. 530 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 1: The wife heard him coughing. 531 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 10: Denver said, my husband watches a lot of porn and 532 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 10: he's in the shower for a long time most nights. 533 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 10: We have sex often, so I'm getting I'm getting satisfied. 534 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 10: Why does he prefer to do that for himself when 535 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 10: I am here, ready and willing to please him? 536 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 8: Is this normal? 537 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: Well, you know, m let me this right here. Pleasing 538 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: It's in the eye of the beholder. Okay, that's pretty much. 539 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 6: I mean, just because you ready, willing and able. Uh 540 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,680 Speaker 6: you know, abel is a root word of ability. 541 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:35,880 Speaker 1: She said, Yeah, she's getting satisfied. Oh yeah, oh he Well, 542 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:41,120 Speaker 1: you know I been not going that show. You been 543 00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:43,960 Speaker 1: not right now? What he's doing? 544 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 6: Well, you know, he watched a lot of points. You 545 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 6: know sometimes you know, you can you can overdo anything, 546 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,480 Speaker 6: too much anything. Yeah, and he could be overdoing it. 547 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 6: He just you know, there's a term called nympho maniac 548 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:00,359 Speaker 6: might want to look Yeah. 549 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 10: Okay, all right, all right, last one, Steve, This is 550 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 10: Eddie and Montgomery. Eddie says, I am a single retired coach. 551 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 10: I love to eat, so I have to work out. 552 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 10: I'm dating a thirty seven year old woman that loves 553 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 10: to cook, but she doesn't work out. She's in pretty 554 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:30,520 Speaker 10: good shape, but she's been gaining weight. How do I 555 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 10: encourage her to get in the gym before she gains 556 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:35,399 Speaker 10: any more weight? 557 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 11: Well? 558 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,120 Speaker 1: See is hard if? Okay? Now he says he works out. 559 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, he loves to eat, so he has to 560 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 8: work out. 561 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 1: Take her to the gym with you? That's you don't 562 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 1: want to go? She do not want to go. I'm 563 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,280 Speaker 1: telling you she don't want to go. Well, you're right 564 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:56,159 Speaker 1: about that, you know. Oh go ahead, see what happened. 565 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 13: She loves to cook. 566 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:00,040 Speaker 1: She could become a workout. 567 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 3: You know. 568 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:07,640 Speaker 6: Just notice this. Things slow down at the house. Might 569 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 6: have something to do with size. That's all I'm saying. 570 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 1: It's hard to know. 571 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,640 Speaker 8: How does he encourage her to get in the gym? 572 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 6: That's what you got to encourage, dog. You got to 573 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 6: make it a part of it. Hey, look, hey, look, hey, 574 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 6: let's get let's let's make a pack. Let's get healthy 575 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 6: this year. Let's really work on our health so we 576 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 6: can stick around to be that for each other. You 577 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 6: got to use positive reinforcement. You cannot use negative statements 578 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 6: to get a positive result, use positive reinforcement with it. 579 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 6: That's the only thing I can do. Hey, baby, look, 580 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:43,160 Speaker 6: I've been noticing we both been needing you a great cook. 581 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 6: But we got the offset this with some workout. Baby, 582 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 6: But we're gonna mess around. We ain't gonna get need 583 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 6: clothes no more. 584 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 1: We ain't gonna be a be no. We know already 585 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 1: had to replace this mattress. 586 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 3: So there you go. 587 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 6: Because you know, every time I get it to bed, 588 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 6: I end up rolling over to your side. You know, 589 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,120 Speaker 6: I'm hard to sleep on this slope. 590 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:10,880 Speaker 2: Too much. 591 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, see, I tried to work on it, but y'all 592 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,359 Speaker 6: just kept y'all stayed on too long. What is the 593 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:22,880 Speaker 6: next question? See, I got time. Then it's time to elaborate. Then, 594 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,920 Speaker 6: yeah all, we got nine your bigger It's just you 595 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 6: know you're gonna lose your man now, let's just gonna 596 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 6: tell it all. You know, eat your way out of 597 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 6: the relationship. Yeahr The way through a man's heart is 598 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 6: through his stomach. 599 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, And the way out of man's heart is through 600 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 1: your stumber. A couple. 601 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 6: You know, I try to use words that will help somebody, 602 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 6: you know, I try to find the perfect way to 603 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 6: say it. The way through a man's heart is through 604 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 6: his stomach. The way out of a man's heart is 605 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:02,600 Speaker 6: through your stumbach. 606 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 13: Yeah, I hate you, but I love it. 607 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know sometimes you have. 608 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 6: To just you know, use what you got, you know, 609 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 6: talk to you, you know, and everything I got. I 610 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 6: got something about to pop off at the beginning of 611 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 6: the year. 612 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 1: Gonna help everybody. But you know, until then, you know, 613 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: thank you. 614 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:25,000 Speaker 6: It's Steve Harvey, Martin shaw Man. You know, men are 615 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:28,400 Speaker 6: really really not Nurturing is not really what we do. 616 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 1: It's not what you now. 617 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 6: He looking at a weaker. You need a bath. You 618 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,480 Speaker 6: ain't walk in now. You want some most soup and 619 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 6: keep the game on. He all in here, you know, 620 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 6: game is all what they got to do. He needs 621 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 6: to be lost. 622 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 1: And help. 623 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,960 Speaker 6: He took that. I got to get you to that bathroom. 624 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 6: We got a problem, a problem. Yeah, if you start 625 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 6: for I get out that dough. I don't need to 626 00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 6: be in here for this waver whoa baby? 627 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 11: Who? 628 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 1: Who? 629 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:01,680 Speaker 13: Will? 630 00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 1: Wait? Okay, I took too long getting you in here, 631 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 1: expected stupid. You have you got to wait, yeah, you have, 632 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 1: You got to wait till I get out here. Did 633 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 1: I take too long getting your here? 634 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 13: Baby? 635 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,120 Speaker 1: As soon as I set you down, you just started. 636 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 1: I I gotta get out to. 637 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 15: Do Steve Show coming up right after you're listening Steve 638 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 15: Hardy Morning Show, ladies and gentlemen. 639 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 1: Sister Odell, Hey, oh. 640 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 13: Me bye, wrap my bob. 641 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: I'm going well, well, well, good morning is everyone. 642 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 14: You know it's my favorite holiday. It just pushed me 643 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:12,680 Speaker 14: in such good chill with everyone and everything. Harley, Hey, 644 00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 14: sister Odell, Happy holidays. 645 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 1: How you doing today, Shirley? 646 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 10: I am doing well, sister Odell. I love the holidays. 647 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 10: Merry Christmas to you. 648 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 1: Go me too, and that's real sweeties. Hey boy with 649 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 1: that high boys? Hid you on? Is this Dowdall? 650 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 2: Stand up there? 651 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 11: Yeah? 652 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 14: Steal up there and my real high boys you got there? Well, 653 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 14: might as well say hi to the happiest one on 654 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 14: the show for Christmas. 655 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 1: Hey, look el hello, good morning, good morning morning, morning 656 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 1: mornings to everyone. So what can I do for you 657 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 1: all today? What did you want? 658 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,400 Speaker 14: Any special requests? I mean the given holiday spirit to 659 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 14: move well? 660 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 10: Since you tell first of all, I know you have 661 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 10: some holiday traditions, like you know when you open your gifts, 662 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 10: so on Christmas or what do you do Christmas Eve? 663 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 10: Putting up your tree? Things like that, you know, what 664 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 10: what do you yeah, what's your Christmas like? And then 665 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 10: you know, if we have time, and I hope we did, 666 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:23,080 Speaker 10: you know. 667 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 6: Most well, you know, Sweeting, most of my family separated, 668 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 6: you know, going their own ways and their hair cheerers 669 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:31,240 Speaker 6: and everything. 670 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: So if I tried to see all of them, I'll 671 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,960 Speaker 1: just be on the plane all day. So some of 672 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 1: them's come over and you know, special time with me. 673 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 14: I put my tree up right after Thanksgiving though, Oh yes, yes, ma'am, yes, ma'am. 674 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 1: So I don't actually put it up myself. I has peoples. 675 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 1: Oh okay, wow, I didn't know that. Well do you 676 00:32:55,440 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 1: get people? Well, I can see that these people that 677 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 1: helps me? 678 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:02,720 Speaker 8: Yeah, she might need a little help. 679 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 14: I has people that helps me, you know, like you 680 00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 14: and you the last person need to ask about who 681 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 14: got people? 682 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 1: Where Santa Claus get you from. 683 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 12: From? 684 00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:21,960 Speaker 3: Well? 685 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 8: Do you cook anything special? 686 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: Sister hotel? 687 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:26,360 Speaker 8: Like a favorite? 688 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 6: I cooked? You know, I'm really good at dressing in yams. 689 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 6: I love dressing and yams. And I buy my turkey 690 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:39,000 Speaker 6: now already cooked from honey bait. That way, I ain't 691 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 6: got to be in there watching it, you know, honey 692 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 6: bake do it? 693 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:50,120 Speaker 10: Uh huh uh okay, okay, all right, well you want 694 00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 10: to bless us with the song since you're here. 695 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 8: I mean, I know you love Christmas songs, love. 696 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 1: Finish, I see it all. 697 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:26,360 Speaker 16: Oh jeez, did you like jingle bells? 698 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:27,080 Speaker 1: Cis Jo Dell? 699 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:31,359 Speaker 14: Well, you know the original version. They changed it when 700 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,400 Speaker 14: white people started singing, what. 701 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:34,399 Speaker 6: Do you mean? 702 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 1: What do you mean like jingle bells? 703 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 13: Jingle bells? 704 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 8: That's nothing. 705 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:41,280 Speaker 1: Originally used to just used to be jingle bells. 706 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 6: Used to go like this, jangle ah, jangle ah, jangle. 707 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:54,600 Speaker 1: Ah, jangle jingle lord, jangle bell. 708 00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:04,760 Speaker 6: Jangle bells, jangle bells, jingle all away. That's the jangle bells, 709 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,759 Speaker 6: jangle bells, jangle all the way. 710 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,040 Speaker 1: Then, you know, white folks couldn't do it, so they 711 00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:13,640 Speaker 1: had to simplify, you know. 712 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:20,280 Speaker 8: What, Yeah, yeah, what's your version of the bells? 713 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 13: Don't like you? 714 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:23,320 Speaker 4: You know? 715 00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 1: Okay? Just white? Yeah, they kill kill all the songs 716 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,439 Speaker 1: in it. You know that was off the red nose. 717 00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:37,840 Speaker 1: Yeah that's a good. Well, you know. 718 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:43,359 Speaker 6: That's really not a Christmas song because you know, every 719 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 6: done knows rain deers really can't fly, you know. 720 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 1: Don't tell me you can't fly, no rainer. Well, y'all 721 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 1: one lying to the kids, But what if you want 722 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: to meet it? So tell we have children, learn you care? 723 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:03,840 Speaker 13: Yeah, I was, well, you know. 724 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:11,920 Speaker 1: As they seen him fly, have a heart, sister Odell. 725 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 1: Now come on, this is for the kids. 726 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 8: What about likeness I. 727 00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 14: Have at Okay for the kids. Okay, so they listen 728 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 14: to me for the kids' listening. This is what's happening. 729 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 14: There's a white man that puts on the suit and 730 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 14: gets in the sled with twelve raindeer and they pull 731 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 14: him all across the hood and he slams on people's 732 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:37,400 Speaker 14: roof and theyver been shot and comes down the chimney 733 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,200 Speaker 14: and it fetched down everybody chimney. Now if you ain't 734 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,399 Speaker 14: got a chimney, he comes through the windows or under 735 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 14: the door. 736 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 1: And then he leaves all these presents, the stuff you 737 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,279 Speaker 1: don't want. And that's what he is. 738 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 6: He's just saying across and if you ain't ever got 739 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,440 Speaker 6: what you wanted. That pretty much explains. 740 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:03,080 Speaker 1: Oh wow. 741 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,400 Speaker 10: All I can say to that is thank you, Sister Odell. 742 00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:17,839 Speaker 10: Oh bunch, can you tell them what's coming? 743 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 1: Up next week. 744 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:25,279 Speaker 10: I guess you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 745 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,320 Speaker 10: Hey is Shirley Strawberry. You know who taught me my 746 00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 10: ABC's and what it means to be kind Sesame Street. 747 00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:39,839 Speaker 10: Sesame Workshop, the nonprofit behind Sesame Street, is still doing 748 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 10: that for kids everywhere. Elmo and Cookie Monster are out 749 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:47,120 Speaker 10: there teaching kindness, empathy and joy. But they need our 750 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:50,160 Speaker 10: help to keep it going. So the holiday season, visit 751 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,240 Speaker 10: Sesame dot org and donate what you can. Once again, 752 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 10: please visit Sesame dot org this holiday season because the 753 00:37:56,719 --> 00:38:00,839 Speaker 10: world needs Sesame and Sesame needs you time. 754 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 8: Now, Guys, for around it. 755 00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:02,919 Speaker 1: Would you rather? 756 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:09,239 Speaker 10: Would you rather a real or artificial Christmas tree? 757 00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:09,799 Speaker 1: Which one? 758 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:10,440 Speaker 3: Oh? 759 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 1: I don't even get to make that decision. My wife 760 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 1: made that one really hard way. I like, neither was washing? Okay, 761 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,239 Speaker 1: I ain't. That ain't a hard one. I'm artificial, you know. 762 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:24,239 Speaker 8: I'll look at his face, so smart his face, we know. 763 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:27,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, we know they don't pull. 764 00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:33,959 Speaker 6: Here's out of South Dakota, somewhere in yeahs. I'm looking 765 00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 6: at one of these trees out my window right now. 766 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,719 Speaker 6: Think about how he's gonna look in two years. 767 00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,600 Speaker 1: In your living room right here. 768 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:51,200 Speaker 10: Boy, all right, So would you rather sit with the 769 00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:57,640 Speaker 10: resting lion for ten minutes resting lion? Or would you rather, okay, now, 770 00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 10: would you rather run across a hungry alligator's back, run 771 00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 10: across his back, run across the hungry alligator's back, or 772 00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,640 Speaker 10: ship with the resting lion for ten minutes? 773 00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 11: That that that that that line is more rested than 774 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:15,320 Speaker 11: we think. I'm sorry, I'm going. I'm going across that 775 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,399 Speaker 11: alligator back. But I'm gonna keep on going. 776 00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, let me say something. He's gonna be hard. Push. 777 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 6: I'm going straight across his back. What I can't do 778 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:29,319 Speaker 6: is sit here for ten minutes on this line. First 779 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 6: of all, he gonna smell fear, then all this other 780 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:34,399 Speaker 6: stuff he gonna smell. 781 00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:35,600 Speaker 3: It. 782 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,879 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, there's too many smells. Hes gonna be good? 783 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,279 Speaker 1: Oh wow, it's going now. 784 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,360 Speaker 6: One of them might be so bad. He might just 785 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 6: pissed the line off and he just killed do it 786 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 6: laying up on my back like this, shouldn't shut up 787 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:55,600 Speaker 6: in here, deprecated on yourself, laying on my back. 788 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:59,520 Speaker 1: I'm okay. See what he got to that lunch? What 789 00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 1: a bunch? No, it's alligator. This alligating chances across the 790 00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:08,040 Speaker 1: alligator back. Ten minutes of. 791 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:08,800 Speaker 9: That line. 792 00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 1: The longest minutes of your life. 793 00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:16,640 Speaker 10: All right, would you rather have sex with someone who 794 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:20,680 Speaker 10: never showers? Or would you rather have sex with someone 795 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,160 Speaker 10: who never brushes their teeth? 796 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:22,759 Speaker 3: Oh? 797 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a question that don't brush their teeth. Can't 798 00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:27,360 Speaker 1: do this because I can get it. 799 00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:27,560 Speaker 4: I can. 800 00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:29,640 Speaker 1: I can get in a position where I'm not gonna 801 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:31,520 Speaker 1: be doing there. I won't even I won't even know. 802 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 1: You got them out. 803 00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 6: Now, you and you and I'm gonna put a mask on. 804 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,160 Speaker 6: I'm doing all the things we can do. I won't 805 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:39,400 Speaker 6: even know. 806 00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:42,759 Speaker 1: I ain't even got to see your faith. I got 807 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 1: in ninety five mask on. I'm good what you're doing? 808 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:48,280 Speaker 13: Shower? 809 00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't get around. This is no kind of 810 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 1: It's going to be horrible. That is the worst. 811 00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,360 Speaker 6: Staying at the foot of the bed and just frank, 812 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:08,400 Speaker 6: what is that today's rap? Hey, good morning. This is 813 00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,480 Speaker 6: your man, Steve Harvey, and what Christmas means to me 814 00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,759 Speaker 6: is a celebration. 815 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:16,920 Speaker 8: Of life, the birth, the life, the gift of giving. 816 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:19,399 Speaker 6: For my family, yours and the crew from the Steve 817 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,400 Speaker 6: Harvey Morning Show, Happy holidays. 818 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 8: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 819 00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: Santa is busy. 820 00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 6: And you know now because Santa is so busy some 821 00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 6: of the Mason's department stores. Now you got to make 822 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:43,000 Speaker 6: an appointment to see Santa. So I have the schedule 823 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 6: right here. 824 00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:48,600 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, it's time agone, so shut up. Ju 825 00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:51,200 Speaker 1: here it is you're listening. 826 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:58,279 Speaker 6: Come from nine am to eleven am. Santah is going 827 00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 6: see kids that have long lists. That's just from nine 828 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,480 Speaker 6: to eleven. No coming here at eleventh with no long list. 829 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:13,600 Speaker 6: We're just doing long lists from nine to eleven. 830 00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,120 Speaker 13: And Santa is warning you this. 831 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 6: Year, don't be repeating stuff you hear the other kids 832 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,840 Speaker 6: say making your list longer. 833 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:29,520 Speaker 13: Just read your list to Sennert to wait for it. 834 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:34,719 Speaker 6: At noon, Sanah will see all the kids that are 835 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 6: winers to win you. 836 00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:38,319 Speaker 1: Wine a lot. 837 00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 13: I don't shut your something way till noon. What time 838 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 13: is the. 839 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:58,920 Speaker 6: That's way of noon for the ones, not the whinings. 840 00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:07,160 Speaker 6: That's very difference. Why now between three and five, Santa 841 00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,920 Speaker 6: gonna deal with the kids that just won't sit still. 842 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:17,600 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, three kids that fidget kids and any any 843 00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:20,920 Speaker 1: children that might bite bite. 844 00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:25,160 Speaker 6: Because from three to one man we will have the 845 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:29,120 Speaker 6: Black Sant to sit in and he don't deal with 846 00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:34,600 Speaker 6: the kids. Let the bite and steal. You bite me, 847 00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:37,279 Speaker 6: I'm gonna bite you back. You know you gotta hear 848 00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:37,840 Speaker 6: stuff like that. 849 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:45,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna bite you back. How to grip them up? 850 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:46,800 Speaker 13: Okay? 851 00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:54,800 Speaker 1: Now from then until seven uhh, this is towards the 852 00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:55,640 Speaker 1: end of the day. 853 00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:03,520 Speaker 6: All loud criers and and kids that's afraid of samd. 854 00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,759 Speaker 1: We're gonna say, I'm scary later old and. 855 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,320 Speaker 6: So if you know your baby gonna holler loud and 856 00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,879 Speaker 6: a's afraid of Santa, bring them every day. Were gonna 857 00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,000 Speaker 6: on that day, we're gonna bring in a We're gonna 858 00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:21,120 Speaker 6: bring a skinnier Santa close in it so he ain't 859 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,880 Speaker 6: as imposing, and they ut down on some of the crime. 860 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:28,000 Speaker 6: But that's right after the Black Santa get through snatching 861 00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 6: a knocking cook. Then listen very carefully critical right before closing. Now, 862 00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:40,719 Speaker 6: we only gonna take ten of these a day, so 863 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:42,239 Speaker 6: you gotta make an appointment. 864 00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:47,359 Speaker 13: These are kids who pee on senter. 865 00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:52,000 Speaker 1: With your child, gonna take it ten to day he 866 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:53,640 Speaker 1: on senter. 867 00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:56,359 Speaker 6: This is at the end of the day, and we're 868 00:44:56,440 --> 00:45:01,960 Speaker 6: only gonna take ten. Santa got special gear maid. You're 869 00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:05,279 Speaker 6: gonna switch him out from the skinny center bring back 870 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:06,160 Speaker 6: the fat center. 871 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:08,759 Speaker 1: But he ain't really that fat. It's just he got 872 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:11,200 Speaker 1: on a lot of absorbing clothes. 873 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:17,640 Speaker 6: And so towards the end ten a day, that's all 874 00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:21,040 Speaker 6: we do it because we got enough absorbing pants on 875 00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:24,240 Speaker 6: them where he can soak up ten peas. 876 00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,839 Speaker 1: Okay, so we just doing ten. 877 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:29,879 Speaker 6: If your baby know be living in line, he gotta 878 00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,799 Speaker 6: come back tomorrow. We'll try to get him in there, 879 00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,440 Speaker 6: but it's at the end of the day. That way, 880 00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,000 Speaker 6: when Santa take his suit off, we can burn it. 881 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:42,080 Speaker 2: On a lot. 882 00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:47,280 Speaker 1: Huh. He thought about it. So that's our schedule. 883 00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:52,320 Speaker 6: So please, if your children fit in there anywhere, you 884 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,640 Speaker 6: know you'll be able to know where your child fits 885 00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,800 Speaker 6: in all that loud crying and all that. 886 00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:02,040 Speaker 1: You know when your child is on whiners, you know, 887 00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 1: kids with long. 888 00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:06,479 Speaker 6: Liss just no way you're child fitting, but especially those 889 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:10,239 Speaker 6: that peels from at the end of the day, only them. 890 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,160 Speaker 8: Going up next, we got the Nephew and the Frank 891 00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:19,880 Speaker 8: phone call for today. Right after this, you're listening to 892 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:21,840 Speaker 8: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 893 00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:27,640 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. 894 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,440 Speaker 10: Right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for 895 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,320 Speaker 10: today the subjects get a load of this. 896 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:36,520 Speaker 1: Guys. It's the d for me all right. 897 00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 10: We'll get into that just a little later. But the 898 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,080 Speaker 10: nephew is here with today's frank phone call. 899 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:41,880 Speaker 1: What you got for us? 900 00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 13: Nest? 901 00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:47,080 Speaker 11: Well, you know it's Christmas time, shy and Christmas decorations? 902 00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:52,520 Speaker 4: Okay, cat dog, if you could hello, I'm trying to 903 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:53,120 Speaker 4: reach cecil. 904 00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:55,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, this what's going on? Hey? 905 00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:56,680 Speaker 4: This many man? 906 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,279 Speaker 3: I live like about four five streets over from you. 907 00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:00,719 Speaker 4: This many you doing, brother? 908 00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:02,560 Speaker 2: I'm doing this now? How you doing? 909 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:03,200 Speaker 3: I'm good? 910 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:03,839 Speaker 4: Hey? 911 00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:06,720 Speaker 3: Uh, I see you you You got your Christmas. 912 00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:07,319 Speaker 4: Lights up right here? 913 00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:09,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got them up. I got my whole little 914 00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,520 Speaker 2: theme and everything set up. Man, it's it's looking really good. 915 00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:11,839 Speaker 4: Okay. 916 00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:14,000 Speaker 3: Let me let me ask you something man. The theme 917 00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 3: you got in your yard? Where you get that idea from? 918 00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:18,160 Speaker 2: What do you mean where I get them from? 919 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:18,960 Speaker 4: The idea? 920 00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:22,200 Speaker 3: Like you got the snowman, you got Santa Claus and 921 00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,359 Speaker 3: rain deals, you got your whole house decorated. You got 922 00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,879 Speaker 3: Jesus with the manger and the uh the wise men 923 00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:31,640 Speaker 3: around him. Where did you get your idea from. 924 00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,719 Speaker 2: I'm I'm lost what you're talking about? Man, you ask 925 00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:36,440 Speaker 2: me where I got a theme from? I mean you 926 00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:37,960 Speaker 2: got to imply for them. 927 00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,480 Speaker 3: I'm I'm asking you a question. Where did you get 928 00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 3: the idea from? 929 00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,840 Speaker 2: I made this up. I made up Jesus Jesus and 930 00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,440 Speaker 2: the you know that represents Christ. Man, you go with 931 00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,399 Speaker 2: the theme that Christmas base, man, and that's that's Christmas base. 932 00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:53,800 Speaker 2: Jesus is Christmas Jesus and just in Jerusalem and Bethlam 933 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:55,640 Speaker 2: and hey, what what what's going on? 934 00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:55,920 Speaker 12: Man? 935 00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 2: Who are you? Where you gonna get my number from? 936 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,360 Speaker 3: Any I'm I'm manny man, I'm many. I got I 937 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,000 Speaker 3: got your number from one of the people that live 938 00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:05,800 Speaker 3: on your street. And I'm just asking you are on 939 00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,600 Speaker 3: the reel where you get this idea from? 940 00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:11,160 Speaker 2: I made this idea? If I made this up? Man, 941 00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:13,640 Speaker 2: I made this up just the second time you asked 942 00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:14,879 Speaker 2: me where I get this idea from? 943 00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,359 Speaker 3: What you're trying to import, it's go the reel, deal dog, 944 00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:21,200 Speaker 3: the same thing you got if you come fourth streets over. 945 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:23,800 Speaker 3: I got the same thing in my yard. And it 946 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,960 Speaker 3: looked like you just stole my idea. And see what 947 00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:30,440 Speaker 3: you ain't gonna do is try to win Christmas yards 948 00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:33,560 Speaker 3: of the season, and you juste stole my idea. That's 949 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:34,600 Speaker 3: the problem I got with you. 950 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:38,280 Speaker 2: Now, the problem you got is lifing twist it. Okay 951 00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,120 Speaker 2: to see I put this together without it. I never 952 00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:44,560 Speaker 2: even heard of you, man, begin with. Secondly, I've been 953 00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:46,759 Speaker 2: doing this particular theme in my yard because I'm just 954 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:48,719 Speaker 2: staying over I'm just staying over here six years. 955 00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,120 Speaker 4: You ain't that You ain't had that theme last year. 956 00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,440 Speaker 2: You ain't had that mand this theme last year and 957 00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,840 Speaker 2: the year before. And I put my stuff in the 958 00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,000 Speaker 2: same place every time I put it down. 959 00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:59,680 Speaker 4: You did not have this last year. 960 00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:02,000 Speaker 2: Who are you to call me and tell me about 961 00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:03,840 Speaker 2: my theme and about my yard and what. 962 00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:04,480 Speaker 4: You got going. 963 00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:05,960 Speaker 2: I know you ain't copying there. 964 00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,080 Speaker 3: Man, I'm gonna tell you right now, and I ain't 965 00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:11,040 Speaker 3: finna go no further. You need to rearrange your theme 966 00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,200 Speaker 3: and get a different thing, because you got the same 967 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:14,040 Speaker 3: theme I got. 968 00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,960 Speaker 2: Now you need to rearrange your okay, because I ain't 969 00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:18,160 Speaker 2: rearranging jack over here. 970 00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:19,920 Speaker 4: Hey, man, let me tell you that if I got 971 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:21,799 Speaker 4: to come over there and they tell you him. Man, 972 00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:23,520 Speaker 4: I'm being real as real as I can. 973 00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:23,840 Speaker 2: Be with you. 974 00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:27,879 Speaker 3: If I got to come over there and unplugged if. 975 00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:29,880 Speaker 4: You got some we come well, if I got to 976 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:30,400 Speaker 4: come over to. 977 00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 3: Your house and unplugged some stuff. 978 00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:35,799 Speaker 2: Now now, now see if that thing my foot will 979 00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:38,120 Speaker 2: be getting up plugged from here. First of all, you 980 00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:39,960 Speaker 2: ain't gonna come on my street, in my house and 981 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:42,719 Speaker 2: just ditect me at all about anything that I got 982 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:46,200 Speaker 2: set up in my yard. Tell that way. 983 00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,000 Speaker 4: I tell you what. Then I'm just gonna do this here. 984 00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:49,680 Speaker 4: I'm finnah. Just come over there and. 985 00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:53,480 Speaker 3: Take Jesus and take them and take them wise men 986 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:54,279 Speaker 3: out your yard. 987 00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:55,239 Speaker 4: That's what I'm finna do. 988 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,360 Speaker 2: Come over this way, come over my messing with Jesus 989 00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:00,000 Speaker 2: in the manger. It's gonna be the real problems because football, 990 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:03,520 Speaker 2: that's fake, sigae, that's that's the center of the teol. Now, 991 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:04,839 Speaker 2: if you want to come over here and you want 992 00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:06,480 Speaker 2: to kind of do something like that, you go to 993 00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:08,759 Speaker 2: need Jesus to help you, because there's gonna be some 994 00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:10,839 Speaker 2: rolling around going on like yo. 995 00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:13,840 Speaker 4: The bottom line is this right here. You've got the 996 00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:14,600 Speaker 4: nerve to do. 997 00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:18,200 Speaker 3: The same thing I got. I'm full streets over, I'm 998 00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:20,839 Speaker 3: driving through looking at everybody the other here man, looking 999 00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:24,000 Speaker 3: at everybody. You the only one that I'm here as. 1000 00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:25,320 Speaker 4: I ain't seen the same way. 1001 00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:28,919 Speaker 2: The same place every doubt long here, and nobody ever 1002 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,480 Speaker 2: call on me. Your stuff looked like then, and from 1003 00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,760 Speaker 2: four five seats, I would have had this many anything 1004 00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:36,439 Speaker 2: way then. Ain't got no right coming on my street 1005 00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:38,479 Speaker 2: because you don't stay on the street. You going around 1006 00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:41,160 Speaker 2: looking at people, trying to get your ideas. Man, you 1007 00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:41,920 Speaker 2: got a rich No. 1008 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:43,640 Speaker 4: No, I'm very original. 1009 00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:47,000 Speaker 3: I moved to this neighborhood before you did. I've been here. 1010 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 3: I've been here ten years. You've been here about six. 1011 00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:51,279 Speaker 3: How long you've been living over here? 1012 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,560 Speaker 2: I've been living over here six years. This sub division 1013 00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:55,680 Speaker 2: was just coming up when I came over here. I 1014 00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:57,560 Speaker 2: ain't gonna tell me you've been running your team's long 1015 00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:59,880 Speaker 2: and and I've been running mind go you clay hey, man, 1016 00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:01,799 Speaker 2: and it ain't. I ain't got time to go back, man. 1017 00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:03,319 Speaker 2: You know what, I got better things do. I still 1018 00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:04,920 Speaker 2: got some more life put up. Hey, I got a 1019 00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:05,520 Speaker 2: work place. 1020 00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:07,359 Speaker 3: I can't go back and forth when I'm Finnah telling 1021 00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 3: you is just right here. I'm Finnah. Come take Jesus 1022 00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:12,040 Speaker 3: off your yard. I'm finish, take Jesus. 1023 00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,279 Speaker 2: In the one to take Jesus out my yard. I 1024 00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:15,600 Speaker 2: see now you sounded like when I'm crazy people come 1025 00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:17,320 Speaker 2: about taking Jesus out of my life. That's where you 1026 00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:19,640 Speaker 2: got life and mess up. Come on over, I got 1027 00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:21,319 Speaker 2: someway man, and that's what you look here. 1028 00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:22,840 Speaker 4: Don't turn your life on me. 1029 00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:24,719 Speaker 2: My life is gonna be on the night tomorrow night 1030 00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:27,320 Speaker 2: here the night talking about taking my Jesus into Mangin. 1031 00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:29,359 Speaker 2: I'm originally as original that could be. Come on if 1032 00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:31,000 Speaker 2: you want to. I got something for you, man. 1033 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,959 Speaker 3: You just stole my ideas. And see what's talking about? 1034 00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:36,560 Speaker 2: This stilling idea? Come on round here and listen. 1035 00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,080 Speaker 4: Hey dog, let me tell you something right now. 1036 00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:43,880 Speaker 3: Jesus and the Wise Man is coming out your yard today. 1037 00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,480 Speaker 2: No, you know what, man, I'm through with you. Man, 1038 00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:47,120 Speaker 2: I'm through with you. 1039 00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:47,600 Speaker 4: You know what? 1040 00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:50,200 Speaker 2: Come over here if you want to touch my making 1041 00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:52,440 Speaker 2: Jesus touch my man, just touch me ever and Joseph 1042 00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:54,399 Speaker 2: and the Wise Man, and I'm gonna put the nofth 1043 00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:57,359 Speaker 2: saw over your literally. Hey man, I don't know where 1044 00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:58,200 Speaker 2: you get my number from me? 1045 00:51:58,239 --> 00:51:58,319 Speaker 3: Now? 1046 00:51:58,360 --> 00:51:58,759 Speaker 4: Who are you? 1047 00:51:58,840 --> 00:51:59,759 Speaker 2: Anyway? Who is it? 1048 00:51:59,760 --> 00:51:59,920 Speaker 4: Who? 1049 00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:02,000 Speaker 2: Man? I tell you what you're talking about coming over here, 1050 00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:06,080 Speaker 2: messing with anything on time? Okay, set to go off 1051 00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,920 Speaker 2: every evening at the fund to start getting dark my 1052 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:13,680 Speaker 2: going on? Let me not come on tonight for you anyway? 1053 00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:15,359 Speaker 4: Why why you why you can't come up with your 1054 00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:15,959 Speaker 4: own theme? 1055 00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:16,239 Speaker 7: Man? 1056 00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:17,719 Speaker 4: Why you came to my own thing? 1057 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:19,560 Speaker 2: Look at it? I tell you what, man, look for 1058 00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:22,839 Speaker 2: you anyway? We just quatted right now? You stay four 1059 00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:24,640 Speaker 2: five street over? What kind of color you got me? 1060 00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:24,879 Speaker 4: Drive? 1061 00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:27,400 Speaker 2: Well, I'll come find you, come deal with you right now? 1062 00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:28,279 Speaker 2: Where are you at? 1063 00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 4: Wait? 1064 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:29,880 Speaker 3: Right now? 1065 00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:30,360 Speaker 2: Where you are? 1066 00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:31,120 Speaker 4: You know what? 1067 00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:32,160 Speaker 3: Don't worry about where I'm at. 1068 00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:35,720 Speaker 4: I'm gonna be there on your life about mon now, I'm. 1069 00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:37,239 Speaker 2: Gonna confine your life. 1070 00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:38,760 Speaker 4: Ain't coming on tonight? 1071 00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:40,880 Speaker 2: Well no, I'm not come on tonight. There's gonna be 1072 00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:42,440 Speaker 2: some poles in your life. It's gonna be hard to 1073 00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:45,040 Speaker 2: breathe for you. I'm letting you know here, man, Man, Man, 1074 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:47,440 Speaker 2: whose who for you? Anyway? 1075 00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:47,680 Speaker 12: Man? 1076 00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:49,960 Speaker 2: You done caused me out of the blue telling me 1077 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,480 Speaker 2: that you're gonna come disconnect my life and steal my 1078 00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,120 Speaker 2: major and take my baby Jesus out the man? Who 1079 00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:58,120 Speaker 2: are you sit up here accusing me of spending your 1080 00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,120 Speaker 2: thing when it's been my theme at least six years. 1081 00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,040 Speaker 2: I've been doing this night of One Best Yard three 1082 00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:05,960 Speaker 2: years or three years running in this season. Now I 1083 00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:07,480 Speaker 2: think you trying to get by Wace. 1084 00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,160 Speaker 3: But see the problem is you don't want best Yard 1085 00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:12,200 Speaker 3: because you're still in my idea. 1086 00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:14,080 Speaker 2: How can I be stilling your message? 1087 00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:14,359 Speaker 4: Man? 1088 00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:16,880 Speaker 2: You know what you and you and I'm ready to. 1089 00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:20,719 Speaker 4: Deal with your right Hey, dog, dog, I'm not going 1090 00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:21,719 Speaker 4: to go back and forth with you. 1091 00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:25,160 Speaker 2: You stole my Jesus theme. Dog, Hold on, wait a minute. 1092 00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:28,480 Speaker 2: How can I have won Best Yard three years running 1093 00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:30,320 Speaker 2: and you saying I got the theme from you? You 1094 00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:31,960 Speaker 2: should have been getting you must not be. 1095 00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:33,799 Speaker 4: Doing it right. Let me let me, let me, let 1096 00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:35,600 Speaker 4: me go on say this to you right now? Dog? 1097 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 4: What Dady what Larry on your street told me. 1098 00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:43,600 Speaker 2: To call you? Lady d told you to Larry gave 1099 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:44,160 Speaker 2: you my number. 1100 00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,880 Speaker 4: Larry and Tommy told me to call you. 1101 00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:48,759 Speaker 2: Larry and Tommy told you to call me. 1102 00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:51,160 Speaker 4: Then you know who Tommy is that? 1103 00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:54,080 Speaker 2: That ain't now, ain't never missing? No Tommy to me? 1104 00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:58,200 Speaker 3: Who I'm Tommy, I'm nephew Tommy. From the Steve Harvey 1105 00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:02,120 Speaker 3: Morning show you just got playing by your boy Larry Man. 1106 00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:06,200 Speaker 2: Nephew Tomas you want to show? 1107 00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:12,000 Speaker 4: Told me to call you. He said, you win every 1108 00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:13,920 Speaker 4: single year the Christmas Jo. 1109 00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:15,840 Speaker 2: But it's kind of funny. 1110 00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:19,799 Speaker 4: Yeah, let me ask you something. 1111 00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:22,600 Speaker 3: What's the baddest radio show in the lane? 1112 00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:23,040 Speaker 12: Man? 1113 00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:28,799 Speaker 2: Hands down, no doubt in the show with Nephew. 1114 00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:33,760 Speaker 1: Pranks out stand. 1115 00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,080 Speaker 11: I'm going to come over there and get Jesus. I'm 1116 00:54:40,080 --> 00:54:42,360 Speaker 11: gonna get them wise man, get every boy. 1117 00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:49,480 Speaker 1: Boy boy, now you're find to meet Jeez. That's more 1118 00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:55,000 Speaker 1: accurate scene. You're gonna my baby come around here. There's 1119 00:54:55,080 --> 00:55:01,880 Speaker 1: gonna be some rolling round out here that touch the 1120 00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:05,799 Speaker 1: wise men marriage that nor. 1121 00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:11,400 Speaker 6: First, he didn't understand the accusation. Where you get that 1122 00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:13,800 Speaker 6: theme from Christmas? 1123 00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:15,160 Speaker 4: Right right? 1124 00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:16,680 Speaker 11: Theme? 1125 00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:19,439 Speaker 1: Where you're going with this? Man? 1126 00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:26,080 Speaker 6: I get the theme from It's Christmas. You're gonna put 1127 00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:29,759 Speaker 6: Jesus at a major It's Christmas. 1128 00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:35,120 Speaker 8: Man, Frank, praise for real? 1129 00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:36,600 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Nephew. 1130 00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:40,040 Speaker 10: Coming up next, it's the Strawberry Letter, with the subject 1131 00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:43,640 Speaker 10: being it's the d for me is the subject. 1132 00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:44,560 Speaker 1: Will be back right after this. 1133 00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:48,600 Speaker 11: Have you heard about trainer games? Add this to your 1134 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:52,080 Speaker 11: Ben's list this season ten athletes will face the toughest 1135 00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:55,320 Speaker 11: job interview in fitness that will push them past physical 1136 00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:58,960 Speaker 11: and mental breaking points with grueling challenges that can be 1137 00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:01,399 Speaker 11: only one winner, who is the fittest of the fit, 1138 00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:04,840 Speaker 11: and leave here with an iFIT contract where two hundred 1139 00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:08,160 Speaker 11: and fifty thousand dollars Who will you be rooting for? 1140 00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:12,120 Speaker 11: Get ready for Trainer Games streaming on Prime Videos starting 1141 00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:15,800 Speaker 11: January eighth. Check out Trainer Games dot com for details. 1142 00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:25,120 Speaker 10: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show time now for today's 1143 00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:29,040 Speaker 10: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, 1144 00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:32,520 Speaker 10: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve 1145 00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:37,359 Speaker 10: HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 1146 00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,040 Speaker 10: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 1147 00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,040 Speaker 10: we're going to read this one right here. Hear that 1148 00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,200 Speaker 10: it's for you, Jay, It could be you you never know, 1149 00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:47,320 Speaker 10: could be your letter you never know. 1150 00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:49,360 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for 1151 00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:53,160 Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. A subject we've 1152 00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:54,960 Speaker 1: all been waiting for. This one subject. 1153 00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:59,480 Speaker 10: It's the d for me, all right, Dear Stephen Shirley, 1154 00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,040 Speaker 10: I'm a thirty eight year old woman that has been 1155 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:06,040 Speaker 10: married for fourteen years and we have two children together. 1156 00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:12,160 Speaker 10: I realize when you are married, people change over time, 1157 00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:14,880 Speaker 10: and sometimes it's not even worth it to try to 1158 00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:18,240 Speaker 10: work things out. I am at that point with my husband. 1159 00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:23,840 Speaker 10: He's changed into an evil monster. He has always been overprotective, possessive, 1160 00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:27,200 Speaker 10: and extremely jealous, but in the past few years it's 1161 00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:30,720 Speaker 10: gotten worse. He has always accused me of cheating, so 1162 00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:35,480 Speaker 10: guess what, I finally did it. When I leave the house, 1163 00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:37,680 Speaker 10: he wants me to take the kids with me, so 1164 00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:40,520 Speaker 10: I take them. My dad knows what's up with me 1165 00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:43,640 Speaker 10: and my new boo, so he keeps the kids if 1166 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,400 Speaker 10: I have a date with my new man. At first, 1167 00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:49,439 Speaker 10: I was a nervous wreck, but you already know women 1168 00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:53,240 Speaker 10: are better cheaters, so I eased into the role. Eventually, 1169 00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:57,280 Speaker 10: my new boo is attentive and compliments me whether I'm 1170 00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:02,080 Speaker 10: looking bummy or if I'm all. I've visited his church 1171 00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:04,520 Speaker 10: and I've met his coworkers, and all of that is 1172 00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:07,360 Speaker 10: fine and good, but it's the d for me. 1173 00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:09,600 Speaker 1: It's the dough. 1174 00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:14,320 Speaker 10: Okay, this guy is loaded and he gives freely to 1175 00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:18,520 Speaker 10: me without me having to hit or ask. I'm smart 1176 00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:20,760 Speaker 10: enough to save all the money for a rainy day 1177 00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:23,720 Speaker 10: and have it in a special account so my husband 1178 00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:26,800 Speaker 10: can't find it. Now that we've been together for almost 1179 00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:29,840 Speaker 10: six months, my boo is ready to have me full time. 1180 00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:33,320 Speaker 10: He's been asking me to consider getting a divorce, and 1181 00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:36,240 Speaker 10: I'm seriously considering it since my husband is more like 1182 00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:39,880 Speaker 10: a prison warden than my husband. My boo is sixteen 1183 00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:42,960 Speaker 10: years older and his children are all grown, so he 1184 00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:46,360 Speaker 10: said he'd welcomed my two children into his home. So 1185 00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:50,920 Speaker 10: it's about to be the D for me again. It's 1186 00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:53,880 Speaker 10: divorce time. Do you think I've been with my boo 1187 00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:57,480 Speaker 10: long enough to make the big D decision? Please advise? 1188 00:58:58,160 --> 00:59:01,320 Speaker 10: All right, here's my question for you, lady letter writer? 1189 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:05,560 Speaker 10: Why did you write us? I mean really, why why 1190 00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:08,520 Speaker 10: did you write us? What do you want Steve and 1191 00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:10,800 Speaker 10: I to give you the okay to pack up and 1192 00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:14,560 Speaker 10: leave your husband. You seem to have it all worked 1193 00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:17,760 Speaker 10: out for yourself already, so you don't need us. 1194 00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:20,560 Speaker 1: Why did you write us. You've got the man with 1195 00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:23,680 Speaker 1: the D. You even got your dad on board helping 1196 00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:26,960 Speaker 1: you out with the kids. So unless there's something keeping 1197 00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:30,160 Speaker 1: you there, what's stopping you from moving on? 1198 00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,360 Speaker 10: If you if you want to leave your so called 1199 00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:35,840 Speaker 10: evil monster, prison warden of a husband. 1200 00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:36,200 Speaker 13: Leave. 1201 00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:38,680 Speaker 1: I mean, why do you need us to tell you that? 1202 00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:42,640 Speaker 10: I say, go ahead and get your d girl, Go ahead, 1203 00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:44,560 Speaker 10: get your D since this is the D for you, 1204 00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:49,880 Speaker 10: doe and divorce. Just always remember the grass isn't greener 1205 00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:54,640 Speaker 10: on the other side. Okay, just remember that, all right, Steve. 1206 00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:59,800 Speaker 1: Well, you know, let's look at this letter study. 1207 00:59:59,800 --> 01:00:04,680 Speaker 6: Eight year old woman being married fourteen years, two children together, 1208 01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:09,640 Speaker 6: realized that over the years, people change and sometimes it 1209 01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:12,040 Speaker 6: ain't even worth it trying to work out. She's already 1210 01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:16,720 Speaker 6: said this. I'm at the point where my husband now, 1211 01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:18,440 Speaker 6: he's been changing to this evil mom. 1212 01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:22,120 Speaker 1: See, always been overprotecting, possessing, all that, jealous, and. 1213 01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:24,480 Speaker 6: He's a He always accused me of cheating, so guess 1214 01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:27,800 Speaker 6: what I did it. Two wrongs don't ever make a right. 1215 01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:30,200 Speaker 6: But let's try and see if this can work out. 1216 01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:32,520 Speaker 6: When I leave the house, he wants me to take 1217 01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:35,360 Speaker 6: kids with me, so I take them. My dad knows 1218 01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:37,360 Speaker 6: what's up with me and my new boos, so he 1219 01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:41,320 Speaker 6: keeps the kids if I have a date with my 1220 01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,360 Speaker 6: new man. At first, I was a neighbor's wreck, but 1221 01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:46,400 Speaker 6: we already know women are better cheating, So I used 1222 01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:50,080 Speaker 6: into the role my new boo as a tenant compliments 1223 01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:52,200 Speaker 6: me whether I'm looking bummy or if I'm fixed up. 1224 01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:57,120 Speaker 6: I visited his church and I've met his coworkers. All 1225 01:00:57,200 --> 01:00:59,800 Speaker 6: of that is finding good, but it's the d for me. 1226 01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:02,040 Speaker 1: It's the dope. Okay. 1227 01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:05,560 Speaker 6: So the man got money, well, now he's loaded, and 1228 01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:09,880 Speaker 6: he always giving you money. Now, I think we're getting 1229 01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:13,880 Speaker 6: into what made this letter start up at the beginning 1230 01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:15,919 Speaker 6: where you think is at that point where it ain't 1231 01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:18,560 Speaker 6: no need it ain't you said the key word worth, 1232 01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:24,240 Speaker 6: it's not worth trying to work things out. Well, I 1233 01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:27,280 Speaker 6: guess it ain't worth it no more. Since you got 1234 01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:30,520 Speaker 6: a man with all this dope. See how this worked. 1235 01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:36,360 Speaker 6: It's amazing how you start telling on yourself fourteen years now, 1236 01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:37,880 Speaker 6: all of a sudden, he a mam say, because you 1237 01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:40,560 Speaker 6: done met this new man. I'm not saying the man 1238 01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:42,680 Speaker 6: ain't a mosse, and I ain't saying y'all to stay that, 1239 01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:45,760 Speaker 6: but it showed and got worse since you. 1240 01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:48,280 Speaker 1: Met this man with this dope. Because your man is 1241 01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:49,040 Speaker 1: the direct opposite. 1242 01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:53,680 Speaker 6: He's a tenant compliments you, gives you money, without you asking, 1243 01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:56,760 Speaker 6: and you're smart enough to save it for a rainy day. 1244 01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:01,480 Speaker 1: How much you done saved? I wish I could get that. 1245 01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:05,920 Speaker 6: You think how much she probably got, About how long 1246 01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:08,640 Speaker 6: she say they've been dating six months? 1247 01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:11,160 Speaker 2: Five grand? 1248 01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:13,600 Speaker 1: She got about thirty five hundred. 1249 01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:19,640 Speaker 6: I know how, No, not real. I know how people think. 1250 01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:22,680 Speaker 6: I know how people think. Because you ain't saving all 1251 01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:25,560 Speaker 6: that money. You got to be buying something. You know, 1252 01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:26,680 Speaker 6: he he giving you money. 1253 01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:29,560 Speaker 1: You got buy a dress or something, the whole lingerie. Something. 1254 01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:32,120 Speaker 6: You gotta show up with something new job, glitter, you 1255 01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:37,240 Speaker 6: gotta get something, gosh, glitter high. 1256 01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:40,560 Speaker 1: This ain't record glitter. That's ain't the glitter down at 1257 01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:43,360 Speaker 1: the craft though, kind do. 1258 01:02:43,640 --> 01:02:46,160 Speaker 6: No, you got that glitter coming the job called sugar 1259 01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:50,680 Speaker 6: cause I ain't had so many sugar. 1260 01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:52,680 Speaker 1: On me back in my past life. I know what 1261 01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:53,080 Speaker 1: it is. 1262 01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:55,080 Speaker 6: You can't hardly get it off either. Be all in 1263 01:02:55,160 --> 01:03:01,040 Speaker 6: you mustard all your bed, all in your hair. Time 1264 01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:04,520 Speaker 6: watching two weeks. 1265 01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:07,840 Speaker 10: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at 1266 01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:09,240 Speaker 10: twenty three minutes after. 1267 01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:13,160 Speaker 1: The hour subject it's the d for me. We'll get 1268 01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:13,920 Speaker 1: back into. 1269 01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:18,200 Speaker 8: It right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey morning show. 1270 01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:26,200 Speaker 17: This winter, the world will be watching the best skaters 1271 01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:29,400 Speaker 17: chase their Olympic dreams. For your child, that dream could 1272 01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:32,520 Speaker 17: start right here at your local rink. Through learn to 1273 01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:37,040 Speaker 17: Skate USA, kids build strengths, confidence, and courage, the same 1274 01:03:37,160 --> 01:03:40,360 Speaker 17: qualities that take athletes to the Olympic ice. Learn to 1275 01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:44,160 Speaker 17: Skate USA offers programs for skaters of all ages and abilities. 1276 01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:47,280 Speaker 17: This is where the journey begins. Find a program near 1277 01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:50,640 Speaker 17: you at learn to Skate usa dot com. Because every 1278 01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:52,640 Speaker 17: champion starts with a first glide. 1279 01:03:53,600 --> 01:03:57,800 Speaker 10: All right, here we go. Let's recap this strawberry letter today, Steve. Subject, 1280 01:03:57,960 --> 01:03:59,480 Speaker 10: it is the d for me. 1281 01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:03,400 Speaker 6: Thirty eight year old woman tired of this marriage. She 1282 01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,320 Speaker 6: been here for fourteen years, they got two kids. She'd 1283 01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:10,080 Speaker 6: have met this older man that's sixteen years older than her, 1284 01:04:10,280 --> 01:04:14,640 Speaker 6: makes him fifty four. I didn't say that earlier, but 1285 01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:19,080 Speaker 6: I'm just giving you a quicker update. And the man 1286 01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:21,560 Speaker 6: has always been jealous, and he's worse now. He's an 1287 01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:24,400 Speaker 6: evil monster, always been accusing her cheatings. 1288 01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:26,360 Speaker 1: So guess what she said. She went on and did it, 1289 01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:32,120 Speaker 1: and she'd have got good at it. Her new booth 1290 01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:33,120 Speaker 1: fifty four. 1291 01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:36,320 Speaker 6: Also, i'd like to add in that once you crossed 1292 01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:39,120 Speaker 6: the age of forty, you can stop referring to each 1293 01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:44,400 Speaker 6: other as boot too old to be a boot. No 1294 01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:48,120 Speaker 6: such thing as a cute old ghost, ain't no such thing. 1295 01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,520 Speaker 6: Ain't as no forty of your old boots. 1296 01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:53,720 Speaker 8: That bothered you. 1297 01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:58,280 Speaker 1: See, you're dating this older man. You thirty eight, he 1298 01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:06,560 Speaker 1: fifty four. All right, So you visited his church, you've 1299 01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:10,920 Speaker 1: met his coworkers, and she said, all that's finding good. 1300 01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:14,479 Speaker 1: But it's the deed for me. It's the doe. 1301 01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:19,680 Speaker 6: This guy's loaded and he gives me without asking. And 1302 01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:22,680 Speaker 6: I'm smart enough saving all the money for a rainy day. Man, 1303 01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:23,680 Speaker 6: you ain't saving all of it. 1304 01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:26,640 Speaker 1: Let's be honest. I have a special account sol. My 1305 01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:27,800 Speaker 1: husband can't find it. 1306 01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:31,080 Speaker 6: Now we've been together for almost six months, and my 1307 01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:34,400 Speaker 6: boo is ready to have me full time. He's been 1308 01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:37,600 Speaker 6: asking me to consider getting a divorce, and I'm seriously 1309 01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:40,600 Speaker 6: considering it since my husband is more like a prison 1310 01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:44,320 Speaker 6: warden than my husband. Now, my boot, which I've told 1311 01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:49,640 Speaker 6: you to quit using that word's sixteen years older. His 1312 01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:53,160 Speaker 6: children are all grown, so he said he'd welcome my 1313 01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:57,680 Speaker 6: two children into his home. You need to be listening 1314 01:05:57,720 --> 01:06:02,360 Speaker 6: to this line carefully welcome your two children into his home. 1315 01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:08,120 Speaker 6: You gotta start hearing stuff like our home. You gotta 1316 01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:11,800 Speaker 6: start hearing stuff like our money. You need to start 1317 01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:16,080 Speaker 6: hearing stuff like our account or you just finna get bought, 1318 01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:18,760 Speaker 6: because that's what he's been doing. 1319 01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:21,640 Speaker 1: He's been purchasing you. Now, I'm not. 1320 01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:23,760 Speaker 6: Saying he's not a nice guy and he don't love you. 1321 01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:26,040 Speaker 6: I ain't saying none of that. And I'm not saying 1322 01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:27,960 Speaker 6: he don't really want you, because it sounds like you do. 1323 01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:31,440 Speaker 6: But you gotta be careful with me. And that's got 1324 01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:36,040 Speaker 6: stuff that ain't talking about hours. So now you say 1325 01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:38,440 Speaker 6: he welcome to two kids. So now it's about to 1326 01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:41,840 Speaker 6: be the D for me again, but it's divorced this time. 1327 01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:44,919 Speaker 6: Do you think I've been with my boot long enough 1328 01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:50,080 Speaker 6: to make the big D decision? Please advise. Well, let's 1329 01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:53,760 Speaker 6: look at all the d's you talking about. It's all 1330 01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:55,360 Speaker 6: started when you went out on the date. 1331 01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:56,280 Speaker 5: That was a D. 1332 01:06:57,080 --> 01:07:00,480 Speaker 6: You went out on the date and you started dayton 1333 01:07:01,040 --> 01:07:03,840 Speaker 6: somebody that's old enough be your daddy. 1334 01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:08,880 Speaker 1: That's another D. But then when you. 1335 01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:11,400 Speaker 6: Start taking the kids and yours and your husband told 1336 01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:14,000 Speaker 6: you take the kids with you you drag ther other 1337 01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:16,400 Speaker 6: D into it. You took them over your daddy house. 1338 01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:21,080 Speaker 6: So you took them over your daddy's house. Now your 1339 01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:24,000 Speaker 6: daddy in on the dirty D. That's two more deeds. 1340 01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:31,120 Speaker 6: Your daddy is in on the dirty D. And the 1341 01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:35,320 Speaker 6: kids don't even know. Here's another D. What you're doing. 1342 01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:45,440 Speaker 6: Now you are faced with another D, which is a decision. 1343 01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:49,920 Speaker 6: Now in this decision, you're starting to have another D, 1344 01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:53,760 Speaker 6: which is doubt. Because you're gonna ask me and Shirley, 1345 01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:55,520 Speaker 6: have I been with my boot long enough to make 1346 01:07:55,560 --> 01:07:59,400 Speaker 6: the big D decision? Hell, we don't know. We don't 1347 01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:02,080 Speaker 6: know if y'all over there talking or he just buying stuff. 1348 01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:05,160 Speaker 6: Now you to say about thirty. 1349 01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:08,360 Speaker 8: Five hundred, I said five five hundred. 1350 01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:12,640 Speaker 1: She ain't got no five thousand, No dog on six months? 1351 01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:18,120 Speaker 1: Surely okay. And so now all it is is coming 1352 01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:31,559 Speaker 1: back because we're dealing with another D deception who I'll bed. 1353 01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:37,280 Speaker 6: And now you're talking about divorce. You're dating a man 1354 01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:40,599 Speaker 6: that's a D, that's old enough to be your daddy. 1355 01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:41,519 Speaker 1: That's a D. 1356 01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:47,320 Speaker 6: And your daddy is in with the dirty D and 1357 01:08:47,520 --> 01:08:53,040 Speaker 6: he keep the kids. Now that right there is all 1358 01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:59,120 Speaker 6: bought about because your new Daddy's got plenty of dope. 1359 01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:04,240 Speaker 6: Now you faced with a decision. Is it time for 1360 01:09:04,360 --> 01:09:08,760 Speaker 6: the other d which is called divorce? And your decision 1361 01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:12,040 Speaker 6: is full of doubt cause you don't know. 1362 01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:13,160 Speaker 4: What to do. 1363 01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:19,720 Speaker 1: That's another d dec A dumb you dumb. And I'm 1364 01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:22,080 Speaker 1: gonna help you out with all of it. I got 1365 01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:22,680 Speaker 1: news for you. 1366 01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:24,760 Speaker 6: Gotta be ready for another d because he's gonna get 1367 01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:27,200 Speaker 6: tired of your and this is gonna be the last 1368 01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:28,920 Speaker 6: d because you're gonna get dumped. 1369 01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:35,680 Speaker 1: Now you're gonna wind up in the mother d the doghouse. 1370 01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:40,640 Speaker 6: You trying to get back in the crib, but you 1371 01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:42,160 Speaker 6: ain't gonna be able to get back in the crib 1372 01:09:42,200 --> 01:09:43,040 Speaker 6: because of what you done? 1373 01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:44,240 Speaker 13: What what you done? 1374 01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:44,639 Speaker 6: Done? 1375 01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:50,639 Speaker 1: Yes, she can't get back in the door. 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It's an original song written 1409 01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:34,639 Speaker 18: by myself, Ralph Hawkins Junior and Reggie. It's dedicated out 1410 01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:38,120 Speaker 18: there for the holidays. All the number two's this is 1411 01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:38,479 Speaker 18: for you. 1412 01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:39,400 Speaker 1: Hit it. 1413 01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:58,680 Speaker 13: Christmas is a ceason. Please have a bone. 1414 01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:03,719 Speaker 1: Her big time creeping in, you're a sad piece. 1415 01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:09,920 Speaker 13: Clowns to the fan, shopping white. 1416 01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:15,640 Speaker 9: He killed the man myself some money for myself to 1417 01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:18,520 Speaker 9: play sack Peace and clowns. 1418 01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:21,040 Speaker 3: Might not like how I. 1419 01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:23,720 Speaker 13: Might call me. 1420 01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:25,599 Speaker 4: You don't come. 1421 01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:29,280 Speaker 9: Blessing the mons, look at you some help me the 1422 01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:31,360 Speaker 9: side Peace, save the claws. 1423 01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:38,800 Speaker 13: I'll get back in text mater, I don't come in. 1424 01:12:39,120 --> 01:12:40,360 Speaker 13: His claws stands out. 1425 01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:43,560 Speaker 1: It could be the devil sat Peace. 1426 01:12:44,040 --> 01:12:52,800 Speaker 9: Clabe upside and cloud. We can said peace club side 1427 01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:57,559 Speaker 9: peace claws a sign a claw. 1428 01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:03,800 Speaker 13: Hello, Wow you dinners, I'm here all week. 1429 01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:09,559 Speaker 18: You're so talentednes and download that song so the boy 1430 01:13:09,600 --> 01:13:10,880 Speaker 18: can get some money. 1431 01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:27,800 Speaker 13: And all that. Yeah, move up, bam, Yeah, we have 1432 01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:29,320 Speaker 13: to do a song, Steve, we got it. 1433 01:13:29,360 --> 01:13:32,360 Speaker 1: I'm telling you. Jay I'll go over there and the 1434 01:13:32,400 --> 01:13:35,599 Speaker 1: living room said, the whole album, the whole album? Did 1435 01:13:35,680 --> 01:13:38,040 Speaker 1: you did you know, Steve? 1436 01:13:38,960 --> 01:13:40,679 Speaker 8: He doesn't really like Christmas. 1437 01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:42,360 Speaker 2: He don't. 1438 01:13:42,520 --> 01:13:43,679 Speaker 1: He don't like nothing. 1439 01:13:43,920 --> 01:13:46,360 Speaker 10: Okay, we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey 1440 01:13:46,439 --> 01:13:47,960 Speaker 10: Morning Show right after this. 1441 01:13:49,520 --> 01:13:51,880 Speaker 6: Hey, good morning. This is your man, Steve Harvey. My 1442 01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:55,840 Speaker 6: favorite Christmas memory is my mom and dad, My mother 1443 01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:58,599 Speaker 6: and father. Man, I missed some soul. Have a wonderful 1444 01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:01,760 Speaker 6: holiday season from yours truly. Right here, your boy, Steve 1445 01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:03,559 Speaker 6: Harvey and the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1446 01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:10,840 Speaker 8: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 1447 01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:14,400 Speaker 8: So guys, you know we always hear from Roscoe. 1448 01:14:14,600 --> 01:14:18,120 Speaker 1: This is Christmas, Holidays in the spirit. 1449 01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:21,840 Speaker 10: Uh So we always hear from at the start of 1450 01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:25,679 Speaker 10: the show right now, like we're all in a Christmas spirit. 1451 01:14:25,880 --> 01:14:29,559 Speaker 1: So Roscoe is back. I need a better Who are 1452 01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:30,599 Speaker 1: you to do the right way? 1453 01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:33,519 Speaker 11: I got the ladies and gentlemen, get yourself together. 1454 01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:36,040 Speaker 1: He was a legend. He's going through a lawsuit, but 1455 01:14:36,080 --> 01:14:37,880 Speaker 1: he is still the man putting. 1456 01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:41,280 Speaker 11: Your hands together, the baddest in the land, creating so 1457 01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:44,360 Speaker 11: many different music, so many different genres. The one and 1458 01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:50,479 Speaker 11: only raw go in the fire. 1459 01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:50,880 Speaker 12: You bore. 1460 01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:56,759 Speaker 1: Sure we're talking about you. You gotta do better than anyway. 1461 01:14:57,320 --> 01:14:57,920 Speaker 12: Going over. 1462 01:14:59,320 --> 01:15:03,040 Speaker 1: What y'all need from Christmas songs? Ro Christmas song man? 1463 01:15:03,439 --> 01:15:06,840 Speaker 1: What about what you're doing? That's what I was trying 1464 01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:10,680 Speaker 1: to tell you, Roscoe, Christmas, Okay, I know, I know 1465 01:15:10,720 --> 01:15:11,639 Speaker 1: where the chrismas? 1466 01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:13,160 Speaker 11: What what do you want to do? 1467 01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:16,600 Speaker 1: And some of your greatest Christmas kids, Oh, some of 1468 01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:21,160 Speaker 1: my greatest Christmas wrote everything. You know kids, the greatest kids. 1469 01:15:21,200 --> 01:15:23,040 Speaker 1: I thought he was just singing Christmas songs. 1470 01:15:26,520 --> 01:15:35,560 Speaker 6: Ball see this snow maid? I wrote, I wrote, I 1471 01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:38,080 Speaker 6: wrote the song Boston snow Man. White people got whole 1472 01:15:38,160 --> 01:15:41,040 Speaker 6: to it and called it frosty. Hell, I want to 1473 01:15:41,080 --> 01:15:42,479 Speaker 6: write a song called frosty. 1474 01:15:44,000 --> 01:15:51,559 Speaker 1: He was boss. I go right, ball see this snow maid. 1475 01:15:54,040 --> 01:15:56,080 Speaker 1: What a bad old dude was he? 1476 01:15:57,760 --> 01:16:00,439 Speaker 6: That's how I wrote this song. White folks say the 1477 01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:06,479 Speaker 6: frosty the snowman. That's part of lawsuit, part of lawsuit? 1478 01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:06,920 Speaker 1: What else? 1479 01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:07,479 Speaker 13: Oh? 1480 01:16:07,720 --> 01:16:08,479 Speaker 8: This Christmas? 1481 01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:09,880 Speaker 3: That on? 1482 01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:16,280 Speaker 9: Do do do? 1483 01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:24,439 Speaker 6: Hey, old missile toe, I'm gonna get to know your 1484 01:16:24,560 --> 01:16:25,120 Speaker 6: bed of. 1485 01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:29,639 Speaker 1: The last cream. 1486 01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:33,439 Speaker 13: And as we. 1487 01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:51,160 Speaker 1: Look around your eyes all shine time these creed mother 1488 01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:53,519 Speaker 1: look a here my. 1489 01:16:53,800 --> 01:17:01,160 Speaker 5: Fire side, lazy ry come on and blowing in jail 1490 01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:04,200 Speaker 5: all through the night. 1491 01:17:05,960 --> 01:17:15,040 Speaker 1: And this print mark weird be a very special Printmas 1492 01:17:17,439 --> 01:17:17,920 Speaker 1: from me. 1493 01:17:20,280 --> 01:17:22,639 Speaker 6: That's really how it went. You know, Donny got hold 1494 01:17:22,680 --> 01:17:24,960 Speaker 6: to it, did a wonderful job. I won't thank Donny halfway. 1495 01:17:25,560 --> 01:17:28,000 Speaker 6: You're the only person that did a song that I wrote. 1496 01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:28,719 Speaker 1: Did it better? 1497 01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:32,640 Speaker 6: Only one, okay, only one I want to thank, But 1498 01:17:32,760 --> 01:17:38,280 Speaker 6: I gotta give my money. I'm sewing Donny half away, 1499 01:17:38,439 --> 01:17:43,599 Speaker 6: Layla half away, pathway anybody that's trying to come my way, 1500 01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:51,080 Speaker 6: and Jane half away, Jane half away. I'm sureing everybody. 1501 01:17:51,240 --> 01:17:54,840 Speaker 10: What is your favorite Christmas song though, Roscoe, your absolute 1502 01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:55,799 Speaker 10: all time favorite? 1503 01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:56,280 Speaker 15: Oh? 1504 01:17:56,960 --> 01:17:59,599 Speaker 6: Just the one I wrote that the change cold as hell, 1505 01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:02,960 Speaker 6: hold lass hell, cold outside I'm. 1506 01:18:02,880 --> 01:18:07,439 Speaker 1: Here, ain't no fun with you knows on the run. 1507 01:18:07,600 --> 01:18:10,920 Speaker 6: Everybody knows it's cold out here, hey, And I turned 1508 01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:13,240 Speaker 6: that with the cold song was about being cold out here. 1509 01:18:13,800 --> 01:18:15,080 Speaker 1: White folk like cold. 1510 01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:19,679 Speaker 6: So they named it jingle bell, jingle Bell, jingle Bell. 1511 01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:24,760 Speaker 6: The song was cold ass hell, cold lass hell, coldlass 1512 01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:30,200 Speaker 6: bell out here, white folk like cold weather. Changing hobby, 1513 01:18:37,320 --> 01:18:39,679 Speaker 6: all right, we'll trying to get in from the snow. 1514 01:18:39,880 --> 01:18:45,160 Speaker 6: That was another line, the White Folk Ship through the Snow. 1515 01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:49,240 Speaker 1: Trending stories. 1516 01:18:49,280 --> 01:18:51,080 Speaker 10: More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at 1517 01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:54,320 Speaker 10: twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to the 1518 01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:59,200 Speaker 10: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Can you guys guess which city 1519 01:18:59,240 --> 01:19:02,840 Speaker 10: in America the most rat there's a question, YEP, I 1520 01:19:02,960 --> 01:19:03,840 Speaker 10: can't guess it. 1521 01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:10,120 Speaker 1: Chicago, New York, New York. They're both on the list. 1522 01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:12,400 Speaker 1: You would think it's New York, right, but it's not. 1523 01:19:13,000 --> 01:19:17,479 Speaker 10: According to orcan Pest Controls ratty city rankings, the city 1524 01:19:17,560 --> 01:19:23,960 Speaker 10: with the most rats is now Los Angeles has de 1525 01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:27,000 Speaker 10: throne Chicago Chicago one. 1526 01:19:27,560 --> 01:19:31,720 Speaker 11: Yes, But who walking around counting all these rats to 1527 01:19:31,880 --> 01:19:34,120 Speaker 11: know who got the most rad? 1528 01:19:34,439 --> 01:19:39,400 Speaker 8: Well, or I just told you, orcan Pest Control They. 1529 01:19:39,600 --> 01:19:41,920 Speaker 1: Went to New York and say we got three thousand 1530 01:19:42,840 --> 01:19:47,720 Speaker 1: three rad I'll you right now, aucin Aukin is not counting. 1531 01:19:47,439 --> 01:19:52,160 Speaker 10: Right, But Chicago held the title for the last ten years. 1532 01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:54,479 Speaker 10: You would think it's New York, but it was Chicago. 1533 01:19:54,720 --> 01:19:59,840 Speaker 10: He are the top five rattiest cities in America Number five, Hartford, Connecticut, 1534 01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:08,080 Speaker 10: number yeah, number four, San Francisco number three, New York 1535 01:20:08,200 --> 01:20:14,479 Speaker 10: City number two, now Chicago and now number one l A, 1536 01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:15,680 Speaker 10: Los Angeles. 1537 01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:19,280 Speaker 1: LA got the rets? Do you think the rets moved? 1538 01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:21,720 Speaker 1: And it's the same rents they may have. 1539 01:20:22,240 --> 01:20:27,280 Speaker 14: I relocated it a long time, relocate a lot of them, 1540 01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:29,960 Speaker 14: Walker Macago one of them, one of one of them. 1541 01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:39,240 Speaker 1: More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right 1542 01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:39,680 Speaker 1: after this. 1543 01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:42,639 Speaker 8: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1544 01:20:47,439 --> 01:20:50,080 Speaker 11: Have you heard about Trainer Games? Add this to your 1545 01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:53,599 Speaker 11: ben's list. 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Check out trainer games dot com for details. 1554 01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:20,800 Speaker 1: Time now, guys for a rounded would you rather? 1555 01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:27,280 Speaker 10: Would you rather a real or artificial Christmas tree? 1556 01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:29,920 Speaker 1: Which one? Oh, I don't even get to make that decision. 1557 01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:34,599 Speaker 1: My wife made down one really hard way. I like fishing. 1558 01:21:35,240 --> 01:21:37,600 Speaker 1: Read the worsh I ain't that ain't a harbor one, 1559 01:21:38,120 --> 01:21:41,160 Speaker 1: I'm artificial you know, I'll look at his face, so 1560 01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:45,519 Speaker 1: smart his face. We know, yeah, we know they. 1561 01:21:45,439 --> 01:21:50,000 Speaker 6: Didn't pull heres out of South Dakota somewhere crossing, yeah, 1562 01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:54,080 Speaker 6: drug crossing. I'm looking at one of these trees. I 1563 01:21:54,200 --> 01:21:56,560 Speaker 6: wonder right now, think about how it don't look in 1564 01:21:56,600 --> 01:21:57,440 Speaker 6: two years. 1565 01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:02,479 Speaker 1: Living room right here? 1566 01:22:02,560 --> 01:22:02,760 Speaker 16: Boy? 1567 01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:10,799 Speaker 10: All right, So would you rather sit with the resting 1568 01:22:10,960 --> 01:22:16,800 Speaker 10: lion for ten minutes resting lion? Or would you rather okay, now, 1569 01:22:17,120 --> 01:22:21,880 Speaker 10: would you rather run across the hungry alligator's back, run 1570 01:22:21,960 --> 01:22:26,360 Speaker 10: across his back, run across the hungry alligator's back, or 1571 01:22:26,479 --> 01:22:29,080 Speaker 10: ship with the resting lion for ten minutes? 1572 01:22:29,120 --> 01:22:31,640 Speaker 6: That that that that that line is more rested than 1573 01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:34,920 Speaker 6: we think. I'm sorry, I'm going I'm going across that 1574 01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:37,280 Speaker 6: alligator back. But I'm gonna be keep on going. Yeah, 1575 01:22:37,760 --> 01:22:39,880 Speaker 6: let me say something's gonna hard. 1576 01:22:40,400 --> 01:22:40,679 Speaker 1: Push. 1577 01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:43,479 Speaker 6: I'm going straight across his back. What I can't do 1578 01:22:43,600 --> 01:22:49,240 Speaker 6: is sit here for ten minutes on this line. First 1579 01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:52,960 Speaker 6: of all, he gonna smell fear, then all this other 1580 01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:54,040 Speaker 6: stuff he gonna smell. 1581 01:22:57,080 --> 01:22:59,960 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, there's too many smells. He gonna be good. 1582 01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:03,840 Speaker 6: Oh wow, one of them might be so bad. He 1583 01:23:03,920 --> 01:23:05,960 Speaker 6: probably might just pissed. The line off and he just 1584 01:23:06,040 --> 01:23:11,560 Speaker 6: feel it, laying up on my back like this, I 1585 01:23:11,680 --> 01:23:15,600 Speaker 6: could set up in here deprecated on yourself, laying on 1586 01:23:15,760 --> 01:23:16,120 Speaker 6: my back. 1587 01:23:17,280 --> 01:23:19,599 Speaker 1: Okay, do that lunch? 1588 01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:23,519 Speaker 8: What about your No, it's alligator. 1589 01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:31,559 Speaker 1: Chances, alligator back ten minutes with that line, the longest 1590 01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:33,479 Speaker 1: minutes of your life? All right? 1591 01:23:34,040 --> 01:23:38,880 Speaker 10: Would you rather have sex with someone who never showers? 1592 01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:42,200 Speaker 10: Or would you rather have sex with someone who never 1593 01:23:42,320 --> 01:23:43,320 Speaker 10: brushes their teeth? 1594 01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:43,880 Speaker 3: Oh? 1595 01:23:44,000 --> 01:23:45,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're a person that don't brush their teeth. 1596 01:23:48,040 --> 01:23:50,439 Speaker 6: Because I get I'm going I'm getting a position where 1597 01:23:50,439 --> 01:23:52,320 Speaker 6: I'm not gonna be knowing the I won't even I 1598 01:23:52,360 --> 01:23:55,080 Speaker 6: won't even know you got him out, you and I 1599 01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:59,880 Speaker 6: and I'm gonna put a mask on. I'm also sayings 1600 01:24:00,040 --> 01:24:01,479 Speaker 6: we can do. I won't even. I ain't even got 1601 01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:02,439 Speaker 6: to see your faith. 1602 01:24:04,120 --> 01:24:06,320 Speaker 1: I got in in ninety five. Mask on. I'm good. 1603 01:24:08,520 --> 01:24:12,599 Speaker 1: What you're doing? Shower? Yeah, shower? You know you can't 1604 01:24:12,640 --> 01:24:14,479 Speaker 1: get around. This is no kind of work. Just going 1605 01:24:14,520 --> 01:24:15,120 Speaker 1: to be horrible. 1606 01:24:18,200 --> 01:24:19,080 Speaker 13: That is the worst. 1607 01:24:19,320 --> 01:24:21,320 Speaker 1: Staying at the foot of the bed and just fank. 1608 01:24:25,520 --> 01:24:26,080 Speaker 3: What is that? 1609 01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:27,000 Speaker 11: What is that? 1610 01:24:27,200 --> 01:24:28,000 Speaker 1: Today's rounded? 1611 01:24:28,040 --> 01:24:30,679 Speaker 10: Would you rather coming up in forty nine minutes after 1612 01:24:30,760 --> 01:24:32,479 Speaker 10: the hour our last Break of the Day, and we'll 1613 01:24:32,520 --> 01:24:35,280 Speaker 10: have some closing remarks from the one and only, the Man, 1614 01:24:35,360 --> 01:24:35,840 Speaker 10: the myth, the. 1615 01:24:35,960 --> 01:24:37,200 Speaker 1: Legend, Steve Harvey. 1616 01:24:37,360 --> 01:24:40,880 Speaker 8: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1617 01:24:44,960 --> 01:24:47,439 Speaker 11: Hey it's Tommy and this season, fill your home with 1618 01:24:47,600 --> 01:24:51,360 Speaker 11: more than decorations. Fill it with festive playlists, nosalogic films, 1619 01:24:51,400 --> 01:24:52,519 Speaker 11: and classic games. 1620 01:24:52,320 --> 01:24:53,679 Speaker 1: That bring everyone together. 1621 01:24:53,880 --> 01:24:57,120 Speaker 11: With Sonos, the holidays come to life with speakers that 1622 01:24:57,200 --> 01:25:00,240 Speaker 11: connect throughout your home, wrapping all your guests in rich, 1623 01:25:00,400 --> 01:25:03,880 Speaker 11: detailed sound. Because the best gift doesn't sit under the tree, 1624 01:25:04,200 --> 01:25:07,080 Speaker 11: it plays in every room. Fred Joy that lasts long 1625 01:25:07,160 --> 01:25:10,519 Speaker 11: after the season. Explore Sono Soundbard, speakers and more at 1626 01:25:10,600 --> 01:25:11,599 Speaker 11: sonos dot com. 1627 01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:14,920 Speaker 1: Once again, the sos dot Com. 1628 01:25:15,880 --> 01:25:19,920 Speaker 10: Last Break of the Day, Steve, bless us with your 1629 01:25:19,960 --> 01:25:21,040 Speaker 10: closing remarks. 1630 01:25:21,680 --> 01:25:24,799 Speaker 1: Bless us, enlighten. 1631 01:25:25,000 --> 01:25:28,960 Speaker 6: H Yeah, that's heavy, bless us, It's really heavy. Yeah, 1632 01:25:28,960 --> 01:25:30,760 Speaker 6: I know, but I think of that, that's that puts 1633 01:25:30,800 --> 01:25:35,000 Speaker 6: me a motivating space. So I think of what I'm 1634 01:25:35,040 --> 01:25:38,160 Speaker 6: gonna do is talk to you about something that can 1635 01:25:38,240 --> 01:25:40,000 Speaker 6: help really move your life forward. 1636 01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:40,400 Speaker 9: You know. 1637 01:25:40,479 --> 01:25:43,400 Speaker 6: Oftentimes, you know, man, we get stumped because we get 1638 01:25:43,920 --> 01:25:46,600 Speaker 6: we find ourselves in a dark place much longer than 1639 01:25:46,640 --> 01:25:48,280 Speaker 6: we want to be there, and some of these dark 1640 01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:51,240 Speaker 6: places that we find ourselves here is because we don't 1641 01:25:51,240 --> 01:25:54,200 Speaker 6: have the right attitude to get out. I'm gonna tell 1642 01:25:54,280 --> 01:25:57,280 Speaker 6: you something that can help you move your life forward 1643 01:25:58,160 --> 01:25:59,960 Speaker 6: that could possibly be holding. 1644 01:25:59,760 --> 01:26:02,680 Speaker 1: You act without you even realizing. 1645 01:26:03,760 --> 01:26:03,800 Speaker 3: It. 1646 01:26:04,000 --> 01:26:11,080 Speaker 6: Is the act of forgiveness, Just the simple act of forgiveness. 1647 01:26:12,840 --> 01:26:12,960 Speaker 11: You know. 1648 01:26:13,000 --> 01:26:15,240 Speaker 6: I had Bishop Jakes on my show one time, and 1649 01:26:15,360 --> 01:26:19,479 Speaker 6: we were talking about how forgiveness slows people up because 1650 01:26:19,520 --> 01:26:23,640 Speaker 6: when you don't forgive, you have to harbor all of 1651 01:26:23,720 --> 01:26:24,640 Speaker 6: these feelings. 1652 01:26:25,080 --> 01:26:28,839 Speaker 1: When you don't forgive, you have to harbor the memory 1653 01:26:28,880 --> 01:26:29,400 Speaker 1: of something. 1654 01:26:29,760 --> 01:26:35,280 Speaker 6: When you don't forgive, you harbor all of the ways 1655 01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:39,200 Speaker 6: it made you feel, which keeps you in a low state. 1656 01:26:40,200 --> 01:26:42,560 Speaker 6: Instead of getting to the mountaintop, you stay in this 1657 01:26:43,160 --> 01:26:48,400 Speaker 6: valley the whole time, and it's a tough place to be. 1658 01:26:49,439 --> 01:26:52,559 Speaker 6: You can rid yourself of that low place in life 1659 01:26:53,080 --> 01:26:57,439 Speaker 6: with the act of forgiveness. A lot of us can't 1660 01:26:57,560 --> 01:27:02,360 Speaker 6: move forward because we're allowing something somebody did. 1661 01:27:02,280 --> 01:27:03,960 Speaker 1: To us hold us back. 1662 01:27:04,680 --> 01:27:07,639 Speaker 6: You know, I just can't get passed away he treated 1663 01:27:08,920 --> 01:27:13,200 Speaker 6: I just can't get passed away. My father left me. 1664 01:27:14,000 --> 01:27:18,720 Speaker 6: I cannot get past the way that my mama was. 1665 01:27:19,640 --> 01:27:25,120 Speaker 6: I just cannot get past the way of how my 1666 01:27:25,360 --> 01:27:29,759 Speaker 6: friends treated me. I thought this was my best friend. 1667 01:27:30,240 --> 01:27:36,680 Speaker 6: I cannot believe how they did me. Man, that's unthinkable. 1668 01:27:37,000 --> 01:27:40,439 Speaker 6: I just can't get past it. Well, if you say 1669 01:27:40,479 --> 01:27:42,519 Speaker 6: you won't get past it, I got news for you. 1670 01:27:42,960 --> 01:27:43,240 Speaker 1: You're not. 1671 01:27:44,320 --> 01:27:46,920 Speaker 6: And if you don't get past it, you can't move forward. 1672 01:27:48,280 --> 01:27:51,400 Speaker 6: See Bishop Jakes taught me this, forgiveness is not for 1673 01:27:51,560 --> 01:27:57,280 Speaker 6: the other person. Forgiveness is actually for you. See you 1674 01:27:57,479 --> 01:27:59,880 Speaker 6: do a person like I tell you what, every time 1675 01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:02,320 Speaker 6: they see me, I bet I ain't gonna forgive them. No, 1676 01:28:02,680 --> 01:28:05,519 Speaker 6: what actually happens is every time you see them, you 1677 01:28:05,640 --> 01:28:08,960 Speaker 6: relive the moment. Every time you see them, you drum 1678 01:28:09,080 --> 01:28:12,360 Speaker 6: up those old feelings. Every time you see them, you 1679 01:28:12,520 --> 01:28:17,679 Speaker 6: throw yourself into something. The person that you're not forgiving 1680 01:28:19,280 --> 01:28:23,000 Speaker 6: usually don't even know that you haven't forgiven them, and 1681 01:28:23,120 --> 01:28:28,040 Speaker 6: they have moved on with they life. They skipping. But 1682 01:28:28,240 --> 01:28:31,840 Speaker 6: because you have never forgave them or never brought it 1683 01:28:31,920 --> 01:28:34,559 Speaker 6: to their attention, so you think that it'll create closure 1684 01:28:34,640 --> 01:28:34,800 Speaker 6: for you. 1685 01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:35,799 Speaker 1: It won't. 1686 01:28:37,240 --> 01:28:40,799 Speaker 6: It won't the fact that you won't forgive a person 1687 01:28:41,160 --> 01:28:44,759 Speaker 6: does nothing to them. But it does so much damage 1688 01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:48,519 Speaker 6: to you. It's like a cancer in your body that 1689 01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:51,960 Speaker 6: festers and grows and over the years if you don't 1690 01:28:51,960 --> 01:28:54,920 Speaker 6: forgive enough, if you don't forgive a person, it stays 1691 01:28:55,040 --> 01:28:58,479 Speaker 6: with you and it causes so many ill feelings in you. 1692 01:28:58,840 --> 01:29:01,080 Speaker 1: And next thing you know, you can't move on with 1693 01:29:01,200 --> 01:29:05,440 Speaker 1: the next relationship because you still living in the other relationship. 1694 01:29:05,880 --> 01:29:08,759 Speaker 6: You can't move on to the next business deal because 1695 01:29:08,800 --> 01:29:10,720 Speaker 6: you so wiped out how they did you in that. 1696 01:29:10,880 --> 01:29:12,000 Speaker 1: Last business deal. 1697 01:29:12,520 --> 01:29:16,240 Speaker 6: You can't find yourself progressing with your friends, your new friends, 1698 01:29:16,439 --> 01:29:19,200 Speaker 6: because you can't move past what your old friend did 1699 01:29:19,240 --> 01:29:23,240 Speaker 6: to you. How many times, if you really think about it, 1700 01:29:24,320 --> 01:29:27,599 Speaker 6: has the act of non forgiving held you back? Probably 1701 01:29:27,720 --> 01:29:30,839 Speaker 6: more times than you think. I did it to myself. 1702 01:29:31,920 --> 01:29:34,080 Speaker 6: It was a guy man that ran a club for 1703 01:29:34,200 --> 01:29:37,680 Speaker 6: me in Dallas. Well, he took some money from me, 1704 01:29:38,720 --> 01:29:41,679 Speaker 6: and at the time it was thirty three thousand dollars. 1705 01:29:42,680 --> 01:29:46,080 Speaker 6: Now back then, man, that was all I had. I 1706 01:29:46,200 --> 01:29:49,280 Speaker 6: came from a gig and the money in account. They said, 1707 01:29:49,320 --> 01:29:52,960 Speaker 6: well it's gone, mister Harvey. You have some people signing 1708 01:29:53,040 --> 01:29:56,080 Speaker 6: and they removed the money. I said, okay, maybe I 1709 01:29:56,120 --> 01:29:59,040 Speaker 6: had to do some winning. I called him, he will 1710 01:29:59,080 --> 01:30:01,639 Speaker 6: answer the phone. We buy his office, and his office 1711 01:30:01,800 --> 01:30:04,960 Speaker 6: was cleared out, and I went and I came from 1712 01:30:04,960 --> 01:30:06,479 Speaker 6: a comedy gig and I came. 1713 01:30:06,400 --> 01:30:09,160 Speaker 1: Back to my club and all of a sudden, it 1714 01:30:09,280 --> 01:30:13,760 Speaker 1: was gone. And man, that was it. I said, hold up, 1715 01:30:13,880 --> 01:30:15,040 Speaker 1: just do a little took my money. 1716 01:30:16,040 --> 01:30:19,680 Speaker 6: I looked for him everywhere. Every time I heard man, 1717 01:30:19,880 --> 01:30:21,559 Speaker 6: I had people looking for him. Hey man, he help 1718 01:30:21,560 --> 01:30:24,200 Speaker 6: here getting a haircut. I get in my car forty 1719 01:30:24,240 --> 01:30:25,840 Speaker 6: minutes away, drive to the barbershop. 1720 01:30:26,160 --> 01:30:26,760 Speaker 1: Or he left. 1721 01:30:26,840 --> 01:30:29,479 Speaker 6: Man. I go to a club, Hey man, your boy 1722 01:30:29,600 --> 01:30:31,560 Speaker 6: just run out the back door. I run out the 1723 01:30:31,600 --> 01:30:33,920 Speaker 6: back door. I see his tail lights pulling through the gate. 1724 01:30:34,280 --> 01:30:36,800 Speaker 6: I looked for him for years, and for years and 1725 01:30:36,960 --> 01:30:41,240 Speaker 6: for years, man, I looked for this dude, man for 1726 01:30:41,600 --> 01:30:47,200 Speaker 6: seven years. And then something happened. My mama passed, and 1727 01:30:47,360 --> 01:30:52,040 Speaker 6: he sent the biggest flower arrangement to my mama's funeral 1728 01:30:52,200 --> 01:30:55,400 Speaker 6: because my mama taught him Sunday school. And I was 1729 01:30:55,439 --> 01:30:57,439 Speaker 6: sitting there and I read the car and it was 1730 01:30:57,520 --> 01:31:00,960 Speaker 6: from him. But at that moment, I didn't have time 1731 01:31:01,040 --> 01:31:04,840 Speaker 6: to hate him, because my mama was gone. And at 1732 01:31:04,880 --> 01:31:06,960 Speaker 6: that moment I realized what was really important to me, 1733 01:31:07,920 --> 01:31:10,080 Speaker 6: and he was so unimportant to me at that time, 1734 01:31:10,840 --> 01:31:13,599 Speaker 6: and so at that day I forgave him that day. 1735 01:31:14,960 --> 01:31:16,120 Speaker 1: Now, since then, had he. 1736 01:31:16,200 --> 01:31:20,559 Speaker 6: Stayed my manager, he would be making right now ten 1737 01:31:20,640 --> 01:31:24,280 Speaker 6: percent of everything I've earned. You do you have any 1738 01:31:24,280 --> 01:31:27,280 Speaker 6: idea what that check would be? But for thirty three 1739 01:31:27,360 --> 01:31:31,240 Speaker 6: thousand and I just forgave it. I was able to 1740 01:31:31,320 --> 01:31:33,880 Speaker 6: move on with my life. If I had allowed that 1741 01:31:34,040 --> 01:31:36,680 Speaker 6: to hold me there, I could be stuck right back 1742 01:31:36,760 --> 01:31:39,560 Speaker 6: at that thirty three. But because I was willing to 1743 01:31:39,720 --> 01:31:43,640 Speaker 6: let it go, God has opened up the windows of 1744 01:31:43,720 --> 01:31:46,280 Speaker 6: heaven and poured out of blessings. I ain't even got rich. 1745 01:31:46,840 --> 01:31:50,400 Speaker 6: His blessings chased me down. I am telling you you've 1746 01:31:50,439 --> 01:31:51,400 Speaker 6: got to let it go. 1747 01:31:52,400 --> 01:31:54,240 Speaker 1: Talk to God, love to himself. 1748 01:32:00,280 --> 01:32:03,719 Speaker 10: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, voidware prohibited. 1749 01:32:03,800 --> 01:32:07,280 Speaker 10: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1750 01:32:07,400 --> 01:32:08,679 Speaker 10: unless otherwise stated. 1751 01:32:08,760 --> 01:32:12,840 Speaker 8: For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM dot com. You're 1752 01:32:12,880 --> 01:32:15,360 Speaker 8: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.