WEBVTT - Joe Carr’s life and legacy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Gene also had to get underway in Here is

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<v Speaker 1>Ireland's Joe Car. You know, Joey's Joe Car has been

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<v Speaker 1>an outstanding player for many years. You'll notice that he

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<v Speaker 1>plays these T shirts left or right and he gets

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<v Speaker 1>the ball off a long way. Now he's playing that

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<v Speaker 1>small British polling tup or the large American ball. Joe's

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<v Speaker 1>had a very fine opening T shirts. You can't hit

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<v Speaker 1>it much out of than that. Put another log on five.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody here is getting tired. Welcome to the fire pit

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<v Speaker 1>with Matt Jonella. Always good to get back to this

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<v Speaker 1>fire pit. And for all you fathers out there, Happy

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<v Speaker 1>Father's Day. I love and appreciate my father. Happy Father's Day,

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<v Speaker 1>Papa John, but I appreciate him even more now that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a father. We're not perfect, but we live, we learn,

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<v Speaker 1>and we evolve. So to the dad's out there, I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you enjoy your day. And to the moms, trust me,

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<v Speaker 1>we are all well aware we couldn't do it without you.

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<v Speaker 1>On this Father's Day. A tribute to Joe Carr, who,

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<v Speaker 1>along with his wife Dorothy, raised six kids in a

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<v Speaker 1>house overlooking the second Green of Sutton Golf Club in Dublin, Ireland.

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<v Speaker 1>The opening clip was from ninety four Shells Wonderful World

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<v Speaker 1>of Golf at Ireland's Killarney Golf and Fishing Club, in

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<v Speaker 1>which Joe Carr and al Geiberger both shot seventy four,

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<v Speaker 1>which was even part. Joe Carr was also known as

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<v Speaker 1>j B. He won three British Amateur Championships and was

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<v Speaker 1>a semi finalist at the nineteen sixty one U S

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<v Speaker 1>Amateur at Pebble Beach. He won six Irish Amateurs, were

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<v Speaker 1>Irish Amateur Opens, twelve West of Ireland's twelve East of

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<v Speaker 1>Ireland's three South of Irelands, and he played in ten

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<v Speaker 1>Walker Cups. He was the first Irishman to become captain

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<v Speaker 1>of the RNA in and was inducted into the World

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<v Speaker 1>Golf Hall of Fame in two thousand seven by his

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<v Speaker 1>friend Jack Nicholas. I go back to nineteen fifty I

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<v Speaker 1>first met Joe car and played in the Walker Top

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<v Speaker 1>matches at Rearfield, Scotland. And there was this big, lanky,

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<v Speaker 1>raw boned guy that hit it a long way. He

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<v Speaker 1>played it all totally left or right. Uh hit a

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<v Speaker 1>long way, kept in play and Jack told me he

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<v Speaker 1>played a lot of golf with Joe Carr, and that

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<v Speaker 1>JB paid for a lot of Barbara's finest sweaters. JB's

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<v Speaker 1>sons will tell you he got his money back from

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<v Speaker 1>Jack at the poker table. Well, let's first way he

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<v Speaker 1>was he was not only a good player, he was

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<v Speaker 1>a great friend. And both Barbara and I, uh I

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<v Speaker 1>love Joe Car. We just we had we thought the

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<v Speaker 1>world of it, and uh it raised good kids and

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<v Speaker 1>uh so you know that's not that's not nothing too

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<v Speaker 1>bad about that. Nicholas told me he had great respect

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<v Speaker 1>and admiration for Joe Car the player and the man.

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<v Speaker 1>Jack shares a story now about his win at the

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen sixty two US Open at oak Mark, which made

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<v Speaker 1>me late entry for the Open Championship at Troon that year.

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<v Speaker 1>Joe Car to the rescue. I qualified my pairing, I

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<v Speaker 1>was added to the field. It was a hundred fifty

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<v Speaker 1>players plus Jack Nicholas. So I was. I was prepaired

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<v Speaker 1>by myself with the marker in the opening round of

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<v Speaker 1>the British Open. Be ridiculous. Joe Carr went to the

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<v Speaker 1>R and A S and this is a disgrace. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>how can you have the US Open champion over here. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you have no respect for the for the U s

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<v Speaker 1>g A, and they're they're champion to do this. So

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<v Speaker 1>they changed the part because Joe and I had played

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<v Speaker 1>in a threesome. Joe Carr had five sons and a daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>all within fourteen years of each other. Roddy, the second son,

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<v Speaker 1>is the most accomplished golfer, sinking the winning part for

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<v Speaker 1>Great Britain and Ireland on the eighteenth green of the

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<v Speaker 1>Old Course at St Andrew's in the nineteen seventy one

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<v Speaker 1>Walker Cup. Roddy played ten years on the European Tour,

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<v Speaker 1>later working for IMG, going into business with Sevy by

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<v Speaker 1>Osteros and has worked with Nicholas design. I asked Roddy

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<v Speaker 1>to reflect on his father, the competitor he would set

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<v Speaker 1>out to break the man. He couldn't tell me have

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<v Speaker 1>to do that, because he told me you played part,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you played part, you beat the guy. But

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<v Speaker 1>he and all he knew he couldn't have to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I watched him. Great people like bodies and minds

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<v Speaker 1>and souls were crushed because you'd be in the gore

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<v Speaker 1>plushes summer thinking and the guy be one up and

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden JA and hack out of this

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<v Speaker 1>thing with a forwood into about front. There. I was done.

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<v Speaker 1>I had two on and three button and the man

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<v Speaker 1>was lost. So he set out and he broke most

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<v Speaker 1>of it. He broke people. Marty Carr, the youngest of

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<v Speaker 1>the six car kids, is now the executive chairman of

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<v Speaker 1>car Golf Travel, a company that coordinates golf trips to Ireland,

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<v Speaker 1>Scotland and other top destinations around the world. Marty and

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<v Speaker 1>his staff run the Father Son and the Father Daughter

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<v Speaker 1>tournaments in Waterville, and I'm lucky enough to call him

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<v Speaker 1>a dear friend. Marty shares some more of his father's

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<v Speaker 1>golf accomplishments. First Captain of the Royal Ancient Gold of

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<v Speaker 1>St Andrews. There has been a kill one of the

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<v Speaker 1>captains since first Irishman, and he's the first Irishman. I

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<v Speaker 1>think he's the only first known the Irishman in the

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<v Speaker 1>World Golf Hall of Fame, first Irishman member of a

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<v Speaker 1>ghost to first Irishman to play in the Masters, So

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<v Speaker 1>you know he in terms of golfing terms, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you twenty eight honorary life memberships, thirty holds and one.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he had like Purty course records. He the

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<v Speaker 1>older than News and that is at the same time

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<v Speaker 1>he had port Rush record hol like all his course

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<v Speaker 1>records are on that big dish set of golf. Like

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<v Speaker 1>he he had an incredible, incredible record. John Carr, number

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<v Speaker 1>four in the family, made it to the semifinals and

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<v Speaker 1>a British amateur, has had a successful career in the

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<v Speaker 1>oil business and as a member of Augusta National. John

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<v Speaker 1>who still plays off the scratch on something most people

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<v Speaker 1>don't know about his father. I mean, listen, you could,

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<v Speaker 1>you could. You can list off his accomplishments in golf,

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<v Speaker 1>you can list off of the accomplishments in business. But

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<v Speaker 1>actually you know he got an honorary degree in law

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<v Speaker 1>from Trinity College having not finished high school and and

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<v Speaker 1>and went to play the East of Iron Championship instead

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<v Speaker 1>of finishing exams. So I think that's pretty cool. Me

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<v Speaker 1>only you ever used it. I wouldn't say the name.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's two other un redoctorates in Ireland and he

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<v Speaker 1>would only ever use his doctor title when he was

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<v Speaker 1>when his assistant was ringing them for something, Doctor Carr

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Over the years, as I've traveled around Ireland,

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<v Speaker 1>I've become enamored by the fact that you can't go

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<v Speaker 1>into any clubhouse without seeing Joe Carr's name on the

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<v Speaker 1>walls of past champions. He's everywhere, which is ultimately what

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<v Speaker 1>inspired this podcast. I've always wanted to know more So,

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<v Speaker 1>in addition to Jack Nicholas, I interviewed Roddy, John and

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<v Speaker 1>Marty separately, asking them all the same set of questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's Roddy John and then Marty on when they realized

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<v Speaker 1>their father was great at golf. He was the man.

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<v Speaker 1>He was bigger than all the pros. So he was

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<v Speaker 1>in the final of the British Amateur INTI and like,

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<v Speaker 1>at that moment you really that he won the British

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<v Speaker 1>Amateur in Port Rush, you know, in front of his

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<v Speaker 1>home crowd and tomorrow into this guy over thirty six

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<v Speaker 1>holes and then the drive back, So driving back with

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<v Speaker 1>the old man, you kind of that was the first

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<v Speaker 1>real you know, realization that my father was the champion

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<v Speaker 1>that he was. And then they was dectinitely got back

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<v Speaker 1>in sudden they had a big dinner and then the

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<v Speaker 1>people waiting and he was parading around in open rolls

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<v Speaker 1>Royce down the streets of Suddon so you know, he

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<v Speaker 1>was a superstar in those days before media kind of

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<v Speaker 1>kicked in. So that was really the first memory. More

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<v Speaker 1>perspective from John Carr, he was just my dad growing up.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't he wasn't a famous golfer. I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it so much later in life. He was my

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<v Speaker 1>Irish captain when I played for Ireland are and we

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<v Speaker 1>went to Portugal after I left school to to play

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<v Speaker 1>golf with Henry Cotton. But again it was it was

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<v Speaker 1>just it was just growing up with that. It wasn't really,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, spectacularly special as far as our appreciation of

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<v Speaker 1>him as a confert. More from Marty, I think for

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<v Speaker 1>me it was when when I was at sports day

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<v Speaker 1>when I was in in lower high school, when my

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<v Speaker 1>dad arrived the hole of sports, they would stop and

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<v Speaker 1>the sports teacher, the headmas should go over. There would

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<v Speaker 1>be conversation with him when everybod's waiting around bridge. So

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<v Speaker 1>then I kind of us he was. He was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a large like character. What's the swing tip that

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<v Speaker 1>you always think about or are quick to pass on

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<v Speaker 1>to others? Is there something as it relates to the

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<v Speaker 1>game of golf that in your mind when you tee

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<v Speaker 1>up a ball, or when you're over a wedge, when

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<v Speaker 1>you're over a plot, was there is there something that

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<v Speaker 1>has always stuck with you? We had John Jacobs as

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<v Speaker 1>our teacher, who is actually the fundamental teacher of Michael Bannon.

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<v Speaker 1>Butch Harmon, I mean Bush came over to his funeral.

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<v Speaker 1>He lives in our house, get side of eleven shoes

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<v Speaker 1>and the b six kids jumping on his bed in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning and stuff. So he would be the foundation

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<v Speaker 1>of all the great teachers and today. So so all

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<v Speaker 1>of the teachings were based on the simplicity of John Jacobs,

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<v Speaker 1>which were turned turn your shoulders, I got club goes

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<v Speaker 1>up and turned through. So that was it. So every

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<v Speaker 1>morning we would hit two hundred balls to be a

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<v Speaker 1>snake of balls, teeth up outside of our house on

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<v Speaker 1>the thing of jb would walk out in his track

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<v Speaker 1>suit and just go turn hit, turn, hit, turn hit.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was always just you know, and on the inside,

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<v Speaker 1>turn wide back inside, much like Jacobs, which is mcail roy.

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<v Speaker 1>So before John died, before Jacobs we call him died,

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<v Speaker 1>he's I said to him, you know, isn't that mcal

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<v Speaker 1>roy swing looks like this swing that you were trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get JB to do for years. He said, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the best I've ever seen. So there's kind of that

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<v Speaker 1>picture of set up, why turn and any inside and

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<v Speaker 1>let a RiPP and JB ripped it. So that's the

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<v Speaker 1>simple thoughts that he lived with all all his life.

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<v Speaker 1>He was a wonderful bunker player, and he kind of

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<v Speaker 1>he just got up very early. And he would always say,

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<v Speaker 1>lift the ball. You don't, you don't splash it at,

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<v Speaker 1>you lift the ball at. You lift the ball. I

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<v Speaker 1>have a rolling towards the boat. But obviously I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>this thing very well as you can sail, because you

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<v Speaker 1>played a lot of golf for me, so I never

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<v Speaker 1>really have a better bunch of lifted out, lifted out

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<v Speaker 1>of the bunk around to try and hit it out

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<v Speaker 1>of the book and lifted out. And as a following

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<v Speaker 1>story for that, inbou nineteen he was referring a match

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<v Speaker 1>I think Roddy was commentating, actually a match between Jack

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<v Speaker 1>Nicklaus and Christie O'Connor, Dannam and Juliot and on the

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<v Speaker 1>second hold Jack short and short sighted himself in in

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<v Speaker 1>the bunker right, and he splashed this thing out to

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<v Speaker 1>about two inches. So after the game, I walked into

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<v Speaker 1>my dad said, down, for all of my life, you've

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<v Speaker 1>been saying lift the ball, lift the ball out of

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<v Speaker 1>the sun. And so the greatest god for the world

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<v Speaker 1>has ever seen as commun Juliot short sight himself on

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<v Speaker 1>two and splashed the all out to an inch, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, jack is a terrible bunker player. You can

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<v Speaker 1>never play bunkers. And then I've had this conversation with

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<v Speaker 1>Jackie Jackson when it wasn't and I really just played

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<v Speaker 1>its play away from bunkers. I didn't I didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>I had to be good at get out about it.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's just the way he saw it. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>way he saw the world. The life tip that has

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<v Speaker 1>always meant the most. You've beyond the game of golf.

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<v Speaker 1>Outworked them. That was his male model, Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I worked them simple, It's like carry you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean maybe you know you think about it. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he had a nine to five jobs, six kids. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>half dead trying to rear two. You know you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're only starting six kids, a nine to five job.

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<v Speaker 1>You get up in the morning. He'd hit two hundred balls,

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<v Speaker 1>get in this car, drive to work, come home after

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<v Speaker 1>at six o'clock, go out into the bunker with the

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<v Speaker 1>lights on it. Spent two hours there and then go

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<v Speaker 1>and hit another hunter of balls in the driving and

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<v Speaker 1>you come back in and go to bed. And every

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<v Speaker 1>weekend you're going to do eight hours stay digging up

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<v Speaker 1>half the practice. Gonna put my arnic until they banned them,

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<v Speaker 1>because he was like pac Man eating the practice ground

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<v Speaker 1>there with the amount of balls he took, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and hit with the drivers. So that's all we were

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<v Speaker 1>ever taught, you know, outworked them. More perspective from John Carr.

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<v Speaker 1>Very deep for me. I spent a lot of time

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<v Speaker 1>with my dad, maybe the last and fifteen twenty years

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<v Speaker 1>of his life. The biggest tip again which I passed

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<v Speaker 1>down to my kids and I've lived it's almost like

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<v Speaker 1>a life code. It's give expecting nothing in return. So

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<v Speaker 1>and I've lived by that creed and it's it's been incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an incredible gift to be able to give expecting

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<v Speaker 1>nothing in return. More reflections from Marty Carr. He was

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<v Speaker 1>an extraordinary man. He he you know, never really heard

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<v Speaker 1>anybody ever say anything negative about he was. He was

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<v Speaker 1>he was, he was He treated everybody the same. He

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<v Speaker 1>used to always say to us, you know you're better

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<v Speaker 1>than nobody, and nobody's better than you. Remember that in

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<v Speaker 1>your mind. What is JB's lasting legacy, Well, I think

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<v Speaker 1>without a doubt, and for him it was being awarded

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<v Speaker 1>the Bobby John's Award, which was for international sportsmanshipping an ambassador,

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<v Speaker 1>international ambassador of goodwill and for the hegrity of the game.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he was invited by Bobby Jones personally to

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<v Speaker 1>play in nineteen sixties seven as the amateur in Europe

0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:09.959
<v Speaker 1>that Bobby Jones wanted to play at the Masters, and

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<v Speaker 1>they would have afternoon tea, Mary and Bobby and my

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<v Speaker 1>father and my mother door. They would have afternoon tea

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<v Speaker 1>every every afternoon because this was amateur to amateur in

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<v Speaker 1>those days, people forget the amateurs were big news. So

0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:26.200
<v Speaker 1>JB was kind of the counterpart for Jones as an

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<v Speaker 1>amateur obviously do what Jones did, but there was a

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<v Speaker 1>respect between Jones and my father. So he was really

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<v Speaker 1>really tough to get that Bobby Jones Award, acknowledging his

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<v Speaker 1>role in promoting international fellowship, integrity and sportsmanship, which is

0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:44.680
<v Speaker 1>what that award is all about. And there's not that

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<v Speaker 1>many names on that that are that. You know, everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody is on that has done their thing and and

0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:53.560
<v Speaker 1>deserved it. He went to sant Down's the nineteen fifty

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<v Speaker 1>eight as a fifties seven as a preview for the

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<v Speaker 1>amateur and and he played in NaN's and he came

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<v Speaker 1>back and he said to my mother, you know I

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<v Speaker 1>just figured it all that he said I have to

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<v Speaker 1>do and say that it is the driver and eight

0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:09.600
<v Speaker 1>are in a wet and you can win. So that

0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:13.040
<v Speaker 1>winter he hit fifty thousand drives, fifty thou and fifty

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<v Speaker 1>thou wages. My mom logged every shot he wore at

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<v Speaker 1>the face of a lanter topping driver or at the

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<v Speaker 1>grooves of his eight are in his wedge, and he

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<v Speaker 1>went over him on the tournament next to the next June.

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<v Speaker 1>So he had you know, again, he trained with football

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<v Speaker 1>teams in the fifties. You know, running he was, he was.

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<v Speaker 1>He ran every morning. You know. He used to have

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<v Speaker 1>his caddy would come and tee up a hundred bolls

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<v Speaker 1>outside our house on the golf course. When he got

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<v Speaker 1>up every morning he hit a hundred drives. He'd run

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<v Speaker 1>down the beach, come back and another hundred drives teed up.

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<v Speaker 1>He did another hund of drives and he get into

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<v Speaker 1>his car and we went to work. And when there

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<v Speaker 1>was a frost out, the caddy would use a kettle

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<v Speaker 1>of boiling water to break the ground so we could

0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:55.240
<v Speaker 1>tea up the hundred balls. So he was just a

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<v Speaker 1>prodigious worker. He worked so hard on his game. He

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<v Speaker 1>understood the game really well, and he loves people and

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<v Speaker 1>he loves completing, you know. That's why it was also

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<v Speaker 1>a very good catalyst for people's personality. So that's why

0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:10.720
<v Speaker 1>I think you get on to someone with Jack Nicklaus.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think his legacy was he was he was

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<v Speaker 1>a really really solid fair He was a great friend.

0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:18.920
<v Speaker 1>He tells a great story about the game of golf.

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<v Speaker 1>In his relationship with the game of golf. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he said, in those days, we had the

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<v Speaker 1>troubles in the North. And he said, you know, we

0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:27.400
<v Speaker 1>come from a trouble island. He said, you know, North

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<v Speaker 1>and South, Protestant, Catholic, you know all this all this conflict.

0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:33.200
<v Speaker 1>And he said, but you know, the beauty thing about

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<v Speaker 1>golf is it does a matter where in the words

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<v Speaker 1>you wire, you're standing the first team doesn't matter whether

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<v Speaker 1>you're black or white, Catholic or president. You know, nobody

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<v Speaker 1>cares all they one of those what your handicap is.

0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:44.240
<v Speaker 1>And then when you tell them, they don't believe you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, if you go, you know, and you end

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<v Speaker 1>up being friends of the golf course. So I suppose

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<v Speaker 1>it does. It is the ultimate. It is the ultimate,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I think, I think, I think. I think

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<v Speaker 1>his friendship and his and his fair sense of fairness

0:16:55.560 --> 0:16:57.920
<v Speaker 1>and a sense of equality. He was. He was. He

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<v Speaker 1>was truly a great guy. What would be your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>story about your dad's greatness, something that kind of encapsulates

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<v Speaker 1>how good he was. When dad was about eight, just

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<v Speaker 1>around the time when we were working on the book

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<v Speaker 1>Breaking a d I managed to find some archive footage

0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:24.520
<v Speaker 1>and I got it. I've got a lot of archive

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<v Speaker 1>footage of my dad in the early years. Well. One

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<v Speaker 1>of the one of the pieces I found was in

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<v Speaker 1>NT one Irish amateur final at Portmartik when he was

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<v Speaker 1>beaten by cessi Ewing. It was a kind of money

0:17:41.400 --> 0:17:44.760
<v Speaker 1>he was like there were archrivals of the day and

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<v Speaker 1>he was beating on the seventeen and he walked off

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<v Speaker 1>the green and he was smiling, and he shook everybody's hand.

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<v Speaker 1>And I used that as an example to my kids

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<v Speaker 1>to say, look at this man here walking up the

0:17:57.320 --> 0:17:59.359
<v Speaker 1>seven green. Has he won or has he lost? He

0:17:59.359 --> 0:18:01.920
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't know that, friends, And to me, that was the

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<v Speaker 1>greatness of the man. You know, he was a great competitor,

0:18:05.840 --> 0:18:07.720
<v Speaker 1>but he was a great winner, and he he was

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<v Speaker 1>a great wizard. So I think that's a great quality

0:18:10.640 --> 0:18:12.000
<v Speaker 1>and that's you know, as I said, I used that

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<v Speaker 1>as a guide to my kids. He played the Walk

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<v Speaker 1>up in sixty nine. I played in seventy one, so

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<v Speaker 1>we played for Leinster together. We only missed it by one.

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<v Speaker 1>We were really I was trying to get him to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out but like he was fifty at that stay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we were really trying to be a father on

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<v Speaker 1>sun job on that. So anyway, about nine nine he

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<v Speaker 1>sent me off to Florida to Pine Tree where crewman

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<v Speaker 1>can all to learn how to play out to that

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<v Speaker 1>that so I was there, came back to play in

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<v Speaker 1>the South of Ireland and I was a good player

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<v Speaker 1>then and I didn't make the cut to get into

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<v Speaker 1>the match play and he was confounded him because he

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<v Speaker 1>knew I was a good player, but like for him.

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<v Speaker 1>And he kind of came to me and he said, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to caddy for me. And this was his

0:18:52.560 --> 0:18:55.399
<v Speaker 1>thirty nine championship that he you know, this is before,

0:18:56.080 --> 0:18:58.000
<v Speaker 1>and he said, I'm going to show you how easy

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<v Speaker 1>just to win one of these things. It's ridiculous. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>you're good enough to win, you can't even qualify. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna cartach for me. I'm gonna show you. My

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<v Speaker 1>favorite story is he's done on a hinch playing in

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<v Speaker 1>the in the South of Virlin against the semifinal of

0:19:10.920 --> 0:19:13.200
<v Speaker 1>the final the South of Ireland back in in the

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<v Speaker 1>late fifties and he's playing a match against old Fogerty

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<v Speaker 1>and Ruddy's on the bag. I'm sure Roddy might tell

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<v Speaker 1>this one better. He always had this thing in match

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<v Speaker 1>play with my mother, who would walk every hall with him.

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<v Speaker 1>When he got to three up, there's always too you know,

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<v Speaker 1>two matches morning afternoon, my mother would go in and

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<v Speaker 1>make the sandwiches for the car because no man alive

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<v Speaker 1>could ever get out, could beat you know, could beat

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<v Speaker 1>JB if you got three up, because nobody can ever

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<v Speaker 1>win four homes off and so match over three up,

0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:42.680
<v Speaker 1>not to mother mother, But head and make the sandwiches

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<v Speaker 1>for the afternoon match. Wait for him to come in.

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<v Speaker 1>He got at the car, half the sandwich, come out

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<v Speaker 1>and dust the next guy six and five, seven and six,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it was. This was the scene. And we get

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<v Speaker 1>through and he says to me as we go along,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, now, he said, I'm I'm kind of two

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<v Speaker 1>up on the first team, and the guy's expecting to

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<v Speaker 1>be two down after four. You know, my job is

0:20:03.119 --> 0:20:05.879
<v Speaker 1>to make sure he is two down after four. We

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<v Speaker 1>get to the final and he's playing against No Fogerty,

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<v Speaker 1>his own book maker friend, you know, who only shook hands.

0:20:11.600 --> 0:20:13.880
<v Speaker 1>He shook the hand with these guys, no contracts or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>And all was one of his great buddies from earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>And they had seven kids, and we had six kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're playing in the south to see but fog

0:20:20.480 --> 0:20:22.159
<v Speaker 1>and I was a fearsome friend of his, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was a good boxer, so he wouldn't have been intimidated

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of the other guys that would have

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<v Speaker 1>fallen by the wayside, just on nerves alone. Like and

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<v Speaker 1>those those days it was rootless hand to hand combat. Right,

0:20:33.280 --> 0:20:36.480
<v Speaker 1>four thousand people, I've come back from America, caddying for

0:20:36.560 --> 0:20:39.159
<v Speaker 1>Poppy've justusted everybody along the way. Nobody got past the

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen hole. We're three down after five in the hinch,

0:20:43.960 --> 0:20:47.440
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like John chiggy chiggy cheeky, heading for the

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<v Speaker 1>dell hole, and I'm looking at the Pop was marching

0:20:50.600 --> 0:20:54.480
<v Speaker 1>along thousands of people everywhere as a pop. You know

0:20:54.600 --> 0:20:59.880
<v Speaker 1>that three down run? This isn't funny, is it? That's

0:21:00.000 --> 0:21:01.920
<v Speaker 1>do you know? You you're three down? Pop? Because I

0:21:02.040 --> 0:21:05.280
<v Speaker 1>was translating it the other way, you know, he said

0:21:05.320 --> 0:21:08.120
<v Speaker 1>what he said? What are you talking? If I don't

0:21:08.160 --> 0:21:12.320
<v Speaker 1>lose another hole, I win by two and one if

0:21:12.359 --> 0:21:17.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't lose another hole. It was an incredible strategy.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't go chasing. I didn't say I gotta win. He

0:21:21.320 --> 0:21:24.720
<v Speaker 1>hung around. He was man to man, don't go chasing.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you go four down, you go five down. Part

0:21:27.280 --> 0:21:29.640
<v Speaker 1>party man throws the one back, part part throws another

0:21:29.680 --> 0:21:33.200
<v Speaker 1>one back. Things going to court, the plan, No panic,

0:21:34.080 --> 0:21:38.639
<v Speaker 1>back to one down with five to go, perfectly on schedule.

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<v Speaker 1>No panic. What's whoever saw we get? It's two drivers

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<v Speaker 1>onto the third thing to think in three pots that

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<v Speaker 1>you know, which upset him a little bit. Well, one

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<v Speaker 1>down the sixteen part three. And at this stage, like

0:21:51.280 --> 0:21:54.959
<v Speaker 1>he had trained me with yardages, books, you know, measurements everything,

0:21:55.040 --> 0:21:58.440
<v Speaker 1>he didn't do that never just what he couldn't do.

0:21:58.560 --> 0:22:00.520
<v Speaker 1>So I get up to the seventies and then throwing

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<v Speaker 1>the grass up, not funny, four tailsand people it says,

0:22:04.480 --> 0:22:06.720
<v Speaker 1>I said, pop, it's a hundred and seventy five. One

0:22:06.800 --> 0:22:11.520
<v Speaker 1>club wins one club elevation. He said, eight iron, eight iron,

0:22:13.760 --> 0:22:17.520
<v Speaker 1>eight iron, because that's the shot. He saw, a raking

0:22:17.600 --> 0:22:20.200
<v Speaker 1>hook with a divid two foot long, you know, driven

0:22:20.240 --> 0:22:22.720
<v Speaker 1>into the wind, you know whatever. Anyway, if he lis

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<v Speaker 1>this thing, it plugs under the face of this seaside

0:22:27.840 --> 0:22:30.680
<v Speaker 1>bunker as and you can barely see, like an egg pitch.

0:22:30.800 --> 0:22:33.160
<v Speaker 1>Now fo gets up with a fore iron and hits

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of a chokey hook that scrambled down to

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<v Speaker 1>the front of the green. Not funny, one down, three

0:22:38.200 --> 0:22:40.760
<v Speaker 1>to play, you know, plugged in the face of the bunk.

0:22:40.800 --> 0:22:42.760
<v Speaker 1>Here man at the front edge of the green forty away,

0:22:43.520 --> 0:22:45.440
<v Speaker 1>get down into the bunker. I look at it, and,

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<v Speaker 1>as I would always do, thinking what's the best I

0:22:47.920 --> 0:22:51.240
<v Speaker 1>could do here? I'm thinking I couldn't see the bone,

0:22:51.280 --> 0:22:54.040
<v Speaker 1>never mind moved JB had a club called the Monster,

0:22:54.119 --> 0:22:56.080
<v Speaker 1>which had a flange on it was a big, huge

0:22:56.080 --> 0:22:58.240
<v Speaker 1>flag of the old days. So he gets into the bunker.

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<v Speaker 1>He lifted the front of the bunker onto the green.

0:23:02.080 --> 0:23:05.080
<v Speaker 1>The whole the ball then burst out at the debris

0:23:05.760 --> 0:23:08.720
<v Speaker 1>and then trickled itself out of the debris. Literally half

0:23:08.760 --> 0:23:10.480
<v Speaker 1>the bunker face ended up on the game. The ball

0:23:10.560 --> 0:23:14.000
<v Speaker 1>first for about two feet inside of fog you know what.

0:23:14.040 --> 0:23:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Fogerty was the guy's name. So I'm thinking, Jesus, how

0:23:17.040 --> 0:23:20.480
<v Speaker 1>do we lifted out there? So anyway, just about Fogo

0:23:20.720 --> 0:23:24.439
<v Speaker 1>puts it up to four ft little choky you can

0:23:24.480 --> 0:23:27.760
<v Speaker 1>feel it, and JBB the know to be, you know,

0:23:27.920 --> 0:23:30.560
<v Speaker 1>on that stuff. So just JB is just about to

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<v Speaker 1>put the Angelus goes. It is twelve o'clock in the hinge.

0:23:36.119 --> 0:23:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Twelve o'clock the prayer, the Angelus. Everybody's wearing hats in

0:23:40.080 --> 0:23:45.120
<v Speaker 1>those days, so everything stops. The crowds of those days

0:23:45.160 --> 0:23:48.080
<v Speaker 1>were bigger than the crowds and professional tournaments in Europe now,

0:23:48.200 --> 0:23:50.880
<v Speaker 1>so it was extradited. But five thousand people around the green,

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<v Speaker 1>the Angela spells on the local church ring. Everybody gets

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<v Speaker 1>down on their hands and these and they say the

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<v Speaker 1>decade of the Rosary, right, so they will marry for

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<v Speaker 1>the grace. Caddy puts the pin down, named the fathers

0:24:00.320 --> 0:24:02.399
<v Speaker 1>son of the Holly, the angel Lord. It's it's a

0:24:02.480 --> 0:24:06.960
<v Speaker 1>six minute prayer. You know. Hats are on the things.

0:24:07.000 --> 0:24:09.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm signed with the bag looking around this scene. No

0:24:09.160 --> 0:24:12.200
<v Speaker 1>one I'm supposed to have my head bout thinking choking me.

0:24:12.920 --> 0:24:16.639
<v Speaker 1>You know this is crazy. But so I look over

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<v Speaker 1>at JP, and JP wing set me to myself. What

0:24:21.040 --> 0:24:22.520
<v Speaker 1>has he got to wink at the amounts up there?

0:24:22.600 --> 0:24:25.240
<v Speaker 1>Four ft, he's thirty five ft. He's one dawn with

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<v Speaker 1>three to play. Not funny. So anyway, Andel has finished

0:24:29.400 --> 0:24:32.120
<v Speaker 1>his hats go back on. Things settled down again. JP

0:24:32.240 --> 0:24:36.200
<v Speaker 1>goes up, breaks the back of the hole. Paul goes in,

0:24:36.400 --> 0:24:39.280
<v Speaker 1>your man, your janks at two ft left, you know win.

0:24:40.240 --> 0:24:41.920
<v Speaker 1>He hooked it out of bounds in the next hole.

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<v Speaker 1>We win the championship. He is dy a big week

0:24:45.280 --> 0:24:47.080
<v Speaker 1>and they moved on and he won the tournament and

0:24:48.040 --> 0:24:50.160
<v Speaker 1>the driving back of the car j he says, ready,

0:24:50.960 --> 0:24:57.320
<v Speaker 1>that's not how to win a championship. Cut. I'm driving

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<v Speaker 1>home that night. The six of us in this mark

0:24:59.200 --> 0:25:02.680
<v Speaker 1>for speeding at a. I'm looking in the mirror JB's eyes.

0:25:02.880 --> 0:25:07.119
<v Speaker 1>I said, how did you know, Pop? How did you know?

0:25:08.200 --> 0:25:11.920
<v Speaker 1>You know you're gonna hold it? He said, what I said,

0:25:12.080 --> 0:25:15.200
<v Speaker 1>how did you know? You winked at me? He said,

0:25:15.440 --> 0:25:20.560
<v Speaker 1>should he left the door open? Didn't he? And that's

0:25:21.760 --> 0:25:24.840
<v Speaker 1>that's man of the manor that's when you understood about

0:25:24.880 --> 0:25:28.159
<v Speaker 1>your old man and funny No. Further on down the

0:25:28.280 --> 0:25:31.400
<v Speaker 1>road we ended up sliding off the end of the road.

0:25:31.440 --> 0:25:33.280
<v Speaker 1>We went to the Curlews. In those days, they were

0:25:33.320 --> 0:25:35.560
<v Speaker 1>all slides, and then we were driving the car slid

0:25:35.640 --> 0:25:37.440
<v Speaker 1>off the side of the road. So Fogo, the guy

0:25:37.480 --> 0:25:40.240
<v Speaker 1>you beat in the final was driving by with the

0:25:40.359 --> 0:25:42.760
<v Speaker 1>seven kids in the back of the carrier, the station wagon,

0:25:43.280 --> 0:25:45.800
<v Speaker 1>and he pulls over. He sees jbs car slid down

0:25:46.119 --> 0:25:48.280
<v Speaker 1>kind of a side of the DNS. Okay. He phones

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<v Speaker 1>down the window and he says, Joe, you can't keep

0:25:51.320 --> 0:25:53.000
<v Speaker 1>it on the fairway and you can't keep it on

0:25:53.080 --> 0:26:03.000
<v Speaker 1>the road. Good luck and prove what would you believe?

0:26:03.480 --> 0:26:06.840
<v Speaker 1>He's most proud of in terms of you in your life.

0:26:07.600 --> 0:26:11.120
<v Speaker 1>He couldn't ever understand how I failed on the tour,

0:26:11.600 --> 0:26:13.680
<v Speaker 1>because he knew how good a player was I could

0:26:13.720 --> 0:26:15.600
<v Speaker 1>beat the kite from Watson and those guys in the

0:26:15.680 --> 0:26:17.760
<v Speaker 1>Walker Cup and stuff like that. But when I went

0:26:17.800 --> 0:26:20.960
<v Speaker 1>to the tour, I started, so that would be the

0:26:21.400 --> 0:26:24.240
<v Speaker 1>public the area that he could never come to terms with.

0:26:24.560 --> 0:26:27.160
<v Speaker 1>I think the fact that I ended up going off

0:26:27.440 --> 0:26:30.280
<v Speaker 1>and then developing another career thanks to Mark for comic

0:26:30.359 --> 0:26:33.280
<v Speaker 1>getting my I calling my Harvard education, he kind of

0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:34.920
<v Speaker 1>liked that. And then I ended up kind of with

0:26:35.080 --> 0:26:37.960
<v Speaker 1>Sevy and and working with Jack and bringing Jack to

0:26:38.040 --> 0:26:40.640
<v Speaker 1>Ireland to play, you know, play there for the first time.

0:26:40.680 --> 0:26:42.440
<v Speaker 1>So things like that that he kind of got along

0:26:42.480 --> 0:26:44.440
<v Speaker 1>the way that he would have. In fact that I

0:26:44.480 --> 0:26:46.359
<v Speaker 1>stayed in golf and was in the top end of

0:26:46.480 --> 0:26:49.879
<v Speaker 1>the management and promoting tour events, running Ryder Cups, Solheim

0:26:49.920 --> 0:26:51.760
<v Speaker 1>Cups and stuff like that, that all gave him a

0:26:51.800 --> 0:26:54.440
<v Speaker 1>bit of a buzz. He was happy for me to

0:26:54.880 --> 0:26:58.960
<v Speaker 1>get memberships of someone golf clubs. He liked that. But

0:26:59.800 --> 0:27:01.600
<v Speaker 1>so generally, I think he was very proud of all

0:27:01.640 --> 0:27:03.920
<v Speaker 1>of us in his own way. Probably the ones of

0:27:04.040 --> 0:27:06.879
<v Speaker 1>us who played golf at a higher level had a

0:27:06.960 --> 0:27:11.600
<v Speaker 1>slightly better peek behind the curtain and some of the others,

0:27:11.680 --> 0:27:13.439
<v Speaker 1>you know, we got to know him a little bit

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:16.480
<v Speaker 1>better because he was always even. I remember the last

0:27:16.520 --> 0:27:19.399
<v Speaker 1>time I seven, Ronny played golf with my dad. You know,

0:27:19.520 --> 0:27:22.720
<v Speaker 1>Ronny hit this beautiful feathered seven iron on the eighth

0:27:22.760 --> 0:27:25.720
<v Speaker 1>of Port Marnoch. It was just a magnificent shot and

0:27:25.840 --> 0:27:27.720
<v Speaker 1>like that made my dad totally happy, the fact that

0:27:27.800 --> 0:27:30.960
<v Speaker 1>Roddy could execute that shot, and he knew exactly the

0:27:31.040 --> 0:27:34.160
<v Speaker 1>talented too to feel it. You know, the talented took

0:27:34.200 --> 0:27:36.080
<v Speaker 1>to move the ball left or right, the talented took

0:27:36.119 --> 0:27:38.359
<v Speaker 1>to stop it. So I think he was proud of

0:27:38.400 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 1>every good golf shop we've ever hit. I think he

0:27:40.920 --> 0:27:43.960
<v Speaker 1>was very proud of our of our kids and those

0:27:44.119 --> 0:27:47.480
<v Speaker 1>that they were born when he was alive, and I think,

0:27:47.680 --> 0:27:49.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, he's just very proud of all of us.

0:27:51.000 --> 0:27:53.720
<v Speaker 1>I didn't really get to know very well until I

0:27:53.800 --> 0:27:56.879
<v Speaker 1>came back to the States in nine, right. I was

0:27:56.960 --> 0:27:59.520
<v Speaker 1>always the kind of the rebel son who was aver

0:27:59.640 --> 0:28:02.399
<v Speaker 1>the very it was. It was a huge about of

0:28:02.440 --> 0:28:06.000
<v Speaker 1>good news coming from very good as usually it was

0:28:06.080 --> 0:28:11.280
<v Speaker 1>usually a cash call or so. So I would say

0:28:11.320 --> 0:28:18.680
<v Speaker 1>I got to know when I came back in and

0:28:19.760 --> 0:28:24.040
<v Speaker 1>when I set up car Golf. He really he kind

0:28:24.040 --> 0:28:26.200
<v Speaker 1>of retired that stage. So was there really something that

0:28:26.520 --> 0:28:29.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, I ended up generating a very close relationship

0:28:29.920 --> 0:28:32.240
<v Speaker 1>with him on and he was very old school, but

0:28:32.960 --> 0:28:36.280
<v Speaker 1>certainly as the father and son developed, and and and

0:28:36.400 --> 0:28:38.880
<v Speaker 1>he came out and kind of met you know, groups

0:28:38.920 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 1>of people or met him in Portmarnick or Sucon golf club.

0:28:42.240 --> 0:28:44.320
<v Speaker 1>He I think he got a really really good sense

0:28:44.360 --> 0:28:45.760
<v Speaker 1>of pride. It gave him, It gave him a kind

0:28:45.760 --> 0:28:49.320
<v Speaker 1>of a second a second run of it. I think

0:28:49.400 --> 0:28:51.520
<v Speaker 1>that's that's probably what he's most proud of in terms

0:28:51.600 --> 0:28:54.280
<v Speaker 1>of me in our relationship in later life. Like it

0:28:54.440 --> 0:28:58.480
<v Speaker 1>was a very competitive man and you know, he didn't

0:28:58.480 --> 0:28:59.720
<v Speaker 1>really mind what you were doing as long as you

0:28:59.840 --> 0:29:04.440
<v Speaker 1>was a sas that. How about your mom? Where does

0:29:04.480 --> 0:29:09.200
<v Speaker 1>she fit in all this? She was incredible. She managed

0:29:09.320 --> 0:29:12.200
<v Speaker 1>him in those days there was no management of amateurs

0:29:12.280 --> 0:29:15.960
<v Speaker 1>or anything, but she managed his brand. So she would

0:29:16.000 --> 0:29:20.160
<v Speaker 1>like four hundred postcards every Christmas, handwritten with a photograph

0:29:20.240 --> 0:29:22.520
<v Speaker 1>of the family, and send everybody he had met. She

0:29:22.600 --> 0:29:26.000
<v Speaker 1>had the most beautiful handwriting. She wrote everybody that he

0:29:26.080 --> 0:29:28.920
<v Speaker 1>ever met her stayed with. So she was the actual

0:29:29.320 --> 0:29:32.080
<v Speaker 1>and this was just good manners in those days, but

0:29:32.560 --> 0:29:36.640
<v Speaker 1>that actually established Joe Carr as the famous individual that

0:29:36.760 --> 0:29:41.360
<v Speaker 1>he was. She was like superwoman, you know. She basically

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:44.760
<v Speaker 1>she had six kids. She hit the ball about a

0:29:44.800 --> 0:29:47.160
<v Speaker 1>hundred yards off the tree. She could don a twelve handicap.

0:29:47.880 --> 0:29:50.920
<v Speaker 1>They won like seven all Ireland Mixed forces together. She

0:29:51.000 --> 0:29:52.800
<v Speaker 1>hit him a hundred chards down the fairway. Here's like

0:29:52.840 --> 0:29:54.880
<v Speaker 1>two hundred and fifty yards on the green. She was

0:29:54.920 --> 0:29:56.880
<v Speaker 1>the best potter in the family, a little blade potter,

0:29:57.360 --> 0:29:59.440
<v Speaker 1>used to cut the ball, always kept her head study

0:30:00.200 --> 0:30:03.960
<v Speaker 1>so so that she basically was an amazing golfer for

0:30:04.640 --> 0:30:06.840
<v Speaker 1>for the for the distance she hit the ball. She

0:30:07.080 --> 0:30:10.720
<v Speaker 1>ran his whole life and she ran our house with

0:30:10.880 --> 0:30:14.960
<v Speaker 1>six kids. She was an amazing an amazing woman. Unfortunately

0:30:15.600 --> 0:30:19.280
<v Speaker 1>left us in notteen seventy six too early, but but

0:30:19.440 --> 0:30:23.400
<v Speaker 1>she was a power behind the throne. Definitely he was driven.

0:30:23.440 --> 0:30:25.479
<v Speaker 1>He was definitely driven. He was adopted. He came from

0:30:25.520 --> 0:30:28.840
<v Speaker 1>absolutely nothing. He worked, He left school at fifteen and

0:30:29.240 --> 0:30:31.240
<v Speaker 1>cared for his mother. He you know, he would have

0:30:31.320 --> 0:30:35.800
<v Speaker 1>said address as he practiced hard. He literally literally just

0:30:36.320 --> 0:30:38.280
<v Speaker 1>beat his way out of Vichy Core, which is not

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:40.600
<v Speaker 1>He's probably one of the least after places in Ireland,

0:30:40.640 --> 0:30:44.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, so he he did it on himself and

0:30:44.600 --> 0:30:48.120
<v Speaker 1>he married, well he married, he married my mother who

0:30:48.200 --> 0:30:56.040
<v Speaker 1>was who was a saint. This podcast is called the

0:30:56.120 --> 0:30:58.840
<v Speaker 1>fire Pit because it's the kind of stories you'd want

0:30:58.880 --> 0:31:00.760
<v Speaker 1>to be. You know, here tell around a part. But

0:31:00.920 --> 0:31:04.800
<v Speaker 1>do you have a favorite fire pit? And why what

0:31:05.000 --> 0:31:10.040
<v Speaker 1>about a pillage at the moment, buddy, I actually have

0:31:10.120 --> 0:31:13.640
<v Speaker 1>an American friend, Andy Pierce, and we get together every year.

0:31:13.720 --> 0:31:16.160
<v Speaker 1>He worked with me an I MG and he he

0:31:16.240 --> 0:31:18.080
<v Speaker 1>had a group of you call it the Creechy group,

0:31:18.560 --> 0:31:21.920
<v Speaker 1>and they're a bunch of kind of main fellas who

0:31:21.960 --> 0:31:25.040
<v Speaker 1>went to college in Bowden. I have my four retrobate

0:31:25.120 --> 0:31:28.920
<v Speaker 1>friends who are the shoeman, the music man, the stockman,

0:31:29.040 --> 0:31:31.920
<v Speaker 1>and myself who are from all box to life. We've

0:31:32.000 --> 0:31:34.360
<v Speaker 1>kind of joined together and we get together every year

0:31:34.440 --> 0:31:38.760
<v Speaker 1>and we have He's into pitch, so I really everywhere

0:31:38.800 --> 0:31:40.920
<v Speaker 1>we go we build this pit fire and we sit

0:31:40.960 --> 0:31:44.360
<v Speaker 1>around the drinking and talent stories. So when you when

0:31:44.360 --> 0:31:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I saw the name of the fire Pit, I wouldn't

0:31:46.080 --> 0:31:47.520
<v Speaker 1>have known that as Ireland and Ireland as you know,

0:31:47.560 --> 0:31:52.080
<v Speaker 1>it's the public public fire pits. You know, it's like

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:56.000
<v Speaker 1>putch their arms as the fire piers in Bodeville, right,

0:31:56.120 --> 0:31:58.200
<v Speaker 1>And there's a little small fire in the corner which

0:31:58.280 --> 0:32:00.520
<v Speaker 1>kind of does his job with anything else, puts the

0:32:00.600 --> 0:32:03.440
<v Speaker 1>pub in and and then yeah, but the fire pit

0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:06.720
<v Speaker 1>of me is the one of them are which I

0:32:06.920 --> 0:32:10.680
<v Speaker 1>have a far outside my back door. It's a far place.

0:32:11.760 --> 0:32:14.560
<v Speaker 1>And during the lockdown, we've had lots of sing songs

0:32:14.600 --> 0:32:18.280
<v Speaker 1>and drinks and load music and you know, annoying the

0:32:18.360 --> 0:32:20.719
<v Speaker 1>neighbors and stuff happening on our fire pits. Yeah, now

0:32:20.800 --> 0:32:22.960
<v Speaker 1>we have. We we led a quite a lot. In fact,

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