1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: My ex wife divorced me because I was infertile, so 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: I got a girl half her age pregnant. 3 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 2: You know, you know, sometimes the real real heroes don't 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 2: wear caps. 5 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 3: I couldn't. I couldn't say it with a straight face. 6 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 1: John, You're terrible. You're terrible. 7 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 2: I wanted to get I wanted to get the full 8 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 2: set in itself, but it was too ridiculous. 9 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 1: Either there's something there with like tails and sperm or something, 10 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: but I got nothing. I got nothing. I'm just sad 11 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 1: for this. This ex wife. All right, you ready, let's 12 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: do it. My ex wife is a complete girly girl 13 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: who loves children and always wanted a big family. She's 14 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: a primary school teacher and was a doula for her 15 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: sister's birth. Doula is it's like a midwife. 16 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 3: That's yeah, I believe that's what. 17 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 2: Justin's girlfriend is, is going forward building her career for. 18 00:00:55,000 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: Michelle No way, Yeah, huh. That so she's like I 19 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: think babies. 20 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 2: I forget which one it is, but I think there's 21 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 2: there's one classification of like post like after the baby 22 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 2: is born, and then one like dirt like in the 23 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 2: delivery room or something, or like helping you like prepare 24 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 2: for the Oh, I can't remember like one of it. 25 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 3: I think it's midwife and doula and one of them. 26 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: Means different the other. Let's let's let's look it up. 27 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 3: Why why don't we remain ignorant? Can we? 28 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: Can? We just? 29 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 3: Can we just walk up? 30 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: A doula is a professional labor assistant who provides physical 31 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: emotional support for you and your partner during pregnancy, childhood, 32 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: and the postpartum period. 33 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 2: Oh so maybe it's the full thing midwife is trained for. Oh, 34 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 2: I guess they're interchangeable. 35 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: Midwife versus doula. Midwives provide medical care for you during 36 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: your pregnancy birth and a media post star partum dula 37 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: to provide you and your your family emotional, informational, and 38 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: physical support during pregnancy birth in the media. So so 39 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: basically a duel like kind of does a little bit more. 40 00:01:57,280 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: It's more like emotional two cool. We started trying when 41 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: we were both twenty eight and had been married for 42 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:09,639 Speaker 1: five years. Married for five years. After eighteen months without success, 43 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: we both got fertility testing. I was found to be infertile. 44 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: I went through several diagnostic procedures in treatments that frankly, 45 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 1: I would like to forget, and I was told the 46 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: odds of me conceiving naturally were close to zero. We 47 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: considered IVF, but the specialist said it was not viable. 48 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 1: The whole episode took about five years from beginning to resignation. Wow, 49 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: I was upset, but my ex wife was devastated. She 50 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: was briefly hospitalized for an acute depressive episode in twenty fifteen. 51 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: And it did not help that our younger sister had 52 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: five children by that time. 53 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 2: Just bragging with all our kids, like, yeah, look at me. 54 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 3: Sis, I got I got a test, I got todd. 55 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: She has all these children, I got a teenager, got 56 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: them all like a little pokemon at Cottie. 57 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 2: I'd like to see the trainer at that gym, the pokemon, Joe. 58 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 2: They really need to make more specific terminologies. 59 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: Go, that was good, That was good. My ex wife 60 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: wanted to use a sperm donor. 61 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 3: Yes, she did. 62 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 1: A live and vitle sperm donor. Yeah, talk about that 63 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 1: gym trainer. Where he's at, Where are he at? 64 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 3: His name's Jim. 65 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: His name's ash Ash. Gonna catch those cheeks if you 66 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: know what we're talking about. I understand that biology isn't everything. 67 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: But despite counseling and my best efforts at rationalization, I 68 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,839 Speaker 1: could never moderate the feeling of revulsion at the idea 69 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: of choosing to raise another man's child. I knew I 70 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: could never see the child as mine, maybe a stepchild 71 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: at best. My sister in law called that toxic masculinity. 72 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 3: Toxicity. 73 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: I feel like, like, I feel like it wouldn't be 74 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: that hard to raise like an adopted kid, and me 75 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: it would be like I it would be definitely different. 76 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 3: I don't either, Yeah I can. 77 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 2: I can see him having some reservations, like like like. 78 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: Things you don't know what's going to be like, But yeah. 79 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 3: He doesn't. He But it's like adopting a kid. It's 80 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 3: like can he not? 81 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,599 Speaker 2: What if they did, they should just adopt honestly, Like, 82 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 2: if he can't do that, then. 83 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 1: Just I adopt you. 84 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 85 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: So an unstoppable force meets an immovable object deal breaker. 86 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: We divorced in twenty seventeen. It was a strange divorce. 87 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: We both loved and supported each other throughout. We were 88 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: still living together until about six months after the finalization, 89 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 1: when my ex sister in law started finding men for 90 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 1: my ex wife to date. I then made myself scarce. 91 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 3: Yikes. 92 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 1: We briefly reunited numerous times during the next year and 93 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: are in each other's wider social circle to this day. 94 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: As I understand it, she has had no long term 95 00:04:55,680 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: relationships since her divorce and surprisingly no children. In mid 96 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: twenty eighteen, I met my current girlfriend. I revealed my 97 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 1: infertility early in the relationship. She said she always thought 98 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 1: she would have children, but was young enough that by 99 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 1: the time she was ready, maybe they could fix me. 100 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: I pointed out this was setting us both up for 101 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 1: a future heartache, but I had fallen first. I wasn't 102 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: gonna argue what what to be fair. Whenever I think 103 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: there's gonna be like whatever, I think like, oh shit, 104 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna have like this brain problem or this 105 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: back problem when I'm older, I'm just like, I'm always like, 106 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 1: science will be good enough by that. I'll be fun. 107 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 3: Science will figure it out. 108 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: It will get me some bionic legs and testicles. 109 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 3: It'll be okay, dude. 110 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 2: Bionic testicles. That would be dude, where where are the testicle? 111 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 1: They're gonna like, insert some bull testicles in you, dude, 112 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 1: You're gonna have some wop and b I don't want to. 113 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 3: I don't want bull testicles. 114 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 2: I want I want to shoot lasers out of out 115 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 2: of my boot. 116 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 3: That's that. 117 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: What a party trick that would be. I think it 118 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: would be uninvited from the party. I'm honestly so hung 119 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: up on this bionic testicles. I I actually have had 120 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: uh my scrot them operated on. Wait what it was? 121 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 3: They thought it was testicular cancer? 122 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 1: Oh? 123 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 2: First, yeah, I think I think I mentioned this story. 124 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 2: But then eventually it was just a benign cyst. But 125 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 2: they still know. Then they thought it was a benign sist. 126 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 2: Then they realized it was just a insane hernia. 127 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: I thought I thought they were gonna be like then 128 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: they just realized. 129 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 2: My balls was just fucking huge, freaking elephant nuts dragging 130 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 2: on the floor. 131 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 1: Couldn't pick them up, these balls toopid. 132 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 3: Oh there you go. That was impressive. 133 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:52,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I did not impressive nuts. Yeah, I know 134 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 2: I don't have elephant nut guys, but I would I 135 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 2: would take some. I I just might let them back 136 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 2: into the scrot them if if there were the promise 137 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 2: of bionic testicles, I. 138 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: Do let him back in the set. 139 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 2: I do and not not to not to side tangent 140 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 2: too hard. But in one of Dave Chappelle's specials, he 141 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 2: does this bit about getting laser hair removal surgery on 142 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 2: his balls and that is absolutely, to this day something 143 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 2: that I am committed to doing before. 144 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: I want to have to shave your smooth Yes, it's like. 145 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 2: It just gets annoying, Like I don't shave them all 146 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 2: the time, and like I just want to have smooth hair. 147 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 2: I like, I love the feeling of them all smooth, 148 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 2: Like I I I don't want to deal with hair 149 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 2: down there. I want to move to the rest of 150 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 2: my life. All right, rant over. 151 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: Please donate money to John's GoFundMe for super bald testicles 152 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: in me. 153 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 3: Tack. All right, I'm done, I'm done. 154 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: Right, We're about to go. We're going back to this. 155 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 3: We're getting back here, We're getting back. 156 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: And April this year, my girlfriend who's twenty four, missed 157 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: her period. When the test came back, it came back positive. 158 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 3: My guys getting it in. 159 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 1: Our first reaction was going to full panic mode. And 160 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: it's where she had never cheated on me. I never 161 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: doubted her, but realized that's what every cheated on partner says. 162 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:25,239 Speaker 1: But hey, you can now get a parental paternity blood 163 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: test as early as seven weeks. Who knew? And the 164 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: baby is mine and we are both delighted. 165 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 3: Wow. 166 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 1: I went to the fertility doc to see if anything 167 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 1: had changed. It hadn't. How did this happen? Then? His answer? 168 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: You won the lottery. Part of my problem was that 169 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: the fuse ferm I did produce were deformed, so we 170 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 1: have undertaken every available prenatal screening. This is also why 171 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 1: we've only told four other people. But now we have 172 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: all clear. I share numerous friends and acquaintances with my 173 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: ex wife and we cannot conceal this from her. I 174 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: know her, and although it had been two years since 175 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: we were close, I know this will devastate her. My 176 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: girlfriend knows all the history and is totally supportive. She 177 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: thinks that telling my ex wife before she finds out 178 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 1: is the right thing to do. How should I go 179 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 1: about it? Should I contact my ex wife's sister or 180 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 1: mother so they can be there, Maybe write a letter 181 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: that I can let her tell her to her face. 182 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:25,959 Speaker 1: I do not want to cause my ex wife any 183 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 1: more pain than is inevitable. 184 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 2: Man, I mean I get that she will feel pain 185 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 2: because like the whole reason they were in love. They 186 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 2: wanted to say, Mary, but the whole reason they got 187 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 2: divorced was the baby. But barring giving her time to 188 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 2: like process once she's had time to process it, you can't. 189 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 3: You can't be mad at him. 190 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't. You can't, you can't. I mean, man's 191 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 1: not doing anything wrong, but like he just wants to 192 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: do best by his ex wife. 193 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 3: That's that's true. That's true. 194 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: I don't think he's worried about her being mad at him. 195 00:09:57,000 --> 00:10:00,439 Speaker 1: He just doesn't want to hurt her. Yeah, yeah, that's true. 196 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: I think, Uh, I think I think the best. I 197 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: mean I would say go to the sister and mom 198 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: and kind of like see, like, hey, like this is 199 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: the situation. 200 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 2: The sister in law, Yeah, the one that called him 201 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 2: a toxic masculine masculinity or whatever. 202 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:14,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean like. 203 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 3: Yeah that she was she could. It's a third party. 204 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, at least I'm a third party that actually is 205 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: like that might know the sister like that might know 206 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 1: his ex wife's best interests. 207 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:31,559 Speaker 2: Also, like he didn't really mention it. She's like young, 208 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 2: significantly younger than he. Eight and twenty four. 209 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: Bro, that's like close to half his age. Yeah, it's 210 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 1: getting there. That's really really it's a big age gap. 211 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:46,079 Speaker 1: That's like bordering on a little bit much. No wonder. 212 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 3: She's like, oh, it's okay, we have a thousand years before. 213 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, I'm freaking twenty five. I could not imagine 214 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: dating a thirty. 215 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 3: Eight year old. 216 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: Maybe I could, Maybe I could. 217 00:10:57,120 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 2: I have a friend that loves He's like, he can't 218 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 2: do he can't do milks, he can only do gilts Well. Actually, 219 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 2: granny's only serious exclusive, you're not exclusive, but he loves 220 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 2: he loves grannies, Like how old? Oh dude, seventy's he's 221 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 2: chomping at the bit. Wait, I'm not joking. He actually 222 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:19,199 Speaker 2: like he's hooked up with seventy year old. He hasn't 223 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 2: hooked up with a seventy year old. He would love 224 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 2: to do that. He definitely has hooked up with a 225 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 2: like fifty year old as a early twenties. Wow, early twenties, 226 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 2: easily it was double his age. Yeah, with his thoughts, uh, 227 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 2: I'm trying to remember. I think he just he just 228 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 2: loves the game. He just loves the game. 229 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 1: He there's a Benjamin Franklin quote where it's like, as 230 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 1: a woman ages. She makes up for her lack in 231 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: beauty with a myriad of other talents. Beneath the sheets, 232 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: you know they're there's another Benjamin quote. 233 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 3: But have you heard it. It's fuck bitches getting money. 234 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's a wrap. But that that actually 235 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 1: is a Benjamin Franklin quote. That is Yeah, it's called 236 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: it's Benjamin Franklin's advice on a young man getting a mistress. 237 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 3: I like it. There we go, there we go.