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Speaker 2: the subject is he gay or just a sex addict?

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go, Hi, Andy and Weezie. I

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Speaker 2: need some advice. I've been dating my partner for about

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Speaker 2: eleven years now. We've always had a great and loving relationship,

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Speaker 2: but let's be for real, no couple was perfect. Within

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Speaker 2: the past couple of years, we brought a beautiful baby

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Speaker 2: on my career. However, when baby Girl popped up unexpectedly,

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Speaker 2: I knew it was time to make things official. Untraditional

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Speaker 2: I know. He started showing me engagement rings and we

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Speaker 2: were talking about marriage more and more. Anyways, I went

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Speaker 2: through his email and found his hidden ex account aka Twitter,

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Speaker 2: and of course I logged in and I almost shitted

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Speaker 3: He was talking to men and trying to link up

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Speaker 3: for sex. Oh, he's gay.

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Speaker 2: Remind you, this is a man that I thought was

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Speaker 2: one hundred percent heterosexual. I never thought in a million

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Speaker 2: years that he could be gay. He had posted picks

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Speaker 2: of him bending over men in our home while I

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Speaker 2: was working, and he was all great, what ye? He

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Speaker 2: had posted pics of him bending over men in our

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Speaker 3: He was working working me. I was completely.

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Speaker 2: Destroyed and shocked. I approached him about it. He swears

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Speaker 2: he's not gay or by based on our convo. He

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Speaker 2: started watching a lot of heterosexual porn, which I knew

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Speaker 2: because after having my baby, I was too tired to

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Speaker 3: So does she think the nigga in the house?

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Speaker 2: Well, see, I know he also used to watch a

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Speaker 2: somehow he ended up watching almost sexual porn because he

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Speaker 3: What let me keep going?

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Speaker 2: He admitted he didn't just switch to homosexual porn, but

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Speaker 3: Then he became curious.

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Speaker 2: According to him, he ended up on X because he

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Speaker 2: he was familiar with homosexual sex and reached out on

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Speaker 2: no questions asked, no strings attached. He literally said it

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Speaker 2: was just easier. He's adamant that it was just a

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Speaker 2: sex thing, no connection. We concluded that he is that

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Speaker 2: he is a porn and sex addiction and therapist that

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Speaker 2: He's now in SAA Sex Addiction Anonymous and he sees

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Speaker 2: I listen to your show all the time, so I

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Speaker 2: know sexuality isn't always black and white. But this whole

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Speaker 2: me just thinks he's gay and I should run a SAP.

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Speaker 2: At the same time, a little part of me thinks

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Speaker 2: never done anything crazy like this ever, and he's always

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Speaker 3: Ps.

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Speaker 2: I reached out to multiple sex therapists that told me

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Speaker 2: it's possible to burn out from watching it too much,

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Speaker 2: So now your brain is looking for a new sexual high,

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Speaker 3: What about it figging out house, But it's.

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Speaker 4: Like it was multiple niggas in now.

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Speaker 3: It sounded like he had men bent over in the

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Speaker 1: Can I just say, there's not many decisions decisions you

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Speaker 1: will you accept a bisexual nigga?

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Speaker 3: That's what it is, and I think that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: I think there are a lot of DL men, bisexual men,

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Speaker 2: men on the Kinsey scale that lead more homosexual than heterosexual,

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Speaker 2: that don't like the label or don't want to be

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Speaker 2: called gay simply because homophobia specifically in the black community, right,

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Speaker 2: and so him just constantly telling you he's not gay.

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Speaker 2: I know a lot of men that deal with trans

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Speaker 2: women that do just like their dick suck from guys,

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Speaker 5: You know, you guys actually touched on this briefly recently,

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Speaker 5: but the correlation between the two for y'all was more

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Speaker 5: you mean with that? Like, if they're black or white?

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Speaker 1: Saying white people are more white men are less likely

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Speaker 1: to be DL. I'm just like keeping with you eleven years.

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Speaker 3: You know now, it's it is.

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Speaker 1: If someone told me they started suckingd dick because they

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Speaker 1: got tired of my pussy, I'd be like, oh, so

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Speaker 1: you're gay. There's no overload of anything. I definitely brought

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Speaker 1: in my porn when I'm getting bored of something, for sure.

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Speaker 3: However, acting on it is something different.

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Speaker 1: I think the curiosity of looking isn't a problem once

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Speaker 2: You like deck, burnt off, burnt out of gay, of

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Speaker 2: straightfor crazy. But have you not watched so much porn

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Speaker 2: that you've been curious to watch something else before? Because

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Speaker 2: that's how I feel like, I'm just gonna watch anything anyway.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is how that's.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you don't go to as a certain genre, you

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Speaker 3: I like watching gay porn. I mean as women.

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Speaker 2: It's weird though, because I do find it interesting if

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Speaker 4: I feel like that's not common at all.

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Speaker 3: As a truth, it's not as common, right.

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Speaker 5: But then hear about straight women watch gay porn or

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Speaker 5: lesbian porn is super common.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I like, I like what it looked

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you some First of all, what sucks

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Speaker 1: as a layer of this is he's gonna feel shamed,

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Speaker 1: but he's also cheating on you. I was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: she doesn't think about the cheating. He's not talking about

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Speaker 1: is he gay, babe?

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Speaker 3: Is he faithful?

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Speaker 2: He was in condo right at the house in front

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Speaker 2: of the baby, like Manita, Like I was gonna say

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Speaker 2: that too, Like to me, the fact that there's no

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Speaker 2: question or recourse in your mind to this man is

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Speaker 2: playing with your health. He's probably stepping out of the relationship. Clearly,

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Speaker 2: whether you guys have even involved yourselves in threesomes, are

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Speaker 2: bringing other people in. You clearly didn't know that he

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Speaker 2: his ex account and then seeing that there's he's posting pictures.

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Speaker 1: In your home bending men over in your living room.

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Speaker 1: The problem, too, is once she gets to the woman,

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Speaker 1: I'd be mad, right, me too, I'd be mad at

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Speaker 1: that you've been in the cheating And it is one thing, right,

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Speaker 1: but the other layer of it is like when someone

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Speaker 3: It's really tough to pull them away from it because.

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Speaker 1: People are already excited and enthralled with cheating because you're

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Speaker 3: Now he's doing both bad.

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Speaker 1: You know what that's not saying being gaye mad, I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying like, but she's just already shuming.

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Speaker 3: That it's new.

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Speaker 2: They've been together for eleven eleven years. He might have

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Speaker 2: but I was gonna say too her response to not

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Speaker 3: I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: I think it's just not the front of mine. I

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Speaker 1: I wasn't as sexual after having the kid, so maybe

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Speaker 1: there was a hall pass for him to go and

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Speaker 3: I will say the porn. There's a lot of porn

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Speaker 2: That's where I watch a lot of porn stars and

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Speaker 2: pros at that. Yeah, it's not like something casual like

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Speaker 2: this is professional sex work.

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Speaker 3: Well, he said DL men.

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Speaker 2: So there are also just men that have kind of

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Speaker 2: like how you have fences on X. There are people

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Speaker 2: with fake accounts that literally and probably I don't know

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Speaker 2: why he didn't just go to Grinder, but on egg

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Speaker 2: you ran into someone your nose. You could also, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but you could also just post like your your neck down,

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Speaker 1: Maybe he has grinder. Twitter is just the thing she

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Speaker 1: could get to at the sound. Who knows, bro. I

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Speaker 1: always try to tell a friend when they find something

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Speaker 3: Or even in a woman's phone. Oh, if you go

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Speaker 1: Not only will you find something though, but there's more

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Speaker 1: than just those texts, right, Like you got to think

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Speaker 1: if someone's doing this in their phone, like how are.

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Speaker 3: They acting in real life?

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Speaker 1: And to be honest, like if you went through my phone,

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely probably flirtier or than I should be or

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Speaker 1: something like that. But yeah, I think like as far

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Speaker 1: as if I was fucking someone else and you found

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Speaker 1: that out from my phone, right bruh, imagine the conversations

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Speaker 1: I had one of my Denig house, Like there is

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Speaker 1: more to just the phone. So you're living in this

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Speaker 1: world of I saw Twitter. No, you need to live

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Speaker 1: in the world if someone was in your house, I

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Speaker 1: do want to ask. Then hypothetically you find it.

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Speaker 2: You are in a relationship, you find the same things

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Speaker 2: that she found. You find a fake Twitter, you see

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Speaker 2: that your partner is dealing with men. You see the

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Speaker 2: pictures in the living room. How do you approach this situation?

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Speaker 2: How do you respond here? Your first thing? Do you

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Speaker 2: call him?

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Speaker 3: Do you like? Is it in person? What?

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Speaker 4: What is?

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Speaker 3: What are the steps that you take if you are

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's a tell a novella. It's a fool, it's

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Speaker 3: You I don't ask for grace. I said, listen, I'm

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Speaker 3: Like, you're right, Oh, I agree.

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Speaker 2: They use you know, they learn gaslighting, All men learn

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Speaker 3: If she did a pathological line, yes, we don't know.

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Speaker 4: Well, dang, that's a pathological line.

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Speaker 3: That's the day they say, okay, let me pathological lives.

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Speaker 1: When I say that to me, a pathological liar is like, uh,

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Speaker 3: Shit.

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Speaker 1: You go into a bar and someone's like, I work

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Speaker 1: That's pathic logical lines to me, when you're just a

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Speaker 3: But for a purpose. I don't know if that's the same.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but to me, pathological means you do it hostily.

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Speaker 1: But can you be a pathological liar if it's only

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Speaker 4: A pathological it's kind of a once cheter, always a

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Speaker 3: I think, Well, that just mean like.

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Speaker 2: No, if you're lying to your partner about being faithful,

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Speaker 2: You're a pathical you're a pathological liar if you create

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Speaker 5: Pathological liars made life frequently and for long periods of time,

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Speaker 2: A cheater is a pathological liar because that's what it does. Yes,

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Speaker 2: they're doing it all for had a clear motive. The

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Speaker 4: A pathological liar, you just do it no matter what.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I don't, I'll rescind the logical liar thing.

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Speaker 3: But you're still a liar. You're a liar.

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Speaker 1: You mean a guy and he has like a one

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Speaker 4: Has to That to me is you can't cheat with

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Speaker 3: But if you're a cheater, you're a liar. Yes, a

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Speaker 3: good point. You can't cheat without lying with them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so let's end this.

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Speaker 3: What is our advice to this that was a terrible cheater.

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you that I didn't know what.

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Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, I want to go to.

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Speaker 3: The last lap. But then he was like, what did

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Speaker 4: I just plain got a massage with my friend.

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Speaker 3: I don't, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't, I don't chee. That's why I'm trying to have

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Speaker 5: That yeah, can I ask going down the line? Okay,

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Speaker 2: My advice to her eleven years she said that he's

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Speaker 3: I think that's a supportive thing to do.

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Speaker 2: Hey, if you're gonna if you're gonna accept that your

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Speaker 2: maybe because he ain't doing the band and that's why

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Speaker 3: Who doing the bended?

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Speaker 2: He ain't doing the bended, so I can take it

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Speaker 4: But have you been a good partner if you've been

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Speaker 1: I think a resurgence can happen. You know, people really

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Speaker 4: Out of here?

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Speaker 2: Burn the house, the house for the goodness to the ground, rout.

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Speaker 3: That you're you're telling her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wait, gosh, breezy, way too soon. But Also, you're

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Speaker 2: saying you wouldn't want to sit on the couch. You

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Speaker 1: Like, girl, cause y'all gonna start watching.

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Speaker 3: A movie together. You're gonna be like he looked good.

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Speaker 3: He's gonna be like, yeah, you do.

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Speaker 2: It's that like now I'm looking at my curtains. Funny

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Speaker 2: like that staying wasn't there when I you know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, baby shooting?

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Speaker 3: You know what's crazy?

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Speaker 1: I feel like I would be thinking of the random ship,

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Speaker 1: was really good at interior design.

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Speaker 3: I started thinking of all I had a homeboy that

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Speaker 3: he just loved.

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Speaker 1: Like it's just something is there that I started freaking

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Speaker 1: out over.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yall, we I do want to say that I

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Speaker 2: wish you and your partner the best of luck with this.

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Speaker 3: I hope his journey in therapy and sex addiction.

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Speaker 2: This one is ending the pictures, you know what, nobody.

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Speaker 3: I just want to know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if he looks gay now if

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Speaker 1: he we are way too progressive to say that.

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Speaker 3: If he looks gay, I am, and I'm not. It's

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Speaker 3: not a look for gay. I love me right now.

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Speaker 1: You was fucking with a nigga right and you be like,

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Speaker 1: girl just found out he blah blah blah. I was like,

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Speaker 1: let me see him because I want to see if

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Speaker 1: I can see it. You can't see gayness, m h.

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Speaker 1: I mean if he's playing buoyant but like it.

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Speaker 3: In the lips. You see it in the video, they

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Speaker 3: and glossy. I'm not playing with you. You see it

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Speaker 3: in the body. Sorry that he moisturized, he has it

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Speaker 3: hip hopped. No, no, no, that's different, bro.

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Speaker 4: I mean she's not wrong.

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Speaker 3: I'm not playing with y'all.

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Speaker 1: For example, whenever I have a homeboid that starts meeting

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Speaker 1: a girl in their bisexual, like, let me see, I

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Speaker 1: could look at her and tell you if she's we

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Speaker 1: can kiss girls bisexual or if she pussy, I can

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Speaker 1: see it. I'm not playing your jersey pussy. I have

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Speaker 1: two short nails. I'm very obviously you're ho I am.

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Speaker 1: My point is, look at us gay?

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Speaker 3: Really? Where countras are kind of gay?

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