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Speaker 1: What's up its way up for Angela Yee, I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 1: Jasmine from the jasmin Ran dot Com is here, and

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Speaker 1: CHARAE Whitfield is up here. Hey, hey hey, And by

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Speaker 1: the way, she came with some gifts. First of all,

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Speaker 1: y'all gotta watch this, but we got a beautiful defol bag.

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Speaker 1: It's vegan leather.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's vegan leather leather, and I got some she.

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Speaker 3: By Charrette b Charree.

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Speaker 2: Listen, this is the infamous bag that they talked about.

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Speaker 2: I like that BA actual bag. So I had a

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Speaker 2: sample during the reunion. So they took out everything, and

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Speaker 2: they were not supposed to take my actual bag out.

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Speaker 2: So when you talk about confiscating, that's the only thing

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Speaker 2: I brought, I wanted back because my actual personal bag. Okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, to be clear.

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Speaker 1: And Drew said that you gave them she by charat

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Speaker 1: but then you took it back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then she took back her words and that

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Speaker 2: last scene if you saw it, Okay, So I didn't

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Speaker 2: say everything she was talking about because you took the

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Speaker 2: bag back, but you because the people the production when

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Speaker 2: they put it out, they were not supposed to put

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Speaker 2: my actual bag out. Because it was actually things in

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Speaker 2: thereck my stuff out, put it out there, and then

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Speaker 2: of course all the girls wanted the bag.

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Speaker 3: But Angela's bag is that on the website or no?

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Speaker 2: It is?

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well let's talk about that, because first

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Speaker 1: of all, Cha, I love the fact that you have

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Speaker 1: so many different ventures, but people seem to doubt you

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Speaker 1: all the time. Right, so she buy Chara, the line

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Speaker 1: comes out, and then the website crashes because of the demand.

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Speaker 1: How is How did that make you feel and how

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Speaker 1: did you rectify that?

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Speaker 2: Well? You know what it made me feel In a moment,

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Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, this is this is a good thing.

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Speaker 2: It's not a bad thing. It's a bad thing. It's

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Speaker 2: a good thing because it means that people love you.

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Speaker 2: They want to support you, they want to purchase your product,

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Speaker 2: or they want to be nosy as fun and just look. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they want to be just you know, check out what

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Speaker 2: you have.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: But on the other hand, I feel like I lost

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Speaker 2: a lot of money during you know, because you could

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Speaker 2: not It took a uh once we were on the site,

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Speaker 2: it took almost a week for us to get it

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Speaker 2: moved to another site.

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Speaker 3: You do have a big enough server or what I.

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Speaker 2: Wasn go daddy. I would think, get go daddy, Hey

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Speaker 2: go daddy. But yeah, they could not provide h the

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Speaker 2: server that I needed, the amount of which I asked

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Speaker 2: many times, if the thousand people came out on at

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Speaker 2: one time, the f one hundred thousand people came out

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Speaker 2: on what at one time, will you be able to

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Speaker 2: uh suffies and accommodate? And they say yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: but no, ma'am.

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Speaker 1: Do you know how many people it was that went

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Speaker 1: on at once?

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Speaker 2: Don kept crashing? I can't even get in from the

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Speaker 2: back from the back end.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: It's good though, and people really like the clothes. But

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Speaker 1: then another issue people had was the pricing. And I

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Speaker 1: honestly don't have a problem paying for things that I

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Speaker 1: because I didn't think it was ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know what what was what's the how

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Speaker 3: much is that back?

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Speaker 2: So the bag?

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Speaker 3: Okay, well let's not a get example. What's not the hoodie?

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Speaker 2: The hoodies? I think is it two hundred or make

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Speaker 2: two thirty or two thirty, But listen, it's organic, it's orgranic.

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Speaker 2: So I don't like, I don't have cheap products. I

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Speaker 2: use good material, right, and the thing is we all

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Speaker 2: you know, we got this hair. Were you complaining about

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Speaker 2: the cost of the hair which are expensive? If they

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Speaker 2: I used to have a boutique. I used to own

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Speaker 2: If they want to come into my boutique because I'm

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Speaker 2: But the price is the price, right, the price is

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Speaker 3: Well, she is not for everybody, yeah, and I think.

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Speaker 2: That's what I wanted to be in everybody.

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Speaker 1: But we're not getting marketing wise though. You create a

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Speaker 1: always harder to go and price than to go down.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, they said, you don't start low, start high and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's to start here and then have to

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Speaker 1: I was doing this, you know, so all right now

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Speaker 1: toast chara let's talk about that for a second. That looks,

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Speaker 1: by the way beautiful. I watched the video of the

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Speaker 1: but that was something that took a really long time.

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Speaker 1: So I want you to just kind of walk through

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Speaker 1: because I'm having some issues rehaving a house right now.

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Speaker 2: It's taking years. Right, how long is it taken you?

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Speaker 1: So I've had the house for three years now and

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Speaker 1: it's still nowhere near done. Yes, it'll be three years

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Speaker 1: having so many issues, but people don't understand that. So

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Speaker 1: I just want you to walk through, like the timeline

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Speaker 2: I think it took Chateau Charae from demolition because it

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Speaker 2: was a house already on a lot. From demoing a

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Speaker 2: You know, people say ten years.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's not bad. Four I don't feel like four years.

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Speaker 2: It was four or four and a half, no more.

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Speaker 2: I think it was four to real with you, But

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Speaker 2: people don't realize it's much work that goes in. And

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Speaker 2: then you have contractors who sometimes they want to come

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Speaker 2: You have to get somebody else, and then they're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: to start over. It's a bunch of bullshit, especially when

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Speaker 1: Of Yes, they think you don't know any better, and

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Speaker 2: More than you anticipated? I'm sure absolutely, because I had

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Speaker 1: Yeah, now that's what it does. Because I have a

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Speaker 1: So I feel your pain on that. But how does

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Speaker 1: it feel when people are like coming at you like, oh,

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Speaker 1: getting four closed done, She's got all these money issues,

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Speaker 2: They're the worst. I think they're the ones starting the

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Speaker 2: Of course people come to me and say, hey, you

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Speaker 2: was never in foreclosure. Okay, you have to have a

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Speaker 3: Have you ever had money problems since you've been on

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Speaker 2: No, okay, I mean would I like more money?

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Speaker 2: Guess I really don't respond to a life Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: How do you feel being back on the show, because

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Speaker 2: But when I tell you, it's like a weight lifted

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Speaker 1: Everybody, just a little mental health recheck and then when

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Speaker 1: It gives you time to reset and then be like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: This is gonna happen. Not gonna let this affect me.

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Speaker 2: They can say this, and you learn to choose your battles.

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Speaker 3: What's more nerve wrecking the nerve wrecking filming or watching

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Speaker 2: Probably watching the episodes, okay, and why is that good? Editor?

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Speaker 3: And so when you when like say, you film a

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Speaker 2: I don't think you just don't watch it. And the

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Speaker 2: editors have gotten so savvy they are They're like the

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Speaker 2: seventh or eighth house wise, Yeah they are. They are good.

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Speaker 1: So okay, so let's clear some things up because I

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Speaker 1: so you have to let people know you were not

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Speaker 1: kicking on Kenya's door. But they said, but then people

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Speaker 1: are like, I did see a little kick.

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Speaker 2: What you saw was me mimicking Marlowe in a joking way.

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Speaker 2: That's right. I literally turned to the side the doors.

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Speaker 2: Doors over here. We gotta pay attention. I know, Tony

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Speaker 2: probably don't want me to say this, but it was a.

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Speaker 3: Good old sound your emails before.

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Speaker 2: know so many people who've had fibroids, including my daughter

437
00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:47,160
Speaker 2: and other people who've had fibroids, they had them surgically

438
00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:51,280
Speaker 2: removed and they to go get them surgically removed again.

439
00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:54,240
Speaker 2: And it's not an easy surgery have Yeah.

440
00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:56,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, So, and you were also saying like, I can't

441
00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:58,320
Speaker 1: be laid down for eight weeks.

442
00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:03,720
Speaker 2: I can't. They're very Yeah, they are very painful. Your

443
00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,280
Speaker 2: cycles are horrible, but yeah, they're they're bad.

444
00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:07,879
Speaker 1: And you said it was affecting your sex life, and

445
00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:09,000
Speaker 1: you know, we can't have that.

446
00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:09,919
Speaker 2: No, we cannot have that.

447
00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:12,840
Speaker 3: We cannot have that.

448
00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:17,360
Speaker 2: No, we can't. So things are good right with Martel.

449
00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:19,960
Speaker 2: There's a good march. I'm dating. I am, so that's

450
00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:20,520
Speaker 2: not your man.

451
00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,520
Speaker 1: We don't know, we don't know what the situation is,

452
00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:24,160
Speaker 1: because sometimes I feel like that's.

453
00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,000
Speaker 2: My man, my man, my man. No, I never said

454
00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:27,000
Speaker 2: my man, my man, my man.

455
00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:30,000
Speaker 3: Win we felt like we felt like it was your man.

456
00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,400
Speaker 2: No. I've always said I was dating. I always said

457
00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:34,200
Speaker 2: we were friends, and we're still friends, and we're still

458
00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:36,160
Speaker 2: you know, we hang out and I enjoyed my time

459
00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:38,760
Speaker 2: when I'm with Martel. But at the end of the day,

460
00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,160
Speaker 2: I just got out of something last season. He just

461
00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:44,640
Speaker 2: got out of a divorce. What a couple of years ago. Right, Okay,

462
00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,840
Speaker 2: I am slow walking this. Are you looking for mister? Right?

463
00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,560
Speaker 3: Are you dating someone else as much as you're dating?

464
00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:51,400
Speaker 1: Uh?

465
00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:52,959
Speaker 2: Are you dating someone else period?

466
00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:54,719
Speaker 3: Are you dating other men too?

467
00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:59,880
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm? I am I'm enjoying life.

468
00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:00,760
Speaker 3: Is that a yes?

469
00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:04,560
Speaker 2: I'm enjoying life. Yes? Yes, that does not mean I'm

470
00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:05,080
Speaker 2: having sex with.

471
00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:09,800
Speaker 3: Okay, yes, vagina, if you would like to, you can.

472
00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,080
Speaker 3: But I wasn't. I wasn't really thinking about the sex

473
00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:12,800
Speaker 3: I was thinking about.

474
00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:16,040
Speaker 2: Are you open to continues today?

475
00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,840
Speaker 1: Yes? Hey, y'all, How does a guy approach you anyway?

476
00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:21,800
Speaker 1: Like if somebody wants to take Chara out for a date.

477
00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:27,960
Speaker 2: If someone wan was I mean, I've seen guys out

478
00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:30,560
Speaker 2: a lot of games. Are scared to say something to me.

479
00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:36,639
Speaker 2: I would think she's dating someone. Oh no, she's open.

480
00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:39,199
Speaker 3: What kind of men are you? What kind of men

481
00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:40,119
Speaker 3: are you interested in?

482
00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:47,160
Speaker 2: I like successful man? Okay, typically I like successful man.

483
00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:52,360
Speaker 2: I like someone who definitely god fearing, family oriented. I'm

484
00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:53,439
Speaker 2: all about my family.

485
00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:55,240
Speaker 3: What does he look like? What does he have to

486
00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:55,640
Speaker 3: look like?

487
00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,600
Speaker 2: Does that matter? Like to be attracted to him? He

488
00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:02,840
Speaker 2: looks at mattered to me so much, Always matters, Always

489
00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,479
Speaker 2: went by how someone treated me. I still want them

490
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:07,840
Speaker 2: to treat me amazingly well, but I would like to

491
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:08,399
Speaker 2: be attracted to.

492
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:10,120
Speaker 1: Him to What are you attracted to physically?

493
00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:16,399
Speaker 2: I don't know it's changing. I like nice looking. It

494
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:21,880
Speaker 2: could be. I'm open to different ethnicities. Oh you did

495
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:25,480
Speaker 2: a white guy. I've never dated a white guy.

496
00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:26,399
Speaker 3: I think you should try it.

497
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:28,120
Speaker 2: Never dated a white guy.

498
00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:33,159
Speaker 3: But I'm not on reality TV? What age rasor are

499
00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:35,560
Speaker 3: reality TV to do it?

500
00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:40,359
Speaker 2: So typically I get a lot of younger guys. I

501
00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:43,520
Speaker 2: can see that. Yeah, yeah, I think guys are older,

502
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,000
Speaker 2: they may be a little too set in their way.

503
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,800
Speaker 2: So m hm. And you having fun? Yeah, I'm having

504
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:48,640
Speaker 2: fun okay.

505
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Speaker 1: And speaking of which, you also our grandmother, now, Congram.

506
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,280
Speaker 3: You corrected me actually early when I was like, she's

507
00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:57,800
Speaker 3: a grandma, She's like, no, she's like the lamma.

508
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:03,440
Speaker 2: Absolutely. That's exciting though, it is. She's amazing, She's incredible.

509
00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:08,560
Speaker 2: It's like I'm watching her. She's growing so fast, so fast. Yeah,

510
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 2: and you said it brings the family together even more. Yeah,

511
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,879
Speaker 2: we were already very close knit family, but yeah, bringing

512
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 2: Mecca in it's pretty great too. Thank you.

513
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:20,119
Speaker 1: So what else are you working on? So we know

514
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:23,880
Speaker 1: about you about hire, You got your chateau, all right,

515
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:28,199
Speaker 1: also your fitness journey too, because honestly, that's one thing

516
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:30,960
Speaker 1: that's undeniable, and that's the fact that you are in

517
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:32,640
Speaker 1: amazing shape and always have been.

518
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 2: Thank you.

519
00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, So are you going to do more with that

520
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 1: because I feel like that's the move.

521
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 2: Yeah i am. I'm actually working on a program, a

522
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:42,680
Speaker 2: fitness program.

523
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,840
Speaker 3: Okay, get your butt in this fitness program.

524
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:50,520
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, because every time I've always wanted to do.

525
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 2: I've been wanting to do for a long time. But

526
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:55,040
Speaker 2: then it gets when other people were doing videos and

527
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, they're kind of dumbed down. What I because

528
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 2: I really work out, like I really, yes, you do,

529
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,040
Speaker 2: this is my lifestyle. And then when other people were

530
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 2: doing it and I'm like, oh, I'm not going to

531
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:07,120
Speaker 2: do it anymore. But people, it's room for everybody. Yeah,

532
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 2: they're doing it in life or not.

533
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:10,720
Speaker 1: And I think one thing with the platform that you have,

534
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 1: people watch the show and they're like, che looks amazing,

535
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:16,440
Speaker 1: Like no matter whatever type of drama going on, you

536
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,479
Speaker 1: know what anybody has to say. Yeah, that's one thing.

537
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:22,200
Speaker 1: The way your style, your hair looks really cute right.

538
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:28,920
Speaker 2: Now too, thank you? Right, that's shame. I like the

539
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,600
Speaker 2: new coloring look great. Thanks. I'm over here. Like what

540
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 2: she got on that skin girl makeup? I got it

541
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 2: look good because I can see it.

542
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 3: I see she's got a facial recently.

543
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to, you know, take care of myself

544
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 1: a little bit more because I've been working so hard

545
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 1: and sometimes it's not easy to be able to do

546
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,119
Speaker 1: things that I need to do to maintain myself, So

547
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 1: just for me to have the space to be able

548
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 1: to do that.

549
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 2: Now, what do you think about Manyetta and some of

550
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 2: the new women on the show. Oh my gosh, I

551
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:59,400
Speaker 2: love Courtney mm hmmy. Yeah, she's spisy, but she's also

552
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 2: a fun girl. She is a little she's a girl's girl. Okay,

553
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:06,200
Speaker 2: she can be a little good. Why are you looking

554
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 2: like that?

555
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't I don't know yet. The

556
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 3: jury is still lous fun.

557
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:12,879
Speaker 2: I think she's fun. But I like the fact that

558
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 2: she can hold her own. I mean, how many people

559
00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 2: can I don't want to give you too much, but yeah,

560
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 2: she can definitely hold her own.

561
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 3: Yes, well, she came out. She came out swinging, so

562
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 3: I mean she did yeah. When you so, it's hard

563
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,200
Speaker 3: as a viewer, I'm a regular viewer, it's hard to

564
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,159
Speaker 3: fel to know if this is really her personality or

565
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 3: if she's just trying to have a moment so she

566
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,159
Speaker 3: can stay on the show, because you don't know someone's

567
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 3: personality initially, So it's just like, is this who she

568
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 3: is or is she just trying to have us talk

569
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:36,439
Speaker 3: about her?

570
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,200
Speaker 2: You know, No, I think that you know, it was

571
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 2: a genuine it didn't come across very well because it

572
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:43,680
Speaker 2: was like the first episode, You're like, wait a minute,

573
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 2: wait a minute, they're just meeting. They're just meeting. But

574
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,159
Speaker 2: that was something that was, you know, she wanted to

575
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,159
Speaker 2: talk about and Candia apparently wanted to talk about it

576
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 2: as well. But knowing Courtney, our kids actually went to

577
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 2: school together. Okay, so you know, you know her, and

578
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 2: she's really she's a girl's girl. She's fun. She's a

579
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 2: fun girl.

580
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 3: Okay, but I like the fact that she also holds

581
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 3: her own Okay, what about Manyette?

582
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 2: Question about what about Manyette? Okay?

583
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 3: So, but are you getting a You're not getting along

584
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 3: with Candy this season either, right, kidd and I hit

585
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 3: a little bumping a rod because she she spoofed you,

586
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 3: which was funny.

587
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:20,959
Speaker 2: It was funny, Okay, but at the end of the day,

588
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 2: when you're talking about she spoofed me. But she also

589
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 2: kept going on her show talking about my business. So

590
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 2: we're all black women and we're trying to make it

591
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 2: and we're trying to support our families. So I've always

592
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,920
Speaker 2: I've supported Candy's businesses. You know, when I was on

593
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 2: the show and off the show, I would take you know,

594
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 2: people to the restaurants. I go, you know, to her

595
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 2: her plays, and I pay her own way and I

596
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 2: pay whoever else that was with me.

597
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 1: That's how you support your friends.

598
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 2: That's how you support your friends. But when you're continuously

599
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 2: coming on your your your platform and you're talking negatively

600
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 2: about my brand, it took a while, it took a

601
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 2: while to come out, but you're talking negatively about my brand.

602
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,199
Speaker 2: And I never said anything about your brand that can

603
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 2: hurt my brand. So since she that's real life, let

604
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:01,399
Speaker 2: me finish it.

605
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's real life business to have somebody kind of

606
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 1: bashing what you have going on.

607
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and we're supposed to be women who support you,

608
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 2: say you support your pro woman, your pro you know,

609
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 2: women empowerment black businesses, but you're trying to tear mine down. Gotcha?

610
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 1: And it feels like the show also as usual. I

611
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 1: mean there's always different clicks, you know this. It always

612
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:27,880
Speaker 1: feels like this click against this click. So mentally, how

613
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:29,360
Speaker 1: is it for you? Like you said, you did take

614
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 1: a break, you came back to the show. Now you're

615
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 1: prepared for what it is that you need to do.

616
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 1: How do you feel mentally and what are some things

617
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 1: that you're doing differently this time around.

618
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 2: Well mentally, I feel like so when they talk about

619
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 2: the clicks, how old are we?

620
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 3: Y'all do have cliques though I don't have a clique.

621
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 2: If you look back, I've always been a one woman show.

622
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 2: I don't I've never had a supporting cast. I've always

623
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,680
Speaker 2: had to hold my own on my own. I've not

624
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 2: hear nobody really have my back of a thousand percent

625
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: like I have some of these other girls backs. Okay,

626
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 2: so I'm team Charay, but I support the other women.

627
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 2: But I don't feel like we need to be divided

628
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 2: and I need to pick a team. If I like

629
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 2: this person, I like this person, I'm gonna fuck if

630
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 2: you like him or not. That has nothing to do

631
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 2: with my relationship with that person. And we're too old

632
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 2: and too grown to say, oh, she's over there, I'm

633
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 2: talking to that person. I can't talk to her. That

634
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 2: is so silly to me.

635
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 1: All Right, well, I'm with it. We're still watching the show,

636
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: as you can see clearly. Yes, Jasmine actually changed her

637
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: flight so she could be.

638
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 2: Here because she's like, I'm not missing.

639
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 3: I can't miss this.

640
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you for saying I'm at my watch.

641
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 2: That's a nice watch too. Thank you. I know she

642
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: is well.

643
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 1: I appreciate you, Scharai. Thank you so much for coming by.

644
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: And we're gonna keep on making sure that we follow

645
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 1: what you have going on.

646
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 2: And if we need to call you.

647
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, get you on the line.

648
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 2: Yes.

649
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 1: If we need to get you on the line and

650
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 1: something happens, we're gonna need to do that.

651
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm here, all right.

652
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much. As way up with Angelia

653
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Speaker 1: Sha Ray Webfield