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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glazer Podcast. Nicky, Hello here I am. It's

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Speaker 1: a Nicki Glaser podcast. Welcome to the show. Today is Thursday,

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Speaker 1: and I'm joined by Andrew Noah as always Andrew's and St. Louis.

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Speaker 1: Noah is in Arizona. I am in Los Angeles, California,

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Speaker 1: and today's off to a good start. I woke up

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Speaker 1: today to a text from Um, a friend. I shan't.

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Speaker 1: I shan't um say who, because I don't know the

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Speaker 1: legality around this thing. But so I woke up this

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Speaker 1: morning at like seven am and I just couldn't. I

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Speaker 1: was just kind of like dattling on my phone a

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Speaker 1: little bit before I drifted back to sleep, and I

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Speaker 1: saw on Reddit that on the Taylor Swift message board

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Speaker 1: that the Taylor Swift um album Midnight's, which is supposed

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Speaker 1: to come out tonight at midnight, has been leaked as

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Speaker 1: of maybe last night, and people on all the message

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Speaker 1: boards are reviewing it, and I am obviously dying to

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Speaker 1: hear it. Um, But I had like a moral issue

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Speaker 1: of like do I listen? Listen? It's not gonna prevent

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Speaker 1: me from buying all the merch all the records, like everything,

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Speaker 1: but do I want to hear it, because it's like,

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Speaker 1: whatever it is, it's like a shitty ripped version. So

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Speaker 1: it's not like it's gonna if I hear that, it's

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Speaker 1: gonna make her less money somehow, but it does. I

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Speaker 1: know it would hurt her. And she's probably devastated that

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Speaker 1: there's a leak because that even happened. She was doing

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Speaker 1: this thing where she would reveal the every like couple

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Speaker 1: of days, she would do this thing called like Midnights

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Speaker 1: with Me with and then she would pull up a

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Speaker 1: little ping pong ball out of a cage thing that

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Speaker 1: she would spin and it would be a number between

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Speaker 1: one and landa Vega. Do you remember who you landa

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Speaker 1: Vega is? No, Maybe that's like a it's like a

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Speaker 1: seventies thing because it's a kind of a seventies style.

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Speaker 1: I think maybe it was local. He didn't listen that song,

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Speaker 1: I think, so like um in between um nintime TV,

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Speaker 1: like right before the news, they would pull the lottery

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Speaker 1: numbers and there was a hostess and she would go,

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Speaker 1: I'm your landa Vega. She just oh, I couldn't forget sure.

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Speaker 1: So many besties know exactly what you're talking about, But

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Speaker 1: I that's a cultural reference. I just missed. Um, maybe

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Speaker 1: it was local to New York. Wasn't maybe sorry about that,

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Speaker 1: Yolanda Vega. Well, yeah, so Taylor would be all Yolanda

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Speaker 1: Vega about it, and she'd pick a ball and then

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Speaker 1: she would say track number seven, and then she would

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Speaker 1: turn on her amp and then she would pick up

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Speaker 1: a phone and sometimes the phone would be upside down

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Speaker 1: because she's cryptic and we don't even know what that means.

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Speaker 1: And she would go a track number thirteen is called

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Speaker 1: Lavender Hayes, and then she would hang up the phone

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Speaker 1: and that's it. And Sweties are freaking out, like we

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Speaker 1: know the name of a song. It's and no other

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Speaker 1: fandom do people freak out about the names of songs? Yet,

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Speaker 1: even me, I was like, why is this such a

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Speaker 1: big deal to know the name of a track? But

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Speaker 1: it is a big deal because it's just because it

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Speaker 1: just is. Everything about her is a big deal. But

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Speaker 1: even that, when you hear the name of a track,

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Speaker 1: do you think what the song will be about? Do

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Speaker 1: the name? Obviously? Like twenty two you know, well, there's

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Speaker 1: one called Vigilante Ship, which is such a departure for

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Speaker 1: her because it's only in reputation that, you know, her

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Speaker 1: fourth album, fifth album, that she started even cussing or

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Speaker 1: saying that like ship in songs. So to have it

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Speaker 1: in a lyric is one thing, but to have it

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Speaker 1: in the title of the song quite another. So it's

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Speaker 1: called Vigilante Ship. Yeah, there's a part of you that goes,

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Speaker 1: what could this be about? Who could this be about? Um?

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Speaker 1: Lavender Hayes immediately made a lot of people think of

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Speaker 1: the lover lyrics. She was like, um, and there's a

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Speaker 1: some things and in a mysterious way, there's a something.

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Speaker 1: I forget that there it sounded like another lyric to

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Speaker 1: her song, and I forget it now. I'm a bad

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Speaker 1: swifty but um So anyway, then she would go in

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Speaker 1: and give little descriptions anyway, I'm sorry to become too

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Speaker 1: swifty on this. That got leaked, like her track list

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Speaker 1: got leaked somehow, she's in the middle of it. She

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Speaker 1: probably you know, gave away seven tracks out of the fifteen,

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Speaker 1: and all of a sudden that got leaked. And so

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Speaker 1: she was putting these videos out every midnight, every couple

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Speaker 1: it's just someone in you know internally they're doing press kits.

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Speaker 1: There's there's so much stuff that goes out before something

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Speaker 1: But for instance, there is a Walmart I guess that

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Speaker 1: It's not like it arrives and they put it out

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Speaker 1: like it's coming out at midnight tonight, but it is

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Speaker 1: already in stores now in stock rooms. So there you go.

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Speaker 1: There you have it, like someone just stole one from

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Speaker 1: I woke up this morning and I kind of I

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Speaker 1: googled Taylor swift leak. I was just looking for like snippets.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to hear a whole song. But I

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Speaker 1: was definitely like, it's kind of like how I felt

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Speaker 1: about like when celebrities. It felt like that, it felt

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Speaker 1: about it. And then I went to a couple of

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Speaker 1: sites and it was like clearly everything had been killed

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Speaker 1: my friend who sent me. He said, I know it

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Speaker 1: comes out tomorrow and it said Midnight's dot zip and

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Speaker 1: he sent me the whole damn thing. And I don't

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Speaker 1: know what to do with it because I am I

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Speaker 1: wanted let's go through, let's go, let's go right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Like I guess I could listen to it,

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Speaker 1: like we would could say allegedly I listen to it,

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Speaker 1: and I don't even know if that would be legal.

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Speaker 1: But I am. I am in this weird zone of

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Speaker 1: like I want to listen to it so badly, but

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Speaker 1: I do want I almost want to do I wanted

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Speaker 1: to do a reaction video. But today my day is

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Speaker 1: able to tape a reaction video until maybe tomorrow, and

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Speaker 1: then I can't listen to the album until tomorrow. So

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Speaker 1: I just don't know what to do with myself. Have

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Speaker 1: been anything that you? I mean, I think that our

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of. Yeah, I have been obsessed

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Speaker 1: about things, but never like outside of myself, where I'm

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Speaker 1: like waiting. I can't think of a thing, but I

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Speaker 1: can think of like you know, in the Jewish religion,

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Speaker 1: we have to fast one day and we can't eat

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Speaker 1: like your brain is right now. I know one day antorectic.

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Speaker 1: I did that for nine years every day I was fasting.

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Speaker 1: I know what it's like to break a fast and

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Speaker 1: how anticipatory it is. No, that's actually good, that's a

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Speaker 1: really good like um example, I think, Look, if you

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Speaker 1: send me the zip of Taylor Swift, I'll show you

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Speaker 1: how easily. I could wait, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: like in the same in the same regard, I can

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Speaker 1: show you how fucking easy. It's called Midnight. It's kind

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Speaker 1: of a dressing though. I have to say, because she

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Speaker 1: That's what she originally said, right, And so I'm thinking, oh,

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Speaker 1: up on another album, Like why wouldn't you put songs

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Speaker 1: That this is her tenth album and then should come

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Speaker 1: like somewhere like that's not cool at all. I wrote

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Speaker 1: the middle of the afternoon when I just couldn't sleep.

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Speaker 1: Your midnight your midnight album would be sweaty bed. Is

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Speaker 1: there an intruder? Dirty? Invisible? Invisible? Is it poop? Or

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Speaker 1: spray tan in my sheets? Spray tan sheets and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna leak each one? Oh my god, that's how many

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Speaker 1: sleep masks I have. By the way, I my bed

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Speaker 1: this album. Um, but here's my thing, and this is

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Speaker 1: no shade stews. Don't come after me. I'm just saying.

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Speaker 1: At first, when she said it was an album that

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Speaker 1: part of me that was like, are we getting old stuff?

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Speaker 1: Because by the way, she's doing re records of her

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Speaker 1: old albums at Scott Brown now owns right, And in

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Speaker 1: those rerecords, she's released songs on those new rerecorded albums

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Speaker 1: than she was when she made Red. So she's taking

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Speaker 1: what they're called. They were in the vault. So she's

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Speaker 1: that wasn't really finished, and now there's a whole new scenes.

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Speaker 1: There's a whole new album that she's like, these are

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Speaker 1: songs I've written through my life at midnight. She didn't

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Speaker 1: maybe say through my night, but these are songs I

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Speaker 1: I think that's what she said. And I found a

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Speaker 1: little bit of a problem with that because I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you've already given us songs from your past, like this

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Speaker 1: is either a new album or no album, Like we

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'll take anything from her. I'll take it.

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Speaker 1: If it's like recordings of her like sleep app recording

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Speaker 1: her sleeping and you just hear her breathing and like

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Speaker 1: muttering to herself, I would gladly buy that. So let

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Speaker 1: me just say I and people can say whatever they

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Speaker 1: want about this album that it's like not as good,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't even know what people are being like

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Speaker 1: a little bit of criticism that I see, I guarantee

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Speaker 1: you it's fucking amazing, because this girl can't put out anything.

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Speaker 1: But but hits. She's never not put out nothing but hits,

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Speaker 1: so there's there's no way that it won't live up

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Speaker 1: to the hype. But um, then people are like this.

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Speaker 1: But then, but then the other night she said, someone goes,

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Speaker 1: are there going to be like vault tracks on this,

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Speaker 1: like things you wrote in the past, And she was like,

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Speaker 1: she did a video and she said, no, it's all

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Speaker 1: he's still like you know, you saw the thing with

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00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 1: Chris Bryan when he potentially kissed uh spit on him right,

426
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:53,719
Speaker 1: Like there's a toughness to him. That's it doesn't have

427
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 1: to be like manly manly. But when he does interviews,

428
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 1: he's very confident. He's very like strong in his words

429
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 1: and what he thinks men love masculinity, so he's definitely

430
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 1: a fan, there's no question about it. But I think

431
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 1: it's almost like the same vibe that like, um, you know,

432
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 1: a more uh like sting or like yeah, even David Bowie,

433
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 1: like women were crazy about him Prince. I always was

434
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:21,159
Speaker 1: confounded by women's like sexual desire for Prince because he,

435
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,439
Speaker 1: to me, seemed like a woman a little bit. But

436
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: I was a young girl, so I didn't understand it.

437
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:32,399
Speaker 1: But he was extremes. He was extremely alpha. Stories you

438
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,120
Speaker 1: hear about Prince is like he did things his way,

439
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: his like he was very like assertive, you know what

440
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 1: I mean, Like I think sometimes but I'm not saying that.

441
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 1: That's not what I'm saying to I think people think

442
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 1: femininity they think, oh then they're not asserted like, but

443
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: I also don't think that men just being a man

444
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 1: and then wearing a dress is going to be enough.

445
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 1: There is there's not like it's not like Harry has

446
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 1: feminine femininity because he puts on a skirt and wears

447
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: like flowery things. There is like a softness to him

448
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 1: and there's an and as being a singer that's straight

449
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,240
Speaker 1: up pure emotion pouring out of him every second, like

450
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 1: it's the most Like singing is so feminine for sure, Right, Yeah,

451
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:20,880
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that that he doesn't have both. I'm

452
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 1: saying guys will look at him like they looked at Elvis,

453
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 1: like oh, this is a feminine girl. Like they'll look

454
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: at what he's wearing and then just judge him based

455
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 1: off of that because men want to do it so

456
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 1: badly and they're so jealous they can't and they're it's

457
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: like that they're just jealous that they can't take that

458
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 1: risk because they would be too embarrassed, and that it's

459
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 1: working for someone else. I think anyone that like hates

460
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 1: on that. But it's also um. It is. It is

461
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 1: interesting how attractive it is. My friend Halla, her husband John,

462
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: wore skirts in high school and that was the first

463
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 1: time I ever saw a guy. And this is two

464
00:24:54,800 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: thousand one. That was the first time I would ever

465
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:05,199
Speaker 1: hear it hurt. It was can someone find it? On?

466
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 1: Someone did find me the John Mayer set list a

467
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 1: pageant and there's no it doesn't say open for Guster

468
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: got leaked twenty three years later. No, but it is

469
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 1: smaller than um, so it doesn't say he opened for Guster.

470
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,200
Speaker 1: But what it does indicate is that he was an

471
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 1: opener because there's only like eight songs he played as

472
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 1: opposed to Guster the same night played a lot of songs.

473
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: So shout out to the bustie that found that for me. Um.

474
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 1: I got a tool yesterday that I wanted to share

475
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: with you guys. Um I got sent to or it

476
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: didn't get sent to me. I ordered it online. It

477
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: is called the Go Guarded Go Guarded spelled exactly like

478
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: you would think. It is a ring. Okay, wear it

479
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:56,399
Speaker 1: on your finger running and it has a little like

480
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: rubber like so I like, this doesn't hurt. But if

481
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 1: I stab you, there is a serrated blade. Scratch your

482
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: eye by a mistake. Yeah, it's so cumbersome on my finger,

483
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: There's no way I would scratch my eye with this

484
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:13,880
Speaker 1: finger Like you feel it so much and you only

485
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 1: wear it running and you're very aware that you have it.

486
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,639
Speaker 1: And um, so if anyone like this, I had it

487
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: in my purse yesterday and I was just like digging

488
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 1: for an eyeliner and it scratched my finger. It's great.

489
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 1: I recommend it. These are great gifts to get for

490
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: um Christmas, for your or Hanka for your quanza, for

491
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: my news, for yes, for your girlfriend, for your wives, Like, honestly,

492
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,239
Speaker 1: this is this is an absolute great They are not.

493
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 1: I bought this with my own money. They don't even

494
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: know I have one. This is not a sponsored ad

495
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: of any kind. Hairy style love it. It comes different

496
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: colors and with the aggressive homelessness you know people on meth,

497
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 1: people on weird PCP draw us where they're just attacking people.

498
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 1: You read about something new every single day and someone

499
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:07,360
Speaker 1: getting just like sucker punched this thing, I would really

500
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 1: recommend it. I have another thing, Tiger Lady. Tiger Lady.

501
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 1: It's more cumbersome. It's like a thing you got a

502
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: hold in your hand and the claws come through your

503
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 1: fingers like wolverine. This is so sharp it could fuck

504
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,919
Speaker 1: someone up so bad. It's awesome and it's kind of cute.

505
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 1: So I'm very excited about it, and I recommend it.

506
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 1: Go guarded. Don't DM me about it and be like,

507
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: what was the name of that? I said it eighteen times,

508
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: Go guard it, don't waste my time link to it.

509
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 1: I just can't. I can't tell you how many times

510
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: people ask me, what is the book that helps you

511
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:44,159
Speaker 1: quit drinking. I like, literally every day I get what

512
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,120
Speaker 1: is the book that helps you quit drinking and smoking?

513
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,400
Speaker 1: I is it just a reason for people to reach

514
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 1: out to me. That was the first joke that um,

515
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 1: Chris Ever and I Ever said to each other. As

516
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,679
Speaker 1: I said I quit smoking with the book. He was

517
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 1: a Game of Thrones. And I didn't get it because

518
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,199
Speaker 1: I thought Game of Thrones was a show, and so

519
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: I was like what, And he was and he thought

520
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 1: I was stuck up in like a stuck up comedian

521
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,560
Speaker 1: that like pretends not to understand normal people's jokes, and

522
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: so he thought I was a bit. I thought he

523
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: was talking about a show. I didn't know a Game

524
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 1: of Thrones as a book, And UM, so yeah, that

525
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 1: we were up to a great start. And but people

526
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,360
Speaker 1: always ask me what the book is, and I I

527
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: think if you put in my name, it's the first

528
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 1: thing that comes up. I guess it's just an excuse

529
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: to get in touch with me. But and you know what,

530
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: it works, because every single time I right back instead.

531
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:35,880
Speaker 1: I just wish I could go like the classic if

532
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: you have to ask, you don't know, Like I wish

533
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: I could do my old clear line I'm coming off

534
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: like a bit this weekend. I know there's some people

535
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 1: that's like, she's stuck up. Why can't she just respond

536
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: to people. You would not believe the amount of d

537
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: m s I get every day too. I just want

538
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: to tell people you would not it's and I'm not bragging.

539
00:28:56,280 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 1: Hundreds of people asking me the most inane question, and

540
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: it sucks because they can see when you've read it,

541
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: you know, so then you just look so rude if

542
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: you don't write back. If it's a question, you can't

543
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: just hard it. Sometimes just harding something makes you feel

544
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 1: like that's not enough, and it's almost like really rude

545
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 1: to herd it. So sometimes I just don't write back

546
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: to anything, and then that looks less rude than harding it,

547
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 1: because harding it looks like I read it, but I

548
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: just don't have time to write back. Whereas if I

549
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 1: don't write back, sometimes maybe people can think I didn't

550
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: read it. But it's like it's never ending. What andrew you?

551
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: I've heard people go, you never wrote back to me,

552
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: so you do the same thing, right, Like it's it's

553
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: too overwhelming with how much people just send you Just

554
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: basically the question is some of the things are like

555
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: they they need like a full on paragraph back if

556
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: I write back, But I don't get this ship you

557
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: get what I don't think people realize with your d

558
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: m s, and I might be talking for you, but

559
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: you get like you get like four or five in between,

560
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 1: like a heartfelt messages, dick pics or like guys being

561
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: like I'll eat your feet or whatever. So I'm sure

562
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: those those are great because they're easy to ignore, you know,

563
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: like it's easy to just not right back to those.

564
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: I actually prefer like gross messages because then I just go, oh,

565
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,719
Speaker 1: I gets to block this person. But sometimes people are like,

566
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: I thought you'd like this video. I like, I was

567
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,959
Speaker 1: thinking of you when I saw this, Like and by

568
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: the way, I know that they're busties listening that are like,

569
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 1: but you wrote back to me and you said you

570
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 1: liked it. I actually did like it, Like these are

571
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 1: nice things that people are doing. But I think that's

572
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: sometimes people forget. I'm not trying to be like like,

573
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,719
Speaker 1: I'll say it. You don't only get a ship ton

574
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: of d MS. You also get a bunch of texts

575
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 1: and emails, and you get text messages from people that

576
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: you work with, from celebrity from people I don't work

577
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 1: with and that I don't know all day long, there

578
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 1: is my number has been leaked. Sorry, Taylor, I understand

579
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,959
Speaker 1: what you're going through. And I get text messes all

580
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: day long. They're just hey Nikki, that's all it says.

581
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: And I don't know if it's someone who you know

582
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: change their phone number, and it could be like and

583
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 1: they go hey Nikki, yeah, or they go is this you?

584
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 1: And they'll send me a screenshot of someone posing as

585
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: me online, so I have to write back to them

586
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: and go, no, it's not me, and they go, yeah,

587
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 1: that really concerned. And now this conversation started someone who

588
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 1: has my my number I don't even know. But um.

589
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 1: I talked to Neil Brennan last night. I ran into him,

590
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: co creator of The Chappelle Show, and he told me

591
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 1: that he is he's done with with Instagram, like he's

592
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 1: taking a break from it because it's just it just

593
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: never ends. Um, and he's he's more worried like people

594
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 1: will just get he did a joke about Kanye or something,

595
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 1: so now people are coming out against him as being

596
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 1: insensitive or whatever, and it's just like he's just starting

597
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: to like panic about like go down these spirals of

598
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: stupid stuff. But I do love people writing me, but

599
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: there's something about I don't know. I guess I relate

600
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 1: because I would love to be in touch with someone

601
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 1: that I felt really connected to. But I just gotta say,

602
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: it's like it's a lot. And there are certain people

603
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: that early on they messaged me, maybe earlier on or

604
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 1: on a day where I had a lot of caffeine,

605
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 1: so I wrote back to them once and now it's

606
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: become if I don't write back, it is like they

607
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 1: get a little pissy and they get a little like rude.

608
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: And I've never met this person before. All I've done

609
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: is probably give them free tickets, when they all have

610
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: done is do things for this person. And now one

611
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: day I don't write back and they get an attitude.

612
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: I just it's it is interesting to think about when

613
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 1: you hear stories of like I sent a letter to

614
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 1: Steve Martin and he wrote me back and I still

615
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: have it, and it's like it's such a big deal.

616
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: I mean, who knows how many letters it is a

617
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: big deal. There are people, but people wrote these letters.

618
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: They don't know if Steve Martin read them. You know,

619
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 1: that's the difference, like they don't know that they got

620
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 1: they probably sometimes what they do they go, is this

621
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: really Nikki or her assistant, And it's like, well, I'm

622
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 1: not going to now send a picture of me holding

623
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: today's paper to prove this is me. I'm not. I'm

624
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 1: not even actually gonna write you back after that because

625
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 1: I don't need to prove myself to you. I don't

626
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 1: what what's it's just um, but I do. I am

627
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: grateful for if you're a bestie and we've communicated a

628
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 1: lot and it's always been like nice and cordial, please

629
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: keep writing me. It doesn't bother me. It's like it's

630
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: it's um the ones that, yeah, you could just hire

631
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 1: a team that just puts out your Instagram ship and

632
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: you never even have to see it again, But then

633
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: you want control over it. So it's hard to decide

634
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 1: whether I do like some of the correspondence. I you know,

635
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 1: I know that there's gonna be some Reddit thread being

636
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: like she's changed, she's a bitch now, but I'm I'm

637
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: swear to God, I'm not. I wish I could write

638
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 1: to everyone friends with everyone. I'm the same bitch I've

639
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: always been. She's always been with a new voice, like

640
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 1: just the other day, Like I kind of felt for

641
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: Harry because you know, now he's dis pointed to fans

642
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: because he didn't take a picture, and it was like, man,

643
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: he could have been cooler. And the truth is, yeah,

644
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: he could have been. How hard is it to just

645
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: take a picture. But the problem is, I'm sure that

646
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 1: if he took that one picture, other people would have seen.

647
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:15,879
Speaker 1: If he was in an elevator, I'm sure he would

648
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 1: have taken the picture because no one that would be

649
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: around to see, Oh you can take a picture with

650
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: Harry styles. I want to get in line, and so

651
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: that's what happens. I just read so many celebrity message

652
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: boards and celebrity fans are so rude to celebrities if

653
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 1: they is there's one little story about a celebrity being

654
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: slightly like not in the mood for it that day,

655
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: and you don't know what that story is. You don't

656
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 1: know how rude that person was that came up to them.

657
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 1: And by the way, I love being recognized. If you

658
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: see me in public, bug the funk out of me,

659
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: asked for a picture, have a conversation, you say no, no,

660
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 1: there's not even playing. Oh no, I would never I

661
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 1: love every Now. Listen, this is me right now with

662
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: a out a million followers on Instagram. When I get

663
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 1: to there's ever a day in my life where I

664
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: have thirty million, I'm I Actually, I don't think I'll

665
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 1: I will say, I don't think I will ever not

666
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: want to take a picture with a fan or like

667
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 1: it's too easy to take a picture just a selfie

668
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: now here's nothing. Don't give your camera to someone else

669
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: to get the because that's not even a good picture.

670
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,320
Speaker 1: Selfie is just so much better because you get closer

671
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 1: to the celebrity. They kind of put their arm around you.

672
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 1: It's a close up shot. It is a better picture.

673
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,359
Speaker 1: It takes less time. Um, but I love it. I

674
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:32,319
Speaker 1: love when people say something and they take a picture. Um,

675
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 1: every time. I will always love it. But and you

676
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: can d M me and I might read it and

677
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 1: right back to you. But I'm not gonna hate you

678
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 1: if you write me, I'm not gonna remember that it

679
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: was you. I don't remember. Sometimes people go, We've readen

680
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 1: on Instagram and I'm like, I don't remember because your

681
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:51,399
Speaker 1: name is you know, whip boy, Like I don't know

682
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 1: what that I don't know you as I don't know

683
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 1: who that would be. And there's and I wish that

684
00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:59,400
Speaker 1: someone could just see inside my d M sometimes to

685
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: under stand because I just think that some people think

686
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 1: that I could be I just don't. I hope you

687
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: just don't think I'm rude. Um, it's just too much.

688
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 1: There's only so much you can take. And I just

689
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 1: related to Harry on the most small scale. I mean,

690
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 1: it's just I can only imagine how much he gets

691
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 1: bombarded all the time. But that's why I'm like, yeah, well,

692
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: I'm thinking his headspace. If he's still wearing the same

693
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 1: thing four days in a row, is either very good

694
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 1: or very very bad. Yeah, it's one. It's one or

695
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: the other. They're like, if I'm wearing the same sweats,

696
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: I'm probably either the saddest I've ever been, or I

697
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: or you just or you just found it there that

698
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 1: really were So I'm guessing it's probably the latter. He's

699
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 1: probably just like, I'm sucking tired. I'm I just did

700
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: a forty city tour. I'm still have another hundred to go,

701
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: you know what. He was holding a coffee, so it's

702
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,720
Speaker 1: probably like first thing in the morning for him. Yes,

703
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: I love he'll perform, and he has he has a car.

704
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:01,919
Speaker 1: Did you see the video? He has a car behind

705
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: backstage like in the in the actual So he's just

706
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,359
Speaker 1: like I'm sucking out, Like it's just so funny where

707
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 1: it gets to the point where you go from I'm

708
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: gonna wait by a door and say a load to

709
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: everyone because I'm so appreciative too. If I don't get

710
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,439
Speaker 1: out of here within three seconds, I'm gonna lose my mind.

711
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's like like it grows so much

712
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 1: that you can't handle it, Like and I just think

713
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 1: that people don't understand it, and I don't even understand

714
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 1: it that level of fame and what how hard it

715
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: must be in the burden of it, like and how

716
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: people have opinions about you. I mean, his relationship is

717
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: being taken apart every single day online people are making

718
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 1: assumptions about his girlfriend, about him, like just everything, every

719
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: move you make, someone has a goddamn opinion. It would

720
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 1: be even the small amount of opinions that circulate about

721
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:56,760
Speaker 1: me and the very like some tiny dusty corners of Reddit,

722
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 1: the Times have stumbled upon them, or it's devastating. It's

723
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: do you have the stating to read people having a

724
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,399
Speaker 1: take on you when they don't know who you are,

725
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 1: or people who are like I used to like her.

726
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 1: That's the worst thing, is like she I used to

727
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:11,239
Speaker 1: and now I hate her, Like there's she's changed, like

728
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: people who get mad when you change? Is everyone supposed

729
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 1: to stay the same? Do you know that you changed to?

730
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,280
Speaker 1: Do you know that everyone sheds their skin, like every

731
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: single cell every second? When she was poor, like now

732
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,360
Speaker 1: she talks about being rich, It's like, well, what do

733
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 1: you want me to pretend to be poor? I'm sure

734
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:31,359
Speaker 1: I'm agnarious in many ways changing, but it's not it's

735
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: not I don't know, it's uh, it's do you think?

736
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 1: And that's why I don't read stuff. Do you think

737
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 1: it has to do with with musicians you signed like

738
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: these contracts with these record labels where then you have

739
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: to get paid in advance, so then you have to

740
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 1: do a certain amount of shows just because you have

741
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: to pay back what they advanced, you know what I mean? Like,

742
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:52,879
Speaker 1: I feel like that'd be a tough position to being

743
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: and that's why they go crazy a lot of times

744
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 1: because it's like you have to, yeah, you have to

745
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,799
Speaker 1: like her, is not like needing to make money, like

746
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: he could afford to pay whatever record couple they're making

747
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 1: money off of him so much funny, but these tours

748
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: are so lucrative. I mean, he doesn't because he loves it.

749
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: You can tell that there's like a joy from his shows.

750
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,919
Speaker 1: You know. Emma and Khaki, who went to the show,

751
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 1: said that like it was the greatest night of they've

752
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 1: ever like they've never been to a place with more happiness.

753
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,879
Speaker 1: And that's the same vibe at like Swifty shows too.

754
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 1: It's just like pure happiness. But that's kind of the

755
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:33,800
Speaker 1: vibe at any kind of I mean the sporting events,

756
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 1: there's a lot of anger, as we've talked about, but

757
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: like music, like concerts are just pure joy. I don't

758
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: know why I don't go to more of them. I um,

759
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: I gotta have a long day ahead of me. Can

760
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 1: we get to like one news story? Sure? Do you

761
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 1: want to do a sports moment? Yeah, let's get this.

762
00:39:51,960 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 1: One's pretty good. Here's Andrew's weekly Sports. I know we

763
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: haven't done this in a while. I found one last

764
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: night that I think you'll like. Oh this is from you,

765
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 1: It's so funny. Yeah, okay, let me pull it up.

766
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,720
Speaker 1: I wonder what have you heard of any golf moments.

767
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: I mean it's going to be about golf. Uh, there's

768
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:17,880
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff on the Live Tour, but I

769
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 1: doubt it's about that live Tyler, You're right, it's not.

770
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: It's definitely don't know what's the live tour. Don't even

771
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 1: tell me. It would be an hour and a half. Okay.

772
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,720
Speaker 1: A golfer is suing a Ford dealer and a country

773
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 1: club after they did not award him and f one

774
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: fifty truck as a prize for hitting a hole in

775
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 1: one during a charity golf tournament. Yeah. So it's the

776
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,359
Speaker 1: tenth hole and they said anyone who gets a hole

777
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 1: in one thing, they put it on Facebook. There's evidence

778
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 1: and when this is so funny. When he won, the

779
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:58,240
Speaker 1: country club employee called the Ford dealer and a person

780
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: at the store responded, oh, don't tell me, and the

781
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: country club employee answered, unfortunately it happened. So then so

782
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: that they're not giving this guy a car because they're

783
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: saying that the country club did not understand what like

784
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: they just used their imaging for promotional and that that

785
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,879
Speaker 1: the dealership did not know that this was like being

786
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 1: promoted as like giveaway car and they did not agree

787
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 1: to it, and they just gave them imaging, but they

788
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 1: did not agree to like actually give a car, so

789
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 1: they're not getting this. So this guy is suing both

790
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 1: the country club and the car dealership to get the

791
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:37,799
Speaker 1: dealership unliked all the posts on face So yeah, so

792
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: the dealership liked all the posts promoting the tournament. Yeah yeah,

793
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: I went unliked it. It reminds me of my fucking

794
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 1: friends ex husband who cheated on her and went back

795
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: and when he was having an affair, she found that,

796
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: like she didn't know. She didn't like. She was like

797
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: really confused because you didn't know he was cheating on her.

798
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 1: She just saw one day, like on his Instagram all

799
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: the posts with like them together in it. All the

800
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 1: captions were changed from like You're the love of my

801
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: life the happy three year anniversary. The captain team edited

802
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:16,280
Speaker 1: them all to just be like an emoji of like

803
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: you know, just like eyes like looking to the side,

804
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 1: or like just like one of those whimsical like stars,

805
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:27,880
Speaker 1: like like shooting stars. And it said edited on it,

806
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 1: and he denied it, Like dude, this all aligns up

807
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 1: with exactly because when it came out, he was like,

808
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: that's when you were hanging out with her. That's when

809
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,439
Speaker 1: I see all the venmo transactions between you guys, because

810
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 1: you were going to have drinks together, like it all.

811
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 1: It's no, no, he did that so that she was

812
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 1: when she looked at his Instagram, she would see that

813
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,919
Speaker 1: their marriage was falling apart. Girls in relationships, look out

814
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 1: for your boyfriend's and your husband's editing past photos of you,

815
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: because they know that the girl that they want at work,

816
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: who they're kind of flirty with, is going to go

817
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 1: back on their Instagram and see if they have a girlfriend,

818
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 1: and they want to hide any evidence of her, and

819
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 1: so they'll go back and edit it to make sure

820
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 1: it seemed like maybe that relationships over or they want

821
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 1: us close and they weren't as in love. So that

822
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 1: lines up with their whole bullshit story of like we're

823
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 1: actually struggling right now and we're separated when the woman

824
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 1: has no fucking idea about it. Yeah, so I love

825
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: the idea of of of a photo of their wedding

826
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 1: day and the captions to paid actors like love this

827
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 1: modeling gig. I got, Yeah, friends hanging out love my sister,

828
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: and it's like them kissing at the altar. My other

829
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 1: friend tripped me and I fell and get put a

830
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: ring on her finger. So here's the problem with this

831
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 1: thing is that this golf this dealership, and this golf

832
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: club did not get insurance, which is a popular thing.

833
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 1: There is our entire insurance companies that exists for by

834
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 1: the way, only me. Yeah, someone hit a hole in

835
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 1: one and they didn't get the car because it was

836
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 1: like a very expensive car and because they don't think

837
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 1: it's ever going to happen. Because do you want to

838
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,399
Speaker 1: know the odds of getting a hole in one? Like?

839
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: So I looked into it and there's a whole article

840
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:19,240
Speaker 1: about one in three. Insurance firms operate on the premise

841
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: that the odds of something happening are small enough to

842
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:23,959
Speaker 1: assume a repeated risk. Obviously, um, the chances of someone

843
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 1: getting a hole in one are fairly small. What do

844
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: you think it is for amateur golfers? One and how many?

845
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:35,320
Speaker 1: Probably one in uh two point five million? Way off? Okay,

846
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 1: it's one in twelve point five thousand. Oh, that seems

847
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:42,320
Speaker 1: really low actually, And for pro golfers, what do you

848
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 1: think it is? Probably one in uh? If it's one

849
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: in twelve point five for amateur, so one in uh

850
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 1: three thousand, uh, But then four d fifty million rounds

851
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 1: of golf are played every year, and because of the

852
00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:59,959
Speaker 1: scale and popularity of sport, the feet, the feet happen

853
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 1: on a daily basis, so people are getting holes in

854
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:04,799
Speaker 1: ones on a daily basis. There's one, I have one,

855
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,319
Speaker 1: you have one? Win? Yeah, I have one. But here's

856
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: there's a there's an asterisk. Unfortunately it was a part

857
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:14,800
Speaker 1: three course, but it was a hundred and forty yards,

858
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:16,800
Speaker 1: so it's a real part three. But it was a

859
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 1: there's part three courses, so there's a real part three.

860
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 1: What does that mean part So there's like a nine

861
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 1: hole part three, so every hole is a part three.

862
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:29,360
Speaker 1: It's like so when they don't have a ton of land,

863
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 1: they make it all part threes. So I made it

864
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: on a part three course, not a whatever anyhow. Sorry,

865
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 1: but what year was this? This was when I was

866
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,439
Speaker 1: retired in my twenties. And did you get the car

867
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 1: my dad let me borrow her day? Did you buy

868
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 1: round one at the golf course? Because that's the rule.

869
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 1: I didn't know this was the rule that sucks. So

870
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: you win and then like thousands of dollars in jack

871
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 1: and Japan. It is so customary for I read about this.

872
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:03,359
Speaker 1: It is so customary for people to get a hole

873
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,279
Speaker 1: in one in Japan, and it is like you have

874
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: to buy everyone, you have to throw a gigantic party

875
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 1: and so like. So it's a huge industry um to

876
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:16,319
Speaker 1: get golf insurance hole in one insurance in Japan. And

877
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 1: the off chance that you're gonna have to spend three

878
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 1: thousand dollars for a party that night, what were you

879
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 1: gonna say? And Oh no, it's just that my dad

880
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: let me drive his uh Cadillac CTS around uh and whatever.

881
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 1: I don't what. It wasn't because of a hole in one.

882
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 1: But I left the sky roof open just like an

883
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 1: inch and it poured like all night, and it was

884
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: like like when I came home from having my kind

885
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 1: of overdose, Remember when I fell apart. I told the

886
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 1: story on here before, but give it some contact. I

887
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 1: just fell a bar and my dad's like finally used

888
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,720
Speaker 1: my car and literally like the third day I left it, Scott,

889
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 1: that's what he thought. It was going to change your life.

890
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 1: He was just like, dude, come on, man, how what

891
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 1: did you do after that? With your like where you

892
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 1: Was that just a new bottom? Yeah? Or was that

893
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 1: just like our part three? For the course we gotta

894
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:19,320
Speaker 1: go to break. There's probably a one in six chance

895
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 1: I was going to leave that skyroo. All Right, we're back, um,

896
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,879
Speaker 1: Today's Thursday, so it's time for some fan tracks. Let's

897
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:42,240
Speaker 1: get to it, all right, No, what we got today? Okay,

898
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 1: let's start off with um, Naomi, Hi, besties, bestI Naomi here.

899
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 1: I have a question similar to the several debate. The

900
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:58,880
Speaker 1: phrase I'm interested in is just yet? How long is

901
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 1: just yet? Um? I already googled it and everything, and

902
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: obviously there's no definition like we found with several, It's

903
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 1: more contextual. My context is I'm waiting to hear back

904
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 1: from my dream job. It's taken a long time. I

905
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 1: reached out, they said they experior message. I'm afraid I

906
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: don't have an update just yet. We are still in

907
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 1: depressive of interviewing. Blah blah blah. Thank you for a patients,

908
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 1: So when is just yet? When am I going to

909
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: hear back from the freaking job? And I think it

910
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 1: would be really different if I'm asking how long is

911
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 1: dinner ready? Not just yet? Are we there yet? Not

912
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 1: just yet. When spy we do rude question, but not

913
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:45,800
Speaker 1: just yet. Just you get it? So I love that,

914
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 1: you know, for an anxious person, no control, obsessing my

915
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: email every five seconds, give me the answer or when

916
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 1: am I sec from this job? Um? Let me know

917
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: what you think is and give me this freaking job? Thanks?

918
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 1: Oh man, that's so funny. Yeah, several more jobs, Andrews.

919
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 1: That your definition or the real one? What do you

920
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:19,439
Speaker 1: think I mean? Just yet? For me, it's tough because

921
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 1: it's like it's almost like a cop out by the company.

922
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: I feel like we're actually looking for someone else. But

923
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 1: I yeah, I don't love it. Just weeks, but I

924
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: don't three weeks. Yeah, I would say two weeks before

925
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:36,839
Speaker 1: you write again. Um. And also like I think it's

926
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: good you wrote back, Naomi. I think it's um God,

927
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:42,720
Speaker 1: I really hope you get this. I am so pulling

928
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 1: for you. We don't have an answer for you just yet. Okay,

929
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,320
Speaker 1: let me just think for a second if I got that,

930
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: we don't have an answer for you just yet. I

931
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:51,439
Speaker 1: don't think I've ever gotten the answer I wanted when

932
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: I have been told that we don't have it just yet,

933
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 1: because generally it goes we should know soon. It is

934
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 1: like more of a hopeful thing. Um, just yet, it

935
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 1: doesn't It doesn't mean like you didn't get the job

936
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 1: or that it's it's it's such an answer that you

937
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 1: give to someone that you the girl that let me

938
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:13,439
Speaker 1: just say this. I don't think it's a bad sign

939
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: about like you didn't get the job. I think it's

940
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 1: still very much able to be yours. I think it's

941
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 1: about this person has no fucking clue when they're going

942
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 1: to know, Like they just that they're not really worried

943
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:29,160
Speaker 1: about filling the position that much. They're taking their time.

944
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 1: There's not exactly it sounds like the kind of place

945
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 1: maybe you wouldn't want to work anyway, And I know

946
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 1: that's tough to hear. Um. That's like when you know

947
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 1: a guy doesn't write you back and your friends are like,

948
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: you wouldn't want to be with a guy who doesn't

949
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: write you back? You're like, yes, I do, but I

950
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: can't just yet. He has great taste. If he doesn't

951
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 1: like me, I can't take out the dinner just yet.

952
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 1: I can't. It's a very interesting like, Naomi, I feel

953
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 1: like you've just stumbled do like a Jerry Seinfeld bit

954
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:05,760
Speaker 1: of like, what's with just yet? Yeah, yeah, when's dinner?

955
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 1: Not just yet. That's a different time than if you

956
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 1: ask for a job. When it's when a job we

957
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:13,359
Speaker 1: haven't filled it just yet. It's a great little like

958
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: it's such a um yeah because it it doesn't. I

959
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:20,959
Speaker 1: wonder what you found when you googled. But I would

960
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 1: say to you that, um, I would be the squeaky wheel,

961
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:26,920
Speaker 1: and I would ask again in two weeks if I

962
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 1: were you. It's a good question because I was thinking

963
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 1: about bringing this up at the beginning show of like

964
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 1: when do you follow up? I feel like if you

965
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 1: don't hear back from a text and you don't hear

966
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 1: back from an email, are those different times when you

967
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: follow up with the person, Like I feel like an

968
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: email you can wait a little bit longer, Like, Okay,

969
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:46,800
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna ask for a follow up a text.

970
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: Are you trying emailing clubs and stuff? Is that what

971
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 1: we were talking about? Uh? This was for like I

972
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 1: hired someone to like golf clubs, do something for me anything?

973
00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 1: Oh well, if you're offering a job, it's weird, Like

974
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:03,040
Speaker 1: if you're offering to give someone money and they didn't

975
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 1: get back to you. I want you can follow up

976
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: immediately that you can follow up as much as you want.

977
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 1: You're like, hey, I'm going to give you free money.

978
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:16,319
Speaker 1: Are you available or not? That's a good boy. I

979
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 1: should have to you should be just yetting them unbelievable.

980
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 1: When am I going to get that ChIL from you

981
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 1: Andrew for that job I did? Oh, it'll come through

982
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 1: just yet. That's what I'll send you several dollars And

983
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 1: you know, just like, okay, let's take that out of

984
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 1: the equation. Is a text more a time of the

985
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: essence than an email? You know what? I Sometimes? Yeah,

986
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 1: it's tricky because it depends on the person, right, Like

987
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:48,320
Speaker 1: if if I ask a question, usually I know people

988
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:50,880
Speaker 1: see text messages. Like if I'm if I'm familiar with

989
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,759
Speaker 1: someone enough to text them a question, um I know

990
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: they saw it. And if it's someone that I'm just like, like,

991
00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 1: you know, there was a guy last night, um or

992
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 1: I was running late for a show last night, and

993
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 1: I sent a message being like, hey, what time is

994
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 1: the show running late? And they didn't right back, and

995
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 1: I just like did a question mark on it, you know,

996
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:10,719
Speaker 1: just to like bump it up in their thing. It's

997
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 1: not going to annoy them. And maybe I have the

998
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 1: wrong number. Maybe it's not. That person isn't working that night,

999
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 1: so it's like fine, But um, I think that following

1000
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 1: up with emails is probably you would wait a week.

1001
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 1: And I only know that because I'm the person that

1002
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 1: needs to be followed up with stuff constantly, and people

1003
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 1: usually wait a week. And that's why I love the

1004
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:31,360
Speaker 1: little feature on Google that's like, this person wrote you

1005
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,399
Speaker 1: two days ago, would you like to respond? They seem

1006
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 1: to have several question marks in the email, and do

1007
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: you want to keep would you succeed in the industry

1008
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: that you've worked so hard to even get this far in?

1009
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:46,319
Speaker 1: Why don't you write back to this person that could

1010
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 1: really help you? What do you scared? Why do you

1011
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 1: have my password? Yeah, it's almost a little bit. Why

1012
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:58,280
Speaker 1: did Siri just turn out you? Just like something happened

1013
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 1: that caused Serri to go what do you want? I think? Um,

1014
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:02,439
Speaker 1: all right, let's get to the next fan t Rex

1015
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 1: now me good luck on your job. I really do.

1016
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:06,839
Speaker 1: I'm I'm sending vibes your way. I have a good

1017
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: feeling about it, Like keep this updated. What happens? Okay,

1018
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: here's misheard lyrics story. Hi, Nikki and Andrew and Noah.

1019
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 1: I first want to say, Nikki, your voice sounds so

1020
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,720
Speaker 1: fucking amazing. I'm so happy for you. You can especially

1021
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 1: tell the difference when you get really excited or passionate

1022
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: about something and you talk at a higher pitch. So um,

1023
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:33,439
Speaker 1: congratulations and uh congratsuming on the other side of your

1024
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 1: silent time. The reason that I'm calling is because I

1025
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 1: was listening to the pod as one does, and y'all

1026
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:42,839
Speaker 1: are talking about how some disease names sound a lot

1027
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,720
Speaker 1: better than what the condition actually is, and it reminded

1028
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 1: me of this lyric misunderstanding. I had an elementary school.

1029
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: My mom used to listen to country music all the

1030
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 1: time in the car on the radio, and there was

1031
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:58,759
Speaker 1: some song at the time. I don't know what it

1032
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 1: was called, but the Tequila makes her clothes fall off.

1033
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:07,319
Speaker 1: But the way he sang it, it was more just

1034
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: kind of I just didn't know what he was singing,

1035
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:13,879
Speaker 1: so I would sing, leukemia makes her clothes fall off,

1036
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 1: and it's true. I think this is because I had

1037
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: heard the word leukemia, but I didn't know what it was,

1038
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 1: and so I just was like, leukemia and my mom was,

1039
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 1: what are you singing? And then she explained to me

1040
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 1: what tequila was and what leukemia was. So um and

1041
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 1: Dobeka and judge, judy, judge, study, that's a good one.

1042
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 1: We can we can, you know, I guess we could. Yeah, um, okay, Yeah.

1043
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 1: It is funny that leukemia is something we often hear

1044
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 1: about his kids, because I guess that's just it's just

1045
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,400
Speaker 1: a it's a disease that gets a lot. It's a

1046
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 1: type of cancer that gets a lot of press. Whoever's

1047
00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:02,399
Speaker 1: like running the leukemia press wagon market doing a good job.

1048
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,359
Speaker 1: We we we hear a lot about it. We don't.

1049
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:09,399
Speaker 1: You don't hear about scleroderma until your thirty seven. But leukemia, yea,

1050
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 1: But yeah, that is there's always one kid from the

1051
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:15,839
Speaker 1: town that had leukemia. So it was always like one kid.

1052
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: And it's funny to like that even if your kid

1053
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:22,839
Speaker 1: and you're like, tequila makes your clothes off? Why would

1054
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,680
Speaker 1: I drink make a woman's clothes off. It's all so

1055
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: confusing to kids. But lukemia makes one sense because like

1056
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:34,360
Speaker 1: you probably lose weight, your belt is doesn't fit anymore.

1057
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. I liked it. I love him as

1058
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 1: heard lyric next time? That would my favorite misheard ever.

1059
00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: Just the difference of the line is so good. And

1060
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:47,799
Speaker 1: I wonder how she discovered that she was saying it wrong,

1061
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:49,439
Speaker 1: Like did she sing it once? And her mom goes,

1062
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 1: what did you just say? Leukemia makes her close? John?

1063
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 1: Did you hear what your daughter just said? I got

1064
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 1: daughter drinking tequila? Is she drinking? Are you dunk? Alright?

1065
00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 1: Final thought? Okay, let's go to Andrea. Hi, no, junkie,

1066
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 1: I have to really speed through this. Um. But this

1067
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,359
Speaker 1: is bestie Andrea, and I'm currently calling in to tell

1068
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 1: you that I'm not having sex with a guy who

1069
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 1: definitely wants to send sex with me. Um. I've always

1070
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:20,960
Speaker 1: struggled with this in the past because One, I don't

1071
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 1: want to come off like a loser prude. No offense

1072
00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 1: to all the virgins out there. You do you boo

1073
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:27,919
Speaker 1: boo um too. I've been a really young phony little

1074
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 1: bit what can I say? And three, you know you

1075
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:31,960
Speaker 1: don't know if you want these guys to commit to

1076
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 1: you because you don't know them. You meet them out,

1077
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:35,920
Speaker 1: dating out. But I found three things that have really

1078
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: helped me shift my mindset. One, I've done the casual

1079
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 1: relationships for years now, and it fucking sucks and it

1080
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 1: really does not serve me, and it actually makes me

1081
00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:46,480
Speaker 1: feel really should be a shitty about myself. And I

1082
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 1: had to really sink in last year, I had to

1083
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 1: get a coploscope because some fucking idiot loser gave me

1084
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: HPV and that was traumatizing and made me feel really powerless.

1085
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: And three, I'm almost twenty and just finished my peach

1086
00:57:57,800 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: in chemistry, which I feel like really aged me, and

1087
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:02,320
Speaker 1: I now feel table to be around with these fucking

1088
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: loser idiots. But the real reason I'm telling you this

1089
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 1: is because I have said no to to guys who

1090
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,480
Speaker 1: try to keep making moves after we've been making out,

1091
00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:11,919
Speaker 1: And boy, that makes me feel so powerful. I think

1092
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 1: previously I felt what I thought was powerful when they'd

1093
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: see my body and be horned up whatever. But now

1094
00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:19,400
Speaker 1: and then my loving my body for what it is era,

1095
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: so I'm probably not as hot as I used to

1096
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:23,960
Speaker 1: me whatever. And literally now if these guys don't want me,

1097
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 1: I know it's just because they don't respect me, and

1098
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 1: that makes me not give a fucking shit about them.

1099
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 1: So it's definitely a mentality shift. And I know, um

1100
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 1: it's hard to convince people to do this whatever. But anyways,

1101
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 1: I love you guys so much. I love the pod um,

1102
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:43,040
Speaker 1: and I love all the besties. Jail Jail I was

1103
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 1: my favorite one. Yet it didn't even have anything to

1104
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: do with anything intercal either. Maybe a guy to game

1105
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 1: r HPV needs to go in there. Oh my god,

1106
00:58:58,160 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 1: I love this. Yeah, it is that's she is so

1107
00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 1: perfectly like. It used to feel powerful and yet yet

1108
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 1: it still does. Sometimes when like you can make a

1109
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:10,480
Speaker 1: penis get hard by someone looking at your body like

1110
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:13,200
Speaker 1: there's some power in that, you're just like, wow, I'm

1111
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 1: But there is so much power when someone desires you

1112
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 1: so much and you're able to say like I'm not ready,

1113
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 1: like respect like just not doing it, to like funk

1114
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 1: with them and like withhold but doing you're actually not ready. Yes, yes,

1115
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 1: it makes you want them so much more. It's listen,

1116
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 1: saying no to sexual advances that you don't really want

1117
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 1: to do and you're not ready for yet and you're

1118
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 1: not like craving wildly is not only it's just that's

1119
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 1: the That's the thing. I don't think that there are

1120
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 1: a lot of times so that I think I've wanted

1121
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 1: to have sex and just didn't yet because I just

1122
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 1: knew deep down somewhere I wasn't ready and I was

1123
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:54,919
Speaker 1: totally scared of getting abandoned by these guys that every

1124
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 1: time I slept with they would change. So there is

1125
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:03,280
Speaker 1: a thing of like going against what you want a

1126
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:06,560
Speaker 1: little bit like because you do I don't know, like

1127
01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:07,640
Speaker 1: know what do you know what I'm saying? Like, there

1128
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:09,200
Speaker 1: are times where it's easy to not have sex with

1129
01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 1: the guy because I'm like, I'm just like not in

1130
01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 1: the mood. This guy is not like actually turning me

1131
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 1: on enough. Yes, I can easily do it like yeah,

1132
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 1: or I could like making out with his m is nice,

1133
01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: Like I'm not totally unsold on the idea, like it'd

1134
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 1: be fine. But but there are times where I'm like,

1135
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 1: I really want it, and I just don't want to

1136
01:00:29,240 --> 01:00:32,200
Speaker 1: give it to them because I guess I I just

1137
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:34,360
Speaker 1: don't want to close the deal yet because I don't

1138
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:37,680
Speaker 1: I don't actually feel secure. If if there was any

1139
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:42,840
Speaker 1: time there's a hesitation, it's because there's something in you

1140
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 1: that's not ready yet. So like I guess listen to

1141
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 1: that hesitation. And it's been a long time since we

1142
01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:51,040
Speaker 1: kind of talked about this. But if you're a young

1143
01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:53,400
Speaker 1: girl out there or any not even young, if you're

1144
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 1: a girl out there and thinking that sleeping with a

1145
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 1: guy before you get what you want out of the relationship,

1146
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 1: whether it be a commit it um and like before

1147
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: you talk about like where, what is this? What do

1148
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 1: you want? What are we? And I'm not talking about

1149
01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 1: like do you want to eventually have a girlfriend? Do

1150
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:12,400
Speaker 1: you think I could be that? That's not it. It's

1151
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:15,600
Speaker 1: like you're my girlfriend now, then you can sleep with them.

1152
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 1: And then some people go, no, you know, why would

1153
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 1: you want a guy to be your boyfriend before you

1154
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 1: even have his dick inside you? Honey? You know if

1155
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 1: it's going to be good or not. Don't act like

1156
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:27,120
Speaker 1: you have to like eat the cow before you buy

1157
01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:29,320
Speaker 1: it or whatever the funk that is. Like, there's so

1158
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:31,560
Speaker 1: many excuses. I think women tell themselves that they can

1159
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:35,000
Speaker 1: sleep with people before because it's easier to like, guys

1160
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:36,680
Speaker 1: want you to. It's hard to tell a guy no,

1161
01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:42,320
Speaker 1: it's hard to like resist your bodily urges. But I think, um, yeah,

1162
01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 1: I have a friend who falls into this trap to

1163
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:47,440
Speaker 1: where she's like, I just want good sex. He just

1164
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 1: has to have a good dick and he needs to,

1165
01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 1: you know, know how to use it. And then it

1166
01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 1: just it never lasts, or she'll she'll get into a

1167
01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 1: long term relationship. She gave up an apartment that was

1168
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:03,440
Speaker 1: so good to move in with a guy and then

1169
01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 1: they ended up breaking up, and it's just like it

1170
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:11,919
Speaker 1: complicates things so much good sex. Eventually, you'll both get

1171
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 1: old at some point if you're going to stay together forever,

1172
01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 1: and sex will become not as important to you. And

1173
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: also good sex will come if you have a good

1174
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 1: connection and an intimacy. And sorry, no one even knew

1175
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 1: you dropped off the ticket Andrew dropped off for a second,

1176
01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:35,200
Speaker 1: but I'm so sorry everybody. I just think that I'm

1177
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:37,960
Speaker 1: really proud of that bestie for sharing her story about that.

1178
01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 1: And I felt like from what I heard from her too,

1179
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:46,240
Speaker 1: and maybe you talk about this, I'd love to hear.

1180
01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 1: But um, I thought it was like very powerful and

1181
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 1: the fact that like she went and got her PhD

1182
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 1: and it sounded like she love herself more. Oh HD,

1183
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: Both it was actually yes, yes, that's right, both know.

1184
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:06,520
Speaker 1: It just sounded like she came into her own of

1185
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:11,720
Speaker 1: like loving herself and not needing that outside of like um,

1186
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:15,439
Speaker 1: like whatever approved feeling of having like a guy having

1187
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 1: to approve of her, like she just found her value

1188
01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 1: within herself. And I think, like I think, if you're

1189
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 1: like just measuring yourself on how sexy you are and

1190
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:25,920
Speaker 1: like whether or not a guy will fuck you and

1191
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 1: you're not going after things you're passionate about, you're gonna

1192
01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 1: be stuck in that mold of like, oh, I gotta

1193
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 1: give it up, you know. Like I feel like if

1194
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 1: you find a passion outside of your makes you feel,

1195
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:40,920
Speaker 1: it will make you only stronger sexually and not like

1196
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 1: you have a hole. That's yeah, yeah, it's so true.

1197
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:49,040
Speaker 1: Even though I was like a accomplished stand up accomplished

1198
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:52,240
Speaker 1: in my career, had all these successes, I still measured

1199
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 1: my worth and I still struggle with it today, measuring

1200
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 1: my worth by if men want to suck me. And

1201
01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:00,200
Speaker 1: it's really hard not to do that, and if you're

1202
01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: but that is the goal, because men are not gonna

1203
01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:04,760
Speaker 1: want to fuck you at some point in your life,

1204
01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 1: if you live long enough, you will lose it. So

1205
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:09,480
Speaker 1: you better develop some sort of sense of self that

1206
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:13,000
Speaker 1: is not dependent on you being fuckable. And it's hard

1207
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 1: to do, and it sounds like Andrea got to it.

1208
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:19,720
Speaker 1: And also it is never ever not worked to be

1209
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 1: a little bit of a tease. There's never I've never

1210
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:25,439
Speaker 1: heard one story of a girl having a guy wanna

1211
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:28,240
Speaker 1: fuck her, her saying no, and that guy never calling again.

1212
01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 1: I haven't heard it. If you have a story like that,

1213
01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 1: share it with us. But it's so count It's the

1214
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 1: secret that no one's talking about is that men, they

1215
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:41,680
Speaker 1: will act in the moment so annoyed if they don't

1216
01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 1: get what they want, and you will feel like you're

1217
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:45,880
Speaker 1: disappointing them. You will feel like they're never gonna talk

1218
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:47,439
Speaker 1: to you a gonna You're gonna feel like they're gonna

1219
01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:49,320
Speaker 1: talk about you behind your back and call you a tease.

1220
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 1: It works, it never doesn't work. They will like you more.

1221
01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 1: Don't be the like, don't don't text them constantly, don't

1222
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: be the first to text them, don't be the first

1223
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:04,400
Speaker 1: or the last attacks. That's my advice to girls. And

1224
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:05,920
Speaker 1: I know there are guys out there being like, you're

1225
01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:07,600
Speaker 1: making this so hard, Nikki. How do we know if

1226
01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:10,320
Speaker 1: a girl likes us, like pursue us, that's what we want.

1227
01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:14,440
Speaker 1: And I think there's like a there could be like

1228
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 1: a disconnect and like be the biggest like boss bitch

1229
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 1: you can be like in regards to your career, your

1230
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:24,480
Speaker 1: work and everything. Like I think I think there's an

1231
01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 1: idea of like, oh, men aren't gonna like us as

1232
01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:30,040
Speaker 1: much if we're like powerful and smart and independent. And

1233
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:35,080
Speaker 1: I think that's like something that is old school, and

1234
01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 1: a lot of men don't like you to be honest

1235
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 1: with you as someone who is those things. I do

1236
01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 1: think it turns men off. But I have found a

1237
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:43,680
Speaker 1: guy who is not intimidated by that, and like it's

1238
01:05:43,720 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 1: it's not every guy, but you don't want a guy

1239
01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 1: that's not gonna be able to put up with that,

1240
01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 1: because you're gonna have to give away a part of yourself.

1241
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 1: So if you do have those qualities, do not squash them.

1242
01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:55,280
Speaker 1: Try to like yeah, try to find who you are

1243
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:58,880
Speaker 1: without any fact where men don't exist. When you are

1244
01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 1: able to carry yourself with confidence and like feel like

1245
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 1: lovable without any kind of validation from men, that's when

1246
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:09,360
Speaker 1: that's when you will be the most attractive. But who

1247
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:12,200
Speaker 1: knows it's it's it's a delicate science. I haven't had

1248
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: it figured out yet. I'm still struggling with it. And

1249
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,320
Speaker 1: we'll keep talking about it. Thank you so much for

1250
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 1: your messages on the show today all week. This has

1251
01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:20,960
Speaker 1: been such a great week of shows. We'll be back

1252
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:23,840
Speaker 1: next week. I'm still in l a um come see

1253
01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:25,640
Speaker 1: us on tour. You can get my tory. It's at

1254
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:29,480
Speaker 1: Nikki Glazer dot com. St. Louis, Memphis, Thousand Oaks, California,

1255
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 1: Santa San Jose, California, Vermont, um Uh Davenport, Iowa. Another

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01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 1: city in Iowa. I have two cities Innowa coming up

1257
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 1: next week, so I hope to see you there. Thank

1258
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:43,160
Speaker 1: you guys so much. Check out andrews Tort It's at

1259
01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:47,480
Speaker 1: Andrew Collin dot com, Andrew Collin Comedy Andrew Colin Comedy

1260
01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:52,520
Speaker 1: dot com, Austin, Indianapolis, Buffalo amazing. All right, guys, thank

1261
01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 1: you so much for listening. Don't be and Jack Cargan

1262
01:06:57,360 --> 01:07:03,360
Speaker 1: just jam Jack jams. Yeah. I like the short ones.

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Speaker 1: They're fun.