1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:09,799 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all at all 3 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 2: at all, So don't given them black the. 4 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 1: Milk bus busy boy, Yeah, listening to. 5 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 2: To I don't Joy? 6 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, Joy. 7 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 4: Show you you. 8 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 5: You gotta turn. 9 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 6: I can't. 10 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 5: To turn the mouth turn probably got to turn the mouth, 11 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 5: turn out the water the monypo Look, come. 12 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 2: Come out you think that I sure will. 13 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 7: Good morning everybody. You'll listen to the voice. Come on, 14 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 7: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a 15 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 7: radio show. Ain't God good man? I mean really, Hey, 16 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 7: you know what today I'm gonna try something different, and 17 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 7: it's amazing. I'm gonna try something different because that's kind 18 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 7: of what we're gonna talk. 19 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 2: About this morning. Do something different this year. 20 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 7: Look, if what you've been doing has just gotten you 21 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,959 Speaker 7: to this point and you are not content with the 22 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 7: point you are at, then we need to make an adjustment. 23 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 2: I mean, don't that seem like the common sense thing 24 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 2: to do? It does to me. 25 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 7: Let's just do something different this year. Make a commitment. 26 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 7: I'm gonna do something different. I'm gonna put forth a 27 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 7: little bit more effort. I'm gonna quit trying I'm gonna 28 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 7: do it this year. You know, sometimes that simple change 29 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 7: of attitude is enough. Instead of trying, I'm gonna do it. 30 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 7: And it's just as simple as that. Sometimes, just remove 31 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 7: certain words out the way, stop trying to do something. 32 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 7: You know, I decided this year, you know it, gonna 33 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 7: try to be a better person this year. I'm just 34 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 7: gonna go about the business of being a better person 35 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 7: this year and see how that worked. You know, because 36 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 7: like I've said a thousand times, so if you keep 37 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 7: doing what you've been doing, you gonna keep getting what 38 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 7: you been getting. 39 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 1: It. 40 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 7: Don't change it, don't change unless you change it. But 41 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 7: you have the power to change it. The power of 42 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 7: decision is in your hands. Decide to do the do 43 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 7: something different, take a commitment and say, you know what, 44 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 7: this year, I'm gonna do the right thing. 45 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 2: Now, let me warn you. 46 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 7: When you decide to do the right thing, understand here, 47 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 7: come to haters. What they not gonna let you do 48 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 7: is make a conscious decision to be a better person 49 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 7: without something to be said. Come on, now, you think 50 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 7: the devil just gonna let you all of a sudden, 51 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 7: you gonna you're gonna be better When he needed to 52 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 7: keep you on the wrong side of the track, you're 53 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 7: gonna go on the other side, so he come to haters. Now, 54 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 7: now let me tell you what's gonna happen, because I'm 55 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 7: speaking from experience. This is what I know, and all 56 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 7: of you out there and know this to be true 57 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 7: because all I'm doing right now, we just having to 58 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 7: remind the conversation. When you decide to do the right thing, 59 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 7: it's going to be unpopular with some people. Some people 60 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 7: ain't gonna like your decision because now your decision to 61 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 7: start getting to work on time, or your decision to 62 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 7: finally go home and be the man you're supposed to be, 63 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 7: or your decision to finally go on to take care 64 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 7: of your kids in spite of it all, or your 65 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 7: decision to man, I'm gonna come in here, man and 66 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:30,119 Speaker 7: start loving my girl the way she deserved to be loved, 67 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 7: and all this here, Okay, Now that's gonna put somebody 68 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 7: on the out looking in. You do understand that when 69 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 7: you decide to come to work on time every day, 70 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 7: your homie over there that's been coming in late with you, 71 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 7: now all of a sudden you got you got. You 72 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 7: don't put a spotlight on him now all of a sudden, Man, 73 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 7: you ain't coming in late with me no more. 74 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: Man. 75 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 7: Now they looking at me like I'm crazy by myself. Yeah, yeah, man, 76 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 7: Because when you decide to do the right things, it 77 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 7: becomes unpopular to some people. When you decide to do 78 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 7: the right thing. From experien they gonna talk about you. 79 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 7: Look at him now, and now he gonna go home. 80 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 7: Now he know he been out here in the streets, right, 81 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 7: he gonna try to go home and see his wife. Yeah, man, yeah, yeah, 82 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:12,840 Speaker 7: you just made that decision. But they gonna talk about you. 83 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 2: Now. Guess what. 84 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 7: The girl that you've been going over to see, she 85 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 7: gonna talk about you. You ain't this, You ain't nothing. 86 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 7: Because now you're going home. Your boy's gonna talk about you. 87 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 7: Because you're going home, and you're gonna get some flat 88 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 7: When you do the right thing, here comes somebody ain't 89 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 7: gonna like it. Somebody wants you to stay wrong, misery 90 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 7: love company. When you make the decision to do the 91 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:39,359 Speaker 7: right thing, somebody is gonna call you a hypocrite because 92 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 7: you know what they gonna do. They gonna point out 93 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 7: the way you were in the past versus the way 94 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 7: you decided to be brand new. How you all of 95 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 7: a sudden claiming this one I saw you doing that. 96 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 7: Please understand, when you make the decision to do the 97 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 7: right thing, here they come you a hypocrite. You think 98 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 7: they don't call me that? They called me that. Steve Harvey, 99 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:03,039 Speaker 7: he fake, I hear man. Look on Twitter, you try 100 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 7: to tweet people positive stuff. Here come a tweet you 101 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 7: fake your family and all that. I ain't say my 102 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 7: family was, man, I'm just trying to give out some 103 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 7: positive encouragement, you know. But here it come, you a hypocrite. 104 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,720 Speaker 7: I remember when you was out on the tour with 105 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 7: the Kings of Comedy. Yeah, me too, I remember that too, 106 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 7: But I ain't out on tour with them no more. 107 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 2: We done all changed. Hello, So now what you want 108 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 2: me to do? 109 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 7: You wanna keep living up to what you saw me 110 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,919 Speaker 7: as what I was? And I can't get no credit 111 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 7: with you for what I'm trying to be. 112 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 2: Now that's that. 113 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 7: Now you're gonna be a hypocrite, you fake? Nah, man, 114 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 7: you ain't fake. You just have made the decision to 115 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 7: be a better person, that's all. And now because you 116 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 7: ain't the person you was, the person they knew. Now 117 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,280 Speaker 7: they see the new you. Now you're a hypocrite. You 118 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 7: ain't a hypocrite. 119 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 2: You just change it. 120 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 7: Don't let them hate to shake you. Man, go own 121 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 7: about your business. When they talking about you. Look at 122 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 7: him now, gonna try to go home. He been with 123 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 7: me all this time. Hey man, just go home. Oh 124 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 7: he gonna try to go home now, Man, he know 125 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 7: Friday nights. Man, we done told our girls this where 126 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 7: we at. Now he's showing up at the house because 127 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 7: he don't want to come on player, Hey man, just 128 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 7: go home. It's gonna be unpopular. You're gonna get talked about. 129 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 7: They gonna say you're a hypocrite. But do the right thing. 130 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 7: God will bless you for that. That's something in Proverbs 131 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 7: that says, if you honor God, if you do the 132 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 7: right thing, if you seek him out, God will cause 133 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 7: his blessings to chase you down. 134 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 2: Do you understand me what that means? Can you imagine 135 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 2: what would happen in your life if God were to 136 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 2: take some blessings and chase you down with him. Do 137 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 2: you know that there's no hiding from him in your deepest, 138 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 2: darkest secret. He know about the stuff that you done 139 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 2: kept out the light from everybody else. He know about 140 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 2: all of that. 141 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 7: So now if he has got some blessings that he 142 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 7: gonna chase you down with, you can't even escape him. 143 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 2: You look up and here come another one. That go 144 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 2: another one, Here he go again. Man. 145 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 7: That's why I'm trying to get my life to because 146 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 7: at the end, man, what I do not want, Man, 147 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 7: And not even at the end, I just don't want 148 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 7: now God to have all these boxes up in heaven, 149 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 7: these blessings with my name on them, and I don't 150 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 7: get them sent to me because I'm down here clowning 151 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 7: so hard. He can't even ship blessings to me because 152 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 7: I'm just so dead wrong that I'm blocking the blessings man, 153 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 7: that God got for me. I would rather do the 154 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 7: best I can do and be the best I can be, 155 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 7: make some mistakes, ask for forgiveness, and get on up 156 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 7: and see what God got for me. And remember, Donny 157 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:38,559 Speaker 7: McClurkin got a song out. 158 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 8: Man. 159 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 7: We ain't got time to play it now because I 160 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 7: done talked too long. But you know that's where I 161 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 7: am right now. The song is one of my favorite. 162 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 7: When Donnie wrote We Fall Down, do you know I 163 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 7: knew him when he wrote the song. I thought he 164 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 7: had wrote the song for me. I really did, because 165 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 7: it came out after a conversation we was having, and 166 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 7: I thought he had wrote the song for me because 167 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 7: it's so appropriate to my life. And I bet you 168 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 7: it's appropriate to your life, because see, guess what, we 169 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 7: fall down, but we get up. He has a line 170 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 7: in the song that says a saint is just a 171 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 7: sinner who fell down, but he didn't stay there. That's 172 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 7: the deal, y'all. Look, you gonna make some mistakes. Just 173 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 7: don't stay there. Just get up, man, and walk straight again. 174 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 7: Then while you're walking straight and write and trying to 175 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 7: be righteous, you're gonna fall. 176 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 2: Get up. 177 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,959 Speaker 7: Don't stay there and get back on the straight and 178 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 7: the righteous. You're gonna fall a bunch of times. Just 179 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 7: don't stay there. Just get up, man. That's the only 180 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 7: difference between a saint and a sinner. Now they the 181 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 7: same people, man. Actually, that's what the revealing news is. 182 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 7: Saints is really sinners. They're the same people. They just 183 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 7: keep getting up. 184 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 2: That's all. Man. 185 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 1: You're listening easy to Steve Harvey. Morning shall. 186 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen, it is here another great day God 187 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 7: has given us ain't you glad about it? 188 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 2: I know I am. 189 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 7: I don't care what's in front of you. I don't 190 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,679 Speaker 7: care what situation you are facing. You ain't got no 191 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 7: problem bigger than that God we serve. That's a fact, man, 192 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 7: I got no problem bigger than my God. 193 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 2: And neither do you. 194 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 7: Welcome to this thing called life, to this thing called 195 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 7: blessings and grace. We are all privy to this. All 196 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 7: you got to do is believe. Let's get it on. 197 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 7: Steve Harvey, Martin Show, Shelton Strawberry calling for real Mouth 198 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 7: of the South, Junior Ah, the legend of nephew Tommy, 199 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 7: and yours truly, Julie, what's on your mind today? 200 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:47,839 Speaker 2: I was able to ask you this man. You know 201 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 2: you've been through these things. 202 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,439 Speaker 9: Man, but when you going through a storm, man, when 203 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 9: you in the middle of it, you can't see left, right, north, south, 204 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 9: You don't know which way you go? 205 00:10:58,320 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: Where do you find your encouragement? 206 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 2: Got holes in it? Yeah, got holes in it. You 207 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 2: ain't got no buckets, you ain't even bailing. 208 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: No, can't get nothing out of him. Man. 209 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 7: For me, it's a little bit different because I'm older, 210 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:18,679 Speaker 7: already know that this too shall pass already know from 211 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,599 Speaker 7: prior experience that everything I've ever gone through God that 212 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:28,479 Speaker 7: brought me through it. I already have learned through life's trials, tribulations, 213 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:33,319 Speaker 7: set backs and all of that, that I am a 214 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 7: child of the most hot and he got me covered 215 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 7: and I'm gonna survive it. 216 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 2: So see. 217 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 7: But now, until you get a little bit of that 218 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:48,199 Speaker 7: experience under your belt, my strong suggestion to you is 219 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 7: to is to use the greatest weapon available to us. 220 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 7: That's oftentime, not used until you get into moments of 221 00:11:56,280 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 7: turmoil and peril, and that's prayer works. 222 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 2: Man, Prayer change his thing. 223 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 7: I was playing golf with a dude one time, the 224 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 7: older guy, and I said, hey, man, prayer works. 225 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:12,199 Speaker 2: Prayer change his thing, don't it. He was a pastor. 226 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 2: He looked at me and say, prayer change people too. 227 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 7: And let the one statement he said to me it 228 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 7: affected me, man in a most profound way, because I 229 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 7: was just fooling with the pastor. 230 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,719 Speaker 2: We out there playing golf and stuff. I just met 231 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 2: the guy. He was a capital, he was a pastor. 232 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: Cool dude. 233 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 2: We was talking trash all game long. He was on 234 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 2: the group behind me. 235 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 7: Before I teed off, I turned around and say, hey, Pastor, 236 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 7: I said, prayer change. Prayer change is things. He said, 237 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 7: Prayer change people too. This is for me now, I 238 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 7: don't know what. I can't speak for the people. Prayer 239 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 7: for me gives me the sense of there's some aid 240 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:56,199 Speaker 7: and assistance available to me. Prayer gives me the feeling 241 00:12:56,760 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 7: that I'm not alone, and press strengthens me and encourages 242 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 7: me that it's gonna be all right. 243 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 2: Those are the things that prayer does for me. 244 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 7: The moment I start praying, yeah, I know it's gonna 245 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:14,199 Speaker 7: be all right, I feel I don't feel the loan anymore, 246 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 7: and I feel a strength and a comfort. 247 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 2: Prayer works, man, So when you're in the storm, get 248 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:20,839 Speaker 2: to pray it. 249 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 7: It would be really helpful if you would pray when 250 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 7: you weren't in the storm, so you wouldn't have to 251 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 7: introduce yourself to him when you got in trouble. 252 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 2: I don't like myself to him when I'm in trouble. 253 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty minutes after the hour, Well hear 254 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: from inf youw is he runs that Brenk back right 255 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 1: after this. 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It is time now for the nephew to run 266 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 1: that prank back what you got for his neph. 267 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 4: This right here, Shirley, is the most important thing at 268 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 4: my mama's house. Right here, This right here is my 269 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 4: mama's tree, My mama's tree. Everybody had a tree at 270 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 4: their mama house that was a hide and go seek 271 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 4: tree five t and pteen twenty twenty back there third 272 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 4: by bout you already know. I don't forget what you 273 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 4: used to do back in the day. This right here 274 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 4: is my mama's tree. Let's go catch up. 275 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 2: Hello, Hello man, I speak to Lord. 276 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 10: Yeah, Lord, This terror whom this tear about ten minutes 277 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 10: from the yard picked. 278 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 4: Dog, This ain't no chr Look man, is this lord 279 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 4: that worked for Yes, sir, listen, you just came down 280 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 4: Clayton's tree and hit me and tow all the limbs 281 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 4: off my mama maple tree that's hanging over the street. 282 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 4: And now she got limbs hanging all in the street. 283 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 4: We got to cut this whole tree down because you 284 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 4: thene messed it up. And you're the one that just 285 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 4: drove through here. 286 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 8: Hey, sir, I ain't been down Clayton Street today, Sir, 287 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 8: say what. 288 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 10: I ain't been down Clayton Street today. I ain't been 289 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 10: in no residential neighborhood today. 290 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 4: You just came down Clayton Street a couple hours ago 291 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 4: and then tore all the limbs off my mama tree. Sorry, 292 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 4: my mama, that tree been in our finished twenty five years. 293 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 2: And if you just came down the. 294 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 10: Street and just tow it all apart, Sir, I ain't 295 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 10: been down Clayton Roll today. 296 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 8: How did you get this number? 297 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 4: By the way, don't worry about how I got your number. 298 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 4: Somebody got to pay for my mama treat well. 299 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 8: Sir, I ain't been down Clayton Roll today. I'm sorry. 300 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 2: Call it call him back down. Hello, Lord, did you 301 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 2: just hang up on me? 302 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 10: Yes, sir, I told you I didn't been down on 303 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 10: Clayton Roll today. 304 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 4: Now you know what. Look I told you you just 305 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 4: came down Clayton Road and just and just tore my 306 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 4: mama tree up. 307 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 10: All the lived down, no residential neighborhood today. Man, quit 308 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 10: calling my phone with that. 309 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 2: Look my grandmama played that tree. Now you don't have 310 00:15:59,320 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 2: to do it. 311 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 10: Planned it. Move them up then cut the branches off 312 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 10: the summer and them. 313 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 2: Branches is clear enough. 314 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 4: You're not supposed to be driving them eighteen wheel trucks 315 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 4: down this residential area like this here. 316 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 10: Man, I would make delivery got if I had to 317 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 10: come down that treet I would have. But I told 318 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 10: you one, I ain't came down on Clayton Street today. 319 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 4: You just said you had to make a delivery. Now 320 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 4: you saying you ain't been down Clayton Street. 321 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 10: If I hadn't made deliver down there, I would have 322 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 10: came down that street. I ain't had to come down there. 323 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 2: You've been on Clayton Street today, Now that part I 324 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 2: do know. 325 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 4: And what you got the wrong driver, dude, No, no, no, no, 326 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 4: no no no, I got the right driver. And what 327 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 4: I do know is you then told my mama tree up. 328 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 4: We got to cut this old tree down, and you 329 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 4: know what you gonna pay for this? 330 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 10: Then I ain't saying for a muddle tree that. 331 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 2: I know you ain't talking about my mama tree. 332 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 10: Well, guess what, take your tree and take your mama 333 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 10: and both of y'all go out there and playing another street. 334 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 4: Then we ain't playing no more tree. That tree been 335 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 4: in our family for years. You're gonna mess around and 336 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 4: get your swip. 337 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 2: Behind this tree. 338 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:05,120 Speaker 10: Bring it on, then bring your dog and bring the tree, which. 339 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 2: You gonna make me whoop with a bridge off that tree. 340 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:11,400 Speaker 10: Well, I tell you what if you that bad, then 341 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:13,920 Speaker 10: I tell you what if I was on Clayton Street today, 342 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 10: I meet on Clayton Street with the tree. 343 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:19,640 Speaker 4: You come on over here to Clayton right now, because 344 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:22,200 Speaker 4: I'm right out here in the street on the corner's phone. 345 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 4: You come on outside. My mama sitting up in there 346 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 4: crying behind this tree because you done toe the limbs 347 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 4: off of it and we got to cut it down. 348 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 4: That because you done messed it up. 349 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 10: Don't give her snapped in this yellow wife. But then 350 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,200 Speaker 10: I ain't been down the street. 351 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 4: I know you ain't sitting here talking about my mama. 352 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 4: Now see you tripping now, dog ain't tripping, dog you already. 353 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:44,399 Speaker 4: Look man, I grew up with this tree in my 354 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 4: front yard. I grew up with this tree. Now you 355 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 4: got the nerve to drive through here and driving too fast, 356 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 4: because if you would have drove slow, you wouldn't have 357 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 4: been hitting. 358 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 2: All them limbs like that. Y'all be running down here 359 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 2: too fast through here. 360 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 8: Man. 361 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 10: Look here, I told you once. Man, I ain't been 362 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 10: down on Clayton Street. Now like I told you, if 363 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 10: you want to meet me on Clayton Street, will all right? Now, 364 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 10: I'm sorry about your mom tree, but hell, there ain't 365 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:08,679 Speaker 10: nothing I can do about it, cause I ain't been 366 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 10: down on Clayton Street. 367 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 2: It's one thing you can do about it. You can 368 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 2: pay for it. And that's what you're gonna do. Now. 369 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 2: You're gonna either give me some money. 370 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 4: I'm gonna get it at you. But you you gonna 371 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:20,719 Speaker 4: you coming over here. Matter of fact, you're gonna come 372 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:24,239 Speaker 4: over here now that big truck around and bring your 373 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 4: butt on over here right now. 374 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 10: Well I might well go on and turn it around, 375 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 10: because I ain't paying for no tree I'm kidding right now. 376 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 4: That's fine, that's fine, But I tell you, when you 377 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 4: get here, my cousin here and all my uncles is 378 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:37,159 Speaker 4: here sitting up there looking at that. 379 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 2: What you done done in this tree? So bring yo own? 380 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 10: Yeah, well look at her. Take that tree and stuve 381 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 10: it up. You out, yo? 382 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:46,360 Speaker 2: All right. 383 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 8: I ain't be a word with. 384 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 10: You in this street no more because I have told 385 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 10: you what. Let me aim this tree. 386 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 4: You come on right now, because you don't know what 387 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,200 Speaker 4: this tree mean to me. This tree right here used 388 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 4: to be home based for hide and go seek? 389 00:18:59,320 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 10: Are you crying? 390 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:00,960 Speaker 8: You big? 391 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:01,959 Speaker 10: You crying too? 392 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 8: Man? 393 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 10: Look at your dog. I ain't dog tree though, look 394 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 10: at wipe your eyes and. 395 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 2: The hell would you this tree? 396 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:12,160 Speaker 10: Right? I'm turning my you just meet me on Clayton Street. 397 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 2: All right, let me tell you something. This tree used 398 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 2: to be first base for kickball? 399 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,480 Speaker 8: Do you hit me that? Boss? 400 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 2: Dude? 401 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 10: I done told you once. I ain't tree, all right, No, 402 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:25,400 Speaker 10: heil around it. Dude, your name lord. 403 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 4: But you ain't hel Hel is cool jay, and he 404 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 4: wouldn't not He wouldn't not have come down here and. 405 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 2: Told my mama tree here. Is not that kind of 406 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:36,879 Speaker 2: person but you you lord? 407 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 10: Oh you crying for? 408 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:38,640 Speaker 8: Man? 409 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 10: What crying for? 410 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 2: Could you done messed up my mama Tree? 411 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 10: You sound like a perl. I'm crying because my mama 412 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 10: Tree broke. 413 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. Go round and bring your down. 414 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 10: I believe that in ten minutes to meet your where's 415 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 10: that thing? 416 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 5: Me? 417 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 2: My uncles is here, my cousin is here. 418 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 10: All up the braid Runch family. What bro, I tell 419 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 10: you right now, it's gonna be hot water in this. 420 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 4: Don't make me no different. They call you l l 421 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,959 Speaker 4: my knock you out and that's what you finnah get 422 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 4: m that's. 423 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 10: Come on, Come on with it because I'm here, all rights, 424 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 10: no running. 425 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:24,120 Speaker 2: Cool. Don't make me listen right up. I'm finna tell 426 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,679 Speaker 2: you one more thing about this tree. Is you listening 427 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 2: to me? I'm listening, Bro, Is you listening? 428 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 10: I just told you what. I don't give it about that, 429 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 10: but if you want to talk about it, go ahead. 430 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 4: Let me tell you something. This is Nephew Tommy from 431 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,200 Speaker 4: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 432 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:41,640 Speaker 10: You just got pranked by your boy JJ And look, man, 433 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 10: what did you just say? 434 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 4: This is nephew tell me from the Steve Harvey Morning show. 435 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 4: You just got pranked by your boy. 436 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:55,159 Speaker 10: You got to be kidding me. 437 00:20:55,280 --> 00:21:02,120 Speaker 4: Man, No, ain't no tree missed up and you ain't 438 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 4: been on Clayton Street. 439 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:11,360 Speaker 2: Jo Joe? What? Oh Man? You alright don't? 440 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 8: I'm right? 441 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 2: Amen? What is the maddest radio show in the land? 442 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 10: Steve Harvey Morning Show? 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It's time to ask the c l o 453 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:07,440 Speaker 1: uh to Shonda or maybe maybe I should know. I'm 454 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:10,880 Speaker 1: sorry Toronto. Her name is Toronto, Toronto, and Lafayette says, 455 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:14,159 Speaker 1: my husband's sister is having problems in her marriage, so 456 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 1: she's staying with us. When I got home from work. 457 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:21,200 Speaker 1: She was wearing one of my robes. I will gladly 458 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,440 Speaker 1: get her some things if need be. So how do 459 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: I nicely tell her that my stuff, my stuff is 460 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 1: off limits. 461 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:34,200 Speaker 2: Let me catch you ass in this robe? Forget him nicely? 462 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 1: She said, nice? 463 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 6: Nice? 464 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 2: Catch it off of second, just walk up there. Just 465 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:40,639 Speaker 2: tad awful? 466 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 7: He or if I can't wear the robe, ain't nobody 467 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,960 Speaker 7: gonna wear a rolle? Take a butcher knife and cut 468 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:52,639 Speaker 7: the cold, cut the bill, swing over, just do whood stuff. 469 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 1: Here's my question. Is she's saying anything while she's cutting 470 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 1: the robe off? 471 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, yeah, everybody cussing and cutting is a part 472 00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 2: of it. Yeah, it goes, it goes. Yeah, and see 473 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 2: don't look the same on you no more? All right? 474 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 1: Moving on to Marissa and Stockbridge, Marissa writes, I'm thirty 475 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,199 Speaker 1: eight years old and my husband likes to watch porn 476 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 1: while we're intimate. He says, he imagines that I'm the 477 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 1: women in the video. This doesn't sit well with my soul. 478 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 1: Does this mean that he is not satisfied with my 479 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 1: body and normal intimacy? 480 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:34,399 Speaker 2: Well, he imagined that you the women in the video? 481 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 8: Uh huh? 482 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 11: You do what? 483 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 8: What? 484 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 2: What? What did you text? What did you write us? 485 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:40,960 Speaker 2: This fault? He just told you. 486 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 7: He imagines that you are the women in the video, 487 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 7: so he takes his mind off you and puts it 488 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:54,680 Speaker 7: on huh. And instead of doing you, he's doing huh. 489 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 7: Which partities you don't get? Just don't sit right with 490 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 7: my soul. You ain't got the dreams your soul and 491 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:01,159 Speaker 7: it is. 492 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 1: It did take it somewhere else, didn't it. 493 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:11,920 Speaker 2: That's the name of the movie back in the day. 494 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 1: She needs to shut that down, all right, Frankie in Texas. 495 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 1: As we move on, Frankie says, my son's child, that 496 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,920 Speaker 1: would be your grandchild. My son's child and child's mother 497 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,679 Speaker 1: live with me. She can't stay with my son because 498 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 1: he has a new girlfriend. But he still comes to 499 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,719 Speaker 1: have sex with his child's mother. And I don't need 500 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 1: to be hearing that, and neither does the child. 501 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 2: What should I do, Gota, Well, you got to put 502 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,359 Speaker 2: a stop to that in your house. Your house, you 503 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 2: could actually. 504 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 7: Put a stop to that and just tell him that 505 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 7: he's being disrespectful. Very And then now he has a 506 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 7: new girlfriend somewhere else, but his former girlfriend and baby 507 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 7: live with his mama. 508 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 1: Right, and he has. 509 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:07,159 Speaker 2: Lived with the mama too. 510 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:10,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, he has his own house that you know, he 511 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:12,640 Speaker 1: has this new girlfriend over I'm sure. 512 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 2: Well, see, you got to take all this to your house. 513 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, and you coming back over here still having relations 514 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 7: with her in front of me and this boy. That 515 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 7: ain't gonna work. Being disrespectful. You need to sit the 516 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 7: girl down at and ask what's wrong with her? 517 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 1: That's what Frankie should do, because that's what she wants 518 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 1: to know. 519 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 2: What should she do? Well, you need to have conversation 520 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,639 Speaker 2: with your son about being respectful of your house and 521 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 2: your rooms. Secondly, you need a conversation with this girl 522 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 2: and just go what's wrong with you? Yeah? 523 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 7: Now, you ain't good enough to go with him. You 524 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 7: ain't good enough to be with him. You got you 525 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 7: gotta stop being good enough to do him. Got to 526 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:56,359 Speaker 7: be better than that. 527 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, good? 528 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, and loving and then mama's food right after that though. 529 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:04,639 Speaker 4: That's pretty damn good, don't you come in? 530 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:07,760 Speaker 1: That's the bright side for you. 531 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:17,240 Speaker 2: That's why you that's why you do pranks, all. 532 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 1: Right, Steve, here's the last one. This one's Nevea in 533 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 1: Culver City. Navea says, I've been dating a man for 534 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 1: fourteen years and we both turned forty in December. I 535 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 1: was hoping for an engagement ring for Christmas, but he 536 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: said the ring is custom made and won't be ready 537 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,639 Speaker 1: until Valentine's Day. If I don't get it, then should 538 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 1: I leave? 539 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 2: Oh? 540 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 1: Well, she's been they've been dating. 541 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 4: What what? 542 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 5: What? 543 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:52,680 Speaker 2: What do y'all want me to say? 544 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 1: Say it? 545 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 2: Just say it? You listen to me. I've said this 546 00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 2: one hundred times on this show. 547 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 7: Why is it that women do not understand this fact 548 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 7: that you have every right to know and have a 549 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,639 Speaker 7: say soul with the direction your life is going. 550 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:24,120 Speaker 2: You have a right, yea to have a say soul 551 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 2: and know the direction in which your life is going. 552 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 2: That's your right as a human being. 553 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:35,680 Speaker 1: Okay, stop right there. Why don't they? Why don't they then? 554 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 7: Because you think that you're supposed to center around and 555 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 7: wait on somebody else to make a decision about your life. 556 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 2: When you have the power to exact the decisions you want. 557 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 1: Example, Okay, the. 558 00:27:55,960 --> 00:28:00,199 Speaker 7: Reason you keep waiting on a ring and don't get 559 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 7: it is because a ring is not a requirement of yours. 560 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 2: It is a hope of yours. And if that ain't 561 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 2: the hope of his then all hope is lost. 562 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:14,120 Speaker 1: We're hopeless. 563 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 2: So why don't you make it a requirement for this 564 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 2: to continue? 565 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:21,399 Speaker 4: I am no. 566 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:30,400 Speaker 11: Fourteen years that's at long'sfe and now it's custom made 567 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 11: and it won't be ready to custom boy? 568 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,120 Speaker 1: What boy? 569 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:38,080 Speaker 7: Stop them? Rings ain't custom made? Their asses in k jewler, 570 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 7: they in the window or they in the window. You 571 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 7: ain't got enough smart to make a damn custom ring. 572 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 2: You nuts. Let me tell you something, man, if you 573 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 2: go in there and pick out that diamond in that setting, 574 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 2: your ass can come back tomorrow the ring ready? 575 00:28:59,040 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 4: Yeah? 576 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 1: Okay, Well one more question because we need to understand this. See, 577 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 1: go ahead, Well why fourteen years? I mean, why would 578 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: you stay with someone for fourteen years without anything? 579 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 2: A lot of people have done it. 580 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 7: Because because you keep waiting on this theme to happen, 581 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 7: that you have not made a requirement. And I keep 582 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 7: telling y'all listen to me, ladies. A wedding day is 583 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 7: a woman's dream. The wedding day is not the man's dream. 584 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 7: All the man dreams of is the chick of his dreams. 585 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,080 Speaker 7: We don't dream of our wedding day. And if we 586 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 7: can get to chick without the wedding day. 587 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 1: Bam, he got with he Oh don't all right, clo, 588 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:37,960 Speaker 1: thank you. 589 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 2: This is Steve Harvin Martin show man hit. That twenty 590 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 2: four year old girl is dating this sixty five year 591 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 2: old man that buys and does everything for her. 592 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 7: Five months ago, I met another man closer to my age. 593 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 7: He took me to a family reunion and to my surprise, 594 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,959 Speaker 7: my sugar daddy is his stepdaddy. He ain't say anything, 595 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 7: and I showed didn't because his wife is down. Now 596 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 7: you over there got to be quiet and stupid, but 597 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 7: you're dating the man's damn son. 598 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 2: My question is is the sugar daddy his daddy? Your 599 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 2: daddy is his daddy? How many daddy you got? Show 600 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 2: coming up right after? 601 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: So here's a question for you guys. Is there a 602 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 1: time in your life where you celebrated something before you 603 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 1: had it? 604 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 2: Oh know what I mean? 605 00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 1: Before you should have? 606 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:31,200 Speaker 2: God? Come on me, what what? God? 607 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 1: What happened? 608 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,800 Speaker 4: I got I booked the show. It was a Jamie 609 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 4: Jamie Fox was going to do a show called uh 610 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 4: it was it was oh God, variety show like that 611 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 4: and and the show and I came home celebrated through 612 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 4: a party that I gotta. 613 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 2: I got a TV in the show. Never happened, God, 614 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:01,680 Speaker 2: so never happened. 615 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you spent all that money. 616 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 4: Oh Man got a call from his manager at the 617 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 4: time was Marcus King. Got a call from Mark We 618 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 4: got your show. 619 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 2: We're good. Oh good Man went home through a party, 620 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 2: spent a whole bunch of money. Yeah, didn't did. 621 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 1: Not happen at all, just spending money. All What about you, junior? 622 00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 2: Oh the thing they tease me about every time I 623 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 2: go back to Houston. I mean playing against wood Rich 624 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 2: High School of Football. I was running back. 625 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 9: I broke out from the one yard land, ran all 626 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 9: the way to the fire. I started putting my hand 627 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 9: up and got tackled at the other one. 628 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 2: You did, don't know? So now my whole name at 629 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 2: the barber shop is ninety nine. Didn't come ninety nine, 630 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 2: went to wool Ridge right a high stoodent man. 631 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 1: Celebrate just yeah, all right, come on, Steve, I know 632 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 1: you have Yeah. 633 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 2: My biggest one was nineteen seventy eight. Yeah, I ordered 634 00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 2: that triple plum cuttness final final roof crushed the little 635 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 2: seats Burgundy burgundy, burgundy white stir wheel wrap had already 636 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:31,560 Speaker 2: ordered it. 637 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 7: Cause of the I was getting a big commission check 638 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 7: for something, this life insurance couple, life insurance policy to 639 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 7: this couple, it was all ago. She said, I just 640 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 7: need my husband to see this. Can you come by 641 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:47,240 Speaker 7: one more time. I came by and I was I 642 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 7: had to brochure in my briefcase of the cuttness. He said, yeah, 643 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 7: we're not gonna do it. What excuse me? Excuse me? 644 00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,920 Speaker 7: Now that's what the husband said. We're not gonna do it. 645 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 7: We don't want the policy. I'm gonna look somewhere else. 646 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:07,200 Speaker 7: So I lost two things that day. Well, that night, 647 00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 7: I lost the cutlass because now there's no way I 648 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:11,960 Speaker 7: can get it because I ain't got the money. 649 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 2: But I went to work the next day and lost 650 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 2: my job. 651 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 7: Job. 652 00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 2: It's after the white dude said, and we're not gonna 653 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 2: do it. Yeah. When I got up, I didn't cuss 654 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 2: him out. But the table got turned over. 655 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 1: The tables just don't get turned over. What happened to my. 656 00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 2: Hand got caught up under when I stood up real fast. 657 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 1: Didn't know you flipped that table. 658 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 11: That was I was. 659 00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 2: It was nineteen seventy eight. I was straight hood. I 660 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:52,800 Speaker 2: ain't famous. I ain't I ain't told the joke yet. 661 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:53,920 Speaker 2: For a quart. 662 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 7: Didn't have a brand to concern myself with. Was wide 663 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 7: opening the aailable for all lawsuits. Because I have nothing, 664 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 7: you can win. So nineteen seventy eight was the prime 665 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:06,680 Speaker 7: time to. 666 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 2: Mess with me. I had nothing. 667 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:13,160 Speaker 7: Flipp the deal, golden gloves, Yeah, flipped it. I walk 668 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 7: came in the next morning. Everybody was looking at me. 669 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 7: Damn herve you're good, tom want to see you? 670 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:23,440 Speaker 1: All right? 671 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 2: All right? 672 00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 1: Does marriage make you a better person? That is the 673 00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 1: question on the table right now. 674 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 5: No, hey, hey, tent on this show. 675 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:43,440 Speaker 1: A new study from Tilburg University in the Netherlands suggests 676 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:47,360 Speaker 1: that marriage can make you a better person. Specifically, getting 677 00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:51,279 Speaker 1: hitched makes you more forgiving and more likely to exercise 678 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:54,480 Speaker 1: self control. All right, that's what it says. 679 00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 2: Who they study. 680 00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:59,399 Speaker 1: This is a new study. They studied married, marry people, 681 00:34:59,480 --> 00:34:59,840 Speaker 1: people that. 682 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 2: Come by my house and study damn. 683 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,840 Speaker 1: From the Netherlands. It suggested marriage can make you a 684 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:11,960 Speaker 1: better person. Specifically, getting hitched makes you more forgiving, It 685 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:15,600 Speaker 1: makes you more forgiving to rights, and it makes you 686 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 1: more likely to exercise self control. If you married to 687 00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:24,239 Speaker 1: the wrong Tommy, No, that's in the what are the 688 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:25,200 Speaker 1: one they got for over here? 689 00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 2: Thank you? 690 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:31,600 Speaker 7: You married the wrong person. It will not make you 691 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 7: a better person. It makes you better at doing certain 692 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 7: things like what. It becomes a lot more craft cheater. 693 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:46,000 Speaker 7: Your ass gets real craft wrong. Your ass can learn something. 694 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,919 Speaker 1: What you learn, like not how to go home. 695 00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 7: You have learned about spots. You'll know about a lot 696 00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 7: of restaurants. You have a lot of little hobby holes. 697 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,400 Speaker 7: You know how to walk in places and spot cameras. 698 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 7: You learned a lot the back way. Yeah, you know 699 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,279 Speaker 7: you use your phone different. When I was out there, 700 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:23,200 Speaker 7: wasn't no phone cameras, wasn't no GPS. 701 00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:23,440 Speaker 2: Wasn't none of that. 702 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:24,480 Speaker 1: When you're out there. 703 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was out there see all this. 704 00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 7: Now, I already know I'm good because where I'm gonna go, well, 705 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 7: I could keep my heads home. 706 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:36,759 Speaker 4: Now. 707 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 2: Figure GPS off your phone. You got to turn that 708 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 2: off as soon as you lead out. Hey, dog, if 709 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 2: you're famous, you can't do nothing. You just can't do nothing. 710 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:47,920 Speaker 2: Just go home, though. 711 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:50,840 Speaker 7: If you're famous and you're not happy, just get yourself 712 00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 7: a divorced man, because you're gonna get seen. 713 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:53,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, and. 714 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:59,839 Speaker 2: Put you out there. Yeah, I'm just be freakingle did 715 00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:00,440 Speaker 2: you did you. 716 00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: Want to say that aloud? And did you want to 717 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:06,719 Speaker 1: keep that to yourself? You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 718 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,800 Speaker 5: Hey, it's Carla Farroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside? 719 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,600 Speaker 5: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean? And 720 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:19,399 Speaker 5: half the time make the swap to Swiffer Power Mop, 721 00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,280 Speaker 5: the only one. Cleaning Hero has a built in solution 722 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:26,240 Speaker 5: that breaks down dirt and grime like magic. With hundreds 723 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:30,280 Speaker 5: of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes 724 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,440 Speaker 5: with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling great for 725 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:37,360 Speaker 5: hours after cleaning. Get yours today and mop smarter with 726 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:38,960 Speaker 5: the Swiffer Power Mop. 727 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: And it's time now for a round of would you rather? 728 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 1: Would you rather live where it always rains? Or would 729 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,080 Speaker 1: you rather live where it's always dark? 730 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,319 Speaker 2: Aheed rain? I got to see some light? I take 731 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:54,440 Speaker 2: that rain. I can't do that? 732 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:54,880 Speaker 8: Okay? 733 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 2: You do that dog? Anal sunshine. 734 00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:06,920 Speaker 1: Not spor so okay? Would you rather do hair and makeup? 735 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 1: Listen to this one, guys do hair and makeup at 736 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,799 Speaker 1: a funeral home? Or would you drive a city rather 737 00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:13,879 Speaker 1: drive a city bus? 738 00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,439 Speaker 2: Driving the bus? Yeah, you don't want to. I don't 739 00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 2: give a damn how you look when you live in 740 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:24,080 Speaker 2: I know good? Hell? What hell? 741 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 1: What's that sound again? I love that. 742 00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,319 Speaker 2: I'm not fitting to care how you look now, I'm not. 743 00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 1: Damn so your bus driver is all good? 744 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:41,719 Speaker 7: But hell? 745 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:51,719 Speaker 2: Did high brown look? Family be wanting to fight me? Yeah, 746 00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 2: my mama lipstick? Get it right, dead dog, I'm gonna 747 00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 2: have that wig on baccals. 748 00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:02,360 Speaker 1: I know you already know you're gonna do it wrong. 749 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:06,120 Speaker 2: I ain't. I ain't gonna put the wig on you. 750 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:08,400 Speaker 2: You gotta put a wig. 751 00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 1: Just like us that the bus drivers out there? You Yes, yeah, 752 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 1: drive the city buses. 753 00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:21,839 Speaker 2: Drive? That's cool anyway? Yes? 754 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:28,320 Speaker 1: Would you rather? I got that a lot when I 755 00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:29,120 Speaker 1: used to ride the bus? 756 00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 2: All right? 757 00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,680 Speaker 1: Listen, would you rather show your boss all the pictures 758 00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:36,720 Speaker 1: in your phone? Or would you rather show your wife 759 00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:38,840 Speaker 1: all you get the pictures in your phone? 760 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:48,399 Speaker 2: Boss? Well, I got a problem because my wife. You're 761 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:49,080 Speaker 2: in trouble. 762 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,520 Speaker 1: All right, Quiet, nephew, what you got I'm. 763 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 4: Showing man, you won't get in trouble for that? 764 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,400 Speaker 2: Will were good? All right? 765 00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:08,000 Speaker 1: Would you rather give up? Would you rather give up profanity? 766 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,360 Speaker 1: Or would you rather give up lying? All right, one's 767 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:12,800 Speaker 1: gotta go. 768 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,719 Speaker 2: I got to lie. Yeah, I'm gonna give up profanity 769 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:19,839 Speaker 2: and that's a that's a lie. Right there. 770 00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:32,880 Speaker 1: I don't I don't see you giving. It's no way 771 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:33,880 Speaker 1: I can start. 772 00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:36,560 Speaker 2: It's no way. 773 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,279 Speaker 1: What is the problem you have? 774 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:44,720 Speaker 7: Lying is the basis and core of marital happiness and bliss. 775 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:49,239 Speaker 7: If you stop lying, listen, this is. 776 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 2: A wrap. 777 00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:53,680 Speaker 1: Round, would you rather? Guys? 778 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,279 Speaker 2: Hey, good morning, This is your man, Steve Harvey. Have 779 00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:00,080 Speaker 2: yourself a happy and a safe new year from all 780 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:01,919 Speaker 2: of us here to Steve Harvey. Morning shirt. 781 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:08,120 Speaker 1: All right, it is time now for comedy roulette. Steve Jay, 782 00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,239 Speaker 1: please please quickly set this up. 783 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:14,719 Speaker 12: Every week our comedy ability is tested, and the way 784 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,759 Speaker 12: we prove how good we are put five subjects on 785 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 12: the wheel. 786 00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 2: Spin the wheel, wedge, stop, We got it. That's all 787 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:20,840 Speaker 2: it is. 788 00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,520 Speaker 1: That's all it is comedy. All right, Here are the 789 00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:31,439 Speaker 1: five subjects. Number one fish grease. Number two, she wasn't 790 00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:39,280 Speaker 1: that big in high school. I appreciate that one, okay. 791 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:45,120 Speaker 1: Number three tastes like chicken. Number four now that I 792 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:49,960 Speaker 1: have a little money, you know who I am. And 793 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:53,120 Speaker 1: number five, I don't know how you could eat that. 794 00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:54,840 Speaker 2: Give me that. 795 00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 1: All right, let's go spend the wheelcat. Oh h, Now 796 00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:13,920 Speaker 1: that I have a little money, you know who I am? 797 00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:17,480 Speaker 12: Let me have that, Let me start going out. I see, 798 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:21,040 Speaker 12: back in the day, my nickname was Fish. Didn't nobody 799 00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:25,719 Speaker 12: know fish, didn't speak the fish. You're too fine to 800 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,760 Speaker 12: speak to the fish. But now that fish is on TV? 801 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:31,640 Speaker 2: Hey Fish? 802 00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 1: How you doing? 803 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 8: Fish? 804 00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:37,839 Speaker 12: And I can't remember who you are? 805 00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:38,560 Speaker 4: What you got? 806 00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:41,160 Speaker 2: I was out of my league. 807 00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:43,480 Speaker 4: I was way out of my league. You would drop 808 00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:47,759 Speaker 4: dead fine to me. I beg for it, won'ted it. 809 00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,400 Speaker 4: I used to ask for a day and night. You 810 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:54,399 Speaker 4: never gave me the time of day. But now now 811 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,400 Speaker 4: got a little money, I'm going to steel Harvey Monis 812 00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:58,920 Speaker 4: you're texting. 813 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:01,279 Speaker 2: Me now, ain't have it? If I want it, I 814 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:02,439 Speaker 2: don't want it now. 815 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 1: I don't want it. Yeah, I hear tom. 816 00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:08,759 Speaker 2: Come on Jo, you know what. Now I got a 817 00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:10,200 Speaker 2: little money. You know who know my name? 818 00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:10,440 Speaker 3: Now? 819 00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:11,960 Speaker 1: Be a collector. 820 00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:15,560 Speaker 9: They know exactly who they talking to him now. But 821 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:17,560 Speaker 9: if they don't even call me about my real name, 822 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:19,359 Speaker 9: that's how I know they know I got money. They say, 823 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 9: excuse me, junior, in junior, that ain't my government name? 824 00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:30,960 Speaker 2: Now real is right up my alley. Now I got 825 00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:36,000 Speaker 2: a little money. Well you know who I am now? Yeah, 826 00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,120 Speaker 2: this goes out to ike. 827 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:44,279 Speaker 7: Back in Cleveland, had mister Albert's men. Yeah, I used 828 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:50,800 Speaker 7: to call me l k uh lailway ken No, but 829 00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:56,320 Speaker 7: and I I'm my your whole damn stoke. So the 830 00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 7: next time I walk in, I ain't coming in laid 831 00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 7: way on me. I might just bright your damn. 832 00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:13,600 Speaker 12: Let me put an initial out there with a last name, 833 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 12: just the initial and the last name. 834 00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 6: You know who you are, the last name white. Ah, 835 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:26,320 Speaker 6: you were so fine, Oh my god, you were fine. 836 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:31,279 Speaker 6: Did not even speak to me in the hall way. 837 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,600 Speaker 6: I walked past you like a slave because I ain't 838 00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 6: want to look at you. Now it was that damn fine. 839 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:41,720 Speaker 12: But oh it has changed because he's got a little money. 840 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:48,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's got a little money. 841 00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:52,560 Speaker 9: I'll tell you, everybody know my name at now I'm 842 00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,800 Speaker 9: a lot more familiar and welcome when I walk in 843 00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:58,000 Speaker 9: the door. A bank account used to sit on six 844 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:03,920 Speaker 9: dollars with your But what I didn't notice though, when 845 00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:07,000 Speaker 9: I go on to bank, now there's a whole nother room. 846 00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:11,920 Speaker 2: It's got vegetables. Hit it right esus oh when I. 847 00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:13,960 Speaker 1: Go to banks, missus spaces this away? 848 00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:17,520 Speaker 2: Why what you standing in line? Come on around this way? 849 00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,439 Speaker 2: Do you have your access car? Never mind, I have money. 850 00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 2: Oh you know I used to couldn't go to you. 851 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:28,760 Speaker 2: I would. I didn't get. 852 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:32,320 Speaker 4: Invited to the big Christmas party because I just you 853 00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,160 Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. I wasn't big enough. I didn't 854 00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:36,680 Speaker 4: have a name enough. But now that I'm viowling and 855 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,440 Speaker 4: I'm on this show and i'm the nept you got 856 00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 4: a little money if I can doing this stand up. 857 00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,720 Speaker 2: I don't want to go to your funky Christmas party. 858 00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,120 Speaker 2: Now I throw my whole. 859 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,360 Speaker 4: Damn Christmas party and my chateau. 860 00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:53,480 Speaker 1: Y'all kept? All right, all right, we'll be back with nephew. 861 00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:56,640 Speaker 1: Tell me he's prank phone call right after this. You're 862 00:45:56,680 --> 00:46:00,600 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, coming up at 863 00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:04,000 Speaker 1: about four minutes after the hour. It is today's Strawberry Letter, 864 00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:09,600 Speaker 1: the subject I need both of them, and don't judge me. 865 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:10,279 Speaker 1: Don't judge. 866 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 2: Let me tell you how many times I said, Dot, 867 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 2: We're we're gonna go. 868 00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:20,720 Speaker 1: We're gonna get into that in just a few because 869 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:24,600 Speaker 1: right now the nephew is here with today's prank phone 870 00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,600 Speaker 1: called neft What you got choppers? 871 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:36,440 Speaker 2: Fielder choppers fielder raw got dog? If you what? Uh, 872 00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:39,879 Speaker 2: I'm trying to reach James James. 873 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:41,600 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, what's up? 874 00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 2: Hey? 875 00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,880 Speaker 4: This this is Gerald. I was a friend of uh, 876 00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:55,040 Speaker 4: your friend Chapel. Yeah, Chapel just uh passed away last week, right, Yeah? 877 00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,359 Speaker 4: I know they Sposta had a funeral and stuff over 878 00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:02,879 Speaker 4: at at Moth Baptist Church and uh, I don't really 879 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:05,000 Speaker 4: know you, but me and me and Chopper and a 880 00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:06,520 Speaker 4: bunch of the rest of us. Man, we used to 881 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:09,439 Speaker 4: hang out at the club not too far from the house. 882 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,480 Speaker 4: You know, That's pretty much where Chopper was all the 883 00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:14,920 Speaker 4: time at the club. Anyway, what a bunch of us 884 00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:16,840 Speaker 4: was over at the club talking man, and I was 885 00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:19,640 Speaker 4: we was really want to reach out to one of 886 00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,960 Speaker 4: the family members, you know. And then somebody said you was, 887 00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,920 Speaker 4: you know, kind of a good friend of his, and 888 00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,839 Speaker 4: we we we we decided to call you and see 889 00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:32,440 Speaker 4: if you didn't mind. Do you think that you can 890 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:37,919 Speaker 4: talk to uh, some of the family members and see 891 00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:42,080 Speaker 4: if they don't mind having the funeral at the club. 892 00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:46,000 Speaker 2: At the club, see what do Let me let me 893 00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:49,359 Speaker 2: try to explain something to you, Jane. What we're trying 894 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:52,880 Speaker 2: to do is, see, we believe that we believe you. 895 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:57,840 Speaker 8: Said at the club, come on the club funeral, And 896 00:47:57,960 --> 00:47:59,200 Speaker 8: that's what I understand it. 897 00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,960 Speaker 4: But see, see, Choppel Choper ain't really go to church 898 00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:04,479 Speaker 4: a whole lot. You know what I'm saying, He ain't 899 00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:07,239 Speaker 4: really really go as long as I've been knowing him. Now, 900 00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:09,840 Speaker 4: he loved the Lord and stuff like that, clayl. 901 00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:13,680 Speaker 8: But these are church going folks, fer I understand. 902 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:17,400 Speaker 4: But see Chopel wouldn't Chopel Chopper went to the club. 903 00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,560 Speaker 4: So what I'm asking you is, let's have the funeral 904 00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:21,760 Speaker 4: at the club. 905 00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,280 Speaker 8: Hell, no, bro, come on, we can't have no funeral 906 00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:30,040 Speaker 8: at no club. Man, come on, No, no, I can't. 907 00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:32,520 Speaker 4: But but what what I'm saying is, though, is that 908 00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:36,560 Speaker 4: he wasn't really he wasn't really no church going person. 909 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,719 Speaker 4: I believe that a person ought to be uh, the 910 00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,680 Speaker 4: last words are to be said over him in a 911 00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:45,200 Speaker 4: place he's more familiar with. 912 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:48,239 Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying, A player, player, No, I don't. 913 00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,000 Speaker 8: I don't know what you mean. Now, just gotta be 914 00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,320 Speaker 8: a funeral. This is this is a church for I 915 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:55,160 Speaker 8: go to church, and all my folks go to church. 916 00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:57,640 Speaker 8: Now we got to this sing up in church. This 917 00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:58,520 Speaker 8: is a church thing. 918 00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,760 Speaker 2: But you don't, you don't feel But do you understand 919 00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:01,480 Speaker 2: where I'm coming from? 920 00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:01,600 Speaker 11: Know? 921 00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,600 Speaker 4: There man ought to gone on and the last words 922 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,520 Speaker 4: are to be in a place he more familiar with. 923 00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:08,920 Speaker 2: Now, if he went to church, then I understand that. 924 00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,839 Speaker 8: You see, bro, Hell no, no, See it's his chance 925 00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:15,799 Speaker 8: to get itself right. And don't we don't have him 926 00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:19,640 Speaker 8: up in church in front of everybody. You know, that 927 00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,560 Speaker 8: don't make sense? Who's this again? I mean, who are you? 928 00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:25,120 Speaker 1: My name is Gerald, but who is Gerald? 929 00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:25,399 Speaker 2: I mean? 930 00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:26,320 Speaker 10: How do you? 931 00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,520 Speaker 8: How do you relate to this? Are you a preacher? 932 00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:29,239 Speaker 2: Or are you not? 933 00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:30,279 Speaker 5: Are you? 934 00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:30,640 Speaker 2: No? 935 00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:33,640 Speaker 4: No, no, no, I'm I'm I was friends with Chopper 936 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:36,120 Speaker 4: and see I hung out at the club and still 937 00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,880 Speaker 4: hang out there with a whole bunch of you know, 938 00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:41,239 Speaker 4: was real good friends with Chopper and we were saying that, 939 00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:45,880 Speaker 4: you know Choppers, the last words about Chopper are to 940 00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,000 Speaker 4: be said at the club, because see that's what Chopper 941 00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:51,040 Speaker 4: was about, five six days a week, That's what Chappa was. 942 00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:53,840 Speaker 8: Yeah, but what church are you affiliated with? I mean, 943 00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 8: why the hell would I I try to talk to 944 00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:59,600 Speaker 8: the family, make me look stupid in front of the 945 00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:01,880 Speaker 8: family telling them to put this thing in the club. 946 00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:03,399 Speaker 8: How is that gonna go off? 947 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:03,640 Speaker 4: Well? 948 00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,720 Speaker 2: See, see that's what I'm saying. You know them way more. 949 00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:09,319 Speaker 8: Than we do, because see that you're talking about trying 950 00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,680 Speaker 8: to move from a damn funeral at a church to 951 00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:14,120 Speaker 8: a damn nightclub or a strip club or something. 952 00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:15,920 Speaker 2: Not no strip club, just a nightclub. 953 00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:21,479 Speaker 8: I mean, you're talking about having folks travel from across 954 00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:25,040 Speaker 8: the country and meeting in the damn club. What kind 955 00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:25,480 Speaker 8: of that. 956 00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,120 Speaker 2: But that's what Chapel was. That's what Chapel was. 957 00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,560 Speaker 8: I'm gonna look if I'm the one telling them to 958 00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:33,120 Speaker 8: move it to the damn. 959 00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:35,399 Speaker 4: Club, You're gonna look like somebody that's trying to I'm 960 00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:36,840 Speaker 4: gonna look like a fool. 961 00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:39,000 Speaker 2: No, you're not. You're gonna look like somebody's trying to. 962 00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:41,520 Speaker 8: Keep it real when come to the damn funeral. 963 00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:43,880 Speaker 2: If I do something like that, Okay, okay, let me 964 00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,919 Speaker 2: ask you this hit in. Let me ask you this here, Jane. 965 00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:50,399 Speaker 4: Do you think do you think you can maybe get 966 00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:55,399 Speaker 4: the body and bring it over to the club. Well, 967 00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 4: I'm just saying before they even do the funeral or whatever. 968 00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:03,440 Speaker 8: Hell, no, just getting to walk in the dog by myself. 969 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:06,200 Speaker 8: Don't touch the body for him now. 970 00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:09,400 Speaker 4: We're just trying to say our last words at Chopper 971 00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:11,239 Speaker 4: Man in the place that Chopper moment. 972 00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:15,200 Speaker 8: No him again? Who for you? You get my number? 973 00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:18,200 Speaker 2: Somebody at the club had your number, say you was print. 974 00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:22,760 Speaker 8: What do y'all call me? Of all folks, y'all call. 975 00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:25,279 Speaker 2: They say you good? You in with the family, and you. 976 00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,040 Speaker 8: Can tell me with the family. But I ain't in 977 00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:31,040 Speaker 8: in the family. Make me look stupid. Hell now, won't 978 00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:33,520 Speaker 8: y'all I get aut of them too, the family. Y'all 979 00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:36,040 Speaker 8: call the family, y'all tell them that yourself. 980 00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,160 Speaker 2: Man, I won't. I just trying to get you to 981 00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:39,320 Speaker 2: bring the body by. 982 00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:42,840 Speaker 8: Man and let us no, I ain't touching no dead body. 983 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:45,520 Speaker 2: We just want to have one last drake with Chopper Man. 984 00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:48,720 Speaker 8: You have one with your boys, and you get together 985 00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:52,640 Speaker 8: with them and y'all talk about bottom and let them 986 00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:54,719 Speaker 8: know how Chopper was, what kind of prison he was, 987 00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:56,400 Speaker 8: what kind of person we need to. 988 00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,160 Speaker 2: We want chopp up to be there. This Chopper, this 989 00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:00,759 Speaker 2: is Chopper you talking about man. 990 00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:04,360 Speaker 8: I'll bring y'all to the church. Y'all need to be 991 00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:05,160 Speaker 8: up in the church. 992 00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,600 Speaker 2: We want to have Chopper at the club. 993 00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:10,800 Speaker 8: Well we know mom man, y'all fuller, well we know 994 00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:14,800 Speaker 8: MYU have my looking like a fool at a damn funeral? 995 00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:16,640 Speaker 2: What this about Chopper, yo? 996 00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:18,280 Speaker 8: And damn right about chopping? 997 00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:21,080 Speaker 2: You'll break Chopper to that club, y'all. 998 00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:24,480 Speaker 8: Tripping, man, I ain't doing. I'm just going to this funeral. 999 00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:26,880 Speaker 8: I'm gonna care to say what I think about chopping. 1000 00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:29,719 Speaker 8: And I'm tall If y'all want to add crazy in 1001 00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:31,680 Speaker 8: front of town, y'all talk to fill y'all selfing do this? 1002 00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:34,839 Speaker 2: Look, I got one more thing I want to say. 1003 00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:37,200 Speaker 8: I don't even know you or what what? 1004 00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:42,200 Speaker 4: What this his nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. 1005 00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:51,120 Speaker 4: You just got pranked by your boy. This nephew timy 1006 00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:54,080 Speaker 4: man from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your boy told 1007 00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:54,880 Speaker 4: me to prank you. 1008 00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:55,879 Speaker 2: Man. 1009 00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:00,040 Speaker 8: I just know you'. 1010 00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:02,600 Speaker 2: This is nephew Tommy. 1011 00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:09,560 Speaker 8: No, no play, oh man. I can't believe that. No, 1012 00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:12,120 Speaker 8: he didn't. I can't even believe he did that. 1013 00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,399 Speaker 4: Hey man, I got one more thing to ask you, man, 1014 00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 4: what is what is the baddest radio show in the. 1015 00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:24,680 Speaker 8: Land, the Steve Harvey moaning show Man. 1016 00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:28,000 Speaker 2: We think, I mean it made sense though, didn't need 1017 00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,279 Speaker 2: to have, you know, the funeral at the club. That's 1018 00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,520 Speaker 2: what Chopper used to be. That don't make sense to y'all. 1019 00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,359 Speaker 1: One last drink with Chopper Man. 1020 00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:40,239 Speaker 7: No hell no, no, I was just interview master p 1021 00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,840 Speaker 7: not too long ago. He no limit, No, I'm no limit? 1022 00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:50,600 Speaker 7: What what's c jr? Tommy can't see what other people see, 1023 00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:55,880 Speaker 7: and so Tommy operates from his viewpoint, which is low what. 1024 00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:03,200 Speaker 2: Low? All this comes from restrictions, you know, Oh boy. 1025 00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,160 Speaker 7: He can't see what he do to other people because 1026 00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:09,319 Speaker 7: he can't see the expression on their face. If you're 1027 00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:12,520 Speaker 7: staring at somebody's shirt on the damn tip, it's hard 1028 00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:14,760 Speaker 7: to look up and see how they're not laughing Tommy 1029 00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:20,480 Speaker 7: face the chest, or you can see they're hurting some people. 1030 00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:24,279 Speaker 1: Shit, that was great laughing, Tommy, I'm laughing at something else. 1031 00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:25,640 Speaker 1: I'm not laughing at what else? 1032 00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:29,440 Speaker 2: I could kill this? 1033 00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:34,280 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Coming up next, Strawberry letter. The subject 1034 00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,120 Speaker 1: is I need both of them. I need both of them. 1035 00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:40,360 Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this. It's time to 1036 00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,360 Speaker 1: talk about life insurance It's one of those things that 1037 00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 1: everyone should have, and Globe Life makes it easy with 1038 00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:51,400 Speaker 1: no medical exam, just a simple application and coverage options 1039 00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:54,400 Speaker 1: up to one hundred thousand dollars. Get the coverage you 1040 00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:58,440 Speaker 1: need in twenty twenty five, go online at globelife radio 1041 00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:02,080 Speaker 1: dot com or call one eight hundred two five one 1042 00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:06,520 Speaker 1: fifty four hundred to apply in minutes. That's globelife radio 1043 00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:10,720 Speaker 1: dot com or one eight hundred two five one fifty 1044 00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:11,600 Speaker 1: four hundred. 1045 00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,359 Speaker 2: Thanks Steve Harvey Moore on the show Man ainn'ybody playing 1046 00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:19,120 Speaker 2: with y'all. This show, I have said a thousand times 1047 00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:26,680 Speaker 2: is for enlightenment, entertainment, entertainment and inspiration and entertainment is 1048 00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:29,400 Speaker 2: a big part of this show. Out of laws eight listeners, 1049 00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:32,960 Speaker 2: because you don't get the joke, I'm not apologizing for 1050 00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:36,400 Speaker 2: nothing and I ain't preparing no I'm sorry statement I 1051 00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:40,200 Speaker 2: tell Joe and for living right. And if you didn't 1052 00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:42,360 Speaker 2: like to joke, tune in tomorrow. 1053 00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:43,959 Speaker 1: I have others. 1054 00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:46,960 Speaker 2: Store show coming up. 1055 00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:50,960 Speaker 1: Right after It is time for today's Strawberry Letter. And 1056 00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:54,359 Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 1057 00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:58,759 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and 1058 00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:02,800 Speaker 1: you can click submit Strawberry letter. Okay, we could be 1059 00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:05,120 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 1060 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:06,960 Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now. 1061 00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:07,800 Speaker 2: You never know. 1062 00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:08,680 Speaker 1: It could be yours. 1063 00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:11,600 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 1064 00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:12,320 Speaker 2: We got it for you. 1065 00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:12,600 Speaker 4: Here. 1066 00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:14,080 Speaker 2: It is Drawberry letter. 1067 00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:17,440 Speaker 1: Subject, I need both of them, and I need to 1068 00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:19,840 Speaker 1: do a disclaimer before we read this letter. If you 1069 00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:21,680 Speaker 1: have small children, you don't want them. 1070 00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:22,120 Speaker 5: To hear this. 1071 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:27,640 Speaker 1: Cover up their ears. Okay again, the subject is I 1072 00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:31,080 Speaker 1: need both of them. Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and 1073 00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:33,399 Speaker 1: I have been through hell and back in our short 1074 00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:36,480 Speaker 1: four year marriage. He cheated on me first, and then 1075 00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:39,799 Speaker 1: I cheated on him. When I cheated, I got caught 1076 00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:42,120 Speaker 1: in the act, and the guy I cheated with rides 1077 00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:46,759 Speaker 1: motorcycles with my husband. How it happened was crazy. We 1078 00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 1: went to a viking event and my husband got drunk, 1079 00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,600 Speaker 1: so his friend brought us home. His friend helped me 1080 00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:55,520 Speaker 1: get him into bed. Then we went outside to smoke 1081 00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:58,600 Speaker 1: some wheed. I hadn't had sex and months because my 1082 00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:02,680 Speaker 1: husband cheated on me. I got so high I started 1083 00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:05,640 Speaker 1: telling his friend all of our business, and then some 1084 00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:08,640 Speaker 1: kind of way we ended up on the side of 1085 00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:12,719 Speaker 1: the house, naked from the waist down. I was hooking up. 1086 00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:16,680 Speaker 1: I was hooking him up when my husband started calling 1087 00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:18,880 Speaker 1: my name, and when he came to the side of 1088 00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:22,000 Speaker 1: the house, we didn't have time to pull our pants 1089 00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:26,000 Speaker 1: up or run. We were busted. I told my husband 1090 00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:29,240 Speaker 1: I was sorry, and then he surprised us by telling 1091 00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:34,400 Speaker 1: us to finish because he wanted to watch. We couldn't 1092 00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:37,640 Speaker 1: work under that pressure, so I got dressed and went inside, 1093 00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:40,960 Speaker 1: and he encouraged his friend to come inside and finish 1094 00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:44,200 Speaker 1: me off while he watched. I think this is something 1095 00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:47,960 Speaker 1: they've done before. Because they were both too comfortable. We 1096 00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:51,280 Speaker 1: started having sex, and then my husband joined in. This 1097 00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:55,280 Speaker 1: was my first threesome with two men, and I can't 1098 00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:59,640 Speaker 1: believe my husband allowed this. A few days later, he 1099 00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:02,120 Speaker 1: decided to bring it up and asked me to be 1100 00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:05,080 Speaker 1: honest with him. I told him I need the both 1101 00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:08,320 Speaker 1: of them every once in a while to keep things interesting. 1102 00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:11,880 Speaker 1: He said it was fine and he'd be he'd bring 1103 00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:15,880 Speaker 1: he'd bring a female over sometime so that he can 1104 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,120 Speaker 1: have some fun too. I shut it down and said 1105 00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:23,360 Speaker 1: I only want him and his friend. Now he's acting jealous, 1106 00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:29,640 Speaker 1: So why did he start all of this? That's what 1107 00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:33,200 Speaker 1: he wants, don't you see it, That's what he wants. 1108 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:35,720 Speaker 1: I mean, some kind of way. We ended up on 1109 00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:38,479 Speaker 1: the side of the house, naked from the waist down. 1110 00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:41,560 Speaker 1: I thought that was really like the craziest line in 1111 00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:42,040 Speaker 1: the letter. 1112 00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:44,120 Speaker 2: But there is more. 1113 00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:46,000 Speaker 1: I mean, there's a lot of them in here. Your 1114 00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:48,480 Speaker 1: husband asked his friend to finish you off so he 1115 00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:54,280 Speaker 1: could watch. Then I'm thinking this is really working out 1116 00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:57,440 Speaker 1: for your favor because hubby is on board with all 1117 00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:00,880 Speaker 1: of this and he's joining in. And he didn't kill you, guys. 1118 00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:03,480 Speaker 1: He didn't kill his friend, he didn't kick you out, 1119 00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:06,440 Speaker 1: he didn't divorce you, he didn't give his friend a 1120 00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:10,320 Speaker 1: beat down any of that. Nothing, nothing normal happened in 1121 00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:13,200 Speaker 1: this letter. So I'm thinking, since both of you are 1122 00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:16,120 Speaker 1: cheaters and you like threesomes and all of this, and 1123 00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:21,520 Speaker 1: your husband liked watching and all of that, although you 1124 00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:23,880 Speaker 1: know he can't bring the females in because you shut 1125 00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:25,960 Speaker 1: that down, it just sounds like you guys are in 1126 00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:29,000 Speaker 1: some sort of open marriage and you don't know it. 1127 00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:31,600 Speaker 1: You know, you just haven't named it yet. This is 1128 00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:35,400 Speaker 1: what swingers do they share their mates with others? And 1129 00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:37,720 Speaker 1: that's what you guys are into. So I just say, 1130 00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:40,520 Speaker 1: go ahead, put a label on it and own it, 1131 00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:44,920 Speaker 1: because that's what this crazy marriage is, okay, and it 1132 00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:49,800 Speaker 1: is what it is. You guys are into sharing period. 1133 00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:58,280 Speaker 2: Steve. You know, here's the problem with this letter is 1134 00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:04,720 Speaker 2: at the question at the and it's at the answer 1135 01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:08,600 Speaker 2: to that question at the end is also how the 1136 01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:09,760 Speaker 2: letter begins. 1137 01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:13,320 Speaker 7: The question at the end is so why did he 1138 01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:18,320 Speaker 7: start all of this? Why did he start all of this? 1139 01:00:18,600 --> 01:00:22,040 Speaker 2: Is the question. Well, let me tell you what happened 1140 01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:23,680 Speaker 2: at the top of the letter. They've been in the 1141 01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:28,600 Speaker 2: back and forth short through hell and back relationship before 1142 01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:34,480 Speaker 2: your marriage. He cheated on me first, then I cheated 1143 01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:40,120 Speaker 2: on him. When I cheated, I got caught in the act. 1144 01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:46,000 Speaker 2: And the guy I cheated with rides motorcycles with my husband. 1145 01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:49,080 Speaker 7: That's a lot of information. We ain't even out of 1146 01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:56,040 Speaker 7: paragraph one. This letter is packed with facts and we 1147 01:00:56,240 --> 01:00:56,880 Speaker 7: not even otter. 1148 01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:00,800 Speaker 2: Did you hear me? So when you go back to 1149 01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:02,720 Speaker 2: the end of the letter and it goes, so why 1150 01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:04,200 Speaker 2: did he start all this? 1151 01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:06,240 Speaker 4: What? 1152 01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:10,200 Speaker 2: He cheated on me first? Then I cheated on him? 1153 01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:12,520 Speaker 2: Then when I cheated, I got caught in the act. 1154 01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:15,520 Speaker 2: And the guy I cheated. We'll ride motorcycles with my husband. 1155 01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:21,240 Speaker 2: That ain't all he ride, or it ain't just motorcycles. 1156 01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:24,200 Speaker 2: What else? He's a rider. 1157 01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:27,200 Speaker 1: He just a rider. 1158 01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:31,400 Speaker 2: He read it up. What you want to do. He 1159 01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:37,439 Speaker 2: ride bikes, He rides uh, trailer holmes, he ride ons. 1160 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:44,560 Speaker 2: He do sidewalking on side of houses. He uh, he streaks. 1161 01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:45,760 Speaker 12: Uh. 1162 01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:49,720 Speaker 7: He do service calls. He got a tuck in service 1163 01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:52,760 Speaker 7: at night for drunk men that need to be tucked 1164 01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:56,520 Speaker 7: in bed. This this is just an amazing letter. So 1165 01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:59,280 Speaker 7: when I come back, I want to share with you, 1166 01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:02,920 Speaker 7: you know, because like I told you, y'all, y'all went 1167 01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:05,680 Speaker 7: to a biking event. Your husband got so drunk that 1168 01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:08,360 Speaker 7: is free and brought y'all home, and his friend helped 1169 01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:10,560 Speaker 7: me get him into bed. See that's a service. That's 1170 01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:14,919 Speaker 7: a nice friend. Then y'all went outside smoking weed. See 1171 01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:20,160 Speaker 7: that right there. He'll plug. He helped you get your husband. 1172 01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:21,040 Speaker 2: In your bed. He got weed. 1173 01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:24,919 Speaker 1: She was high, Steve, she was so high. 1174 01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:27,400 Speaker 2: I ain't never been that high. 1175 01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:33,439 Speaker 1: Of Steve's response, coming up at twenty three minutes after 1176 01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:36,680 Speaker 1: the hour Strawberry Letters, subject today. I need both of them. 1177 01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:42,880 Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back right after this. It's time 1178 01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:45,840 Speaker 1: to talk about life insurance. It's one of those things 1179 01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:49,440 Speaker 1: that everyone should have, and Globe Life makes it easy 1180 01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:53,440 Speaker 1: with no medical exam, just a simple application and coverage 1181 01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:56,880 Speaker 1: options up to one hundred thousand dollars. Get the coverage 1182 01:02:56,920 --> 01:03:00,960 Speaker 1: you need in twenty twenty five. Go online globelife radio 1183 01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:04,560 Speaker 1: dot com or call one eight hundred two five one 1184 01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:09,280 Speaker 1: fifty four hundred to apply in minutes. That's globelifradio dot 1185 01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:14,000 Speaker 1: com or one eight hundred two five one fifty four hundred. 1186 01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:17,720 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1187 01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:20,520 Speaker 1: I need both of them as a subject. 1188 01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:24,400 Speaker 2: This letter is so crazy. This lady been in a 1189 01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:27,840 Speaker 2: been through hell back and forth in a short fold 1190 01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:32,640 Speaker 2: year marriage. He cheated on me first, then I cheated 1191 01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:36,920 Speaker 2: on him. Then when I cheated, I got caught in 1192 01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:42,640 Speaker 2: the act. The guy cheated with riding motorcycle with my hub. 1193 01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:47,080 Speaker 2: That sounded like, uh, that movie Smoking the Bandit with 1194 01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:53,280 Speaker 2: Jackie Gleason was describing how he was chasing rudderscross the country. 1195 01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:57,760 Speaker 2: He got charges on it. He was eating that sandwich. 1196 01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:03,280 Speaker 2: Give me my give me that dieblow sandwich. He'd across 1197 01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:07,840 Speaker 2: state line and got him for kidnapping, high speed chasing, 1198 01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:10,560 Speaker 2: distart police property. 1199 01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:14,400 Speaker 7: So this is what I left him with the lady husband. 1200 01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:16,960 Speaker 7: See how this sounds right, that's the funny part to me. 1201 01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:21,560 Speaker 7: So now let's move on down the letter. So they 1202 01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:25,560 Speaker 7: went outside after he tuk the husband in bed who 1203 01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:29,640 Speaker 7: got drunk at the bike at the motorcycle riding event. 1204 01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:34,919 Speaker 2: His friend got your husband. Your husband got so drunk. 1205 01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:38,439 Speaker 2: He helped you get him in the house and tuck 1206 01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:43,600 Speaker 2: him in bed. Then y'all went outside to smoke some weed. 1207 01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:47,600 Speaker 2: You ain't had sex in moss because your husband cheated 1208 01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:48,000 Speaker 2: on him. 1209 01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:53,240 Speaker 7: I got so high I started telling his friend all 1210 01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:56,640 Speaker 7: our business. And there's some kind of way now hear 1211 01:04:56,680 --> 01:05:00,240 Speaker 7: the part right here, like you don't know right, some 1212 01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:03,160 Speaker 7: kind of weight. We ended up on the side of 1213 01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:09,200 Speaker 7: the house, neked from the waist down. What you got 1214 01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:13,080 Speaker 7: to take them down? Motorcycle boots off, you got to 1215 01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:16,400 Speaker 7: take them chaps off, you gotta get them tight ends, 1216 01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:20,120 Speaker 7: jeans off, you gotta get that motorcycle vest off. 1217 01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:22,000 Speaker 2: But you're from the waist down. 1218 01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:24,640 Speaker 7: So you got the honor your club. So you gotta 1219 01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:31,760 Speaker 7: keep your vests on, vest off because you see you 1220 01:05:31,840 --> 01:05:35,560 Speaker 7: got your motorcycle patch on it. You can't disrespect to patch. 1221 01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:42,440 Speaker 7: That's like burning American flying to a hill boy. So 1222 01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,160 Speaker 7: now y'all neked from the waist down. 1223 01:05:46,160 --> 01:05:46,280 Speaker 8: Uh. 1224 01:05:46,640 --> 01:05:50,360 Speaker 7: I was hooking him up when my husband started calling 1225 01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:53,080 Speaker 7: my name, and when he came to the side of 1226 01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:54,960 Speaker 7: the house, we ain't had time. 1227 01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:59,280 Speaker 2: To pull our pants up or run. I've never been 1228 01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:04,600 Speaker 2: in that place issue. Wow, I ever heard I can't run? 1229 01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:11,520 Speaker 2: But so you so comfortable you done took your clothes 1230 01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:14,680 Speaker 2: off and folded them up on the ground in a pile. 1231 01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:18,840 Speaker 2: He can't run. I got to have at least one 1232 01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:26,160 Speaker 2: leg and something. God, So now we didn't have time 1233 01:06:26,200 --> 01:06:28,880 Speaker 2: to pull our pants up and run. We were busted. 1234 01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:32,680 Speaker 7: I told my husband I'm sorry, and then he surprised 1235 01:06:32,760 --> 01:06:35,360 Speaker 7: us by telling us to finish because. 1236 01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:36,000 Speaker 2: He wanted to watch. 1237 01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:37,880 Speaker 1: That was a surprise. 1238 01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:40,880 Speaker 2: You surprised everybody in the letter with that one. 1239 01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:43,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, we read it. 1240 01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:47,920 Speaker 2: We went what kill anybody? We couldn't work under that pressure. 1241 01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:52,440 Speaker 7: So I got dressed and went inside, and he encouraged 1242 01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:56,200 Speaker 7: his friend to come inside and finish me off while 1243 01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:57,040 Speaker 7: he watched. 1244 01:06:57,920 --> 01:06:59,919 Speaker 2: I think this is something they'd done before. 1245 01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:03,280 Speaker 7: Oh, because they were both too comfortable for Wait a minute, 1246 01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:04,640 Speaker 7: that was your takeaway. 1247 01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:09,280 Speaker 2: Your husband told another man to come in the house 1248 01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:13,640 Speaker 2: and finish you off. Your takeaway is I think they've 1249 01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:17,240 Speaker 2: done this before because they were uncomfortable and. 1250 01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:21,080 Speaker 1: You wouldn't right pants on. 1251 01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:26,480 Speaker 2: So now we started having sex? 1252 01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:27,520 Speaker 1: What? 1253 01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:29,240 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1254 01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:32,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, lady, you go along with all this. We started 1255 01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:38,439 Speaker 7: having sex, and then my husband joined in, join in. Yes, 1256 01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:44,160 Speaker 7: it's funny man, man, somebody doing my wife exactly. And 1257 01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:46,400 Speaker 7: then I tap in, like you had to dance with 1258 01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:51,040 Speaker 7: white people. Welcome taping on the shoulder, my turn. You 1259 01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:53,480 Speaker 7: had one of them white dances now where they tap in, 1260 01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:59,160 Speaker 7: you had the boul Reguard ball or something. I said, 1261 01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:02,840 Speaker 7: that was my first threesome with two men, and I 1262 01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:05,880 Speaker 7: can't believe my husband the loudest. A few days later, 1263 01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:07,760 Speaker 7: he decided to bring it up and asked me to 1264 01:08:07,840 --> 01:08:09,800 Speaker 7: be honest with him. I told him I need the 1265 01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:12,000 Speaker 7: both of them every once in a while to keep 1266 01:08:12,080 --> 01:08:15,720 Speaker 7: things interesting. He said it was fine, and he'd bring 1267 01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:19,000 Speaker 7: a female female over sometime so that he can have 1268 01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:19,920 Speaker 7: some fun too. 1269 01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:23,360 Speaker 2: I ship that down. We ain't doing all that. I 1270 01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:26,600 Speaker 2: don't know who you think I am? What type of 1271 01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:29,439 Speaker 2: woman you think I am? Bring another woman up in here. 1272 01:08:29,720 --> 01:08:31,240 Speaker 2: I just want menses. 1273 01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:33,960 Speaker 1: That's why she drew the line. 1274 01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:36,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, draw this line up in here. 1275 01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:38,120 Speaker 7: But it's gonna be three people in the bedroom. It's 1276 01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:42,840 Speaker 7: gonna be two menses and me. That's weird anyway, because 1277 01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:46,519 Speaker 7: once I'm naked, I could be the only one with 1278 01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:49,519 Speaker 7: a body part that looked like mine in that room. 1279 01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:51,960 Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell you that right now. And now, he 1280 01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:55,280 Speaker 7: can't be two people in here with zippers, know something, 1281 01:08:57,160 --> 01:08:59,040 Speaker 7: have several people in here with a dress on, but 1282 01:08:59,080 --> 01:08:59,680 Speaker 7: it can't be one. 1283 01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:01,760 Speaker 2: Dude. You didn't hear with no damn zipp if we 1284 01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:04,760 Speaker 2: talking about getting nicky, So lady, I ain't got no 1285 01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:07,240 Speaker 2: advice to you. Your question is why did he start 1286 01:09:07,320 --> 01:09:10,479 Speaker 2: all this? The question is why did you finish all this? 1287 01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:11,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the question. 1288 01:09:12,280 --> 01:09:14,680 Speaker 2: Thank you all right, Steve, Thank you. 1289 01:09:15,040 --> 01:09:18,240 Speaker 1: Leave your comments today. Please on the Strawberry Letter on 1290 01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:21,439 Speaker 1: Instagram at Steve Harvey FM and check out the Strawberry 1291 01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:25,320 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand. Good morning, This is Shirley Strawberry, 1292 01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:28,320 Speaker 1: and my New Year's resolutions are the same as they 1293 01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:30,880 Speaker 1: have been for these last few years. Just don't make 1294 01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:33,800 Speaker 1: any because I never keep them. Happy New Year. From 1295 01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:35,400 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1296 01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:41,160 Speaker 5: Hey it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside. 1297 01:09:41,360 --> 01:09:44,040 Speaker 1: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean in 1298 01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:47,880 Speaker 1: half the time? Make the swap to Swipper Power Mop, 1299 01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:48,800 Speaker 1: the only one. 1300 01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:51,720 Speaker 5: Cleaning Hero has a built in solution that breaks down 1301 01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:56,080 Speaker 5: dirt and grime like magic. With hundreds of scrubbing strips 1302 01:09:56,200 --> 01:10:00,439 Speaker 5: on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes with Eve Plus, 1303 01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:03,759 Speaker 5: it'll leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning. 1304 01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:07,479 Speaker 5: Get yours today and mop smarter with the Swiffer Power 1305 01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:09,120 Speaker 5: Mob all right. 1306 01:10:09,200 --> 01:10:12,519 Speaker 1: See this is from Dorothy in Essex. Dorothy says, I 1307 01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:14,920 Speaker 1: saw on a TV show that a woman had four 1308 01:10:15,040 --> 01:10:18,599 Speaker 1: children by her husband, and she said that she had 1309 01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:22,639 Speaker 1: never once had an orgasm. I'm sixty eight years old 1310 01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:26,439 Speaker 1: and I'm in the same situation. I have three grown 1311 01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:29,559 Speaker 1: children and I've faked it in the bedroom for almost 1312 01:10:29,680 --> 01:10:33,160 Speaker 1: forty years. I cheated on my husband twice, and I 1313 01:10:33,280 --> 01:10:36,920 Speaker 1: had really really good sex both times. But I loved 1314 01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:40,400 Speaker 1: my husband so much that I couldn't leave him. Should 1315 01:10:40,400 --> 01:10:42,400 Speaker 1: I come clean with him and let him know that 1316 01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:45,080 Speaker 1: I've had sex that's better than his, Or do I 1317 01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:48,880 Speaker 1: keep it to myself and never ever have an orgasm 1318 01:10:49,240 --> 01:10:49,960 Speaker 1: in my life? 1319 01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:55,439 Speaker 2: Ever have an orgasm? You got to die another will 1320 01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:58,960 Speaker 2: what you just told? Don't you do that. 1321 01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:06,559 Speaker 7: Because it's going to accomplish nothing. It will accomplish nothing. 1322 01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:11,320 Speaker 7: It would destroy his feelings for you. If you tell 1323 01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:14,680 Speaker 7: this man because he was, you're going to destroy his 1324 01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:18,680 Speaker 7: feelings for you and his ego all at once. So 1325 01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:21,400 Speaker 7: when you tell this man that you cheated on him 1326 01:11:21,640 --> 01:11:24,320 Speaker 7: to have great sex and it was better than his, 1327 01:11:25,479 --> 01:11:27,920 Speaker 7: but you love him so much you couldn't leave him, 1328 01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:28,680 Speaker 7: you think that. 1329 01:11:28,880 --> 01:11:35,120 Speaker 2: Everything you say after that is mute, shut shot, this 1330 01:11:35,360 --> 01:11:38,519 Speaker 2: go to the grave. Them two dudes. You had to 1331 01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:44,719 Speaker 2: the grave. Yeah. Now I don't promote cheating or nothing 1332 01:11:44,800 --> 01:11:47,479 Speaker 2: like that, but you might have to go back over there. 1333 01:11:54,040 --> 01:11:59,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, she said it was really good with them all time. 1334 01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:03,719 Speaker 2: See me, I ain't telling you what to do. Seem 1335 01:12:03,800 --> 01:12:05,720 Speaker 2: to me like you need to go back over there. 1336 01:12:07,200 --> 01:12:08,040 Speaker 2: Is it too late to. 1337 01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:11,040 Speaker 1: Help her husband? Help her? 1338 01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:15,800 Speaker 2: Forty you dog? If you ain't figured it out in 1339 01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:21,280 Speaker 2: forty years, what I don't understand? What is he doing? 1340 01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:23,439 Speaker 1: Apparently nothing? 1341 01:12:25,200 --> 01:12:30,559 Speaker 2: Apparently it's Steve Harbin Martin show Man. 1342 01:12:31,479 --> 01:12:35,160 Speaker 7: How would you know if your wife is a former stripper? 1343 01:12:35,240 --> 01:12:36,680 Speaker 7: I have a couple of ways that you. 1344 01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:42,960 Speaker 2: Okay, If every time she enters the room she grabs 1345 01:12:43,040 --> 01:12:46,720 Speaker 2: the edge of the doorway and swings into the that 1346 01:12:47,360 --> 01:12:51,760 Speaker 2: that's a damn dead giveaway. She grabbed the edge of 1347 01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:57,880 Speaker 2: that doorway and swang into that's a damn dead gibble 1348 01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:04,080 Speaker 2: y'all walking down the street. Yeah, and she pick up 1349 01:13:04,280 --> 01:13:07,200 Speaker 2: all the money she see on the sidewalk, even if 1350 01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:10,640 Speaker 2: it's a quarter, nickels dime. If she knows how to 1351 01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:13,760 Speaker 2: pick up money off the ground, this is a dead 1352 01:13:13,920 --> 01:13:16,799 Speaker 2: giveaway that your wife could have been a strip. 1353 01:13:19,280 --> 01:13:21,040 Speaker 1: Right after all? 1354 01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:21,479 Speaker 5: Right, guys? 1355 01:13:21,520 --> 01:13:25,320 Speaker 1: So, according to a new One Poll survey, about half 1356 01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:29,320 Speaker 1: of Americans hide out when they need to find peace 1357 01:13:29,360 --> 01:13:32,519 Speaker 1: and quiet and privacy. Where do they hide out from 1358 01:13:32,560 --> 01:13:36,240 Speaker 1: other family members? In their household? In the bathroom. In 1359 01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:41,439 Speaker 1: the bathroom, that's where they are. 1360 01:13:41,600 --> 01:13:43,320 Speaker 2: But you got to keep the light out though you 1361 01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:44,360 Speaker 2: can't turn that light on. 1362 01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:46,599 Speaker 5: You're just in the room. 1363 01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:49,200 Speaker 2: But you at peace. You don't need to see nothing 1364 01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:52,760 Speaker 2: in that Noway, what you need to see are you? 1365 01:13:53,080 --> 01:13:54,880 Speaker 1: Are you with your phone in there? You take you 1366 01:13:54,960 --> 01:13:55,720 Speaker 1: got your phone in there. 1367 01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:56,679 Speaker 2: You gotta take your phone. 1368 01:13:56,720 --> 01:13:58,879 Speaker 4: You gotta take you something to drink, A couple of snacks, 1369 01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:02,000 Speaker 4: you know, and if you got it, you like a 1370 01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:03,400 Speaker 4: bowl ice cream, that's good. 1371 01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:06,519 Speaker 2: You might sit on right down because it's gonna straight 1372 01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:09,599 Speaker 2: through you anyway. It's gonna go straight through you anyway. 1373 01:14:09,760 --> 01:14:12,800 Speaker 3: Just sit there because I'm not eating in the bathroom. Sorry, 1374 01:14:12,880 --> 01:14:16,680 Speaker 3: those when I don't have that. Aunc got he got 1375 01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:19,080 Speaker 3: a TV in here. I ain't got there yet. I 1376 01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:21,720 Speaker 3: ain't made that kind of I ain't made that. No 1377 01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:23,880 Speaker 3: way get the aathroom without no TV. 1378 01:14:24,040 --> 01:14:31,680 Speaker 2: It's no way, right, there's no way that's impossible. I 1379 01:14:31,800 --> 01:14:35,920 Speaker 2: have an entire office in my bathroom, phones on the 1380 01:14:36,000 --> 01:14:40,439 Speaker 2: wall there working. I told you one thing. 1381 01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:42,439 Speaker 7: I got one better than that. Because we always have 1382 01:14:42,560 --> 01:14:45,360 Speaker 7: a construction at the house. I go standing in the 1383 01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:47,759 Speaker 7: porter partty to get away from everybody. 1384 01:14:50,680 --> 01:14:54,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. I didn't actually win anything there and just shut 1385 01:14:54,960 --> 01:14:57,839 Speaker 2: the door and just stood in there for fifteen minutes. 1386 01:14:58,880 --> 01:14:59,559 Speaker 2: So it's true. 1387 01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:02,080 Speaker 4: Then you probably got a different kind of porter party, 1388 01:15:02,120 --> 01:15:03,320 Speaker 4: though yours probably different. 1389 01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:04,360 Speaker 2: Well, they got the can. 1390 01:15:05,120 --> 01:15:05,600 Speaker 1: Let's hear that. 1391 01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:08,040 Speaker 2: Here we go, here we go, come come home. 1392 01:15:08,120 --> 01:15:08,640 Speaker 1: Let me hear it. 1393 01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:11,400 Speaker 5: Because I guarantee you is not the one we use 1394 01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:11,920 Speaker 5: at the fire. 1395 01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:14,200 Speaker 2: It ain't that green one. It ain't that green one. 1396 01:15:14,600 --> 01:15:16,080 Speaker 2: I'm telling the different one. 1397 01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:20,640 Speaker 7: Well, they have they have VI P port parties that 1398 01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:23,920 Speaker 7: have steps on them. You go up the steps. They 1399 01:15:24,040 --> 01:15:25,639 Speaker 7: got stalls with doors. 1400 01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:29,960 Speaker 2: They have you known wash boss, you know, sinks and 1401 01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:35,240 Speaker 2: all of that. I have a little green one where 1402 01:15:35,280 --> 01:15:40,720 Speaker 2: you just standing over some mess. That's the can't say 1403 01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:42,800 Speaker 2: it was in on the commercial. Remember when it turned 1404 01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:47,800 Speaker 2: over It was like that one. You remember that. I 1405 01:15:48,360 --> 01:15:52,640 Speaker 2: think it's more of an executive VI You know you 1406 01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:53,759 Speaker 2: go up the steps. 1407 01:15:57,360 --> 01:15:59,759 Speaker 1: The bathroom for both of you guys, is where. 1408 01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:02,720 Speaker 2: You mad through? Yeah? You know like sometimes I'll just 1409 01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:03,799 Speaker 2: drive off. 1410 01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:07,240 Speaker 1: Steven's bathroom slash office. 1411 01:16:08,360 --> 01:16:10,120 Speaker 2: You know something. I just get in my car, just 1412 01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:10,680 Speaker 2: drive on. 1413 01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:16,519 Speaker 1: Yeah you can you still drive every now and I dried, okay, 1414 01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:18,000 Speaker 1: but you. 1415 01:16:18,040 --> 01:16:19,000 Speaker 2: Know what you get tired of here? 1416 01:16:19,280 --> 01:16:19,920 Speaker 1: What was you? 1417 01:16:20,479 --> 01:16:20,679 Speaker 10: Why? 1418 01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:24,000 Speaker 2: Why? Why? What do you want? 1419 01:16:24,360 --> 01:16:24,720 Speaker 8: You need? 1420 01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:26,680 Speaker 4: Look? 1421 01:16:27,040 --> 01:16:29,960 Speaker 1: I need you to do something. I heard answer me 1422 01:16:30,280 --> 01:16:32,240 Speaker 1: answer me. I need you right now? 1423 01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:33,120 Speaker 4: What Steve? 1424 01:16:33,240 --> 01:16:35,800 Speaker 2: What I didn't want to I was calling you. 1425 01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:39,320 Speaker 1: I want to say I heard you answer the phone. 1426 01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:41,800 Speaker 1: I called you on your phone. You have your phone 1427 01:16:41,880 --> 01:16:43,400 Speaker 1: with you? Why you didn't answer your phone? 1428 01:16:44,200 --> 01:16:46,600 Speaker 7: You silent on the radio this morning. I forgot to 1429 01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:52,920 Speaker 7: take it off. Silent the phone, right, man. One time 1430 01:16:53,080 --> 01:16:56,160 Speaker 7: Marjorie called me. She was upstairs and I was I 1431 01:16:56,320 --> 01:16:59,280 Speaker 7: was in the backyard in the motor court and she 1432 01:16:59,439 --> 01:17:02,439 Speaker 7: was standing up in the window calling me. And I 1433 01:17:02,520 --> 01:17:04,200 Speaker 7: didn't know she was in the window, and I had 1434 01:17:04,280 --> 01:17:06,320 Speaker 7: my phone in my hand. And when I saw the phone, 1435 01:17:06,360 --> 01:17:06,799 Speaker 7: I went. 1436 01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:12,280 Speaker 2: God, dunk it. And you saw that gesture? Yeah, So 1437 01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:16,439 Speaker 2: I picked the phone and I went hello, turned around 1438 01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:17,400 Speaker 2: in the window. 1439 01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:22,200 Speaker 7: I turned around. She said, I saw you before answer 1440 01:17:22,320 --> 01:17:25,960 Speaker 7: that phone. I said, baby, it was a damn be 1441 01:17:26,320 --> 01:17:26,960 Speaker 7: over here. 1442 01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:30,479 Speaker 1: Look at the lines, how they just roll off your 1443 01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:40,800 Speaker 1: tongue busted busted. She's like, what do you won't answer me? 1444 01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:46,880 Speaker 1: Answer your text? When I text you, it says delivered. 1445 01:17:47,240 --> 01:17:50,600 Speaker 2: That's what we liftingum in my battery. 1446 01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:54,000 Speaker 1: And temmy, do not take ice cream in the bathroom anymore? 1447 01:17:54,479 --> 01:17:57,960 Speaker 1: Are you coming up? It is coming twenty minutes after 1448 01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:02,280 Speaker 1: thet's more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1449 01:18:02,720 --> 01:18:05,280 Speaker 2: Right after this ew Bluebell. 1450 01:18:05,760 --> 01:18:11,479 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is 1451 01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:15,560 Speaker 1: from Shelley from Steve BARBFM dot com. She says, I 1452 01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:18,080 Speaker 1: made a resolution to be healthier this year. I plan 1453 01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:20,200 Speaker 1: on trying to exercise a few times a week, and 1454 01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:22,759 Speaker 1: I'm going to eat healthier. I talked to my boyfriend 1455 01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:25,200 Speaker 1: about it before the new year, But now that I'm 1456 01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:28,040 Speaker 1: trying to put it into practice, I'm getting no support 1457 01:18:28,120 --> 01:18:31,360 Speaker 1: from him. Actually, he's making it more difficult. He just 1458 01:18:31,439 --> 01:18:33,560 Speaker 1: went to the grocery store and bought a bunch of 1459 01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:36,720 Speaker 1: junk food. And when I went to the gym yesterday, 1460 01:18:37,120 --> 01:18:39,519 Speaker 1: he said he was going to watch TV and chill. 1461 01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:42,479 Speaker 1: I know I have to do this on my own. 1462 01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:45,439 Speaker 1: I know this, but I expected him to at least 1463 01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:48,479 Speaker 1: support me. Am I wrong for wanting him to not 1464 01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:53,439 Speaker 1: actively work against my healthy resolution? Was that wrong? 1465 01:18:54,000 --> 01:18:57,559 Speaker 7: He didn't come along with the resolution, No, he did. 1466 01:18:57,960 --> 01:19:02,800 Speaker 7: He made a commitment to be more of me. That's 1467 01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:05,880 Speaker 7: obviously where he is. If you're trying to be less 1468 01:19:05,960 --> 01:19:07,800 Speaker 7: of you and he trying to be more of me. 1469 01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:10,880 Speaker 7: And it's hard when you don't have a support in 1470 01:19:10,960 --> 01:19:13,639 Speaker 7: the house to stay on track, to die and everything. 1471 01:19:14,280 --> 01:19:18,479 Speaker 2: But you can't blame him. He ain't that dude, So 1472 01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:21,640 Speaker 2: just stay on your mission. Stay focused. Maybe when he 1473 01:19:21,760 --> 01:19:25,320 Speaker 2: sees your improvements he might join along. But that's the 1474 01:19:25,360 --> 01:19:28,760 Speaker 2: only thing. It's hard to make the decision and hard 1475 01:19:28,840 --> 01:19:30,760 Speaker 2: to stay committed. But if that's what you want to do, 1476 01:19:30,880 --> 01:19:32,880 Speaker 2: that's what you have to do. So just then want 1477 01:19:32,920 --> 01:19:33,559 Speaker 2: to make it work. 1478 01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:36,519 Speaker 1: But Steve, do you really think he's got a bunch 1479 01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:37,280 Speaker 1: of junk food? 1480 01:19:37,400 --> 01:19:42,720 Speaker 3: She said, Now, not a candy bar all everywhere with him. 1481 01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:46,160 Speaker 2: Huh, he's gonna be back on the couch in February. 1482 01:19:48,920 --> 01:19:53,400 Speaker 2: Both y'all just sitting over there, just sweating. But stay 1483 01:19:53,439 --> 01:19:54,800 Speaker 2: with it, those sisters, stay with you. 1484 01:19:54,880 --> 01:19:57,280 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Hardy Morning Show. 1485 01:19:58,680 --> 01:20:02,000 Speaker 5: Hey, it's Carla Farrell, that old mop and bucket aside? 1486 01:20:02,160 --> 01:20:04,639 Speaker 5: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean? 1487 01:20:04,760 --> 01:20:05,639 Speaker 2: And half the time? 1488 01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:09,519 Speaker 1: Make the swap to Swiffer Power Mop, the only one. 1489 01:20:09,600 --> 01:20:12,400 Speaker 5: Cleaning Hero has a built in solution that breaks down 1490 01:20:12,560 --> 01:20:16,719 Speaker 5: dirt and grime like magic. With hundreds of scrubbing strips 1491 01:20:16,800 --> 01:20:21,000 Speaker 5: on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes with ease. Plus 1492 01:20:21,120 --> 01:20:24,280 Speaker 5: it'll leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning. 1493 01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:28,320 Speaker 5: Get yours today and mop smarter with the Swiffer Power Mop. 1494 01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:31,360 Speaker 5: It is time now for a round of would you 1495 01:20:31,760 --> 01:20:35,240 Speaker 5: rather Would you rather live where it always rains? 1496 01:20:35,600 --> 01:20:38,479 Speaker 1: Or would you rather live where it's always dark? 1497 01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:43,240 Speaker 2: Okayeed, rain, I got sea some light. I take that rain. 1498 01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:47,120 Speaker 2: I can't do that. Okay, you do that, dog anal 1499 01:20:47,400 --> 01:20:49,160 Speaker 2: sunshine wall. 1500 01:20:50,439 --> 01:20:55,800 Speaker 1: Not costs for soul? Okay? Would you rather do hair 1501 01:20:55,880 --> 01:20:59,000 Speaker 1: and makeup? Listen to this one. Guys do hair and 1502 01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:01,599 Speaker 1: makeup at a funeral? Roll home? Or would you drive 1503 01:21:01,680 --> 01:21:03,400 Speaker 1: a city rather drive a city bus? 1504 01:21:04,400 --> 01:21:04,960 Speaker 2: Driving the bus? 1505 01:21:05,720 --> 01:21:06,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want to. 1506 01:21:06,760 --> 01:21:08,720 Speaker 2: I don't even give a damn how you look when 1507 01:21:08,720 --> 01:21:12,840 Speaker 2: you live in I know? Good? Hell? 1508 01:21:13,240 --> 01:21:13,280 Speaker 1: What? 1509 01:21:13,520 --> 01:21:16,799 Speaker 2: Hell? Man? Cas an? 1510 01:21:19,840 --> 01:21:20,920 Speaker 1: What's that sound again? 1511 01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:21,439 Speaker 8: I love that. 1512 01:21:23,680 --> 01:21:25,920 Speaker 2: I'm not fitting to care how you look now. I'm 1513 01:21:25,960 --> 01:21:26,679 Speaker 2: not damn. 1514 01:21:28,680 --> 01:21:30,320 Speaker 1: So your bus driver is all good? 1515 01:21:31,240 --> 01:21:33,080 Speaker 2: Hell? Did high ride. 1516 01:21:36,120 --> 01:21:36,160 Speaker 1: Be? 1517 01:21:36,479 --> 01:21:36,719 Speaker 4: Damn? 1518 01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:41,519 Speaker 2: Man? Look at that family be wanting to fight me. Yeah, 1519 01:21:42,520 --> 01:21:47,840 Speaker 2: my mama lipstick, get it right, dead dog. I'm gonna 1520 01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:49,360 Speaker 2: have that wig on baffles. 1521 01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:52,240 Speaker 1: I know, I already know you're gonna do it wrong. 1522 01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:54,600 Speaker 2: I ain't. I ain't even gonna put the wig on. 1523 01:21:55,960 --> 01:22:00,599 Speaker 2: You gotta put a wig. Look just like us. 1524 01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:08,759 Speaker 1: The bus drivers out there. You yeah, the city bus driving? 1525 01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:11,800 Speaker 2: Yes? 1526 01:22:13,200 --> 01:22:18,360 Speaker 1: Would you rather I got that a lot when I 1527 01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:20,280 Speaker 1: used to ride the bus. All right, listen, would you 1528 01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:23,439 Speaker 1: rather show your boss all the pictures in your phone? 1529 01:22:23,760 --> 01:22:28,280 Speaker 1: Or would you rather show your wife all the pictures 1530 01:22:28,320 --> 01:22:30,120 Speaker 1: in your phone? Boss? 1531 01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:32,040 Speaker 2: Well, I got a problem because. 1532 01:22:38,400 --> 01:22:42,599 Speaker 1: You're in trouble. All right, Quiet nephew, what you got? 1533 01:22:43,400 --> 01:22:44,080 Speaker 2: I'm showing. 1534 01:22:48,640 --> 01:22:53,640 Speaker 1: You won't get in trouble for that? Will all right? 1535 01:22:54,080 --> 01:22:58,280 Speaker 1: Would you rather give up? Would you rather give up profanity? 1536 01:22:59,160 --> 01:23:00,759 Speaker 1: Or would you rather get ab up? Lying? 1537 01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:01,640 Speaker 2: All right? 1538 01:23:02,320 --> 01:23:03,120 Speaker 1: One's gotta go. 1539 01:23:03,800 --> 01:23:07,600 Speaker 2: I got to lie. I'm gonna give up profit. And 1540 01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:10,200 Speaker 2: that's that's a lie right there. 1541 01:23:18,360 --> 01:23:20,240 Speaker 1: I don't I don't see you giving. 1542 01:23:20,240 --> 01:23:27,000 Speaker 2: It's no way I can starve, it's no weight. 1543 01:23:28,560 --> 01:23:29,760 Speaker 1: What is the problem you have? 1544 01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:35,240 Speaker 2: Lying is the basis and core of marital happiness and bliss. 1545 01:23:36,760 --> 01:23:40,480 Speaker 2: If you stop lying, listen, This is a wrap. 1546 01:23:41,720 --> 01:23:45,519 Speaker 1: Today's round in would you rather? Guys coming up, and 1547 01:23:45,600 --> 01:23:47,519 Speaker 1: this is our last break of the day. We'll have 1548 01:23:47,640 --> 01:23:50,360 Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey 1549 01:23:50,680 --> 01:23:54,240 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1550 01:23:56,640 --> 01:23:59,960 Speaker 5: Hey, it's Carla Ferrol. Kick that old mop and bucket aside? 1551 01:24:00,240 --> 01:24:02,880 Speaker 5: Are you ready for a mop? And bucket clean in 1552 01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:06,760 Speaker 5: half the time. Make the swap to Swiffer Power Mop 1553 01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:09,679 Speaker 5: the only one. Cleaning Hero has a built in solution 1554 01:24:09,840 --> 01:24:13,759 Speaker 5: that breaks down dirt and grind like magic. With hundreds 1555 01:24:13,840 --> 01:24:17,879 Speaker 5: of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs stick nesses 1556 01:24:18,080 --> 01:24:21,120 Speaker 5: with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling great for 1557 01:24:21,400 --> 01:24:25,160 Speaker 5: hours after cleaning. Get yours today and mop smarter with 1558 01:24:25,320 --> 01:24:26,800 Speaker 5: the Swiffer Power Mop. 1559 01:24:28,120 --> 01:24:30,320 Speaker 1: Here we are, guys, our last break of the day, 1560 01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:33,360 Speaker 1: and it's been a good day. It's been a good day. 1561 01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:36,439 Speaker 1: We're starting this new year off in the right direction. 1562 01:24:37,880 --> 01:24:40,479 Speaker 2: Yeah. Hey, you know what I had to come to 1563 01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:41,280 Speaker 2: the realization. 1564 01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:45,320 Speaker 7: Kind of want to share this with people, but you know, 1565 01:24:47,800 --> 01:24:52,519 Speaker 7: I want to talk about there's a cost. There is 1566 01:24:52,600 --> 01:24:59,000 Speaker 7: a cost. You know, when you make the decision to 1567 01:24:59,160 --> 01:25:05,599 Speaker 7: be successful comes with a cost. And as much as 1568 01:25:05,640 --> 01:25:09,880 Speaker 7: I've tried to negate the cost, as much as I've 1569 01:25:10,000 --> 01:25:14,280 Speaker 7: tried to alleviate the cost, as much as I've oftentimes 1570 01:25:14,439 --> 01:25:18,800 Speaker 7: just tried to not talk up the cost, the cost 1571 01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:23,639 Speaker 7: is real. You know, I got in trouble, not really trouble, 1572 01:25:23,680 --> 01:25:25,879 Speaker 7: but I got a bunch of haters that came online 1573 01:25:25,960 --> 01:25:28,280 Speaker 7: one time when they saw me give a speech about 1574 01:25:29,240 --> 01:25:33,080 Speaker 7: if you want to be successful, really really successful as something, 1575 01:25:33,160 --> 01:25:38,080 Speaker 7: you can't sleep eight hours and I believe that, you know, 1576 01:25:38,400 --> 01:25:43,080 Speaker 7: somebody counted it with Oprah says she gets eight hours sleep. 1577 01:25:43,439 --> 01:25:47,280 Speaker 2: Well. Oprah's wealthy, though, But if you go back on 1578 01:25:47,439 --> 01:25:51,800 Speaker 2: her journey and asked her when she was hustling trying 1579 01:25:51,840 --> 01:25:54,639 Speaker 2: to make it, what she getting eight I don't think 1580 01:25:54,720 --> 01:26:01,080 Speaker 2: the answer would be yes. Everybody I know that's grinding, 1581 01:26:01,840 --> 01:26:07,559 Speaker 2: that's in the hustle, trying to really really have more 1582 01:26:08,080 --> 01:26:08,920 Speaker 2: than normal. 1583 01:26:09,439 --> 01:26:13,639 Speaker 7: If you want above average, it comes at a cost. 1584 01:26:15,320 --> 01:26:18,640 Speaker 7: And I've tried not to talk about it because I 1585 01:26:18,680 --> 01:26:22,920 Speaker 7: don't want to, you know, knock anybody down about it. 1586 01:26:23,120 --> 01:26:28,240 Speaker 7: But man, it's there's a cost for everything. And you know, 1587 01:26:29,360 --> 01:26:32,840 Speaker 7: I know a lot of successful people who have health issues. 1588 01:26:32,880 --> 01:26:35,200 Speaker 7: I've had my share of myself. Tommy can tell you 1589 01:26:35,280 --> 01:26:38,280 Speaker 7: about his, Junior can tell you about his, All of 1590 01:26:38,400 --> 01:26:44,080 Speaker 7: us can tell you about health issues. It's sometimes, you know, 1591 01:26:44,439 --> 01:26:46,880 Speaker 7: it just it's a part of it. I don't know 1592 01:26:47,000 --> 01:26:49,600 Speaker 7: how to explain it now. You don't want to sacrifice 1593 01:26:49,720 --> 01:26:55,960 Speaker 7: one for the other, but sometimes it's unavoidable because there 1594 01:26:56,120 --> 01:26:58,720 Speaker 7: is a cost, and a lot of times you end up. 1595 01:26:59,240 --> 01:27:01,960 Speaker 7: Sometimes you have health issues because you just don't know 1596 01:27:02,120 --> 01:27:05,519 Speaker 7: any better, you know. And that's why knowledge is so important, 1597 01:27:05,520 --> 01:27:07,639 Speaker 7: because when you know better, you can do better. 1598 01:27:08,040 --> 01:27:08,200 Speaker 2: You know. 1599 01:27:08,360 --> 01:27:11,519 Speaker 7: And had I known a long long time ago that 1600 01:27:11,800 --> 01:27:14,320 Speaker 7: everything I put into my body was gonna have an 1601 01:27:14,320 --> 01:27:16,720 Speaker 7: effect on me, I would have made some changes a 1602 01:27:16,840 --> 01:27:20,800 Speaker 7: long long time ago. I just really started understanding this 1603 01:27:20,960 --> 01:27:24,320 Speaker 7: in the last fifteen twenty years of my life. You know, 1604 01:27:24,640 --> 01:27:28,000 Speaker 7: the how important eating the right thing is, how important 1605 01:27:28,040 --> 01:27:31,040 Speaker 7: it is to take supplements, how important it is to 1606 01:27:31,120 --> 01:27:34,760 Speaker 7: take regular visits to your doctor. And as black men, 1607 01:27:35,240 --> 01:27:38,320 Speaker 7: I'm talking especially to black men, we find it so 1608 01:27:38,600 --> 01:27:40,960 Speaker 7: hard to go to these doctors. I got a partner 1609 01:27:41,120 --> 01:27:44,920 Speaker 7: right now, man that's trying to get out the hospital 1610 01:27:45,040 --> 01:27:47,800 Speaker 7: right now because he ain't been to the doctor in 1611 01:27:48,280 --> 01:27:48,960 Speaker 7: eight years. 1612 01:27:51,000 --> 01:27:53,679 Speaker 2: But he's seventy and it ain't been to the doctor 1613 01:27:53,720 --> 01:27:57,919 Speaker 2: in eight years. We can't do that because we've been grinding. 1614 01:27:58,080 --> 01:28:01,519 Speaker 2: And I understood something about grind ending recently. When you're grinding, 1615 01:28:01,640 --> 01:28:05,920 Speaker 2: grinding means actually to wear down. But in order to 1616 01:28:06,040 --> 01:28:09,000 Speaker 2: have something, you got to get in the wear down process, 1617 01:28:09,280 --> 01:28:11,439 Speaker 2: and the thing you end up wearing down is your body. 1618 01:28:12,240 --> 01:28:15,120 Speaker 2: Now I'm not saying you should exchange your health for wealth. 1619 01:28:15,240 --> 01:28:18,120 Speaker 2: I wish that wasn't the cost, but oftentimes that's the 1620 01:28:18,240 --> 01:28:20,400 Speaker 2: cost factor, and people who. 1621 01:28:20,320 --> 01:28:22,720 Speaker 7: Don't want it, you don't have to do it. But 1622 01:28:22,880 --> 01:28:26,400 Speaker 7: then there's a cost with being poor. To see, there's 1623 01:28:26,439 --> 01:28:29,240 Speaker 7: a cost factor when you decide not to be anything. 1624 01:28:29,560 --> 01:28:32,200 Speaker 7: It's a cost factor when you decide I'm just gonna 1625 01:28:33,120 --> 01:28:34,880 Speaker 7: ride it out, I'm just gonna. 1626 01:28:34,680 --> 01:28:35,200 Speaker 2: Mail it in. 1627 01:28:35,680 --> 01:28:39,960 Speaker 7: There's a cost factor for that. I notice when old 1628 01:28:40,120 --> 01:28:43,800 Speaker 7: people who've been working their whole life finally retire and 1629 01:28:43,880 --> 01:28:46,400 Speaker 7: they don't and they able to stop being active. I 1630 01:28:46,560 --> 01:28:53,880 Speaker 7: watch them wear down, dissipate, just wither away because that work, 1631 01:28:55,040 --> 01:28:57,519 Speaker 7: that thing called the grind of getting up going to 1632 01:28:57,560 --> 01:29:00,120 Speaker 7: work every day. It gave them something to live or 1633 01:29:00,280 --> 01:29:03,200 Speaker 7: gave them something to do and made them active. It's 1634 01:29:03,360 --> 01:29:06,519 Speaker 7: just a cost, man, But you have to decide which 1635 01:29:06,600 --> 01:29:08,760 Speaker 7: one of the costs you want to pay. Do you 1636 01:29:08,840 --> 01:29:11,560 Speaker 7: want to pay the cost of being successful, or do 1637 01:29:11,680 --> 01:29:13,320 Speaker 7: you want to be the cost you want to pay 1638 01:29:13,400 --> 01:29:16,240 Speaker 7: the cost of being poor. Now, when I say poor, 1639 01:29:16,280 --> 01:29:18,720 Speaker 7: I mean really poor. I don't mean like if you 1640 01:29:18,800 --> 01:29:20,600 Speaker 7: make a hundred thousand dollars. I ain't talking about like 1641 01:29:20,640 --> 01:29:22,640 Speaker 7: that you're doing great, man, your life is good. I 1642 01:29:22,680 --> 01:29:25,280 Speaker 7: think people are that make a hundred thousand dollars doing 1643 01:29:25,360 --> 01:29:27,200 Speaker 7: fine with your life. That's not what I'm saying, so 1644 01:29:27,280 --> 01:29:32,000 Speaker 7: please don't misunderstand me. I'm talking about when you don't 1645 01:29:32,120 --> 01:29:35,920 Speaker 7: have enough to eat, you can't put a roof over 1646 01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:39,880 Speaker 7: your family's head, you can't get them to the store. 1647 01:29:40,200 --> 01:29:43,000 Speaker 2: And then you got to do more. Man, you got 1648 01:29:43,120 --> 01:29:45,720 Speaker 2: to do more. But it's a cost for it, one 1649 01:29:45,760 --> 01:29:46,439 Speaker 2: way or the other. 1650 01:29:48,360 --> 01:29:52,280 Speaker 7: I suggest, though, if I look back on it all, 1651 01:29:53,280 --> 01:29:55,599 Speaker 7: you have to find a way to create a balance. 1652 01:29:56,760 --> 01:30:00,960 Speaker 7: But the balance ain't gonna be even even. It's just 1653 01:30:01,120 --> 01:30:03,880 Speaker 7: gotta be. You got to grind, you got to rest, 1654 01:30:04,280 --> 01:30:07,040 Speaker 7: You got to grind, You got to rest. You got 1655 01:30:07,080 --> 01:30:14,040 Speaker 7: to grind, you got to rest. If you just grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, 1656 01:30:14,520 --> 01:30:17,559 Speaker 7: then try to rest, the cost factors gonna be greater. 1657 01:30:18,439 --> 01:30:21,839 Speaker 7: So find the balance for yourself. I can't tell anybody 1658 01:30:21,920 --> 01:30:25,680 Speaker 7: what that is. But there is a cost to being successful, 1659 01:30:26,720 --> 01:30:30,080 Speaker 7: but there is a cost to not being successful, and 1660 01:30:30,240 --> 01:30:32,360 Speaker 7: you have to decide which one of the costs you 1661 01:30:32,520 --> 01:30:33,080 Speaker 7: have to pay. 1662 01:30:33,479 --> 01:30:34,679 Speaker 2: Now that's just real talk. 1663 01:30:35,120 --> 01:30:37,479 Speaker 7: You can say it ain't so, but yes, it is 1664 01:30:38,680 --> 01:30:41,320 Speaker 7: not being able to provide for your family. That's a 1665 01:30:41,479 --> 01:30:45,640 Speaker 7: cost being able to provide for your family. There is 1666 01:30:45,720 --> 01:30:49,040 Speaker 7: a cost. You have to decide which cost you're willing 1667 01:30:49,120 --> 01:30:51,719 Speaker 7: to pay and then find a balance. 1668 01:30:52,560 --> 01:30:53,680 Speaker 2: That's what I have to go. 1669 01:30:54,439 --> 01:30:56,439 Speaker 7: So those are my clothes remarks. That's it for today. 1670 01:30:56,479 --> 01:30:59,719 Speaker 7: Hey listen, y'all, have a great day. Talk to God today, 1671 01:31:00,040 --> 01:31:02,240 Speaker 7: out to hear Fred. This is Steve Harvey to show this. 1672 01:31:02,240 --> 01:31:02,680 Speaker 2: How we do it. 1673 01:31:02,960 --> 01:31:06,080 Speaker 1: Void were prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at 1674 01:31:06,200 --> 01:31:10,280 Speaker 1: least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, 1675 01:31:10,400 --> 01:31:14,880 Speaker 1: visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening Steve Harvey 1676 01:31:14,960 --> 01:31:15,519 Speaker 1: Morning Show.