Speaker 1: Second date of to day. If a date doesn't go
Speaker 1: well and you know that it's your own fault, that's tough,
Speaker 1: but it's easier to live with because you can own
Speaker 1: it and learn from your mistakes. Yeah. Absolutely, that's a
Speaker 1: very progressive would think of it. Yeah, it's much worse though,
Speaker 1: when a date goes south because of something or someone
Speaker 1: that's totally out of your control. It's frustrating. And that's
Speaker 1: what one of our listeners, Laana said in her email.
Speaker 1: She also said she's a big fan of the show.
Speaker 1: Oh cool, she doesn't miss a day. So Laana, first
Speaker 1: of all, thank you for suff listening, and tell us
Speaker 1: about the guy that you went out with what's his name?
Speaker 1: First of all, I just have to say, Hi, I'm
Speaker 1: excited you finally get your moment on the show. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that it has to deal with a bad date,
Speaker 1: but we're glad you're here. Yeah, so let's get into
Speaker 1: your date. Tell us about the guy that you went
Speaker 1: out with. What's his name? So this guy's names Marcus.
Speaker 1: How did you meet Marcus? We met him Bumble and yeah,
Speaker 1: he just seemed like really relaxed and fun like he
Speaker 1: had some photos of him like doing things other than
Speaker 1: just drinking, which is nice. What other things are there?
Speaker 1: He had actually a photo of him doing like drag racing.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, is that just a hobby or or
Speaker 1: you is that like a pretend photo. He's like, no,
Speaker 1: I swear I'm in that car right there. You just
Speaker 1: can't see me. So what did you and Marcus do
Speaker 1: for your date? I thought this was such a cute idea.
Speaker 1: He suggested that we go have a little picnic in
Speaker 1: the park. Oh that's always fun. Yeah, so sweet low presh.
Speaker 1: And so we got there and he had this like
Speaker 1: giant picnic basket. Oh good man. Yeah, I mean, you
Speaker 1: never know if you're just showing up to a park
Speaker 1: and he's got some subway ready for you, or if
Speaker 1: he yeah right, but or if he actually went the
Speaker 1: extra mile and put together like some goods. Well, actually,
Speaker 1: he opens up the picnic basket and he pulls out
Speaker 1: bags of KFC oh clo. I mean, but that's delicious.
Speaker 1: I say that's better. I think it'd be weird if
Speaker 1: he had a homemade sandwiches. I don't know. Oh, I
Speaker 1: was a guy read flag. I was really hoping for
Speaker 1: a circuity board or something. For her. What did you think, Lana?
Speaker 1: Was the KFC a good move or a bad one? Well? Actually,
Speaker 1: I started laughing hysterically because on my profile I say
Speaker 1: that I love KFC attention to details. Nicely done, sir,
Speaker 1: you can read. I mean, that's actually a lot of points.
Speaker 1: I mean, don't you say a lot of Like I
Speaker 1: remember when I met my husband, he showed up with
Speaker 1: my coffee order and I just thought it was so sweet,
Speaker 1: like so thoughtful, just those little things. Okay, enough about
Speaker 1: Brooks boring dating, Like, let's get back to Lana. Keep
Speaker 1: us going with Marcus. What happened next? Yeah, so you know,
Speaker 1: we had a great time. We were like eating our
Speaker 1: fried chicken and hanging out, and then I started getting
Speaker 1: these like furious texts and phone calls from my sister,
Speaker 1: which I tried to ignore for a while, but then
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, maybe there's an emergency, Like
Speaker 1: maybe she got to a car accident. What was going on?
Speaker 1: She was mad at me because I borrowed one of
Speaker 1: her outfits. I borrowed the like cant suit thing. It's
Speaker 1: like a jumper kind It's okay, I mean, but that
Speaker 1: didn't really affect your date at all. Did it. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I've lived with ten sisters and they get nastier.
Speaker 1: Did you guys get into a yelling match over the
Speaker 1: phone right in front of him? No, I mean I
Speaker 1: like walked away, and I mean I don't know exactly
Speaker 1: if you heard, but like I'm not shy, Like I'm
Speaker 1: pretty expressive and I cross me moving my hands around,
Speaker 1: Like when I was talking to her, marks like, why
Speaker 1: did you just spit on your phone? I mean, I
Speaker 1: think that that's pretty simpl though. Didn't you just go
Speaker 1: back and tell him like, oh my god, my dumb
Speaker 1: little sister called me because she's mad I borrowed her clothes.
Speaker 1: Like don't you think that that would be He's probably
Speaker 1: gonna get a glimpse of what the No, you don't
Speaker 1: think so. I think that it's like kind of funny.
Speaker 1: That would be a red flag to me. I'd be like, oh, chefs,
Speaker 1: he doesn't get along even with her own family. That's
Speaker 1: not good. Was what was his attitude like when you
Speaker 1: got back after talking with your sister? Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: he seems like a little bit awkward. So I was like,
Speaker 1: why don't we just go over there to the little
Speaker 1: playground area and we'll go swinging swings and kind of
Speaker 1: lighten things up a little bit. How much you were
Speaker 1: moving your hands inflatable Carson. I think it depends on
Speaker 1: if this guy has a sibling or not, because if
Speaker 1: you have a sibling, you can understand that relationship like that,
Speaker 1: that tension is okay, that you still love the person.
Speaker 1: That that's just sometimes how you communicate just an outfit
Speaker 1: you love. Yeah, well maybe we'll be maybe we'll be
Speaker 1: able to get a gauge about how he was feeling
Speaker 1: based on how the date ended. How did that go? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was fine, Like we didn't kiss or anything, which
Speaker 1: would have been kind of weird in the middle of
Speaker 1: the park, but he did hug me, and you know,
Speaker 1: he had go to his buddy's birthday party and I
Speaker 1: had a dinner to go, so we couldn't like linger
Speaker 1: very long. But I thought we had a great time,
Speaker 1: and in like the grand scheme of things, I actually
Speaker 1: would be open to a relationship with this guy, Like
Speaker 1: he seems like definitely marriage materials. Oh my goodness, Oh,
Speaker 1: your sister isn't so much trouble. She screwed this up
Speaker 1: for you. All right. Well, let's see if the sister
Speaker 1: drama continues. We'll play a song, we'll come back, We'll
Speaker 1: call Marcus for you and try and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. Okay, yeah, you guys are awesome. Thank you
Speaker 1: so much. All right, hold on, you're in the middle
Speaker 1: of a second date update update. We're gonna find out
Speaker 1: how the couple is doing right after you here. Part two.
Speaker 1: Sibling arguments don't end with childhood. They continue well into adulthood,
Speaker 1: and today one of our listeners, Lana, is tattling on
Speaker 1: her younger sister, saying, Mom, Lisa's ruining my date again
Speaker 1: because she recently had a picnic in the park with
Speaker 1: a guy named Marcus. While it was happening, her sister
Speaker 1: kept spamming her phone accusing her of borrowing an outfit
Speaker 1: without permission. Yeah, basically a classy felony. So eventually Lana
Speaker 1: had to just take a moment to answer a call,
Speaker 1: yell at her cis and put her in her place.
Speaker 1: But now she's worried that even though the rest of
Speaker 1: the date went well, that may have been a turn
Speaker 1: off for Marcus. Now, Lana, we didn't ask you, have
Speaker 1: you been talking very much with Marcus after the date
Speaker 1: or not at all like, is he ghosting you completely? No,
Speaker 1: he hasn't ghosted me completely, Like if I texted him,
Speaker 1: he'll text me back, but he hasn't asked me. I'm
Speaker 1: another date and that was like a week and a
Speaker 1: half ago that we went out. But it's a good
Speaker 1: sign that he's still at least keeping in touch, maybe
Speaker 1: just replying to be nice maybe, or maybe he's just
Speaker 1: waiting for you to ask him on a date, like
Speaker 1: women can do that too. He's the one that made
Speaker 1: the first move with the KFC in the park. Maybe
Speaker 1: it's your turn. That's what we're doing right now. But
Speaker 1: she could have asked before us, That's all I'm saying. Oh, okay,
Speaker 1: you know we've got a team around her. But it's
Speaker 1: all right. Yeah, I guess I could have. But I
Speaker 1: don't know. I like it when the guy like makes
Speaker 1: the ever, you know, I don't want to just be
Speaker 1: like shaping after some guy. I bet your sister would
Speaker 1: have asked the guy out without having to call a
Speaker 1: radio station. You did not just say that I went there.
Speaker 1: I went there a girlfriend girlfriend I do. I have
Speaker 1: a younger sister. We haven't spoken in years. She also
Speaker 1: borrowed one of your out she did unforgivable. Now that
Speaker 1: I'm all riled up, let's give Marcus a call. We'll
Speaker 1: try and get your second date update. You ready, Lana? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm ready. Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey, I'm looking
Speaker 1: for Marcus. Who is this? Hey, my name's Jeffrey from
Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm not interested. No, no, no, no. This isn't like
Speaker 1: an advertisement or anything. We're doing a segment on a
Speaker 1: show called a second Date Update? Am I in the
Speaker 1: radio right now? Yeah? Maybe? Is that? Okay? It's all
Speaker 1: just for fun. It's a positive things we have to
Speaker 1: tell you. Okay. The reason why we're calling you is
Speaker 1: because you recently went out with a woman who had
Speaker 1: a great time with you, but she's confused after your date.
Speaker 1: Why you're not reaching out to ask her out again?
Speaker 1: Is her name? Lana? It is? You know who we're
Speaker 1: talking about. I heard you bush right now. You're giggling
Speaker 1: as we're mentioning her. I mean that sounds like a
Speaker 1: good thing. Yeah, no, I she's great. I like her
Speaker 1: a lot. All right, Um, I just don't know if
Speaker 1: it's the best match. What makes you say that? Did
Speaker 1: she tell you. We went out, We went out one. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she told us all about your picnic in the park
Speaker 1: date and how thoughtful you were that you got KFC
Speaker 1: because on her bio it said how much she loved
Speaker 1: of KFC. I would say, good move on your part, sir, Sure,
Speaker 1: thank you. She thought you were very thoughtful and very
Speaker 1: funny and she had a great time with you. So
Speaker 1: she's really hoping to see you again and doesn't understand
Speaker 1: why you haven't been in communication. Yeah. So did she
Speaker 1: mention she has a sister? Yeah she did. Didn't hear that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's embarrassed. Yeah, she knows that. It kind of got
Speaker 1: out of hand and she went off to yell at
Speaker 1: her sister a little bit because of some sibling drama.
Speaker 1: But no, no, it's it's not. I totally get family drama.
Speaker 1: I mean, I you know my siblings. Did I fight too?
Speaker 1: It wasn't that. Okay. Did she mention her sister. She
Speaker 1: calls her like her little sister. But they're twins. Oh,
Speaker 1: they're twins, So she's like two minutes littler than she
Speaker 1: is or something like that. Like twins like to do
Speaker 1: you that? Yeah, I guess twins do that? Okay, why
Speaker 1: is that a problem. The last person I dated was
Speaker 1: also a twin. Whoa, what are the Oh well, are
Speaker 1: you worried that it's Launa's sister? No? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: It's just like, so this last person I dated, I
Speaker 1: dated her for a while and oh, this is embarrassing.
Speaker 1: All Right, I'm just gonna say it. Okay, when I
Speaker 1: met this woman that I was seeing, when I met
Speaker 1: her twin, I found myself more attracted to her than
Speaker 1: the person that I was actually dating. Were they were
Speaker 1: they identical twins? Yeah, so some may have a personality
Speaker 1: trait that you are more attracted to you than the
Speaker 1: look alike. So you're like, hey, I want that one.
Speaker 1: It's like, one instance, what does that have to do
Speaker 1: with Laana? That has nothing to do with Launa exactly.
Speaker 1: I just have this fear that, like maybe I have
Speaker 1: some weird thing inside me. Were like, when there's a twin,
Speaker 1: I end up wanting to be with the one that
Speaker 1: I'm not with, and I felt like I might or
Speaker 1: I might want to and that's why it ended. And
Speaker 1: I just don't want to go through that again. Okay,
Speaker 1: you following You're worried that if you end up dating Laana,
Speaker 1: you'll eventually meet her sister and be more attracted to
Speaker 1: her sister. Yeah, because of one experience you had with
Speaker 1: identical twins. I mean that's a big stretch, man, It's
Speaker 1: a big leap. I mean, this is something that we
Speaker 1: definitely need to talk to Laana about. I guess I should,
Speaker 1: but I don't even know how I'd like even bring
Speaker 1: it up with her. So weird. Yeah, that would that
Speaker 1: would be it is. The good news is you already
Speaker 1: kind of did because Lana's been on the other line
Speaker 1: listening and she wants to talk to you. Oh my god, no, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: la Marcus, that is the most ridiculous thing I have
Speaker 1: ever heard. You had commitment issues, buddy, Like that's the
Speaker 1: only reason that you would suddenly be attracted to another woman.
Speaker 1: There are a lot of attractive women out there. Oh well,
Speaker 1: first of all, him, thank you for setting this up.
Speaker 1: That's cool. Yeah. Well, clearly you don't have the boss
Speaker 1: to talk to me about this. You kuld have just
Speaker 1: said something like as a joke and it would have
Speaker 1: been up. Like, I'm not worried. I'm trying to just
Speaker 1: not do anything bad. I'm not. I didn't. Oh, I've
Speaker 1: heard just such a little whiny Oh my god, your sister.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, Marcus, what if Launa is the
Speaker 1: hotter of the two sisters and you already went out
Speaker 1: with her? I mean, okay, so you missed out. Bro,
Speaker 1: you're of the two identical twins. Are you mad? Then
Speaker 1: at his reasoning? Is what I'm getting at Launa. That
Speaker 1: is the most immature, stupidest think I've ever heard of,
Speaker 1: a reason that you don't want to go on another
Speaker 1: day because you think you're going to fall in love
Speaker 1: with my sister who you've never met. Right, they asked
Speaker 1: me the question. I was just being honest. I mean
Speaker 1: he did know. He did know it was weird, right,
Speaker 1: and he didn't know how to bring it up to you.
Speaker 1: And I mean, Marcus, you can kind of see how
Speaker 1: ridiculous that thought is. Yeah, but you couldn't understand how
Speaker 1: it's weird that I dated twins and now I'm with
Speaker 1: someone else who's twins. You can understand like that's weird too.
Speaker 1: In a way, he's looking out for you, Laana, like
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to accidentally break your heart. Yeah, oh please,
Speaker 1: you know what he is looking out for me by
Speaker 1: not texting me back is clearly he's a mess and
Speaker 1: I don't need to get involved with that. Well, no,
Speaker 1: don't write him off yet. There has to be a
Speaker 1: way that we can find out once and for all
Speaker 1: whether or not he will be attracted to your sister.
Speaker 1: Maybe we can do some sort of blind test, ye
Speaker 1: where you're going with you and your sister both meet
Speaker 1: him at the same time. He takes the blindfold off
Speaker 1: and he has to choose which one is Laana. That
Speaker 1: sounds like the worst idea for la history of ideas?
Speaker 1: Is it the most romantic move? That is terrible? What
Speaker 1: if he choose his rights? Yeah, Laana, No, I bet
Speaker 1: your sister would be up for you. I told you, Jeff,
Speaker 1: don't go there. Okay, so I won't go there, But
Speaker 1: how about I go here? Where I ask Marcus, would
Speaker 1: you like to go out on another date with Laana?
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. Now that we've talked about it,
Speaker 1: I do think you're right. I'm probably silly, and I
Speaker 1: really I would love to go on a second date
Speaker 1: with you. And I I'm sorry I was being weird.
Speaker 1: I think I was just caught up guard and I
Speaker 1: didn't want to be a jerk. Why are you. Jeffrey's
Speaker 1: doing the heart symbol with his has right now. It's
Speaker 1: really weird. It's nice. What I mean, I'm feeling the
Speaker 1: love coming through from Marcus. How about you, Lana? What
Speaker 1: do you say? Give him one more shot? You did
Speaker 1: really like him, Lana? I mean, and he's a person
Speaker 1: who can admit when he's an idiot. I mean, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: so he's sweet, but like not if we go out again,
Speaker 1: I'm just going to be worrying the whole time that
Speaker 1: when he meets my sister he's gonna want to date her. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean that's you also jump into a conclusion. Just
Speaker 1: make sure that they never meet. Yeah, problem solved. So
Speaker 1: what do you say we'll pay for it, KFC. He
Speaker 1: might have to do something nicer than KFC this time.
Speaker 1: I promise, I promise I will. All right, right, congratulate
Speaker 1: Laitions you two successful second date update. Thanks guys, and
Speaker 1: I promise if I meet your sister, I won't feel
Speaker 1: anything such a charmer broke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: So that was a second date from a couple months ago,
Speaker 1: and we asked Laana and Marcus to come back onto
Speaker 1: the show and give us an update. On where they're at. Unfortunately,
Speaker 1: Lana's the only one who responded, Oh and she's on
Speaker 1: the line with us, Lana, welcome back. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: hey guys, how are you okay? You know, sometimes a
Speaker 1: second date doesn't turn into a third or a force
Speaker 1: Well I'm guessing. Well we did actually have a third
Speaker 1: and fourth date. Oh yeah, yeah, like a bunch of
Speaker 1: more dates and they were really good. Oh oh oh,
Speaker 1: so are you one of those couples where he's like, honey,
Speaker 1: I don't want to do this, you just go on
Speaker 1: the r Yeah, what happened? Sounds like there's a butt coming. Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a big butt. What happened? Well, okay, so I
Speaker 1: took him to a house party. Yeah, and surprise, surprise,
Speaker 1: my sister was there. Oh please don't tell me. It's
Speaker 1: what he thought was going to happen, where he like,
Speaker 1: dug your sister. Well, in the back of my mind,
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I know what he said. I
Speaker 1: have to just keep him apart. They must not be
Speaker 1: alone together. You're like a chaperone at a middle school dance, like, hey,
Speaker 1: balloon's length in between. Yeah, and and nothing happened. I
Speaker 1: walked my sister out, I said goodbye, and then I
Speaker 1: go back inside and I find him in a room
Speaker 1: with my best friend making out. Oh you are you serious?
Speaker 1: I am more upset about your best friend. I mean,
Speaker 1: she was plastered, like she probably would have made out
Speaker 1: with a wall. But I learned my lesson. If a
Speaker 1: guy is worried about cheating or doing some sketchy behavior
Speaker 1: and he admits that to you, like, listen to him
Speaker 1: the first time, that's the real lesson here. All right,
Speaker 1: we appreciate the update, Lna. I'm sorry it turned out
Speaker 1: the way it did. Good luck and love Lana. Yeah,
Speaker 1: thanks for help. I appreciate you. Guys trying broke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning,