WEBVTT - The Truth About Your Fat - Part 1 (Outweigh)

0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.560
<v Speaker 1>I won't let my body. I'll be outwait everything that

0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:07.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm made done. Won't spend my life trying to change.

0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:13.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm learning love who I am again, strong, I feel free,

0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:15.880
<v Speaker 1>I know every part of me.

0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:18.880
<v Speaker 2>It's beautiful.

0:00:19.520 --> 0:00:24.520
<v Speaker 1>And that will always out way if you feel it.

0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:27.960
<v Speaker 1>But you all, she'll some love to the h I

0:00:28.000 --> 0:00:33.400
<v Speaker 1>get that sage day and did you and die out way.

0:00:35.200 --> 0:00:36.640
<v Speaker 2>Happy Saturday, outweigh.

0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:40.279
<v Speaker 3>It's leanne here for a solo episode, or actually it's

0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:44.080
<v Speaker 3>an entire series, and it's called The Truth About Your Fat.

0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:47.600
<v Speaker 3>Now you might be wondering what is she talking about?

0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:51.240
<v Speaker 3>And why are we talking about fat? But just hear

0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:55.440
<v Speaker 3>me out. So nowadays fat has a bad rap. We

0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:58.480
<v Speaker 3>hate it, we fear it, we name it, we blame it,

0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:01.960
<v Speaker 3>we shame it. Some people will do whatever they can

0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:06.360
<v Speaker 3>to destroy and eliminate its wrath from their lives. But

0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:09.760
<v Speaker 3>whoever said that fat was ugly or something to be

0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:13.600
<v Speaker 3>ashamed of? And whoever said that fat was a bad thing?

0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:17.040
<v Speaker 3>And whoever said that fat was anything other.

0:01:16.880 --> 0:01:18.600
<v Speaker 2>Than well fat?

0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:22.920
<v Speaker 3>But since it is such a prevalent enemy in today's world,

0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:26.039
<v Speaker 3>and yes I'm putting enemy in air quotes, but since

0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:29.480
<v Speaker 3>it's not going away anytime soon, we might as well

0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:32.399
<v Speaker 3>learn about it and hear about it and learn about

0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:33.080
<v Speaker 3>its properties.

0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:33.280
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:36.160
<v Speaker 3>In fact, if all we do is hate on fat

0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:39.039
<v Speaker 3>and wish it away, we might miss out on its

0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:45.560
<v Speaker 3>useful and downright cool characteristics. There's physiological, neurological, and psychological

0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:49.120
<v Speaker 3>components of fat, but no one is talking about that

0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:52.960
<v Speaker 3>side of things. And after all, it is this metabolically

0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:57.080
<v Speaker 3>active substance that's part of our bodies, right, But most

0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:00.440
<v Speaker 3>women don't know about that side of it, and when

0:02:00.440 --> 0:02:03.600
<v Speaker 3>you think about it, we fear what we don't know. So,

0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:06.640
<v Speaker 3>for example, I used to be super scared of going

0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:10.160
<v Speaker 3>into the ocean. So besides the whole story that I had,

0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:12.560
<v Speaker 3>you know, that my body was not meant to be

0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:15.000
<v Speaker 3>seen in a bathing suit, and that my you know,

0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:16.880
<v Speaker 3>it was a lot of my body image stuff really

0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:19.640
<v Speaker 3>that contributed to that story of not going into the ocean.

0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:22.600
<v Speaker 3>But I also had a story that I was downright

0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:23.840
<v Speaker 3>afraid of the ocean.

0:02:24.440 --> 0:02:26.600
<v Speaker 2>You know, things biting me or attacking.

0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:29.320
<v Speaker 3>Me, or you know, sharks with laser beams and imaginary

0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:33.600
<v Speaker 3>alligators in my mind most likely, but irrational fears, nonetheless,

0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:36.160
<v Speaker 3>because none of the things I was afraid of actually

0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:39.760
<v Speaker 3>happened to me, but in my mind it felt like

0:02:39.880 --> 0:02:43.080
<v Speaker 3>they had. And like we've talked about before, your nervous

0:02:43.080 --> 0:02:45.880
<v Speaker 3>system can't tell the difference between a real or an

0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:49.120
<v Speaker 3>imagined experience. So one day a good friend of mine

0:02:49.160 --> 0:02:51.720
<v Speaker 3>was like, hey, do you want to get over this fear?

0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:55.079
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, yes, please, I mean I really

0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:57.960
<v Speaker 3>wanted to. So he walked me out into the water,

0:02:58.120 --> 0:03:01.040
<v Speaker 3>and I inevitably shrieked like this little girl every time

0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:03.480
<v Speaker 3>seaweed grazed my feet, and you know, just further and

0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:04.320
<v Speaker 3>grain my fears.

0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:08.040
<v Speaker 2>So here's what he did. He picked up some seaweed.

0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:09.919
<v Speaker 3>And he had me look at it, and he had

0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:12.320
<v Speaker 3>me hold it and touch it and see it and

0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:15.640
<v Speaker 3>feel and experience that it wasn't going to hurt me,

0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:19.400
<v Speaker 3>but also to show my logical brain that this is

0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:22.320
<v Speaker 3>what was grazing my feet and it wasn't a shark.

0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:24.400
<v Speaker 3>And so as soon as I saw it and I

0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:26.880
<v Speaker 3>faced it head on and I touched it, I was

0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:29.920
<v Speaker 3>able to go in the ocean and now actually get

0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:33.000
<v Speaker 3>in the water after thirty years of not. So I

0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:35.600
<v Speaker 3>share this with you just to impress upon you that

0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:38.960
<v Speaker 3>if you do have this kind of dysmorphic relationship with

0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:40.120
<v Speaker 3>your body fat.

0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:43.160
<v Speaker 2>As in, you know, the subcutaneous.

0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:45.160
<v Speaker 3>Fat on your body and not nutritional fat, which is

0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:47.800
<v Speaker 3>another topic on its own. I'm talking about the fat

0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:50.880
<v Speaker 3>on your body. That's why I urge you to actually

0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:53.480
<v Speaker 3>look at it and learn about it and discover what

0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:56.600
<v Speaker 3>it is and really what it's not, and that way

0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:59.920
<v Speaker 3>you can dispel the lies and actually learn what.

0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:01.520
<v Speaker 2>It takes to shift it if you want.

0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:04.280
<v Speaker 3>To do that, both in your mind and on your body,

0:04:04.320 --> 0:04:07.000
<v Speaker 3>because I promise you it's way more than an eat

0:04:07.080 --> 0:04:09.720
<v Speaker 3>less move more conversation, like way way more.

0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:12.480
<v Speaker 2>But it's also such a confusing topic.

0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:14.840
<v Speaker 3>I mean, if you ask one hundred different people what

0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:17.240
<v Speaker 3>the best way to you know, lose fat or lose

0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:19.359
<v Speaker 3>weight is, you're going to get a hundred different answers,

0:04:19.800 --> 0:04:22.240
<v Speaker 3>and most of them will definitely, you know, take you

0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:24.919
<v Speaker 3>down that road of eat less move more, which a

0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:27.680
<v Speaker 3>lot of times perpetuates the struggles with disordered eating and

0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:29.520
<v Speaker 3>body dysmorphy and all of that if you don't have

0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:32.600
<v Speaker 3>a healthy relationship with food. But they'll most likely take

0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:34.279
<v Speaker 3>you down one of the avenues that you know, the

0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:37.719
<v Speaker 3>fitness industry created, but in my opinion, that's old school

0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:40.800
<v Speaker 3>thinking and if you're anything like me again, that's what

0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:43.240
<v Speaker 3>created a lot of my own disordered patterns in the

0:04:43.279 --> 0:04:43.839
<v Speaker 3>first place.

0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:46.400
<v Speaker 2>Because what you eat and how you move is is.

0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:49.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's part of the equation, but it doesn't cover

0:04:49.960 --> 0:04:52.520
<v Speaker 3>the whole picture. And so when it comes to your

0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:55.560
<v Speaker 3>body and your health and yes, you're fat, there is

0:04:55.600 --> 0:04:59.560
<v Speaker 3>a cause and then there are its effects. Okay, something's

0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:03.600
<v Speaker 3>going on upstream, and then there's a result taking place downstream.

0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:06.840
<v Speaker 3>And I truly believe, and science will back me up

0:05:07.000 --> 0:05:11.480
<v Speaker 3>that your health, body and emotional struggles are simply effects

0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:14.480
<v Speaker 3>of something going on higher up in your brain.

0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:15.360
<v Speaker 2>And nervous system. Right.

0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:17.680
<v Speaker 3>And when I talk about nervous system, what I really

0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:21.679
<v Speaker 3>mean is that system of systems that dictates everything. Okay,

0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:24.800
<v Speaker 3>And so in this series specifically, we're going to talk

0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.719
<v Speaker 3>about a subject matter that really does baffle most women

0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:31.560
<v Speaker 3>and causes more shame and sadness than any topic I've

0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:35.000
<v Speaker 3>ever encountered, and it's your fat. We're going to talk

0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:37.080
<v Speaker 3>about your fat. Let's get to the bottom of this

0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:40.560
<v Speaker 3>conundrum and just distill the facts, Okay, because all of

0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:44.320
<v Speaker 3>the conventional approaches are missing out on the most important

0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:46.240
<v Speaker 3>factor like what is fat?

0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:46.560
<v Speaker 1>Right?

0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:49.240
<v Speaker 3>What kind of fat is it? And you'll hear what

0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:50.839
<v Speaker 3>you'll know what I mean, you know when we go

0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:52.360
<v Speaker 3>through this series, and.

0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:54.400
<v Speaker 2>Why is it there? How did it get there? And

0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:56.480
<v Speaker 2>is it serving a purpose? Right?

0:05:56.560 --> 0:05:59.840
<v Speaker 3>Because sometimes on a brain and nervous system level, it's

0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:03.640
<v Speaker 3>actually serving a purpose, which we'll talk about, and most importantly,

0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:06.400
<v Speaker 3>like what is keeping it from going away? If it's

0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:09.280
<v Speaker 3>causing something negative like maybe it's causing too much stress

0:06:09.320 --> 0:06:12.279
<v Speaker 3>on your joints, or maybe it is restricting your muscles,

0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:15.120
<v Speaker 3>or maybe it's keeping you in an unhealthy state. Right,

0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:19.599
<v Speaker 3>And so that is a three dimensional conversation and a

0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:23.440
<v Speaker 3>three dimensional you know question, because it's not just a

0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:26.640
<v Speaker 3>body thing, and it's not just a mind thing, and

0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:29.560
<v Speaker 3>it's not just a brain thing. It's really all three

0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:32.479
<v Speaker 3>And if we don't get all of your three dimensional

0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:35.279
<v Speaker 3>self playing on the same team, everything that you do

0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:39.520
<v Speaker 3>to influence your situation will probably just create temporary change.

0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:40.880
<v Speaker 2>And so you might be able to.

0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:43.520
<v Speaker 3>Motivate yourself or willpower your way there and you'll see

0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:46.320
<v Speaker 3>some temporary results, but you won't be able to create

0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.839
<v Speaker 3>those permanent changes that you desire until you address the

0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:53.000
<v Speaker 3>cause of the problem and really create true freedom and

0:06:53.080 --> 0:06:55.240
<v Speaker 3>health for yourself, which which is really what you want.

0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:58.320
<v Speaker 3>And of course I mean that you know, holistically, three dimensionally,

0:06:58.320 --> 0:06:59.840
<v Speaker 3>and of course that's going to be relevant when we're

0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:02.479
<v Speaker 3>talk talking about your subcutaneous fat and as you'll learn,

0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:05.520
<v Speaker 3>fascia as well. And so you want to make sure

0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:08.839
<v Speaker 3>that you're addressing the actual wiring in your brain that's

0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:12.360
<v Speaker 3>keeping you stuck. Okay, And like I said before, and

0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:15.280
<v Speaker 3>what I've found throughout my own trials and successes on

0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:17.680
<v Speaker 3>my own body and the bodies of every single woman

0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:21.000
<v Speaker 3>I've ever worked with the problem, and the solution is

0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:23.800
<v Speaker 3>three dimensional, like we said, And until you address both

0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:28.480
<v Speaker 3>the internal and external environments that are influencing your physical, mental,

0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:33.640
<v Speaker 3>and emotional you know wiring, unfortunately, your fat isn't going

0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:36.440
<v Speaker 3>to go anywhere in the long run, right, So what

0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:39.040
<v Speaker 3>can be done about it? Well, we're going to open

0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:41.400
<v Speaker 3>up this can of worms on today's podcast and really

0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:44.680
<v Speaker 3>throughout this whole series. Okay, So this is part one,

0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:47.160
<v Speaker 3>and so on this episode, I'm going to enlighten you

0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:49.640
<v Speaker 3>on this magical tissue that we call fat and it's

0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:53.600
<v Speaker 3>really cool relative fascia and in future episodes. We're going

0:07:53.680 --> 0:07:55.920
<v Speaker 3>to be getting into some methods and philosophies that I

0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:58.800
<v Speaker 3>feel will change the game for you when it comes

0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:02.400
<v Speaker 3>to accepting your body and working with your body, and

0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:05.760
<v Speaker 3>taking this topic of fat on your body and flipping

0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:07.680
<v Speaker 3>it on its head so it doesn't own you or

0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:10.760
<v Speaker 3>define you. So let's just go ahead and dive on in.

0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:17.640
<v Speaker 3>So let's just go ahead and dive on in. But

0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:20.640
<v Speaker 3>before we dive into the meat of it, I want

0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:22.600
<v Speaker 3>to just give you a bit of context of how

0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:25.440
<v Speaker 3>my big fat story went down for me and how

0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:27.760
<v Speaker 3>I discovered everything I'm going to share with you, and

0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:30.480
<v Speaker 3>really why it's relevant to you, as in, you know

0:08:30.600 --> 0:08:33.680
<v Speaker 3>why you should care about your tissues, right and trust me,

0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:35.640
<v Speaker 3>I used to say the same thing. I didn't care

0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:37.760
<v Speaker 3>about any of this, right I was, you know, when

0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:39.280
<v Speaker 3>I was at the height of my disorder, I was

0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:42.920
<v Speaker 3>just chasing skinny or chasing lean or whatever. But after

0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:47.600
<v Speaker 3>my surgery, the craziest things started happening. I shared a

0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.320
<v Speaker 3>lot about what I'm about to talk about in the

0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:53.600
<v Speaker 3>Learn from My Mistakes episode here on Outweigh, which we

0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:56.440
<v Speaker 3>will link in the show notes. But because I wasn't

0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:58.880
<v Speaker 3>taking care of my body, and like I said, I

0:08:58.920 --> 0:09:01.360
<v Speaker 3>was just chasing skinny as I now call it, but

0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:04.560
<v Speaker 3>you know, I was ignoring my true health. Yes, I

0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:07.560
<v Speaker 3>had a lot of you know, psychological struggles with food

0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:10.600
<v Speaker 3>in my body, but I ended up needing major spine

0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:12.640
<v Speaker 3>surgery because I was super injured.

0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:14.440
<v Speaker 2>But I kept trying to work through it.

0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:17.920
<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, Like that's really how toxic my relationship with

0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:21.880
<v Speaker 3>my body, you know, really manifested because like I said,

0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:23.800
<v Speaker 3>I was really injured, but I was like, oh my gosh,

0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:25.600
<v Speaker 3>if I stopped moving, if I stopped working out, I'm

0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:27.120
<v Speaker 3>going to gain all this weight. Like it was a

0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:28.840
<v Speaker 3>give and take that I didn't know how to get

0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:31.800
<v Speaker 3>out of. But it's also what eventually woke me up

0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:34.280
<v Speaker 3>to address it. And so I really am grateful that

0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:37.480
<v Speaker 3>that happened. But just to give you some context, my

0:09:37.760 --> 0:09:40.560
<v Speaker 3>surgery was a success, but I had a lot of

0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:44.079
<v Speaker 3>neurological struggles after my surgery. And so the first thing

0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:47.280
<v Speaker 3>I noticed is I just felt different, like I went

0:09:47.360 --> 0:09:49.880
<v Speaker 3>under anesthesia and it's like the lights went out and

0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:51.480
<v Speaker 3>when the lights came back on, I just kind of

0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:54.920
<v Speaker 3>felt different. And I wasn't really always able to describe it,

0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:58.080
<v Speaker 3>especially back then, but it was mental, like mentally I

0:09:58.080 --> 0:10:01.640
<v Speaker 3>felt different. It was definitely physical. And the first physical

0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:04.640
<v Speaker 3>thing I noticed that was from my pinky finger to

0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:07.240
<v Speaker 3>my pinky toe on my left side, So that whole

0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:10.080
<v Speaker 3>line on my left side from pinky to pinky, I

0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:12.160
<v Speaker 3>just couldn't feel it as much as I could feel

0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:12.800
<v Speaker 3>my right side.

0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:14.920
<v Speaker 2>And so some people.

0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:17.800
<v Speaker 3>Are like hyper sensitive and have pain after a major

0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:20.880
<v Speaker 3>injury or surgery, but for me, it was almost like

0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:24.880
<v Speaker 3>I was undersensitized and I had desensitization on that side

0:10:24.880 --> 0:10:27.319
<v Speaker 3>of my body in terms of how well my muscles

0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:29.800
<v Speaker 3>were firing and just how that side of my body moved.

0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:32.880
<v Speaker 3>But on the flip side of that, it's almost like

0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:36.920
<v Speaker 3>I was given this gift because my body awareness was

0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:41.000
<v Speaker 3>also hyper sensitive, Like I could feel everything on this

0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:43.960
<v Speaker 3>new level, and that part of it wasn't just physical,

0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:48.080
<v Speaker 3>like it was emotional energetically physically, I could just feel

0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:51.680
<v Speaker 3>other people's emotions more too, not just my own. So

0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:55.240
<v Speaker 3>it was it was quite the contradiction, you know, Like muscularly,

0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:57.600
<v Speaker 3>I couldn't perform as well on my left side as

0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:59.959
<v Speaker 3>I could on my right side. But on a sensitive

0:11:00.320 --> 0:11:02.679
<v Speaker 3>level and a body awareness level, I had this whole

0:11:02.720 --> 0:11:06.440
<v Speaker 3>new gift, so to speak, but I didn't call it

0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:07.240
<v Speaker 3>a gift at the time.

0:11:07.280 --> 0:11:07.520
<v Speaker 2>It was.

0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:09.840
<v Speaker 3>It actually really scared me. You know, keep in mind,

0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:12.160
<v Speaker 3>I was twenty five. I was scared nobody could help me,

0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:14.640
<v Speaker 3>and because of what I was doing on a career level,

0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:18.160
<v Speaker 3>I also felt like a fraud because back then, and

0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:20.680
<v Speaker 3>you know, this feels like an alternate lifetime and alternate

0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:23.560
<v Speaker 3>universe now, but I was supposed to be this you know,

0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:26.920
<v Speaker 3>fitness expert on TV and in the media and all

0:11:26.960 --> 0:11:29.000
<v Speaker 3>of that, and here I was figuring out what was

0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:31.439
<v Speaker 3>going on with my own body in the background. And

0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:34.320
<v Speaker 3>that's a whole other topic on its own, one that

0:11:34.400 --> 0:11:36.840
<v Speaker 3>I touched on in the Learn for My Mistakes episode.

0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:39.800
<v Speaker 3>But one of the main things I noticed, or one

0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:42.320
<v Speaker 3>of the first things I noticed, i should say, was

0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:45.120
<v Speaker 3>my fascia, which I'll tell you about in a moment.

0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:48.800
<v Speaker 3>And the only reason I discovered fascia is because I

0:11:48.960 --> 0:11:52.120
<v Speaker 3>was just playing around by massaging the left side.

0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:52.480
<v Speaker 2>Of my body.

0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:55.000
<v Speaker 3>Like I told you, I couldn't really feel the left

0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:57.160
<v Speaker 3>side as much as I could feel my right side,

0:11:57.160 --> 0:11:59.520
<v Speaker 3>so I was always trying to kind of wake it up,

0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:03.680
<v Speaker 3>touching it and using tools like foam rollers and getting

0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:06.200
<v Speaker 3>massages and dry brushing. I mean, you name it, I

0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:08.160
<v Speaker 3>was doing it. If there was a gadget, I owned it.

0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:11.760
<v Speaker 3>And I discovered that there was this area of my

0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:15.240
<v Speaker 3>glutes where my glutes just pretty much weren't turning on,

0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:19.200
<v Speaker 3>like they were not firing. And then I noticed that

0:12:19.240 --> 0:12:22.640
<v Speaker 3>there was pockets of fat on my hips and my

0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:26.360
<v Speaker 3>sacrum area, and that it was relational to where my

0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:30.040
<v Speaker 3>glutes were not firing, Like it was almost fat pockets

0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:34.959
<v Speaker 3>covering up my glutes, but it wasn't this normal subcutaneous fat.

0:12:35.480 --> 0:12:39.760
<v Speaker 3>It felt very thick and sticky and fibrous, almost like

0:12:39.880 --> 0:12:42.960
<v Speaker 3>it was casing or incasing my glutes, and in a

0:12:42.960 --> 0:12:45.120
<v Speaker 3>ways it kind of felt like scar tissue. But I

0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:47.680
<v Speaker 3>knew enough about the body to know that it was

0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:48.840
<v Speaker 3>some sort of fascia.

0:12:49.320 --> 0:12:52.480
<v Speaker 2>So I noticed that and it caused me to literally,

0:12:52.520 --> 0:12:53.800
<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is fifteen years ago.

0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:57.679
<v Speaker 3>I just started googling fascia and learning about it, and

0:12:57.720 --> 0:13:01.160
<v Speaker 3>from there on out, I have been obsessed with fascia,

0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:03.920
<v Speaker 3>or as my dorky self likes to say, I've been

0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:07.400
<v Speaker 3>fascionated by it. In side note, just to give you

0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:09.760
<v Speaker 3>an idea of how obsessed I am and have been

0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:12.480
<v Speaker 3>obsessed with it and how much of a difference just

0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:15.200
<v Speaker 3>knowing about fat and fascia has made on my life.

0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:18.720
<v Speaker 3>I actually own fashionate dot com like I've had it

0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:20.520
<v Speaker 3>for years because I always knew I was going to

0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:23.240
<v Speaker 3>share my truths about it and ever since I discovered

0:13:23.240 --> 0:13:25.160
<v Speaker 3>the connection between fat and fascia.

0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:27.800
<v Speaker 2>You know, at first, it actually really made me mad.

0:13:27.960 --> 0:13:30.440
<v Speaker 3>And it made me mad because I was like, why

0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:34.400
<v Speaker 3>is the world not talking about this right? And obviously

0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:37.040
<v Speaker 3>now I realize that being mad doesn't serve me and

0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:39.880
<v Speaker 3>it doesn't serve you or anybody, but it was that

0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:41.720
<v Speaker 3>much of a game changer for me, I should say,

0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:44.560
<v Speaker 3>So I'm no longer mad about it, obviously, I just

0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:46.880
<v Speaker 3>want the world to know about it. And really that's

0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:49.520
<v Speaker 3>why we're here, and it is such a big topic.

0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:53.280
<v Speaker 3>And unfortunately, most of the world in mainstream knowledge is

0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:57.320
<v Speaker 3>not connecting the nervous system and fascia to your health.

0:13:57.880 --> 0:14:00.760
<v Speaker 3>So if this podcast episode and see you even just

0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:04.000
<v Speaker 3>helps a small pocket of the world understand what a

0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:07.360
<v Speaker 3>big player fat and fascia are in your health journey,

0:14:07.640 --> 0:14:09.880
<v Speaker 3>well that would honestly just make me really happy.

0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:11.760
<v Speaker 2>So that's what the goal is.

0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:13.480
<v Speaker 3>And we're gonna do just that, and I'm going to

0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:17.040
<v Speaker 3>tell you all about this magical world of fat and

0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:20.280
<v Speaker 3>fascia and why it can be the game changer for

0:14:20.400 --> 0:14:22.960
<v Speaker 3>you that you didn't even know you were looking for.

0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:25.560
<v Speaker 3>And so we're going to talk about the specifics of

0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:28.160
<v Speaker 3>fat and fascia and why you should care in just

0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:30.440
<v Speaker 3>a moment. But first I wanted to share with you

0:14:30.480 --> 0:14:32.640
<v Speaker 3>something that I wish somebody had told me when I

0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:33.200
<v Speaker 3>was younger.

0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:35.960
<v Speaker 2>I wish I had gotten this memo.

0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:38.120
<v Speaker 3>When I was spending all of that time and energy

0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:41.240
<v Speaker 3>harming my body just to you know, chase thin or

0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:44.000
<v Speaker 3>chase skinny, like I said I was doing. And here's

0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:46.600
<v Speaker 3>an analogy I use with my clients to drive my

0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:49.280
<v Speaker 3>point home. So you know how whenever you get a

0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:51.600
<v Speaker 3>first like you first get a new phone or a

0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:54.200
<v Speaker 3>new gadget, you take really good care of it and

0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:56.520
<v Speaker 3>you protect it like it's this sacred thing, right And

0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:57.880
<v Speaker 3>I know for me, I like I would do my

0:14:57.920 --> 0:15:00.280
<v Speaker 3>best to make sure that the screen didn't get a

0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:02.480
<v Speaker 3>scratch on it, and that it was you know, safely

0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:05.440
<v Speaker 3>out of harm's way of the bathtub or toilet, and

0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:08.200
<v Speaker 3>that it was safely nestled in a protective case, you know,

0:15:08.280 --> 0:15:10.480
<v Speaker 3>you know, just in case I dropped it, But then

0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:14.200
<v Speaker 3>you know, inevitably that first drop would take place, you know,

0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:16.000
<v Speaker 3>the one where you suddenly feel like you're in slow

0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:19.440
<v Speaker 3>motion saying like no, as you see it falling to

0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:21.800
<v Speaker 3>hit the floor, but you're not fast enough to be

0:15:21.840 --> 0:15:23.960
<v Speaker 3>able to do anything about it, and you know your

0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:26.760
<v Speaker 3>panic was probably unnecessary, and you know, you pick it

0:15:26.840 --> 0:15:30.560
<v Speaker 3>up and realize like, okay, it got its first scratcher bruise,

0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:31.520
<v Speaker 3>but it was gonna be fine.

0:15:31.600 --> 0:15:31.760
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:35.560
<v Speaker 3>But for me, with every new phone I get, you know,

0:15:35.680 --> 0:15:38.480
<v Speaker 3>the new novelty wears off little by little, right like

0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:41.800
<v Speaker 3>the shiny new object loses it's just out of the

0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:45.080
<v Speaker 3>box luster after so long, and other things become more

0:15:45.080 --> 0:15:47.640
<v Speaker 3>of a priority than taking care of your phone. And

0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:49.480
<v Speaker 3>so the days and the weeks and the months and

0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:52.080
<v Speaker 3>sometimes years, if it makes it that far, they pass

0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:54.520
<v Speaker 3>and life goes on. But then I don't know, if

0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:56.560
<v Speaker 3>you remember back in the day, like they had those

0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:58.440
<v Speaker 3>they would send out emails being like you can get

0:15:58.440 --> 0:16:00.360
<v Speaker 3>a new phone, and so you'd get that in inevitable

0:16:00.440 --> 0:16:02.920
<v Speaker 3>email from your cell phone company. And for me, like

0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:05.040
<v Speaker 3>you know, letting me know, I'm I'm almost due for

0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:07.320
<v Speaker 3>an upgrade. And you know again back when they had

0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:10.040
<v Speaker 3>those upgrades and you would replace your phone every few years,

0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:12.080
<v Speaker 3>and it worked like a charm for me, right, for me,

0:16:12.680 --> 0:16:15.520
<v Speaker 3>it got me started like scanning the latest models and

0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:19.240
<v Speaker 3>having daydreams about my future cell phone partner in crime and.

0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:21.480
<v Speaker 2>You know, premeditating all the things we would do together.

0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:24.160
<v Speaker 2>And I'm just kidding, but you know, why wouldn't I

0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:24.600
<v Speaker 2>do that though?

0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:29.080
<v Speaker 3>Because they were enticing me with this free upgrade.

0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:33.920
<v Speaker 2>Why wouldn't I do that though? Because they were enticing

0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:35.400
<v Speaker 2>me with this free upgrade.

0:16:35.920 --> 0:16:38.400
<v Speaker 3>By this point, though, every time I would look down

0:16:38.440 --> 0:16:41.000
<v Speaker 3>at my current phone, which was still probably in pretty

0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:44.800
<v Speaker 3>good shape, I would notice the scratches or I would

0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:47.640
<v Speaker 3>notice how banged up it was, or you know, bogged

0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:51.120
<v Speaker 3>down or slower it had become. And of course, you

0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:54.080
<v Speaker 3>know these are first world problems, right, but like roll

0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:56.560
<v Speaker 3>with me for the sake of this analogy. But like

0:16:56.680 --> 0:16:59.960
<v Speaker 3>when it happens, you start noticing, like, okay, it's slowing down,

0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:02.880
<v Speaker 3>and at that point in time, you probably wish you had,

0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:05.760
<v Speaker 3>you know, a faster, better, newer one. And for me,

0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:07.840
<v Speaker 3>I would start dragging that thing around like it was

0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:11.320
<v Speaker 3>a burden, you know, like secretly waiting for my upgrade

0:17:11.359 --> 0:17:13.439
<v Speaker 3>to come through, or secretly hoping it would fall in

0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:15.639
<v Speaker 3>the toilet so I could get a new one instead

0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:17.639
<v Speaker 3>of the one I had, because you know, the honeymoon

0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:20.080
<v Speaker 3>was over, right, and the thing I used to look

0:17:20.119 --> 0:17:22.600
<v Speaker 3>at with googly eyes and take care of it like

0:17:22.640 --> 0:17:26.119
<v Speaker 3>it was my firstborn child was officially a nuisance or

0:17:26.160 --> 0:17:29.040
<v Speaker 3>an annoyance and something I couldn't wait to get rid

0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:32.240
<v Speaker 3>of or replace, Okay, And the idea of being stuck

0:17:32.280 --> 0:17:34.720
<v Speaker 3>with it, like that's not what I wanted, right, And

0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:37.480
<v Speaker 3>I know this is a really hard knock life example

0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:41.000
<v Speaker 3>that we're talking about here, but roll with me because

0:17:41.040 --> 0:17:41.760
<v Speaker 3>we're all.

0:17:41.600 --> 0:17:43.600
<v Speaker 2>A bit guilty of this when you think about it.

0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:47.080
<v Speaker 3>Right, Maybe it's not your phone per se, but there's

0:17:47.080 --> 0:17:49.520
<v Speaker 3>something in your life that you treat like gold. Maybe

0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:52.560
<v Speaker 3>it's a friendship, Maybe it's a relationship when it's new

0:17:52.600 --> 0:17:55.399
<v Speaker 3>and exciting, right, And of course at the at the

0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:57.679
<v Speaker 3>beginning of anything, it gives you that, you know, the

0:17:57.720 --> 0:18:01.400
<v Speaker 3>post purchase or post connection dopamine rash that feels oh

0:18:01.400 --> 0:18:04.280
<v Speaker 3>so good in the moment, But just like any gadget

0:18:04.320 --> 0:18:06.679
<v Speaker 3>or gizmo like you use it until it doesn't operate

0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:08.280
<v Speaker 3>efficiently anymore, or there's.

0:18:08.119 --> 0:18:11.840
<v Speaker 2>No more rev and it's engine. So think about that.

0:18:11.960 --> 0:18:15.760
<v Speaker 3>And now let me ask you, how do you treat

0:18:15.840 --> 0:18:18.760
<v Speaker 3>your body? And I don't just mean your arms and

0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:20.680
<v Speaker 3>your legs and the hair on your head. I mean

0:18:20.800 --> 0:18:23.440
<v Speaker 3>all of it, all the little bits and bobs that

0:18:23.600 --> 0:18:27.880
<v Speaker 3>comprise this miraculous piece of machinery that we are all

0:18:27.880 --> 0:18:31.040
<v Speaker 3>pretty dang fortunate to be able to test drive throughout

0:18:31.080 --> 0:18:32.040
<v Speaker 3>our lifetime.

0:18:32.520 --> 0:18:34.879
<v Speaker 2>So do you treat it like your old cell phone?

0:18:34.960 --> 0:18:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Right?

0:18:35.240 --> 0:18:37.800
<v Speaker 3>Do you treat it like you have another one waiting

0:18:37.840 --> 0:18:40.000
<v Speaker 3>for you on standby or at the phone.

0:18:39.760 --> 0:18:40.920
<v Speaker 2>Factory or Apple store?

0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:43.600
<v Speaker 3>Do you love it and protect it and care for

0:18:43.680 --> 0:18:46.040
<v Speaker 3>it as much as you would a brand new iPad

0:18:46.160 --> 0:18:48.919
<v Speaker 3>or gulp, a brand new car. And the truth is,

0:18:48.960 --> 0:18:51.520
<v Speaker 3>and I will be the first to admit this, I

0:18:51.560 --> 0:18:54.920
<v Speaker 3>did not value my body. For most of my life.

0:18:55.320 --> 0:18:57.479
<v Speaker 3>I heard about this idea of like, when you get older,

0:18:57.520 --> 0:18:59.760
<v Speaker 3>you're gonna need to take care of your body, right,

0:19:00.280 --> 0:19:02.399
<v Speaker 3>But for me, when I was younger, I was hearing

0:19:02.400 --> 0:19:04.520
<v Speaker 3>the messages about getting skinny, like I said, like I

0:19:04.600 --> 0:19:07.600
<v Speaker 3>was chasing skinny, and so yeah, I understand that at

0:19:07.640 --> 0:19:09.919
<v Speaker 3>the ripe old age of forty, I'm not supposed to

0:19:10.040 --> 0:19:13.199
<v Speaker 3>again again with air quotes know what goes on inside

0:19:13.240 --> 0:19:15.760
<v Speaker 3>the mind of someone double my age that's simply trying

0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:16.959
<v Speaker 3>to take care of their body.

0:19:17.320 --> 0:19:18.520
<v Speaker 2>But I promise you I.

0:19:18.480 --> 0:19:21.440
<v Speaker 3>Do, and up until about, you know, twelve fifteen years

0:19:21.440 --> 0:19:24.960
<v Speaker 3>ago something like that, I couldn't have cared less about

0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:27.960
<v Speaker 3>self care or taking care of my body, right because

0:19:27.960 --> 0:19:30.040
<v Speaker 3>back in the day, just like any other twenty something

0:19:30.160 --> 0:19:33.680
<v Speaker 3>woman who at the time, my biggest body concern was

0:19:33.720 --> 0:19:35.680
<v Speaker 3>whether or not my muffin top was hanging over my

0:19:35.760 --> 0:19:36.480
<v Speaker 3>jeans and if I.

0:19:36.400 --> 0:19:40.200
<v Speaker 2>Could smooth it out with shapewear. Right thinking about my.

0:19:40.400 --> 0:19:44.280
<v Speaker 3>You know, body as this miraculous machine that was very

0:19:44.320 --> 0:19:46.320
<v Speaker 3>boring to me, or it just didn't resonate with me,

0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:50.000
<v Speaker 3>I should say, And it wasn't as sexy as looking

0:19:50.040 --> 0:19:53.040
<v Speaker 3>good in my skinny jeans or fitting into that cute little.

0:19:52.920 --> 0:19:55.480
<v Speaker 2>Black dress because obviously.

0:19:55.080 --> 0:19:57.119
<v Speaker 3>I didn't know what I didn't know, and I only

0:19:57.160 --> 0:20:00.760
<v Speaker 3>knew what I knew. But my injury and surgery and

0:20:00.800 --> 0:20:05.280
<v Speaker 3>then the subsequent after effects of my surgery completely changed

0:20:05.359 --> 0:20:08.360
<v Speaker 3>the way I saw my body, and honestly, the bodies

0:20:08.400 --> 0:20:10.879
<v Speaker 3>of the women that I worked with, and I started

0:20:10.920 --> 0:20:14.520
<v Speaker 3>a journey that would force me to literally relearn things

0:20:14.560 --> 0:20:16.800
<v Speaker 3>like how to crawl, then stand up and walk again,

0:20:16.840 --> 0:20:18.040
<v Speaker 3>and then eventually run.

0:20:18.680 --> 0:20:20.360
<v Speaker 2>But here's what I would say about it now.

0:20:21.200 --> 0:20:24.840
<v Speaker 3>I used to completely neglect my body like it was

0:20:24.920 --> 0:20:27.680
<v Speaker 3>my old, beaten down cell phone right before I was

0:20:27.760 --> 0:20:30.399
<v Speaker 3>due for a new one, and I cared more about

0:20:30.440 --> 0:20:33.240
<v Speaker 3>how it looked or what size it wore than how

0:20:33.240 --> 0:20:36.119
<v Speaker 3>it felt, how it moved, or how long i'd actually

0:20:36.119 --> 0:20:39.000
<v Speaker 3>be able to keep it in service right because I

0:20:39.080 --> 0:20:41.359
<v Speaker 3>punished it and I restricted it, and I fought it

0:20:41.480 --> 0:20:43.840
<v Speaker 3>every step of the way when it didn't perform to

0:20:43.880 --> 0:20:46.560
<v Speaker 3>my liking or look how I wanted it to look.

0:20:47.080 --> 0:20:49.679
<v Speaker 3>And I starved it and then overstuffed it, and then

0:20:49.760 --> 0:20:52.679
<v Speaker 3>pounded it to the pavement and over exerted it, and

0:20:52.720 --> 0:20:55.120
<v Speaker 3>then got mad at it when it needed a break

0:20:55.160 --> 0:20:58.480
<v Speaker 3>from all of my demands. But most important to note,

0:20:58.680 --> 0:21:01.280
<v Speaker 3>I treated it like it was just a thing that

0:21:01.320 --> 0:21:04.679
<v Speaker 3>I was stuck with or burdened by, or just putting

0:21:04.800 --> 0:21:07.439
<v Speaker 3>up with for a little while until I could replace

0:21:07.480 --> 0:21:11.080
<v Speaker 3>it with a newer model. But the reality eventually sunk

0:21:11.119 --> 0:21:14.919
<v Speaker 3>into me that there was no newer model waiting for

0:21:14.960 --> 0:21:15.400
<v Speaker 3>me in some.

0:21:15.400 --> 0:21:18.679
<v Speaker 2>Factory, like this was it. This was the body that

0:21:18.800 --> 0:21:20.879
<v Speaker 2>I had, This was the only one I got.

0:21:21.760 --> 0:21:24.359
<v Speaker 3>And to be honest, because this podcast is all event

0:21:24.640 --> 0:21:28.840
<v Speaker 3>about transparency, you know, this pissed me off for a

0:21:28.920 --> 0:21:30.040
<v Speaker 3>long time, right.

0:21:30.000 --> 0:21:32.240
<v Speaker 2>Like I was mad. I was so mad. I felt

0:21:32.240 --> 0:21:33.120
<v Speaker 2>so frustrated.

0:21:33.480 --> 0:21:36.199
<v Speaker 3>But I wasn't mad at the universe or the cards

0:21:36.240 --> 0:21:39.199
<v Speaker 3>I got dealt. I realized I was mad at me.

0:21:40.000 --> 0:21:43.240
<v Speaker 3>I was mad at my body for so many years.

0:21:43.280 --> 0:21:46.240
<v Speaker 3>I was so mad at my body and myself for

0:21:46.320 --> 0:21:49.479
<v Speaker 3>being someone who you know, quote unquote let her body

0:21:49.560 --> 0:21:52.919
<v Speaker 3>become so quote unquote broken. And I keep using air

0:21:53.000 --> 0:21:55.520
<v Speaker 3>quotes because this was actually how I talked to and

0:21:55.680 --> 0:21:58.359
<v Speaker 3>talked about my body, like my body was broken and

0:21:58.400 --> 0:22:00.159
<v Speaker 3>like I did something to deserve it all.

0:22:00.520 --> 0:22:01.440
<v Speaker 2>And then the more.

0:22:01.440 --> 0:22:04.320
<v Speaker 3>Mad I got at it, the less I deemed it

0:22:04.359 --> 0:22:06.240
<v Speaker 3>worthy to get my love, attention and care.

0:22:06.640 --> 0:22:08.480
<v Speaker 2>So I just brought on more.

0:22:08.280 --> 0:22:12.119
<v Speaker 3>Punishment and restriction and abuse, and the cycle just continued.

0:22:12.240 --> 0:22:15.320
<v Speaker 3>And in my cycle was like, Okay, treat it like crap,

0:22:15.400 --> 0:22:17.879
<v Speaker 3>hate it some more, show it whose boss, and you know,

0:22:17.960 --> 0:22:20.840
<v Speaker 3>punish it with diets and exercise restrict and then wash

0:22:20.880 --> 0:22:24.200
<v Speaker 3>rents repeat. And so what I'm about to say might

0:22:24.280 --> 0:22:26.760
<v Speaker 3>rub some people the wrong way that believe that self

0:22:26.800 --> 0:22:27.360
<v Speaker 3>love is the.

0:22:27.320 --> 0:22:30.479
<v Speaker 2>Air quotes miracle that will change your life. And I

0:22:30.520 --> 0:22:33.280
<v Speaker 2>do believe self love is a massive part of the puzzle.

0:22:33.320 --> 0:22:35.840
<v Speaker 2>Don't get me wrong. I talk about it all the time.

0:22:36.520 --> 0:22:39.479
<v Speaker 3>But how can you truly love something like your body

0:22:40.080 --> 0:22:43.679
<v Speaker 3>or someone like yourself that you don't even deem worthy

0:22:43.800 --> 0:22:47.719
<v Speaker 3>of taking care of? And so here's my invitation for

0:22:47.800 --> 0:22:51.399
<v Speaker 3>you as we get into this topic of fat and fascia.

0:22:51.440 --> 0:22:52.920
<v Speaker 2>What if taking.

0:22:52.760 --> 0:22:56.080
<v Speaker 3>Care of your body and your fat and fashia as

0:22:56.080 --> 0:22:59.040
<v Speaker 3>you'll learn, and taking care of your health and taking

0:22:59.080 --> 0:23:01.720
<v Speaker 3>care of yourself was the new self love?

0:23:01.800 --> 0:23:01.879
<v Speaker 1>Like?

0:23:01.960 --> 0:23:04.120
<v Speaker 2>What if that was the verb form of self love?

0:23:04.200 --> 0:23:04.360
<v Speaker 1>Right?

0:23:04.680 --> 0:23:07.000
<v Speaker 3>What if taking care of your body and your health

0:23:07.040 --> 0:23:10.200
<v Speaker 3>and yourself was the new self worth or self esteem

0:23:10.200 --> 0:23:11.560
<v Speaker 3>like it was the verb form of it?

0:23:11.720 --> 0:23:11.960
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:23:12.560 --> 0:23:14.840
<v Speaker 3>And what if taking care of your body and your

0:23:14.840 --> 0:23:17.960
<v Speaker 3>health and yourself was the new health plan?

0:23:18.600 --> 0:23:22.480
<v Speaker 2>Right? Like what if your love for yourself could and would?

0:23:22.600 --> 0:23:26.639
<v Speaker 3>I guarantee you it would skyrocket if you simply treated

0:23:26.640 --> 0:23:30.200
<v Speaker 3>it more like a shiny new cell phone rather than

0:23:30.880 --> 0:23:33.320
<v Speaker 3>gum on the bottom of your shoe. And again, I'll

0:23:33.359 --> 0:23:36.639
<v Speaker 3>emphasize when I was younger, I didn't care about taking

0:23:36.640 --> 0:23:39.119
<v Speaker 3>care of my body. I wanted to be skinny or

0:23:39.200 --> 0:23:41.720
<v Speaker 3>lean or pretty or whatever words I was using at

0:23:41.720 --> 0:23:44.520
<v Speaker 3>the time, and there was a major cost. Okay, I

0:23:44.720 --> 0:23:47.520
<v Speaker 3>call it the cost of skinny. And there's another entire

0:23:47.600 --> 0:23:50.920
<v Speaker 3>episode here on Outweigh dedicated to the cost of skinny,

0:23:51.280 --> 0:23:53.679
<v Speaker 3>because I believe that every woman who gets caught up

0:23:53.680 --> 0:23:57.240
<v Speaker 3>in the diet mentality or obsessively thinking about her weight

0:23:57.400 --> 0:24:00.640
<v Speaker 3>has her own cost of skinny too. Check that out

0:24:00.680 --> 0:24:02.920
<v Speaker 3>if you missed it. But here's what I say about

0:24:02.960 --> 0:24:05.480
<v Speaker 3>it now. Okay, you don't have to be fifty five,

0:24:05.560 --> 0:24:08.800
<v Speaker 3>sixty five, seventy five plus or deemed a senior citizen

0:24:08.840 --> 0:24:11.160
<v Speaker 3>to start taking care of your body like it's the

0:24:11.280 --> 0:24:12.359
<v Speaker 3>only one you've got.

0:24:12.880 --> 0:24:13.920
<v Speaker 2>And you can.

0:24:13.920 --> 0:24:16.800
<v Speaker 3>Still care about your gene size or your waistline, and

0:24:16.840 --> 0:24:19.160
<v Speaker 3>you can still care how fast you run or how

0:24:19.200 --> 0:24:22.560
<v Speaker 3>strong you are, and you can still desire to change

0:24:22.640 --> 0:24:23.760
<v Speaker 3>the way your body.

0:24:23.520 --> 0:24:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Looks, moves and feels.

0:24:25.119 --> 0:24:28.119
<v Speaker 3>But I invite you, in fact, I'm like strongly urging

0:24:28.160 --> 0:24:30.639
<v Speaker 3>you to just do it from a place of self care,

0:24:31.119 --> 0:24:34.400
<v Speaker 3>not self control or self discipline. And I can say

0:24:34.440 --> 0:24:37.159
<v Speaker 3>with certainty that if you are indeed on a quest

0:24:37.200 --> 0:24:40.040
<v Speaker 3>for self love, the road will be a heck of

0:24:40.080 --> 0:24:42.800
<v Speaker 3>a lot bumpy, or if it's even possible, if you

0:24:42.880 --> 0:24:46.480
<v Speaker 3>don't first pass through self acceptance and self care. And

0:24:46.520 --> 0:24:50.080
<v Speaker 3>trust me, you are way more valuable than some shiny

0:24:50.119 --> 0:24:52.600
<v Speaker 3>new cell phone. Like you deserve to have a body

0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:55.160
<v Speaker 3>and a health that you take care of. And if

0:24:55.200 --> 0:24:58.199
<v Speaker 3>you don't believe that that you deserve it and that

0:24:58.240 --> 0:25:00.680
<v Speaker 3>you're worthy to have both, like when I say both,

0:25:00.720 --> 0:25:03.040
<v Speaker 3>like to like your body and take care of it

0:25:03.400 --> 0:25:06.240
<v Speaker 3>without sacrificing your happiness for your health or your health

0:25:06.280 --> 0:25:09.240
<v Speaker 3>for your happiness, Well then I am so glad.

0:25:08.880 --> 0:25:11.640
<v Speaker 2>That you are here listening to this podcast right now.

0:25:12.119 --> 0:25:14.760
<v Speaker 3>And don't get me wrong, this body connection and body

0:25:14.760 --> 0:25:19.200
<v Speaker 3>acceptance conversation is a big conversation, one that we can't

0:25:19.240 --> 0:25:22.600
<v Speaker 3>possibly tackle in one episode alone. And that's why this

0:25:22.680 --> 0:25:25.680
<v Speaker 3>is called The Truth About Your Fat Part one, because

0:25:25.800 --> 0:25:28.359
<v Speaker 3>this is just the first layer. And if you know me,

0:25:28.400 --> 0:25:30.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm a dorec And yes, I'm sure the pun was intended,

0:25:31.240 --> 0:25:33.919
<v Speaker 3>but I also chose to name the series and start

0:25:33.960 --> 0:25:37.560
<v Speaker 3>off this topic by talking about your fat.

0:25:38.080 --> 0:25:38.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I said it.

0:25:38.880 --> 0:25:41.560
<v Speaker 3>We're going to be talking about your fat in a

0:25:41.600 --> 0:25:43.960
<v Speaker 3>way that I can promise you you have never heard

0:25:44.000 --> 0:25:47.080
<v Speaker 3>before and hopefully we'll never see your fat the same

0:25:47.119 --> 0:25:50.280
<v Speaker 3>way again. So that's it for part one. And I

0:25:50.400 --> 0:25:54.040
<v Speaker 3>purposely stopped here because we are going to get into

0:25:54.040 --> 0:25:58.320
<v Speaker 3>the content. But that is the intent, and the intent

0:25:58.560 --> 0:26:01.439
<v Speaker 3>is way more important than the content, to be honest,

0:26:01.480 --> 0:26:04.720
<v Speaker 3>because again, if you do have a self critical or

0:26:04.800 --> 0:26:08.000
<v Speaker 3>dysmorphic relationship with your body or your fat as in

0:26:08.080 --> 0:26:11.800
<v Speaker 3>again the subcutaneous fat on your body, right, that's why

0:26:11.840 --> 0:26:14.080
<v Speaker 3>I actually urge you to look at it and learn

0:26:14.119 --> 0:26:17.000
<v Speaker 3>about it and discover what it is and what it's not,

0:26:17.480 --> 0:26:20.800
<v Speaker 3>and that way you can dispel the lies and actually

0:26:20.880 --> 0:26:23.240
<v Speaker 3>learn what it takes to shift it both in your

0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:26.119
<v Speaker 3>mind and on your body. Because again I promise you

0:26:26.200 --> 0:26:28.960
<v Speaker 3>it's way more than an eat less move more conversation, like,

0:26:29.160 --> 0:26:33.159
<v Speaker 3>way way more okay, And that's really my invitation to you, Like,

0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:36.199
<v Speaker 3>instead of focusing on what you're eating or what you're weighing,

0:26:36.640 --> 0:26:40.240
<v Speaker 3>go on a big fat experiment, right because, as you'll learn,

0:26:40.280 --> 0:26:42.600
<v Speaker 3>it is such a powerful way to connect to your

0:26:42.640 --> 0:26:45.359
<v Speaker 3>body and truly heal your body image.

0:26:45.720 --> 0:26:47.600
<v Speaker 2>And if all you do today.

0:26:47.320 --> 0:26:49.840
<v Speaker 3>Is say hey, I'm done shaming and blaming something that

0:26:49.880 --> 0:26:52.240
<v Speaker 3>I don't even know much about, and I'm ready to

0:26:52.320 --> 0:26:55.760
<v Speaker 3>learn and ready to approach it differently, and I'm ready

0:26:55.760 --> 0:26:57.119
<v Speaker 3>to end the battle I'm.

0:26:57.000 --> 0:26:57.800
<v Speaker 2>In with my body.

0:26:58.119 --> 0:27:00.560
<v Speaker 3>Then that would not only make me very happy, but

0:27:00.640 --> 0:27:03.440
<v Speaker 3>you are going to love and yet so much out of.

0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:07.639
<v Speaker 2>This entire series. So yeah, that's it for today, outweigh.

0:27:07.840 --> 0:27:10.320
<v Speaker 3>I hope you got whatever you needed to hear today,

0:27:10.760 --> 0:27:13.040
<v Speaker 3>and I hope this just opened your eyes to something

0:27:13.080 --> 0:27:15.639
<v Speaker 3>that you might not have had them open to before.

0:27:16.160 --> 0:27:18.040
<v Speaker 3>And if you liked what you heard today and you

0:27:18.080 --> 0:27:20.439
<v Speaker 3>want to hear more about the process I teach my

0:27:20.520 --> 0:27:24.640
<v Speaker 3>clients about rewiring your own brain, then head on over

0:27:24.680 --> 0:27:27.520
<v Speaker 3>to stressless eeating dot com and sign up to watch

0:27:27.560 --> 0:27:30.920
<v Speaker 3>the Stressless Eating Masterclass, where I'll walk you through the

0:27:31.000 --> 0:27:34.400
<v Speaker 3>exact five step game plan my clients use to heal

0:27:34.480 --> 0:27:37.600
<v Speaker 3>themselves from that all or nothing diet mentality for good,

0:27:37.960 --> 0:27:41.879
<v Speaker 3>but without restricting themselves and punishing their bodies, and definitely

0:27:41.920 --> 0:27:45.200
<v Speaker 3>without ever having to use words like macros, low carb

0:27:45.440 --> 0:27:48.120
<v Speaker 3>or calorie burn. And so I've laid it all out

0:27:48.119 --> 0:27:51.360
<v Speaker 3>there for you in five easy steps over at stressless

0:27:51.400 --> 0:27:54.919
<v Speaker 3>eating dot com and if you liked today's episode, we

0:27:54.960 --> 0:27:57.960
<v Speaker 3>will be back next week for more Outweigh, where we're

0:27:57.960 --> 0:28:00.840
<v Speaker 3>going to get into part two of the True About

0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:04.520
<v Speaker 3>Your Fat. So I'm Leahne Ellington and I will talk

0:28:04.560 --> 0:28:05.000
<v Speaker 3>to you then