WEBVTT - Ep54: Stripper Strike Feat Gizelle Marie 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:04.640 Listen, this is not a drill. Horrible Decisions is celebrating 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:08.320 their one year anniversary show in Atlanta. Yes, we are 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:10.239 so fucking hyped up. It comes to you guys. We 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:12.880 will be their May nineteenth at seven pm at the 0:00:12.920 --> 0:00:14.800 Plaza Theater. Our show is gonna be hosted by b 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:17.520 Samone from Wild and Out on MTV. We are so 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:20.239 fucking pumped. We can't wait to be there. We have 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:24.280 general admission tickets left bucks. You're gonna get to meet 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:26.920 and greet included. We're gonna be selling merchant and lobby. 0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:29.080 You can meet us and talk with us. 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This your 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:10.160 girl Mandy be and I'm Wheezy, and we have a 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:14.880 very special guest today thanks to um James, one of 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:17.640 my friends from episode was twenty nine. I don't know. 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:22.119 James lives in Florida. He hits me up today, sends 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:25.119 me an article about you and he's like, yo, y'all 0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:27.920 gotta have this girl on the show. So I'm like, nah, 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:30.360 like I'm reading it helpins in posts and why this 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:33.080 blah blah blah ain't coming. The second I told you, 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:36.240 She's like yes, where I was like so happy, um, 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:39.000 And it was a huge tagline about um, you guys 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:42.600 have maybe seeing the stripper strike or star tenders versus strippers, 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:44.840 and it's funny a lot of our listeners have actually 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:48.320 wanted us to bring a stripper or adult dancer on 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:49.720 the show, even though we talk about a lot of 0:01:49.760 --> 0:01:54.680 sex and technically what you do isn't sex. It's okay, 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:56.680 I like that, So we've had people wanted to bring 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:58.480 you on. So I think it's this is super fitting 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:01.440 for I'm gonna tell you was worried about having a 0:02:01.480 --> 0:02:02.840 stripper and we had a point star and she was 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:04.920 so dope and she loved her job. I was worried 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:07.720 about a stripper coming on and making all strippers look 0:02:07.760 --> 0:02:10.720 bad because I didn't want her to be like I 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:12.440 did this and I just spend my money on Like 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:15.080 I just scared, We're gonna find this ratchet Instagram stripper 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:18.120 that just one ship. Now, please but explain to me 0:02:18.160 --> 0:02:24.440 that what is But you know, she's her own individual. Well, 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:26.400 I'm gonna say this. We have a lot of people 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:28.240 that listens, and I don't want them to ever judge. 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:29.840 And I feel like if you bring someone on that's 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:31.720 not articulate and that's talking ship and it's just being 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:34.720 a little too crazy and whatever, you'd be surprised how 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:39.560 many educated strippers are there. But I don't think that's 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:41.840 the strippers that we ever get to see or what 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:45.320 we think. Yeah, we do have a really big stigma, 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:47.000 so right, but at the end of the day, was 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:48.880 still human. So I'm pretty sure you could find a 0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:51.560 lot of There's a lot of them, and I think that, well, 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:53.520 you never know who I mean, and I'm friends with 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:55.800 a lot of girls, and that's the thing, you know, 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:57.640 we could have brought someone on. It was just frankly 0:02:57.680 --> 0:03:00.480 like whack. And that's what I was kind worried about. 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:02.600 So to read about you and your activism and what 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:04.640 you're doing, it is activism. And as much as people 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:06.520 want to say like it's I've seen a lot of 0:03:06.520 --> 0:03:11.040 shitty comments about this, of course, and um, this is activism. 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:15.160 It's woman's rights, female rights, equal rights. I mean, I 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:17.560 think it's amazing. Um, So I want to dig into 0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:19.400 what that is. But that's why I'm just so pleased 0:03:19.440 --> 0:03:21.680 that out of any adult entertainment we could have had 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:24.840 on that strips that it's you. So I'm really happy 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:28.000 and thank you for coming. So yeah, tell our listeners 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.720 your name and my name is Jessoe Marie. Um, I'm 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:36.800 a stripper in New York. You know, I roll because yeah, 0:03:36.800 --> 0:03:38.600 because I'm a little bit upset with New York. But 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:41.520 you know, they're not understanding, but now they are. You 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:43.640 know why I'm pushing so hard for you know, in 0:03:43.680 --> 0:03:46.320 the beginning, it was something that was a joke to people, 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:49.560 and I was really serious. You know, people have their 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:54.400 own like, um, I say, they feel like I did 0:03:54.400 --> 0:03:56.720 this for attention. It wasn't really about attention. It was 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:59.400 really about what people need to understand and be aware 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:01.800 of what we go through. Yeah, well not only that, 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:05.320 what stripping is how you put food on the table 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:06.760 and how you pay your bills. And it's your job. 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:10.000 And it's crazy because people don't look at other strikes 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:13.080 that way. If people, if unions are out fighting for 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:16.040 higher pay, pair wages and everything like that. So for 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:17.640 you to say that people took it as a joke, 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:20.039 it's like people still have to realize it's still a 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:22.119 job at the end of the day, you know. Yeah. 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:25.160 I actually recently was talking to a girl that dances 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:27.159 and we were talking about her maternity leave and she 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:31.560 was talking about ready. We had this conversation so well, 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:34.719 I yeah you feel Yeah. Well I was talking to 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:36.880 her and I was just like, actually, she was asking 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:40.200 me these questions kind of like PTO and maternity leave, 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:45.920 and I was like, strippers are like an individual like subcontractors, 0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:51.360 their independent contract. So there's no benefits attached to You're 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:56.039 using your body. Yeah you know that. No, no, but 0:04:56.120 --> 0:04:58.440 that's the same as if if I'm a bartender, because 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:00.520 I have bartender for seven years, if I'm a bartender, 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:04.320 and I agreed to make tips. With at minimum wage 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:07.800 plus tips, I don't get benefits. Bartenders don't give benefits 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:09.760 unless you work for like a hotel. If I'm working 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:11.440 at a club, if I choose to work in that, 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:14.960 in that environment, I'm not getting benefits. I understand that 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:17.520 they don't know. What I'm saying is that to me 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:19.839 makes no sense. She puts herself more at risk than 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:22.280 I do. Sitting at a desk all day. She's using 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:26.040 her yeah, her body right and her mind. I mean, 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:29.000 it's a lot more physical work. Not to mention like 0:05:29.160 --> 0:05:31.240 I'm just I don't really interact with as many people 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:33.080 as she does. Like you, You're way more at risk 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:36.000 physical harm from other people, not just to what she 0:05:36.040 --> 0:05:39.320 could do herself from dancing and doing work. I think 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:43.280 that I think it's more so looking into the line 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:46.240 of just being an independent contractor period, because you could 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:49.200 be doing construction, you could be working at an office. 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:52.320 If you're an independent contractor, you don't even like nine 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:55.200 times out of ten, you're responsible even for your own taxes. 0:05:55.640 --> 0:05:58.920 So I think it's more of a look into deciding 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:01.760 to be an independent contract and the benefits that you've 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:05.359 received at that. More so, I think than stripping. The 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:07.400 reason I guess, like to me, I feel like strippers 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:11.840 deserve more benefits is because if I'm employed by a 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:15.440 certain company, whether let's say it's Starletts, I feel like 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:19.640 certain strip clubs should be protecting their employees better, Like 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:23.760 just think about physical harm from men when stripping, or 0:06:23.800 --> 0:06:26.840 like them getting too aggressive and abrasive. Like I feel 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:29.200 like if I'm putting my self on the line and 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:31.279 niggas is coming to see me and I'm making money 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:33.160 for you, you need to have more protection for me 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:35.799 and women don't have that. It's funny though, I worked 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:38.560 at Starlett's and a lot of these clubs, girl, they 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:42.279 knew my Instagram and my nickname. I didn't sign any paper, 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:44.920 they didn't have my social didn't know my address. I 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:47.320 came in there and worked. I worked Friday, Thursday, Friday, 0:06:47.320 --> 0:06:49.400 and Saturday nights the nights with no promoter, with with 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:54.200 the promoters, and they knew my instagram. But we were 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:57.120 in a group. Because that's kinds yourself a lot of 0:06:57.480 --> 0:06:58.920 I mean, dude, what if you got in a fight 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:01.080 or someone hits you over ahead with something a fucking 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:03.240 bar fight in Starletts. What if that happen. Yeah, you 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:05.000 don't get You're not gonna get used at the club. 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:07.440 I'm working for you. I'm making this money for you. 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:10.440 I deserve some kind of fucking benefits or secure even 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:13.520 glass breaking on the floor and you actually accidentally like 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:15.679 kneeling down and getting cut for picking up your money. 0:07:15.920 --> 0:07:19.160 You know you get nothing for that, right. That's especially 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:20.720 when you're the reason that people come to the clubs. 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:22.600 I think I don't eve a independent contract or not. 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:24.680 I think that more clubs need to be giving some 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:27.160 of these girls insurance ship like that. And I also 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:29.640 had this argument too with a friend's boyfriend was like, bullshit, 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:31.560 you want to do that job? Blah. I agree with 0:07:31.560 --> 0:07:35.200 a boyfriend. I agree with a boyfriend on that. To 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:39.520 me as and like I said, I tried dancing one time. 0:07:39.560 --> 0:07:40.880 It wasn't for me, but I still stayed in the 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:43.760 clubs and bar attended and I chose, which is why 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:46.080 my dad always was like, it's not a real job. 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:47.840 He said, it wasn't a real job, Like let me 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:49.720 know when you get a real job. Because I was 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:53.040 choosing to make cash every night instead of filling out 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:54.880 a W nine and letting them know all of my 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:57.000 tax information and stuff like that. To me, it is 0:07:57.000 --> 0:07:58.720 a choice. And to me, it's not an industry that's 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:01.680 gonna change. I don't think. Um, I mean you're working 0:08:02.160 --> 0:08:05.440 changes within the industry. It's just it's something that has 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:08.640 to be unified within the whole country. You know. Like 0:08:09.120 --> 0:08:12.120 certain clubs, like in other cities, they do pay their dancers. 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:18.440 They I'm not really sure about what the benefits. I know, Um, 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:23.080 what was it uma that club? Is that not all 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:26.680 spinning RNAL pays there? Um, well that's good. Their their 0:08:26.760 --> 0:08:29.560 dancers too, And then do you know what they pay 0:08:29.600 --> 0:08:32.240 them or how that wage? You know? Okay, so and 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:34.520 if it's a tipped minimum wage, so nine times out 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:36.559 of time, it would be about five dollars an hour 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:39.840 because their minimum wage now it's probably higher because at 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:41.760 the time when I last checked it was like this 0:08:41.800 --> 0:08:43.160 was like a couple of years ago. When I was dancing, 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:45.960 it was like seven seven something. It's like a but 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:47.640 that makes sense because I mean, what if like there's 0:08:47.640 --> 0:08:49.920 a few slow hours are coming earlier and I'm not 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:52.840 making money. I'm just really sitting here there right. Um, well, 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:55.160 let's start before because we get into like all the 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:56.840 questions we have for you about that. We have an 0:08:56.880 --> 0:08:58.679 icebreaker just to get to know you a little bit, 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:05.280 and I'm sorry if it feels little much. He would 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:10.880 you rather? He asked? Or like toes? Damn? This is 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:16.599 a common question too, that with who though male or female? Oh? 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:19.839 Because did your answer different for both? I don't know, 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:23.440 all right? What if it was female? Asked? I don't 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:27.600 do toast? I don't I would. Oh, it's asked both ways, 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:32.480 you asked, Yeah. But the toad thing, yeah, he is 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:34.679 just the fact that we would rather lick something that 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:37.640 ship comes out of over the wait, Alex, you know 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:40.240 why because you could you could actually wipe and clean 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:42.559 it before. I think people don't clean their feet before 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:45.280 they have that's a good I don't think that if 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:49.640 you shower like you on the floor, like I mean, 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:52.719 you're in your shoes all days technically, like that makes 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:54.680 me feel like you're gonna kill me. Like, yeah, feet 0:09:54.679 --> 0:09:57.080 are really bad, especially when you deal with tall guys. 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:02.920 I'm just scared. Feet are bad and not and I 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:05.679 think especially with men, they don't keep up with their 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:07.720 feet as much. Like I know men who will get 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:11.880 like manicures and hands. But I don't know many men 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:13.760 that keep up with their feet the way women keep 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:16.040 up with Honest, we don't even have to do with 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:18.200 this or that I'm gonna eat as period. Yeah, I 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:20.080 don't know about that. I actually do it without having 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:23.920 an option, So this sounds pretty crazy. I actually got 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:26.840 this one from BuzzFeed. Would you rather watch your parents 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:29.000 have sex every day for the rest of your life 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:33.959 or join in one time to stop it? It's a 0:10:34.040 --> 0:10:42.160 crazy question. Where do these people? But uh, oh my god, 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:46.280 that's picturing it now. I think I would actually just 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:48.439 watch it every day. Yeah, I didn't have to get 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:50.840 in there. I'll probably be sick. But with anybody going 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:53.440 to stop it, I don't think I can wait sex 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:57.440 with my parents my dad, it's not even an option. Yeah, 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:59.480 I don't know how the assistance would work. It's funny. 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:01.520 I really have one that I didn't get to go through. 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:05.840 And so this is also um in remembrance of Safari 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:09.240 and what just happened with his with his nude So 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:12.520 and it's actually kind of matches your question. So would 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:16.720 you rather have a nude leak to I G or 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:20.640 accidentally send your mom a video of you masturbating a 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:25.319 nude to really? So you were rather the whole world 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:29.080 feeling a leak nude than your mama who shot you 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:31.000 don't know, I don't care, I see it. I want 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:33.600 to say, this is a woman that is an adult 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:36.200 entertainer that just said I G. And then we have 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:38.920 someone else who works for the government that just said 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:44.040 nude on I G. Two, realie, what about you? I 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:46.800 mean your mom? I feel like a could be like, 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:49.319 I'd rather my mom see a video with you masturbating. 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:51.040 I mean, my mama didn't see my pus. She used 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:58.079 the white a sexual I don't know, like seeing bro. 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:01.120 Our mom's came to our lives. We talked about some 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:04.440 ship playing myself. I'd rather have my good I don't know. 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:08.640 To me, me sending that to my mom would be like, okay, mom, 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:10.680 delete that, don't watch it. To me if if my 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:13.520 nude ends up on idea the whole world see my 0:12:13.600 --> 0:12:17.440 moves or something like that, like that's different but actually massinating, 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:19.960 And then the should I'd be saying in the videos, 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:32.160 I mean, look what you did. I mean, I'd be 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:38.680 talking to him like you make the caption this one's crazy? 0:12:42.840 --> 0:12:46.080 Would you rather have sex with a horse and nobody 0:12:46.160 --> 0:12:49.360 knew or not do it and everybody thinks you did. 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:53.800 I rather let people think I did. I'm sorry, that's 0:12:53.840 --> 0:12:56.840 too much of a really thinking over there, because like 0:12:56.880 --> 0:13:02.400 how do you have sex with no? But I mean yes, 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:06.920 I couldn't say that a woman. I understand. But you 0:13:06.960 --> 0:13:11.400 got you got a haul on the bag? Oh? Or 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:15.120 what about you? You can you can suck a horse? 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:18.920 Next question, Okay, I do have one more question. What 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:21.439 is the weirdest thing that a customer has ever asked 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:24.320 you or said to you? The weirdest thing or something 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:25.880 that was just like what the are you felt super 0:13:25.920 --> 0:13:31.679 uncomfortable or honestly, I don't, I don't. They never really 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:34.000 asked me anything. But the other day recently, I could 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:37.040 tell you my my friend's situation. She got act to 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:39.400 go into a VP room with a guy. You know, 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:41.600 the VP rooms it's like secluded whatever. They have those 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:43.840 up here, not here. This was in Detroit. This is 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:48.520 an interesting We know they're in Detroit. I know it 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:53.040 was like that there, but hey, you know, but when 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:55.120 she went into the back room, you know, she thought 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:56.719 she was going to get a dance from him and 0:13:56.760 --> 0:13:58.120 whatever I mean she was she thought she was gonna 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:00.440 dance for him, and you know, he kind of like 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:02.560 requested and sit down, I want to dance for you. 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:05.800 So he started dancing for her and she got freaked 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:09.680 out because she was like, was he white? He was Arabic? Oh, 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:13.079 that would have scared any more. Wait, do you know 0:14:13.120 --> 0:14:16.680 how he was dancing. He wasn't like taking, No, he 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:18.680 was taking. He's being like a strip and he was 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:23.000 actually getting off on that. He wasn't joking and trying 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:25.320 to make her laugh. She was freaked out. I would 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:28.760 have been free. So she laughed her through. I mean, 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:30.320 but that would have been easy for her. Yeah, she 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:32.520 made money a lot of bit. But she was just like, 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:35.040 I never experienced something like that, So I thought that 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:36.760 was funny to bring that is kind of scary. That 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:40.440 funny how basically he's like no, like the dude basically 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:41.880 on the street and it was like, yo, nice ass. 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:43.320 I'd be like, oh my god, wann asshole. But if 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:45.760 he was like nice toes, I'd be so oh my 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:49.840 god all the time though, or even your nose like gyppy, 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:52.480 I guess that all the time. Like guys they love 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:54.880 looking at toos. They want to see they'll literally lift 0:14:54.920 --> 0:14:58.000 your your boot up from like, put your foot on 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:00.560 the bar, I want to see your feet. Like, yeah, 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:04.280 there's girls that get their feet's massaged in the clubs too. 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:08.440 Guys really like, it's crazy that it's number one. It's 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:11.720 crazy that women don't like feet half as much. They'd 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:17.280 be surprised. I've seen some videos of some of these instagrams. Yeah, 0:15:17.800 --> 0:15:22.240 I've seen it. Her little cousin had a video like 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:24.360 spread around in high school for sucking toes and I 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:29.200 was like, oh, so I'd rather be sucking dick than 0:15:29.240 --> 0:15:31.880 toes on Instagram, Like, honestly, you would rather be caught 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:34.760 sucking a dick than toes. Yeah, I'd rather be caught 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:38.040 because you ain't about to get me in. It's actually combarrassing. 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:41.560 If I stuck, that's weird. It's from my private selection 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:43.400 and that's all I got to explain. But if I'm 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:45.720 stucking feet, I gotta explain why the feet were. I 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:47.280 don't explain why dick was in my mouth, but I 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:49.960 need to feel like why this high school we were 0:15:49.960 --> 0:15:55.760 playing truth to dare? No, I mean like today, present day, today, 0:15:56.000 --> 0:15:57.960 the day we still play truth or dare? That could 0:15:57.960 --> 0:15:59.560 still be a dare You get hired for a top, 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:01.760 it's like, oh, you know, I had revenge porn done. 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:04.080 It was awful. I had to sue blah blah. But 0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:05.840 if they saw the day, it's like, oh wow. But 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:11.280 then the feet they're like, she's a terrible person. I 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:16.440 don't know, You're you're looking like, yeah, me too. I'm sorry, 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:20.600 I can't be. So every week we do a kink 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:22.360 of the week where it could be either a really 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:25.280 hard word that's something normal that we like, like asphyxiation, 0:16:25.360 --> 0:16:28.960 is choking or whatever. This week it's a simple word, 0:16:29.120 --> 0:16:31.480 but I wanted to talk about it because I think 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:34.640 we kind of use it every day. It's called age play, 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:38.840 and it's a type of fetish fetishistic role where people 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:42.160 pretend to be substantially older or younger than they are. 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:45.520 And so I've never really thought about this, and I 0:16:45.520 --> 0:16:48.840 don't do that, and I've said daddy, but I don't 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:51.680 know if I've ever acted younger than I want. Well, 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:54.960 you know, it's kind of kind of weird, like in 0:16:55.000 --> 0:16:57.440 the ship clubs, you know, some men kind of fetish 0:16:57.480 --> 0:16:59.800 young women, So you know, the older you are, you 0:16:59.840 --> 0:17:03.160 have to kind of play that little young girl. Like 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:05.560 now that you bring that up, I did just change 0:17:05.600 --> 0:17:07.520 my age on sinking arrangement because I feel like they 0:17:07.600 --> 0:17:10.800 want younger girl, so I just changed it to three 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:14.560 even seven. But I just know that older men don't 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:20.760 like more mature women, like yeah, yeah, even over. I 0:17:20.800 --> 0:17:22.959 actually like playing the cougar a little bit too. Sometimes 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:26.439 I switch roles. Yeah, do you want me like I 0:17:26.480 --> 0:17:29.720 like the young I'll be thirty girl. You can't be 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:39.080 a son like to like twenty one year old, you know, 0:17:39.160 --> 0:17:42.119 because they fantasize about one like the first time in 0:17:42.160 --> 0:17:45.080 the strip club, and they like older women, they do, they, 0:17:45.400 --> 0:17:47.960 which is what I deal with younger guys. But um, 0:17:48.119 --> 0:17:51.720 I've used the cougar term and was told that cougar 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:55.159 actually refers to I guess thirty five. It does, But 0:17:55.359 --> 0:17:57.560 I mean I'm saying as in an act of a cougar, 0:17:57.640 --> 0:18:00.199 you know, Like I can see that though. Yeah, Like 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:02.159 I've never been attracted to the young guys, but I 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.919 could see me like playing around and being like so 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:07.679 I get yeah, I get both. So it's fun to do. 0:18:08.520 --> 0:18:11.800 Are you more of like a submissive or dominant person within? 0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:14.520 Do you think? Well? At work or work or my life. 0:18:14.680 --> 0:18:18.240 I'm a submissive woman in my normal life, but at work, 0:18:18.280 --> 0:18:21.640 I'm more dominant. Really, I could believe that. I could 0:18:21.680 --> 0:18:24.400 definitely believe that I see that have to be aggressive 0:18:24.520 --> 0:18:26.720 that I actually wanted to ask you too. And we're 0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:28.879 about to get into this, but since it's on topic, 0:18:29.200 --> 0:18:32.560 do you feel like you're someone completely different? And do 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:34.840 you do you play a role when you go to work? 0:18:34.880 --> 0:18:36.720 Like is it literally like you're It just depends on 0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:39.359 what club you're working in, because there's different types of clubs. 0:18:39.359 --> 0:18:41.399 There's more of the traditional clubs and then we have 0:18:41.480 --> 0:18:43.960 the urban clubs where it's more about hip hop and 0:18:44.440 --> 0:18:48.480 you know, um and stuff like that, tricks on the 0:18:48.480 --> 0:18:51.800 pole and stuff. Why can you tell like, um, listeners 0:18:51.800 --> 0:18:54.200 like that maybe are visiting New York or whatever. Like 0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:56.840 I'm used to Southern strip clubs, King of Diamonds, like 0:18:56.960 --> 0:18:59.199 going in Atlanta. Not any of that here. And I 0:18:59.240 --> 0:19:01.000 know I've never been sister club here except for like 0:19:01.040 --> 0:19:03.480 sometimes you're not going to get anything here? But why 0:19:03.560 --> 0:19:05.240 is it so different? Like what is the culture of 0:19:05.280 --> 0:19:09.120 New York strip? Yeah? That yeah, well there's one there's 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:12.520 one club that's nude and that's um, what's that called 0:19:13.240 --> 0:19:19.800 Damns and Queens? No, it's not show palace, palace after 0:19:19.880 --> 0:19:24.280 hour spo, right, yeah, and so like, but no even 0:19:24.320 --> 0:19:27.160 the thing of like the way they dance like, but 0:19:27.200 --> 0:19:28.960 I think in the in the South, it's more about 0:19:29.160 --> 0:19:33.119 your going like it's like it's a show. They actually 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:36.760 like learned tricks on the poles. You want to know something, Yes, 0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:39.639 they actually do. It's just they're not being respected the 0:19:39.640 --> 0:19:42.520 way they should, like that's what I'm saying, Like they 0:19:42.600 --> 0:19:47.000 change the demographic of how traditional ship clubs should be 0:19:47.160 --> 0:19:49.919 now because now they based in it off of bartenders. 0:19:50.040 --> 0:19:53.800 So it's like a lot of the pole dancers are 0:19:53.960 --> 0:19:56.960 leaving because they're not being appreciated. So that's why people 0:19:56.960 --> 0:19:58.800 are like, oh, we don't see pole dancers. And when 0:19:58.800 --> 0:20:00.920 I see girls doing poll tricks and people don't take them, 0:20:01.840 --> 0:20:05.440 it pisses me because what they do is a girl art. 0:20:06.520 --> 0:20:09.800 Are actually gonna say there's I've lived. I have such 0:20:09.800 --> 0:20:13.000 a respect for them. And I know one pole dancer 0:20:13.040 --> 0:20:19.360 and I've worked in strip clubs up here and des Monique, Yes, 0:20:20.160 --> 0:20:23.560 she is amazing what she does in the art, and 0:20:23.560 --> 0:20:25.320 she worked in the city for a very long time 0:20:25.320 --> 0:20:28.080 and I know, I don't know if she bounces around clubs, 0:20:27.440 --> 0:20:30.800 she she spoke. She spoke up in the beginning of 0:20:30.840 --> 0:20:33.800 the of the stripper strike too. She spoke amazing and 0:20:34.000 --> 0:20:36.119 you know, and she you know, she spoke how she felt. 0:20:36.119 --> 0:20:39.879 And I as a stripper, and because I did both, 0:20:40.080 --> 0:20:43.440