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Speaker 1: Welcome to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. This your

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Speaker 1: girl Mandy be and I'm Wheezy, and we have a

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Speaker 1: very special guest today thanks to um James, one of

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Speaker 1: my friends from episode was twenty nine. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: James lives in Florida. He hits me up today, sends

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Speaker 1: me an article about you and he's like, yo, y'all

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Speaker 1: like I'm reading it helpins in posts and why this

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Speaker 1: She's like yes, where I was like so happy, um,

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Speaker 1: And it was a huge tagline about um, you guys

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Speaker 1: have maybe seeing the stripper strike or star tenders versus strippers,

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Speaker 1: and it's funny a lot of our listeners have actually

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Speaker 1: sex and technically what you do isn't sex. It's okay,

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Speaker 1: I like that, So we've had people wanted to bring

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Speaker 1: bad because I didn't want her to be like I

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Speaker 1: did this and I just spend my money on Like

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Speaker 1: I just scared, We're gonna find this ratchet Instagram stripper

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Speaker 1: that just one ship. Now, please but explain to me

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Speaker 1: And I feel like if you bring someone on that's

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Speaker 1: so right, but at the end of the day, was

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Speaker 1: So to read about you and your activism and what

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Speaker 1: If you're an independent contractor, you don't even like nine

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Speaker 1: I'm working for you. I'm making this money for you.

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Speaker 1: He said, it wasn't a real job, Like let me

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Speaker 1: and I'm sorry if it feels little much. He would

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Speaker 1: Because did your answer different for both? I don't know,

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Speaker 1: just the fact that we would rather lick something that

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Speaker 1: ship comes out of over the wait, Alex, you know

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Speaker 1: why because you could you could actually wipe and clean

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Speaker 1: toes on Instagram, Like, honestly, you would rather be caught

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Speaker 1: playing truth to dare? No, I mean like today, present day, today,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's kind of kind of weird, like in

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Speaker 1: even seven. But I just know that older men don't

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Speaker 1: I'm more dominant. Really, I could believe that. I could

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Speaker 1: Like is it literally like you're It just depends on

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Speaker 1: Damns and Queens? No, it's not show palace, palace after

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Speaker 1: with that. But you know, then you have to pull dancers.

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00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 1: You knew their tricks and stuff at that, and these

425
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,520
Speaker 1: girls that do lap dances and stuff like that. Now

426
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:58,200
Speaker 1: we have this thing where these girls aren't doing that anymore.

427
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 1: It's more like they're losing the strip club addicacy of

428
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 1: being a stripper. Right now, they're doing this strike well

429
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 1: right now, it's basically a movement UM based off of

430
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 1: UM fighting against the mistreatment of the dancers. You know. Um,

431
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: we do deal with a lot, you know, but it's

432
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,120
Speaker 1: also within us too. We have to do it change

433
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 1: within us. So UM. You know, I started it like

434
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,960
Speaker 1: a few months back where you know, I was coming

435
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 1: from DC. I made a lot of money, and I was,

436
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:31,400
Speaker 1: you know, on my Instagram being nosy because dancers tend

437
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 1: to event on their social media and people don't really

438
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:36,920
Speaker 1: pay attention. We all bet we all say little things

439
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 1: and we'll have conversations with our fans and stuff like that.

440
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 1: But it was to a point where it was just

441
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 1: like I noticed something that happened at Starlett's. A lot

442
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:47,400
Speaker 1: of girls were event thinking about something that happened at Starletts.

443
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 1: I have a stuff, you knows. I'm sorry, Um yeah, so, um,

444
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 1: something happened at Startus where supposedly, um, a hundred thousand

445
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,680
Speaker 1: dollars was throw own and a lot of dancers didn't

446
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:05,360
Speaker 1: make a lot of money that night. I don't know,

447
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: but the bart had has made most of the money,

448
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,120
Speaker 1: and it was a real fight, hassle, like to get

449
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:11,880
Speaker 1: to the money. And I had to go and look

450
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,679
Speaker 1: at the videos from that night because when they were

451
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,119
Speaker 1: venting about it, I said, this is ridiculous, Like a

452
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars can't be spread around the building. I

453
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,399
Speaker 1: don't understand, Like, there's so many talented dancers, there's so

454
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,479
Speaker 1: many beautiful women. You need to tell me you couldn't,

455
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 1: you know, support a dancer around And this was just

456
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 1: exclusively a certain group of guys that did that, you

457
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 1: know too, And they did it to the dancers. No,

458
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 1: they they were throwing it at the bartenders supposedly. But

459
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: I think it's not a difficult thing too with New

460
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,879
Speaker 1: York clubs. So even and I worked at Starlets m

461
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 1: maybe for three years, three or four years ago. Um.

462
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:50,679
Speaker 1: The issue too, I think more so is the location

463
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: of the stage being in the middle of the barn

464
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 1: because because and I'll say, and this was in the

465
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 1: this is the issue as well. And I'll say, because

466
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: I saw the bar, So you can't sit at the stage. Yeah,

467
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,439
Speaker 1: you can sit at the bar. Oh no, you're not

468
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 1: even allowed to sit at the bar anymore. The dancers

469
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: are allowed to sit at the bar. They're they're making

470
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 1: it very difficult for dancers to make their money because

471
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 1: white black whatever they're telling me, the dancers can, they

472
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 1: cannot know they cannot. That comes to listen exactly. That's

473
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They're changing the demographic of how we

474
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 1: make our money. They're making it harder for us to

475
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:31,959
Speaker 1: make our money. We were in a traditional club because

476
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,120
Speaker 1: supposedly it's for the patients. They sell bottles at the barn,

477
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 1: which is ridiculous, which is why you're even getting the

478
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: bottle servers like at Charlott's. I don't believe they have

479
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 1: bottle servers anymore. They have they have like I don't

480
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: know if you guys maybe understand um when she's saying

481
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 1: that it was being thrown at the bartenders, or if

482
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 1: you don't know what that means. Some of you will,

483
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 1: some of you won't, but I do want to read this.

484
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 1: This is a Washington Post article. Um, and the main

485
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 1: question I had about this was our Instagram models ruining

486
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,719
Speaker 1: the strip club. And here is a quote I got

487
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,640
Speaker 1: from the Washington Post. Um, the shift began about five

488
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: years ago, which is when the Instagram models and quotation

489
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 1: marks with large social media followings calling themselves star tenders

490
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 1: started to be hired in the urban clubs, primarily in

491
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: Queens and Brooklyn. Club promoters stopped seeking the best mixologists

492
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 1: and just started hiring straight from Instagram based on particular

493
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 1: kind of look and following bartenders started to resemble the strippers.

494
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,880
Speaker 1: They even reaped a lot more benefits um that articles

495
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:28,880
Speaker 1: from NYC strippers, writes dancers say, nearly naked bottle girl,

496
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 1: sorry that were nearly naked bottle girls are grabbing their cash.

497
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: So how do the bartenders end up sucking making more

498
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: money to strippers? Well, well, basically, um, you know what's

499
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: going on now from years ago? What the hupp and

500
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: supposed was explaining, well, five years ago, Um, what they

501
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: did was they put video vixens behind the bar. You know,

502
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: years ago, these girls actually had some type of poise

503
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 1: and structure. They knew how to carry themselves because they

504
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:03,360
Speaker 1: were just strictly coming to be a bartender. Now as

505
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: opposed to back then, it's different, like now you have

506
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 1: strippers behind the bar, so they don't want to leave

507
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: that stripper mentality and become a complete bartender. They want

508
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 1: to mix both of them. And now the clubs are

509
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 1: allowing that, you know, so so you don't really have

510
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:22,160
Speaker 1: to be good at making drinks unfortunately, which I feel

511
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 1: like it's really sad because how are you really running

512
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 1: your business like like wealth enough for you to make money.

513
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: Now you have these girls who don't have any type

514
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,679
Speaker 1: of customer service skills to be a bartender to bring

515
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 1: these um customers out to serve them drinks and stuff

516
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: like that. Now it's more like they're selling pussy. So

517
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:46,479
Speaker 1: it's because they dressed like I didn't know I went

518
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 1: to I mean, but you can't I don't know who

519
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: was a stripper, who was a girl. I mean, you

520
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 1: can't put blame. You can't blame that on the It's

521
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 1: not their fault. They're being told to do that, you know.

522
00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,399
Speaker 1: That's why I'm not really that's why didn't make it

523
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: about the bartenders. But you know, social media and the

524
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 1: media kind of construed what I was trying to push.

525
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: It's not about the bartenders. It's what the clubs are allowing,

526
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 1: the misconduct between both employees, you know, towards each other

527
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 1: as well. So let's say that they dressed like less sexier,

528
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 1: how exactly? And like, I know how this sounds, but

529
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 1: trust me, I'm on the side of yours. How do

530
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 1: they take the money out of your pocket? How? Um? Well,

531
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 1: right now, what the bartenders do is they swipe the

532
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,880
Speaker 1: money off the stage. A customer could be throwing money

533
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,239
Speaker 1: at the dancer and they'll literally jump in front of

534
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: the dancer and between the dancer and the customer and

535
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 1: kind of start working. So the money lands on the floor, Yeah,

536
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 1: the dancing behind the bar. Yeah, but it's also to me.

537
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: But there's also so you also have customers who were

538
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 1: coming for them one or or even walking. So when

539
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 1: I did bottle services Starlet's we were giving our outfits,

540
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 1: we were sent a screenshot of what our office will

541
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 1: look at night, and we had to wear them that night.

542
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: When I first started, we were paying forty dollars outfit,

543
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 1: and then by the by maybe a month in the

544
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,239
Speaker 1: club was paying for our outfits. So we had no

545
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: saying what we wore for one and two. As we

546
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 1: would walk around with bottles or if we were soliciting

547
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: hookahs or bottles, attendance would ask us to dance for them,

548
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: whether because they liked what we look like and they

549
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: liked here, it's not. But at the same time, if

550
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: we're sitting here making our money the same way as

551
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 1: that means you need to use what you do as

552
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: what's what's inquired for your job to make that money.

553
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 1: So if you know how to hustle with mothah, we're

554
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 1: gonna do that. Up sell bottles to make our tips,

555
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: especially because so for our tips, if we sell like

556
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 1: I could run four five tables, the other girl could

557
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 1: only run bottles to one. At the end of the night,

558
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: we're splitting all the money. So to me, if a

559
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: guy wants me to shake a little butt or flirt

560
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: with him, or I'm sitting here trying to upsetale at

561
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 1: the end of the day, at a little, a little dances,

562
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 1: but because they've never had a right so they're latantly

563
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: taking their titties out at this point. Now really now

564
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: that I haven't seen, but I will say bartenders are

565
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: doing more than that. It's working the dancing that you said,

566
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: but they're behind the bar, so it's not like they're

567
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 1: touching or gyrating, which is even a problem now because

568
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: if we're out there, we're getting touched on and we're

569
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: not getting paid for it. How do you think that's fair?

570
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not fair. But there, I mean, they're

571
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: like they're more leting dances to these men. They're dancing

572
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 1: behind the ball. We don't and we know they're not

573
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: giving dances because they're doing other things outside of the

574
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: club anyways. So so the bartender the girls are from

575
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: from the hundred thousand dollar instance that happened, so they

576
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: they were taking the money was seen a video or

577
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 1: they were they were getting the money themselves. What is

578
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 1: the thing that happened? Because because I'm a little confused,

579
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: were they taking money from? Now it's the point, Well,

580
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: in the video, what was being just um, what was

581
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: what I was seeing was the bartender? You know, they're

582
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: off they're not on the stage. The dancer would literally

583
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:21,959
Speaker 1: have to get off the stage to pick the money up.

584
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: So now it's like a battle between the dancer and

585
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: the bartender because they're like literally fighting for the money

586
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: because it's so much money being thrown. And you know,

587
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 1: it's like, oh makes sense, I'm here, yeah, I want

588
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: my money. But the bartenders have this thing where they

589
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: swiped the money off the stage. What are you thinking

590
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 1: right now because you're quiet. No, as a bartender, you're

591
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 1: supposed to be tending to your bar and you're supposed

592
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: to instead of dancing. Issue too, though, well this is

593
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: the issue too. And I think that this is where

594
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: the disconnect can come from because if I am a

595
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: bartender and I'm sitting with you the whole night, we're talking,

596
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 1: we're having a conversation, you're flirting with me. But there's

597
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: a million of there's millions but but well, no, here

598
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: it is. That's what they made it to me. That's

599
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: what they made it to be. Guys will make you

600
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: instead instead of giving a tip, but here when that's

601
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: what they made it to that they made it a trend,

602
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 1: which is actually not even a good one word at

603
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: a nonstrip club. When I worked at Soby on South

604
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: Beach in Miami, there would be guys they would ask

605
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: us for ones to throw us our tips behind the bar.

606
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: Some guys don't. You make it rain. And so that's

607
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 1: the thing too, because where the stage is located, if

608
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: if if she is a dancer and she's dancing in

609
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: front of the person, I guarantee the bartender isn't gonna

610
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: come from behind the bar and take her tips. Excuse

611
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: me that I gotta disconnect you with that one, because

612
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 1: what the bartenders do do is that they will tell you.

613
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 1: They'll actually tell the customer not to tip the dancer. Now, see,

614
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: that's that's a whole. And I don't think all bartenders

615
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,239
Speaker 1: are doing that, what not are But I don't know

616
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: that texting the customer, i'd see the text we're on

617
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 1: a stripper strike. I think it's for a reason. You're

618
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 1: editing when you work un bartender for a long time

619
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 1: might be different, but if there's a sucking strike, it's

620
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 1: got to be a reason. Well no, And so Crystal,

621
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 1: my roommate, was going to lust a lot, and she

622
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 1: said that even as a customer, has gotten to the

623
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: point where she can't enjoy it because the strippers are

624
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: like it's becoming to where everyone is literally grabbing as

625
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 1: soon as money because there there are survival mode because

626
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: they can't even be they can't be strippers. They're not

627
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 1: allowing them to do their jobs. How like, I want

628
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: to read this one thing and this I don't know

629
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: if these are your quotes, but I got this from

630
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: having some posts when you had certain demands that were

631
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 1: discussing you want if I read those often tell me

632
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: if I'm wrong. So thesa demands and the way that

633
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: you think that this is gonna be fixed, because I

634
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,959
Speaker 1: was just gonna ask you how we fix it? Do

635
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 1: away with the house fees, stage fees or any mandatory tipping.

636
00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what a lot of did you? Did?

637
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: You say these things? I feel like it's a collect

638
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm speaking for what women. These are, These are demands

639
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,959
Speaker 1: from women. There's I'm sing for them, and I want

640
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 1: to ask you about from that because because I might

641
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: not even know how, I have a question about that.

642
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 1: Stop all the races hiring and firing policies on what

643
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 1: you want and I don't care what. And that's not

644
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: only an urban we're talking about in the upscale. I

645
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 1: can't with denying them certain shifts or firing them. Allow

646
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: strippers to be strippers, allow bartenders to be bartenders. They're

647
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 1: different jobs. It's that simple. Stop body shaming policies. Don't

648
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 1: coerce from it into plastic surgery, or require them to

649
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: work out the stop contracts that control their behavior inside

650
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 1: and outside the strip club. For example, a dancer may

651
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 1: be forced to sign a prostitution liability documents stating that

652
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: they do not meet clients outside of work. I'm what

653
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: you're there, um. Stop forcing strippers to do marketing for

654
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: you and exploitive or invasive ways like offering dancers a

655
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: discount on their house fees in exchange for clients phone numbers.

656
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: Get rid of house moms, the hired female staff that

657
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 1: sets up shop in the dressing room to provide everything

658
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 1: from Q tips to emotional support to home kick meals.

659
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: They charge fees for all those items, and they're offeringly

660
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 1: o their often eyes and ears of engagement. We can

661
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: get our own supplies. We've got moms. Get real security.

662
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: We'll tip them. The security staff available to us now

663
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 1: polices us by searching our bags for condoms and drugs

664
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: instead of protecting us. What, I'm gonna make this quick

665
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: stop mandatory tip out for dance DJ's host floor people.

666
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 1: They have many titles, give us rice and treat us

667
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 1: like employees, which excuse me, they're fucking what security They

668
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: don't protect us, They're they're supposedly. I think somebody just

669
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 1: told me today. I don't know what club it was,

670
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 1: if you have condoms in your back? Yeah, because what if?

671
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 1: What if it's not for the what if you're going

672
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: to see your boyfriend after work? Like who cares? Like?

673
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: Why do you? Why should? What are they searching for condoms?

674
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,720
Speaker 1: Didn't I didn't even notice. I think she probably interviewed

675
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 1: a lot more people besides me. Oh, this is just

676
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I saw your name right before. So yeah,

677
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: this is different demands. You know, the drug thing. I

678
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: can understand that, I understand, but I don't want to

679
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 1: hear the security. All right, there's supposed this is what

680
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: I heard today that security Like if you go to

681
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: sign a contract at a certain club, on the on

682
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 1: on the contract it says security is not here to

683
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 1: protect the dancers, is more to protect the customers. So

684
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: what if this customer is attacking me, are you not

685
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: going to protect me? Like, what rights do you have

686
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 1: if this is and and it's happened where a customer

687
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:39,359
Speaker 1: has attacked a dancer and the dancer was kicked out,

688
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: or even women getting I think that that's different amongst

689
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:46,280
Speaker 1: depending on management, because they shouldn't even have a difference

690
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 1: of anything. But I mean, but that's how people like

691
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 1: you can work at one company and it be ran

692
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 1: a certain way, and go to another company and they

693
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: have completely different rules. I think that if you look,

694
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: if you take a look at this just from a

695
00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 1: business standpoint, like even talking about eliminated house fees, how

696
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 1: else is I want to talk about. What is a

697
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: house fee? Is paid to rent the What they say

698
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 1: is that you're renting the room. Okay, First of all,

699
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 1: these people are millionaires. They have money, they can pay

700
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 1: their workers, especially they don't they don't have that many workers.

701
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you where I agree with her on

702
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 1: the house fee part. Where would you find the girl

703
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 1: to dance for you? Now? I gotta pay to bring

704
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 1: people and entertain the people that's sitting in your club

705
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 1: when you make money in the bar, that's bullshit. I

706
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 1: completely agree with the house fees. I think that if

707
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 1: I'm sitting up here and as an independent contractor, if

708
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: you're not even gonna give me fucking benefits, now I

709
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,800
Speaker 1: gotta pay to be here when you need women in

710
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: the club, that is bullshit. M hmm. I will say

711
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 1: the only thing that I would agree with is if

712
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: the house fee came with some liability for myself as well.

713
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 1: I don't mind the house feel as long as it's reasonable.

714
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: How what's the cheapest and what's the most expensive? Is

715
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 1: the cheapest house fee I've seen in history was in Detroit?

716
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: How much one? Wow? I mean, but but that's that's

717
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 1: that's my thing though, Like dancers are making non taxed

718
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: money or strippers, bartenders, whoever you want to look at it.

719
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 1: When you're working in this type of environment, they're making

720
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: untaxed money. And essentially, aside from the bar, how else

721
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 1: is the club going to make their money. They also

722
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 1: save by when you have to tip out when you

723
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: when you have to yeah, but when you have to

724
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 1: tip out the DJ, when you have to tip out

725
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 1: the house mom, those are now expensive that they don't

726
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,719
Speaker 1: have to take care. But here's the point. You don't

727
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,399
Speaker 1: have a strip club without strippers. Listen, let me tell

728
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: you something. Us paying not dollar house fee. You know

729
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:45,840
Speaker 1: how many women would come into work to pay a

730
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 1: dollar because at the end of the day, our job

731
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: is to entertain customers. We make them spend money we

732
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 1: make You don't understand is, first of all, this is

733
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 1: a job that's mainly run by women. Probably, if not,

734
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: strippers are women by not sticking by women that have

735
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: to pay fees and things like this to make a living.

736
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 1: You have a degree, right, I not saying that all

737
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 1: strippers aren't smart, but maybe they're just getting their degrees

738
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,399
Speaker 1: and they really don't have another way to make money.

739
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:12,800
Speaker 1: Now we have to charge you to make money, and

740
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 1: you might not because the bartenders are taking it. And

741
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 1: then let alone, what if I don't make money, I

742
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 1: still have to pay to be here. You're not protecting

743
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 1: me in any way. I got to pay the security

744
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 1: that's not securing me. Like, there's a lot of things

745
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 1: that do go beyond the business being shady. Come on, dude,

746
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 1: but I also think that they're three if they make

747
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: that on the house sees. I'm sorry, but it's different

748
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 1: amongst for one, each strip club for one and for

749
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 1: two where but That's what I'm saying. I guess right

750
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: now you brought up Detroit, but no, no, no, I'm

751
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: talking about this is only not only Detroit. Collectively, dancers

752
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,919
Speaker 1: don't want to pay houses. They're paying too much money

753
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: and they're not profits expensive one you've seen out right

754
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 1: now this this weekend a C I double A. These

755
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: women are flying from New York to go out to

756
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:09,800
Speaker 1: make this. How do you say, like this huge amount

757
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: of money and that's not even promised to them, you understand, Like,

758
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: do they don't know if they're gonna make this money

759
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: that they quote unquote are going to make. Is there

760
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 1: anything that you can do, like as a dancer, Like

761
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:25,360
Speaker 1: let's say like, hey, if I only work at Starlets,

762
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,359
Speaker 1: do I not get to pay the house? Pep? I'm

763
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: an exclusive stripper? They're like if I'm your feature dancer, Like,

764
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: is there anything you can do that they do do that?

765
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: They do do that. It's it would be considered a

766
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 1: little bit of a favoritism, you know, So it's more like, yeah,

767
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 1: I mean they could do something like that, especially if

768
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: the woman is promoting the club. I feel like they should,

769
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: you know, give them some type of a discount. An

770
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: average Um, like what do you pay? It depends well

771
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 1: right now, because I'm kind of banned from all the

772
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 1: clubs in New York. I like I work in the Bronx. Well,

773
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: not all the clubs, mainly queens certain clubs I'm a

774
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 1: banned from working at like these. What you're doing? Okay? So, um,

775
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: I'm working at a club in the Bronx called Club

776
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: w It's the former Mr Wedge. Um, day shift. It's

777
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: like starting at twenty dollars. I think they pay you

778
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 1: if you come in before twelve, so you know, because

779
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 1: they they have like day shift and then it goes

780
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 1: in tonight. The highest house pieces probably like sixty. What

781
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 1: do you um, what's your main goal? Like, what are

782
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 1: three things that you really like? Are non negotiables for you?

783
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 1: Like you said the house be like whatever, right you can?

784
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 1: If it's not crazy for you, maybe you can afford it.

785
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 1: Some girls can't. But like, what are three non negotiables

786
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 1: that you really really want? As far as for the

787
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:43,320
Speaker 1: shippers to make the sps, I just feel like, excuse

788
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 1: me about the purpose. Excuse me, dude. There's someone that

789
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: likes this bird fetish. I'm sure they're gonna do this.

790
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 1: Might end up. So we Actually there's videos over here

791
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,720
Speaker 1: because for five bucks a month you can watch bonus

792
00:40:55,719 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 1: footage and that might let a nick page. That's thanks.

793
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: Um yeah, what are your no negotiables? Like things you

794
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: want to change? I just feel like the bartenders need

795
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: to be uniformed more appropriately, not like a stripper, you know.

796
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,399
Speaker 1: I feel like they need to also stop dancing behind

797
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 1: the bars. I feel like they should do their jobs,

798
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: you know, like if you have good customer service skills

799
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 1: and good work ethic as a bartender, use it. You know,

800
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: why do you have to cross front to what a

801
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 1: dancer does, you know and dance behind the bar, because

802
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 1: now you're just cutting off from our money, what we're paid,

803
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 1: what we're paying and fish nets okay to wear, Yeah,

804
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,439
Speaker 1: that's I feel like that's traditional. I feel like that's

805
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 1: what should wear or even listen. Nowadays, like half these

806
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 1: bartenders are being forced to get their bodies done in

807
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 1: order to even have the position. So your body is

808
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 1: already voluptuous, even in a black body suit. You can

809
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 1: still see your body. So I don't understand what's what's

810
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 1: the big deal? You know, why can't you just be

811
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: covered up and just respect because that's when you were saying,

812
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: Like I was like, I wonder what, because when I

813
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 1: think a bartender in the strip club, I'm thinking like

814
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 1: the fishnets, panties, like a cute top, or like what

815
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: I wore on South Beach, but that's but here, no,

816
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: you're getting strip ofits. Wow. M hmm. Okay. It's sad

817
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 1: because they're you know, they're there are a lot of

818
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 1: women are getting forced into doing their bodies because they

819
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: think bartending is more of a lucrative career, which it

820
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,319
Speaker 1: really isn't because still some of these bartenders are dancing,

821
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 1: and of course they're not going to admit that, but

822
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 1: it's like you're basically working twice as hard now because

823
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: you you want to push to be this person, this

824
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 1: bartender or whatever, but you're still dancing. So it's like

825
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: respect what we do and join us, you know, instead

826
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: of going against us. So that's the number one thing.

827
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: I think the problem though, too is and and it's

828
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: what you just said, as far as we'll join us,

829
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 1: I think that there's still such a separate stigma, but

830
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: now they're creating they're creating a bad stigma for being

831
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 1: a bartender because they're doing what we're doing. Actually you've

832
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,359
Speaker 1: never heard the show, but Mandy and I always joke

833
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: about should be like always talk to about these girls.

834
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 1: I do. The star tender thing. To me, I think

835
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: it is a joke. It is a joke only because

836
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:09,839
Speaker 1: it's not even a start. Honestly, I love a hot

837
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,320
Speaker 1: girl that works in the bar. I don't want to

838
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 1: see the instam they're trying to publicize on an era

839
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 1: that's or it's non existent. The real star tenders are gone.

840
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,799
Speaker 1: You understand, those girls are not even in the ship club.

841
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:27,359
Speaker 1: The main star tender and the infamous one is Bernieburger. Yeah,

842
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 1: and the story, you cannot talk that woman, even if

843
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 1: you're like depending on it. You know, this woman did

844
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 1: not have to dance behind a bar to make money.

845
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 1: She brought out a freaking crowd for being who she was.

846
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 1: You know, she was her own talent. She was a

847
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 1: video vixen. You know, she was in the top artist videos.

848
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 1: You know, these girls now they're just you know. But

849
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,439
Speaker 1: I also think that that's where the issue was coming from.

850
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:52,439
Speaker 1: So when these clubs hire these girls with these large

851
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,879
Speaker 1: followings that don't bring any customers out, they a lot

852
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: of them do bring customers out, which a lot of

853
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 1: them don't. Some of them may not, but a lot

854
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: of them do. So you're not only forcing them to

855
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 1: you're not forcing them, but you're not only turning them

856
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: into you know, the bartenders, the startenders. You're now also

857
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: adding the promoter title to them. So they're promoting these

858
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,359
Speaker 1: people to come out to see them. They're promoting because

859
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,439
Speaker 1: they pay more work for them. Yeah, and it's sad

860
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 1: because they're being pushed to do so much. And it's

861
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 1: like like a question. We have a friend, a girl

862
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: that when I first met you, I think for Miami Danny.

863
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: Danny gets flown out and it's put on flyers to bartend.

864
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: What is she only only here and she's done starletts,

865
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 1: But that's because Starlett's if girls are in town, my

866
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: friend Dedy and my friend me, like a lot of

867
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: my friends that are not bartenders in any city that

868
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: they live in, when they come up to New York,

869
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,319
Speaker 1: because they have eight hundred thousand followers, they get put

870
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: behind the bar. But that's also to save These girls

871
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: are no longer getting hosting fees, so when they say

872
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: they're hosting, they're only walking out of there with what

873
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 1: they make at the bar. So that's just that's when

874
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 1: the clubs are no longer having to pay them. Yeah,

875
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 1: this is which is really messing up the game. They

876
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: need to stop doing that. And this is what I was.

877
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 1: I was so upset when I seen a Lexus Sky behind.

878
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: First of all, you have an image. You're going backwards,

879
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: baby girl, you're going backwards. Why are you behind the bar?

880
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 1: And I honestly, I feel like a lot of these

881
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 1: Instagram models need some type of management too, because they

882
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: really yes, because they're not realizing, like you have such

883
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 1: uh of a movement now, like your image is what's

884
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 1: making you big. You could be making way more money

885
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 1: than what you think. These people should be paying you

886
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 1: to come to their club. And they're not as the

887
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 1: way they would pay any artists. No, but they want

888
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 1: to put They want to say, oh, you're gonna they

889
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: She works as a strategist for an advertising front for

890
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 1: Art Basil. She has to pretty much find people that

891
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: will talk about Basil and talk about these certain events

892
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 1: in the art district of Miami. On Instagram, there's a

893
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 1: chick called Amy Song Song of Style. She's like, you're

894
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 1: not gonna believe how much we paid her. She has

895
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe ten million follars something like that.

896
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 1: This chick charge is fifty dollars to come to Miami

897
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: for three days all pre damn meals. Recovered your worth

898
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: fifty dollars and they gave it to her. She's like, Oh,

899
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: we got her her a deal. It's that you even

900
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 1: say that, because you know that's how yeah, and a

901
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 1: lot of women don't. That's how the power of influence.

902
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 1: And you know what they paid her for. She said,

903
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:27,760
Speaker 1: they paid her just come to the events tag four posts.

904
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 1: I always told myself this because even it was when

905
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 1: Aces was open and incident happened, I was so upset

906
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: because it was just like, I feel like they don't

907
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 1: they don't respect us as women, they don't see our

908
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 1: worth as women. And I told myself, I'm never coming back.

909
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 1: I'm not even stepping for I came back, but you know,

910
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:48,439
Speaker 1: I said, I'm never stepping foot in this club until

911
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: they freaking pay me. Like seriously, now, I'm so serious.

912
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: They will literally have to pay me now to step

913
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,399
Speaker 1: foot in any of these clubs. And even if they don't,

914
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,240
Speaker 1: I don't care because I know they're gonna pay meywhere

915
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 1: else for what I'm doing, you know, So it's like

916
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 1: what I I basically, how do you say it? I

917
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:10,320
Speaker 1: kind of pushed what I was saying to in existence

918
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,399
Speaker 1: now you know, I'm really on that level of thinking

919
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 1: like they're not. I'm not coming in anywhere until I'm

920
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 1: getting paid. I think what you did has getten so

921
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,399
Speaker 1: much like before I was talking to on the phone

922
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: and you were saying you're going to Trevor Noah later.

923
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:23,280
Speaker 1: Why do you think that what you've done has caused

924
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: so much buzz that you can be on Trevor no

925
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 1: White people watch this because it's it's more of a movement.

926
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 1: It's a it's some it's a new age movement. You know.

927
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 1: I'm fighting for you know, women's rights, equal rights, you know,

928
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,320
Speaker 1: in a different way, you know. And I feel like

929
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 1: what we do in our in the industry that I'm in,

930
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 1: it's like it's being silence, and I feel like we

931
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 1: need to be heard more because you know, people we

932
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 1: we do speak on social media and people like, well,

933
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,760
Speaker 1: you're just a stripper. No, I'm not just a stripper.

934
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: I'm still human. You know. Once I leave out those doors,

935
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: I have a home to go to, I have a

936
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 1: family to take care of, or have to go to

937
00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: school tomorrow, or I have another job. You know, have

938
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 1: any clubs had to close down or has anybody even

939
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:04,879
Speaker 1: like who gets affected the most from this? Well, when

940
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 1: Aces closed down, it affected a lot of women's pockets

941
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: a lot. But that was just more so for we

942
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 1: don't have neighborhood complain so they had enough people. But

943
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: for like what you're doing now, You're like, a strike

944
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: is to affect someone's Well, it did. It's scared a

945
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 1: lot of people, you know, it's scared like the promoters.

946
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: I've had promoters even come to me and tell me like,

947
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 1: you know, you can you chill? You know, they would complain,

948
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 1: they woupset. It was just different emotions from everyone. Then

949
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 1: it was to the point where it was just like

950
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 1: some strippers is like, well I can't stop working. They

951
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 1: did stop working for the clubs are probably kind of

952
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 1: slow for a good month. What is the secondary income

953
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 1: for a stripper? Like how can a stripper that wants

954
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 1: to strike with you make another Like what do you

955
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: see that your friends are doing? Your colleagues? A lot

956
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 1: of women are just going out of town if even

957
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:52,280
Speaker 1: if that, or they're working at clubs that are pro dancer.

958
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 1: You know, it's more that they support the strippers. And

959
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 1: what does that mean, Well, they don't allow certain things

960
00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 1: to happen, like between the barts and their dancer about it,

961
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 1: or the way the stages are set up where you

962
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 1: know it's for the dancers, you know. I think that's

963
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 1: also just a dynamic to where when you have like

964
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: you keep using employees and bartenders being employed. I think

965
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:13,880
Speaker 1: that that's the issue with the I'll say the urban

966
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: um clubs. They want to us well, not only do

967
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,359
Speaker 1: they want to consider the hustle, but the bartenders are

968
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 1: really not employees of the club. This is why artenders

969
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 1: are brought in by the promoters and so that the

970
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 1: promoters don't have to and this is this difference in

971
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: white club then they actually get paid. You know, white

972
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 1: clubs are also they also sucking white clubs. It's not

973
00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 1: even that it's not against their own will, like if

974
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,359
Speaker 1: you want to, yeah, it's your choice, but it's more,

975
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:45,280
Speaker 1: you know, they actually run a business up scale because

976
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: it's the professionals about what they're doing. I feel like

977
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 1: the urban is not as professional. They just collecting money,

978
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 1: you know. Um, this is why I feel sorry for

979
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 1: the bartenders too, and a lot of women because they're

980
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 1: pushing this image like, oh, bartender is a lucrative career.

981
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: There's women literally say I want to be a bartender,

982
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 1: not realizing the same way as you know being a shipper,

983
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 1: that you don't know what it entails. And it's so sad.

984
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 1: These women are really going to get their bis on,

985
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 1: thinking they're gonna get this permanent position in the club,

986
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 1: and then they get tossed in two seconds. Talking about

987
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 1: how bartenders get their asks one i'd be like you did, yeah,

988
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 1: And they're getting tossed in two seconds, and they end

989
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:26,439
Speaker 1: up being as soon as there's another girl that is better,

990
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: or hotter or more followers, which is why a lot

991
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 1: of the bartenders who feel like they have their set

992
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: nights get mad when girls like Alexis Guy come to

993
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 1: town because now she just took someone's spot who would

994
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 1: have normally bartended on a Saturday. It happens to me.

995
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 1: It also became a racial issue within the clubs, so

996
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: they don't they don't like black girls. I want to

997
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 1: talk about the racism that she pays, can you I

998
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: want to talk about one um, how racism affects you

999
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: from management. And then I want to talk about racism

1000
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: with customers. Let's say that customers may let's start with

1001
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 1: management first. Okay, Well as being you know, a light skinned,

1002
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: Hispanic and black woman, you know, I kind of get

1003
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: away with certain things, and a lot of women see that,

1004
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 1: you know, and there's my colleagues who don't get away

1005
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 1: with it. So this is why I was so defensive

1006
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 1: about the black women, because they tell me how they

1007
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:19,359
Speaker 1: get fired for doing the same thing that I just did,

1008
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:23,360
Speaker 1: you know, like trying to defend my money against a bartender.

1009
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 1: They'll be like, no, no, no, no, you just split it.

1010
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: They'll tell me something like that, it's over, she's getting

1011
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,320
Speaker 1: she's she's getting out of there, she's getting fired, and

1012
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: it's not fair, you know. Even she's just speaking and

1013
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: she's vetting to the management and they're going against her,

1014
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: you know. And then with the whole bartender situation, you know,

1015
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 1: there's not a lot of black women behind the bars.

1016
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 1: There's all this Hispanic. They're promoting this Hispanic, which is

1017
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 1: a problem. Yeah, or white. You know, a lot of

1018
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:55,840
Speaker 1: a lot of tone like LETTERR skin tone. So it's like,

1019
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:59,439
Speaker 1: what's wrong with being a beautiful, dark skinned woman behind

1020
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: a bar. There's a bunch of beautiful women out here

1021
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 1: that are darker than me. You know, have you seen

1022
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 1: anything like so as far as the customers right, as

1023
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: far as far as girl getting higher, have you seen

1024
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 1: the customers do anything or like like, I've had customers

1025
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 1: tell me which I don't understand. But this is the

1026
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: club's fault too, because they promote this, you know, they

1027
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 1: promote this image like this is what you should come

1028
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 1: to see, and it's just strictly light skin all the time.

1029
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 1: So when you see comments like where's all the black women,

1030
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:26,439
Speaker 1: where's all the black women? It's to the point where

1031
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 1: they have these customers manipulated thinking well, this is what

1032
00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:32,399
Speaker 1: I should be going to see, instead of them having

1033
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 1: their own preference, or promoters are pushing them to sit

1034
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,600
Speaker 1: at this specific person's bar because she's light skin, because

1035
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: they think that's what the what the customer may want,

1036
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:45,839
Speaker 1: you know, So excuse me, um, I've had an um

1037
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:48,719
Speaker 1: an incident at City Escapes was SI years ago. This

1038
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: is when I started realizing about because it's it's don't

1039
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 1: really the same anymore from what the girls they're telling me,

1040
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 1: you know, because I having a step. I haven't been

1041
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 1: there about a year, but I have in my there

1042
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: in a while. But it was it had its run

1043
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 1: in Queens as well. It had a good run a

1044
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 1: couple of years ago before aces happened. That was like

1045
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:10,760
Speaker 1: the spot to be bad. But um, I had an incident.

1046
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,799
Speaker 1: This is when I realized about racism because I never

1047
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:17,040
Speaker 1: saw a color I didn't like. I was that innocent

1048
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,399
Speaker 1: as a stripper that I never looked at a person like, oh,

1049
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 1: she's darker. I never really saw a color until that

1050
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: customer blatantly said, well, I want a Spanish woman. And

1051
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:30,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, but I'm Spanish. So I was confused and

1052
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 1: he's like, no, I want a light skin Spanish woman,

1053
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 1: and I got yes. I got so offended. So, you know,

1054
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 1: we all deal with racism, the Blacks, the Spanish, the

1055
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,760
Speaker 1: white too. You know, we all deal with the racism,

1056
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:45,399
Speaker 1: but black women deal with it the hardest and it's

1057
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: so sad. They'll be like, oh, well you're pretty for

1058
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 1: a black girl. For a black girl, that's so insulting, Like,

1059
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 1: you know, and I have a friend miss a lot

1060
00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 1: of booty, a lot of you probably. Yeah. And so

1061
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: she used to work at Starlet's as well, and she

1062
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 1: literally say like there would be a limit on how

1063
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:05,319
Speaker 1: many black dancers they could have a one night. Yeah,

1064
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:07,319
Speaker 1: it was like that in a lot of clubs there

1065
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 1: they had a night just strictly for Spanish women. You

1066
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: couldn't even work and work there if you were a

1067
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 1: certain it's her money would be affected. She was kind

1068
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 1: of this night in Orlando at this place called the Palace.

1069
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 1: Palace was popped on a Princess Valentina that works there.

1070
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 1: And I got there and I was like, I remember

1071
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 1: counting five Spanish girls and I was like, I know,

1072
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 1: it's Spanish night. The some bitches wasn't up, and him like,

1073
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: why are the no black chicks? Then I asked one

1074
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: of the girls, the bottle girl was coming to me.

1075
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, are there no black girls there?

1076
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: And not to night? Yeah, she said, okay, not to night.

1077
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you, how come you haven't started

1078
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 1: working at a white strip club. Actually I've worked that

1079
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: white strip clubs in Vegas. Okay, you know they are

1080
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:57,240
Speaker 1: more versatile, They just like you're the women a little slimmer.

1081
00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 1: So I was almost borderline too thick. But I did

1082
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,399
Speaker 1: work at like sapphires and sperm mine. I actually worked

1083
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:06,719
Speaker 1: the graveyard shift, which is the bad shift. It's when

1084
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,480
Speaker 1: they had they have you working two to eight in

1085
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 1: the morning. In the morning to eight in the morning.

1086
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 1: So I another thing. Everybody that was slim or light

1087
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:19,759
Speaker 1: skin was working the earliest shifts. Not only that. I

1088
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: had a friend who auditioned for a white maybe Rix,

1089
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 1: Rix's white in the right, and they literally told her

1090
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: she should come back when her hair grew. She had

1091
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 1: a short cut like a pixie, and they literally told her,

1092
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:35,400
Speaker 1: let us know when you put a weave in and

1093
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 1: make it long, because they didn't want girls with a

1094
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:41,359
Speaker 1: short it was too urban and too um. Yeah, they

1095
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 1: literally told her to come back when her hair grew.

1096
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 1: And so you still deal with she knew her right,

1097
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 1: and she knew her right. She would have sued because

1098
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,759
Speaker 1: they can't do that. Oh that I didn't know they

1099
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: just club that. I didn't know there was You do

1100
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 1: kind of have rights? Then, oh, yes, we do it.

1101
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: Just we need to do our research. That's the problem.

1102
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 1: A lot women don't mean yes, women need to start

1103
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:07,280
Speaker 1: doing their research. A couple of years ago, a girls

1104
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 1: suited a club called Sugar Daddies. This is not the

1105
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 1: most recent was an old club. I think the Old

1106
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 1: Sugar Daddies um for not allowing her to wear her

1107
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 1: afro and she won. Oh wow, So yeah, that's crazy,

1108
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:22,360
Speaker 1: which is which is crazy because I wonder if that

1109
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 1: had anything to do. I don't think it did with

1110
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 1: the past and just playing devil's advocate. What can the

1111
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:32,840
Speaker 1: strip clubs say as far as like your upkeep? I

1112
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 1: think one thing they could say, and you know, it's

1113
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,439
Speaker 1: important when girls come in and they'll say they don't

1114
00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:41,520
Speaker 1: hire a stripper that they find honestly. What's more, well,

1115
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 1: what's more should say? What can they say to you

1116
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 1: if they feel like we're full, we're not taking. Like

1117
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 1: my roommate worked at King of Diamonds in Miami and

1118
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 1: she was a bartender and she couldn't go on the

1119
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:56,360
Speaker 1: floor unless she paid to have her makeup. All of

1120
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:58,280
Speaker 1: them had to have their making. Yeah, I think certain

1121
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 1: things it should be in four because you know, you're

1122
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 1: you're you're representing yourself and this club. You want to

1123
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: look a certain way for the club, you know. That's

1124
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 1: why I feel like it's not only the issues within

1125
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:13,560
Speaker 1: that's working against us, is within ourselves too. We need

1126
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:16,760
Speaker 1: to start having some type of stripper addicacy in New

1127
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 1: York because a lot of the girls don't keep themselves up,

1128
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 1: you know. So now this is why we're facing even

1129
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: bigger stigma because we're like, oh, we're considered trash. There's

1130
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 1: a lot of beautiful dancers, but we're being outweighed by

1131
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 1: the dancers who don't keep themselves up. But that's not

1132
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 1: our fault either. That's the clubs just taking these women's

1133
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: money and throwing them into the wolves and not explaining

1134
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 1: to them, yeah, how they just want to collect, you know.

1135
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 1: And I feel like it's not fair to these women

1136
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 1: who are coming into the gate not knowing, like the

1137
00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 1: fact that you're charging a girl a house for the

1138
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 1: first day instead of letting her make her money at

1139
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 1: least try. They shouldn't be charging her the first day,

1140
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 1: and she'd be letting her work so she can get

1141
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 1: the new shoes that she needs, you know, because a

1142
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 1: lot of these women, you don't know what their situations

1143
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 1: as why he was trying to do it for a

1144
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 1: birthday gift. She'd be a dancer for me and so

1145
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 1: vent and they can range one of my most expensive

1146
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:16,919
Speaker 1: shoes is probably four D and then the upkeep on makeup, lashes, hair. Yeah,

1147
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 1: they don't understand the expenses that we have to go

1148
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 1: through on a dailies. They don't care, you know, and

1149
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 1: it's like it's sad. Like like I said, every woman's

1150
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 1: situation is different. You don't know if this girl probably

1151
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 1: lost everything and this is she has her last hundred dollars.

1152
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 1: She's coming in with a pair of bra and panty

1153
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 1: and some regular shoes and she wants to make money.

1154
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: Let her make her money so she can invest for

1155
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: the next day tomorrow. You know, they're just literally taking

1156
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 1: these women's money. They don't even know this girl from

1157
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 1: a hole in the wall. They're just like, yeah, you

1158
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 1: have to pay this. One of the things in there

1159
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 1: was a club, madam. Can you explain what that is?

1160
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:54,919
Speaker 1: Which one house madam? A housemam is like a mom.

1161
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 1: She kind of like she has like all these like

1162
00:58:57,840 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 1: stuff everything, like she has everything, she has to camp

1163
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 1: ons for the women, she has food, water, um, hair

1164
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 1: scrunched and do we want to get rid of the

1165
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: house mom? I don't think we should because you know what,

1166
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,520
Speaker 1: it's we already deal with so many responsibilities a house

1167
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 1: mom is very important, and they're very important people. And

1168
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 1: you didn't you didn't say this. This is what I'm saying. Yeah,

1169
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:22,800
Speaker 1: it's a combination. I feel, you know what, from that

1170
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 1: let it said that they're charged for everything. Maybe the

1171
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 1: club could pay the house mom. That's yes, that's what

1172
00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 1: they need to do. I feel like that, you know,

1173
00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:31,920
Speaker 1: because we honestly, I feel like they deserve a tip

1174
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: to the house mom does deserve a tip because they

1175
00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 1: do cater to us, you know. But the whole charging

1176
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 1: us for things, I don't think they should charge us.

1177
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: I think tipping her for her for what she's brought us.

1178
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:45,640
Speaker 1: I think that's important, you know. And I'll compare the

1179
00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 1: house mom too. If if any of our people are listening,

1180
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:51,200
Speaker 1: and I haven't been to a strip club or worked

1181
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 1: as a dancer, you can compare a house mom to

1182
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 1: the lady in the bathroom at the club who has come.

1183
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 1: It's the same thing, the same concept. But that's the

1184
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:02,960
Speaker 1: thing too. I think that how could a club necessarily

1185
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 1: pay her if she's purchasing all of these things that

1186
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 1: she's giving you, ladies. So I guess it makes sense

1187
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:10,920
Speaker 1: to be tipped accordingly. She should be tipped, but the

1188
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 1: whole fact that you're paying a dollar for a tampon

1189
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 1: is ridiculous. Yeah, I mean, yeah, yeah, you know, I

1190
01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:20,720
Speaker 1: don't think that's happening in all the clubs, but you

1191
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: know this is this is women's complaints, like this is

1192
01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:25,439
Speaker 1: certain clubs, not all clubs do that. So the whole

1193
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:27,680
Speaker 1: taking out the hosp mom, I don't really think that's

1194
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 1: necessarily true. A random question that you're probably not even

1195
01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 1: ready for. Oh god, we're talking about Tampa tampon. So

1196
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:37,000
Speaker 1: we had a doctor on because Mandy talked about how

1197
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 1: she's had sex with a sponge. Told her what do

1198
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 1: strippers do? They are on their period and then need

1199
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 1: to work. How do they There's a lot of techniques.

1200
01:00:50,880 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 1: There's a sponge technique I've heard about that they are

1201
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 1: They've stuffed wipe ees up. I just used the tampon.

1202
01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: I'll just cut this drink. Yeah, I'll just get the

1203
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:08,320
Speaker 1: strength push. Well, the girls down South, that's their technique. Yeah,

1204
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 1: that's their technique. But or the sponge, if you stick

1205
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:13,920
Speaker 1: it up, it stops the blood from essentially coming down.

1206
01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 1: That's I mean, we're from a sufish. That's why I

1207
01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:18,640
Speaker 1: heard these tips. So I have a question. I have

1208
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 1: a question to real quick before we close out that

1209
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 1: hasn't necessarily been talked here. Me and her um have

1210
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 1: a certain response for men, being that we have this

1211
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 1: podcast where we talk about sex. When it comes to

1212
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 1: you dating and meeting men, what is their response to

1213
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 1: you being a dancer and how do you deal with

1214
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 1: with that? It's really hard because you know, men woun

1215
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 1: get intimidated by what we do because we're around men

1216
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: all the time, but they don't realize we were in

1217
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 1: and we're acting. It's an act. You know. We don't

1218
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 1: necessarily like the people that we speak to. You know,

1219
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 1: we just there to entertain them or listen to them,

1220
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 1: listen to their problems or whatever. You know. It's not

1221
01:01:57,680 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 1: the same as your real life. Yeah, outside of outside

1222
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 1: of you know, being that are married and have kids

1223
01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: at home, and yeah, there's a there's a lot of

1224
01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:11,520
Speaker 1: there's a lot, you know, and it's just it's hard

1225
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 1: for them to you know, because they you know, they

1226
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 1: still deal with their men being a little bit jealous.

1227
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 1: But as long as you have a strong relationship with

1228
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: your with your partner, are you doing an Unfortunately, no,

1229
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: I talked I talked to I talked to guys. But

1230
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like my personality is so different

1231
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 1: it doesn't even matter. They think I'm like a complete lie.

1232
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 1: Like it's so like I feel like you're you're not

1233
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 1: You're not. Have you ever lied because you were like

1234
01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:45,480
Speaker 1: maybe were you ever ashamed of what you did? Now

1235
01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 1: you're sucking you're everything right, like and I'm sorry, not

1236
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 1: that you were before, but like now it's just like

1237
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:53,280
Speaker 1: you can back it up and be like, look at

1238
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 1: me here and you're the billboard. So but have you

1239
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 1: ever been ashamed and lied? And what was your lie? Job?

1240
01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 1: I wasn't really more. I was just trying to keep

1241
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 1: it secretive from my parents because I started at eight Team,

1242
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 1: my first club since city. And I always, like, you know,

1243
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 1: I was always a performer, even as a child, So

1244
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 1: I was never like nervous or anything like that to

1245
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 1: be around people. But you know, my parents, I didn't

1246
01:03:15,320 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 1: want them to find out. They didn't know, you know,

1247
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,080
Speaker 1: yeh when did they find out? When they started finding out?

1248
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 1: When I was they I mean, my they're my grandparents,

1249
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 1: you know, they raised you know, they're old schools. They're

1250
01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 1: looking at me. My grandmother started looking at the money

1251
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 1: I was bringing in because she was just like, where

1252
01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 1: are you getting all this money from? She didn't know

1253
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 1: because I would hide my shoes. And then after while

1254
01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:39,920
Speaker 1: I kind of got kind of sloppy with it, and

1255
01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 1: she'd seen my shoes around on my outfits, so she

1256
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: knew something was up. And then my grandfather who's super

1257
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:49,800
Speaker 1: like strict, and he was dis owning my one of

1258
01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 1: my cousins for even having a tattoo. She's He's like,

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01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: I'm dis owning right, this was years ago when I

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01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 1: was a kid. He's like, oh, she has a tattoo.

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01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: I'm just owning her. Blah blah blah blah. You know

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Speaker 1: that that's just being a little ignorant, you know, because

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Speaker 1: it's old school. But you know me, you know that

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Speaker 1: me being their child, they're just like they have to

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Speaker 1: just respect what I'm doing. And just I didn't really

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01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 1: tell them. They just you know, and they're just like,

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Speaker 1: you know, they just want there. They're more considered about

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01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:20,720
Speaker 1: my safety and more than anything. So it's so funny

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01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 1: because in this time of activism, like I don't know

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Speaker 1: when it started to happen to me, but maybe I'm

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01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: just getting older. But I was in the strip club

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Speaker 1: recently and I was watching how a guy was talking

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Speaker 1: to a girl. I remember being like, it's respectful, but

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01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:38,600
Speaker 1: that's an urban fun. But now it's like I just

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Speaker 1: feel different. Yeah, I don't know. And we have to

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Speaker 1: deal with a lot. And that's what people fail to understand,

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Speaker 1: Like they're like, oh, you you go in there to

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01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:48,920
Speaker 1: get disrespected. No, we don't. You don't have to shoot

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Speaker 1: us like that. What do you say that? Because when

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01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 1: someone loves to tell us you should expect no first

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01:04:56,080 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 1: of all, that you expect they get treated disrespectively out

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Speaker 1: in it be on a normal day. Right, No, it's

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Speaker 1: excuse me, why are you talking to me like that?

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Speaker 1: Don't And toes you said, so do you? Um? And

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Speaker 1: now you've been working in my last question just for you.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you have one, but you've been

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01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 1: doing this what ten years now? So like like I've

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01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 1: had regular jobs to what was one of your regular

1289
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:20,000
Speaker 1: child I was a deet collector and I was a

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01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 1: lifeguard to at Trump Towers girl, I would definitely so.

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01:05:25,360 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 1: So of course, you know you're beautiful, and you said

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01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 1: you're approaching thirties, so you probably definitely have more time left.

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Speaker 1: But um, what do you do? You have plans after stripping? Oh? Yeah,

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01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 1: what what what would you like to do at Well?

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01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 1: From the beginning, I always wanted to invest my money

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01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 1: into opening a business, you know, but since this happened,

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01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 1: I really have a lot of great ideas. Now this

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01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 1: is since this became more of of a movement, like

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01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 1: I want to start empowering women. So I'm soon having

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01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 1: an empowerment brunch developing. And I actually wanted to start

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01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 1: a strip or walk to so hopefully that comes into

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01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:04,680
Speaker 1: play as well. So we got a stripper. Can we

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01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 1: just be supportive? Yeah? Because even I feel like every

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01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 1: woman has an inner stripper in them, you know, everybody

1305
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:16,560
Speaker 1: so dreams like this is no bullshit of being a stripper. Yes,

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01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 1: you gotta respect what we get the idea. Do you

1307
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 1: ever get turned on what you do? Yes, that's what

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01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:26,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Even I was intrigued by it. I'm sure

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01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:30,000
Speaker 1: everyone has like, what's that movie called where? What's her

1310
01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 1: name is it? Girl? Even show Girl? This show Girl?

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01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:36,160
Speaker 1: How many stripper movies are empowered women to be strippers?

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01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 1: To just you know, like Diamond, everybody that's Dimond. Oh,

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01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:48,440
Speaker 1: it's so funny they used they used diamond on when

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01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 1: the stripper strikes started on the Shade Room. They were

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01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:54,280
Speaker 1: like infamous for that one. So what would be your

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Speaker 1: takeaway for people who listen to this episode and may

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01:06:57,280 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 1: have learned things that they didn't know about the industry

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01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 1: or about inside the club, or about being a stripper.

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01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 1: What would you want them to take away? Um, as

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01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 1: far as their mindset on what you have going with

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01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:11,919
Speaker 1: the stripper strike, as far as like do you want

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01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 1: them to side with you? What is one thing that

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01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:18,480
Speaker 1: you just want people to have a respect and understanding,

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01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:22,720
Speaker 1: you know, like you don't have to agree, but just

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Speaker 1: respect us because we're still human beings at the end

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Speaker 1: of the day. Being a stripper is not. We're not aliens,

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Speaker 1: you know, Like that needs to stop already. Like I'm

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01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:35,480
Speaker 1: a I'm a woman, you know, I deserve some type

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Speaker 1: of respect at the end of the day. I have children.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you have a mother. You came out, you

1331
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 1: came out of a pussy, you know. So it's like,

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Speaker 1: you know, one quick question, one question questions. So it's

1333
01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:53,880
Speaker 1: like you have guys trying to talk to you all

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Speaker 1: the time when you're at the club. How like, how

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Speaker 1: can a guy talk to you out like the fellow,

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Speaker 1: Like I said, you know, I know I have a

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Speaker 1: certain standard on how men should speak to me, you know,

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01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 1: like I want to be spoken to correctly. You know,

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01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:22,679
Speaker 1: don't come like yo, ma was good. That is definitely

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01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:24,640
Speaker 1: not the way you are? You okay with being hit on?

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01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 1: And like, how can someone hit on you in a

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01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 1: respectful way while you're at work? Which strange because it's

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01:08:29,160 --> 01:08:31,720
Speaker 1: at work. It's just I'm more of the I like.

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Speaker 1: The type of guys I go for is more of

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01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:36,840
Speaker 1: the quiet guys because I'm more like attracted to life.

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01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:39,479
Speaker 1: I like the challenge, you know, I like to like

1347
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 1: to dig into the person and you know, see what

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Speaker 1: they're about. I don't really go for the guys who

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Speaker 1: kind of talk to me too much because yeah, because

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Speaker 1: it's just like you're just doing too much, you know,

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01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:53,280
Speaker 1: so it all just be a respectful gentleman and it

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01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 1: may get you far. I know a lot of you

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01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 1: guys don't know how to do that because we already

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01:08:57,280 --> 01:09:01,880
Speaker 1: deal with so much, just so and feel like they

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Speaker 1: can still be normal. Yeah, that's the thing. She's like,

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Speaker 1: she's saying, with an alien, you feel like it's this

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01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:09,120
Speaker 1: crazy thing, which is crazy because she could probably even

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01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:12,760
Speaker 1: have sweats and a turtleneck on but her. But I've

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01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 1: had sweatpants. I look crazy. One day and a guy

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Speaker 1: pulled up in a Rolls Royce and he was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: this is my car. He was a lawyer, you know

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Speaker 1: all right. I couldn't believe it, and I was just like,

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01:09:24,400 --> 01:09:29,040
Speaker 1: I look freaking crazy right now. You know what's going

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01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 1: on here? You know that matter like that? Like, I mean,

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01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:34,920
Speaker 1: that'll happen to me. I don't have childbearing hips and asks,

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01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 1: but you know, well our followers, um, and I will

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Speaker 1: say I can't wait to put clips of this because

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Speaker 1: you're so much more beautiful in person. I will say,

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Speaker 1: you're actually way more beautiful a person like you're beautiful.

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Speaker 1: So I can't wait for you guys to see who

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Speaker 1: we have. I don't even know if we need to

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Speaker 1: take a picture with you, we like, because I'm like,

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Speaker 1: she fine, Um, where can our listeners find you? And

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Speaker 1: also do you have anything as far as blogs or

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Speaker 1: websites where they can read up on the stripper strike? Oh? Yes, Um, well,

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01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 1: I had to make a new stripper strike page because

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Speaker 1: somebody hacked it. I don't know if it is between

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01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:15,799
Speaker 1: the government or or one of the promoters. Yeah, because

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01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:18,599
Speaker 1: it's it's you know, it's causing so much of an impact.

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Speaker 1: It really shook the world, like the stuff hit Russian news.

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Speaker 1: You know, it wasn't like something that. Yeah, So you

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Speaker 1: can find me on Instagram. My Instagram name is dri

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Speaker 1: th h E g I z E l E m

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Speaker 1: A r i E. And then I have my New

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Speaker 1: York City Stripper Strike pages NYC Stripper and then Strike

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Speaker 1: and then Underscore Strip Strike. And we'll definitely go ahead

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Speaker 1: and put that in the description for this episode as

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Speaker 1: well as if you follow us on our Instagram page

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Speaker 1: at Horrible Underscore Decisions, will post pictures of our beautiful

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Speaker 1: guest today, Giselle, and we will all will go ahead

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01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:02,960
Speaker 1: and definitely show support for the Stripper Strike movement and

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01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:06,320
Speaker 1: what you have going on. So excited. Yeah again, thank

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01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:08,400
Speaker 1: you guys so much, and please keep us updated when

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Speaker 1: you do do that walk or your women Empowerment Brunch,

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01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 1: will definitely post it for our um listeners and thank

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Speaker 1: you guys so much for listening. This has been yet

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Speaker 1: another episode of Horrible Decisions. By Bye