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Speaker 1: Well, I invited you here, thought I made myself perfectly clear.

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Speaker 2: But you're I guess to my home.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm Bridgard Wineker. I

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Speaker 3: for anything. You also learned this morning a little piece

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Speaker 3: of information to teach you that dogs and cats don't

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Speaker 3: So if you shut off the podcast now, at least

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Speaker 3: you've learned something. And all that said, who cares. I'm

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Speaker 3: so excited about our guests, thrilled beyond words. Ze Way fumado, Hi,

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Speaker 3: how are you? How's it going?

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Speaker 2: I'm swell.

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Speaker 4: How are you doing?

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Speaker 3: I'm okay? What's going on?

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Speaker 2: I'm sitting in my bedroom doing a podcast? What about you?

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Speaker 3: I'm doing the same thing. We usually record a little

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Speaker 4: It's twelve o'clock in la. What time do you wake up?

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Speaker 3: Well, it's Saturdays. I don't know what to tell you.

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Speaker 3: You're at three o'clock. You're in New York less than afternoon.

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Speaker 2: I still wake up before twelve.

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Speaker 3: I woke up, But I will have you know I

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Speaker 3: woke up at seven forty five this morning.

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Speaker 4: Okay, flex, weird flex, But okay.

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Speaker 3: What time did you wake up?

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Speaker 4: I woke up at seven as well.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you woke up it far earlier than me.

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Speaker 4: Is that I wake up set seven every day?

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Speaker 2: I have like a natural biological clock that keeps me up,

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Speaker 2: I don't drink coffee, so in that sense, I feel

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Speaker 3: Do you consume caffeine at all?

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Speaker 3: Is that? What is the choice behind that? I mean right?

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Speaker 2: Well, I just I never really got on that wave

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Speaker 2: it doesn't do like people say that they get they

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Speaker 3: Right, did you? When was the last time you had caffeine?

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Speaker 3: I do consume a decent amount of caffeine, but it

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Speaker 4: How much coffee do you drink the day?

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Speaker 3: I drink probably like one or two iced coffees, one

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Speaker 2: Your twelve pm conversation was too difficult.

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Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, every conversation is difficult for me. So I've

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Speaker 3: So you're waking up at seven am, and what then?

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Speaker 3: What does the day? How does it unfold? Especially because

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Speaker 3: You're free to go about your life? What's going on?

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Speaker 2: I'm we're in phase four famously, but I don't leave

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Speaker 2: No, it's actually sickning in your mind. I am lousing

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Speaker 3: Yes, So what are you doing all day in your apartment?

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Speaker 2: Work? I work because I run this live, weekly live

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Speaker 2: Taylor Nolan from The Bachelor, So I'm going to watch

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Speaker 4: Yeah, really great.

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Speaker 3: An interesting thing about the show, you do is I mean,

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Speaker 3: Who is this Bachelor woman?

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Speaker 4: Her name is Taylor Nolan.

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Speaker 2: She's actually a black woman famously, but she she was

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Speaker 3: Wow. So, and that show has a variety of racial issues.

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Speaker 2: Script intelligence vision has I mean, media has issues, right right? Yeah? All,

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Speaker 3: That's very true. So but with Bachelor, when did she

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Speaker 3: Bachelor Paradise. I apologize to Bachelor fans around the world

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Speaker 3: for my ignorance, but yeah, is different from The Bachelor.

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Speaker 2: Yes, have you no culture?

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Speaker 3: Basically I know a little bit about The Bachelor. I

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Speaker 4: Know that's a fair description.

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Speaker 2: Bachelor in Paradise they go to Mexico and they have

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Speaker 4: So basically what happens and it's kind of complicated.

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Speaker 2: So on Bachelor and Paradise, every week they alternate between

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Speaker 2: And if you don't have a boyfriend or a girlfriend

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Speaker 2: And people will swap boyfriends and girlfriends. Yeah, it's wild.

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Speaker 3: And is there any element of I mean, is there?

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Speaker 2: So honestly, the hard part is that it takes it

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Speaker 2: You have the coolest name, but your wine guard.

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Speaker 2: Yes? I mean I'm sure you experienced this in like

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Speaker 3: Are you trying to get into that territory where you're

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, you'll be the third people. Twenty years

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Speaker 3: Just let me just let me make that prediction, please.

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Speaker 3: A decent prince is iconic. Madonna's like, I think I'm iconic.

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Speaker 3: Prince and Madonna. That's very true. Madonna, Like, if she

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Speaker 3: probably would be an icon. But there's some she's really

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the rebel, the rebel love that phase of her

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Speaker 3: She gets into some really rough territory, and it really

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Speaker 3: who can help you make these decisions?

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Speaker 4: We we love the competition in industries.

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Speaker 2: Moving exactly. I'm on the I'm on Riah, which is

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Speaker 4: No, not at all.

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Speaker 3: No, No, you've got zero interest? C Seaway has no interest,

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Speaker 3: That's fine, Seeway, I don't care. I'm trying to help you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, help me find do you know?

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Speaker 3: Right, But those are like you're gonna find eventually that

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Speaker 3: It's truly a miracle that anyone's in a relationship.

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Speaker 3: I am, I've been in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: Well, lucky you, Hi.

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Speaker 3: I brought this all up. I wanted to do an

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I saw an instagram of Gigi Hadid and Zane Malick hugging,

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Speaker 2: Oh, don't feel bad for me, for you.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm pitying you a lot right now. Everyone's hardest

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Speaker 3: See way, this will all be removed from the podcast.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to sew together some other words you've said

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Speaker 3: That's how I've made my career. No, but you said

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Speaker 4: Please open my gift.

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Speaker 3: automatic reply of okay, thanks for the heads up, Okay,

444
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,440
Speaker 3: thanks for letting me know, and okay, no problem. So

445
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 3: this is I feel like this is a whole. This

446
00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:38,120
Speaker 3: is an I said no gifts first where you know usually,

447
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 3: I mean, the title of every podcast is blank, disobeys Bridger. Blank.

448
00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 3: You know whoever my guest is disobeys Bridger. They've come on,

449
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 3: They've given me a gift. They've deliberately disobeyed me. And

450
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:53,680
Speaker 3: this is I guess this. I mean, I'm gonna have

451
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 3: to print this out and have it framed or something,

452
00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 3: because this is coming from down the line. People will

453
00:21:57,840 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 3: be saying, are you a first name like zee Way,

454
00:21:59,880 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 3: this is a gift, but this is also I mean

455
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 3: fair I just have to say fair enough, absolutely fair enough.

456
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 3: But I need I want you to talk and speak

457
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 3: to this, oh.

458
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 2: Speak to that jack giving you jack shit because it's

459
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,879
Speaker 2: actually audacious that you would ask you need to do

460
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,200
Speaker 2: your podcast, And then I asked me for a gift.

461
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,680
Speaker 4: So no, I'm not gonna give you, mister white man.

462
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 2: No I'm not going to send you anything.

463
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 4: Are you crazy?

464
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:26,119
Speaker 2: Are you out of your mind?

465
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:26,879
Speaker 3: No?

466
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,359
Speaker 2: So that was my that was my gift to you.

467
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 2: Is nothing.

468
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,400
Speaker 4: You get the privilege of my presence.

469
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:36,439
Speaker 2: My presence is a present, gets my ass is anyway.

470
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,399
Speaker 3: You have ambushed me in the biggest possible way on

471
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 3: this podcast. This is shocking. I feel betrayed, but also

472
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:51,200
Speaker 3: so I feel whole. I feel like this, this feels

473
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,440
Speaker 3: like a completed circle. And I also feel like you've

474
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:58,119
Speaker 3: you've gotten ahead of other guests now and now this

475
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 3: is really ceiling. Nobody can you at this point. So

476
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 3: we're kind of guaranteeing that every guest in advance will

477
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 3: have to give me a gift.

478
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 2: Oh, one hundred percent. I am a pathfinder in what

479
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 2: I won't do for this white man. Famously, That's probably

480
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:14,879
Speaker 2: why I'm single.

481
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 3: I mean, nobody can blame you at this point. I mean,

482
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 3: you're out there living your life and the world is horrifying,

483
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 3: and especially the straight male or I mean the white

484
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 3: male population, and then we had straight if we can

485
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:34,120
Speaker 3: get into that another time, but it's a horrifying time,

486
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 3: and I don't blame you.

487
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:40,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, during a global pandemic, slash a civil rights movement?

488
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:44,400
Speaker 2: You want me to send you a gift?

489
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 1: Are you?

490
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 5: We're wilded Sway, I will say in our initial recession,

491
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 5: I will say, in our initial email exchange, I apologize.

492
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 3: I tried to make it as easy as possible for you.

493
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 3: I realized this podcast is a big ask for every guest.

494
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 3: But this, I mean, this is also the exact gift

495
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 3: that zee Way should be giving me. This feels, I

496
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 3: mean like I should have predicted that. I mean, but

497
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 3: that's the fun thing about you, is like you have

498
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 3: a very specific thing you do, but it's still surprising.

499
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 4: Are you're surprised by this? Wow?

500
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 3: Could I not be surprised? I mean this, You've made

501
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 3: history on this podcast by giving me absolutely jack shit.

502
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, I will say you, on some level,

503
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:37,439
Speaker 3: this isn't absolutely jack shit because it's still you had

504
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 3: to type do not open several times.

505
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:40,920
Speaker 4: I copy and pasted it.

506
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 3: Oh well you had to. I mean, let's just go back.

507
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 3: You had to learn the the keyboard shortcut to copy

508
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 3: it paste. This is a whole lifetime of learning and

509
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 3: everything poured into this. I'm I'm just saying it right now, thoughtful,

510
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 3: deeply thoughtful gift you've given me.

511
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 4: You're not paying for the gift.

512
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 2: You're paying for the experience.

513
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,959
Speaker 3: I'm paying for the experience. And I feel like, I mean,

514
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 3: it was a jolt to my system. It's exciting, it's fun.

515
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 3: And yeah, I mean you're probably I mean you're exhausted. Yes,

516
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 3: you're you're not only a black woman, but you're also

517
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 3: trapped in your apartment. It's a global pandemic. H And

518
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 3: you're also, let's just say it, you're blowing up.

519
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 2: Yes, I believe that's what people say.

520
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 3: How is that all feeling for you?

521
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 4: It's surreal because.

522
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 2: You have to understand, I am not someone who leaves

523
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 2: my house so so so I go on to my

524
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 2: phone and I get all these notifications, but like in

525
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 2: the day to day life, it's just it's me going

526
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 2: to my bathroom, me going to my kitchen and me

527
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 2: going to my living room.

528
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 4: That's about it.

529
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 3: But then you just have this constant noise coming at you.

530
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Speaker 3: Does it feel like the Instagram show is? Do you

531
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 3: feel like the audio is growing exponentially or is it like,

532
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 3: do you feel like it's leveling off? What's the deal?

533
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel it's growing, it's growing, It's

534
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 2: still growing. I don't think I've hit the capacity yet.

535
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 3: You you initially were reaching out to people to be

536
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 3: on it, correct, yes, Are you still doing that or

537
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 3: now people approaching you?

538
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,160
Speaker 2: I mean it's a combination of the two. Some people

539
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 2: approached me and other people I reach out to myself,

540
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 2: Like Alexis Niers reached out to me. She's the one

541
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 2: from the Blinkering pretty well, so she reached out to

542
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 2: me for me to do her podcast, and so I

543
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 2: was kind of an exchange where I was like, will you.

544
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 3: Do my show?

545
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 4: So it depends on the guest, right, it depends on

546
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 4: the guests.

547
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 3: What is her podcast?

548
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 2: It's called Recovering from Reality and it's basically about how

549
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:43,119
Speaker 2: she was.

550
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Speaker 4: Have you heard of the Bling Ring and.

551
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 3: All that stuff? I mean, I was like I was

552
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 3: familiar with it, like that there's the movie and that

553
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 3: they had stolen something and they were like all the teenagers.

554
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 3: And then Jim my boyfriend recently showed me, I don't

555
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,719
Speaker 3: I wonder if like she's come back into the zeitgeist

556
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 3: because she was gonna be on your show or something.

557
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 3: But like last week he sho me a video of

558
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,880
Speaker 3: her like recording a message.

559
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 1: On a phone.

560
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 3: Yes, Nancy Joe, who is Nancy Joe.

561
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 2: Nancy Joe is reporter for a Vanity fair that like

562
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 2: wrote this wrote this article that was like something about

563
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 2: lu batons and how she she like walked to court

564
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 2: in lubatons and like thigh highs and inappropriate.

565
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 4: And it basically hurt her case.

566
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,959
Speaker 2: And she got convicted of stealing from Orlando Bloom.

567
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 3: Oh, Orlando Bloom, that's the name I haven't heard in

568
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 3: about fifteen years. I know.

569
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Speaker 4: So the characters.

570
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 2: I think she was only convicted of robbing one one house,

571
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 2: but like the Bling Ring characters led by this woman

572
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 2: named miss like something Lee. She they robbed Paris Hilton,

573
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: Drina Patrick, Okay, Orlando Bloom, Like the list goes on.

574
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: Rachel Bilson. Yeah, And there were all like rich valley

575
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 2: kids who wanted to look like their favorite stars.

576
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 3: Oh how crazy. I mean every name you just mentioned,

577
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 3: I just like was a I was transported to that

578
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 3: and four that.

579
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 2: Films exactly exactly. It's such a lasting past. Yeah, that's

580
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 2: when that was happening. Yeah, and so then she had

581
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 2: an unscription show called Pretty Wild that was supposed to

582
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 2: document her life as a party girl, but it happened

583
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 2: to coincide with her court case. So it's just like

584
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: this really dark, like examination of this like young attict,

585
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 2: like getting arrested and going to prison for convicted and

586
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 2: going to prison.

587
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 4: For robbing celebrities.

588
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 3: And how old was she at the time, eighteen when

589
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 3: she was on the show. I feel I feel like

590
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 3: I'm a thousand years old asking you these questions. And

591
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 3: I apologize to everyone that's okay, I all this information.

592
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 3: I'm just so out of touch with what's happening in

593
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 3: the world.

594
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 2: But what do you watch? What do you like? What

595
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 2: are you into?

596
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 3: Honestly, I've just last night, I really feel like I

597
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 3: hit a wall with TV where I'm like, oh, I've

598
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 3: run out of shows that I actually care to watch.

599
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't watch a lot of television.

600
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 3: I love, like what if I loved. In the last

601
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 3: little while, we just rewatched The Comeback with Lisa Kudrow,

602
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 3: which I just think is outstanding, iconic. But I'm trying

603
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 3: to think of current things I'm watching.

604
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, that's from like a decade ago, right. I

605
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 2: watched Black Monday. I love Black Black you write an episode.

606
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 3: Just chill for Black Monday right now. Wonderful show that

607
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 3: people should watch. Excellent cast, fun writers room, it's writing show.

608
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 3: It's like a very There's nothing else like it on TV,

609
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 3: I think, And I'm not I'm not praising myself here.

610
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 3: I'm not the creator. I went and I wrote on

611
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 3: it like a you know your clock in and help.

612
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 3: But then the people in charge of the geniuses.

613
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 2: I love you your episodes, and I love Yoser Lester's episodes.

614
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 2: I think Black Writing has some of the best comedy

615
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 2: writing on television right now.

616
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 3: Let's just talk about yet, Let's just praise yes Or

617
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 3: Lester for a minute. I think he's not only an

618
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 3: excellent writer and comedian, but a phenomenal actor.

619
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's fantastic. He's Joshon Lester is brilliant. He is

620
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 2: so so funny, so problematic. But in the perfect way

621
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 2: where it's like he really pushes boundaries. What I just

622
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 2: respect from a comedian because it's like you can you

623
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 2: can sometimes do you feel like you should play it

624
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 2: safe because of cancel culture. But I just I really

625
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 2: think he's like a very funny, funny persons, one of

626
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 2: the funnies people I've ever met.

627
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, sir, if you're listening, we love you. If you're

628
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 3: not listening, I.

629
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Speaker 4: Didn't say that.

630
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 3: She won't stop talking.

631
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 2: I'm kidding.

632
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 4: I'm kidding.

633
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 3: No, Black Monday is the show I watched. But you

634
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 3: know that's not a new experience because I wrote I

635
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 3: wrote on it. Uh, Okay, I'm trying to think of

636
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 3: current shows I May Destroy You and Perry Mason, or

637
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 3: the two shows I'm currently watching.

638
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 2: I love I May Destroy You. I've never heard of

639
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 2: Perry Mason.

640
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 3: What is That's another HBO show? It's uh, I guess

641
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 3: there was a show in the sixties called Perry Mason

642
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 3: about a lawyer. This is a remake of it with

643
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 3: Matthew Reese and Oh I love Matthew Rees you too?

644
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 3: Did you watch the Americans?

645
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 4: I watched Tutors? Wasn't he on Tutors?

646
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 3: Oh? I t U d O R. I was imagining

647
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 3: him as like a high school tutor.

648
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 4: Oh no, that was John and Jonathan Reese Meyers.

649
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 2: I watched The Americans, but only the first season.

650
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 3: Oh okay, which was great. I love The Americans. I

651
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 3: know Americans are crazy about it, but I think it's

652
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 3: a wonderful TV show. But yeah, like I feel like

653
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 3: I've run out of I'm rewatching things. I love mad Men.

654
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 3: It's hard for me to I don't like most comedy anymore.

655
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 3: It's hard for me to watch.

656
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 4: Oh you don't support your peers kind of not.

657
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of modern comedy all feels

658
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 3: like a Geico commercial.

659
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 2: What do you mean by that?

660
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 3: It's just kind of maybe it's maybe it's the quality

661
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 3: that Geico commercials have gone to, or yeah, they're raising

662
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 3: the bar the commercial or either that or TV is sunk.

663
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 3: It just feels like a lot of like, I don't know,

664
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Speaker 3: it feels soft and not funny to me. I don't

665
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 3: know's there's good stuff going on. I mean, I made

666
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 3: a story. It was all over the place. When it's funny,

667
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 3: it's very funny, but it's also very dramatic, so it's

668
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 3: I wouldn't classify that as a comedy. Well, I'm not

669
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 3: gonna bore our listeners with what are you watch?

670
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 2: I watched Block Combunday and I watch Succession. I'll rewatch

671
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 2: Succession and then a new one. Yeah. I love Succession,

672
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 2: but they're not they're not doing that anytime student because

673
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 2: they haven't. I don't think they've started shooting season three.

674
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, they haven't started stream I know because

675
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 2: that show is like my favorite show, like Jesse Armstrong.

676
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 2: I just think it's one of the best satire raps,

677
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: satirical writers, like in the game. But also I watched

678
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 2: I watch a lot of Real Housewives.

679
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 3: We I finally have broken uh broken the seal on

680
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 3: that I had sworn I wouldn't watch it, and I've

681
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 3: now seen two episodes and I feel like every yay,

682
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 3: they're in a twelve passenger van Is that true?

683
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 4: Always that's not incorrect?

684
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 2: Okay, well that's what what episodes have you watched?

685
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 3: We're watching? I guess what? Maybe the current season. I

686
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 3: think Denise Richards is now Party Plus.

687
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 2: Yes, we love I think that they're treating Denise Richards horribly.

688
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 3: I feel the same way. I feel like she's kind

689
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 3: of like the poor girl that's like, come to hang

690
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 3: out with these people. And the episode I watched last night,

691
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 3: they made dessert or something and she called them out.

692
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 3: She's like, this isn't making pastries. We're just putting things

693
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 3: in a chocolate And I said, Denise, that's so true.

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00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. I love Delise Richards. I think that she is

695
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 2: relatable and cool. Also, I think she's the most famous one,

696
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 2: which is why I like her.

697
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 3: Right, she kind of like she's the one I had

698
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 3: heard of. Yeah, Like and she's she just looks kind

699
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 3: of sad and like doesn't want to quite be there,

700
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 3: and that the rest of these ladies seem terrible. I don't.

701
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 3: I mean, I've only watched two episodes Real Housewives reach Out,

702
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 3: Let's let's talk it through. But Denise, I'm so happy

703
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 3: to hear that, because even after two episodes, I'm like,

704
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 3: Denise feels like she's been through a lot.

705
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

706
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 2: She also is raising a child with special needs, Like

707
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 2: she she has an ex husband that keeps her in

708
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 2: the press constantly. She's been give this woman a break.

709
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, she feels pretty real. So maybe this is her,

710
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 3: this is her comeback. I don't know what to say.

711
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 4: Also, we also stand Garcel.

712
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Speaker 2: Wait, by the way, Garcia, who is the black She's

713
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 2: the black, the black actress on the show.

714
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know. Well, maybe she was in the

715
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 3: last episode I saw they were like in New York

716
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 3: or something. Yeah, she was there to Real Housewives fans

717
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 3: around the globe. I don't know enough about this show yet,

718
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 3: but Garcel, so she's cool too.

719
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 4: We like Garcel.

720
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 2: Garsa has a great acting career. She was coming to America.

721
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 2: She was in the Jamie Fox Show. So she's a

722
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 2: very successful So we like Denise.

723
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:24,280
Speaker 3: And anybody on the show that's done actual work prior

724
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 3: to being on it. Congratulations and I love you. See

725
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 3: way enough about the Real Housewives. I want to play

726
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:35,800
Speaker 3: a game. Okay, sure, do you want to play? We

727
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 3: have two games. There's one called Gift or a Curse

728
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 3: or Gift Master, Gift her a Curse. Okay, give me

729
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 3: a number between one and ten.

730
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:44,879
Speaker 2: Ten.

731
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm going to calculate. I have to calculate from

732
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:51,840
Speaker 3: a random list of things. While I do this, you

733
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 3: have the microphone. Just promote something, recommend something, do whatever

734
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 3: you want to do. I'll be right back.

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00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 2: Okay, everyone, please watch my live show every Thursday at

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00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 2: eight pm. My Instagram is at z way f ziw

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Speaker 2: ef a PM Eastern.

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Speaker 4: It's great shows.

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00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 2: The past interviews I've included with Lexus now you'res with

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00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 2: Caroline Callaway, with Alison Roman, with Rose McGowan, with Alyssa Milano.

741
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,439
Speaker 2: It's a fantastic show. So watch that. You can follow

742
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 2: me on Twitter where I talk about how alone I am.

743
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 4: What else is there? That's pretty much it.

744
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm panicking. I'm trying to calculate as quickly

745
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 3: as I can.

746
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:36,280
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll keep talking about real housewives. So Denise Richards

747
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 2: honestly just seems like a nice lady. I don't know.

748
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 4: But unscripted television.

749
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,760
Speaker 2: Is that difficult that way? People have asked me, hey, zyway,

750
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 2: would you ever do unscripted television? And you know what

751
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 2: I say. I say no unless I'm the executive producer,

752
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 2: in which case then I would do it because I

753
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 2: would control it so I would look nice?

754
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 4: Should I keep talking?

755
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,879
Speaker 3: See? Boy, I have managed to calculate the what we'll

756
00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 3: be playing with here. Let me explain the game to

757
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 3: your Really, it's very easy. I'm just going to name

758
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 3: three things, and you're going to tell me if there

759
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 3: are a gift or a curse and why? Sure, very easy, okay,

760
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 3: First up, gift or a curse. Craigslist apartment ads without photos.

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00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 4: That's a curse.

762
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 2: And why because it's a recipe for getting eaten by cannibals.

763
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 3: Anyway, I also forgot to tell you prior to this

764
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 3: that there are correct answers, and so I just have

765
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 3: to say right off the bat, you're you're wrong. Unfortunately,

766
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 3: I a gift. Craigslist apartment ads without voters are a

767
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 3: secret gift because people don't pay them any attention. I

768
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 3: think they're usually there. There's a good chance you're going

769
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 3: to find a nicer apartment for less money with a

770
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 3: Craigslist ad without I mean this, but this is also

771
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 3: I'm in Los Angeles and you're in New York.

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00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 4: And you're also a man.

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00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 2: I can't go to places with unmarked housing and make

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00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 2: sure and expect to be allied to see the next

775
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 2: day what is wrong with you? Anyway?

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00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 3: Sway, let me speak to this. You do not go everyone,

777
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 3: do not go to an address sent to you by

778
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 3: an apartment without photos. You will be eating That's absolutely

779
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 3: without question. True. What you do is you email and

780
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 3: say do you have any pictures? At that point, if

781
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 3: they send you pictures, I'm telling you there's a strong

782
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 3: chance it's going to be a better apartment than what

783
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 3: you're seeing and these other things, and they're going to

784
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 3: be paying they're going to be charging less because less

785
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 3: people care to look at those I'm just saying, I

786
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 3: don't know what to tell you. I'm not trying to

787
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 3: get anybody killed here.

788
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 2: You're responsible for all those who die listening to this podcast.

789
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 3: No, people have to sign a waiver before listening to

790
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 3: the podcast. So you heard it here. First, they're a gift?

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00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 3: Ze ways is zero for three so far this is

792
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 3: a deeply racist podcast. Okay, let's try to let's try

793
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 3: to get you back in the game. Seaway gift or

794
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 3: a curse? Where is it here? Chicken nuggets?

795
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 2: Chicken nuggets are delicious?

796
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 3: Okay, so oh yeah, I guess that's good response.

797
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 4: They are delicious. You don't like chicken nugget?

798
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,760
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, are you gonna say they're so delicious?

799
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 3: There a curse or they're so delicious they're a gift?

800
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 2: I don't consider No, chicken nuggets are a gift Sea Way.

801
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 3: Chicken nuggets are a curse because you're just wrong. No,

802
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 3: but hear you gotta hear. Some chicken nuggets are delicious.

803
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 3: But the curse, I think lies in the fact that

804
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 3: chicken nuggets, out of all the chicken products, are the

805
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 3: most inconsistent. I feel like with the chicken finger, you

806
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 3: basically are going to get a wonderful thing every time,

807
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 3: true or false. True? But what chi bad chicken nuggets

808
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 3: are you eating? I've had some bad chicken nuggets.

809
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 4: Where are the chicken nuggets? I go, there's only one

810
00:38:59,320 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 4: chicken nugget?

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Speaker 3: You.

812
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 2: I thought it was McDonald's. How many other chickens?

813
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 3: Fode Place has a chicken nugget? Wendy says, a chicken nugget.

814
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 2: See, so I don't eat fast food famously, you.

815
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 3: Have any that chicken nugget in probably fifteen years. But

816
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 3: the list is a random list of five checks. So

817
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 3: I can't be blamed. I mean, I guess we're both

818
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 3: speaking from experience as children. Then yes, and I had

819
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 3: I had. I think I had a decent childhood full

820
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,399
Speaker 3: of chicken nuggets. I feel like, you know, I, uh,

821
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 3: I probably had a chicken nugget too late in life,

822
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 3: where like you've started to gain some level of level

823
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 3: of taste and I probably had a bad chicken nugget

824
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 3: and it's it's also a processed chicken product. I want

825
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 3: to eat a real chicken. So I don't know what

826
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 3: to tell you at this point.

827
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 2: Well, you just told me that I'm wrong.

828
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,360
Speaker 3: We'll try to get at least try to get this

829
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 3: final this final one correct. Otherwise it's just going to

830
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 3: be a sad day. For gift or a curse.

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00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 2: Well, it's just awkward because on the record, you invited

832
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 2: me to your show to give you a gift, and

833
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:02,320
Speaker 2: then you're just telling me I'm wrong.

834
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 3: I please give me a break, see way, gift or

835
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 3: a curse. The ocean.

836
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:17,240
Speaker 2: The ocean is a beautiful gift from God, and anyone

837
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Speaker 2: who disagrees does not respect Mother.

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Speaker 3: Earth seeway you've landed the plane, of course, I mean,

839
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 3: what else are we gonna say about the ocean. It's

840
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 3: of course a gift. It's a beautiful, luxurious gift to

841
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:36,240
Speaker 3: all of us that I none of us can currently

842
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 3: really access safely. So it's uh, I think that the

843
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 3: ocean's absolutely a gift. And I appreciate the were least

844
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 3: able to come together at that point. Yeah, you got

845
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 3: one out of three. You're terrible of this game. I'm

846
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 3: just gonna say, oh, you're rude.

847
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 4: I have a I have about this gift or a curse?

848
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 4: Gift or curse your show, I said, no gifts.

849
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 2: Is that a gift or a curse? How about that?

850
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:12,320
Speaker 3: Riger it's both. I'm not going to catch me. Okay,

851
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 3: we're moving on. We have the final segment of the

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00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 3: podcast in Z way, I need just a smaller bit

853
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 3: of assistance. People writing into I said no gifts at

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00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 3: gmail dot com they need help getting gifts for people

855
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:25,280
Speaker 3: in their life. Are you good at giving people gifts?

856
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 3: Is that something you fantastic? I'm a fantastic at giving gifts. Well,

857
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 3: because they will find that out on this podcast.

858
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 4: No, that was a perfect gift for you.

859
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 2: Actually, so you're welcome, But you.

860
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 3: Are good at giving gifts? Yes, Because I am a

861
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 3: piscy so famously I listen. Oh interesting, and that is

862
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 3: I mean the key. I mean listening and remembering. I

863
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 3: would say, because I'm a I would say I'm a

864
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 3: good listener, but I'm terrible. I have a terrible memory

865
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 3: and it falls apart.

866
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:54,479
Speaker 4: What's your sign?

867
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 3: I'm a Libra?

868
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 2: Interesting?

869
00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 3: What does that mean for me?

870
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 2: I don't I just like to say, well, I just

871
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 2: like to say interesting after someone says her sign, because

872
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 2: then they freak out. But Libra means that you're balanced,

873
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:08,399
Speaker 2: so you see both sides.

874
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:09,280
Speaker 4: You see all sides?

875
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 3: Oh interesting? Which is good and bad? I suppose exactly

876
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 3: which is exactly?

877
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 2: You just did that.

878
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:16,880
Speaker 3: I did not mean to do.

879
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 2: That.

880
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 3: Almost feels like an accidental pun or something, and it

881
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 3: just makes me feel a little nauseous. So I want

882
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 3: everyone to know that I wasn't trying to do anything there.

883
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 3: I don't know what I'm doing. Let's answer some questions.

884
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 3: Let me read these Highbridger and Guest. I'm a social

885
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 3: worker in a hospital, So you know things are hard

886
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 3: right now. My little sister is getting married and her

887
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 3: engagement party has been postponed due to COVID nineteen. She's

888
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 3: really bummed out about it, and I want to get

889
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 3: her something amazing that will make her forget how sad

890
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 3: she is and blow her her fiance's mind as well.

891
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 3: They're both in their mid twenties, their cat lovers, and

892
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 3: they both have an obsession with Halloween. What would make

893
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 3: an unforgettable gift? Thanks in advance, April. So we're getting

894
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 3: like a a uh, an engagement gift for people who

895
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:13,359
Speaker 3: love cats. They're in their mid twenties, early engagement. I'm

896
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 3: just going to say it right off the bat, and

897
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 3: they're obsessed with having I don't know this is this

898
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 3: is an April, it's April's sister. Who knows a April

899
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 3: sister will even listen by by the time this is done,

900
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 3: maybe she'll be in her thirties. I don't know what

901
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:25,959
Speaker 3: to say.

902
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:30,959
Speaker 4: So the perfect gift for this person is obviously another cat.

903
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 3: Oh interesting, Why do you say that just because.

904
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,360
Speaker 4: You throw cat lovers?

905
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 5: Yeah?

906
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 3: Exactly ten cats already.

907
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 2: Then make it a love it.

908
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 3: I say, I say get them cat call. No, actually,

909
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:48,439
Speaker 3: I was gonna say cat costumes, but cats hate costumes. Yeah,

910
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 3: cats don't want to be dressed up.

911
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 4: You know what they like other cats?

912
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 3: Cat nip. How about a catnip plant?

913
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:54,879
Speaker 1: Oh?

914
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 2: Oh so catnip is weed for cats, That's what I heard, right,

915
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 2: So yeah, get hooked them up with a move some

916
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 2: weight to the cat, give them a plug, let them

917
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 2: get high.

918
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 3: Every day cats go wild with the cat nip, and

919
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:09,280
Speaker 3: it's like something maybe they can plant in their garden

920
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 3: and then you know, on their anniversary they can give

921
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 3: the cat some catnip that feels like it.

922
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 4: That sounds pretty good.

923
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 3: I don't know, buy them a pumpkin. It's Halloween is

924
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 3: just around the corner. It's always just around the corner.

925
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, the pumpkins drop. That's something that they don't talk about.

926
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,240
Speaker 3: A ron pumpkin. If you give them a rotten pumpkin

927
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 3: several months in advance, they're going to have just like

928
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 3: a soggy soup on their porch. I would say, I

929
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 3: think catnip is the way to go with this. Ze

930
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 3: way is strongly just in the favor of getting another cat,

931
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 3: which to me feels totally irresponsible.

932
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 2: But well, just think about it.

933
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 4: Cats need homes too, It's.

934
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 2: True, very exactly.

935
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,359
Speaker 3: Well, don't buy the cat. The last thing we need

936
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,919
Speaker 3: is somebody paying for a pet. Go rescue a cat,

937
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 3: and it may become a burden for them, but they'll

938
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 3: eventually learn to love it. And they're also not it

939
00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 3: sounds like they're not getting married that soon, so they've

940
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 3: got need something to occupy their time. April exactly, move forward,

941
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 3: With that information, that's all I have to say. Okay,

942
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 3: one more high Bridger. I have a very new boyfriend.

943
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:13,720
Speaker 3: I'm again my twenties, who I started dating right before

944
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 3: quarantine and we've been spending almost every day isolated together

945
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,360
Speaker 3: since his birthday is in two weeks. What should I

946
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 3: get him for a gift? He's older than me, has

947
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 3: a cute dog, and likes reading. Oh here we go.

948
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 3: He's also very wealthy and already has everything, excuse me,

949
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 3: everything you could imagine, which makes him hard to shop for.

950
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 3: This just feels like and love Connor Connor. This feels

951
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 3: just like you wrote into Brag about your rich boyfriend.

952
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 4: I know Connor seems very happy unlike me.

953
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 3: Connor, I don't know, make this make this guy dinner

954
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,759
Speaker 3: rather than writing into a podcast from brag about your

955
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 3: rich boyfriend.

956
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 4: How selfish? How and consider it, Connor?

957
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 3: Do the dishes clean up around the house. I mean,

958
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 3: I think with a know, with a wealthy, older person

959
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 3: that already has everything they want, your only real go

960
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 3: to here is uh, make something? And if you're bad,

961
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 3: what about getting a book?

962
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 2: Get a book? Get them a book, because I mean,

963
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 2: I'm sure this person has a lot of books, But

964
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 2: they don't have every book. Books in French, books in Portuguese,

965
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:24,360
Speaker 2: books in Yoruba. I'm just saying there are endless amounts

966
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:24,760
Speaker 2: of books.

967
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 3: Do you have a book recommendation right off the top

968
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 3: of your head.

969
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 2: Well, I always recommend Sula by Tony Morris. Of course

970
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 2: Octavia Butler terrible the Sewer.

971
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 3: Should Octavia Butler?

972
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, oh you can do as if the oral

973
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 2: history of the movie Clueless, but.

974
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:47,399
Speaker 4: Great book. That's a great book.

975
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 3: Is it good?

976
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 2: Yeah? Because you learned that Reese Witherspoon had a general

977
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 2: to be in the movie Clueless at the Risk in

978
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 2: Downtown la Yeah, it's really Dave Chappelle almost audition almost

979
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 2: was books for the part of Murray's character, whoa yeah,

980
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:05,879
Speaker 2: you learn a lot, You learn a lot. Lord Hill

981
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 2: was going to do a read for Stacy Dash's character.

982
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:12,800
Speaker 3: Again, I could go on, that's such a bizarro version

983
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 3: of Clueless, and think of what would have happened to

984
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,280
Speaker 3: all those people's lives if they had been in Clueless.

985
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 2: Then Affleck was and talks to be the Paul what's

986
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 2: his name Paul Rudd character whoa Yeah, Yeah, it's a

987
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 2: good book.

988
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, was Lauren hill was when did clue this come out?

989
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 3: Was this pre Fuji's breaking through or was this.

990
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 2: This is when Fuji's Head was popular?

991
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, wow, that's wild. Yeah, well you've now learned

992
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 3: at least two things on this podcast. Who could ask

993
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 3: for more? Connor get him the Clueless book? I demanded this.

994
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 3: It's really fine wealthy, older gay gentleman that feels right

995
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 3: up his alley, especially if he was like in his

996
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 3: twenties in the mid nineties, that would really hit the

997
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:56,240
Speaker 3: sweet spot. I don't know what to tell you. Okay, everyone,

998
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 3: We're done answering questions. We've helped enough people that generosity

999
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 3: goes on on and on. Ze wayger an honor to

1000
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 3: have you here. It's You've just been such a delight.

1001
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 3: And I mean your gift was as memorable as it

1002
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 3: possibly could have been. I'm gonna print it out. I mean,

1003
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 3: can I protest? I guess you're the giver.

1004
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 2: Yes, please print it out, frame it, put it on

1005
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 2: your refrigerator so people know that I'm not giving jack shit.

1006
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 4: Do not.

1007
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 3: Also, way to your wedding.

1008
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:30,400
Speaker 2: No, I would love to go to a wedding and

1009
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,879
Speaker 2: make it about me on wear way. Also, I would

1010
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 2: like to go on the record and apologize for using

1011
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:36,800
Speaker 2: the word crazy. We don't use that word anymore. We

1012
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 2: say wild, what at what point did you see?

1013
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 3: And I didn't even hear it? That's how I mean

1014
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 3: ingrained it is. Uh boy, we're not even go back.

1015
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,399
Speaker 3: Zee Way's made her apology within the podcast. We didn't

1016
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,280
Speaker 3: even have to get outside the podcast for the apology,

1017
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 3: which frequently is something that happens. I apologize for everything

1018
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:57,840
Speaker 3: I say, I mean the last hour or so, I

1019
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 3: just I'm sorry. But see Way, I'm not going to

1020
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 3: apologize for having you heir, because it's just thanks miracle,

1021
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 3: and uh, I hope that you find something nice to

1022
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:12,840
Speaker 3: do within the confines of your apartment.

1023
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 4: Well, thanks for bringing it back there. Everyone, Remember she's lowly.

1024
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 3: She needs a boyfriend.

1025
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 4: No, I don't need a boyfriend.

1026
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 2: I need myself, but.

1027
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 4: I don't need a man to rescue.

1028
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 2: I will save myself.

1029
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 3: A boyfriend. She doesn't need a boyfriend. Anybody out there

1030
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 3: that you think that y needs you, get lost?

1031
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, get lost?

1032
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 2: Also, girlfriend, Hey, shout out all my hot ladies out there.

1033
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:42,919
Speaker 2: Shout out to y'all.

1034
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,840
Speaker 3: She's she's in New York somewhere. I don't know what

1035
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:49,400
Speaker 3: else to tell you. That's that's a small that's a

1036
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 3: geographical area that you can start searching for. Zey see way.

1037
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 3: Bless your heart, bless you.

1038
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 2: This is so much fun. I had. It was such

1039
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 2: a pleasure to humiliate you on your show. I was.

1040
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 3: I came out of this spotless. I am I My

1041
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 3: star is skyrocketing right now. Well again, thank you and

1042
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 3: thank you for doing baited. I think the world is

1043
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 3: just having a wonderful time watching you.

1044
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you so much. You should come on

1045
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 2: the show.

1046
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:19,840
Speaker 4: Would you ever come on.

1047
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 2: My live show?

1048
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm so The comment section is terrifying to me.

1049
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 2: You know, people say that, but honestly ignore it.

1050
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 4: I think I'm a nice interviewer.

1051
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 3: That's my problem. You're like your sweetness, and you're like,

1052
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 3: I mean, you're dealing with a lot of different types

1053
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,359
Speaker 3: of people. We're just going to keep the podcast going

1054
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 3: for a moment. But like it's so clear, like you

1055
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 3: come in with such good intentions. Anytime there's a chance

1056
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 3: for people to live comment, they become lunatics, and that

1057
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 3: to me scares me to death. I'm so afraid of

1058
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 3: live performance. And it feels a little bit like, I

1059
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 3: think you would end up with a boring interview. To

1060
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 3: be honest, you think so.

1061
00:50:56,000 --> 00:51:00,160
Speaker 2: I disagree because Nick sarelly and and Bradford Evan are

1062
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,879
Speaker 2: two of my funniest interviews. They were funny it yeah,

1063
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 2: and they were two of my funniest guests because they

1064
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:09,479
Speaker 2: were vehemently uncomfortable with the notion of being on screen.

1065
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 3: I thought any quest going to literally vanish.

1066
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, it was great. I think you would be

1067
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 2: really funny.

1068
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:15,839
Speaker 4: You should come on the show.

1069
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 3: Let me think about it, and my heart is pounding

1070
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 3: just you.

1071
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 2: Ask everybody listening to this please pressure Police cyber Book

1072
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 2: into doing the show because he would be really funny.

1073
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 2: And I'll post it so I won't.

1074
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 4: I won't repost it with the comments.

1075
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 2: So you'll get You'll get it. Just you. Just you

1076
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:33,839
Speaker 2: live in your life.

1077
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 3: Let me think about it. It's tempting but also horrifying.

1078
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:39,120
Speaker 3: It feels like a like a dark cave where there

1079
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 3: could be treasure or a pack of wolves. I don't

1080
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 3: know what to tell anyone.

1081
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:45,799
Speaker 4: And Lina, that's, you know, a gift in a curse.

1082
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 1: That is.

1083
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:51,280
Speaker 3: All right, everybody go out there and have a wonderful

1084
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 3: day with all of the vast information you learned from

1085
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 3: this podcast. Thank you to ze Way, thank you to me,

1086
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 3: and bless all of you. Goodbye. I said No Gifts

1087
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 3: isn't exactly right production. It's engineered by Earth Angel Stephen

1088
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 3: Ray Morris. The theme song is by Miracle Worker Amy Mann.

1089
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 3: You can follow the show on Instagram and Twitter. At

1090
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 3: I Said No Gifts, And if you have a question

1091
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 3: or need help getting a gift for someone in your life,

1092
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 3: email me at I Said No Gifts at gmail dot com.

1093
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 3: Listen and subscribe on Apple podcast, Stitcher or wherever you

1094
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,680
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Speaker 1: and I'm already too much stuff? So how did you

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