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Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. Yes he's at work today,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject I hate all of his family

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Speaker 1: and friends. Dear Stephen Shirley, my boyfriend of two years

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Speaker 1: has been talking about marriage, but I hate all of

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Speaker 1: his family and friends. We're both thirty three years old

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Speaker 1: and we met online. I got offered a job promotion

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Speaker 1: and a transfer to the city where my boyfriend grew up.

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Speaker 1: We decided I'd take the job and we get married,

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Speaker 1: so we relocated to the city that he grew up in.

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Speaker 1: We bought a house within a week of moving, and

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Speaker 1: it all happened. After we got settled, he decided it

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Speaker 1: was time for me to meet his parents. They don't

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Speaker 1: live together, but they are married, he said, it's complicated.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was strange that I'd never met them,

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Speaker 1: but he always said there's no rush. Now I know why.

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Speaker 1: So here's what happened to make me hate everyone. We

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Speaker 1: invited everyone out to dinner, and the only way to

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Speaker 1: to a buffet restaurant. I don't like eating at buffets,

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Speaker 1: and it's not because I'm busgie. It's because I got

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Speaker 1: very sick one time from eating at a buffet, and

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Speaker 1: that has scarred me for life. Two of my boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: two of my boyfriend's childhood friends came to dinner with us,

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Speaker 1: along with his mom, dad's sister, and his sister's four children.

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Speaker 1: His homeboy smelled like they work at a weed factory

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Speaker 1: and they were wrapping illicit lyrics at the table. His

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Speaker 1: parents got into an argument because his dad called his

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Speaker 1: mom a trick and she flipped him off. I won't

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Speaker 1: even mention the four little, filthy children, and that we're

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Speaker 1: running all around the restaurant. My boyfriend paid the bill

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Speaker 1: for all these grown people, and he looks so embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: He's whispered that he hopes this isn't a deal breaker.

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Speaker 1: I don't want any of these people to ever come

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Speaker 1: to our house. But how do I tell him that

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Speaker 1: he's not at all like him like them? So do

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Speaker 1: you think he will understand if I'm honest, Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think he'll understand. But I don't think you should

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Speaker 1: tell him that. You definitely can't tell him in that

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Speaker 1: way that you don't ever want them to come to

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Speaker 1: your house. You got to remember you're marrying him and

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Speaker 1: not his family, and we know you hate all of

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Speaker 1: them and you don't care for them. But like I said,

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Speaker 1: please don't tell him that. I mean, you can think

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Speaker 1: of other ways to say it, you know, or if

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Speaker 1: they're or if they're coming over you know you're busy,

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Speaker 1: or whatever the situation. I mean, there are still his

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Speaker 1: family no matter what. The great part, you know, look

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Speaker 1: at the positive. He wanted you to meet them. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it was about time you met his family. And that's

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Speaker 1: pretty big because here's a man taking you to meet

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Speaker 1: his family. A lot of times that's what we want

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Speaker 1: to meet his family and to see you know where

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Speaker 1: he comes from. So that means he wants you to

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Speaker 1: be a part of his family. Okay, so that's a

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Speaker 1: good thing. He is embarrassed by them, though. He is

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Speaker 1: are because he said he hoped you weren't. They weren't

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Speaker 1: a deal breaker meeting them. So we can't pick our

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Speaker 1: family members, we know that, but we can decide how

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Speaker 1: we deal with them. So you decide. You make the

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Speaker 1: I mean. Otherwise, if you love this man, you know

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to deal with his family at some point,

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Speaker 1: So you know your options are to what sell your

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Speaker 1: you know, because you guys just bought it. Housing market

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Speaker 1: is crazy all that. The other thing is, you know,

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Speaker 1: you guys can build a life together. You know when

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Speaker 1: you do get married. It sounds like you're headed in

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Speaker 1: that direction. This is the man you love. Build a

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Speaker 1: life together with this man, and to have minimal contact

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Speaker 1: with his family. Don't invite them over. Steve this one

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Speaker 1: is interesting. Everybody got some family members and they own

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Speaker 1: your spouse, mate, love or friend, fiance, whatever in their

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Speaker 1: family that you're not gonna like. Now, y'all been together

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Speaker 1: two years, you're moving kind of quick. Your thirty three

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Speaker 1: You say, right at the top, I hate all his

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Speaker 1: decided to take the job that you got off of

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Speaker 1: the promotion in we getting married, so we relocated to

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Speaker 1: And then right after y'all got son or he decided

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Speaker 1: it was time for me to meet his parents. Now

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Speaker 1: hit a tricky part. They don't live together, but they're married.

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Speaker 1: He said, it's complicated. We'll get into that in a minute.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was strange that I never met them,

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Speaker 1: but he always said, ain't no rush because he knew

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Speaker 1: he loved you. He can't let you meet his other

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Speaker 1: side because you ain't gonna understanding that he's different. He

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Speaker 1: knew this was coming. Here's what happened that made me

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Speaker 1: hate everyone. Wow, we invited everybody out to dinner, and

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Speaker 1: the only way to get his family to go was

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Speaker 1: to agree to a buffet restaurant. Now, right here, we're

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Speaker 1: talking about size. Now, size or sides size? Okay, when

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Speaker 1: the whole family insists the only way we're going out

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Speaker 1: it got to be buffet. This ain't the first time

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Speaker 1: they'd have made that decision. This is a family thing.

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Speaker 1: And if you go to buffets a lot, you have

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Speaker 1: some size on you. We'll get into the rest of

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Speaker 1: it when we come back. These are big people you're

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Speaker 1: talking about. Well, Steve Harvey's a response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Okay, the subject of

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter I hate all of his family and friends.

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter and finish up your response. Today's subject is

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Speaker 1: I hate all of his family and friends. You know,

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Speaker 1: Like I said, this is gonna be rough because everybody

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Speaker 1: have some family members you don't care for. But your

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Speaker 1: hatred for them came all at once. This is why

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Speaker 1: you have reached the conclusion that you hate all of them.

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Speaker 1: You know, now, y'all to move together, y'all relocated, y'all

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Speaker 1: He told you it wasn't no rush to meet his parents.

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Speaker 1: Now you thought it was a little bit strange, but

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Speaker 1: First of all, they his parents, but they don't live together.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get into that. As to why I figured

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Speaker 1: this out in the letter, here's what happened to make

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Speaker 1: me hate everyone. We invited everybody out to dinner. The

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Speaker 1: agree to go into a buffet restaurant. Now, when everybody

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Speaker 1: won't to go get their own portion sizes because they

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Speaker 1: Some people like their gravy to run into their potato salad.

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Speaker 1: They won't they ham laying on top of their greens.

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Speaker 1: You gotta baby to go and fix your own plate.

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Speaker 1: These as big people we're talking about now, and I

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Speaker 1: we ain't going nowhere unless it's a damn buffet. These

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Speaker 1: I'm very sad. I got sick one time from eating

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Speaker 1: Nothing stops big people from eating at a buffet. They

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Speaker 1: his childhood friends came. They smelled like a weed factor.

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Speaker 1: see this buffet is all coming together now, and they

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Speaker 1: they're hungry. His parents got in the argument because the

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Speaker 1: dad called his mama a trick and she flipped him off. Off. Nah,

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Speaker 1: that's all she had the energy fault. She was big.

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Speaker 1: two little rapper friends because they was probably doing a

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Speaker 1: trick that it Son, this is terrible. See how this

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Speaker 1: They were doing a trick that a rap song. That's

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Speaker 1: know it. Yeah, she didn't want to mention the full

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Speaker 1: little filthy ass kids, and I know they filed the

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Speaker 1: you think he will understand if I'm honest? What surely said?

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Speaker 1: You shouldn't be honest, And I can understand that, and

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Speaker 1: I respect that too, But you're gonna have to be honest.

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Speaker 1: But if you don't want to be honest, there's some

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Speaker 1: your house. First of all, you let it be known

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Speaker 1: That's the first thing. We don't put no plates out

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Speaker 1: And then secondly, when they come over, tell them that

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Speaker 1: don't like that, they're not coming. And you can keep

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Speaker 1: them people out your house for years like that. For

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Speaker 1: that buffet and deal with it and then just go home.

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