1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rep An iHeartRadio podcast. Hello, everybody, 2 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:10,639 Speaker 1: we are scrubbing in. 3 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 2: It's gonna be a big scrub day. 4 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: This is a big day. I have been waiting for 5 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: this moment. 6 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 3: Beck. 7 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 2: I have never seen Becca more proactive. I have been 8 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 2: very anything with the podcast than getting this guest today. 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: Truly, this has been I don't know if that's true, 10 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: but I have been very excited and like really pushing 11 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: to have our guest today. 12 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 2: Yes, and the day has cometh. 13 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: The day Z has come. Whoa yes. 14 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 2: So you may have seen her on the show The Bachelor. 15 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:49,319 Speaker 1: So today is Monday's z mondaysy Yes, because we have 16 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: Daisy Kent, America's sweetheart from the Bachelor, and she is 17 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: scrubbing in. Finally. We have been tirelessly working. 18 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 2: For this, tirelessly, honestly, and I'm happy for you. This 19 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 2: is a big day. I'm happy for her. I'm happy 20 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 2: if she's here as well. But I'm just I'm very 21 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: happy for you. 22 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: You know you know what this means. 23 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:07,320 Speaker 2: I know this means. 24 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: And I felt like I posted with her and everyone's 25 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 1: like get her on the podcast, and like we. 26 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 2: Are trying and Becca try she did. 27 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 1: I tried hard tonight. I tried so hard that it happened. 28 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 2: Yes, because she is right here, she's here. 29 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: Please welcome, Daisy can Hello, Daisy ken Hi. How are you? 30 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 4: I'm good? How are you guys? 31 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: I'm good? Are you so tired? I? 32 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:38,639 Speaker 4: I am? But it's also fun. 33 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: You have been going non stop? Yeah, like anyone who 34 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: follows you on Instagram, Like when they said we were 35 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: shooting today and then I saw your story, I'm like, 36 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:47,199 Speaker 1: are you sure she's in town? 37 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 3: I blew in last night, and then I'm here today 38 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 3: and then I leave tomorrow to get to Vegas and 39 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 3: then yeah. 40 00:01:56,040 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: It's so I remember those days long long ago. 41 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 2: Long long ago. 42 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: You relaxed along, but it was this whirlwind of so 43 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: much fun, and it would be like get home, packing 44 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: up their bag, pack a new bag, you go. 45 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 4: My room here is like a disaster. 46 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 3: There's stuff everywhere, but I'll get to it eventual. 47 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, no need to worry about that right now. 48 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 4: Yeah? 49 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: Do I haven't seen people fall in love with a 50 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: bachelor contestant like this in years? Like, seriously, I am 51 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: so curious what life has been like for you and 52 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 1: if there was any expectation that this would happen from 53 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 1: going on the show. 54 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:42,959 Speaker 4: No, not really. 55 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 3: I mean I knew, like when I was going on 56 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 3: the show, because I'd watched this show like growing up, 57 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 3: Like I knew like there was a possibility of like 58 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 3: gaining like a following of people being like interested, But 59 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 3: I didn't think it was gonna be on like this 60 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 3: scale that it had it has been for me. I 61 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 3: thought it was gonna be like way way smaller. But 62 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 3: I'm really grateful for it all. But it's been crazy 63 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 3: but so fun. And I don't know, it's cool because 64 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 3: like my life has like changed so much so fast, 65 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 3: but it's all like really good things. 66 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like people it was a me. 67 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: I mean I felt that watching I messaged you night one, 68 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: and I was like, there's you know, you watch people 69 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 1: on TV, especially all these reality shows, Like Tanya is not. 70 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: She watches reality TV, but she's not a bachelor loyalist. 71 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 2: Okay, first of all. 72 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: Because she's all she cares about survivor and traders in 73 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: Love Islander. 74 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 2: I have pivoted from love into my gaming eraka where 75 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 2: I am right now. But I wouldn't say I'm not 76 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 2: a bachelor enthusiast. 77 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: Oh right, yeah, I think I think that's accurate. Okay, 78 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: But I was, you know, like when you're watching reality TV, 79 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 1: there's people that pop and there's just thing different about them, 80 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: and you're like, I'm excited to watch what happens with 81 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: this person's story, and you're one of those people. And 82 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: I think people just felt it from you and your 83 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: story of what you've been through and being so open 84 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: and vulnerable. And I know that was probably going into 85 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 1: it very yeah, you know hard, knowing that you were 86 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: going to be sharing something so personal in a public platform. 87 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: Did you have a plan of like when you were 88 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 1: going to share that with him or how you were 89 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: going to share that with him going into it. 90 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 3: So, going into it, I didn't really know because I 91 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 3: had never talked about it before to somebody that like 92 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 3: didn't know me before, and it was really recent that 93 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 3: it all happened, and I felt like it was something 94 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 3: I was like, maybe I should like sit down and 95 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 3: talk to him about it right away and like have 96 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,919 Speaker 3: a conversation with him about it right when, Like I 97 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 3: sit down and talk to him, because especially the first night, 98 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 3: it was really hard for me and I was really 99 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 3: struggling but then when I sat down and started talking 100 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 3: to him, I was like, I don't think it's like 101 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 3: it just like it didn't f feel right in that moment. 102 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 4: We were like talking about other things. 103 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 3: So then and then on our one on one day, 104 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 3: I didn't feel it was we were like at a 105 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:10,559 Speaker 3: music festival and a helicopter like doing all this stuff. 106 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, this really isn't where vibe for 107 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 3: me to tell her this like life changing thing that 108 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 3: happened to me. But I think it happened like in 109 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 3: a really good way, and it I think it was 110 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 3: cool too because people got to see me and got 111 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 3: to see like the side of me and how I 112 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 3: was adjusting with it and how it was difficult for 113 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 3: me and stuff like that before I told him, and 114 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 3: he got to like see that too, Yeah. 115 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 1: What was your dating life before? 116 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 2: I just I'm gonna say that Becca has been like 117 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 2: so excited to have you on the podcast, like I 118 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 2: feel like asking her to come on for months. It 119 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 2: feels like this, so it feels like Christmas Day, like honest, like, yeah, 120 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 2: that was like the first person to reach out. 121 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 4: To me, and I was like, oh my gosh, she 122 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 4: just sent me. 123 00:05:58,839 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: I think you. 124 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 4: I forget you posted like something. 125 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: You and then I put I did post you too. Yeah, 126 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 1: I love it. 127 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 4: It was something I was like, freaking. 128 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 2: Wait, I need to like ask you about that because, like. 129 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: Because it's favorite story ever. 130 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, So like Becca dms you and what goes through 131 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 2: your mind? Like did you remember did you watch her? 132 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 133 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 2: You grew up watching her. 134 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: It was so funny because I right before we met 135 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: in person and you told me you're like it was 136 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: just so surreal that you dmned me because I watched 137 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: you growing up or when I was young, and we 138 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: was a shot to the heart. We had just talked 139 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: on the podcast about embracing our age and like getting older, 140 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 1: and so you said that. I was like, but really 141 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 1: you were like fifteen or something. 142 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:57,480 Speaker 4: Literally we did the I feel like I was like eighteen. 143 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 1: I think you're right, you're like eighteen six. Yeah, regardless. 144 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 1: Tanya loved it. 145 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 2: Actually because I have been embracing my age for a 146 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 2: while now, and so I'm happy that Becca has come 147 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: to the other side age. 148 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: It was like the gen Z millennial thing being a millennial. 149 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 2: But I want to know, like when you, like when 150 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 2: she reached out to you, what, what did you feel 151 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 2: because like did you love her like watching her or 152 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 2: like what was it about her? 153 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I felt like, I don't know, like I 154 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 3: remember watching you on this show and I was like, 155 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 3: I feel like she's kind of like me, Like when 156 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 3: I was like watching it and my mom she always 157 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 3: like picks her favorites, and you were one of her 158 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 3: favorites that season, because wasn't it It's either Chris and 159 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 3: then Ben. Okay, yeah, so because we got to see 160 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 3: you twice, but especially that was when I was very 161 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 3: invested in watching The Bachelor with my mom. But yeah, 162 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 3: it was just like exciting, and it's just like I don't know, 163 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 3: because I never thought like people like you'd be dming me. 164 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure You've got lots of dms from people. 165 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure Becca was one of many, right, Sorry 166 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 2: the first Yeah, what were some other ones that slid 167 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 2: into your DMS that you were like, I can't believe 168 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 2: this person is dming me. 169 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 3: I think I think just like at the beginning, it 170 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 3: was interesting just to see like the support I got, 171 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 3: Like Ben Higgins reached out and I talked to him 172 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 3: on the phone a few times just about like things 173 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 3: that I was struggling and struggling with like being like 174 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 3: with the TV show airing and stuff like that, and 175 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 3: then the Lotners have been like super nice and supportive. 176 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 3: So that was super cool because he actually reached out 177 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 3: to me, I think after the first or second episode two, 178 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 3: and then like since then, they've been like a really 179 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 3: really good people for me to like talk to about 180 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 3: even like kind of just like transitioning into like doing 181 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 3: this new thing and stuff. So it's yeah, and it's 182 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 3: been I've I've talked to like Jojo and Hannah Brown, 183 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 3: Ari and Lauren. I don't know, it's just it's really cool, 184 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 3: especially like in like the Bachelor Nation people that have 185 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 3: been on the show, how supportive they have been to me. 186 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 3: It's yeah, it's I don't know, it's just maybe really happy. 187 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 3: It makes me feel really grateful. 188 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:19,079 Speaker 1: I love the pipeline from Bachelor to Taylor Lotner because 189 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,559 Speaker 1: he was It's so true. 190 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 2: It's like everybody you named was on the show. And 191 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 2: then it's like and then the like that makes sense 192 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 2: that track. 193 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: My first like celebrity encounter was at an iHeart event 194 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: and it was Taylor came up to me and he 195 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 1: tapped me on the shoulder and I turned around and 196 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 1: I was like, Taylor Lotner, that is Jacob Black like 197 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 1: tapping me on the shoulder. So I love how invested 198 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: he is in the show, how he really meets you, 199 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, as a Bachelor fan. So you mentioned 200 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: some bachelorettes that you spoke to. Yes, I think everyone 201 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:01,680 Speaker 1: in America who was watching the show had a hope 202 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: or an idea that maybe you would be the bachelorette. Yeah, 203 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: and you were offered that role, correct, Yeah, and tell 204 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: I was explaining this to Tanya that we were talking 205 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: about it, and she was like, why would you turn 206 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 1: that down? She's like, I don't understand why anyone would 207 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: turn that down. 208 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 2: I still don't get it. So for I was. 209 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: Listening because I I think that was a question that 210 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: everyone had. They were kind of like, I don't get it. 211 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you take this opportunity to date someone and 212 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: meet someone and be the star of the show. 213 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 214 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 3: I think like growing up, if you would have told me, oh, 215 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 3: you're going to be offered the bachelorette, would have been like, yeah. 216 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 1: Like I'm doing it. 217 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 3: Like it wouldn't have been a question in my mind. 218 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 3: But I think it's it's different when you're sitting in 219 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 3: that position. And then I think being on the show, 220 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 3: I kind of saw the weight of it too, and 221 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 3: it wasn't all the whole spotlight wasn't on me. And 222 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 3: I think I also took my health into like a 223 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 3: big consideration, and I knew it was gonna be going 224 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 3: NonStop and NonStop because you're up really late sometimes even 225 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 3: when you're a contestant on the show, but when you're 226 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 3: the lead, it's like over and over and over again. 227 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 3: And I have like no doubt like they would have 228 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 3: taken care of me completely. But I also just saw 229 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 3: the emotional part that it had on me, and it's 230 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 3: so fast and you like you go through it, and 231 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 3: then there's a break between the show for two months 232 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:33,080 Speaker 3: and then the show starts airing, so really it's like 233 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 3: six months of your life and then even like longer. 234 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 3: So it was just taking into consideration kind of all 235 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 3: aspects of it, and ultimately I just didn't think it 236 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 3: was the best thing for me. 237 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 2: So, like they call you and they're like, we want 238 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 2: to offer you the role of bachelorette. Do you say, 239 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 2: like I gotta call you guys back or let me 240 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 2: like how long is that? Like? Thought process, like from 241 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 2: when you got it the offer, and when you were 242 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:01,719 Speaker 2: ultimately like, I can't do it. 243 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:04,319 Speaker 3: I would say it was in conversation, and I was 244 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 3: always very transparent with them about I was really excited 245 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:10,679 Speaker 3: at first when they brought it to me, and then 246 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 3: I was very transparent about the fact that I didn't 247 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 3: know if I wanted to do it, And as soon 248 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 3: as I started feeling that way, that called them and 249 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 3: let them know right away. And I had a lot 250 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 3: of conversations with them, and ultimately they were all really 251 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 3: supportive of me deciding not to do it, and they 252 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 3: all understood why. 253 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 4: But it was a really. 254 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 3: Difficult decision for me too, because it is a huge 255 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 3: thing and it is something that can like also you 256 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 3: can meet the love of your life, but all so 257 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 3: it can completely change your life too. 258 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 4: But I think, but. 259 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 3: Looking back at it, I'm like really happy that I 260 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 3: didn't do it, and I think this was the best 261 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 3: thing for me. And now I'm working on things that 262 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 3: I want to do and doing a bunch of other stuff. 263 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 3: So I think overall it has been It's. 264 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:59,200 Speaker 2: So interesting because I feel like there's been this like 265 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 2: shift where like I think it's an I mean I 266 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 2: don't think I've ever heard of like two because Maria 267 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 2: said she turned it down to yeah, two different people 268 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 2: turning down the lead. Like I'm like, I feel like 269 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 2: five years I think people now are more concerned about 270 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 2: like their mental physical, like emotional health and well being 271 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 2: versus like five ten years ago, it was just like 272 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, like people just would just 273 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 2: say yes to things and then not really think it through. 274 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 2: Whereas I feel like now it's so different because we're 275 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:28,840 Speaker 2: all focused on like making sure that we're like in 276 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 2: a good place mentally and like emotionally. 277 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do think that. And also there's a lot 278 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 1: more opportunity. I think when you can do you're saying, 279 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 1: like doing your own things that you've been wanting to do, 280 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: you have the freedom to do that right now. Yeah. 281 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:42,559 Speaker 4: And I think that's the thing too. 282 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:44,719 Speaker 3: I had like all these things that I wanted to do, 283 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 3: and now I was like, I have this opportunity to 284 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:50,439 Speaker 3: do them. But I know if I would have done 285 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 3: the bachelortt like that probably would have came like a yeah, 286 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 3: But it was like but it was just I don't know, 287 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 3: I just felt like everything happened the way it was 288 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 3: supposed to be. And I also I remember being on 289 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 3: the phone of my older sister and we we were 290 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,839 Speaker 3: talking about it, and she was like, you know, you're 291 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:08,439 Speaker 3: leaving this on a high note. 292 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, the lead, you have a lot of ways you 293 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 4: can mess. 294 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 1: It's so true. 295 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 4: But yeah, that's kind of funny, dude, But. 296 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 1: Well the bat, I feel like the lead, no matter 297 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: how beloved you are, if people if you choose someone 298 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: or don't choose someone that people are rooting for, they 299 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 1: are against you. Yeah, So like it's this automatic you're 300 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 1: signing up for automatic criticism. Yeah, because just because you 301 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: might not choose the person that someone's rooting for. So 302 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 1: it's true, you kind of have this advantage of being 303 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 1: so loved and you're like, that's not something that's. 304 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 4: Up right now. 305 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so true. But I wanted to ask. So 306 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 1: Maria did say that she was offered, and she said, 307 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 1: basically the role was hers to lose. Yeah, when do 308 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: you know when the offers were to both of you? 309 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: I don't you don't know, Yeah, I don't know, but 310 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: I thought that I just I'm like so fascinated that 311 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: both of y'all were like the ones that everyone and 312 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: everyone was like, let's go it's Maria or Daisy. 313 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 3: I think it was interesting too, because like, me and 314 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 3: Maria are very like different people. 315 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I think that's also why. 316 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 3: People gravitated towards both of us so much watching the show, 317 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 3: because we are so different, but we both kind of 318 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 3: brought something different to both brought something to the show. 319 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. So did you feel ready? Like, because what happened 320 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: with me is after I did Bend Season. Yeah, I 321 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 1: kind of had this moment where I was like, am 322 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: I ready to get married? 323 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 3: Like? 324 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: Is that what I really want right now? Because my 325 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: whole life growing up in the South, I was like, Oh, 326 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 1: I'll be married with two kids by twenty. 327 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 4: Five, That's what I thought. 328 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, until you have this expectation of how your life's 329 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: going to go, But then you go on a show 330 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 1: like this and you have you come out of the show, 331 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: and then you have all these experiences and you kind 332 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 1: of go, wait, do I want? Am I ready for that? 333 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: Am I ready to sell? Was that part of your 334 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 1: decision at all of saying no, Like, did you feel like, oh, 335 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: maybe I'm not actually wanting a husband right now? 336 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 3: I think if it was the right person, I would, 337 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 3: but I never wanted to feel like rushed and feel 338 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 3: like pressured like I had to do something. And I 339 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 3: mean I could have done it, got to the end 340 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 3: and not picked anyone, but. 341 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 4: You know what I mean. 342 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 2: But it's just that I'm like, what if you don't 343 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 2: like any of the guys for you and you're like, oh, this. 344 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 4: Is not it. 345 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 1: Y'all got it all wrong? 346 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 5: Yeah? 347 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 1: Really, do you know me? 348 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? 349 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 3: But I think, like I think with that timeline, like 350 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 3: if it was the right person, like I would be 351 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 3: ready to get married. I don't think you can put 352 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 3: a timeline on it really, but I think doing the show, 353 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 3: I also realized that my life had changed so much 354 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 3: in the last year, even with all my house stuff 355 00:16:56,200 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 3: being better, and it's I'm like, I'm finally living and 356 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 3: like doing things that I want to do and I'm healthy, 357 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 3: and so I wanted to really. 358 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:08,479 Speaker 4: Focus on that. 359 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, what do you want to do? 360 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 4: What do I want to do? 361 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 3: So I want to run my nonprofit, which I've been 362 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 3: working on that a lot, which is fun. I want 363 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 3: my goals to be a best selling author, so I 364 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 3: have like a memoir I wrote and just kind of 365 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 3: working on figuring out how. 366 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 4: To go about all of that. 367 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 3: I would love to get more involved in public speaking. 368 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 3: I have like a few things set up for this 369 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 3: year that we're working on, so I would love to 370 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 3: do that. I just want to find a way to 371 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 3: take what I've been through and need to inspire other people, 372 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 3: especially like younger girls and younger kids. I think is 373 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:50,680 Speaker 3: really important because I remember feeling like so insecure about 374 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 3: myself at times because of something that was out of 375 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 3: my control, and so I just want to be able 376 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:57,919 Speaker 3: to put light on all of that. 377 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, when you were going through all your health issues, 378 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 1: did you I know so many people go through autoimmune 379 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: and they struggle with, you know, their health, and they 380 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: go to doctors and they can't figure it out what 381 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 1: it is. They tell them like it's nothing, you know, 382 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 1: like you're fine. Did you feel a sense of really 383 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 1: having to advocate for yourself because I know Tanya went 384 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: through some autoimmune disease stuff and it was like you 385 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 1: really have to fight for yourself. And I know you 386 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 1: had a lot of symptoms that were like blatantly obviously 387 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:29,360 Speaker 1: something's going on. 388 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, but did you feel that heavily? Yeah, definitely. 389 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:35,959 Speaker 3: And I think I'm lucky that I have the parents 390 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 3: that I do that kept like pushing trying to find answers. 391 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 3: But I also would have some doctors that would say 392 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 3: there's nothing else we can do for you. But then 393 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 3: my parents were always like, let's kind a different doctor. 394 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 3: And then it wasn't until I think two years ago 395 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 3: I met my surgeon. And this was after I had 396 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 3: done the treatment in Germany for lime disease. But I 397 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 3: met my surgeon and they still come figure out like 398 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 3: why am I hearing was declining? And I remember her looking, 399 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:06,639 Speaker 3: I mean, she said, I'm not going to give up, 400 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 3: and she's like, if I can't figure out why, I'm 401 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 3: going to find the people who can figure out why 402 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 3: for you. And that was just like it was the 403 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 3: first time I was like someone's like really really like 404 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 3: dedicated to figuring this out, like someone cares about me. 405 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 406 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:20,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, and she's awesome. I have such a good relationship 407 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:20,879 Speaker 4: with her. 408 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,200 Speaker 3: I have my number, so like if I remember worried 409 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 3: about you, text her like, yeah, it's a really cool. 410 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, she's a really really special doctor. 411 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, what a gift to have that in somebody, 412 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 1: to feel like taken care of and seen and yeah, 413 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 1: I know have that. I want to talk about dating now, 414 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 1: but we take a break. Are going to take a break? 415 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 1: Why do you always try to beat me to it? 416 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: All right, we're back, so I will be scrolling TikTok. 417 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 1: This was especially when I was on when when the 418 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: season was airing. Yeah, and then I think it was 419 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,719 Speaker 1: kind of after. It was after because you had obviously 420 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:15,679 Speaker 1: you weren't with Joey. So I would see guys like 421 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 1: shooting their shot and it's not TikTok, yes, and it 422 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:21,919 Speaker 1: would be like crazy, and one of the guys was 423 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: so cute and I was like, oh, I could be 424 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 1: invested in this, Like I know nothing about him, but 425 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 1: he looks cute and sweet. Did you see any of these? 426 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 3: I did, and I saw more of the ones though, 427 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 3: where it would be like a guy and they'd be like, 428 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,719 Speaker 3: can finally announce my relationship? And then it'd be like 429 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:37,919 Speaker 3: me on the next one, and I'd be like my 430 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:39,879 Speaker 3: little sister and all our friends would be sending it 431 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:41,800 Speaker 3: to me and they'd be like, do you know this person? 432 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: I was like no. 433 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 3: And sometimes I would comment on them and I would 434 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 3: be like, ah, funny, this is not true or something, 435 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 3: and the people would always delete that comment because I'm 436 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 3: sure they were like getting some engagement. 437 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,400 Speaker 4: But I did see a lot of those. 438 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 1: That one guy is really cute, you know, the one 439 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:00,639 Speaker 1: because he kept posting stuff. 440 00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 4: There was like I also a lot of a lot 441 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 4: of high school boys. 442 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 3: We're doing like this prom thing for like they want 443 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 3: of asking Daisy to go to prom and. 444 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 4: Twenty five's illegal. 445 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,119 Speaker 2: Actually you don't go to prom though that could be 446 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 2: really cute, it's illegal. 447 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 1: I think I don't have the water. 448 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,640 Speaker 2: No, not like it romantically, but just. 449 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: Like it's like there's some things you just don't need 450 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 1: to protect yourself. She's learning. It's yeah, yeah, it's really 451 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 1: sweet and yeah you and but to be left in 452 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 1: that in that category is you yeah, are you dating? 453 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 4: Yes? I am. 454 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:44,920 Speaker 2: You have a boyfriend. Yes, his name's Thor Yes. 455 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,919 Speaker 1: I know. I was leaning up the. 456 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 2: I remember I saw the headline. I was like, what 457 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:51,640 Speaker 2: a great name. 458 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:56,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, very strong. Wrong man, y'all dated before the show? 459 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:57,199 Speaker 1: Is that correct? 460 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 4: We dated four years ago? 461 00:21:59,040 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: Oh? Four years ago? 462 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, so a long time ago. 463 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 1: How did ya is he from your hometown? How'd y'all 464 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 1: meet he in college? 465 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:10,119 Speaker 3: Okay, so he was like even after we didn't date 466 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:13,199 Speaker 3: for very long, but we were always really good friends 467 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 3: after and our whole college friend group is super close. 468 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 3: And then yeah, and then it just happened the way 469 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 3: it happened. 470 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 1: Who broke up with who? 471 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 4: He broke up with me? 472 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 1: Interesting? 473 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was it was like supposed to. We 474 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 3: just weren't out of place to have a relationship, and 475 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 3: I think at the time we were both just very 476 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:41,240 Speaker 3: like college college, yeah, and just wanted to have fun. 477 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 4: And so it was the best thing like for both 478 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 4: of us. 479 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 1: But so how did the rekindling happen? Like how did 480 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 1: he reach out after the show or like while it 481 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 1: was airing? 482 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:56,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, he reached out and then we It wasn't until 483 00:22:56,480 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 3: like after the show that we decided to like try 484 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:00,879 Speaker 3: to give it a go. 485 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, and we're giving it a go and it's going good. 486 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 2: Was it like after you came back or after the 487 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 2: show aired? After the show aired, okay, because I was 488 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 2: gonna say, it's probably awkward to like, yeah, dating somebody 489 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:14,200 Speaker 2: and then like watch. 490 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 4: It st going through like so much. So I think, yeah, how. 491 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 1: Is so you're dating someone in your life is just 492 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: like crazy fun and you're all over the place. How 493 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,680 Speaker 1: is that going for the relationship? Because you're gone a lot. 494 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 1: It's going really good. 495 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:33,879 Speaker 4: I actually see him like really often. 496 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 1: Really Yeah, Okay, and y'all just went to on a 497 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 1: trip together and you posted it was like you could 498 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: just see it was like a man's arm holding you. Yeah, 499 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 1: that was like a launch, right. 500 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 3: The thing is like to me, I know it feels 501 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 3: like a big deal to like everybody else, but like 502 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:56,400 Speaker 3: to me, it doesn't feel like a really big because 503 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 3: him for so long. Yeah, Like I've known him for 504 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 3: so long. He's always been like a good friend of mine. 505 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:01,440 Speaker 1: And then. 506 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 3: Like also I hadn't I had dated other people in 507 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:11,199 Speaker 3: between two and then get it like like before the 508 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,480 Speaker 3: show and then went on the show. And the show 509 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 3: has been done for a while. But I don't think 510 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,200 Speaker 3: people always understand like, like, the show's over. It didn't 511 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 3: work out for me, So why should I not live 512 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 3: my life and date people and experience this is the 513 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 3: last time? 514 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I I felt like people were really aggressively 515 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 1: rooting for you and Tyler Cameron, And. 516 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:38,200 Speaker 4: That was funny. 517 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: When you posted the photos of the two of you 518 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,640 Speaker 1: at his event for his show, all the comments were 519 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 1: like it has happened. Connection has been made. But I'm 520 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 1: assuming you were date, had a boyfriend it by that 521 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 1: point or y'all were like talking talking like dang, it's 522 00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 1: a tough one to but I guess when your name 523 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 1: is Thor, when your name's Thor, you are good. Let 524 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:07,520 Speaker 1: me tell you. 525 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,439 Speaker 2: I don't know him, but I feel like he's probably 526 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 2: very secure man. Yeah, he's awesome. Yeah, But honestly. 527 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,640 Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be really weird though, to be 528 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,360 Speaker 1: like in your mind, you're like, I'm just dating and 529 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 1: seeing what happens. And then the rest like of us, Yeah, 530 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 1: all of us were like, that's a man's arm in 531 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:34,440 Speaker 1: her photo hard launch. Thor's arm tattooed, tattooed. 532 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 4: Uh no, not tattoo. He has like a little tattoo 533 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 4: right here. But I don't think like there was oh interesting, 534 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 4: he had like a ring on his finger. 535 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: Oh something, there was something, but it was a manly arm. 536 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 537 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 2: But I think it's because like you you know, you're 538 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,160 Speaker 2: you're I don't know, I'm trying to like. 539 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,160 Speaker 3: Well, I think like I was on a reality TV 540 00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:01,159 Speaker 3: dating showy, people are gonna actually be more invested in 541 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:04,360 Speaker 3: my dating life, which is okay, totally. 542 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,479 Speaker 1: I mean, I Haley and I have been dating for 543 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 1: six years, and for four years we weren't public, and 544 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,919 Speaker 1: so yeah, everyone was so like people knew that I 545 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 1: was in a relationship, and they were like, why isn't 546 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 1: she sharing her relationship? Like, yeah, we started following her 547 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 1: because we were trying to watch her fall in love 548 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 1: on TV. Yeah, And all of a sudden, I was like, 549 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: why do people care so much? This is my life? 550 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:28,880 Speaker 1: And then I was like, oh, yeah, that's why they 551 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: It's why they're here. Yeah, And you just kind of 552 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 1: have to accept that, like people care and there's something 553 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,199 Speaker 1: really fun and endearing about it, and it's flattering that 554 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: they care about your life. Yeah, but also know like 555 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,920 Speaker 1: you you literally get to share or not share whatever 556 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 1: you want. 557 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:49,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, And I think that's something that like talking 558 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 3: to you and talking to like other people who have 559 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 3: been on the show and done other things like them 560 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,159 Speaker 3: saying that it is completely up to me what I 561 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,360 Speaker 3: want to share and what I don't. So I think 562 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 3: I'm still trying to like navigate all of that because 563 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,400 Speaker 3: in ways I feel like I do, Like I'm like, oh, 564 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like I owe it to 565 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 3: people to like share like everything about my life. Yeah, 566 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:15,880 Speaker 3: but I don't, but there is like something so fun 567 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 3: about that and like what you said, like endearing that 568 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 3: people like want to know about me, and like I 569 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 3: always want to be like open and honest with people. 570 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 3: But I think it's just me trying to figure out 571 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,680 Speaker 3: how to navigate like exactly like if I completely want 572 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 3: to share my relationship or if I completely want to share. 573 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,159 Speaker 3: I've always been very open about my health stuff, and 574 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,960 Speaker 3: I think that's a reason people related to me so 575 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,760 Speaker 3: well too. But yeah, I think it is like an 576 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:43,680 Speaker 3: interesting thing because I've never had to be. 577 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 4: Like, oh, like you do I think about that? Yeah, yeah, but. 578 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 2: I don't know. 579 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,439 Speaker 3: It Also is like right now in my life, like 580 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 3: I'm so happy and I'm having so much fun and 581 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 3: so I want to share like all of that with people. 582 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 2: Is that like a conversation that you have with thor 583 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 2: I love a conversation? Is that a conversation that you 584 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 2: have with him? Like how like what are you comfortable with? 585 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 2: Like is he comfortable being in the public eye? 586 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:11,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, and like I or I don't know if 587 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 3: he's comfortable with it, but he's very Like I called 588 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,879 Speaker 3: him before I was coming here, I was just like 589 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:20,360 Speaker 3: I might get asked about it, like do you want 590 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 3: me to not like say anything or what. He's like, 591 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 3: whatever you want to share, but like, if you ever 592 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 3: feel uncomfortable, just say, like that's between me and him. 593 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 3: So he's very supportive of what like I want to 594 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,959 Speaker 3: do and like, yeah, all of this too, but he 595 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 3: never ever thought this would have been so I'm sure 596 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 3: when articles started coming out it was shocking. 597 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 1: He's like, my mom about us weekly I do about this, 598 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 1: which I wanted to ask, how has your family felt 599 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 1: about all of this, because yeah, I know it's it's 600 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 1: weird I imagine for your siblings and your parents to watch. Yeah, 601 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 1: and also they feel probably feel so protective over you, 602 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 1: making sure that no one ever says anything mean and 603 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: you don't have control over how people react to you. 604 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 1: So how have they handled it? 605 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 4: Really well? Yeah, they're all just very excited for me, and. 606 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just I think it's really cool because it's 607 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 3: something that like I'm going through and how like my 608 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 3: life is changing and all these cool things are happening 609 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 3: to me. But it's also something that they're involved into 610 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 3: and like they get to see it happening, and it's 611 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 3: really special for them to see how like sad I 612 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 3: was and how low I was so now and now 613 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 3: it feels like everything's happening for a reason. Yeah, so 614 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 3: I think it's really special for like all of us 615 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 3: to look at. But like, definitely, I think especially when 616 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,920 Speaker 3: the show was airing and there were times that I 617 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 3: was struggling, I think it was kind of hard on 618 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 3: everyone because like your family, they never want to see 619 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:55,120 Speaker 3: you sad and they want to see you hurting, and 620 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 3: so I think for everyone it was And also they 621 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 3: all knew like what had happened and stuff, but everyone 622 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:06,800 Speaker 3: else thought I was engaged and so like my mom, 623 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 3: I don't think her phone has ever blew up so much. 624 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 3: And like even when I would go home, people were 625 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,280 Speaker 3: coming up and hugging me and like congratulating me, and 626 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 3: I think everyone was just kind of like, you know, 627 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:19,720 Speaker 3: it's like that that wasn't it, you. 628 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 4: Know, but you can't say anything. 629 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 3: So I think at times it was weird, But right 630 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 3: now it's all happy and all. 631 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 1: Wait, you just reminded me I was going to ask you. 632 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 1: So at the beginning of the season, there was a 633 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 1: spoiler release that you won. Yeah, so for majority of 634 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 1: the season, people were watching through the lens that who 635 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,480 Speaker 1: read the spoilers that you were the winner. Yeah, And 636 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 1: then there was a shift I can't remember, like I 637 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 1: want to say around hometowns or something like. It was 638 00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 1: towards the end where they announced that Kelsey had won. Yeah, 639 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 1: and spoiler alert that's over. Was that so strange? Like 640 00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 1: knowing what you knew and seeing the spoilers and being like, 641 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I'm just gonna ride this way, 642 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 1: like I can't do anything else about it. 643 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 5: Yeah. 644 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 3: I remember my friend Brindley was I was back in 645 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 3: Minnesota and my friend Brindley was bringing me because I 646 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,680 Speaker 3: had After the show, I went back to Minnesota, then 647 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 3: Thanksgiving and then I was fine back to San Diego. 648 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 3: My friend Brinley brought me to the airport and I 649 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 3: was like about to get out of her car and 650 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 3: one of my friends texted me and like the screenshot 651 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 3: of it, and I was like, oh my gosh, Brinley, 652 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 3: and she was like what and I like showed her 653 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 3: and she was like, wait then you had won? 654 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, that I had. 655 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:38,480 Speaker 3: Won, and we were both like what, like what what 656 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 3: do we do? And then my flight was leaving, so 657 00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 3: I had to out of her car and then my 658 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,760 Speaker 3: phone was just like blowing up, and like all of 659 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:49,040 Speaker 3: my guy friends were texting me like congratulations, and I was. 660 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 4: One a lot of my girl. 661 00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 1: The door text ground I'm gonna. 662 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 4: Hear the group chats. But yeah, like everyone was like 663 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:56,160 Speaker 4: happy for me. 664 00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my gosh, you must have been so relieved 665 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:00,959 Speaker 2: find out that you were. 666 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 4: But I had like. 667 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 3: We both like I had no idea that he was 668 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:11,640 Speaker 3: still interested, but it was like, but yeah, I remember 669 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 3: like getting that and I was like, okay, like now. 670 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:15,440 Speaker 4: What do I do? 671 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 3: Because it was just and then I was in the 672 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,160 Speaker 3: airport and I was just like my mind was just 673 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 3: going a million different ways, and it was like fairly 674 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 3: like recent after I got back, so I was still 675 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 3: like I was still going through a lot of the 676 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 3: emotions and I was still getting over it and like 677 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 3: over the whole process. It was still difficult for me 678 00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 3: in ways, and so now I was like, Okay, everybody 679 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,239 Speaker 3: thinks it's me and it's not. 680 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, so that was it was difficult. 681 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 3: But then I was like, Okay, I can either be 682 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 3: really like upset about this and have it like still 683 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 3: make me upset, or I can have fun with it 684 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 3: and go with my friends and they can all buy 685 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 3: me shots. 686 00:32:56,080 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 1: So you're like texting Kelsey like are you and Joey together? 687 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 3: Or I was like, did I imagine everything? 688 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:11,480 Speaker 1: I have a vague memory of how this wind and 689 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 1: I'm confused now, which I did want to ask, do 690 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:18,440 Speaker 1: you feel like, in hindsight, would you have said yes 691 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 1: to a proposal? 692 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:22,720 Speaker 4: I don't know. 693 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 3: It's hard to put myself in that position because it 694 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 3: was so like it was so I. 695 00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 4: Knew it wasn't me, and I knew it wasn't like right. 696 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 3: For me and him to be together. So I don't know, 697 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,360 Speaker 3: it's hard for me to put myself in that position. 698 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 1: I've heard you say the moment you knew was after 699 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:56,080 Speaker 1: the when it was just the final two, and it 700 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 1: was the row ceremony where it got down to final 701 00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 1: two and you saw them look at each other. 702 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:05,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and I could yeah, Like I was like, oh, honestly, like, 703 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 2: so props on being so self aware, because you're like, 704 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:10,760 Speaker 2: not the friend. 705 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 1: He's not looking at me because he doesn't want to 706 00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 1: give it to get it away. 707 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:18,400 Speaker 3: The interesting thing though, about because people like and they 708 00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:20,839 Speaker 3: were like a bunch of like tweets and they're not 709 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 3: tweet sounds what are they called, I don't know, but 710 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 3: a bunch of yeah threads and some social media stuff 711 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,840 Speaker 3: about me being like, oh, she's like so self aware 712 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,840 Speaker 3: and one of the producers that was with me for 713 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 3: majority of the time that I'm so super super close 714 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,359 Speaker 3: with she told me she was like, I've never met 715 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:42,239 Speaker 3: somebody that's like can like read other people so well 716 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:45,320 Speaker 3: and be like so in touch with how other people 717 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 3: are feeling. 718 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,759 Speaker 4: It's a gift. And I think it's I think. 719 00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 3: And then we started talking about my like hearing, and 720 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,120 Speaker 3: I think it's because I had to rely so much 721 00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 3: on body language and facial expressions and lip reading for 722 00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 3: a good portion of my life because my hearing slowly 723 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 3: dec and then it was basically almost all gone. And 724 00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,120 Speaker 3: so I'm like, and so it was interesting when she 725 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 3: pointed that out to me. 726 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: That's so interesting, Yeah, because like, did you ever know 727 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,000 Speaker 1: that about yourself? Like, did you ever feel like you 728 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 1: were intuitive about people? And there I always. 729 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,920 Speaker 3: Kind of did, because people open up to me, I 730 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 3: feel like in a way that they don't always open 731 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 3: up to other people, And even people I'm not very 732 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:26,720 Speaker 3: close with will like tell me their like deepest darkest secrets. 733 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:28,320 Speaker 4: Like I'm like a secret keeper. 734 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 1: Heavy stuff. It's a lot of weight to hear. 735 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:36,879 Speaker 3: But but yeah, so I think from people always being 736 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,719 Speaker 3: so open with me, I kind of got that, but 737 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,360 Speaker 3: I'm also very open with people back, like in return. 738 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:45,800 Speaker 2: So do you still keep in touch with them Joey 739 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:46,600 Speaker 2: and Kelsey? 740 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:47,440 Speaker 1: Yeah? 741 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:52,000 Speaker 4: Uh huh yeah. I just saw Kelsey. Uh couple weeks ago, 742 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:55,959 Speaker 4: say church, but stay sho, We're just on a little 743 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:59,720 Speaker 4: trip fun. Yeah did you that's nice? 744 00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 2: Mm hmm like that they're friends, Yeah, going after the 745 00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 2: same guy, you know, yeah, uh huh yeah, yeah. 746 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,319 Speaker 1: I mean I think the way Daisy handled it made 747 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 1: it very easy for them to be but. 748 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 2: Keep it cordial and like not be friends, you know 749 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:16,560 Speaker 2: what I mean? 750 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:17,640 Speaker 4: Yeah? 751 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 1: Do you was it hard watching? Because I know when 752 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:21,719 Speaker 1: I talked to you said it was just one of 753 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:23,879 Speaker 1: the best experiences of your life, Like you look back 754 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 1: on it with so many positive things, And I had 755 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 1: the same experience. But there were people in my season 756 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 1: that it was really challenging and they look back and 757 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,319 Speaker 1: we're like, I wish I wouldn't have done that, which 758 00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 1: I couldn't even fathom because I was, like, I had 759 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 1: the greatest time and life is so fun. Now I 760 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:45,840 Speaker 1: know your best friends with Sydney who had such a 761 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:49,439 Speaker 1: different experience than you in terms of, you know, how 762 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 1: she's perceived and how the show went. Was that hard 763 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:58,000 Speaker 1: for you because you were literally America's sweetheart and then 764 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,520 Speaker 1: one of your best friends was probably having a really 765 00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 1: hard time while the show is airing. 766 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was hard for me because I saw, like 767 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,399 Speaker 3: I had like such a great experience like you did, 768 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:13,200 Speaker 3: and then I saw girls too that it was really 769 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 3: really hard to And I think you never know how 770 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:20,400 Speaker 3: people are going to react to you when it like 771 00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 3: starts airing, and you never know exactly how it's going 772 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,799 Speaker 3: to go. But it was it was really hard to 773 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:30,879 Speaker 3: see them go through that, especially like Sydney and Leia 774 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:32,920 Speaker 3: what they had to deal with and go through. And 775 00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 3: I think all of the girls on the cast like 776 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:39,320 Speaker 3: saw and realize like all the stuff online, like everything 777 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,800 Speaker 3: that was being said like wasn't okay, Like they're human 778 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 3: and like it was it was like a it was 779 00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 3: a really sad thing. And it still makes me like 780 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:52,600 Speaker 3: really sad that that happened, yeah to her and Leah. 781 00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:58,040 Speaker 3: But that's why I like, like now I feel like 782 00:37:58,040 --> 00:37:59,960 Speaker 3: like I always want to be somebody that like uplifts 783 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,920 Speaker 3: them and like people don't, like when I told the 784 00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 3: girls about my cochlear implant, and I stayed up a 785 00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:12,160 Speaker 3: little later talking with one of the producers about like 786 00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:14,319 Speaker 3: my date the next day because I had the one 787 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,560 Speaker 3: on one, so he came down and sat with me 788 00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:18,919 Speaker 3: and stayed up for like an extra like thirty forty 789 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:20,719 Speaker 3: five minutes, like, and this was when I had just 790 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 3: met her and just told them all and was just 791 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 3: talking to me about like different ways I could talk 792 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:28,879 Speaker 3: about it and different things. So it's just it makes 793 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 3: me sad that people didn't get to see that side 794 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:31,160 Speaker 3: of Sydney. 795 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well that's what I think is cool, is 796 00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:37,160 Speaker 1: like now since the show, it's like they're y'all are 797 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:42,000 Speaker 1: hanging out and people, you know, you kind of gravitate 798 00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:45,839 Speaker 1: towards people who are like you. So I think it's 799 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: it's really beautiful and healthy to see that someone that 800 00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,799 Speaker 1: they love so much like you, is also best friends 801 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:56,080 Speaker 1: with someone that they had a totally off perception of. 802 00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,399 Speaker 1: And that's saying that Sydney didn't say or do things 803 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:02,480 Speaker 1: that maybe was like yeah, but I think that people don't. 804 00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,200 Speaker 1: But you don't realize the bubble you're in like it is. 805 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 1: It is a crazy experience when you're in it and 806 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:11,799 Speaker 1: you have no outside perspective or you don't know what's 807 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:13,360 Speaker 1: going on. You know, you don't have your phone, you 808 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,879 Speaker 1: don't have your family or friends, and yeah, it's so 809 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:21,879 Speaker 1: different than people even can even conceptualize in their head. 810 00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:26,480 Speaker 1: So I think it's I'm happy that they have someone 811 00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 1: like you, you know, and also that you have been 812 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 1: able to be a good friend to them. 813 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:31,799 Speaker 4: Yeah definitely. 814 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:32,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 815 00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, and they both too have helped me in like 816 00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:38,760 Speaker 3: so many ways too, Lay also, so that's really cool. Yeah, 817 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,520 Speaker 3: and I'm friends with a lot of the girls too. 818 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,000 Speaker 1: So what's your sign? 819 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:43,800 Speaker 4: My sign? Virgo? 820 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 1: Oh what are you? I'm a Scorpio Okay. I just 821 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:51,160 Speaker 1: feel like the way that you're very intuitive. I feel 822 00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 1: like I have a lot of Scorpio friends and I 823 00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:54,719 Speaker 1: can be a little intuitive. So I was like, oh, 824 00:39:55,000 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 1: she has any Yeah, not what Tanya is? Okay, I 825 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,279 Speaker 1: don't know if you've talked about this, okay, but I 826 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:09,840 Speaker 1: want to ask about it. Okay. Some scrolling TikTok and 827 00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 1: this music video pops up. I'm like, that's Daisy in 828 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:17,320 Speaker 1: this video? 829 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:23,480 Speaker 5: What video you'll share it, what music video you'll have 830 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,799 Speaker 5: to So it was like four years ago when I 831 00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:31,040 Speaker 5: was like one of my like really good friends, Brandon. 832 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,160 Speaker 3: He does a bunch of like music stuff, He's very creative. 833 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:38,399 Speaker 3: But yeah, you made this song music do you want 834 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,799 Speaker 3: to sing on it? And I was like sure, so 835 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:44,200 Speaker 3: I did it and then it started going viral. 836 00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 1: Did you die? 837 00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 3: When it was I was like, I was laughing about 838 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:51,040 Speaker 3: the whole thing. It Actually it didn't make me like 839 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:54,480 Speaker 3: upset at all, because I don't know, we just thought 840 00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 3: it was like funny and we were laughing about it, 841 00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:58,840 Speaker 3: and like most people were just like laughing about it 842 00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,680 Speaker 3: and like making fun of me, but not being like 843 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:03,359 Speaker 3: me and me now. 844 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,160 Speaker 1: They're just like I can't believe this is Daisy because 845 00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,240 Speaker 1: the lyrics and that's why dirty. 846 00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,080 Speaker 4: It was also yeah dirty. 847 00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 2: Like dirty, like like dirty. 848 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 4: It's very like it's very out of fucket. 849 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:18,640 Speaker 1: You can listen to do it later. 850 00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:27,279 Speaker 3: But because I didn't like realize and then I think 851 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:29,719 Speaker 3: it was one of my when was the first time, 852 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 3: I think it was one of my friends from home 853 00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,360 Speaker 3: texted in like our group chat with like my like 854 00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,240 Speaker 3: middle school high school friends, like we're all very close 855 00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:42,239 Speaker 3: to texted and they were like, guys, so this is. 856 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,440 Speaker 4: Happening and I was like oh, and then it was 857 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:50,000 Speaker 4: like all over TikTok. But honestly, it was kind. 858 00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 3: Of not a good point in the show because it 859 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,840 Speaker 3: was when like I wasn't getting a lot of airtime 860 00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:55,480 Speaker 3: and I was just kind of fall behind, and then 861 00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,359 Speaker 3: that came up and I was like, oh, there's Dasy again. 862 00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 1: She's back a very unexpected way. Yeah. So do you sing? 863 00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,280 Speaker 4: I do? Yeah, I haven't. 864 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:07,839 Speaker 1: You didn't talk about that on the show. 865 00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:08,800 Speaker 2: Do you want to be a singer? 866 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 3: No? I don't, but I used to do all growing up. 867 00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 3: I did theater and I did piano. I taught myself 868 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:21,080 Speaker 3: how to play guitar, so I was always very like 869 00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:26,080 Speaker 3: music musical. Yeah, and I really like did love it. 870 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:28,120 Speaker 3: But then when I started losing my hearing, it got 871 00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:31,200 Speaker 3: really frustrating for me, so I stopped doing it. But 872 00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 3: it's something that I really want to get back into 873 00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,400 Speaker 3: just to kind of prove to myself that I can. 874 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:36,359 Speaker 4: Still do it. 875 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:40,040 Speaker 3: And I do really love it, so I would like 876 00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:43,880 Speaker 3: to do something with it, like eventually, mainly just for myself. 877 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 2: Do you feel work two to that? 878 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:49,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you feel like playing instruments now that you 879 00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 1: feel like you're in a good place with your health. 880 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 1: Do you feel like it'd be like riding a bike, 881 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:56,919 Speaker 1: you know, like picking it up or do you feel 882 00:42:56,960 --> 00:43:00,239 Speaker 1: like you're are you starting from scratch learning something like that. 883 00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:02,920 Speaker 3: It would definitely be like riding a bike. I mean, 884 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:04,600 Speaker 3: I still have a piano in my room and I'll 885 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,880 Speaker 3: still like dink around on it every once in a while. 886 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:12,319 Speaker 4: My guitar I haven't played in a while, but yeah, I. 887 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 3: Definitely like i'd something that I want to start doing 888 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,760 Speaker 3: because I'll be like playing guitar or piano and like singing, 889 00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:19,960 Speaker 3: and I'll think I'll be doing it for like ten minutes, 890 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:21,440 Speaker 3: and I'll be doing it for like two hours. 891 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:22,920 Speaker 4: I just get like lost in it. 892 00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:26,600 Speaker 1: So I know, I've always wanted to learn to play 893 00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:29,879 Speaker 1: so not and like we could. 894 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:37,080 Speaker 2: It's just the ukulele and covid Tanya like having YouTube 895 00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:41,560 Speaker 2: videos that I watched and learned nothing. So it's a gift. 896 00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 2: Utilize that gift. 897 00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, it really is, like and especially I mean the 898 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:48,759 Speaker 1: fact that you can play for that long and it 899 00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,279 Speaker 1: feels like ten minutes, that means that it's something you're 900 00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:51,880 Speaker 1: supposed to do. 901 00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:55,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so yeah, I do want to get like 902 00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,480 Speaker 3: back into it and start doing it, mainly just for myself. 903 00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:02,600 Speaker 1: But what are your I know we talked about about 904 00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:04,759 Speaker 1: what you want to do, but what do you see 905 00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,879 Speaker 1: yourself like goals for this next year? 906 00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:11,920 Speaker 4: For this next year, I would love to get like 907 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:19,279 Speaker 4: my memoir published and be a bestseller. Yeah, be a bestseller. Yeah, 908 00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,520 Speaker 4: I want toish that for you too, what I wish 909 00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:22,799 Speaker 4: that for you too? Thank you? 910 00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:25,840 Speaker 3: And it's interesting because what I wrote, it's about my 911 00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 3: it's my whole life like before the Bachelor, Like I 912 00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:31,480 Speaker 3: had it like completely written like. 913 00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,120 Speaker 4: A while before I went on the show. 914 00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,680 Speaker 3: So crazy because I just like I've always loved writing, 915 00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,120 Speaker 3: and so it's like interesting because it goes through like 916 00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:41,000 Speaker 3: my health and when it was like really dark and 917 00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:44,600 Speaker 3: like getting my cochlear implant and making those decisions. So 918 00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,200 Speaker 3: I think it'll it would show people a lot more 919 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:51,840 Speaker 3: of me, which I think is cool. So I definitely 920 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:52,520 Speaker 3: want to do that. 921 00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:57,840 Speaker 4: I really want to like do more public speaking. 922 00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:01,520 Speaker 3: I would love to public speaking schools, take care and 923 00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,600 Speaker 3: just keep working on my nonprofit. 924 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:08,560 Speaker 1: So did you if there had been a paradise, would 925 00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,480 Speaker 1: you have gone on Paradise, I. 926 00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:15,520 Speaker 3: Don't think so, yeah, but I don't know it Probably 927 00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:19,040 Speaker 3: it probably would have been like different if they would 928 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 3: have had it, because but I don't know well, and 929 00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 3: I also. 930 00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,880 Speaker 1: Think it would have been different if it's my favorite. 931 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 4: I think it would have been a good year to 932 00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:29,160 Speaker 4: have paradise. 933 00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 1: Though, because y'all had the best past in such. 934 00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,799 Speaker 4: A long time and it was so interestingly they could 935 00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:38,200 Speaker 4: have gotten like so much more, so much good stuff. Yeah, 936 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:39,080 Speaker 4: but I also. 937 00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 1: I don't I'm interested to see what gens guys are like, yeah, that's. 938 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:46,680 Speaker 2: The right, they're like making this shift and like right, 939 00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 2: I hope. 940 00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:52,799 Speaker 1: I hope for her saying they're good, we love you 941 00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 1: so much, thank you for scrubbing. 942 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:55,440 Speaker 4: Out, thank you. 943 00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:57,840 Speaker 2: I was a little bit jealous of you. 944 00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,439 Speaker 1: For like, oh yeah, she got so up. She thought 945 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:02,080 Speaker 1: we had like a whole day together that day we 946 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:03,600 Speaker 1: went to two events. Yeah. 947 00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,920 Speaker 2: I was like, so you spend twenty four hours with 948 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,279 Speaker 2: this new days a friend and I have. 949 00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 4: To go do something sometimes. 950 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:13,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we'll go together, well twenty four hours yeah yeah. 951 00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,400 Speaker 2: Oh a day event, oh and a night event. 952 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. I have to deal with a lot of territorial 953 00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:22,080 Speaker 1: issues with her. I thought it would change what she 954 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:26,160 Speaker 1: got engaged, but it hasn't. It's actually probably worse. It's 955 00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:28,200 Speaker 1: weird territorially. 956 00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:30,040 Speaker 2: Friends and fiance. 957 00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:34,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, so us. We love you so much. I hope 958 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,960 Speaker 1: that everything that you want to do comes true, and 959 00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,319 Speaker 1: I have a really good feeling that it will. 960 00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 4: Thank you. 961 00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,160 Speaker 2: I really appreciate it, and come back whenever. 962 00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:48,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, our doors open will with his hammer, I mean, 963 00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:52,759 Speaker 1: that's that could be bad. All right, We're going to 964 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:53,560 Speaker 1: end it right there. 965 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:54,200 Speaker 5: We love it.