1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:05,359 Speaker 1: The Jewel Show on demand. I've always been an anticipator. 2 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:08,560 Speaker 1: What is that? That's the Jewel Show. I'm sure I've 3 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: missed out on some fun times because of it, actually, 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: but I think I'd rather be an anticipator than make 5 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: the mistake of not anticipating. You know what I mean. No, 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: that is a new dating term that has come out. 7 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: A list of a bunch of new popular dating terms 8 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: has made its rounds again on the internet. It always happens, 9 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: and people learn new words to describe their weird relationships 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: and hand anticipation is one of them. Will tell you 11 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,279 Speaker 1: what that means in just a second, and if you're 12 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: an anticipator or not, but we'll go over some of 13 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: the other ones. Communicating and you guesses on that might 14 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: be communicating That means like you're like dating multiple people. Yeah, 15 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: seeing everyone in the community. Well old homopper now communicating 16 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. It says using dating apps not just 17 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: for dating and intimate relationships, but you also make friends 18 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 1: and connections. That's communicating people that are on the rains. 19 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: Yeah you do, I know that's not dating. No, it's 20 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: not deja vooing. Yeah, what is at or dating someone 21 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: that acts like someone in their past or young kind 22 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: of kind of deja vooing is a new dating term 23 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: that means doing the same things with a new partner 24 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: that you did with your acts, not learning from the 25 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: past's right. It's really funny when I just like, when 26 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: I became single and would start dating, there would be 27 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: times I'm like, oh, crapt I do that with him 28 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 1: or him. Yeah, that's true when you're when you're just 29 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: dating and you're dating like people, right, and you'll be 30 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: like talking, You'll talk about a story and you're like, oh, no, yeah, um, 31 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:40,400 Speaker 1: I hope that was with her, and you're like, I 32 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 1: don't remember doing I'm like, ah, yeah, I don't know. Yeah. 33 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: Hesitating another you're hesitating to somebody out. Yeah, that's what 34 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: you would think, but it is. I mean, it's pretty 35 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: obvious that you're being hesitant about something. It's as being 36 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: unsure if you want to date seriously or casually, because 37 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: life is so weird and uncertain right now, so you're like, 38 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what I want to do, so I'm hesitating, 39 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: very obvious. I feel like every go ever that I 40 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: tried today in the past had given me that as 41 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: an excuse. I don't know what I want. I just 42 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 1: don't know. Resigning, resigning, going back to your x, um, resign, resigning, resigning, resign, 43 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: breaking up with somebody, yeah, which would be breaking up right, Resigning. 44 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: Signing would be funny because I was resigning with an X. 45 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 1: I hate the word sign like that sign yeah, because 46 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: sometimes in my head sometimes it looks like sing oh, 47 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: and then I'm like singing no sign resigning or resinging, 48 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: that whole product. The whole thing just went on and 49 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:44,799 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't think I said that right. Resigning, Okay, Resigning, Um, 50 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm resigning from this relationship means a serious relationship due 51 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 1: to perspective and clarity gained through the pandemic. I don't 52 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: know why it has to be through the pandemic, but 53 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: I think that's a much nicer word than breaking up. Yeah, 54 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: I'm just to resign. I'm just gonna have to resign 55 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: from this. Sorry. And if you want to break up 56 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 1: with someone because of them, and you're gonna put it 57 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: on them, you're being terminated. Write like a job. Another 58 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: popular dating term that has just come out that you 59 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: can use if you're dating darwinning. What is that? Darwin? 60 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: What a Darwin. Was Darwin discovered evolution? Right, yeah, theory 61 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 1: of evolutionary babies? They want babies. No, it's actually really interesting. 62 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: Darwinning is a new dating term to describe refusing to 63 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: date somebody who doesn't believe in science. Oh what yeah? 64 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: Wow what. It says a third of single people say 65 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: that they know somebody who doesn't believe in science and 66 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: won't date them. Be clean. I don't think I would 67 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: date someone if they didn't believe in science. Honestly, I mean, 68 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: what would you talk about? I think I would darwin 69 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: somebody if I met someone and they're just like, sorry, 70 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: I just don't believe in science. Think science exists. Show 71 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 1: me a study on science existing. Yeah, I'd be like, um, 72 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: show me the science on that can get the check 73 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 1: place you need help. Yeah, this is a listen new 74 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: dating words. And I started off talking about anticipation. I 75 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: think I do this a lot and I've been waiting 76 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: for this. Yes, sorry, I got to it as the 77 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: last one. Anticipation, Yeah, I means that you are just 78 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: you are anxious to get your hands on somebody. Anticipation 79 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: is being unsure about the physical boundaries that are acceptable, 80 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: like whether to hug, shake, hands, fist bump, or do 81 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: other things with your dates, so you anticipate. You're that 82 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: you're not also a thought of mine because people are 83 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: scared to do anything where I get like going for 84 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 1: a kiss or anything. Yeah, but generally you need the 85 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: confidence to go in for one of those in order 86 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: for it to be reciprocated. Right. But that's why I said, 87 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: I've always been an anticipator, right, And I know sometimes 88 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: it's been it comes off as like I don't want 89 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,559 Speaker 1: to do anything. I'm just respectful that way. Right. Also, 90 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to make a move sometimes even if 91 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: I know I'm confident like I used to when I 92 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 1: was dating, right, because I'm like, I don't know, I 93 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: can't tell they unless I can actually tell. Then I'm like, 94 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: all right, I'm not anticipating at all. Right, I have 95 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:54,359 Speaker 1: moved very slowly with that kind of stuff. I'm glad 96 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 1: I did. Also, anticipation can be a bad thing because 97 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 1: it can make you wait too long and then're like 98 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 1: this guy one even kiss me or my booty. Yeah, 99 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: you know, I find some assertiveness. Yeah. The worst is 100 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 1: when you both anticipate and like you go in for 101 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: a handshake, but they go in for a hug and 102 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: then you like stuck in that weird jingling of yeah, 103 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what to do, or if you're anticipating 104 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 1: and you're going in for a kiss and you're both 105 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 1: are anticipating, and then it's super awkward and then the 106 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 1: kiss is just really weird and like what it's like 107 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: on the other like half of the mouth, it's like 108 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 1: a first kiss. Yeah, first kisses are always weird because 109 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 1: of anticipation.