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Speaker 1: Let's talk about sex baby. Hello, my little sex pots,

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Speaker 1: and welcome to Sex Unlocked with myself, La La Kent

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Speaker 1: and Hello Sally Carson.

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Speaker 2: Hey, happy to be here, my co host. It's so exciting.

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Speaker 1: It's so exciting, and it's my most favorite topic, which

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Speaker 1: is sex. By the way, the way I cackled when

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Speaker 1: you texted me over the weekend with a picture of

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Speaker 1: the guy, he's so hot.

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Speaker 2: He's so fucking hot. You met him where I met

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Speaker 2: him in Charleston, and then randomly like I met him

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Speaker 2: through Crag and then randomly ran into each other outside

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Speaker 2: of Surfladge and I was like struggling to get into

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Speaker 2: Surflage and Kyle was like standing there like just looking

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Speaker 2: at me, struggling, and I was like, hello, wait Kylen

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Speaker 2: cook cook.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is just the weirdest. You're life is so

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Speaker 1: no great hold on, Is it like a known thing

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Speaker 1: that you've hooked up with him?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: What is that like when you hang out with him

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Speaker 1: and then you see some fucking hot football player that

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Speaker 1: you want to sleep with?

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Speaker 2: I know, Well it was easy because I like hung

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Speaker 2: out with Kyle all Thursday and then Friday was when

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Speaker 2: I ran into him at surf, but he was with

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Speaker 2: like these other girls that he's been like rumored to

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Speaker 2: have things with which he's like cleared up. For me,

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Speaker 2: He's like, it's not like that. But I couldn't get in,

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Speaker 2: and then I saw the other guy walk in and

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Speaker 2: he helped me. And then suddenly I was like behind

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Speaker 2: the DJ booth and Kyle was like, how did you

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Speaker 2: get up there?

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Speaker 1: And then you took this guy home.

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Speaker 2: I did not take him home. We went to a

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Speaker 2: party and things happened at the.

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Speaker 1: Party, Sally fucking Carson, if you don't tell me right now,

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Speaker 1: like what like a little finger banging under the table, no.

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Speaker 2: Bathroom, no, Like I just heard him yell my name,

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Speaker 2: like from in the house, and I like went in

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Speaker 2: the house and he took me downstairs and he was like.

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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, we're doing this. It was great.

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Speaker 1: This is so fun.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: It was so much fun. But and then like I

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Speaker 2: of course, I had like Kyle texting me and he

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Speaker 2: was like, you know, where are you? But I'm like, dude,

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Speaker 2: you're doing your thing. Two days later he was like

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Speaker 2: pictured walking from surflage.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's just like a known thing at

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Speaker 1: this stage of the game, like he's fresh out of

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Speaker 1: a full on marriage. You're exactly, you're having fun like

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Speaker 1: it's but here's the thing, it's I feel like things

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Speaker 1: do get sticky when you start putting intimacy into the mix.

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Speaker 2: Oh my thousand percent. And now me and Kyle hung

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Speaker 2: out like what four times now, and like he tells me,

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Speaker 2: like I get a little confused because you know, things

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Speaker 2: will go out online and he'll be like, it wasn't

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Speaker 2: like that, and I'm like, dude, you'll have to explain

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Speaker 2: anything to me, Like we're not together, we're single. You're

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Speaker 2: freshly single and like doing your thing and having fun,

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Speaker 2: like you don't have to apologize me. I'm doing my

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Speaker 2: thing too. But I mean, like I am, like I

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Speaker 2: like Kyle, like I like hanging out with him. I

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Speaker 2: enjoy hanging out with him. We're very compatible.

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Speaker 1: So do you feel like it's a timing thing?

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Speaker 2: Maybe? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Timing is everything I know. So can I tell you

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Speaker 1: the craziest shit ever?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Please.

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Speaker 1: So me and my friend Amber, I'm pretty sure we're

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Speaker 1: both dating men who were either bisexual or gay at

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Speaker 1: the same time, the two of us, both of us

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Speaker 1: because I was I like a different person but like

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Speaker 1: I went, I was in. I went to her house

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Speaker 1: and she was like, hey, this is the guy's doc

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Speaker 1: kit that I was seeing during the same time that

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Speaker 1: you were seeing your guy. And I had told her

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Speaker 1: like I fell into this like situationship. I don't even

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Speaker 1: know what to call it, because it was very brief,

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Speaker 1: but I fell hard, so fucking hard that it like.

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Speaker 2: I hate those. I hate those.

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Speaker 1: And that doesn't happen to me. Like I'm pretty good

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Speaker 1: at keeping the mental block up. But because it was

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Speaker 1: long distance, I feel like we built like an emotional

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Speaker 1: and I like relaid this to him. I was like,

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Speaker 1: giving him a blow job and he was like doing

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Speaker 1: stuff with his fingers, you know, finger banging or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, just put it in, and he

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Speaker 1: fucking wouldn't do it. I've never had to beg a

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Speaker 1: man to like put it in. And now cut to

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Speaker 1: like where I am now with some cle already. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: was he maybe he was either asexual or maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: he hadn't No, this was the first time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we literally just soaked. That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: So I'm telling Amber this and she was like, oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, I had like the same type of situation

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Speaker 1: and her guy would come out all the time and

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Speaker 1: he left his dock kit. So we went through it

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Speaker 1: and he had.

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Speaker 2: I'm intrigued.

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Speaker 1: He had uber lube. He had it in his dock kit,

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Speaker 1: which is like fine, whatever. It was the rest of

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Speaker 1: the shitty. He had all of these like travel sized

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Speaker 1: and it's tailored to your like you have to take

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Speaker 1: And it was like a US gradual self tanner, like

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Speaker 1: I Vitamin C serum for normal to dry skin.

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Speaker 2: Weird things in their travel okay, like Craig could travels

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Speaker 2: with medicine for girls.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean, Like, like, mit, all, what are

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like he when we were we just went to

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Speaker 2: Maui and I could not go to the bathroom for

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Speaker 2: like I have a really hard time going to the

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Speaker 2: was constipated and Craig was like, oh, like I always

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Speaker 2: travel with medicine in case, like you know, the girl

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Speaker 2: needs something. I these like, I'm like, first of all,

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Speaker 2: And then he was like, I have a laxid it

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Speaker 2: like for for you. This goes into the story of

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Speaker 2: like what I wanted to tell you when I texted you,

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Speaker 2: and I said that I had the craziest story.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I can't wait tell me.

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Speaker 2: So he gives me this laxative and I've never taken

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Speaker 2: a laxa over it in my life. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: still not going to the bathroom. Like three days later,

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Speaker 2: whatever the worst. So I'm flying home and I get

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Speaker 2: on like first class. It's like a lay down seat.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking to the man beside me. He's like this

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Speaker 2: older lawyer guy and he's asking me all about the show.

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Speaker 2: And then this other guy comes on to sit next

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Speaker 2: was like four seats and the guy goes, oh, are

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Speaker 2: you on the show too? Because he was so attractive

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Speaker 2: and he goes, I was like, oh no, I don't

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Speaker 2: know him. And the guy goes, I would love to

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Speaker 2: get to know you, and I was like, well, we

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Speaker 2: twenty five years old.

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Speaker 1: He like, old, are you thirty one?

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Speaker 2: Thirty one?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, so we started making out on the plane. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I've never done this before. It gets fast, It's like

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Speaker 2: The guy beside me that I was talking to originally

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Speaker 2: because we were really hitting it off. Okay, so I

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Speaker 2: fall asleep. He like figures out how to put the

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Speaker 2: like rubbing my head to bad. Got like super into it,

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Speaker 1: Like five hours on this random man on this like yeah.

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Speaker 2: Like leaning on this guy, I woke up and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: something's not right. Well, I shit myself.

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Speaker 1: You shit yourself.

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Speaker 2: I shit myself on the plane. I have never done.

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Speaker 2: I've never shipped myself before in my life, so I'm like,

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Speaker 2: something is wrong. I didn't say it to anyone, and

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Speaker 2: like tied my sweatshirt around my waist just.

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Speaker 1: In case there's no way you didn't stink, babe.

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Speaker 2: They knew.

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Speaker 1: But was it like a shart? Was it like a shart?

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Speaker 2: No? Like I mean, yes, but like a pretty decent one.

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Speaker 2: And it was because of the God Girl. I texted

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Speaker 2: and he said what did I do? And I was like,

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Speaker 2: you gave me a laxative. And then two days later,

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Speaker 2: like I told everyone, like I told my whole cast,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I just hit myself on this plane

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Speaker 2: because of the laxip. Craig calls me. He's like, I

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Speaker 2: And I was like, it makes total sense now, But

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Speaker 2: clearly the guy doesn't know because he's trying to fly

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Speaker 2: to Miami. Like, there's no way this guy knows that

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Speaker 2: I ship myself beside him.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna know now, he's gonna know. Now, hold on,

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Speaker 1: what were you wearing? Sweatpants? Gray sweatpants song or like

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Speaker 1: grandma underwear.

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Speaker 2: No underwear.

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Speaker 1: I'm an yeah, what gray sweatpants? Stained throw away? You

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Speaker 1: pull on shit yourself on a plane.

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Speaker 2: Next to a twenty five year old guy after I

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Speaker 2: made out with him. Like, my whole friend group is

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Speaker 2: like this.

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Speaker 1: This is only story I've ever heard in my entire life.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's like, you should not talk about this on the podcast.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I have to, you have to.

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Speaker 1: This is so good. I've only shit myself once and

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Speaker 1: I can't even call it a shit because it was

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Speaker 1: like the tiniest of tiny and it happened in my

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Speaker 1: bed in a bathrobe because I drank something from creation.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do, Sally, you didn't stink,

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Speaker 1: you didn't smell it.

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Speaker 2: I did not smell it until like I got to

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Speaker 2: the bathroom and off, but I'm like, none of the things,

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Speaker 2: Like it's so early. It was like five am, so

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Speaker 2: no stores are open. So see, God, you had a sweatshirt,

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Speaker 2: like Taylor Green had to give me her clothes. I had, Like, literally,

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Speaker 1: Was it on the seat because it had to have

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Speaker 1: But the story blows every single story that I'm ever

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Speaker 2: Holy shit. I mean like he's literally like begging me

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Speaker 1: Do you have a picture of him? He's kinky, he

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Speaker 2: Like his family is like very wealthy too, they like

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Speaker 2: I come? Yeah? Come on? Does he have yes? Friends? Yes? Friends.

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Speaker 2: You know I've been out in these streets for this podcast.

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Speaker 2: Have you? Oh yeah, hear about this. I want to

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Speaker 1: I mean, you can't beat the ship story. That's like wild.

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Speaker 2: I know it is. It is crazy. There's a crazy story.

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Speaker 1: It's the craziest. And the fact that like he still

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Speaker 2: I really don't think he knows, Like there's no way

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Speaker 1: Think about this, the laxative mixed with the wine. You

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Speaker 2: Took like a sleeping like a half his annex for

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Speaker 1: That's traumatizing and like you said, very humbling, very humbling.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about anal? Did we talk about this?

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Speaker 1: Have you pooped during anal?

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Speaker 1: To be the one, Yeah, but don't you feel like

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Speaker 2: Yeah that, Yeah, don't don't do that. That's crazy. Wait

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Speaker 2: so you can't, So can you get off? In like

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Speaker 1: It kind of depends. There was a guy that I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I'm not a one night stand person.

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Speaker 2: I'd like my first one was literally in the Hamden

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Speaker 1: With athletic man. Yes, you haven't spoken.

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Speaker 2: To him since? Yeah I have. Yeah, we communicate.

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Speaker 1: Then that's not a one night stand, babe.

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Speaker 2: See Anna met him and we FaceTime.

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Speaker 1: So that a stranger a one night stand. You meet

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Speaker 2: See I've never done that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I could only do that when I was drinking,

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Speaker 1: Like I would take Dorman home, the security guard at

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Speaker 2: I hate that. I think that's why I don't do

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Speaker 1: No, And that's it's like the double edged sword of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but then I have.

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Speaker 1: then sometimes it's like, Okay, well maybe I'll go to

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Speaker 1: You're already killing my vibe. Yeah, it was very particular.

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Speaker 1: As I get older, I don't go to anyone else's place.

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Speaker 1: I don't, so then you lose control of when they leave. Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 1: which is why you're going back to the people who

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Speaker 2: Well. When I hooked up with Chap about four or

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Speaker 2: five years ago now, who he wouldn't leave, and I

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Speaker 2: literally ordered him an Uber and I was like forcefully,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, you were getting out of my house and

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Speaker 2: I like ordered him a seventy five dollars Uber home,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I had to force you out of my house.

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Speaker 1: But I like situations like that where you're so comfortable

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Speaker 1: the fuck out of my space. Yeah, and that's why

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Speaker 1: I keep going back. Like my roster right now, there's

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Speaker 1: was trying to get over the guy who we don't

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Speaker 1: even know what his situation is, the guy who's I

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Speaker 1: you what do you want? Like he's proving himself in

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Speaker 2: Oh okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm like vibing with him, connecting anyway. We've been hanging

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Speaker 1: I said, I am ready to go home though, So like,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I can never see you again.

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Speaker 1: I cannot unsee what I just saw. Yeah, and so

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Speaker 1: We ended up going back to his house. It was

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Speaker 1: again because I just feel like I let him do most.

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Speaker 1: It was great. I got off twice, which like never

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know, when you're like him again.

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Speaker 1: We're definitely going to But I'm like, I feel like

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Speaker 1: I could have shown up more. You did most of

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I like that I do.

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Speaker 1: Too, But when you're talking about people who are in

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Speaker 2: Which is not always a bad thing. I feel like

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of sick of putting in work. You know,

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Speaker 1: you're like a single bad bitch where it's like I

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Speaker 1: have to bring big dick energy everywhere I go, Like

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Speaker 1: in the bedroom, I'm gonna need to just like be

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 1: I do.

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Speaker 2: Tell hell yeah, like I mean, Kyle does. All the word.

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Speaker 1: You said, Kyle's the best you've ever had, is that's

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Speaker 1: still true after fucking the guy you showed me. Ah,

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Speaker 1: because I'm not going to say what you said, but

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Speaker 1: you were like, Okay, it makes sense why you sleep

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Speaker 1: with certain people.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it does. And I think that one was just

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Speaker 1: Oh the thrill, Like yeah, were you in an actual bedroom?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Okay, yeah, Like I don't know who's that's disgusting,

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Speaker 2: Yeah for the person? Very pretty? Yeah, yeah, I'm sure

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Speaker 2: it wasn't. When we left.

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Speaker 1: I miss the days though, of being at like a restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Here's my thing. If I don't want to grab your

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Speaker 1: pp under the table, we're done here, Like I have

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Speaker 1: to have it constantly on my mind. I want to

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Speaker 1: be around someone like a man m hm, where the

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Speaker 1: only thing I'm thinking about is like touching you and

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Speaker 2: That's how I felt with this athletic man, because I

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Speaker 2: like every time I saw him I was like, I

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Speaker 2: just want to freaking pounds on you. I just think

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Speaker 2: he's so hot.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about blowjobs with men that are

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Speaker 1: like pretty random in the moment?

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Speaker 2: Mmm, I don't. I can't. So I have like some

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Speaker 2: I feel opposite, Like I'm like, if I'm sucking your dick,

440
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have sex with you, you know, Like I don't.

441
00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 2: I don't want just like a random like some of

442
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 2: my friends are like, Yeah, I mean I'll suck your

443
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 2: deck and I want sex with you.

444
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,679
Speaker 1: What I feel like, sucking dick is way more intimate

445
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 1: than having I do too.

446
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 2: I do too, Like I'm not doing that unless I'm

447
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 2: getting stuff something.

448
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna think I'm weird since having kids, I

449
00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:50,720
Speaker 1: will not give you a blowjob unless I know you

450
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 1: pretty well like where you've been at. Yeah, or I'm

451
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 1: in a relationship with you because I kiss my babies,

452
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,120
Speaker 1: like I cannot it is.

453
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 2: I don't do that.

454
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:03,119
Speaker 1: I do not.

455
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 2: I'd rather have sex than give a blowjob to someone

456
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,400
Speaker 2: that I don't know, and I don't usually do it. Yeah,

457
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 2: I don't even think I've I don't even I don't

458
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 2: think I've sucks Kyle's deck. Really, I don't think so,

459
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 2: unless I was drunk.

460
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 1: And then what about protection? Because I've been naughty the

461
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 1: past couple of weeks, like really naughty, where like you know,

462
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 1: you're so caught up and then you get up and

463
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 1: you're like, why the fuck did I just do that?

464
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:29,159
Speaker 2: This?

465
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 1: I have this man's DNA inside of me now mm hmm, yeah.

466
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 2: No, I hate. I hate. They like make my vagina reacts.

467
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 1: Oh, like you have a latex like a weird.

468
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 2: And anytime I use econdom, I feel like I get

469
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:46,679
Speaker 2: an east infection.

470
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 1: Okay, you may have like an allergic reaction to the latexx.

471
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't enjoy.

472
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 1: Condom, No, it doesn't. But also I'm like, I don't

473
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,360
Speaker 1: know where your pep has been, and like, if you're

474
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 1: so quick to like put it in me without protection,

475
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 1: that means you're pretty comfortable doing it elsewhere.

476
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 2: I know that's the thing. And I have a friend

477
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 2: here in Charleston it's like kind of in the spotlight,

478
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 2: and she loves to have sex with random men. She

479
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 2: wraps it up every time every time. Educated ho, yeah,

480
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 2: so she is. I'm like, how do you have all

481
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 2: these little sneaky links and she's like, I just wrap

482
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 2: it up.

483
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:32,680
Speaker 1: So then does she bring the condoms?

484
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:34,440
Speaker 2: Yes, everywhere she goes.

485
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 1: You know, I'm very proud of myself because when I

486
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 1: was a drinker, I always had condoms in my purse

487
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 1: if they came to my house, I had a designated

488
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,679
Speaker 1: schword that was filled to the brim with all sizes.

489
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 1: And then the past two weeks, I'm out in these

490
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 1: streets acting like a damn fool, like what.

491
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I need you to tell me about that. Well,

492
00:24:57,800 --> 00:24:59,120
Speaker 2: have you met anyone that's.

493
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 1: You're like worthy?

494
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

495
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: I see them all again. I like could not wait.

496
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,360
Speaker 1: I've been in Montana. I could not wait to get

497
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 1: back to LA because I feel like the roster I've

498
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: built is like solid, insistent. I enjoy their company. I'm

499
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 1: and I am really good at keeping the mental block up,

500
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 1: like when I mess around with anybody in the like

501
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 1: the public eye, right, I kind of there's no version

502
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: of me falling for them because I have trained my

503
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 1: brain to put up. Even if we're vibing and connecting,

504
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 1: like you're not going to get past a certain point

505
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: where I catch feelings like I could catch you in

506
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 1: the streets with another chick, and I'm going to be

507
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 1: totally fine with it. So the roster that I have

508
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 1: is actually I'm very, very proud of it. And this

509
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,520
Speaker 1: the one guy who like re entered. I've known him

510
00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: since he played football and he was like nineteen when

511
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:01,360
Speaker 1: I met him.

512
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't know the age difference.

513
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 1: I think I think I was like twenty twenty one

514
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: when I met him, like two or three years, so

515
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: you've known him for a long time. I've known him

516
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,400
Speaker 1: for the longest time. And so when I went out

517
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,400
Speaker 1: to the nder Pump Hotel opening, I was like, I'm

518
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 1: just gonna hit him up. I hadn't talked to him forever,

519
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 1: Like the last time I spoke to him, I was

520
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 1: like six weeks pregnant with Sosa, So this is going

521
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 1: to be two. So I hit him up. I was like, Hey,

522
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:32,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to be out there, like if you're around, let's,

523
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: you know, do something. Yeah, we hang out, and it

524
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: was like so comfortable because I've known him for so long, right, Yeah, I.

525
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 2: Love that, Right, but I'm sitting is like the best thing.

526
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 1: It's the best. But even when he and I were

527
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 1: together together in a partnership. We always wrapped it up.

528
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 1: Why did we not wrap it up? Out there?

529
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 2: Weird? I know?

530
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 1: And then rapper man.

531
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 2: Yeah nothing nothing, No, I mean he's not even athletic man.

532
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, not even a pullout method. Pull out method with

533
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 1: athletic man, Nope. Do they just like trust that will're

534
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 1: gonna handle shit if like something goes wrong.

535
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 2: So I'm scared people might like find out who this is.

536
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 2: But mine was snipped, so he can't have kids.

537
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 1: Oh so he's not even tripping.

538
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, so he's fine. But that's also when I'm thinking that.

539
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:40,679
Speaker 2: He tells me right after and I'm like, wait, so

540
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: are you doing this so much that you think you're

541
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,640
Speaker 2: gonna get a girl pregnant? So you got snipped?

542
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 1: Does he have anything?

543
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 2: How much these?

544
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:50,120
Speaker 1: Does he have children?

545
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 2: Two? No?

546
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,199
Speaker 1: I think he's probably just done. He's like, I have

547
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: my kids, I don't want anymore, so why would I

548
00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 1: not just like yeah?

549
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 2: But then that makes me think I'm like, damn, I

550
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 2: want kids, Yeah, but not with him?

551
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: Yeah?

552
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 2: Probably not with him?

553
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: No there, But then by the way I thought that

554
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: by you man, it was just like a normal fucking

555
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 1: guy was gonna be the end all be all, I'm like,

556
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I found like a normy who I'm

557
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 1: like attracted to, and I feel like he did more

558
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 1: damage to me mentally than the dudes who are like

559
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: have cool jobs. Not that he doesn't have a cool job,

560
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: but you get what I mean, who are like in

561
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: the public. Guy, I'm like, I like knowing how someone's moving, Like,

562
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: don't come in and portray something that is the complete

563
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: opposite of like what you want embody believe in. Yeah,

564
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 1: but I love a good love bomb, Sally, I need

565
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: to like look into that. I love a love bomb.

566
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 2: I do too, and then they always end up being

567
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 2: narcissistic or.

568
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: Something every time. I know better than that.

569
00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I do love love bombing. Kid, I'll all

570
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 2: hard and fast hard. I'm getting love bombed right now.

571
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 2: And weirdly is like if I care about you, this

572
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 2: is this is weird. I mean, like I care about Kyle,

573
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 2: and I care about Athletic Man to an extent whatever,

574
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 2: But I know what comes with them, if that makes sense, Like,

575
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,719
Speaker 2: I know Kyle's gonna be out in the streets. I

576
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 2: know Athletic Man's going to be out in the streets.

577
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 2: Right This guy I met in the Hampton's and he's

578
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 2: like so nice, and I refuse to go home with him, okay,

579
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 2: Like I actually like thought that there could be something there, okay,

580
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 2: and he was like upset about it. So now I mean,

581
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go see him in Miami next week. The

582
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 2: other guy lives in Miami too, so I'm just gonna

583
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 2: kill two birds with onesdone.

584
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: I think that's smart though, because what happened with the

585
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 1: guy in the South is I got rid of my roster.

586
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 1: I was like, I like you enough to see where

587
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: this goes. That was my biggest mistake, and I believed

588
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 1: what he was saying, which when we facetimed like a

589
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: week or two ago, I told him I was like,

590
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: I'm I know better than to allow someone to do this,

591
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: and he's like, but I still feel the same way,

592
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: and I knew in my head. I'm like, you're still

593
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 1: trying to love bomb, like you like the idea of

594
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: keeping me close but giving me the thing for sure.

595
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:24,719
Speaker 2: So this don't super recent.

596
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 1: I mean it lasted for three months and my recovery

597
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: period was pretty much the same amount of time. It

598
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: fucked me up, Sally, like, to the point.

599
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 2: Were you like down bad like anyone.

600
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: I was making my kids breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and

601
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: I was a zombie. The whole household was in a

602
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: deep depression because of me. Like I had friends who

603
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: were like, what did this person do to you? Like

604
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: I had never seen you this way? I've I have

605
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 1: never experienced anything like that in my life.

606
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 2: And it's why I wonder why.

607
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. There was some there was some something

608
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 1: about him that reeled me in. And the way that

609
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: it ended, it was like so abrupt and like for

610
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: me going forward, when I do start to look for

611
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 1: my person, it's not gonna be about the good times.

612
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 1: It's gonna be about when we have bad times, what's

613
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: our recovery? Like yeah, because I think that that is

614
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 1: who said this to me. It was like a therapist

615
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 1: or someone. They said, it's not about like how you

616
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: guys get along, it's all about how you argue. Like

617
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 1: that's yeah, those are the telling moments.

618
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I don't tell you someone so fast because

619
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 2: like the guy that fucked me up like we would,

620
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 2: I mean, it was like toxic war when we've all

621
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 2: and I'm like, I can't this is not that's not healthy.

622
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: It's not healthy, at all, And could you imagine like

623
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: living in a household together any time, like real shit happens.

624
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 2: No, not at all, because this is all over dumb

625
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 2: stuff and like, yeah, puppy, I just got a puppy.

626
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 2: My puppy would be like scared. No, we were fighting,

627
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 2: and I'm like, what if that was a child?

628
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 1: Like well, and it will be it's like literally a

629
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 1: window into like what your future is going to be, Like, yeah,

630
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 1: this guy did more of like the ice out. He

631
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: would like ice me out and then guilt tripped and

632
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 1: shame me. It would be like not respond, and then

633
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:33,239
Speaker 1: when he would respond, it was like constant shame and

634
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: guilt tripping. And it just started to feel people throw

635
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 1: this word around a lot. So I don't want to

636
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: label him as this because I do think he's a

637
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 1: good guy. I just don't think he's my guy. But

638
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 1: it started to feel like I was being emotionally abused,

639
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: and I also on our FaceTime, I was like, I'm

640
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: angry at myself that I allowed you to treat me

641
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 1: that way, and he wasn't understanding. He's like, I didn't

642
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 1: disrespect you. I'm like, you did it, and the fact

643
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: that I didn't react I was very proud of myself

644
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 1: because I usually go in on people and tear that asset.

645
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 1: And I continued to tell you that you were seen

646
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 1: and heard and take accountability for my part, and you

647
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 1: just would not ever let up. And even on that

648
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 1: phone call, it's like we're still not getting anywhere. Yeah,

649
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: So finally it's the worst, but it feels so good

650
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 1: that I finally let it go, Like I don't give

651
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 1: one fuck now after.

652
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 2: Fucking three months, Jesus, that's like torture, though, And I

653
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 2: think that the reason that you're so down bad is

654
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 2: because like it's like a mental fuck and like your

655
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 2: brain it's like addicted to it. I'm literally dealing with

656
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 2: it right. I had therapy this morning. I'm trying the

657
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 2: guy that yells all the time, like he's still always

658
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 2: in the background. He'll show up to my house and stuff,

659
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 2: and that's been going on for two years own and

660
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 2: every time I like officially cut him off, I have

661
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 2: this wave of like I can't leave my bed, I'm crying.

662
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 2: I'm like don't want to hang out with anyone, I

663
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 2: want to don't want to do anything. I'm super depressed.

664
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 2: So then he just like continues to linger in my

665
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 2: life and it's like not healthy at all. That's why

666
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,800
Speaker 2: I signed back up for therapy because I need to

667
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:20,399
Speaker 2: get out of it.

668
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 1: Right, You're like addicted to the high highs and the

669
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: low lows where it's almost like an emotional relapse. It's

670
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 1: like a drug.

671
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I feel you on that that it's like

672
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 2: the worst.

673
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 1: It is the absolute worst. And when I think about,

674
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 1: like when he and I first started talking, I felt

675
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,800
Speaker 1: like I was on a high, like no one, nothing

676
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:44,320
Speaker 1: could rock me. Someone could say some crazy shit online

677
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 1: and my friend would be like, did you see what

678
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 1: this person wrote about you? And I was like, I

679
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: don't even care. I'm just so happy. And the way

680
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 1: that I got knocked off my rocker. And what's so

681
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:55,439
Speaker 1: crazy is I'm like.

682
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 3: How did I allow you to make me feel this

683
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 3: way when all we did was no, literally, yeah, that's insane.

684
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,839
Speaker 2: But I mean I get it like a bin there,

685
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 2: I mean, not with the soaking, but in other ways.

686
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 2: Oh well, I'm glad you're out of it. What totally

687
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 2: like what changed? Like what like officially made you break

688
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 2: from it?

689
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: Our last interaction, he tried, I said something, and then

690
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: he tried to like pick a fight with me, and

691
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:40,720
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm so fucking done with this because

692
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 1: you're not even trying to pick a fight for any

693
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: other reason. Then I'm asking for something that you claimed

694
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 1: you could give, and the easiest way to not give

695
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: it is to pick a fight so that you can

696
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 1: be like, well, we're in an argument. Yeah, we're done.

697
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 1: It's like now I like, I don't want to see you.

698
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear from you.

699
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 2: Get the fuck out of my life.

700
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: And you're not gonna hear from me either. And the

701
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: worst part is I don't even think he's gonna give

702
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: a fuck.

703
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate that has he tried to reach out.

704
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 1: The last time we spoke was like right before I

705
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: went to Montana, so over a week ago.

706
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, keep it that way.

707
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 1: I have to, because then you end up where you

708
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 1: are the cycle where it's like been two years and

709
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: you go over again, over and over again, and then

710
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 1: it just gets more complicated the more time that you

711
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: allow the person to like kind of get you into

712
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 1: that it's like a drug, the high high and the

713
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: low low, like coming off of it, knowing that if

714
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 1: you cut it fully where it's like we're no longer

715
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: going to talk, you start feeling like someone's choking you.

716
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,840
Speaker 2: You cannot breathe, you can't. It's it's the worst thing ever.

717
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: Well, you can't sleep with him anymore and you can't soak.

718
00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 2: No, maibe.

719
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 1: The way to end it is to ship yourself in

720
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: front of him.

721
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 3: No.

722
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 2: And the thing is, he loves me so much he

723
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 2: wouldn't care.

724
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,399
Speaker 1: Can I tell you though? Hm, there was a point

725
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 1: in time where with this guy, my friend was like,

726
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 1: you're so into him, Like what is it? I was like,

727
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, but like I would let him shit

728
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 1: on my chest.

729
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 2: No. Literally, that's like that's this guy and it sucks

730
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,439
Speaker 2: because he's so good in bad So I'm like, that's

731
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 2: another like short King.

732
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 1: Oh do you like the short King? Is that like

733
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 1: you're saying right up there with Kyle, Like, by the way,

734
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: though Kyle was hitting right in that reunion.

735
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I liked a self Tanner that he looks so good.

736
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 2: He's very attractive. I don't know him. And the whole

737
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 2: this whole thing with summer houses, like I keep getting

738
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 2: pulled into it.

739
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 1: Did you see what's happening with it?

740
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 2: The preview for in the city, and like I keep

741
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 2: getting emails where they need like my signature for releases,

742
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 2: and I'm like, why are y'all talking about me? And

743
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 2: I saw that a man has said something like maybe me, you,

744
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 2: West and Sally can get dinner to Kyle.

745
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: Well, you guys should do that and then we should

746
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:11,800
Speaker 1: talk about it on the podcast.

747
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 2: No, we really should do that. That would be the

748
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 2: most awkward dinner ever.

749
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 1: Is she is she like canceled Amanda.

750
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 2: I think I think so, at least right now she is.

751
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 2: I think, you know, because I've hung out with West.

752
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 2: He came to South Carolina for Carolina football game. He

753
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 2: like was working with Captain Morgan or something. Okay, and

754
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:36,240
Speaker 2: I go to all the games, so I was like, Oh,

755
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 2: do you need a ticket? Do you want to come

756
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 2: to our tailgate?

757
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:40,879
Speaker 1: You know I want to do that with you.

758
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 2: Come. I have tickets to every game. And we did

759
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 2: start RV down there, so.

760
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm coming, I'm coming, I'm coming.

761
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 2: You have to come. It'll be fun. And he was like,

762
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 2: I mean I fell for the spell that West puts

763
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 2: over girls for sure. I like had the best weekend

764
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 2: with him, Like I we had a great time and

765
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 2: he showed me all this attention he's very attentive, like

766
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 2: he's with you or like if you're showing him a

767
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 2: good time, like he's he's not like wondering off and

768
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:15,880
Speaker 2: hitting on like other girls and stuff, which makes you

769
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 2: think he's not a fuck boy, right, so yeah, like

770
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,359
Speaker 2: and clearly he is, like.

771
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 1: Right, but then like when you get around him, he

772
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 1: like even what you see on TV, like if you

773
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 1: were to meet him, meet him in person, it would

774
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: feel what you're describing is like, oh, I'm different than

775
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: the rest of the girls.

776
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, but now it's like when you take a

777
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 2: step back and you look at everything, or like that

778
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:48,720
Speaker 2: is the biggest fuck boy of all funk.

779
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 1: Boys, Like, well, I can't believe how many hot girls

780
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 1: he pulls.

781
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 2: And I think that's like he really did, Like does

782
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 2: make you feel like important, He's very he's just charming.

783
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 2: Is he still I look at him and I kind

784
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 2: of get grossed out. Well yeah, yeah, yeah, Like it's

785
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 2: just apparently there's like a thing online about how he's

786
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 2: already cheated on her.

787
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,879
Speaker 1: With the girl with that, with the girl who made

788
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 1: him the horse hair, I.

789
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 2: No a different person. And then Amanda was like said

790
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:24,720
Speaker 2: that y'all are not allowed to see each other anymore.

791
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 2: But I don't know how true this is.

792
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 1: Well, of course he's creeping around. He doesn't know how

793
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 1: to keep it in his pants.

794
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,240
Speaker 2: And of course a man is like, oh it's okay.

795
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 2: I mean she's just like, don't don't see her again,

796
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 2: and that's it.

797
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:41,439
Speaker 1: I think there's also the pressure of, like we kind

798
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: of blew up our lives, so like if we don't

799
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 1: get up together. Well, when you watched her with Kyle,

800
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: like she just seemed like she had a good head

801
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: on her shoulders and like he was kind of the

802
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 1: dead weight for her. Oh yeah, I just don't even know.

803
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 1: I'm telling you it's alcohol. I'm not saying that she

804
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 1: like needs to go get sober. I'm not saying that

805
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:06,800
Speaker 1: any but alcohol just makes things a little bit easier

806
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:09,800
Speaker 1: to do it. Like you saw her.

807
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 2: As like that big of a drinker like I always

808
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 2: saw Kyle. And Kyle's still getting wasted saying crazy things.

809
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:20,240
Speaker 1: But well now he's like there's no one that's holding

810
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 1: him back from like being who he is. Even when

811
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,479
Speaker 1: he was with her, there was no one holding him back.

812
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, he just had so much answer to Yeah, and

813
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 2: she doesn't, like I feel like She's someone that doesn't

814
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 2: really stand like tintos down on you know, like she

815
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 2: didn't really hold Kyle like cool in there.

816
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,880
Speaker 1: Now until she decided to divorce him. But like that

817
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 1: could have been her move where she could have elevated.

818
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 1: I just these people. It's kind of like Tom Sandoval,

819
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 1: not that he ever was going to be on like

820
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: the uphill swing of things, but I feel like when

821
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 1: you go through something like that where you're at the

822
00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 1: you're like in the gutter, you should make major life

823
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:04,879
Speaker 1: changes to like right and elevate where it's like, oh

824
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: my gosh, this character arc is wild. And instead Tom

825
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: Sandoval's doing the same shit where we're watching him like

826
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 1: get into it with his girlfriend and the dad. Yeah,

827
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 1: like what are we doing? Like we got to like

828
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 1: take a step back and do some self reflection.

829
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 2: Thousand percent one thousand percent, and I think that, you know,

830
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 2: I mean, have you ever hooked up with a friend's eggs? No?

831
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 1: When I was in high school, my friend had this

832
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 1: like boyfriend that she had dated before she and I

833
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 1: knew each other. I was in junior high. She was

834
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 1: in high school when that happened. But I gave him

835
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: a ride home and he kissed me, and then I

836
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 1: felt really guilty and called her and was like, he

837
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 1: kissed me and I didn't stop it, and she was like,

838
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: I don't give one fuck. I've had like twelve boyfriends

839
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: since him, Like great, yeah, that's yeah.

840
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 2: No I haven't either. I mean that's just like you

841
00:42:56,640 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 2: don't do that, no, Like I don't know.

842
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 1: That's why.

843
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 2: It's like you're in a situation where you know, you

844
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 2: have feelings for a guy that your friend used to

845
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 2: have like something with, and then you talk to your

846
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 2: friend before.

847
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 1: It has to be the open communication, and even then

848
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: it's just like there's just an unspoken bond between two

849
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:21,879
Speaker 1: women where it's like if I have been around him,

850
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 1: had feelings for him at one point, like just steer clear.

851
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: There's so many other.

852
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 2: Dudes, so many other dudes, And I bet they both

853
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 2: regret it now.

854
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 1: They have. Yes, well, he looks miserable.

855
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:42,720
Speaker 2: He she does too, They both do. They're like, fuck,

856
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 2: we're stuck in this together now, and I don't want

857
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 2: to be with you.

858
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 1: No, Like I don't get it.

859
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 2: I don't either. I'm like yeah, and now they're both

860
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 2: not going on summer house.

861
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:56,919
Speaker 1: Oh they're not coming back, So what are they gonna

862
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: do how are they going to pay their bills?

863
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 3: Don't know.

864
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: She's still going to be in the Is she still

865
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 1: gonna be on in the city?

866
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 2: Maybe, or maybe that's why they're doing that, because maybe

867
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 2: they she brings West into in the city because they're together.

868
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: That would make sense, that would make Who's going back

869
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: to summer house? Is Kyle?

870
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 2: Kyle is? Yeah?

871
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: And then what about Lind's Lindsay hubs.

872
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 2: I don't know. I would assume she'd make like some

873
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 2: like weekend appearances, but I feel like they're all like

874
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 2: in the city.

875
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 1: Now, you know, Kyle like that show.

876
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Speaker 2: I even watched it.

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Speaker 1: It's actually really good.

878
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 2: I need to watch it because I mean I open

879
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 2: my phone and I'm all over it.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, well, I think they'll probably ask you

881
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Speaker 1: to make an appearance. Don't you think you should? By

882
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 1: the way, Yeah, I.

883
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Speaker 2: Mean Kyle texted me actually last night and he was

884
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Speaker 2: sending me voice notes. Are you a big voice notoer?

885
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Speaker 2: I'm not a voicemoter.

886
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Speaker 1: No, I'm not a voice noter.

887
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Speaker 2: Like he was like talking talking to.

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Speaker 1: Me, like end up just reading it and then it

889
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:09,240
Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense.

890
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Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I had to listen to him talk

891
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 2: about how he was sorry that we didn't see each

892
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 2: other more over the weekend. I'm like, literally, don't give

893
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 2: a fuck. But he was like, come to back to

894
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 2: the Hampton's and a couple of weeks, like here's going

895
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 2: to do it? Yeah, because are they filming Summerhouse right now? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I'll go to that house that

897
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 2: kind of that sounds a little intimidating.

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Speaker 1: No, You're a fucking bad bitch.

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Speaker 2: I just get you know, I don't know. I really

900
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 2: like Lindsay, really like Kyle. I've met Sierra like in passing.

901
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 2: But my friend Vinita is really good friends with her,

902
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 2: so I feel like i'd be good friends with her.

903
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,800
Speaker 1: But is Siara the oh Siarra the hot one?

904
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 2: Is? She?

905
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 1: Is? She back?

906
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 2: She's killing it?

907
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: So I know, I'm like, how do I sign up

908
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 1: for that? I'm gonna I'm gonna find a boyfriend and

909
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 1: then they need to cheat on me with another cast member.

910
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 1: That's how you elevate.

911
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 2: I was telling I was telling Austin this. I was like, Austin,

912
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 2: you really dropped the ball on this, Like we could

913
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 2: have just dated and then like I could have done

914
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 2: something crazy and then you would have like skyrocketed in

915
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 2: your ear, would have taken off in your life and

916
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 2: have taken off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the four. And then you get the and

918
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 1: there's like the perfect formula too, like they've got it conquered.

919
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 1: It's like you find your guy, he cheats on you

920
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 1: with a front or a cast member, and then you

921
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 1: get to be a host on Love Island.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Yeah. She's like she's good at it too.

923
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Speaker 1: She's like and she's always had I mean she's been

924
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 1: modeling forever as well, so her booking. She's booking a

925
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 1: lot of brand deals. Right. I told you, I'm in

926
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Speaker 1: the dark with everything. I don't know what anyone's doing,

927
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: what's happening. My entire algorithm now is how to fix

928
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:03,720
Speaker 1: the hump on my back?

929
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Speaker 2: Well, huh.

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Speaker 1: I bent over the other day Sally and I have

931
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Speaker 1: like in between my dimples like this bump okay, and

932
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:18,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fuck is that? So cut to

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Speaker 1: I just recorded with Amber and she's like, what do

934
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Speaker 1: you think it's from? And I'm like, I don't know,

935
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Speaker 1: Like it's got to be like a spinal issue, like

936
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Speaker 1: lifting my kids. There's like inflammation happening, Well.

937
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Speaker 2: Well, you know that's what I do for a living.

938
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Speaker 1: Then I'm going to send you a picture because I

939
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 1: get a text literally when I got home from Montana

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Speaker 1: from this guy that I had fucked, and he was like,

941
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 1: is your back okay? And I was like I never

942
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Speaker 1: told him about my back?

943
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

944
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: No, he was like that you said that when we

945
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Speaker 1: were doing whatever, Remember you said ah, And I was like,

946
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Speaker 1: oh my god, I do like something popped it when

947
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 1: we were fucking. I think weird, I know, so I

948
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:17,319
Speaker 1: think it is like right in like I'm gonna show

949
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Speaker 1: you right why.

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Speaker 2: God, I do see it. It's like your tailbone.

951
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Speaker 1: It must be from like lifting kids. But I remember

952
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 1: I was like bent over like the back of his couch. Yeah,

953
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 1: and we were doing whatever, and I was like, ah,

954
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: this is hurt, Like that hurt my back. And so

955
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Speaker 1: we moved and then he checked in and I was like,

956
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Speaker 1: I wonder if.

957
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Speaker 2: That's what it was. Maybe that sucked it up. Yeah,

958
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 2: you need to get like your name ri r c

959
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Speaker 2: T scared.

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Speaker 1: I should do that before I go to a chiropractor. Huh.

961
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Speaker 2: Yes, to make sure that it's nothing serious or at

962
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Speaker 2: least don't get one for your neck because that scares me.

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00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: Wait really, yeah, then what should I do for my neck?

964
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:57,800
Speaker 2: When do you have neck problems?

965
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Speaker 1: Yeah? Like chronic?

966
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 2: What's wrong with that?

967
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: It just constantly hurts and feels like it needs to

968
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Speaker 1: be like pulled and stretched and cracked.

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Speaker 2: Have you gone to get imaging done?

970
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Speaker 1: I did a full body MRI back in September, and

971
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Speaker 1: the guy was like, everything looks amazing. However, your your

972
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 1: posture is so bad, like your spine that if you

973
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Speaker 1: were to take this MRI to a physical therapist, it

974
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Speaker 1: would qualify you for twelve sessions of PETE covered by.

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Speaker 2: Insuranceee, that's what I would do over a chirebinder.

976
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Speaker 1: Is like a physical Yeah, okay, it's just now I'm insecure.

977
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, finally I have like a good roster and

978
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 1: I'm like I can't bend, like I can't do it

979
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:46,399
Speaker 1: from behind. I'm gonna have to be on my back,

980
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,720
Speaker 1: Like I can't have a fucking hump.

981
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 2: The bump is crazy. I've never seen that. You need

982
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 2: to get that checked out.

983
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 1: No, shit, don't you feel bad now? I'm like embarrassed.

984
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Speaker 2: You're fine, You're fine, You're you know what.

985
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Speaker 1: I'm not embarrassed. You shit yourself on a plane.

986
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Speaker 2: So I literally shit myself on a plane. You're you're

987
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 2: doing way better than I am.

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Speaker 1: All right, my little sex pots. I had the best

989
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Speaker 1: time talking at you, had the best time listening to

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Speaker 1: all your stories. Sally.

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Speaker 2: I'm so dead.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait for the next recording.

993
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Speaker 2: Oh god, I mean there's no telling what would happen.

994
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Speaker 2: I'm going to Miami, So what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: There, Well, we're gonna find out, and I can't wait

996
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 1: for you to talk about it on this pod. Remember you, guys,

997
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 1: if you want to dm us, ask us questions, tell

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Speaker 1: us stories. Our Instagram handle is Sex Unlocked Podcast. And

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Speaker 1: remember a new episode of Sex Unlocked airs every Tuesday

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Speaker 1: at nine pm. We will catch you guys next week.

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Speaker 2: Bye bye,