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Speaker 1: A lot of people are invested though. What happened with

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Speaker 1: the hair? Kiki? Where did you go to get a quash?

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Speaker 2: I drove all the way home. I was on an

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Speaker 2: hour and thirty minutes late to my hair appointment.

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Speaker 1: But I made it. See it's funny because my hair

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Speaker 1: lady is Christie is her name. Neon Avenue Salon is

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Speaker 1: the place, and she's like maybe three blocks down the way.

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Speaker 1: I mean she's worked, you know, been a contractor. I

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Speaker 1: think I've been to like seventeen salons where she's worked.

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Speaker 1: You know, they move around. She moves around a lot.

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Speaker 1: Jess doesn't, though, right. Jess has worked at the same

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Speaker 1: place for a long time. Uh yeah, this location. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's worked for the same pretty much the same company

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Speaker 1: for like over ten years now. Because Rufio's wife is

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Speaker 1: a hairstylist. Yes, and I can't. As I've shared with

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Speaker 1: you before, I can't break up with mine because we've

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Speaker 1: become like personal friends. Otherwise I would go to Jess

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Speaker 1: or you know, then there was a girl on the

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Speaker 1: dating app not that long ago where it's like, well

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Speaker 1: she cuts hair. What if this works out? Do I

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Speaker 1: have to dump my hairstylist to go to the one.

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Speaker 1: I'm you know, it turns out she doesn't do men's hair,

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Speaker 1: so I was woof. I always safe. But sometimes I'll

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Speaker 1: like go to get my hair cut in the afternoon,

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Speaker 1: and I'll take a shower before I go wash my hair,

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Speaker 1: and then I show up like my hair's bad, is

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Speaker 1: still wet because it's not that far from my house,

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Speaker 1: and she'll be like, oh, you wash your hair. I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so now we don't have to, and she kind of

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Speaker 1: looks at me like, I don't wash it correctly, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like she looks at me with

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Speaker 1: like a judge you face, Well you say you did,

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Speaker 1: but like, but it's the best feeling when they wash

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Speaker 1: your hair and just nail it. I'm like, right, well,

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Speaker 1: I agree. But she winds up watching it anyway, because

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Speaker 1: she'll cut my hair and then she'll like I make

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Speaker 1: her rinse it out basically before I leave, because a

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Speaker 1: lot of men's haircuts they just cut your hair and

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Speaker 1: then you leave, but there's still like little particles of

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Speaker 1: hair everywhere. Yeah, and so she winds up washing it.

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Speaker 1: But it's just funny. I come in, I'm like I

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Speaker 1: already watched it, and she looks at me like, well,

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Speaker 1: you think you did, but you know, because she spends

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Speaker 1: about five times longer than I put this stuff in.

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Speaker 1: I go, okay, I watch you rinsey, Rinsey, rinse, and

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Speaker 1: then I'm done. No, not her, She put in all

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Speaker 1: kinds of concoctions, knows what she's doing. Oil. She doesn't

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Speaker 1: trust me to watch my own hair. Clearly, I love it.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, morning, everybody, thank you so much for being here.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys have them? I've told you about this before. Then,

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Speaker 1: sort of recurring I don't know if it's a nightmare

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Speaker 1: or worry or something, but I have this recurring thought

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Speaker 1: every now and again. It's obviously linked to anxiety that

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Speaker 1: I'm looking at my phone and I'm dialing a number

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Speaker 1: and for some reason, like the number is in my head,

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Speaker 1: but my finger won't do to the phone what I'm

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Speaker 1: telling it to do. Yep, you have that. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's like I can't pick up the phone is mine.

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Speaker 1: I's so heavy. It's this concern. I don't know what.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure people can psychoanalyze it. But it's like I

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Speaker 1: got to call somebody, but for some my brain is

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Speaker 1: saying call somebody. But for some reason my hand won't

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Speaker 1: do what my brain's telling it to do. And I

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Speaker 1: have the same concern. It worked. I have four buttons

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Speaker 1: over here, and I it's four choices. That's really not difficult.

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Speaker 1: For some reason, every time I look at it, it's

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Speaker 1: like my finger wants to go to the wrong one.

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Speaker 1: It's like I don't know what it is. It's like

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Speaker 1: some sort of like I only got to push the

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Speaker 1: right one, but for some reason, like I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's like what if I were to I don't It's

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Speaker 1: like I have no control over my hand momentarily, and

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Speaker 1: what would I do? What is wrong with me? Oh?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You don't have these sort of irrational sort of like

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Speaker 1: every now and again, you're like inexplainable thoughts that are

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Speaker 1: probably deprooted. Probably has something to do with my dad

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Speaker 1: Leaven when I was eight, you know kind of thing.

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Speaker 2: Oh, for sure, I told you guys. When I was

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Speaker 2: on a cruise ship, something just kept saying jump. I

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Speaker 2: don't know what that was.

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Speaker 1: I think it's.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it was like you could totally swim, like swim,

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Speaker 2: like don't you want to swim?

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Speaker 1: Do you have any of those thoughts when you're in

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Speaker 1: here about us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like I got to the hold from time to time.

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Speaker 1: You know, I feel like it's all linked to the

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Speaker 1: same thing where it's like that would hurt if I

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Speaker 1: touch it, And then you do it anyway, Yes, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like you know already you're not

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Speaker 1: supposed to do that, but for some reason you do

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Speaker 1: it anyway, cause it's like eh, or like I probably

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Speaker 1: shouldn't do this, and then and you do it. It's

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Speaker 1: like I said to myself, I shouldn't have done it.

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Speaker 1: I think it's all linked to the same thing. That's

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Speaker 1: my psycho analysis. More Fresh show next