1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: I found another girl's clothes in the guy I'm dating's house, 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: but he says he's his sisters nyes, SyES, you sit 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:10,039 Speaker 1: on the throne of lies. I, twenty two female, was dating, 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: said thirty two male. We will call him Pete. Pete 5 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 1: and I lived in a smaller town than almost everyone 6 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: knew each other. When Pete and I started dating, I 7 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: would frequently go over to his house. I would hang 8 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: out there for hours, and I mean all freaking day. 9 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Okay resolution nine four 10 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: one seven on the r slash Okay story time subreddit. 11 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: So I need to give you some background of what 12 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: his house looked like so you can picture what I'm 13 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: talking about. He had a two story, four bedroom lake house. 14 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 2: Damn money money. 15 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: Based on what I knew about him, he was very 16 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: close with his four year old niece and had one 17 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 1: of the guest bedrooms downstairs set up with a child's 18 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: room containing a princess bed, toys everywhere, et cetera. That's 19 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 1: freaking cute. That's right, and cue, I'm not gonna lie, 20 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: that's cute. I know this might turn bad, but that's 21 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: freaking and now he's freaking now not a freaking few, honestly, 22 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: Queen flags lake house niece. What else do you need? 23 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 2: Nothing? 24 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 1: I knew for a fact that his sister did have 25 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: a daughter, and he did not have any children, so 26 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 1: I thought it was actually kind of cute. It's cute, 27 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: it's objected, week. 28 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 2: Q, He's cute. 29 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 1: He would go on to tell me all the time 30 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: how close he and his sister were and how she 31 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: would come over almost weekly since her divorce and would 32 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: stay with Pete. 33 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 2: Maybe too close. 34 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: However, one dark and stormy nights, it was a particular day, 35 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: it was Christmas time in fact, and we had plans 36 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: to go to a holiday party. 37 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 2: EO. 38 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: I mentioned the idea of spending the night because he 39 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: would be drinking and the party was in his neighborhood, 40 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:40,839 Speaker 1: and that's a lake house neighborhood. 41 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 2: Ladies, gentleman, they're going to get lit. 42 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 1: They're going to get lit. They're going to go on 43 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: a barge jump in the lake, skinny dipic are you 44 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: kidding me? At this point, I never spent the night 45 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: at his house before, since we hadn't been dating that 46 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: long three months and I was still in college with 47 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: my campus being a forty minute drive away but between 48 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: classes and working, it wasn't ideal. When do you spend 49 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: the night? How long are you in a relationship until 50 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 1: you spend the night? Riley? A month, two weeks, two 51 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:12,399 Speaker 1: weeks of boyfriend girlfriend or two weeks? 52 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 2: Oh wait, seeing each other a month, seeing each. 53 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: Other a month, seeing each other two weeks, you. 54 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 2: Said, boyfriend girlfriend. 55 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,519 Speaker 1: He seemed very happy with the idea once I brought 56 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: it up, and we actually know, probably a month. I 57 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: think I'm in the month category as well. Yeah, yeah, 58 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: you're right, you're right, you're right, you're right. Anyway, he 59 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: seemed very happy with the idea once I brought it up, 60 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: and we kept having casual conversations until it was ready. 61 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:38,079 Speaker 1: In time to get ready casual casual conversations, I went 62 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: to the guest's bathroom upstairs to take a shower, and 63 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 1: I noticed some black fuzzy slippers. 64 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: He just likes to be comfortable. 65 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, fuzzy slippers can be worn by anyone, he 66 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,919 Speaker 1: just like. I assumed they were his sisters. But when 67 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: I went to reach for a towel underneath, it looked 68 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 1: like a tornado went through his bathroom with all these 69 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: feminine products and shamp who's thrown under the sink, and 70 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: I mean thrown like in a rush to be hidden. Suspicious, Suspicious, 71 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: Although if his sister's coming over every week, maybe she 72 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: has some feather he's trying to hide him. Maybe he 73 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: just wants to be clean for his guests. 74 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just throw. He's like, that's clean enough. 75 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: Suspicious or not? Put your answers on the comments below. 76 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:24,839 Speaker 1: At this point I knew something was out because even 77 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: if your sister comes here, she isn't going to have 78 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: hundreds of products kept here, That's true. Hundreds After I shower, 79 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: I mentioned to him about the slippers and the disaster 80 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 1: under his sink. 81 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 2: Wait, I conspiracy theory, conspiracy. The niece is his daughter. 82 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: The niece is his daughter. 83 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 2: That's what my conspiracy theory is. 84 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: WHOA. He looked confused, of course, and said that the 85 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: woman who does his petticures gave those to him. What 86 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: kind of that is the worst lie. 87 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 2: In one what you Why is she giving you such 88 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 2: fancy little black. 89 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: And hundreds hundreds of products? I mean, maybe he really 90 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: just likes to keep his skin good and he uses 91 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: feminine products because but well, me being the FBI investigator, 92 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 1: I am I start looking through the rest of the house. 93 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: As I went to open the second guest room door, 94 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: I was able to see in enough, and he came 95 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 1: and grabbed the doorknobs, saying, I couldn't go in there. 96 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 2: What what is this true? The book Rebecca? Does he 97 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 2: have a wife stored up in the freaking attic? 98 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: I don't know that movie, but is it Rebecca? 99 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 2: I literally said the book Rebecca, it's also. 100 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: A movie or what see? 101 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 2: But I did say the book. 102 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 1: I just knew it was a movie. I asked why, 103 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 1: even though I already saw once again a tornado of clothes, shoes, purses, 104 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: et cetera all over the floor. He says, because he's 105 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 1: safe was in there as if I knew the code 106 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 1: to get in. 107 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 2: Anyway, You're my money. 108 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: So I just played dumb and I'm like, yeah, Pete, 109 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,280 Speaker 1: of course I know it's your sisters. So everyone who 110 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: knows Pete. Remind you, I live in a small town 111 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: knows what his bedroom looks like. 112 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 2: Whoa, everyone everyone knows what his bedroom looks like. 113 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 1: I feel like Pete might be the town bike everyone's 114 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 1: taking a ride. 115 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, what do you mean everyone in the small town. 116 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: Knows everyone's going into his room. He's he's getting those 117 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: sweet chariots slapped in his face every once in a while. 118 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 1: And he adds the super interesting and easy to identify 119 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: mirror because of all of his selfies on social media. Oh, 120 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: he's specially in social media. I get glammed up and 121 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: go to the selfies in his mirror once I'm ready 122 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: for the party. He faked a phone call saying his 123 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: niece is having an emergency and he needs to go 124 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 1: to the hospital and I need to leave asap. I 125 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:54,479 Speaker 1: kind of knew this was coming based on everything I 126 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 1: discovered so far, but the way he was trying to 127 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 1: literally kick me out of his house confirmed that someone 128 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: was on their way. 129 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:02,679 Speaker 2: Mmmm. 130 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: So I smiled, told him I knew, and that I 131 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: always get the last laugh. That sounds diabolical. He looked 132 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: very puzzled as I walked out the house into my 133 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: car and said, you'll be hearing from me very soon. 134 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 2: You'll be hearing me very soon. 135 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 1: After a night of investigating, I found out a lot 136 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 1: of things about Pete, such as that he didn't really 137 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: have a sister whoa, his job was a fraud whoa, 138 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: And most importantly, I found his girlfriend. Ooh, yeah, but she. 139 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 2: Said at the beginning of the story, she was like, 140 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 2: I know for sure he has a sister. 141 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: Well, I guess you didn't know for sure. 142 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 2: You know for sure for sure. 143 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 1: Before reaching out to Nicole, I uploaded my brand new 144 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 1: Facebook profile photo and sent her requests. Immediately she accepted 145 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 1: me and asked, why was my profile photo in her 146 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: boyfriend friend's bedroom? Smart? 147 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 2: Smart? 148 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: Oh he is doing the most she is to the back. Yeah, 149 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: she is playing four D chess. She is like a well, 150 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 1: who's one of the She is like Ulysses s Grant's 151 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: winning the Civil War. I don't know that's why the 152 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 1: first that came to vine, but that's what she's like. 153 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: Always a step. 154 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 2: Ahead, one step ahead of them. 155 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 1: Pete immediately starts blowing up my phone, and of course, 156 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 1: at the same time, so is Nicole. Nicole asked if 157 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 1: she can call me, and I accept I told the 158 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: cole the truth and asked her if she had a daughter. 159 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: She said, yes, I have a four year old and 160 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: Pete does not, in fact have a sister. I explained 161 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: to Nicole that Pete and I have been dating each 162 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: other for several months now, and he told me that 163 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: she was his sister and that her daughter was his niece. 164 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: All right, are we we're dumping this guy? Obviously? No dumb? 165 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:04,119 Speaker 1: Is there any reason to not dumb? 166 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 2: No? 167 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: Dumb them, dumb them. She was stunned. She said they 168 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: had been dating for ten months, but she never understood 169 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: why he never posted her on social media and only 170 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 1: her daughter. But now she did. Nicole shared with me 171 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: that she works nights as a vet tech and that 172 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: this is how we never ran into each other. Mmmmm, 173 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: he has a daytime and a nighttime girlfriend. Yam. Nicole 174 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: wanted to know all the details, and at first I 175 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: didn't feel comfortable sharing with her, but she really wanted 176 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 1: to know the truth, so I did. Nicole then went 177 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: to our post messages and called Pete out for cheating 178 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 1: via Instagram. I was mortified. She did not paint me 179 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: in a bad light, but was giving me my flowers 180 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: for telling her the truth. I thought that was a 181 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 1: weird way of showing it, but I understood she wanted 182 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: to expose Pete to everyone in our small town if 183 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: you're more Fortunately for me, I did not get any 184 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: backlash from people but empathy and could not wait until 185 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: this passed over. After being cussed out and threatened by Pete. 186 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 1: What a song of the Earth. 187 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 2: Guy, Yeah, what a great guy, What a great. 188 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: Guy, and him telling me I ruined a four year 189 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 1: old's life. What does that even mean? He showed up 190 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: to my apartment throwing at temper tantrum. I mean, you cheated, 191 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:15,079 Speaker 1: You are the one who ruined it. 192 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 2: You were fall What are you talking about? 193 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: He wasn't violent, but he started crying and screaming how 194 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: I ruined his life and his sister's lull still going 195 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: with that, and eventually he left me alone for the 196 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 1: rest of the night. I found out later that Nicole 197 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: had packed up all her things and left him. He 198 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: continued to text me for the next several months, how 199 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: I ruined his fake life and how lonely I hit, 200 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 1: and how lonely he is. But I just blocked him. 201 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: But you should never block us because we go alive 202 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: every weekday three pm PST. Right here on YouTube's taper profile. Anyway, 203 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 1: two years later I heard he eventually moved to the 204 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: same state I did and was trying to get a 205 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: hold of me. 206 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 2: It get over it. 207 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: We ironically saw each other at Top Golf. I think 208 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: someone told him where I was, obviously, and he came 209 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:02,079 Speaker 1: begging for me. I kindly declined to the stay in 210 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: colon I state acquaintances, and she told me I was 211 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 1: the most clever person she ever met. But like I 212 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:13,719 Speaker 1: told him, I always get the last laugh. Does she 213 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 1: the a hole forgetting the last laugh? 214 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 2: No? 215 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: I don't think so. 216 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 2: He sucks. 217 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: So he does suck. What a stinky stinky man. Thanks 218 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: to the most stink stink stunk. But we got another 219 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 1: story for you. That's fragrant fragrant fellow, and I'm not 220 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 1: gonna slouch. 221 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 2: My girlfriend revealed that she followed a guy with a 222 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 2: crush on her on Snapchat. I know she's going to cheat. 223 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: Snapchat the platform where all cheaters congrete. 224 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 2: Snapchat the platform claps back. 225 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 1: Ooh, the platform, the platform that gives you clap. 226 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:50,079 Speaker 2: My girlfriend, twenty female, and I twenty one male, have 227 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 2: been dating since sophomore year of high school. Wow five years. Oh, 228 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 2: and I've been living together the last two years on 229 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 2: our campus. We are both busy people in difficult majors, 230 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 2: but we make every moment we can for each other. 231 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 2: This is important because neither of us really have friends here. However, 232 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 2: our spicy sleep life is very active and she's never 233 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 2: complained about it to me. 234 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:14,079 Speaker 1: Well, it's freaking ghost now, Bud. 235 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from Big flat Worm twenty 236 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 2: six forty three on the r slash Okay storytime separate it. 237 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 2: So last semester, she made a new friend female who 238 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:28,320 Speaker 2: introduced her to a new coffee shop to study, where 239 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 2: she met the cashier who I'll call. 240 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:36,359 Speaker 1: John, that dastardly dastard bastard. 241 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:38,959 Speaker 2: After the first time she met him, he told her 242 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 2: friend that he wanted to f her My girlfriend. 243 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: So bad, ew why would you say that? Why? 244 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 2: My girlfriend willingly shared all of this information and even 245 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 2: acted grossed out by it, which I was as well, 246 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 2: because I think twenty six is past the age to 247 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 2: hit on twenty. 248 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: Year olds half your age. 249 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 2: Plus seven weeks go by of her going to this 250 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,680 Speaker 2: shop with her friend. I even came along once or 251 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 2: twice and saw him. Of course, he would not make 252 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:07,680 Speaker 2: eye contact. At this point where nearing finals and my 253 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 2: classes are kicking my butt, I have grades that I 254 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 2: need to meet for financial aid, and going into finals, 255 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 2: I wasn't even close for two of my classes. My 256 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:20,479 Speaker 2: girlfriend eventually showed me she added him on snapshot. 257 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: Why because she's lying. Why she's actually into it? He's 258 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 1: the hot cashier. 259 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 2: Killing herself, And a few days later showed me a 260 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 2: message of him saying he wants to f her. At 261 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 2: this point, if you were in a healthy relationship, you would, well, one, 262 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:41,079 Speaker 2: you would never follow this man on snapchat, but you 263 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 2: would block him. 264 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, Also, why would you? I think she wants the attention, 265 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 1: So I think maybe she's trying to make her boyfriend 266 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:49,319 Speaker 1: jealous in some way, or maybe she's like, see a 267 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 1: hot commodity, you better stick around. 268 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 2: I took a photo and send it to one of 269 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 2: my group chats, saying, finally beat the jealous over guy 270 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 2: friend allegations as a joke. I was so happy this 271 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:04,079 Speaker 2: was finally going to come to an end. That was 272 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 2: until I saw her face when I asked her what 273 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 2: she was gonna do? Okay, so until now ope was like, oh, yeah, 274 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 2: she's gonna block him, duh, and then it's gonna be over. 275 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 1: Wait, but it sounds like she's gonna pursue him. 276 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 2: She couldn't even turn him down in front of me. 277 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 2: I knew she was going to cheat. Between my grades, 278 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 2: my soon to be cheating girlfriend and my lack of friends. 279 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 2: Oh no, I started self harming a hiding it from 280 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 2: even my girlfriend. She eventually found out and acted like 281 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 2: she understood how she was making me feel and promised 282 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 2: me nothing was going to happen. I grinded my butt 283 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 2: off through the end of the year and kept my 284 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 2: financial aid. I was ready to have a great summer 285 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:48,079 Speaker 2: as I finally had this massive weight off my shoulders. 286 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 2: My girlfriend then tells me she wants to go visit 287 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 2: her friend from the coffee shop and bring her sister 288 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 2: and her sister's boyfriend with a double date. She refused 289 00:13:57,360 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 2: to let me come on a three day trip to 290 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 2: my own department that I pay for half of. Again, 291 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 2: I know she's going to cheat on me. Well, she 292 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 2: gets back from this trip and the stories are a 293 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 2: little muddied, and she just tells me she didn't really 294 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 2: do anything, and then I see her get a snapchat 295 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 2: from John a day or two after she gets back. 296 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 2: We have always known each other's passwords, but have never 297 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 2: really gone on each other's phones to look for signs 298 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 2: of cheating. But she's a very jealous girl and would 299 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 2: do the same to me if she thought I was cheating. Instantly, 300 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 2: tons of evidence, telling her mom she's gonna cheat, telling 301 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 2: the coffee shop friend. I'm sure she talked about it 302 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 2: with her. 303 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 1: Sister, seeing evidence of her saying she's get a cheat. 304 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: Why it's that cute. 305 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 2: It's not cute, It's not cute. Also, she's bad at cheating. 306 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're gonna cheat. Do it in silence, you know, 307 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: like you know, there's that that that thing where it's like, 308 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 1: you know, work in silence, results speak for themselves. 309 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, your results are bad. 310 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 1: You do that cheating. I guess I don't even know 311 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: what you're If you got a cheat, you suck with 312 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: you're a cheater. 313 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 2: But also you're aboud at the cheating. None of the 314 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 2: chats even mentioned my name, just for talking about doing 315 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 2: it and her mom or friend being excited for her. 316 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 2: They suck. Later that day, she's receiving snapchats from him, 317 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: and I ask her if they're still talking. She cries 318 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 2: and says no, they aren't. I call BS and after 319 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 2: hours of lying, she tells me what she did on 320 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 2: a vacation. 321 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 1: This is going to hurt to hear. 322 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 2: She had her sister driver to his apartment. Keep in mind, 323 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 2: she has never hung out with this guy before. She 324 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 2: stayed there three hours where they talked and it eventually 325 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 2: ended with very disappointing spicy sleep. According to her, Oh 326 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 2: this shattered me. 327 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: I wish it was good. I know you. You threw 328 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:54,479 Speaker 1: it away from disappointed. 329 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 2: I expressed so verbally how much she was hurting me. 330 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 2: She watched me self harm over this and still went 331 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 2: through with it. I never wanted to talk to her again, 332 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 2: but she's my only friend in the world and knows 333 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 2: a lot more about me than my own family. Settle 334 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 2: for you can get better friends. This is now two 335 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 2: to three months ago, and I haven't really talked to 336 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 2: anyone outside of her family, who obviously are pretty supportive 337 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 2: of her. Her mom even high roads me, saying of 338 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 2: X years of marriage, I've never gone on my husband's phone. 339 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: WHOA, But has have you cheated on your husband? Honestly? 340 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: If the mob is like definitely is cheated on her husband. 341 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's ridiculous to me that this little box is 342 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 2: something you can hide information from your partner from and 343 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 2: they just have to accept it. But like I said, 344 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 2: me and my girlfriend weren't like that. Cheating to me 345 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 2: is just such a childish thing. It's never even crossed 346 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 2: my mind to cheat on her, and when I eventually 347 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 2: tried to in retaliation, I couldn't even go through with it. 348 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 1: Oh, don't stoop to her do that. 349 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it makes me think of her as so much 350 00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 2: less mature than I did before. I don't know what 351 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 2: I've expect to come out of this post. I just 352 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 2: don't know whether I should break up with her and 353 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:08,159 Speaker 2: focus on my degree, yes and may and myself, or 354 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 2: if I'm overacting and she and should just push through 355 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 2: the pain she has caused me and edit. I am 356 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 2: a timid person. As many of these comments say, why 357 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 2: did I let it keep going? I loved her and 358 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 2: hope she didn't have the guts to do it and 359 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 2: that she was seeing how it affected me. 360 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:25,120 Speaker 1: I think you just has to leave like this is Yeah, 361 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 1: this is an obvious case of this being unhealthy. You 362 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 1: have to leave. I know it's scary, scary A you 363 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: know what you think is a friend, but friends don't 364 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 1: treat each. 365 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 2: Other like that, not in a relationship. And she's not your friend, and. 366 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 1: She's going to use what she knows about you to 367 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 1: gas lamp you. 368 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:44,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, and surrounding yourself by her and also by her 369 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,880 Speaker 2: friend and her mom, who are all supporting this decision 370 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 2: is not going to help you in the long run, 371 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 2: especially if you're already having like a mental health you know, 372 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 2: mental health issues. It's just gonna make that worse. But 373 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:59,400 Speaker 2: you know what's going to make it better? Joining us 374 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 2: live on you about three pm Pacific stand of time. 375 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 2: Just tab our profile, do it. I also get the 376 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 2: people saying, oh, if everyone says cheat on him, he 377 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 2: must have something left up, which goes into evidence with 378 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 2: the self harm, and some of the language is definitely 379 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 2: worse than it should be. I was more upset in 380 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:18,360 Speaker 2: the fact I never came up in these conversations. Her 381 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 2: mom and I did have a pretty strong relationship. Is 382 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:23,239 Speaker 2: why I added this tidbit. Not that I wanted as 383 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 2: much hate in these comments to go towards her mother 384 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:28,479 Speaker 2: or her as there is. I understand that maybe her 385 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 2: family did want her out of our relationship. I have 386 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 2: never even raised my voice to her, so you would 387 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 2: think they would tell her to break up with me. 388 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 2: This is the aspect I was trying to highlight for 389 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 2: everyone saying medication. I do take Anni to presence and 390 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 2: did before, but even I can see I should probably reevaluate, 391 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 2: see a counselor instead. I appreciate all the positive and 392 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:53,159 Speaker 2: negative comments. There is more to look for inside myself. 393 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:56,879 Speaker 1: Oh I seed well op, find some help, get some therapy, 394 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: get some counseling. And I think you need to cut 395 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 1: the scroll off completely, definitely cut this. She is not 396 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:03,199 Speaker 1: good for you. 397 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:06,360 Speaker 2: What's very unhealthy relationship that you have? 398 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:12,119 Speaker 1: Oh? So sad? What's not sad is we got two 399 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 1: oar stories for. 400 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 2: You, speeder mcspeed read fast. 401 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,120 Speaker 1: I found out my husband of ten years is cheating 402 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: on me. Then he tried to steal all of my money. 403 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 1: If that wasn't enough, insult injury, insult injury Me twenty 404 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 1: five female and my fiancee twenty six mail. I have 405 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:32,359 Speaker 1: been together for a decade and have our first child. 406 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 1: Our relationship hasn't always been rainbows and sunshine, but it 407 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 1: was steady and solid, or so I thought. By the way, 408 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: this coming from Puzzled Stable eight zero zero one on 409 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 1: the our sush Okay storytimes out. So I ues gave 410 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 1: birth to our first child last November, and I am 411 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 1: a stay at home mom, something we both decided and 412 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 1: agreed to. My savings are substantial, since I earned really 413 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 1: good money and saved early on. My savings were going 414 00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 1: to be used for our baby's necessities, while his in 415 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: come we'll cover the bills. It was like a good situation. 416 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 1: The condo in two cars are under my name. The 417 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 1: condo in my car are paid off. It's only his 418 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 1: car that are not. I put down half the amount 419 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 1: as a down payment, so the monthly payments are not 420 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 1: that high. Plus with my good credit, the interest was low. 421 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 1: I did have plans on paying off his car and 422 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 1: putting it in his when I got back to work. 423 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:25,120 Speaker 1: I'm currently on a six month hiatus from work due 424 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 1: to sepsis from my ception and other birth complications giving 425 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 1: birth to our first child nearly to me, I am sorry, 426 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 1: so awful. I came back from my postpartum appointment last 427 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 1: week and heard my fiance's diabolical plan. Wow, it's always 428 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: when the presidency happens. I did not expect to record it, 429 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 1: but the timing was just perfect. Let me set the 430 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:58,199 Speaker 1: stage as I said, I came home from my postpartum 431 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: appointment and was told I have the green light to 432 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 1: devour my fiance. Oh, I gleefully went to vs. Victoria's 433 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:11,360 Speaker 1: I guess and get lingeries and matching bras and panties 434 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:14,200 Speaker 1: because I was quite hot and ready to jump my 435 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 1: my hand's bones again. I was recording myself and the 436 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,120 Speaker 1: Victoria's Secret Bags when I hurt him. 437 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 2: Oh she's doing so much for him. 438 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:25,680 Speaker 1: Or perfect that. He was home already and I got 439 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: the goodies ready to show him. Possibly make a quick movie. Yeah, spicy, 440 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 1: just going the mile. So I continued recording, but instead 441 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:43,640 Speaker 1: what I heard and recorded broke my heart. I'm so 442 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 1: glad our baby can't understand what's going on yet, because 443 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:49,640 Speaker 1: I don't think I could handle explaining my fiance of 444 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:54,200 Speaker 1: ten years was cheating on me, had plans to take 445 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 1: my money from me through child support, but actually have 446 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 1: his parents take care of our baby, and is planning 447 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,919 Speaker 1: to take the condo and the cars. 448 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,440 Speaker 2: He sucks. He sucks so much. I hate this man. 449 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: I am sick. I am devastated. I am distraught. I 450 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: am heartbroken. I stopped recording and quietly went to our 451 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:16,879 Speaker 1: bedroom with our baby and cried. 452 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 453 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 1: I woke up to my baby crying, and I felt 454 00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 1: like a zombie. I was so numb and my thoughts 455 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 1: were all jumbled. Victoria's Secret Bags were still in the hallway. 456 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:28,880 Speaker 1: She was trying to do the cutest thing. 457 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 2: I didn't do something so nice for him, and he 458 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:32,360 Speaker 2: made it horrible. 459 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: He lay next to me, asleep and snoring while I 460 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 1: mustered the courage to send the recording to his parents. 461 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 1: His parents blew up his phone in the morning, and 462 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 1: in turn blew up on me, following me names, slamming doors, 463 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 1: punching walls. He forgot that we have cameras in the house, 464 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: so everything is recorded. He said, his parents are cutting 465 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:55,200 Speaker 1: him off, and it's all my fault. It's your fault 466 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: for doing terrible things. Maybe if you didn't do terrible things, 467 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:58,880 Speaker 1: bad things wouldn't happen. 468 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 2: You're just stupid. You're just stupid. Oh you told on me. 469 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 1: For Oh what's that? I hear the repercussions for your actions. 470 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,440 Speaker 1: Actions have consequence. 471 00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:19,200 Speaker 2: Actions have consequences. Aren't you stupid to realize that? 472 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,879 Speaker 1: Then get wrecked? I embarrassed him and ruined his life. 473 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 1: I had no right to record him. He said, I'll 474 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 1: regret it, and he will do everything and he will 475 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 1: get everything I had. I told him, try me, I've 476 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:33,959 Speaker 1: got proof. 477 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 2: I have proof. 478 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 1: I've already talked to a lawyer. In our state, common 479 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 1: law marriage is not recognized, and the person who the 480 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,880 Speaker 1: child lives with is not pay child support. Seeing as 481 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 1: everyone thing, seeing as everything is in my name, he 482 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:49,879 Speaker 1: has to move out. I gave him the rest of 483 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:51,920 Speaker 1: the month to move out. His parents and brother have 484 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 1: been reaching out to me and have been very supportive 485 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 1: and apologetic. My side of the family doesn't know yet. 486 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 1: He called many times and left voicemails, texts and even 487 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 1: emails and letters. Since I changed the locks on the 488 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 1: doors and the code on the garage door. He wants 489 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 1: to work it out and go to therapy a little too, 490 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 1: little toulull, little Doulay bust. I just want him out. 491 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: I spent a decade of my life giving this man everything. 492 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: I'm not perfect. We're a saint, but I've never and 493 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 1: never but I've never and never will do something like that. 494 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,200 Speaker 1: I just want to move on. There is an edit 495 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 1: and some more to this story, but really quick, do 496 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 1: we think just like obvious? Move on? Right? 497 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? Obviously, move on? 498 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 1: Obvious, move on. I don't know how he thought he 499 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 1: would get away with this, get away with it, and 500 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 1: thinks he can get OPI back. 501 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, And also he's so stupid because he's apparently just 502 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:50,320 Speaker 2: telling all of his he's telling his evil he's monologuing. Yes, 503 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:54,000 Speaker 2: he's modeling his evil plan, and like while she was home. 504 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, the thing that you should learn if you're gonna 505 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 1: play the villain, play it well. Don't monologue. Just get 506 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 1: the done, don't put it, don't talk about doing something. 507 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,879 Speaker 1: Do it. Yeah, don't let your dreams be dreams. Just 508 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 1: do it. 509 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 2: Don't put one of those little doctor duffenschmirts like, you know, 510 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 2: like the button he always puts on it to destroy, 511 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 2: the self destruct button, the self destruct button. Don't put 512 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 2: a self destruct button on your evil plan. 513 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:23,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, just do it. You know. I think we're giving 514 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 1: good advice to bad people right now. But yeah. Oops. Anyway, 515 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 1: I'm sorry for the confusion about my hiatus and being 516 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: a stay at home mom. I was already going to 517 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 1: be on hiatus from work for six months postpartum, but 518 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,159 Speaker 1: when we realized how much medical issues I had, me 519 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 1: and my ex fiance decided and agreed it would be 520 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: best for me to be a stay at home mom 521 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,120 Speaker 1: for the first year of our baby's life. Ex fiance, 522 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 1: by the way, it was a spontaneous decision I was 523 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:53,640 Speaker 1: medically advised against my physical activity labor for sixteen weeks, 524 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 1: so it wasn't like I could drive different clinics and 525 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,679 Speaker 1: hospitals for work. So think of it as stay at 526 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,439 Speaker 1: home mom for the first year six month DIIATUS. I 527 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 1: can return to work now since I've gotten medical clearance. 528 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,880 Speaker 1: My agency doesn't allow anyone on maternity leave to work 529 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 1: unless there's a medical clearance from a doctor. I'm a 530 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 1: mobile registered medical Diagnostic sonographer. That's a mouthful since there 531 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 1: are people wondering how a twenty five year old can 532 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,719 Speaker 1: afford a condo. In two cars, I get paid a 533 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:25,879 Speaker 1: higher rate than an in house RMDS, which is something 534 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 1: because I travel and work for an agency. I accept 535 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:32,120 Speaker 1: whatever assignment I want for the day slash week. Both 536 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,639 Speaker 1: cars I use. Mine is paid off fifteen K and 537 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,439 Speaker 1: have had since I was eighteen. The other car is 538 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 1: eighteen K, which I only need to pay three point 539 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,119 Speaker 1: six k on since I did put half the amount 540 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 1: down with low interest. I've been working since I was 541 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 1: fifteen in saving money. I'm smart with my money. It's 542 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 1: expensive out here. Well, it sounds like you're set up 543 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: for a good breakup because you know what you're doing, 544 00:26:56,320 --> 00:27:00,159 Speaker 1: and he on this breakup, does not know. 545 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,119 Speaker 2: He doesn't have a clue, a clue 546 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,399 Speaker 1: But I think we're gonna do one more story.