Speaker 1: Hey, fam, I'm Jada Pinkett Smith and this is the
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Speaker 1: on Apple Podcasts. Queen Latifa has been my home girl
Speaker 1: for so many years. Now she's opening up about a
Speaker 1: deeply personal struggle. I was just shocked. I was like
Speaker 1: la La. I am on a mission to change the
Speaker 1: shame attached to wait, the stigma attached to it. Was
Speaker 1: there ever a time where you felt like your size
Speaker 1: were scrutinized publicly? At eighteen, I looked in the mirror
Speaker 1: and I said, I have to make a decision. Either
Speaker 1: I'm either gonna hate myself or I'm gonna love myself
Speaker 1: as a very dark place, dark dark place. Queen Latifa
Speaker 1: has been my home girl for so many the years,
Speaker 1: and I love her to death. I met Lie long
Speaker 1: before she was the Queen of Rap and Oscar nominated
Speaker 1: actress and an Emmy winning producer. We were just teenagers
Speaker 1: when I saw her perform at a club in Baltimore,
Speaker 1: where I grew up. Since then, our bond grew into
Speaker 1: a beautiful friendship. Break Ja. We've worked together many times,
Speaker 1: including co starring and set it off The Girl's Trip.
Speaker 1: I've always admired Live for being a trailblazing icon, pushing
Speaker 1: boundaries and reshaping the conversation around women and beauty. She's
Speaker 1: never let Hollywood's image of the perfect body stop her
Speaker 1: from becoming one of the greatest entertainers of our generation.
Speaker 1: And of course she always makes me laugh. Come on
Speaker 1: out here, laugh? Is that my name being called? I
Speaker 1: just heard my name being called a JP. So you
Speaker 1: on a mission? I am on a mission right now?
Speaker 1: Um two? Change the stigma associated with obesity. Y, let's
Speaker 1: take these numbers, two and five Americans obese, four and
Speaker 1: five Black women right, obese? Right? But we just look
Speaker 1: at ourselves different because some things, you know, their cultural issues.
Speaker 1: Black women we've learned to love through all this weight
Speaker 1: and all this. So I'm involved with a campaign called
Speaker 1: this Bigger than Me. It's about the shame attached to weight,
Speaker 1: pase being more attached to it. What people talk about,
Speaker 1: how they talk about you, the little words people drop. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think if people understood it more then it could
Speaker 1: change the conversation. Right why now for you? What happened was.
Speaker 1: I hooked up with a trainer, Jeanette, and she broke
Speaker 1: down this whole. You know, well, if you know Jeanette,
Speaker 1: then you know Janette is not about the plague now,
Speaker 1: and she has degrees and she's scientific and mathematic. She
Speaker 1: was showing me different body types and she's like, this
Speaker 1: is what your b A mayas, this is what your
Speaker 1: weight is, and you fall into this category of obesity.
Speaker 1: I was mad at that off. It's just thick, I'm saying,
Speaker 1: and over where you should be, you know, And I'm
Speaker 1: like obese, right, So I was like, not right because
Speaker 1: I didn't see myself that way. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But that's the problem, and that's why I'm here because
Speaker 1: that word brings a connotation with it, okay, and the
Speaker 1: connotation is the problem. Obesity and overweight our medical terms
Speaker 1: used to classify how much body fat a person has.
Speaker 1: Body mass index, or b m I, is the standard
Speaker 1: for calculating body fat based on height and weight. The
Speaker 1: National Institutes of Health breaks down b m I into
Speaker 1: four categories underweight, healthy weight, overweight, and obese. It's about
Speaker 1: just how it's looked at, you know, the stigma. It's
Speaker 1: not not enough understanding. I think people find overweight people offensive.
Speaker 1: I think people just have a negative, visceral reaction to
Speaker 1: people that are overweight. That's part of what lies talking about, right,
Speaker 1: and it's how people are treated, how people feel about you,
Speaker 1: how people look at and I think at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, we put far too much attention on
Speaker 1: the exterior aspect of a person, especially when you look
Speaker 1: at some of the upsetting research. According to experts, weight
Speaker 1: prejudice is the last remaining social acceptable bias. Numerous studies
Speaker 1: have found children as young as three believe harmful stereotypes
Speaker 1: and biases towards overweight people, including that they are lazy,
Speaker 1: weak willed, unsuccessful, and unintelligent. Kind of reminds me of
Speaker 1: how people think about black people. A recent news story
Speaker 1: revealed some shocking statistics about weight discrimination at work. For
Speaker 1: every six pounds a woman gains her hourly paid drops,
Speaker 1: two people who are overweight are highed less, promoted less,
Speaker 1: and paid less. But see that, I didn't know that
Speaker 1: was a thing allowed. I mean, some people doesn't have
Speaker 1: different kinds of body types naturally, are just just bigger.
Speaker 1: And that's why I was just shocked. I was like
Speaker 1: obese I didn't connect with this obese word as applied
Speaker 1: to me. I just thought I needed to stop eating
Speaker 1: something and getting the gym. But it did wake me
Speaker 1: up in terms of it being not just of physical thing.
Speaker 1: This can be a genetic thing, a hormonal thing, meaning
Speaker 1: it's a different kind of management. Possibly absolutely well, once
Speaker 1: you're aware of that, then you can maybe do something
Speaker 1: about it. Put it like this, if you looked at
Speaker 1: obesity as a disease, which it is, you think you
Speaker 1: would crack all of these jokes that people do the
Speaker 1: same thing with addiction exactly. You recognize addiction as a
Speaker 1: disease because it is, then your attitude is different about it.
Speaker 1: So that's what you're saying about obesity. We need to
Speaker 1: change our thought processes around it. Yeah. For me, it's
Speaker 1: not about a weight thing. It's really about health at
Speaker 1: the end of the day. But I know a lot
Speaker 1: of people who are actually quite thin and are not healthy.
Speaker 1: But that goes along with Also when you talk about
Speaker 1: black women and obesity, when I think about what foods
Speaker 1: we have access to that we're in the price of groceries,
Speaker 1: you know, access to healthy foods, it's ridiculous. You know,
Speaker 1: there's no reason why we should be eating what we've
Speaker 1: had to eat, right and so, and that's historically, I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's historic, absolutely exactly. This is why it's such an
Speaker 1: opportune time to really get into the subject because at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, you want people to feel
Speaker 1: good about who they are. But if it's always coming
Speaker 1: through a lens of someone else, that's not healthy. Was
Speaker 1: there ever a time where you felt like your eyes
Speaker 1: were scrutinized publicly? I've been publicly scrutinized, I think my
Speaker 1: whole career. Yeah, you know what I mean. I just
Speaker 1: came out the door looking different. It's like, who is
Speaker 1: this girl with this African clothes on and those shoes
Speaker 1: on her? I thought it was hot, thank god, you know,
Speaker 1: like they've been trying to figure me out, like from jump,
Speaker 1: like where is she? Where is she going with this?
Speaker 1: Did you ever feel any kind of scrutiny during Living Single?
Speaker 1: That was one of the major ones. It happened a
Speaker 1: couple of times. We helped create Living Single. So when
Speaker 1: you look at that picture, you see four different women,
Speaker 1: four different shades, four different types, and we look like
Speaker 1: four women who would live in Brooklyn, right, And that's
Speaker 1: who we were supposed to be representing. And we loved
Speaker 1: being able to do that because we got brands that
Speaker 1: nobody was rocking. We had all kind of guests on
Speaker 1: our show that have never been on TV before, rappers
Speaker 1: and actors and just cool people. But the word came
Speaker 1: down that we needed to lose weight, right those was delivered.
Speaker 1: The word the world came down. No one, particularly the
Speaker 1: words slow down. That's the word coming down from you know,
Speaker 1: shot camp. My part Oh and I Do Yes wasn't
Speaker 1: having it. He didn't make me aware of it, but
Speaker 1: you know he obviously it was like, she's not doing it,
Speaker 1: not for you, not for anybody. Goodbye, you know pretty much,
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? But I thought also about
Speaker 1: my cast mates, like how do they feel about themselves?
Speaker 1: And then to have to hear this, We're on the
Speaker 1: number one show among black and Latino households in America
Speaker 1: and you're telling us we need to lose weight. Maybe
Speaker 1: you're the one with the problem, because maybe you're the
Speaker 1: one that has the issue because the show is a
Speaker 1: success and you're telling us we need to lose weight.
Speaker 1: But that happened again too, You know that the word
Speaker 1: came down again and it was like, come on, enough
Speaker 1: of them. You're trying to fit into what somebody else
Speaker 1: is telling you about who you need to be. We're
Speaker 1: also taught these ideas of beauty. You know, this is
Speaker 1: what you're supposed to look like. But when you have
Speaker 1: these pictures painted for you and it is implanted over generations,
Speaker 1: that's the problem. That's what's been the beauty about. Even
Speaker 1: since the beginning of your career, You've been always speaking
Speaker 1: out about the power of that's true. But at the
Speaker 1: same time, when your mom is the ideal beauty for
Speaker 1: us as black people, she looked like my little mini
Speaker 1: me when we stand next to each other. I have
Speaker 1: to figure out how to find clothes that look right
Speaker 1: on me on my side in this world when designers
Speaker 1: are not creating those fashion brands that have these sizes.
Speaker 1: So it's like if I was a side twenty four
Speaker 1: and I'm I got styled, I still want to rock
Speaker 1: with the size too is wearing, but the designers are like, no,
Speaker 1: we're gonna stop right here, right Okay, have you checked
Speaker 1: the stats of the size of the people in the country.
Speaker 1: You might want to make some clothes in this side.
Speaker 1: What's the problem don't you get it. No, you don't
Speaker 1: want to get it. You don't want us to look
Speaker 1: like this. You don't want us. I think it gets
Speaker 1: back to what I'm like. You don't want us to
Speaker 1: live this fullness. Like I knew when I was wanted
Speaker 1: to play basketball, I had to run down the court
Speaker 1: like this because my breath would be bouncing because if
Speaker 1: the brids weren't very you know, supportive at the time,
Speaker 1: you know, but if I wanted to play basketball, that's
Speaker 1: what I was gonna have to do. You know. I
Speaker 1: think I the brids have changed, they're much better. But
Speaker 1: those look, those things affect you. And telling someone, oh
Speaker 1: you too big to play that, you'll never play that sport,
Speaker 1: or you can't handle that, you can't be on that squad,
Speaker 1: it crushes people. It crushes your spirit right there. Lizzo
Speaker 1: has taken really amazing strides in in that direction, putting
Speaker 1: the beauty of bigger bodied individuals. So much for keeping
Speaker 1: me happy, for keeping me alive. Thank you. I followed
Speaker 1: her when she was just playing the flute and singing
Speaker 1: songs for years, you know, before she blew way up.
Speaker 1: She has created a language around this that is different
Speaker 1: from any language I've heard on the surrounding body type
Speaker 1: and Frihanna to Briana with her fancy line and savage
Speaker 1: with the models that she has on the runway, like
Speaker 1: she goes all in, all sizes, all colors, all different backgrounds,
Speaker 1: and spend for you. And that's what you do. You
Speaker 1: were inclusive, and then everyone else, you know, winds up
Speaker 1: looking like, oh, how do we how do we make that?
Speaker 1: You were looking for it and you didn't try. You
Speaker 1: didn't have the bravery to just look right in front
Speaker 1: of you and see that there's a big place missing
Speaker 1: in this market. As your friend, it feels so good
Speaker 1: to just see you. I can tell how passionate you
Speaker 1: are about this right. Well, I figured that if I
Speaker 1: came on Red Table Talk, I could get you for
Speaker 1: at least three more episodes, which is like having days
Speaker 1: off at work because you have some more fun, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Maybe get you to come steal
Speaker 1: a few more pagings you know about That's what did happened? Okay,
Speaker 1: come back, never bring back. You got flow back in
Speaker 1: the building and the family queens and the house. So
Speaker 1: we invited us special group of fans to join us
Speaker 1: for this important conversation. Yes, we got some face. Everybody
Speaker 1: where's tomorrow? Hey? Ti? To mar is known as the
Speaker 1: Curvy Darling. Millions follow her on her various lifestyle platforms.
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm so excited to be here. I
Speaker 1: started my platform almost ten years ago to change the
Speaker 1: narrative that I've been forced in my entire life about
Speaker 1: what that lives look like, what that people live like.
Speaker 1: So I share my life. I share my experiences, I
Speaker 1: share my travel, my fitness, what I'm cooking, falling in love,
Speaker 1: and it's my life where I'm the main character and
Speaker 1: not my fat, not my body character. I gotta give
Speaker 1: one that. It's amazing when you can change that mindset.
Speaker 1: I did have a question for Queen La Tipa. No,
Speaker 1: I wasn't there. I didn't do it. You're such a
Speaker 1: confident person. I am too, but I can't help that
Speaker 1: negative talk that creeps in from time to time. So
Speaker 1: how do you stop that self sabotage? Yes? So I
Speaker 1: have definitely had that problem since I was a very
Speaker 1: young person, and it would be these flashes that would
Speaker 1: just come across me, a flash of pure self hate,
Speaker 1: self loathing, uncontrollable, like who just hate me? Just what
Speaker 1: is that? And I would have to really stop in
Speaker 1: my tracks and take a minute to try to turn
Speaker 1: my mind around. At eighteen, I looked in the mirror
Speaker 1: and I said, I have to make a decision. Either
Speaker 1: I'm either gonna hate myself or I'm gonna love myself.
Speaker 1: And I'm talking to myself in the mirror as I'm saying,
Speaker 1: are you gonna hate yourself? Are you gonna love me? Something?
Speaker 1: And I decided to love myself. And it wasn't like
Speaker 1: love came over, but the love was already there. So
Speaker 1: it started to rise up more than the self hate
Speaker 1: that would pop in because that's a very dark place,
Speaker 1: dark dark place. And there's a few people I've talked
Speaker 1: off the ledge who were ready to call it. Every
Speaker 1: once in a while, I'll get hit up on online
Speaker 1: and I'm like, don't do it, just wait, just get
Speaker 1: through tonight. Just ignore them for a minute. You're gonna
Speaker 1: be okay. We need you, I need you, I need
Speaker 1: you to be all right. Just get through tonight. And
Speaker 1: I'm talking about fourteen year old kids, yeah, you know.
Speaker 1: And then I'll get hit up like a little while later,
Speaker 1: like I'm good, I'm doing okay. I made it through
Speaker 1: that because if you give it a little time, I
Speaker 1: feel like God lets something in to put light in
Speaker 1: that space of darkness. But if you at the time,
Speaker 1: if you stop too short, then you didn't. We won't
Speaker 1: give it the chance that it needs for real. Thank
Speaker 1: you so much, and just keep those positive thoughts about
Speaker 1: yourself in your head. When that self sabotager comes up,
Speaker 1: you go, I love myself And that's a day, yo.
Speaker 1: Blesses that part right there. Way would be brave enough
Speaker 1: to live out there for ten years. Yes, I've been like,
Speaker 1: that's not your business. Yeah, yeah right. Remy Vader is
Speaker 1: a content creator and curve model with millions of followers. Hey, Remy,
Speaker 1: what did you want to say today? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm so happy to be here. You're all amazing. I
Speaker 1: got let go for my job during the pandemic, and
Speaker 1: around that time, I gained probably like sixty pounds and
Speaker 1: I was struggling with that. And one day when I
Speaker 1: was going shopping and soho I live in New York City.
Speaker 1: I went to about fifteen stores and not one of
Speaker 1: those stores had above a size ten or twelve. Now
Speaker 1: I'm like an eighteen. So I started just being honest
Speaker 1: on TikTok about why are we only seeing on social
Speaker 1: media the good? No one showing the bad? What about
Speaker 1: like the clothes that don't fit you? Or what about
Speaker 1: when you border clothes online and you're supposed to look
Speaker 1: like what the model looks like. No one looks like
Speaker 1: what the model looks like. So I started putting a
Speaker 1: little humor on it to make myself feel better, and
Speaker 1: I did these things that I now do called realistic holes,
Speaker 1: where I kind of call out the brands and I
Speaker 1: showed the good and I showed the bad and I
Speaker 1: tell them to do better. Okay, I look like mud.
Speaker 1: What the hell is that? Please revolved, Please just make
Speaker 1: some larger clothing back again with a realistic misguided hall?
Speaker 1: Hell is that something's wrong with I think we do
Speaker 1: something crazy? Like around what did I tell I'm done?
Speaker 1: These brands don't even know what they're doing, Like let's
Speaker 1: try and laugh about it. But like, it's not our faults.
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful. I have people coming up to me
Speaker 1: in the streets every day, like I never left my
Speaker 1: apartment until I saw your videos, like thank you, and
Speaker 1: that's amazing. But every day I got tens of thousands
Speaker 1: of you fat, well this this, I'm changing these brands
Speaker 1: like they're listening. But like then you get that and
Speaker 1: it's like why am I getting so upset? And that's tough,
Speaker 1: and I've definitely had to ignore a lot of people.
Speaker 1: I've grown thicker skin. I also don't even read it
Speaker 1: ye bye bye bye, Like, yeah, it's tough because it hurts. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It hurts with somebody says something,
Speaker 1: you know, snide to you. You know, but you found
Speaker 1: success being yourself, figuring it out for you, not knowing,
Speaker 1: just like a young Queen Lativa didn't know that so
Speaker 1: many women out there wanted to have someone that look
Speaker 1: like me represent them. To add to at Law and
Speaker 1: for YouTube Remy, it's not easy to be a trailblazer. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just want you to know too that any kind
Speaker 1: of negativity that's coming your way is not about you.
Speaker 1: That is a projection of how that person feels about themselves.
Speaker 1: And I know it's hard, but that is fat and
Speaker 1: that is true. So you keep doing you, You keep
Speaker 1: doing you so beautiful. We're doing a good thing, you
Speaker 1: really are. And I hope to run into you in
Speaker 1: New York City walking Thank you, Remy Michelle, You're up next,
Speaker 1: Hey Michelle, Hi ladies, Hello Queen. I just want to
Speaker 1: let you know I was born in a eight so
Speaker 1: I've knowing you, my man so much. So. I'm a
Speaker 1: female rapper. Put blow wind. Now we say Heddlow with
Speaker 1: trade magic and they want to payg on me. I'm
Speaker 1: having issues with thinking I'm supposed to look like everybody
Speaker 1: else just to get my music heard. I thought that,
Speaker 1: you know, I needed to go and get a B
Speaker 1: B L or something. A few years ago I got
Speaker 1: breast implants, and like, every time I feel insecure, I
Speaker 1: can't just run out and get surgery. I can end
Speaker 1: up making myself sick. My question to you, Queen is
Speaker 1: how did you have the courage to be yourself and
Speaker 1: not worry about what everybody else looked like around you.
Speaker 1: Well that's a great question, great question, heavy question, but
Speaker 1: it's great. My father told me very early if I
Speaker 1: wanted to do things, I have to believe in myself,
Speaker 1: but sometimes I would have to stand alone. That you
Speaker 1: have to be able to have the courage to be
Speaker 1: the only one that's right, because if you don't believe
Speaker 1: in you, you're not gonna get everybody else to bite.
Speaker 1: You know, there's only one single you. You were created
Speaker 1: uniquely to do what you are supposed to do in
Speaker 1: the world of hip hop. I mean, I can't be
Speaker 1: a better Nikki than Nikki. I can't be a better
Speaker 1: Kim than Kim, or Missy than Missy. Light is already light,
Speaker 1: so I can't be light. I can't be a better
Speaker 1: Salt and Pepper than them. I just can't. They are
Speaker 1: who they are supposed to be, and they're the best
Speaker 1: at who they are. But I can be the best Latifa.
Speaker 1: You know, So you have to decide for yourself what
Speaker 1: you are willing to do or not do for this business.
Speaker 1: I watched this one over here develop over years. She
Speaker 1: took her time. This wasn't an overnight thing. So what
Speaker 1: you may see is an overnight sensation is not always
Speaker 1: an overnight success. It takes years to develop and find
Speaker 1: you're lane and find your vibe and find your voice
Speaker 1: and really figure out, like what do I want to
Speaker 1: say and who am I exactly? I'm still figuring and
Speaker 1: that's and that's okay because you get to do that.
Speaker 1: But you can't remove a BBL. I'm not saying you
Speaker 1: should have shouldn't. It's your body. I can't tell you
Speaker 1: what to do with it. I could tell was get
Speaker 1: your bars up, but got to get your bars up
Speaker 1: if you want to rack, make sure that's right. But
Speaker 1: your research and you know that might be your passive
Speaker 1: fat and you're stuck with it. So they really put
Speaker 1: some serious thought into it. And I think you're beautiful
Speaker 1: as you are. You know exactly and it will cut
Speaker 1: through there it is. Thank you so much, Queen, I
Speaker 1: really appreciate that. So Shannon loves her body but has
Speaker 1: a concern. Hey Shannon, how are you? I am well,
Speaker 1: Hello ladies. Ever since I was a young girl, my
Speaker 1: mother would always say, you're not fat, you're fluffy. So
Speaker 1: my question is, if I were to lose this weight,
Speaker 1: would I lose my identity? Will I still see myself
Speaker 1: as beautiful? And will I love all of the curves
Speaker 1: that I see when I look in the mirror. I
Speaker 1: understand that fair. Because there was one time I was
Speaker 1: in Louisiana shooting a movie. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: told you all this story, and I was just walking
Speaker 1: down the street and this girl saw me and she
Speaker 1: was like Queen Latifa. She was a full body woman,
Speaker 1: young girl. She was like excited to see me queer
Speaker 1: ra tiva, Oh skinny. I was like, I felt disrespected,
Speaker 1: Like who you're calling skinny? You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But it was more like I felt like I let
Speaker 1: her down because I wasn't at a larger weight, maybe
Speaker 1: than in the past. I think you are who you
Speaker 1: are regardless. All you need to do is check up
Speaker 1: on your health. How's your heart, how's your lungs, How
Speaker 1: are you doing that? Check yourself out from the inside.
Speaker 1: It sounds like your spirit is in a good place.
Speaker 1: It sounds like your mind is in a good place.
Speaker 1: If you want to lose weight or not lose a
Speaker 1: penn and that's that's up to you, you know. But
Speaker 1: at least you'll be aware of where you are physically
Speaker 1: and which is the most important part you being around
Speaker 1: Because we got black women dying heart attacks, Black and
Speaker 1: brown people are dealing with a lot of stresses and
Speaker 1: those things definitely affect our health. I hope that answers
Speaker 1: your question. It sure does. Thank you so much, Thank you,
Speaker 1: Thank you. Pam. You say your weight kept you from
Speaker 1: getting a promotion, Yes, it did. I was discriminated on
Speaker 1: the job because of my plus size. I was in
Speaker 1: a training room which was supposed to last for twelve months.
Speaker 1: When it came time for my promotion, my supervisor got
Speaker 1: a friend that was very young, very small, and put
Speaker 1: her in that position. I was laughed at. I was
Speaker 1: not taking seriously. I was a joke. I was not respected,
Speaker 1: and I knew that I had to get out of there.
Speaker 1: And I felt really bad because I looked very hard
Speaker 1: for a job. I wanted a job so bad, but
Speaker 1: when I quit the job, I felt like a failure.
Speaker 1: Who I said. I wasn't gonna cry anyway. All I
Speaker 1: want to say is this to you, Jada, thank you
Speaker 1: for hearing us. Thank you so much, he and Queen
Speaker 1: for hearing us, because it's something that hurts very deeply,
Speaker 1: and I never thought anybody would hear me or listen.
Speaker 1: So I just want to thank you for hearing all
Speaker 1: of us. Thank you, Pam, and I thank Queen too
Speaker 1: for coming to the table today because Ms Pam, the
Speaker 1: way you've educated us right now and understanding the pain
Speaker 1: around being discriminated because of your weight, your physical appearance,
Speaker 1: and you bringing this subject to the table because I
Speaker 1: wasn't aware of discrimination in regards to wait in that way,
Speaker 1: and I didn't know that it was it ran that deep.
Speaker 1: That's what we love to do at the table is
Speaker 1: to get educated. It's all about trying to bring more
Speaker 1: compassion and understanding in the world. That's right, it really is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just I have to add that set it off
Speaker 1: as my favorite movie. You in that room that far
Speaker 1: right there, Thank you, miss pain It's one of my
Speaker 1: favorites too. Definitely listen, best day of my life. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you so much, miss Pam, and thank you to
Speaker 1: all of you for joining us today for our queen
Speaker 1: right here. I really appreciate it. Thank you for your testimonies.
Speaker 1: I love you so much because you are one of
Speaker 1: the most gentle, sincere hearts that I know, and just
Speaker 1: for people that have the ability to be in connection
Speaker 1: to that, it's gonna be so healing. It makes my
Speaker 1: heart feel good. You stopped looking at you close my eyes,
Speaker 1: but you know you have just I love you so
Speaker 1: much because you're just such a just such a cuddle,
Speaker 1: your heart so soft and warm, and being in your
Speaker 1: presence is like a warm embrace. Thank you for having
Speaker 1: me and anytime continued success here. Thank you. Yeah, yeah, yo,
Speaker 1: I just want those teeth the glitter, yo, you can
Speaker 1: get them any times. I know, I know what, I
Speaker 1: know what, chick. I need to know what. Chick? Who
Speaker 1: does it really right? Pop those in on something love
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