WEBVTT - Believe Then You Can Achieve 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:04.400 You're tuned into The Gangster Chronicles with James McDonald, Rexie 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:08.200 Reich Jr. And Alex tormonso on the Digital Soapbox Network 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:12.600 material witness on an aggregated battery. I was a hang 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:16.880 gun and um they believe this m being retaliated to 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:22.960 her testimony. What's up, ladies and gentlemen, Welcome to another 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:27.360 Gangster Chronicles episode forty seven. Today. I'm not here with 0:00:27.400 --> 0:00:30.640 my co host Alex Alonzo. Uh, he had to take 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:32.919 a break and go to court today. You know, he's 0:00:32.920 --> 0:00:37.000 working with the court, so, uh, it's just me and 0:00:37.080 --> 0:00:39.080 the day. I figured it was a good time for 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:41.919 me to bring my brother in law here and and 0:00:42.000 --> 0:00:45.240 have him talk. I got, I got two guys actually here. 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:49.440 I want to introduce you to that I call positive 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:52.240 black Man, and this is what I do this show 0:00:52.320 --> 0:00:57.000 for versts. Is Harry. Harry, you want to introduce yourself 0:00:57.040 --> 0:01:00.000 to the people. Okay, my name is Harry Jackson. I'm 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:03.560 the CEO and founder of Jackson Family Human Services, and 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:06.960 U'm here today to talk about our business and how 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:10.279 we're working with kids and giving people in our area 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:13.600 access to different resources that they would have not gotten 0:01:13.680 --> 0:01:16.920 unless they win you know, was exposed to it right right, 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:19.800 and and when I when I heard his story. First, 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:22.039 let me give you a little background on it. The 0:01:22.080 --> 0:01:26.119 manage is not even thirty five years old yet, his 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:29.520 wife is not even thirty five years old yet. Yet 0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:34.000 they take care of how many kids? Would you say? Okay, 0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:36.000 so we take care of eight kids, and um, we 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:38.800 also have a family home. They care at the house 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:43.840 where we have anywhere from nine extra kids to kids 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:47.760 in one household. So um, we're blessed. Imagine that though, 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:53.160 but they find he's also a firefighter. Uh, but they 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:56.080 make time to take care of other people, other people 0:01:56.200 --> 0:01:58.800 kids were as well as they own at the same time. 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:02.680 And it was it was so crazy listening to and 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:05.800 talk to me and and listening to the things that 0:02:05.840 --> 0:02:09.959 he's he has a let's say, accomplished and ain't even 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:12.640 thirty five years old. You know, y'aut there taking care 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:14.720 of kids where it ain't too many of us out 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:17.919 there doing it. And now that he's starting his own company, 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:21.799 you know, to further and to get more kids. Imagine 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:24.400 twenty one kids in your house at one time. I 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:27.080 couldn't do it, and a lot of us wouldn't do it. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:30.359 But I wanted him on this show so he can 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:34.639 so he can elaborate on how he's doing it and 0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:37.760 why he's doing it. And he just opened his company 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:40.880 and I'm gonna let Harry tell you how how you 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:43.600 doing this? Okay? So what we are is we're a 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:48.960 U a behavioral supportive services company, and we have a 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:53.120 daycare where we take care of kids that UM in 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:58.280 some situations had hard time being placed at other day cares. UM. 0:02:58.440 --> 0:03:00.760 Some of our kids have their from types of behavior 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:04.359 and they're misunderstood and we typically UM work with them. 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:07.240 We have a board certified analysis, which is equivalent to 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:12.080 a psychiatrist will say and UM, we believe that there's 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:14.200 no bad kids. We don't turn away any kids. We 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:16.960 will bring any kid in even if he was not 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:19.440 successful at two or three daycares. UM. A lot of 0:03:19.440 --> 0:03:23.160 times people are not trained to deal with behaviors. A 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:25.320 lot of times people don't have the patients to deal 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:28.960 with any type of kid that's not you know perfectly, 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:32.440 I mean according to society being perfect. UM. So that's 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:34.440 what we do for the daycare side. UM. As far 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:39.000 as UM our behavioral supportive services company, we are, we 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:43.040 send behavioral therapists out to different families homes and we 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:48.960 train families on different types of behaviors and UM it's 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:52.360 very very important to our community and in the consumers. 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:57.720 We serve to understand that sometimes when people have different 0:03:57.960 --> 0:04:00.840 behaviors that people are saying, like, let's any for instance, 0:04:01.200 --> 0:04:02.680 if you had a kid and he was in school 0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:04.960 and he was getting in trouble, getting in fights, there's 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:07.360 only so many reasons why that kid is doing that. 0:04:08.000 --> 0:04:09.800 And what we would do as a company is we 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:14.680 will come out with our behavioral analysis UM analysts, sorry, 0:04:14.720 --> 0:04:18.560 and she will do about a six to twelve hour 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:23.000 observation and in an observation, she's going to take an 0:04:23.000 --> 0:04:28.680 account for what the behaviors that UM, this child is exhibiting, 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:32.800 teenager child, anyone up to twenty four UM. And we 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:35.240 try to figure out why you think you can shave 0:04:35.320 --> 0:04:38.799 a kid that's tuning for years old. It gets harder 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:41.240 as a kid gets older. But we can't because what 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:45.760 we do is we we target the behaviors. We create 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:49.400 a whole behavior plan. Okay, in our in our company, 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:52.640 we have a behavior m b c B, a board 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:55.680 certified analysis which I said has been a lot of 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:58.799 time in school, which is equivalent to almost a psychiatrist almost, 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:01.840 I mean not exactly the same psychiatrists deal more with 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:05.880 um the way you think, and medications and things of 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:09.200 that nature. What we do is we take that B C. 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:11.320 B A. She is very educated, and then we have 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:15.520 a master's level consultant underneath her who also helps out. 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:18.560 And then underneath that you have a clinical trainer will 0:05:18.839 --> 0:05:23.360 alongside a clinical trailer, and then you also have behavior therapists. 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:26.320 This whole group as a team, and this team will 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:29.520 believe me, we get deep into it, but we pretty 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:32.960 much look at the behavior, we look at the family environment, 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:35.800 community environment, and we come up with a plan to 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:38.880 help that child, and we will target the behavior and 0:05:38.920 --> 0:05:42.360 we'll teach that child coping mechanisms. You know, you actually 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:47.400 believe that, Yes, I believe we can save in most cases, 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:49.720 we can save a kid. Yes, we can stop that 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:51.800 kid from you know, because a lot of times in 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:56.120 our community kids are misdiagnosed, and the misdiagnosed can be 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:59.120 anything from getting kicked out of school. They'll just say 0:05:59.160 --> 0:06:01.359 you're a bad kid. You know, that's how I go. 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:06.720 You kicked out of school, sent to jail. Okay, not 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:09.640 be able to have relationships, and it starts at a 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:12.120 young age. You know, you might have a kid that 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:16.000 might have some type of too much energy, let's say, 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:20.080 and that kid might be suffering from or you know, 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:22.920 have a real diagnosis and never ever get it treated 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:25.680 at a young age, so therefore he goes to kindergarten. 0:06:26.320 --> 0:06:29.359 You could have shaved me just shaped answer. Let's go 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.520 back to when I was in the third grade and 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:37.240 I got a major issue, family issues, and I go 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:40.560 to school. I'm fighting my teachers at this time, I'm 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:44.400 taking butcher knives to school. I'm just a bad kid. 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:47.560 You honestly think or you would take your time out 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:51.280 to help that kid. Yeah, so, James, the real whole 0:06:51.440 --> 0:06:53.919 focus on our company and someone that's exactly like you, 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:57.120 you know, because it's more to it than just you 0:06:57.240 --> 0:07:00.279 doing that. No behavior comes without some type of a seeding, 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:03.720 and that the seedy means why it's happened. So we 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:08.400 would have have come into your life, okay. Our analysis 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:11.840 would have analyzed the whole situation, and if your family 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:14.320 needed let's say, family therapy, we could have pointed you 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:17.840 in a in a direction to where family therapists could 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:20.480 have came in and we would oversee that. Okay, if 0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:22.920 you need to behavioral intervention, we would have created a 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:25.360 plan to stop you, to figure out why are you 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:27.640 fighting your teacher. See, people don't just want to fight 0:07:27.680 --> 0:07:29.680 their teacher. You don't. It's just not how it go. 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:34.000 Like you know, typically kids want to please adults. Okay, 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:35.600 So I can just guess a lot of times you 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:38.160 do stuff, you would have did stuff for attention. And 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:40.000 the more attention you get kids, I'm like, oh man, 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:42.680 he with the business. He that's a bad man like 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:45.560 And a lot of times you would do more and 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:47.920 more because the more attention you getting, the more acceptance 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:50.240 in our community. A lot of times it was raised wrong. 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:52.680 I need to say it like, it's just how it is, 0:07:52.760 --> 0:07:55.600 and that's what that's what everybody needs to raw un 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:59.679 cut of where we're at today. You know what I'm saying. 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:02.360 And that's one of the reasons why I try to 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:05.360 do what I do here to reach out to the 0:08:05.440 --> 0:08:08.760 kids that are like me and they don't have to 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:11.040 be like me, they don't have to grow up like me. 0:08:11.520 --> 0:08:14.360 And that's why you here today to say I got 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:18.880 I gotta visit and I focused on kids like you, 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:23.920 and and it was a must and and if we're 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:25.920 gonna do it, let's do it right. And my whole 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:28.960 thing is, man, I want people to understand that just 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:31.640 because you're a badass kid today don't mean you could change. 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:35.240 And and look where I'm sitting there right now. You 0:08:35.240 --> 0:08:39.600 know what I'm saying. I don't went to Australia September. 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:43.280 I'll be in Scotland. You feel me? So this has 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:47.360 changed me dramatically all the way around a one hundred 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:53.280 so um, waking up and not wanting something and I'm like, damn, 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:56.120 I can't get it. How what hustle am I choose 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:58.600 in the day, It's what what I put on, how 0:08:58.600 --> 0:09:01.280 I'm feeling. I'm gonna go get it to get that. 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:03.880 I don't have to do that no more. So I'm 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:09.280 I'm loving this. And how do people m get to you? 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:14.400 Is it just Victorville or y'all? How far do this? Okay? 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:18.839 So um, right now we're we're in the We're predominantly 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:22.240 in Victorville, but we service the whole in an empire. Um. 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:26.560 We also are partner with behavior Genius, who serves everyone 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:31.280 from Ontario all the way down to l a okay. UM. 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:34.960 Typically if if you want to to you know, get 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:37.360 services or have I mean we can even if we 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:39.840 can serve you and your located some worlse if you 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:42.800 even called us, emailed us, send us a message on 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:49.400 Jackson Family Services on um Instagram, we can point you 0:09:49.440 --> 0:09:52.040 in the right direction. Because a big part of our 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:54.760 company is and this is not something that we're charging for, 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:58.960 is we give people access to resources, okay. And the 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:02.560 resources a lot of times can be family maryor's counseling, 0:10:02.880 --> 0:10:06.360 drug addition counseling. Okay. We have a huge network and 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:10.839 there's so many acts resources out here for everyone. It's 0:10:10.880 --> 0:10:13.360 just a lot of times we don't know where to 0:10:13.400 --> 0:10:18.360 go get those resources from. So UM definitely you can 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:23.800 reach our company at Jackson Family Jackson Family Human Services 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:29.400 dot com okay, or you can reach us at Jackson 0:10:29.400 --> 0:10:34.640 Family Services at instagram, um dot com. I don't know 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:38.319 that's where we got you here to let people and 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:42.720 from real and everything. This is this is information that 0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:47.040 I think everybody in our community neighborhood is need because 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:50.040 if you think that your son or your daughter, but 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:53.600 it's up to the parents first and foremotion to get 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:55.600 that here but a kid. If they don't want their kid, 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:58.079 I'll run in the street, going out the window with 0:10:58.600 --> 0:11:01.000 Tenny eleven o'clock that night, hanging out with the hommies. 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:04.920 You gotta be a responsible parent and don't want your 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:08.079 kids in the situation such as I was in and 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:10.640 everybody else. And one of the biggest things that we 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:15.080 do is we do parents training, because if we implement 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:17.280 a full plan and the parents are not on board, 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:21.920 then it will not work. We look at the whole 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:25.360 family and community environment as a whole. But sometimes you 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:27.679 don't need the parent for the kid to get in. 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:32.480 The kid wants to hear someone tell him that ain't right. 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:35.120 Yes you can do this, and you don't have to 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:37.679 be just because your daddy whooped your ass a certain 0:11:37.760 --> 0:11:39.960 kind of way. You don't have to be a bad kid. 0:11:40.520 --> 0:11:42.960 I waited for that all my life, but I didn't 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:45.679 get it. So I'm gonna kick his ass because my 0:11:45.760 --> 0:11:49.600 daddy will mind. And I continued on the wrong path. 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:53.640 There's a lot of kids that don't don't ain't gonna 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:55.920 listen to the parents. But if you got that kid, 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:59.880 that's what you need. Those mentors like that brother over, 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:04.160 those motivational speakers like that brother right there. Good as 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:07.200 to your chaine to have him talking to these young 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:10.000 kids and let them kids know, Man, I've been here 0:12:10.240 --> 0:12:12.680 and this is what it is. You don't want to 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:15.040 do that. And you know, and I'll segue into this. 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:19.000 You know, my cousin here when we were about let's 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:22.240 say eighteen nineteen, I remember talking to him telling him, 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:26.319 you know, if you were to take the same effort 0:12:26.360 --> 0:12:29.360 you put into game banging and you know, being out 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:32.360 here in these streets, you can be the President United States. Bro. 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:34.520 That's just how smart he is, you know, just just 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:38.160 being serious, always on time, geral tolerance type of person. 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:40.240 And there's a lot of people like that in our 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:47.080 community that jail dead, homeless on drugs, you know, and 0:12:47.080 --> 0:12:51.200 that's a whole issue within itself. But it's very very 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:53.000 important for us to try to work with kids when 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:56.480 they're younger, you know. And I don't think you can 0:12:56.480 --> 0:12:58.839 reach your tunity for you know, he's gonna have to 0:12:58.880 --> 0:13:03.800 reach yourself. Yes, uh, we're giving them already set in 0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:07.920 my ways to where ain't no counselor's gonna help me 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:10.480 because I ain't gonna listen to nobody that don't know me, 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:13.560 make me lay down and listen, or just tell my 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:16.720 life story. It wouldn't work. It didn't work in the 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:19.840 third grade when I day I had to see a psychiatrist, 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:24.959 you know. And and my whole thing was drawing these squares, triangles, 0:13:25.600 --> 0:13:28.400 octagons and all that. I put each and every last 0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:30.880 one of them, the pieces on the piece of paper 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:34.959 and took the pencil and traced them. Motherfucker's I'm smart 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:36.920 enough to do that. That's a genius to me though. 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:39.320 But you know what I'm saying, not sitting there trying 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:42.160 to draw a start. I'm not gonna do that. I've 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:47.559 said it on the table and I traced it in kindergarten, 0:13:47.679 --> 0:13:49.600 put your hand on the paper and just going money, 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:54.640 So I learned it. So getting these kids and and 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:57.320 and I mean, is it? Is it? Do they have 0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:59.839 to spend money? Do they? So we we do not 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:03.120 charge their parents for anything other than daycare services maybe, 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:08.560 but for behavioral supportive services. No. UM typically is going 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:11.880 to be paid through your medical insurance. Okay, um, how it? 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:15.079 And if you don't have medical insurance then we were 0:14:15.120 --> 0:14:18.560 walking you through the process of getting medical insurance and itself. Yeah, 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:21.440 it's it's medical insurance out here right now for everybody 0:14:22.360 --> 0:14:25.040 out of it. Though, what I'm saying is you don't 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:29.120 have no excuses to bring your child and to get help. No, 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:33.040 it's just help out for yourself. Yes, yes, most definitely, 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:35.760 it's it's help out here for you and um and 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:37.840 I'll say it over and over again. You know, you 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:39.760 gotta take the first step, you know. And I've and 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:41.640 I've seen twenty four year olds change. But a lot 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:45.080 of times we're just giving them the tools, and sometimes 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:48.080 the people realize, like, this is not how I want 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:51.040 to live, you know, Like for me perfectly, you know, 0:14:51.080 --> 0:14:52.640 I always want to strat out of fence. I wanted 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:54.480 to be halfway in the streets. I wanted to I 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:55.840 thought as a kid, I was gonna be the biggest 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:57.840 drug dealer in the world. That's just what I thought 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:00.240 as a kid, you know. But what ends up how happening, 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:04.240 is exposure. You know. I was exposed to so many 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:09.160 different type of people and I realized, like, that ain't 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:10.640 the life I want to live, you know. But I 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:13.560 always wanted to bring people up with me because what 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.760 happens is being a firefighter, which I'm no longer working 0:15:16.760 --> 0:15:19.280 for the fire department. I'm working for myself, my own company, 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:22.000 because I realized, yeah, I'm doing fine, but I look 0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:24.080 down and I don't see nobody else that looked like 0:15:24.120 --> 0:15:27.640 me or resembles me, think like me in my circle. 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:31.840 So what I by me come create my own company. 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:34.440 I can hire, educate. I have to go back to 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:37.840 my community and help because there's no other reason than 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:41.280 all of us coming up than just me. You know, 0:15:42.120 --> 0:15:45.080 show let everybody know how we can get in touch 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:47.120 with Harry. And now how long you've been married to 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:51.520 your wife? First, we've been married. I think we've been 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:55.080 married for about six years. Six years. Yeah, you might 0:15:55.120 --> 0:16:01.080 have asked you years four years old. I'm for unfortunate, 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:03.920 you know. Um, the wife I have is you know, 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:06.920 she's very supportive. If I come up with a plan, 0:16:08.440 --> 0:16:10.720 she's gonna do everything she can to help us get there. 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:12.880 You know, Um, I thought I was up and I 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:14.360 would tell you like I thought I was up until 0:16:14.400 --> 0:16:15.920 I got me a black woman in my life that 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:18.120 was real black woman. You know, it's a lot of 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:21.160 females out here, and I'm not saying everybody's not just 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:23.200 not for everybody. You know, when you have a true 0:16:23.760 --> 0:16:28.680 partner in your life. Your life will change. Well, y'all 0:16:28.760 --> 0:16:32.880 are not what I say, materialistic people, and y'all strive 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:36.160 off each other, and that's what makes a relationship work. 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:40.160 Y'all was actually friends before y'all got married. I mean, 0:16:40.840 --> 0:16:43.640 it ain't too many of us. I'm talking about Black 0:16:43.680 --> 0:16:47.480 people that that's in a relationship like that, that that 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:50.240 can honestly say they love their wife. You know, the 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:54.080 average black motherfucker get married and I know this. You're 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.480 gonna stay married for two years until you get tired, 0:16:57.400 --> 0:17:00.840 and then you're going about your business. But but, but, 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:03.240 and then. I just want to say to you that 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:10.399 that you are man. You are you are somebody to 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:14.000 to to the neighborhood. That ain't the word I'm looking for. 0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:17.720 Very important to thank you much. I appreciate it. No, 0:17:17.840 --> 0:17:25.000 I appreciate you because if we had you, it wouldn't 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:28.320 be no me, wouldn't be no bullshit, it would we 0:17:28.320 --> 0:17:31.439 we all be good and and thank god we had 0:17:31.480 --> 0:17:34.119 the resources that we got now, such as you and 0:17:34.160 --> 0:17:38.400 your wife opening your extending your arms and your homes 0:17:38.480 --> 0:17:41.920 to two kids y'all don't even know, and helping them. 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:45.639 That that that gives us a chance that helps us 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:51.000 stop little cats like myself growing up to be idiots, 0:17:51.040 --> 0:17:54.520 assholes or whatever they getting. They actually got an opportunity 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:57.040 and a chance not to be taught. And this ain't 0:17:57.119 --> 0:17:59.720 to be racist, but when I when I had a 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:02.400 side chadres, when I went to see the site, every 0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:05.280 last one I had was white. This is nobody on 0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:08.919 my level that understands where I'm coming from. Now we 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:12.119 had that. You see, you see what I'm now we 0:18:12.240 --> 0:18:16.600 have that, and man, I applaud you one hundred. I 0:18:16.640 --> 0:18:19.159 want you to tell everybody where they can go. I 0:18:19.200 --> 0:18:21.000 want you to if they got a number that they 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:24.720 can call anybody he's just starting out. Anybody in the 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:28.800 in and Empire that have UH and need help with 0:18:28.840 --> 0:18:33.320 the children called Harry. Mr Jackson, you got a man 0:18:33.560 --> 0:18:36.480 just just when you meet the man you see and 0:18:36.480 --> 0:18:40.119 and and this is a young man, this man. I'm 0:18:40.160 --> 0:18:43.679 twenty years older than this young man and yet to 0:18:43.720 --> 0:18:45.720 have a hit on my shoulder like this dude. Man, 0:18:46.080 --> 0:18:48.880 That's why I have to applaud it. So give everybody 0:18:48.920 --> 0:18:52.440 your number, your information. So our phone number is UM 0:18:52.440 --> 0:18:55.240 you can call us Jackson Family Human Services. Our phone 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:59.480 number is four or four two three to seven nine 0:18:59.560 --> 0:19:04.760 one into. You can reach me at h Jackson at 0:19:04.840 --> 0:19:08.320 Jackson Family Human Services dot com. You can reach us 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:15.679 on Instagram at Jackson Family Services at instagram dot com. 0:19:15.720 --> 0:19:18.360 I don't know how to receive where once you call 0:19:18.400 --> 0:19:26.040 the number, and I'm I'm gonna call. You have a 0:19:26.080 --> 0:19:29.520 whole staff of people who can um. Once we get 0:19:29.520 --> 0:19:31.360 a call, we don't turn anybody away. We will help 0:19:31.400 --> 0:19:33.679 you in any way we possibly can. I mean, we 0:19:33.760 --> 0:19:38.440 overrestend ourselves to everyone. Okay, and that's white, black, Asian, Latino, 0:19:38.680 --> 0:19:41.720 old young give us a call and we'll see what 0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:46.000 we can do for you, right right, and and and man, 0:19:46.040 --> 0:19:51.000 to my pleasure, Harry Brown his cousin here today and 0:19:51.440 --> 0:19:53.880 when when he got out the car. In the car, 0:19:54.000 --> 0:19:57.720 Harry was telling me about this guy. This guy did 0:19:57.920 --> 0:20:01.600 five years and y well, I'm gonna let him explain 0:20:01.720 --> 0:20:06.439 his story. Harry, that young man communis so give me 0:20:06.480 --> 0:20:09.080 a second. Let this guy come and sit down. And 0:20:09.480 --> 0:20:12.480 I'm telling you, this is man, this is not my doing. 0:20:12.880 --> 0:20:14.800 I didn't know this was gonna happen. I didn't know 0:20:15.400 --> 0:20:18.320 what was going on. I had Harry, but to to 0:20:18.520 --> 0:20:24.440 my edition, this young brother coming here and man he's 0:20:24.480 --> 0:20:28.280 another black young man story that needs to be told. 0:20:28.960 --> 0:20:33.119 I think, so let everybody know who you is. I 0:20:33.200 --> 0:20:36.359 think against the chronicle world. My name is R. C. 0:20:36.840 --> 0:20:40.760 Or Oar Salon. I go by R. C. R C Osborne, right, 0:20:40.880 --> 0:20:44.120 And he was telling me outside you did time? Yeah, 0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:48.360 I did about uh about five years by the time 0:20:48.400 --> 0:20:53.800 I was fourteen to twenty. And I see why now now, now, this, this, 0:20:53.920 --> 0:20:57.480 this is gonna be the killer part for everybody such 0:20:57.520 --> 0:21:01.399 as myself, that say we can't do it. I didn't 0:21:01.400 --> 0:21:05.159 have no choices. I don't We don't have excuses for 0:21:05.240 --> 0:21:07.560 where we want to go in life. And this brother 0:21:07.640 --> 0:21:10.960 is a prime example. What what tell us a little 0:21:10.960 --> 0:21:14.480 life history of getting out of jail after five years? Okay, 0:21:14.520 --> 0:21:16.200 well I was, you know, I was running the streets 0:21:16.200 --> 0:21:21.119 to San Diego, involved in different gangs and activities, not 0:21:21.240 --> 0:21:24.520 different gangs of gang activities. Uh. You know, come from 0:21:24.520 --> 0:21:28.040 a broken home. You know a story that's that's that's 0:21:28.040 --> 0:21:32.840 so so familiar. So what made you change? Uh? You 0:21:32.880 --> 0:21:37.400 know I didn't change right away. I actually uh, well, 0:21:37.440 --> 0:21:39.879 you know, once I got out of wire, I tried 0:21:40.040 --> 0:21:42.960 to stay away from the politics, but moving right back 0:21:42.960 --> 0:21:46.800 into the neighborhood when I was nineteen. It kind of 0:21:46.800 --> 0:21:49.359 sucked me back in. So I end up doing a 0:21:49.400 --> 0:21:51.520 couple of county bids and they're actually going to prison 0:21:51.560 --> 0:21:55.400 for about two years. And you know what really made 0:21:55.400 --> 0:21:58.199 me change was, honestly was my my my family, you know, 0:21:58.320 --> 0:22:01.960 particularly my nieces, and uh, just being tired of being 0:22:01.960 --> 0:22:05.840 in jail, just feeling that need to change your life 0:22:05.880 --> 0:22:08.560 for your family, like yeah, well, you know I had 0:22:08.600 --> 0:22:11.159 never felt like, like me, feel in love for another 0:22:11.480 --> 0:22:14.719 human like that deep, you know, my nieces, and I 0:22:14.760 --> 0:22:17.880 was seeing my nieces being born, not not being there 0:22:18.280 --> 0:22:20.560 like I never felt that before. So I was able 0:22:20.600 --> 0:22:23.680 to go through those whole you know, consecutive years because 0:22:23.720 --> 0:22:25.960 I didn't really feel nothing. I didn't really have no, no, 0:22:25.960 --> 0:22:30.280 no attachment to anything. So um, it was it was 0:22:30.320 --> 0:22:32.840 two parts. It was. It was me finally you know, 0:22:33.080 --> 0:22:36.080 starting to recognize my feelings for something, and then just 0:22:36.160 --> 0:22:38.359 you know, being in prison and seeing the politics like 0:22:38.440 --> 0:22:41.400 you know, like like, uh, I was set up by 0:22:41.400 --> 0:22:44.040 the cops, you know, for me and one of my 0:22:44.119 --> 0:22:46.840 enemies to basically kill each other, and he talked some 0:22:46.920 --> 0:22:48.400 sense in me. I was like, yeah, we're not about 0:22:48.440 --> 0:22:51.320