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Hi, this is Joel and Victoria. 19 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 4: Thanks for listening to our podcast and thanks for supporting 20 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:07,479 Speaker 4: the ministry. 21 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 5: If you enjoy today's message, why don't you be a 22 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 5: blessing and share it with a friend. 23 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 4: We appreciate you and pray for God's very best in 24 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 4: your life. Well, God bless you always a joy to 25 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 4: come in your homes. And if you're ever in our area, 26 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 4: please stop buying and be a part of one of 27 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 4: our services. I promise you we'll make you feel right 28 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 4: at home. But thanks so much for tuning in, and 29 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 4: thank you again for coming out. 30 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 2: And I like to start with something. 31 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 4: Funny, and of course this is not doctrinally correct, it's 32 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 4: just to make us laugh. But I heard about these 33 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 4: three men, a Baptist, a Catholic, and a Charismatic. They 34 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 4: died and went to heaven on the same day. Peter said, 35 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, men, but your rooms are not available yet. 36 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 2: He didn't know quite. 37 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 4: What to do, so he decided to call Satan to 38 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 4: see if he would keep them for a little while, 39 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 4: and Satan reluctantly agreed. In a few hours, Satan called 40 00:01:58,000 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 4: back and said, Peter, you got to come get these guys. 41 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 4: The Baptist man is saving everybody, the Catholic man is 42 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 4: forgiven everybody, and the Charismatic has already raised enough money 43 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 4: for air conditioning. Hold up your bibles, say it like 44 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 4: you mean it. This is my Bible. I am what 45 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 4: it says I am. I have what it says I have. 46 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 4: I can do what it says I can do. Today 47 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 4: I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess. 48 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,679 Speaker 4: My mind is alert, my heart is receptive. I will 49 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 4: never be the same. In Jesus' name, God bless you. 50 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:34,679 Speaker 4: I want to talk to you today about a no 51 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 4: stick anointing. 52 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:37,519 Speaker 2: In life. 53 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 4: We all have to deal with negative comments, disrespect, and 54 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 4: people that are critical. No matter how good of a 55 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 4: person you are, somebody won't understand you. Somebody will make 56 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 4: fun of you. Somebody will try to lessen your importance. 57 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 4: May be a coworker. 58 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,679 Speaker 2: It's not so much what they say, but how they 59 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:58,279 Speaker 2: say it always. 60 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 4: Condescending, like you're not small hard enough. Maybe it's a relative. 61 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 4: They celebrate everyone in the family, but they would never 62 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 4: give you one single compliment. Too often we respond the 63 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 4: wrong way, We get offended, and we let that sour 64 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 4: our day. But Psalng forty five seven says that God 65 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 4: has anointed us with the oil of joy. When you're 66 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 4: oiled up, nothing can stick to you. I call it 67 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 4: a no stick anointing. That means when the disrespect comes, 68 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 4: it doesn't have to attach itself. You can choose to 69 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 4: either hold on to it, let it sour your life, 70 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 4: or you can let it slide right off of you and. 71 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:43,119 Speaker 2: Not give it the time of day. 72 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 4: That coworker that's talking behind your back, you could get 73 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 4: in there and try to straighten them out. Now, when 74 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 4: you have the no stick anointing, you realize your time 75 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 4: is too valuable. You are not who they say you are. 76 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 4: You are who God says you are. That relative that 77 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 4: leaves you out on purpose, you could be offended. You 78 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 4: could let that change who you are. No, You're like 79 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 4: a teflon pan. Nothing can stick to you. Somebody gossiping 80 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 4: about you, no big deal. 81 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 2: God will fight my battles. 82 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 4: Somebody talking about you trying to make you look bad, 83 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 4: that's all right. God is my vindicator. That family member 84 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,239 Speaker 4: left you out again trying to be lily. I'm not worried. 85 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 4: What God lifts up, no person can push down. We 86 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 4: have a cooking product here in America called pan comes 87 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 4: in an aerosol. Can you spray it on a pan 88 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 4: before you cook? That way nothing will. 89 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 2: Stick to it. 90 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 4: Well, every morning, before you leave the house, you need 91 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 4: to spray on your PM so to speak, Father, thank 92 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 4: you that nothing will stick to me today, no matter 93 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 4: what people say, no matter what they do or don't do, 94 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 4: I'm not going to be offended. I'm not going to 95 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 4: get upset. I'm going to stay in peace and enjoy 96 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 4: this day. To make up your mind at the start 97 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 4: of the day that nothing that comes your way is 98 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 4: going to steal your joy. I read about this man 99 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 4: and his friend. They were walking down the street to 100 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 4: buy a newspaper early in the morning. 101 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:16,720 Speaker 2: When they got to the corner, the clerk in the little. 102 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 4: Newsstand was very rude, very inconsiderate. The man bought the 103 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 4: paper and said, as friendly as can be, I hope 104 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 4: you have a great day to day. As they were leaving, 105 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 4: the friend said, is the clerk always that rude? The 106 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,679 Speaker 4: man said every morning? He said, well, are you always 107 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 4: that friendly? He said, every single morning. The friend was 108 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 4: kind of puzzled. He said why, he said, because I've 109 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 4: made up my mind. I'm not going to let one 110 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 4: person ruin my day. Just like him, You've got to 111 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 4: have a made up mind. You're not going to let 112 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 4: one negative comment, one disrespectful coworker, one classmate that's making 113 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 4: fun of you to ruin your day. No decide ahead 114 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 4: of time. I'm gonna spray my pam on before I leave. 115 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 4: I've got this no stick annoying, Any disrespect, any negative 116 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 4: comments gonna slide right off of me. Not gonna give 117 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 4: it the time of day. One time in the scripture, 118 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 4: this prophet was walking down the street with some of 119 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 4: his men, and this young man came out and started 120 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 4: criticizing him, making these very negative, disrespectful comments. And as 121 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 4: they continue to walk, this young man followed them just 122 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 4: kept pestering them, badgering them, very annoying. Finally, one of 123 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 4: the men said to the prophet, do you want us 124 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 4: to go shut that young man up? We are tired 125 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 4: of listening to him. The prophet made a very insightful comment. 126 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 4: He said, no, let him keep talking. Maybe God will 127 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:49,919 Speaker 4: hear him and bless me for it. That's the attitude 128 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 4: we should have. Somebody talking about you, trying to make 129 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 4: you look bad. Don't get upset, don't lose your cool. 130 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 4: The more they talk, the more God's gonna bless you. 131 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 4: They're trying to push you down. God's going to use 132 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 4: them to lift you up higher. When I first started 133 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 4: ministering back in nineteen ninety nine. Some people made fun 134 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 4: of me because I smile so much. I've been smiling 135 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 4: my whole life. This is natural to me. My earliest 136 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 4: baby picture six months old. They've got a big smile 137 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 4: on my face. And you would think people would be 138 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 4: glad that you're happy. But there will always be people 139 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 4: that don't understand you, people that are critical. You have 140 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 4: to be strong enough in who God made you to 141 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 4: be that you don't let these negative. 142 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 2: Comments change who you are. 143 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 4: If you succumb to that pressure and you try to 144 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 4: adapt to their comments, to fit into their mold, to 145 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 4: please every person, all that's going to do is keep 146 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 4: you from your destiny. And some people they don't even 147 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 4: know you. They've never spent time with you, never been 148 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 4: to dinner together, they've never heard your heart. Yet they've 149 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 4: already judged you from a distance and decided what they 150 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 4: don't like about you and what you need to change 151 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 4: and what's wrong now, don't make the mistake of taking 152 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 4: that personally. 153 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 2: They don't even know you. 154 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 4: They just work in the same office complex, or they 155 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 4: just attend the same class. You just see them at 156 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 4: the mall every once in a while. Don't let their 157 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 4: opinion make you feel less about yourself. Your attitude should 158 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 4: be you don't even know me. If you knew me, 159 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 4: you would like me. If you knew me, you would 160 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 4: want to be my friend. Now I heard these comments, 161 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 4: Joel smiles too much, he's so happy? 162 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 2: What's wrong with him? 163 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 4: And I was new to all this being in front 164 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 4: of people, and I was kind of insecure, and my 165 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 4: first thought was, maybe I need to change, maybe I 166 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 4: need to be more serious. Well, one day I learned 167 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 4: what I'm telling you. You're never going to please everyone. 168 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 4: You might as well be who God made you to be. 169 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 4: I put on that no stick anointing. Let those negative 170 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 4: comments lied right off of me. Didn't give them the 171 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,679 Speaker 4: time of day. Now, when people tell me I smile 172 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 4: too much, I just. 173 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 2: Smile even more. 174 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 4: People will always find some reason to be critical, They'll 175 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 4: always find something to make fun of you about. If 176 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 4: you're not secure and you dwell on these comments, it'll 177 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 4: change who you are. But God made you like you 178 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 4: are on purpose. God gave you your smile, wear it will. 179 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 4: God gave you your personality, your nationality, your looks, your style. 180 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 4: Quit worrying about what other people think, and just be 181 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 4: who God made you to be. If you will run 182 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 4: your race, I can assure you God will take care 183 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 4: of your critics. 184 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 2: You don't have to fit into their mold. 185 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,559 Speaker 4: You don't have to argue with them, try to convince 186 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 4: them that you're okay. Just be who God made you 187 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 4: to be, and God will take care of your enemies. 188 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 4: This is what Elisha did. He was traveling from Jericho 189 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 4: to Bethel, and along the way this group of young 190 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 4: men came out and started making fun of him because 191 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 4: he was bald. Second King's two twenty three says they 192 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 4: started mocking him, saying, go bald head, go, go bald 193 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:16,959 Speaker 4: head go. Elisha didn't go over and fight with them. 194 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 4: He didn't start thinking, Oh, something wrong with me, I'm inferior, 195 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 4: I don't have any hero on my head. No, he 196 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,679 Speaker 4: just kept doing what God called him to do. Now, 197 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 4: as those young men were mocking him, the scripture says, 198 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 4: two bears came out of the woods and tore. 199 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 2: Them to pieces. 200 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 4: That teaches me two lessons. Number one, don't ever make 201 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 4: fun of all people. Number two, Seriously, God will fight 202 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 4: your battles. God will take care of the people who 203 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 4: were making fun of you. 204 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:50,479 Speaker 2: God hears the disrespect. 205 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 4: He hears the hurtful negative comments, and God will not 206 00:10:55,040 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 4: allow one of his children to be continually disrespected. Go 207 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 4: through a season that's not fair. People are pushing you down, 208 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 4: making you look bad. But that season will come to 209 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 4: an end. God will vindicate you. Now you do your 210 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 4: part and keep the nose stick anointing on. Let those 211 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 4: comments slide right off of you. Don't give them the 212 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 4: time of day, and God will do his part. He'll 213 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 4: take care of those who are trying to push you down. 214 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 4: When the prophet Samuel went to Jesse's house to choose 215 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 4: one of his sons as the next king of Israel, 216 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 4: Jesse lined up all of his sons except David. 217 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 2: There were six. 218 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 4: Young men standing in front of Samuel. He looked at 219 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:41,679 Speaker 4: each of them one by one. Finally said, Jesse, it's 220 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 4: none of these. Do you have another son? Jesse said, yes, 221 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 4: I have a son named David. He's taking care of 222 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,319 Speaker 4: my sheep. I didn't bring him in. He's the youngest, 223 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 4: he's kind of small, he's not real talented. 224 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 2: He's not quite as sharp as his brothers. 225 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 4: David was shown disrespect by his own father. The good 226 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 4: news is God's calling on your life cannot be stopped 227 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 4: by people. Now, I say this respectfully, but it doesn't 228 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 4: matter what a parent has said about you. Doesn't matter 229 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 4: what a friend said, what a teacher said, what a 230 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:18,839 Speaker 4: spouse said, what a coach said. 231 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:23,119 Speaker 2: All that matters is what God says. You may have had. 232 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 4: Negative words spoken over you, but that disrespect, that lack 233 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 4: of judgment, cannot stop God's plan for your life. Samuel 234 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 4: took one look at David and he said, that's who 235 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 4: I'm looking for. 236 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 2: That's the next king of Israel. I'm sure. 237 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 4: Jesse, his father nearly passed out, thinking, are you sure, Samuel? 238 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 4: My other sons are so much bigger, stronger, more talented. 239 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:50,599 Speaker 2: No. 240 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 4: God doesn't judge by the outside. God looks on the inside. 241 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:58,680 Speaker 4: People will judge you by your appearance, your nationality, what 242 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 4: family you come from. God looks past the superficial things, 243 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:05,839 Speaker 4: and he sees the potential on the inside. 244 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 2: God sees the seeds. 245 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 4: Of greatness that He is placed within you. This one 246 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 4: thing when people you don't know very well are inconsiderate 247 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 4: and dishonoring. But David was disrespected by his own family. 248 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 4: His father didn't even bother enough to bring him in, 249 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,320 Speaker 4: so at least Samuel could take a look at him. 250 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 4: Another time, David's brothers tried to push him down. They 251 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 4: were out on the battlefield in an important position. David 252 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 4: was still a shepherd. David's father asked him to take 253 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 4: his brother's lunch. When David got out there, one of 254 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 4: his brothers said, David, what are you doing here? And 255 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 4: with whom have you left those few sheep? In other words, David, 256 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 4: you're not a warrior like us. You're not strong talented. 257 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 4: All you're doing is taking care of a few sheep. 258 00:13:57,400 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 4: Anybody can do. That was dishonored, disrespected. 259 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 2: By the people he loved the most. 260 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 4: One reason David was a champion is he understood this principle. 261 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 2: He had a no stick anointing. 262 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 4: He let those negative words go in one ear and 263 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 4: out the other. He didn't make the mistake of dwelling 264 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 4: on them, thinking, oh, man, my own father thinks I'm 265 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 4: not going to amount to anything. My brothers keep telling 266 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 4: me I'm a loser, that I'm not talented. No, he 267 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 4: let the disrespect, the judgment, the gossip slide right off 268 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 4: of him. His attitude was. 269 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 2: I know who I am. 270 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 4: I am a child of the most high God, I 271 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 4: am equipped, empowered, talented, strong, fearfully and wonderfully made. For 272 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 4: a season, David was made fun of for a season. 273 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 4: He was disrespected, but because he did the right thing, 274 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 4: that season not only came to an end, but God 275 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 4: paid him. 276 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 2: Back for the disrespect. 277 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 4: His brothers tried to push him down, but God used 278 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 4: it to lift him up. David went out and defeated Goliath, 279 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 4: and overnight he became a national hero. Friends, God knows 280 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 4: how to pay you back. He knows how to take 281 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 4: care of your critics. If you will stay on the 282 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 4: high road, God will always. 283 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 2: Give you the last laugh. 284 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 4: When it's all said and done, the people that were 285 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 4: making fun of you sow in seeds of strife, gossip, judgment, disrespect, 286 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 4: they will see you promoted in a place of honor, 287 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 4: fulfilling your destiny. 288 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 2: God is a faithful God. 289 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 4: Now quit letting what somebody said about you sour your day. Well, Joel, 290 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 4: I'm stressed because my cousin's talking about me, or my 291 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 4: friend won't give me any credit. A classmates at school 292 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 4: they keep making fun of me. Now put on the 293 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 4: no stick anointing and let that slide right off of 294 00:15:56,280 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 4: you like David, your day of vindication is coming. 295 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 2: People don't control your destiny. 296 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 4: What they say or do does not affect your future. 297 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 4: God is in control. He has the final say. He's 298 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 4: not only going to bring you out, but because of 299 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 4: their comments, he's going to bring you out better. What 300 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 4: they meant for harm, God's going to use to your advantage. 301 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 2: Here's what I've learned. 302 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 4: The more success you have, the more opposition you will face. 303 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 2: Everybody can't handle your success. 304 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 4: All your family members, friends, relatives, they're not going to 305 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 4: celebrate the favor. 306 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 2: On your life. 307 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 4: They were fine as long as you were at the 308 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 4: same level. But when you get promoted, instead of being 309 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 4: happy for you knowing that if God did it for you, 310 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 4: he can do it for them, many times it stirs 311 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 4: up jealousy. 312 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 2: And if you don't have. 313 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 4: This no stick anointing, you will get involved in battles 314 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 4: that don't matter. You've got to let the criticism, the 315 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 4: disrespis spectful comments slide right off of you. May be difficult, 316 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:08,400 Speaker 4: what they're saying may be very hurtful, but God always 317 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:09,879 Speaker 4: gives you the grace. 318 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 2: For the season that you're in. 319 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 4: You got to remind yourself I have the power to 320 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 4: overlook this insult. One of the greatest marks of maturity 321 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 4: is to not be critical towards someone who is being 322 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:27,040 Speaker 4: critical of you. You been nature wants to get in 323 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 4: there and fight that battle. They're talking behind my back. 324 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 4: I'm going to talk behind their back. They're criticizing me. 325 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 4: Let me tell you a few things I know about them. 326 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:37,160 Speaker 2: Now. 327 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 4: When you are critical of someone who is critical of you, 328 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:45,400 Speaker 4: you're letting their poison get on the inside. The scripture 329 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:49,439 Speaker 4: says Jesus did not answer his critics. He let it 330 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:52,119 Speaker 4: slide right off of him, and he just kept running 331 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 4: his race. He knew not everybody would understand him, not 332 00:17:56,480 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 4: everybody would like him, but that was okay. I heard 333 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:03,360 Speaker 4: Billy Graham tell him about the first time he went 334 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 4: over to England nearly sixty years ago. The press was 335 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 4: very negative. They said, we don't need your religion over here. 336 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:15,879 Speaker 4: We don't need another minister. One reporter asked him, very sarcastically, 337 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 4: how can you even justify coming over here on a 338 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 4: big ocean liner, a big ship. When Jesus wrote a 339 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 4: donkey everywhere he went, Billy Graham said, if you can 340 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 4: find me a donkey that can walk on water, I'll 341 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 4: buy it in a minute. Shake off the criticism. Everybody 342 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 4: is not going to understand you. Everybody is not going 343 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 4: to like you, and that's okay. You don't have to 344 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 4: prove to them that you're all right. Do like Jesus 345 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 4: and don't answer your critics. See, we get involved in 346 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 4: many battles that we're not supposed to fight. When people 347 00:18:54,640 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 4: are critical, disrespectful, that is simply a distraction worker that's 348 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 4: talking about you. 349 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 2: You could easily spend. 350 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 4: All your time and energy thinking about what they're saying, 351 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 4: trying to figure out how you can pay them back 352 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 4: or how you can change their mind. 353 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:12,959 Speaker 2: Now that's a distraction. 354 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 4: It's a battle you're not supposed to be engaged in. 355 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 4: God has given us a solution. It's the no stick annoying. 356 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:24,199 Speaker 4: Let it slide right off of you. Don't think about it, 357 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:27,479 Speaker 4: don't try to pay them back, don't try to convince 358 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 4: them that you're okay. Let it go and God will 359 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 4: fight your battles. God has the right people in your future. 360 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:39,919 Speaker 4: You should not waste your valuable time continually trying to 361 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 4: convince somebody to like you. 362 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:42,880 Speaker 2: Here's the key. 363 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 4: Go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated. Quit trying 364 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:53,120 Speaker 4: to win over a person that just tolerates you. They're 365 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:56,360 Speaker 4: not really for you, deep down. The truth be known. 366 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:58,920 Speaker 4: They're kind of jealous of the gift God's given you. 367 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:01,480 Speaker 4: No matter what you do, they're not going to be 368 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 4: one hundred percent behind you. You may convince them for 369 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 4: a little while, but as soon as you don't perform perfectly, 370 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 4: they'll find something that you're doing wrong. 371 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:12,360 Speaker 2: That's like trying to ride. 372 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:14,919 Speaker 4: A dead horse. It's time to dismount, get off and 373 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 4: move forward. Well, you say, Jorda, if I do that, 374 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 4: I may not have their approval. You don't need their approval, 375 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:27,280 Speaker 4: You have Almighty God's approval. If David would have sat 376 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 4: around trying to win over all of his brothers convince 377 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 4: them to accept and approve him, he would have missed 378 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:38,959 Speaker 4: his destiny. He was kind, he was respectful, but he 379 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 4: didn't worry about family members that did not like him. 380 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 4: You may have some relatives that are never going to 381 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 4: celebrate you like they should. They're never going to give 382 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 4: you the respect that you deserve, and that's hard, but 383 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 4: you have to accept. 384 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,879 Speaker 2: The fact that you don't have to have their approval. 385 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 4: You don't need them cheering you on, Be kind, be respectful, 386 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 4: but dig your heels in and say, like David, I'm 387 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 4: going to fulfill my destiny in spite of who is 388 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:14,439 Speaker 4: not behind me. The scripture says Jesus' own brothers didn't 389 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:18,199 Speaker 4: believe in him. That must have been difficult. Here he 390 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:22,679 Speaker 4: was out changing the world, opening blind eyes, raising people 391 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 4: from the dead, and his own brothers wouldn't compliment him, 392 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:30,640 Speaker 4: wouldn't give him any respect. He couldn't do any miracles 393 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 4: in his hometown because they had Jesus in. 394 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,159 Speaker 2: A box of who he used to be. 395 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,680 Speaker 4: They thought, this is Joseph's son, nothing special about him, 396 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 4: We know him. 397 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 2: He's just a carpenter. 398 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 4: They dismissed him, didn't recognize his gift. Jesus didn't stay 399 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 4: where he was tolerated. He didn't say, come on, guys, 400 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 4: I really am the Messiah. You should see what I 401 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 4: can do. I can turn water into wine. No, he 402 00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:01,120 Speaker 4: knew they would never accept him, so he left where 403 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 4: he was tolerated and went to where he was celebrated. 404 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:09,399 Speaker 4: Some of you are spending too much time trying to 405 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:13,919 Speaker 4: win people over that are never going to be one over. Maybe, 406 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:18,159 Speaker 4: like Jesus, it's a family member, a relative, they should 407 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:22,199 Speaker 4: be for you, but they're not. Human nature longs for 408 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:26,360 Speaker 4: the approval, We long for the acceptance. But you cannot 409 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 4: waste your time trying to get something from someone that 410 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 4: they're never going to give you. You keep moving forward 411 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 4: and you will come into the right people, people that 412 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 4: God has ordained, people that will celebrate you, people that 413 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 4: will be for you. Was talking to a lady in 414 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 4: the lobby a while back, and she comes from a 415 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 4: very large family, and she was so upset because one 416 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 4: of her sisters doesn't like her. This has been going 417 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 4: on for years and years really bothers her. She said, Joel, 418 00:22:56,600 --> 00:23:00,440 Speaker 4: I don't understand it. I call her, I'm good to her, 419 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 4: go out of my way to be kind, but no 420 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 4: matter what I do, she always finds fault with me. 421 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 4: I told her what I'm telling you. You're never going 422 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 4: to please everyone. The scripture says, as far as you 423 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:19,360 Speaker 4: can live at peace with every person. Do you know 424 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 4: some people don't want to have peace with you. They 425 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 4: have their own issues that they're not dealing with. Now, 426 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 4: quit trying to win over somebody that doesn't want peace. 427 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,880 Speaker 4: You've done your part, You've gone the extra mile. Now, 428 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,879 Speaker 4: just back away. If they don't want to have peace, 429 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 4: it's not your problem, it's theirs. You are not responsible 430 00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 4: for somebody else's happiness. 431 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,720 Speaker 2: You're responsible for your own happiness. 432 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 4: But if you go around trying to keep everybody happy, 433 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:52,639 Speaker 4: meet all their demands went over their approval, the one 434 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 4: person who is not going to be happy is you. Now, 435 00:23:56,840 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 4: I've learned some people you have to love from a distance. 436 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:04,400 Speaker 4: They're your family, they're your relatives. Yes, you love them, 437 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 4: but you can't be with them every day. They don't 438 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 4: want to have peace with you. Now, don't frustrate yourself 439 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,719 Speaker 4: trying to make something happen that's never going to happen. 440 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 4: And that's not being rude, that's not being disrespectful. That 441 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 4: is being responsible. With the gift God has given you. 442 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 4: You have a responsibility to use your time, your energy, 443 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 4: your emotions, your talent for the right purposes. You should 444 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:34,359 Speaker 4: not continually be trying to convince somebody to like you. 445 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,639 Speaker 4: When Jesus sent his disciples into the different cities, he 446 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 4: knew not everybody would understand them. He knew some people 447 00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 4: would find fault and start to criticize, So he told 448 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 4: them in Matthew ten fourteen. When you go into a city, 449 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 4: whoever will not accept you. When you leave that place, 450 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 4: shake the dust off your feet. Notice he didn't say, 451 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 4: try to win everybody over, try to make sure they 452 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:03,440 Speaker 4: know that you're okay. 453 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:07,200 Speaker 2: No, he said, be kind, be respectful, but if they. 454 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:11,439 Speaker 4: Don't accept you, shake it off and move forward. Or 455 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 4: he was saying, in effect, don't stay where you're tolerated, 456 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 4: don't try to win over all your critics, don't try 457 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 4: to convince all your family members to like you. 458 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 2: Just shake it off and go where you're celebrated. In 459 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 2: the Book of Esther, there's a man by the name 460 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 2: of Haman. 461 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 4: He was the most powerful man in the empire beside 462 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:34,920 Speaker 4: the king. He had influence, authority favor. When he walked by, 463 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 4: people would bow down before him. But one person refused 464 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 4: to show him respect. One man refused to bow down. 465 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:47,120 Speaker 4: Hayman got so angry, so upset, that he couldn't sleep 466 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 4: at night. All he could think about is how he 467 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 4: could make this one man show him respect. Here he 468 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,919 Speaker 4: had the honor of the whole city, but he was 469 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,159 Speaker 4: so consumed by this one man that he lost his 470 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 4: focus and got engaged in a battle that he wasn't 471 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 4: supposed to fight. 472 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 2: He got so off course. 473 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 4: He not only lost his position, but he ended up 474 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,400 Speaker 4: losing his life. 475 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 2: What am I saying? 476 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 4: Don't let one family member that won't show you respect 477 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 4: cause you to lose your focus to where you spend 478 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 4: all your time and energy trying to win them over. 479 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:29,439 Speaker 4: Don't let one neighbor, one coworker, one classmate cause you 480 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 4: to get distracted and miss your destiny. If they won't 481 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 4: respect you, shake it off. If they try to belittle you, 482 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:40,639 Speaker 4: shake it off. If they're finding fault trying to make 483 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 4: you look bad, shake it off. Your destiny is too great, 484 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 4: your assignment too important, your time too valuable to let 485 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 4: these negative comments, gossip, criticism weigh you down. 486 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:56,879 Speaker 2: It is simply a distraction. 487 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,719 Speaker 4: Some of you are engaged in battle that you're not 488 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,920 Speaker 4: supposed to fight, trying to win somebody over that's never 489 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:05,000 Speaker 4: going to be one over. 490 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,160 Speaker 2: It's time to shake it off and move forward. 491 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:12,199 Speaker 4: Don't stay where you're tolerated, go where you're celebrated. You 492 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,880 Speaker 4: don't have to have their approval, You have Almighty God's approval. 493 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 4: Now I'm asking us today, every one of us, before 494 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,359 Speaker 4: we leave the house, spray on the pan decide ahead 495 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 4: of time. Nothing that comes your way is going to 496 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:29,200 Speaker 4: sour your day. If you will keep this no stick 497 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 4: anointing on, let any negative comments, the disrespect slide right 498 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 4: off of you, then God will do for you what 499 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 4: he did for the prophet. 500 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 2: The more people talk, the higher God will take you. 501 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:43,160 Speaker 4: They're trying to push you down. God will use them 502 00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:46,359 Speaker 4: to lift you up. Just like David, I believe in 503 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:50,439 Speaker 4: declare no person will keep you from your destiny, No 504 00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 4: disrespect will stop God's plan, no negative comment will hold 505 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 4: you back. You will overcome every obstacle, defeat every enemy, 506 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 4: and become every. 507 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,440 Speaker 2: God's created you to be. Amen. 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